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Tamuz 5770

WESTGATE MONTHLY Vol. 8 Issue 11

July 2010

WESTGATE MONTHLY

6 Hillside Blvd Lakewood, NJ 08701

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‫שבעה עשר בתמוז‬ ‫הרב שליט"א ידרוש בעניני דיומא בין מנחה למעריב בה' בית מדרש‬ ‫דברי התעוררות לקראת יום הזכרון של מרן הגריח"ש‬ ‫קוטלר זצוק"ל‬ '‫תתקיים עש"ק פ' חקת בין מנחה לקבלת שבת מאת מרן ראש הישיבה ר‬ 7:15 ‫ קב"ש בשעה‬6:40 ‫ארי' מלכיאל קוטלר שליט"א מנחה בשעה‬

Mazel Tov Corner Rabbi & Mrs. Tashman –boy Rabbi & Mrs. Mann –boy Rabbi & Mrs. Teitelbaum-girl Rabbi & Mrs. Schneider –boy Rabbi & Mrs. Pfeiffer -girl Rabbi & Mrs. Slomowitz -Girl Rabbi & Mrs. Mann upon the bar mitzvah of their son ‫נ"י‬ Rabbi & Mrs. Walkin upon the bar mitzvah of their son ‫נ"י‬ Rabbi & Mrs. Pfeiffer upon the bar mitzvah of their son ‫נ"י‬

Hashovas Aveidah Corner 1) Found girls huggy earring across from Kosher West before Pesach call 942‐3710 2) Found purple enamel bracelet call 961‐1251 3) Found kollel connection coupon before Purim 363‐8033 4) Found boys spring jacket size 10 with name Rubin Black yarmulke with name Avraham Chaim Call 363‐1372 5) Found silver bangle on Kletsk call‐901‐4346

Due to change in circumstances Morah Shevy Aszknazy is now accepting registration for 2 ½ yr olds for the coming year optional extended hours for more info please call 730-8894

Ma I’m bored Doesn’t that sound familiar One week girls program for girls ages 6-9 June 23rd –June 28th Adorable projects, delicious baking, exciting games, enthralling stories $15 per day 10:30-3:30 Located on Maplewood 2 experienced fun counselors For more information& to reserve a spot please call Rachel (718) 998-3827 Hodaya (732) 370- 7825

We could take care of your ‫ קידוש‬or ‫ בר מצוה‬from beginning to end including CAKE PLATTERS Only $11

; Paper goods ;Kugel

We now carry Schwartz’s Herring

;Chulent ;Herring ;Cake platters ;Soda And all of your SHOPPING AT STORE PRICES

GEMS CATERING Amazing party planner available at an incredible price

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Call 732-600-7365 Located in Westgate

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June 13th –June 15th 2010

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June 27th –June 29th 2010

July 4th –July 6th 2010

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We accept Fax orders @ 732-886-9671 We accept email orders@ orders@kosherwest.com

136 Hillside Blvd. 732-886-west(9378) Fax: 732-886-9371

Sun 8am-11pm Mon- Wed 7:30am-11:00pm Thurs. 7:30am-12:00am Fri 7:30am -2 Hours before ‫שבת‬

Educator’s Angle Last week my son brought home his ‫ גמרא‬test with a mark well below what he should be getting. I know this because I did the ‫חזרה‬ with him and he knew the ‫ גמרא‬and Tosfos. He was able to repeat all the questions and ‫ שיטות‬in the Tosfos and Rashi, and he knew the ‫ שקלא וטריא‬of the ‫גמרא‬. Before buying into his argument that “My answers were really correct and Rebbi wasn’t fair” I decided to look over his test. What I saw was very surprising. Either he filled in two word answers or he left blank spaces next to material we had gone over. He has a good memory so why can’t he remember the answers to basic ‫ גמרא‬questions? D.L. Dear Reb D. What you are describing here is very common for a Bochur who is getting used to learning ‫ גמרא‬or ‫משניות‬. When learning a ‫שקלא וטריא‬ it is not enough to let him parrot the ‫ קשיא‬or ‫תירוץ‬, he must show that he understands how the ‫ קשיא‬is a problem on the previous statement and how the ‫ תירוץ‬resolves this problem. The same is true in regards to learning a Tosfos. He must effectively connect all the steps involved. The Talmid may appear to know what the ‫ גמרא‬is saying but in truth he has simply just memorized our words and is repeating them. The same can be true in learning a simple Mishna. The Talmid may know the topic (e.g. Succah) and he knows that Bais Hillel holds ‫ כשר‬and Bais Shamai holds ‫ פסול‬but he may not

understand the connection of what being ‫ פסול‬or ‫ כשר‬has to do with the Succah. On the test any question other than “What does B”H hold?” may not elicit the correct response, and the answer “Machlokes” to “What is the din etc.” does not tell the Rebbi that your son understands what he is talking about. When I learn with Bochurim the first ‘rule’ I use is: No using pronouns. “Then he went there and gave it to them because” does not leave us with any useful information and the Talmid will not have clarity in his learning. Even if the who/what/where/when is “obvious” proper nouns must be used. This will help the Talmids be clear in his own thoughts and by listening to him explain a ‫ גמרא‬with clear precise wording a Rebbi or father can usually pick up on where he may have missed a step or come to an erroneous conclusion. Saying over the ‫ שקלא וטריא‬should not just sound like a dictation of the ‫ גמרא‬but a solid explanation of each step. When saying the ‫תירוץ‬, the ‫ קשיא‬must be referenced at some point to let us know how it is being answered. Another technique that helps to see the interconnection of the stages of the ‫ גמרא‬is the use of flowcharts. This is especially valuable for the visual learner and enables him to see the progression of the ‫גמרא‬.

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908‐910‐0127

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MEMBERSHIPS $30 ANNUALLY $25 ANNUAL RENEWAL

Books for the entire family! Sunday 10‐11 a.m. please call first Tuesday 5:30‐6;30 and 8:00‐9:00 p.m. Located at 11 Kingsfield Dr. (basement entrance)

EVENING APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE

732.363.7608

Carriage Walk Homeowners’ Association, 35 Maplewood Ter., Lakewood NJ 08701

June 6, 2010 Dear Neighbor, As in previous years, the Carriage Walk Homeowners’ Association reminds all non-members who wish to use our parks that there is a $30 annual fee. This fee helps Wash’ n sets usCuts cover the costs of insurance, landscaping, and maintenance. The parks included are only the ones adjacent to 1 North Crest and 55 North Sales Crest. They are owned by the 72 houses which are paying members of the association. The cost of upkeep in the parks for the association is a few thousand dollars per year, Clary and the members of the association grant non-members access to the parks Freeda only if they pay their fair share in the financial burden. Allegria If you are unsure whether you are required to pay the fee for this year or a previous year, please call M. Fund at 732-942-6581. Please note that only the following units are members of the association: 2 Hillside-26 Hillside, even #’s; 6 N. Crest-88 N. Crest, even #’s; & Kletsk, all #’s. The money may be given or mailed to Moshe Fund, 35 Maplewood, or Yosef Fund, 33 Kletsk. Thank you.

Few slots available in 12‐15 months (flexible) structured babysitting /playgroup Experienced morah Small group $5 off second wash ‘n set

9:15‐2:15 References available Please call Devora Bursztyn 367‐3087

Seforim • Books • Judaica • Music CD’s Tzitzis •Yarmulkas • Toys • Games and much more… 118 Hillside Blvd. (Westgate Plaza) 732‐367‐6000 HOURS: Sun –Thurs. 10am‐11pm Fri 10am‐3pm

FOR THE BEST PRICES ON ALL YOUR PAPER GOODS NEEDS

Are you looking for a daycamp in August for your 3yr old child Come join us at 25 Northcrest Pl July 26th – August 27th Can come join by the week Spacious indoor & outdoor facilities To register please call Morah Sora Riva Monoker 732‐370‐1945

Also available for subbing in July

BEAUTIFUL SUMMER SELECTION

All summer long

Professional hair styles for any occasion $20 Wash and sets $30 Updos ‐$25 Haircuts $12 Layered cuts $15 Shaitel Dying $65 (wash & set included) For appt Call Perel Podolsky 363‐3604 Located in Westgate

June Special Great Graduation gift idea Beautiful Charm Bracelets Reg.$40 now only $34

‫נא לראות הזמנה זו כאישית‬

Men Thin

Black Raincoats with Hood for sale $28 (732) 886‐2210

Seeding Cutting Fertilizing And all your lawn care needs

Call: 732-771-3177

Westgate Area

Beautiful in ground pool available for Men’s /ladies daily swim Wash’ n sets Cuts Sales

June‐July‐August

Clary

Private rental available

Freeda

Allegria

Please call 732‐232‐2597

New babysitting forming on Kletsk Starting September 2010 9 – 24 months 9:00‐5:00 (flexible) Many happy references Call Rochel 845‐659‐2953

SAVE $ ON BABYSITTING! New for September 2010 9‐16 months structured babysitting 9:15 – 2:15 $275 FLAT RATE experienced morah & babysitter

Please call Naomi Hirsch 732‐364‐6738 With Heartfelt gratitude to Hashem we would like to invite you to a shabbos Bar Mitzvah of our dear son

‫דניאל נ"י‬ The Kiddush will take place ‫פנחס‬ July 3rd 2010 ‫בית מדרש ספרדי‬ New central Ave

'‫פ‬

Yehuda & Ruchama Aminov

2 YR OLD DAYCAMP Come join us for a summer full of fun Loving & warm morah June 28th – July 23rd 9:15 2:15

Morah Esti Shachar 273 Northcrest Place 905‐3072

Attention working mothers 2 day Daycamp Thursday June 24th & Fri June 25th Ages 3‐6 Come & have a blast Warm & experienced morah Shani Katz 367‐3190

Are you looking for a fantastic 3 yr old Nursery for next year? Spacious outdoor facilities Small group Focusing on good ‫מדות‬ in a happy atmosphere Located in Westgate Many happy references Please call Morah Sora Monoker 732‐370‐1945

Pool near Westgate has slots available in

Become a member of the Rivkie Weichbrod library with over 700 titles to choose from including all the latest books call 901‐5996

• Morning ladies swim • Girls guarded swim • Boys guarded swim

Please call 367‐2559

Warm & caring babysitter available for the summer and will continue next year ‫אי"ה‬ • Flexible hours • Experienced • References available

Morah

Nechama Perlstein’s 3yr old daycamp has a few slots for second half 732-370-3184

Yocheved Werner 370‐7773

Very capable 12 yr old girl available to be an assistant in a daycamp or as a mothers helper June 24th –July 27th Please call Monoker 370‐1945

Warm & experienced babysitter in Westgate has slots available . Will continue through the summer & next year Small group, clean environment with lots of toys Mon- Thurs. 9:00-3:00 Fri. 9:00-12:00 Call Chani Oliel 732-987-6060

One slot available Summer babysitting Small group Mon‐Thurs 9:00‐2:15 Fri 9:00‐12:00 References available 732‐730‐1747

Experienced babysitter has a few slots available in a small group beginning September Please call Hudi Fine 732‐730‐3495

Come join Morah Yaffa Liefer’s 2yr old playgroup For the coming school year Warm morah with many years experience Many happy references 9:20‐2:10 901‐2275

2 year old playgroup Join us for a fun‐filled year Warm and caring morah 9:15 – 2:15 Miriam Weiss 732.901.0879 Summer babysitting available thru bein hazmanim and between camp & school By Miriam Cheivare 364‐7683

Daycamp substitute available throughout the summer Call 370‐1170

Camp “Sun”sational Fun

in Westgate is back for another exciting season! Give your adorable two year old a summer of fun,

Loads of TLC by a warm and experienced Mommy and daycamp Morah. Just a few slots left Starting June 28th and ending August 20th Hours: 9:30-2:00(optional 2:10)

Please call Fraidy Klapper 732-370-3816

Warm experienced Morah has slots available for 2010/2011 18‐24 months ‐ small group Please call Miriam Leah Gottesman 961‐9442

Home Repairs/Phone wiring etc.

POOL FOR RENT Scenic, private & very clean Hope Chapel, Miller, Westgate area Call 732‐600‐0927

HONEST & REPUTABLE REPAIR‐MAN will do it right the first time.

We stand behind our work & we return all phone calls. We also offer: Un‐Clogging of sinks/toilets, Attic fan / bathroom vent repair & installation, Sump pumps, Toilet/sink/Tub repair, Water Filters, Out‐ door security lites, Indoor spots, shabbos clocks, DSL / Cable modem, Phone wiring & phone jack installation/repair (cheaper than verizon), Shelving,Storm/screen door installation & repair, window blinds and more. Many satisfied customers. Evening hours available.Shomer Shabbos. Best prices in town! (ask for our weekly specials) 732‐370‐4141

Responsible high school girl available to babysit nights Late nights also Please call 961‐9117

Looking to form round robbin group For 1 yr olds. Starting Sept. Rachel Orlinsky 856‐304‐7865

A few slots available in 15‐20 months structured babysitting group/playgroup for Sept 2010 Warm & loving morah Many Happy references Call Sraidel Wenger 732‐942‐3710

‫זמני תפלה לבתי מדרש ד'וועסט געיט‬

‫חודש תמוז‬

‫פלג‬

& ‫סזק"ש מ"א‬ ‫גר"א‬

‫שקיעה‬ ‫ע"ש‬

‫הדל"נ‬

‫זמנים‬

6:55

8:37 & 9:13

8:29

8:11

‫פרשת חקת‬

6:56

8:38 & 9:14

8:30

8:12

‫פרשת בלק‬

6:56

8:41&:9:17

8:30

8:12

‫פרשת פנחס‬

6:55

8:43 & 9:19

8:28

8:10

‫מסעי‬- ‫פרשת מטות‬

‫מעריב‬

‫מנחה‬

‫עשר דקות לפני שקיעה‬ 10:00 7:00, 7:30, 8:45, 9:30,10:20, 10:40 & 11:00

8:50 10:05 &10:30

‫שחרית‬ '‫ ג'ד'ו‬,8:00 '‫יום א‬ (6:40 '‫ )ב' וה‬6:45

‫זמני תפלה בחול‬ 25 Kelmwoods 4 Northcrest

1:45 7:30

7:30 & 8:30

1:40 4:15

7:10 (7:00 '‫)ב' וה‬ & 8:00 6:30 7:45 (7:40 '‫)ב' וה‬ 8:15 (8:10 '‫)ב' וה‬

10:15

2 Northcrest

49 Radin Village

47 Kelm Woods

7:20/10

45 Kelm Woods

10:45

1:45

8:45

14 Kingsfeild

‫מעריב‬

‫מנחה‬

‫שחרית‬

‫מנחה ע"ש‬

‫פרשת בלק‬

‫מעריב‬

‫מנחה‬

‫שחרית‬

‫מנחה ע"ש‬

‫פרשת חקת‬

9:30

1:40 6:00 7:00

8:30

1:40 6:41 8:15

1:40 6:00 7:00

8:30

1:40 6:40 8:14

9:20 ‫מעריב‬

2 Northcrest 4 Northcrest 49 Radin Village 25 Kelm Woods

9:29

7:14

7:09

9:19 ‫מעריב‬ 6:45 8:21

2 Northcrest 4 Northcrest 49 Radin Village 25 Kelm Woods

9:42 9:30

6:00

8:30

6:46 8:22

9:30

8:12

8:45

6:15 8:22

1:45 4:30 5:30 9:30 9:42 6:30

1:40 6:41 8:15 7:30 8:15 8:20

9:29

6:00

8:30

9:29

8:11

8:45

6:15 8:21

47 Kelm Woods 45 Kelm Woods 39 Kletsk Hill 17 Kelm Woods

9:29 9:41

1:45 4:30 5:30 6:30

7:30 8:15

1:40 6:40 8:14 8:19

9:29 9:29 9:24

5:45 & 7:54 6:45 7:29

8:38 7:55 8:15

7:55 7:34 8:11

47 Kelm Woods 45 Kelm Woods 39 Kletsk Hill 17 Kelm Woods

9:30 9:30 9:25

5:45 & 7:55 6:45 7:30

8:30 8:00 8:15

9:42

8:22

9:00

7:25

17 Kletsk

9:41

8:22

9:00

8:31

17 Kletsk

9:25

7:45

8:25

6:41 8:15

14 Kingsfeild

9:24

7:44

8:45

6:40 8:14

14 Kingsfeild

9:30

7:55

8:45

8:16

9:29

7:54

8:45

8:15

‫מעריב‬

‫מנחה‬

‫שחרית‬

‫מנחה ע"ש‬

‫מסעי‬- ‫פרשת מטות‬

‫מעריב‬

‫מנחה‬

‫שחרית‬

‫מנחה ע"ש‬

‫פרשת פנחס‬

9:27

1:40 6:00 7:00

8:30

1:40 6:40 8:13

1:40 6:00 7:00

9:18 ‫מעריב‬

2 Northcrest 4 Northcrest

9:30

7:14