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FEATURES

STORIES & COLUMNS

12 | Camp Find out if sleepaway camp is an option for your child

4 | Editor’s Letter

34 | Parenting What’s your parenting style?

GUIDE TO SCHOOLS 18 | Education Navigating New York’s education landscape 22 | Education Should your child take AP classes?

8 | Tech The safest news sites for kids 6 | Parenting Keeping kids on track with extra time indoors 16 | Afterschool Activities Tips for finding the right afterschool activity 38 | Parenting Would-you-rather questions for kids of all ages

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FAMILY FUN 32 | Family Day Out Where to go snow tubing in your family 36 | Calendar Fun activities for families this month

DIRECTORIES 13 | Sleepaway Camps 22 | Education Listings

23 | Education Listings 30 | School Leader Bios

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EDITOR’S NOTE

Hello, 2025!

Happy New Year! Last year brought about a lot of things that weren’t exactly on my bingo card, but as a parent you just have to roll with the punches. Here’s to hoping 2025 is a great one!

Have the winter doldrums set in yet?

Instead of conceding to cabin fever, get out and have some cold-weather fun! We’re sharing 15 Cool Spots for Snow Tubing (page 12), a popular winter activity that requires little skill or equipment like skiing does, but is just as exciting. And for the times when it’s just too yucky out, we’re sharing 30 WouldYou-Rather Questions (page 38) for kids of all ages to get a conversation started on game night — or any night!

It may seem early, but now is the best time to start planning for the summer and whether your kids will be attending camp. We’re helping parents choose between Day Camp or Overnight Camp (page 12) and sharing some great Sleepaway Camps (page 18) to consider.

The first half of the school year is behind us, which means the next step in your child’s education journey is approaching. Whether you’re interested in a private/independent school, a public/charter school or a religious institution like Catholic school, our 2025 Ultimate Guide to Schools (page 17) will surely help you choose the best program

for your child. We’re breaking down your options in Navigating New York’s Education Landscape (page 16), sharing tons of great schools in our Education Directory (page 12), and even introducing you to the schools’ wonderful leaders as well (page 30).

Lastly, we spoke to an expert who is breaking down the most common parenting styles that are trending right now. Find out which style is most like yours (page 34).

Wishing your family all the best 2025 has to offer!

Jeannine

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PARENTING

Snow Day!

Ways to keep your kids on track with extra time indoors

BY DR. MARCIE BEIGEL

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hen it gets cold, children tend to spend more time indoors with you.

And after about two weeks, they get bored, and you run out of ideas. Slowly, your rules regarding screen time disintegrate and they end up in front of your TV, iPad, or iPhone so often that you wonder how their eyes aren’t falling out.

With this increased screen time, your child’s behavior changes. They whine and complain more often. Throughout the day you’ll observe (and experience!) more tantrums and pushback. Below are a few guidelines that families in my practice and in my online programs find incredibly useful in the winter months. Use them!

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Schedule screen-free time for the entire family. Your little ones are watching you, so if your eyes are glued to your screen, their eyes will be also. Designate at least 30 minutes a day for “non-screen family time.”

Tell them why you are using a screen.

When you have to use a device to work or coordinate schedules, communicate that so they understand that technology is a tool and not a destination. Before you dive in, set them up with something else to do.

Create a surprise box of activities that can be done in your home. Write the titles of the games on small slips of paper in either words or pictures, depending on your child’s age and ability. When they complain that there isn’t anything to do, have them reach in the box and pick out a slip of paper.

Make a daily schedule, especially when you have to be home the entire day. This will make the day feel like it’s moving and not dragging on. This could be a very approximate schedule that is broken down into morning and afternoon and that you update as the day goes on. Make sure to put

this somewhere that you and your kids can check it.

Write up clear, simple rules for screen time — and stick to them. Post the rules in a place where everyone will see them on a regular basis. I recommend starting with these two rules: “Screens can be used for 60 minutes every day.” “All screens are shut off one hour before bedtime.” Just two short and simple rules go a very long way!

Ultimately, you need to be creative to find activities that do not require screens, and your small beings will need support in playing them. You might consider PlayDoh, Go Fish, Bingo, a jigsaw puzzle, writing holiday cards, or baking cookies.

The possibilities are endless and there are multitudes of simple activities you can find outlined on the internet. When you enjoy spending time with your family away from your screen your little ones will enjoy it, too!

Dr. Marcie Beigel is a behavior specialist and best-selling author with over 20 years of experience working with families. Learn more at drmarcie.com.

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The 7 Safest News Sites for Children

By Naosha GreGG

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alking to your children about the news can be hard — misinformation spreads quickly around social media, and its hard to tell what’s fact versus hearsay. With so much going on these days, it can be hard to determine what’s a credible website and what’s not, especially when it comes to children.

“Children often hear about news stories at school or when they are with friends so it is important that parents have sensitive and age-appropriate conversations if their child brings up a news story at home,” says Michelle Ciulla Lipkin, Executive Director at National Association for Media Literacy Education. “News is often sensationalized, and parents should do their best to give their children information that is factual and accurate while also protecting them and making sure they feel safe.”

According to Common Sense Media, a study found that many children feel neglected and mis-represented by the news. 74 percent felt that the news should target more people their age, while 69 percent believed that the media has no idea about the experience of kids their age. Meanwhile 63 percent of children said that the news makes them feel angry, sad, scared or depressed.

“Parents should understand that, unless news sites specifically say they are appropriate for children, news outlets target adult viewers. Most news programs cover difficult stories that are most likely not appropriate for children,” Lipkin continues. “Parents should be cautious about exposing children, especially very young ones, to news content and should reconsider news as background for their morning or evening routine.”

While sifting through the news of the day can feel like a daily a daily task, it doesn’t have to be. With the help of Lipkin, we have listed the safest and most credible news sites for children, so that you can ensure your little one is getting informed while also staying safe.

Snopes Snopes is a great resource for anyone looking

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to verify the facts. The website launched in 1994, and originally served as an encyclopedia on folklore and urban legends. As time went on, the demand for reliable facts grew, and so did Snopes. The site now serves as the largest and one of the most credible organizations for verification and debunking of news, myths, mysteries and more. Snopes also played a key part in the 2016 election in debunking political misinformation and developments.

TIME for Kids TIME for Kids is known for their reliable and kid-friendly news and current events.

The magazine offers a variety of information, including politics, business, Earth science and more. The site articles stick to the facts, and highlight and define larger vocabulary words to encourage learning. It is also categorized by grade, and also features articles on wellness and kids around the world who are making a difference.

Common Sense Media Common Sense Media is a great resource for parents and children alike. The site is based from a non-profit that It rates media such as television shows, books, games, podcasts and apps to help provide parents a thorough and honest review if it is kid-friendly or not.

“Common Sense Media has ratings for media content that could be helpful if you are a parent searching for appropriate news content for their children,” Lipkin adds.

DOGO Kids Dogo Kids is a credible news site for children.

It’s content focuses on trending news, but also broadens into categories including culture, technology, science and world news. Kids can learn about the duct-taped banana that sold for six million dollars, or the ancient unearthed coins that were found to be worth millions!

Student News Daily This Student News Daily is a great way to introduce journalism to tweens and teens. The site aggregates information from trusted and reported sources such as CBS, The Wall Street Journal, NBC, Politico and more. The articles contain explanations of unfamiliar words, and the site also contains resources for media bias, election news and journalists code of ethics.

KidNuz KidNuz is a kid-friendly podcast that focuses on stories of the day. It’s age appropriate, nonpartisan, and produced by Emmywinning broadcast journalists who believe children also have a right to be up to date with current events. Each episode is seven minutes and features six news stories.

The Week Junior This magazine is designed to help inspire middle grade students (ages 8 to 14) to discuss the news with their parents through informative content, featuring topics like international politics, national news and nature.

Family Travel Special

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RochesteR, NY: A WiNteR WoNdeRlANd foR fAmilies For NYC families seeking a memorable winter getaway, Rochester, NY offers a perfect blend of snowy adventures, cozy experiences, and indoor fun—just a few hours away. When the city is draped in a blanket of snow, Rochester transforms into an idyllic winter wonderland, providing the ideal escape from the hustle and bustle.

Embrace the Outdoors Families can immerse themselves in winter magic at Mendon Ponds Park, offering ice skating, sledding, and guided snowshoeing tours through serene, snowcovered landscapes. For a thrilling day out, head to Bristol Mountain for skiing and snowboarding with runs suitable for every skill level or experience the exhilarating snow tubing park.

Step Back in Time At the Genesee Country Village & Museum, families can explore the largest living history museum in New York State, where the later winter months

bring maple sugaring and snow-shoeing activities. It’s an interactive way for kids to learn about history while enjoying a charming winter atmosphere.

Indoor Escapes from the Cold Rochester’s renowned Strong National Museum of Play and Rochester Museum & Science Center keep kids entertained for hours. The George Eastman Museum offers a cozy respite to explore photography’s rich history in the restored mansion of Kodak founder, George Eastman.

Seasonal Fun With 140+ annual festivals and events in Rochester, NY there is always something fun and exciting taking place and winter is no different. Planning ahead for spring and summer includes the Rochester Lilac Festival, Rochester International Jazz Festival and Corn Hill Arts Festival.

Rochester, NY offers the perfect escape, ensuring unforgettable memories for families of all ages. Learn more at visitrochester.com.

Come soar. Come smile. Come see what all the excitement is about. Rochester and the Finger Lakes are the perfect family getaway for unique and extraordinary adventures.

Did we mention the world’s largest collection of toys, dolls, and games? Pack your bags and hit the road for an unforgettable trip in a destination full of surprises. With fun for every family, every season of the year, playtime tends to last a little longer in our backyard. Learn more at visitrochester.com. ®I LOVE NEW YORK is a registered trademark and service mark of the New York State Department of Economic Development; used with permission.

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Family Travel Special

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Winter escape in the Lake GeorGe area If you’re looking for a winter escape, check out the Lake George Area in the Adirondacks.

Featuring three premier ski resorts – Gore, West, and Hickory - ‘Ski the 3’ should be on your winter list of must-dos! Gore Mountain, the largest ski resort in New York State, has seven mountains with a total of 14 lifts, 108 trails, and a 2537’ vertical. West Mountain is family-owned and operated with 25 trails for skiing and boarding, as well as a tubing park. Hickory Ski Center offers a vintage ski experience with a vertical drop of 1,200 feet and challenging and expert-level trails.

The Lake George Area is a host to many winter events, festivals, and carnivals. Every weekend during February, the Lake George Carnival features a chili cook-off, outhouse races, an ATV poker run, and the famous Lake George Polar Plunge. Another annual carnival is held at Brant Lake, where broomball tournaments, human foosball competitions, and hockey shoot-offs take place.

Enjoy the annual Ice Bars in and around Lake George as sculpture-like ice creations accompany local events, like the Adirondack Pub & Brewery’s Funky Ice Fest. Attendees can

frequent hosted ice bar parties at venues like The Gem, the Lagoon, and the Sagamore.

If watching sports is more your speed, enjoy puck-passing, net-catching hockey at the Cool Insuring Arena. The Eastern Conference Hockey League and affiliate of the NHL’s New Jersey Devils, Adirondack Thunder, takes the ice to deliver hard-hitting thrills every game.

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For generations, genera families and friends have been draw drawn to this place, where fresh air is scented by autumn in the woods and time seems to waver between nostalgia and now.

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Vacation,” the goal of the Lake George Area is to promote travel and tourism to the over dozen towns and hamlets that make up Warren County, known as the “Southern Gateway to the Adirondacks.”

Learn more about Lake George at visitlakegeorge.com, on Facebook @ TheLakeGeorgeArea, or Instagram and TikTok @lakegeorgearea.

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Winter Fun in neW York’s sullivan Catskills For families looking for an exciting getaway this winter, New York’s Sullivan Catskills offers a mix of winter fun — just 90 minutes from New York City!

Holiday Mountain Ski and Fun Park has all-new trails, chairlifts, a learning center, and 12 snow tubing lanes. It’s a mountain of family adventure every season!

Ice fishing is a popular pastime at Sullivan Catskills, so layer up and drop in a line whenever the ice is at least four inches thick.

For an even cooler time, put on a some snowshoes and go exploring through scenic trails (pro tip: find a list of top trails for hiking at trailkeeper.org). Check out the Dove Trail to see how many of the 75+ hand-painted dove sculptures your family can find! And be sure to pack binoculars to scan the skies for real birds — eagle-watching on the shores of the Upper Delaware River is a family favorite.

Make the most of your tour! Visit the charming downtowns, check out the Good Taste Beverage Trail, sample some Catskill-icious food, enjoy live music, and maybe even trek it up to Beer Mountain.

Cure your cabin fever at the Kartrite Resort

and Indoor Waterpark where it’s always 84 degrees inside on the water rides and waterslides, and your family can stay in one of the 324 suites and eat at any of the eight dining options.

Another great family option for lodging is Villa Roma Resort and Conference Center, featuring an indoor pool, game room, sports complex, bowling alley, bounce houses, racquetball, ski-

ing, snowboarding and tubing, as well as nearly a dozen dining options and cocktail lounges.

Roscoe Mountain House also offers a bevy of winter activities to check out as well.

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Day Camp or Overnight Camp?

Which is right for your child?

By Jess Michaels

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hoosing to send your child to camp is one of the greatest gifts you can give them. From making new friends to gaining independence to discovering new passions, camp can be an enriching experience for your child. Before you make any camp decisions, you first have to consider whether day or overnight camp is right for your child.

Age is certainly one of the factors to consider when choosing between day and overnight camp. Day camps vary from what age they begin but can start at around two years old while overnight camp is generally for children ages eight and up.

“There is no right age for a child to begin day camp. It’s dependent on the individual and the parent,” said Sam Borek, Owner and Director of Woodmont Day Camp in New City, NY. “When children are ready to broaden their horizons from whichever program they are currently in, they are ready for day camp.

Some children thrive from a change in environment. If a child is at the same nursery school year-round, they don’t necessarily have any new challenges. Going to day camp can open up a whole new world of activities and experiences for your child.”

There are many benefits to attending day camp. “One of the most important benefits of sending your child to day camp is the sense of independence your child will feel and learning that they can be cared for by other trusted adults. Going to day camp also makes the transition to school so much easier for children,” explained Mark Transport, Owner and Director of Crestwood Day Camp in Melville, NY. Borek added that swimming is another great reason to start day camp at a young age. “Many day camps have strong swim programs which is an important skill for children to learn early on.”

Transport, who is also a partner in Berkshire Trails Camp and Camp Southwoods, two overnight camps, said there are signs that your child may be ready to move on from day camp to overnight camp. “When your child wants more out of camp, is looking for additional activities at the end of the camp day, or isn’t coming home tired, it’s obvious that your child is ready for more.” Another indication that your child is ready for overnight camp is when

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they start to ask about the experience or show interest when you bring up the topic. Adam Weinstein, Executive Director of Berkshire Hills Eisenberg Camp, a Jewish coed overnight camp in Copake, NY said if a child is talking about overnight camp and saying they are ready, it usually means they are. “It’s also ok for parents to be the ones to bring up the idea of overnight camp and expose your child to a camp tour or a virtual tour. This will allow them to know more about what the experience is like. These things will help a child decide whether overnight camp feels right for them.”

Being ready for overnight camp doesn’t mean a child won’t feel nervous about it.

“Parents should ask the camp director what they do to make campers more comfortable as camp approaches. We connect new campers to current campers which can help ease nerves, and we also do a new camper weekend for the whole family. This allows families to get to know the staff, see where their bunk will be, and spend time with other new campers which helps everyone feel more confident about starting camp,” said Weinstein. There

are many benefits to overnight camp including independence, confidence-building activities, a break from technology, and learning to live with others. Transport said that another great benefit is that children who go to overnight camp are better prepared for the college experience. “Going away to college is easier because they have already learned how to live away from their parents. The college transition is much easier and less daunting when you have gone to overnight camp.”

It’s important to understand who your child is before making any camp decisions. While overnight camp is an amazing experience, plenty of children remain at day camp for years.

Borek said, “Many day camps have programs that evolve as children get older and have strong programs for older campers. These programs can include day trips, unique opportunities at camp, and overnight trips that last a few days which can be a nice hybrid experience for a child not quite ready for overnight camp.”

Whether you are sending your child to day or overnight camp, it’s bound to be a summer full of life-changing experiences for your child!

Camp

Sleepaway

CampS Crafting memories this summer

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onths before summer, many parents entertain an age-old question: how can we make this summer special for their kids? One tradition is summer sleepaway camps.

Sleepaway camps nourish kids while giving them a break from everyday routine, whether from the city or from playing videos all day (#iykyk.), This allows kids to step out of their comfort zones after a long school year and explore new or familiar friendships in a supportive and supervised setting. These camp experiences contribute to personal development, resilience, and a deeper connection. The best part is that there is a camp for every kid that is the perfect fit for a fantastic summer.

Check out our picks!

Camp Awosting 296 west St, morris, CT awosting.com

Camp Awosting is an esteemed sleepaway camp for boys ages 7 to 16 with over 125 years of history. Located on Bantam Lake in Morris, CT, Awosting offers a range of outdoor facilities such as Go-Karts, Minibikes, Waterskiing, and over 40 other unforgettable activities.

Community is the lifeblood of Camp Awosting and campers become a true part of the Ebner Camps family. The close-knit atmosphere allows Awosting’s experienced staff to focus on developing the camp’s core values in their campers: brotherhood, independence, confidence and experience. At Camp Awosting their philosophy is “Boys Learn

by Doing,” teaching children life lessons through experiences.

Camp Becket for Boys & Chimney Corners Camp for Girls 748 Hamilton Road, Becket, ma 413-623-8991 bccymca.org

Located in the beautiful Berkshires of Western MA, these overnight camps focus on independence, confidence, and building life skills in a fun, supportive environment. Kids enjoy private lakes, caring and qualified staff, and over 30 activities, including sports, arts, swimming, sailing, cooking, performing arts, and more. Every day is packed with choice, friendships, and growth. Camp Becket parents say it is an amazing place for their children to develop, find themselves, and find their way with others in a positive, values-affirming environment.

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CAMP

Dorothy P Flint 4-H Camp Camp Chinqueka 1519 Bantam Rd, Bantam, CT chinqueka.com

3186 Sound Ave., Riverhead, NY 516-832-2591 Ext. 109, DPF4hCamp@cornell.edu ccenassau.org/dpf-4-h-camp

Camp Chinqueka is an all-girl summer camp in Bantam, CT, for campers ages 7-16. Since 1955, girls from around the world have made Chinqueka their summer home. Summers at Camp Chinqueka offer a blend of modern programs such Archery, Go-Karts, and High Ropes while continuing camp traditions built over 75 years of history. Whether it’s on the sports field or performing onstage, at Chinqueka girls feel empowered and accomplished. Counselors act as role models to campers, using the camp’s four core values as a foundation to their programs: empowerment, sisterhood, kindness and growth.

The Chinqueka philosophy “Where Girls Can Be Girls” is based on a foundation of life lessons through unique and fun experiences.

Dorothy P. Flint 4-H Camp, located on 140 scenic acres along the Long Island Sound in Riverhead, NY, offers co-ed overnight and day camp experiences for youth aged 5-16. Guided by the values of leadership, community, and stewardship, the camp empowers youth to grow into engaged, capable individuals ready to meet life’s challenges. Programs include Archery, Nature & Ecology, Outdoor Living & Cooking, Farm & Agriculture, Sports & Swimming, High Ropes, STEAM, Leadership Training, Performing Arts, and Visual Arts & Crafts. With a focus on hands-on 4-H educational programs, campers build confidence, foster creativity, and develop a love for learning in a fun and inclusive environment that celebrates diversity and encourages personal growth.

Fairview Lake YMCA Camps & Lake in the Woods YMCA Camps 1035 Fairview Lake Rd., Newton, NJ 973-383-9282, fairviewlake@metroymcas.org fairviewlakeymca.org/summer

Fairview Lake YMCA Camps and its sister camp, Lake in the Woods YMCA Camps at Blair Academy, offer unforgettable summer adventures filled with wonder, magic, and personal growth. Located in scenic northwestern New Jersey, these sleepaway camps provide kids entering 2nd-10th grades with the opportunity to explore nature, build lifelong friendships, and discover new passions. Campers can choose from a variety of programs, including traditional camp, ranch camp, adventure trips, specialty camps, and leadership development. Both camps prioritize inclusivity, character-building, and outdoor fun, creating a safe, supportive environment where every camper feels valued. From campfires to creative challenges, each day sparks discovery and joy, inspiring campers to return year after year to create memories that will last a lifetime.

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Forest Lake Camp 261 Forest Lake Road, Chestertown, NY 518-623-4771, info@forestlakecamp.com forestlakecamp.com

Forest Lake Camp is not just a summer camp – it’s a family. The camp is located just 3.5 hours from NYC and spans 834 private acres in the breathtaking Adirondacks. Campers spend the summer surrounded by people who encourage them to be themselves, discover new things and challenge themselves. FLC is a “brother/sister camp” (separate camps for boys and girls) with the goal of letting kids rediscover what it means to be a kid. Free from technology, FLC allows campers the chance to discover, experience and thrive. FLC’s mission is to help campers grow confidence and independence while providing them with experiences and memories that will last a lifetime.

Camp

Greenwood Trails 390 Winchester Rd, Winsted, CT greenwoodtrails.com owen@greenwoodtrails.com

Frost Valley

Nestled in the breathtaking Catskill Mountains, just two hours from New York City, Frost Valley offers a safe and inclusive environment where campers of all backgrounds discover the joys of community, nature, art, and recreation. The camp offers one of the most breathtaking natural settings in the country for children. With over 100 summers under their belt, Frost Valley is guided by a mission to build a healthy mind, body and spirit for all. Children from all backgrounds come together to try exciting new things in a safe environment while building friendships. Whether it’s tackling new challenges, building resilience, or forming lifelong friendships, every moment at Frost Valley creates memories that last a lifetime.

Greenwood Trails is an award-winning coed sleepaway camp for ages 7-16 where kids can unplug from technology and just be kids again!

Nestled in the foothills of the Berkshires, the camp offers an unforgettable experience filled with fun, friendship, and personal growth. One of the things that sets Greenwood Trails apart is the unique choicebased program. Campers get to choose their own activities, from sports to arts to swimming to nature exploration to flying trapeze to outdoor cooking to an aerial adventure park to messy paint twister and everything in between. This ensures every day is an exciting new opportunity. Beyond the fun, kids build lifelong friendships and develop essential life skills like independence, teamwork, and resilience in a supportive and nurturing environment. At Greenwood Trails, the focus is on creating memories, building community, and helping campers truly be themselves and discover their unique paths.

Kamp Kohut

YMCA Camp Gorham

151 Kohut Rd., Oxford, Maine kampkohut.com

265 Darts Lake Rd., Eagle Bay, NY 315-357-6401, CampGorham@RochesterYMCA.org ymcaroc.co/Gorham25

2000 Frost Valley Rd., Claryville, NY frostvalley.org/camps

Rich in Maine camping traditions since 1907, Kamp Kohut provides a beautiful location, extensive facilities and a nurturing environment.

Surrounded by 11-mile Thompson Lake, Kohut offers a magnificent setting with a program designed to create lifelong friendships, skills, and memories. One counselor per 2.5 campers ensures the individual needs of its campers. An excellent program combines structure with choice and allows campers the opportunity to choose from over 50 different activities. Weekly trips throughout beautiful Maine, and fun all-camp special events complement its regular schedule. Experienced and enthusiastic counselors provide high quality instruction, a kind bunk environment, and a safe setting for everyone. Kamp Kohut is ACA accredited and serves campers ages 7-16.

YMCA Camp Gorham believes in creating lasting memories and fostering personal growth through adventure and community. This overnight camp in the beautiful Adirondacks offers a unique opportunity for children to explore new horizons, build lifelong friendships, and develop essential life skills. Whether a seasoned camper or new to the experience, Camp Gorham provides the opportunity for kids from all backgrounds to come together to unplug and connect, emerging with a positive sense of self and confidence in who they are. Engaging programs are designed to cater to a range of interests, ensuring every camper feels included and empowered. From thrilling adventures to creative activities, there’s always something exciting to discover at Camp Gorham.

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AFTERSCHOOL ACTIVITIES

15 Tips for Finding the Right Afterschool Activity

BY DENISE YEARIAN

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ids’ interests and activities are as diverse as the children themselves. Just as the right afterschool activity can build self-esteem and provide hours of enjoyment, the wrong one can lead to feelings of failure, frustration and fatigue. So how do you find the right extracurricular activity for your child?

Watch them play. Consider their interests, temperament and personality. Do they like constant physical activity or quieter experiences?

Look at strengths and weaknesses. Would they like to fine-tune those strengths or are there areas of weakness that could be improved with instruction?

Explore through exposure. Expose them to various activities and events. Within this, provide them with a balance of both group and individual activities. Ask for their feedback and follow their lead.

Get a physical. Before starting any athletic program, take your child for a physical exam to detect vision or hearing problems or other medical conditions that may make it difficult to participate in the activity.

Consider time commitments. How much family time is committed now? How much will this activity entail? Will personal practice time be expected?

Count the cost. Think about uniforms, trips and other expenses not covered in the initial fee.

Get recommendations. Talk with your child’s school administration. If you are looking for a physical activity, the PE teacher may have some ideas. If it’s a music, the school’s music teacher might give you a lead. The guidance counselor may be of assistance too. Also get feedback from friends and family members regarding programs their children have been

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in. Are they happy with it? Is there anything they don’t like about it? How often are practices, lessons or meetings? Is there any one-on-one instruction?

Find a good match. Look for a program that aligns with your goals and objectives.

Consider class size; instructors’ experience; frequency and duration of lessons, practices or meetings; and curriculum and philosophy.

Stop in. If the program has ongoing instruction, ask if you can stop by for a visit. Sit in on a session and observe it in progress. Does the instructor interact with the students? Do they use positive reinforcement? Are the students listening and attentive? Do they seem happy?

Is the program geared for the skill and developmental level of the children?

Ask about introductory classes. Many ongoing programs offer introductory classes with no commitment. This allows your child to become familiar with the program and serves as a screening process to see if the instructor is running the program at the children’s level.

Review commitments. Talk with your child about the commitment they are making to the activity before enrollment. Are they willing to go to games, practices, classes or meetings? Will they commit to investing personal practice time, if called for? Will they

participate in fundraisers?

Persevering points to ponder. If your child wants to quit an activity, consider your personal view on making them persevere. Is this a repeated pattern that needs to be addressed?

Will it affect the rest of the team or group if they leave? Is it detrimental to your child’s health and well-being to continue?

Keep schedules open. Children need free playtime and downtime as much as they need scheduled activities. Avoid over scheduling your child with too many activities and watch for signs that they may be too taxed. If this happens, reevaluate current commitments and look for ways to cut back.

Rehash unsuccessful endeavors. If at first you don’t succeed, talk it over. Ask your child what they didn’t like about the activity, so you don’t repeat the mistake when choosing a new activity. Is it the instructor? Other kids in the program? The activity itself?

Try something new. If your child has taken up an athletic activity, such as soccer, but didn’t like it try a different sport. If they played the saxophone and it wasn’t a good fit, try a new instrument. Or choose something completely different. The point is, give your child a variety of experiences and maybe they will find something they truly enjoy.

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ducation is the cornerstone of a child’s development, and in New York, parents are fortunate to have access to a myriad of top-tier educational institutions - some of the best in the country, even. New York’s educational landscape is as diverse as the city/ state itself, offering endless opportunities for children to thrive from their first day of nursery school to high school graduation.

From early childhood programs to high schools, the diverse array of options—public, private, charter, magnet, and faith-based schools—ensures there is something for every family.

Choosing the right school for your child can be challenging, but understanding the options can make the process less daunting. Making the right choice involves understanding your child’s needs, interests, and strengths. Open houses and school tours provide insight into a school’s culture and programs. Asking about class sizes, extracurricular activities, and support services can help you make an informed decision. Staying informed will empower you to create the best educational pathway for your child. Here’s a comprehensive look at the options available to help you make the right decisions for your child’s education.

Early Education: Nursery, Daycares, and Preschools Starting your child’s education journey begins with nursery, daycare, or preschool.

New York’s early childhood programs cater to a wide range of needs, offering flexible schedules, bilingual education, and an emphasis on community building and mental well-being. Many programs are designed to support parents’ busy lives, offering care as early as infancy and laying a foundation for academic and social development.

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Early education centers often focus on play-based learning, introducing young children to concepts like problem-solving, creativity, and communication. Many also emphasize cultural diversity, offering bilingual and even trilingual programs to prepare children for a globalized world.

Public Schools New York’s public school system is vast and dynamic, serving students from pre-K through high school. With a strong emphasis on academic achievement, inclusivity, and future readiness, public schools provide a well-rounded education. High schools offer robust resources, including career counseling, internships, and college preparatory programs.

The city’s public schools are also known for their extracurricular activities, from performing arts and sports to STEM clubs and volunteer opportunities, allowing students to discover and nurture their passions. Special education and multilingual support ensure all children receive equitable access to quality education.

Charter Schools Charter schools provide tuition-free education with the flexibility to innovate.

Operating independently from the traditional public school system, they emphasize personalized learning, smaller class sizes, and extended school days or years.

Charter schools often adopt unique educational approaches, such as projectbased learning, thematic curricula, or technology integration. These schools are held accountable for their performance, with funding tied to meeting specific academic goals. Many charter schools also cater to special education and English language learners, ensuring inclusive education for diverse student populations.

Private and Independent Schools Private schools, often referred to as independent schools, offer an exceptional range of opportunities for middle and high school students. Funded by tuition and charitable donations, these schools are free to design their curricula, emphasizing academic excellence, creativity, and leadership.

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Private schools often provide access to state-of-the-art facilities, from science labs and art studios to athletic fields and theaters.

Small class sizes foster close relationships between students and teachers, creating a supportive learning environment. Students are encouraged to take on leadership roles, participate in meaningful projects, and explore interests through clubs, sports, and summer programs.

For families seeking a residential education experience, New York’s boarding schools offer a unique blend of independence and structure. With rigorous academics and a diverse student body, these institutions prepare students for success in college and beyond.

Catholic Schools Catholic schools blend rigorous academics with a strong moral foundation. With a focus on values like compassion, integrity, and respect, these schools nurture the whole child. Smaller class sizes allow for personalized attention, and the integration of STEM programs ensures students are equipped for modern challenges.

Catholic high schools are particularly known for their strong graduation rates and college acceptance statistics. Families considering this path should familiarize themselves with the Test for Admission into Catholic High Schools (TACHS) to help their children prepare for the application process.

Jewish Schools Jewish schools offer a holistic approach to education, combining academics with religious and cultural teachings. Students engage in Torah study, Jewish history, and community service, fostering a deep connection to their heritage.

Beyond the classroom, these schools provide extracurricular opportunities, such as clubs, field trips, and religious observances, creating a rich and balanced educational experience. Co-ed and single-sex options cater to different family preferences, ensuring a supportive environment for every student.

International Schools New York is home to several international schools that cater to expatriate families and globally-minded parents. These schools follow international curricula, such as the International Baccalaureate (IB) or British, French, or German systems.

International schools emphasize global

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citizenship, language immersion, and cross-cultural understanding. Students benefit from a multicultural environment and are well-prepared for higher education worldwide.

Montessori Schools Montessori schools focus on child-led learning, encouraging independence and curiosity. Using a hands-on approach, these schools allow students to explore subjects at their own pace, fostering critical thinking and creativity.

Montessori programs often include mixed-age classrooms, where older students mentor younger peers, creating a collaborative and nurturing environment.

These schools are ideal for families seeking a personalized, non-traditional educational experience.

Magnet Schools Magnet schools specialize in thematic programs such as STEM, arts, or global studies. These tuition-free schools offer innovative curricula and hands-on learning

experiences, often in partnership with universities and cultural institutions.

Magnet schools are known for their creative teaching methods, including project-based learning and real-world applications. Dedicated spaces like maker labs, horticultural centers, and broadcast studios provide students with enriching experiences that go beyond traditional classroom settings.

Specialized High Schools Specialized High Schools are designated for students who excel greatly in a specific area of concentration like academics or performing arts. Admission to these schools typically requires an entrance exam or audition. Once admitted, students benefit from rigorous study, access to cutting-edge resources, and connections to elite colleges and universities.

There are currently nine specialized high schools in New York City and you must be a resident to apply to these schools. However, there are specialuzed high schools outside of NYC as well with similar requirements for entry.

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Should My Child Take AP Classes?

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any parents wonder whether an A in a Regents or College Prep class is better than a B in an AP course. As with many things in education, the decision is not a binary yes or no. There is certainly a lot to consider. What are your child’s specific academic needs? What is their level of prior achievement? What are their scholastic interests and strengths? Beyond that, what are their college goals? Though certainly a lot to navigate, having an awareness of the potential benefits of and best strategies for selecting AP courses is key to an informed decision.

AP classes are more than just a more rigorous course that offers potential for college credit. These courses are constructed around high standards and are led by teachers who must ultimately demonstrate that their students perform well on the end-of-course exams. Moreover, the AP exam often helps drive content and teaching decisions to make for a better overall course experience for the student, even if it is more challenging. The support and engagement of AP teachers, coupled with the motivation and drive of one’s peers, often encourages higher levels of learning and performance from students.

How to Choose Which AP Courses Your Child Should Take Of course, it isn’t always sensical to sign up for every advanced-placement course that is offered. The selection of AP courses your child takes should revolve around their academic interests, future college major or career path, and record of prior academic achievement. For a student with little interest in a discipline like physics, for example, it may not be wise to push enrollment in an AP physics course that could ultimately lead to below-average learning outcomes. However, for those on the cusp in terms of their PSAT scores, prior grades, and counselor recommendations, it is often wise to err toward selecting AP courses.

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How many AP classes should my child take each year?

For some students, balancing one to two AP courses per year is a reasonable goal that can offer significant benefits in the collegeadmissions process. Some students can handle more AP classes, while others are in IB. What are the benefits of taking AP classes?

One of the most important aspects of a college application is the high school transcript, more specifically the level of demonstrated rigor in one’s course schedule and associated levels of performance. This rings especially true in light of the College Board’s recent decision to eliminate SAT Subject Tests, making the demonstration of subject strengths on student transcripts all the more important. Most schools would rather see students challenge themselves, even if it may mean slightly lower levels of

performance. With proper organization, study skills, and teacher communication, however, students can often perform as well as or better than their previous academic record.

Beyond the admissions advantage, taking more advanced coursework can provide students the opportunity to engage more deeply with particular fields of interest, potentially discovering new major or career interests along the way.

Plus, exam credits can also offer savings on degree requirements in college, or allow for a greater breadth in the college courses available to your student.

Ultimately, AP classes can be better taught, supported, organized, and recognized by admission officers as the gold-standard course. Cultivating a balanced schedule that both supports students’ individual needs and provides enough challenge to facilitate academic growth will often provide the best results in high school and beyond.

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INDEPENDENT SCHOOLS Astoria Lutheran School 31-20 21st Ave. 718-721-4313 astorialutheranschool.com Astoria Lutheran School is a small, diverse, faith-based school offering grades 3-K to 8th grade. They prepare their students to meet the challenges of the 21st century with confidence, integrity, and respect for others. Astoria Lutheran also offers special subjects such as Spanish, Physical Education, Art, Music, and Technology. Their garden is a living classroom where their students enjoy the fresh air during the fall and spring.

Buckley Country Day School 2 I.U. Willets Rd. 516-627-1910 buckleycountryday.com cfortuna@buckleycountryday. com Buckley Country Day School is an inclusive, diverse environment that nurtures the whole

child and lays the foundation for success in high school, college, and beyond. Buckley’s mission, “Opening The Eyes and Awakening The Mind” is at the heart of its curriculum, which seeks to inspire and prepare students for a lifetime of learning. Buckley accepts students as young as two years old in Pre-Nursery and admits students on a rolling basis through grade seven.

Countryside Montessori School 354 Lakeville Rd., lower level, Great Neck 516-466-8422 info@cmsgn.com Countryside Montessori School offers children, 18 months to 6 years, a well-balanced and enriched curriculum which includes traditional subjects, art, and music. They are located in an estate-like setting with an outdoor playground and surrounded by nature. Classrooms are fully equipped and spacious. Countryside Montessori also offers camp for children ages 18

months to 6 years old. There are morning academics for the older children and playtime for all children.

Garden School 33-16 79th St., Jackson Heights 718-335-6363 admissions@gardenschool.org gardenschool.org Founded in 1923 to address the demand for a high-quality, independent school education in Queens, Garden School’s affordable tuition makes it a viable choice for many families.

The student body mirrors the vibrant and diverse Queens community, and families have placed their trust in Garden School for a century.

Gillen Brewer School 410 E 92nd St. 212-831-3667 gillenbrewer.com admissions@gillenbrewer.com The Gillen Brewer School expands possibilities for pre-K through 8th grade students with a broad range of language-based learning disabilities. Their integrated,

academic-therapeutic approach and strong family partnerships help students make meaningful strides forward, becoming learners who are proud of their progress, prepared to engage with the world, and excited to explore.

Gillen Brewer staff can help navigate a child’s future – with care, respect, and unwavering optimism.

The Kew-Forest School 119-17 Union Turnpike 718-268-4667 kewforest.org admission@kewforest.org The Kew-Forest School, a leader in private education in Queens since 1918, prepares students with the future-ready skills needed to lead purposeful lives driven to do good in the world. The small, challenging, nurturing environment provides individualized attention and ensures each student is well equipped for life in college and beyond. $3MM+ is awarded annually in tuition assistance and 100% of recent graduates matriculated to

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The Q StudioLab School 41-20 Queens Blvd., Sunnyside 718-786-9100 theqstudiolab.com admin@theqstudiolab.com The Q StudioLab is a community of educators and artists dedicated to creating extraordinary learning experiences for children. Their programs encourage personal expression, deep understanding, and the connection of ideas—empowering children to problem-solve and grow as curious explorers and compassionate leaders. They create an environment where ideas flow freely and where children have abundant opportunities for creative expression in a nurturing school community. Serving students age 2 - 8th Grade.

CHARTER SCHOOLS Forte Preparatory Academy Middle School: 51-35 Reeder St., Elmhurst

High School: 69-26 Cooper Ave., Glendale 929-666-4430 info@forteprep.org forteprep.org Forte Prep is a charter middle and high school open to students in grades 5-10. The school is driven by a philosophy of achieving excellence in all facets of life and learning with the belief that education can transform the lives of students from diverse backgrounds. Forte Preparatory High School opened its doors in Glendale in 2023, changing the game for students in Queens, preparing them for the many postsecondary options available to them in NYC and beyond. Their worldclass, 60,000 square foot high school is currently under construction and will open in 2026 for Elmhurst.

Our World Neighborhood Charter Schools 36-12 35th Avenue, Astoria 718-392-3405 owncs.org admissions@owncs.org

OWN Charter Schools are excellent places for young people to learn. Since the doors opened in 2002 they have worked tirelessly to meet their goal of providing a diverse student body with an excellent education based on active inquiry, experiential learning, and social justice.

OWN Charter Schools prepare students to become independent thinkers and lifelong learners. Visit during the Admissions Open House season and to see their mission and philosophy brought to life.

Williamsburg Charter High School 198 Varet St. 347-217-6995 thewcs.org admissions@thewcs.org WCHS unites youth, families, staff, teachers and the community at large in providing young people with the tools necessary to become citizens of the local and global community. Students at WCHS accomplish this through participation in a liberal

Fostering Wonder, Creativity, and a Love for Learning At The Q StudioLab School, curiosity, creativity, and community are at the heart of every child’s learning experience. Through a hands-on, student-centered approach, children are inspired to: Explore new ideas with wonder and joy Develop confidence through collaboration and discovery Build essential skills for lifelong learning With small class sizes, dedicated teachers, and an environment rooted in joy and exploration, the Q StudioLab is more than a school - it’s a community.

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arts education that includes language, literature, writing, science, history, mathematics, the visual and performing arts, technology and explorations in justice, independent thinking, respect and compassion for themselves and others as well as critical thinking, communication and research.

Zeta Charter Schools Multiple Locations throughout Manhattan and the Bronx Zeta Queens opening in August 2025 zetaschools.org/queens Zeta combines a caring, whole-child approach and world-class academics with unrivaled opportunities for students to discover their passions through art, dance, chess, debate, music, robotics, sports, and Taekwondo. Zeta’s next-generation approach to learning helps students develop the confidence, awareness, and knowledge to solve challenging real-world problems, preparing them for access and leadership in an evolving modern world. Zeta

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CATHOLIC SCHOOLS Our Lady of Hope Catholic Academy 61-21 71st St., Middle Village, NY 718- 458-3535 olhca.org Our Lady of Hope Catholic Academy’s mission and responsibility for educational and spiritual growth is a shared endeavor among students, parents, administration and faculty. The school offers art, music and foreign language classes and a variety of academic and social development afterschool clubs. The school also has a nursery and pre-K, as well as affordable morning care and afterschool programs. Class sizes range from 20-25 students, and 90% of Our Lady of Hope graduates started as pre-K or kindergarten students themselves.

Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic Academy 111-10 115 St., South Ozone Park 718- 843-4184 olphca.org With students from preK through 8th grade, the faculty and staff of Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic Academy are diligent in their commitment to the spiritual, academic, physical, social and emotional growth of each child. The multi-sensory, Next Generation Standards curriculum and cross-curricular instruction ensure that each student’s individual needs are met. Students consistently show outstanding performance in mathematics, language arts and science on statewide testing.

Sacred Heart Catholic Academy 115-50 221st St., Cambria Heights 718-527-0123 shcach.org Sacred Heart Catholic Academy strives to instruct, instill and inspire each other to be

productive Catholic members of society. Students learn the values and traditions of faith as they are incorporated in each and every academic and extracurricular activity.

Each child is encouraged to discover and appreciate their personal worth and value to the community of God’s people. The school provides students with opportunities to develop their fullest potential and abilities through daily challenges.

St. Luke School 16-01 150th Pl., Whitestone 718-746-3833 slswhitestone.org St. Luke provides a Catholic atmosphere that nurtures the growth and development of the whole person intellectually, spiritually, emotionally and physically. The faculty, with parent help, infuses moral and spiritual values with academic pursuits. The school offers a curriculum that includes religion, English Language Arts, mathematics, science, social studies, TAC (Technology

Across the Curriculum), Spanish, physical education, music, library, and art. Special education services include SETSS, speech, OT, and counseling.

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St. Joseph Catholic Academy 28-46 44 St., Long Island City 718-728-0724 sjcalic.org St. Joseph Catholic Academy is committed to developing students of diverse backgrounds and faiths from nursery through 8th grade by providing a well-rounded foundation for future learning and life. In addition to religion class and religious activities, they offer a rigorous academic program, complemented by classes in music, art, library, physical education, Spanish, Mandarin, and yoga/mindfulness. All instructional areas are equipped with modern technology. They also offer 3-K and pre-K programs of the NYC Board of Education.

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hey say it takes a village to raise a child, and we agree! A large part of that “village” is, of course, the people your child meets throughout their educational journey. Each new school a child attends comes with new staff, new friends, new experiences and new opportunities for growth and development. That’s why it’s up to each school’s leader to ensure that every student they enroll is flourishing to the best of their abilities. The education professionals below serve as exemplary leaders in their respective school communities. They each work tirelessly to ensure not only the academic success of their students, but the social and emotional success as well. That’s what sets a great leader apart, after all! Learn all about the person who might be at the forefront of your child’s next educational adventure below.

Garden School Christopher Herman M.Ed, Head of School

Chris has been Head of School at Garden School since 2020. He holds a Masters in Leadership from the University of Pennsylvania, completed post-graduate work at Temple University in Adolescent Psychology, earned a dual masters in Elementary and Special Education from Chestnut Hill College, and a Bachelor of Arts from Long Island University. Prior to joining Garden, he was Head of School at AIM Academy in Philadelphia.

Astoria Lutheran School

Gillen Brewer School

Robert Alovisetti, Executive Director and Charlmaine Young, Education Director

Rebecca Skinner, Head of School

Robert Alovisetti and Charlmaine Young are the executive and education directors of Astoria Lutheran School. Mr. Alovisetti is the executive director of the kindergarten to 8th grade school. Mrs. Young is the education director responsible for 3-K and Pre-K. The school has a strong affiliation with Grace Lutheran Church where many of our families attend. Together they are partners in creating a safe and inclusive environment where all children are welcomed.

Rebecca joined the Gillen Brewer community as Head of School in July 2021, bringing with her over 20 years of experience building and leading mission-driven independent schools in New York City and Dubai at International School of Brooklyn, Blue School and Dwight School Dubai. Rebecca is happiest when visiting a classroom, engaging in professional development work, or sharing anecdotes about GBS with the community. She holds an M.Ed. in International Education from Endicott College.

Buckley Country Day School

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Jean-Marc Juhel, Head of School

Tiffany D. Trotter, Head of School

Jean-Marc Juhel was named Buckley’s head of school in 2002. A lifelong learner, he is proud to lead a school community that always puts children first, prioritizes critical thinking, and strives to prepare students for lives of purpose. Dr. Juhel earned a master’s degree from Teachers College, Columbia University and a doctorate in Educational Leadership from The University of Pennsylvania. Dr. Juhel served as President of the New York State Association of Independent Schools.

Tiffany D. Trotter has been an independent school educator for 24+ years. Educated at Stanford University (BA) and the University of Chicago (MA, ABD), Tiffany worked at The Latin School of Chicago, Phillips Exeter Academy, and Avenues: The World School before coming to Kew-Forest in 2018. As the second female Head and first Head of color, Tiffany is honored to lead a challenging and nurturing school that is as diverse as the borough of Queens.

Countryside Montessori School

Our Lady of Hope Catholic Academy

Mary Ann Pastorelli, Owner

Kara McCarthy, Principal

Mary Ann Pastorelli has been working at Countryside Montessori School for 18 years serving as owner for the last ten. She has a true passion for her students and is dedicated to making a difference in their lives.

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Mrs. McCarthy brings a vision of service and leadership that flows from the experience she gained through her 24 years in Catholic education at Notre Dame School in New Hyde Park. She taught for 10 years on the elementary level and served as Assistant Principal for 14 years. She is thrilled to return to her Alma Mater, OLHCA, as Principal this year. It is with excitement and enthusiasm that she takes on this new role.

The Q StudioLab School Lauren Travers, Founder and Director

With over 30 years of experience, Lauren Travers has led programs in schools, afterschool initiatives, and non-traditional learning environments. Lauren partners with teachers, artists, and parents to develop children’s critical thinking and creative problem-solving skills—preparing them to meet future challenges with confidence and curiosity. She’s an alumna of Francis Parker School in Chicago, a Vassar College graduate, and holds an MBA from Babson College.

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15 Coolest Places to Go Snow Tubing Near NYC

By Jeannine Cintron

M

ove over, skiing. There’s a new favorite wintertime thrill that’s a lot less intense – and some might say a lot more fun!

Snow tubing is a cold-weather activity that requires nothing more than a snowy hill or mountain and a riding tube! It’s gaining popularity with every passing winter, as more and more families take to local ski resorts and slopes for an exciting day of sliding and gliding together in the chilled air. We located 15 icy spots for snow tubing this winter that are all less than 2.5 hours away from NYC by car.

Know Before You Go If you are bringing children under 8, keep in mind that most resorts and parks do not have age requirements but will not permit riders under 36 inches (even with an adult).

Typically riders must be 42-44 inches to ride alone. All members of your party will need to sign waivers before snow tubing. Most places will allow you to do this online in advance. Snow tubing is an outdoor activity, so it’s important to call ahead when weather conditions aren’t great.

Upstate NY Holiday Mountain 99 Holiday Mountain Rd, Monticello, NY Open Thurs, Fri, & Sun., Noon to 7pm 2 hours from NYC skiholidaymtn.com At Holiday Mountain over 130 snow guns ensure the slopes are always primed for adventure with beginner-friendly terrain, a new quad lift, and a thrilling 400-foot snow tubing run with 12 lanes serviced by a convenient conveyor lift.

Hunter Mountain 64 Klein Ave., Hunter, NY Open 12-7pm daily 2.5 hours NW of NYC huntermtn.com Hunter Mountain’s snow tubing hill is nearly 1,000 feet long and offers an exciting, “noskills-needed” adventure for families with younger kids. While this is one of the largest snow tubing hills in New York, there is a convenient carpet lift to get riders back to the top of the hill, for less walking and more sliding.

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Mount Peter 51 Old Mt. Peter Road, Warwick, NY Sessions available Thursday through Sunday and some holidays; times based on day 1 hour drive north of NYC mtpeter.com This Orange County ski resort features a speedy, multi-lane, 600-foot tubing run that is equipped with a carpet lift to bring riders back to the top of the hill. They’re also featuring some major upgrades for the 2024-2025 season, including a cutting-edge all-weather snowmaking system and a new 1,500-squarefoot event lodge. Their Latitude 90 system can produce snow 24/7, even in warm conditions, extending the tubing season with over 156 cubic yards of snow per day.

Plattekill Mountain 469 Plattekill Mountain Road, Roxbury, NY Sessions available on weekends and certain holidays Open 10:30am to 5:30pm, Saturdays, Sundays & Holidays 3 hour drive NW from NYC plattekill.com Take the family on a road trip to Delaware County for this resort’s lift-service snow tubing that includes a Conveyor Carpet Lift to bring you and your tube to the top of the mountain where all the fun starts.

Rocking Horse Ranch 600 Route 44/55, Highland, NY Check the website for reservation information 2 hour drive north of NYC rockinghorseranch.com Twist and slide down “Tinder Shoot” lanes that are 500 feet long. Tube all year round here; when the weather warms up, mountain tubing begins! Single and double tubes are available. Riders must be at least 36 inches.

The resort offers tubing all year round, too.

Windham Mountain 19 Resort Drive, Windham, NY Open Saturdays, 11am-8pm and Sundays, 11am-5pm; Holiday hours available Approximately 3 hour drive NW of NYC windhammountainclub.com This popular ski resort boasts a Tubing Park with six lanes of exhilarating snow

tubing serviced by a conveyor lift, kids’ snowmobiles, and cozy lodge. There are no height or age limits for tubing as long as riders are tall enough to get in and out and sit up in the tube. They also have a fleet of Arctic Cat snowmobiles for kids to ride in addition to tubing.

New Jersey Big Snow at American Dream 1 American Dream Way, E Rutherford, NJ Open Monday-Thursday: 1pm- 8pm, Friday: 1pm- 9pm, Saturday: 10am- 9pm, Sunday: 10am- 8pm (holiday hours vary) 30 minutes from NYC bigsnowamericandream.com The snow never stops in the snow dome at Big Snow, where families can go tubing all year round! Located inside American Dream, this indoor snow park is covered in manmade snow and kept at a chilly 28 degrees no matter the season outside. This is definitely the spot for those with younger kids; while there are

Check the website for hours 2.5 hours NE from NYC powderridgepark.com Snow tubing is available in sessions that are 1 hour and 45 minutes each. They offer three different access passes for tubing; Weekday, Weekend & Holiday, and Interstellar.

Interstellar sessions take place at night with glow sticks and neon lights to light up the tubing hill, music. Single riders only.

Pennsylvania Big Boulder Resort 357 Big Boulder Drive, Lake Harmony, PA Check website for hours 2 hours drive NW from NYC jfbb.com Snow tubing has gotten BIGGER & BUBLYER at Big Boulder. All tubing takes place at Big Boulder (not companion Jack Frost Resort). Big Boulder has two 600’ conveyor carpets to transport snow tubers up. Riders must be at least 4 years old and minimum 42” tall. Each tube holds a single rider; no lap sitting Camelback Mountain Resort 301 Resort Drive, Tannersville, PA Open Mon.-Thu., 12pm-8pm; Fri., 12pm10pm; Sat., 9am-10pm; Sun., 9am-9pm 2 hours drive NW from NYC camelbackresort.com This Pennsylvania ski resort has more than 40 snow tubing lanes to choose from. Enjoy galactic snow tubing at night, when all the lanes are aglow. height requirements, the snow play area is recommended for ages 3 and up, so the hills are less intimidating than those you might find at larger resorts.

Mountain Creek Resort 200 Route 94, Vernon, NJ Check website for seasonal hours 1 hour drive NW of NYC mountaincreek.com The resort has a tubing park that spans 5 acres and features a magic carpet lift that brings riders back to the top of the hill after they slide down. All riders must be at least 42 inches tall and 5 years old. One person per tube. Snow tubing tickets are available online and on-site based upon availability.

Campgaw Mountain 200 Campgaw Road, Mahwah, NJ Sessions available daily: Monday-Thursday, 2-8pm; Friday, 1-10pm; Saturday, 8:30am-10pm; Sunday, 8:30am-8pm (plus some holidays)

Less than 1 hour drive NW of NYC skicampgaw.com Choose between different runs with varied levels of rolls and pitch. Tubes are provided and a surface lift is available for guests to ride up the hill.

Connecticut Mohawk Mountain Ski Area 46 Great Hollow Road, Cornwall, CT Sessions available Thursday, 3pm and 5pm; Friday, 1pm, 3pm, and 5pm; Saturday, 11am and 1pm, 3pm, and 5pm; Sundays, 11am, 1pm, and 3pm.

2.5 hours drive NE of NYC mohawkmtn.com Known in Connecticut for skiing, this resort also offers snow tubing. There is no age restriction, but all riders must be taller than 42 inches to enter the tubing area.

Powder Ridge Mountain Park and Resort 99 Powder Hill Road, Middlefield, CT

Shawnee Mountain Ski Area 401 Hollow Road, East Stroudsburg, PA Open daily with multiple sessions available 1.5 hours NW of NYC shawneemt.com Shawnee Mountain’s snow tubing park features single tubes, as well as adult-and-child tandem tubes (child must be shorter than 46 inches). Two surface lifts to bring tubers to the top.

Blue Mountain Resort 1660 Blue Mountain Drive, Palmerton Open Thu., 5-9pm; Fri.-Sat., 10am-10pm; Sun. 10am-9pm 2 hours drive west from NYC skibluemt.com The resort’s snow tubing park has some of the longest and fastest tubing lanes in the state.

With up to 56 snow tubing lanes. Visit after 5pm for a Sonic Snow Tubing experience with a laser light and music show.

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Parenting

What’s Your Parenting Style?

By Naosha GreGG

W

e all know there’s no perfect guide to parenting. Raising a small human is no easy feat, and there will be tons of questions and concerns along the way.

While there are many tips and tricks to share that can apply to most, there is one thing that tends to vary greatly from one parent to the next: parenting styles.

What Are Parenting Styles?

Parenting styles first emerged in the 1960‘s, when psychologist Diana Baumrind identified three main styles of parenting: authoritarian, authoritative and permissive.

The idea was to understand and categorize the different approaches parents take in raising their children, allowing researchers to study how these varying styles can impact child development and behavior across different dimensions like discipline, warmth, communication, and expectations, ultimately aiming to identify the most positive parenting strategies for optimal child outcomes.

“Balancing elements such as control, warmth, autonomy, and communication role models and illustrates what parenting can look like from several different lenses, allowing for adaptation when needed,” says Courtney Hulse, a NY-based Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. “Understanding the benefits of various parenting styles can help parents choose the best approach for their child’s individual temperament, needs, and developmental stage.”

The conversation surrounding parenting styles started going viral on TikTok earlier this year when the Lighthouse parenting style popped up on the FYPs (for you pages) of many parents. This style consists of existing as an anchor to your child, providing a stable

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source of guidance — like a lighthouse — while also giving them the freedom to grow and learn. Many took to the social media platform to share the positive effects of the new trend, thus unlocking a world of new ideas and practices for parents alike. Today, there are three trending styles: lighthouse, horizontal, and intensive.

Lighthouse Parenting Vanessa Gordon, CEO & Publisher of East End Taste, identifies closely with the lighthouse parenting style. Lighthouse parenting provides a more open approach and doesn’t have such rigid and strict boundaries.

The style allows children to explore at their own will, while allowing the parent to serve as a lighthouse: an anchor they can return to if and when they need help or guidance.

Gordon has reported seeing growth in her children’s independence, confidence and communication skills.

“In conversations with others, I have noticed that they are not afraid to ask questions, make rebuttals, or express their own thoughts and opinions,” she explains. “I see my daughter picking up a book independently and reading quietly in her room or initiating an art project before she even considers going on the computer. My son does jiu jitsu, and I particularly admire that he is eager to go to class a half hour or more early to help the class before his and the younger students in that class.”

She credits her grandfather’s blunt encouragement style for encouraging her to encourage her children to always be upfront and honest. “I keenly remember hearing my grandfather tell me things like “taste it and tell me you don’t like it” when feeling unsure about trying a new food, or “learn to play the piano, you will never be bored,” she recalled.

But while she prefers to serve as a beacon, Gordon also remains firm in her rules, and lets her kids know and understand the meaning of consequences.

“I would like my children to recognize their actions and be cognizantly aware and create that balance with their surroundings. I remind my children of the routine when they come home from school if they seem off task and if they need help with their homework, they must know to ask me but to first at least give it a try and try to solve the problem on their own. That said, I am teaching them how to research and find appropriate sources of information and always ‘dig deeper’ rather than find a quick answer (asking Alexa). I am not here to rescue them in that sense.”

Horizontal Parenting Perhaps the most controversial style, horizontal parenting holds a unique approach to focusing on the well-being of the parent, while also supporting the enrichment and engagement needs of the child.

Rich Kingly, the CEO of Driveway King, has a mixture of lighthouse and horizontal parenting. “My own upbringing was a mix of strict rules and a lot of love, but I knew I wanted to create a balance where my kids felt empowered to speak up and learn from their mistakes,” he explained.

Horizontal parenting often receives criticism, being described as a lazy form of parenting. The style is described as finding ways of keeping your kids entertained and engaged with you while you lie down, or a fun, low-energy way to connect with your kids without the guilt.

Back in 2017, Good to Know conducted a survey of 900 women, in which 78 percent said they experienced some type of guilt when it came to their children. WIth pres-

of our parents raised us the way their parents raised them. Their wisdom and insight is priceless, but some advice works and some does not. We take what works for our family,” she says. “There are some things we want to do differently than our parents, not to say their way was wrong. However, we are raising children in a totally different world than when we came up and we want to equip them with the knowledge and values they would need to thrive in this current society.”

Intensive Parenting “[Intensive parenting is] a highly involved approach where parents prioritize their children’s development and success above other aspects of life,” Francyne Zeltser, PsyD, a psychologist and clinical director of mental health and testing services at Manhattan Psychology Group, told The Bump.

The style is often correlated with coddling and is frowned upon for its handson involvement with your children to the point that other opinions, such as those of teachers and coaches and can create unnecessary stress and pressure on the children. It may also stall their development, and ability to learn and think independently and learn from mistakes.

Hulse describes the style as harmful to children.

“Intensive parenting may promote increased pressure on a child. Children may feel overburdened or stressed by the high expectations placed on them, leading to anxiety, perfectionism, or burnout. The pressure to succeed in every area can create emotional and mental strain.”

sures high to work full time, be engaged in your work, yet also raise a tiny human and be there for them all the time, horizontal parenting serves as a sigh of relief for the clash between the two worlds.

Alexia McKay identifies closely with horizontal parenting. The mother of two under two lives a bit of a chaotic lifestyle, as since both her daughters are so young, their needs are demanding. She often finds herself putting her 19-month-old daughter in the crib, setting up her favorite toys and television show, while she tends to her oneyear-old.

“I wasn’t necessarily seeking a parenting style,” she explained. “Its just a system that

works currently with my present day to day.

She’s turning out to be very independent and less dependent on basic day to day activities.

She enjoys playing with you but can also entertain herself. She’s very curious and observational, and we encourage that curiosity.”

Research shows that the curiosity fostered by such independence can have a positive effect on children. According to the National Institute of Health, when curiosity is triggered, a PACE cycle enhances memory encoding through increased attention, exploration, and information-seeking.

McKay also believes that there is no exact method to the madness.

“Speaking as a millennial parent, many

Decide The Style That Works Best For You Determining a parenting style is key to how your child grows. According to Hulse, it can impact their self-esteem, emotional regulation and ability to form healthy relatiosnhip.

“Our experiences, past and present, dictate how we relate to ourselves and the world around us,” says Hulse. “In essence, a child’s perceived/experienced relationship with their parent(s) affect both immediate and future outcomes.”

But, McKay reminds us that there is no guide to parenting.

“What works for one house may not work for yours. What I’m learning as a mom, is there’s no right or wrong way to parent. Do what works best for your household and your family and create your own tradition.”

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BY SHARA LEVINE

QUEENS

AGES: 5 – 8 WHAT: Go on a musical journey through East Asia as Elena Moon Park and Friends sing songs about trains, jump rope rhymes, game songs, harvest songs, sea shanties, and more!

WANT TO GO?: $15. (718) 463– 7700, flushingtownhall.org

Chanukah Spectacular and Chocolate Gelt Drop WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 2, 5 pm WHERE: Gantry Plaza State Park, Center Blvd. and 48th Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate with a giant menorah lighting, gelt drop from fire truck, gourmet doughnut bar, games, raffles, treats, and an appearance by the Dreidel Mascot!

WANT TO GO?: Free. chabadlic.com

Lunar New Year: Celebrating the Year of the Snake WHEN: Jan. 25-26, Saturday and Sunday, 3 pm.

WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts at Queens College, 153-49 Reeves Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Embrace the spirit of the Year of the Snake with majestic dragons, dancing lions, elegant peacocks, stunning acrobats, twirling ribbons, and much more.

WANT TO GO?: $20. (718) 793–8080, kupferbergcenter. org

Three Kings Day Celebration WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 4, 11 am – 2 pm WHERE: Queens Public Library Langston Hughes, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Corona AGES: All WHAT: The three kings will travel to the library (on camels!) to bring gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh for an afternoon of music and crafts, and photo opps with the Kings.

WANT TO GO?: Free. (718) 651–1100, queenslibrary.org

Fun with Printmaking WHEN: Jan. 8 and Jan. 29, Wednesdays, 3 – 4 pm WHERE: Detective Keith L. Williams Field House, 106-16 173rd St., Jamaica AGES: 6 – 12 WHAT: Kids will learn the basics of printmaking such as block printing, monotype printing, and collagraph printing.

WANT TO GO?: Free. nycgovparks.org

Ice Age Hike WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 12, 1 – 2 pm WHERE: Cunningham Park, Union Turnpike and 196th St., Fresh Meadows

Celebrate the Lunar New Year at Kupferberg Center for the Arts at Queens College on January 25 and 26.

AGES: All WHAT: Go on a hike to learn about the lay of the land as it was in prehistoric times.

WANT TO GO?: Free. nycgovparks.org

Martin Luther King, Jr. Family Day 2025 WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 19, 2 pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the birthday of civil rights activist Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. with a talk, tours, digital media-making activities, and more.

WANT TO GO?: Included with admission: $10-$20. (718) 777– 6800, movingimage.org

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Martin Luther King Jr. Day at Queens Botanical Garden WHEN: Monday, Jan. 20, 8 am – 4:30 pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: The Garden will be open for visitors to enjoy crafts and story time.

WANT TO GO?: Free. (718) 886–3800, queensbotanical. org

Rabbit Days and Dumplings WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 25, 2:15 – 3:15 pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing

MANHATTAN El Museo del Barrio’s 47th Annual Three Kings Day Celebration 2025 WHEN: Monday, Jan. 6, 11 am – 3 pm WHERE: Parade begins at 106th St. and Park Ave., East Harlem AGES: All WHAT: This parade features vibrant performances, largerthan-life puppets, and festive music. After, head to El Museo del Barrio to continue the celebration with live music and performances.

WANT TO GO?: Free. elmuseo. org

Musical Explorers Family WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 18, 12 – 1 pm & 3 – 4 pm.

WHERE: Carnegie Hall, 881 7th Ave., Upper East Side AGES: All ages

JANUARY WHAT: Discover music from around the world at this concert for little ones.

WANT TO GO?: $15. (646) 477–8416, carnegiehall.org

Harmony in Art: Honoring Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. WHEN: Jan. 18-20, SaturdayMonday, 10 am – 5 pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of Manhattan, 212 W 83rd St., Upper West Side AGES: 4 and under WHAT: Celebrate Dr. King through various art mediums to express the importance of inclusivity and togetherness.

WANT TO GO?: Included with admission: $17. (212) 721–1223, cmom.org

MOCACREATE: Lunar New Year Museum Makeover WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 29, 1 – 4 pm WHERE: Museum of Chinese in America, 215 Centre St., Chinatown AGES: All WHAT: Help welcome the Lunar New Year by making handmade decorations to liven up the Museum. WANT TO GO?: Free. (212) 619–4785, mocanyc.org

BRONX Hanukkah Celebration and Menorah Lighting WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 2, 10 – 11 am WHERE: Riverdale Y, 5625 Arlington Ave., Riverdale AGES: All WHAT: This community

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celebration includes a menorah lighting, performances by students from Kinneret Day School and Riverdale Y’s Early Childhood Center, and light refreshments.

WANT TO GO?: Free. riverdaley.org

Family Art Project: Weathering a Storm WHEN: Jan. 11-12, Saturday and Sunday, 10 am – 1 pm.

WHERE: Wave Hill, 4900 Independence Ave., Riverdale AGES: 12 and under WHAT: Learn the art and science of forecasting a storm while creating your own snow globes.

WANT TO GO?: Free with admission to the grounds $4-$10. (718) 549–3200, wavehill.org

Drumline LIVE! WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 18, 6 – 8:30 pm WHERE: Lehman Center for the Performing Arts, 250 Bedford Park Blvd. West, University Heights AGES: All WHAT: This high-octane musical roller coaster ride features a world-class cast of percussionists, musicians and dancers that will have you laughing, singing, and dancing in your seats.

WANT TO GO?: $35-$55. (718) 960–8833, lehmancenter.org

Special Activity: Celebrate National Puzzle Day WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 29, 3:30 – 4:30 pm

Hop on over for Rabbit Days and Dumplings at Flushing Town Hall on January 5.

WHERE: Morrisania Library, 610 East 169th St., Morrisania AGES: 5 – 12 WHAT: Celebrate National Puzzle Day by solving puzzles and tackling fun challenges. It’s all about creativity, teamwork, and brainpower.

WANT TO GO?: Free. nypl.org

BROOKLYN The Tortoise & the Hare WHEN: Jan. 4-12, Saturdays and Sundays, 12:30 pm and 2:30 pm WHERE: Puppetworks Inc, 338 Sixth Ave., Park Slope AGES: 2 and older WHAT: This classic fable comes to life as a shadow, rod & hand puppet show.

WANT TO GO?: $11; $10 child. puppetworks.org

The Rock and Roll Playhouse plays the Music of Green Day + More

Enjoy family events at the Queens Botanical Garden on Martin Luther King Jr. Day, January 20.

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 5, 11 am – 1:30 pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bowl, 61 Wythe Ave., Williamsburg AGES: 1-7 WHAT: Warning: you’ll have just as good of a time as your little ones at this concert for

kids.

WANT TO GO?: $18. (718) 963– 3369, brooklynbowl.com

Disney on Ice Presents Frozen & Encanto WHEN: Jan. 16-19; see website for complete schedule WHERE: Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave., Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Step inside the magical adventures of Disney’s Frozen and Encanto as they are brought to life like never before.

WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $39.85. disneyonice.com

Celebrate Martin Luther King Jr. WHEN: Jan. 19-20, Sunday and Monday, 10 am – 5 pm.

WHERE: Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave., Crown Heights AGES: 12 and under WHAT: Celebrate the life and legacy of civil rights leader Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. through performances, protest marches, community art programs, and volunteer projects.

WANT TO GO?: $15; free for members. (718) 735–4400, brooklynkids.org

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Parenting

30 ‘Would You Rather’ Questions for Kids, Tweens, and Teens

By Jessica allen

W

ould you rather sit in silence, or learn something new about the little one in your life? ‘Would you rather’ questions not only give kids the chance to opine, but they also help you discover the inner workings of their minds. They’re also great conversation starters for when you’re in the car running an errand, going for a walk, eating dinner together, or just passing the time. Whether your kid is 4 or 14, we have the ideal ‘would you rather questions’ for kids to grow their brain, unleash their imagination, and just have fun.

Would You Rather Questions for Kids Ages 4-6 1. Would you rather always be hot or always be cold?

2. Would you rather live on a boat or inside a castle?

3. Would you rather have a pet dinosaur or a pet dragon?

4. Would you rather walk on the surface of the moon or along the bottom of the Mariana Trench?

5. Would you rather have doughnuts at every breakfast or hot dogs at every dinner?

6. Would you rather be a prince/princess or president of the United States?

7. Would you rather have a fort made entirely of Magna-Tiles or have toys that could talk?

Would You Rather Questions for Kids Ages 7-9 8. Would you rather spend the night at the American Museum of Natural History or the Metropolitan Museum of Art? 9. Would you rather go to school at Hogwarts

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to learn to be a magician or the Jedi Praxeum to learn to be a Jedi?

10. Would you rather play for the Yankees or headline a Broadway show?

11. Would you rather drive the subway or pilot the Staten Island Ferry?

12. Would you rather be able to freeze time or travel anywhere in the world instantaneously?

13. Would you rather tickle a cockroach or hug a snake?

14. Would you rather have to skip everywhere you go or walk everywhere backwards?

Would You Rather Questions for Kids Ages 10-12 15. Would you rather eat the same thing every day or never get to go on the Internet again?

16. Would you rather have someone do all your chores or do all the homework for your least favorite subject?

17. Would you rather have to go to school in your pajamas for a day or write a poem and then read it over the loudspeaker during the first period?

18. Would you rather live on the top floor of the Empire State Building or inside the Statue of Liberty?

19. Would you rather have to sing everything you say or say everything twice?

20. Would you rather be able to breathe

underwater or be able to lift anything over your head?

21. Would you rather work at a puppy store or at a panda rescue center?

Would You Rather Questions for Kids Ages 13+ 22. Would you rather know the answer to every riddle or the lyrics to every song?

23. Would you rather win an Academy Award or a Nobel Prize?

24. Would you rather remember every single thing you’ve ever read or every single thing you’ve ever done?

25. Would you rather be able to speak every language in the world or be able to communicate with animals?

26. Would you rather reveal something you’ve never told anyone before on TikTok or have your head shaved on YouTube?

27. Would you rather be able to read other people’s thoughts or control other people’s actions?

28. Would you rather be able to travel to any point in the past or any point in the future?

29. Would you rather go without your cellphone for a day or have your cellphone but not be able to access any apps?

30. Would you rather only have access to Amazon Prime or only have access to Netflix?

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