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Wedding Fall–Winter 2019–2020

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VP Advertising Ralph D’Onofrio Editor Colin Mixson Art DIrector Leah Mitch Production Staff Arthur Arutyunov Connie Sulsenti

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42 Upstate escape A Staten Island couple heads to the country for their dream wedding

22 Unfamiliar rings Alternatives to a traditional engagement ring

46 Set for romance Brooklyn couple wed in a paradise next to Hudson River

24 Are you a wedding expert?

Give yourself a crash course on the sometimes-confusing terminology

Planning

26 Don’t get sabotaged by shoes Secrets to preventing wedding day foot pain

12 On with the show Get the most out of bridal shows and wedding events 14 Touched by your presents Building a registry that makes sense for everyone 16 Know the territory The benefits of hiring local wedding vendors

Advice 18 No worries!

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32 White wedding Tips for keeping your gown perfectly spotless before, during, and after your big day

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34 Dream dresses Picking something perfect for you

Extras 8 Wedding checklist 50 Wedding Horoscopes

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wedding checklist It is exciting to get engaged to the man you love — but the minute you do so, you start a countdown that won’t reach zero until you are on your honeymoon. To properly plan, use our handy wedding checklist below: 12 months before the big day ■■ First, decide on a ceremony and reception site. Make sure right away if it can accommodate all your needs.

■■ Set the date.

■■ Decide on a caterer if catering on-site is unavailable.

■■ Begin shopping for your attire.

■■ Start shopping for attendants’ attires.

the resulting photos will not capture the love you feel if the photographer does not feel it.

■■ Look into wedding-day transportation. Do you want a limo, horse and carriage, limo bus?

■■ Begin drafting your guest list.

■■ Keep it fun — wedding planning is stressful, but not if you’re on the same page and have fun with it.

obligation to invite anyone who might ruin your day.

■■ Compile addresses of guests. Mail savethe-date cards to out-of-town guests.

■■ Search for wedding favors.

■■ Consider honeymoon spots. Call travel agencies for best packages. Keep having fun with the process.

4–6 months out

■■ Decide who will play important roles in your wedding like best man, maid of honor, flower girl, and ring bearer.

6–9 months out

■■ Begin searching for hair and makeup artists.

■■ Discuss the menu with caterer.

■■ Complete the guest list.

■■ If using a wedding consultant, meet and provide her or him with your vision of the wedding day. Remember, that person works for you, not the other way around.

■■ Finalize wedding-day transportation.

■■ Order invitations and other stationery.

Think about what “look” and wording you want.

■■ Begin search for wedding bands.

■■ Hire a florist. Again, remember that this person works for you, so make sure you are happy with the florist’s approach.

A true pro will help you work out table settings, extra flowers for wedding party members, etc.

■■ Hire a photographer and a videographer.

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■■ Book band, musicians, or DJ service.

■■ Purchase wedding bands and engrave a special saying.

■■ Set up your wedding registry.

■■ Purchase accessories, shoes, and undergarments for first fitting.

■■ Ask friends to be key players. Key players are trustworthy pals on whom you can rely for crucial tasks. The key players are not part of the immediate wedding party since they will be busy with photo shoots.

■■ Fine-tune the guest list. Remember, this is your day, not theirs. You are under no

■■ Book wedding-day transportation.

■■ Book hotel for wedding night, if applicable.

■■ Select and order the cake. Be sure to have a topper that represents you and your spouse as a couple.

■■ Continue to compile a list of duties for key players.

■■ Mail hotel and city information to out-oftown guests.

■■ Complete insurance issues, such as coverage for the rings, as needed.

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items they are responsible for.

■■ Write a toast for the rehearsal dinner.

■■ Pack for the honeymoon.

■■ Leave honeymoon itinerary with someone in case of emergency.

One day out ■■ Double-check that you have packed your clothes and other personal items for the next day.

■■ De-stress your body. Consider deep breathing and other relaxation exercises such as yoga.

■■ Allocate enough time to have fun with out-of-town guests.

■■ Enjoy your rehearsal dinner.

■■ Make time to spend alone with your husband-to-be. Soak up the moment together.

■■ Have fun.

Overall tips ■■ Remind your fiance to order his tux or suit.

■■ Let the DJ or band know of special songs you would like played at the ceremony and reception.

■■ Purchase wedding favors.

2–4 months out ■■ Get your marriage license application.

■■ Mail out invitations. Hint: make sure to number each invitation, because people often forget to write their name on the response card. This way, you can track it.

■■ Gather all necessary travel documents such as passports and visas. Get immunizations for honeymoon if necessary.

■■ Finalize menu.

■■ Finalize ceremony and reception music.

■■ Finalize favors or create your own.

■■ Buy thank-you gifts for wedding party and key players.

■■ Book your hair and makeup artists.

■■ Book times for fittings. Bring your accessories. Aim to schedule hair and makeup trial on the same day to get a look at the complete package.

■■ Begin finalizing seating arrangements.

■■ Begin to plan receiving line, timeline, and itinerary of the day.

■■ Purchase guest book, cake knife, champagne glasses, garters, etc.

■■ Keep having fun with the process. It is nuts! You are getting married!

name changes.

■■ Finalize list of must-have photos. Give a copy to photographer and key players.

■■ Complete seating plan as RSVPs arrive.

• Laughter is the best beauty tip. A smile goes a long way.

■■ Get a pre-wedding trim and spa treatment so you feel your best during this stressful time.

• Remember to implement the stress-buster techniques you and your fiance agreed to use.

■■ Write your vows. Let the officiant know of any readings or other special requests.

• Always tell your loved one why you love him.

■■ Confirm date for rehearsal.

■■ Finalize list of responsibilities for key players and wedding party.

■■ Have a friendly get-together with everyone and distribute responsibilities.

■■ Book time for final fitting.

■■ Arrange a rehearsal dinner one or two days before the wedding. Invite wedding party and key players.

■■ Confirm honeymoon plans.

■■ Make checklist of items to bring for the honeymoon.

■■ Finalize receiving line, timeline, and itinerary of the day.

2–3 weeks out ■■ Finalize seating plan. Call guests who have not returned RSVPs. ■■ Have your final fitting.

■■ If you have a gown, pick it up and hang it in a cool, dry place, away from sunlight.

■■ Confirm details with all vendors.

■■ Tackle applicable legal matters, such as

■■ Arrange times for key players to pick up

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• Trust your wedding party and key players.

■■ Finalize songs for the ceremony and reception.

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No matter what kind of wedding you are having, hundreds of years of human experience offers some tried-and-true tips for making sure your big day is the best day it can be. Here are some:

• Assume that about 20 percent of your guest list will not attend, so invite extras accordingly.

• Walk around in your wedding shoes before the big day so that they are properly broken in.

• Plan a special dinner with your hubbie-tobe without any wedding talk. Just relax and enjoy a night together.

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ecently engaged couples may be excited to get a jump on wedding planning. Bridal shows can be a great way for couples to meet and familiarize themselves with local wedding professionals, all the while introducing themselves to the terminology of wedding planning.

Though they’re a great source of information, contacts and samples, bridal shows also can be a bit overwhelming.

Learning how to maximize time spent at shows can help couples plan their weddings as efficiently as possible.

Start small If the idea of large crowds is unappealing, attend the more intimate, boutique shows that are often held at local reception halls and restaurants instead of the larger installations at convention centers and hotels.

Scout out vendors Check the bridal show’s website for lists of exhibitors and see if your desired vendors are on the list. But even if they’re not, keep an open mind and use the show as a chance to compare offerings. If an event map is available, marking off mustvisit booths can help save time.

Pre-register Pre-registering for bridal events saves time at check-in, and doing so may make you eligible for discounted tickets.

Come prepared Chances are each vendor is going to ask couples for information so that they can follow up with a phone call or email with more detailed offerings and estimates.

Couples attending the show can expediate the process by coming equipped with labels that feature their names, contact information and wedding date. They can then stick the labels on sign-in sheets or use them like business cards.

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Dress comfortably Bridal expos involve a lot of walking and roaming around. Wear comfortable clothing and shoes. Consider a backpack or hands-free bag so you are not weighed down when collecting the swag and other handouts throughout the day.

Ask questions When face-to-face with vendors, rely on their expertise but don’t hesitate to ask questions concerning themes, colors, recommendations for honeymoon

locations, invitation paper suggestions, and much more.

Stay for the fashion show Many shows will offer a runway experience to present the latest gown and tuxedo offerings. This can be an entertaining way for couples to formulate their wedding styles.

Wedding shows introduce couples to vendors and set them on the path to making decisions regarding the planning of their weddings.

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items that weren’t purchased. So even if no one purchases the more expensive items, including them on a registry may significantly reduce their cost for couples who want to buy such items themselves after tying the knot.

Make a large list Some couples are hesitant to make large wedding registries, feeling that doing so gives the impression that they’re asking for too much. But large registries simply give guests more options to choose from.

Many industry insiders advise registering for two to three gifts per guest. That might seem like a lot, but guests will appreciate having all of those options.

But be sure to Vary the prices of items on the list In addition to including more expensive items on the registry, make sure to include moderately priced and inexpensive items. This gives guests more options and ensures guests who might be spending a lot to travel to and from the wedding can still purchase gifts without digging too much deeper into their pockets.

Don’t hesitate to include expensive items Couples also may be hesitant to include especially expensive items on their wedding registries. However, the couples’ parents and other close relatives may be honored to purchase more expensive items, so couples should not feel embarrassed to include them on their lists. It’s also important to note that many retailers, after couples’ wedding days have come and gone, discount registry

Periodically update the registries Periodically update your registries to remove items you have already received and to add items if many of the less expensive ones have already been purchased. This also makes things more convenient for guests.

Building a registry that makes sense for everyone

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uilding a wedding registry is a task unlike any other couples may encounter during their lifetimes.

Wedding registries are invaluable resources that provide engaged couples’ loved ones with gift suggestions. In spite of that value, couples may find it daunting and even a little uncomfortable to build their wedding registries.

Building a wedding registry can feel like walking a tightrope. Couples likely won’t want to ask for too much or for gifts that are too expensive, but a poorly built registry can be a major inconvenience for guests. The following tips can help couples build adequate registries that benefit them without asking too much of their guests.

Register with more than one store It’s important to register with more than one store. Doing so makes things as convenient as possible for guests and increases the chances they will be able to shop at stores they’re familiar with.

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Know the territory The benefits of hiring local wedding vendors

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ocal vendors are often a go-to choice when couples are planning their wedding ceremonies and receptions. As the “shop local” movement grows in popularity, weddings present a prime opportunity to embrace this movement.

Couples may have different ideas regarding where to tie the knot, but local vendors can be hired regardless of geography. Brides magazine says the biggest factor influencing wedding location is the size of the guest list and the number of people who wouldn’t be able to attend if the wedding was in a particular locale. Hometowns might be the traditional choice regarding wedding location, but the XO Group says one in four couples now host destination weddings.

Once couples choose a town or city to host their weddings, they can begin exploring the benefits of working with locally-based vendors.

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Familiarity Local vendors will be familiar with the area and possibly even the location where the wedding will be held. That can help couples avoid having to give directions, discuss venue protocols, and handle other tasks that must be worked out with nonlocal vendors.

For example, local photographers familiar with a particular venue will know all of the best places to get shots, and some vendors may have preexisting relationships with venue representatives that could ensure wedding day operations go smoothly.

Proximity Local vendors can meet with brides and grooms more readily throughout the planning process, making things less stressful on the happy couple. This also makes it easier to drop off deposits, attend meetings, make fitting appointments, or attend styling sessions.

Savings Couples who travel for their weddings and employ local vendors will not have to pack as much. Using local vendors eliminates the need to bring along bulky dresses, decorative items, flowers, and much more. Plus, couples needn’t pay to transport and house vendors brought along from back home.

Environment Individuals who take great strides to conserve resources by reducing their energy consumption and protecting the environment often find that shopping local is beneficial. Local vendors are more likely to source their materials from other local businesses, reducing their carbon footprints along the way.

For example, local caterers may rely on local farmers for their foods, affording couples the chance to host eco-friendly or even farm-to-table weddings.

Customization Working with local vendors often translates into getting more personalized service and attention than mass retailers or merchants can provide.

Going local when choosing wedding vendors is an increasingly popular choice among couples about to tie the knot.

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ouples spend thousands of dollars on their wedding ceremony and celebrations. The cost of a wedding varies depending on geographic location, but according to the business and financial resource Business Insider and The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study, the average wedding in the United States costs $31,391.

Insurance policies can help couples protect their wedding investment. Special event insurance provides coverage for various scenarios, including extreme weather, damaged gifts, lost jewelry, vendor cancellations or no-shows, venues

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closing before the wedding, and canceled weddings, according to Travelers Insurance.

Insurance also may cover other unforseen scenarios, such as unexpected expenses from injuries during the wedding or spoiled food.

Policies will pay directly for any damage or injuries that occur, or reimburse the couple if the wedding is postponed or canceled. If weddings occur at home, some people’s home insurance or umbrella policies may cover certain wedding liabilities. Most wedding venues carry their own liability insurance, so

couples may not have to overlap there.

However, for those who desire extra protection for vendor mishaps, it is wise to speak with an insurance professional about special wedding coverage.

Prices for wedding insurance policies can start at around $100 to $200 for minimum coverage and reach $1,000 for more expensive ceremonies, according to the financial advisement website NerdWallet.

Speak with an insurance agent and read policies carefully before purchasing one. Non-covered issues typically include theft or loss of an engagement ring; rainy days that do not classify as extreme weather; switching vendors after a deposit is made; and risky entertainment, such as fireworks or live animals.

Protecting wedding expenditures with insurance policies can provide couples with added peace of mind on their big days.

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hopping for a wedding gown is a tradition that follows shortly after the engagement has taken place and the ceremony date is set. Some women have very clear ideas of which type of silhouette and features they desire in a wedding gown, while others are open to suggestion. Most brides-tobe hope to look their most radiant in this custom-tailored creation.

According to Kim Forrest, the editor of WeddingWire, an online marketplace for wedding-related items, strapless dresses are the standard for wedding attire, and that trend is unlikely top change anytime soon. Style directors for Martha Stewart Weddings agree, saying that roughly 75 percent of wedding dresses are strapless, although some alternative necklines are starting to become more popular. With so much attention directed their way, brides might look for ways to tone their upper bodies in advance of the big day.

Arm-, chest- and shoulder-toning exercises can be part of a strong fitness regimen. The upper arms and the shoulders have no fewer than nine primary muscles that will need firming for brides to make an impact while walking down the aisle.

Tame flabby areas with exercise.

According to the University of Connecticut, the upper arms are a part of the female body where fat tends to be stored, along with the hips and thighs.

Toning this area may take a combination of diet and exercise.

Begin with the biceps, which are the front muscles of the arms directly above the elbows. Biceps are one of the stronger arm muscles, and bicep curls can help strengthen biceps further.

Shape magazine suggests performing 12 repetitions of three hand positions, palms up, palms down and thumbs to the side, to really work this area.

The triceps are a single muscle that have three sections, according to Fitness.

Doing triceps kick-backs, bench dips

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and triangle push-ups can really activate these muscles and cause them to become stronger and more toned.

Strengthening and elongating shoulder muscles may take a combination of exercises that work not only the deltoids (muscles surrounding the shoulders), but the chest and back as well. Arm raises,

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Brides who want to tone up can speak with a fitness instructor at a nearby gym to learn the various ways to firm their arms, chests and backs in advance of their wedding days.

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Unfamiliar rings Alternatives to a traditional engagement ring

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ngagement rings are often sizable investments. Money magazine reports the average engagement ring costs around $5,800. An engagement ring symbolizes the start of a lifelong commitment and may even set the tone for a couple’s wedding day.

Jewelry styles are personal, and grooms-to-be should carefully research their significant others’ preferences in terms of precious metals, colors and gemstones.

Even though tradition holds that a diamond gemstone is classic for engagement rings, these precious stones are not the only options. In fact, before World War II, just 10 percent of proposals involved diamond engagement rings.

That number jumped to 80 percent by 1990. However, many modern couples now lean toward other offerings not only for the uniqueness they provide, but also for the potential cost savings.

Those seeking something unique can embrace these engagement ring options.

Amethyst This vibrant, lavender-hued stone can be breathtaking when cut the correct way.

Purple shades have long been associated

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with royalty, making an amethyst fitting for such an occasion as special as an engagement. Because amethysts, which are less expensive than diamonds, are a seven on the Mohs scale for gemstone hardness, they can be very durable.

Knot rings These rings do not have a center stone.

Rather, they’re designed to be a tied knot or infinity symbol. These rings can be particularly sentimental as they represent true, unbroken love.

Opal Gemstones, like flowers, have been assigned certain meanings. Tying the engagement ring to one of them can infuse more symbolism into the relationship. Opal, for example, represents love, passion, creativity, spontaneity, and inspiration. Those traits seem tailor-made for surprise proposals.

Sapphire While sapphire stones often are blue, they can also be yellow, green, pink, and white.

Sapphires are the third hardest mineral.

A white sapphire can be the perfect diamond replacement.

Garnet or ruby Red is the definitive color of love. A Valentine’s Day proposal can be made even more special by presenting an engagement ring with a red gemstone.

Moissanite The jewelry source Brilliant Earth says moissanite is a gemstone first discovered in 1893 by Henri Moissan in a meteorite that fell to earth. It is remarkably similar to a diamond in appearance and strength.

Moissanite also has heightened brilliance, with a refractive index higher than that of a diamond.

Couples have many beautiful alternatives to diamonds that they can explore when shopping for engagement rings.

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Are you a wedding expert?

Give yourself a crash course on the sometimes-confusing terminology

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ouples about to embark on their wedding journeys will likely learn a thing or two about party planning once their engagements are over and they are newly married. Wedding planning can seem overwhelming and a tad confusing at times, but a crash course in wedding terminology can help couples make more informed choices along the way.

Blusher: A short, single-layer veil that covers the bride’s face before the ceremony.

Boutonnière: A single flower bud worn by the men in the bridal party.

Canapés: Bite-sized appetizers served during the cocktail hour of a reception.

Civil ceremony: A marriage ceremony conducted by a council official or justice of the peace at a municipal location rather than in a house of worship.

Cocktail hour: Typically an hourlong interlude between the wedding ceremony and the main dinner of the reception. Guests have time to arrive and mingle before being seated.

Corkage fee: A fee some establishments charge to allow guests to bring their own wine.

Dais: A podium or platform raised from the floor where the bride and groom are seated.

Deposit: A percentage of the total cost of service given to a vendor to secure a date for their services.

Dragées: Round, small edible balls of sugar that appear on wedding cakes.

Escort (seating) cards: Printed cards that direct reception guests to their seats.

Fondant: A sweet, plyable product used to decoratively cover layered cakes. It can be used in lieu of straight buttercream.

Handle wrap: Ribbon or fabric that wraps

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around the stems of a bouquet the bride and wedding party carries.

Maid/matron of honor: The title given to the woman who assists the bride and stands closest to her at the altar. “Maids” are those who are unmarried, while “matrons” are women who are.

Master of ceremonies: An individual who will work with the DJ or band to announce the various components of the wedding reception.

Nosegay: A small bouquet or flower arrangement typically given to the mothers of the bride and groom before

the ceremony.

Processional/Recessional: Musical pieces that mark the entrance and exit from the wedding ceremony.

Receiving line: A line of the key people in the wedding who welcome and greet guests.

Stationery: All of the paper products used at the wedding, including invitations, programs and enclosures.

Tablescape: A word that describes the multiple components of centerpiece designs.

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Secrets to preventing wedding day foot pain

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ome couples may get cold feet on their wedding days, but there’s no reason for anyone — including brides who don high heels in the name of fashion — to endure foot pain.

Foot pain is a common complaint for those unaccustomed to wearing stilettos or formal footwear. Wedding attire is not worn every day, so it’s no surprise that wedding footwear may contribute to some aches and pains.

Podiatrists warn that heels between one and two inches in height are the best to maintain foot health. But that heel size does not work for all brides.

Brides-to-be, bridesmaids, and others can employ these tips to keep their feet pain-free throughout the ceremony and reception: Give your feet a break. Swap out a higher heel with a lower one every couple of hours. Do not wait until you start feeling pain to switch to a lower heel or more comfortable shoe.

Choose shoes that fit and leave a little room. Standing and dancing can cause feet to swell, sometimes as much as one half-size larger. Make sure the shoes you plan to wear to the wedding afford potentially swollen feet a little breathing room.

Slip in a pair of insoles. Stores carry a variety of insoles that can add cushioning, distribute weight, and prevent rubbing or chafing of the feet.

Break in the shoes. It’s not a good idea to wear a brand-new pair of shoes when you know you’ll be on your feet most of the day. Instead, purchase wedding shoes several weeks in advance of the event.

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of socks to stretch out straps and enable them to mold to your foot shape. Wearing them in advance also helps identify spots that rub or are likely to cause blisters.

Consider wearing stockings. It’s now less of a fashion faux pas to attend formal events with bare legs than it once was, but it may be in your best interest to wear a pair of stockings to a wedding. The thin material will help alleviate rubbing

and hot spots from skin-on-shoe direct contact.

Stretch and soak feet prior and afterward. Wearing heels can put strain on your calves, creating extra pain.

Stretch your feet and legs whenever possible. And after a long night, make sure a pedicure is one of the first spa experiences you enjoy on your honeymoon.

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Mr. handsome Wedding advice for the well-groomed groom

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eddings are a chance for couples tying the knot to be the center of attention. All eyes will be glued to the bride and groom on this special day, which makes it even more important for couples to look their collective best.

Brides might garner most of the attention on a couple’s wedding day, but dashing grooms also will get their share of attention.

As a result, grooms must be just as diligent as their blushing brides with regard to grooming and appearance on their wedding days. To look pictureperfect, grooms may want to include these grooming tips in their wedding day preparation:

Hair Schedule a haircut with a professional stylist roughly a week before the wedding to get your hair shaped and trimmed.

Although trendy hairstyles may show off creativity, keep in mind that photos last forever, and it’s often better to stick with a classic cut. A barber or stylist may suggest styles that best suit your face shape and hair texture. Above all, the haircut should be neat. Resist the urge to wash your hair every day before the wedding. Allow some natural oils to build up and make your hair shine in a healthy way.

Hands Grooms also may want to book a manicure. Keep in mind that salons will do men’s nonpolish manicures and pedicures, and they can be well worth the investment. Photos of entwined hands or close-ups of the ring exchange will have guests zeroing in on your fingers. Have hands look their best with clean, shaped fingernails and trimmed cuticles.

Shaving Shaving is another thing grooms must consider. If you have a beard, make sure it is clean, combed and trimmed. Men who shave the day of their weddings may find their skin is sensitive and irritated, which can lead to redness. Unless your facial hair grows especially fast, shave the evening before. This is a good time to splurge on a professional shave with a straight razor at a barber shop. A hot shave from a professional will produce a close shave with the least amount of irritation when done correctly.

Skin Get plenty of sleep the night prior to the wedding. Being well rested will help reduce puffy eyes, dark circles, and sallow skin. It will also put you in a more positive mood, which can help you enjoy the day even more.

The day of the wedding, shower using water and a mild soap. Avoid any skin irritation by patting your face and body dry, rather than rubbing it with the towel.

Moisturize your skin to avoid dry patches.

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more masculine fragrances.

Reducing shine is key for wedding day photos. Rely on face and hair products that will not add unnecessary sheen to your skin or hair to avoid making you look greasy. Matte hair waxes and sprays will tame tresses. Also, ask your fianceé to pick you up a package of blotting tissues if you are prone to oily skin. These absorbent, typically rice-paper sheets will remove oil from your face and keep sheen to a minimum.

Smile Make sure your teeth have been thoroughly brushed and that you have used a minty mouthwash so you’re primed for that first kiss. Many grooms also opt for whitening treatments prior to the wedding so they have a dazzling smile.

On their wedding days, grooms will likely be photographed more than any other time in their lives. That means putting extra effort into personal grooming to look their best.

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Clothing styles, time of day and weather all can dictate a wedding hairstyle, but ultimately one of the most important factors in a wedding hairstyle is finding a stylist who understands you and can exercise your vision.

A patient, understanding stylist who is open to viewing different photographs and drawing inspiration from various places, as well as running through a few trial styles, can help brides (and grooms) look their best. In fact, trials are a must to ensure that a chosen style will work with your hair texture.

If you plan to get your hair colored, professionals recommend doing so about three weeks in advance of the big day so it looks natural and any potential snafus can be remedied beforehand. Your stylist

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Whitewedding Tips for keeping your gown perfectly spotless before, during, and after your big day

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any brides walk down the aisle in white gowns, which have long been considered the most traditional choice. Wearing white can be a frightening prospect to some brides, who fear that white clearly shows every blemish or stain. Protecting a white dress so it looks pristine on one’s wedding day takes a little effort, but such efforts are well worth it.

Before the wedding When trying on the gown, be sure that your hands are clean and you are not wearing any makeup. You may want to wear a thin pair of gloves so any oils from your hands are not transferred to the gown. If anyone helps you in and out of the gown, ensure their hands also are clean.

Try on the gown sparingly before the wedding, ideally only for fittings. When you are not trying it on, store it in a protective garment bag until it needs to be steamed just prior to the wedding.

Some seamstresses or tailors will hold onto the gown until the final alterations are done and then steam out any wrinkles prior to delivery.

Wedding day On the day of the wedding, resist the urge to handle the gown early in the day. The gown should be the last thing you put on during wedding day preparations.

Wait until just before departing for the service to get fully dressed in your gown. Again, make sure your hands and the hands of any helpers are clean. Ask for help so that the gown can be placed gingerly over your head, avoiding any makeup in the process.

Some brides may find it helpful to leave lipstick application for the very last step in getting ready. Should an accident occur, bright lipstick on the white gown can be especially difficult to conceal.

Pack an emergency stain-fighting kit to bring along to the ceremony and reception. This way, should a minor stain occur, it can be treated right away. Use sparingly because you will not know just how the cleaning product will react with the gown’s fabric, and overuse may make the stain worse. If possible, test the 32

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product on a small swatch of gown fabric prior to use.

After the wedding Use caution when removing the gown and then promptly repackage it into its garment bag.

After the wedding, take the gown to a professional dry cleaner to have it cleaned and preserved.

Then the gown can be used by future generations or simply saved as a keepsake.

White gowns are traditional wedding fixtures. Brides-to-be can keep their gowns looking beautiful throughout and after the wedding.

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Upstate escape

A Staten Island couple heads to the country for their dream wedding

By Camille Sperraza | Photos by sarah Tew Photography

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he was born in Gravesend, and he was born in Bensonhurst, but the now-Staten Island residents wanted a country setting for their wedding.

Laura and Ron Shea said the Buttermilk Falls Inn and Spa in Milton, NY, “had a little bit of everything we were looking for,” including the fact that their dog could be part of the festivities.

She took note that, “It would be a barn wedding, but not too rustic.” Another advantage was that, “The sprawling farm had modern, clean cottages so that we and the guests could stay on site and make a weekend of it.”

The one thing she feared about having an outdoor wedding was the weather. So - “Surprise! It poured rain that day,” she said.

But the Rain Gods must have decided to offer some kindness to the couple, because the downpour stopped at 2:50 pm, just in time for their First Look. Then, it stopped again at 4:55 pm, in time for the start of the 5 pm outdoor ceremony. “After that, it didn’t matter,” said Laura, as the reception was held indoors.

Still, Laura had planned ahead by purchasing clear umbrellas for the wedding party, to which she had added lights, run on battery packs. This made for a great photo op in the evening when, with umbrellas raised, and surrounded by puddles of rain illuminating the premises, it looked like the party was walking around with a halo of lights from above.

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prior to the wedding, Dave, one of Ron’s best friends, was killed in a tragic motorcycle accident. The couple included Dave’s leather jacket in their wedding ceremony, propping it in a manner so that it was in line with all the other groomsmen. As a gift to her husband, Laura later had a friend photo-shop Dave’s face above the jacket.

Other personal touches that made the wedding unique included serving some pub-grub style food during the cocktail hour — Ron’s favorites, such as French fries, chips and dips. The couple decided against having a traditional wedding cake. Instead, they brought to the country a taste of what adorns countless city grocery shelves — Entenmann’s apple puffs. It happens to be their very favorite dessert. It took about 90 puffs to build a tower of sweetness. “And that’s what we fed each other,” says Laura.

No ordinary cake topper would do either. Instead, two bears dressed as a bride and a groom, crowned the pile of puffs. It was a gift Ron had presented to Laura after proposing, at the end of a hike the two had taken.

The couple met when they were both working as summer camp counselors in Staten Island, about nine years prior to their Sept. 14, 2019 wedding.

They wrote very personalized vows which they exchanged in front of their 80 guests. “So many people came up to me and said this was the best wedding they ever went to,” said Laura. “I cried happy tears at the end of the night because it was the best day of my life.”

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(Left to right, from top) Laura and Ron Shea treat each other to an apple puff. The wedding couple share their first dance. The bride and groom kiss atop a stone bridge over a babbling brook.

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Romance Brooklyn couple wed in a paradise next to Hudson River By camille sperraza | Photos by Sarah Tew Photography

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Vendors Venue Monteverde at Oldstone Wedding gown Anna Maier Bride’s shoes Alexandre Birman Hair & Makeup Brushed With Honey Groom’s attire Hugo Boss Officiant Rabbi Steve Meltz Invitation Design Bella Figura Floral Design Julia Rosa Catering Monteverde at Oldstone Music EBE Paris Ketubah Daniel Azoulay Rings HH Jewelry Jewelry Audry Rose Jewelry Catbird Veil Saks 5th Ave Programs Stationery Invitation Cake Lulu Cake Boutique Videographer Lucas Berg at Mesh Films Tent lighting Stortz Lighting

(Clockwise from top) Lauren and Harrison Katz lock eyes on the steps outside Monteverde at Oldstone. Guests lift the wedding couple for the horah. The groom kisses the bride with the Hudson River in view. Lauren and Harrison cut the cake.

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hen you anticipate 260 guests, where do you hold the wedding?

Manhattanites Lauren and Harrison Katz decided upon Monteverde at Oldstone, an hour’s drive from the city, in Westchester, because they love the Hudson Valley. The historic property dates back to 1760, built by the Van Cortlandt family. One of its later owners included Gladys Sullivan, Travel and Aviation Editor of the Brooklyn Daily Eagle.

The majestic views of the Hudson River and the stunning grounds would provide the perfect backdrop for their photos, taken by Sarah Tew. The couple also liked that the on-site wedding coordinator, Mary Ellen, “had a buttonedup rain plan” in case Mother Nature decided to rain on their parade. On the other hand, the weather could be stifling hot on Aug. 31st of Labor Day Weekend, so Lauren had the wedding programs serve double duty by printed them on hand-held fans.

It turned out to be a perfect day. “There was a beautiful breeze,” said Lauren, and all guests mentioned that an eagle soared overhead during the outdoor ceremony, adding beauty and mystique to the mesmerizing scene.

Other magical moments included six children — nieces and nephews of the couple — walking down the aisle, as well as their three grandmothers.

Lauren and Harrison exchanged hand-written letters before their First Look, and recited traditional Jewish vows during the ceremony which included a Ketubah

signing. Their first dance was to Al Green’s song, “Let’s Stay Together.”

Lauren said she wanted the wedding to have a warm and romantic vibe so selected flowers that were peach, pink, and white, sprinkled with greenery. “They were light, and complemented the scenery,” she said, turning out to be exactly the look she sought. The three-tiered buttercream wedding cake was adorned with some of the same flowers. “It was simple and elegant.”

During the cocktail hour, a Signature Cocktail, called the Garden Gin and Tonic, was among the offerings, because gin and tonic happens to be Harrison’s favorite drink. Their personalized version added fresh fruit to the fizz.

There were speeches, and Lauren’s dad spoke for 21 minutes. Yes, they timed it. It was a beautiful monologue, during which he saluted three special women in his life: Lauren’s mother, her grandmother, and then, of course, the bride — along with the groom. He made mention that his mother — Lauren’s grandmother — had bounced back from a car accident, and the 90-year-old was dancing the night away.

When the reception ended, the celebration continued with an after-party, held on the patio. Immediate members of the family stayed at the nine rooms located on property. Others were accommodated at a local Marriott, with shuttle buses leaving at staggered times throughout the evening.

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a parting gift

horoscopes CAPRICORN Dec. 22–Jan. 19

Capricorn takes commitment seriously. If she’s going to utter sacred vows and then seal them with “till death do us part,” she’s going to mean it. Cue Capricorn Kate Moss waiting until she was 37 to tie the knot. Your wedding needs to be understated with a VIP twist — Moss’s fashionable affair ended up in the pages of Vogue, after all — and family is big, too. Moss and daughter Lila Grace had a private wedding photo shoot while extended family, like longtime friends John Galliano, designed her dress and Mario Testino, who has shooting the model since she was 16, photographed the event.

AQUARIUS Jan. 20–Feb. 18

No shoes for you: you’re getting married barefoot on the beach or in one of your BFF’s fabulous backyards. As the sign of group activity and friendship, your big day will be fun and filled with creative touches that will ensure that your eccentric guest list — from your college buddy you met at Gwar show to your aura-reading bank teller — have a great time. Take Aquarius Jennifer Aniston, who shook up her vows by promising to always make ex-husband Brad Pitt banana milk shakes. Most likely you’re marrying your best friend, so the vibe will be as playful as your union.

PISCES Feb. 19–March 20

You are a dreamer and the sign of fantasy, so your wedding will be “your” idea of a fairy tale. You have your own sense style and alternative tastes, so you will likely want creative control over aesthetic aspects like playlist (Cut Copy, Wilco, Tom Waits), food (Ethiopian), and decor (a cool mix of vintage and modern).

Your ruling planet is Neptune, so the sea is in your soul. Think about embracing your inner-mermaid with a fish-tail braid, a netted veil, or details dripping in pearls.

ARIES March 21–April 19

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not every ram is into large, fabulous affairs.

Some may feed their flames by having a quickie City Hall wedding and then blowing the bulk of her wedding wad on an elaborate trip for two to Tahiti, Tasmania, or Tulum Beach … or all three.

TAURUS April 20–May 30

Let us plant a seed, earth sign: try an outdoor wedding. Not backyard barbecue, but one filled with twinkling white lights twisted elegantly into the branches of an old oak tree; large, canopied tents lit by chandeliers; wild flowers; and locally sourced gourmet food. By nature, you tend to be laid back, but a lack of luxury on a bull’s big day may have her seeing red. So be prepared to get a little dirt under your nails while planning, to get what you want — or on your feet at your reception when you kick off your heels and dance!

GEMINI May 21–June 20

Your altar? The mouth of a volcano or in a cage submerged in a shark tank. If you’re going to make this big of a commitment, you’re going to need a shot of adrenaline. Yet, as unorthodox as your ceremony may be, dear twin, expect your duel personality to show face at your reception where sweet, sincere moments will be laced with light puffs of pure fun like your grandma hopping into the DJ booth or a spontaneous food fight.

CANCER June 21–July 22

Admit it: Hallmark ads make you cry and you were wrecked for weeks after watching “The Notebook.”

As a crab, you tend to be sentimental, and your wedding will be filled with tearyeyed toasts and details that honor your nearest and dearest. Tradition and family is very important to you, so along with your mother’s engagement ring, that you most likely already have, try wearing her wedding dress as well.

LEO July 23–Aug. 22

Lights, camera, bride!

Your wedding will be the biggest event your Facebook newsfeed has ever seen!

Leos love the spotlight, so everything about your wedding will have a “too

much” quality: too much food, too much entertainment, too much glamour! But, be forewarned, lovely lion, don’t cross over into “My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding” territory with a dress covered in sparkling, pink LED butterflies. Whittle down the wow-factor just a bit and you’re sure to earn a #chicwedding hash tag when photos of your big day go viral.

VIRGO Aug. 23–Sept. 22

You’re a pragmatic, earthbound lady. You can handle a spreadsheet like a knight with a lance, so you may want to plan your entire wedding all by yourself. But be realistic. You’re a no-fuss gal, but your wedding is the one day it’s completely appropriate to be a princess.

So, get your Kate Middleton on and hire some professional help. Let go of some control and it will be as rewarding as the first time you kissed your prince.

LIBRA Sept. 23–Oct. 22

Libra is the sign of beauty and love. Most likely you’ve had a quite a few suitors and the one you’re choosing to marry is pretty special. Honor this by allowing your well-balanced nature to come out by letting your man have some say in the wedding’s design. Even if he makes questionable choices, like wanting to include a Superman reference in the ceremony or a beer pong table during the reception, your innate sense of style and charm will refine these decisions and the ultimate compromise will be elegant.

SCORPIO Oct. 23–Nov. 21

You know exactly what you want. Vera Wang gown, Harry Winston ring, private Etta James performance.

You’ve been dreaming about this day since you were a kid and the private, intimate affair is the perfect opportunity to show off your exquisite taste. Show off your creative side in the details: opt for a dress in a color other than white or arrive on horseback.

Whatever you choose, your wedding will be breathtaking, memorable, romantic, and picture-worthy.

SAGITTARIUS Nov. 22–Dec. 21

Your wedding? Think: Costa Rica, on the beach, after a day of surfing. Guests? Your family, closest friends … and maybe a few monkeys. As an archer, you’re athletic, adventurous, independent, and a lover of travel. You definitely have the cool-chick vibe down pat — so even if you have a reception in a humdrum banquet hall, you’ll spice up the place with a few aerialists dropping from the ceiling with a plate of hors d’oeuvres.

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