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At A Glance
By Peg Rosen
• Children can be gifted and also have learning and attention issues.
• Many of these children go through school without being identified as having special talents or needs.
• You can help your child get more support.
“Your child is gifted and needs special education?” Many parents are all too familiar with this kind of comment. You may hear it from friends. From family. Even from some teachers and doctors.
Yet there are lots of people who have exceptional ability in some academic areas and significant learning difficulties in other areas. Educators use a special name to describe students who qualify for gifted programs as well as special education services. These children are referred to as “twice-exceptional” learners.
“Some organizations estimate that there are hundreds of thousands of twice-exceptional learners in U.S. schools.”
Consider Tessa: She’s a bright, insightful and enthusiastic fourth grader who is reading at a 12th-grade level. At the same time, she can’t pass her spelling tests, and writing is a huge struggle.
Consider Jamie: At 16, he knows everything about the Civil War, writes beautifully, and can talk endlessly about politics. Yet he needs a calculator to help him with even the most basic math. And he couldn’t tie his shoes until he was in seventh grade.
Consider Steven Spielberg: He’s one of the most successful filmmakers of all time, but reading has been a lifelong struggle for him because he has dyslexia.
Twice-Exceptional and Easily Overlooked
Some organizations estimate that there are hundreds of thousands of twice-exceptional learners in U.S. schools. But there are no hard numbers because so many of these students are never formally identified as being gifted, having a disability or both.
Twice-exceptional children tend to fall into one of three categories. These categories help explain why students often go through school without the services and stimulation they need:
• Students whose giftedness masks their learning and attention issues. These kids score high on tests for giftedness but may not do well in gifted programs. These students use their exceptional abilities to try to compensate for their weaknesses. But as they get older, they may be labeled as “underachievers” or “lazy” as they fall behind their gifted peers.
• Students whose learning and attention issues mask their giftedness. Learning and attention issues can affect performance on IQ tests and other assessments for giftedness. For example, since many of these tests require language skills, kids with language-based challenges may not perform well. These kids may be placed in special education classes, where they become bored and possibly act out because they aren’t being challenged enough. Some of these children are identified, wrongly, as having emotional problems.
• Students whose learning and attention issues and giftedness mask each other. These kids may appear to have average ability because their strengths and weaknesses “cancel each other out.” Consequently, these students may not qualify for gifted programs or for special education programs.
Identifying Twice-Exceptional Students
Federal law protects students with disabilities. School districts are required to look for children with disabilities and provide special education to those who qualify for it. Gifted education is a different animal.
There is no federal requirement for gifted education. Decisions about gifted programming are made at the state and local level. Few states specify what these services should be and which talents should be nurtured. This is often left up to individual school districts. And funding for gifted services can vary greatly from district to district.
Identifying twice-exceptional students tends to be a low priority. Often it takes a proactive parent to push for testing for both giftedness and learning and attention issues. But sometimes teachers are the first to raise the possibility.
Here are some early tip-offs that your child could be a twice-exceptional learner:
• Extraordinary talent in a particular area, such as math, drawing, verbal communication or music
• A significant gap between your child’s performance in school and his performance on aptitude tests
• Signs of a processing disorder, such as having trouble following spoken directions or stories that are read aloud
There isn’t a simple, one-test way of identifying twice-exceptional children. Ask your child’s school how it evaluates kids for giftedness and learning and attention issues. The process will likely include assessing your child’s strengths and weaknesses as well as observing him in class and other settings.
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At A Glance (cont'd)
It may be helpful for you and the teachers to keep records of what your child excels in and struggles with. Be on the lookout for “disconnects” between how hard he’s studying and what kinds of grades he’s making.
Social and Emotional Challenges
Giftedness can add to the social and emotional challenges that often come along with learning and attention issues. Here are some challenges that twice-exceptional learners may face:
Frustration: This is especially common among kids whose talents and learning issues have gone unnoticed or only partially addressed. These students may have high aspirations and resent the often-low expectations that others have for them. They may crave independence and struggle to accept that they need support for their learning and attention issues.
Like many gifted students, twice-exceptional learners may be striving for perfection. Nearly all the students who participated in one study of giftedness and learning disabilities reported that they “could not make their brain, body or both do what they wanted to do.” No wonder these kids are frustrated!
Low self-esteem: Without the right supports, children with learning and attention issues may lose confidence in their abilities or stop trying because they start to believe that failure is inevitable. This kind of negative thinking can add to the risk of depression.
Social isolation: Twice-exceptional kids often feel like they don’t fit into one world or another. They may not have the social skills to be comfortable with the students in their gifted classes. They may also have trouble relating to students in their remedial classes. This can lead twice-exceptional learners to wonder, “Where do I belong?” These children often find it easier to relate to adults than to kids their age.
How to Help Your Child
With the right supports and encouragement, twiceexceptional learners can flourish. (Just ask Steven Spielberg!) Here’s what you can do to help your child:
Talk to the school. If you suspect your child may be twice exceptional, request a meeting with the school’s special education coordinator. Discuss your concerns, and ask about types of tests.
Ask to stay in the gifted program. If your child has been identified as gifted but is not doing well in that program, request that he be assessed for learning and attention issues before any decisions are made about removing him from the program.
Make the most of your child’s IEP. If the school determines that your child is twice exceptional, use the annual goals in his Individualized Education Program (IEP) to address his weaknesses and nurture his gifts. Be prepared to brainstorm—and to be persistent!
Find other twice-exceptional kids. Encourage your child to spend time with children who have similar interests and abilities. This can help him celebrate his strengths and feel less isolated. You may be able to connect with twice-exceptional families through Understood’s parent community.
Empower your child. Help him understand what his gifts and weaknesses are. Reassure him that he can get support in the areas where he struggles. But resist the urge to rush in and rescue him every time he gets frustrated. It’s better to help him learn to cope with his mixed abilities.
By partnering with your child’s teachers, you can help your child develop his talents and achieve his full potential. Learn more about how to be an effective advocate for your child at school. Explore Parenting Coach for strategies on how to handle frustration and other everyday challenges. With your love and support, your child can move ahead and make the most of his gifts.
Key Takeaways
• Gifted children with undiagnosed learning and attention issues may appear to be “underachievers” or “lazy.”
• Twice-exceptional children are often at risk for social and emotional challenges.
• Your child’s IEP can address his weaknesses and nurture his strengths.
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A Parent’s Easy Guide to a Smooth Back-to-School Transition
Getting your child back into school mode after winter break can feel like a challenge. Here are practical, parentfriendly tips to make the transition a little smoother for everyone.
Re-Establish Routines & Expectations
After a long break, children often need time to settle back into familiar habits. A few days before school starts, revisit morning routines, bedtime schedules, and homework expectations. If certain routines weren’t working before the break, now is a great time to adjust them or let them go completely.
Practice Patience (With Yourself, Too!)
The first week back can feel bumpy. Kids may be tired, emotional, or unmotivated—and parents often feel the same way. Give your child (and yourself) extra grace as you ease back into the school rhythm.
Rebuild Connection
Children thrive when they feel a sense of belonging. Spend a little time talking
about friends, teachers, and what they’re looking forward to at school. These conversations help rebuild excitement and confidence.
Set Fresh Goals Together
The new year is a perfect reset button. Encourage your child to choose a simple personal or academic goal—like staying organized, reading more, or trying a new activity. Parents can set goals too, such as creating calmer mornings or staying more consistent with routines.
Bring Back the Fun
Think about the activities your child enjoyed at school before break—reading time, art, sports, or certain subjects. Remind them of the things they love about school. This can help rebuild enthusiasm and reduce back-to-school jitters.
Stay in Close Communication
Reconnect with your child’s teacher if needed. Share any changes that happened over the break—new medications, family adjustments, or concerns. Being on the same page makes the transition smoother for your child.
Lead With Empathy
Not all winter breaks are joyful. Some children return to school feeling overwhelmed, tired, or emotionally drained. Watch for signs that your child might be struggling, and give them space to talk when they’re ready. Your understanding will help them ease back into routine with confidence.
I am bored! I have nothing to do!
How often has your child said, “I am bored. I have nothing to do.” ere is so much new technology available for our children today to educate, communicate and entertain. But sometimes they just need another activity to break the monotony and do something di erent. Most often they want to spend time with you. Below are some suggestions of fun activities you can do at home with items you already have on hand.
One of my favorites is to build a fort: take some old sheets, blankets, pillows and lay them over several chairs. You and your child can sit or lie underneath and let your imagination take over. You can get a ashlight for additional lighting. Your child can bring their favorite stu ed animal into their fort and you can read a story, talk about the characters, laugh and enjoy your time together. is activity is fun for the whole family and you can adapt it to your child’s ability.
Have a scavenger hunt: take some items from around the house, i.e., a stu ed animal, a bright colored ball, a squeaky toy, doll or action gure, items from the kitchen are fun, a spatula, bright colored bowl, the choices are endless. Make a list of the items, hide the items (make sure to consider the
age and ability of your child to reach the treasures they nd). Depending on your child’s age, let them take the list and go around looking for the items. You can take the list around and read o the items for them. At the end of your scavenger hunt have a special treat such as a favorite snack.
Pull out paper, crayons, pencils whatever you have around the house, sit down and draw or color pictures with your child. Coloring can be very therapeutic and relaxing. Don’t worry about what they draw or staying in the lines just enjoy the time you are spending together.
I hope these suggestions will inspire you with ideas of your own. Just remember, the cost is zero, the time with your child is priceless.
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