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Preventing MPX From Spiraling Out of Control See pages 2–4

3D rendering of monkeypox (MPX) virus particles in human blood.

MPX Public Health Emergency

Latinx Alert: The Monkeypox (MPX) Crisis and Managing Multiple Viral Stressors

Eduardo Morales, Ph.D. Amid the COVID-19 pandemic, the nation is faced with an ever-increasing number of monkeypox (MPX) cases due to a virus that is closely related to the virus that causes smallpox. Governor Newsom recently declared a state of emergency for California, given the rapid increase in the transmission of MPX. As of August 9, 2022, San Francisco reported 501 MPX cases compared to a handful of cases just a month ago. This rapid spread is most noted among Latinx individuals, comprising 28% of MPX cases as of this writing.

MPX disproportionately affects the Latinx community, especially when the actual rate of their cases is compared to the expected rate of 15.2% by 2020 U.S. Census data. Although not as contagious as COVID-19, MPX is clearly of concern not only to LGBTQ Latinx men but also to others who are at high risk and should receive the MPX vaccine, according to the San Francisco Department of Public Health (SFDPH). Getting the vaccine soon after exposure to MPX helps prevent infection and developing symptoms. Given the rapid spread of MPX and the need for vac-

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As local social gatherings have increased in recent months, so has the probability of MPX transmission due to close physical contact. The medical consensus at present holds that the MPX virus responsible for the 2022 outbreak is most likely to be passed to another person when there is prolonged, physical contact or shared bedding, clothing, utensils, or sex toys. MPX is not as contagious as COVID-19 since it is not airborne, according to the CDC. (While it may be transmitted via respiratory droplets at close range, it does not spread through the air or over long distances in the way that COVID-19 can.)

Testing for MPX is available at a clinic or healthcare provider. While waiting for your MPX test results, you should stay at home and away from others, put off travel on public transportation, alert others with whom you have had close contact since the start of your symptoms, and protect pets. Symptoms include blis-

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Managing Stress During the Concurrent Health Crisis There is a national campaign entitled #wellnessforall that was developed by various national ethnic psychological associations in partnership with Meta through Facebook and Provoc.

I wrote about this earlier for the San Francisco Bay Times: https://tinyurl.com/2p9cjtmc

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Nuestra Voz

AGUILAS, an HIV prevention program for Latinx LGBTQ+ individuals in San Francisco, has been facilitating MPX vaccine appointments, when possible, and had its staff and some of its program participants obtain these appointments on a limited basis. These folks thereby avoided the 6–8-hour lines for obtaining the MPX vaccine while helping to ensure the health of the Latinx LGBTQ+ community. Although two doses of the vaccine are recommended, the SFDPH is only providing one dose until more vaccines become available. For those at high risk for MPX who are insured

by Kaiser, inquire about obtaining the MPX vaccine through this healthcare provider.

ters or spots, as well as other symptoms that can be mistaken for the flu, cold, or other viral infections; these may take one to two weeks to develop. More information about MPX is available on the CDC website in English and Spanish ( https://tinyurl.com/mr8n5mmd ) as well as on Telemundo in Spanish via the internet. Just enter “monkeypox” at the Telemundo website: https://www.telemundo.com/

This is the second year of the national campaign, which integrates culturally derived strategies supported by science for their efficacy. The national campaign is now underway via Facebook. Since the campaign’s inception last year, I have been involved as a partner.

More immediate strategies for stress reduction include regulating your breathing (see tips on page 30), taking walks, exercising, eating properly, staying properly hydrated, obtaining social support, and doing other things that help you to relax.

Consider taking power breaks of about 20 minutes each day, for example, or obtaining individual counseling, joining a support group, and being mindful of your temperament. Follow the CDC guidelines for COVID-19 and MPX to avoid being infected and experiencing recurring infections. Keep your health provider informed and up to date. (continued on page 4)

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cines, Mayor London Breed declared a Public Health Emergency for MPX with SFDPH officials.

Protestors at the “Cut the Red Tape: More (Monkeypox) Treatment, Testing & Vaccines Now!” rally in San Francisco on August 8, 2022

MPX Public Health Emergency

A paper just published in the peerreviewed journal The Lancet Infectious Diseases suggests that MPX had already spread far beyond Nigeria by the time that U.K. individual had returned to his homeland. In the paper, lead author Daniele Lapa and colleagues document what happened to a 39-year-old man from Italy who travelled in Austria during the first two weeks of May 2022. “He self-identified as an MSM (which the CDC holds refers to gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men) and sex worker and reported condomless sexual intercourse with several male partners during the previous month.” He was HIV-positive, and “reported a history of sexually transmitted infections.” He too was admitted to a hospital, in Italy, and

diagnosed with MPX. While there, he said that he had received one dose of smallpox vaccination during childhood, more than 30 years earlier.

Even just considering these two cases, it is not hard to see how an infectious disease—however initially established—can spread beyond country borders and to many different individuals. The organization Think Global Health has compiled a detailed timeline of emerging developments from the beginning of the 2022 MPX outbreak. It gives a sense of how the infectious viral disease ballooned to over 31,800 cases worldwide as of early August: https://tinyurl.com/4cbjzw63 Why Is MPX Spreading Now? Cases of MPX outside of Africa since May 7 of this year have exceeded the overall number of cases detected outside of endemic areas from 1970 to the current outbreak. “The newest rate of human infections is even more alarming when we consider that cases in the last two months vastly exceeded the number of confirmed or suspected human monkeypox cases in the entire 20th century,” according to Aileen Marty of Florida International University’s Division of Internal Medicine.

The stories of the two aforementioned men, in terms of their traveling and general lifestyles, are nothing

new. Many others before them have gone on similar travels and engaged in comparable behaviors. What then has changed to expand community transmission of MPX in 2022? Marty reviewed studies on MPX and wrote this month in The Lancet Microbe that mutational changes in the circulating MPX virus might provide an advantage in human hosts such that there is “improved viral replication,” “improved evasion of innate defense mechanisms,” “improved evasion of adaptive defense mechanisms,” “improved stability outside of a host,” A long line for the Monkeypox vaccine at San Francisco General Hopital and more. mortality mostly affecting younger Still other researchers believe that children and severe disease prithe end of routine vaccination marily impacting immunocomproagainst smallpox, which in the U.S. mised individuals, according to the happened in 1972 after the disease European Center for Disease Control was then-eradicated in the states, and Prevention. Nevertheless, concontributed to the present situation cerns over smallpox helped drive the here. development of Jynneos, which is the A Vaccine for Smallpox and CDC’s preferred vaccine to protect a Drug Stockpiled Due to against MPX. It is manufactured by Bioterrorism Fears Bavarian Nordic, a biotech company with headquarters in Denmark.

For several years, the CDC has cat-

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egorized smallpox—a viral zoonosis with a virus closely related to that which causes MPX—as a Category A Bioterrorism Agent/Disease. This means that it: • can be easily disseminated or transmitted from person to person; • result in high mortality rates and have the potential for major public health impact; • might cause public panic and social disruption; and • require special action for public health preparedness.

MPX fatality rates conversely at present are low, ranging from 0–11% in outbreaks in endemic areas, with

Monkeypox Is a Public Health Crisis A public health crisis.

A community filled with fear, unanswered questions, and valid outrage!

A resilient people that have had to rise up in support of one another, to educate each other—AND—to fight for access to the resources they need and deserve.

A moment in history where a federal public health response fails them causing unnecessary emotional, mental, and physical harm.

NO—I’m not chronicling HIV/ AIDS policy from the initial years when the federal government resisted addressing the onset of the AIDS epidemic in our country.

I’m referencing this very moment in our nation’s history when there has once again been a lack of urgency during a public health crisis that is impacting cis and transgender men as well as nonbinary folx within the

same social and sexual networks in our country.

So, how did we possibly arrive at this moment!?

The history of the U.S. government action on HIV/AIDS offers important lessons concerning the limits and possibilities of U.S. public health policy and healthcare delivery.

The last few years have taught us valuable lessons on how to intentionally and equitably scale up testing, community awareness, vaccination—AND—how coordinated harm reduction messaging can help prevent the spread of disease.

But here we are months after ringing the first alarms to the federal government, weeks after my warning that we had an imminent window to get ahead of the spread of monkeypox (MPX) in our community. And now we arrive in a public health state of emergency.

On August 9, the CDC reported: “Globally and in the United States, supply of Jynneos vaccine is currently limited, although more is expected in the coming weeks and months. In the United States, there is a large supply of ACAM2000, but this vaccine has more side effects and contraindications.”

If you read about the side effects and problems associated with ACAM2000, it is evident why the focus is on Jynneos now ( https://tinyurl.com/mr395mpd ).

smallpox drug was fast-tracked by the Trump Administration back in 2018. Interest in the antiviral medication called TPOXX was fueled by concerns over “U.S. health security” and to “prepare for the potential use of smallpox virus in bioterrorism attacks against the U.S.,” according to a U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) news release at the time. The HHS then stockpiled TPOXX and supported development of an IV formulation of the drug.

All of this history now comes to the forefront, as many people the world over are now attempting to receive the Jynneos vaccine and, if infected with the MPX virus, to receive doses of TPOXX. State Senate Oversight Hearing on Monkeypox On August 9, 2022, State Senator Scott Wiener (D-San Francisco), Chair of the Senate Select Committee on Monkeypox,

In terms of medication to treat MPX, the world’s first approved

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By Tyler TerMeer, PhD

San Francisco AIDS Foundation applauds the decision by San Francisco Department of Health to declare MPX a public health emergency.

We hope that this decision brings greater resources and attention to the MPX response in San Francisco, and we pushed for the federal government to also declare a similar public health emergency.

We’ve heard that one reason the federal government [did not prior to August 4] declare a public health emergency around MPX is because MPX is not a fatal disease.

This is true.

But what cannot be overstated is that MPX is causing extreme distress, fear, anxiety, and pain to our community.

There will be unfortunate, lasting consequences to our communities

because of the federal government’s slow response to this outbreak.

Dr. Tyler TerMeer

Even with this public health emergency declared in San Francisco, we cannot let up on our demands for a number of things here in our city.

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The 2022 monkeypox (MPX) outbreak first came to public attention in a way that eerily echoed the earliest days of COVID-19, as an obscure story that did not receive much front-page treatment. Media reports shared that a British resident who had travelled to Lagos and Delta State in Nigeria, in areas where MPX is considered to be an endemic disease, came down with a painful rash on April 29 while still in Africa.

He flew back to the U.K. on May 4, and felt so ill that he was admitted to a hospital later that day. At Guy’s Hospital in London, he tested positive for MPX on May 6.

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Monkeypox 2022 Outbreak: Timeline, Spread, Treatments, and What Could Happen Next

We need more vaccines, and we need them quickly.

We must ensure that testing and vaccines are made available to all people who may be at increased risk of MPX. Our clinicians need easier access to MPX treatment, so that people who are diagnosed with MPX can receive care quickly and efficiently.

with non-stigmatizing, sex-positive, health communications and public health response strategies.

We need to lift up vaccine equity and ensure that communities that are disproportionately being impacted by MPX have access to the information and resources they need.

For ongoing information about MPX and how to take action in our community, please visit https://www.sfaf.org/monkeypox/

And finally, we must continue to fight stigma by balancing the need for population-specific messaging

Tyler TerMeer, PhD, is the Chief Executive Officer of the San Francisco AIDS Foundation.

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I find that doing things that I enjoy, which make me happy while stimulating my interest and curiosity for knowledge and information, helps me cope and manage stress. These are challenging times complicated by various health crises affecting our everyday lives. If you adhered to the COVID-19 guidelines by wearing a KN95 mask and by maintaining social distancing, you are doing what is necessary to prevent infection for both COVID-19 and MPX. I am hopeful we will have these health crises behind us soon. Take advantage of health prevention programs available to you in your county, such as the prevention services offered at AGUILAS for Latinx LGBTQ+ individuals.

convened an oversight hearing on MPX. Shortly before the hearing, he shared: “Monkeypox is a public health emergency, and we must do everything in our power to expand access to vaccination, testing, treatment, and information. We need to listen to those who have contracted monkeypox, healthcare providers, public health officials, and advocates on the ground. Working together, we can protect our community’s health.”

ing. San Francisco resident David Watson, for example, told how he contracted the virus via casual contact: he hugged and quickly kissed a friend upon meeting up with him. The friend had no idea that he was infected. He had a small bump on his face that he thought was just an ingrown hair.

The hearing included remarks from leaders such as state epidemiologist Erica Pan, Dr. Vivek Jain—an HIV and infectious diseases specialist from San Francisco General Hospital, Dr. Grant Colfax—Director of Health, City & County of San Francisco, Dr. Muntu Davis—County Health Officer for the Los Angeles County Department of Public Health, Dr. Tyler TerMeer of the San Francisco AIDS Foundation, and several others.

Discussed at the hearing was the FDA’s justannounced emergency use authorization that permits healthcare providers to change how the Jynneos vaccine is administered—giving it intradermally (between layers of skin) rather than subcutaneously. Providers can then get five doses out of a standard one-dose vial, stretching out the now-limited supply of the vaccine.

Eduardo Morales, PhD, is one of the founders of AGUILAS, where he serves as Executive Director. He is also a Professor Emeritus and retired Distinguished Professor of Psychology at Alliant International University and is the current Past President of the National Latinx Psychological Association.

The hearing brought to light problems and concerns that go beyond the MPX illness itself, such as when Amber Parrish Baur, Executive Director of the UFCW Western States Council, spoke about how individuals can be financially impacted by MPX. Many San Franciscans, for example, have experienced long lines attempting to obtain the vaccine, often causing hours of lost work time and pay.

There is already unprecedented strain on healthcare workers, including pharmacists, she added.

Dr. TerMeer expressed the frustration shared by many over delays—particularly at the federal level—concerning testing, vaccination, treatment, and more. He said that there was a “lack of urgency” concerning MPX in the days preceding Pride Month as well as “an inadequate vaccine supply,” leading him and others to feel “abandoned by inaction.”

Some individuals who have contracted MPX shared their stories during the hear-

Frustration as Officials Weigh Guidance at Local, State, and Federal Levels

The San Francisco Department of Public Health shared this statement in response with the San Francisco Bay Times: “We are committed and open to explore every possible avenue that would allow us to get more people vaccinated against monkeypox as soon as possible. SFDPH is awaiting federal and state guidance on the changeover from subcutaneous to intradermal injections of Jynneos vaccine, including FDA instructions on dose extraction and administration, and CDPH instructions on how to account for and register each dose when multiple doses are taken from single vials.

We are also aware that the intradermal method of administering the vaccine, in which a dose is injected between layers of skin, will require updated protocols and additional training for many vaccinator staff and may be slower to administer. SFDPH needs to understand adjustments that would need to be made to operations to ensure San Francisco’s vaccine providers continue to reach as many people who need the vaccine as quickly and equitably as possible. We will provide further updates to the community as appropriate.”

It therefore remains in question when the FDA’s new approach might be implemented in San Francisco. The good news, at least for now, is that the Zuckerberg San Francisco General Hospital monkeypox vaccine clinic has reopened, thanks to a vaccine replenishment of 10,000 doses, and is scheduled to be open at least through this Saturday, August 13.

Fast Action Needed to Curb MPX Spread A protest co-organized by San Francisco Bay Times columnist Joanie Juster and attended by LGBTQ community leaders and members of the public on August 8, 2022, in San Francisco called for “cutting the red tape” and moving faster both to treat those with MPX and to curb the illness’ spread. Many health officials are calling for similar action. As an international team led

by Dr. Hamna Raheel of the Dow University of Health Sciences recently wrote in the Annals of Medicine and Surgery: “The COVID-19 pandemic should be a pressing reminder for the health sector to act promptly against monkeypox transmission. The virus’ spread via respiratory droplets should not be underappreciated when compared to the aerosol droplet spread of COVID19. Appropriate measures to quickly isolate and quarantine patients presenting with symptoms is a compelling need. A spillover infection like monkeypox is highly virulent with subsequent mutations surfacing, monitoring its epidemiology henceforth is imperative.”

For More Information About MPX San Francisco Department of Public Health: for status of vaccine availability, answers to common questions (under FAQ ), and monkeypox case numbers and demographics https://tinyurl.com/ym2zt54j San Francisco AIDS Foundation: for SFAF’s testing, diagnosis, and treatment services https://tinyurl.com/3jzjp4rz

‘Cut the Red Tape: More (Monkeypox) Treatment, Testing & Vaccines Now!’ Protest on August 8, 2022 Photos by Rink Activists were out in force on Monday, August 8, for a protest rally concerning delayed and problematic response to monkeypox (MPX). The rally was held in front of the Federal Building in San Francisco located at 90 7th Street where offices of the Health and Human Services Department are located. Organized by multiple nonprofit advocacy groups, the protest included representatives from the Harvey Milk LGBTQ Democratic Club, the Alice B. Toklas LGBTQ Democratic Club, Safer Together SF Bay Area, and the San Francisco AIDS Foundation.

The need to expedite testing for monkeypox, use of the monkeypox(MPX)-treating drug TPOXX, and administering of the MPX vaccine, along with other demands were addressed by speakers and demonstrators. Many carried signs calling for cutting the “red tape” to signify the need for swift action against MPX without delays.

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The Fog of ... Fogust

Rumor has it that it’s summer, but at my house I’ve scarcely seen the sun in over a month. Fogust is here, and I hold my jacket and scarf more closely around me when I leave the house.

Here’s hoping that it’s sunnier where you live. In the meantime, fog or no fog, there is a lot going on.

Monkeypox Updates As of August 4th, the city of San Francisco, the state of California, and the U.S. government have all declared public health emergencies due to the rapid spread of the monkeypox virus. Information seems to change daily as more is learned about how the virus acts, how to protect yourself and others, and where to go for help. Town halls and Zoom seminars are proliferating to help get information to people who need it. I attended two on August 1: a Zoom meeting hosted by Manny’s with infectious disease expert Dr. Monica Gandhi and health reporter Liz Highleyman, who was calling in from the International AIDS Conference in Montreal, and a hybrid live/Zoom town hall hosted by the San Francisco AIDS Foundation and the Harvey Milk LGBTQ Democratic Club’s HIV Caucus.

While the Zoom meeting focused primarily on the most up-to-date medical guidance, the town hall was more focused on listening to peoples’ concerns, and searching for solutions. Much of the concern was focused on the difficulty of getting tested, getting vaccinated, and getting treated. Others shared concerns about the health inequities experienced by those who cannot afford time off from work to stand in line for hours hoping for a vaccine, or quarantining for weeks if infected. One thing everyone agreed on: the government has moved much too slowly in addressing this public health crisis, and many affirmed that they were ready to stand up, make their voices heard, and demand change.

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Joanie Juster

raiser for the Transgender District on August 28 celebrating the 56th anniversary of the Compton’s Cafeteria Riots of 1966—the first large-scale act of resistance on the part of Trans and Queer individuals against police brutality in the United States. Riot Party will feature celebrated transgender, nonbinary, and queer performers, as well as other special guests.

For more info, and tickets to the Riot Party: https://www.riotpartysf.com/ New Services for Black Women at SF AIDS Foundation

Clearly, though, he has issues with that concept. In May, during the midst of the national uproar over the potential overturn of Roe v. Wade, he made the mistake of challenging House Speaker Nancy Pelosi, publicly refusing to allow the San Francisco Democrat (and devout Catholic) to receive the sacrament of Holy Communion, and urged other Catholic dioceses to follow his example. Without batting an eye, Pelosi went to Rome, where she received Holy Communion directly from Pope Francis. And next thing you know, Cordileone was overlooked for a promotion.

Did you know that people over 50 represent the majority of individuals in the U.S. living with HIV? The CDC estimates that people living with HIV who are 50 and older will make up 70% of those living with HIV in the U.S. by 2030. And yet, in most communities, appropriate health care and social services for elders with HIV have not kept up with the need.

The San Francisco AIDS Foundation has added a new program to its array of services for people with HIV over 50. Called HUES (Healing & Uniting Every Sista), the program is designed specifically to address the needs of older Black women with HIV. HUES program coordinator Ebony Gordon came to San Francisco after years of experience in the South, first doing HIV prevention and education work, then doing graduate work toward a counseling degree, and exploring trauma work with people living with HIV of all ages and backgrounds. Her work made her confront the disparities that exist at the intersections of race, poverty, and health.

Don’t play politics with peoples’ lives, Archbishop. If you don’t believe that people of the same sex should be married, you have every right to refuse to perform those marriages in your own church. But your authority stops at your church’s doorstep. And by the way, if you’re going to play politics, maybe you ought to be paying taxes.

Meanwhile, in Wisconsin In Green Bay, Wisconsin, Bishop David Ricken has taken anti-LGBTQ+ policies in diocesan schools to a new level of cruelty, by banning trans students and staff from using their preferred pronouns, clothing, and bathrooms. The policy also rejects the use of the words “lesbian” and “gay,” compares being queer to sexual abuse, and falsely accuses the LGBTQ+ community of trying to turn people gay. Whew.

The program is being designed to give older Black women a safe space where they will feel less isolated, and more supported. It is a welcome addition, and complement to, other services available in the city. To see Gordon’s presentation on HUES: https://tinyurl.com/SFAFHues Pacific Center on the Move

In an interview with local station WBAY, Kathy Flores, director of the Wisconsin advocacy group Diversity & Resilience, said, “My first thoughts were about the high suicide rates of the LGBTQIA+ youth and how we have seen study after study that suicide risk decreases and depression decreases when we use a student’s name and pronoun that they have asked us to use.”

Change is never easy, especially when it comes suddenly and unexpectedly.

The venerable Pacific Center for Human Growth recently learned that it must move, after 50 years in the same location in Berkeley. The organization is known as the oldest LGBTQ+ mental health and community center in the Bay Area, and the third oldest in the country. The modest Edwardian house that has been their home on Telegraph Avenue for 50 years has been sold, but there is still no word on when they need to relocate.

There is a wonderful advocacy group that stays on top of this kind of news, and works hard to effect change. Faithful America is the largest online community of Christians putting faith into action for social justice. Every day they fight against Christian nationalism, white supremacy, homophobia, transphobia, and extreme right wing political agendas masquerading as “Christianity.”

They are 100% member supported, and are doing great work. To get their action alerts and help fight back: https://tinyurl.com/FaithAm Leather Events - Volunteers Needed Leather and kink enthusiasts braved the summer fog on July 31, and now the biggest events—LeatherWalk (9/18) and Folsom (9/25)—are on the horizon. In the meantime, the LEATHER & LGBTQ Cultural District’s popular monthly vendor, art and artisan fair, Second Saturdays, continues on August 13. You can make a full day of it by visiting the SOMA West Farmers’ Market at Eagle Plaza first (it is now open from 9 to 12:30), and then the Saturday Beer Bust at The Eagle afterwards (3–7 pm).

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https://www.sfaf.org/monkeypox/ Transgender History Month and Riot Party

Keep an eye out for other events commemorating Transgender History Month, but in the meantime, be sure to mark your calendar for Riot Party, a concert and fund-

He goes on to pontificate: “People who experience same-sex attraction should be treated with the same respect and compassion as anyone, on account of their human dignity, and never be subject to unjust discrimination ... . It was never discrimination, however, to simply maintain that an inherent aspect of the definition of marriage itself is the complementarity between the two sexes.” Uh huh.

Funny: you’d think a man as highly educated as the archbishop would be familiar with the concept of the separation of church and state. He should also be familiar with the fact the leader of his own church, Pope Francis, has specifically forbidden weaponizing Holy Communion—a trick other U.S. bishops tried to use against President Biden because of his pro-abortion policies.

With the situation changing daily, it is up to each of us to stay informed in order to stay safe. The San Francisco AIDS Foundation has compiled useful information on their website.

Please stay informed, stay safe, and help others who may need assistance.

Last year, San Francisco officially proclaimed August as Transgender History Month, an annual event to honor and celebrate the significant contributions of trans advocacy and trans culture to our city, and to highlight the work that still remains toward achieving full equality.

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It will soon be heading to the Senate, with a large majority of Americans now in favor of the right of samesex couples to marry. But one prominent San Franciscan just couldn’t resist speaking out against it. The notoriously conservative and contentious Roman Catholic archbishop of San Francisco—Archbishop Salvatore Cordileone—wrote a letter on July 22 urging U.S. senators to reject the bill. Posted on the website of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, and speaking as the chairman of the bishops’ conference Committee on Laity, Marriage, Family Life and Youth, he proclaimed: “Marriage as a lifelong, Archbishop Salvatore Cordileone exclusive union of one man and one woman, and open to new life, is not just a religious ideal—it is, on the whole, what is best for society in a concrete sense, especially for children.”

The Pacific Center offers a wide array of direct services to the East Bay’s LGBTQ+ and queer, trans, Black, Indigenous, and people of color communities, including affordable therapy, peer-to-peer support groups, community outreach services, and facilitated workshops.

Planning documents show that the new owners plan to tear down the house to make way for a proposed 5-story, mixed-use building containing 35 apartments, including 11% for very low-income households. There is no timeline yet for the project; we’ll keep you apprised of updates.

To learn more about Pacific Center’s good work: https://www.pacificcenter.org/ SF Bishop Plays Politics Last month, the Respect for Marriage Act passed the House of Representatives by a vote of 267–157 with 47 Republicans in support.

The District will also have a booth on August 21 at Sunday Streets SOMA. The event will stretch 1.5 miles along Folsom Street from 9th Street to Main. They are partnering with Folsom Street to host the block of Folsom between 8th and 9th. The event needs a lot of volunteers for setup, breakdown, crossing guards, and block monitors. To volunteer, click the following link, then click on Register. When asked if you are joining as a member of an organization, type LEATHER. www.sundaystreetssf.com/volunteer One Last Word With all the focus on monkeypox, we cannot forget that COVID-19 is still firmly planted in our community. Please take appropriate precautions, folks.

Stay safe.

Joanie Juster is a long-time community volunteer, activist, and ally.

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Let’s Talk About Insurance. Really your employment status is “self” or “un” and you’re under 65, Covered California provides an open marketplace that might save you on coverage from brand-name insurers.

Money Matters Brandon Miller My great uncle’s poorly fitting toupee was a source of endless amusement to me as a kid. On hot days, it would slide to one side and the bald patch he was trying to hide would moon observers. In the wind, it might flap up and down, flip over an ear, or even blow off altogether. I had to enjoy the hilarity silently, however, as my elders made it clear that uncle’s wig was not something we talked about.

Insurance is a bit like that errant hairpiece in that it’s not something people talk about. Conversing about a commodity that’s only good when things go bad is a bit of a downer, after all. But it’s even more dismal not to have the right insurance and coverage amounts when you need it. So, let’s quickly review what you need and why, and some tips to help make insurance work better for you.

Consolidating policies at one company is easier on you and may lower your payment. Another general rule is to cover little things yourself (a bent fender) and have insurance pay for the big things (a totaled car).

Higher deductibles and/or longer waiting periods can help you do this.

More tips include: Health - Although not mandated at the Federal level, everyone needs health insurance, which many get through an employer or Medicare. If

Got a high-deductible health plan?

You might qualify for a Health Savings Account (HSA). The annual amount you and/or your employer can contribute each year is modest, but the money you put in isn’t taxed, the account’s earnings aren’t taxed, and your distributions aren’t taxed.

It’s a hidden investment tool, if you ask me.

Auto - If you have a car, you need auto insurance, plain and simple. But maybe you can drop collision coverage if the car is really old.

Property - Anything with a mortgage requires insurance. But even if you own your property outright, it might make sense to carry some protection. Building costs are soaring, so double-check how much you’ll really get if your home and the contents are destroyed. A yearly review by your insurance broker or financial planner can help spare you from draining your savings at a vulnerable time.

Earthquake insurance has been improved recently, and becomes increasingly important the more equity you have in your home.

Flood insurance might be smart if your property is in a flood plain. As for wildfires, homeowners’ insurance should cover the damage. It’s just hard to get policies in certain areas. The California FAIR Plan is designed to make this easier.

Umbrella - This has nothing to do with rain and everything to do with protecting your assets. It extends the liability coverage of your auto and homeowners’ policies and includes situations they don’t cover, such as mental anguish and psychological harm. Umbrella insurance is fairly inexpensive and I highly recommend most people get it.

Disability - Do you depend on a paycheck? Then you need disability insurance. Your employer’s coverage

(if any) is likely inadequate, Social Security is notoriously stingy about who qualifies, and bills don’t end just because your income stream has. Get as much as you can qualify (and pay) for because living expenses don’t tend to go down over time.

Term and Whole Life - You can rent or own coverage for an untimely death. Term is great for temporary situations, such as until your mortgage is paid off. Whole or permanent insurance is more costly, but it’s also a way to build equity, fund a trust, add liquidity to your estate so the kids don’t have to sell the house to pay the taxes, and it offers tax-free accumulation to highincome earners.

Long-term Care - This coverage is for expenses related to nursing home care, home healthcare, adult daycare, etc. for those over 65. It’s expensive, so it may not make sense if you’re rich (estate worth over $5 mil) or poor (Medi-Cal will kick in).

You have to qualify, so get it early— 50–55 is an ideal age—especially if dementia runs in your family.

Yes, insurance is no fun, but don’t neglect getting what you need to truly protect yourself, your loved ones, and your lifestyle. Because lack of coverage is the last thing you want when a fierce wind uncovers your bald spot.

Brio does not provide tax or legal advice, and nothing contained in these materials should be taken as such. The opinions expressed in this article are for general informational purposes only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual or on any specific security. It is only intended to provide education about the financial industry. To determine which investments may be appropriate for you, consult your financial advisor prior to investing.

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Revocable Living Trust Benefits is “Living”; to be “Living” simply means that the trust functions during your lifetime (i.e., it isn’t just a death document). This means you can be trustee of your own revocable living trust so you maintain full control of your assets throughout your life. It protects you in the event of your disability.

Trust Essentials Jay Greene, Esq., CPA The Revocable Living Trust One of the most common phrases used in estate planning is the “Revocable Living Trust” (RLT). It may seem that everyone has a revocable living trust, or has considered creating one. Revocable living trusts are a popular and powerful tool for individuals and families planning for their future, but what exactly is a revocable living trust?

Revocable Living Trust Defined A revocable living trust is a document that offers many advantages, and it can be created by anyone.

Trusts are structured to own assets so they are no longer titled under your own name.

Starting with the word “Revocable,” to be “Revocable” gives the authority to move assets in and out of the trust, change provisions, and dissolve the trust, if desired. Next, the trust 8

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In addition to the revocable living trust’s benefits during the grantor’s life, there are many benefits that occur after the grantor passes away. The trust becomes irrevocable upon the grantor’s death, which means that it cannot be changed.

At this point, the successor trustee would step up to administer the trust to your desired beneficiaries per your directions from your trust documents.

One of the primary functions of the revocable living trust after your death is to avoid probate. Avoiding probate is critical for ensuring your assets are distributed without unnecessary financial and emotional stress for your beneficiaries and loved ones.

A probate can cost up to five to seven percent of the gross value of the decedent’s assets and takes an average of 9–12 months to complete or even longer. Along the probate process is court involvement, potential contests by heirs, and strangers controlling the disposition of your estate.

There is no reason to undergo probate because there is a way out of this stressful and time-consuming legal process.

Creating Your Own Revocable Living Trust

Getting started with trust planning is a simple process. Working with an estate planning attorney makes it easy to gather information and to finally determine which people you wish to include in your planning.

Beginning your trust plan is much easier than you think! The first step is to contact an experienced estate planning attorney so they can walk you through the benefits of trust planning and provide guidance on which steps to take to move forward.

Our law firm is dedicated to helping people like you make the best decision for yourself, your assets, and your loved ones. To learn more about our services, please reach out to our office at 415-905-0215 and schedule a consultation.

Statements In Compliance with California Rules of Professional Conduct: The materials in this article have been prepared by Jay Greene for educational purposes only and are not legal advice. This information does not create an attorney-client relationship. Individuals should consult with an estate planning and elder law attorney for up-to-date information for their individual plans.

Jay Greene, Esq., CPA, is the founder of Greene Estate, Probate & Elder Law Firm based in San Francisco, and is focused on helping LGBT individuals, couples, and families plan for their future, protect their assets, and preserve their wealth. To learn more and to schedule an appointment, visit https://assetprotectionbayarea.com/

Message from Leadership

Oh, What a Journey

By Michael Gunther Over the last two years, I have had the privilege of serving as President of the Board of Directors for the Golden Gate Business Association (GGBA), the nation’s first LGBTQ+ chamber of commerce, founded in San Francisco in 1974. This journey has been full of twister-like situations from the pandemic, social justice issues, and economic challenges—all the while working to sustain and grow our membership-based organization.

Like many organizations over the last two years, we have had our share of challenges to deal with, but I am fortunate in that I have had fellow board members who were also committed and hopeful for the future. I was also blessed by the organizational foundation built from past Board Presidents who focused on members’ needs first.

I feel like the GGBA is a home, of sorts, for leaders and business owners in the LGBTQ+ community. It is a place you can be your authentic self and where our members truly care about supporting one another and their businesses. It is a place of amazing people who bring all aspects of diversity, thoughts,

and emotions into the equation of building solid, caring relationships.

bring new corporate partners to the organization.

tiatives forward while being fiduciarily responsible.

Therefore, as we faced the challenges in front of us on this journey together, I realized that we could accomplish great things by staying flexible, creative, and committed to supporting our members and laying the groundwork for sustainability of the chamber. Here are some of the accomplishments I am most proud of that occurred during my tenure:

Created a Business Acceleration Program, supporting 22 small business owners who participated in a 3-month intensive boot camp to transition their businesses at the height of the pandemic.

Based on the success of this program, we are launching another cohort this fall.

Grew our Board of Directors to 16 members while also updating our organization’s By-Laws that hadn’t been updated in years.

Hired a full-time Executive Director and part-time Membership Coordinator.

Previously, we were an all-volunteer organization, meaning we were a working board whose members had to manage every function of the organization while also maintaining their lives and businesses outside their duties. As you could imagine, this would not be sustainable over time.

Increased our membership every quarter. We have continued to add and grow our membership throughout the last 2 years and look forward to continuing the path of engaging new businesses to join.

Expanded our Corporate/Partner sponsorships. We have continued to grow our current corporate partnerships as well as

GGBA Member Spotlight

MISTR is a gay-owned and operated telemedicine business founded by the company’s president and CEO Tristan Schukraft with the goal of making PrEP available to all who need it. The online site ( https://heymistr.com/ ) makes it possible for HIV-negative adults (18+) to access physicians virtually and receive free delivery of prescriptions.

Judgement-free treatment is possible from the privacy of home. MISTR has also launched a femalefocused brand, SISTR ( https://heymistr.com/sistr/ ).

Developed an Ambassador Club to provide opportunities for members to volunteer with the GGBA while enhancing the relationships with other members.

Transitioned from in-person events to online events to hybrid events, and back to in-person events. (That process felt like a twister.) As many of you know well from your own experience, this was no easy task, but we were committed to bringing value to our members by engaging with them as best we could, ensuring they had the ability to gain knowledge and network with other members during the pandemic.

Created a new 5-year vision for the 48-year-old organization while also building internal management structures such as budgets, quarterly goals, and accountability tools to move our ini-

What a journey this has been! We’ve experienced the ups and downs in the ever-changing economy, challenges in sustaining our organization during the pandemic, and impacts on members navigating these crises. But in writing this list, I am reminded that no matter how great the challenges we face are, having a strong GGBA committed to providing members with the inspiration, connections, programs, and relationships to support them in achieving their goals is critical for the success of our LGBTQ+ communities.

Michael Gunther is the outgoing President of the Board of the Golden Gate Business Association as well as the Founder and President of Collaboration Business Consulting, a team of highly skilled business professionals who are dedicated to assisting proactive business owners to build profitable, sustainable businesses through results-oriented consulting services.

MISTR: PrEP Prescribed Online and Delivered to Your Door but with COVID all that changed.”

Schukraft spent a full year researching before launching MISTR in 2018. The company is headquartered in Miami Beach, Florida.

Read more GGBA news online! www.ggba.com

To participate, customers answer some basic health questions to create a confidential and secure Tristan Schukraft profile. A lab test that can be com“It took a long time to build the platform,” Schukraft pleted from home is required to test for said in an interview with Technolog y Innovations, “and, of course, HIV, Hepatitis B, and kidney function. there were many who didn’t see the potential of telemedicine, An at-home test kit is mailed upon request and samples can be mailed back for processing of results without delay. Testing can also be done in-person at 2,200 locations around the U.S. Doctors review the results and information submitted and prescribe PrEP if deemed appropriate. Video consultations with a MISTR physician can be scheduled, and online chat or phone calls are also possible.

Once approved, the prescription is shipped and typically arrives between 1–2 business days later shipped by Priority Mail, FedEx, UPS, or local courier. Packaging is discreet with no labeling to indicate contents. Prescriptions are renewed every three months.

MISTR can be accessed 24-hours a day online. Calls are responded to between 10 am–8 pm (Eastern), Monday through Friday.

There is no charge for the service, and all insurance except Kaiser is accepted to cover the cost of the medication. Patience assistance programs may be available to anyone who is uninsured.

Learn more from Tristan Schukraft on YouTube: https://tinyurl.com/mupu5frp

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Meeting Your Basic Needs Shouldn't Be an Obstacle Course Even with ATC’s individualized advocacy, over half of our clients are not accessing social services outside of ATC that are intended to benefit them. One reason is that social services as designed often end up being challenging to navigate and, in some cases, create additional barriers to entry for people rather than providing accessible relief. We have seen firsthand that, even with dedicated support from our team, it can take clients months to years to attain

housing. This is, in part, because to qualify for many housing programs, clients have to secure identification documents, make exactly the right amount of income, and fill out challenging applications—all while they remain unhoused. Each of these steps can take months to accomplish, and the path to complete the process is often riddled with roadblocks.

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We understand that the challenges people face and the goals they set for themselves are complex. We honor each of our client’s individuality, providing space for our people to feel heard and connected and to reach their dreams. Our approach doesn’t enforce an arbitrary timeline onto people. Each year, 90% of the clients who receive counseling from ATC achieve one or more of their goals including improving their housing, addressing their mental health issues, and finding employment.

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example. The program is designed to prioritize getting the most vulnerable people experiencing homelessness into housing. However, the service delivery is inconsistent from site to site, and even from person to person.

We’ve talked with clients who have gone through the coordinated entry interview—which requires applicants to answer incredibly personal questions—and been told they were not priority status. Then, they may opt to go through the exact same interview again with a different provider and score higher on the priority scale, fast-tracking their housing process.

Can you imagine experiencing homelessness and being told you were not a priority for housing? Would you have the stamina to try going through this process again?

Even if a person is awarded housing through one of these programs, it often comes with specific expectations that can be difficult to meet. In 2020, ATC began a partnership with the Rising Up program, a public/private program launched by the City of San Francisco, and nonprofit partners, which provides a coordinated entry program specifically for youth aged 18–24. The housing strategy employed by the program is “Rapid Rehousing”—a temporary housing model that offers up to three years of rent subsidy coupled with case management. The stipend could last anywhere between 6–36 months, depending on the rental unit and the amount the client is able to contribute to their rent. Clients who are housed through this temporary housing structure are expected to secure enough income to cover the full cost of their market-rate rent (the average monthly rent for a studio in San Francisco is (continued on page 14)

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Will the U.S. Keep Up with Slovenia and Andorra on Marriage Equality? became the 33rd nation with marriage equality when its parliament unanimously enacted equality legislation as well as provisions enabling transgender people to update their names and genders on legal documents.

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6/26 and Beyond Stuart Gaffney and John Lewis On July 8, the Central European nation of Slovenia made history when it became the first former Soviet-bloc country and the 32nd country in the world with marriage equality. In a sweeping 6–3 ruling, the Slovenian Constitutional Court ruled in favor of equality and also invalidated laws prohibiting samesex couples from adopting children.

The decision took effect immediately with the Court giving the legislature six months to conform federal law to its decision. The groundbreaking decision could build momentum for marriage equality elsewhere such as the Czech Republic, another former Soviet-bloc country, and neighboring Italy.

Two weeks later, the tiny European nation of Andorra, perched in the Pyrenees between France and Spain,

We ask: Will the U.S. be able to keep up? The federal Respect for Marriage Act that would legislatively affirm marriage equality protections for LGBTIQ couples was introduced in Congress nine years ago, but it has still not passed. There’s new urgency to pass the law now.

As background, the U.S. Supreme Court in the 2013 Windsor decision struck down the notoriously mis-named 1996 Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) that prohibited federal recognition of same-sex marriages. In 2015, the Court established nationwide marriage equality as a fundamental constitutional right in the landmark Obergefell ruling.

But DOMA remains on the books today despite its being rendered unenforceable nine years ago by Windsor. And the composition of the U.S. Supreme Court has changed dramatically since the Windsor and Obergefell decisions. In his concurring opinion to this June’s anti-abortion Dobbs

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decision, Justice Thomas proclaimed his belief that the Court should reconsider Obergefell as well as decisions protecting the right to contraception and LGBTIQ people’s right to sexual intimacy, declaring all decisions based on substantive due process to be “demonstratively erroneous.”

Although no other Justice joined Thomas’ concurrence, it alarmed the LGBTIQ community and all those who value fundamental human rights and freedoms. The majority decision in Dobbs assured multiple times that its anti-abortion decision “unequivocally” would not “imperil” marriage and other rights and that such fears were “unfounded,” but the Court’s three dissenting Justices along with many Court observers remain skeptical. Although decisions protecting these rights do not appear to be at immediate risk, the LGBTIQ community is left feeling vulnerable to future attack.

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In response, LGBTIQ rights supporters in Congress renewed efforts to pass the Respect for Marriage Act. The legislation would wipe DOMA off the books, meaning that married LGBTIQ couples would no longer have to rely solely on the Supreme Court’s Windsor decision to ensure federal recognition of their marriages.

However, it is important to understand that there is widespread consensus that Congress lacks the power through a federal statute to require states to permit LGBTIQ couples to marry. Obergefell held that the highest law of the land, the U.S. Constitution, prohibits states from denying same-sex couples the right to marry. But if the Supreme Court someday took the egregious step of overruling Obergefell, either a federal Constitutional amendment would be needed to re-establish marriage equality as a constitutional (continued on page 14)

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In Memoriam: Patricia Elise Norman (1939–2022), Longtime Leader in the Fight for LGBTQ Rights Patricia Elise Norman, 82, passed away peacefully on August 5, 2022, in Las Vegas, Nevada. Born on October 21, 1939, and raised in Brooklyn, New York, she was the youngest of four children; her parents were James A. and Maude B. Richardson. Her father was the owner of Richardson Trucking Company and Norman was inspired by both of her parents. She was especially influenced by her mother, who was a community activist and leader of the civil rights movements in the 1940s. Norman was encouraged by her parents to get involved with

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Norman was a longtime leader in the fight for lesbian and gay rights, and a constant fighter for women and people of color. She dedicated over 40 years of her life to providing timely vision, steadfast programs, and services. When the HIV/AIDS epidemic surfaced in San Francisco, for example, she was there with her creative, outside-the-box vision and strength to respond to the many challenges.

She began her activism in California in 1971, when she founded the Lesbian Mothers’ Union to address and defend child custody issues for lesbians. In 1972, she became the first openly gay person hired by the San Patricia “Pat” Norman (right) with lesbian activists Del Martin (left) Francisco Department and Phyllis Lyon of Health to serve the gay community. She was a key leader in the development of AIDS care, called the San Francisco Model, which involved a collaborative network of city agencies, community organizations, hospitals, and healthcare providers.

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various African American civic groups, and in high school, she was a member of the Brooklyn chapter of the NAACP. She went on in her education as far as a Masters in Clinical Psychology.

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Norman was a lecturer and consultant to nonprofit and public agencies from 1974–1988, and was the statewide director of training for the Youth Environment Study (YES), Inc., from 1988 to 1989. She was a co-chair for the California State Mobilization for Peace, Jobs, and Justice, 1984; cochair of the National March on Washington for Lesbian/ Gay Rights, 1987; a delegate

to Jesse Jackson, Democratic National Convention, 1988; a member of the Nelson Mandela Reception Committee, 1990; and a co-chair of the Stonewall 25 Organizing Committee, 1994, where demonstrators unfurled a one-mile-long, 30-foot rainbowcolored flag symbolizing lesbian and gay rights.

Roughly one million participants from around the world converged on the Avenue of Americas in New York City on that day.

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Norman was founder, president, and chief executive officer Pat Norman at a protest calling for better mobilization against HIV/AIDS of the Institute for Community Health She was a dedicated member of Outreach, an organization that the California State Democratic provides training for community Party Central Committee, the health workers, especially focusing AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power on underserved and stigmatized (ACT UP), the Women’s AIDS populations. She retired in 2002, Network, the National Gay Task and shortly thereafter moved to Force, the Lesbian Rights Project, Kauai, Hawaii, where she lived for the Human Rights Foundation, 20 years. the Community Against Violence, and more.

Throughout the years, Norman also served on several public comShe was very happy to spend her missions: the Police Commission, last months surrounded by her Fire Commission, and the Human family, whom she loved very much.

Rights Commission. She proShe will truly be missed by many. vided years of leadership on Her family and friends encournonprofit boards such as servage others to google “Pat Norman” ing as the president of the Black (“activist” can be added to the Coalition on AIDS, the president of SAGE (Standing Against Global search) for more information about her contributions and accomplishExploitation), and the president of Larkin Street Youth Center. ments.

GLBT Fortnight in Review Maybe This Time I have a pit of anxiety developing in my stomach this morning as the minutes tick by while I make zero progress on this column and search desperately for inspiration. So far, I have reread my recent efforts, googled “gay,” “lesbian,” “GLBT,” and “LGBT, checked out two appellate law blogs (and wasted some more time reading about unrelated cases), and reviewed my two saved news folders that usually contain recent bits and pieces of interest to us all.

Nothing has triggered my mental energy. I then had breakfast on the porch with my wife and our friend who is visiting, where we discussed writer’s block and I complained bitterly about not getting anything done.

Part of the problem is that this week, when I should have been gearing up for this deadline, we were all obsessed with the FBI raid on Mara-Lago. Could something be happening at last? How many times have we thought Trump was finally facing a reckoning only to see him squirm away and emerge no worse for wear?

The tapes right before the 2016 election—I thought that was it for him.

Then we had the Russia dossier, the Mueller investigation, the “perfect call” to Zelensky, impeachment number one, scandals over his “charity” and his “university” that went nowhere. We saw him use the inauguration as a cash grab, with no repercussions. We read book after book revealing the extent of his derangement. We had “Stop the Steal” and January 6 and another impeachment. We heard the call to “find 11,000 votes.” I mean, come on! Isn’t that illegal? How long does it take to file charges in Georgia?

By the time the House Committee on January 6 started public hearings, it seemed as if nothing would ever stick. Could he really shoot someone on Fifth Avenue and get away with it? It looked like the answer was yes.

Of all his many atrocities, the misuse of presidential records has not been high on my list of things that could possibly bring Trump to heel.

After all, investigators have his taxes, they’ve talked to Deutsche Bank, we’ve heard from half a dozen wronged women ... the list is endless.

But if prosecutors have a slam dunk case of, I don’t know, eating a topsecret memo, and if they can make it stick, that would be enough to prevent him from holding elected office.

And that would be enough for me, actually. That’s the only thing that matters because, without power, his influence slowly seeps away—but four more years of Trump could corrode our nation’s institutions beyond repair.

Nice Ruling from the Mitten State There was a welcome decision from the Michigan Supreme Court, where justices ruled 5–2 on July 28 that Michigan’s civil rights law, which bans discrimination because of sex, automatically bans sexual orientation and gender identity discrimination as part of that category. This comes in the context of a complaint filed by a lesbian couple against a Christian wedding venue, as well as a similar complaint filed by a transgender woman who was denied electrolysis services at a salon.

Both plaintiffs sued under Michigan’s Elliot-Larsen Civil Rights Act (ELCRA) and were given the green light by the state’s Office of Civil Rights. Our opponents then asked

By Ann Rostow an intermediate court to determine whether or not the ELCRA extends to GLBT citizens, and although Marissa Wolfe was allowed to continue her lawsuit against the spa, the court ruled that state law did not cover sexual orientation. Don’t ask me how the appellate court could allow a gender identity claim but deny a same-sex couple, because I made a halfhearted effort to determine the answer and reached no conclusion. Let’s just say that the lesbian couple appealed that ruling, sent it to the Supreme Court, and the rest is history.

A couple of weeks before the decision, another wedding venue, The Broadway Avenue in Grand Rapids, announced that they too would reject any same-sex couple who wanted to use their services. “Our business is the result of a lot of hard work and dedication and is a reflection of who we are, and the values and beliefs we hold from our faith in Jesus Christ,” the owners Nick and Hannah Natale said piously in a post. “As a result, we would like our business to remain true to our Christian faith and this includes marriage.” The Natales clarified that transgender brides and grooms would also be rejected. We’ll see what happens if push comes to shove at the old Broadway Avenue, particularly now that the top court has ruled in our favor on the underlying law.

More Tedious but Important News Meanwhile, do you remember the complicated situation regarding Biden’s attempt to put sexual orientation and gender protections back into Obamacare? The Department of Health and Human Services announced the policy last year, but

only formalized it this July. Before they even dotted the i’s and crossed the t’s, a Trumpy judge in Texas issued an injunction that blocked our side from putting the policy into effect, and naturally we appealed.

Unfortunately, the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Fifth Circuit, which governs Texas, is one of the most conservative in the land, and we drew a selection of three Republicannominated judges for our panel.

Oral arguments were held the other day, but I’m not holding my breath for a good result. And so goes the merry-go-round of executive action slammed by rightwing courts. I think there’s another big lawsuit against the healthcare civil rights standards as well, but this one is further along.

Over in the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Seventh Circuit, some 22 attorneys general have filed briefs in support of a transgender boy who is suing his Indiana high school for access to the bathrooms and locker rooms. That case arrives five years after the Seventh Circuit ruled in favor of Ash Whitaker, another transboy, in a similar case also based on the interpretation of Title IX’s ban on sex discrimination in public schools. Indeed, a lower court ruled in favor of AC, the boy in this case, based on that 2017 precedent. I’m not sure how many times we have to go through the same arguments on an issue that seems already settled, at least in the Seventh Circuit.

And speaking of Indiana, a 10-yearold transgender girl who sued to remain on her school girls’ softball team has won a preliminary injunction from a federal judge allowing her to keep playing while her case continues. The ruling applies only to this particular girl, who sued after the state legislature overrode a veto

to pass one of those anti-trans sports bans.

“The law remains in effect across the state and we will continue our work to defend this law and to protect Indiana’s K12 students,” the annoying Indiana Republican Attorney General Todd Rokita tweeted Tuesday. “The court’s ruling allows only this particular plaintiff to play this particular sport at this particular elementary school.”

Judge Jane Magnus-Stinson relied on our oft-discussed 2020 High Court ruling (Bostock) that placed transgender bias within the ambit of sex discrimination, as well as the aforementioned 2017 case, writing: “Courts within this district have followed Whitaker and Bostock, finding that it is a violation of Title IX for a public institution to discriminate against an individual on the basis of their transgender status in the context of prohibiting a transgender student from using the bathroom of the sex with which he or she identifies.”

So there.

Pubic Hair and Pugs One Million Moms, always good for a little diversion, is now incensed over ads by Gillette Venus for specialty razors. One of the ads, Moms tells us, is: “‘A Song for Pubes,’” which features a cartoon “pubic hair” character singing and dancing while discussing pubic hair.

“These ads are so suggestive and disgraceful in their attempt to normalize the discussion of pubic hair on primetime television. Yet, Gillette still chose to air these commercials despite their obviously controversial nature,” the Moms went on. “Can

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you imagine what goes through the mind of a child when he or she sees these ads? And we all know children repeat what they hear.

Gillette should be ashamed!”

Brandon Miller, CFP®, is a financial consultant at Brio Financial Group in San Francisco, specializing in helping LGBT individuals and families plan and achieve their financial goals.

BERRY/MILLER/RIBEIRO (continued from page 11) $2,300) by the time their stipend runs out. If they don’t, they will very likely lose their housing.

In our experience, imposing timelines on people who are newly housed is a problematic approach. What we’ve seen with many individuals we work with is that, when someone does finally attain housing, a lot can come up around past traumas and feelings of increased isolation from not seeing their community as often. If we prioritized providing permanent housing subsidies, it would give people the time they need to adjust to being housed, take care of their mental health, and explore what options they have, without the threat of losing their housing after a set period of time.

ATC is intent on providing unconditional support to people who are most likely to be overlooked, passed over, or even kicked out of programs. By partnering with programs like Rising Up, we are taking a seat at the table to advocate for our clients’ needs and to influence the program design to address many different people’s needs, not just those most likely to succeed.

We envision a Bay Area where everyone has what they need to thrive, regardless of their race, gender, sexuality, class, survival activities, physical ability, or mental health. By breaking down barriers to getting help and supporting people as they find their own unique paths to stability, At The Crossroads is building a world where no one has to navigate poverty and housing insecurity alone. Does that sound like a Bay Area you want to live in? We invite you to join us.

For more information: https://bit.ly/atc-updates Artavia B. Berry is ATC’s new Executive Director, bringing over 25 years of experience leading nonprofits. Berry also serves as Chair of the Hayward Community Services Commission, allocating $2M to nonprofits providing safety nets for the most vulnerable residents.

She was drawn to ATC’s compassionate approach to providing services and focus on long-term relationships.

Demaree Miller is ATC’s Program Director. He has spent the last 11 years creating programming and working with various communities in San Francisco.

He joined ATC because of the organization’s focus on advocacy and client-led outcomes.

Lee Ribeiro is ATC’s Communication and Engagement Coordinator. He has spent the last eight years working in product marketing and communications across various companies. He joined ATC because of the organization’s unique approach to supporting SF’s most overlooked communities.

In the same press release, the Moms whined about a couple of streaming shows with “blatant LGBTQ content,” including one called Dead End; Paranormal Park, which involves “two teens and a talking pug [who] team up to battle demons at a haunted theme park— and maybe even save the world from a supernatural apocalypse.” Anything with a talking pug is worth watching in my view. Surely not even the Moms can object to the most adorable dog ever to waddle the Earth, right?

Wrong.

“In addition to its demonic storyline,” they huff, “an episode of the show includes two teen boys who have a crush on each other.

They are encouraged by an older lesbian couple to move past the awkwardness and get to know each other. They are affectionate toward one another and eventually end up being honest about their feelings.” Say it ain’t so!

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In other news about kids from Florida, Lambda Legal and the Southern Poverty Law Center have filed a federal challenge to the Don’t Say Gay bill, otherwise known as the Parental Rights in Education Act. “The purpose and effect of this breathtakingly broad law is to silence LGBTQ+ students and families, and the law’s imprecision intensifies its chilling effect. Because the law invites any parent dissatisfied with a school’s censorship of LGBTQ-related speech to sue the school district and collect attorney fees, it causes schools to aggressively control discussions that might trigger the type of moral objection that gave rise to this law,” said Kell Olson, Lambda Legal Staff Attorney.

“Already, schools have cut anti-bullying guidance for K–12 teachers and pulled books from

Ladies First Finally, I was intrigued by a story of two men, Archibald Butt and Francis Davis Millet, who appeared to have lived as a couple in a Washington, D.C., mansion, throwing lavish parties and operating something of a bed and breakfast for other bachelors. Butt was a high-profile aide, first to Teddy Roosevelt and then to William Howard Taft, while Millet was an artist.

During the 1912 election, Butt was reportedly quite distressed by the falling out between the current and former presidents. Millet convinced him to take a European vacation, and the men returned to New York on the Titanic. Or at least they made the attempt.

In one of his last missives to a friend, Millet sent a letter describing the luxurious ship, but complaining about “a number of obnoxious, ostentatious American women.”

It is ironic that the obnoxious women presumably survived, while the men stoically went down with ship. arostow@aol.com

LEWIS/GAFFNEY (continued from page 12) right, or a future Court in a future case would have to reverse the overruling of Obergefell.

The Respect for Marriage Act would do everything in Congress’ power to protect the marriage rights of LGBTIQ people if the Court stooped so low as to overrule Obergefell.

The Act declares that the federal government recognizes all marriages between LGBTIQ couples that are legal in the state where they are performed, regardless of whether the couples’ home states recognize their marriages.

It also mandates that any state that does not permit LGBTIQ couples to marry must still recognize marriages of its residents who go to other states to marry. Unfortunately, if this provision were someday needed, it would require some couples to travel out-of-state to marry, and would likely face a legal challenge, which we hope would ultimately prove unsuccessful. But all of this dizzying legal analysis underscores not only the critical

importance of both constitutional and statutory rights but also the truth of the dictum: Equality is simple; discrimination is complicated.

The Respect for Marriage Act breezed through the House of Representatives on a 267 to 157 vote, with 47 Republican members voting in favor. Now all eyes turn to the Senate, where openly LGBTIQ Senator Tammy Baldwin of Wisconsin is spearheading efforts to gain the 60 votes needed for passage. All 50 Democrat Senators and some Republicans have signaled their support, and LGBTIQ grassroots activists are pressing additional Republican Senators for their votes. President Biden, who as a Senator voted in favor of DOMA along with 84 of his Senate colleagues back in 1996, stands ready to sign the bill. However, the ultimate outcome remains uncertain.

When the Slovenian Constitutional Court last month ordered the nation’s Parliament

to enact marriage equality legislation, Labor, Family, and Social Affairs Minister Luka Mesec exclaimed, “We will do it with the greatest pleasure in the shortest possible time.”

It’s been over a quarter century since DOMA passed. The profound change that has taken place over the last 26 years is inspiring, but the LGBTIQ community has gone far beyond merely being impressed that more people are supporting us now than ever before. It’s time for concrete action and passage of the Respect for Marriage Act now.

John Lewis and Stuart Gaffney, together for over three decades, were plaintiffs in the California case for equal marriage rights decided by the California Supreme Court in 2008. Their leadership in the grassroots organization Marriage Equality USA contributed in 2015 to making same-sex marriage legal nationwide.

Castro LGBT Community Hub COVID Testing & Vaccination Free COVID-19 testing, vaccines, & boosters are offered each Saturday from 10 am–4 pm, with no appointment necessary, at the Collingwood Parking lot on 18th Street between Collingwood and Castro Street behind Walgreens.

Testing is provided by the SF Department of Public Health in partnership with Virus Geeks, Duboce Triangle Neighborhood Association, Eureka Valley Neighborhood Association, Castro Merchants Association, and the Castro LGBTQ Cultural District with support from the office of Supervisor Rafael Mandelman.

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Speaking of kids, Ron DeSantis has filed a complaint against a Miami restaurant that hosted a mildly lewd drag show brunch when kids were present. A video made the rounds, showing a scantily clad drag queen strutting her stuff, hand in hand with a small girl. The little girl looks puzzled and the right-wing Twitterverse was mad as bees. “The nature of the performances ... particularly when conducted in the presence of young children, corrupts the public morals and outrages the sense of public decency,” the complaint says.

As for the restaurant, managers there said the situation was “a misunderstanding,” which “will be resolved positively and promptly.”

shelves. LBGTQ+ parents are struggling to find gentle ways to explain to their children why they won’t be able to talk openly about their families when they go back to the classroom in a few weeks. This discriminatory law puts students at risk and sends a message of shame and stigma that has no place in schools.”

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Hmmm. I could not resist googling “a song for pubes” and watching the curly cartoon public hair bemoaning a society where regular hair is loved and praised while pubic hair is relegated to a forbidden secret underworld.

The moral is, take care of your pubic area and don’t be embarrassed. Pubic hair needs love too. I wasn’t convinced, frankly, but I think the kids will be alright.

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Stranger Danger a faceless, hoodie-clad hacker with a penchant for stealing our information.

As a new generation of children grows up online, it’s only fitting that all the world’s dangers have since made the switch online too. And yet, despite the risks (that my parents have made sure to ingrain in my brain), I love the internet.

Bi-Coastal Tabitha Parent Talking to strangers on the internet is the new “accepting candy from the man with the white van.”

For many of the kids in my generation who grew up playing more Temple Run on their iPad than running around their neighborhoods or perhaps played a little (okay, a lot) more Doodle Jump than spent time jumping on a trampoline, we’ve become a lot less afraid of the man who offers us free candy on the street. After all, we’ve all heard of Stranger Danger, haven’t we?

No, now the urban legend that gets us to eat our vegetables at night isn’t some creep in a minivan but rather

Just like I loved playing “Little House on the Prairie” with American Girl Dolls in my backyard and pretending to be fairies with other kids on the playground while I was growing up, I love liking my friends’ latest posts on Instagram and leaving captions that show I care about the content they’re putting out there (while still maintaining my effortless coolgirl façade). I thoroughly enjoy the mind-numbing TikToks they send me because it makes me happy to know they thought of me when they watched.

Whether you grew up riding your bike to the beach with friends or sending them videos of the ocean on Snapchat, you were looking for a connection. You were watching for kids who would let you be Taylor Swift when you played “Singers” because, for whatever reason, they

genuinely liked Selena Gomez more.

Or, you were scouring the internet for people whose Instagram accounts shared your desired aesthetic. Same difference.

Danger was and always will be a factor. There will always be creeps lurking around parks and 50-yearolds pretending to be your 14-yearold online gamer buddy. However, the internet provides opportunities that IRL (that’s “in real life”) baddies don’t have the “luxury” of.

Anonymity. Hackers and creeps get to hide behind fake email addresses and phony profile pics to carry out their evildoings.

However, this leaves already vulnerable youth more susceptible to harassment by those who lurk in online spaces looking to harass members of the LGBTQ community. Currently, 25% of all LGBTQ youths experience online bullying or harassment.

LGBTQ kids should be able to seek out other members of the LGBTQ community in safe and affirming ways without worrying about the potential for online harassment.

Online spaces like TrevorSpace or Q Chat Space offer these safe spaces that LGBTQ kids seek when they venture online. Spaces like these are helping to revolutionize the experience that kids have when they look for connections with other LGBTQ youth online.

But what happens when the only place you can go to feel safe is the very place where these anonymous villains lurk in the meta-shadows?

For many LGBTQ youths, the anonymity of the internet is both a blessing and a curse. For kids whose families might not accept their sexuality or gender identity, the internet has become a place to seek out members of communities in which they feel safe. In fact, LGBTQ youth spend an average of 45 more minutes a day online, with 62% of LGBTQ youth using the internet to connect with other LGBTQ people.

For kids who may not have any other place to go to for support, having organizations that make sure that the online spaces that kids seek refuge in are safe and monitored is one way that we can help combat the discrimination that kids face surrounding their sexuality and gender identity.

But I have to agree with one thing my parents tell me about the internet. It’s diminishing the number of face-to-face conversations and interactions that we regularly have. By

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Social Philanthropreneur Derek Barnes Have you ever wondered why some words, phrases, and concepts seem to be of the moment? Some stand the test of time, while others do not. We routinely retire, replace, and modify parts of language that no longer reflect the current and shared understanding of the majority. At what point do these transitions occur, and how do these changes serve our intentions or goals as human beings?

We know that communication may be expressed as non-verbal or verbal. Fundamentally, language is the medium or system of communication that enables the transfer of information. It may be used to influence, organize, engage, and create. Language and its components become obsolete too. There are “dead” languages because the people or cultures that used a specific form of communication don’t exist today.

Words and phrases also shape concepts and thinking that are no longer universally shared.

There is no limit to the examples we can cite to analyze the human phenomenon of language. For example, most of us today don’t refer to people as oriental or colored. This was not true 50 years ago. When referencing American history, the subtle shift from “slaves” to being “enslaved” is now being used to describe a group of people owned in American industries that required human bondage and chattel. We distinguish unhoused versus homeless and have

This is why it is essential that educational institutions start working to incorporate LGBTQ-centered resources into their systems and that therapists and counselors know how to specifically talk to LGBTQidentifying individuals. We can’t expect children to behave safely online if they don’t have strong examples of LGBTQ role models and support systems in their daily lives.

In the end, the primary goal should always be to support others “IRL.” Tabitha Parent was born and raised in San Francisco and has just completed her first year of college at Boston College. In the fall, she will be a sophomore at Northwestern University studying journalism at the Medill School of Journalism.

In her free time, she enjoys writing poetry and running on trails in the Presidio.

Randy Coleman hails from New York, but has lived in San Francisco since 1975. Coleman shares that before moving to the Bay Area, he studied Art History and Architecture at Boston University while working as a resident artist for architectural rendering at a Massachusetts historical society. “All of my life I’ve been an artist,” Coleman says. “To know me is to know that I have a passion for art and architecture. I love this project for the San Francisco Bay Times, and hope that you enjoy my sketches.”

more choices to express a person’s gender identity than through the lens of having male and female reproductive organs.

As people become more aware or “woke,” we add nuance and layers of new understanding that may need different ways to describe historical references, current truths and reality, or the desired state. Humans crave immediate gratification (easy fixes) to resolve difficult situations or take shortcuts to achieve the desired goal. Does distinguishing “slaves” versus “enslaved” change our collective understanding about the horrific practices and generational impact to people who were in bondage? These linguistic tactics can produce illusions that focus on superficial progress or optics rather than doing the work of changing the conditions that fix underlying problems.

Social media provides limitless exchanges and interactions that amplify this tendency exponentially today.

not working to ensure that LGBTQidentifying kids have physical, inperson spaces to seek support and connection, we are forcing them to form connections with strangers on the internet.

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Sometimes there’s an intention to rename what is perceived as bad or negative (stigma) and a move toward something that has less baggage or is not as provocative. Some good examples are master bedroom versus primary bedroom or landlord versus housing provider.

Cultural and generational perspectives are also crucial in reconciling stigma, as we see using homosexual, gay, queer, and same-gender loving within certain groups as self-identifiers.

These changes may be subtle but have a way of seeping into the everyday language that is used to describe our experiences, define value, identify a point in time, or support our beliefs and intentions. Most certainly, there is power in language. In his recent book The Language Hoax, John McWhorter writes about the communications phenomenon. His supposition is that humans see things in remarkably similar ways despite the languages that different groups may use.

The use of diverse, prescriptive, or complex (structure) language does not equate to advanced intellect, engaging in more robust analysis, or driving deeper meaning. In other words, a different language or dialect doesn’t make us more interesting or novel. The lessons in the study of language teach us that our perceived differences are only variations of being the same. What appears to be clear in numerous studies is that the different ways in which we communicate can shape judgments and reality that ultimately support our desired experiences and need for shared culture.

Derek Barnes is the CEO of the East Bay Rental Housing Association ( www.EBRHA.com ). He currently serves on the boards of Horizons Foundation and Homebridge CA. Follow him on Twitter @ DerekBarnesSF or on Instagram at DerekBarnes.SF

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s planned and expected, after our brief bout with COVID, mercifully mild symptoms, torturous self-isolation, and a return to negative status, we dove headfirst into a busy social schedule, giving us plenty to report about to our readers!

On Friday, July 29, we continued the monthly San Francisco Bay Times event Divas & Drinks @ The Academy, this time themed around gratitude for the many who had an essential role in the paper’s contingent in the SF Pride Parade. We know full well that assembling an exciting group presence in this annual parade is no easy feat, but Betty Sullivan and Jennifer Viegas called upon friends across their network and those friends responded enthusiastically. The program started with a rousing vocal performance by SF Pride Parade Grand Marshal Melanie DeMore and introduction of Bay Times cover person and SF Marathon winner in the nonbinary category Cal Calamia. Then the thank you wishes accompanied by flowers, Kokak chocolates, and wine began, starting with Joe Shirley of Napa Cellars, Todd Parent of Extreme Pizza, Olivia Travel, represented by DJ Christie James, Warren Alderson and Rob Seide of SF Federal Credit Union, Jimmy Consos of Grubstake, Masto Foundation, and Celebrity Cruises.

This seems the perfect place for a small aside: We are ready to hit the high seas again and Celebrity Cruises looks like the way to go!

We have such fond memories of a number of RSVP Cruises we’ve taken over the years, including that unforgettable transatlantic crossing on the Queen Mary 2. If you too long for a return to the bucolic life of cruising, check out the specials Celebrity Cruises is offering right now!

We heard from Dixie Horning of the UCSF National Center of Excellence in Women’s Health and Robert Holgate, the widower of Al Baum and steward of his ongoing philanthropy. A special thank you went to Patrick & Hossein Carney, who received their own bright pink cake in celebration of their recent anniversary and indicative of the Pink Triangle Project that they have spearheaded for over 20 years. Contingent Team Captains and Contingent Managers all received praise and gifts and Betty Sullivan delivered a heartfelt thank you to the indispensable Juan Davila and surprised Jennifer with belated birthday wishes. Special recognition went to Monette Shirley, who proudly bore the Bay Times banner leading the contingent. Not to be overlooked, additional appreciated volunteers received raffle tickets and six door prizes were awarded to the lucky ticket holders.

Having produced many events over time and watched as others do the same, we are deeply aware of the value of showing appreciation to those who join the team to make things happen. Indeed, when an event becomes annual and the organizer wonders where the volunteers from the year before have gone, we often ask how they were thanked previously. When an individual, business, or other supporter(s) feels appreciated and valued, they will most often happily return year after year.

Kudos to the Bay Times for making sure that their SF Pride Parade contingent supporters received the recognition they deserved.

Then it was on to a fast-paced Name That Tune competition between returning champions Team SF Pride and newcomers Team SF Federal Credit Union. DJ Christie James challenged both teams with only a few precious notes from each song and the competition was close, but Team SF Federal Credit Union emerged the winner and Bacardí gift boxes were awarded to all participants. Great dance music resumed and the assembled crowd danced merrily into the night.

Flagging in the Park returned to the AIDS Memorial Grove in Golden Gate Park and we simply had to be there! This periodic outdoor event is a riot of colorful flagging, contagious dance music, and tons of smiling faces. DJ Kimberly S was a crowd-pleaser, evoking fabulous memories of hours spent on various dance floors, notably Fresh at Ruby Skye. The silent auction and any donations benefited the AIDS Memorial Grove. This was the perfect event for my little puppy Peanut, a favorite wherever she goes.

That Saturday night, we headed to Feinstein’s at the Nikko in the delightful company of Sal Tovar to hear Matt Alber. We have been a devoted fan for years, having heard him perform at various venues, always with vocal precision and fresh interpretation, sometimes revising standards and sometimes treating us to original material. In addition to singing beautifully, Matt shared his passion for the work he is doing in schools to support early childhood selfconfidence and creativity through music. He concluded his performance with one of my personal favorites, “Velvet Goldmine.” After such a glorious night of music, it seemed perfect to stop by Martuni’s before calling it a night. And yes, pianist Joe Wicht compelled us to sing a song and the crowd was very generous.

We started Dore Alley Street Fair at Ray Tilton’s annual brunch at Willow’s restaurant, where around 75 enthusiastic Leather folk gathered in a long-awaited sort of reunion. Daddy Ray shared some Leather history as only he can and presented a special trophy of recognition for service to Deborah Hoffman-Wade, who was obviously surprised and pleased. Ray had requested (commanded) that we sing a song (specifically “We Can Be Kind”) and we were happy to oblige. (What choice did we really have?) From there it was just a hop, skip, and a jump to the street fair festivities.

That night was Brian Kent’s PLAY T-Dance at 1015 Folsom and he pulled out all the stops! We have never seen this facility used to such advantage with colorful circus decor, stage video screens, flaggers, dancers, contortionists, wildly atmospheric special effects, and incredible dance music from DJ Russ Rich. Even this unassuming columnist and dance music lover was invited to join other San Francisco personalities on stage in a peak-of-the-night moment, minutes before a riotous confetti drop exploded. What a way to end Dore Alley weekend!

Last Saturday afternoon, we co-hosted with Emperor Jacques Michaels the monthly Starlight Show at Beaux, raising money for the Monarchs’ Charity Fund. Reigning Emperor Brett Marek & Reigning Empress Ehra Amaya PHOTO BY SHAWN NORTHCUTT

Thursday, August 11 Community Forum on Castro Theatre Another Planet Entertainment & Castro Theatre owners Information & public input Castro Theatre, 429 Castro Street 6–7:30 pm Free!

Saturday, August 13 Black & White Ball Barony of Alameda County’s Court of Many Colors, Cultures & Equality Hilton Garden Inn, San Francisco/Oakland, 1800 Powell Street, Emeryville 5 pm $10 & up https://tinyurl.com/aaevmzfw Saturday, August 20 Empresses’ Tea Party Hosted by Absolute Empress XLI Galilea In memory of Founder Empress I José Sarria The Cinch, 1723 Polk Street 3–6 pm Free! www.sfimperialcouncil.org Sunday, August 21 Imperial Chili Cookout & Open Show Hosted by Mx. Golden Gate John Brett, Mr. Cowboy Brandon West & Miss Cowgirl Jubilee The Cinch, 1723 Polk Street 4–7 pm $10 www.sfimperialcouncil.org Friday, August 26 Divas & Drinks Bay Times party w/Donna Sachet Special guests: Renée Lubin & Dr. Dee Spencer DJ Rockaway, Bacardí cocktails, Extreme Pizza Name That Tune competition The Academy, 2166 Market Street 6–10 pm $10 https://tinyurl.com/3ymc7zha gathered a generous crowd of performers and supporters, many from the Imperial and Ducal Families both here and from other cities, including the Reigning Rose Emperor of Portland Ty VanHelsing. With bids on silent auction items gathered by CoCo Butter and Empress Angelina Josephina Manicotti and tips donated by performers, the event raised a staggering $2200 in a few hours!

Richmond/Ermet Aid Foundation’s Help is on the Way XXVI: Broadway & Beyond at the Marines’ Memorial Theatre was a dazzling display of talent, including very talented emcee Shawn Ryan, Paula West, Garrett Clayton, Julie Garnye, Debby Boone, Steve Knill, Leanne Borghesi, and Sally Struthers and under the direction of David Galligan. The capacity crowd was treated to singing, dance, comedy, and even a video message from Hollywood from the legendary Carole Cook.

Extraordinary live auction items, combined with a silent auction in the lobby and a fund-in-need call during the show, all resulted in significant funds raised for Project Open Hand and the Richmond/ Ermet Aid Foundation. This event never disappoints and this year’s Help is on the Way was back in full force. A catered reception with the stars followed at the recently opened Beacon Hotel, formerly the Sir Francis Drake, boasting a beautiful new style and a long-awaited rejuvenation of this important Union Square property, another visible sign of the waning pandemic.

Donna Sachet is a celebrated performer, fundraiser, activist, and philanthropist who has dedicated over two decades to the LGBTQ Community in San Francisco. Contact her at empsachet@ gmail.com

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Divas & Drinks @ The Academy: July 29, 2022 “Thank you!” was the phrase echoed throughout the evening during the Pride Volunteer Appreciation Party during Divas & Drinks at The Academy on Friday, July 29. Co-publishers Betty Sullivan and Jennifer Viegas teamed up with emcee Donna Sachet to express appreciation to volunteers, supporters, and sponsors who contributed to the success of the San Francisco Bay Times Pride Parade contingent for 2022. iHeart Radio star DJ Christie James, presented

by Olivia Travel, provided music throughout the evening.

Napa Cellars winemaker Joe Shirley and San Francisco Bay Times volunteer coordinator Juan Davila received certificates of appreciation.

Contingent managers Karen Bardsley, Warren Alderson, Steven Scheitlin, Cole Weeks, Elizabeth Tucker, and Monette Shirley were also honored, as were longtime contingent volunteers Carol Steinkamp, Carol Holcomb, Sister Dana Van Iquity, and Rink.

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Grand Marshal Melanie DeMore led attendees in a powerful sing along. Supporters Robert Holgate and Dixie Horning spoke from the heart about the importance of volunteerism and community philanthropy. Executive Director Suzanne Ford and officers Carolyn Wysinger, Nguyen Pham, and Elizabeth Lanyon represented SF Pride and provided a special door prize: a rainbow flag flown on Market Street during Pride Month.

Celebrity Cruises special offers on upcoming cruises were spotlighted, and sponsors Robert Holgate, the UCSF National Center of Excellence in Women’s Health, Big Bus Tours, the San Francisco Federal Credit Union, Olivia Travel, Masto Foundation, Grubstake, and ellaprint were acknowledged and appreciated for their important support.

Special thanks to Rink, Juan R. Davila, and Patrick Carney for photographing the event.

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Pink Triangle project founder Patrick Carney and his husband Hossein received a hot pink cake wishing them a happy anniversary.

(It was both their anniversary week as well as the week of Patrick’s birthday.) And all attending enjoyed refreshments provided by Extreme Pizza and La Méditerranée. Barcardí provided cocktails.

Napa Cellars chardonnay and merlot were complimentary for contingent volunteers.

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Birthday Extravaganza!

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6–10pm @ The Academy 2166 Market Street (between Sanchez & Church) Renée Lubin, who wowed audiences as the longest running performer with Beach Blanket Babylon and was featured in the hit films Tales of the City and The Sweetest Thing, has often been called “San Francisco’s resident diva.” She will be our diva of the night on August 26, when we will be celebrating her birthday!

Make that double diva, as she will be accompanied by another San Francisco musical legend in her own lifetime: Dr. Dee Spencer!

About the Event Get ready for a night of unforgettable music and celebration as we go double diva for Renée Lubin’s birthday party featuring Dr. Dee Spencer and other special guests. Whether performing with Quincy Jones, Wynton Marsalis, in sold-out musicals, or in solo shows, both women have earned their place as San Francisco music stars and they will be shining brightly tonight.

Let’s make that triple diva because your emcee will be our own resident superstar, Donna Sachet! Also in the house will be the Bacardí team, DJ Rockaway presented by Olivia Travel, food on the house, and much more.

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The Gershwin classic “Summertime,” by request, will be just one of the songs performed by Lubin, in hopes that the “living will be easy” (or at least easier) for all of us now and in the months to come. Please be with us for this one-of-a-kind, only-in-San Francisco Birthday Extravaganza!

Join us!

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Hershey Felder Stages a Piano Lesson by Chopin in New Solo Show Internationally-acclaimed performer and pianist Hershey Felder is a theatrical shapeshifter. At his tour de force solo shows, the talented performer morphs into beloved composers before your eyes—his knack for capturing their inner lives and mannerisms is second to none. Ever wanted to chat with Beethoven or rub shoulders with George Gershwin? Seeing Hershey Felder onstage is the closest you’ll get without a time machine.

His personifications of musical greats like Tchaikovsky, Debussy, and Irving Berlin have dazzled audiences in smash hit performances at some of the most prestigious theatres in the world, including on Broadway, in the West End, and more. But when the pandemic cancelled his packed schedule full of sold-out shows, he found a new performance venue: the internet.

The innovative performer created the arts broadcasting company Hershey Felder Presents – Live From Florence, which has produced more than a dozen theatrical films to date.

Filmed on location in Italy, Felder’s country of residence, and in picturesque places across Europe shadowing the footsteps of cherished figures, his series of world premiere works has found audiences tuning in around the world.

“The pandemic offered me time in one place to work on my craft and develop new ways of telling stories for a broader audience—as has been done in the cinema form I work with—while still trying to maintain an intimate audience experience,” Felder told the San Francisco Bay Times.

After more than two years of virtual audiences, Felder is thrilled to perform in-person at TheatreWorks.

Making its Bay Area Premiere, his newest show Hershey Felder: Chopin in Paris spotlights the life and music of Fryderyk Chopin. A darling in Parisian high society, Chopin was one of music’s earliest celebrities: his

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high-profile love life, including a romance with novelist George Sand (Amantine Lucile Aurore Dupin), caused quite a stir.

Chopin in Paris is different from Felder’s other shows as it is more immersive and interactive.

Audience members play a role as students in a lesson led by the musical master, based on a real-life piano lesson that took place in Paris in March 1848, days after the February 1848 revolution.

As Chopin made his living as a piano teacher for the wealthy and cultured elite, this format is a fitting way to tell Chopin’s story, illuminating the secrets of art and composition and the composer himself in this collaborative setting.

Virtuoso pianist/ performer Hershey Felder returns to TheatreWorks Silicon Valley in “Hershey Felder: Chopin in Paris” August 19 – September 11, 2022.

Known as the “poet of the piano,” the Polish composer’s keyboard compositions are unparalleled. “Chopin’s music is the non plus ultra of the piano repertoire,” said Felder. “It is evocative, ingeniously crafted, eternal, and beautiful. It is difficult to play, and more difficult to play well. It is an exciting challenge.”

With compositions for the piano including two polonaises (known as “Military” and “Heroic”), several nocturnes, a grande valse brillante, several preludes, and several mazurkas, his lasting impact on the musical world can still be felt.

“He is considered the inventor of the romantic piano sound,” said Felder.

“His unprecedented and exotic use of melody and harmony anticipates impressionism in music— a movement that would only come to fruition almost half a century after his death.”

Hershey Felder as Chopin

Felder revisits Chopin’s story after previously dazzling audiences with the critically-acclaimed Hershey Felder as Monsieur Chopin. “Art, especially live performance art, can never stagnate,” said Felder. “I am always looking for new and interesting ways to advance the storytelling. This version of Chopin is more interactive than the previous version

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Hershey Felder as Chopin at the piano

and ventures more into the significant relationship between piano teacher and student, which is the premise of this production.”

ing the world premieres of Hershey Felder as Claude Debussy in A Paris Love Story and Hershey Felder: Beethoven. He also directed the Mona Golabek-led production of The Pianist of Willesden Lane, which performed at TheatreWorks in 2020. “I love TheatreWorks and the TheatreWorks audience,” said Felder. “It will be wonderful to see old friends again.”

Felder is excited to share Chopin’s story on the TheatreWorks Silicon Valley stage where four of his hit shows have been presented, includ-

Hershey Felder: Chopin in Paris closes TheatreWorks Silicon Valley’s 51st season, performing August 19–September 11, 2022, at the Mountain View Center for the Performing Arts. Tickets and information can be found online ( https://theatreworks.org/ ) or by calling 877-662-8978.

MOST COMMON LGBT STATUS

According to a Gallup poll this year, which of the following is the most common LGBT status among Gen Z, millennials, and Gen X in America?

A) bisexual

B) transgender

C) gay

D) lesbian

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Cooper Koch Talks About the New Queer Thriller They/Them confident and comfortable in my identity. And it is such an important thing to love who you are and be yourself. It’s unhealthy to not.

Film Gary M. Kramer Out gay actor Cooper Koch delivers a breakout performance in They/Them, a fabulous queer horror film now out on Peacock. Koch plays Stu, one of more than a dozen teens sent to a conversion therapy camp. Stu, a swimmer, wants to be straight, but as the film progresses, he joins the other queer, trans, and nonbinary campers as they fight the horrors of conversion therapy while also trying to stay alive as a killer is on the loose!

The film is full of twists as it focuses on LGBTQ empowerment. In a recent phone interview, Koch chatted with me for the San Francisco Bay Times about They/Them.

Gary M. Kramer: What can you say about playing up the sex and violence?

celebrate queer love and joy. I didn’t feel that I was an object of desire. I wanted [the sex scene] to be two gay men making love, but there is a lens you can see through that is male/ female/they gaze. It’s super sexy and hot and I’m so happy with it.

Gary M. Kramer: What are your thoughts about the film’s LGBTQ representation? They/ Them boasts an authentic cast.

What can you say about being an out gay actor and creating a project like this?

Gary M. Kramer: The film has a moral point in that the heroes are fighting against an oppressive system of people who want to “change” them. What can you say about the film’s morality and how Stu fares?

Cooper Koch: It is set up in such a way that you’re rooting for Stu. The way the [seduction] scene is shot with the music and the lighting in the cabin and the lake, it is beautiful. And it should be that way. So, when it all gets flipped upside down, it makes it all the more tragic and horrific.

Cooper Koch: I don’t think it’s just at all. It’s sick and horrible what is done to him. He is caught in a trap.

He doesn’t deserve that. He is definitely not kind in the beginning, but I think, through being with his fellow campers, he learns and he grows into himself and ultimately accepts himself. Of course, he doesn’t deserve [conversion therapy] treatment—no one does! Both Stu and Kim (Anna Lore), go to the camp and want to be changed and then they both change their minds.

Gary M. Kramer: Did you feel objectified as many characters in “straight” horror movies are?

Cooper Koch: I didn’t really feel that way. I felt it was a moment to

Gary M. Kramer: Stu is initially living in fear and self-loathing because he is gay—which is apt for a horror film. Can you talk about his character and his transformation?

Cooper Koch: He’s coming from a place of such repression—where he doesn’t want to be who he is—that at first he bullies and hurts people. I was going for the aspect of “hurt people hurt people.” He’s trapped, and it takes being around a community of queers to open him up and accept himself. That is something I can relate to. When I was in high school and in my first year of college, I really didn’t want to be who I was. And it took being in acting school to realize that if I want play other people, I need to be able to be myself.

Gary M. Kramer: Have you had any experiences camping?

Cooper Koch: Camping is a weird thing for gays. It’s just not a place for a young gay man. Maybe that’s just my opinion. I did not like camp. I went one time as a kid because my mom made me and my twin brother, who is also gay, go for a week. We tried to escape because we hated it. © 2022 Gary M. Kramer Gary M. Kramer is the author of “Independent Queer Cinema: Reviews and Interviews,” and the co-editor of “Directory of World Cinema: Argentina.” Follow him on Twitter @garymkramer

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Gary M. Kramer: There is a fun scene where the campers break out into song, which validates the film’s messages about selfworth as well as how we all put on masks to present ourselves.

Can you talk about the ideas of identity in the film?

Cooper Koch: I think the song is the turning point. That’s the moment where Stu decides to jump in and join everyone and take off his mask. He is wearing a mask the whole film until that scene. It’s his moment where he accepts himself and everyone else. For myself, it took a second for me to be

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Cooper Koch: I’m grateful that I got the opportunity to be cast in it. To have actual trans, nonbinary, and queer people playing all of the roles is how it should be. We should tell these stories more to build more awareness and represent our community.

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Activist, Actress, and Filmmaker Lee Grant Remains Outspoken and Daring, Even in Her 90s

Off the Wahl Jan Wahl I recently spoke with actress, activist, and filmmaker Lee Grant for the San Francisco Bay Times; she won the Academy Award as the horny, frustrated Beverly Hills wife in Shampoo. She told me that the set of this Warren Beatty/Goldie Hawn/Julie Christy film was so sexually charged that she called her gay best friend and begged him to “come over here and do me!” She shared, “So, of course, he said to me that we don’t connect this way, darling. But I was desperate! My character in Shampoo was in my head. And since I’m a method actress ... !”

As that moment indicates, Grant is fabulous to know. She is so gutsy and funny while still being smart and willing to take chances. She has earned her reputation and accolades since she is in her nineties now. She was sharp and feisty with me from her longtime home that once belonged to Harry Belafonte. It is on the Upper West Side of her beloved Manhattan.

“I loved living in Malibu for years also,” she said. “Ryan O’Neal was a

neighbor. Everyone went to the supermarket in bathing suits. Joy Behar is my neighbor here in New York. We go to Zabar’s. I go to the East Side to visit my doctors, but everything I hold dear is on the West Side. I do look for some bushes here to hide behind in case Trump ever shows up. I am a fierce guerrilla fighter against him; it’s my mission. Also, Putin. My mother was from the Ukraine. The evil Putin and Trump: the same person.”

As a young actress, Grant received an Academy Award nomination for her first film role, The Detective Story. This graduate of the Actor’s Studio was thrilled. A few days later, she was told that she could not work in radio, television, or movies anymore. That was because the [Senator Joe] McCarthy committee had put her on The No Hire List for her outspoken support of left-wing causes and critical comments made at a friend’s funeral.

“The idiot committee got confused between me having a talent agent and being an agent of the communists,” Grant said. “So, I didn’t get work in the industry for seventeen years. I went to Broadway, took anything I could. I moved with my daughter Dinah [now happy and living near Seattle] to Malibu, and then back to Hollywood when they would hire me and received wonderful opportunities.”

“The offers never stopped coming,” she continued. “I was working on good projects like In the Heat of the Night. Sidney Poitier was so wonderful, using his background in every line reading as we actors do.

He would always pull on his own experience. I was also in awe of the talent displayed by Marlon Brando at the Actor’s Studio when I was there. He took remarkable chances and we are the luckier for it.”

She added, “I loved working with Faye Dunaway on Voyage of the Damned. I could feel her heart beating when she was acting, so true and profound. It is so sad what happened when she made Mommy Dearest.

The same for the biggest star ever, Bette Davis, when she made What Ever Happened to Baby Jane?

Look at the journey they were both forced to make to work as leading ladies. This is bulls-t. I love the British way of letting women age into great roles. Old actresses should work! This business is cruel.”

Actress and activist Lee Grant

“I decided years ago to take a wider stance and direct,” she said. “I could control my own projects and destiny.

With directing, I could take my life in my own hands. I love documentaries and did many, including 1985’s What Sex Am I? That was a documentary about transgender people in the 1980s. I won an Oscar again for Down and Out in America, a deep dive into the disenfranchised in our country. I have done wonderful films and have been very lucky.”

spoken with her. Please watch some of her films, including Tell Me a Riddle and the documentary A Father ... A Son: Once Upon a Time in Hollywood that provides an inside look at the Hollywood dynasty of Kirk Douglas and his son Michael. Thank you, Lee Grant!

Jan Wahl is a Hollywood histori-

an, film critic on various broadcast outlets, and has her own YouTube channel series, “Jan Wahl Showbiz.” She has two Emmys and many awards for her longtime work on behalf of film buffs and the LGBTQ community. Contact her at www.janwahl.com

Grant keeps coming back to the idea of luck. I would call it talent, courage, and perseverance. Her memoir is aptly titled I Said Yes to Everything.

She told me about her favorite actresses growing up, such as Vivien Leigh and Margaret Sullivan, and her great love of plays and playwrights. Her favorite role was in the 1971 television movie The Neon Ceiling, a drama with Gig Young.

She never stops having opinions on everything going on. When we spoke, Will Smith had just done his “apology.” I mentioned that I thought it was terrible that he didn’t sit down for an interview with Oprah or a newsperson so that we could help the next generation understand the flash fury of this behavior. The way he did this, he owned the narrative in a self-centered way. Lee agreed, but was her usual colorful, honest self. “Let’s face it,” she said. “This guy dug a grave for himself. I cannot think of a stupider thing to do. And it was a weak slap. I’ve seen better. At his highest moment, he stabbed himself in the throat. Crazy.”

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On August 1, Mayor London Breed joined elected and city officials and community members to raise the TRANSGENDER FLAG at City Hall in honor of San Francisco’s TRANSGENDER HISTORY MONTH. “San Francisco has been, and always will

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be a place where we embrace our diverse communities to ensure everyone has the freedom to be who they are without scrutiny,” said Mayor Breed.

“Last year we declared August Transgender Sister Dana (aka Dennis McMillan) and friends (left to right: Ariel Robbins, Cal Calamia, Steve Scheitlin, Warren Alderson, History Month Jennifer Viegas and Sister Dana) paused for a photo together during Divas & Drinks at The Academy on July 26, 2022. in San Francisco, the new Beacon Grand Hotel. For It is great to know that Senator making it our country’s first of its info about REAF: Scott Wiener has been appointed kind. We are setting a new standard https://www.reaf-sf.org

by Senate President Pro Tem that celebrates the history and culToni Atkins (D-San Diego) to Sister Dana sez, “We can�t let tural milestones of transgender peochair the recently-formed SENATE archaic Senate rules get in the ple in this city. Today and the entire SELECT COMMITTEE ON way of progress any longer. month of August reflect the resilience MONKEYPOX. Finally, California We have just 4 months to pass of the transgender community and is doing something about this epiMORE important bills before our city’s commitment to supportdemic! Also appointed as members Republicans TAKE BACK ing and protecting the rights of trans of the committee are Senators Susan the Senate, according to Nate people.”

Eggman (D-Stockton), John Laird Silver�s FiveThirtyEight. We (D-Santa Cruz), Rosilicie Ochoa Transgender History Month honmust bust the filibuster! NOW!” Bogh (R-Yucaipa), Lena Gonzalez ors the 56th anniversary of the SOMA SECOND SATURDAY is (D-Long Beach), and Richard Pan COMPTON’S CAFETERIA August 13, 1 pm to 5 pm. Join every(D-Sacramento). “Monkeypox is a RIOTS, which occurred in August one on 12th Street between Eagle public health emergency, and we 1966 in San Francisco’s Tenderloin Plaza and Folsom Street to shop need to do everything we can to condistrict, marking the beginning with some of the finest queer and tain the outbreak,” said Senator of transgender activism in San kink artists, artisans, and craftspeoWiener. “Monkeypox is a painful Francisco. A response to violent and ple.

Beverages are available at the constant police harassment, this inci- and serious infection, and no one SF Eagle, including Beer Bust from should have to endure it.

We need to dent was one of the first LGBTQ 3–6 pm. Refresh your “wardrobe” at ensure California’s response, at both uprisings in United States history, the Rough Trade Gear Swap. Visit the state and local level, is effective preceding the better-known 1969 and adequately funded. Our commu- the bootblack boy Zander and more.

STONEWALL RIOTS in New https://tinyurl.com/msv3uw8 nity is depending on us to deliver.”

York City. The Tenderloin is now With the Select Committee on home to THE TRANSGENDER To win the almighty Ms. Sinema’s Monkeypox, the Senate will have the support for President Biden’s Climate DISTRICT, created in 2018 as opportunity to identify what can be Compton’s Transgender Cultural Bill, Democratic leaders had to agree done in the short and medium terms District, the nation’s first legally recto drop a $14 billion tax increase on to improve California’s response to ognized district dedicated to the some wealthy hedge fund managers the ongoing outbreak. Through this transgender, nonbinary, and intersex and private equity executives that she Committee, the Senate will convene community. had opposed, change the structure of experts from different professional a 15 percent minimum tax on corSAN FRANCISCO BAY TIMES and community backgrounds to disporations, and include drought and THE ACADEMY precuss what can be done long-term to money to benefit Arizona. Golly gee, sented DIVAS & DRINKS: better respond to outbreaks of contaMistress Sinema, can we bend over iHEART SUMMER! on July 29 gious viruses. any more for you or kiss your butt at The Academy with hosts Betty any better? Why don’t you marry “I am grateful to our Public Sullivan, Jennifer Viegas, and Joe Manchin, just become the true Health Officer Dr. Susan Nate Bourg and emcee Donna Republican couple you really are, Philip for declaring this State of Sachet to toast and thank the and stop screwing us?!

Emergency,” said SF Supervisor many volunteers who supported the RUNWAY is the highlight event Rafael Mandelman. “In the SF PRIDE PARADE. SF Pride

by GLBTQ+ ASIAN PACIFIC face of a frustratingly slow federal President Carolyn Wysinger ALLIANCE (GAPA). The annual response, it is all the more important and other inspiring voices were with pageant celebrates visibility and repus; plus the remarkable iHeart Radio that we be able to mobilize all resentation of the queer and trans available local resources to get star DJ Christie James got us Asian & Pacific Islander (API) comvaccines into arms as quickly and dancing. Sister Dana was honored munity.

It offers a stage for them equitably as possible.” with a lovely bottle of cabernet to celebrate their artistry as well as sauvignon. As everyone knows, Sister Also, finally the United States their ability to express their most Dana LOVES his red wine! declared a public health emergency authentic selves. First started over 30 on August 4 as monkeypox surged UP YOUR ALLEY FAIR (also years ago, Runway, (HARMONIC to 7,101 cases, signaling that the known back in the day as “Dore CONVERGENCE) has evolved outbreak poses a significant threat to Alley Fair”) was staged as usual in along with the needs of the queer the SOMA at 9th and Folsom Streets Americans. & trans API community in its full (off Dore Alley) on July 31, noon to diversity, featuring not only cis gay The RICHMOND/ERMET 6 pm. All manner of attire was on males, in and out of drag, but also AID FOUNDATION (REAF) display—from leather to feather to women, transgender, and gender brought us Help Is On The rubber and everything in-between. nonconforming siblings. Saturday, Way XXVI: BROADWAY& Some chose full nudity with freeAugust 13, 7 pm, Herbst Theatre, BEYOND on August 7 at Marines’ range boners. Animals (both four401 Van Ness.

Memorial Theatre as a benefit for legged and human) roamed about. https://www.gapa.org/ PROJECT OPEN HAND and One of my fave info booths was SAN REAF’S SMALL EMERGENCY LOCKDOWN COMEDY on Zoom FRANCISCO COMMUNITY GRANTS PROGRAM. This 26th is now in its 3rd year! Zoom in and HEALTH CENTER with a spin Annual Gala—Northern CA’s largest laugh along with me! On Thursday, the wheel to win shwag. BARE annual, star-studded concert—is pro- August 18, 7 pm, it features Greg CHEST CALENDAR Boys were duced by the inimitable duo of Ken Proops (NY), Wendy Liebman boldly bare-chestedly autographHenderson & Joe Seiler. The (LA), Ngaio Bealum (Sacramento), ing their particular months. There evening featured stellar singers (in “The Geduldig Sisters”—prowas free online PrEP and STI testing alphabetical order) Debby Boone, ducer Lisa Geduldig (SF), and via MISTR (see page 9 of this issue her 91-years-young mother, Arline Leanne Borghesi, Garrett for more about MISTR). The fair Geduldig (Florida).

Clayton, Ava Nicole Frances, was kind of “nothing new under the https://www.koshercomedy.com/ Julie Garnye, Jason Graae, sun,” or has Sister Dana maybe just Steve Knill, emcee and singer become too jaded?!

Peaches Christ makes her Shawn Ryan, Sally Struthers, triumphant return to Live Lisa Viggiano, Paula West, and Sister Dana sez, "The first Performance at the Castro Theatre, John Lloyd Young. I was especially defendant to go on trial in the August 27, 4 pm & 8 pm in The pleased that Borghesi and Ryan Justice Dept.’s Capitol riot Highly Anticipated Return of (friends of mine over the years of inquiry was sentenced to more DRAG BECOMES HER - a REAF shows) both received special than seven years in prison. hysterical theatrical parody of awards for their ongoing dedicated Here’s hoping for much MORE the 1992 camp-classic DEATH service). The elegant VIP after-party than that for Trump and his with meet and greet the cast was at chief traitors!” (continued on page 32)

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RECOMMENDATIONS FROM BOOK PASSAGE

Also a Poet: Frank O’Hara, My Father and Me (nonfiction/memoir - hardbound) by Ada Calhoun If you like Frank O’Hara, New York, and queer history, this book is for you. This is a groundbreaking memoir that weaves compelling literary history with a tender story of a complicated father-daughter bond.

Bodies on the Line (nonfiction- hardbound) by Lauren Rankin Incisive, eye-opening and uplifting, Bodies on the Line makes a clear case for the right to an abortion as a fundamental part of human dignity and the stakes facing us all if it is taken away.

One Last Stop (fiction- paperback) by Casey McQuiston A smart and fun romp from the author who brought us The Proposal and Party of Two. One Last Stop is about a woman named August Landry, a cynical pseudo detective, who finds love in a woman she meets on a subway named Jane Su, a punk lesbian from the 1970s who has been misplaced in time and is trapped on the subway.

Tuesday, August 16 @ 5:30 pm (free online event) Dur e Aziz Amna, author of American Fever, and Jamil Jan Kochai, author or The Haunting of Hajji Hotak and Other Stories

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American Fever is a compelling and laugh-out-loud funny novel about adolescence, family, otherness, religion, and the push-and-pull of home. It marks the entrance on the international literary scene of the brilliant fresh voice of Dur e Aziz Amna.

The Haunting of Hajji Hotak and Other Stories is a moving exploration of characters grappling with the ghosts of war and displacement—and one that speaks to the immediate political landscape we reckon with today.

Castro Art Mart, August 7, 2022

Thursday, August 18 @ 5:30 pm (free live online event) Colson Whitehead author of Harlem Shuffle From a brilliant new voice comes an electrifying novel of a young immigrant building a life for herself — a warm, dazzling, and profound saga of queer love, friendship, work, and precarity in twentyfirst century America. All This Could Be Different is a wise, tender, and riveting group portrait of young people forging love and community amidst struggle, and a moving story of one immigrant’s journey to make her home in the world.

Sunday, August 21 @ 2 pm (free in store, Ferry Building) Mike Trigg, author of Bit Flip, in conversation with Mehran Sahami Combining the corporate intrigue of Joseph Finder, the satirical cultural critique of Dave Eggers, and the domestic drama of Laura Dave, Bit Flip is a fast-paced contemporary thriller that delivers an authentic insider’s view of the corrupting influences of greed, entitlement, and vanity in technology start-ups. https://www.bookpassage.com/

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The block of Noe Street between Market and Beaver Streets came alive on Sunday August 7, during the return of the Castro Art Mart. This is a monthly, open-air art event that happens on the first Sunday of the month. It features local artists, live music, comedy, drag shows, and more.

Produced by The Castro Merchants Association, the Art Mart takes place between 11 am and 5 pm.

The next one will happen on Sunday, September 4, 2022. If you wish to participate as an artist, more information is at: https://artyhoodsf.com

Lit Snax Knocking Myself Up: A Memoir of my (In)Fertility by Michelle Tea Tea recounts her wild ride toward parenthood with her customary wit and verve. Be forewarned: drag queens, black market meds, and witchery were all involved!

Greedy: Notes from A Bisexual Who Wants Too Much by Jen Winston This is a collection of hilarious, heartwarming, and vulnerable personal essays that will make bi readers feel seen and a little less lonely with the whole “self-discovery” thing.

Menergy: San Francisco’s Gay Disco Sound by Louis Niebur Don’t miss this well-researched history of Hi-NRG Disco that includes the stories of superstars like Sylvester and behind-the-scenes geniuses like Patrick Cowley. It offers a dose of queer civic history to boot. https://www.fabulosabooks.com/

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This Month at the Castro Farmers’ Market Grape Time at Your Farmers’ Market You’ve just found a new variety of table grape at your farmers’ market, not the usual Thompson seedless, but a lovely deep Red Globe variety. Or you’ve found the deep blue/ black heirloom Concord grape.

You’ve just discovered one of the many reasons to shop your local certified farmers’ market—variety!

We’re celebrating certified farmers’ markets and the value they bring to your local community during National Farmers’ Market Week (August 7 thru 13). In fact, we’re celebrating for the whole month of August! The unique varieties of grapes and other fruits and vegetables you buy stimulate local economies, help preserve farmland, and increase access to healthy and nutritional food. Farmers’ markets also play an essential role in their communities by creating space for

community connection and actively fostering more resilient and equitable local food systems.

What does it mean to be a certified farmers’ market and why is it so important that you shop “certified”? In short, it means that the produce is delivered to the market directly from the farm and from the growers themselves. In California, only California-grown produce may be certified for sale in our state’s farmers’ markets.

So, when you find that unique bunch of plump sweet grapes at your certified farmers’ market, you know it’s locally-grown in California and of high quality.

There are many varieties of table grapes grown in California. The freshest and the most interesting varieties are available at your farm-

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ers’ market, like Red Flame, Autumn Royal, Concord seeded, Pearl, Princess, Red Globe, and many others.

Table Grapes vs. Wine Grapes Have you ever wondered why you can’t take these table grapes home and crush them into wine?

Eating grapes are a bit different than wine grapes.

Table grapes are from different species and these differences can make for good wine, but not good eating. The main distinction between grapes for serving and those for the production of wine can be found in the distinct characteristics of taste, acidity and sugar content.

The first difference between these two grapes has to do with their skin thickness. Table grapes have thin skin, perfect for munching away, but not ideal for making wine.

When it comes to making great wine, especially red wine, a thicker skin is better, and that means more tannin. Tannins are what adds to wine’s texture and mouthfeel.

Second, the sweetness of the grape is a very important characteristic. Wine grapes are much sweeter than table grapes. The grapes need a lot of sugar if yeast is going to convert juices into alcohol. Higher

sweetness comes from the species itself, along with the fact that wine grapes are harvested much later in the season, allowing their sugars to concentrate as much as possible. Wine grapes are harvested at around 22–30 percent sugar while table grapes are closer to 10 to 15 percent sugar. This also means wine grapes deteriorate much faster when picked than grapes meant for the table.

Finally, the yield of wine grapes compared to table grapes is different. While a winemaker gets about ten pounds of fruit per vine, table grape producers use a trellis system that allows the grape bunches to hang without touching each other,

providing the ability to produce thirty pounds of fruit.

Stop by your local certified farmers’ market this time of year and you’ll find mounds of sweet locally-grown table grapes glistening in the sun.

Visit Allard Farms from Westley and Rodin Farms out of Oakdale for delicious grapes.

Debra Morris is a spokesperson for the Pacific Coast Farmers’ Market Association (PCFMA).

Check out the PCFMA website for recipes, information about farmers’ markets throughout the region and for much more: https://www.pcfma.org/

2021 Lynmar Rosé of Pinot Noir, Russian River Valley, California $33 https://lynmarestate.com/

Sbrocco Sips Leslie Sbrocco

It’s peak pink season and a wine I’ve quickly become enamored with is the rosé from Lynmar Estate. Located in the bucolic Russian River Valley, Lynmar is owned by the committed duo of Lynn and Anisya Fritz, who share the winery’s dual mantras of stewardship and sustainability. The property’s tag line is “where bliss begins” and a visit to their estate is worthy of the sentiment. So is sipping their elegantly succulent Rosé of Pinot Noir. Dry in style yet crisply fruity, it’s ideal to pair with everything from grilled salmon to barbeque ribs ... or simply to sip in a moment of bliss.

Author, speaker, wine consultant, and television host Leslie Sbrocco is known for her entertaining approach to wine and food. She has won multiple Emmy Awards for her work on PBS, which includes hosting the series “Check, Please! Bay Area” and “100 Days, Drinks, Dishes & Destinations.” www.LeslieSbrocco.com

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The Gay Gourmet David Landis As readers of this column know, I’ve sung the praises of a Carmel getaway before. It’s slightly over a 2-hour drive from the city, has a gorgeous white sand beach, inviting architecture, good restaurants, and best of all is dog-friendly. Given that COVID isn’t going anywhere, I recently returned to this charming village and am recommending a few new places worth visiting. Among those: Shearwater Tavern at the Carmel Mission Inn in Carmel, Lucia Restaurant at Bernardus Lodge and Spa in Carmel Valley, and Stokes Adobe in Monterey.

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Carmel Revisited accompanied by a frisée salad tossed with sherry vinaigrette. We chose to forego the truffle oil, which allowed the potato taste to shine through. I’m a bit of a carb-aholic, so we had to sample the Parker House rolls. These seem to be ubiquitous on menus these days and in most places, they’re just “meh.” Not so at Shearwater. Baked to order and piping hot, these tasty morsels are soft and flaky, served with a honey spiced butter and sea salt.

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It starts travelling up to the property via a winding road, lined with Provence-style lavender. When you see the stone building, you might just think you’re in Tuscany. The large-sized pavers and a stone-covered outdoor fireplace dominated as we sat on the patio with our pups.

The garden view (complete with a croquet field) is serene and tranquil—a trans-

Let’s start with the Shearwater Tavern. Located in the recently renovated, mid-century Carmel Mission Inn, this eatery showcases upscale bar food that invites the community to gather. The beautifullydesigned interior space is modern with a nod to the 1960s. We were with our dogs, so we opted to dine outside on the landscaped patio.

From start to finish, this is an establishment that knows what it’s doing, where every menu item delights.

Craft cocktails reign supreme so I had to try the Bahia Busy Bee, with Hendrick’s gin, Cointreau, lime, and a frothy egg white top. I’m not usually one for signature cocktails since I love my Negronis, but I have to say this one is addictive: sweet (but not too much), with a lingering and lovely aftertaste.

For starters, we had the tempura fried green beans with a chili dipping sauce: crispy, fresh, non-greasy, and the sauce had the right amount of kick. In other words, perfect pub food to accompany the cocktails. The beer and wine menu tends toward local California varietals and breweries with just a few well-curated international choices as well. Next up?

The house-made tater tots—definitely not Ore-Ida! These are a larger size, with shaved parmesan, and

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wine gastrique, which levelled the playing field between sweet and savory (a carrot herb salad completed this dish). Finally, we shared the Tavern Burger, juicy and filling but I would ask the chef to cook it slightly rarer than you think. All in all, this restaurant needs to be on your Carmel “go-to” list.

Another recent change in the Carmel Valley is at Lucia (the restaurant at the Bernardus Lodge & Spa), home to a fairly new chef, Christian Ojeda. This talented man also had stints at Joel Robuchon in Vegas and the now-shuttered Fleur de Lys in San Francisco. Our venture to Lucia was a relaxing and rejuvenating mid-afternoon repast in the warm Valley sun—just like taking a mini-vacation.

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formative experience. Another plus at the table are Frette linens, a nice European touch.

We started with a half dozen Beausoleil oysters accompanied by a clean mignonette and lemon. The shellfish were absolutely fresh and a perfect complement to my white Burgundy wine (“Cuvee Saint Vincent”) and my husband’s still Provence Rosé (“Peyrassol”) by the glass (the by the bottle wine list is impressive, too). From there, we shared a piquant Caesar salad with leafy Romaine and fresh anchovies straight from the nearby sea; the crispy croutons added just the right amount of crunch. We sampled the special pizza of the day, which sported a thicker crust topped with bacon, zucchini, red pepper, arugula, and fontina—the pepper provided a zing to a healthy pizza offering.

For dessert, a berry crème brûlée was a perfect ending to a lovely meal. All in all, Lucia is one of Carmel Valley’s best dining choices, plus the atmosphere and warm weather can’t be beat.

Finally, we had a delicious dinner at the historic and newly-re-opened Stokes Adobe in Monterey. Built in 1833, it’s the site of the former “see and be seen” Gallatin’s, one of Monterey’s most popular and classy restaurants. In its heyday of the 1950s and ‘60s, Gallatin’s hosted the likes of Frank Sinatra, Bob Hope, and Dean Martin. Supposedly, it’s haunted. The décor pays homage to

the history but with a modern interpretation that is inviting, contemporary, and warm.

We dined with our pups and friends Michele & Karl on the patio under a century-old cypress tree; it felt like we were enveloped in a magic garden. The creative cocktail list includes such specialty drinks as a Stokes Negroni (with Amaro), which wasn’t to my liking, but then I’m a purist. We opted for a white Burgundy wine, “La Pepie” Muscadet, from the varied wine list that includes local California wines with a sprinkling of European choic(continued on page 29)

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Scott’s Chowder House—featuring some of the Bay Area’s best chowders and seafood from the team that includes chef Laurent Manrique—just opened on Fillmore Street in San Francisco’s Western Addition. For dog lovers, I’ve heard their outdoor patio is scheduled for opening soon as well.

A few new olive oils worth mentioning: PRMRY’s Enhance, made with a Tuscan blend of olives, is robust and makes for a perfect complement to salads, vegetables, or just plain dipping with bread; and their Transform, made with Coratina olives, has a hint of pepper, which makes it stimulating, yet fragrant.

Both will give McEvoy Ranch and California Olive Ranch (two

Slocombe ice cream favorite just opened a new store in Redwood City.

Just as in San Francisco, look for some of the same boozy offerings, like Glenlivet ice cream with honeyclove caramel.

Another Gay Gourmet favorite, Kokak Chocolates in the Castro, just celebrated its second anniversary.

They’re offering some great new flavors, including: the “Aloha Tees Truffle” collection (think chocolate interpretations of Hawaiian shirts) and “She Sells Sea Shells,” featuring sesame in caramelized white chocolate and strawberry pistachio in dark chocolate. They’re available at the 18th Street store but also online.

Chez Noir, a new Carmel-by-theSea restaurant opening to watch, is from a star-studded team that includes Johnny and Monique Black (Atelier Crenn, Quince, Per Se, and more). Scheduled opening as of press time is sometime in late August.

And finally, popular Napa eatery Bistro Don Giovanni is opening a second place—yet to be named—at the former Ca’ Momi in downtown Napa on First Street. Sadly, there’s no scheduled opening date yet.

Shearwater Tavern: https://www.shearwatertavern.com/ Lucia Restaurant at the Bernardus Lodge & Spa: https://tinyurl.com/3ea3hh8d Stoke’s Adobe: https://stokesadobe.com/ Scott’s Chowder House: https://tinyurl.com/2hpz6xpt

es. The menu steers toward Cal-Italian-French: in other words, my kind of food! Our starters included a creamy and rich duck liver mousse with sourdough crostini, a luscious heirloom tomato gazpacho soup, yummy and crispy fried green tomatoes with pickled fennel and a delectable buttermilk dressing, and an unadorned, clean baby green salad with fresh herbs and a sherry

vinaigrette. We threw caution to the calorie wind and splurged by also ordering the famed, local Ad Astra bread, grilled to perfection and buttered beautifully—one could make a meal of that deliciousness!

For entrées, we split a flavorful lamb and pork homemade pappardelle Bolognese with San Marzano tomatoes and Parmesan cream, and the double-cut pork chop with port cher-

ry aigre-doux (a California take on the Chinese sweet and sour sauce), dukkah (a Middle Eastern condiment), cocoa nibs, and hazelnuts.

The accompanying sauces and spices provided a refreshing take on a typical chop, leaving the palette with a pleasing sense of savory, fruit, and sweet at the same time. For dessert, we ordered the creamy and addictive butterscotch pot de crème featuring whipped crème Anglaise and English toffee; and the berries and cardamon cream with almond cookie crumble.

Both left us with sweet memories of dining at one of Monterey’s best new restaurants. Best of all, I hear that Michelin will be recognizing this restaurant in its upcoming September guide.

All in all, Carmel and the Monterey Bay area are quickly becoming a foodie destination, well worth a weekend visit.

other of my favorites) a run for their money. Also tasty is Sciabica Family California Olive Oils, which offer such varied flavored olive oils as cold-pressed lemon, basil, garlic, and Mediterranean Medley.

Want to feel like you’ve taken a trip to Barcelona without the hassle of a transatlantic flight? San Francisco Proper Hotel’s Spanish Sundown Series is happening every Thursday through August 25.

The summer music series will be accompanied by live music from Spanish rumba to Brazilian samba, and a selection of tapas and aperitifs at San Francisco Proper Hotel’s restaurant, La Bande, on the outside patio space. You can enjoy the musical likes of artists Makru, Monica Maria, and the Josh Jones Trio throughout the rest of the month.

The ever-popular Humphry

PRMRY Olive Oil: https://helloprmry.com/ Sciabica Family’s California Olive Oil: https://sunshineinabottle.com/ La Bande at the San Francisco Proper Hotel: https://tinyurl.com/ycxbu8nm Humphry Slocombe: https://humphryslocombe.com/ Kokak Chocolates: https://www.kokakchocolates.com/ Chez Noir: https://www.cheznoircarmel.com/ Bistro Don Giovanni: http://bistrodongiovanni.com/ David Landis, aka “The Gay Gourmet,” is a foodie, a freelance writer and a retired PR maven.

Follow him on Instagram @ GayGourmetSF or email him at: davidlandissf@gmail.com Or visit him online at: www.gaygourmetsf.com

Bits and Bites One of my favorites,

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Raye Kahn Movement: Rooted, Radical, and Resilient Movement for All Bodies Photos courtesy of Raye Khan

By Raye Kahn “One of the things I love about working with you is how I can just be myself here.”

—client

By Raye Khan We live in a stressful world during stressful times. Try these 5 movements to help calm your nervous system and move your joints through a healthy range of motion. Please consult with a medical professional before engaging in a new exercise program.

As a movement teacher who specializes in working with people who have spinal cord injuries and other neurological conditions, I am familiar with working with populations that might not be able to work out at a commercial gym due to inaccessibility, discomfort, and not feeling safe. This includes many of my queer clients who prefer to work with a queer instructor because it feels safer and just more ... natural.

1. Belly breathing: Belly breathing is my favorite go-to for anytime I am feeling stressed, un-grounded, or anxious.

Place one hand on your belly and one hand on your chest.

While breathing through your nose, try to direct your breath directly into your low belly without breathing into your neck or chest. Just like a vase fills with water from the bottom, try to do the same with your breath.

2. Eye circles: Many of us staring at screens all day are only using our eyes in one position, which is not great for our eyes or our bodies. So, let’s get those eyes moving! Hold a pencil at arms distance in front of you and keep your eyes locked on the tip of the pencil. Without moving your head, move the pencil in big circles in front of you while keeping your eyes on the pencil tip. This should feel like a strain for your eyes but make sure you can see the pencil tip the whole time. Do 10 circles in each direction.

I have been teaching people how to move since 2008. I developed my fascination with the human body while growing up playing soccer from an early age. That fascination stayed with me through college while serving as captain of the UC Davis Women’s Division I soccer team. After working with children who have Cerebral Palsy, I pivoted towards working with people who have spinal cord injuries and other neurological conditions.

I continued with my education to become a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS), a Nationally Certified Pilates Teacher (NCPT), and a Certified Massage Therapist (CMT). I use a combination of Pilates, functional and floor-based movement, strength training, visual and vestibular work, and breathing techniques to help my clients re-establish their mind-body connection, re-train their nervous system, and reach their movement goals.

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2A: Here’s a variation for folks who are blind or visually impaired: Instead of working the visual system (your eyes), let’s work your vestibular system (your inner ear unit that helps with balance and proprioception). Circle your head and shoulders in big circles at a good pace. Stop and take a break if you get dizzy. Do 10 circles in each direction.

3. Roll-downs: From a seated or standing position, reach your arms up overhead and interlace your fingers with your palms facing up. Take an inhale into your ribs, and exhale to slowly articulate your spine down to the floor. Pause when you are as low as you can go (you should feel a nice stretch through the back of your body), and take a few breaths into your low back. Articulate and roll your spine up to your seated or standing upright starting position and repeat for a total of 4.

This often looks very different from client to client, depending on their goals.

One of my clients, with a cervical spinal cord injury, has a goal to sit tall on her own and hold a cup of coffee, while my other client, who has Multiple Sclerosis, set a goal to hold a one-minute bridge to help her transfer more easily in and out of her wheelchair. And by the way, she recently crushed that goal by holding a two-minute bridge!

One of my queer client’s goals is to feel more comfortable, at ease (and without pain), and more at

home in their own body. I tell my clients that all of them—their stories, their tears, their sweat, their swear words— are always welcome in my studio. In fact, they are encouraged. Everyone is on their own healing movement journey and I am often in awe as I witness them.

When a client can bring their full self into my studio, that means they feel safe.

When they feel safe—to move, to be themselves, to explore movement with curiosity and bravery as opposed to fear, shame, or guilt—growth happens. They learn to trust themselves again. I often remind them that they are the experts of their own bodies. I’m just here to help out. (continued on page 32)

4. Bridges: This is another one of my favorite movements to help open the hips up and engage the entire backside of the body (yes, that includes your glutes!). For folks who are able to get down onto the floor (or you can do this from your bed), lay on your back with your knees bent and feet flat on the floor.

Exhale to press the hips up towards the sky in one flat piece and inhale to lower the hips down. Do 10 bridges total.

Accessibility note: For folks who are unable to do this movement, try this more accessible movement: From a seated position, you can have your hands on your lap or out into a “T.” Lean your upper body forward (try to keep your back flat and bring your tail with you), and then pull yourself back to a seated upright position. Do 10 total.

5. Hula hoops!: This is a great movement for spinal mobility. From a seated or standing position, hula hoop your ribs around your pelvis while keeping your pelvis and lower body steady. Do 10 circles in each direction. https://rayekahn.com/

Take Me Home with You! “My name is Topaz! I’m a three-year-old jewel looking for my charming family! I am originally from Kings County and I have been known for my strength and love for toys.

I am a female, mix-shepherd who prefers a quieter area of the neighborhood and would adore a backyard away from distraction or a quiet avenue walk. I love areas where I feel safe and secure away from high traffic spots with people and bicycles. I’m a gentle and sensitive gal who is looking for a peaceful and quiet home. If you think we might be a match, come say hello!”

Fitness SF Trainer Tip of the Month

Topaz

Steven Luibrand at Fitness SF Mid-Market “You need to balance consistency with variety in fitness. Train each muscle group twice a week, but change up the exercises you use every 4–8 weeks.”

Dr. Jennifer Scarlett and Louie

Topaz is presented to San Francisco Bay Times readers by Dr. Jennifer Scarlett, the SF SPCA’s CEO. Our thanks also go to Paradise Osorio for helping to get the word out about lovable pets like Topaz.

To meet Topaz, visit the SF SPCA Mission Campus @ 201 Alabama Street. It is open for appointments from 10 am–6 pm (Monday–Wednesday, Friday–Sunday) and 1 pm–6 pm on Thursdays.

Note that all adult dogs and adult cats, 5+ months old, are free to adopt through the end of August!

For more information: https://www.sfspca.org/adoptions/

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Tore Kelly, Director of Creative & Social Media for Fitness SF, provides monthly tips that he has learned from professional trainers. For more information: https://fitnesssf.com/

Rearview Mirror

Dr. Tim Seelig I never dreamed that one day I would see San Francisco in my rearview mirror without a return planned. But we all know life has its own plans and we don’t always get what we want—or at least our 1st choice of dreams. As retirement economics became a reality, it became clear I needed to find a different place to live, at least temporarily.

I couldn’t be prouder of the final concert of a 35-year run. It was glorious. Thank you to every singer in the chorus now—and every singer who has been in the chorus who helped it along its way to the amazing artistic and activist organization it is today.

And family. Thanks to the incredi-

My next article is going to be about the trip north and what I found upon arrival. This article is my final “Thank You” tour. Of course, such things are dangerous. You’re always going to leave someone out. So, if you are reading this, whoever and wherever you are, “Thank you.” There, I’ve now thanked everyone in the known world; I can get down to specifics.

My last couple of weeks in San Francisco were not exactly what I had hoped they would be—much like the last 2 years! Just when we thought we were over the hump, BA.5 arrived causing an upsurge in cases. The chorus (San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus) Medical Team made a very strong suggestion that I isolate as much as humanly possible.

No one is irreplaceable. However, an entire concert planned as a farewell to a single human makes things really awkward if that human has to stay home with COVID. So, I literally cancelled my farewell tour of (free) brunches, lunches, cocktails, and dinners. I stayed in.

With those serious precautions, COVID was kept at bay through the festivities. And none of them became super spreaders, thank goodness. The chorus all tested for rehearsal and the performance and all were vaxated (I know it’s not a word, I just love it) and boosted.

The audience wore masks. I am very sad to say that we had 2 or 3 singers forced to drop out each day in the week leading up to the performance.

It’s heartbreaking to put all that work into music and choreography and your only option is performing it for your cat at home! They are totally unappreciative.

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A few weeks ago, I packed the car, grabbed Tater Tot and headed north. There were certainly things to look forward to up ahead ... new adventures, new city, retirement. But, at that moment, they were seriously outweighed by the things I love so very much diminishing from sight as I headed up Highway 80. Note to self: Leave later next time for s stop in Vacaville for the much-touted Jelly Belly Self-Guided Factory Tour that doesn’t open until 9 am. I missed it. It’s apparently an elevated walk above the factory to see all the healthy things they are making.

(An aside: They have the same kind of tour where I’m headed: the Tillamook Cheese Factory. The same, but different. Just sayin’.)

ble staff—paid and nonpaid—who worked tirelessly to make it all it could be. And further thanks to the alumni who joined for the final two songs as did the Greenville Gay Men’s Chorus who travelled all the way from South Carolina to join us and the Oakland Interfaith Gospel Choir to celebrate the upcoming 5th Anniversary of our tour to the South in 2017.

One of the joys of retiring is that I got to plan the concert just the way I wanted it. I made it clear early on there were to be no long speeches. I actually said no speeches, but that wasn’t going to work.

They were limited to four during the evening! Here they are.

First up was Mayor London Breed. She was a surprise in the first half of the concert.

She spoke with her usual off-the-cuff warmth and depth of knowledge. She does love the chorus and what it represents. And, lo and behold, she, along with

the city supervisors, proclaimed July 13 “Tim Seelig Day” in San Francisco. You can always remember it and roll it into your celebration of Bastille Day on the 14th. I’m not sure I am supposed to share this, but backstage, she gifted me with a pair of beautiful cufflinks bearing the seal of San Francisco and signed by Mayor Breed on the back.

WOW! Next came the brilliant and entertaining

Finally, and definitely the most exciting of all, came Executive Director Chris Verdugo. It was his job to introduce and welcome the next Artistic Director of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus, Jake Stensberg. Since being named my successor in April, Jake and I have had the opportunity to get to know each other on many occasions. I took him to the beach in Pacifica and toasted his arrival with champagne and Cheeto’s. It has been wonderful in every way. I was so excited to bestow upon him an official SFGMC t-shirt and fan. He wowed the crowd with his fan snap! He’s in!

At the reception after the concert, Betty Sullivan and Jennifer Viegas presented me with a stunning framed reproduction of my final article in the San Francisco Bay Times. That was obviously the final one as Artistic Director of the chorus. Here you are reading the next installment already.

The framed piece, which takes up 3 whole pages, is stunning! Can’t wait to hang it (no, the movers are not here yet). If you haven’t read it, you can always find any of the previous 76 articles by going to the San Francisco Bay Times online ( https://sfbaytimes.com/ ), typing Tim Seelig in the search bar, and settling in!

The night after the concert, there was more. We had a “Hug Tim Goodbye” going away and cast party at Zeitgeist. There was plenty of beer, burgers, and an official drink, the “Curtain Call.” Once again, I was surprised. I was overwhelmed by the going away gift the members of the chorus gave me. And then, as if that were not enough, Senator Scott Weiner showed up with a huge framed proclamation from the State of California coauthored by Assembly Members Matt Haney and Philip Y. Ting. It was a remarkable string of Whereas’s.

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TLC: Tears, Laughs and Conversation

Conductor Laureate. This is a title held by only two other SFGMC conductors: Dr. Kathleen McGuire and Dr. Stan Hill. I am so grateful to be honored in this way. I am also grateful to the board of directors who, for 11 1/2 years, said “yes” to my/our bodacious dreams! Glenn has been an incredible support as board chair.

The hugest thank you of all, of course, goes to the chorus. It’s our family. They stepped forward to show me their love by the way they performed with the San Francisco Symphony.

It’s always easy to say it was perfection when there is no “official” video of the event.

There might be a few bootlegged videos on the YouTubes.

Michael Tate, President of the Board of GALA Choruses (Gay and Lesbian Association of Choruses).

Michael is also a former Chairperson of the SFGMC Board and the person who hired me 12 years ago. He brought thoughtful gratitude on behalf of GALA and a spray of roses befitting the Rose Bowl Parade Queen.

There was no actual award because, as he stated, I had been awarded a Lifetime Achievement Award in 2008, at which time there was a lovely crystal award I still cherish.

A few songs later, we were back to speechifying. Dr. Glenn DeSandre, Chair of the SFGMC Board, honored me with the title

The final thank yous are to my family—chosen and biological—who came from all over the world to help send me off into retirement. I’m leaving one of my Grandgirls, Clara, behind in San Francisco. She’s about to turn 12 and busy, busy. I’ll probably see her more on trips there and her trips here than living across town.

Thank you, San Francisco, for everything. Just because you faded from sight in my car’s rearview mirror, you are far from gone in the mirror of my heart. You changed me in so many ways. You taught me to celebrate Tim and all the rights thereunto appertaining. I’ll be back. Early September is already on the calendar, if I can wait that long.

There will be much more from the retiree in the rocking chair down by the riverside in Portland.

Dr. Tim Seelig is the Conductor Laureate of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus. http://www.timseelig.com/

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SNAPSHOTS Park Ranger Elizabeth Tucker, who organized the appearance of Betty Reid Soskin in the San Francisco Bay Times recent Pride Parade contingent, contributed photos from the Parade route, including this one of the two Big Bus Tours ( http://www.bigbustours.com ) vehicles, the same ones used in the Warriors Championship Parade. The vehicles made it possible for many LGBTQ+ community elders to participate as riders.

The contingent’s red and pink colors were depicted by t-shirts provided by Napa Cellars and balloons by designed by Salvador Tovar of Sparky’s Balloons ( http:///www.sparkysballoons.com ).

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The San Francisco Bay Times received a gift last fall: a bright orange, perfectly round pumpkin, from the Mission Food Hub, which has graced our conference table. After some 10 months, the pumpkin finally slumped on July 9, signaling time for recycling. We look forward to seeing more pumpkins at the Castro Farmers’ Market this fall.

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Santa Cruz artist Jim Denevan, who has been creating sand art at Ocean Beach since the 1990s, wowed beach goers on Sunday, August 7, with a spiral display of sand mounds. Deneven holds the Guinness World Record for the largest single artwork, a sand sculpture created in the Nevada Black Rock Desert in 2009. His latest piece at Ocean Beach lasted until it was wiped away by waves coming in for high tide.

SISTER DANA (continued from pg 24) BECOMES HER. When a novelist (BenDeLaCreme) loses her man (Major Scales) to a Drag Race star ( Jinkx Monsoon) and former friend, she winds up in a psychiatric hospital. Years later, she returns home to confront her friend who is looking radiant—having taken a mysterious drug she got from a witch (Peaches Christ) that grants eternal life to the person who drinks it. She follows suit, but discovers that immortality has a heavy (but I might add: hilarious) price. https://www.peacheschrist.com/ Sister Dana sez, “Famous pop singer DEMI LOVATO came out as nonbinary and adopted ‘they/them’ pronouns more than a year ago. But now she is back to ‘she/her.’ Regardless, Sister Dana has always been ‘he/she/it,’ but NEVER EVER ‘Them!’ Because as a former teacher at Cal State Hayward, I would never use a plural pronoun with a singular subject. I’m sorry: but however politically correct that might be—it would be grammatically incorrect for me!”

QUEER POP QUIZ ANSWER (Question on pg 21)

A) bisexual While the poll found that “bisexual” is the most common LGBT status among Gen Z, millennials, and Gen X, older Americans are about as likely to say they are gay or lesbian as to say they are bisexual.

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KAHN (continued from pg 30) As a certified massage therapist, I will often use bodywork intertwined with a movement session. I have found that although bodywork by itself is amazing, and intentional movement by itself is amazing, when you can combine the two, magic happens. I am currently learning two forms of bodywork through the Barral Institute.

I am practicing Neural Manipulation (imagine a gentle massage to free your entrapped nerves) and Visceral Manipulation (imagine a gentle massage to free your organs), which help restore balance throughout these two systems.

My goal is to continue to intertwine bodywork with movement to help my clients achieve their goals in the most efficient way possible. I also hope to expand my practice in the future, to continue teaching educational workshops for clients and teachers, and to always continue my own education on the human body, which never ceases to completely blow my mind.

Fun Fact: I got married this spring ( just before Pride!) and am so grateful for my wife, Mia Cooper Kahn, for all her support and love.

I’d love to work with you on your movement journey.

You can find the services I offer and connect with me at https://rayekahn.com Raye Kahn (B.S. Exercise Biology, UC Davis; NSCA Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist; Nationally Certified Pilates Teacher; and Certified Massage Therapist) is the Founder of Raye Kahn Movement. Previously Kahn co-founded the nonprofit No Limits Collaborative that provided outdoor recreational activities and educational workshops for people with spinal cord injuries and other physical disabilities. Kahn also developed and implemented UC Berkeley’s personal training for students with disabilities (formerly known as the No Limits Program), and co-developed the Absolute Endeavor program at Absolute Center in Lafayette.

Hal Call: Homophiles and the Struggle for Social Acceptance Faces from Our LGBT Past Dr. Bill Lipsky

ideals, our principles, our hopes, and aspirations.” They wanted to educate the public that “our only difference is an unimportant one to the heterosexual society, unless we make it one.”

After a bitter internal struggle led to the resignations of the original leadership, Call became president of the Society. Arguing that “the sex variant is no different from anyone else except in the object of his sexual expression,” the group turned from considering any political activism to research, education, and social service. Their goal was sexual freedom through social understanding and acceptance, not political activism.

Writing in The Mayor of Castro Street, journalist and author Randy Shilts christened Hal Call (Harold Leland Call) San Francisco’s “first permanent gay activist.” One of the most important and controversial figures of the homophile movement of the 1950s and 1960s, Call helped to shape its ideology and direction until the campaign for mainstream Call agreed: knowledge and influence, understanding and acceptance of not challenge and protest that would lesbians and gays was superseded by the demand for direct action Harold L. Call after Stonewall.

In an era of conformity and control, when too many people feared the very real consequences they faced for being openly lesbian or gay, Call was among the first to speak about homosexuality on radio and television, appearing as himself, using his real name. Born in Missouri in 1917 and educated as a journalist, he moved to San Francisco in 1952 after being acquitted of “lewd conduct” in Chicago.

The Mattachine Society, which held its first meeting in Los Angeles in November 1950, was the only gay rights organization to exist then. It was deeply divided. Not only had the original leadership become hugely controversial because of their affiliations with the Communist Party, but also two views of how to move forward had emerged among its members.

Some saw homosexuals as a minority group with their own culture that needed to organize and work for its rights. Others believed that equality would come only by assimilating “as men and women whose homosexuality is irrelevant to our

On September 11, 1961, Call appeared on The Rejected, the first documentary about gay men (nothing about lesbians was included) shown on American Television. Produced by KQED in San Francisco, it examined “who are the gay ones, how did they become gay, how do they live in a heterosexual society, what treatment is there by medicine or psychotherapy, how are they treated by society, and how would they like to be treated?” Call presented the homophile viewpoint.

Many in the community were satisfied with how Call described them as ordinary citizens, but not everyone was pleased. A newer generation of activists thought the program was pandering. They believed that gays should be themselves without apology or accommodation to the conceptions of mainstream society. They held that direct political action, not supplication, was the way to equality.

He arrived at a difficult time for lesbians and gays in the United States. Two years earlier, in June 1950, the Senate began to investigate the government’s employment of homosexuals. The results were not encouraging.

Homosexuality had long been illegal in the U.S., but now gay men and women were being labeled both as undesirable employees and as threats to society, not for anything they did, but for who they were.

The Senate’s findings were bolstered in 1952, the year Call moved to San Francisco, when the American Psychiatric Association classified homosexuality as a “sexual deviation” and a mental illness. The next year, President Dwight Eisenhower signed Executive Order 10450, which declared homosexuals to be security risks and prohibited them from working for the federal government. The changes drove people deep into their closets, not out into the streets.

just one of the things that exists in nature. It always has been with us, as far as we know, and always will be as far as we expect. It seems that no laws, no attitudes of any culture ... have ever been able to stamp it out or even essentially curb it.” He worked to “educate the public” about difference, so difference “will no longer be of any significance.”

“foment an ignorant, fear-inspired anti-homosexual campaign,” were key. In 1954 he and associate Donald Lucas founded Pan-Graphic Press to publish books, both fiction and nonfiction, that presented homosexuality objectively and explained it accurately. It remained a successful business for years. It also printed The Mattachine Review, which Call edited, and early issues of The Ladder for The Daughters of Bilitis and other homophile literature.

As one of the first Americans to proclaim his “sexual deviation” publicly, Call began working with social scientists, local attorneys, journalists, community leaders, and other professionals to help them better understand—and hopefully enable the public to better understand—what homosexuality “was all about.” Many homophiles wanted to downplay their “sexual expression,” but he was determined to educate the sexually uninformed by being open about it.

“Homosexualism,” he told listeners to a 1958 radio program on KPFA, “is

The Mattachine Society had entered a period of decline by the mid 1960s, but for many, Call remained the face of the “sexual variant.” In 1964, he contributed to a Life magazine article that sought to explain “homosexuality—and the problem it poses.”

The same year he was Stories interviewed Flower for The Homosexual, the first network documentary to discuss homosexuality.

No sponsor was willing to buy advertising time on it. Both showed that, after a decade of work, public perception had hardly changed.

By then The Mattachine Review was being published only sporadically; the last issue appeared in 1967, which was the same year Call opened the Adonis Bookstore. The first gay bookstore in the United States, it carried periodicals and books as well as explicitly adult material, much of it created by Grand Prix Photo Arts that he founded in 1968. What became the Circle J, the first gay adult theater in San Francisco with a live erotic stage show, followed soon after; it finally closed in 2005.

Some were disappointed that a former leader of the homophile movement had become a “mere pornographer,” but Call was unapologetic about all of it. “What’s the use in battling for sexual freedom without having any?” he asked. He died in San Francisco on December 18, 2000. He was 83.

Bill Lipsky, Ph.D., author of “Gay and Lesbian San Francisco” (2006), is a member of the Rainbow Honor Walk board of directors.

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Next up from Folsom Street Events is the Folsom Street Fair on September 25. https://www.folsomstreet.org/

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San Francisco Suicide Prevention team at the event

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Health-related precautions were high on the list of priorities during preparations for the return of the Up Your Alley Fair 2022. Signs sharing monkeypox information were visible, offered by health-related agencies and organizations.

Spirits were high, however, and by all accounts, participants enjoyed the return of sex-positive demonstrations, performance stages, and dozens of booths offering merchandise and services.

Among the booths visited by San Francisco Bay Times photographer Rink were those of the LEATHER & LGBTQ Cultural District, the San Francisco Department of Public Health, the San Francisco Community Health Center, and others.

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The Ken Burns’ documentary U.S. & The Holocaust was a much-anticipated highlight of the San Francisco Jewish Film Festival screened at the Castro Theatre.

Moderator Michael Krasny on stage at the Castro Theatre with filmmakers Sarah Botstein and Lynn Novick following the screening of Ken Burns’ U.S. and the Holocaust

SFJFF executive director Lexi Leban joined Sarah Botstein and Lynn Novick on the red carpet at the Castro Theatre.

A romantic couple shared a moment together on the sidewalk at 18th and Mission Streets on July 28.

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(left to right) Moderator Gerard Koskovich and panelists Dante Alencastre, AIDS educator Garza, and transgender activist Ms. Billie Cooper presented a panel discussion at the San Francico Public Library on July 30 following the screening of Alencastre’s film AIDS Diva: The Legend of Connie Norman.

Items of the week A selection of Tom of Finland merchandise is for sale at P.O. Plus at 584 Castro Street.

Books featured in the display window at Fabulosa Books, 489 Castro Street

Valencia Street restaurants and merchants welcomed customers to their sidewalk areas.

A-Shade Portable Beach Tent: Picnic Time has created a new design for a pop-up tent. It is large and easy to set up. Plus, it provides great shade on hot days at the beach. $120.99

Community Thrift Store, 623 Valencia Street

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Curio, 775 Valencia Street

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Create your own picnic setup with this quality wicker picnic basket. The flat lid can double as a table.

Two sizes available.

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Joyride Pizza, 411 Valencia Street

As Heard on the Street . . . What would you like to see more of at the Castro

Theatre: movies, concerts, or something else? compiled by Rink

Shakey Gibson

Dawn Dzurilla

Jessalyn Ragus

Oscar Gallegos Zamora

Chuck Bierwirth

“More music. I really like what Another Planet did with the Fox Theater in Oakland.”

“I trust that whatever the venue becomes, it will occasionally be thought-provoking.”

“Possibly something else, with the local community involved in what should be presented”

“Classic Hollywood films that are popular with gays”

“Art shows, with paintings and sculptures on display”

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