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With a supportive mother and friends, the sky’s the limit for former Mr. Mensa and Mr. Gay SF Nguyen Pham.

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Nguyen Pham Reaches Unimaginable Heights

Sergeant Perry Watkins

Perry Watkins: A Black Gay Soldier’s Story duly recruited, openly gay member of the United States Armed Forces.

Although the military did not have a policy that specifically forbade gay men and lesbians from serving until 1982, the mere possibility of samesex intimacy disqualified them from joining its ranks. According to a Pentagon statement in 1966, “The presence of homosexuals would seriously impair discipline, good order, morals, and the security of our armed forces.” Even the rapidly escalating need to conscript troops for the war in Vietnam did not change this official position, although it encouraged some recruiters to look the other way.

threaten to “out” someone who was “out” already. He got his clearance.

Not long afterwards, Watkins was investigated because a “confidential informant” had told the Army Criminal Investigation Division (CID) that he was gay, something the Army had known for five years.

The CID found lots of evidence of Watkins’ homosexuality, but finally ended its inquiry because he refused “to furnish any investigative leads,” meaning he declined to “name names.” At the end of his second tour in 1974, Watkins reenlisted for another six years.

During his second tour of duty, Watkins continued to live as an openly gay man and he continued to tell his superiors the truth about himself. In 1972, however, his sexuality became an issue twice for the Army. First, he was denied a security clearance because, as a known homosexual, he could be blackmailed by enemy agents. It took time, but Watkins eventually convinced the higher-ups that nobody could

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Perry Watkins (left) and Miriam Ben-Shalom exchanged greetings at the 1993 March on Washington after facing lengthy court battles challenging the U.S. military ban on service by homosexuals.

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Perry Watkins with flag, March on Washington (1993)

This time, however, he brought company: his drag persona Simone. As with everything in his life, Watkins made no secret of Simone, who was to perform in Army clubs across Europe. She was not the first female impersonator to entertain the troops, but she certainly became the most famous and most successful of her era. Stars and Stripes, the military’s daily newspaper, gave her a rave review, writing, “She Makes the 56th Artillery Brigade Flip.” Simone even won an Oktoberfest beauty pageant, the only contestant born male.

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During his induction examination, Watkins was evident about his sexuality. Asked by an Army psychiatrist why he had checked “homosexual tendencies” on his questionnaire, he specified the intimacies he enjoyed with other men. That led to a second interview with another psychiatrist, who verified he “has had homosexual tendencies in the past,” but was now “qualified for induction.” Watkins, a self-acknowledged sexually active, openly gay Black man, became a

The year after he completed his first term of service, Watkins decided to enlist for a second term of service.

Except as a female impersonator on weekends, he had been unable to find a good job. Besides, he wanted the educational opportunities the military could provide him. Once again, he told the Army’s recruiters he was gay. Once again, they reviewed his service record, which confirmed that he was “a practicing homosexual,” and accepted him as “eligible for reentry on active duty” for three more years.

The Army discovered yet again in 1975 and 1977 that Watkins had “homosexual tendencies,” but allowed its “favorite drag queen” to enlist for a fourth tour of duty in 1979. “There is no evidence,” one review board concluded, “suggesting that his behavior has had either a degrading effect upon unit performance, morale, or discipline, or upon his own job performance.” Soon after, it revoked his security clearance once again, primarily because he did “not deny that he is a homosexual,” a truth he had confirmed repeatedly.

Once again, Watkins appealed the decision. When he heard nothing back for many months, he filed a lawsuit in federal district court to have his clearance reinstated. The military was not pleased. It responded with a notification that it had initiated action to recommend his discharge. In October 1982, the Federal District Court found in Watkins’ favor, but the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals reversed the decision the next year. Watkins was separated from the service at the end of his enlistment period in 1984, 16 years after his induction.

Watkins challenged his discharge in court, arguing that the military’s policy of excluding gays and lesbians was unconstitutional. In 1989, the Ninth Circuit Court finally agreed with him in Watkins v. United States Army, stating that “the exclusion of

homosexuals from military service violated the equal protection clause of the Fourteenth Amendment,” a decision the Supreme Court declined to review. For the first time, the Army was ordered to return an openly gay Sergeant man to active military Perry duty after dismissWatkins ing him for homosexuality.

After the decision, Watkins initially planned to reenlist, but instead accepted a retroactive promotion to sergeant first class, $135,000 in back pay, full retirement benefits, and an honorable discharge. Dying of complications from AIDS on March 17, 1996, he did not live to see the transformations that now allow openly gay men, lesbians, bisexual and transgender men, and women to serve in the military.

Because of his frankness, courage, and perseverance against hypocrisy and homophobia, he helped to make the changes happen, moving equality forward for us all.

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Bill Lipsky, Ph.D., author of “Gay and Lesbian San Francisco” (2006), is a member of the Rainbow Honor Walk board of directors.

Famous and Notable LGBTQ Black Americans, Part Two For Black History Month, GLAAD created a list of well-known LGBTQ Black Americans—past and present—that was featured in the prior issue. Historian, author, and San Francisco Bay Times columnist Dr. Bill Lipsky added these names to the ever-growing list: Alberta Hunter: blues singer, cabaret star Billy Strayhorn: composer and arranger who influenced the American jazz movement with his pioneering efforts Charles Blow: journalist, commentator, and op-ed columnist for The New York Times Josephine Baker: entertainer, French Resistance agent, and civil rights activist Don Shirley: classical and jazz composer and pianist Jonathan Capehart: journalist, television anchor, and Pulitzer Prize winner Marlon Riggs: writer, filmmaker, and social activist Richard Bruce Nugent: artist, writer, actor, and dancer Samuel R. Delany, Jr.: writer, editor, professor, and literary critic Willie Mae “Big Mama” Thornton: blues singer and songwriter who recorded “Hound Dog” three years before Elvis Presley did Zora Neale Hurston: anthropologist and author

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Perry Watkins knew from an early age that he was gay. His family knew.

His friends at school in Tacoma, where he grew up, knew. Even the United States Army knew. Always open and truthful about himself, he told them when he filled out the paperwork for his required Selective Service physical in 1967, marking yes to the question, “Do you have homosexual tendencies?” He told them again at the induction center when he was called up for service in 1968.

The Army did not seem to care.

Perry Watkins, Lincoln High School (1966)

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When he completed basic training, Watkins joined a program to become a chaplain’s assistant. He had attended classes for less than two days when the school’s commandant told him, “You can’t complete this course, because you’re an admitted homosexual.” Watkins then demanded his release from the service, but he never received it. “Too queer to be a chaplain’s assistance, but ... not too queer to be in the Army,” Watkins found that his superiors apparently could not determine “that he was indeed homosexual ... enough to warrant a discharge.”

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Black From the Future I’ve written a lot about the literary heritage that started me writing vampire fiction. However, movies were also at the root of my career. The few horror films featuring Black protagonists sparked my imagination.

In 1968, George Romero’s Night of the Living Dead and, in 1972, Blacula starring William Marshall made an indelible impression on me as a filmgoer and as a writer. Romero’s star, Duane Jones, later starred in the Black vampire love story Ganja and Hess (1973), directed by Black theatre director Bill Gunn, a first.

Leave Signs Jewelle Gomez In 1984, a year that has become iconic when considering speculation about the future of our planet, I saw the quixotic John Sayles film The Brother From Another Planet. Joe Morton, the “Brother,” arrives from outer space, unable to speak but with an uncanny ability to understand. As a metaphor for African Americans in the U.S. it works with all of the tragic and comic depth Morton and Sayles could possibly convey.

This filmic history drew me inexorably to the Oakland Museum of California (OMCA) exhibit Mothership: Voyage into Afrofuturism, which is free but closes February 27.

It acts as a simple introduction to the idea of Afrofuturism. (Who doesn’t want to see the costume of Dora Milaje?!) And it suggests the possibility of a more historical and expansive exhibition in the future.

Almost 40 years later it still makes me smile. It confirmed for me that people of color could live in a broader universe of imagination than the 20 square, destitute blocks in Boston on which I’d grown up.

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It was exciting to read pages from a speculative fiction story written by renowned Black thinker/activ-

Duane Jones/George A. Romero Night of the Living Dead (1968)

ist W.E.B. Du Bois. It was also encouraging to see an extensive, although mainstream, list of the Black Afrofuturist writers who are descendants of Octavia Butler. Butler, quoted in the exhibit, said, “I don’t pre- Dora Milaje dict the future. All I do is look around at the problems we are neglecting now and give them about 30 years to grow into full-fledged disasters.”

A film installation by Kahlil Joseph entitled BLKNWS, which reinforces this artful understanding, is startling, moving, and captivating. Described as a “two-channel fugitive newscast,” it’s meant to present the world from the perspective of Black culture. The “news” is about things we all need to know, starting with the unnerving description of how the bodies of Africans dumped into the ocean by slavers during the Atlantic crossing became part of our ocean today and forever.

BLKNWS was the most compelling piece at the OMCA exhibit for me because it displayed the unique nature of African American culture and how it has been threaded throughout all our lives, whoever we

are. One section of quick-cut animation repeatedly declares the things that Black inventors are responsible for: blood transfusions, crop rotation, traffic lights, Murphy beds, gas masks, potato chips. Then it lists things Black people are not responsible for, starting with the KKK. The statement is forthright and frightening: the world would be a lesser place without people of color, yet many others don’t care.

The coda for this exhibit and its meaning to Queer people of color in the present and in the future is partially summed up in a quote from Du Bois: “The problem of the 20th century is the problem of the color line.”

I would add misogyny to that essential problem. Every film mentioned

here and our 20th century social movements from Civil Rights to Black Power to the BLM movement are a dire warning that this country has no healthy future until the cancerous lesions around race and gender it created in the past are healed.

Jewelle Gomez is a lesbian/feminist activist, novelist, poet, and playwright. She’s written for “The Advocate,” “Ms. Magazine,” “Black Scholar,” “The San Francisco Chronicle,” “The New York Times,” and “The Village Voice.” Follow her on Instagram and Twitter @ VampyreVamp

Celebrating Black History Month Is Radical

Imani Rupert-Gordon February is replete with obligatory Black History Month statements coming from corporations to politicians who actively work against Black communities most of the year and think of Black History Month as solely a symbolic celebration. In this moment, when we are dealing with renewed attacks on our ability to teach and learn our history, it’s important to remember the fundamental radical demand that lies at the core of Black History Month: that our place in history is spoken and that our stories are told.

This resonates with me, because right now, many of our communities are fighting to have our histories taught.

What we learn in school doesn’t just give us knowledge; it communicates priorities. It tells us the things we should value, and it frames our truth. And when you don’t see yourself reflected in that set of priorities, it’s easy to feel like you are ancillary

For the first time I realized, perhaps, that was intentional.

Years later, I was falling in love with a woman for the first time when I realized that I didn’t know anything about the LGBTQ rights movement.

I remember the internet search, thinking that surely, something is going to jog my memory any second now.

It didn’t. I learned about the Stonewall uprisings for the very first time that day. It wasn’t until years later that I learned of the contributions of trailblazers like Marcia P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, and Stormé DeLarverie.

I was an adult when I met someone outside of my family that had ever heard of Juneteenth. I was in college when I took my first classes in African American studies and realized that I wasn’t just learning something for the first time; I was

The first Black History Month was celebrated at the Kuumba House, Kent State. (1969)

unlearning too. And what I had to unlearn was the dangerous myth that people like me—who looked like me, who loved like me—didn’t play a role in our history. The truth is that we were central to it. I wonder where we would be if more people realized that.

When we don’t learn our history in school, it doesn’t just create a void waiting to be filled. It gives the impression that it’s possible to understand how history unfolded without understanding the contributions of Black people, of LGBTQ people, of immigrants, of people with disabilities, and people from dozens of other underrepresented identities. It communicates that there are some people who are less important than we are, and it makes it harder to see there was a void to begin with. And that changes the way we are able to contextualize the world and our place in it.

Sharing a more complete and honest history prepares us to make better decisions as advocates, and as citizens. For instance, when we have a deeper understanding of how Jim Crow Laws undermined voting rights, it’s easier for us to recognize the historical significance of the voting rights bills failing to pass the Senate this year, and what the long history of voter suppression represents.

Opponents of justice know this. It’s why we continue to see the efforts to

keep groundbreaking research like the 1619 Project and other lessons about the centrality of the slave trade in our history out of schools.

It’s why we see legislative efforts to erase the LGBTQ community from history with “Don’t Say Gay” bills.

And why we continue to see efforts to ban books that will tell our stories more fully. Because teaching our history tells us that our stories matter and, so too do we. And in a political moment like this one, celebrating Black History Month isn’t symbolic.

It’s radical.

Imani Rupert-Gordon is the Executive Director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights.

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Out of Left Field

I remember when I was in high school, some friends and I went to see the movie Amistad. I realized that everything I understood about the Amistad case was taught to me by my parents. My two friends and I were all in Advanced Placement History, then Advanced Placement Government, and we stood there in front of the movie theater grappling with the reality that there were large and important parts of our history that were not being taught to us in school, and there was a consequence to that.

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in our history and our future. And it’s even easier for people to treat you that way.

Robert Holgate and Jennifer Kroot oversee the Out of Left Field column.

Imani Rupert-Gordon is filling in this month.

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COMING OUT WITH PRIDE My Mother, the Audacious Ally

Nguyen Pham performing with CHEER SF at the Gay Games VII in Chicago, Illinois (2006)

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On my birthday today—February 24—I reflect on my mother’s audacious love and allyship as well as on the series of profoundly queer events that followed the watershed moment in Mom’s car.

Shortly thereafter, during my junior year, I founded Westmont High School’s GayStraight Alliance (GSA), which I’m proud to know still thrives.

Following graduation, I marched with the GSA Network in the annual San Francisco Pride Parade, marking the first time that hundreds of thousands of beautiful strangers gleefully affirmed my queerness to my face. As a college freshman, I began volunteering with UC Berkeley’s Queer Resource Center and Gender Equity Resource Center; and the same year, I joined CHEER San Francisco, the world’s longest-running queer-oriented charitable cheerleading organization with which I’m currently celebrating 20 years as a performer.

And the pageants! Beginning in my 20s, I had the honor and pleasure of clinching all three pageant titles for which I contended, two of them queer-centered. In 2013, I nabbed the title of Mr. Gay Asian Pacific Alliance—a.k.a. Mr. GAPA 2013—with Miss GAPA 2013 Khmera

Speaking of pageantry, the SF Pride Parade often strikes me as the world’s largest pageant. Anyone who has ever glimpsed that hours-long procession on Market Street on the last Sunday of every June won’t deny its fabulously queer pomp and circumstance. I’m proud to have marched in every SF Pride Parade for nearly 20 consecutive years before COVID-19 forced a regrettable pause.

Nguyen Pham and his mother at home in Campbell, California (2021)

In 2016, following my 16th march, thenBoard President Michelle Meow invited me to run for an open seat on SF Pride’s Board of Directors. I leapt at the opportunity to give back in a meaningful way to an organization that had given so meaningfully to me, and for so long. 2022 marks my sixth consecutive year on our Board, and today I serve dutifully as Vice President beside SF Pride icon Carolyn Wysinger.

As that initial confrontation with Mom took shape as a response to a question asked rather than as a declarative statement made, I’ve grown to realize that my coming out was not quite the pronouncement that I thought had been expected of queer people. And that’s okay. It helped that I could simply stop denying the converse, both to myself and to others— meaning no more tepid “Oh, I don’t know yet” when questioned.

Nguyen Pham and his mom at Nguyen’s birthday brunch in Santa Clara, California (2020)

The onslaught of sweeping acceptance that followed this inflection point provided greater affirmation than my heart and mind thought possible as a question-

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I won’t forget these fiercely loving words that my Vietnamese mother expressed when she finally mustered the nerve to ask me about my sexual orientation. I was a high school sophomore in turn-of-the-millennium Silicon Valley, and Mom was driving me to my weekly youth symphony rehearsal.

Mendelssohn played on the car radio when Mom asked me mid-conversation, “So, are you gay?” for the first and only time ever. To this, I replied, terrified, “I might be. Is that okay?” Mom assured me it was; and from then, my life has become so exquisitely queer.

Rouge, who would soon ascend to San Francisco’s Absolute Empress 50. During Khmera’s reign as Empress, I secured the title of Mr. Gay San Francisco 2015 and spent that year representing the Imperial Council of San Francisco alongside Lily Rose, Miss Gay San Francisco 2015. (My remaining title of Mr. Mensa 2011 isn’t specifically queer, but I think it’s super neat nonetheless.)

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“Gay or straight, you’re my son.”

By Nguyen “Sir Whitney Queers” Pham

Nguyen Pham and his mother on an impromptu vacation in Germany (2021)

(Left to Right) Evan Low, Nguyen Pham, Nguyen’s mother, and Nguyen’s brother at Nguyen’s mom’s milestone birthday garden soirée (2021)

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Nguyen Pham is the Director of Philanthropy at Frameline. He can be reached online @YayNguyen (TW/IG).

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Nguyen “Sir Whitney Queers” Pham performing a piano Fantasy at the annual GAPA Runway Pageant (2013)

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Mr. Gay San Francisco 2015 Nguyen “Sir Whitney Queers” Pham with Miss Gay San Francisco 2015 Lily Rose shortly after their pageant victory (2015)

So, for my birthday today, it should come as no surprise that I’m treating Mom to a scrumptious dinner out in the gayborhood, 30-something years to the day that she treated me to this scrumptious existence. In case you see us, please feel free to say, “Hi.” Gay or straight, or otherwise: You’re someone we’d be pleased to meet.

(left) Mr. GAPA 2013 Nguyen “Sir Whitney Queers” Pham with Miss GAPA 2013 Khmera Rouge shortly after their pageant victory (2013)

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Nguyen Pham performing with CHEER SF at the San Francisco Pride Parade (2006)

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ing teenager doing his best in Campbell, California. And it opened a world of queer activity and activism that has become the cornerstone of my identity today as a late-30s gay man in love with his life in the Castro—not to mention who loves his audaciously queer-affirming mother.

Mr. Gay San Francisco 2015 Nguyen “Sir Whitney Queers” Pham at the San Francisco Imperial Coronation 51 (2016)

Nguyen Pham at the SF Pride Check Presentation (2017)

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CELEBRATING FOUR DECADES (1978–2022)

Mensa, as many know, is the world’s oldest and largest high-IQ society open to people who score in the top two percent of the general pop-

ulation on an accepted standardized intelligence test. Only one trait unites Mensa’s thousands of members—high intelligence—so member demographics run quite the gamut, including some proud queer people like yours truly (as well as possibly a quite-notable Absolute Empress of San Francisco whose name might rhyme with “Lana Cachet”).

I gained entry into American Mensa in the summer of 2010 by passing a proctored exam that spring, and I immediately began engaging with many thousands of oth-

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Alongside millions of others, I watched awestruck as Amy Schneider advanced and then concluded her recent historic winning streak on Jeopardy! In addition to her landmark contribution to trans visibility in the most-watched non-sports show on TV, something I found titillating was Amy Schneider’s frequent characterization as “having Mensa-worthy intelligence.”

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Mensa: Not Just for Nerds (But Mostly for Nerds) By Nguyen Pham

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Nguyen Pham hosting the annual Mr. Mensa Pageant in Indianapolis, Indiana (2018)

Mr. Mensa 2011 Nguyen Pham at the annual Mr. Mensa Pageant shortly after pageant victory in Portland, Oregon (2011)

Nguyen Pham hosting the annual Mr. Mensa Pageant in Hollywood, Florida (2017)

ers of this nerdy ilk: “Mensans” as we’re affectionately known. Within a year, I earned the title of Mr. Mensa 2011, embarking on a years-long fundraising journey for the Mensa Foundation, a charitable organization separate from American Mensa—but equally fabulous— whose mission is to unleash intelligence for the benefit of humanity by providing scholarships and grants.

By 2020, I had helped to raise north of $100,000 for the Foundation, and I was then invited onto and joined its Board of Trustees.

In securing my place among this group of nerdy do-gooders, I incidentally became the first-ever openly queer Trustee of the Mensa Foundation. To meet this moment, in

2021 I established the Progress Pride Scholarship for students who identify as both BIPOC and LGBTQ and who have a demonstrated record of positive service to the BIPOC and LGBTQ communities. This effort raised $20,000 to fund two $10,000 scholarships, and I’m excited that we’ll be naming the worthy recipients of our inaugural Progress Pride Scholarship in the coming months for the ‘22–’23 scholastic year.

Concurrently, I’m building on the success of this inaugural scholarship program by establishing the Progress Pride Fund of Mensa Foundation.

The Progress Pride Fund will continue to shine a light on the unique challenges of those at the intersection of BIPOC and LGBTQ by providing

scholarships and community grants in support of unleashing the intelligence of these marginalized, intersectional people.

In the spirit of visibility and representation of the underrepresented, and in honor of my actual birthday today (more on that in today’s Coming Out Story), I invite everyone who can to provide a tax-deductible gift to the Progress Pride Fund of Mensa Foundation online ( https://tinyurl.com/ProgressPride2022 )

today through the end of the month.

I wager that Amy Schneider would approve.

Nguyen Pham, Mr. Mensa 2011, can be reached at NguyenPham@ MensaFoundation.org

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More Troubling AAPI Hate Crime Numbers

Election Night Parties

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San Francisco Bay Times photographer Rink, on the evening of February 15, attended the primary Election Day parties of candidates David Campos and Matt Haney.

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David Campos’ campaign party was held at the SF Eagle.

Among his supporters attending were his parents and husband Phil Hwang, Supervisor Rafael Mandelman, and many others—including Kate Usher of Storefront Political Media and Henri, her dog.

Assemblymember Phil Ting Despite efforts to stop hate crimes against the Asian American and Pacific Islander (AAPI) community, the numbers continued to increase in 2021. A new report from the Center for the Study of Hate and Extremism at Cal State San Bernardino shows another surge in anti-AAPI hate crimes in major cities across the country last year. When compared to 2020 figures, for example, San Francisco saw an astonishing 576 percent increase, while Los Angeles experienced a 173 percent jump.

To help address the problem, I introduced AB 1947 this month, requiring all California law enforcement agencies to adopt an updated hate crimes policy—which, unbelievably, is not required by the state. The protocols would be standardized, including how authorities recognize, report, and respond to hate crimes. We can’t have one jurisdiction treat a hate crime one way, while another locale a few miles away does nothing. That leads to an incomplete and inaccurate picture of hate in our state.

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crimes. The findings further concluded the state’s hate crimes are under-reported by 14 percent due, in part, to outdated or nonexistent policies. When there is consistency to the responses victims receive and the information being collected, we can enact better solutions and appropriate needed resources.

I’m fortunate that my proposal has the support of Monthanus Ratanapakdee, whose 84-year-old father, Vicha, was violently shoved to the ground a year ago during his daily walk around his San Francisco neighborhood. The elderly man never regained consciousness. His death influenced his daughter to begin raising awareness about what hate can do. She believes that by requiring police to handle hate crimes the same way under AB 1947, victims and families can get the justice they deserve. Authorities would no longer be able to be dismissive or take things lightly. Hate crimes carry penalty enhancements and should apply to appropriate cases.

The San Francisco Police Department was one of the early adopters of a hate crimes unit in 1990. A year later, they were instrumental in the formation of the Bay Area Hate Crimes Investigator’s Association, comprised of officers from nine counties in our region. Their members interact with each other, working toward a common goal of ridding communities of biasrelated crimes. That type of cooperation is needed throughout our state.

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Supervisor Haney welcomed and thanked campaign volunteers at his party held at the SoMa Food Truck Park at 498 11th Street. Activist Honey Mahogany was among those who spoke in his support.

Supervisor Haney finished first in the race, followed closely by Campos. A runoff election, to fill the Assembly seat vacated by David Chiu when he was appointed City Attorney, will be held on April 19.

Leadership Changes

Suzanne Ford has been an integral part of San Francisco Pride for a number of years. A longtime advocate for the trans and gender nonconforming communities, she has served on the Board of Directors since 2018, and has been on the executive committee as both the vice president and treasurer. Suzanne’s previous service to the community includes a seat on the board of Trans Heartline and the role of president of the board of directors of the Spahr Center in Marin County.

The Board of SF Pride wishes to express their heartfelt gratitude to Fred for his guidance and hard work for the last 2 years. His tenure has largely coincided with the COVID-19 pandemic, which forced the cancellation of nearly all in-person events for the past two years.

Fred’s leadership during this challenging period included the launch of a successful virtual Pride celebration in 2020, renewed collaborations with longstanding partners for SF Pride’s 50th anniversary, the broadening of SF Pride’s program-

Left to Right) SF Pride Board President Carolyn Wysinger, Vice President Nguyen Pham, Secretary Elizabeth Lanyon, then-Treasurer Suzanne Ford (2021)

ming to deliver content and produce events year-round, and more.

Among the most successful initiatives were an expanded partnership with Giants Enterprises and Frameline (“Pride Movie Night at Oracle Park”), the continuation of the successful Golf Tournament and Fundraiser held at TPC Harding Park, and the creation of the Ken Jones Awards, an inaugural fundraising event.

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Maitri Announces Michael Armentrout As New Executive Director and Mission Manager Michael Armentrout has just joined the nonprofit Maitri as Executive Director and Mission Manager. He comes to Maitri—an organization that provides compassionate residential care for people in need of hospice or 24-hour medical care— with a decades-long background in both corporate and nonprofit settings.

He has broad experience in executive leadership, financial management, and fund development.

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After more than two years as Executive Director of San Francisco Pride, Fred Lopez will leave the role at the end of February, to accept a position in the Director’s office of the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art. In the interim, Lopez will be succeeded by Suzanne Ford, a transgender woman who currently Suzanne Ford serves as SF Pride’s Treasurer. Following this year’s celebrations in June, the board will embark on a search for who will fill the role of executive director on a permanent basis.

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Michael Armentrout in front of artist Serge Gay, Jr.’s mural symbolizing that

Armentrout has been “Maitri’s doors are always open and the crossover.” active in work for the LGBTQ+ and HIV/AIDS communities, including early work in HIV/AIDS teaching prevention measures and lobbying Congress for the continuation of the Ryan White Care Act and in favor of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act.

He is committed to Maitri, the organization’s clients, and its mission that “no one should have to suffer, transition, or die alone.”

Armentrout comes to Maitri ready to lead its developing programs including: • Maitri’s Never Alone mural by Serge Gay, Jr. It is a beautiful mural that will adorn Maitri’s Duboce-facing wall. Come watch it being painted in real-time! (continued on page 16)

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Out of the Closet and into City Hall Oakland City Councilmember At-Large, Rebecca Kaplan The city of Oakland’s February 7 Finance Committee approved Vice Mayor Kaplan and Councilmember Fife’s item to begin discussions of

options to revitalize the city-owned parcel at 7th and Broadway, with a new mixed-use development that would include affordable housing and ground floor activation (such as retail, café) that would better connect this major corridor and improve pedestrian safety and access, connecting downtown, old Oakland, Chinatown, and Jack London.

new modern building that could provide the needed amenities along with other public services, which would be located in East Oakland and provide for more effective services and improved accessibility.

This large, publicly-owned site on the major Broadway corridor is in bad condition, and the workers who currently work in the building and members of the public who come to it are subjected to bad conditions.

Additionally, it is an ineffective use of this location that is near BART and many job centers, and would be better used as housing and mixed-use.

According to the 2017 feasibility study, in their assessment of the PAB’s (Police Administration Building) condition, they found the building’s envelope, HVAC system, lighting, electrical and plumbing, ADA compliance, fire protection, and elevators were all in need of major capital improvements or replacement.

The services that have been housed in the building, including police administration, a crime lab, and more, would be more effective in a

At the same time, the city is in serious need of housing and commercial space. From the city’s Housing Element Annual Progress Report for 2020, Oakland has met only 43% of its Regional Housing Needs

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Revitalizing Broadway in Oakland, Including New Affordable Housing

Allocation (RHNA) goals for very low-income housing, 25% of its RHNA goals for low-income housing, 3% of its RHNA goals for moderate income housing, and 22% of its overall affordable housing goals.

This resolution directs the Oakland City Administrator to make a concerted effort to ensure contracts are awarded with an equity framework so that small, BIPOC, and women-

owned firms are able to participate in the development of this project, and that the project be designed and planned in a manner to meet community needs. And to revitalize this large, centrally located public land in a way that connects our major corridor, is more welcoming, and provides for a new improved public service facility with state of the art labs and training facilities at the coliseum site.

Councilmember At-Large and Council President Rebecca Kaplan, who is the Vice Mayor of Oakland, was elected in 2008 to serve as Oakland’s citywide Councilmember; she was re-elected in 2016 and 2020. She also serves on the Alameda County Transportation Commission (ACTC). Follow Councilmember Kaplan on Twitter @Kaplan4Oakland ( https://twitter.com/Kaplan4Oakland ) and Facebook ( https://www.facebook.com/Kaplan4Oakland/ ).

Stand with Ukraine Rally in San Francisco Photos by Rink The #StandWithUkraine rally held at the San Francisco Ferry Building was held in conjunction with others conducted jointly in San Jose and Los Angeles on Sunday, February 20. Organized by members of the SF Bay Area’s Ukrainian community and supporters, the rally protested Russia’s military forces build up and threat of invasion of Ukraine. Participants signed more than 400 letters to be mailed to Speaker Nancy Pelosi and Senators Dianne Feinstein and Alex Padilla urging Congress to pass legislation that would impose sanctions on Russia.

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In Case You Missed It books about race that are deemed to potentially make students “uncomfortable,” to banning trans athletes from competing in school sports, to even banning the discussion of sexual orientation or gender identity in class (see Florida’s infamous “Don’t Say Gay” bill).

Joanie Juster Themes sometimes emerge as I write this column. This time the theme was clear: the power of telling our stories, and the importance of making sure those stories are heard.

Here’s to everyone with the courage to share their stories in print, in films, on stage, or anywhere else.

And here’s to the librarians, teachers, booksellers, lawyers, parents, and others who are fighting to make sure everyone who wants and needs to hear those stories can have access to them.

I Read Banned Books The past year has seen a disturbing increase in attempts by legislatures, school districts, and parents’ groups across the country to ban specific topics from school libraries and curricula. Overwhelmingly, the books they seek to ban are about LGBTQ+ people, as well as about race and racism. These attempts often go hand in hand with anti-LGBTQ+ policy bills: bills that range from proposing the banning of LGBTQ+-themed books from school districts, to banning

Teachers and librarians are being threatened with lawsuits, job loss, or even physically threatened for carrying such books on their shelves, or even for discussing these topics with students. And the number of these incidents has increased rapidly in the past few months.

These attempts at censorship are a serious assault on crucial freedoms, and can do serious harm to students, whose rights to read about subjects important to them, and that reflect the reality of their lives, are being threatened. Two recent articles, one

by Mary Emily O’Hara of GLAAD, and one by Mike Hixenbaugh of NBC News, take deep dives into this situation, and are well worth taking the time to read. The GLAAD blog post includes links to organizations that are fighting back; they deserve our support. Here are the links: https://tinyurl.com/NBCBkBans https://tinyurl.com/GLAADbkbans The Stories of Our Lives A journalist once asked legendary singer Rosemary Clooney what it was like performing in the Big Band era. The plainspoken Clooney replied, “If I’d known I was living through an era I would have paid more attention.”

Clooney’s answer struck a chord, for as I get older it has become increasingly clear that all of us are always

living through an era. And it’s also clear that I should have paid more attention, or at least kept better notes.

Many of my contemporaries are now writing memoirs or making films about events that I lived through, and I find myself awed by their powers of recollection. They must have kept really good notes.

Lately I’ve been reading memoirs of the AIDS years, from people with very different, and important, stories to tell. Peter Staley’s memoir Never Silent (2021) is a compelling story of the birth of an activist, as Peter went from a closeted gay man with a privileged career on Wall Street to an out and proud gay man on the front lines of AIDS activism in ACT UP and TAG (Treatment Action Group). His work continues to inspire new generations of activists.

Ruth Coker Burns was a single mother in Arkansas in the 1980s.

Her life was transformed when she encountered the discrimination and neglect suffered by people with AIDS in her community. Shocked by this cruelty, she stepped up in extraordinary ways to care for hundreds of people who had been discarded by their families and society first because they were gay, then because they had AIDS. She fed them, housed them, fought for their rights, pro-

vided them with love and security, and buried them with dignity when they died. Her memoir is All the Young Men (2020).

Activist and educator Martina Clark’s memoir, My Unexpected Life, features a unique global perspective. As a straight woman living with HIV in the 1990s and 2000s, she traveled the world to teach HIV awareness, prevention, and care through her decadeslong career with the UNAIDS. Her courage in fighting ignorance, indifference, cultural roadblocks, and mind-numbing bureaucracy in her effort to save lives—all while fighting her own battles against discrimination—is eye-opening, refreshing, and inspiring. It is also, often, hilarious, as Clark has a refreshingly straightfrom-the-hip style. My Unexpected Life is an important addition to the growing canon of AIDS memoirs, especially since she brings her story into the present with her battle with COVID-19.

April Ashley - Trans Trailblazer I was raised to read the newspaper every day, which, even as a kid, included the obituaries. A recent one stopped me in my tracks: an obituary for April Ashley, whose obit reads like a plot from a fantastic Hollywood movie that hasn’t been made yet. Vogue model, performer, darling of the swinging ‘60s jet set, and transgender activist, Ashley was not only the second Briton to undergo male

to female transition surgery, but also later fought for and won the right to be legally recognized as female thanks to the Gender Recognition Act of 2005. Ashley was awarded the honor of MBE (Member of the Order of the British Empire) in 2012 in recognition of her services to transgender equality.

April Ashley died in London on December 26 at the age of 86. What a life. Read all about it here: https://tinyurl.com/AAprilO What Is Amy Up to Now? The very nature of a column that comes out twice a month is that by publication time, some items will be old news. Sure enough, the night before my interview with Jeopardy! champion Amy Schneider came out in the San Francisco Bay Times, saying how much she loved her day job— she quit her day job. Amy is on such a fast-moving trajectory right now that it will be a challenge to keep up with her news, but I just want to wish her the best and say go for it! She has hinted that she will be writing a book soon, and I can’t wait to read it.

Don’t Miss It: Coronation is Coming My first experience with Coronation was 1996, when Donna Sachet herself was crowned Empress XXX. In the February 10 issue of this publication, Donna shared the rich history of the Imperial Council, its activist roots, its philanthropic work, and why it

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In Search of Queer Poetic Justice

6/26 and Beyond Alvin H. Baum Jr.

The Inaugural Alvin H. Baum, Jr. Memorial Lecture Honoring an LGBTQ+ Jewish Social Justice Activist

John Lewis and Stuart Gaffney Oh boy, if you want to cheer my heart, You must give me kisses after serving me the wine.

Sunday, March 27, 6:30–8 p.m.

University of San Francisco, Maraschi Room, Fromm Hall To Register: rsvp.usfca.edu/memorial-lecture-2022 A new lecture series, produced by the University of San Francisco’s Swig Program in Jewish Studies and Social Justice, will be launched to honor the memory of Alvin H. Baum Jr., noted LGBTQ+ Jewish social justice activist. This lecture will preserve the memory of Alvin H. Baum Jr. (1930-2021), a monumental Bay Area figure who fought passionately for the inclusion of LGBTQ+ people in the Jewish community and beyond. Mr. Baum was a lawyer, urban planner, social worker, therapist, and a brilliant strategic philanthropist who emerged as a pillar in the Jewish, civil rights, and gay communities.

The inaugural lecture will be delivered by Dr. Marcy Adelman, a stalwart activist in the Bay Area LGBTQ+ community. Dr. Adelman is the cofounder and visionary of Openhouse, which works to center the voices and experiences of older LGBTQ+ adults by providing housing and opportunities to make social connections and build community. Throughout her extraordinary career, Dr. Adelman has advocated for affordable, lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender-friendly senior housing and trained service providers to better support elderly LGBTQ+ people.

If you would like to support this important work go to: https://tinyurl.com/3n8v2fbb

Farrukhi Sistani

So reads a couplet from the 10–11th century Persian poet Farrukhi Sistaní giving voice to same-sex love. Farrukhi, a Persian literary luminary who lived in what is now Afghanistan, was not alone in writing about queer love. The famous 13th century poet Rumi, whose poetry enjoys enormous popularity in America today and whose family was from what is now Afghanistan, was also inspired by same-sex love.

Queer life and love in present-day Persia is far different than it was 800 or more years ago. It is heartwrenching that Iran, Afghanistan, and Pakistan are three of eleven countries in the world today in which physical expression of same-sex love may be punishable by death. Today, poets like Farrukhi or Rumi might be hanged or stoned to death.

Six countries— Iran, Saudi Arabia, Yemen, Mauritania, Brunei, and the 12 Northern states of Nigeria—legally prescribe capital punishment as a penalty for same-sex sexual conduct, according to a 2020 report from ILGA World (International Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Association).

ILGA sources report that the death penalty may be imposed in five other countries, although there is less legal certainty about the punishment. Those five countries are: Afghanistan, Pakistan, Qatar, Somalia, and the United Arab Emirates.

He wrote: If anyone asks you, how the perfect satisfaction of all our sexual wanting will look, lift your face and say, Like this.

And Rumi’s poetry connects human love to personal liberation and the divine:

Bowl of Reflections with Rumi’s poetry, early 13th century

ancient Persian poet, Hafez, who wrote: It happens all the time in heaven, And some day, it will begin to happen again on earth That men and women who are married, And men and men who are Lovers, And women and women who give each other Light, Often get down on their knees And while so tenderly holding their lover’s hand, With tears in their eyes, will sincerely speak, saying: “My dear, How can I be more loving to you; How can I be more kind?”

Needless to say, these laws have a devastating effect on queer people in these countries. Ali Khoie, an Iranian LGBTIQ refugee now living in the U.S., described it this way at a 2015 event sponsored by ORAM (Organization for Refuge, Asylum and Migration): “Imagine if you are in a closet with the doors closed. It’s dark in there. You are all alone and sometimes you are so far into the darkness you don’t even know your own self.”

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Soul, if you want to learn secrets, your heart must forget about shame and dignity.

You are God’s lover, yet you worry what people are saying.

Getting lost in despair is easy in the face of these conditions. Khoie was able to flee Iran and find freedom, which he described as “coming to a place where the doors are thrown wide open and the light comes in.” But he also described how adjusting to such sudden change can be difficult. Indeed, leaving one’s home can be traumatic, and LGBTQ refugees may face racial discrimination in their new host countries. And, of course, very few LGBTIQ people are able to escape.

Amidst the darkness, we find hope in the prophecy of another

Hafez

Hafez envisions not just a pair of lovers being more kind to each other, but for all people to extend this kindness to the world as their beloved. Nonprofit organizations such as ILGA World, ORAM, and Rainbow Railroad are doing just that for LGBTIQ people in need across the globe.

We must ask the leaders of the eleven countries with the death penalty for homosexuality and the approximately 60 other countries that still criminalize being LGBTQ, when will they do the same? Indeed, what would happen if we all awakened each morning and asked ourselves Hafez’s query: “How can I be more kind?”

English translations of poetry from: https://tinyurl.com/2p928hhe The Essential Rumi (HarperOne 2004) https://www.rumi.org.uk The Subject Tonight is Love (Pumpkin House Press, 1996) https://tinyurl.com/2p9hkz26 https://tinyurl.com/yc8x655y John Lewis and Stuart Gaffney, together for over three decades, were plaintiffs in the California case for equal marriage rights decided by the California Supreme Court in 2008. Their leadership in the grassroots organization Marriage Equality USA contributed in 2015 to making same-sex marriage legal nationwide.

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Emergency Services Day: Honoring our Heroes

By Bob Hermann “So, what’s up with all the time you spend in Rotary, Bob? This is kind of a straight organization and not for our community, right?”

Me: Wow! This question is so off base, but it’s just education that changes the perspective. The assumptions made are like the assumption that every LGBTQ person is a butch and flannel wearing uber-sexual, or their opposite.

Personally, I cherish the diversity of the LGBTQ community, and, in like manner, I love the diversity of my Rotary Club. We are ~10% gay identified, multi-racial, and represent a range of generations. My husband Dan and I have always felt welcomed to participate in the life of the Club at whatever level we choose. By the way, this article is mine alone and not a message put forward by the Rotary Club of San Francisco. Thank you to the San Francisco Bay Times for inviting me to tell this story.

Rotary is all about Service—Service Above Self; helping others comes before our own needs. As a youth in New Jersey, the idea of service was all around me. My family had a rich background in the cause of public safety: my grandfather served in the army in World War I, my great uncle in the navy at Pearl Harbor, my father as a marine in the Korean War, my second cousin in the army in the Kuwaiti war, and my little brother in the police force. This service background comes to the fore on Emergency Services Day (ESD). And it’s one of the reasons I have chosen to lead this event.

Before I get to ESD, let me frame for you what our Club is.

The Rotary Club of San Francisco #2, founded just after the Great Earthquake, is the second oldest in the world out of 46,000 clubs. We

helped to create many other Clubs, such as the Rotary Club of San Francisco Castro; played an instrumental role in founding the United Nations; and to this day have representation on this counsel. We have been the driving force in the world to eradicate polio and we are almost there!

Our members are comprised of diverse backgrounds encompassing business professionals and civic leaders. All of these folks come together with a common mission, “to do good in our local communities and the world,” and in doing this work, have fun and fellowship, and find friends along the way. We have a portfolio of about 20 projects a year that members work together on to help in many areas of San Francisco and the world beyond. One of my favorites is the Bike Build, where we build and give away scores of bicycles to underserved children.

There’s much more to say about the Rotary Club of San Francisco, but you can learn about it by going to our website ( https://sfrotary.com/ ).

Even better, come and attend an inperson meeting on Tuesdays at the Hotel Nikko. At the end of the day, we are about building peace in the world through good works.

A meaningful aspect of working on ESD has been to get the inside story of the work performed by our emergency service workers. I know a lot from my brother about his police work in Franklin Township, NJ, but it was surprising to look at what duty is required by the Coast Guard, for example. From environmental problems like chemical spills in our waterways, drunken pleasure boaters, and harrowing moments saving a human life, these men and women face changing and complicated challenges. And so, it is with all of the

emergency service personnel. It was also great to hear about the cooperation among our different service groups.

In times of emergency, what could be more imperative than cooperation between departments? Impressive!

At our Annual ESD held since 1987, the Rotary Club of San Francisco will honor outstanding representatives of the public safety departments we depend on every day: Police, Fire, Sheriff, Coast Guard, and for 2022, our Department of Public Health with leaders who were on the battle lines fighting a global pandemic.

Rotarians and guests will meet the honorees and their loved ones and hear their amazing stories of heroism and dedication told by leadership of each department. This is quite the stirring event showcasing the dedication of our guardians and their actions. ESD provides a public forum where Rotary and department leaders can thank and congratulate the award winners, cheered on by audience members.

Husbands Bob Hermann and Dan Joraanstad in Oberhaching, Bavaria, during a tour of Germany. (2013)

Rotary Club members conduct service projects throughout the year, including the Bike Build Project (above) where members assemble and distribute bicycles to young people, and (below right) the Socks Distribution Project with members obtaining and delivering thousands of pairs of socks to those in need. To find out more about Rotary service projects, visit: https://www.sfrotary.com/page/local-service

The recognition luncheon honoring first responders for their heroic acts focuses on how our “defenders” have transformed the quality of services

provided to the community through innovation and dedication during organizational challenges. The honorees will each receive several special acknowledgement and thanks.

You can join in this wonderful program by registering here

( https://tinyurl.com/4ysrcbbv )

prior to March 2. Because of the demand for tickets, there are no “walk-ins” available and, of course, vaccinations are required.

I had participated in the last annual Emergency Services Luncheon as an attendee in the spring of 2019. I understood it to be a day of honoring folks for their work and service to the City and County of San Francisco.

The program has become so much more for me, now that I am leading the event and conducting many of the interviews. I have reflected on

First responders honored by the Rotary Club of San Francisco during the ceremony on Emergency Services Day (2018)

the many generations of heroes we have honored, and my pride in our public servants has grown. The team of 14 members putting together this day of celebration has been a pleasure to work with as well. Our videographer Lawrence “Bud” Dillon deserves a special shout out for the quality of his work.

One of my main activities was to gather the honorees’ biographies and (continued on page 16)

2022 Annual Emergency Services Day Honorees The Rotary Club of San Francisco will be honoring the following local heroes at the 2022 Annual Emergency Services Day Luncheon. For additional information and tickets: https://tinyurl.com/4ysrcbbv Nick Majeski, Emergency Response Manager, San Francisco Office of City Administrator, who played a key role in creating the Moscone Mass Vaccination site, established the Alemany Farmers’ Market COVID-19 testing site, managed distribution of millions of pieces of state-provided PPE, and created a network of warehouses, Community Learning hubs, staging locations, and field medical facilities to fight the pandemic.

Charles Fann, San Francisco COVID19 Task Force Lead, San Francisco Department of Public Health, who helped establish the first Isolation and Quarantine hotel sites in San Francisco, providing a safe place for individuals who could not isolate and quarantine at home. He led the COVID-19 outbreak management team and transitioned to overseeing the health management branch.

Sgt. Kent Long, San Francisco Sheriff’s Department, who intervened while off duty in the aftermath of a shooting in Oakland, providing first aid to a Good Samaritan who was

helping two victims of a drive-by theft. He stabilized the scene and provided first aid to the shooting victim until the Oakland Police arrived on scene.

Sgt. Mercy Ambat, San Francisco Sheriff’s Department, who deescalated and resolved an incident with a newly incarcerated individual, who was defying COVID-19 safety protocols and destroying furniture and fixtures in his cell, flooding it, and threatening staff with a piece of broken glass light. While prepared to intervene with staff, she preferred to talk the individual into a calm state, resolving the situation without injury to the individual or deputies.

Officer Antron Barron, San Francisco Police Department, who, for the last ten years, has developed and deepened relationships with Western Addition community centers and neighborhood groups, mentoring local youth. Officer Barron has garnered community trust and respect, and through this was success-

ful in mediating a situation with rival gangs and averting violence.

the girders 300 feet above the San Francisco Bay.

Officer Ryan Gonzalez, San Francisco Police Department, who was able to deescalate an incident involving a belligerent suspect in a barricaded Tenderloin apartment, without harm to the suspect or fellow officers, and who also saved the life of a drug overdose victim.

MK3 Gabriel Perez, United States Coast Guard, who repaired an 87’ Coast Guard cutter’s jet drive while underway, after 100 feet of line was sucked into it, averting a serious incident that could have not only damaged the vessel but also imperiled lives.

RC Beth Goudreau, San Francisco Fire Department, who conducted, in concert with the U.S. Coast Guard, a harrowing rescue at sea of a young woman who had ingested poison, transporting her for nine hours over 230 miles by helicopter while administering lifesaving procedures.

MTS3 Cameron Simington, United States Coast Guard, who demonstrated technical expertise while investigating more than two dozen pollution incidents and mitigating several thousand gallons of oil and hazardous materials from affecting waterways within the Bay Area. He also volunteered to help place 800 Afghan refugees into U.S. communities, reinforcing interagency cooperation, and demonstrating the humanitarian essence of the Coast Guard mission.

LT. Brook Mancinelli, San Francisco Fire Department, who calmly organized and conducted a Golden Gate Bridge rescue operation, coordinating with Golden Gate Bridge Authority staff, saving a suicidal and combative bridge jumper who had climbed 30 feet below the pedestrian walkway into one of

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Navigating Intersectionality: Being an LGBTQ+ Person of Color the result of not being a true reflection of the dominant group nor of an ethnic culture. This often leaves the person lacking in basic support from groups with which they identify.

Roland Schembari and Bill Hartman, Co-Founders Randy Alfred, Founding News Editor 1978 Kim Corsaro, Publisher 1981-2011

2261 Market Street, No. 309 San Francisco CA 94114 Phone: 415-601-2113 525 Bellevue Avenue Oakland CA 94610 E-mail: editor@sfbaytimes.com www.sfbaytimes.com The Bay Times was the first newspaper in California, and among the first in the world, to be jointly and equally produced by lesbians and gay men.

We honor our history and the paper’s ability to build and strengthen unity in our community.

The Bay Times is proud to be the first and only LGBTQ newspaper in San Francisco to be named a Legacy Business, recognizing that it is a longstanding, community-serving business that is a valuable cultural asset to the city.

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Nuestra Voz Eduardo Morales, Ph.D. Managing various identities involves complex dynamics that we are just beginning to understand and identify. Various authors have discussed acculturation and assimilation and have done so in a manner that uses these terms interchangeably. This can result in confusion over their definitions and how these processes present themselves. The dynamics of acculturation and assimilation are distinct and have unique impacts affecting those who are both LGBTQ+ and of color.

Acculturation is the product of cultural learning that occurs because of contact between members of two or more culturally distinct groups. It is the process of adopting the prevailing norms, attitudes, and behaviors of the dominant society and integrating them into one’s own constructed culture. In essence, acculturation is the function of blending the cultures, which is commonly known as the “melting pot” phenomenon—with

Assimilation, on the other hand, is when an individual wants to be a non-distinguishing member of the majority. As a result, the person adopts the language, attitudes, and beliefs of the dominant group and minimizes their own. For LBBTQ+ people of color, this can interfere with feeling closely associated with important support that enhances their sense of self.

Specific to identity, LGBTQ+ people of color need to navigate their state of identity that helps to affirm their sense of self and confidence. In an article that I wrote and published in 1989 in the Journal of Marriage and Family Review, I identified five states for LGBTQ+ people of color. These states were reported with associated research findings concerning intersectionality and being an LGBTQ+ person of color. Interestingly, people may experience some of these states simultaneously, further complicating the dynamics they face. The five states are:

though their more recent sexual histories are those with the same sex.

3- Conflicts in Allegiances This is when the person experiences conflict in being identified by their sexual preference rather than by their primary ethnic background.

4- Establishing Priorities in Allegiances When an individual has a primary identity with their ethnicity, they may feel stress and tension as a result of pressure from the LGBTQ+ community to primarily identify with their sexual preference.

5- Integration of Multiple Communities This is when the person develops a multicultural perspective.

Developing supportive environments and social groups becomes important for enhancing their well-being.

1 - Denial of Conflicts This is when the person tends to minimize the discrimination they experience and feels their sexuality and ethnicity have limited consequences.

Considering the more recent discussions of viewing gender as a spectrum rather than something binary, understanding gender requires more development as well as ways to navigate gender identity. Some ethnic groups view gender with a primary reference to a binary notion. For example, the Spanish language uses a binary notion of gender throughout its language. In other words, there are no non-binary references. Hence, the world view for the Spanish speaker is gender binary and is therefore either male or female.

2- Identifying as Bisexual When Primarily Not Bisexual Sometimes an individual will prefer to be identified as bisexual even

We need to continue to explore these concepts and understand how LGBTQ+ people of color can navigate these dynamics that we

have only begun to understand.

One opportunity will occur from October 19–22 of this year, when the Gay Lesbian Medical Association (GLMA), now known as Health Professionals Advancing LGBTQ Equality, will hold its 40th annual conference in San Francisco—the city in which it was founded in 1981.

Since then, GLMA has become a leader in public policy advocacy related to LGBTQ health.

Stated to be the premier scientific conference on LGBTQ health, the event will present innovative healthcare breakthroughs and interventions as well as the latest research from LGBTQ health experts from across the country. This year’s conference is accepting proposals now that are due March 18.

The 2022 conference theme is Local Action, Global Impact. With participation from those of the San Francisco Bay Area, community leaders, researchers, policy makers, and clinicians are expected to be presenters with diverse interdisciplinary perspectives. Information about GLMA and its conference is on the internet ( https://www.glma.org/ ).

Eduardo Morales, PhD, is one of the founders of AGUILAS, where he serves as Executive Director.

He is also a retired Distinguished Professor at Alliant International University and is the current Past President of the National Latinx Psychological Association.

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Kelly B.

My name is Kelly B. and I am San Francisco Dykes on Bikes (DOB)® Emeritus #3. My journey started with DOB after moving to San Francisco in 1992 and riding in the Pride parade—first as a passenger and then as a rider after I got my own bike. Every ride down Market Street is empowering and exhilarating as the parade crowd roars and I see the looks of “maybe someday ... ” on other women’s faces.

LFG: Documentary Screening Friday, February 25, 5pm

Presented in partnership with Women’s March San Francisco, a screening of the documentary film “LFG” will be held at The Commonwealth Club, 110 The Embarcadero on Friday, February 25, 5-6pm.

LFG is a new account of the U.S. Women’s National Soccer Team’s ongoing fight for equal pay as told by athletes Megan Rapinoe, Jessica McDonals, Becky Sauerbrunn, Kelly O’Hara, Sam Mewis and others.

The film overviews the class-action, gender discrimination lawsuit filed against the U.S. Soccer Federation and interweaves athletic performances with the players pursuit of equal pay.

The film screening is an in-person event. No live stream is available.

Tickets: https://sforce.co/3t3aSkf Information https://bit.ly/3vblekJ

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questions. I listen as they start to talk about their dreams and watch them grow into “The Dream” maybe becoming a reality. It does not matter what the dream is, as long as they suddenly think “maybe I can ... .” That is the biggest gift and the reason “why.”

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Dykes on Bikes® Tales From Two Wheels Decades ago, I found the quote to live my life by: “Riding on a motorcycle can make you feel joyous, powerful, peaceful, frightened, vulnerable, and back to happy again, perhaps in the same 10 miles. It is life compressed, its own answer to the question, ‘Why?’” —Melissa Holbrook Pierson My motorcycles have been used for basic transportation, easier parking in San Francisco, joyful moments, finding community, and taking many walkabouts when spiritual, mental, or physical condition adjustments were needed. In riding, “Type 1,” “Type 2,” and even occasional “Type 3” fun are found in abundance; I learn about the world as I travel it and learn about myself as the experiences layer to evolve me.

For all the beauty and joy found in the many states, countries, and continents I have ridden in during my journeys, what feeds my soul the most is when another woman sees me and says, “You ride that bike?!” or, “You rode from where?” I watch them take it in and slowly ask other

I became a San Francisco Women’s Motorcycle Contingent - DOB Organizing Member, which is now what is referred to as a San Francisco DOB Board Member, in 1999. Ride Coordinator/Ride Captain, website committee, trademarks, incorporating as a nonprofit, and the creation of the framework for other chapters were all part of the journey I was privileged to participate in with so many other great women as an Organizing Member and, following our incorporation, as a Board Member.

While my travel schedule meant stepping back from official duties with DOB, I continue to go to events and ride with the women of DOB and love every minute of it. Come out and join us! https://www.dykesonbikes.org/

GLBT Fortnight in Review High Court Takes Narrow View of Latest Gay Wedding Case Because we love Supreme Court cases—the nuances of constitutional interpretation, the underlying story arc of the litigation at hand, the politics of the specific subject matter, the history of the lawsuit and its travels through the system, the personalities involved, the legal precedents in play, the whole panorama of the contest!—and, because we love the drama of the High Court, we are (sort of) happy to announce that we have another Big Gay Case on the docket.

You may remember that San Francisco Bay Times legal experts predicted the Court would accept review of Christian website designer Lorie Smith’s case against the state of Colorado. Smith had decided to expand her business to include wedding websites, but sued preemptively to ensure that she would not have to serve gay or lesbian clients. After all, as we recall from the Masterpiece Cakeshop wedding cake lawsuit, Colorado forbids GLBTdiscrimination in public accommodation. But in a 2–1 decision last year, the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Tenth Circuit told Smith she would have to provide services to all couples without a gay exception.

(Cue: sad trombone.)

Smith appealed to the Supreme Court, and on Tuesday, February 22, the justices accepted review, but limited their inquiry to the following question: “Whether applying a public-accommodation law to compel an artist to speak or stay silent violates the Free Speech Clause of the First Amendment.”

Odd, in my view, that the threshold question of whether Smith is a ser-

vice provider or an artist seems to have been answered without argument. If Smith is an “artist,” it’s hard to enforce anti-discrimination laws against her creative output without violating the First Amendment.

If, on the other hand, she’s running a business that may involve an artistic touch, but is not otherwise considered “art,” then the balance shifts to the civil rights of her clients. I’m going to assume, therefore, that the conservative side of the Court has decided how it will rule on Smith’s case and has constructed the playing field to suit its strategy.

But it’s also odd that by limiting the question to this softball, the Court has defused what could have been an exceedingly dangerous case for us.

The Masterpiece baker also argued that his cake was a piece of art, worthy of First Amendment protection on those grounds, but that was a side issue to him. His basic complaint was that his Christian faith compelled him to avoid participating in a same-sex wedding, and thanks to the Court’s dithering, his case resulted in a messy 2018 decision that allows everyone to take from it what they will.

Last year, the Court declined to review a long-running case out of Washington, where a Christian florist had nixed a gay wedding gig and lost her case before the state’s high court. And the Court also managed to sidestep the core contest between gay rights and religion when it ruled against the city of Philadelphia in its battle with an anti-gay Catholic foster care organization. That ruling was so narrow that the question of whether faith trumps gay civil rights was again left unanswered.

By Ann Rostow So why take this case, but focus on a non-religious detail? Is it part of a long game, designed to chip away at the power of civil rights laws? Or are the centrist justices trying to avoid the religious showdown that could set gay rights back a generation on their watch?

At least I won’t have to repeatedly look up the spelling for “Lorie Smith.” That Washington florist was a nightmare. Once more, for old time’s sake, her name was Barronelle Stutzman.

Generation Q? Our community is growing, Gallup tells us, with 7.1 percent of Americans in 2021 identifying as “lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other.” The “other” category includes those who identify as “queer” or some other gay-sounding adjective as far as I can tell. This percentage is up from 5.6 percent in 2020, and 3.5 percent in 2012 when the annual survey began.

Part of the upswing is due to aging.

About 1 percent of the silent generation identifies as GLBT, 2.6 percent of boomers, 4.2 percent of Gen X, 10.5 percent of Millennials, and a whopping 20.8 percent of Gen Z. The Gen Z cohort in the poll includes all those born between 1997 and 2003, the adult Gen Z-ers if you will, so you can just imagine how large the GLBTLMNOP community will be in a decade or so when the rest of them grow up.

In fact, I think we can assume that the trend also suggests a general blurring of gender stereotypes, which will eventually defy attempts to put everyone in a specific category. The older generations’ numbers are definitely tamped down by years in the

closet, but the Gen Z numbers may be inflated by a resistance to being filed under “straight and narrow.”

The vast majority of our 7.1 percent, some 57 percent of us, are bisexual.

Fourteen percent are lesbians, 21 percent are gay, 10 percent are transgender, and four percent are “other.”

Since people were allowed to pick more than one thing, these numbers are basically useless. But nonetheless, there they are for your crunching pleasure. Gallup interviewed some 12,000 adults for this survey.

I was about to move on, but I got a little hooked on Gallup, and was reading about an earlier poll, taken in May, 2021, that showed American support for same-sex marriage at a record 70 percent, including a majority of Republicans. This compares with 27 percent in 1996, when this question first arrived on the company’s Values and Beliefs poll.

I know that’s a quarter of a century, but it’s still a tremendous reversal of public opinion, and a shift that was driven by one thing: people coming out of the closet. It’s one thing to recoil at the idea of a foreign sexual orientation. It’s another to reject your sister or your grandson.

The Children!

Before we continue, what did you think of the Super Bowl half time show? I liked some of it and disliked other parts. A lot of rap is compelling, but I hate when it’s monotone. I feel the same about one-note country western songs. That said, my indifference was nothing compared to our friends at One Million Moms.

“The choreography included risqué hip movements, which were on full display during the performance,” they complained. “As if that wasn’t

enough vulgarity, crotch-grabbing and gyrating all over the stage platform were also included—all while children watched ... .

“How are children supposed to learn about respect and dignity when this is what they see on one of the world’s biggest stages,” the Moms despaired?

“So many other musical artists could have performed and given a much cleaner and more appropriate performance.”

Whither Lawrence Welk and Glen Campbell? Where are the Trapp Family Singers of the 21st century?

Why couldn’t the Super Bowl have featured the Wiggles?

As much as we enjoy making fun of the ludicrous press releases that emanate from this American Family Association offshoot (which, I suspect, is a small handful of individuals rather than a million moms) it feels these days as if One Million Moms has been put in charge of state legislative agendas throughout the country. From book banning, to blockades on transgender athletes in public schools, to the latest collection of “parents’ rights” type bills that ban discussion of sexuality and gender in the classroom, we are taking an unexpectedly sharp right turn post-Trump—albeit Trump inspired.

I have an image of a million Stepford-type Borg women, all dominated by a super Mom whose head descends, a la Star Trek, to snap into her lower body when she needs to mobilize. The women mumble in low voices as they meander through a vast auditorium, lined with large screens. “Vulgar,” “Grotesque,” “Sexual,” “Sleazy,” and then, as the

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Beg, Borrow, or Steal I’m not sure why I’ve been thinking about this lately, but it popped into my mind and got stuck there.

In the big picture, I think I’ve really only wanted one thing badly enough that I would do anything to get it: become an opera singer.

TLC: Tears, Laughs and Conversation Dr. Tim Seelig Have you ever wanted something bad enough to beg, borrow, or steal to get it? Be honest! It’s actually quite a good exercise. Take a moment here to ponder.

From the moment I first mouthed the random words “I want to be an opera singer” at age 17 until I arrived on the opera stage as the lead baritone with the Swiss National Opera at age 30, I left no stone unturned. I begged, certainly borrowed, and stole a lot of time and energy from everyone in my life— including my then wife and 2 tiny toddlers—to get there. Was it worth it? That’s a story for another article for sure.

Begging is hard. It’s really not in my personality profile to beg. I think I’ve only begged people to do things that are best for them. (I hope you laughed at that!) I’ve dared people to do crazy things, but don’t think I begged. Even my doggie Tater Tot doesn’t beg for treats. He doesn’t need to. He’s got us trained.

For those of us living in big cities, thinking about begging takes us to dark places. It immediately conjures the almost daily picture of some less fortunate among us having to beg us to provide for them. Heartbreaking.

No, I am not one of those who believe it is their own shortcoming that has left them no alternative but to beg. We share in the responsibility.

Food scarcity is a societal problem.

Yes, my liberal roots are showing.

Having to beg for anything is usually indicative that a system is broken.

Stealing. I’ve thought and thought about this. Except for the mention of stealing time and energy, I don’t actually think I have stolen a physical item. I was a perfect child, meaning I was scared spitless of any consequences that might come from such a sin. Oh, yes, stealing was definitely on the list of deadly sins for a 7-year-old. Bobby Jo, also a sinner at 12, stole gummy worms

Men’s Chorus—all at the same time! Earlier in my career, I co-founded a lesbian chorus and a mixed chorus of LGBTQ+ and Allies. For 2 years, I held the position of Artistic Director in Residence for GALA Choruses, working with 40 choruses in North America and Europe. All of them “borrowed.”

That’s a lot of concerts, lots of singers and lots of songs.

Literally thousands.

Songs are like children.

They come to you in different ways. Some you help create yourself; some you adopt.

You nurture them all. You groom them, prune them, coax them, polish them, Link to performance by John Bucchino: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Mk_sNZVwZo and then you present your bouncing babies to an eager The truth is, it is not just time we public for a first peek, hoping they have borrowed. We’ve borrowed think they are as beautiful as you do. everything. We’ve actually borrowed (Aside: not all babies are beautiful.) everything that has filled and continIf you want to know a moment I was ues to fill our lives. frightened, it’s when I had to get perNone of it is really ours to claim. It mission to make an edit to one of can be taken in the blink of an eye.

Stephen Schwartz’s songs! (Stephen, Loan due. Give it back. Wasn’t yours if you don’t know, is the composer to begin with. Just on loan. We’ve of the musicals Wicked, Godspell, and certainly borrowed trouble. And countless other many times, we’ve borrowed trouincredible music ble from the future that never actuwonders.) We’ve ally happened. developed a close Let’s start with the “borrowed” enough partnership land each of you is sitting or standthat he trusted my ing on as you read this article. Oh judgement. wait ... we actually stole it. There’s And, no, you can’t an important and obvious distincchoose a favortion between borrowing and outite song, just as you right stealing! I wish I could say we don’t have a favorborrowed the land on which we live. ite child—or grandThat would indicate a hope that child, now, for someday we might return it to the

Dr. Tim Seelig with his daughter Corianna (1977–2018)

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from the Rite Aid down the block from his house. I tried to make him feel guilty but he said the statute of limitations has elapsed and reminded me of something I say all the time: “I can’t make you feel guilty, only you can do that for yourself.” He chooses not to.

Borrowing. This is where my mind landed. At 71, borrowing has been a part of my entire life. A little background is necessary.

Led by Artistic Director/ Conductor Dr. Tim Seelig, San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus members have returned to in-person rehearsals.

I’ve borrowed a lot of LGBTQ+ choirs. It’s almost 35 years since I started conducting my first LGBTQ+ chorus. At one point, I was conducting the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus and guest conducting the Gay Men’s Chorus of Los Angeles and the Denver Gay

me. Each song meets you at a different place and a different time.

One speaks to you deeply and then another touches a different part of your soul. And yes, we Song People are fickle lovers of the worst kind!

If we weren’t, the top music charts would be pretty stagnant.

There is a song I recorded with my former chorus in Dallas that has been an ear worm for several months, ringing even more true now than when we recorded it some 15 years ago. Part of it is the time of my life. But it is much more than that.

The song title is “We Live on Borrowed Time.” It is by the amazing composer John Bucchino. If you don’t know his work, Google him and prepare to be touched deeply.

His song “Grateful” comes in 2nd on my list of “faves”!

We live on borrowed time No one can be sure When the loan will finally come due.

Of course, the message is a broad one. Actually, I do know the maturation date on one loan. My “waving my arms at the gays” loan is coming due in about 4 ½ months! But there’s so much more to the song than the inevitable end of a job.

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rightful owners. I am grateful that our chorus acknowledges this now at our concerts and events!

The San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus respectfully acknowledges the Ramaytush Ohlone, the original inhabitants of what is now the San Francisco Peninsula. We further acknowledge that the greater Bay Area is the ancestral territory of the Miwok, Yokuts, Pomos, and Patwin, as well as other Ohlone peoples. Indigenous communities have lived in and moved through this land over hundreds of generations, and Indigenous peoples from many nations make their home in this region today. Please join us in recognizing and honoring their ancestors, descendants, elders, and all other members of their communities.

This can never make up for the land we stole, but it is an important step.

Making a list of the things we have borrowed could take another lifetime.

Sugar from a neighbor. Did you really intend to return it?

Money for a car, a condo, and last night’s sushi.

Sayings, humor, thoughts. (OK, some were stolen.)

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“When in doubt, wear red!”

By Donna Sachet

– Bill Blass

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e remember a time when going out meant a carefully scheduled series of appearances, sometimes as many as 4–5 places in a single night, sometimes with a key role at an event and other times merely to show support. We remember losing an escort or two when the number of stops during an evening exceeded their tolerance. Whether those times return or not is still up for debate. Last week, however, saw a spate of events that reminded us that this lingering pandemic is certainly losing its steam.

The first Divas & Drinks of 2022, a collaboration between the SF Bay Times and The Academy, drew a modest, but enthusiastic crowd last Thursday. The event coincided with the birthday of SF Pride’s Board President Carolyn Wysinger, so she was properly feted with cake, flowers, gifts, and best wishes, but only after giving the assembled a brief update on plans for SF Pride 2022. Carolyn outlined a hopeful return to a dynamic weekend in June featuring our traditional parade down Market Street and two days of celebration in Civic Center. She also emphasized the priority of inclusion, encouraging everyone to get involved in the return of this annual and much beloved weekend of festivities. Start attending SF Pride meetings, regularly check the website, and make a financial contribution if at all possible. Only with the full involvement of all of us will SF Pride weekend accurately reflect the beautiful diversity of the LGBTQ+ Community. Recent revelations in the press about changes in SF Pride leadership, namely the departure of Executive Director Fred Lopez and the interim appointment of experienced Board member Suzanne Ford, further emphasize the need for an “all-hands-on-deck” approach. Personally, we can’t wait to see what evolves for the 52nd SF Pride Parade & Celebration!

Divas & Drinks continued with a lively Name That Tune game with the help of DJ Rockaway and competitors Team Village People and Team Gay Softball League. It wasn’t hard to come up with songs about love for this month’s event, in recognition of Valentine’s Day. The competition, however, was noticeably one-sided with the softballers struggling and the Village People emerging victorious. As always, the winning team received gifts from Bacardi and a full-page ad in the Bay Times. Join us for the next in this monthly series of events, Divas & Drinks at the Academy, Thursday, March 24, 6–10 pm.

Last Saturday provided further evidence of the tremendous success of Beaux on Market Street as a crowd of well-wishers gathered for a going-away party for popular performer and Absolute Empress XLVIII Patty McGroin. It seems that every weekend night a line forms in front of Beaux, sometimes halfway down the block, to enjoy drag shows, fundraisers, go-go dancers, and the like. The flashy lighting and enveloping sound system, combined with cute and friendly bartenders, have made Beaux a Castro destination not to be missed.

One of the most remarkable success stories coming out of the pandemic is the persistent survival of Aunt Charlie’s Lounge, home of the Hot Boxxx Girls, in the Tenderloin. It remains one of the few Gay bars in an area once known as the headquarters of our community, largely because of a loyal clientele, consistent and neighborhood sensitive management, and popular weekly drag shows. A nearby street is even officially named Vicki Mar Lane, in honor of the late Vicki Marlane, who dazzled audiences for years with her elaborate costumes and tantalizing performances. During the worst of the pandemic, an online fundraising effort amazed supporters and observers alike by raising over $100,000 in barely a week to keep the bar afloat.

The bar and manager Joe Mattheison responded by completing much needed restoration and improvements and happily reopening to the public, while keeping drink prices reasonable and the atmosphere comfortable.

We made a rare appearance there last Sunday to support an event called Showdown, created by Emperor XXXVI John Weber and Grand Duke XXXV Carlos Medal. The lighthearted competition between members of the Grand Ducal Family and Krewe de Kinque featured spirited performances, generous tips, raffle prizes, and a bountiful buffet, as bartender Mini Minerva kept the cocktails flowing. The Grand Ducal team won the day and proceeds of nearly $1000 were split between the two organizations. While there, we were reminded of the role such bars once played in the development of the LGBTQ+ Community, providing a safe space to be ourselves and often to forge long-lasting friendships. Maybe the bar held 60 or 70 people at most, but everyone was engaged, involved, and convivial, supporting the cause and the performers with their tips and applause.

Although we have not been there in over two years, we felt right at home, warmly received by strangers and graciously welcomed back by familiar faces. For a glimpse of history and a place that still delivers a powerful message of acceptance, stop by Aunt Charlie’s Lounge soon.

And with that, it is on to San Francisco Imperial Coronation week!

Don your finest attire and join the revelry! Hip, hip, hooray!

Donna Sachet is a celebrated performer, fundraiser, activist, and philanthropist who has dedicated over two decades to the LGBTQ Community in San Francisco. Contact her at empsachet@gmail.com

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Thursday, February 24 Anniversary Monarchs’ Reception Ha-Ra Club, 875 Geary Street 7–8:30 pm Free!

Friday, February 25 Pisces Birthday Happy Hour Join Kelly Rose & Gary Virginia 440 Castro 5–7 pm Free!

Friday, February 25 Out-of-Town Show The Cat Club, 1190 Folsom Street 6–9 pm $25 cover Saturday, February 26 Matt Arietta Celebration of Life 440 Castro Noon Free!

Saturday, February 26 Imperial Coronation 57: Family is Universal Step-down of Emperor Mr. David Glamamore & Empress Juanita MORE! The Midway SF, 900 Marin Street 6 pm $85 each Sunday, February 27 Annual Cemetery Pilgrimage Woodlawn Cemetery, Colma 8–10 am Free!

Sunday, February 27 Victory Brunch Hyatt Park Central, 50 Third Street 11:30 am–1:30 pm Price TBD Sunday, February 27 Hawaii, Alaska & Texas Party Detour, 2200A Market Street 3–6 pm Free!

Sunday, March 6 In Conversation with Amy Schneider Meet the local Jeopardy! champion in person Oasis, 298 11th Street 7 pm $20–$30

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orientation, and other protected characteristics. The Cal State San Bernardino report I mentioned earlier also noted hate crimes were up 11 percent overall last year, with African Americans remaining the most targeted community. There has also been a resurgence in anti-Semitic hate crimes.

“I am so proud of what we’ve accomplished together during my time at SF Pride,” Lopez said. “It’s been a humbling experience to face the many challenges of the pandemic alongside the entire globe. What we’ve seen is incredible strength and altruism from the LGBTQ+ communities in San Francisco. I took to heart that our role in the pride movement was to inspire hope and encourage change. I am so grateful for all of the wonderful partnerships and friendships I was able to foster, and I appreciate the faith that the Board of Directors had in me. I am excited for the next chapter of my career, and will be glad to see the many thousands of people back in the streets for Pride events in June and beyond.”

Unfortunately, hate against the LGBTQ community also continues to this day, despite progress in attaining rights and equality. In tallying the numbers from the cities across the country they studied, researchers found gay men ranked among the top three targets of hate crimes in the majority of those jurisdictions.

This has to end. Crimes motivated by hate are not just attacks on innocent individuals, but also on our communities. Strength and more consistency in the handling of such crimes sends a message that hate will not be tolerated.

Phil Ting represents the 19th Assembly District, which includes the Westside of San Francisco along with the communities of Broadmoor, Colma, and Daly City.

JUSTER (continued from page 9) remains a vital and vibrant part of our community. Coronation is an extraordinary event, where our community is on full, dazzling display. If you’re feeling ready to return to in-person events, Coronation would be a fabulous place to start. Get tickets here: https://tinyurl.com/CoronationTix Bare Chest Calendar Time One of San Francisco’s favorite annual traditions is underway: tryouts for the 2023 Bare Chest Calendar are being held Thursday nights through February and March. Begun almost 40 years ago, the Bare Chest Calendar has raised over $3 million to help those affected by HIV/AIDS, substance use, or mental health issues, by providing the support and services they need to reclaim their lives. Funds raised through the Bare Chest Calendar support PRC (which includes the former AIDS Emergency Fund and Baker Places, Inc.), whose interconnected services help over 5,000 clients per year.

To try out, or to cheer on the contestants and support their fundraising efforts: https://barechest.org/ Joanie Juster is a long-time community volunteer, activist, and ally.

ROTARY (continued from page 11) to listen to their work as told by their colleagues and leaders who provided the nomination. These positive and heartwarming stories are often not heard—not newsworthy! Instead, we typically are inundated with negative news. It was a refreshing experience for me to hear a different story and be moved by the focus on dedication to duty. I won’t give away the stories of harrowing rescues or the demonstration of compassion; you will have to come to our ESD event on March 8 for that. But I guarantee that it will provide a new perspective for you.

For me, when I think of my family members who served in their respective service areas, I am left in awe and appreciation for what they gave to their city and country just as our honorees today have given so generously of themselves.

I’m honored to be a part of this event and to celebrate our emergency workers and this great city of San Francisco—a city of hope, of cable cars, of great culture, and industry, parks, and joy. Let’s all aim to work with each other in support of our men and women on the front lines to make our great city of San Francisco shine.

Bob Hermann is the Vice President of Community Service for the Rotary Club of San Francisco, which is the second oldest of thousands of Rotary Clubs in more than 200 countries around the globe. He is a Co-Chair, with Matt Madsen, of the 2022 Annual Emergency Services Day Luncheon. https://sfrotary.com/

“I am honored and humbled to help SF Pride at this important moment,” said Ford, who was the choice of the Board of Directors as the Interim Executive Director. “This organization is very dear to my heart, and I know how badly our LGBTQ+ family wants a pride celebration in the streets after so long apart. Our team is already hard at work to present a Pride in 2022 that is familiar and we want to bring some new fresh perspectives as well.”

“Working alongside Suzanne on the board has been a great experience, and we are grateful she is willing to expand her role with SF Pride,” said Carolyn Wysinger, President of the Board. “Fred and I learned a lot during the last two unexpected years, and we will miss him. This year’s theme is ‘Love Will Keep Us Together,’ and love is certainly the key to what we are working towards at SF Pride. The anticipation of being back on Market Street with thousands of our queer family is keeping us going every day.”

The appointment of Ford marks the first time in many years that SF Pride has been led by women at both the board and staff levels. Alongside Wysinger, Women’s March and Dyke March alumnus Elizabeth Lanyon serves on the board’s executive committee along with Nguyen Pham. “It is truly a landmark year for the organization,” said Wysinger, “Women have always played such an important role in our LGBTQ community. It is only fitting that the organization returns to Market Street with a leadership team that truly reflects our diverse community.”

While it has been a challenging time for all LGBTQ+ nonprofits and outdoorevent producers nationwide, San Francisco Pride is eagerly heading into the 2022 festivities. The organization has remained committed to its mission of bringing connection and visibility to the LGBTQ+ communities. It is also taking the time to re-evaluate its relationship with corporate sponsors in light of changes within the Bay Area’s LGBTQ+ communities. Financial support from the LGBTQ+ communities will ensure that SF Pride will be able to thrive into the future.

The 52nd annual San Francisco LGBT Pride Celebration and Parade will be held on Saturday and Sunday, June 25–26, 2022. The Parade/March is Sunday, June 26, in the heart of downtown San Francisco beginning at 10:30 am. A twoday Celebration and Rally is scheduled from noon to 6 pm on Saturday, June 25, and from 11 am to 6 pm on Sunday, June 26, at Civic Center Plaza and surrounding neighborhood. Additional SF Pride events will take place throughout 2022, including the 2nd Annual Ken Jones Awards, slated for November.

Information regarding parade registration, as well as sponsor, exhibitor, advertising, membership, and donor opportunities may be found at www.sfpride.org

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“Mom,” “Mom,” “Mom,” the chorus grows as the head and body come together and the Millionth Mom raises a hand to still the crowd.

“Behold the depravity of our world!” she cries, gesturing to the screens where images of a Disney movie, a Pepsi commercial, and a National Geographic documentary on lemurs alternate in sequence. “Go forth in battle!”

The Moms fall into step and the hall is soon empty.

All The World’s a Stage As I’ve mentioned before, in recent years, I’ve stopped reacting to anti-gay state legislative proposals because so few of them ever actually made it into law. Instead, they went in and out of this or that committee, creating headlines and debate, but in the end, the whole political pageant was full of sound and fury, signifying nothing. Why, I asked myself, must I devote hours of research and write laborious recaps issue after issue, only to arrive at the end of the session with all the nasty bills shelved by some veteran committee chair who knew there was no upside in actual passage.

This is changing. Bad things are actually happening and bad governors are whipping out their pens.

First, we’ve passed ten laws banning transgender athletes from competing on the team that matches their gender. Some of these only restrict transgender women and girls, but others ironically apply to transgender men and boys—who in theory could be a year or so into hormone therapy but still forced to play for the girl’s wrestling team.

Now we are facing a slew of parental rights bills, although most of the attention is focused on the versions making their way through the Florida legislature. Called the “Parental Rights in Education Act,” one version is heading to the House floor as this issue goes to press, and the Senate version is on its way through a couple of committees. So, there’s a ways to go here. The two bills have to pass their chambers, be reconciled, and then pass both chambers in their final form. Normally, as I said, I’d just assume that the bill will eventually be stymied at some point during this whole procedure, particularly since it has some very strong opposi16

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tion. But these days, who the hell knows? The session technically ends March 11, but we’ve seen these dates extended in the past.

The gist of this measure says that public schools cannot “encourage classroom discussion about sexual orientation or gender identity in primary grade levels or in a manner that is not age-appropriate or developmentally appropriate for students.” In fact, the current draft is even more insidious. In vague language, it compels teachers and administrators to tell parents about anything they learn from students that might affect the students “health or well-being.” In other words, it forbids them from keeping the confidence of a student who comes out to them in private.

“A school district may not adopt procedures or student support forms that prohibit school district personnel from notifying a parent about his or her student’s mental, emotional, or physical health or well-being, or a change in related services or monitoring, or that encourage or have the effect of encouraging a student to withhold from a parent such information.” Sound innocuous? It’s not.

A recent amendment gave the school a six-week deadline to get the parents involved in a student’s situation. On the other hand, one of the Democrats proposed an amendment that would allow students to sue the schools for emotional distress if one of these forced confrontations with parents were to turn out badly.

According to Freedom for All Americans, conservatives have filed over 170 anti-GLBT bills in 2022 alone, normally the kind of overly broad information I’d skip (what bills? serious bills?) but given today’s environment, a number worth knowing.

And it’s not just the anti-GLBT bills we have to fear. It’s the book banning, the attacks on teaching about race, history, and slavery, and obviously the anti-abortion laws. It’s all of this hateful meanness sinking into the cracks and gaps that Trump and his followers have gouged out of our society.

But surely we can turn this around. Paging Gen Z! arostow@aol.com

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• the Maitri Affirmation Center, which is an expansion of Maitri’s transgender care services to provide pre/post-operative support to low-income people recovering from gender affirming surgeries; • and Heels for Hope, Maitri’s June 4th fundraiser. This annual event is a fun variety show featuring incredible local talent and a whole lot of drag! https://www.maitrisf.org/

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And every possible tux part after I arrived to conduct missing a bow tie, vest, studs, AIDS ribbon and, yes, once even my pants.

I’ve often heard it said our children are loaned to us as parents. Few are more aware of that than I since the loan came due way too early on my Corianna. For those of us left behind, that was a loan that ended way too soon. I keep checking with the lender on that. No answer. As someone who is HIV+ and having watched hundreds of friends’ loans come due too soon, it is even more true. Yes, I suffer from survivors’ guilt.

Some days, I feel everything I do or say has been borrowed. All days, I know that everything I have is on loan. These days, I count all of the things as blessings. It is a given when borrowing that the intention is to repay or give it back some day.

I hope I have done just that. I hope I have paid forward all of the goodness and kindness showered on me throughout my life. I’ll keep checking that balance in the days to come to make sure I am paying those loans back with interest.

My hope is that you will pause and check your own loans, balances, and due dates. And, join me in being grateful that they were all there to borrow.

I’ll leave you with some final lyrics from “We Live on Borrowed Time.” Thank you for walking this path with me and loaning me your time to read these articles.

We live on borrowed time Let’s celebrate and sing As we walk bravely into the unknown ‘Cause we’re gonna be just fine Whatever life may bring We’ll face it all together And we’ll never be alone Dr. Tim Seelig is the Artistic Director of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus.

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ER Physician and Athlete Dr. Kevin Masek Finds Balance Through Health & Wellness Regime anyone away and truly serves the underserved, people who have little or no access to proper healthcare.”

Sports John Chen “We are truly working on the frontlines of this pandemic. We are the gatekeepers for patients admitted into the healthcare system. Oftentimes, we are people’s only means to access much needed lifesaving medical care.”

“I loved the team and family environment in the emergency department,” Dr. Masek continued. “Oftentimes, we encounter people who are scared, stressed, and having one of the worst days of their lives. Every staff member plays an important role. Working together, the emergency department can make huge, lasting impacts on people’s lives. We are here 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.”

be to us and the loved ones we were in physical contact with. Our medical knowledge regarding COVID-19 was changing every day.”

“On the first day of the lock down,” he recalled, “I had to intubate (place a respirator) a critically ill patient due to severe lung damage from COVID. At that time, in Asia, many clinicians that were in the room during intubation contracted COVID. I was terrified after that procedure that me or my staff may contract COVID while attempting a lifesaving procedure.”

incorporate floats into my wellness practice. A float is where you lay in a sensory deprivation chamber that has water and lots of magnesium salt, so you are just floating. The magnesium is absorbed through your skin and is calming, reduces anxiety, and helps improve sleep.”

“People in the medical field worked tirelessly for long hours, sacrificed so much and sometimes it can feel like for what return? It has been extremely frustrating hearing people dismiss the severity of COVID and its impact on people’s lives. I have a colleague who lost her uncle, grandfather, and father to COVID all in a matter of a week. It is nearly impossible to put into words how that kind of loss affects a person. But I can tell you firsthand that the devastation is like nothing we have seen before in my career as a physician.”

He continued: “Another important part of wellness is to have great people in my life, people whom I trust, who genuinely care about me, have my best interest in mind, celebrate my wins, and have been my rock through tough times.”

“Although the pandemic has made it difficult to play team sports, instead, I focused on High Intensity Interval Training as my primary form of physical wellness,” he shared. “I noticed the positive effect in my mind and body after each workout. I recently started taking aerial classes, specifically the apparatus Lyra, which is a large hoop that is up in the air where uber athletic stunts are performed. My aerial goal is to get my splits! I would also love to one day perform on one of the aerial apparatuses, either the Lyra, silks, pole, or straps.”

—Dr. Kevin Masek

“My very first sport should have been gymnastics because my babysitter taught me how to do a cartwheel when I was three. But, alas, my career in gymnastics ended before it began because my parents said it was too expensive,” Dr. Masek revealed with a chuckle. “Instead, my first sport was soccer and then I [forayed] into basketball, baseball, swimming, diving, tennis, track. You name it. In high school I was a multi-sport varsity athlete, and in college I competed in intramural swim meets. As an adult, I started playing and loving volleyball on all surfaces, indoor, grass and beach.”

A true scholar-athlete, Dr. Masek became a medical doctor because he ultimately wanted to make a difference and save lives.

“I initially thought I wanted to be a pediatrician because I loved working with kids,” he told me for the San Francisco Bay Times. “In medical school, I came to enjoy and appreciate the breadth of scope that Emergency Medicine provided. I was especially drawn to the fact that Emergency Medicine doesn’t turn

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I met Dr. Kevin Masek, an emergency room (ER) physician in San Francisco, several years before the pandemic playing volleyball with an LGBT group on a sun-kissed day at Lake Merritt in Oakland. Over the years, I learned that Dr. Masek is quite an accomplished athlete who has medaled in several sports including swimming and volleyball.

During our chat, Dr. Masek’s tone turned more somber and concerned when he segued to the current pandemic.

“The last couple of years have been extremely stressful,” he said. “I think we can easily argue that our specialty has been among the most courageous as we managed and cared for all the patients. Despite the risks, we had a responsibility to help people. In the beginning of the pandemic, we had little knowledge about COVID-19 and how dangerous this virus could

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He added, “I don’t think the general public understands that only certain rooms in the ER are safe enough to help prevent the spread to staff or other patients. Our emergency department team had to quickly adapt and come up with safety protocols and procedures for the mass influx of COVID patients. Many of my colleagues faced extreme fear of passing COVID on to their loved ones and did not see them for long periods of time. This pandemic has caused so much burnout in the emergency department and healthcare in general.”

So, how does an ER physician cope with all that emotional weight and stress as well as mental fatigue? Dr. Masek found his balance through a health and wellness regime.

“This pandemic has brought wellness to the forefront of my life that started with meditation and a better understanding of who I am,” he said.

“Wellness is complex and there is not one answer that works for everyone. For me, meditation has positively changed my mood, attitude, and how I manage stress. I also started to

To Dr. Masek, his overall wellness routine is important because it not only significantly reduces and helps to manage the total amount of physical and mental fatigue from caring for patients during the pandemic, but also helps him to be a better physician in the high stress and high stakes emergency room. For us, the general public, we should support and thank healthcare workers such as Dr. Masek for taking care of us in not just these trying times, but whenever there’s a need. They are real heroes!

Dr. Masek had these final words to share: “When you need someone during a health crisis, I’m proud to say with confidence that you can count on all the professionals in the emergency department. The staff truly understand what it is to give selflessly, fearlessly, and with compassion.”

John Chen, a UCLA alumnus and an avid sports fan, has competed as well as coached tennis, volleyball, softball and football teams.

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With thermometers registering 75 degrees on Sunday, February 13, neighbors and their friends flocked to Dolores Park to enjoy the sunshine. San Francisco Bay Times photographer Rink was there, capturing “the moment” and others on our team, upon seeing Rink’s images, have wished they were there too!

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The U.S. Postal Service’s (USPS) Lunar New Year stamp for 2022, the Year of the Water Tiger, was unveiled in a ceremony at San Francisco City Hall on Monday, February 7. Officiated by Mayor London Breed, the ceremony, which attracted a standing only room crowd, was attended by city and county officials, artists, Asian cultural officials, and other luminaries.

The stamp was created in a collaboration between USPS Art Director Antonio Alcalá and artist Camille Chew, who is known for her elaborately decorated masks in the style of those used in the dragon and lion dances often performed during Lunar New Year parades. Chew’s three-dimensional masks are a contemporary take on the long tradition of paper-cut folk art crafts.

The 2022 stamp, which features a bright orange illustrated tiger, is the third in a series of Lunar New Year stamps that will cycle through the Chinese zodiac symbols. In 2020, the USPS released a stamp celebrating the Year of the Rat, and 2021’s stamp design commemorated the Year of the Ox. The USPS plans to release a new stamp each year through 2031 until all 12 symbols have been featured. The Year of the Tiger began on February 1, 2022, and will end on January 21, 2023.

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Drum Major Mike Wong led the step off as the San Francisco Lesbian/Gay Freedom Band’s (SFLGFB) contingent marched in the Chinese New Year’s Parade on Saturday, February 20. The parade returned live and in-person after a two-year hiatus due to the COVID-19 pandemic.

In its role as “The Official Band of San Francisco,” SFLGFB was the first band in the parade lineup, positioned just in front of the contingents of Mayor London Breed and Grand Marshal Daniel Wu, actor and producer.

Along the parade route, SFLGFB performed “California, Here I Come,” “General’s Mandate 2022,” “Shanghai Band,” and “Chinatown, My Chinatown.” Assemblyman Phil Ting, a San Francisco Bay Times columnist, and his family waved to the crowd riding in a red Mustang convertible.

Special thanks to Doug Litwin, Mike Wong, and SFLGFB photographer Kristopher Acevedo, and to San Francisco Bay Times photographers Rink and Vincent Marcel.

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Oscar Nominations 2022 as grandfather Pop are just part of this satisfying Best Picture nominee.

Being the Ricardos has a truly great original screenplay (by Aaron Sorkin), although Sorkin was not nominated. Hats off to the actors’ branch who nominated the leads, Javier Bardem and Nicole Kidman, both worthy of Lucy and Desi.

Each year a movie captures the Academy voters that didn’t thrill me nearly as much. The Power of the Dog has gorgeous cinematography. If Ari Wegner wins in that category, she will be the first woman to win an Oscar for cinematography. The film has won hearts everywhere, and is leading the pack with twelve nominations. Director Jane Campion is the first woman to be nominated as director twice and will most likely win. She is brilliant; her film The Piano is a true favorite. Supporting Actress nominee Kirstin Dunst, terrific in this challenging role and will probably win, although West Side Story’s Ariana DuBose is tough competition.

Off the Wahl Jan Wahl Why am I happy about the 2022 Oscar nominations? Four of my favorite movies of the year were nominated! My expectations were low, since I have adult, intelligent taste and have been disappointed in the past, especially the recent past.

But this year, I can truly accentuate the positive (also my favorite Johnny Mercer song). Here goes my Hooray for Hollywood: Please, whoever you are and whatever your own taste, see CODA. This film is so beautiful, fun, sexy, and entertaining ... it will be so worth your time. I was afraid this marvelous movie would be overlooked by the 9,487 voting members of the Motion Picture Academy.

Surprisingly, it was nominated for Best Picture, Adapted Screenplay, and Supporting Actor (Troy Kotsur for his remarkable performance).

Seeing the list, it is refreshing to remember a year that seemed bleak but actually had some very good movies. Summer of Soul (or When the Revolution Could Not be Televised) is absolutely terrific, hopefully winning for Best Documentary. The Production Design was superb on West Side Story, opening up the streets for the dances as well as giving the mood by the scenery. Nightmare Alley also gave us a room to remember: a tacky carnival plus the smooth doctor’s office, providing the characters with both elegance and paranoia. (The 1947 Nightmare Alley is a chance to see Tyrone Power at his best. It’s a great classic film noir flick.) The music this year is wonderful, with Lin-Manuel Miranda (Encanto), Van Morrison (Belfast) and Beyoncé (King Richard) competing. Van Morrison would have my vote for contributing enormously to Belfast. Here’s where the charming Encanto will take home the gold.

Troy is the first deaf man to be nominated for an acting award by the Academy. His costar in CODA is Marlee Matlin, who was the first deaf performer to win an Academy Award (in 1986, for her debut feature film Children of a Lesser God).

CODA stands for Children of Deaf Adults, and it is the rollicking tale of a fishing family in Gloucester with a speaking/hearing daughter who can really sing. From laughing to crying to being touched in your heart and soul, this is what great movie making is all about.

The same can be said for West Side Story, the film that shocked many of us by being that rarity: a brilliant remake. This is not to take a thing away from the brilliant original, but on its own, this is one great film that merits all of its seven nominations.

I am rooting for Supporting Actress Ariana DeBose, and hoping Steven Spielberg brings home his third Oscar (the others being Schindler’s List and Saving Private Ryan) as Best Director. Hey, when you’re good you’re good!

The Oscars matter. People will now see West Side Story, the hilarious Don’t Look Up, Summer of Soul, The Eyes of Tammy Faye, Belfast, and the unforgettable CODA. It was a good year for film and maybe this year’s show will even be a fun and enjoyable one!

Jan Wahl is a Hollywood historian, film critic on various broadcast outlets, and has her own YouTube channel series, “Jan Wahl Showbiz.”

She has two Emmys and many awards for her longtime work on behalf of film buffs and the LGBTQ community. Contact her at www.janwahl.com

Speaking of cinematic genius ...

Kenneth Branagh is nominated for his powerful memoir of growing up in Belfast, Ireland. Van Morrison’s haunting score for Belfast as well as Supporting Actor Ciaran Hinds

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OUTSTANDING AT THE OLYMPICS According to Outsports, what percentage of all out athletes at the 2022 Winter Olympic Games in Beijing won at least one medal?

A) 25%

B) 29%

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By Sister Dana Van Iquity Sister Dana sez, “Besides getting a good deal on mattresses, exactly WHAT was the purpose of PRESIDENTS’ DAY anyway?!”

THE GLBT HISTORICAL SOCIETY MUSEUM, located in the heart of the Castro district, reopened to the public on February 23, after a month’s closure during the Omicron surge of the COVID19 pandemic. The first stand-alone museum of LGBTQ history in the nation, the Museum displays the only known remnant of one of the two original RAINBOW FLAGS from 1978. The museum opened its doors to the public in 2011 and welcomes over 20,000 visitors annually. https://www.glbthistory.org/museum Sister Dana sez, “Apparently I am now living in Upside-Down World, because I suddenly AGREE with Senator McConnell on something. Regarding the January 6 riot, in his words to my astonishment: ‘It was a violent insurrection for the purpose of trying to prevent the peaceful transfer of power after legitimately certifying the election from one administration to the next.’ OMG! Mitch and I are in accord!”

After more than two years as Executive Director of SAN FRANCISCO PRIDE, Fred Lopez will leave the role at the end of February to accept a position in the Director’s Office of the SAN FRANCISCO MUSEUM OF MODERN ART. In the interim, Lopez will be succeeded

by Suzanne Ford, a transgender woman who currently serves as SF Pride’s Treasurer. Following this year’s celebrations in June, the Board will embark on a search for who will fill the role of executive director on a permanent basis.

Sister Dana sez, “Considering upcoming Midterm Elections— for starters, the Democratic Platform includes the facts that 6.6 million jobs were added in President Biden’s first year; unemployment fell to 4.0% (a new pandemic low); and wages are up 5.7% from a year ago. Whereas the Republican Platform is merely the paltry Party of Trump—built on the four effs: fraud, fear, fascism, and free-for-all!”

It is a fact that over 90% of Canadian truck drivers are fully vaccinated, following their country’s health guidelines. Sister Dana sez, “What was with these other mother truckers, QAnon crazies, and far right-wing wacko protesters flocking from everywhere blocking borders—all for ‘freedom’ from lifesaving vaccination?! And then Repugnican politicos rushed to rally for their cause! This BORDERS on insanity!”

Luc Montagnier, a French virologist who shared a Nobel Prize for discovering the virus that causes AIDS, has died at age 89. But despite the fame he gained for his early discovery of the HIV virus, in later years he became an outspoken critic of the coronavirus vaccine.

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A woman of mixed race appears to be the third person ever to be cured of HIV, using a new transplant method involving umbilical cord blood that opens up the possibility of curing more people of diverse racial backgrounds than was previously possible.

Cord blood is more widely available than the adult stem cells used in the bone marrow transplants that cured the previous two patients, and it does not need Actress Lily Tomlin flanked by Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, includto be matched as ing Sister Dana Van Iquity closely to the recipients, students, and teachers care ent. Most donors in about.” registries are of Caucasian origin, so allowing for only a partial match Opponents of the bills warn that has the potential to cure dozens of they would lead to further stigmatiAmericans who have both HIV and zation of gay, lesbian and transgencancer each year, scientists said. der children, causing more bullying https://www.croiconference.org/ and suicides within an already marginalized community. They say the “Let the Good Times Roll!” (as bills would eliminate LGBTQ hiswe KREWE DE KINQUE club tory from the curriculum and premembers are fond to shout) with vent teachers from having discussions a PISCES BIRTHDAY HAPPY HOUR at 440 Castro with Krewe de in their classrooms if questions about sexual orientation and gender idenKinque Queen XVI Kelly Rose tity came up. & King I Gary Virginia! The fun begins on Friday, February 25 Sister Dana sez, “I was never (Kelly’s Birthday; Gary’s is the 23rd), very nervous about mid-terms from 5–7 pm. Find us at an outdoor in college at UCLA, so why am table in the large parklet. No host I (and 64% of Americans) worbar with Happy Hour drink specials, ried that democracy is in crisis celebration cake, outdoor music & and at risk of FAILING?!” the usual shenanigans. First come, first seating as available. Proof of On February 17, LOCKDOWN vaccination required for bar service COMEDY continued its Zoom show indoors. Festive attire encouraged! with comedians Becky Braunstein Please RSVP and join us on a busy (Portland), Suwon Weaver (LA), Imperial Coronation weekend in San Ian Williams (SF), producer/ Francisco! comic Lisa Geduldig (SF & https://tinyurl.com/2p8njdjm Florida), and her 90-year-old mom Arline Geduldig (Florida). It›s Florida Governor Ron DeSantis is always a blast to laugh along with 90 signaling support for the “DON’T SAY GAY ” bill, which would bar the strangers across the globe and chat during the after-party wrap-up! Join “discussion of sexual orientation or us again every third Thursday, 7 pm! gender identity” in primary schools.

Meanwhile 300,000 “blue” suburban https://tinyurl.com/46t63xud moms (including a progressive org: “Red, Wine, & Blue”) are mobilizing to counter conservatives in fights over masks, book bans, and diversity education. Melanie WillinghamJaggers, executive director of GLSEN, stated, “The story of our democracy is the story of the fight to include everyone—Black people, Indigenous people, disabled people, immigrants, and LGBTQ people.”

She stressed these bills take away the support and safety that young people desperately need in school.

President Joe Biden weighed in, saying, “I want every member of the LGBTQ community—especially the kids who will be impacted by this hateful bill—to know that you are loved and accepted just as you are. I have your back, and my Administration will continue to fight for the protections and safety you deserve!”

The legislation would hurt kids who need the most protection in school and are “already vulnerable to bullying and violence just for being themselves,” said Kevin Munoz, White House assistant press secretary. “But make no mistake—this is not an isolated action. Across the country, we’re seeing Republican leaders take actions to regulate what students can or cannot read, what they can or cannot learn, and most troubling, who they can or cannot be,” Munoz added. “This is politics at its worse, cynically treating our students as pawns in a game and not people who deserve love and respect. At every step of the way, Republicans have peddled in cheap, political attacks, instead of focusing on the issues par-

RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE continues to amuse, amaze, and make me awestruck (awe-strike me? cause awe? aw forgettit!). I am awe-stricken (sure, let’s go with that) because it has been revealed that both of the current contestants, Jasmine Kennedie and Bosco, are coming out as transgender and reviewing surgical options to medically transition “in the near future.” Drag Race season 14 is now on its way to becoming one of the most diverse casts in Drag Race history (sistory?), thanks to Bosco, Jasmine, and transgender contestants Kerri Colby and Kornbread “The Snack” Jeté. Kornbread is toast now, having been unluckily eliminated. The season also featured its first straight cisgender contestant, Maddy Morphosis, who just got bounced during his unfortunate “Lip-synch for Your Life” final competition. His performance fell flat (and not in a daring death drop), and he was sent straight home!

After three years without a host, the OSCARS are making up for lost time with three hosts for this year›s awards. Amy Schumer, Regina Hall and Wanda Sykes are in final talks to host the 94th Academy Awards. Three very funny ladies!

Of course, the show doesn›t air until March 27, so a lot could change by then. But here›s hoping this trio survives the terrors of Tinseltown!

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New Film Chronicles the Bond Between Strangers film, which is now playing in the Bay Area, is set in the pre-Glasnost era.)

Film Gary M. Kramer The title of a new film, Compartment No. 6, refers to the second-class berth on a train that travels from Moscow to Murmansk. It is a journey of several days, and Laura (Seidi Haarla) a Finnish grad student interested in archaeology, is headed to this arctic circle town to see the petroglyphs. To understand the present, she claims, she needs to know the past. (The

That idea may also be a metaphor for her personal life. She was supposed to make the trip with her girlfriend Irina (Dinara Drukravo), whom she was living with in Moscow, but Irina cancelled at the last minute. Laura is unhappy to be making journey alone—and even unhappier when her compartment mate on the train is Ljoha (Yuriy Borisov). The young Russian man, who is headed to the port city to work in mining, is drunk and verbally abusive when Laura first meets him. Laura tries to change compartments, but that is not possible. However, through a series of interactions, the two strangers come to a detente.

Compartment No. 6 is, thankfully, not an opposites-attract love story— Laura’s sexuality assures this—but it does show how these two lonely strangers on a train make an unexpected connection. Director Juho Kuosmanen—who cowrote the screenplay, an adaptation of Rosa Liksom’s novel—concentrates on the shifting balance of power between these two characters, and that is what makes his film so engrossing.

Laura is justifiably wary of Ljoha when they first meet, and she does not appreciate his boorish behavior. He challenges her perceptions, however, protecting her space when she leaves the compartment (with all her stuff ) and asking her if she thinks he is a thief. Trust is also critical in Laura’s relationship with Ljo-

ha when the train makes for an overnight stop. Arriving in a car that appears out of nowhere, Ljoha offers to take Laura on a ride out to see his friend Lidia (Lidia Kostina). Laura lacks a better option, and eventually joins him, leading to a sweet scene between the two women.

Laura is certainly distracted by her tenuous situation with Irina. Her girlfriend does not want to talk with Laura when she calls her at every train stop. The details of their relationship are vague, but Kuosmanen drops just enough clues in the early scenes of the women at a party, or in bed together, to indicate who has control. And much of the film involves Laura losing control to find herself and feel good again.

Laura gets frustrated when she tries to manipulate things to her advantage. When she meets Sasha (Tomi Alatalo), a Finn who boarded the train—and can’t communicate with the implacable conductor (Yuli-

ya Aug)—Laura invites Sasha to stay in her compartment, despite his third-class ticket. It is a power move to upset Ljoha, and it does irritate him, but it also backfires on her. That said, it prompts Laura to give a very moving speech where she provides Ljoha with some context of her life.

The expected bond that develops between these characters provides Compartment No. 6” with its magic. The performances by Haarla and Borisov are so real that one might think they are non-professional actors. (They are not; both have numerous credits, though this is Haarla’s first lead in a feature, and she is particularly ingratiating.) They needle each other in ways that may seem to provoke, but in hindsight, reveal how they express themselves and communicate.

Ljoha has the same insecurities and fears as Laura does, but he internalizes them where she expresses hers. A terrific scene in a dining car on their

last night together shows the dynamic of their relationship. Whereas Laura gives Ljoha a picture she secretly drew of him, and asks him to do the same, he denies her request. Whenever they try to find a level playing field, there is an imbalance.

Compartment No. 6 wisely extends the story beyond just the train ride, into Murmansk, and it is seeing how things play out with the characters that makes this film so emotionally satisfying.

Kuosmanen’s film is appropriately claustrophobic—the tight compartment on the train is, of course, a metaphor for the characters’ trapped emotions. In Murmansk, where (continued on page 32)

Ballet22 Gala Encore Performances Ballet22 returns to the Great Star Theater in San Francisco (636 Jackson Street) on February 25, 26, and 27 to present an encore performance from the company’s 2022 Gala.

The performances will feature a mixed bill of classical to contemporary ballet that pushes the gender normative traditions. The program will include beloved classics as well as the duet “Symbiotic Twins,” choreographed by renowned choreographer Annabelle Lopez Ochoa, and a world premiere by Duarte Verzola.

Founded in 2020 by Roberto Vega Ortiz and Theresa Knudson, Ballet22 pushes the boundaries of what is possible in ballet. The company is guided by values of inclusivity of body type, gender identify, and race.

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Up Against the Wall: Art, Activism, and the AIDS Poster

Words Michele Karlsberg Michele Karlsberg: Forty years ago, a mysterious wasting illness first linked to promiscuous sex and intravenous drug use became a global epidemic and the focus of a massive public health campaign and activist community. Now, a new publication

by RIT Press documents the power and impact of nearly 200 examples of AIDS educational posters from around the world and the social activism that continues to bring awareness to a disease without vaccine or cure.

Up Against the Wall: Art, Activism, and the AIDS Poster edited by Donald Albrecht, Jessica Lacher-Feldman, and William M. Valenti, M.D., offers nearly 200 examples of visually arresting and socially meaningful posters, taken from more than 8,000 held in the collection in the University of Rochester’s River Campus Libraries’ Department of Rare Books, Special Collections, and Preservation.

The collection, one of the largest of its kind in the world, was donated to

the University of Rochester by Dr. Edward Atwater. The book accompanies an exhibition of AIDS education posters displayed at the Memorial Art Gallery of the University of Rochester from March 6–June 19, 2022.

nificant and are used all the time in so many different ways. And we have made all of them freely available online, which provides a global audience for such a distinctive and global collection.

The posters, spanning the years from 1982 to the present, show how social, religious, civic, and public health agencies have addressed the controversial, often contested, terrain of the HIV/AIDS pandemic within the public realm. Organizations and creators tailored their messages to audiences, both broad and very specific, and used a wide array of strategies, employing humor, emotion, scare tactics, simple scientific explanations, sexual imagery, and many other methods to communicate powerfully and effectively.

Michele Karlsberg: Why is it important for younger generations to understand what went on during that time?

Michele Karlsberg: Why are the posters significant now?

Jessica Latcher-Feldman: The posters are significant in so many ways. I think that the fact that there are so many—over 8000 and growing from 130 countries and in 76 languages and dialects—show us how different communities, different organizations, governments, groups, and individuals reacted to HIV/AIDS and the need to share information effectively. The posters as individual artifacts reflect so many things: language, imagery, and how we communicate; what compassion, education, inspiration, and anger can look like; and how we find ways to express those sentiments in an urgent and effective way.

While the messages, the audiences, and the imagery vary wildly, using them, in groups, or one by one, to dissect and digest the urgency of a global and deadly pandemic, is a honor and a privilege. Working with this collection daily can be challenging because we are still living with HIV/AIDS, and this recent history is emotionally draining at times, but the power of the posters as a lens to understand how words and images can influence and shape thoughts and behavior is one that continues to inspire. The posters remain sig-

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Dark Hours (mystery - hardbound) by Michael Connelly If you like the Detective Harry Bosch book and TV series, you will love Dark Hours. A brazen and methodical killer strikes on New Year’s Eve in the wake of Covid’s first year. Young LAPD Detective Renée Ballard secretly enlists the help of the legendary and infamous Harry Bosch, who is currently retired, to find justice for the victim in a city scarred by fear and social unrest.

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More Information About the Book and Exhibit https://tinyurl.com/mv7ya3yz https://tinyurl.com/yjyrdfxp Michele Karlsberg Marketing and Management specializes in publicity for the LGBTQ+ community. This year, Karlsberg celebrates 33 years of successful marketing campaigns. For more information: https:// www.michelekarlsberg.com

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In the Shadow of the Mountain (memoir - hardbound) by Silvia Vasquez-Lavado Endless ice. Thin air. The threat of dropping into nothingness thousands of feet below. This is the climb Silvia Vasquez-Lavado braves in her pageturning, pulse-raising memoir following her journey to Mount Everest. A Latina hero in the elite macho tech world of Silicon Valley, privately, she was hanging by a thread. Deep in the throes of alcoholism, hiding her sexuality from her family, and repressing the abuse she’d suffered as a child, she started climbing. Something about the brute force required for the ascent―the risk and spirit and sheer size of the mountains and death’s close proximity―woke her up. She then took her biggest pain as a survivor to the biggest mountain: Everest.

The Secret Lives of Church Ladies (short stories - paperback) by Deesha Philyaw A stunning debut collection of stories depicting several Black women trying to break free from sexual repressions in the aftermath of their religious upbringing, raised in the church. The Secret Lives of Church Ladies explores the raw and tender places where Black women and girls dare to follow their desires. The nine stories feature four generations of characters grappling with who they want to be in the world, but who are stuck between the church’s double standards and their own needs and romantic relationships with other women.

Jessica Latcher -Feldman: Dr. Atwater, the person who built this collection, starting with one poster in 1990, and building it to over 8000 between 1990 and his passing in 2019, saw the posters as social history, and I agree. The sheer number of posters is an indication of just how urgent it was, and is, to make people aware of their own responsibility in keeping themselves and others safe, and to share compassion, dispel myths, and offer hope. Younger generations need to understand, and I hope that the lens of COVID-19 will make a difference, that the AIDS pandemic remains something that we all must take responsibility for, in keeping ourselves and those we love, healthy.

Approaching this all-too-recent history from the myriad perspectives that we can look at with regard to HIV/AIDS, we gain a great understanding of the complexity and tragedy of this devastating disease.

Upcoming Events Saturday, March 5 @ 4 pm (ticketed, in store at Corte Madera) Erik Larson, Author of The Splendid and the Vile.

In Larson’s latest book he examines how Churchill taught the British people “the art of being fearless.” It is a story of political brinkmanship, but it’s also an intimate domestic drama, set against the backdrop of Churchill’s prime-ministerial country home, Chequers; his wartime retreat, Ditchley, where he and his entourage go when the moon is brightest and the bombing threat is highest; and, of course, 10 Downing Street in London.

Drawing on diaries, original archival documents, and once-secret intelligence reports—some released only recently—Larson provides a new lens on London’s darkest year.

Wednesday, March 9 @ 5:30 pm (live online) Laurie Ruettiman, Author of Betting on You, with CEO Minda Harts of The Memo LLC, a career development platform for women of color For Women’s History Month, Book Passage is uplifting women’s issues and authors with specially curated events. One such event is this one featuring a conversation around women in the workplace and progressing, not just thriving, in spaces often dominated by men.

Top career coach and HR consultant Laurie Ruettimann knows firsthand that work can get a hell of a lot better. A decade ago, Ruettimann was uninspired, blaming others and herself for the unhappiness she felt. This was until she had an epiphany: if she wanted a fulfilling existence, she couldn’t sit around and wait for change. She had to be her own leader. Betting On You shares Ruettimann’s professional journey while sharing insights for the rest of us. Betting on You is a game-changing must-read for how to radically improve your day-to-day, working more effectively and enthusiastically starting now. https://www.bookpassage.com/

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The Gay Gourmet Selected as Judge for The Taste Awards, aka ‘The Oscars of Food’ David Landis, The Gay Gourmet for the San Francisco Bay Times, is one of the judges for The Taste Awards, which are the highest awards for creators, producers, hosts, and directors of lifestyle programs, series, shows & cinema. Often called “The Oscars of Food, Fashion, and Lifestyle Media,” they are the premier broadcast awards show celebrating the year’s best achievements in food, fashion, health, travel, and lifestyle programs on television, in film, in online and streaming video, on radio and in podcasts, and photography.

Cocktails With Heather Heather Freyer Many of us enjoy a good spritz, and now there’s a sparkling option for our tequila lovers! The Jalisco Sunset plays off traditional spritz ingredients like prosecco, soda water, and Martini Fiero, but after the inclusion of fresh lime juice and Patrón Silver, even the strictest spritz purists will be tempted to imbibe.

Plus, assembly is a breeze. Simply gather your ingredients and pour them over a wine glass filled with ice to enjoy. From there, it’s up to you to find the perfect cabana, rooftop, or pool chair to imbibe from—so read on to learn how to craft this light, bright cocktail.

JALISCO SUNSET 3 ounces Prosecco 2 ounces Martini Fiero 2 ounces Patrón Silver 1 ounce soda water ½ ounce fresh lime juice orange wedge for garnish

Add all ingredients to a wine glass filled with ice.

Stir, and garnish with an orange wedge. https://www.bacardi.com/us/en/where-to-buy/

Heather Freyer is a beverage expert who is the Vice President and General Manager for Open West States at Bacardí USA. Previously she was with Trinchero Wine Estates, Castle Rock Winery, Cost Plus World Market, and more.

Judges represent a diverse and respected association of food & wine editors, writers and bloggers, chefs, fashion journalists, television producers and stations, online video platforms, mobile device providers, retail and technology enterprises, previous award recipients, and others. It is an honor to be selected, so we congratulate David on being included in this elite group.

There are also Viewer’s Choice awards that you can have a say on!

Voting for them is open through March 11. They include the following categories: • Best Instructional Web Series; • Best Single Camera Production; • Best Reality Series – Fashion, Design or Home Decor; • Best Food or Drink Radio Broadcast; • Best Lifestyle Podcast; • Best Comedy or Humor; • Best Filmed at Home Episodes or Film; • Best Kids Programs, Films or Documentaries; • Best Health & Fitness Program, Film or Documentary; • Best Virtual Tastings.

To vote for these Taste Awards, go to: www.TastingDark.com

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Eat, Drink, Repeat at Oakland Restaurant Week: March 18–27

The Gay Gourmet David Landis When it comes to great dining, many folks choose the well-known scene in San Francisco for its diversity, quality, and reputation.

But Oakland, our neighbor across the bay, has in recent years become its own dining destination. From food trucks to Michelin-starred eateries and neighborhood gathering spots, Oakland has it all. Yet, peo-

the most. Holidays and parties are over and it’s slower. We want to create a buzz for diners to come and eat here. It’s the best time to try out some of our restaurants and their new specials. This year, we are letting restaurant owners determine what their specials are—at different price points. We’re giving them the freedom to work around those price points—it might be something in season, or anything that is not on the typical menu that can be talked about and promoted. It encompasses all of our neighborhoods. It’s a great excuse to explore Oakland and its neighborhoods: Jack London Square, Uptown Oakland (the entertainment district) or Lakeshore or Lake Merritt. (Editor’s Note: Rockridge, Montclair, Laurel, and more too!) The week showcases the vibrancy of the neighborhoods plus the cuisines.

Restaurant weeks usually have a fixed price, such as lunch for $20 or dinner for $40. In Oakland, we did something different. We listened to our restaurant owners and created

impact people’s lives. We need to get people back to work, get restaurants back open, help hotels that are re-opening, keep our attractions relevant, and tell the world about them. In 2022, Oakland is going off the charts: Oakland Zoo, a leading conservation zoo, is celebrating 100 years. Oakland is also home to the Chabot Space and Science Center, which is associated with the Kennedy Space Center; the culture and art scene in Oakland is amazing: we have a symphony, we have a ballet company, a great museum— being able to highlight those attractions was part of the reason for taking this job.

I often ask people, “When was the last time you came to Oakland?” I tell them to come back to Oakland and discover these places. It’s a city where you can kayak in Jack London Square at 9 am and before noon you can be up in the redwoods, a 20-minute drive away.

It’s an urban city but we have a lake right in the middle of the city that shines throughout the day. I love going to the Lake Chalet and sipping a glass of wine on the pier while the lights light up the lake: it’s magical.

GG: Is it challenging being gay in the hospitality industry? Tell us about your partner. Is he in the industry, too?

a task force formed of restaurant owners. They suggested different pricing and value.

ple don’t always think of Oakland as a culinary capital. That’s one of the reasons the East Bay’s biggest city has decided to put its best dining foot forward with Oakland Restaurant Week—10 days of lunch and dinner specials taking place March 18–27 and sponsored

by Visit Oakland.

The Gay Gourmet had the pleasure of recently speaking with Visit Oakland’s CEO Pete Gamez for the San Francisco Bay Times about this upcoming foodie week— and all things Oakland. Here are some of the highlights:

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“Eat, drink and repeat” is our tag line. It’s ten days because we want people to come more than once or twice. That way, you’re positively impacting our restaurants. Last year, we focused on the food truck movement. This year, Oakland is back open and we’re featuring new restaurants that have opened in Oakland during difficult times. This year’s Restaurant Week also has a philanthropic component. We’re partnering with Community Kitchens, a collective of Oakland restaurants that serves 10,000 meals a month for seniors and the homeless. For our industry night (private invite-only event for restaurateurs and chefs), we’ll be raising money for that cause.

GG: Are there LGBTQ+ owned businesses participating?

PG: Shakewell is gay-owned, as is Home of Chicken & Waff les in Jack London Square.

GG: Tell me a little bit about Oakland Restaurant Week.

Any newcomers? And, why Oakland Restaurant Week?

What do you hope to accomplish with this promotion?

GG: Tell me a little bit about your professional history— you also worked for San Francisco Travel and various hotels, correct? Why the move to Visit Oakland?

PG: Restaurant Week is a celebration of supporting our restaurant owners. We wanted to benefit the restaurants who had a tough two years. They’re the nucleus for neighborhoods to gather. We have such a variety of restaurants in Oakland and Restaurant Week is one of the largest programs that we promote.

It’s a time when restaurants need it

PG: I’m honored to have this CEO job with Visit Oakland.

I’ve spent 23 years with Joie de Vivre and Chip Conley. We grew the company into different iterations and sold to Hyatt. And yes, I served as Board Chair with SF Travel. The reason Oakland was attractive is that I have a higher need than being a CEO: I want to

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PG: Not challenging at all. In the hospitality industry, it’s one of the few industries that is embracing of LGBTQ+ people. Regionally, living in the Bay Area, it’s easier. People in the hospitality industry are in general innkeepers—they have an innkeeper spirit, welcoming strangers into their homes.

Working in hospitality, you’re being bombarded by different cultures and it opens up your mind. Ricardo Ramirez is my husband; he’s now consulting for Hunter Hospitality, specializing in luxury travel. We’re likeminded because of our love of travel and culinary. We last went to San Sebastian, Spain (a big foodie capital); we went across the world just for that.

GG: How are restaurants doing overall in Oakland? Has the pandemic affected the industry?

PG: There’s definitely a sense of coming back and hope, but there are challenges with the supply industry. Because of the vibrant neighborhoods, many restaurants benefitted; they got a little stronger because people were working from home. We want to also help revitalize our downtown restaurants.

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mole (they even sell it at their restaurant). They debuted in 2016 and are a locals’ favorite; of course, there’s Chef Nelson German (featured on Top Chef ), who owns two popular restaurants - Sobre Mesa and alaMar; Split, another new American restaurant that touts “finger-licking real food,” has just opened a new location in Oakland.

GG: I’m delighted to see Chef Nelson German (Sobre Mesa, alaMar) participating. I interviewed him when he was on Top Chef; he’s a great guy.

And he’s doing some amazing things in the East Bay. PG: Nelson and his wife May German are terrific. He’ll be doing the private kickoff industry night event.

GG: What restaurants do you like to eat at when you’re dining out?

PG: There are so many places. It depends on what mood you’re looking for. Lately, I’ve been known to love Calavera and Agave Uptown. Between going to those two places, I have my mezcal and mole fix for the day.

GG: Do you cook at home? Do you have a favorite recipe?

PG: I’m the worst cook. That’s why I eat out at restaurants.

I’m of Cuban descent, so I love Cuban cuisine. Black beans with white rice is one of my staples at home.

GG: Who are the up-and-coming chefs in Oakland? Names we should keep an eye out for?

And what are some of the new restaurants that we should visit?

PG: Daughter’s Diner, a new all-day American café owned by a great married couple (Kevin and Justyna Wilson), opened their Uptown restaurant during the pandemic; also Tribune, a new American brasserie that has transformed the old Tribune tower, is owned by Omri Aflalo and Darrin Ballon; somewhat newish Duende is a Spanish-style restaurant that offers dinner with a Flamenco show; Agave Uptown restaurant, serving Oaxacan food, isn’t brand new, but they have amazing

May and Nelson German

GG: What else is happening in Oakland that we should know about? What’s next for Oakland?

PG: I love February in Oakland.

It’s Black History Month. The last Saturday in February is the Black Joy Parade. It’s a one-ofa-kind, only-in-Oakland event, celebrating everything about black culture. In March/April when families start vacationing because of the breaks, we’ll do a focus on the Oakland Museum of California, the Chabot Space Center, and the Oakland Zoo. Oakland Restaurant Week takes place March 18–27 with lunch and dinner specials throughout the city. The week features specially-designed dining experiences and offers from local gems and food trucks, to Michelin-starred restaurants and newly opened eateries. Launched in 2010, Oakland Restaurant Week is an annual dining promotion presented by Visit Oakland, a nonprofit organization marketing Oakland, California, as a travel destination. The celebration highlights the flavors of Oakland and is designed to support local establishments, enticing diners with menu offerings and experiences made available only during the promotion. All Oakland Restaurant Week participants will feature lunch and/or dinner menus at six different price points. Lunch pricing is offered at: $10, $15, $25; dinner pricing is

Bay Times Dines offered at: $25, $40, $60. Reservations are available through OpenTable and can be made directly from the Oakland Restaurant Week page. Some of the participating restaurants to date include: Shakewell, Home of Chicken and Waff les, Duende, Italian Colors, Calavera, Chop Bar, Eating Saigon, Agave Uptown, Perle Wine & Cocktails, Saucy Oakland, Tribune, A Cote, Lake Chalet, Sobre Mesa, and alaMar.

Saturdays. Rooted in Moroccan tradition, Berber’s modern adaptation of signature cirque shows features aerialists, acrobats, dancers, and live musicians. The dinner show includes a multi-course prixfixe menu, paired with a variety of contemporary cirque acts. Seating is designed in a cabaret-style layout, so every table has a full view of the round stage. Culinary offerings include: duck bastilla, tagines of all kinds, and shakshouka.

Oakland Restaurant Week: a complete list of participating restaurants, menus, special events and reservations is available at:

Since it’s still Black History Month, I’d like to give a shoutout to Simileoluwa Adebajo, chef/owner of San Francisco’s first Nigerian restaurant, Eko Kitchen.

Besides running the restaurant, she’s also offering virtual cooking classes spotlighting Nigerian cuisine (and music!). In addition, she’s the author of a new cookbook, From Eko with Love: A Modern Nigerian Cookbook.

https://tinyurl.com/bdhwaene Bits and Bites New in Carmel Valley: The luxurious Bernardus Lodge and Spa has a new chef at its beautiful indoor/outdoor restaurant, Lucia.

His name is Christian Ojeda and he hails most recently from the Montage Deer Valley Resort.

The buzzy (and tasty) Lazy Susan Chinese-American restaurant is moving from SFJAZZ in Hayes Valley and opening in West Portal this month. B-Side, the popular American bistro, will return to the SFJAZZ location.

I’ve long admired the glamorous bar and restaurant Berber, the contemporary North African restaurant in Russian Hill that features cirque-like performances in its supper club on Fridays and

And, speaking of Black History Month, the San Francisco Proper Hotel is proud to feature wines from two prestigious Black-owned California wineries all month in February: Brown Estates (Napa Valley’s first Blackowned estate winery) and L’Objet (owned by Danny Glover). These carefully selected wines will be offered in The Lounge all month with a percentage of sales donated to La Cocina, a local organization on a mission to cultivate low-income food entrepreneurs as they formalize and grow their businesses.

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Wine lovers, rejoice: VinOgo from Cork Pops is an affordable mylar pouch designed to hold a bottle of wine or other beverage. You can take it poolside, on a road trip, beach trip, hiking, or even kayaking—anywhere that you can’t take glass bottles.

And finally, Nashville’s Chef Big Shake (Shawn Davis)—featured on national TV, but passed up on Shark Tank—is famous for their hot chicken and fish. Luckily for those of us in the Bay Area, you can now order it online anywhere.

Oakland Restaurant Week: https://tinyurl.com/bdhwaene Visit Oakland: www.visitoakland.com VinOgo from Cork Pops: https://tinyurl.com/4mbscada Lucia at the Bernardus Lodge and Spa: www.bernarduslodge.com Chef Big Shake’s hot chicken and fish: https://shopbigshakes.com/ Berber: https://berbersf.com/ Eko Kitchen: https://www.ekokitchensf.online/ San Francisco Proper Hotel: https://tinyurl.com/2p933esj David Landis, aka “The Gay Gourmet,” is a foodie, a freelance writer, and a retired PR maven. Follow him on Instagram @GayGourmetSF or email him at: davidlandissf@ gmail.com Or visit him online at: www.gaygourmetsf.com

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DIVAS & DRINKS @ The Academy

Divas & Drinks @ The Academy on February 10

A Pride and Valentine's Day kickoff took place on February 10 at Divas & Drinks @ The Academy, 2166 Market Street. San Francisco Pride President Carolyn Wysinger—on the night of her 43rd birthday—announced that SF Pride in June will be return to in-person events. Registration for parade contingents and exhibitors is no underway for the festivities that will happen on June 25–26.

Wysinger, who in addition to her SF Pride role serves as the Education Coo nator of The Commonwealth Club, was feted with birthday cake, singing, a flowers for her birthday. She sported a dashing suit with matching shoes for occasion. She was also gifted with a favorite elixir, a particular bourbon tha popular in Louisiana where she spent part of her multi-state upbringing.

Guests enjoyed a special menu of Valentine's-themed drinks from Bacardí V President Heather Freyer and Bacardí's Vanessa Wright, who were both in attendance.

The guests included members of the Golden Gate Business Association, SF Pride, Castro Merchants, Dykes on Bikes®, the Bank of the West Pride grou and more.

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The crystal-clear evening, during a February heat wave, had guests minglin in The Academy's private garden with firepits and heat lamps. Emcee Don Sachet led the night's program, which included music by DJ Rockaway presented by Olivia Travel. As Sachet writes in her latest column for the Bay T (see page 15), Team Village People and Team San Francisco Gay Softball League competed in Name That Tune. Lou Fischer and Amy Meyers of Team Village People emerged victorious, but all players did well and won prizes.

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The San Francisco Bay Times, presenter of the event at The Academy, wishes to thank door prize sponsor Kokak Chocolates and food sponsor Extreme Pizza. Please join us for the next Divas & Drinks @ The Academy on Thursday, March 24, from 6–10 pm.

The Academy: https://www.academy-sf.com/ Bacardí: https://www.bacardi.com/us/en/

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and More to Come!

On Thursday, March 24, DIVAS & DRINKS will return to The Academy for our second party of the year, 6-10pm at The Academy, 2166 Market Street.

Join emcee Donna Sachet and DJ Rockaway presented by Olivia Travel for a fun evening with details to be announced soon. Our Name That Tune contest will feature the return of current champions Team Village People facing off against Team GGBA.

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French Cleat: Cest Bon French cleats are a great way to have a modular shelving system, and to organize tools on your wall. What is a French cleat? It is a simple bracket made with interlocking 45-degree angles. One side is attached to the wall and the other to the back of the item you want to hang.

The two sides lock together and form a strong, secure bracket, with the weight evenly distributed along the entire length of the cleat.

To make a French cleat, you can use a table saw, or circular saw with a guide. Set the cutting angle to 45 degrees, mark your wood, make your cut, and then attach the cleats. Learn more fun tips and tricks with us at one of our workshops in the Bay Area!

Introduction to Tools Workshop March 5 @ San Francisco Tiny House Workshop Series March 12–April 24 @ Bay Area Introduction to Tools Workshop April 9 @ San Francisco Introduction to Tools Workshop May 14 @ San Francisco Overnight Carpentry Camp July 24–July 30 @ Bay Area For more information about these and other events, go to: https://www.dykeswithdrills.com/workshops Julie Peri is the Founder and Director of Dykes With Drills. https://www.dykeswithdrills.com/

Take Me Home with You! “My name is Scooby!

I’m full of energy and enthusiasm! I’m just nine months old and still learning about the world around me. I’m hoping to meet someone special who will take me on adventures and help me learn! My ideal adopter is someone who’s as active and enthusiastic as I am.

I’d love to keep you company on walks, runs, hikes, and swims! If you think we might be a match, please come meet me.”

Scooby

Scooby is presented to San Francisco Bay Times readers by Dr. Jennifer Scarlett, the SF SPCA’s Co-President. Our thanks also go to Krista Maloney for helping to get the word out about lovable pets like Scooby.

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Fitness SF Trainer Tip of the Month Maria L. at Fitness SF Transbay “The Dumbbell Squat is my go-to exercise.

You can do this just about anywhere. Simply stand up straight with both weights resting against your shoulders, then squat down towards the ground while keeping your feet & heels firmly in place.”

Tore Kelly, Director of Creative & Social Media for Fitness SF, provides monthly tips that he has learned from professional trainers. For more information: https://fitnesssf.com/

Lit Snax Paul Takes the Form of a Mortal Girl by Andrea Lawlor This wildly imaginative and original novel follows the exploits of Paul Polydoris, who can (and frequently does) change gender at will. Set in the 1990s, s/he traipses through a variety of queer scenes, all described with plenty of smart social observation and sly wit. This makes for a fun romp, but one that will give you plenty to think about as well.

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The End of Eddy by Edouard Louis Louis writes with a moral force and searing clarity reminiscent of James Baldwin. This book speaks frankly about growing up as a fey, queer kid in a rightwing French town. https://www.fabulosabooks.com/

CASTRO COVID-19 TESTING AND VACCINATION HUB Sponsored by the Castro LGBTQ Cultural District Every Saturday, 11–5pm Collingwood & 18th Parking Lot (Behind Walgreens) Free & No Appointment Needed Facebook Page: https://bit.ly/338WjCK

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Milk Fed by Melissa Broder An enduring and what can only be described as “wacky” story of how a neurotic, zaftig, conservative Jew with an eating disorder finds brief love in Los Angeles.

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SOMA Second Saturdays Photos by Rink The SOMA Second Saturday event, hosted by the Leather & LGBT Cultural District, included a popular Game Day activity. The event is held at 145 9th Street, a gathering place for SOMA residents. Volunteers Darren Moore, Sal Bellarmino and Monica Miyakawa-Liu were on hand to welcome guests. Mask designer Byrd Bannick displayed his collection of original fabric face masks that were on sale at his Byrd Beaks booth.

The Leather & LGBTQ Cultural District is hosting special events each month on the second Saturdays.

• Sunday, March 12 Movie Day 12noon-5pm Folsom Street Community Center 145 9th Street (between Mission & Howard) Submit your own 6-10 minute video. https://sfleatherdistrict.org/movie-day/ • Sunday, April 9 Art Fair More details to come soon as the SOMA Second Sunday event returns to the streets.

SISTER DANA (continued from page 22) Majesties Emperor Mr. David Glamamore and Empress Juanita MORE! and the Court of More is MORE! and as we crown the successive Monarchs of The Imperial Council of San Francisco, Inc., the Founding Mother Court of the International Court System. Proceeds benefit the Imperial Council of San Francisco, Inc., a 501c3 nonprofit organization in the State of California. Saturday, February 26, 5 pm–12 am, The Midway, 900 Marin Street. https://tinyurl.com/2cbzf72w Sister Dana sez, “For those asking about my recent MRI journey in a gurney: I was in a tomb-like enclosure and despite 2 prescribed Xanax pills for claustrophobia, deep breathing, and self-hypnosis of relaxing on warm beach sand and ocean sounds—that was interrupted with the sound of a sudden shower of giant boulders falling on me; increasing volume of pounding; banging on pots and pans with brief welcomed periods of heavenly quiet; then sudden, jarring jack-hammering. Recycle and repeat!

MRI ay ay ay! But like Gloria Gaynor, I Will Survive!”

KRAMER (continued from page 23) scenes are shot in the vast, snowy outdoors, it is hard not to shiver at the cold. Viewers practically eavesdrop on the characters throughout the film, and the handheld camerawork creates a you-are-there feeling. The cramped spaces are so vivid that viewers can practically smell what is on screen, which is not a bad thing. The realism here is effective.

Like the two central performances, everything feels lived in.

Ultimately, the film shows how these characters connect and grow as a result of knowing one another. In the process, viewers will likely feel that they too know these people, and will be glad that they spent quality time with them. © 2022 Gary M. Kramer Gary M. Kramer is the author of “Independent Queer Cinema: Reviews and Interviews,” and the co-editor of “Directory of World Cinema: Argentina.” Follow him on Twitter @garymkramer

QUEER POP QUIZ ANSWER (Question on pg 21)

C) 39% Thirty-nine percent of out athletes medaled at the recent Olympics, putting Team LGBTQ ahead of Japan, Italy, and other countries. Team LGBTQ’s final medal count was as follows: gold - 4, silver - 2, and bronze - 3. All of the medals save for one (a silver for curling) were won by skaters (figure, speed, and ice hockey).

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Speaking to Your Soul ARIES (March 21–April 19) Your sense of urgency is heightened, yet it’s not the moment for battle. Your power knows no bounds. So be sure to pull back, exhale, and remember who or what sent you. Let a higher cause inform your decisions to use your energy optimally. Take inventory, cut your losses, and expect a bright new dawn.

TAURUS (April 20–May 20) Spring fever strikes early as the songbird sings your song.

A vision becomes clear to the degree you align it with your highest values, not the least of which is a return to natural ways of living, in tune with the rhythm of the earth and the cycles of the cosmos.

Astrology

GEMINI (May 21–June 20) Your message can reach more people now as you tune in to what is needed. Plant seeds to achieve your ideal goals, and trust that doors will open. Make integrity your guiding principle and life will hand you your platform.

Elisa Quinzi

Outlook is everything.

And the planet vibes are pulling at that part of us we call the soul. Higher perspectives, vision, and beliefs are all up for our consideration. We’ve kept our options restricted, replaying stories that no longer serve us, keeping us in a “Groundhog’s Day” kind of loop. It’s time to give ourselves permission to feel good, because life is worth living! Beyond the tension and division, what we all have in common is the soul. And it’s the soul that’s calling for attention.

CANCER ( June 21–July 22) Opportunities arise that expand your horizon and widen your understanding of the world. The mystical wants to reveal itself to you. Life is an adventure. Trust your intuition. You are very sensitive to impressions from other realms. Signs and helpers show the way.

LEO ( July 23–August 22) Surrender is your superpower now. Dance elegantly with what life presents to you, and trust there is something bigger holding you up. Then you’ll really get to experience the magic and beauty that is right now all around you. It isn’t until we let go that we find out what is the substance we are floating in.

VIRGO (August 23–September 22) Your soul craves connection and opportunities are right in front of you. Joy comes with kindred spirits. Go deeper to where magical treasures are hiding. Everything is energy.

LIBRA (September 23–October 22) Sacred rituals, especially connected to the body and the sense of order in your life, will help you maintain good vibes and good health. God is in the details. As you bring your keen sense of harmony to your space and your day, you feel better and are able to be more helpful to those around you.

SCORPIO (October 23–November 21) The universe waves its magic wand over you, breaking a spell of identification with the darker elements of life. You are now granted an all-access pass to joy, fun, pleasure, and creative expression.

Focus not on escape, but on immersion. Let your soul be your guide.

SAGITTARIUS (November 22–December 21) Good things are happening for you behind the scenes, Sag. Relax into your center to feel your connection to all of life. Joy comes from within. Right where your feet touch the earth, so you are connected to the whole cosmos.

CAPRICORN (December 22–January 19) Even with your practical nature, you can still acknowledge a good sign when you experience one. And good signs are ripe for the picking wherever you go now. Stay alert. The channel between your mind, and the universe, is clear and strong now. Take advantage of the wise counsel!

AQUARIUS ( January 20–February 18) Where are you applying your efforts? You have distinct talents that, by using, can help you better navigate life. They’re lit up now and you are encouraged to advocate for yourself. Security is always within, so make full use of what you were born with because you are enough.

PISCES (February 19–March 20) A very rare planetary alignment is coded in the language of Pisces.

It’s pulling you toward your evolution, encouraging you to live the life of a wizard. Your permeability to the divine places you in a position to lead the rest of us out of the brambles of the limitations of culture. What more are we capable of? Pisces is here to tap the other 95% of the brain, and awaken us into a multidimensional way of living.

Elisa Quinzi is a certified professional astrologer who brings a strong spiritual perspective, as well as over 20 years of experience, to her work with clients.

Contact her at futureselfnow@gmail.com or at 818-530-3366 with your exact birth time to schedule or to ask questions.

As Heard on the Street . . . Share a favorite memory of a film or event at the Castro Theatre. compiled by Rink

Michael Johnstone

Jackie Thornhill

Michael Peterson

David Faulk

Bobbee Trans

“Fellini’s Satyricon”

“I love the Frameline Film Festival at the Castro Theatre.”

“The exciting chariot race in Ben Hur, with the script’s homoerotic attraction between actors Stephen Boyd ad Charleton Heston”

“The screening of Dreamgirls, when the people who bought large popcorns received lap dances from diverse audience volunteers”

“The amazing movie 5B, about the remarkable staff of the San Francisco General Hospital AIDS Ward”

Out at San Francisco’s Ferry Building Photos by Rink

Hog Island Oyster Company

Dining and shopping have returned at the popular specialty shops and restaurants located at San Francisco’s historic Ferry Building.

Enjoy the views in Rink’s selection of images taken out front, inside at selected venues, and also on the outdoor patio area behind the building. San Francisco Bay Times team members enjoy these locations and more, and look forward to returning there soon.

Blue Bottle Coffee Humphry Slocombe Ice Cream

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Co-owner Apo Bazidi shared a toast with bartender Oscar at Ti Piacera Ristorante on Polk Street, during the destination’s 20th Anniversary celebration on February 12.

The beauty makeover of the Castro Theatre continued on February 9 with painting of the marquee.

Guests celebrated with co-owner Apo Bazidi in the outdoor parklet at Ti Piacera Ristorante that specializes in northern Italian cuisine with Mediterranean influences.

A brightly lit sign outside Ti Piacera Ristorante invited guests for a complimentary drink during the restaurant’s 20 Year Anniversary of service to the community.

Volunteers, including Empress Gallilea (right), staffed the voting table at the Cinch Saloon during the Imperial Council’s election for Emperor and Empress on Saturday, February 19.

The Imperial Council’s election table at the Castro Muni Station was busy on Voting Day, February 19.

At Pizzalicious, a recently opened shop on Castro Street, pizzaiolo Roberto presented a pizza on National Pizza Day, February 9.

On National Pizza Day, February 9, Marcello’s Pizza manager Alex Avila presented a pizza just out of the oven. Marcello’s is a womanowned Legacy Business operating in the Castro since 1978.

At Orphan Andy’s, with Valentine’s decorations

by Bill Puig on the walls, server Missy Isaacson delivers an order of the restaurant’s famous grilled chicken breast sandwich.

Diners enjoyed outdoor sidewalk service at Orphan Andy’s with valentine hearts visible in the window.

Guests enjoyed beverages in their parlet seats at Fable restaurant on Castro Street.

Cherry trees are sporting blossoms on the sidewalk outside the Local Take shop in the Castro that features a large selection of gift items.

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Artist Jirsa painted her interpretation of Castro Street from the southeast corner of 18th and Castro on Friday, February 18.

Andersen Bakery at Fox Plaza was open for business on Valentine’s Day, February 14.

Round About - All Over Town

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Kokak Chocolates’ Frankie Pezzi presented an example of the exquisite chocolates available at the store’s Castro location at 3901 18th Street, corner of 18th and Sanchez.

In celebration of Valentine’s Day, Castro neighborhood member Joe Mac, best known for his bonnet designs and bar decorations at Easter, handed out Hershey’s Kisses on Castro Street.

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San Francisco Bay Times teams members were among the customers keeping Urban Flowers busy with orders in celebration ofValentine’s Day.

Wedding parties were lined up for ceremonies at San Francisco City Hall on Valentine’s Day, February 14.

A street sign outside the famous Midnight Sun bar announced on Valentine’s Day that their bartender was single.

Get ready for spring! We’ve received a fresh shipment of Momma Pots from San Diego. These gemstone cylinders are in stock in four sizes and many colors, including these electroplated gold beauties!

Starting at $23.99.

Among the designs created for San Francisco General Hospital Foundation’s annual Hearts of San Francisco fundraiser was this sculpture, by artist Jirsa, on display at the San Francisco Ferry Building.

Also at the Ferry Building, a four-person selfie was taken by a group in front of the Mr. Brainwash heart created by artist Thierry Guetta (rumored to be Banksy).

Sculptures by artists Marconi Calindas-Cafege and Julie Meridian were among those on display at the Ferry Building as part of the SF General Hospital’s annual Hearts of San Francisco project.

Heart sculptures, created by Kate Tova and Johnny Botts, were on display at the Ferry Building on Friday, February 11.

Rink Remembers Ron Ross (1936-2022)

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s spring approaches and we come up on the 2-year anniversary of the pandemic, I am taking a moment to reflect. There has been lots of fear and frustration.

There have been days where it is a miracle that I have any hair left on my head. There has been an unprecedented number of broken windows. Those are things I will never forget about these last 2 years, but they aren’t my takeaway. The most impactful thing about the last 2 years is the way my staff and our community pulled together to make it through this. My staff pushed aside their own fears to show up every day to take care of the rest of our community. They did what was necessary to keep each other safe. They supported each other when fear and tempers were high. Sure, they didn’t always do it perfectly and with grace, but they showed up and they tried. And our community showed up. They found ways to support local businesses. They followed the rules to keep our doors open.

And they supported us. It is because of this community that I can show up every day and keep going. My big takeaway from the last 2 years is that community matters and that is why I am here. https://cliffsvariety.com/

A native of New York who became fascinated with San Francisco history upon his arrival in 1968, Ron Ross is remembered as the founder in 1982 of the San Francisco History Association, which remains an important group dedicated to honoring our city’s colorful past, and to celebrating its rich culture.

Ross also earned admiration for his oversight of the annual ceremonies at Lotta’s Fountain on Kearny Street and the “Little Giant” fire hydrant (golden hydrant at 20th and Church Streets) held on April 18 commemorating the 1906 earthquake.

He tirelessly supported education projects on the history of San Francisco and also the LGBTQ community. Awards received over the years included an honorary San Francisco fire helmet from the Guardians of the City and then Fire Chief Joanne Hayes White. He also received a Certificate of Honor from Mayor London Breed for his work to preserve, restore, and remember San Francisco’s history.

A close friend of San Francisco Imperial Court founder José Sarria (The Absolute Empress, The Widow Norton), Ross was Mr. Gay San Francisco 1974 and was honored as the Imperial Czar of The Golden Gate Empire in 1976.

On April 18, 2022, at 5 am, the ceremony at Lotta’s Fountain will be dedicated to his memory. For more information: https://tinyurl.com/yc2pnr8f S AN F R ANC IS C O BAY T IM ES

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