Weddings 2014

A Resource Guide For Grundy Area Brides

Weddings 2014

Wedding dress silhouettes Top color choices for 2014

2014 Wedding cake trends Write your own wedding vows Makeup tips for brides & bridesmaids And much more‌

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Top wedding colors for 2014 Food, drink and cake Top wedding songs for 2014 Wedding flowers Wedding dress silhouettes Makeup tips for brides & bridemaids Write your own wedding vows Wedding planning checklist Marriage License requirements

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WeddingColors Top Wedding colors for 2014

Gray Gray has become a surprisingly popular color for weddings in the last couple of seasons, and this trend is forecast to continue for 2014 weddings. There are many colors which can be paired with gray, some intuitive and some more offbeat; these are some of the most lovely gray wedding color palettes.

Neutral This trend gained popularity within the past two bridal seasons with brides pairing soft colors with neutral brown; now we are seeing more adventurous color schemes for 2014 weddings.

If you are getting married next year then you should know the 2014 wedding color trends. This will help you in planning your wedding and creating a look that will be memorable. A friend of mine who will get married next year and she asked me a couple of weeks ago what the wedding color trends for 2014 will be. I began doing a lot of research and will be happy to share the results with you guys.

Navy Blue It seems that the color blue, especial navy blue and royal blue are the hottest wedding colors in the year 2014 and the following are the combination ideas for the color navy blue.

Shades of Pink

Pink theme weddings have always been very popular and they can be done in new, exciting, and classy ways, and can be the element that makes your wedding decorations beautiful.

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Aqua Those water colors or other bright colors will be one of the hottest wedding colors in the year 2014 and aqua is of course included.

Coral Whether you’re looking to add a splash of color to your ceremony or liven up your tables cape, coral is the perfect hue that is so captivating and versatile.

Food

Slow-roasted halibut, baby Sonoma lamb chops or grilled hanger steak with tomatillo compound butter. Elizabeth Griffiths of Whoa Nelly Catering in Los Angeles says that 2014 brides have moved beyond the standard catering hall fare and expect a restaurant quality meal. “People know what constitutes quality food and want it for their guests!”

The favorite service style to capture this year’s approachable elegance? While the waiters might be wearing black dinner jackets and white gloves, they’re presenting food family style. “It’s more interactive when everyone helps themselves,” says Morris Kitchen’s Karina Seljak.

2014 is the year to get spicy.

Tasty mini sliders are a sure crowd pleaser. For heat on the menu,“we are using a lot of Calabrian chili oil, a lot of sriracha and are seeing guests reach first for the spicy things on the menu.”

Drink The news on drinks this year? Keep it seasonal, says Karina Seljack of Morris Kitchen in Brooklyn, New York.

Winter: Make it warm and inviting with bourbon laced with spiced apple syrup served over one extra-large ice cube.

Spring: Tap into the the season with The Flamingo: grapefruit juice, gin or vodka, hibiscus syrup and a drop of ginger and rhubarb syrup.

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Brides are clamoring for updates on the classics, with fresh takes on old favorites making it onto plates everywhere. Karina says that for the cocktail hour, her brides are falling for salmon blinis with crème fraiche and

Summer: A spiked fruit cocktail. Try a sage liquor drink with rhubarb syrup, whole blueberries and a lemon peel garnish.

Fall: Bubbles and lemon bring out the last of the sunshine. Create a champagne cocktail with lemon juice, gin and a dollop of sparkling wine.

herbs, or raw bars with an unexpected watermelon salsa verde garnish.

Late night snacks are still a big hit, says Elizabeth. “We do fries and sliders, hot pretzels, street tacos and one of my favorites, late night churros.” But be mindful of your timeline, she cautions. Unless you can stay in your venue until midnight, a late night snack is probably not right for you.

Cake

Brooklyn, NY, the ultimate incubator of cool, is where we looked for the sweet scoop on this year’s hottest wedding cakes. We spoke to Cheryl Kleinman of Betty Bakery to get the top five cake trends.

Color:

Ombré is everywhere, and it was just a matter of time until this look made it onto cakes. Cheryl’s ombré cakes are frosted in white on the top tier, for example, then tip-toe down from palest to the deepest pink hues. But ombré on the outside is not enough. “The cake is also ombré on the inside, with each layer a different shade.”

Glitter:

In 2014, your cake will shine! Cheryl says the look ranges from a fairy dusting of very fine glitter on the top tiers, to wild disco ball sparkle.

Texture:

The sleek cake is a thing of the past as 2014 moves toward the romantic look of pleats, ruffl es and lush sugar flowers. Instead of the smooth

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Lush, soft, exquisitely romantic, the flower of the year is the many petaled tree peony, says New York’s Ariella Chezar, whose work has been seen at the White House.

Amber Gustafson of Los Angeles’s Amber Events picks a similar bloom, the sweet-smelling garden rose.

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and silver, says Ariella. “They feel elegant and retro at once.” Amber agrees: “The containers may be ultraformal estate pieces, but the arrangements themselves are very touchable. Full, loose groupings of garden roses, anemones, poppies, lilac.”

Greens, greens, greens. 2014 centerpiece will not be complete without peeks of unusual greens. Soft vines, geranium leaves and maidenhair fern all top the must-have lists, reports Amber.

The flower garland is back in a big way. Ariella loves citrus garlands for bars and over doorways— lemons, limes, oranges on the stem. “And fern garlands are really beautiful. I love them down the center of a long table.”

TopW edding Flowers 1. The Rose

Long considered a symbol of beauty and love, the rose figures into many myths and fairy tales. Romantic writers and poets have used the flower as a metaphor for emotion, beauty, passion, and true love throughout the ages.

2. The Tulip

Representing “consuming love” and “happy years,” the tulip can be a meaningful wedding choice. The flowers are grown in a wide range of colors, including white and cream; pastels like pink, yellow, and peach; and vibrant hues like magenta, red, and purple.

3. Calla Lily

This elegant, trumpet-shaped blossom symbolizes “magnificent beauty” in the language of flowers. Two types are commonly available: a large-headed variety with a long, smooth stem and a miniature version ideal for nosegays and boutonnieres. Creamy ivory is the most popular color, but calla lilies also come in yellow, orange, mauve-pink, and dark purple.

4. Lily of the Valley

With bell-shape florets dangling from a thin stem, the lily of the valley is sometimes

called “the ladder to heaven”. The flower is linked to Ostara, the goddess of springtime, and while most plentiful during this season, it remains available -and very expensive -- most of the year.

5. Hydrangeas

With its big bushy head and intense shades of pink, blue, burgundy, and purple, it’s no wonder that the hydrangea represented “vanity” in the Victorian language of flowers. A stem or two of this moderately priced, scentless shrub flower helps fill out arrangements and bouquets, and a few sprigs make a charming boutonniere.

6. The Peony

The peony has a large, full head, strong perfume, and bright color. A bouquet made solely of peonies can be gorgeous; the flower can also be used to create beautiful centerpieces and arrangements.

Grown in single- and double-flower styles, this expensive bloom is seasonally available from late spring to early summer.

7. Ranunculus

Try the lush, multi-petaled ranunculus, a relative of the buttercup. A natural for the bridal bouquet or bridesmaid nosegays, the ranunculus also makes a whimsical boutonniere and is available in many

colors including white, yellow, orange, and pink.

8. Stephanotis

The Victorian meaning for this flower is “marital happiness,” making the dainty white Stephanotis an obvious choice for weddings. The star-shape, waxy florets actually grow on a flowering vine; each must be individually wired or placed onto a special holder before it can be arranged.

9. Sweet Peas

The sweet pea, which signifies “lasting pleasure,” and the English have had a love affair with this delicate flower ever since. Its candy-like scent and ruffled blossoms make this an old-fashioned favorite in bouquets for the bride and her bridesmaids. The sweet pea’s many colors range from white to intense pinks and purples.

10. The Gardenia

Surrounded by dark green, waxy leaves, the exquisite gardenia exudes a sultry, heavy scent. Gardenias are lovely tucked into a bouquet or floating in a low bowl as a centerpiece, and a single gardenia makes a wonderful scented corsage.

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Few wardrobe decisions are scrutinized as much as a bride-to-be’s choice of wedding gown. Finding the perfect gown that flatters the future bride’s figure while stunning her guests and soon-to-be husband is a labor of love for many brides.

The Bridal Association of America estimates a bride-to-be will spend between $1,500 and $2,000 total on her gown, veil and accessories.

Brides often spend months, if not years, shopping for the right gown.

Finding the right gown means having an understanding of what silhouettes are available and what flatters certain body types. After all, you want to look like the best version of yourself when getting married.

Here is a look of some of the common types of gown silhouettes and why choosing this shape might be right for you.

Ballgown A ballgown dress is truly a classic style, evoking images of fairy tale princesses. With a fitted bodice and full skirt that flairs at the waist, this silhouette is usually good for all body types. Because the full skirt, typically poofed-up by crinoline and will hide the hips and thighs, women with a pear shape might gravitate toward this style.

The ballgown style may not be ideal for petite women, as the skirt may overwhelm their figures.

A-line Another silhouette very forgiving or appropriate for many body types is the A-line gown. A-line cut dresses should be the go-to style for anyone looking to minimize perceived flaws. The cut of the dress will fit to the waist and gradually fan out from the hips to form the outline of an uppercase “A.” When in doubt, A-line gowns are classic and sensible and a favorite among brides.

Trumpet Women who prefer something a little more form-fitting may select a trumpet silhouette. This dress is fitted through the body and then the gown flares out at mid-thigh level. Women with taut stomachs and hourglass figures can benefit from this style gown, but those who do not want anything tight in the hips and thighs will want to select something else.

Mermaid A bit more fitted than the trumpet, this silhouette is close to the body from the chest down to the knee. The skirt then flares out

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slightly by the knee. Tall, thin women generally look best in this type of gown.

Modified A-line A balance between a traditional A-line and a more fitted gown, the modified A-line does not flare out as much. But it does flare out enough from the waist to hide areas around the hips and thighs.

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Sheath Lean brides who want simplicity in their gowns can opt for a sheath silhouette. The narrow shape of the gown from the neckline to the hem will definitely accentuate the body shape. Therefore, women who are shy may want to select a different option. Petite women who may be overwhelmed by more fabric can usually wear a sheath gown with success.

Although a bride may have a wedding gown style in mind, it is a good idea to try on a number of different silhouettes to find the one that is most flattering. Bridal salon employees are usually wellversed in matching body type to a gown and can prove invaluable when selecting a dress.

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Makeup tips for brides and bridesmaids Few events are more photographed than weddings. Needless to say, wedding participants, from brides and grooms to the couples’ parents, hope to look their best for the celebrations. Women often find that well applied cosmetics can enhance their beauty and help ensure they are picture-perfect.

The key to wedding makeup is finding a balance between application that will come across well in person and will look good in photographs. Professional makeup artists may understand just how heavy a hand to use to apply makeup, but the novice doit-yourselfer may need some instruction to master wedding day makeup.

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want guests to notice their faces and gowns and not their makeup. Here are some other tips brides can employ in an effort to put their best faces forward.

will be spending time out in the sun. When the moisturizer is completely absorbed and dry, use a skin priming product that will help keep your foundation locked into place.

Begin preparations a few days prior to the wedding. If you will be enhancing your skin color with a spray-tan, do so at least two days prior to the wedding. By the third day the color will set and appear more natural.

The same idea applies to your brows.

Tweezing, waxing and threading can create irritation and redness. Have your brows professionally shaped a few days before the wedding and then do a minor touchup with your tweezer the night before. This allows your skin to recover and redness to dissipate.

Match your foundation color to your natural skin color. When these colors don’t match, your face may look like it is a separate shade from your neck and decolletage. If you will be tanning, then find a shade that matches the tanned color. A foundation that has slightly yellow undertones will even out redness on the face and look better in photos. Apply the foundation thoroughly with a sponge or brush and be sure to blend it well at your neckline. Set the foundation with a matte powder.

Start out with well hydrated and moisturized skin. Apply a few layers of moisturizer, preferably one with an SPF if you

Apply concealer to red spots or undereye circles after the foundation. Aim for a creamy, emollient concealer for under the eyes. A peach color that will contrast with

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Err on the shorter side for fake lashes, and cut them as needed to fit your eye. Lashes that are too long or full may appear cartoonish and can be uncomfortable to wear. Connect your lashes together with the false ones with another application of mascara. Waterproof mascara will hold up through tears of joy.

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Complement your lips and eyes. Many brides like to play up their eyes on their wedding days. If you are going for a dramatic eye, opt for a more neutral lip, and vice versa. Otherwise, you may look like you’re wearing stage makeup. Neutral colors look best for weddings and will not appear dated in photos. Stick to subtle browns and taupes for universal flattery on most eye colors. Use a light hand to apply a neutral shade of light shadow all over the lid. Apply a medium brown to the crease of the eye and a darker brown to the very outer corner, and blend thoroughly. A very light shade of shadow can be used directly under the browline and toward the inside of the eye to make eyes appear wide and bright.

Stick with matte shades of eye shadow, with the exception of one pearlescent shade that is lightly dusted right in the center of the lid from the lashline to the crease. This will add just a touch of luster to catch the light and make eyes sparkle.

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Use small, light flicks of the pencil rather than long strokes to make the color blend naturally. Use a brush to blend in further. Always go a shade or two lighter than your natural color. Finish with a gel that will set the hairs into place.

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decide on together (“I, Stephanie, promise you, David, to always be your wife, your friend, your lover…”).

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No doubt you’ve worked hard to stage a wedding reception with tons of individual style, so why should your ceremony be any different? Get personal, and consider writing your own vows. Don’t stress: It’s not as daunting as you might think. Here’s how it’s done.

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Keep in mind that at the heart of every vow is the idea that you’re making a pact.

The “agreement” should have these three features, in no particular order: a declaration of love (“Sam, my beloved, I fill my heart with you, to love you until the end of my days”); promises for your marriage (“I pledge to embrace both our similarities and our differences” or “I promise to start family traditions”); and personal touches (“Four years ago, I thought that men like you didn’t exist”). Before you both begin writing, decide on the tone you want to set. Your words may be different,but the style should be more or less the same. A practical note: Be sure to keep vows one to three minutes long.

What Should You Say? It depends on what you want to emphasize.

Maybe it’s fidelity (“I promise to be faithful”); the notion of two people coming together, but maintaining their individuality (“I promise to have the courage to let you be yourself”); or the importance of family (“I promise to create a family with you and to take yours as my own”). Consider where you first met, the first time he kissed you…can you tie any of this in to what you want to pledge? You can be specific, even humorous, about the requirements you plan to fulfill throughout your lives together.

Consult a Pro Your officiant can guide you through the vowwriting process by directing you to resources and examples from clients. If you’re having a religious ceremony, he or she can help you write vows that pertain to your faith’s conventions, ideals and symbols.

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Ways to Keep Your Budget on Track

By now you know how pricey a wedding can be -- and how easy it is to lose track of expenses! Stick with a budget you can afford and keep up with all those payments.

1. Get organized. Create a budget spreadsheet with a set dollar limit for each part of your budget (attire, reception, flowers, etc.).

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Tell your vendors. Work with your vendors to come up with a budget-conscious plan. Be clear about your price-range so that there are no surprises when it’s time to sign the contract.

3. Take your budget with you. Create a pocket-sized version of your budget for when you’re out and about.

4. Make a list of no-nos. Whether your weakness is mochas or Manolos, be honest with yourself about where you can cut costs.

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Here is what you can expect to pay: • Reception: 48%-50% • Ceremony: 2%-3% • Attire: 8%-10% • Flowers: 8%-10% • Entertainment/Music: 8%-10% • Photography/Videography: 10%-12% • Stationery: 2%-3% • Wedding Rings: 2%-3% • Parking/Transportation: 2%-3% • Gifts: 2%-3% • Miscellaneous: 8% • To avoid stress, allot about 5% of your budget for a “just-in-case” fund.

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WeddingP lan Use this as a general guideline for getting the biggest tasks taken care of before your big day. Have fun!

9-12 months before

Set a budget and determine how costs will be divided.

Select a date and reserve venue(s).

Start the guest list to get your best cost estimate.

Find an officiant.

Start a separate folder for receipts.

Select your wedding party.

Hire a planner or day-of coordinator.

6-9 months before

Find a caterer if the venue doesn’t offer one.

Book a florist, photographer, and DJ or band.

Choose bridesmaids’ attire.

Register for gifts.

Start planning your honeymoon.

Select and order the bridal gown!

Create a wedding website.

Arrange transportation.

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4-6 months before

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Finalize guest list.

Send save-the-date announcements.

Reserve any rental items needed for ceremony or reception.

Shop for wedding invitations.

Finalize a date, time, and location of rehearsal dinner.

Choose ceremony readings and reach out to readers.

Arrange room blocks at hotels for out-of-town guests.

Meet with your officiant.

2-4 months before

Mail invitations.

Shop for your wedding rings.

Order wedding cake.

Obtain marriage license after 90-day mark.

Find your makeup artist and hairstylist and make your day-of and trial-run appointments.

Purchase favors and gifts for welcome baskets.

6-8 weeks before

Send rehearsal dinner invitations.

Reserve tuxedos for groomsmen.

Finalize the menu and the flowers.

Meet with vendors to work out details.

2-6 weeks before

Print seating cards and programs.

Create seating plan and wedding weekend time line.

Have your final dress fitting.

Write vows.

Finalize all details and confirm with vendors.

1 week before

Expect lots of lastminute things to come up, so try not to save anything that could have been finished sooner.

Confirm arrival times with vendors and wedding party.

Set aside checks or tips to distribute to vendors.

Delegate tasks to wedding party.

Marriage License

Requirements and Where to Register

Each individual county has its own requirements and provisions for distributing marriage licenses. Please contact your County officer for specific information.

Blood Test: None Other Test/Requirements: None; Residency; 18 years or older Fee: $30 (cash, check, or money order) ID: Valid driver’s license, passport or state i.d.

Who Must Be Present to Apply: Both bride and groom together Who Signs: Bride and groom Waiting Period: 1 day Valid for: 60 days Valid Out of Municipality: No, must marry in county where license was obtained.

If Previously Married: Know dates and locations of divorce or death; copy of divorce or death certificate.

Grundy County County Clerk 111 E. Washington St. • Morris, IL 60450 (815) 941-3222 8:00 a.m.—4:00 p.m. / M—F

Will County County Clerk 302 N. Chicago Street • Joliet, IL 60431 (815) 740-4615 8:30 a.m.—4:30 p.m. / M—F

La Salle County County Clerk 707 Etna Road • Ottawa, IL 61350 (815) 434-8202 8:00 a.m.—4:30 p.m. / M—F

Kendall County County Clerk 111 W. Fox Road • Yorkville, IL 60560 (630) 553-4104 8:00 a.m.—4:30 p.m. / M—F

An Intimate Country Setting For Your Wedding 2nd Annual Bridal Expo Sunday, February 16, 2014 From 12pm – 4pm Admission is free, registration is appreciated Food to Flowers, Limousines to Honeymoons ~ you’ll find a wide range of wedding merchants eager to please a variety of tastes and budgets

Livingston County County Clerk 112 W. Madison Street • Pontiac, IL 61764 (815) 844-2006 8:00 a.m.—4:30 p.m. / M—F

13986 McKanna Rd, Minooka • 815-475-4035 www.ellishec.com • info@ellishec.com www.facebook.com/ellishouseandequestriancenter Morris Daily Herald • Weddings • January 2014 19

Quality Inn Hotel 200 Gore Road (Rt. 80 & Rt. 47) Morris, IL (Across from “R” Place/TA Truck Stop)

815-942-4200

701 Liberty St., Morris • (815) 942-1880 • Fresh Seafood • Delectable Pastas • Char-Grilled Steaks • Seasonal Rotating Menu • Chef, Brandon Harness

Two Private Dining Rooms Available

Monday-Saturday 4pm-Midnight/1am Closed Sunday • Fireplace with Leather Over-Stuffed Easy Chairs • Juke Box for Your Personal Listening Pleasure

Chapin’s East

Bridal Showers

502 Twin Rail Drive Minooka, IL

In Addition to Our Rehearsal Dinners Full Menu, Chapin’s Sunday Weddings Offers Weekly Specials.

Seating for 200 Our Wine List Offers Pairings to Enhance Custom Catering Your Dining Experience.

502 Twin Rail Drive • Minooka A Beautifully Renovated Banquet Center Formerly the Fountains Full Off-Site Catering, Seating of 400 Guests Chef, Jason Smith

815-521-4000

Tues-Thurs 11a-11p/12a, Fri-Sat 11a-12a/1a Lunch 11a-2p and Dinner 4-9p Closed Sunday & Monday

We would love to host your after party at either of our Pubs!

2 Hour Bar Packages are Available With or Without Appetizers and/or Sweets

NOW Two Banquet Facilities for Your Special Events Let Us Take the Worry Out of Event Planning... So You Can Enjoy Your Special Day!

200 Gore Road • Morris A Beautifully Renovated Banquet Center Within The Quality Inn Hotel in Morris (Room Blocks Available) Seating of 136 Guests (184 Without Dance Floor) Chef, Brandon Harness

• Weddings • Receptions • Rehearsal Dinners • Reunions • Family Parties • Showers • Holiday Functions • Corporate Meetings • Any Other Banquet Needs You May Have

• High Quality Food Prepared by: Brandon Harness & Jason Smith • Top Notch, Professional Service • Outstanding Value & Seamless Execution

• We Customize Every Event to Your Specifications • Full Off-Site Catering Capabilities from Chapin’s Restaurant • Rental of Dance Floor, Tables, Chairs, Tableware, Linens & More

For All Events... Sarah O’Sullivan, Gen. Mgr. (815) 735-9250 • Cynthia Moore, Events Coordinator

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