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Supporting My Child in MYP
The IB MYP program can be challenging and stressful for children, but we're here to help. We've collected valuable tips from Ibu Sofia, a parent at SPH LV, to empower you and your child during the MYP journey. Explore these insights to support your child's education and well-being!
Be Generous with Encouragement:
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In the midst of the challenges of MYP life demanding academics, social responsibilities, and self-discovery—our children need our encouragement. There is no need to nag or correct them very often because the children already know what they need to do; they are still struggling. Encouragement shows acceptance, lifts spirits, builds connections, and boosts courage during difficult times.
Focus on the Process, Not the Results:
Mistakes are part of the learning journey, so instead of fixating on grades, encourage them to focus on the learning process. Help them develop skills in self-management, responsibility, planning, prioritization, and selfcontrol. Mastering these processes will naturally lead to positive outcomes. Celebrate every small win on their path to forming good habits.
Consciously Retreat and Give Space:
During the transition from childhood to young adulthood, our children undergo significant changes. It's important for us to consciously retreat and give them space to make decisions for themselves. Expect inefficiencies, mistakes, and missed opportunities. This space allows them to grow and become independent adults.
Be Kind and Helpful:
Loving our children is essential, but it's equally important to show kindness and offer help. Avoid falling into the trap of selfish love. Take the time to understand their needs, treat them kindly, and provide the support they require. Love them fiercely, but be flexible in your approach.
Fighting for Our Children on Our Knees
Fighting for Our Children on Our Knees: Envision your child growing into a reliable, responsible, respectful, selfdisciplined, and thoughtful individual. Surrender your vision of their future to a higher power, and pray for guidance. Remember that your children are on their own journey, and it's our role as temporary stewards to raise them with love. Trust that with faith, we will be equipped with the power and wisdom needed for this parenting task.