Av 5770
WESTGATE MONTHLY Vol. 8 Issue 12
Don’t forget our famous Cholent and overnight Kugel every Thursday & Friday
July 2009
Fresh Deli, Hot & Cold Sandwiches, BBQ chicken, Burgers, Hot dogs, French fries, Salads, Kugels, Dips, FULL SHABBOS TAKEOUT
We can cater your kiddushim, parlor meetings etc…
and much more We will be open This Thursday and Friday for all your Shabbos needs Thurs. we will open at 9am Friday 7:30am
We will have meatless cholent and yaptzik
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TISHA BAV PROGRAM IN WESTGATE This year once again the Chofetz Chaim Heritage Foundation’s Tisha B’av program will be shown in the Ezras Noshim of the New Shul 100 Ropshitz Ct. The program will start at 2:20 for Women and 4:30 for men. Admission fees are $10 per person & $25 per family. Volunteers are needed to assist at the event. If you are able to help please call 732-942-6342. To sponsor this event please call the above number.
SHMIRAS HALOSHON CALENDERS Learn the 2 Halochos of Shmiras as Zchus for the shmirah for our children in Westgate. These handy calendars will allow you to take part in this great program for a minute a day at your own convenience. this program has the haskama of R’ Zimbal Shlit”a. for more details call V. Lutin 732.608.4853.
Chizuk Habayis Lectures Chofetz Chaim Heritage foundation offers women an excellent opportunity. Weekly teleconferences and monthly DVD’s are presented by renowned lecturers on topics related to chizuk habayis for more information call Raizy Goldberg at 367-4366 (coordinator) or CCHF at 905-9909.
Structured babysitting available
Warm, Experienced morah Very small group 12 months & up 9:15‐2:15 (flexible)
Call Morah Raizy 732‐363‐9106
Mazel Tov Corner
Rabbi & Mrs. Salz–boy Rabbi & Mrs. Goldman –girl Rabbi & Mrs. Y. Fund -girl Rabbi & Mrs. Kipper –girl Rabbi & Mrs. Binder -boy Rabbi & Mrs. Y. Goldman -Girl Rabbi & Mrs. Brodsky –boy Rabbi & Mrs. Kohn -boy Rabbi & Mrs. Sender upon the bar mitzvah of their son נ"י Rabbi & Mrs. Aminov upon the bar mitzvah of their son נ"י Rabbi & Mrs. Dicker upon the bar mitzvah of their son נ"י Rabbi & Reb. Helberg upon the bar mitzvah of their son נ"י
Hashovas Aveidah Corner 1) Found black umbrella with words Sapphire wigs left at Chinese auction meeting call 905‐4031 2) Found boys navy wool shabbos coat size 7 found at Weinstocks Kiddush call 905‐4031 3) Lost or by mistake taken car seat carrier in front of 14 N. Crest 363‐1372 4) found new 18 month pink jacket 732‐370‐3496 5) found siddur with name Aliza Miriam in Gazebo park 370‐3449 6) Found navy blue Yarmulka sz 4 with name Yakov 363‐0834 7) Found enamel bracelet in park 961‐1257
Ba’al Koreh available To teach your son his Bar Mitzvah Parsha Please call Chaim Brody 732-901-5649 Get 2 ½ weeks for the price of 2! A fun daycamp for your 2yr old from Rosh Chodesh Elul Swimming, projects, & more! Experienced morah & mommy RIvka Landsberg 732-961-0447 (possibility of continuing until school begins)
To place an ad here please call 942‐6342
Women 2:20 Men 4:30 Tisha B’av Admission $10 Family $25 Bais Medrash of Westgate Ezras Noshim 100 Ropshitz Ct.
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Educator’s Angle
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As a Rebbe I find that there is a very strong factor other than knowledge and intelligence that plays a very important role in a Talmid’s performance in the classroom, specifically lack of sleep. I can enforce the “heads may not be put down during class” rule, but it does not help the Talmid stay more alert. A sleep-deprived child can not be as successful in the classroom.
A study presented in this month’s Archives of Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine shows that by delaying the start of the school day by even half-hour, the students exhibited an increase in their ability to concentrate and stay involved throughout the school day. The well-rested more efficient learners during their shorter school day were able to complete the same subject material as their sleep-deprived peers completed in their longer school day.
Rabbi B. Dear Rabbi B. The vacation months are enjoyable and the long summer days make it nearly impossible to get children into bed on time. However, it is the ideal time to plan ahead for the upcoming school year. Cooperation between the parent and the Rebbe is essential to help prepare a well-rested child. Parents need to establish a good bedtime routine which needs to get adapted over time as children go through their adolescent years. Recent research has shown incredible results with regard to the effects of sleep deprivation. In a study done by Dr. Avi Sadeh of Tel Aviv University, some of the participants were asked to go to bed early and others were asked to stay up later than usual. On average, the first group of students went to bed one hour earlier than the second group, yet the difference of only one hour’s sleep caused a huge difference in their learning performance. The slightly tired group performed two years below their grade level. A sleepy sixth grader will perform like a mere fourth grader. While a person is asleep, the brain does much more than simply “Recharge.” New information shifts to more efficient storage regions of the brain and the memory is synthesized, enhanced and concretized during the night hours. New inferences and associations are drawn, which can lead to new insight the following
There are a number of factors which inhibit a child from falling asleep. • Light. The obvious sleep inhibitor- affects the circadian rhythm system which regulates sleep cycles. • Computer games/videos. While sitting sedentary may appear to calm a child the light from a computer can delay both the necessary drop in core body temperature and melatonin production—and thus delay sleep onset—by up to two hours. • Temperature. There is a reason we like it cool when we go to sleep. The circadian rhythm system that helps regulate sleep cycles is not only light sensitive, but its temperature sensitive as well. Anything above a standard room air temperature both slows the body’s initiation of sleep and changes sleep patterns. • Overtired. Higher stress hormones created by the brain can seriously affect the ability to fall asleep. A good bedtime routine coupled with optimal sleep conditions will help a child “get up on the right side of bed” to start a successful day of learning. Questions can be sent to: Rabbi Meir Levenson 180 White Street Lakewood, NJ 08701 or Call 732-364-7839/ 908-616-9124 Call now to prepare your son for a successful year of learning.
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Simcha Hall Available The Bais Medrash at 49 Radin is available for Simchos during the week and on Shabbos. Benefit from the convenience and location while helping support the Bais Medrash all for only $100 (incl. cleanup) non‐members $125
To reserve please call Mrs. D. Margolis at (732) 905‐0556
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For your 18-24 month old Warm & Heimishe Environment Small group with limited slots available
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Many happy references Please call 961-1614
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The Bed Problem This was good news indeed that reached the ears of Reb Yossele of Ostila, the son of Reb Mordechai of Neshchiz. He had heard that a celebrated tzaddik was soon to pass through his town and very much wanted to have him as his guest, for this was none other than Rabbi Yaakov Yitzchak of Lublin, known as the Chozeh ("the Seer") on account of his unusual powers of perception. Now he knew that when the Chozeh lay down on another's bed he would sometimes cry out: "It's prickly!" He therefore summoned to his home a G-dfearing carpenter and instructed him to build a bed especially for the rebbe; to make sure that no one else should sleep on it; that he should immerse himself in a mikvah before working on it; and that he should entertain pure thoughts while working. The carpenter was not at all enthused by this odd proposition, and in fact was somewhat apprehensive. On the other hand he could not quite bring himself to reject an instruction given by the rebbe. In the end he set about the work with a dejected spirit and a feeling of unworthiness, knowing full well who was the holy man who was soon to sleep on this bed. As soon as delivered the finished articles to Reb Yossele, the tzadik stood it in a special room, made it up with bedclothes that were suitable spotless and ironed, brought in a chair, table and lamp, and locked the door. And in order that he should be certain that no one at all would enter the room, he kept the key in his own pocket. A few days later Reb Yossele was overjoyed, for when he went out to greet his distinguished guest, the Chozeh in fact accepted is offer of hospitality. He
conducted him to his room, showed him the bed which a G-d-fearing carpenter had constructed especially for him, invited him to lie down to rest a little, and left the room in calm satisfaction. "Help! It's prickly!" - came the cries of alarm from within. Reb Yossele did not know what to think. Perhaps he should offer the Chozeh his own bed? But then it would not be very pleasant if the same thing happened there too. Besides, if that were the case, how would the tzadik rest after his arduous journey? Finally, however, he decided to ask the rebbe to sleep in his own bed, and the Chozeh agreed. When he woke up he said: "Excellent! You have restored life to all my limbs!" Reb Yossele was relieved - but he still had a question: "I was a little surprised, sir, that you said that the new bed was prickly, for a G-d-fearing man made it specially for you." "Have no fear!" the rebbe reassured him. "The bed is kosher in every respect. Only one thing: it exudes a smell of melancholy, because it was built during the Nine Days of Mourning, and the carpenter, being a G-dfearing man, was lamenting the Destruction of the Beis HaMikdash while he was working on it."
2 slots available in three year old daycamp for second half please call 961‐1257
Beautiful large sunny pool available for rent $30/hr. Gudz Rd. Call 732.905.0649
Experienced babysitter available for afternoon babysitting after 2:00 in Westgate. Small group Call Chani 364‐1433
Few slots available for babysitting / playgroup Sept. 2010 Ages 9‐24 months Hours 9‐5 (flexible) Many happy references call Rochel 845‐659‐2953
Morah Esther Tepper’s 18‐24 months playgroup has a few slots available for the coming year
Experienced morah available to sub starting September short or long term
Warm experienced baby sitter on Kelmwoods s Small group Newborn ‐10 months Clean & organized environment Many happy references T.M. Weitzner 732‐961‐2180
Yaffa Leifer 901‐2275
Experienced morah Warm & happy atmosphere
Please call 732.364.3465
Save money on babysitting
Pool on Van Buren
Newborn‐16 months Flat monthly rate Hourly in Sept. 9:15‐2:15 Naomi Hirsch 364‐6738
Is offering guarded swim for Boys & Girls Call for details Also available for ladies morning swim & family rentals
Water aerobics classes for women at night
732‐367‐1503
Slot
Have an easy fast SHAKLEE PERFORMANCE Sports drink Stay hydrated and energized when fasting. Great for general use in the summer as well R. Kanner 732‐886‐9968
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in babysitting group for summer and coming year the Many happy references Russi Gobioff 730-0298
DAYCAMP IN WESTGATE FOR BOYS GOING INTO 1ST & 2ND GRADE
Babysitting available 0‐5 months 9:15‐2:15 Esty Presser 367‐7723
Aug. 9th‐Aug. 24th Optional by the week Loads of fun & action 2 experienced morahs Please call 732‐961‐0817
Due to move one slot available 2yr old playgroup Esther Werther 732‐367‐8648
Experienced babysitter has a slots available starting September 3.75 hr Ages Newborn-1 year corner of Greencove & Hillside many happy references 9:00-2:15 S.R. Grunwald 886-3697
Back for another exciting summer at CAMP PRACHIM Girls going into 1st grade July 26th – Aug 20th $50 A WEEK a few slots left Call Rochel Epstien 370‐3449 Or Mashy Brotsky 370‐2398
Become a member of the Rivkie Weichbrod library with over 700 titles to choose from including all the latest books call 901‐5996
Camp Smiles R Us
3 slots left for second half 3 ‐ 4 year olds We're having lots of fun don't miss out!
Chaya Hutman 732 363‐1030
Library in Westgate for ladies. Flexible hours, $10 annual membership. Book donations welcome. Please call Golda at (732)905‐7590.
Babysitter Available
Home Repairs/Phone wiring etc. HONEST & REPUTABLE REPAIR‐MAN will do it right the first time.
Warm, loving & experienced morah 1 slot Bein Hazmanim 2 slots Elul Zman Yeshivah Schedule References available 9:30-2:00 Please call 732-730-9519
We stand behind our work & we return all phone calls. We also offer: Un‐Clogging of sinks/toilets, Attic fan / bathroom vent repair & installation, Sump pumps, Toilet/sink/Tub repair, Water Filters, Out‐ door security lites, Indoor spots, shabbos clocks, DSL / Cable modem, Phone wiring & phone jack installation/repair (cheaper than verizon), Shelving,Storm/screen door installation & repair, window blinds and more. Many satisfied customers. Evening hours available.Shomer Shabbos.
Join Morah C.S. Danziger’s daycamp Girls going into Primary Moonwalk & Water slide for rent Great price 905‐4930
Very experienced morah/substitute looking to run playgroup or babysitting group or twice a week Also Available to substitute 732‐363‐7402 917‐355‐4235
LOOKING FOR CLEANING HELP? I have a few ladies available Must be a minimum of 6 hours (can combine with neighbors) Please do not call after 8 pm
Call Chani 732‐987‐6060
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Large basement available to rent for the coming school year Gated yard Please call 732‐886‐9133
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שחרית יום א' ,8:00ג'ד'ו'
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עשר דקות לפני שקיעה
) 6:45ב' וה' (6:40
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7:30 & 8:30
47 Kelm Woods
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45 Kelm Woods
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1:45 7:30
9:20,9:40 10:00 & 10:20, 10:40 11:00 11:20
1:40 4:15
8:50 10:05 &10:30
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שקיעה ע"ש
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פלג
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8:24
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1:40 6:20 8:09
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ב"מ למטה 49 Radin Village
1:40 6:30 7:58
8:30
1:40 6:00 7:00
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ב"מ למטה 49 Radin Village
1:40 6:34 7:50
8:30
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7:14
32 Kletsk Hill
9:24
32 Kletsk Hill
7:14 7:06 8:01
1:45 4:30 5:30 9:19 9:31 6:30
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1:40 6:22 7:50 7:55
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45 Kelm Woods
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45 Kelm Woods
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39 Kletsk Hill 17 Kelm Woods
32 Kletsk Hill
קהל זכרון אלעזר
מנחה ע"ש עם קבלת שבת שחרית
20דקות לאחר הדל"נ
מנחה ושלש סעודות מעריב
Warm mikvah on
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שיעור פרקי אבות כל שבת חצי שעה לפני מנחה
זמני תפלה בחול
שחרית 8:00
שיעור דף יומי כל יום 8:45-9:45בערב מעריב מנחה 3:45
32 Kletsk Hill
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Right out of Westgate 16 IRENE COURT 9:10קידושא רבא לאחר התפלה
17 Kelm Woods
9:45
ב"מ למטה
9:22
49 Radin Village
9:34
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8:30
7:45
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25 Kelm Woods 47 Kelm Woods
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