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Childcare that Works for Your Whole Family A closer look at how Vivvi is helping families rethink early care

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CONTENTS

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FEATURES

STORIES & COLUMNS

8 | Mom Stories Tips for setting boundaries as moms

6 | Editor’s Letter

12 | Cover Vivvi: A closer look at how Vivvi is helping families rethink early care 18 | Dating 7 of the best dating apps for single parents 22 | Parenting Parenting strategies for highly sensitive children 44 | Parenting How to stop measuring your motherhood 46 | Spaces Mother, Yumi Matsuo, was determined to design a space that meets her child where she is, and where she’s going

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14 | Family Fun Best zoos in and near NYC for families

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FAMILY FUN 48 | Calendar The best family-friendly events happening this month 50 | American 250 Walking tour brings revolution to life

26 | Camp The benefits of specialty camp 28 | Camp Specialty Camps and Summer Programs 34 | Health Think you’re too young for menopause?

36 | Baby Baby names inspired by astrology signs 38 | Education Top Preschools and Montessori Schools

ON THE COVER Vivvi Childcare and Early Learning Photo: Yumi Matsuo | @YumiMatsuoStudio | yumimatsuostudio.com Hair & Makeup: Ammy Chan | @ammytyc | ammychan.com

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EDITOR’S NOTE

May in Motion, NY Style May always feels like a turning point. The days are now warmer (Yay!). We’re leaning more into summer planning, and some of us have big questions about how our kids are growing and what they need next.

This month, we’re looking closely at spaces and finding what works for our family.

At the center of our cover story is Vivvi (page 12), a closer look at how New York families are rethinking early care in one of the city’s most complex childcare landscapes.

We explore what it means to build flexibility, consistency, and trust into the earliest stages of a child’s learning journey.

If you have a highly sensitive child, turn to page 22 for supportive strategies to better understand them and practical tips for handling the tougher moments.

We also chatted with an expert about what many parents quietly carry: measuring motherhood against an impossible standard (page 44)?

Summer is SO near, and we share some fun specialty camps and summer programs (page 28) as well as top preschools and Montessori schools (page 38).

For families staying close to the city, we also round up the best zoos near NYC (page 14) and, as always, our calendar of familyfriendly events happening this month. And in honor of American 250, we bring history into the present with a walking tour (page 50) that brings the Revolution to life for families today.

Happy May, and to all who celebrate, Happy Mother’s Day!

GET IN TOUCH Share your feedback and ideas about family life in New York!

Email us at editorial@newyorkfamily.com and tag us at #newyorkfamily

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Tips for Setting Boundaries as Moms How to say no without guilt

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ost moms don’t struggle with boundaries because they don’t care enough. They struggle because they care too much. We’re taught, explicitly or subtly, that good mothers are endlessly available. That putting ourselves last is just part of the job— the sweetest yet hardest job, as I like to call it.

That saying yes equals love. But love shouldn’t mean losing yourself, right? Right.

Over time, those yeses pile up, and when they’re not aligned with what you actually have the capacity for, they turn into burnout. Setting boundaries as a mom means recognizing that your limits matter, even when they’re inconvenient.

The truth is, mothers aren’t just tired.

We are bone tired. The kind of tired that sleep

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doesn’t fix. Tired of making every decision, of anticipating everyone’s needs; of being the default: default parent, default planner, default problem-solver. And most of all, we’re tired of how invisible our own needs have become.

What Boundaries Really Are (and Aren’t) & the Power of Saying No Let’s clear something up.

Boundaries Are: A way to honor your needs A form of emotional honesty A model of self-respect for your kids A path to more sustainable motherhood Boundaries Are Not: Punishment Rejection Lack of love Failure as a mom Boundaries don’t make you cold. They make it clear. One of the hardest parts of

boundaries for moms is saying no—especially when you could technically say yes. But “I can” doesn’t always mean “I should.” This is where, if we were to put it in more psychological terms, we need to “reparent” ourselves to practice simple, loving no’s. You don’t need a long explanation. You don’t need to justify your exhaustion. Just be clear on your wants and needs, and be gentle to yourself and to others.

When you stop over-explaining, you teach everyone, and yourself, that your needs are valid.

The trick (albeit a tricky one if we’re not used to saying no) is to check in with yourself before you commit. Ask yourself, “Do I actually want to do this”? “Do I have the energy for this today”? “Will saying yes lead to resentment later”? Before you say yes, pause. This moment of mindfulness can change everything. It isn’t selfishness. It’s self-awareness.

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just noticing the tight feeling in your chest when you agree to something you don’t want.

Just as in dating or business, that feeling is information.

Setting Boundaries with Your Kids Many moms worry that boundaries will hurt their children. In reality, boundaries make kids feel safer. They show kids what’s okay and what’s not; how to respect others’ limits, and that adults have needs too. I made the mistake of prioritizing my kids’ wants and requests over mine on an everyday basis, and it’s precisely in those mundane chores where gentle boundaries matter the most!

A calm but firm “I can help you after I finish my coffee” or “I’m not available for play right now, but I will be later,” is a life lesson that both mothers and children need to learn. You’re not ignoring your child’s feelings—you’re holding space for them without abandoning yourself.

Boundaries for moms aren’t walls— they’re bridges. They connect you back to your needs, your body, and your sense of self.

In fact, limits make you a better mom! When

you protect your energy, you become more patient and less reactive, and when you feel grounded, your whole family benefits.

In a nutshell, it’s self-care that goes beyond bubble baths or quiet mornings.

For many moms, it starts with boundaries.

You can’t rest if you’re constantly on call.

You can’t recharge or, yeah, reassess your thoughts, feelings, and goals, if you’re always available.

The Guilt Will Show Up. Let It Pass Anyway Guilt often appears when you start setting boundaries. That doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong. It means you’re doing something new.

As moms, what helps is simply reminding yourself that boundaries are healthy (just as you tell your kids broccoli is a magical little tree that makes them grow). Fake it until you make it!

Don’t let that feeling of guilt take you down the burnout route once again.

Remember, your kids are watching how you treat yourself—they learn how to set boundaries by watching you set yours.

Small Steps to Start Setting Boundaries Today You don’t have to overhaul your life overnight, fellow mom. Start small. When you set boundaries, you’re choosing longterm well-being over short-term approval.

Make the promise to be true to yourself and your needs and say no to one thing you don’t want to do.

Today, try saying this out loud: “That doesn’t work for me.”

“I’m going to pass this time.”

“I need rest right now.”

“Can you please unload the dishwasher tonight”?

“Mommy needs ‘alone time’ to recharge.”

“Not right now.”

If these statements still feel too foreign to you, take a five-minute pause before responding to a request. Ask for help instead of pushing through (ask exactly for what YOU need, even if it feels uncomfortable).

Take a pause, stay quiet, breathe. Boundaries are built through repetition, not perfection, as with any other good habit you’re trying to build into your routine. You got this!

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Find Childcare That Works For Your Whole Family A closer look at how Vivvi is helping families rethink early care

BY TARYN MOHRMAN

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n New York, childcare quickly becomes one of the most complex parts of starting or growing your family. It’s not just the cost— though that’s real—it’s the emotional weight, the logistics, and the pressure of getting it right from the very beginning.

For many of us, there’s no built-in village. Grandparents aren’t around the corner and most households rely on two working parents, which means childcare isn’t just part of the equation—it’s the support system that everything else is built on.

Still, the options can feel overwhelming.

Nanny or daycare? Full-time or part-time?

Flexible or structured? It can be difficult for parents to navigate something so personal when the stakes feel so high. Because in reality, you’re not just arranging coverage— you’re choosing the environment and the people who will help shape your child’s earliest experiences, while also supporting your own ability to function, work, and feel at ease when you can’t be there yourself.

For a growing number of New York families, that search is leading them to Vivvi.

Why Vivvi stands out As the realities of modern parenting continue to evolve, many families are looking for something more than traditional daycare or preschool options can offer—something that brings together reliable care, meaningful early learning, and the flexibility modern life demands.

With 13 schools in and around New York City serving children from 6 weeks through age 5, Vivvi is designed to support families during every stage of early childhood. It’s not simply a

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daycare—it’s a model that combines highquality early education with full-day care in one cohesive experience.

For working parents, that distinction matters. Most locations operate from 7am to 7pm, offering extended hours that align with real schedules, commutes, and the unpredictability of daily life. That means your commute to Midtown, your 8 a.m. meeting, your after-work obligation—it’s all covered.

Inside Vivvi, the experience is just as thoughtfully designed. Classrooms are open and light-filled, encouraging exploration, while learning is rooted in curiosity, discovery, and guided play. Vivvi’s curriculum aligns with New York State standards to prepare children for kindergarten, helping them build the skills needed to reach key milestones as they grow.

Music, art, and movement are also built into the day—exposing children to a range of enrichment experiences without families needing to coordinate additional programs. The result is a structured, dependable environment that brings together care, learning, and development in one place.

For parents, Vivvi offers something equally

important: consistency and confidence. A reliable schedule, a team of experienced educators, and a setting designed with intention—all working together to create a childcare experience that supports children and the families raising them.

How to choose child care While every family approaches childcare differently, there are a few core considerations that guide the process. From schedule to socialization to cost and more, every childcare option comes with pros and cons. Whether you’re thinking about Vivvi, a nanny or another route entirely, it helps to prioritize the factors that mean most to you.

Schedule A nanny can offer a high level of flexibility, with schedules tailored to a family’s specific needs.

However, that flexibility is tied to one person’s availability, and longer days or overtime can quickly add complexity in addition to cost.

For many parents, the consistency of a childcare center actually means greater flexibility, with no cancellations or added costs. Vivvi

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locations offer extended hours—typically 7am to 7pm—along with 2-day, 3-day, and 5-day schedules, making it simple for parents to align childcare with the reality of work routines and commutes and adjust as needed along the way.

Expertise At Vivvi, care and education are intertwined.

Classrooms are led by trained early childhood educators, and each day is intentionally designed to support development across areas like language, motor skills, and early problem-solving.

With a nanny, the experience can vary depending on background and training. Learning may be more informal—or require parents to take a more active role in structuring activities and enrichment.

Socialization One of the defining features of a group childcare setting is the opportunity for increased daily interaction. At Vivvi, children are part of a peer community, learning how to communicate, collaborate, and navigate relationships with support from teachers every day.

If you choose a nanny, your child may benefit from individualized attention, though social experiences often need to be arranged separately through classes or playdates.

Cost Cost is always a consideration—especially in

New York. Nanny care is often the more expensive route, as families are effectively covering one person’s salary in full, along with payroll taxes, paid time off, overtime, and the cost of activities.

Child care centers tend to be more costefficient per hour since many families share the cost. Vivvi offers a predictable, all-in tuition pricing that includes care, education, and enrichment. For some families, employer-sponsored programs can also help offset the expense.

Consistency Reliability can be one of the most important— and underrated—factors when it comes to childcare.

With a nanny, backup coverage often needs to be arranged separately, which can leave parents navigating last-minute changes or unexpected gaps in care.

Vivvi operates with a team-based model, meaning there are always multiple educators supporting each classroom, and coverage is built in.

Management An often-overlooked consideration is who will manage childcare for your family. At Vivvi, the system is already in place—staffing, operations, and oversight are handled internally, allowing parents to focus more time on their families and personal lives.

Hiring a nanny also means stepping into

the role of employer, with responsibilities like hiring, contracts, payroll, and day-to-day logistics.

Find the right fit The right childcare is more than a solution—it becomes part of the foundation your family builds on, offering stability, community, and room to grow.

A positive experience doesn’t just support your schedule—it expands your child’s world, introducing new relationships, new experiences, and new ways of learning. And for parents, it brings something just as important: the sense that you’re not doing this alone.

Vivvi’s top tips for parents As you consider your options, these reminders can help keep you grounded: • It’s okay to pivot—many families adjust their childcare approach over time • There’s no one-size-fits-all solution; what works for others may not work for you • Taking a tour and meeting educators can offer clarity you won’t get online • See how a space feels—warmth, engagement, and design all matter • Think ahead to the toddler and preschool years, not just the immediate need May 2026 | New York Family

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Best Zoos Near NYC for Families

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pend a day with your family discovering zoos throughout New York City, Long Island, Westchester, Orange County, and Fairfield. These destinations offer a chance to see a wide range of exotic and native animals, and are perfect for little (and big) animal lovers. There is nothing quite like being close to animals and watching them in person. Many locations also offer interactive experiences like animal feedings, touch tanks, and children’s areas, perfect for a fun, hands-on day with the kids.

Whether you’re staying local or turning it into a mini day trip, these zoos make for the kind of outing everyone can get excited about!

Best Zoos in Manhattan Central Park Zoo 64th Street and Fifth Avenue, Central Park (212) 439-6500 Closest subway stops: N, R, W at 5th Avenue59th Street station Stop by the iconic Central Park Zoo to see its famous sea lions, visit the grizzly bears or the snow leopards, and be amazed by several types of penguins. The zoo also hosts community events, has a Children’s Zoo perfect for little ones, and offers programming that is sure to get kids excited about animals, nature, and protecting both.

Encounters are open, too, which will help you and the kids maximize your day at this famous zoo.

Best Zoos in the Bronx Bronx Zoo 2300 Southern Blvd, Bronx (718) 220-5100 Closest subway stops: 2 and 5 – Bronx Park East station Recommended ages: All ages The Bronx Zoo is the Wildlife Conservation Society’s flagship zoo. Explore more than 265 acres and meet more than 8,000 animals, including gorillas in the Congo Gorilla Forest exhibit, lions and tigers, giraffes, the animals of North America, and so many more. The Bug Carousel, nature trek, and up-close-and-personal Wild

Best Zoos in Brooklyn Prospect Park Zoo 450 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Heights (718) 399-7339 Closest subway stops: B, Q, S – Prospect Park station Recommended ages: All ages Some of Prospect Park Zoo’s coolest animal inhabitants include sea lions, dingoes, emus, and the fluffy Pallas Cat. Take a winding walk along the Discovery Trail to visit red pandas and tufted deer, or visit the zoo’s smallest species in the Hall of Animals. The zoo’s barn and garden are the perfect places for little ones to explore, too!

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Best Zoos in Queens Alley Pond Environmental Center 229-10 Northern Blvd, Queens (718) 229-4000 Closest bus stop: Q 12: Northern Blvd/Morgan St; Douglaston Station on the Long Island Rail Road (LIRR) Alley Pond is dedicated to educating kids (and parents!) about animals, open spaces, and waterbodies, and to protecting and preserving nature. Some of the Animal Ambassadors you can visit include rabbits, chinchillas, turtles, snakes, and birds. APEC hosts a variety of programming for kids, including the Summer SENSES science exploration program and other summer camp sessions, holiday-themed weekend programming, and the Vet Tech 101 program. And, you can always explore the center’s beautiful trails, too.

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Queens Zoo 53-51 111th St, Corona (718) 271-1500 Closest subway stops: 7: 111th St If you’re looking for a family-friendly zoo in New York, the Queens Zoo is such a lovely place to spend the day because it’s full of friendly animals, walking trails, and peaceful spots to explore at your own pace. Besides being home to a wide variety of wildlife— from alligators, to mountain lions, to Andean bears—that visitors can view at their leisure, the zoo also offers a walk-through aviary, an animal trail, and several very cool domestic animals such as Flemish great rabbits and Texas longhorns! Several educational programs are available for kids, including wildlife school, professional development programs, and school break programs. Visit the zoo’s website to learn more.

Best Zoos in Staten Island Staten Island Zoo 614 Broadway, Staten Island (718) 442-3101 The Staten Island Zoo has everything kids could want in a zoo, including a children’s center, horse barn, the Honey Bee Apiary, an exhibit that showcases cuddly otters, a reptile wing, and several dinosaur sculptures!

Best Zoos in Long Island Suffolk County Farm and Education Center 350 Yaphank Ave, Yaphank (631) 852-4600 Suffolk County Farm is open every day, weather permitting. The kids can meet countless farm animals, including horses, sheep, and cows, and can participate in programming such as winter wildlife clinics and winter adventures. Follow the farm’s Facebook and Instagram pages for updates on the animals.

Long Island Game Farm Wildlife and Children’s Zoo 489 Chapman Blvd, Manorville (631) 878-6644 The Long Island Game Farm is home to zebras, giraffes, alpacas, donkeys, wild mustangs, African serval cats, emus, wallabies, lemurs, alligators, foxes, and more!

Best Zoos in Westchester County Muscoot Farm 51 Route 100, Katonah (914) 864-7286 Muscoot has more than 50 animals to visit, including donkeys, cows, horses, goats,

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chickens, and turkeys, and several historic buildings that make it a quaint and familyfriendly place to explore. There are more than six miles of trails to hike with the kids, several programs for kids in the summer and winter, and awesome maple sugaring events happening safely and soon.

The Wolf Conservation Center 7 Buck Run, South Salem (914) 763-2373 The Wolf Conservation Center is committed to protecting, celebrating, and educating people about wolves. Ambassador Wolves Silas and Nikai teach people not to fear wolves; beyond the Ambassadors, guests can visit red wolves and Mexican gray wolves.

Special programming includes a summer wolf camp for kids, the Sleeping with Wolves overnight program, and several virtual opportunities to meet the wolves.

Best Zoos in Orange County Hudson Highlands Nature Museum Outdoor Discovery Center: 120 Muser Drive (across from 174 Angola Road), Cornwall (845) 534-5506 Wildlife Education Center: 25 Boulevard, Cornwall-on-Hudson (845) 534-7781 The Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s mission is to help kids become responsible caretakers of the natural world through educational programming, several places to play, and miles of hiking trails. Visit the Grasshopper Grove in the spring, summer, and fall, explore the expansive grounds, or download a trail map and hike one of the two stroller-

accessible trails or into Black Rock Forest.

Maple sugaring events are also happening this spring—visit the website for details.

Best Zoos in Fairfield County, CT Connecticut’s Beardsley Zoo 1875 Noble Ave, Bridgeport (203) 394-6565 Located just outside NYC,BeardsleyZoo is theperfect choice forashortzoo visit,fullof rare animals andeasyto reach.Manyexoticandfantasticanimals callthe Beardsley Zoo home.Fromrare Amurleopards andtigers tomaned andMexicanwolves,yourkids are sure to findananimal they’llfallinlove with.

The zoo also offers Zoo Patrolprogramming forkids, plentyof virtualeducationalevents,birthdayparties, and scavengerhunts.Keepaneye outforthe peacockswho roamfreelyaroundthe zoo grounds!

Zoo Live Streams Bring the zoo to you with these experiences!

Wildlife Conservation Society The Bronx Zoo, New York Aquarium, Central Park Zoo, Queens Zoo, and Prospect Park Zoo are sharing animal content like videos, virtual learning, and Instagram stories, featuring animals to bring the zoo to you.

Visit this page to stay updated.

Utica Zoo Uti-kaZoo: Utica Zoo Kid’s Academy—Learn about alligators, crocodiles, Waylon, and more through videos and activities.

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7 of the Best Dating Apps for Single Parents and where to connect IRL, too

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ating as a single parent can feel like navigating two full-time jobs at once.

Between school pickups, work schedules, and bedtime routines, finding time—and the right people—to date isn’t always easy.

That’s where niche dating apps and platforms come in. Many single moms and dads prefer apps designed specifically for people raising kids. These communities prioritize meaningful relationships, flexible schedules, and people who understand the realities of parenting.

Today there are more dating apps for single parents than ever, including platforms that focus on serious relationships, parenting lifestyles, and even building community among solo parents.

Here’s a guide to the best dating apps for single parents, including platforms built just for parents and niche options that align with different lifestyles, plus where to meet people in real life if swiping isn’t your thing—because it’s never too late to give love another chance!

Dating Apps for Single Parents: Built Specifically with Parents in Mind Stir (stir.com) Launched by Match Group, Stir is one of the fastest-growing dating apps built specifically for single parents. Because everyone on the app is either a parent or open to dating one— and filters and profile prompts are based on parenting status, family goals, and parenting life—conversations often start from a place of shared understanding.

PlayDate (goplaydate.com) Created by a single mom, PlayDate focuses on helping parents find meaningful relationships while balancing real-life logistics, like integration with childcare planning tools.

The app’s biggest strength is how it reflects real parenting life—schedules, babysitting, and all.

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Even (avail Google apps) Even is a newer dating platform designed specifically for single parents looking for relationships with others in similar life stages.

The app emphasizes on compatibility and shared values; thoughtful matching, and a slower, more intentional dating experience Dating Apps for Single Parents with Specific Lifestyles Some single parents want to date within a specific lifestyle—whether that’s family goals, career alignment, or parenting philosophy.

Frolo (frolo.com) Frolo blends single parent community, parenting styles, and dating into one platform.

It’s especially helpful for parents who want to build connections before jumping into dating. heybaby (avail Apple apps) Heybaby is designed for people who want kids or already have them. Family life isn’t an afterthought—it’s central to the app. Which is why matches are done based on desire for children while featuring prompts about parenting approaches and values.

EliteSingles (elitesingles.com) EliteSingles caters to professionals, including many single parents balancing jobs and family. Ideal for those parents who are looking for a full-committed, long-term relationship—users are typically over 30 and the algorithm matches based on personality

and career or family goals.

Dating Apps for Single Parents of Special Needs Kids Special Hearts (facebook.com/ special.hearts) Special Hearts is one of the only dating apps specifically designed for people with disabilities and parents of children with special needs. It’s inclusive of caregivers and special needs families, while focusing on empathy and understanding. It’s a very niche app, but the highly aligned user base makes it worth it!

Frolo (frolo.com) Frolo also works well for parents of children with special needs because of its strong community features. For families with special needs kiddos, it builds support systems first while connecting with other parents—this allows them to go slow and transition into dating without rushing.

Skip the Apps: In-Person Meetups for Single Parents in NYC Not every single parent wants to swipe. In New York City, many moms and dads are skipping dating apps altogether and choosing something that feels more natural: meeting in real life.

From stroller walks in Central Park to casual coffee meetups in Brooklyn, NYC offers a strong network of low-pressure spaces where single parents connect organically— often starting as friendships that move into something more.

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Local Parenting Communities That Host Real-Life Meetups Single Parent Resource CenterMidtown East, (singleparentusa.com) 228 E 45th St, 5th Floor

This long-standing NYC organization offers support services, workshops, and community-building opportunities for single parents.

You can find parenting workshops and support groups; occasional in-person gatherings and networking events, and even resources for navigating single parent life in NYC. Meetup Groups for Single Parents (meetup.com/singleparent) Meetup is the ultimate place to find local gatherings near you. Regardless of what you’re looking for, there’s always a group waiting for you!

Some events for single parents may include Central Park walks; Brooklyn Bridge Park outings; 80s or 90s Dance Nights, weekend brunch groups, and even coffee or tea over Zoom.

These options help create repeat interactions— and that’s often where connection builds naturally. It focuses on real conversation and chemistry without the pressure of apps.

FAQs: Dating apps for single parents Are dating apps safe for single parents?

They can be as long as you follow these recommendations: don’t share your child’s personal information; keep routines and locations private; use reputable platforms with verified ID profiles, if possible. And take your time before meeting! Never rush a connection, especially if it seems too good to be true.

When should you introduce a partner to your kids?

Wait until the relationship is stable and serious. There’s no need to make it a priority until you fully know someone’s intentions.

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How can single parents protect themselves and their kids while on dating apps?

Meet in public the first few times and make sure to tell a friend about your plans. Be upfront about having children, but never reveal more than necessary (this includes your kiddos’ names, ages, schools, routines, where do you live, etc. Many single parents also prefer to wait to exchange phone numbers or social media channels, too.). And lastly, look for partners who respect your priorities, boundaries, and listen to your instincts—you can never be too careful!

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Parenting Strategies for Highly Sensitive Children

BY SOE KABBABE

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f your child cries at loud birthday parties, melts down after school, notices every subtle shift in your mood, or asks big questions that seem far beyond their years, you may be parenting a highly sensitive child. If you are, you’ve likely heard that “they’ll toughen up” at some point. But here’s what many parents quietly discover: highly sensitive children don’t need to toughen up. They need to be understood.

In general, children are thought to have a more sensitive nervous system. That sensitivity isn’t a flaw; it’s a temperament trait.

These kids often feel deeply, think deeply, and process the world in a richly layered way. The challenge is that their nervous systems can become overwhelmed more easily.

Parenting highly sensitive children requires patience. It’s less about fixing behavior and more about building regulation skills— gently, consistently, and with respect for how their brains are wired.

Before diving into strategies, it helps to clarify what high sensitivity is and what it isn’t. A highly sensitive child may: • Be deeply empathetic and emotionally intuitive

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• React strongly to loud sounds, scratchy clothing, or crowded spaces like airports or public events • Need extra time to warm up in new environments • Feel hurt by criticism more intensely than peers • Struggle after long school days due to sensory overload • Notice subtle details others miss, especially when it comes to emotional reactions or mannerisms This isn’t the same as anxiety, though the two can overlap. Highly sensitive children have nervous systems that process things and feelings more thoroughly. That depth is often a gift, but it requires skillful support. The goal, as parents, isn’t to eliminate sensitivity from their personality. It’s to teach your child how to live comfortably inside it.

Strategies to Help Highly Sensitive Children Build Resilience Validate First, Problem-Solve Second. When your child is overwhelmed, your instinct may be to reason with them. But logic doesn’t land when the nervous system is overwhelmed. So, start with validation: “That was really loud in there;” “It makes sense that your feelings got

hurt”; “You had a big day. Your body looks tired.” Perhaps my personal favorite, and one that I use often with my daughter: “It’s okay; you are just tired and overstimulated”.

Validation doesn’t mean you agree with every reaction. It means you acknowledge the experience. Once your child feels understood, their nervous system begins to settle, and then problem-solving becomes possible.

Create Predictable Transitions for Highly Sensitive Children. Highly sensitive children struggle most with sudden shifts like leaving the house, ending screen time, walking into a new classroom, or meeting new people. Transitions may be hard for them, so the best approach would be to build some predictability: give 10-minute and 5-minute warnings; use visual schedules for younger kids (we have a fridge calendar and a household chore list, so my kids are aware of what needs to be done), or rely on small rituals, like a goodbye hug routine or quick breathwork when you wait for the school bus.

Build a “Decompression Ritual” After School.

Many sensitive children appear “fine” all day and then unravel at home. This isn’t manipulation, it’s a nervous system release in their safest space. Instead of jumping straight into homework or questions, offer decompression—quiet time alone in their room; a snack in silence; a bath or shower; reading under a blanket or time with headphones and calming music.

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release. The more regulated they feel at home, the more resilient they become outside it.

Teach Emotional Vocabulary Early. Highly sensitive children feel deeply but may not yet have the language to describe what’s happening internally. Help them build it!

“That sounds like disappointment;” “is that frustration or embarrassment?”; “does your body feel buzzy or heavy right now?.”

When children can name feelings, they are less controlled by them. Emotional literacy is one of the most protective skills you can offer. This can also apply to parents, but that’s a topic for another time!

Model Regulation Yourself. This may be the hardest one. Highly sensitive children are exquisitely attuned to parental tone, facial expression, and stress levels. They often absorb your emotional state before you speak.

As a parent, I can assure you it’s been one of the hardest lessons motherhood has taught me, and perhaps one I haven’t mastered yet, but as with everything kids-related, we learn as we go.

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When you say, “I’m feeling frustrated, so I’m going to take a few breaths,” you normalize regulation. When you apologize for snapping, you teach repair. Cliche but leading by example is the way to start!

Body-Based Regulation Tools. Coping skills should be practiced when your child is calm, not only during meltdowns. Just as moms need sensory techniques to calm their nervous system, kiddos do so as well. Teach them to slow breath—my daughter and I have this “game” that helps her regulate her emotions: “smell the flowers” and “blow the birthday candle” (as in, inhale and exhale for several times). You can also give them a small sensory object (smooth stone, fidget, soft fabric).

Anything to help them stop and focus.

When to Seek Expert Support for Highly Sensitive Children High sensitivity is not a diagnosis. However, there are times when additional support is important. Sometimes a few sessions focused on coping skills can make an enormous difference. Consider consulting a pediatrician,

child psychologist, or therapist if your child: • Avoids school consistently due to distress • Experiences panic attacks or severe anxiety • Has persistent sleep disturbances • Struggles to maintain friendships • Shows signs of depression (withdrawal, hopelessness, loss of interest) • Has frequent meltdowns that interfere significantly with daily life Parenting a highly sensitive child can feel intense in the early years. You may worry whether the world will be too harsh, too loud, too fast. But many sensitive children grow into deeply compassionate adults. They become thoughtful leaders, creative thinkers, loyal friends, and intuitive partners.

Your role is not to toughen them. It’s to help them understand their wiring and build tools to navigate it. That means patience on hard days or boundaries when needed.

Remember, you’re not raising a fragile child, but a perceptive one, and with the right support, that perception can become one of their greatest gifts!

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The Benefits of a Specialty Camp

BY ZLATA FAERMAN

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s summer approaches, both parents and kids begin thinking about how to spend those long, sunny days. For many families, summer camp offers the perfect opportunity for children to explore new interests, build friendships, and grow in confidence.

So, for parents who are considering camp, the big question becomes: Which type is the right fit? Will you choose a day camp that offers a varied program of outdoorsy fun like swimming, sports, hiking, games, and arts and crafts, or a sleepaway camp? Or is this the summer for a specialty camp or two?

What are specialty camps?

Some specialty camps are intended for a specific group of kids—such as those with rare skin conditions, campers with cancer, gifted

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and talented children, at-risk youth, kids with certain health conditions, or individuals with intellectual or physical disabilities. There are also specialty camps for children who want to focus on a particular interest and learn to master a skill, like a specific sport (tennis, soccer, baseball, and more), STEAM, dance, art, academics, and pretty much anything your child shows an interest in.

There are also specialty camps for kids who want to travel—either to experience different cultures or to pursue a passion. For example, there are camps in Costa Rica where campers help save sea turtles.

No matter what your children’s interests are, there is likely a specialty camp out there for them.

The Benefits of a Specialty Camp Specialty camps allow children (and their parents) to come together around a

mutual interest and give kids the chance to meet others with the same passion. These relationships foster a sense of community and encourage kids’ growth and confidence.

Specialty camps provide an opportunity for children to focus deeply on one interest for a short period of time, allowing them to build skills and make meaningful progress.

These camps are also often shorter (one week as opposed to several), which means they can fill in the gaps between other summer plans like traditional day camp, sleepaway camp, or a family vacation.

For families navigating the many camp options available, combining different types of experiences can offer a well-rounded summer. A mix of traditional and specialty programming allows children to explore broadly while also investing time in what excites them most, creating a summer that feels both enriching and memorable.

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SPECIALTY CAMPS & SUMMER PROGRAMS Summer is near, and you may still be figuring out camp, which is why a speciality camp is a great consideration.

How these camps work is they are crafted around what your kid is into, such as sports, STEM, arts, creativity, movement, and everything in between. Specialty camps give them space to build confidence, and connect with kids who are on their wavelength. Campers get all the summer essentials like structure and new friendships, but with way more purpose. Less one-size-fits-all, more “this feels like me.”

We’ve rounded up a list of these camps and standout summer programs that are worth a look. Because the best summers are about being meaningful and fun!

ACT Summer Camp

Atlantic Acting School Summer Camps

1047 Amsterdam Ave, New York, NY 10025 212-316-7530, act@stjohndivine.org stjohndivine.org/education-outreach/act/programs/summer-camp

76 Ninth Ave, New York, NY 10011 212-691-5919, education@atlantictheater.org atlanticactingschool.org/kids-and-teensseasons=summer

Located on the 11-acre campus of the Cathedral St. John the Divine, ACT has been running its Summer Program since 1971! The private space and greenery offer families the feeling of a countryside camp in the heart of Morningside Heights. ACT’s focus on social-emotional development provides a nurturing framework for children to experience new things and make new connections in the city. Every day, children will participate in water play to keep cool during the height of the summer, and at least once per week ACT will bring in large water slides for even more fun. Throughout the week, children will participate in arts, sports, nature, and movement activities, led by specialists and built to foster teamwork, creativity, and open-mindedness.

Atlantic Acting School’s Summer Camps offer kids and teens a vibrant, confidence-building space to explore their creativity and grow as performers. Through engaging classes in acting, movement, voice, and improvisation, students develop strong foundational skills while learning to collaborate and express themselves freely. Led by experienced teaching artists, each program encourages imagination, discipline, and joyful risk-taking. Campers work together toward a final presentation, giving them a chance to shine and celebrate their progress. Whether new to acting or continuing their training, students leave with new skills, lasting friendships, and a deeper love for storytelling in a supportive, high-energy environment.

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Camp Level Up

Collina Italiana Italian Mini Summer Camp

48 Pocono Springs Way, East Stroudsburg, PA 18302 570-218-8166, gamer@camplevelup.com camplevelup.com

1556 Third Avenue, Suite 602-603, NYC 10128 212-427-7770, info@collinaitaliana.com collinaitaliana.com/italian-camp

Camp Level Up is a 1-week sleepaway camp experience for campers entering 4th to 12th grade who want to improve on their gaming skills, all while enjoying the traditional camp activities that a sleepaway camp facility can offer. Located and powered by the team at Pocono Springs - a premiere private sleepaway camp in the Poconos (75 miles from NYC), Camp Level Up offers a hybrid program of esports gameplay and traditional camp activities. Campers spend 70% of their day participating in competitive gaming and the other 30% immersed in an assortment of traditional camp activities including adventure ropes course, arts and aquatics/lakefront. Campers of all gaming skill levels are welcome!

Discover Italian each day while making new friends at Collina Italiana’s Summer Mini Camp. This engaging, immersive program is designed for children ages 3–8 (and age 2 for currently enrolled students), welcoming all levels from beginners to bilinguals. Campers are grouped by age and proficiency, learning through games, stories, music, dance, and art. Daily outdoor time at nearby playgrounds and Central Park adds to the fun. Families provide snacks, lunch, water, hats, and sunscreen. Weekly themes featuring storytelling and creative activities keep lessons fresh and exciting. Children build vocabulary, explore Italian traditions and culture, and gain confidence speaking in a warm, supportive, and playful environment.

Columbus Camp 606 Columbus Avenue 212-721-0090, admin@columbuspre-school.com columbuspre-school.com

At Columbus Camp, the team understands that when the school year ends, parents’ busy schedules continue. That’s why Columbus PreSchool offers NYC families a summer camp program designed for fun, flexibility, and peace of mind for young children. With a full gymnastics studio and a 3,000 sq. ft. private outdoor classroom and play space, complete with sprinklers, children enjoy plenty of opportunities to stay active and engaged. Flexible scheduling, exciting weekly themes, and experienced Columbus Pre-School teachers create days filled with exploration, creativity, and play. Designed for children ages 2–5, Columbus Camp provides a safe, nurturing environment where young campers can learn, grow, and make lasting summer memories while school is out.

Creator Camp Corlears School, 324 West. 15th St. NY, NY 10011 East Harlem Agile Learning 1325 5th Ave. CU1 NY, NY 10029 713-487-8553, support@creatorcamp.org creatorcamp.org

Creator Camp is a creative technology camp for kids ages 5–13, where technology is used as a tool for creation rather than just consumption. From filmmaking and animation to game design and YouTube production, students build original projects in a collaborative, hands-on environment. Led by expert instructors, the camp offers 2-day and 3-day sessions designed to meet every child at their skill level. Each day features a balance of screen-based creativity and screen-free social breaks, ensuring an engaging and well-rounded experience. Kids head home with their custom projects, a Creator Camp hat, and a sense of creative confidence.

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DNA Learning Center Science Summer Camps NY City College of Technology 62 Tillary Street Brooklyn, NY 11201 718-285-0389, dnalc-camps@cshl.edu summercamps.dnalc.org

Join the DNA Learning Center this summer for an immersive, fiveday science experience and unravel the mysteries of life. Budding scientists entering 6th–12th grade will develop real research skills, build academic confidence, boost their college profiles, and have a blast exploring the frontiers of biology. Guided by their experienced instructors, students get to perform real experiments several grade levels ahead of their peers, from crime-solving forensic DNA analysis to cutting-edge gene cloning and transformation techniques. Their week-long day camps take place between June 29 and September 4 2026, and are available across their four core locations in NYC, Long Island, Westchester, and Wayne, New Jersey. Need-based scholarships, multi-camp, and sibling discounts are available upon request.

Kids N Comedy 208 West 23 Street 212-877-61150 info@kidsncomedy.com kidsncomedy.com

Take a break from the mosquitoes and the kumbayas, learning to write and perform stand-up comedy, do improv, write and perform sketch comedy! Each camp culminates in a graduation show. Taught by professional stand-up comics and improvisors. Monday-Friday from noon until 4 for 2 weeks. Summer Camp 2026 Session 1: July 6-17, Session 2: July 20- 31, Session 3: August 3-14. Kids can take 1, 2 or 3 sessions.

Launch Math + Science Centers 173 West 81st Street, NY, NY 10024 212-600-1010, scott@launchmath.com launchmath.com

Launch Math + Science Centers offer one-week STEM summer camps that spark adventure and creativity for kids from rising kindergarten through 7th grade. With a tight-knit 4:1 camper-to-staff ratio, children dive into exciting specialties, from exploring the science of marine biology and discovering the details of electronics to revealing the wonders of physics and examining the intricacies of aerospace engineering - and more! Launch camps offer recreational activities to ensure a well-rounded experience! Older campers enjoy half of the day in Central Park, blending interactive tech activities with classic camp games for the perfect mix of learning and play, while the younger STEM enthusiasts in kindergarten and first grade unwind, socialize, and build meaningful relationships with friends through indoor game play and active, collaborative projects. Launch Math + Science Center camps ignite a passion for learning and a lifelong love for STEM!

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Play On! Studios 263 West 86th Street, New York, NY 10024 347-709-4149, info@playonstudios.com playonstudios.com

Play On! Studios offers theater day camps on the UWS that are guaranteed to give kids a summer full of acting, music, and fun they won’t soon forget! Young actors will rehearse and perform in a full production, work with professional NYC actors/teaching artists, build up their skills in a nurturing, non-competitive environment and play lots of drama games! Sign up for 1 week or more - there’s a new show every session! Grades K-9.

SKATEYOGI Williamsburg and Prospect Lefferts Gardens 718-484-9777, hello@skateyogi.com skateyogi.com

SKATEYOGI welcomes anyone from absolute beginners to experienced skaters in a fun, creative environment. Offered at both their Williamsburg and Prospect Lefferts Gardens locations, SKATEYOGI Summer Camp welcomes anyone ages 7-14 (Rising 2nd graders and up) from absolute beginners to experienced skaters in a fun, creative environment. Campers are exposed to both outdoor skating on daily trips to skateparks around NYC and indoor ramp practice in their airconditioned facilities. Skatepark etiquette and skateboarding topics are introduced throughout the camp. Their low student-to-teacher ratio ensures plenty of personal attention. They also offer a shorter mini camp for younger skaters ages 5-7 (Rising K and up). Rental skateboards and safety gear are included for all camp programs. Join the fun this summer and discover the joy of skateboarding!

Summerdance Camp 1651 Third Avenue, New York, NY 10128 212-410-9140, info@baenyc.com balletacademyeast.com/summerdance

Ballet Academy East’s Summerdance Camp is a fun-filled summer program for children, ages 3 to 7, bursting with arts-focused activities. Designed to foster imagination and inspire a love of the arts, the curriculum includes ballet, tap, modern, art, drama, origami, cooking, musical theater, yoga, and more! All activities are led by BAE’s talented and nurturing instructors along with very special guest teachers. Art classes are run by the joyful staff of The Craft Studio.

Limited group size ensures that children receive lots of individual attention. Flexible registration options allow you to sign up for either all seven weeks or customize your own weekly schedule!

Taylor Summer Dance Camp 551 Grand St. New York, NY 10002 646-214-5807, taylorschool@ptdc.org paultaylordance.org/center-dance-education/summerdance-camps

Windward Isle Camp

This full-day program focuses on exploring creativity while learning the fundamentals of Taylor modern dance, ballet and tumbling/acro in a fun and nurturing environment. For students ages 5-13, dancers are split into groups by age and level. Each week they will collaborate with peers, learn Paul Taylor repertory, and use it as inspiration to build their own original dances, sets, and costumes. The end of each week will culminate in a studio performance for family and friends.

The 2026 Taylor Summer Dance Camp will be held over the course of five weeks, with single and multi-week options available.Register today and unleash your child’s creativity at the Taylor School this summer. No prior dance experience necessary!

Windward Isles Recreation Camps (WIRC) brings an exciting blend of track and field and cross country training to NYC youth. The program focuses on “fun work,” turning athletic development into an engaging adventure. As August arrives, the curriculum highlights preparing for the upcoming school year, helping students build the endurance, discipline, and focus needed for their fall seasons. Whether navigating local trails for distance running or mastering techniques on the track, athletes grow in a supportive, community-driven environment. These sessions encourage kids to discover the joy of movement while gaining confidence for both the classroom and the field. Start the school year strong and energized with Windward Isles Recreation Camps.

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The Windward School Academic Summer Program 212 E 93rd Street New York NY 10128 212-222-8628, manhattansummer@thewindwardschool.org 1275 Mamaroneck Ave White Plains NY 10605 914-949-6968, westchestersummer@thewindwardschool.org thewindwardschool.org

Build skills and gain confidence this summer at The Windward School’s Academic Summer Program. Offered in both Westchester and Manhattan, the program is designed for students in grades 2–9. Using Windward’s proven, research-based multisensory approach, students will strengthen their reading, writing, and learning skills in a structured and supportive environment. Small classes and expert teachers help students stay engaged while reinforcing essential strategies for academic success. Open to a wide range of learners, the program blends rigorous instruction with a positive, confidence-building experience, so students return to school prepared and motivated for the school year.

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YMCA of Greater New York Summer Day Camps 20+ Locations Across All 5 Boroughs in NYC 212-630-9720, rho@ymcanyc.org ymcanyc.org/camp

Awesome starts here at Y Summer Camp! Every kid finds a summer designed for them, and friends and memories are made every day.

The Y is a playground for imagination, adventure, and learning new things. The Y’s expert counselors help unlock the awesome inside every kid. Sessions are filling up fast! Register today!

June 29 - August 28 11 acres of Outdoor Space Weekly Registration Small, Coed Age Groups Daily Water Activities Sports, Arts & Teamwork

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HEALTH

Think You’re Too Young for Menopause?

BY DANIELLE RAMOS

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few years ago, I went with a friend to the pharmacy after we dropped off our middle schoolers. Staring at the pregnancy tests, I could feel her nerves. At age 42, she hadn’t been pregnant in more than a decade and thought her days of raising babies were over for good, but not having had a period in eight weeks could only mean one thing. The test was negative, so she bought another a few days later, which was also negative. Then a trip to her doctor brought her news she simply was not ready to hear. “ ‘You may be menopausal.’ That’s what my doctor told me, and I thought she was surely joking,” she told me later that week.

“I’m young. My period has always been like clockwork, and I feel fine.”

My friend’s doctor was right, and her period never returned. To make things more confusing, one of the moms in our circle was unexpectedly pregnant at 46. We all spent a lot of time outside the school that year talking about how entirely strange fertility can be, and how just when you think you know what to expect from your body, you can easily get a surprise in more ways than one.

Average Age of Menopause According to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), the average age in the United States is 51, but menopause can occur between 40 and 60.

It happens when your ovaries stop making estrogen, your periods stop, and your body moves out of its reproductive years. When this happens between 40 and 45, it’s considered early menopause, and before age 40, it’s known as premature menopause.

According to Yale Medicine, approxiamtely 5% of women experience early menopause, and about 1% of women go through premature menopause, which can happen in their 30s and in some rare cases, even earlier.

“There are certain genetic reasons and autoimmune conditions that can lead to early or premature menopause, but sometimes we never really quite know why it happens,” says

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Hugh Taylor, MD, chair of Yale Medicine Obstetrics, Gynecology & Reproductive Sciences.

Causes of Early and Premature Menopause Possible causes include • Autoimmune disease • Chemotherapy treatment • Hysterectomy (which sends a woman into instant menopause) • Smoking • Genetic component • History in the family There isn’t a single test that definitively diagnoses menopause. Instead, doctors officially diagnose it after you’ve gone 12 straight months without a period. The stretch of time leading up to that point, when symptoms start popping up and cycles become unpredictable, is called perimenopause. It can last a few months or stretch out for years, with most people spending about four years in this transition.

Still, it’s a good idea to have certain hormones tested at your annual visit. The Mayo Clinic recommends that women test folliclestimulating hormone, estrogen, and thyroidstimulating hormone. Follicle-stimulating hormone levels increase and estradiol levels decrease as menopause occurs, while an underactive thyroid (hypothyroidism) can cause similar symptoms.

Signs and Symptoms Signs and symptoms that you may be headed

toward menopause include: • Irregular periods (very heavy, longer, or shorter than usual) • Vaginal dryness • Hot flashes • Night sweats • Sleep problems • Mood changes • Stubborn weight gain The vast majority of women report symptoms, and up to 70 percent of women experience hot flashes for years, but there are those who do not. Some women experience no symptoms other than the absence of a monthly period. Others can have unusual symptoms like urgent and painful urination, brain fog, shoulder pain, bone and muscle aches, and dry skin.

“I felt fine throughout,” my friend recently told me. She has not had a period in three years and is considered post-menopausal now. “Once I knew I wasn’t pregnant and got over the shock of what was happening, I was actually relieved. I didn’t have any debilitating symptoms, and I honestly don’t miss my period at all!”

If your periods are changing or you’re noticing symptoms that could point to menopause, look for a gynecologist who specializes in hormone testing and menopause care, bring a list of questions, and get clear answers. You’ll feel so much better knowing what’s actually going on instead of wondering.

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Baby Names Inspired by Astrology

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hether you’re a devoted horoscope reader or simply love the personality clues astrology offers, choosing a zodiac baby name adds a little cosmic magic to your child’s story. From fiery Aries leaders to dreamy Pisces creatives, every sun sign carries distinct traits—and we’ve paired each with names that reflect its energy, symbolism, and celestial roots.

Aries-Inspired Baby Names People under the sign of Aries are bold, fearless, energetic, and natural leaders.

Aries babies are known for their confidence, courage, and trailblazing spirit. They tend to be independent, passionate, and never afraid to take the lead.

• Blaze • Scarlett • Phoenix • Leo • Ember

Taurus-Inspired Baby Names Rounded, loyal, sensory-loving, and strong-

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willed people. Taurus babies often crave comfort and stability. They’re dependable, affectionate, and deeply connected to beauty, nature, and the senses.

• Flora • Jasper • Ivy • Rowan • Rose

Gemini-Inspired Baby Names Curious, social, expressive, and quickwitted—Gemini babies are chatterboxes in the making. They’re bright, adaptable, and naturally communicative, often showing early signs of creativity and curiosity.

• Aria • Felix • Luna • Milo • Nova

Cancer-Inspired Baby Names They’re nurturing, intuitive, protective, and emotional. Cancer babies are sensitive souls with big hearts. Deeply attached to family, they often show strong empathy and

imagination from a young age.

• Pearl • River • Julian • Marina • Noah

Leo-Inspired Baby Names Confident, creative, magnetic, and warm— Leo people love the spotlight, and they tend to shine naturally. They’re expressive, dramatic (in the best way), and often command attention with their charm and bold personalities.

• Aurora • Atlas • Soleil • Zara • Maximus

Virgo-Inspired Baby Names Virgo babies tend to be observant and quietly intelligent. They often show early independence and a love for routines, as a result, they’re very detail-oriented, analytical, and organized.

• Clara

• Orion • Seraphina

• Theo • Eliza • Felix • Wren

Libra-Inspired Baby Names Libra babies thrive on harmony. They’re social, graceful, and often drawn to beauty, art, and fairness. Their personalities are often balanced—very charming, yet diplomatic and tactful.

• Valentina • Juliet • Adrian • Celeste • Roman

Scorpio-Inspired Baby Names One of the most determined, passionate, and intense people. Scorpio babies may be quiet observers at first, but they feel everything deeply. They’re strong-willed, magnetic, and fiercely loyal.

• Raven • Sebastian • Lilith

Sagittarius-Inspired Baby Names Adventurous, optimistic, independent, and philosophical—that’s Saggy in a nutshell!

Sagittarius babies are explorers at heart.

Curious and spirited, they often grow into big thinkers and free spirits.

• Atlas • Skye • Sage • Archer • Juno

Aquarius-Inspired Baby Names Aquarius babies are original thinkers and tend to be innovative, independent, visionary, and unique in their ideas and way of living.

They often grow into creative, humanitarianminded individuals who march to their own beat.

• Indigo • Jasper • Lyra • Atlas • Winter

Capricorn-Inspired Baby Names Capricorn babies can seem wise beyond their years. They’re determined, practical, and quietly driven. Ambitious, responsible, mature, and steady, Cappy kiddos are the epitome of old souls in a kid’s body!

Pisces-Inspired Baby Names Pisces babies are imaginative and emotionally aware. They’re often creative spirits with strong empathy and gentle personalities. A mix of compassionate, artistic, and intuitive traits—unlike Cancer, who’s very emotional; Pisces is more about the inner mind, the potential or idea of, and dreams.

• August • Eleanor • Everett • Margot • Holden

• Ocean • Iris • Caspian • Willow • Aurora

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EDUCATION

TOP Preschools & Montessori Schools Thinking about preschool? It’s a big move, and a really good one. For your little one, it’s the start of something exciting. For you… it’s maybe your first hot coffee in peace. From play-based programs to Montessori classrooms, New York preschools are full of energy, curiosity, and those magical “firsts.” These early years are about more than the ABCs, they also learn to socialize, share more while building confidence, strengthen their motor skills, and get comfortable in a structured, joyful environment. Think of it as their launchpad: one small, proud moment at a time. We’ve rounded up some of the top preschools and Montessori programs to help you find the right fit, for them and for you.

Columbus Pre-School 606 Columbus Avenue 212-721-0090, admin@columbuspre-school.com columbuspre-school.com

At Columbus Pre-School, the classrooms, gymnastics studio, atelier and outdoor spaces are filled with laughter, learning, and friendship.

Children are valued and respected as the creative, insightful, and curious individuals they are. Teachers act as researchers of the children's play, carefully listening and observing to discover their interests. They then reflect and build thoughtful curricula, exposing their students to a plethora of materials and exciting provocations. Through hands-on, multidisciplinary experiences, Columbus students develop strong cognitive skills and learn to be kind, collaborative friends, confident problem solvers, and flexible thinkers. Along with strong parental partnerships, Columbus Pre-School students grow into joyful lifelong learners with the tools they need to thrive in all developmental areas.

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Kennedy International School 225 East 43rd St., New York, NY 10017 212-681-1877, admissions@kennedyinternational.org kennedyinternational.org

Located in Midtown Manhattan near Grand Central Station and the United Nations, Kennedy International School takes pride in their close-knit, diverse, and international community. The school offers two bilingual programs: French-English and Japanese-English.

Small class sizes and dedicated students ensure students can reach their full potential, and the emphasis on 50/50 language immersion empowers students to become culturally competent global citizens and lifelong learners. For 11th and 12th graders, the school offers the IB Diploma Programme in French and/or English, opening doors to top universities worldwide.

Kidville Upper Westside 205 W. 88th St 212-362-7792, nikki@mykidville.com kidville.com/westside

At KVU, children engage in a variety of activities including Art, Science, Music, and Gym. Each week focuses on themes that promote social interaction, teamwork, and problem-solving skills. For many children, this may be their first experience with separation, and KVU’s gentle, gradual separation process helps each child feel safe and supported. A consistent routine and daily structure create a sense of security for both children and their caregivers, allowing them to know what to expect. Through engaging activities and thoughtful transitions, KVU nurtures emotional growth while fostering curiosity and creativity. The environment is designed to encourage exploration, build confidence, and support early learning in a fun and nurturing setting, helping every child thrive.

Lycée Francais de New York 505 East 75th St., Upper East Side 212-369-1400, Lfny.org/admissions

La joie means joy in French—joy in learning and growing—at one of New York’s most renowned bilingual French schools. In Nursery, children are fully immersed in French, building a firm foundation for learning that sets the Lycée’s program apart—accelerating language acquisition and laying the groundwork for confident bilingualism in the coming years. Pre-K and Kindergarten classes are taught in both French and English by a team of caring, collaborative teachers. A structured, play-based curriculum nurtures early reading, writing, and math skills, along with creativity through art, music, and movement— with plenty of time for play. No prior French is needed to enter Nursery and PreK—just curiosity, creativity, and an open heart. À bientôt!

Twin Parks Montessori 435 CPW New York New York 10025 212-595-2000, cpoffice@twinparks.org twinparks.org

The Montessori School of New York International 347 East 55th St., Sutton Place 212-223-4630, info@montessorischoolny.com montessorischoolny.com

In lovingly and thoughtfully prepared environments, children explore all academic dimensions at their own pace and interest level, helping them grow in self-esteem and independence. Classes are equipped with a full complement of didactic Montessori materials that encourage the absorption of concepts through play, leading them to become wellrounded, confident citizens of the world. Science, Music, Foreign Language, Musical Theatre, Swimming, Dance, Yoga, and Chess are part of the program as well. Children usually do extremely well academically and are prepared for admission to gifted and competitive programs.

A unique Summer Camp, staffed by the school’s year-round teachers, offers a balance of continued learning with outdoor activities, ranging from educational theme-based field trips to group sports activities!

Twin Parks Montessori offers a nurturing and inspiring environment where children learn with purpose, joy, and independence.

Through child-centered classrooms, students develop curiosity and confidence as they engage in hands-on exploration and individualized learning.

Guided by experienced, Montessori-trained educators, children thrive in thoughtfully prepared environments that encourage discovery and growth.

Twin Parks Montessori fosters a strong sense of community while supporting each child’s social, emotional, and academic development. With an emphasis on independence, respect, and a lifelong love of learning, Twin Parks Montessori empowers children to grow into confident, capable, and compassionate individuals prepared to embrace their unique potential.

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Vivvi Multiple campuses around NYC and Westchester enrollment@vivvi.co vivvi.com

Vivvi offers an exceptional preschool experience for children ages 0–5, designed for today’s families with flexibility, safety, and quality at its core. Vivvi's full-day, year-round program provides dependable coverage for working parents, with enriching experiences like art, chess, and movement thoughtfully built into the day—no need for additional programs or wraparound care. The inquiry-based curriculum is inspired by children’s interests and aligned to state and national standards, ensuring strong preparation for Pre-K, Kindergarten, and beyond. Through a balance of skill-based instruction, independent and group play, and outdoor time, children build academic foundations alongside curiosity and confidence. All of this takes place in beautiful, thoughtfully designed environments with best-in-class health and safety practices.

Zeta Charter Schools Serving Pre-K, elementary, and middle school students in Tremont Park, Mount Eden, the South Bronx, and Inwood 716-226-0192 zetaschools.org

Zeta Charter Schools offers a free, world-class education centered on the whole child. Its play-based Pre-K program inspires learning, sparks creativity, and builds social skills, while music, art, yoga, and theater classes nurture children’s passions. Each classroom is led by two dedicated teachers, students benefit from personalized learning that helps them grow. As the largest Pre-K provider in NYC, Zeta’s program lays a strong foundation in reading, thinking, and executive functioning through fun and engaging lessons tailored to young learners. Apply for the 2026–27 school year today.

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MOM STORIES

The Friendships That Stretch and the ones that shift

BY DONNA DUARTE LADD

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eing a good friend is something I’ve had to schooled on over time. I have been learning to do this since preschool—seriously, I remember friend fun and drama that early on. And I’m not saying I was the only one who was always crappy. I think most of us have been working our sh*t out since pre-K! I’ve learned what it means to be a friend, and a grown-up one at that, and how to handle friendships over the years. Basically, I did great sometimes and not so great other times.

I don’t think I fully understood how much my best friend had given to me until she had her first child. She’d gotten married and started her family years before I did. Something in me shifted. I knew that our friendship was changing. I had always been a little selfish, if I’m honest. A little bratty. I was nowhere near having a baby. Adulting was becoming a reality for all my friends, and this friendship was about to shift, and I had to meet it and be there for her. Not because I was afraid of losing the relationship, but because I couldn’t just show up for the fun stuff anymore. It was time to be all in.

Besides missing family and friends, I was ready to move back to my hometown, and this baby—who was growing fast—was also the best reason. And I wanted that baby to know me. So it was a mix of being a better friend and letting a toddler know “I had her back.” So mature. I know. Honestly, it was about becoming a better version of myself inside a relationship that was growing rapidly. And I wanted in. I wanted to grow up, too, to be present.

Friendship could be its own newsletter.

Just talking about it and all its layers and complexities is a feat. However, what I’ve found — and continue to find —is that as our priorities shift, so do we. I’ve watched myself reach for different people at different times, not always knowing why, but drawn to those who get it, who feel easy, who still fit.

But something about being a mom has shown me that friendships don’t always stretch with us. The day-to-day pulls at us—more from our bodies, our schedules, our energy—

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and something has to give. We cancel. We forget to text back. We mean to reach out and then don’t. Or we just… change.

Those “mommy friends” I had when my oldest was small—we were in the weeds together, like mom friends are. How could we not be? Any parent knows that with those PTA meetings and playdates... you’re now part of a tribe. But it’s different now, and I miss the everyday connection. I always say to first-time mom friends: work through the rough patches and keep that connection.

The grief we don’t name when a friendship fades is often like a breakup. No big talk. Just space that gets quieter, then wider, until you look up and realize it’s been months, then years.

Some friendships end because of our faults.

Sometimes it’s because one of us couldn’t see that the versions of ourselves we were when we knew each other had shifted too much.

And, hell yes, when a close friendship isn’t what it used to be, it stings. There are friendships I know I didn’t do a great job of keeping going. At other times, I felt someone quietly let go of me, without any big drama. There are no villains here. Only humans. Just doing their best.

I’ve been thinking about friendships lately, especially now that I have fewer around since the kids are no longer babies. We’re not all hanging around at pickups and drop-offs these days. In the pyramid of mom cliques (yes, sorry, there are mom cliques unfortunately, get on board), there’s a real difference between how we make and keep friends during those

early school years versus now, when the kids are walking themselves to school and (they think) don’t need us as much.

It’s a new chapter of life, and it’s not always easy. Some friendships fade. Some stretch. Some surprise you by sticking around in new forms. And I think it’s worth talking about—because it’s not just our relationships changing, it’s us.

To me, a real friendship is elastic. It stretches with time, distance, and chaos. It’s built on deep trust, not constant check-ins. I’m loyal in that quiet, steady way.

A wise old friend—ten years ahead of me in life (ha ha, when you’re 20 that feels SO OLD)—once said to me, after I asked her why she stayed close with someone who could be a lot: “I wouldn’t have any friends if I needed them to be perfect.” I always remember this as a reminder to myself that a friendship doesn’t need to be measured via perfection.

Now, with some lessons under my belt and my kids spending time around my friends, I hope they also learn that friendship doesn’t have to be flawless to be real. My oldest sees it.

He sees how I show up, my friendship with my ride-or-die bestie (his Godmother). He sees that a good one can stretch, take a few hits, even go quiet for a while, and still hold.

And (I hope) he sees that showing up— imperfectly, messily, honestly, is more than enough.

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PARENTING

How to Stop MEASURING Your MOTHERHOOD In achievement-driven communities, parenting can feel like a performance.

An expert explains the cost of constant comparison

BY DONNA DUARTE-LADD

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here’s this pressure that many moms, at least the moms I know, feel the moment they start spending time in the outside world, especially in high-achievement cities like New York. It’s that subtle but constant question humming in the background: Am I a good mother?

It shows up early. The baby who cries more than the others. The feeling that your child is that baby on the plane. Or your little one is having their third meltdown, while it seems like every other child is chilling and sharing snacks and taking turns, as if no other kid has ever had a tantrum before.

There is nothing wrong with any of this, but there can be a pull that comes with it. Then the pressure grows legs. Schedules fill up.

Playdates become social currency. There are activities and milestones to meet, and the list starts to feel endless, and all this is being shared on WhatsApp after you have finished your long day.

If you are spiraling under that “Good Mother” pressure and invisible standards, you are not alone. I have been there and still have to catch myself when I am focusing on not being organized enough, not calm enough, or on how well my child behavesand adjusts. Because somewhere along the way, motherhood may quietly shift from being a relationship to being something that feels evaluated, and that is something we need to just say “I’m going to pass” on this pressure.

So, how can we get back to not measuring ourselves and giving ourselves grace? We spoke with psychologist and executive coach Dr. Anne Welsh, author of the upcoming book Ambitious Mother, who says this quiet sense of being constantly measured is something she hears from mothers all the time.

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-We, moms, raise our kids in a great city bit it is also a pretty high-achievement, at the park, education, how does this environment shape moms’ expectations of themselves?

It often leads mothers to believe they have to do and be everything, all at once.

High-achievement environments tend to amplify perfectionism, not because moms are unrealistic or ungrateful, but because the bar feels impossibly high and constantly moving.

I see this show up with clients who are doing an extraordinary amount, deeply engaged, thoughtful parents, yet who feel like they’re failing because someone else’s version of motherhood looks more polished, more resourced, or more impressive. When other families appear to be doing more, spending more, or optimizing every aspect of their child’s life, it can quietly erode a mother’s confidence, even when she’s doing the most important things well.

What’s painful is that what looks like “not enough” from the inside is often more than enough in reality. But it’s very hard to hold onto that perspective when you’re immersed in a culture that equates good parenting with relentless investment and visible achievement.

-Why do so many of us moms feel that sinking feeling that we are failing when we are exhausted and are doing our best?

Because modern motherhood has become a no-win situation. Expectations have escalated dramatically, and they’re often contradictory. Mothers are expected to be endlessly present, emotionally regulated, and attuned, while also being ambitious, productive, and self-actualized, often with very little support.

Parenting is also one of the most judgment-filled spaces many women will ever inhabit. No matter what choices you make,

how you feed your baby, how your child sleeps, whether you work, how much you work, what school your child attends, there’s almost always criticism waiting on the other side. You’re told to push your child, but not too much. To protect them from stress, but also prepare them for a competitive world.

I often say to clients: You’re not failing.

You’re navigating an impossible set of expectations. When you’re constantly trying to thread an impossibly thin needle, feeling like you’re failing isn’t a personal flaw, it’s a predictable outcome.

-How can one know when their parenting has turned into unhealthy perfectionism or burnout?

One of the clearest signals is when a child’s behavior or success starts to feel like a verdict on a mother’s worth. When a parent’s happiness feels contingent on how well a child is doing, or when kids start to feel like a project to manage rather than a person to know, that’s a heavy burden for both sides.

Healthy involvement is responsive and attuned. Unhealthy perfectionism often shows up as rigid thinking: It has to be this way or everything falls apart. It’s driven by fear, fear of making mistakes, fear of being judged, fear of failing your child. I see this when moms feel intense shame over very normal parenting moments, like losing their patience, which then makes it harder to repair and reconnect.

Burnout can be quieter but just as important to notice. Chronic exhaustion, cynicism, emotional numbness, or a sense that nothing you do really matters anymore are all red flags. Many mothers tell me they think they should be enjoying their kids more, but can’t access that feeling. That’s not a parenting problem, it’s a depletion problem.

activities, or prioritizing mental health over prestige. Often, those decisions are hard precisely because they require trusting your own knowing in a culture that rewards comparison.

Good enough parenting also means keeping yourself in the equation. A mother’s mental health matters deeply to her children.

Kids benefit from having a parent who is present and regulated, not one who is constantly depleted or stretched beyond capacity. Caring for yourself isn’t separate from good parenting; it’s part of it.

-What’s one shift that can help moms move from comparing themselves to others and circumstances to feeling confident in their parenting choices?

Letting go of the idea that parenting, or motherhood itself, is one-size-fits-all.

Each child has unique needs, and each mother has her own values, limits, and desires. When we focus too much on what everyone else is doing, we slowly disconnect from our own intuition, and that’s where confidence erodes.

I often think about it like wearing clothes that don’t fit. You can spend all day adjusting and second-guessing yourself, or you can choose something that actually fits your body and your life. Motherhood works the same way. You are at your best in a version of motherhood that fits you and your family, not one borrowed from someone else.

This is also why I love running groups for ambitious mothers. When women come together and see, in real time, that there are many valid ways to be both ambitious and loving, something softens. The mother who loves her work and could never stay home. The mother who chooses daycare, a nanny, or flexible work. The mother working sixty hours a week and the mother working two. All of those paths can be thoughtful, intentional, and deeply loving. Comparison loses its grip when we see that fit, not uniformity, is the goal.

-What does “good enough parenting” realistically look like, especially for New York moms?

At its core, good enough parenting looks the same everywhere: being responsive, attuned, and willing to see the child in front of you for who they are. It’s about helping children get their needs met, not shaping

them into who you think they should be, or who the environment seems to reward most.

What’s harder in high-achievement cultures is holding onto that clarity when the noise is loud. I work with parents who make very intentional choices that run counter to the dominant culture, whether that’s changing schools, pulling back on

Dr. Anne Welsh is a clinical psychologist and executive coach who works with ambitious mothers navigating parenting, identity, and high-pressure environments. She is the founder of the Ambitious Mother’s Mastermind and the author of the upcoming book, Ambitious Mother: From Surviving to Thriving in Your Career and at Home (Bloomsbury, 8/6/26). , where women come together to move from burnout and perfectionism toward more sustainable, aligned ways of living and leading.

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SPACES

A Room of Her Own This mother was determined to design a space that meets her child where she is, and where she’s going

BY DONNA DUARTE-LADD

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here’s a nesting urgency that comes with having kids. First, there is the nursery room or, in some New York living cases, a large nook. Of course, once you have that space and it becomes everything, as your child grows, you also realize that the things they love now will not always be the things they reach for later.

For Brooklyn-based photographer Yumi Matsuo, looking at her three-year-old daughter Saya’s room, she knew she needed to update it. She did not just see a space that needed reimagining. She saw an opportunity to hold onto what she loved while also shaping it with more intention.

So she turned to friends.

Rodrigo Miguel and Matt Little of Knock Twice had long been the people their friend circle relied on for the kind of design questions that do not come with clear answers. How do you make a small space feel considered? How do you adapt a home as a child grows into it? How do you create something functional without losing beauty?

They had been talking about formalizing their studio when Yumi mentioned the room and her timeline. Eight weeks, start to finish.

It would be their first children’s space.

They said yes.

Yumi’s work as a photographer has shaped how she sees space, from light to composition to what feels natural versus what feels placed. Her images have appeared in campaigns for Baby Björn and UPPAbaby, but at home, her focus is closer in.

Saya, at three, is in that fully expressive, deeply specific stage of childhood. She knows what she likes. She moves through a room with intention, even if she does not yet have the language for it. Yumi wanted the room to meet her there. Not overstimulating, not overly precious, but responsive. A space where textures, colors, and objects feel

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approachable, where she could engage at her own pace.

During installation, she explored everything. What stayed with her were the smallest, most tactile things. A bright orange measuring tape that felt endlessly fascinating, and the soft, sculptural pretzel knot pillows made just for her.

Rodrigo’s background in industrial design shapes the way he approaches interiors.

Function comes first, how something works and how it is used, followed closely by feeling.

Aesthetics are what hold those two things together.

In a child’s room, that balance matters even more, especially when the goal is to create something sensory-friendly without losing visual warmth.

The palette draws from Saya’s world: butter yellow, strawberry red, and sky blue.

Colors that could easily feel overly bright are softened and slightly muted, paired with grounding neutrals that give the room a sense of ease.

Materials were chosen with the same care. Soft where they need to be, durable where they should be, and inviting to touch.

The room encourages interaction, but never demands it.

The goal was not to create a kid’s room. It was to create Saya’s room.

What defines the space most is not what was found, but what was made.

An IKEA bench that only fit half the window nook became the starting point.

Instead of replacing it, a second was sourced, both were painted, and custom cushions were sewn, transforming an in-between space into something whole. A place that works now for play, and later, for quiet.

There is a subtle kind of restraint in every decision. Nothing overly loud. Nothing unnecessary.

Yumi’s photographs are framed in a way that lets them belong to the room, not just

NOTES ON DESIGNING FOR CHILDREN On stripes: Before painting stripes, seal the tape with your base wall color. It keeps lines clean and sharp.

On color: Slightly muting tones allows color to exist without overwhelming the senses.

On pattern: Balance is key.

Larger patterns draw attention, while smaller ones soften the overall feel.

On shape: Soft geometry introduces a sense of ease and breaks up the rigidity of a room.

On mixing: Consistency, whether in tone, scale, or color, creates cohesion, even in a layered space.

hang within it. A metal utility door, once something to work around, became a magnetic wall, giving Saya a place to see her own work reflected back to her.

The room holds space for both expression and calm. For movement, and for pause. It is not designed for a fixed version of childhood.

It is designed to shift alongside it.

Some pieces arrived already holding that same philosophy, such as Oeuf, a Brooklynbased brand that has long approached children’s furniture with longevity in mind.

Design that feels at home in a space, not temporary within it. Their pieces, including the small bunny nightlight, bring a simplicity that complements the room’s quieter tone.

Gooselings added another layer of softness. Their bedding, made in Europe from natural materials, leans into comfort in a way that feels understated but essential. It is the kind of bedding that becomes part of a child’s rhythm, familiar, calming, and constant.

Everything else was found slowly or made by hand.

Rodrigo and Matt of Knock Twice helped Yumi transform Saya's small room into the perfect space, where function and feeling meet aesthetics.

Photos by Sidney Scheinberg Photography

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performances, free dance lessons, and more.

WANT TO GO?: Free. danceparade.org

Parallel Exit Presents The Sunset Circus WHEN: Sunday, May 3, 11 am – noon & 2 – 3 pm WHERE: Marlene Meyerson JCC Manhattan, 334 Amsterdam Ave., Upper West Side AGES: All WHAT: Circus artists will bring laughter and awe during this unique theatrical circus experience.

WANT TO GO?: $40–$50.

(646) 505–4444, mmjccm.org

Memorial Day Weekend Celebration WHEN: May 22–25; see website for schedule WHERE: Intrepid Museum, West 46th St., Hell’s Kitchen AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate our men and women in uniform with a variety of special programming. Plus, explore displays, activities and more all weekend long!

WANT TO GO?: Included with admission: $28-$38; free for children 4 and younger. intrepidmuseum.org

Mother’s Day Paint Night WHEN: Friday, May 8, 5 – 7 pm WHERE: Thomas Jefferson Recreation Center, 2180 First Ave., East Harlem AGES: All WHAT: Create lifelong memories this Mother’s Day as you bond, paint, and sip on lemonade while following stepby-step instructions to create your own masterpiece.

WANT TO GO?: Free. (212) 860–1383, nycgovparks.org

Japan Parade and Street Fair WHEN: Saturday, May 9, 11 am – 5 pm WHERE: Parade begins at W 81st St. and Central Park West, Upper West Side AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the friendship between the United States and Japan with floats, live performances, community organizations, local leaders, and special guests!

WANT TO GO?: Free. japanparadenyc.org

New Owner WHEN: May 9–17, see website for schedule WHERE: The New Victory Theater, 209 W 42nd St., Midtown

Living History: Let’s Celebrate Pinkster and Pinkster Stroll

New Owner at The New Victory Theater AGES: 7 and older WHAT: Go on a wistful, wordless journey from a dog’s point of view that melds tender puppetry with spellbinding animation.

WANT TO GO?: $25. (646) 223–3010, newvictory.org

SUBMERGE Marine Science Festival WHEN: Saturday, May 16, 11 am – 3 pm WHERE: Pier 84 Hudson River Park, 555 12th Ave., Hell’s Kitchen AGES: All WHAT: Join this interactive day of awesome experiments, kid-approved entertainment, kayaking, catch and release fishing and much more!

WANT TO GO?: Free. hudsonriverpark.org

Big Truck Day WHEN: Saturday, May 16, noon

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– 3 pm WHERE: Icahn Stadium, 20 Randall’s Island, Randall’s Island AGES: All WHAT: Get a close-up view of the large vehicles that keep New York City clean and safe.

Plus, there will also be story time, snacks, games, and other truck-related activities.

WANT TO GO?: Free. randallsisland.org

20th Annual New York Dance Parade and Festival WHEN: Saturday, May 16, noon – 6 pm WHERE: Parade begins at 17th St. and Avenue of the Americas, Chelsea AGES: All WHAT: See over 10,000 dancers take to the streets at the largest dance parade in the world. Plus, an interactive Festival follows featuring

WHEN: Saturday, May 30, 2 – 4 pm WHERE: The New York Historical, 170 Central Park West, Upper West Side AGES: All WHAT: Learn from Black New Yorkers dressed in historically inspired attire as they walk to commemorate the enslaved and free Black people of Dutch New York who celebrated the oldest African American holiday.

WANT TO GO?: Included with admission: $6–$24; free for children younger than 5. (212) 873–3400, nyhistory.org

2026 Israel Day on 5th WHEN: Sunday, May 31, 11:30 am – 4 pm WHERE: Parade begins on 62nd St. on Fifth Ave., Upper East Side AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the history and culture of Israel at this annual parade featuring elaborate floats, live performances, marching bands,

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community organizations, local leaders, and more.

WANT TO GO?: Free. israeldayon5th.com

BRONX 5th Annual Gjergj Kastrioti Skenderbeu Street Fair WHEN: Sunday, May 3, noon – 6 pm WHERE: Corner of Crescent.

Ave and Arthur Ave., Belmont AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the neighborhood’s long-standing Albanian-Italian relationship with traditional foods, music, dancing, performances, children’s activities, and more.

WANT TO GO?: Free admission. (347) 398–6161, bronxlittleitaly.com

Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood at the Bronx Zoo WHEN: May 22–Sept. 7, Weekdays, 10 am – 5 pm, Saturdays and Sundays, 10 am – 5:30 pm WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx Park AGES: All WHAT: Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood comes to the Bronx Zoo with the world premiere of this all-new experience where your family can spend a day with your favorite characters!

WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $28.70. bronxzoo.com

Flower Power Nights WHEN: Saturday, May 30, 7:30 – 10 pm WHERE: New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx Park AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate peace and love during a night filled with a mesmerizing liquid light show, music, art, and flowers!

WANT TO GO?: $45. (718) 817–8700, nybg.org

BROOKLYN 7th Annual Haitian Culture Day Parade and Festival WHEN: Saturday, May 9, 10 am

20th Annual New York Dance Parade and Festival – 6 pm WHERE: Parade begins at Nostrand Ave. and Church Ave., Flatbush AGES: All WHAT: This dynamic event honors the culture, history, and traditions of Haiti through music, art, and community pride.

WANT TO GO?: Free. eventbrite.com

Kite Festival WHEN: Saturday, May 16, 11 am – 3 pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, 334 Furman St., DUMBO AGES: All WHAT: Bring your own kite to fly during the one day of the year when kite flying is open to the public in the Park! Plus, enjoy live music, crafts, games, and activities.

WANT TO GO?: Free. brooklynbridgepark.org

17th of May Parade WHEN: Sunday, May 17, 1 pm WHERE: Parade begins at 3rd Ave. and 85 St., Bay Ridge AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the independence and freedom of May 17, Norway’s Constitution Day, with floats, performances, community groups, local leaders, first responders, and more.

WANT TO GO?: Free.

17thofmayparadecommitteebrooklyn.org

AGES: 1–2 WHAT: Designed for young children and their caregivers, greet the spring season in the Museum’s sculpture garden and look at Noguchi’s artworks and their natural elements.

WANT TO GO?: $16. (718) 204–7088, noguchi.org

Brooklyn Cyclones Star Trek Night WHEN: Friday, May 29, 6:30 pm WHERE: Maimonides Park, 1904 Surf Avenue, Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Dress as your favorite Star Trek characters when the ballpark is transformed for a night of themed music and in-game entertainment!

WANT TO GO?: mlb.com

Sheep Shearing Festival

QUEENS Viva El Cinco De Mayo 2026 WHEN: Sunday, May 3, 3 pm WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts at Queens College, 153-49 Reeves Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Experience the vibrant traditions of Mexican music and dance with lively rhythms, colorful costumes, and the rich cultural heritage of Mexico.

WANT TO GO?: $22. (718) 793– 8080, kupferbergcenter.org

Art for Tots: Gardens WHEN: Wednesday, May 6, 10:30 – 11:30 am WHERE: The Noguchi Museum, 9-01 33rd Road, Long Island City

WHEN: Saturday, May 16, 10 am – 5 pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: This annual festival offers farmer-led tours and sheep shearing demos, a scavenger hunt, hands-on kids crafts, local food vendors, and more.

WANT TO GO?: $17. queensfarm.org

Queens International Children’s Festival 2026 WHEN: Saturday, May 16, noon – 5 pm WHERE: Rufus King Park, 15029 Jamaica Ave., Queens AGES: All WHAT: This fun-filled event inspires young people and families to enjoy the arts through live music, dance performances, games, a bouncy house, arts and crafts, and more!

WANT TO GO?: Free

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AMERICAN 250

Walking Tour Brings Revolution to Life

BY DANIELLE RAMOS

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f you’ve ever done the Freedom Trail in Boston or walked around Philly hitting the big Revolutionary sites, you know how much easier it is for kids to feel like they’re part of history when they follow a simple route. Now, New York is getting its own version. The NYC Revolutionary Trail, a new 90-minute, 3-mile downtown Manhattan tour, uses augmented reality and Assassin’s Creed visuals to bring Revolutionary-era New York to life—just in time for America’s 250th anniversary.

Launching next month, the NYC Revolutionary Trail: Echoes of Revolution is a free, 90-minute, 3-mile walking tour through Lower Manhattan that uses augmented reality (AR) and geolocation to recreate Revolutionary-era New York right in today’s city streets.

The part kids are most likely to care about is that it uses visuals and characters from Ubisoft’s Assassin’s Creed world. It’s meant to feel like stepping into the story, keeping it interesting and fun for kids who so easily tune out when adults start talking about historical significance.

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America’s 250th anniversary is coming in 2026, and cities all over the country are gearing up for commemorations. Find out all that is going on in New York and beyond in America’s 250th Birthday: An NYC Family Guide.

New York Played a Big Role in the Revolution Boston and Philadelphia usually get top billing when we talk about the American Revolution. But according to the team behind the project, that leaves out something major: New York City was central to the war.

The creators point out that New York saw both the war’s first big battle and the British evacuation, events that bookend the conflict in a way most people don’t realize. The trail is meant to set that record straight and show New York as a central part of the country’s founding story.

What the Walking Tour Will Look Like Echoes of Revolution begins at The Battery and finishes at Federal Hall, winding through

Lower Manhattan with stops that include Bowling Green, Wall Street, and other key sites where important Revolutionary-era events took place Over the course of the walk, there will be: • Audio narration that tells the story of each site • Character profiles that make history feel like a story • Videos and links for those who want to learn more • A digital overlay showing colonial New York on top of today’s streets The tour is mobile and uses geolocation, so content appears as you reach each spot, designed to feel like you’re walking through the story. Echoes of Revolution will also connect with the Museum of the City of New York’s upcoming exhibit “The Occupied City.”

If you’ve got kids who are even slightly into history, tech, gaming, or New York itself, this trail can be a fun and educational weekend event, and since it’s free, you can go as many times as you like!

Learn more at nycrevolutionarytrail.org.

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