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Explore options in engagement rings METRO NEWS SERVICE Engagement rings are often sizable investments. Money magazine reports the average engagement ring costs around $5,800. An engagement ring symbolizes the start of a lifelong commitment and may even set the tone for a couple’s wedding day.

Jewelry styles are personal, and groomsto-be should carefully research their significant others’ preferences in terms of precious metals, colors and gemstones.

Even though tradition holds that a diamond gemstone is classic for engagement rings, these precious stones are not the only options.

In fact, before World War II, just 10 percent of proposals involved diamond engagement rings. That number jumped to 80 percent by 1990.

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Metro News Service Couples have many beautiful alternatives to diamonds that they can explore when shopping for engagement rings.

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However, many modern couples now lean toward other offerings not only for the uniqueness they provide, but also for the potential cost savings.

Those seeking something unique can embrace these engagement ring options.

• Amethyst: This vibrant, lavender-hued stone can be breathtaking when cut the correct way. Purple shades have long been associated with royalty, making an amethyst fitting for such an occasion as special as an engagement. Because amethysts, which are less expensive than diamonds, are a seven on the Mohs scale for gemstone hardness, they can be very durable.

• Knot rings: These rings do not have a center stone. Rather, they’re designed to be a tied knot or infinity symbol. These rings can be particularly sentimental as they represent true, unbroken love.

• Opal: Gemstones, like flowers, have been assigned certain meanings. Tying the engagement ring to one of them can infuse more symbolism into the relationship. Opal, for example, represents love, passion, creativity, spontaneity and inspiration. Those traits seem tailor-made for surprise proposals.

• Sapphire: While sapphire stones often are blue, they can also be yellow, green, pink and white. Sapphires are the third hardest mineral. A white sapphire can be the perfect diamond replacement.

• Garnet or ruby: Red is the definitive color of love. A Valentine’s Day proposal can be made even more special by presenting an engagement ring with a red gemstone.

• Moissanite: The jewelry source Brilliant Earth says moissanite is a gemstone first discovered in 1893 by Henri Moissan in a meteorite that fell to earth. It is remarkably similar to a diamond in appearance and strength. Moissanite also has heightened brilliance, with a refractive index higher than that of a diamond.

Couples have many beautiful alternatives to diamonds that they can explore when shopping for engagement rings.

4 C’s of diamonds: carat, color, clarity, cut Diamonds are the stone of choice for engagement rings and wedding jewelry. Diamonds are durable and remain a timeless way to complement every style.

Anyone who is about to purchase a diamond is encouraged to do their research about selecting quality diamonds. At the heart of the diamond grading process are the 4 Cs of diamond quality. The Cs refer to carat weight, color grade, clarity grade and cut grade. The Gemological Institute of America helped to create the Diamond 4 Cs and the International Diamond Grading System. These benchmarks are used to classify all diamonds.

The following is the GIA’s explanation of each component of the system.

• Carat: Diamond carat weight is the measurement of how much the diamond weighs and is equivalent to 200 milligrams per carat. Each carat is subdivided into 100 points. Therefore, a one-carat diamond is 1.00, or 100 points, while a 25-point diamond is .25 carats. Naturally, larger diamonds can be more rare and desirable.

• Color: A white diamond is more valuable the less color it contains.

GIA uses a D-to-Z grading system to determine a diamond’s color value. D would be a colorless diamond and Z the most saturated with color.

• Clarity: Diamonds are formed by carbon exposed to heat and pressure.

Natural internal characteristics known as inclusions and external components called blemishes are the norm. The closer the gem comes to being perfectly pure without inclusions or blemishes, the greater the value.

• Cut: To transmit light and sparkle, diamonds have to be cut precisely and with great artistry. A diamond will be further graded based on symmetry and proportions, as well as how the stone returns light. Brightness, which is the internal and external white light reflected; fire, or the scattering of white light into rainbow colors; and scintillation, or the sparkle the diamond produces, are factored into how the cut is valued.

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Tips for a successful marriage proposal METRO NEWS SERVICE People ready to “pop the question” may wonder about the right way to initiate an engagement proposal.

Because a marriage proposal is such a memorable moment in a couple’s lives together, those doing the proposing often go to great lengths to ensure things go smoothly.

While there is no proposal playbook, these guidelines can assist those ready to take the leap.

• Add a personal touch. It’s easy to get caught up in making a marriage proposal a spectacle or something worthy of a social media post. But taking a sweetheart back to a special place that recalls a significant moment can set the backdrop for a memorable proposal. Incorporating the place you first met or a special song into the proposal can make it that much more personal and meaningful.

• Embrace the old fashioned. It may be romantic to step back in time and follow the traditions of yesteryear. Show respect to future in-laws by speaking to them about intentions to propose and ask for their blessings. Get down on bended knee when asking for a sweetheart’s hand. Such

Marriage proposals happen every day. With humor, confidence and a heart full of love, popping the question can be a success.

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gestures add up to meaningful expressions of love.

• Consider timing. A person may be so excited to propose that he or she fails to consider how the other person in the relationship is feeling. If that person is overwhelmed by work projects or stressed about upcoming events, consider waiting to propose at a more relaxed time.

• Enlist help from others. It can be a challenge to keep your excitement hidden while collecting information about a future spouse’s likes and dislikes. Ask friends and close family members to be

your accomplices so that information can be gathered without generating suspicion.

This can be especially helpful when finding the perfect ring.

• Keep it simple. The more complex a proposal, the more opportunities for things to go wrong. Simplicity, even if it means keeping the proposal to yourself until the question has been popped, can make for an extra special moment.

Marriage proposals happen every day.

With humor, confidence and a heart full of love, popping the question can be a success.

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Various factors can affect the length of a couple’s engagement METRO NEWS SERVICE Each year, millions of couples around the world tie the knot. But before couples walk down the aisle, the proposal to get married must take place.

Many couples mutually agree to get engaged, while the experience may be a surprise for others who have thought about it, but may not have been sure when one partner or another would “pop the question.”

Upon getting engaged, couples may ponder how long their engagement should last.

There is no perfect answer, and engagement length typically depends on personal preference and the needs of the couple.

In fact, according to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study, the average length of an engagement is 14.5 months.

A number of factors affect the length of a couple’s engagement, and couples should not feel as if they need to hurry down the aisle.

For example, couples who will be financ-

Metro News Service Upon getting engaged, couples may ponder how long their engagement should last. ing their own weddings may need a longer engagement than those whose parents will be chipping in. In such instances, longer engagements give couples more time to save and may help them ensure their weddings are everything they hoped for.

Others may prefer a shorter engagement if they are financially stable and prepared

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to tie the knot. Couples in their late 30s may feel the tug of a biological clock and want to ensure there is ample time to get married and have children. A shorter engagement can facilitate that.

Some couples may have little choice in the matter, as the length of their engagements may be dictated by the availability of their favorite venues.

Military deployment, work commitments, medical issues or travel responsibilities also may affect the length of an engagement.

Some couples may feel that an especially lengthy engagement diminishes their excitement about getting married. That “new engagement shine” can wear off as family and friends wait months or years for the wedding to take place.

Couples generally are advised to stick with what feels right to them regarding the length of their engagements. Just like all aspects of the wedding, couples can weigh the opinions of others but follow through with what works best for them.

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Factors to consider before choosing a wedding venue METRO NEWS SERVICE Once couples become engaged and share the good news with their friends and families, the next step is to begin planning their weddings.

While couples must make myriad decisions during the wedding planning process, perhaps none is more significant than where to tie the knot.

According to The Knot Real Weddings Study, the average cost of a wedding for couples who married in a recent year was $35,329. That’s a sizable amount, and a big portion of that was spent on the wedding venue.

The Real Weddings Study found that couples spent an average of $16,107 on their wedding venues. That figure easily dwarfs the next biggest expense ($6,163 for the engagement ring) for couples tying the knot.

Because the wedding venue comes with such a potentially high sticker price, couples should give ample consideration to a host of factors before choosing where to get married.

Size Until they can agree on a guest list, couples might want to delay even looking for venues. However, some couples might want to first look at some venues so they can determine just how many guests they can afford to invite. Whether they’re hosting small affairs or large parties, couples should choose venues that can comfortably accommodate all of their guests. If possible, look for venues with multiple reception areas, which might allow for some wiggle room if the guest list grows or dwindles during the planning process.

Availability Some couples might have an ideal time of year they hope to get married. Some even know the exact date they hope to get married.

While that can help with the planning, it can also limit couples with regard to their venue options. Some venues may be booked for as much as a year or more in advance during peak wedding season. The Real Weddings Study found that the most popular months to get married were October and September. Couples who hope to follow suit may need to book their wedding venues well in advance. Those who can be more flexible regarding their wedding dates may find it easier to book their dream venues.

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Metro News Service While couples must make myriad decisions during the wedding planning process, perhaps none is more significant than where to tie the knot.

Insurance Ask about the venue’s insurance policies, including the policies the venue has to protect itself. In addition, ask if the venue requires couples to have their own wedding liability insurance for protection in the event of injury, property damage or incidents related to alcohol. Couples may also want to make the investment in cancellation/postponement insurance, and some venues may even require it.

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bottom line when choosing wedding venues, but it’s also important that they get a complete grasp of the financials before choosing a wedding venue. Ask about the amount of the initial deposit and if that deposit is refundable.

In addition, ask when the deposit is due and when each subsequent payment is due until the balance is paid in full. This can make budgeting easier and planning less stressful.

Couples should have fun choosing their wedding venues while recognizing that certain factors must be given ample consideration before signing any contracts.

Engagement photos celebrate engagement, provide benefits METRO NEWS SERVICE During their engagements, couples will make many decisions in regard to their weddings. Wedding planning can sometimes seem like a runaway train of appointments, schedules and deadlines. As a result, some couples do not take the time to enjoy being engaged, which is a special and unique time in their lives.

Engagement photo shoots can be a unique way for couples to commemorate and enjoy the months preceding their weddings. Engagement photos memorialize the engagement and provide many additional benefits as well.

1. Engagement photo shoots give couples a chance to connect with their photographers. Booking an engagement photo shoot provides helpful information to both the couple and the photographer. The photographer gets to see how the couple interacts in front of the lens and can determine any insecurities or strengths and weaknesses couples may have. These lessons can be filed away and help make wedding day photos look better.

Similarly, spending time with the photographer gives the couple an opportunity to develop a rapport with their photographer.

If couples and their photographer don’t click, scheduling an engagement shoot well in advance of the wedding gives couples a chance to find someone else to take their photos.

2. An engagement photo shoot gives couples time to spend together. An engagement photo shoot is an ideal time to spend an afternoon in a special location focusing on each other without wedding planning taking up your time.

3. Photo shoots provide a chance to get comfortable in front of the camera. Profes-

Metro News Service Engagement photos memorialize the engagement and provide many additional benefits as well. Engagement photo shoots can be a unique way for couples to commemorate and enjoy the months preceding their weddings. cards or social media postings (check with the photographer for licensing agreements). This can be a great way to spread excitement about the upcoming nuptials.

5. Photo shoots provide a chance to experiment with vivid backdrops. Engagement photography gives couples plenty of opportunities to experiment with different locales, which may not be possible come the wedding day.

Engagement photography can be a worthwhile inclusion in pre-wedding celebrations.

sional photographs taken before the wedding enables couples to view how they will appear in pictures. Seeing these photos might help couples grow more comfortable in front of the camera. This practice can help couples temper their anxieties prior to the wedding. An engagement shoot also can be a great time for couples to speak with their photographers about angles or styles they prefer or dislike.

4. The bride and groom have save-thedate or social media photos. Engagement photographs can be used for save-the-date

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Wedding costs can vary greatly, depending on preferences METRO NEWS SERVICE Newly engaged couples may experience an array of emotions when they sit down to plan their weddings. Some couples cannot wait to jump into planning and want to catalog every aspect of the process, while others may proceed with caution because they don’t know what to expect — particularly in regard to cost.

Many couples find it difficult to create their wedding budgets because they have no previous experience to draw on. The wedding planning adviser CostofWedding. com indicates the average wedding cost in the United States is $26,720, with most people spending between $20,000 and $34,000.

Such costs can vary greatly depending on couples’ preferences, including where they hope to tie the knot.

By breaking down wedding expenses, couples can get a clearer picture of how much they may need to pay for their weddings and where they may need to cut costs.

• Reception site: According to The Knot, a premiere wedding planning resource, couples can expect their receptions to eat up the largest chunk of their wedding budgets.

Wedding reception venues may cost between $10,000 and $15,000. The average price for catering per person is roughly $70. Bar service may be around $2,000 for a three- to fourhour party. Some reception sites combine the room cost with the food and beverage costs, while others have à la carte fees.

• Cake: Wedding cakes tend to be multitiered intricate designs, so they will cost more than birthday cakes. According to Statistics Brain, wedding dessert will come in around $390.

• Music: The Knot says wedding bands cost around $3,500, which is more than twice as much as hiring a deejay ($1,200).

Soloists or ceremony musicians may cost around $650.

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• Transportation: Limousines and other transportation prices vary depending on the vehicle(s) couples choose. The Knot notes that budgeting between $400 and $500 for transportation might be wise.

• Wedding gown: Brides-to-be should expect their gowns to cost around $1,100 and the veil or headpiece to be roughly $120, according to the Association of Bridal Consultants.

• Photography and video: Preserving wedding day memories costs around $2,800 for video and photography services, based on data from Statistics Brain.

The smaller details, such as accessories, gifts, officiant fees, stationery, spa services and favors can quickly add up as well.

Couples should be sure to leave some wiggle room in their budgets for incidental expenses that may pop up.

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Metro News Service A crash course in wedding terminology can help couples make more informed choices along the way.

It’s a good idea to get schooled on wedding terminology METRO NEWS SERVICE Couples about to embark on their wedding journeys will likely learn a thing or two about party planning once their engagements are over and they are newly married.

Wedding planning can seem overwhelming and a tad confusing at times, but a crash course in wedding terminology can help couples make more informed choices along the way.

• Blusher: A short, single-layer veil that covers the bride’s face before the ceremony.

• Boutonnière: A single flower bud worn by the men in the bridal party.

• Canapés: Bite-sized appetizers served during the cocktail hour of a reception.

• Civil ceremony: A marriage ceremony conducted by a council official or justice of the peace at a municipal location rather than in a house of worship.

• Cocktail hour: Typically an hour-long interlude between the wedding ceremo-

ny and the main dinner of the reception.

Guests have time to arrive and mingle before being seated.

• Corkage fee: A fee some establishments charge to allow guests to bring their own wine.

• Dais: A podium or platform raised from the floor where the bride and groom are seated.

• Deposit: A percentage of the total cost of service given to a vendor to secure a date for their services.

• Dragées: Round, small edible balls of sugar that appear on wedding cakes.

• Escort (seating) cards: Printed cards that direct reception guests to their seats.

• Fondant: A sweet, plyable product used to decoratively cover layered cakes.

It can be used in lieu of straight buttercream.

• Handle wrap: Ribbon or fabric that wraps around the stems of a bouquet the bride and wedding party carries.

• Maid/matron of honor: The title given to the woman who assists the bride and

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• Master of ceremonies: An individual who will work with the DJ or band to announce the various components of the wedding reception.

• Nosegay: A small bouquet or flower arrangement typically given to the mothers of the bride and groom before the ceremony.

• Processional/Recessional: Musical pieces that mark the entrance and exit from the wedding ceremony.

• Receiving line: A line of the key people in the wedding who welcome and greet guests.

• Stationery: All of the paper products used at the wedding, including invitations, programs and enclosures.

• Tablescape: A word that describes the multiple components of centerpiece designs.

Learning some basic wedding terminology can simplify wedding planning.

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Make exercise, other healthy habits a part of wedding prep METRO NEWS SERVICE After the big question is popped and loving partners decide to spend their lives together as a married couple, a whirlwind of activity will ensue.

Although wedding planning is exciting, some couples may feel overwhelmed with all the decisions that need to be made before they can tie the knot. In this state of increased pressure, stress may build and health could falter.

According to a Cor nell University study, more than 70 percent of bridesto-be have weight loss on the brain, but shedding pounds shouldn’t be the only health factor to consider.

Here are some easy ways to stay mentally and physically fit in advance of a happy wedding day.

• Get daily exercise. Exercise is important for maintaining a healthy body weight and keeping stress levels in check. Exercise also can boost mood.

The Department of Health and Human Services recommends getting at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity or 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity each week. Strength training exercises performed at least twice a week complete a well-balanced exercise regimen.

• Slow down and relax. Those who go full-throttle with all of their responsibilities — including wedding planning — may burn out. Stress can weaken the immune system and make people vulnerable to illness.

Schedule some time for date nights with your fiancé, and don’t overlook the benefits of hanging out with friends and getting away from wedding planning for a bit.

• Eat body-boosting foods. The foods we eat can impact everything from energy levels to skin radiance. Foods like berries, sweet potatoes, broccoli, greens, green tea and dark chocolate all contain antioxidants that boost the immune sys-

tem, states The Food Network. Avoid drastic diets that can do more harm than good.

Simply cutting 500 calories a day can help the average person lose a pound per week if weight loss is a goal. Simple ways to trim calories are to choose skim milk over whole milk and choose low-calorie snacks.

• Cut down on alcohol consumption. Toasting to the future with a glass

of wine may become rote in the months leading up to the wedding, but alcohol is a diuretic and a source of liquid calories.

Alcoholic beverages dehydrate the body and cause it to hold onto water. When imbibing, stick to low-calorie cocktails like a vodka spritzer (60 to 80 calories) instead of a calorie-laden frozen margarita (300 calories).

Feeling and looking one’s best starts long before the wedding day. By making health a priority, couples can start their new lives together on healthy footing.

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How to handle rain on your wedding day METRO NEWS SERVICE Brides and grooms fear the prospects of rainy wedding days. But even couples who have contended with everything from a few drops to an all-out deluge on their wedding days look back fondly on the ceremonies and receptions.

In fact, how couples handle any precipitation can affect how happy the festivities may be.

• Have a rainy day game plan. Rain affects outdoor wed-

dings more than any other type of ceremony or reception. If the goal is to exchange vows outdoors, work with the venue to make this possible with a tent or gazebo. However, if the weather is especially foul and windy, move it indoors.

• Invest in golf umbrellas.

Couples who live in notoriously damp climates can purchase golf umbrellas, which tend to be larger than the average umbrella, and keep them stationed in decorated stands to ease transitions between wedding sites and keep everyone as dry as possible.

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• Move past it quickly. It is OK to get upset if the weather turns for the worse. But don’t dwell on it. Guests will sense negative energy, and couples should set the tone of sticking it through despite a little adversity — which can be a good lesson for the marriage as well.

• Embrace the rain. While a couple probably won’t wish for rain, there are some benefits to overcast skies, say the wedding professionals at Brides magazine. Flowers are less likely to wilt in rainy conditions. In the absence of bright sunlight, outdoor photographs can really pop. Rain is romantic and may compel couples and their guests to cuddle close.

Don’t let rain on a wedding day become a drag. With preparation and perspective, couples can handle rainy wedding days.

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wedding day can select a site that can host the ceremony and reception and also house guests. The cost of such facilities may be more affordable than couples think, as transportation costs will be minimal and the venue may offer discounts on group packages.

2. Think about a day coordinator.

Couples who cannot afford a wedding planner to handle all of the details often find that a day-of-service provider is within their budget. This person can handle all of the details of the wedding day so brides and grooms can fully immerse themselves in the festivities.

3. Bring extra cash. Unexpected expenses may pop up. Couples may have to feed an extra member of the band or a guest who was able to get a babysitter at the last minute.

Brides and grooms may want to offer a bigger tip than anticipated to the waitstaff or deejay who went above and beyond.

4. Learn how to bustle. Walking around with a free-flowing train all day can become tiring for brides. Brides should make sure that one person practices how to bustle the train and will step in to do so for the reception. Also, it may not be the height of fashion, but having a

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garbage bag on hand can keep the train clean during inclement weather, or if the bride has to trek across grass or soil for photo opportunities.

5. Give an outgoing person a job.

Enlist a boisterous friend or family member to wrangle guests for photo opportunities. He or she can be the photographer’s helper and give the happy couple one less thing to do.

6. Stock the bathroom. Some venues will have courtesy items for their guests, but couples also should bring their own necessities, such as breath mints, toothpaste, extra pantyhose, hairspray, lip gloss, and/or sanitary pads.

7. Be all smiles. Couples can’t predict everything that will happen on their wedding day, but they can help create the mood.

Smiling couples can make things better for everyone, even when zippers break or someone gets the chicken instead of the salmon.

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From sending out engagement announcements to gifting guests with take-home favors, a couple will pour over scores of details as they plan their weddings.

As if selecting a photographer or choosing the right passed appetizers isn’t challenging enough, some unknown variables are sure to pop up on the big day as well. Couples can take their cues from others who have walked the aisle before them with these tricks of the trade, which may help couples’ wedding days go smoothly.

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Honeymoons: Factors to consider METRO NEWS SERVICE Engaged couples spend lots of time and money planning their weddings. The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study found that the average couple who married in 2017 spent more than $33,000 on their weddings.

If that figure raises eyebrows, couples may be even more surprised to learn it does not include the cost of a honeymoon.

Honeymoons often mark couples’ first trip together after tying the knot. The 2017 Real Weddings Study found that the average engagement length in 2017 was 14 months, and many couples are no doubt ready for a getaway after spending more than a year planning their weddings.

Whether couples are working with shoestring budgets or have some financial flexibility, it’s wise to consider various factors before choosing a honeymoon destination.

• Distance: A remote, exotic island might sound like the perfect place for couples to visit on their honeymoons. However, couples who spent more than a year planning their weddings may prefer somewhere less remote than an exotic isle that requires multiple flight transfers and possibly even days of travel to get to.

Couples should discuss how much travel

Metro News Service Couples should consider a host of factors before choosing a honeymoon destination. they’re willing to endure during their honeymoons, and then find somewhere that both partners are excited about.

• Amenities: Many resorts offer honeymoon packages that include a host of ame-

nities, including all-inclusive food and beverage, spa access, access to water sports, and even airport pickup and dropoff. Such packages can save couples substantial amounts of money, which can help those who might have spent more on their weddings than they initially intended.

• Recreation: Couples also may want to consider the accessibility of local recreational activities before choosing a honeymoon destination. Some couples may just want to spend the duration of their honeymoons unwinding on a beach, while others may want to mix relaxation with exploration.

All-inclusive resort packages may or may not include off-site resort activities. Couples who want to do some exploring away from their resorts should investigate both the accessibility and safety of doing so.

• Budget: If budgets were stretched for the wedding, couples should not discount the benefits of planning a post-wedding weekend getaway and then saving some money for a more traditional honeymoon down the road. This option still affords couples a chance to spend a few post-wedding days away from home and can help them save for a honeymoon trip they will never forget.

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Consider merging finances after wedding METRO NEWS SERVICE Happy couples experience various changes after tying the knot. One of those changes concerns couples’ finances.

According to an analysis of data from the National Survey of Families and Households, arguments about money are a frequent concern with married couples.

Furthermore, there is a higher correlation between the risk of divorce and the prevalence of financial disagreements. While fights about money do not necessarily cause divorce, they can create rifts in relationships.

Even couples who have plenty of money may have disagreements about their finances. Arguments may stem from couples not understanding how their partner views money or the disparities in spending habits among partners. Couples who make early efforts to get on the same page concerning finances may have smoother waters ahead than those who delay such discussions.

• Establish goals together. Couples should define their financial goals together. Is it a goal to save for early retirement?

Is a house in the immediate future? Is frequent travel a desire? Are we planning to

Metro News Service Speaking about finances in advance of the wedding and working together to form a financial strategy can set a steady course for a couple’s financial security. contribute much to future children’s educations? These questions and more need to be addressed early on. By creating a financial plan together, couples can more clearly map out their financial futures.

• Combining accounts may be easier.

Some couples want to maintain their full financial independence. But combining accounts can help couples avoid arguments about secrecy and concerns about partner spending. Combining accounts also affords couples a clearer picture of their spending and saving habits.

• Assess debts as a team. One person may be bringing more debt to the marriage than another. It’s important for all cards to be on the table and to work together to eradicate debt. If a person will be coming to the marriage with poor credit, it may be worth it to keep things separate until a spouse works on remedying his or her finances, according to Credit.com.

• Decide how to split expenses. One partner may make more money than the other, and one may spend more time handling household needs or future childcare responsibilities. Couples need to agree whether one person pays for certain bills exclusively, whether they spend from one salary and save the other, or combine finances completely and spend equally, offers NerdWallet.

Engaged couples who develop a post-wedding financial plan may find their transition to being married much easier than those who delay such discussions.

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Groom’s Checklist The Knot

12 months before n Figure out where you’re going to have your ceremony and reception. The best spots fill up fast, especially for summer and fall, so decide your wedding size and start looking. n Organize your guys. After you ask your best man to do the honors, make up your groomsman list. For crowd control, you’ll want at least one usher per 50 guests. n Get what you want. Crazy as it seems, people start buying you gifts immediately, and registering may be the only way to keep your friends’ and relatives’ questionable tastes in check.

9 months before n Meet and greet suitable officiants. Priest, rabbi, justice of the peace, officially sanctioned Elvis impersonator – the choice is yours. n Book the talent. It’ll probably fall to you to choose the band or disc jockey. Be sure to get references and hear music beforehand – and run it by your bride before you sign on the dotted line. n Start drawing up your guest list. This is something you’ll probably want to get your parents in on, too.

6 months before n Plan your honeymoon. If you’re leaving the country, now would be a good time to check or find your passport – or get them if you and your girl don’t have ’em – and see what kind of shots or visas you might need. n Who’s driving? Arrange for transportation to the ceremony and reception. Think limousine or horse and buggy.

While you’re at it, figure out where you’re going after the reception – airport? hotel?

– and make plans for getting there. FYI, tradition dictates that your best man drives you.

inscriptions. n If you’re going to tie the knot, you may have to get your blood tested. It’s the law in some states.

6 to 8 weeks before n Get a sparkling smile. Cut down on coffee and try a whitening toothpaste.

Want to really shine? Consider a professional bleaching with a dentist or use an over-the-counter whitening system. n Don’t be cheap. This is one of the most important moments in your life, so put some real thought into the matter and then buy your bride a wedding gift. n Don’t be cheap, part 2.

Search high and low for the perfect groomsmen gifts. These guys are going to put out come D-Day to make sure you look your best. Make sure you get them something decent to show for it. n Don’t lose it. Pick up your wedding rings and put them in a safe place. While you’re at it, check the engraving carefully for typos.

2 weeks before n Do something really romantic with your wife-to-be. But before you do, pick up your marriage license. n Have a good time, but don’t do something stupid. It’s your bachelor party and last chance to go crazy without the ball and chain legally attached.

1 week before

n Get ready to relax. Double-check the honeymoon reservations, start packing your bags, and pick up traveler’s checks. n Pay your officiant. Put his or her fee in 3 months before an envelope and give it to your best man n Get ready for the freeloaders. Your out-offor post-vow delivery. town guests need a place to stay, so unless n You are expected to speak to the crowd you’ve got a couple dozen spare bedrooms, at your wedding reception. Sound sensitive decide on a hotel and reserve a block of rooms. Let them know this in your invitations. and intelligent, start coming up with that impromptu toast to her family now. n By this time, the guest list should be n Rally the troops. Give your groomsmen finalized – i.e., it has the bride, groom and the rehearsal dinner low-down and make parents’ approval. Time to send out the invisure everybody’s got his monkey suit pressed tations. n Get dressed. So what will it be? Tails and and ready. By the way, get a haircut already.

The day before top hat or traditional Scottish kilt? Decide and buy (or rent), then pick out your groomsmen’s n Make her cry. Write a sweet little “I love getups. you” note (or other touching trick) and leave it somewhere she’ll find it on wedding morning, n Give a jeweler your finger to be meaparticularly if you won’t be seeing her before sured. Let your fiancée do the same, and the ceremony. then order your wedding rings. Decide on

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The Bride’s Trousseau Store________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Phone/Email__________________________________________________________________________________________________ Address___________________________________________Consultant_________________________________________________ Gown Description_____________________________________________________________________________________________ Date Ordered_______________________________________Date Promised______________________________________________ Price________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Fitting appointments (Bring proper undergarments and shoes) Date/Time____________________________________________________________________________________________________ Date/Time____________________________________________________________________________________________________ Date/Time____________________________________________________________________________________________________ Date/Time____________________________________________________________________________________________________

❐ Headpiece and Veil – Price___________________________

❐ Jewelry – Price_____________________________________

❐ Bra/Bustier – Price__________________________________

❐ Wrap/Cape – Price__________________________________

❐ Teddy/Body Stockings – Price________________________

❐ Other – Price _______________________________________

❐ Stockings/Pantyhose – Price__________________________

❐ Something Old – Price _______________________________

❐ Garter – Price_______________________________________

❐ Something New – Price ______________________________

❐ Petticoat/Slip – Price_________________________________

❐ Something Borrowed – Price__________________________

❐ Shoes – Price_______________________________________

❐ Something Blue – Price______________________________

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Bridesmaids

Bride’s Attendants

Name _________________________________________________ Phone/Email _____________________________________________ Name _________________________________________________ Phone/Email _____________________________________________ Name _________________________________________________ Phone/Email _____________________________________________ Name _________________________________________________ Phone/Email _____________________________________________ Name _________________________________________________ Phone/Email _____________________________________________

Flower girl Name _________________________________________________ Phone/Email _____________________________________________

Gowns Store _________________________________________________ Phone/Email _____________________________________________ Address _______________________________________________________ Consultant ______________________________________ Gown description _______________________________________________ Price____________________________________________ Date ordered ___________________________________________________ Date promised ___________________________________ Fitting appointments (Bring proper undergarments and shoes) Date/Time______________________________________________________________________________________________________ Date/Time______________________________________________________________________________________________________ Date/Time______________________________________________________________________________________________________

Accessories ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Shoes_________________________________________________________ Price____________________________________________ Jewelry________________________________________________________ Price ___________________________________________ Undergarments ________________________________________________ Price ___________________________________________ Handbags ____________________________________________________ Price ___________________________________________ Wrap _________________________________________________________ Price ___________________________________________ Other _________________________________________________________ Price ___________________________________________

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The Groom’s Attendants Tuxedos Store_____________________________________________________ Phone/Email_______________________________________ Consultant__________________________________________________________________________________________________ Description_________________________________________________________Price_____________________________________ Date measurements needed by_________________Pick-up date__________________ Return date________________________

Groomsmen Name_________________________________________________ Phone/Email__________________________________________ Name_________________________________________________ Phone/Email__________________________________________ Name_________________________________________________ Phone/Email__________________________________________ Name_________________________________________________ Phone/Email__________________________________________ Name_________________________________________________ Phone/Email__________________________________________ Name_________________________________________________ Phone/Email__________________________________________

Ring Bearer Name_________________________________________________ Phone/Email__________________________________________

Ushers Name_________________________________________________ Phone/Email__________________________________________ Name_________________________________________________ Phone/Email__________________________________________ Name_________________________________________________ Phone/Email__________________________________________ Name_________________________________________________ Phone/Email__________________________________________

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Supporting Cast ■ Delivers any payment to officiant, sexton and ceremony musicians, as prearranged.

■ Holds the bride’s wedding ring during the cerBridesmaid emony until the vows are ■ Helps the bride and spoken. maid of honor in many ■ Walks in recessional. ways.

■ Witnesses the signing Maid of honor ■ Takes care of own of the marriage certificate.

■ Helps the bride select dress and accessories ■ Offers first toast to bridesmaids’ attire and fittings. bride and groom at the wedding dress.

■ May help with a showreception.

■ Helps address invitaer for the bride, optional.

■ Gathers and takes care tions and place cards.

■ Assists the bride with of the groom’s wedding ■ Attends as many preerrands. clothes after the reception. nuptial events as possible.

■ Contributes to brides■ Has a car ready for the ■ May host a shower, maids’ gift to the bride and bride and groom to leave but not mandatory. usually gives an individual the reception.

■ Organizes bridesgift to the couple.

■ Pays for own wedding maids’ gift to the bride and ■ Attends the rehearsal attire and transportation to usually gives an individual and rehearsal dinner. the wedding. gift to the couple.

■ Walks in processional ■ Pays for own wedding and recessional.

Usher attire and transportation to ■ May participate in wedding.

■ Participates in the receiving line.

■ Attends the rehearsal party for the groom.

■ Helps gather guests for and rehearsal dinner.

■ Contributes to the ushthe first dance, cake-cut■ Walks in processional ers’ gift for the groom and ting and bouquet toss. and recessional. usually gives an individual ■ Pays for own dress ■ Holds the groom’s gift to the couple. and transportation to the wedding ring.

■ Attends the rehearsal wedding.

■ Helps with the bride’s and rehearsal dinner. gown.

■ Makes sure people Best man ■ Arranges the bride’s receive their special flow■ Organizes any veil and train before the ers or corsages. pre-wedding party for the processional and reces■ Greets guests. groom. sional.

■ Seats guests.

■ Coordinates the ush■ Makes sure the bride’s ■ Hands out programs. ers’ gift to the groom and gown is picture perfect ■ Puts the aisle runner usually gives individual gift throughout the day. in place after guests are to the couple.

■ Holds the bride’s bouseated, before the proces■ Attends the rehearsal quet during the ceremony. sional. and rehearsal dinner.

■ Witnesses the signing ■ Pays for own wedding ■ Makes sure the groom of the marriage certificate. attire and transportation to ■ Stands in receiving line. has the marriage license ■ Helps the bride change with him at the ceremony. the wedding.

Asked to be part of a friend’s wedding? Here is a list of traditional responsibilities for members of the wedding party. Of course, it is up to the bride and groom to determine exactly what each attendant will do.

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■ Takes care of the bride’s gown and accessories after the reception.

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In case of emergency THE KNOT

The essentials ❐ Aspirin/pain reliever, sedatives ❐ Band-Aids ❐ Bottle of water ❐ Chalk (to cover up any last-minute smudges or smears on your dress) ❐ Clear nail polish (for stocking runs) ❐ Corsage pins ❐ Dental floss/toothpicks ❐ Eyedrops ❐ Extra earring backs ❐ Extra panty hose ❐ Hairpins/ponytail holder ❐ Hand towelettes ❐ Hem tape and Scotch tape ❐ Matches ❐ Mini sewing kit ❐ Safety pins ❐ Small folding scissors ❐ Smelling salts (for fainters) ❐ Spot remover ❐ Static-cling spray ❐ Straws (so the bride can stay hydrated without messing up her lipstick) ❐ Tissues ❐ Tweezers In the maid of honor bag The maid or matron of honor should keep the following items on hand for the bride: ❐ Breath mints/spray ❐ Cellphone ❐ Comb, brush & hair spray ❐ Cash ❐ Linen handkerchief ❐ Makeup (for touch-ups) ❐ Mirror ❐ Nail file ❐ Perfume ❐ Tampons/sanitary napkins Optional items ❐ Granola bars/easy-to-carry snacks ❐ Krazy Glue (for nail fixes, shoe heels, etc.) ❐ Sunblock

Beauty Care

Service Providers

Salon ____________________________________________________ Phone/Email_________________________________________ Stylist__________________________________________________________________________Price __________________________ Appointment date & time _______________________________________________________________________________________

Cake

Bakery ___________________________________________________ Phone/Email_________________________________________ Salesperson___________________________ Price_______________ Appointment date & time_______________________________

Invitations and Stationery

Name of Store ____________________________________________ Salesperson_________________________________________ Phone _________________________________________________________________________Price __________________________ Quantity ordered_____________________________Date ordered ________________________Date promised _________________ Manufacturer______________________________________________ Style number_________________________________________

Jeweler

Name of store _____________________________________________ Salesperson_________________________________________ Phone/Email ____________________________________________________________________Price __________________________

Transportation

Company name _________________________________________________________________Salesperson____________________ Phone/Email ____________________________________________________________________Price __________________________ Type of vehicle __________________________________________________________________Capacity_______________________ Pickup date _________________________________Time__________ Length of rental time __________________________________

Travel Agency

Agency Name _____________________________________________ Salesperson_________________________________________ Phone/Email ____________________________________________________________________Price__________________________ Destination ___________________________________________________________________________________________________ Departure date ____________________________________________ Return date _________________________________________ Airline____________________________________________________ Flight number ________________________________________ Travel notes __________________________________________________________________________________________________

Videography

Studio name ______________________________________________ Videographer’s name__________________________________ Phone/Email ____________________________________________________________________Price __________________________

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Photography Checklist Of the Bride

❐ Couple with Bride’s Parents ❐ Couple with Bride’s Family ❐ Couple with Groom’s Parents ❐ Couple with Groom’s Family

❐ Bride Alone ❐ Bride with her Mother ❐ Bride with her Father ❐ Bride with Both Parents ❐ Bride with Maid of Honor ❐ Bride with Bridesmaids ❐ Bride Fixing her Make-up and Hair ❐ Attendants Receiving Flowers ❐ Parents Receiving Flowers

At the Ceremony

Of the Groom ❐ Groom Alone ❐ Groom with his Mother ❐ Groom with his Father ❐ Groom with Both Parents ❐ Groom with Best Man ❐ Groom with Groomsmen ❐ Groomsmen Getting Boutonnières ❐ Parents Receiving Flowers

Of the Couple ❐ Bride and Groom ❐ Bride’s and Groom’s Hands ❐ Bride and Groom Looking at Each Other ❐ Couple with Honor Attendants ❐ Couple with Wedding Party ❐ Couple with All Parents

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❐ Guests Outside of Church ❐ Ushers Escorting Guests ❐ Bride’s Mother Being Seated ❐ Groom’s Family Being Seated ❐ Bride and her Father Entering the Church ❐ Groom and Groomsmen at Altar ❐ Attendants Coming Down Aisle ❐ Bride and her Father Coming Down Aisle ❐ Giving-Away Ceremony ❐ Altar During Ceremony ❐ Bride and Groom Saying Vows ❐ Ring Ceremony ❐ Flower Girl and Ring Bearer ❐ The Kiss ❐ Bride and Groom Coming Up Aisle ❐ Bride and Groom Leaving Church ❐ Bride and Groom Getting Into Car ❐ Bride and Groom in Decorated Car

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❐ Receiving Line ❐ Couple in Receiving Line ❐ Parents in Receiving Line ❐ Buffet Table ❐ Cake ❐ Friends Serving Punch ❐ Couple Seated at Table ❐ Bride Dancing with her Father ❐ Groom Dancing with his Mother ❐ Couple Talking with Guests ❐ Couple Cutting the Cake ❐ Couple Feeding Each Other Cake ❐ Couple Toasting ❐ Bride Throwing Bouquet ❐ Groom Removing Bride’s Garter ❐ Groom Throwing Garter ❐ Couple Dancing

Other ❐ __________________________________ ❐ __________________________________ ❐ __________________________________ ❐ __________________________________ ❐ __________________________________ ❐ __________________________________

Wedding Blooms Florist___________________________________________________Address______________________________________________ Contact person___________________________________________Phone/Email___________________________________________

COLOR

NUMBER NEEDED

UNIT PRICE

TOTAL

Bridal bouquet

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Maid of Honor bouquet

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Bridesmaids’ bouquet

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Flower Girl’s bouquet

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Floral headpieces

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Mothers’/Grandmothers’ corsages

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Hostesses’ flowers

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Groom’s boutonniere

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Fathers’/Grandfathers’ boutonnière

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Groomsmen’s /Ushers’ boutonnière

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Ring bearer’s pillow

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Altar/Chuppah flowers

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Aisle or pew pecorations

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Reception room flowers

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Head table centerpiece

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Guests’ table centerpieces

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Cake/Buffet table decorations

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Getting a Good Reception Where it’s at Reception site______________________________________________________________ Address__________________________________Price:____________________________ Contact person:_____________________ Phone/Email:____________________________

The caterer Name: _________________________ Phone/Email:___________________________________ Cost_______ Per-person rate_______ Flat rate_______ Deposit______ Balance due_______

Reception style ❐ Formal

❐ Hors d’oeuvres

❐ Buffet

Cake and punch_______________________________________________________________ Estimated number of guests__________________

Catering services Number of wait-staff____________How long will they serve at the reception?_____________ Services they’ll perform________________________________________________________ What type of equipment does the caterer supply?__________________________________ What beverages will be supplied?________________________________________________ Will table service and linens be provided?_________________________________________ Who will provide cleanup?______________________________________________________

What’s on the menu?

Hors d’oeuvres________________________________________________________________ Soup/salad____________________________________________________________________ Main course___________________________________________________________________ Side dishes____________________________________________________________________ Breads/rolls___________________________________________________________________ Beverages____________________________________________________________________ Extras________________________________________________________________________

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Decorating Details Balloons Decorator __________________________

Phone ___________________

Address _____________________________________

Salesperson ________________________

Delivery Date/Time/Place __________________________________________________

Description ____________________________________________________________________________________________________

Rentals Store 1_________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Address_________________________________________________________ Phone__________________________________________ Salesperson_______________________________________________________________________________ Items to reserve for ceremony/reception _____________________________________________________________________________ Pick-up/Delivery date _______________ Time _ ___________________ Return Date _____________

Time ______________________

Deposit_____________________________ Cost _____________________________ Store 2_________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Address_________________________________________________________ Phone__________________________________________ Salesperson_______________________________________________________________________________ Items to Reserve for Ceremony/Reception ___________________________________________________________________________ Pick-up/Delivery date _______________ Time ____________________ Return date _____________

Time ______________________

Deposit_____________________________ Cost _____________________________ Store 3_________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Address_________________________________________________________ Phone__________________________________________ Salesperson_______________________________________________________________________________ Items to reserve for ceremony/reception _____________________________________________________________________________ Pick-up/delivery date _______________ Time_____________________ Return date _____________

Time ______________________

Deposit_____________________________ Cost _____________________________

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Music

Ceremony

DJ/Musician(s) 1__________________________________________Phone_________________________ Price_____________________ DJ/Musician(s) 2__________________________________________Phone_________________________ Price_____________________

Musical Selections Processional ____________________________________________________________________________________________________ Ceremony ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ Recessional _____________________________________________________________________________________________________

Reception Entertainer(s) 1___________________________________________________________________ Phone __________________________ Contact Person __________________________________________________________________ Price __________________________ Entertainer(s) 2___________________________________________________________________ Phone __________________________ Contact Person __________________________________________________________________ Price __________________________ Entertainer(s) 3__________________________________________________________________ Phone __________________________ Contact Person _________________________________________________________________ Price __________________________ Entertainer(s) 4___________________________________________________________________ Phone __________________________ Contact Person _________________________________________________________________ Price __________________________ Entertainer(s) 5___________________________________________________________________ Phone __________________________ Contact Person __________________________________________________________________ Price __________________________

Musical Selections Couple’s First Dance _____________________________________________________________________________________________ Wedding Party Dance ____________________________________________________________________________________________ Couple/Parent’s Dance ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Other Requests _________________________________________________________________________________________________

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Gifts Stores where gifts are registered

Bedroom

Store _______________________________________________

Color Scheme ________________________________________ Bed Size ____________________________________________

Phone ______________ Website ________________________ Store _______________________________________________ Phone ______________ Website ________________________ Store _______________________________________________ Phone ______________ Website ________________________ Store _______________________________________________ Phone ______________ Website ________________________

❐ Bedspread ❐ Blanket ❐ Breakfast Tray ❐ Comforter/Duvet ❐ Electric Blanket ❐ Flat/Fitted Sheets ❐ Mattress Pad ❐ Pillows ❐ Pillowcases/Shams ❐ Throw Blanket

Bathroom

❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________

Around the house

Color scheme ________________________________________ ❐ Bath Mats/Rugs ❐ Bath Towels ❐ Facecloths ❐ Curtain Rings ❐ Hair Dryer ❐ Hand Soap Dispenser ❐ Hand Towels ❐ Laundry Hamper ❐ Soap Dish ❐ Scale ❐ Shower Curtain ❐ Showerhead Massage ❐ Toothbrush Holder ❐ Towel Rack ❐ Wastebasket

Other ❐ _______________________

Other ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________

Color scheme ________________________________________ Table size____________________________________________ ❐ Broom ❐ Camera ❐ Camera Equipment ❐ Clock ❐ Dustpan ❐ Fire Extinguisher ❐ Home Computer ❐ Home Entertainment (stereo, DVD player, etc.) ❐ Iron ❐ Ironing Board ❐ Lamps ❐ Luggage ❐ Photo Frames ❐ Planters ❐ Sewing Machine

❐ Telephone ❐ Television ❐ Toolbox ❐ Vacuum ❐ Vases ❐ Video Camera Other ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________ ❐ _______________________

Fun stuff ❐ ________________________________________________________________ ❐ ________________________________________________________________ ❐ ________________________________________________________________ ❐ ________________________________________________________________ ❐ ________________________________________________________________ ❐ ________________________________________________________________ ❐ ________________________________________________________________ ❐ ________________________________________________________________

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Gifts Kitchen

Dining and Serving

Color scheme________________________________________

Formal color scheme: _________________________________

Table size___________________________________________

Formal dinnerware manufacturer/pattern: _____________________________________________________

❐ Baking Dish ❐ Bakeware ❐ Blender ❐ Bread Machine ❐ Can Opener ❐ Coffee Grinder ❐ Coffee Maker ❐ Cookbook ❐ Cutlery Set ❐ Deep Fryer ❐ Dish Towels ❐ Dutch Oven ❐ Electric Skillet ❐ Food Processor ❐ Hand Mixer ❐ Ice Cream Maker ❐ Juicer ❐ Measuring Cup ❐ Measuring Spoons ❐ Microwave Oven ❐ Mixing Bowls ❐ Oven Mitts ❐ Placemats ❐ Roasting Pan ❐ Saucepan ❐ Skillet ❐ Slow Cooker ❐ Stand Mixer ❐ Steamer ❐ Stockpot ❐ Tablecloth ❐ Tea Kettle ❐ Toaster ❐ Toaster Oven ❐ Utensil Set

Formal glassware manufacturer/pattern: _____________________________________________________

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❐ Wire Racks ❐ Wok ❐ Wok Utensils

Casual color scheme: _____________________________________________________

Other

❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________

Casual dinnerware manufacturer/pattern: _____________________________________________________

❐ ______________________

Casual glassware manufacturer/pattern: _____________________________________________________

❐ ______________________

Table size_________________________________________

❐ ______________________

❐ Tableclothes

❐ ______________________

❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________ ❐ ______________________

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❐ Placemats

❐ Bread Tray ❐ Cake Plate ❐ Candlesticks ❐ Chafing Dish ❐ Cheese Board ❐ Coasters ❐ Coffee/Tea Service ❐ Corkscrew/Opener ❐ Covered Casserole ❐ Cream/Sugar Bowls ❐ Decanter ❐ Dessert Dish Set ❐ Gravy/Sauce Boat ❐ Ice Bucket ❐ Napkin Rings ❐ Nut Dish ❐ Pitcher ❐ Punch Bowl Set ❐ Salad Bowl ❐ Salt/Pepper Shakers ❐ Serving Bowl ❐ Serving Platter ❐ Serving Tray

❐ Cloth Napkins

❐ Soup Tureen ❐ Trivet ❐ Wine Rack

Other

❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________ ❐ ________________________

Balancing the Budget

Stationery

Announcements Invitations Thank-you cards/notes Stamps Other

Attire

Bridal gown Headpiece and veil Shoes Jewelry, gloves Other accessories Groom’s tux Bridal dresses Trousseau Other

Photography

Engagement Wedding/reception Wedding album Parents’ album Additional prints Videography Other

Gifts

Groom’s gift Bride’s gift Groomsmen gifts Bridesmaids gifts Parents’ gifts (optional) Other

Estimated cost

Actual cost

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Parties

Engagement party Bridesmaids’ lunch Bachelor party Rehearsal dinner

Ceremony

Church, synagogue Officiant fees Organist, soloist fees Janitorial fees

Flowers

Ceremony arrangements Bride’s bouquet Groom’s boutonnière Wedding party Family Reception flowers Host and hostess Reception arrangements Other Reception Facility rental Catering/food Beverages Table decorations Rentals (tents, chairs) Rentals (tableware, linens) Band, DJ, pianist Coat check, valet Tips and fees Janitorial Guestbook/pen Cake knife Unity candle Monogrammed napkins Mementos for guests Birdseed or confetti Other

Honeymoon

Travel clothes Airfare, tickets Hotel reservations Car rental Meals Souvenirs Other

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Actual cost

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Women’s Health

is our greatest strength.

We deliver high-quality healthcare from prenatal to senior health to meet your needs at any age.

As specialists in women’s healthcare, we pride ourselves on providing the latest services and procedures–personalized to help you thrive.

920 West Street, Bldg. B, Peru

Learn more at ivch.org/obstetrics.

Physicians

Ilan Bornstein, MD Anna Bida-Dudun, MD

IVCH Certified Nurse Midwives Barbara Tieman, CNM, FNP Dana Hoffman, DNP, CNM Brittany Lange, CNM Jacqueline Ma, DNP, CNM

The Women’s Health Care Center at IVCH offers services at Perry Memorial Hospital in Princeton.

Call today to schedule your appointment! 815-223-2944 SM-PR1736231

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