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INSIDE Women & Careers

Just For Mom Five off-the -beaten-path places to take Mom for brunch on her special day.

8 Bountiful business — Elizabeth Crisp of Apple Creek Flowers in Woodstock is brightening spirits all over the county. 9 Get blown away — Pepper Annex embraces new salon trends and classic customer service 15 No mountain too high — Mother of autistic child overcomes challenges, starts school from scratch 17 Investing in each other — McHenry financial advisor builds community among professional women 18 Food for friends — Food pantry director fills cupboards and hearts across Crystal Lake. 20 Women of Distinction — Introducing the 2015 class of honored, accomplished local women. 26 Wisdom in your inner voice — Personal coach and consultant Kathleen Caldwell reflects on her own journey to happiness and success.

Health & Wellness 41 Healing Hands — Dr. Jill Howe with Superior Health & Wellness discusses the six benefits of massage therapy. 42 Help your body heal itself — Dr. Dan Strelcheck talks about the history of chiropractics. 44 The ABCs of autoimmune disease — a closer look at one of the most concerning health issues for women.

Family In Focus 48 The daycare dilemma — An expanded look at daycare solutions for kids of all ages, all year through. 52 Pros and cons of a work-at-home husband — Family columnist Michelle Stien waxes nostalgic for the days when her husband had an office of his own. 54 Things my mother taught me — Advice and anecdotes in celebration of Mom. 56 Baseball, business and bombs — Columnist Jake Marino shares the many roles local women took on through history.

Fashion & Beauty 58 Gemstone folklore — Some clever, and some silly stories about the gems we all have come to adore, from Kelly Bulinski at Steffans Jewelers. 60 Update your look and boost your career — with beauty advice from from Lisa Ryan of Love My Results.

Dining & Entertaining 62 Universal Language — Dave Faccone gets philosophical about barbecue; 64 Editor’s Choice — Off the beaten path spots for Mother’s Day brunch.

Business & Civic 67 Social Life — Supporters crowded the Raue Center for the Arts at the annual Stargazer’s Ball. 68 Turning the corner — From domestic abuse to independence, McHenry County’s Turning Point is here to help.

Out & About 73 Packaged for performance — Buick Verano builds big features into small sedan. 76 Artist Showcase — His friends call him “Collage Master.” Douglas Visona showcases two of his collage pieces. 78 Calendar of Events — Check out a variety of local events, courtesy of our own Planit Northwest website!

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It’s May,

Speaking of special women, allow me to introduce Allison McCaleb, who will take the helm as the new McHenry County Magazine a month to plant flowers, plan summer editor. Alison has been vacations and celebrate motherhood. In this working on the magazine issue of McHenry County Magazine, we have expanded that recognition to women of all sorts: team as its talented graphic designer, and will return to mothers of course, but also strong business leaders, courageous survivors and hard-working her editorial roots this month here in McHenry. She’s a volunteers. Crystal Lake resident and long-time member of the You’ll meet Elizabeth Crisp, a Woodstock business team. We’re thrilled to have owner who brightens the day for many with her her expand her role. brilliant floral designs. You’ll step inside Pepper Annex Salon, where innovative trends in hair care are only the beginning. And we tackle one of the We round out the May issue with great places to working woman’s biggest dilemmas — daycare. eat, helpful tips for health and a special Mother’s Day tribute filled with advice and anecdotes from folks in our communities. We hope you enjoy it as Personal coach Kathleen Caldwell shares her much as we enjoyed putting it together. Happy story of her own second chance at happiness. Mother’s Day! And we find out more about Turning Point, one of the most important women’s agencies in the Thanks for reading. area, offering safety and support when it’s most needed. May also is the month we honor our 2015 class of Women of Distinction — a group of more than a dozen local ladies who have stepped outside Sherri Dauskurdas the walls of what’s expected to serve business, Editor community and family with commitment and purpose.

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canâ€™t imagine what it would have felt like had I not treated them prior to the third.â€? Heather, not knowing that she could have received treatment sooner, stated, â€œI didnâ€™t even realize how much pain I was inâ€Śliterally, my legs were so bad by the third and fourth pregnancies the minute my veins showed up again I knew I was pregnant, I didnâ€™t even need to take a test. Seriously, it was that bad!â€?

Prevention Beyond Treatment

Heather Rohlwing, Jill Gaffney-Barnum, Denise Gaffney, Dr. Stephen Rivard, Kristin Rivard, Tracey Masbaum

â€œThe minute my veins showed up again, I knew I was pregnantâ€?

s only a mother can understand, pregnancy can ask a lot of your body. While there may be a few things that seem important to have done medically after child birth, itâ€™s not uncommon for the needs of most mothers to be last on their â€œto do listâ€?. Usually, by the time most get around to it, their children are off to college, and some of the beneďŹ ts of treating yourself while younger have lost its luster. Although having a few more hours of sleep or missing a workout may seem trivial, one thing shouldnâ€™t be overlooked- your health- particularly when it involves proper blood ďŹ‚ow to your heart. Besides more obvious symptoms associated with pregnancy (weight gain, lack of energy), itâ€™s important to know that if you have given birth you may also have underlying issues of vein disease. Additionally, if you have other risk factors that may contribute to developing varicose veins (e.g. heredity, standing all day) there is a signiďŹ cant chance that your varicose veins will not go away after childbirth.

Pregnancy and Vein Disease

One of the most prevalent risk factors in developing varicose veins results from the physiological changes that occur during pregnancy, and the increases in estrogen, progesterone, and relaxin. These hormones breakdown the interior lining of the veins making them weaker and causing them to expand, eventually prohibiting their proper function of pumping blood back to the heart. In addition, the body works overtime to produce enough blood to grow the newly developing fetus, increasing the pressure on the veins. When the veins become damaged in this manner, the increased pressure causes the blood to pool in the legs and ankles creating swelling and pain. Furthermore, research has shown that the more pregnancies a woman has the more likely she is to develop varicose veins.

Myth: Finish Having Children Before Treating Your Varicose Veins

While it may be common to hear your doctor say that you should wait until you are done having children before treating your veins, the truth is you may be getting the wrong advice.Historically, this proved true as a result methods nof w hinadequate e r a l d . c o mand /m apainful g a z i n treatment e

like â€˜vein strippingâ€™ which frequently led to recurrence. However, modern advancements have not only led to safer procedures, but have signiďŹ cantly reduced the recurrence rate to less than 2% by treating varicose veins at their source. Unfortunately, most of these mothers were told the same thing by their doctor and shared very similar stories. Some didnâ€™t actually notice any symptoms during their ďŹ rst pregnancy, but during the second they were very noticeable, suffering from tired achy legs that woke them at night, in addition to large bulging varicose and spider veins. Denise mentions, â€œLooking back I didnâ€™t realize how tired I always felt, I just thought it was a natural part of getting olderâ€ŚI originally had vein stripping, but that didnâ€™t resolve the problem, and my veins got worse with each pregnancy, lots of protruding veins, pain, and swelling.â€? While you may incur similar symptoms if you have more children, the misconception is that treating your veins along the way doesnâ€™t necessarily help the process. When your veins become damaged as the result of venous disease they cannot be ďŹ xed, only removed. Thatâ€™s why if you donâ€™t treat them before your next pregnancy the pain and suffering will only increase as will your vein disease. In actuality, your Obstetrician should recommend you seek evaluation from a board certiďŹ ed Phlebologist before becoming pregnant, which would actually help prevent a lot of the unnecessary symptoms of vein disease. Alternatively, if a woman anticipates becoming pregnant in the future and has suffered signiďŹ cantly from vein problems in a previous pregnancy, that she schedule a consultation to reduce the pain and swelling during the next pregnancy. Kristin, was treated after her second child, and her third, but noticed that while the pain and swelling came back she at least reduced the pain in-between her pregnancies and decreased pressure in her third pregnancy. In fact, when asked if she would have waited until she was done having children before getting the procedure, she stated, â€œI wouldnâ€™t wait, the pressure from my second one was so painful, I

Stay Active. Using your muscles helps the veins pump blood to the heart thereby reducing pressure, pain, and swelling. Jill agreed saying, â€œI felt like my legs were not as painful during the second pregnancy as I ran often.â€? Kristin stated, â€œI felt that this really helped my circulation, my legs didnâ€™t seem swollen after a run.â€? Compression Stockings. Compression is a great way to help increase circulation and alleviate swelling and pain. Heather being a huge advocate stated, â€œI used to roll out of bed and put on my support hose every day, I probably couldnâ€™t function without them.â€? Kristin agreed, â€œMy legs would be in so much pain if I forgot to wear them when I was pregnant.â€? Keep a Healthy Weight. Itâ€™s often impossible during pregnancy to maintain your current size, but keeping a healthy weight will signiďŹ cantly reduce the pressure on your legs and ankles. As Jill recalls, â€œI gained a little too much weight during my ďŹ rst pregnancy, and I can remember having to put my feet up a lot, but I kept a better weight and stayed active during the second one and it really makes a difference.â€? Stay Informed. It is important to know that vein disease is a real disease, and requires medical intervention whether or not you have pain. Tracey, did not notice her veins as they werenâ€™t visible. However, reading how pregnancy can result in varicose veins she decided to get a consult and was informed by Dr. Rivard that one leg was in fact a 1/2 inch bigger in her ankle and 3/4 inch bigger in her thigh due to the swelling of her veins. In addition, for breastfeeding mothers, the great news is that both the treatment of varicose and spider veins are FDA approved, and the solution used during sclerotherapy is non-toxic, and can simply be pumped out after treatment, allowing breast feeding within 6 hours.

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Sweet Smell Of Success Woodstock Florist shares experience, enthusiasm with the community

Photos by Heather Nelson MCM: Why flowers? Crisp: Delivering flowers is one of my favorite parts of this job. Studies out of Harvard and Rutgers University show the health benefits of flowers — lifting depression, helping with seasonal affective disorder, helping speed healing in the sick — people who wake up with flowers on their nightstand are more likely to wake up happy and have a better day. Green plants are shown to increase productivity in the workplace by cleaning the air and promoting wellbeing. I couldn’t ask for a better industry to work in, the support from my colleagues and even competitors is just fantastic. It’s an industry that brings beauty and joy to people. Who doesn’t love that?

Woodstock floral designer Elizabeth Crisp has been making the community more beautiful and more colorful for nearly a decade. She took a few moments with us to talk about her business, Apple Creek Flowers, and why she loves what she does. MCM: What’s your favorite flower? MCM: How long has your business been open? Did you work in the industry prior to venturing out on your own? Elizabeth Crisp: Apple Creek Flowers has been serving McHenry County for 30 years, although I just recently celebrated nine years of ownership. I have a strong background in retail, so it was a logical choice given my passion as a gardener. Apple Creek Weddings is my newest project. We have always designed wedding flowers, but I felt it was important to emphasize that part of the business, to showcase that we can design custom wedding flowers, from bouquets, to reception and ceremony décor. I was fortunate to attend a master bridal class in London, opening a whole new world on design styles and trends in the bridal industry. It was fascinating. 8 | MAY 2015 | MCHENRY COUNTY MAGAZINE

Crisp: If I had to pick one flower it would be a double peony. The variety called ‘Sarah Bernhardt’ is perfection. MCM: Why Woodstock? Crisp: Location, location, location! I worked for the previous owner while I was attending McHenry County College earning my floral design certification. I love the small town charm of Woodstock, the feeling of community is unmatched. It’s truly a special town. MCM: What is the best part of owning your own business? Crisp: Realizing my vision and achieving a level of service through dedication and hard work with the help of my team. To watch Apple Creek’s growth is the ultimate in fulfillment and job satisfaction. I am blessed with a team of talented designers who express their style with WOMEN & CAREER

flowers and understand the extraordinary level of service we’ve become known for. MCM: What would you most like our readers to know about you and your business? Crisp: I was certified as a Master Gardener in New Jersey through Rutgers University Extension Program. I love being able to pass my knowledge on to my curious customers. MCM: In your role, you have the unique opportunity to be a part of people’s lives at some of the highest, and lowest moments. Does that emotional connection play a role in how you operate your business? Crisp: Being a florist is a special occupation. I don’t sell flowers. I help people express their emotions. I’ve cried with grieving families, hugged new grandparents and helped brides select flowers to transform their special day. Being there to help my customers with their tragedy or triumph is what makes it so special. I had the pleasure of “conspiring” with six grandchildren of a Woodstock resident who was turning 95. They all wanted to send flowers, a total of 95 stems, in six different colors. I spoke to each one and we came up with six designs to mark the day. I delivered the flowers at intervals, all day. She was delighted and I took a picture of her at the end of the day, to send to all of the grandchildren, surrounded by all of her flowers. It was so much fun! It’s a unique opportunity to connect on a more personal level with my customers. It’s not work if you love what you do! For more information, visit AppleCreekFlowers.com n w h e r a l d . c o m /m a g a z i n e

‘Blowing out’ the hair industry Pepper Annex is bringing L.A. to Crystal Lake with trendy blowouts and earth-friendly practices

rystal Lake may not be L.A. or New York City, but that doesn’t mean a little bit of L.A. and New York City can’t be in Crystal Lake.

At least, that’s the thought behind Pepper Annex, a hip new business that, for the last year, has hoisted the local hair industry to the next level.

The full explanation, however, is what makes especially for women who work.” blow-dry bars — and Pepper Annex — so More than that, blow-dry bars offer incredibly popular. an experience, and Pepper Annex is no “To have your hair professionally blown exception, Hall says. out, it lasts a long time,” Hatfield-Logan “This is a very special industry where we’re says. “We know how to layer the products, allowed to touch people,” Hall says. “Even we know how to use the tools, use the heat with a new client, I’d say within 30 seconds at just the right temperature … and [the of sitting in my chair, I have my hands in style] lasts three or four days. It’s a luxury, their hair … it’s very relational.” Hall and Hatfield-Logan have made it a point to create a homey, friendly atmosphere, Hall says. Clients are offered drinks upon arrival, and after a first visit, they’ll probably find a handwritten thank you note in their mailbox.

Owned by Shalyn Hall and Marie Hatfield-Logan, the salon isn’t just a salon. It also touts itself as an environmentallyfriendly blow-dry bar, meaning it provides customers with earth-friendly products and one of the latest trends in the industry: professional blowouts.

“[We’re here] to make people feel special,” Hall says.

Bringing L.A. to C.L.

The short explanation of a blowout is this: clients receive a massaging shampoo and have their hair blown into style without the extra costs of a cut or color, Hall says. A typical blowout at Pepper Annex is just $30.

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Hall always had wanted her own salon, but the idea to open a dual salon/blow-dry bar actually came from the 27-year-old’s father, Bill Hall. 4 Continued on next page WOMEN & CAREER

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Pepper Annex uses products free of many of the additives found in traditional salon lines.

Neither stylist wanted to fully give up coloring and cutting hair, so their business model of blending a traditional salon with a blow-dry bar has worked well, they say. Clients can get a cut or color whenever they choose, and when they want a blowout for a special event, their same stylist can help them enjoy a few quiet moments of pampered bliss.

“[Our clients] love the whole family atmosphere and how everybody is so friendly and how they can completely escape reality in a way and just relax,” says stylist Anna Golebiewska, 27, of Lake “He owns a business, and he is fortunate in the Hills. “All of us enough that he gets to travel all over the love what we do, and I think that shows in place,” Hall says, noting those travels include our work and in our personalities. We’re very trend-setting cities like Los Angeles, New close, and we just make every single client feel York City and Boston. “He told me [blow-dry that they are the most special.’” bars] are the hottest thing; they’re popping up “[Plus,] everyone loves the concept that you along the coast, and they’re doing really well.” can get your hair blow-dried and styled and it will stay styled for a few days,” she adds. Hall was a bit skeptical at first, so the fatherdaughter team visited a dry bar in Chicago, Bill Hall agrees. and the trip completely changed her outlook, “If you’re having a so-so day, is there a better Hall says. way to transition to wonderful?” he asks. “[A “I had a really good experience,” she says. “I blowout] is just a really nice pick-me-up; an feel like there’s five million salons and spas affordable way to feel and look glamorous.” [out there], so my dad’s like, ‘You should be a salon and blow-dry bar. It’s new. It’ll be An environmentallymoving into the area.’ And obviously, he was friendly approach right.” From the beginning, Hall and Hatfield-Logan Once Hall had the idea nailed down — and knew they wanted to be a different kind of the financial backing of her father — she salon. went on the lookout for a business partner. That sentiment is apparent in the name of She found one in Hatfield-Logan, who their business — “Pepper Annex” was chosen owned a salon in Cary and had rented space particularly because it’s a non-traditional to the young stylist a few years earlier. salon name — and in the types of services While Hatfield-Logan already had 30 years they provide. of experience in the industry, the prospect But it also is apparent in the philosophy of opening a larger, different type of salon that Pepper Annex be as “green” as possible, intrigued the 56-year-old. starting with the types of products they use. “It was so different than what I’d been doing for the last 13 years,” Hatfield-Logan says. “The salon that I had was very small and very intimate ... this is probably three or four times the size of the salon that I had … [Pepper Annex] was a lot of responsibility, and a complete change of lifestyle … [but] it’s just a very exciting atmosphere … and I was at a place in my life where I needed a challenge and a change.” 10 | MAY 2015 | MCHENRY COUNTY MAGAZINE

“Marie and I are very health conscious, and we care about our employees and our guests who come in,” Hall says. “We want to protect our environment, and it’s better for us because we work in [a traditionally chemicalbased industry] all day.” Pepper Annex uses products free of many of the additives found in traditional salon lines, and the business supports companies that share similar environmental and social values, Hatfield-Logan says. The Australian-based line Kevin Murphy, for example, is an ambassador for climate change, and the company only uses containers that are 100 percent recyclable. Unite’s Professional Hair Care Products, meanwhile, contain no monoethanolamine (MEA) or diethanolamine (DEA), chemicals linked to cancer. Both lines use premium-grade products and are PETA-certified, Hatfield-Logan says. They contain no parabens (preservatives) or sulfates (chemicals also linked to cancer), healthier choices for stylists and clients. Though following an environmentallyconscious business platform is important to both Hall and Hatfield-Logan, the initial fire behind such a movement stems from a much more personal matter. Hall has lupus, an autoimmune disease in which the body’s immune system attacks normal, healthy tissue.

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“That started my health kick,” Hall says. “I’m gluten free. I eat organic. I’m soy free. I’m very aware of every single thing I’m putting into my body. Even lotion is something I think about. Your skin is the largest organ of your body, so much of what you apply topically will be absorbed into your blood stream.” Her life change has spilled over into her business for precisely that reason — shampoos, hair dyes and other products she and her fellow stylists use on a daily basis are being absorbed not only into their clients’ skin, but theirs, as well.

Owners Shalyn Hall and Marie Hatfield-Logan.

back to the environment and community, such as donating a portion of their retail product sales toward tree-planting services and finding sustainable uses for hair clippings. As an investor in Pepper Annex, Bill Hall says he’s happy the salon has an earth-friendly attitude. But he’s also proud of the salon’s overall commitment to well-being. “You’re welcomed when you walk in, and you feel great when you walk out,” he says. “It’s all about a positive image. Shalyn and Marie make people feel good about themselves.”

Hall and Hatfield-Logan also plan to find additional “When people leave there, they want to feel ways to protect and give like royalty,” he adds.

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Photos by Nancy Merkling

Several years ago, she read a book called “The Lupus Recovery Diet” that explained the power of food and how certain ingredients could create triggers in her body, she recalls. Once she tried some of the book’s dietary suggestions, she was amazed at how much healthier she felt.

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Impressive, Impassioned And Inspiring Introducing our 2015 honorees

n 2012, McHenry County Magazine began a tradition of honoring women who have given their time and talents to the community. They have created nonprofit organizations, commanded local advisory boards, volunteered at activities and businesses outside their own workplaces and, most of all, continue to lead by example. Each spring, we solicit nominations from community leaders, local business professionals and our own readership. And through this process, we discover our communities full of inspiring women; teachers and nurses, entrepreneurs and advisors, artists and volunteers. This month, we continue the tradition with the 2015 class of McHenry County Magazineâ€™s Women of Distinction. We introduce our honorees here, pay tribute to them at an annual event, and in each month that follows, we will tell the complete story of one of these outstanding local residents.

5 The 2015 McHenry County Magazine Women of Distinction are, back row from left, Denise Wasserman, Colleen Geils, Rebecca Saffert, Denise Barreto, Pam Cumpata, Kathleen Caldwell and Sue Dobbe. Front row from left are Rosemary Kurtz, Karen Lavin, Judy Pelinski and Susan Hutchinson. Honorees not pictured are April Dougherty, Inez Young and Dr. Jill Howe. Photos by From Me 2 You Photography

Previous Honorees 2012 Kay Rial Bates Nancy Fike Suzanne Hoban Diana Kenney Lorraine Kopczynski Cheryl Niemo Charie Zanck

2013 Camille Caffarelli Susan Dalton Donna Frett Susan Milford Vicki Nielsen Kelly Weaver Catherine Williams

2014 Pamela Althoff Laurie Dayon Ellen Ebann Linnea Kooistra Debbie Lazarski Kim Qualls Betty Zirk

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No Mountain Too High Mother of autistic child overcomes challenges, starts school from scratch

Gillian’s middle name.

By JOAN OLIVER

Then the growth really started.

hen Kelly Weaver adopted her daughter, Gillian, in 1998, she had no idea she eventually would co-found a school for children with autism

“We outgrew it very quickly,” Weaver said.

Today, she is the executive director of the Alexander Leigh Center for Autism in Crystal Lake. At first, Gillian was hitting all her milestones, Weaver said. However, at 15 months, Weaver noticed Gillian was falling behind other children in her playgroups. It wasn’t until 2000 that Gillian, who now is 16, was diagnosed with regressive autism.

In 2008, the Illinois State Board of Education approved it as a school. “It was kind of like writing your thesis … and then defending it,” Weaver said of the process.

After the center doubled in size, even more growth prompted a move to Crystal Lake, where the center has been for the past 3½ years.

Photo by Ron McKinney

The nonprofit center first opened as a clinic in Weaver’s home and moved in 2007 to a 2,500-square-foot space in Lake in the Hills.

“This summer we maxed out, and so we moved our administrative office,” Weaver said of the center that employs 74 and serves 37 children ages 3 to 18.

Gillian,” Weaver said of pulling her out after three years. Weaver had become acquainted with another mother, Dorie Hoevel, with an autistic son who was in Gillian’s playgroup.

“By the time she was 2, we had a formal diagnosis,” said Weaver. She and her husband, Kevin, then researched and created a support system for their daughter. “We developed a program in our home and did some homeschooling.”

They shared a one-to-one instructor, who recognized that the mothers shared similar frustrations about the education system.

Unexpected challenges arose. Weaver was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in 2001. About two years later, Kevin was diagnosed with brain cancer.

The women met for Chinese food and talked about how they might better serve their autistic children.

“On top of that, my mom, who was my rock, had a massive stroke in March 2004,” Weaver said. Four months later, Kevin died.

“[The instructor] said, ‘Why don’t you two sit down and talk this out because you both keep saying the same thing,” Weaver said.

“At the end of dinner we said, ‘Want to open a school?’ ” Weaver said. They spent the next year researching schools. They formed an advisory board. They created a mock building to get an idea of the costs.

“There were some really crazy, taxing times,” she “The school was really born out of two moms said. that wwanted more for their kids and figured out how to do it,” Weaver said. Initially, Gillian had been enrolled in the local school district’s early childhood classes. “The public school wasn’t a good match for

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The Alexander Leigh Center for Autism is named after their children; Alexander is the middle name of Hoevel’s son and Leigh is

In the next year, Weaver hopes to find a 35,000-square-foot location to accommodate up to 65 children and at least 110 employees. “We would like to see autism rates dissipate,” Weaver said. “But [they’re] not, so the next best thing is to create an environment where we can help kids and their parents.” These days, Gillian is thriving. “She’s getting fiercely independent, which is very cool,” Weaver said. With that comes Weaver’s desire to expand the center’s focus. “My long-term plan is to continue the school of excellence that we have and continue to develop programs, but really work on the job market for our kids and their housing,” she said. No doubt that goal will be reached, just as the others have. “I’m just a person … continuing to work on my goals,” Weaver said. “I’m just a mom. I don’t have a teaching degree. I was given this child and along with her came autism and along with that came a school.” — This article originally appeared in the Northwest Herald

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D denise barreto Lake in the Hills

enise Barreto has shown dedication, whether serving the community as a member of the Village Board or through her career including the success of her own business, Relationships Matter Now. Her hard work has made a difference in her community and with the many businesses she has assisted. In just a few years, Barreto and her small firm have become a resource for businesses of all sizes. Her model for success in business and personal leadership is making an impact on corporate businesses and nonprofits. She has penned a book to further teach and provide essential tools for success.

athleen Caldwell has created programs, written a book and given endless hours of her time serving with local groups and organizations. She is the founder of the WHEE Institute, creating and delivering customized learning programs, and is the creator of Team Intelligence, which focuses on team building and leadership development. She has more than 20 years of experience in global business strategy and community leadership. Outside of work, she is involved with the Crystal Lake Chamber of Commerce Foundation, the McHenry County Women in Management and she volunteers with Realty Store for Youth at Woodstock High School. She is a marathon runner and is a concert flutist who has performed throughout the United States and Europe.

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ue Dobbe is a successful entrepreneur, making a positive impact on Crystal Lake and McHenry County. After establishing her own business she earned a reputation for creating and promoting successful strategic brand identities. She’s worked on brand development for downtown Crystal Lake and Main Street as well as creating the local loyalty program. She’s handled rebranding and website reconstruction for the McHenry Chamber of Commerce and much more. Along with her work, she’s served as a member and leader in a number of professional organizations like the Rotary. Her concepts and leadership have produced programs to support those in need in the community.

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am Cumpata has built a career providing commercial business development and relationship management for financial institutions. She has a solid track record of increasing profitability and strengthening business relationships. In 2009, she became president of the McHenry County Economic Development Corporation, which plays an important role in the county attracting and retaining businesses. Along with her work, she serves as a board member for the United Way of Greater McHenry County and she is congregation president at St. John Lutheran Church. She also serves as a board member for the Sage YMCA in Crystal Lake.

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his mother-daughter duo is known for bringing energy and enthusiasm to their work in the community, especially when it comes to supporting the Gavers Community Cancer Foundation. At fundraisers they often are the first to arrive and the last to leave, setting up, coordinating along the way and cleaning up at the end. Two years ago, Dougherty joined the foundation’s board and took on a greater role. In addition to their work with the foundation they work together at Studio 2015 Jewelry, their family owned business. Young also leads a spousal caregiver support group and worked many years at McHenry and Johnsburg high schools.

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s the media specialist for Alden-Hebron Elementary School, Colleen Geils is dedicated to helping the students of the district. She is an avid supporter of her studentsâ€™ community service learning projects and their ability to help the community. Outside of work, she gives her time teaching religious education, organizing the summer reading programs as part of the Hebron Library Board and she often can be found helping young people find books as she encourages reading through the summer months.

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fter opening her own clinic in Crystal Lake more than 17 years ago, Dr. Jill Howe has created a practice that goes beyond basic chiropractic care. Her clinic includes physician assistants, physical therapists, massage therapists and more, allowing her team to provide well-rounded health care and wellness education. Her dedication to keeping patients healthy extends beyond a simple appointment. She has authored books, developed and lead workshops and gives community lectures designed to help people understand ways to keep their health in check and learn about alternatives to manage health problems.

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n her legal career, Susan F. Hutchinson has made a mark in the community. In 1981, she was the first woman judge appointed in the 19th judicial circuit, which at the time included Lake and McHenry counties. In 1994, she was the first woman elected as an appellate judge in the 2nd appellate district. Through her appointments and elections, she has presided over numerous legal cases. She has also served on the education committee, directing legal education of all judges in state courts and teaching other judges for more than 20 years.

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fter growing up in Wonder Lake, attorney Karen M. Lavin returned to her hometown to build a law practice. She has a passion for helping people and is committed to give to others in both her career and her personal life. As a family law attorney for more than 30 years, she helps her clients navigate legal issues. She has also lent her legal expertise to help local organizations such as the Friends in Service Here of McHenry and the Wonder Lake Neighbor’s Food Pantry. She is also active in professional law organizations as well as community groups, including the Rotary Club of McHenry and Family Alliance of McHenry County.

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osemary Kurtz has spent the last 45 years helping citizens express their voices in government. She is a longtime member of the League of Women Voters and has worked tirelessly for open government and citizen participation. She has served on the state and local levels – as a state representative and on local boards and commissions including the Crystal Lake City Planning and Zoning Board, the McHenry County Community Block Grant Commission and the Crystal Lake Library Foundation. The former high school Spanish teacher is devoted to her community and serving others.

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ike many small business owners, work goes beyond the basics of day-to-day business. In addition to managing her own company, Fresh Look Interiors, Judy Pelinski has taken an active role in the Crystal Lake Chamber of Commerce, serving on committees and activities throughout her membership. She has taken a leadership role with the chamber’s community outreach and Community Harvest, a food bank that supports members of the community. She is noted for her care and compassion as well as the hard work it takes to support this program. Through her efforts with Community Harvest, countless individuals and families have been supported during difficult times. Pelinski’s work is tireless, seeking donations and ensuring the programs continues, even as the number of those seeking assistance continues to increase.

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B rebecca saffert Crystal Lake Cary-Grove High School

y title, Rebecca Saffertâ€™s job is vice principal at Cary Grove High School, but her compassion and care extend well beyond that of a school administrator. In 2008, she laid the groundwork for Parent University, a program implemented districtwide that helps adults navigate the challenging teen and high school years. Now seven years later the program continues to grow and evolve, bringing in more experts and community leaders as well as provide more sessions for parents. Sessions have included topics on technology in the classroom and at home, financial aid for college-bound students, and coping with teens and anxiety to name a few. Saffert works behind the scenes of Parent University, arranging speakers, scheduling events and publicizing the program.

or the last 12 years Denise Wasserman has served as village clerk. After years of volunteering on the Summer Sunset Festival Committee, she took the reins as chairwoman in 2013. Wasserman manages the community festival and under her leadership it has continued to grow and include more activities. Her dedication and drive for excellence has benefited the community and she is a proven leader.

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Listen

to the wisdom of your inner voice

With Kathleen Caldwell

Sunday, March 18, 2001, was the scariest day of my life. I had IV needles in my arms, electrodes stuck all over my body and people in lab coats scrambling all around me. I was alone, confused and scared.

told me that my heart was healthy, and that a convergence of physiological, genetic and stress-related events caused my condition. While there were certainly medical reasons for my condition, I also knew that my heart was broken and empty in a spiritual sense. I had lost my purpose, passion and most importantly, my love of life. My body was responding to my inner voice’s message, one that I had ignored for so long. In hindsight, I clearly saw and heard all of

That morning, I woke up with my heart racing and feeling so dizzy and nauseated that I had to crawl to the bathroom to throw up. I said to myself, “This cannot be happening to me! I can’t be having a heart attack. It’s just not possible. I’m young and healthy. I’m a marathon runner, for heaven’s sake!” At the hospital, they thought otherwise. Once I reached the emergency room, the staff wasted no time medically slowing my heart rate back to a normal rhythm. All the while, I was in mental and emotional shock about being in the hospital. I was 39 years old and never had any cardiac problems or any other medical issues. This certainly was not the script I had written for my life.

The journey to that pivotal day was one I’d taken slowly. It came about from of a series of small daily decisions about my health, career, love and family. I had a successful career in the technology industry. And by all appearances, I had the world on a string. I lived in a beautiful apartment overlooking Lake Shore Drive in Chicago, had the sports car in the valet garage and the mink coat in the closet. Everything looked great on the outside. But on the inside, I was empty and lost. I said my family was the most important thing to me, but I hadn’t seen my family in ages. I was just too busy and overcommitted. For many months I had heard the whisper in my head and heart, “slow down,” but I ignored it and kept moving along. Meanwhile, the whisper grew louder and louder. Up until that day, everyone else’s priorities came first on my list. My career and the business deals always came before my health and well being. I knew that had to change immediately. I realized that connecting with

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the warning signs, but either chose to ignore them or simply failed to act. I can now see that the two days that I spent in the hospital were a call to action. This medical emergency was a gift for me to seriously reevaluate my priorities and take action.

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“We have wonderful relationships with our customers and truly value their business,” she said.

people and being in service to them made me the happiest. How could I reinvent my life?

Photos by Ron McKinney

A week after leaving the hospital, I hired an executive coach and mentor to help me create a plan on how I could use my gifts and knowledge in a new career. This plan gave me the confidence and certainty that I was working toward something bigger in my life. During this time, I felt my heart and health getting stronger each day. Soon after, I was taken off the heart medications and resumed my normal physical fitness routine. Through this process, my life became meaningful again. Over the next couple of years, my coaching and consulting business prospered and I was back in the business of my life.

When I share my story, many people ask me, “Do you have any regrets?” I respond with one — that I did not see the signs and take action sooner. It took a medical emergency for me to finally know the truth and take action. Through this journey back to love, I learned to listen and trust the wisdom of my inner voice and my body, and take better care of myself. Now, before I make a personal or professional decision, I stop and listen to my head and my heart. I ask myself, “Why am I doing this?” “Is this action in my highest good?” Because of this practice, my intuition and confidence are now stronger than ever. I now operate from my “why” in life — to help people find the love in their work, their bodies and their lives. I ask myself every day, “How can my experiences be an inspiration and catalyst for people to examine and change their lives?” This is my guiding principle and underlying motivation in my work and life. Kathleen Caldwell is president of Caldwell Consulting Group and the founder of the WHEE Institute ® (Wealthy, Healthy, Energetic Edge) of Woodstock. She works with leaders and teams to energetically and enjoyably produce record breaking results. For more information, Caldwell can be reached at www.caldwellconsulting.biz, Kathleen@ caldwellconsulting.biz or by phone at 815-206-4014. n w h e r a l d . c o m /m a g a z i n e

PRESIDENT Natalie Murphy

atalie Murphy, president of Murphy’s Flooring, believes that her company’s expertise and personal service sets the Woodstock business apart.

Open since 2013, Murphy’s Flooring specializes in the sales and installation of quality carpet, hardwood and tile floors. The Woodstock showroom offers hundreds of products, as well as knowledgeable salespeople and expert installation. Natalie’s husband, Keith Murphy, has spent his career in the flooring business. “His family owned a flooring business, in his early teens he started working with his dad helping with installations. His industry knowledge amazes me,” she said. Retail salesperson Karen Lagerhausen and commercial sales representative Sam Daniels, round out the experienced Murphy’s Flooring team. “Karen was also born into the industry, as her dad owned a flooring store, and Sam has worked in the industry for more than forty years,” Natalie said. Behind the scenes, Natalie uses her business management background to keep everything running smoothly. Her responsibilities include bookkeeping, scheduling, and marketing. “I worked in a travel agency for a woman who was a great role model and she inspired me to want to work in my own business,” she said. 2104 S. Eastwood Drive (Rt. 47) Woodstock, IL 815-334-5985 WOMEN & CAREER

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Lynda Walsh Lori Hills Michele Walsh

Mary Batson

ut of the Box in downtown Crystal Lake has been chosen as McHenry County’s Best Gift Shop four times by the Best of the Fox. “We pride ourselves on providing the best customer service possible. We value our customers and our community and are grateful for their support,” said owner Mary Batson. Out of the Box carries unique gifts, from hand-crafted jewelry and accessories, to inspirational plaques, wall art, and more. The store also offers complimentary gift-wrapping and personal service in a comfortable shopping atmosphere. Batson serves as president of the Downtown Crystal Lake Main Street Association. “I’m inspired by my mom who’s 88 years old, and still volunteers in her church and other groups. It’s important to give back and be an active participant in your community.”

“Our tag line is ‘for you and your home,’ and the name Shay is derived from the thought “shop home and you,’” Lynda explained.

n downtown Crystal Lake, two sisters and their sister in law are thrilled to see their business dream come true.

Lynda Walsh, her sister Lori Hills and sister-in-law-Michele Walsh are the proud owners of Shay, a boutique specializing in apparel for women as well as home décor. This affordable and stylish boutique opened in November of 2013.

Lynda describes Shay as a lifestyle shop, selling casual chic clothing, and home accents. “We have tops, jeans, dresses, jewelry and accessories, and home décor such as wall art, tabletop pieces, bowls, candles, decorative pillows and furniture. Our prices are affordable, and we keep up with trends.” The unique mix reﬂects the owners’ backgrounds. Lori has over ten years’ interior design and buying experience, Michele worked in event planning and Lynda has an advertising and business management background. Lori handles design work and oversees buying, Lynda is responsible for management and promotions, while Michele oversees merchandising and special events. Recent events have included a Valentine’s Day “Shop for Your Sweetheart”, ladies nights, frequent customer nights and more. “We all bring a unique talent to our shop, we enjoy sharing our combined passion for fashion and continue to love the town of Crystal Lake and the community we’ve found here.”

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BMO Harris Bank, McHenry-Northern Lake County Market

omen continue to play a critical role in the strength and vitality of McHenry County. Through vision and determination women have achieved great things at home, in the community and out in the workforce. BMO Harris is proud to practice a culture of diversity that fosters the corporate and personal success of dynamic leaders like Jamie Maravich, Market President, McHenry—Northern Lake County, Jennifer Gerber, Premier Banker Crystal Lake and McHenry, Maureen Motroni, Bank Manager Woodstock, Carolyn Miller, Bank Manager Algonquin, Pam Morton, Bank Manager Huntley and Penny Johns, Bank Manager Crystal Lake. Strength is drawn from the diversity of people, and BMO Harris has been recognized for its commitment to diversity within the organization, as well as in the diverse communities it serves. These dynamic female leaders not only commit themselves daily to enhancing the ﬁnancial success of their customers and the professional development of their employees, they also dedicate themselves to playing key roles in the McHenry County community through their support of vital organizations, including, among others, United Way of Greater McHenry County, Big Brothers Big Sisters of McHenry County, McHenry County Economic Development Corporation, Leadership Greater McHenry County, the Home of the Sparrow, the Woodstock Opera House, March of Dimes, the Crystal Lake Food Pantry and McHenry County Police Charities as well as numerous Chambers of Commerce, Lions Clubs, Park Districts and Rotary Clubs. Every hour that a person gives

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Back Row: Maureen Motroni, Carolyn Miller, Penny Johns; Front Row: Jennifer Gerber, Pam Morton, Jamie Maravich.

to the community makes a difference. As is commonly said at BMO Harris, “When people work together, great things happen.” BMO Harris Bank McHenry County Algonquin, Cary, Crystal Lake, Fox River Grove, Huntley, Marengo, McHenry, Woodstock

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“We’re experienced, offer outstanding customer service and are committed to making your trip memorable.”

DESIGNER Karin Betz

ith a passion for fashion, Karin started her career in one of Europe’s ﬁnest fashion schools. Now an accomplished fashion designer and seamstress, Karin manages her own custom sewing workshop in Crystal Lake. Her projects reach from delicate bridal gowns and special occasion dresses to window fashions including draperies, cornices, bedding and more, working with her customers on design, fabric selection and color coordination. Decorative pillows, such as the ones made by BetzDesign, put the ﬁnishing touch on many projects. Her products always are installed by her in-house team. Active in the community, Karin works with “Artful Women” (Raue) and “Women Building Working Relationships” (CL Chamber), and she runs the Crystal Lake Sister Cities program which recently included the coordination/hosting of a delegation from Holzgerlingen during the Crystal Lake Centennial events.

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Travel Agent Neelie Kruse

acation season is fast approaching, but there’s still time to plan a great trip, says Neelie Kruse, CTC and owner of Cary Travel Express. “Europe has been really popular this year. The dollar is the strongest it’s been in a decade, so it’s a great time to go,” she said. Couples seeking a romantic destination should consider Italy. “Rome has so much history, and the Vatican is incredible to see. Florence and Venice each have a character all their own. There’s so much to see, and the food and wine are amazing,” she said. For an unforgettable family vacation, Kruse recommends London. “It’s an easy place to visit, because everyone speaks English, and there’s history around every corner.” Rather stay closer to home? “Disney is always a great family trip and we can work with clients to make it fun and affordable,” Kruse said. Because Kruse and the Cary Travel Express staff are well traveled themselves, they can provide suggestions for unique destinations and experiences which make your trip special, and they’re available to assist, if you encounter any problems! Cary Travel Express has received the Best of the Fox award as the area’s best travel agency, and in 2013, Kruse was named one of the nation’s Top 25 travel agents by Travel Agent Magazine. “We’re experienced, offer outstanding customer service and are committed to making your trip memorable.”

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“Our management truly believes in the importance of family. Helping employees feel at home while they’re at work, enhances our customer’s experience.” PLUMBING & MECHANICAL

Sitting: Patty Sperando. Back l to r: Lauren Schubert, Jaclyn Szymczak.

hile most people think of Black Diamond Plumbing and Mechanical as McHenry County’s choice for reliable, high quality home services, it’s also an award-winning workplace. For the fifth consecutive year, Black Diamond has been chosen as one of Illinois’ Best Places to Work, by the Daily Herald Business Ledger, in collaboration with the Illinois Chamber of Commerce, the Workforce Boards of Metropolitan Chicago, and others. Corporate Executive Assistant Patty Sperando, whose husband Rick started the business in 1999, isn’t surprised. Patty has been with the company from the beginning, and today, manages office procedures, training, and also plans employee appreciation events. “I am proud of what my husband started. His dream became a reality, far beyond his expectations and he values and acknowledges the contributions of women in the working world. I am also happy to be a part of a company that’s recognized for its growth and involvement with the local community. Our employees are the most important reason for our growth,” Patty said. Human Resources Manager Jaclyn Szymczak, a ten-year Black Diamond employee, is in charge of employee relations, safety management and benefits coordination. Not only do happy employees result in a positive work environment, they provide great customer service, which is the foundation of nBlack w h e r aDiamond’s l d . c o m /m a g“Red a z i n eCarpet Treatment.”

“Our management truly believes in the importance of family. Helping employees feel at home while they’re at work, enhances our customers’ experience,” she said. Director of Sales and Marketing Lauren Schubert joined Black Diamond three years ago, and oversees the sales staff and marketing departments. She’s proud to work for a company that not only values its employees and customers, but also the community at large. “As a working mom, I appreciate that management values our families, and the families in the communities that we service. Being a part of so many community events and organizations ﬁlls me with pride. I also feel like a valued part of the team, which makes me want to come to work each day. Black Diamond is more than just a job, it is a part of who I am,” she said.

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Bernice Zubrzycki

Victoria Summers

Mary Meyn

ary Meyn, owner of Yours & Meyn Simply Designed, is not only celebrating her business’ fifth anniversary, she’s doing it in a new, larger space. The downtown Crystal Lake shop specializes in home accessories, accent pieces and upholstered furniture. “We’ve expanded our entertaining merchandise and offer more platters, stemware and tableware. We also have a living room area that’s as large as what’s in most people’s homes, so they can better visualize how something will look,” she said. Meyn has always offered home design service, she now has a second floor design studio, and will also soon launch a gift registry. “I’m so thankful for the support of the community, our repeat customers and referrals. They allowed us to reach our fifth anniversary and grow along the way.”

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Executive Director

he Summers Academy of Dance continues to grow both in enrollment and dance offerings in their new Dance Center location. In May 2013, the dance academy moved into a state-of-the-art 4,000+ square foot space, much bigger than their previous location. “People walk in and say, ‘wow,’” said Victoria Summers, Executive Director of Summers Academy of Dance, The Berkshire Ballet Theatre, Starr Dancers and Summers Dance Crews. The facility has digital sound, video cameras, a girls’ dressing room, three dance studios, 10’ mirrors and 25’ ceilings. The increased space means more options for classes, including a new Aerial Silks dance program, teaching an acrobatic dance style popularized by Cirque du Soleil. “Our goal is to create well-rounded dancers, and to that end we have,” said Summers.

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hether you’re hosting an intimate gathering, a grand wedding, training session, or a back yard picnic, Bernice Zubrzycki, Owner of 31 North Banquet & Catering has the experience and resources to make it an event to remember. For over 35 years, Bernice has been partnering with local families and businesses to make their events a delicious success. “Whether you are a State Senator, a CEO, Charitable Events Captain or a bride-to-be, our determination to exceptional service, relentless attention to detail, and unwavering commitment to excellence makes us the preferred caterer and banquet facility for anyone wanting a ﬂawlessly planned event,” Bernice says. Her luxury venue “31 North Banquet & Catering” brings a level of style and elegance to McHenry that, until recently, could only be found at the most exclusive locations in Chicago.

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CHAMBER PRESIDENT Kay Rial Bates

ay Rial Bates, McHenry Area Chamber of Commerce President, knows women enjoy connecting with other women. “Just like our male counterparts enjoy male bonding, we love to interact socially and professionally. That’s why we’ve developed a professional women’s group called WINGs,” she said. WINGs is a Chamber-sponsored networking group, open to everyone. Meeting dates and locations are posted on the chamber’s website, www. mchenrychamber.com. On May 27, WINGs will present a networking luncheon, titled Tables of Interest. “Ladies will visit two different luncheon tables to discuss a variety of different topics--from wine and travel, to social media, to ghosts-with other kindred spirits. It’s a fun twist on traditional networking that shows what we have in common,” Bates said. To register or learn more visit www.mchenrychamber.com.

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TRAVEL

Back l to r: Julie Sherwood, Owner Sue Swett, Karly Barth. Front l to r: Owner, PattyDeRoo & Tracy Colcord

ounded in 1960, Crystal Lake Travel is one of, if not the oldest, travel agencies in McHenry County. Owner Susan Marie Swett started working at the agency in 1975, and purchased the business in 1981, when she was twenty-four. Co-owner Patty DeRoo joined Crystal Lake Travel in 2003 and became a partner in October, 2014. Today, the agency employs four full-time travel agents, five part-time agents and a bookkeeper. All of the agents love to travel and between them, they’ve visited every continent except Antarctica. “Going to the destinations, seeing the resorts and experiencing the culture helps us do our jobs better,” said Swett. A travel agent’s first-hand knowledge of a destination provides expert guidance that a website can’t. “We’re able to give an unbiased recommendation, and professional advice so clients can feel confident when they travel,” said DeRoo. For clients, working with a travel agent not only saves time, it’s more convenient than researching and booking everything on your own. And if something goes wrong, the agent is there to help. “I provide clients with my personal cell number, so they can reach me at any time. We believe in giving the best personalized service,” said Swett.

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“We are actively involved in the community and can make our ﬁnancial decisions locally.”

DESIGNER Carmen Boyer

or Carmen Boyer, designer and owner of White Oak Interiors in Algonquin, creating a new room often means transforming something old. “Repurposing is utilizing an item or space in a new way from what was originally intended,” Boyer explained. A recent project brought rustic character to a contemporary marble ﬁreplace by adding a mantel of reclaimed timber. Cabinets can be transformed with paint, different hardware, or by removing doors. “It’s a good way to use furniture people have grown tired of. A dresser can become a media center, or an old headboard can become the back of a bench,” she said. In business since 1996, White Oak Interiors creates beautiful rooms by blending fresh ideas and new colors with creative repurposing. “It’s so exciting to help people see the possibilities,” Boyer said.

Owner & Chief Executive Ofﬁcer Kathleen E. Marinangel

athy Marinangel has been the chief driving force behind an effective, community-minded bank. McHenry Savings Bank is a family-owned financial institution with a strong commitment and ties to the community and families it serves. The Bank provides financial solutions for both businesses and individuals. The Bank has a dedicated team of experts who serve customers daily with a friendly, receptive and professional approach. “Whether our customers need a business loan, home loan or car loan, we help them achieve success and fulfill their dreams,” said Marinangel. “Because we are actively involved in the community and can make our financial decisions locally, we are more responsive to the needs of our customers. Our customers are our friends and neighbors.” With a rich 60 year history, McHenry Savings Bank maintains a contemporary approach serving all generations of customers. “Whether online and mobile app banking is your preference or coming in to talk with a personal banker – we have services and products that can meet YOUR financial needs,” shared Marinangel. “We wish to express our deep appreciation and gratitude to the McHenry area community, its businesses, people and residents for banking with us and in helping us to build a better community. Thank you!”- Your Bank… Your Kind of People.

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Tina Engel Heidi Sutherland

Tina Engel and Heidi Sutherland take a moment to enjoy the results in a recently reﬁnished kitchen completed by their business Faux The Love Of It. By Stephanie Kohl, Contributor

he Crystal Lake-based business was established in 2005 and offers faux finishing, murals and cabinetry and furniture finishes. Faux the Love of It goes right into their clients’ homes for an initial consult, provides samples and examines the work that needs to be done to provide an estimate. “The beautiful part of our jobs is because we go into different homes, our jobs change regularly,” Engel said. “Every job has a change of scenery and change of pace.” This is a second career for both women, as both were teachers prior to becoming stay-at-home moms and then business owners. Both have enjoyed art since they were children. While stay-at-home moms, the two rediscovered their passion for art. Engel began woodworking and crafts, selling her items at craft fairs. Sutherland began focusing on interior design, first in her own home, then her friends’ homes. Both also took painting classes. The women met in 2004 when they volunteered on a charity home renovation and house walk in Oak Park. The meeting led to collaboration on a big project Sutherland had agreed to. Before long, they realized how much fun they had working as a team and continued to take on projects together. The two balance each other well, with Engel working with textures and large areas and Sutherland focusing on the refined, up close work. Sutherland also serves as the n w h e r a l d . c research o m /m a g a zand i n e development person and Engel company’s

handles the bookkeeping, ordering and scheduling. “When you see the end product of what you do, that gives you personal satisfaction,” Sutherland said. Going forward, the focus of their business will be to continue to provide quality work and show clients what can be done to easily update their cabinetry and furniture. One thing for sure is that as their business grows and they require additional help the two will still oversee all projects, be on the job sites and complete the artwork themselves.

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GENERAL MANAGER Deanne Kingston

Karen Campney

lan before you plant, advises Karen “KC” Campney, Nursery Sales Manager with Countryside Flower Shop, Nursery and Garden Center in Crystal Lake. “Consider where the tree or shrub will go, and it’s purpose. Do you want a big open area, shade, or maybe an ornamental tree with ﬂowers you can enjoy in season,” she said. Also, consider the available space and sunlight. “Some plants will grow in very little sun, others will not,” she said. With numerous varieties, and the expertise to help customers make the best choice, Countryside is McHenry County’s landscape destination. “Each yard should be unique to the people that live there. We take pride in helping people select the right plant for their yard and for their family’s use,” Campney said.

eanne “Jory” Kingston loves the friendly atmosphere found at her growing business, Kingston Lanes in Woodstock. As general manager and partial owner, she works with a staff that includes her brother Jake Arndt, the bowling manager. “We work great together and the staff here is awesome. Everyone feels like part of the family, and feels a sense of ownership. We all pitch together to keep things running smoothly,” she said. Summer promises to be a busy time at Kingston Lanes with sand volleyball, bags and horseshoe leagues on the back patio. Inside there’s great bowling, and a friendly atmosphere. “We totally revamped the place and are building our customer base. We have our regular bowlers that are in here every week. It’s been great getting to know them.”

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BOUTIQUE Stephanie Ormsby

ear Did U Get That boutique is stocked with a great selection of tops, jeans, dresses, jackets and accessories, but owner Stephanie Ormsby says her store doesn’t just sell clothes, it sells fashion. “Our specialty is fashion for everyday. These aren’t pieces that sit in the closet for a special occasion, they’re things you can wear to run errands, meet a friend for lunch or have dinner with your husband,” she said. The store has been open more than two years, and Ormsby loves helping customers put together a great look. “We dress for body type and carry sizes XS to 3X. We’ll also show customers different ways to wear a piece. We want to make sure people are comfortable and feel good when they leave,” she said.

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ultimate design goal,” said Julie Loehner, Certiﬁed Kitchen Designer and owner of Kitchens by Julie, Inc. In business since 2005, Kitchens by Julie specializes in customized kitchen and bath design. Loehner’s Cary showroom also carries designer accessories and furniture. “Our specialty is turn-key service. We can handle your project from start to ﬁnish, beginning with design, providing the products and full installation,” she said. Loehner handles design and assisting clients as they choose the right products for their needs and budget. Her husband Mark handles the installation. “He’s very hands on and does a lot of the work himself,” she said. She began her career as a Kitchen Designer 30 years ago, after graduating from college with a degree in Interior Design. “I love the challenge presented by each project. Every kitchen or bath is unique and so is every client. It’s so rewarding to help them pull it all together.” Not only does a renovated kitchen or bath add to a home’s value, it also improves a homeowner’s quality of life. “This is a place you use every day. So many clients come in with rooms that were poorly designed, or have bad ethics and we can make them user-friendly and beautiful.” It’s not just about following the latest trends, Loehner said. “It’s about creating a timeless room, because the kitchen is the heart of the home.”

SALON STAFF

reative vision is vital for beauty industry success. At Paul Hyland Salon & Day Spa in Crystal Lake, so is teamwork. “We offer over ﬁfty-ﬁve services, we’re open six days a week, and offer evening hours. We have a large staff, and people working lots of different hours, so we need to be a well-tuned operation,” said Shelly Hyland, co-owner of the salon, with her husband Paul. Chosen as one of McHenry County’s best small business employers in 2014, the salon has been in business for more than thirty years and has twenty-nine employees. Hyland describes the salon’s employees as “dedicated and career oriented.” Service providers include stylists, nail technicians, massage therapists and estheticians. “The industry focuses a lot on individuality. That’s certainly important, but we’re also very collaborative and set high expectations for our providers to participate in continuing education, and do excellent work,” said Hyland. The support staff includes those who assist in the salon, work the front desk, handle inventory management, and marketing. “They’re the glue that keeps everything running smoothly,” Hyland said. Helping employees balance the demands of their professional and personal lives is a cornerstone of the teamwork approach. “We’ll bend over backward to work with their schedule. Working together and supporting one another makes this a great place to work, and that attracts, and retains, clients,” Hyland said.

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“There’s a spirit of entrepreneurship, and a sense that by working together, we can make our communities better.”

MANAGING EDITOR Allison McCaleb

PUBLISHER Kate Weber

ate Weber, publisher of the Northwest Herald and McHenry County Magazine, loves the newspaper industry.

“I enjoy the fast pace, and that newspapers touch so many people on a regular basis, in digital and in print. Additionally, through my work, I learn so much about the community I live in,” she said. Since her days as a reporter on her high school paper, through college at the University of Pittsburgh, and into a career that has taken her from Colorado to Pennsylvania, to Illinois, Weber has worked in different facets of the business. Now as a publisher, she is responsible for all of them. “If there’s an issue with circulation, an article or an advertisement, the buck stops with me and I like that. I’m ﬁnally putting all of the different pieces together, and seeing how they promote and build the community,” Weber said.

llison McCaleb, newly appointed managing editor of McHenry County Magazine, loves words. Written words, spoken words, illustrated words. And it shows. Allison has been involved with newspapers for nearly 20 years, working in many capacities including reporter, editor and graphic designer. What most excites her about the industry is “its inherent ﬂuidity. No task is the same each day, and no day contains the same task.” A part of the early development phases of McHenry County Magazine, Allison says “I look forward to being integrally involved in the ‘guts’ of the operation — its editorial heart. I believe there are unique stories in our market that should be told. I am eager to discover and present them in a way that is both reader-friendly and eyecatching. It’s what I love doing most.” Allison is originally from Texas and has lived in upstate New York, Louisiana and Indiana prior to settling down in Crystal Lake with her husband Dan, and two children, Aleah and Matthew.

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Landscaping Jean McDaniel

ine years ago I started Dream Gardens with a rake, hoe, wheelbarrow, $100 and a little red convertible. I have had the pleasure of working with wonderful people and take pride in watching Dream Gardens expand and grow each year. “I truly am...living my dream,” said Jean. Jean is very dedicated to her hometown of Crystal Lake. Every year she does a community volunteer project at Crystal Lake Central High School, where she helps with landscaping and design before big events like graduation and prom. Jean is also proud to support other women in business and believes in empowering other women to ﬁnd and live their dream. Dream Gardens offers a variety of services from landscape and design, to mowing, yard clean-up, trimming, pruning, hardscape, ﬂower boxes, containers and much more!

VICE PRESIDENT Jennifer Wagner

s a community bank, Crystal Lake Bank & Trust is committed to helping the communities grow. For Jennifer Wagner, Vice President Commercial Lending, that means getting out of the office and onto the manufacturing floors…or sales floors, of her clients. “A good portion of my time is spent out in the community, meeting with clients,” said Wagner, who has been with the bank since 2011. Wagner’s clients include a variety of area businesses, including manufacturers, distributors, service providers and professional firms. “Really it’s any business with a lending need. This past year, we’ve been seeing an increase in acquisitions, either of commercial buildings, or of other companies, as firms are expanding their businesses,” she said. She says that the businesses she works with are in a growth mode. “The perception over the past five years has been that it’s strenuous or impossible to get a loan, but many companies are in a much stronger financial position now, so that broadens their options in terms of borrowing,” Wagner said. Wagner urges businesses considering expansion to give her a call. “I can come see what you do, take a tour and hear about your plans. Working with the right bank and the right people can make all the difference.” Crystal Lake Bank & Trust Compay, N.A. 5100 Northwest Highway, Crystal Lake, IL 60014 (815) 788-3233 www.crystallakebank.com

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6 Benefits of Massage T Have you ever been too nervous to walk into a massage therapist’s room because you didn’t know what to expect? If you have yet to experience a professional massage, but believe it’s something you’d actually enjoy, then maybe you need a little more incentive to get you through the door. Allow me to share some incentives with this list of massage benefits to help you take that first step--and get your body healing on! Once you face your fears and release your inhibitions, you'll be amazed at how healing a massage is...and how good it feels! (Then you'll probably kick yourself for not getting one sooner.) If you've already experienced the wondrous benefits of massage, then I don't need to preach to the choir. But if you know someone who won't get a massage, for various reasons, why not show them this list of massage benefits? After all, at one point or another, we've all needed a little convincing to help us be more open and receptive to this healing art. 1. RELAXATION When you’re getting massaged, you can’t move, but you’ll feel content. All you have to do during the massage is lay there and enjoy. In fact, there’s a highly probable chance you could fall asleep from being so relaxed. It’s likely you’ll be lying on your stomach on

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the massage bed that probably has a hole where you place your face so your nose isn't smashed and your neck stays straight, so you can be totally comfortable while you relax and enjoy! 2. It Alleviates Tension and Stress: When your muscles are stressed and tied in knots, a deep tissue massage can help alleviate them. Therapists can work hard on a certain area to relieve any pain and discomfort you may be feeling in your particular trouble spots. But don't worry, your therapist will communicate with you to make sure the pressure they exert on you is just the right touch. Sometimes light touch massage does wonders, as well. 3. Improves Sleep: Massage is relaxing and calming, so it’s no far stretch that it should help you sleep better. However, massage doesn’t just help people sleep better, it can actually help those who cannot sleep to be able to and even wake up feeling well rested. Massage is used in patients under-going chemotherapy to help them fall asleep because rest is such a vital part of healing. And as many parents may know, infant massage is growing ever more popular. This specialized type of massage can calm a crying infant, and even help new babies get a good night’s sleep. One of the bonus benefits of massage is that it promotes deep breathing. Once your body is calmed and relaxed, you find yourself taking long, deep breaths. This begins to come more and more easily the further you relax. For those with sinus and allergy problems, this deep breathing can help those swollen and clogged nasal passages to relax, and let you breathe well enough to fall asleep too. 4. Helps battle anxiety and depression: Massage helps you to find a more calm and peaceful state. By triggering this state and being able to experience the joy it brings, you can learn to battle anxiety and depression. This is similar to “going to your happy place”. Massage is often the road you need to take to get to that happy place. The body is always on the go, too busy to stop and find a way to relax. Massage can be that thing that makes the body and the mind, stop, and be calm. Once you learn how to relax, you can do so more easily each time you try. Human touch itself is therapeutic. When you feel at ease with a person who is professional and kind, massage finds a new level of connection. It is this human connection that can also help fight back against depression, and dull the sting of anxiety. Massage has often been found to boost serotonin levels, which is the chemical in the brain that brings about happiness. 5. Boosts the immune system: Massage is performed regularly in patients with HIV. It has been found to increase patient’s white blood cell count. These are the

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ncient Egyptians and Greeks knew the body continually strives to heal itself. This was known as “innate intelligence.” The foundation of chiropractic philosophy is innate intelligence. It relates to the brain and nervous systems’ control over the function of the body. Interference of the nervous system leads to a change in health. This interference can affect performance on multiple levels. Some are easily observed — pain, symptoms or loss of function — while others take place over time, like osteoarthritis.

Chiropractic focuses on the role of the spine Daniel David Palmer, founder of Palmer College of Chiropractic, discovered that the bones of the spine (vertebrae) can, if misaligned, put pressure on the cord and small spinal nerves. This pressure distorts and blocks information coming from the brain. Ultimately, these misalignments, or vertebral subluxations, disrupt nervous system communication and lessen the body’s ability to function and heal itself. Chiropractic uses spinal adjustments to correct these misalignments and restore proper function to the nervous system, helping the body to heal naturally. Chiropractic is a natural form of healthcare that doesn’t use drugs or surgery. It uses a chiropractic spinal adjustment — the application of a precise force to a specific part of the spinal segment — to correct the misalignment, permitting normal nerve transmission and assisting your body to recuperate on its own.

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First known chiropractic adjustment On September 18, 1895, Palmer performed the first-ever chiropractic adjustment on Harvey Lillard, a deaf janitor, in Davenport, Iowa. Palmer described the incident in his 1910 article “The Science, Art and Philosophy of Chiropractic: The Chiropractor’s Adjuster.” “Harvey Lillard, a janitor in the Ryan Block, where I had my office, had been so deaf for 17 years that he could not hear the racket of a wagon on the street or the ticking of a watch. I made inquiry as to the cause of his deafness and was informed that when he was exerting himself in a cramped, stooping position, he felt something give in his back and immediately became deaf. An examination showed a vertebra racked from its normal position. I reasoned that if that vertebra was replaced, the man’s hearing should be restored. With this object in view, a half-hour’s talk persuaded Mr. Lillard to allow me to replace it. I racked it into position by using the spinous process as a lever and soon the man could hear as before. There was nothing ‘accidental’ about this, as it was accomplished with an object in view, and the result expected was obtained.”

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The ABCs Of Autoimmune Disease By Martha Maddi

e’ve all heard of autoimmune diseases but many of us have little idea what they really are. They are one of the top five medical conditions of great concern to women, along with heart disease, breast cancer, osteoporosis, and depression. Understanding these diseases is crucial to knowing how to protect against them. Here are the basics.

will begin during the childbearing years, according to the U.S. Office of Women’s Health (USOWH).

Autoimmune diseases are on the rise

“Many of the triggers, both air-borne and food-related, have not yet been discovered,” according to Dr. Kazlowski. Some of the ones that are suspects now are genetically modified organisms (GMOs), meaning organisms whose Autoimmune diseases occur when your authenticity has been altered by the immune system falters. techniques of genetic engineering so that its DNA contains one or more genes “It’s a condition in which your body’s immune system begins to attack your own not normally found there. Over the last few decades, lupus rates have tripled and tissue,” said Stephen Kozlowski, M.D., celiac disease cases have quadrupled. In rheumatologist at Centegra Physician Care in Crystal Lake. Normally, the body just the last 10 years, type 1 diabetes has increased 23 percent. can differentiate between what belongs in your body and what doesn’t. When it Autoimmune disease is an umbrella for detects a virus or parasite, it attacks. But more than 90 diseases. sometimes it gets confused and wages a These include type 1 diabetes, battle against your own tissues. inflammatory bowel disease, celiac disease and asthma, according to The National Institutes of Health (NIH). The list is According to the American Autoimmune sure to grow as scientists continue to identify the origin of other diseases, Dr. Associated Disease Association, more Kazlowski stated. than 23 million Americans suffer from autoimmunity, making it the third most Every autoimmune disease has three basic common category of illness in the United ingredients. States after cancer and heart disease.

Autoimmune diseases are common

Women are far more likely to get them. In fact, 80 percent of people affected by autoimmune diseases are women, according to Mayo Clinic’s Women’s Health Research Center in Minnesota. Those that affect women almost exclusively are Hashimoto’s disease, lupus, multiple sclerosis and rheumatoid arthritis. Often, the autoimmune disease 44 | MAY 2015 | MCHENRY COUNTY MAGAZINE

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A genetic predisposition

“Autoimmune diseases cluster in families,” said Dr. Kazlowski. It could be passed down from an aunt to a niece or from cousin to cousin, he said. “It’s not usually passed from a parent to a child but it can be.” He adds that the relatives usually do not share the same autoimmune disease so the aunt could have lupus and the niece could have juvenile diabetes. 4 Continued on page 46 n w h e r a l d . c o m /m a g a z i n e

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An environmental trigger

Dr. Kazlowski explained that this could be an infection, vaccination or food product like gluten. Other triggers are exposure to chemicals or consumer products made from plastics, artificial fibers and synthetic dyes. According to the Environmental Working Group, the average person is exposed to more than 126 chemicals before even leaving the bathroom in the morning, considering the shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, soap, deodorant and sunscreen that people use. Mercury is a chemical that has long been suspected of causing autoimmunity by increasing the production of lymphocytes, a type of white blood cell in the immune system. In addition, the NIH is researching whether a protein in cow’s milk may help trigger type 1 diabetes in genetically susceptible children.

A leaky gut

A gut that is in bad shape due to stress and junk food can create Zonulin. This opens up

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the spaces between the cells of the intestinal lining. That normally occurs in order for nutrients and other molecules to get in and out of the intestine. However, when leaky gut is present, the spaces between the cells open up too much allowing larger protein molecules to get into the bloodstream where an immunologic reaction can take place. Once that happens, the body is primed to react to those proteins each and every time they appear.

Extreme fatigue and joint and muscle pain are common symptoms of autoimmune diseases. — Dr. Stephen Kazlowski, Centegra Physician Care

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Autoimmune disorders share common symptoms. While each of the more than 90 disorders are unique, they do share some of the same symptoms, such as extreme fatigue and joint and muscle pain, according to Dr. Kazlowski. The classic sign of an autoimmune disease is inflammation, which can cause redness, heat, pain and swelling. To prevent autoimmune diseases and to feel your best once you already have one, the steps are the same, according to the USOWH. Eat healthy, well-balanced meals. Dr. Kazlowski stresses eating vegetables, dark fruit, fish twice a week and limiting animal fat. Get regular physical activity, but don’t overdo it. A gentle exercise program, such as yoga or tai chi, is a wise choice. Get enough rest. Rest allows your body tissues and joints the time they need to repair. Reduce stress. Try meditation and guided imagery to lower your stress levels.

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The Daycare Dilemma

serving the children of working parents who need care during the day,” said Lisha Linder, McHenry County College faculty member and department chair for Early Childhood Education, and interim director of the on-campus MCC Children’s Learning Center.

By Elizabeth Harmon

t’s a dilemma most parents face, whether they work outside the home or not. Who cares for their children when they can’t, and what’s the best fit for their family?

McHenry County families have a wealth of options available. To help parents navigate the often overwhelming array of choices, we’ll highlight a few local programs and businesses, committed to the care and development of your child.

Child Care/Day Care For families in need of all-day care, McHenry County has centers that open early and stay open to 6 p.m., or later. “Child care centers are 48 | MAY 2015 | MCHENRY COUNTY MAGAZINE

Centers offer meals and snacks, and may provide infant and after-school care. The centers also have educational components to their programs. “While there are academic and social components, child care centers are also meeting needs such as potty training, and helping children give up pacifiers,” Linder said.

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When choosing a program, Linder says to make sure that the program is licensed by the Department of Children and Family Services. Many programs also are pursuing accreditation, which has standards beyond those required for licensing. “ExceleRate Illinois is one that a lot of centers are working toward,” says Linder. Parents should be welcome to drop in and observe what is going on in the classroom. “Communication also is huge. Find out if the center has a newsletter, and if the teacher responds to questions right away,” Linder says. MCC’s Children’s Learning Center has total enrollment of about 80 students, and daily capacity of about 55. MCC students and employees have enrollment priority, but the center is open to the public as space allows. Rates are based on hours of attendance, and preschool is available. For more information, visit McHenry.edu/clc.

Preschool Preschools differ from day care in that they’re of limited length, usually 90 minutes to a couple of hours, depending upon the age of the child, and may only meet two or three days a week. Cathy Kuntz, director of Barlina House preschool, affiliated with the Crystal Lake Park District, says her program is a great option for kids who are cared for at home by a parent or a sitter. “We’re a small portion of their day.” Preschools can be independent, or affiliated with churches, private schools, public school districts, or park districts. When evaluating programs, Kuntz encourages parents to visit the preschool while class is in session and bring your child. “Stay and observe how the teacher and children interact, and how the children interact with each other. Ask about what the routine is, discipline policies, security and cleanliness,” she says. Find more questions at BabyCenter.com. Kuntz also advises parents to request a parent handbook from each program they visit. “That way, you can sit down with them at home and make comparisons,” she says.

“For many, it’s the first time away from their parents, so we’re helping them get into routines, and trying to extend their attention spans,” Kuntz says. The program encourages physical development through activities that work on children’s large and small motor skills. Exposure to letters, numbers and colors encourage intellectual growth and helps kids prepare for kindergarten. “We’re proud to offer children an opportunity to participate in activities that promote their development of physical, social, emotional and intellectual skills,” said Kuntz.

In-home Care Parents who travel frequently, work long hours, or families with children ranging from infants to school age, may want to consider hiring a come-and-go or live-in nanny.

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“A family that might benefit from a live-in nanny is one where both parents are doctors, and they don’t have a set schedule, or they are business owners and have to travel frequently,” says Januskyte. Screening and hiring a nanny can be a daunting process, which is where agencies like Monicare come in. Families pay a placement fee to an agency, and work together through the hiring process, which typically takes about a month, Januskyte says. Monicare works with a pool of pre-screened candidates who meet a set of 24 minimum requirements, including having at least two

For many [preschoolers] it’s the first time away from their parents, so we’re helping them get into routines ... — Cathy Kuntz, director of Barlina House preschool With a come-and-go arrangement, a nanny works pre-determined hours and is paid an hourly wage. When additional hours are needed, the family pays her for the extra time. “Most of our placements are for come-and-go arrangements,” says Monika Januskyte owner and founder of Monicare Nannies, a suburban placement agency with clients throughout the Chicago area.

Barlina House has about 80 students, ranging in age from 3 to 5. Children are grouped by age “Come-and-go nannies have a lot of longevity into separate classes, and morning-only sessions and might remain with a family for a number run from 9 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. of years,” she said. Teachers work with children on socialemotional skills and kindergarten readiness.

but can be available at times not convenient for a come-and-go caregiver, such as early mornings. Her compensation is based on her predetermined hours, and she also is provided with room and board.

A live-in nanny usually stays with a family five days a week. Hours are predetermined as well,

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years of experience, a clean driving record, CPR certification, and passing a variety of background checks that cover national and county criminal records, national sex offender and terrorist registries. The agency looks at the location of the family, and tries to pair them with nannies who live no more than 30 minutes away. The agency also considers the family’s needs and the nanny’s strengths. “If a family has toddlers and school age children, they’re going to want someone who is good at managing a lot of tasks and schedules,” Januskyte says. For more information, visit Monicare.com.

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UNPLUGGED & ACTIVE

Summer day camps offer options for that ‘in-between’ age group

By Allison Horne chool’s out for summer in just a few weeks, but what does a working parent do with 11 weeks and a child who’s too old for the sitter but too young to be home all day alone?

Local summer camps are a viable option for working parents this summer. With no video games, lazy days or down time during the day, parents can rest assured their children are getting valued supervision partnered with the most fun-filled summer they can possibly enjoy. “The connection they make with other children is great,” Sage YMCA youth and family summer day camp director Sue Owsiany says. “Camp also helps children stay healthy and active throughout the summer instead of sitting behind electronic devices.”

to do elsewhere,” Owsiany says. “We have a large wooden area to build forts and explore, and we also have a pool and other large facilities to enjoy even if the weather is bad.” One of the unique aspects that the Sage Day Summer Camp offers is a 30-minute daily reading program in addition to all the active activities. “In addition to getting those benefits of staying healthy throughout the summer, you also get that summer reading to help continue to challenge children to learn new skills,” Owsiany says. The daily Summer Camp at Sage also features a weekly field trip on Fridays, which range from bowling and laser tag to roller skating and even other YMCAs for various challenges.

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archery, tennis, and dodgeball to cooking, science and arts and crafts. A full list of available camps can be found on the Sage YMCA’s website.

Explore All That Nature Offers While the Sage YMCA offers a typical day camp for kids, the McHenry County Conservation District (MCCD) offers something a little different for children this summer. “Our whole mission is to help kids understand their natural environment,” says Deb Chapman, education services manager at the MCCD. “The big thing is that we are always outdoors and exploring nature.” The Conservation District offers three main all-day summer camps, including the Outdoor Adventure Camp, Conservation Day Camp and the Time Travelers Camp.

In addition to the daily Camp Sage, the YMCA also offers before and after care for children that McHenry County has several reasonably-priced have working parents who may not be able to pick Both the Outdoor Adventure Camp and options for parents looking for a legitimate way them up and drop them off within the 9 a.m. to 4 Conservation Day Camp are meant for ages for their children to spend the summer. p.m. time frame. 8-11, and both run from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. daily. Summer Camps at Sage “You can drop your children off as early as 6:30 The Outdoor Adventure Camp mainly focuses There is something for everyone this summer at a.m. and pick them up as late as 6 p.m. with the on outdoor activities and challenges like hiking, the YMCA’s Camp Sage. Designed for ages Pre-K before and after care, which is a nice bonus,” campfire building, crafts and much more, while through 8th grade, the 22-acre site has an indoor Owsiany says. the Conservation Day Camp will have all campers swimming pool, plenty of open land and other hiking, canoeing, and exploring the prairie and There also are fun add-ons for children that are wooded areas to explore. woodlands in the area as well as learning about looking for a little more adventure. “We have a lot of opportunities on-site so kids can These additional specialty camps run from 4 p.m. conservation and nature. explore and do other things they might not be able to 6 p.m. daily, and range from cheerleading, The Time Travelers Camp is a bit different than 50 | MAY 2015 | MCHENRY COUNTY MAGAZINE

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the other two, and features a more historic perspective on the area. “The Time Travelers Camp focuses on a different year in history in the area every day,” Chapman says. From the Native Americans to pioneer and farm life, kids get a crack at everything during the Time Travelers, including running into fur traders during a creek canoeing adventure.

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OPTIONS FOR TEENAGERS For teenagers who aren’t quite ready to give up summer camp, many camps in McHenry County offer a counselor-in-training option. “Teen leaders are responsible for helping guide children during camp hours, but are never left alone,” Owsiany says. The program allows teens to work side-by-side with camp counselors to help learn leadership skills and do weekly service projects and handson activities with campers. Because of the close contact with campers, all teen leaders must have graduated high school and be looking to go into the education field. adno=0315408

For those who still get satisfaction from going to camp, the MCCD’s Wild Things Camp offers something a little more intense for ages 12 to 15. The camp is more rigorous than others, and includes an overnight campout. “It’s definitely a psychically challenging camp, but it’s fun,” Chapman says.

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Over the course of 24 hours, all campers will participate in a borderline triathlon, which will include a 13-mile bike ride, two-mile hike and a seven-mile kayaking extravaganza before spending the night overnight in a tent.

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The ‘Sort Of’ Single Mom?

o, my husband and I are not getting divorced nor did he suffer an untimely death. He started traveling more for work, leaving me alone with the kids on a fairly regular basis.

Now, I have two disclaimers before I go on. Before you get any ideas about coming and breaking into my house knowing my husband may or may not be home, you should know we have turned our home into a virtual Fort Knox with an elaborate ADT security system complete with motion sensors and video surveillance. As if our dog — who threatens every passerby with her ferocious bark — wasn’t enough. The system also allows my husband to watch our every move while he’s gone, making sure I lock the front door and messing with me by turning lights on and off. I love my husband. He is a good man who loves our children and me very much. He provides a good life for us and I appreciate how hard he works despite his shortfalls in the areas of laundry and putting the kids to bed. Now that I have that clear, let’s talk about how our life has shifted over the last several months. My husband used to work downtown, which meant about three hours a day commuting. He also traveled out-of-town occasionally, so I’m no stranger to holding down the homestead on my own. Recently he took on a new role where he now works from home, but has to travel out-of-town slightly more — a trade-off for sure. When he’s home, he’s home. This helps me a great deal as we are getting the kids on and off the bus, doing homework, driving to after school activities, and it allows us to have

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dinner as a family more often. It also gives him some perspective on the chaos of our daily “routine.” Of course, having him around more often was a bit of an adjustment for me. I was used to a nice quiet house once the kids got on the bus. I was able to clean up the kitchen and have it stay clean for at least six hours. I was able to do my freelance writing in peace and quiet. I also was able to sneak in a nap before the kids got home.

I learned quickly that my sink never will be empty again as long as he is here [working from home]. I have since traded that for the man with The. Loudest. Voice. In. The. Universe. I had to put headphones on and listen to spa music to cancel out the sound of him all day long. To top it off, he has a wireless headset for his phone so he walks around the house and participates in conference calls making it hard for me to escape his real-life Glenngarry Glenn Ross speeches. I found myself coming up with errands, like taking all our change buckets to the bank, just to get out of the house. I learned quickly that my sink never will be empty again as long as he is here. I suppose the fact that he simply leaves his dishes for me to clean is better than the month’s supply of dirty Tupperware he would collect before bringing home, leaving me to FAMILY IN FOCUS

gag over the ungodly stench when I opened them. And just when I’ve gotten used to the volume of his voice and dishes, he’s gone on a four-day trip. At first I kind of enjoy the time and space and the fact that I have one less child to take care of. But that is quickly replaced with the fact that I miss having him around. I miss talking to him and hanging out at night after the kids go to bed, having dinner as a family and the extra set of hands. Of course, in no time, he arrives home. Most times he calls me on the way with a request for dinner. He returns with plenty of laundry, spreads his briefcase on the island in my kitchen and I quickly remember that having “an extra set of hands” can have two meanings. Best of all, he makes up for being gone all week by taking the kids to Toys R Us to buy Nerf guns and triggering a gun fight that riles the kids up right before bed. My prodigal son has arrived home and just like the story goes, all is forgiven. I am just happy to have him back.

Write This Down with Michelle Stien

• Michelle Stien is a stay-at-home mom of two children, ages 5 and 7. Her mother always told her to “write this down,” so she is sharing her experiences with McHenry County moms to help them deal with the craziness of being “Mom.”

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Baseball, Business, Bombs ... And The Women Of McHenry County

— With Jake Marino

ounds like a strange combination. What do all of these varying subjects have in common? All were processed within McHenry County thanks to the women of the community. Through the history of the area many women have played progressive roles in multiple industries.

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One name appearing in many headlines last year during the 100th anniversary of Wrigley Field was Margaret Donahue. This Huntley native, enticed away from her job at a laundry supply company, became secretary for the Chicago Cubs in 1919. In her nearly 40 years with the organization, she coordinated Women’s Day programs, instituted season tickets in 1929, and by the 1950s, became the first female vice president for a major league baseball team. Margaret Donahue retired in 1958 as a well-revered and respected figure in professional baseball.

the largest landowner in Huntley at the turn of the last century, owning large swaths of farmland as well as businesses downtown. Though he was known for his success, it also was widely understood that his success came largely due to his wife, Margaret. In the Huntley Centennial book, it was written that Margaret was “one of the most intelligent women in McHenry County,” and that it was because of her insight into business that her husband was able to thrive. From individual efforts to family affairs, area women also played important roles in the service to the United States. During WWII, Wm. Fencil Co., a producer of gaskets for products such as refrigerators and automobiles, constructed and operated a fuze plant for munitions southeast of Huntley. The complex was constructed of multiple shacks, where different steps in the process of making the fuzes were carried out. Though many women worked at the facility, one shack, called the pellet house, was staffed entirely by women and nicknamed “the hen house.” This part of the production involved loading the fuze with a charge of powder as well as inserting a fine piece of wire into the chamber for tripping the firing mechanism. These were important tasks requiring fine motor skills, which women performed best. This production line factored into the public recognition Fencil received for efficiency and success in manufacturing for the war effort.

Important female figures in the area were not a phenomenon when Margaret Donahue made history. One early example was Mrs. T. M. Cook, vice-president of the Farmers Exchange Bank in Huntley during the Jake Marino has been 1890s. Even being a family-run researching Huntley history bank, a woman holding such for over 15 years, and has amassed a collection of over a high position in the financial 800 pieces from between industry was quite unusual. A check written and issued in 1898 1854-1996. He is on the board for the Huntley made note of her position. Historic Preservation

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Gemstone Folklore — With Karly Bulinski, Steffans Jewelers

to be the stone that protects against drunkenness).

ver since the discovery of the first gemstone, people have been creating stories about how they came to exist in our world. Some make sense, while others are really wacky! Here are some of my favorite gemstone folklore and legends.

AMETHYST One day Dionysus — god of wine, celebration and intoxication — became enraged with the mortals and vowed to release his two ferocious tigers on the next mortal who crossed his path. That poor soul happened to be the sweet young maiden, Amethysta who was on her way to pay homage to the goddess Diana. Before she could make it to the temple, Dionysus unleashed his vicious tigers on Amethysta, but not before Diana turned her into a statue of gleaming clear quartz. Dionysus, realizing the error of his way, starting weeping tears of wine over the statue, which stained the quartz purple, thus creating the gemstone amethyst (which also happens

TOURMALINE To explain why tourmaline is found in almost every color, it is believed that tourmaline traveled from the heart of the Earth up to the sun and along the way it traveled through a rainbow collecting all of its colors.

JADE A legend says that a Chinese emperor once offered 15 cities in exchange for a jade carving that he could hold in one hand.

CLEAR QUARTZ Up until the 16th century, it was believed that clear quartz, or rock crystal, was water from the heavens that the gods had frozen into ice crystals, even the scientists prescribed to this speculation!

GOLDEN TOPAZ Golden topaz, or imperial topaz, once was believed to change color when it was in the presence of poisoned food or drink, making it the stone of choice for royal families.

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Update Your Look & Boost Your Career — With Lisa Ryan

two fine coats and comb through with utting our best face forward metal lash brush in-between coats for maximum length without a heavy look. If is not just about the way we look, it also reflects how you have problems with dark circles and/ we feel about ourselves on or fine lines under the eyes, do not apply mascara to bottom lashes. This will keep the inside. that area looking clearer and brighter Updating your look can boost your selfthroughout the day. confidence and make others take notice!

Here are some great tips for easy, time-saving makeup updates:

Foundation adjustment Re-evaluate your foundation to make sure it is keeping your skintone even and looking natural. If you choose a foundation that not only matches your skin color, but fits your skin type (dry, normal, oily, etc), your foundation will be more likely to stay on and look even all day long.

Camouflage

Try using a concealer to hide imperfections that foundation can’t cover. Blot concealer onto the area after foundation is applied, then blend with fingers or foundation brush. Add a light dusting of finishing powder to set.

Eyes

Choose natural matte shades that are a good fit with your skin tone and hair color (do not try to match your clothing). Use two complimentary shades (one medium depth and the other a bit lighter). Blend the medium shade on the lid and the lighter shade in the crease. This can be done on all eye shapes, and always looks professional.

Eyeliner

Use a blackened shade instead of pure black (blackened blue, green or purple are best). Apply to top of lid only. Then apply similar eye shadow shade under eye with thin angle brush. This will open and lighten up the eyes. Adding the similar shadow shade over the liner will also help keep the liner from “bleeding.”

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Choose a medium matte shade. Apply to the apple of the cheek. Clean off blush brush and brush over cheek to blend (gives an “airbrush” effect).

Lips

Step away from gloss and try a lipstick! Choose a deep peach or pink matte. Apply, blot, dust powder over, apply again, and blot. Should stay on all day!

Powder

Apply a finishing powder one shade darker than your skin tone. Dust lightly over face to set makeup. The deeper shade will give a natural bronzing effect to skin without looking too dark. This will keep the skin from looking too pale by adding a healthly-looking tone.

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HOG HEAVEN Bahama BBQ, Kentucky and Tennessee

— With Dave Faccone

Paradise covered with glimmering waters, the smell of coconut oil in the air and bikinis ver spring break, I headed down to the Bahamas with my everywhere. I mention this because my middle son thought he was in heaven and my younger wife and two of my boys to get a little rest and sunshine. son thought they all had cooties. This made for a very interesting dichotomy —what a We stayed in Paradise Island difference a few years makes, huh? Okay, I got and enjoyed everything the off track there, back to my story. Atlantis Resort had to offer. In between swimming with the dolphins, I think you could best describe this place as having tropical drinks with lunch and getting Disneyland on the beach. It has everything pounded by the awesome surf, we eventually you could possible think of to do. A tropical would make it to dinner. The resort had a restaurant for whatever struck your fancy — steak, Italian, all-you-can-eat buffets, French and seafood.

I could visit the kitchen? Delon left to make arrangements and returned several minutes later and introduced me to Chef Elton Bowleg. Elton is an extremely likable guy with a big smile. He took the boys and me on a tour of the kitchen which eventually got us to his smoker. Turns out he smokes on the same smoker I do, Ole Hickory Pits. We traded stories and both agreed how much we love our Ole Hickory Pits smokers.

I was so impressed with the family-style concept I now offer it at the Rib House every Sunday. Family Supper Sunday has become a very popular way for families to enjoy some down time together over some great barbecue. I never really thought about it, but most I noticed in a flier that they also had a historians say the islands are where barbecue barbecue restaurant named Virgil’s, which was down below street level. first got its start. You wouldn’t pass it unless you I left the Bahamas and drove from O’Hare were going there. I tell you this, Airport to Knoxville, Tennessee, with my oldest because my family knows I turn son for a football combine. On the way back, every vacation into a barbecue we stopped for barbecue. Hit several places quest. If there’s a barbecue joint in Kentucky and Tennessee and had a great around I’ll find it. Believe me, they sandwich called a Jailbreak at Smokey Bears get sick of it, so I had to hold off for a BBQ. Met lots of friendly folks who all love their few days before I suggested we take barbecue. a look at Virgil’s for dinner. Heading home with our bellies full, it got me to Once seated, I was talking with our thinking … driving or flying, no matter where I server Delon Clarke who explained that go, barbecue is the universal language. they served the entire menu family style — platters large enough to feed the table. We ordered some nachos as an appetizer and decided on brisket for our entrée. The brisket platter was as large as the nachos and both were excellent. I asked about their cooking process and the wood they used and whether

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with David Faccone David Faccone is the owner/ chef of Crystal Lake Rib House, Certified Kansas City BBQ Society Judge and Table Captain, and brings 30 years of experience in the restaurant business to McHenry County.

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Off The Beaten Path Five unique spots for Mother’s Day Brunch

Tapas Calpe

133 W Main St, Cary, IL (847) 639-3991 •TapasCalpeofCary.com Tapas Calpe is a unique blend of a neighborhood wine bar and Mediterranean bistro. Inspired by proprietor Nick Domanico’s travels through Europe, this old world bistro creates a charming and intimate environment for families wishing to make a memory this Mother’s Day. Brunch served from 10 a.m. – 2 p.m.

Baker House

327 Wrigley Dr, Lake Geneva, WI 262-248-4700 • BakerHouse1885.com

Woodstock Public House

Experience the most decadent mansion on the lake for Mother’s Day Champagne Brunch — with signature bananas foster French toast, and all the traditional brunch delights including pasta and carving stations, omelettes and Eggs Benedict made to order.

Join owners Kathryn and Brian Loprino in their new location — the Old Courthouse on historic Woodstock Square for a unique Mother’s Day experience among friends. Brunch menu includes favorites ranging from omelettes-to-order and French toast, to a sumptuous ham and herb encrusted pork tenderloin carving station. Brunch is served from 8:30 a.m. - 1 p.m.

Celebrating its 127th year, the Baker House mansion boasts panoramic views of Geneva Lake and English-style gardens from an enclosed wrap-around porch. Sit back and relax in the dramatically designed parlors, all fully appointed with vintage antiques and gilded age décor. Brunch served from 10 a.m. – 3 p.m.

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Montarra Grill

1491 S Randall Rd, Algonquin, IL 847-458-0505 • Montarra.com

Located in Algonquin, Montarra is the hidden gem of the Northwest Suburbs. As you enter you are welcomed by a blue Chihuly-inspired chandelier and a relaxing 20-foot water wall. Enjoy a brunch buffet with mom featuring entrées such as Hardwood Smoked Norwegian Salmon, Crème Brulee French Toast, and Tuscan Pork Porchetta. Paired with fresh baked local artisanal breads and pastries, fresh fruits and salads. Brunch served from 10 a.m. – 3 p.m.

Firewood Restaurant and Sports Lounge

2314 W. Rt. 120, McHenry, IL 815-578-9400 • FWGrill.com

Known for its expansive menu full of family favorites within a warm inviting atmosphere, Firewood is sure to satisfy everyone’s cravings. Mother’s Day Brunch includes Firewood Stations from omelettes and waffles, to meat carving and desserts … something for everyone. Brunch served from 9 a.m. – 2 p.m. 64 | MAY 2015 | MCHENRY COUNTY MAGAZINE

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RAUE CENTER FOR THE ARTS ANNUAL STARGAZERS BALL Supporters for Raue Center for the Arts dressed their best for the annual Stargazers Ball. Guests gambled for raffle tickets during this yearâ€™s Casino Royale-themed event. Photos by Joe Perez

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The 2015 class of Women of Distinction and friends gathered at the Starline Gallery in Harvard for a casual meet-and-greet cocktail party. There are 13 honorees this year who were nominated by peers and chosen by an independent panel. For more about these unique women, see page 20. Photos by FromMCHENRY Me 2 You COUNTY Photography MAGAZINE | MAY 2015 | 67

Turn The Corner Center helps domestic abuse victims achieve independence By Hannah Peterson

wenty-four people per minute in the United States are victims of rape, physical violence or stalking by an intimate partner, according to information from the National Domestic Violence Hotline. That is more than 12 million women and men over the course of one year. Agencies like Turning Point of McHenry County are working to change this statistic. Founded in 1980, Turning Point is a domestic abuse center which began as a few women choosing to take action against intolerable abuse in the homes of their friends and neighbors at a time in our history when the issue often was viewed as a “family matter” rather than a criminal one. In the face of what the women viewed as an unacceptable level of disregard, they took initiative and started an emergency help line for victims in the community. As word spread about their work, other concerned volunteers came forward to address the issue of violence against women. As

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a result, Turning Point was incorporated in May of 1981. Last year, Turning Point responded to more than 3,000 emergency calls for support, says Hans Mach, development director at Turning Point.

On average, it takes a victim seven attempts before leaving an abuser. — Hans Mach, development director at Turning Point

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“Of those calls, both adult men and women, and children as young as 5, were provided support from our programs and service nights in the emergency shelter,” says Mach. Sometimes the biggest challenge is getting a victim to seek support. “On average, it takes a victim seven attempts before leaving an abuser,” says Mach. The rationale behind remaining in such a relationship is varied — fear of increase in the danger by leaving, the fear of losing their children, or the fear that no one will believe the abuse is actually occurring. Language barriers, isolation and apprehension about potential treatment by law enforcement and court officials also can play a part. “Whatever the barrier, it has to be the client’s choice to flee that relationship, and making that decision is always hard for them,” says Mach. When the client finally chooses to leave and seek help, those at Turning Point are ready and willing to handle their case with the utmost care and confidentiality. n w h e r a l d . c o m /m a g a z i n e

“When a client contacts the McHenry County Crisis Line, they are patched over to Turning Point’s offices where they speak directly with a domestic violence advocate,” says Mach. An average call lasts approximately 30 minutes, during which an advocate will listen to the client and present options based on each unique situation. Once a client and their advocate decide on a course of action, that action begins immediately. Whether it is providing a room for the client and their children at the Emergency Shelter, providing counseling, or simply encouraging them to attend group therapy sessions. Alternatively, the advocate can assist clients in securing an Order of Protection document, should the client choose, a legal action calling for the abuser to be removed from the home.

we are grateful for their time and expertise,” says Mach. Volunteers have the opportunity to work directly with clients or indirectly for the agency. All volunteers must complete a 40-hour domestic violence training course, a background check, and sign confidentiality agreements. Turning Point also accepts donations, which support the services offered to clients.

Turning Point always is looking for volunteers to support the mission.

“Turning Point cannot charge clients for victim services in accordance with the Illinois Domestic Violence Act. Therefore, we heavily rely on contributions from organizations, corporations, and individuals in the community,” says Mach. Donations are used for such things as a night in the shelter for an adult client, paying for a taxi ride to the courthouse for an order of protection, counseling sessions for survivors, or shelter for a mother and child.

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Domestic violence is unusual. FACT: 1 in 4 women, and 1 in 7 men, will experience relationship violence in their lifetimes.

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“Anything and everything can help get a client and or their family back on track to a new and safer life,” says Mach.

It’s impossible to love someone who abuses you. FACT: The victim often can still see a glimpse of the person they once fell in love with, and though the victim feels so much shame and embarrassment over the fact that they love someone who is abusive to them, it’s difficult to let them go. Domestic violence happens when someone flies out of control. FACT: Domestic violence is a pattern of behavior in which one exerts extreme power and control over another individual. Domestic violence is always physical. FACT: Intimate partner violence exists on a continuum of behaviors. Abuse can be emotional, psychological, verbal, and/or sexual, and often escalates. If someone abuses you, it is an obvious decision to leave the relationship. FACT: An abusive partner is likely not abusive at every moment of the day. It is a very complex situation, and the abuse is not necessarily what defines the relationship. There’s no good reason for a victim not to call the police. FACT: Calling the police is a lifesaver for many

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women. But many hesitate because they don’t want their partner to go to jail, or because they fear that calling may make the violence worse. Some worry that the police also may act violently. Police are first responders and can save your life. They can also be a connection to necessary resources — including Turning Point. Women abuse men just as often as men abuse women. FACT: The truth is relationship violence does happen to men. The numbers are significantly higher among women, but men experience it too from both female and male abusers. Most men, though, are less likely to report their abuse. But, for every 1 man hospitalized by domestic violence, there are 46 women who go to the hospital because of domestic violence (based on national statistics).

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months, clients in the community have come up to me and stated that Turning Point has saved their lives,” says Mach. “Please let us help you, too!” For more information about Turning Point of McHenry County, visit MchenryCountyTurningPoint.org If you are a victim of domestic abuse in need of help, contact the McHenry County Crisis Line at 1-800-892-8900, or the National Hotline 1-800799-SAFE.

Domestic violence only happens to women who are poor, dependent, or uneducated. FACT: Domestic violence does not discriminate. It transcends all socio and economic levels of society. Of the 22,000 calls a month received by the National Domestic Violence Hotline, victims range from every socioeconomic class, every race, every education level, every geographic region. Drugs and alcohol cause domestic violence. FACT: Drug and alcohol use can be exacerbating factors for violent individuals, but they don’t cause violence — rather, they can lower the inhibitions of already violent people. Tough love is the best way to help a victim of violence. FACT: Pushing victims to leave is the worst thing to do. They have to make the choice to leave the abusive relationship themselves. What we tell friends and family is don’t give up on them. The best thing is to listen, to understand, to say that it’s very complicated but that you’re worried about their safety and are they willing to sit and speak with someone. Turning Point relies on the victim to contact the agency directly and does not accept referrals from friends and family who may be aware of or suspect abuse.

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SleepOut Success Community Foundation to help Pioneer Center fund programs for the homeless

McHenry County’s largest social service agency is partnering with the McHenry County Community Foundation to help fund local programs for the homeless. The Community Foundation agreed recently to a two-to-one match of every dollar raised through SleepOut for Shelter, up to $100,000. SleepOut

is the largest fundraising event put on annually by PADS, a division of Pioneer Center for Human Services. This year, SleepOut is scheduled for May 9 at The Church of the Holy Apostles in McHenry. Participants pay a small entry fee or seek pledges, and then spend the night outside, sleeping under the stars in tents, boxes or cars. At the event, participants enjoy a bonfire, food and drink, live music, storytelling, games and more. But area residents don’t have to spend the night outside to participate. Anyone can sponsor an individual or family who plans to sleep out. Visit SleepOutForShelter.org for more information. Last year, Pioneer/PADS served 394 local residents through its homeless program. Of those, 174 stayed in overnight shelters hosted by county churches. PADS’ 2015 operating budget is $714,051. Of that, only $65,000 comes from the state of Illinois. An additional $95,000 comes from the United Way of McHenry County, and about $24,000 is generated through fees for service. The U.S. Department of Housing and Urban

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Development had contributed $105,000 annually, but that funding was cut this year. Pioneer/PADS is left with a deficit of more than $530,000. That gap has to be filled through community donations. With the HUD funding cut, Pioneer/PADS approached McHenry County Community Foundation Executive Director Robin Doeden about a potential partnership. “We are so excited about it,” Doeden said. The Foundation found a donor who was willing to contribute the two-to-one match, she said. The donor wished to remain anonymous. Last year, the MCCF donated more than $1 million to 75 local organizations. All of its funding comes from community donors. No taxpayer dollars are used. Photos provided

“It’s individuals. It’s families. It’s businesses,” Doeden said. “It’s all private donations.” Pioneer/PADS needs to raise $50,000 through SleepOut to receive the full $100,000 match. Last year’s event raised $71,000 and more than 500 people participated.

• Edited from a column by Dan McCaleb, Pioneer Center Board member and editorial director of Shaw Media, publisher of McHenry County Magazine.

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DOUGLAS VISONA Crystal Lake “AQUA BEAUTY” Collage Represents a tropical coral scene. Douglas Visona is a collagist (one who makes collage). To his friends, he is called the “Collage Master.” Having a theme in mind, Visona starts by taking the colored parts out of magazines and begins gluing them to a pressed boardtype backing. Upon looking into a scene, the viewer begins seeing the various squares and free form pieces of magazine that completes the piece. He then covers the piece with a polymer liquid hardener that hardens to a glass-like finish. Framing is the last step to completion. Some of his work can be seen at “Enlightened Balance” located in downtown Crystal Lake.

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private gardens in McHenry County that have been featured on their garden walks in the past. For more information, go to CrystalLakeParks.org. May 15 — War of the Worlds, 8 p.m., Woodstock Opera House, 121 W Van Buren St., Woodstock Celebrate the life and career of Orson Welles in the place where it all began — Woodstock — during the Orson Wells Centennial Festival. As fans worldwide host celebrations of Welles’ 100th birthday, the city he called home will host two performances on the same stage where he once performed. RG Productions will perform a theatrical May 6 — Paint & Sip at Fire Bar, 7 to 9:30 p.m. recreation of “War of the Worlds,” Orson Welles’ and Fire Bar & Grill, 435 Angela Lane, Crystal Lake the Mercury Theatre’s 1938 radio broadcast that No experience necessary! The instructor will guide took the world by storm. This encore performance you every step of the way. Leave with a masterpiece thrilled the audience at the 2014 Orson Welles you created yourself. To reserve you easel or for Festival at the Opera House. Tickets are $23 Adult & more information, go to MuseArt.info or call 815$13 Student. For more information or to purchase 790-6323. tickets, go to WoodstockOperahouse.com. May 7 — Music of the Civil War on Hammered May 16 — Walk and Roll, 8:30 a.m. to noon, Dulcimer Featuring Phil Passen, 7 to 8:30 p.m. Moraine Hills State Park, 1510 S. River Road, McHenry Public Library, 809 Front St., McHenry McHenry Music of the Civil War seems right at home on the Come Walk and Roll on a 5K path around beautiful unique hammered dulcimer, which was popular Moraine Hills State Park in McHenry. The Walk then. Many tunes and songs in this program and Roll will benefit handicapped accessibility. are still familiar today, such as “When Johnny Wheelchair bound participants are welcome. Comes Marching Home”; “The Battle Hymn of the Registration is $30 for adults and $10 for children Republic”; and “Tramp, Tramp, Tramp, the Boys are (ages 4-10). Snacks and water will be provided. For Marching.” For ages 18 & up. Price: Free. For more more information call 815-790-9713. information, email mplref@mchenrylibrary.org or May 16-17 — Spring Fiber Fling, 9 a.m. McHenry call 815-385-0036. County Fair, 11900 Country Club Road, Woodstock May 8 — McHenry Bingo, 7 p.m. Woodstock VFW The McHenry County Fair’s Spring Fiber Fling is an Post 5040, 240 N. Throop St., Woodstock educational event focused on fiber and the process Dinner available at 5 p.m. Proceeds benefit families from “Sheep to Shawl.” We will have different battling pediatric cancer. Price: Regular book livestock show and two buildings set up for crafters, of cards start at $5; Specials $1-$5. For more artisans and fiber related venders with booths information, go to MchenryBingo.com or call 815set up to sell everything from fiber art supplies 338-5040. (wool, knitting needles, crochet hooks, cloth, etc.) to finished products (handmade items). A third May 11 — The Sustainable Garden, 7 to 8:30 p.m., McHenry Public Library, 809 Front St., McHenry building is set up for classrooms where you can sign up to take a class. Our instructors will be teaching Let’s create gardens that have the capacity to different skill sets at different experience levels. endure and the ability to replenish themselves. We The classes will consist of, but are not limited to, will discuss water usage, irrigation techniques, storm water management along with water storage. spinning, weaving, quilting, sewing, knitting, and Plant choices, composting, mulching and hardscape fiber animal management classes. choices will also be covered. Price: Free. For more May 20 — Photography Club, 7 to 8:30 p.m. information, email mplref@mchenrylibrary.org or Johnsburg Public Library, 3000 N. Johnsburg Road, call 815-385-0036, ext. 301. 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