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Pumpkin Patches!

Book Smart Fall Reading for All

Queens mom Kimberly Seals Allers creates Irth app to fight Black and Latina maternal mortality

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FEATURES 8 | Education How to choose the best high school for your teen 18 | Pets Adopting or fostering a dog or cat during COVID 20 | Books Your go-to roundup of the latest kids’ books to start up the school year 24 | Family Day Out Fall pumpkin patches in and near NYC

26 | Kimberly Seals Allers: Power Mom Queens mom Kimberly Seals Allers creates Irth app to fight Black and Latina maternal mortality

Directories 10 | High School Listings

30 | Books Hester Aba rounds up five must-read books perfect for fall reading

Stories & columns 4 | Editor’s Note October Moving Forward 6 | Mom Hacks Halloween face masks including a fun bat DIY

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Editor’s Note

NewYorkFamily.com Publisher: Clifford Luster Executive Editor: Donna Duarte-Ladd Digital Editor: Katarina Avendaño Senior Adviser: Susan Weiss Digital Director: Erik Bliss Partnership Managers: Erin Brof, Mary Cassidy, Shelli Goldberg-Peck Ad Operations Manager: Rosalia Bobé Art Director: Leah Mitch Web Developer: Sylvan Migdal Graphic Designers: Arthur Arutyunov, Connie Sulsenti Editorial Contributors: Jana Beauchamp, Mia Salas Nina Gallo Photography

October — Moving Forward Fall has arrived, and while the weather chill greets us most mornings, the seasonal change reminds us more than ever, so does life.

School is in session in its new form; our city is working toward recovering, and parents are keeping it together.

If looking for a fun weekend outing, we have a roundup of Fall Pumpkin Patches (page 24) in and around the city to pick up that Halloween pumpkin!

We are also excited for book reading this season for those cozy days in; check out our

fall picks for the kids (page 20) that covers all reading levels.

Lastly, we are thankful to have Kimberly Seals Allers of the Irth app (Power Mom, page 26) as our cover mom this month. Kimberly is on a mission to help end rasm and bias in maternity and infant care. We appreciate this busy mother taking the time to share her knowledge and story!

Donna Ladd Executive Editor

Editorial Interns: Grace Benninghoff, Katrina Makayan, Marta Rybczynski

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Rivendell School provides a warm, creative environment where children develop independence, respect for each other, and a lifelong love of learning.

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overnor Cuomo (as of press time) has shared that he has no plans to ban Halloween trick-or-treating. However, this will depend on how parents choose to celebrate. While schools are adjusting to being open, there hasn’t been any news if costumes will be allowed on this day.

Regardless of you have a chill Halloween or go full costume, kids are going to be encouraged to wear face masks. We have themed masks that celebrate the spirit of Halloween. So find your fun Halloween mask and order early for all your goblins and creatures.

DIY Bat Mask Crafter and teacher extraordinaire Bee Zizzo designed this mask, especially for New York Family readers. Use a mask you already have in a fun color or use white like our bat mask. Instructions below!

MATERIALS: • kid size face mask (I used the Japanese Seamless Comfort mask) • black wool felt • HeatnBond Ultrahold iron-on adhesive • iron • craft scissors STEPS: • place adhesive on backside of felt (paper liner should face up) • hold medium heat iron on paper liner for two seconds, repeat until the surface of felt is bonded • allow to cool • draw outlines of bat shapes onto the paper liner

• cut out the outlines of the bats, peel off paper liners (use craft or household scissors, the adhesive could ruin your fabric scissors) • place felt bats (adhesive side down) on top of the mask • press and hold iron for 10 seconds on each bat until the entire bat is bonded to the mask (best to hand wash and air dry)

Ghost Halloween Reusable Face Mask Practice social distancing with this classic Halloween themed mask that includes an insert slot allowing you to insert a disposable mask inside (you’ll have to provide a disposable mask). $12.95, zazzle.com

Sesame Street Elmo Face Face Mask Your little one will love this Sesame Street Elmo mask this Halloween as well as after for it is washable and with the embedded nose wire, easy to wear! $14.99, maskclub.com

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Scary Eyeball & Halloween Blue Eye / Spooky Mask This is a bit on the creepy side but hey its Halloween. Perfect for the kid who isn’t planning a costume and wants a mask that brings in the spooky fun of the holiday. $12.95, zazzle.com

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Cloth Face Masks 2-Pack – Mickey & Minnie Mouse These limited release Halloween masks are fun for all the Disney lovers who wish to incorporate a bit of Mickey magic to their Halloween costume or want their mask to be the costume! $11.99, shopdisney.com

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High School Guide How to choose the best type of high school for your teen

By Mia SalaS

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igh school will surely look different this year with blended learning, but we’re confident NYC schools will find a way to make high school as valuable as it was in the past. Your not-so-little little ones are on their way to becoming adults, which means that those last four years in high school are so important! You want your kiddos to be prepared with the knowledge and skills they need to succeed in college and beyond. Yet NYC has a lot of options for high school, so it can be overwhelming to decide which type of school is right for your teen. That’s why we’ve rounded up NYC high schools, including public, private, charter, and more. If you’re looking for a high school that best suits the needs of your family, check out our guide!

Public Schools Getting a diploma, attending college, and pursuing a career are top priorities for NYC public high schools! We love NYC public schools, as they really care about prepping our kids for the future with extracurricular activities, internships, and volunteer experiences. Your kids will have lots more flexibility in their schedule so that they can figure out what they really enjoy learning.

We also support NYC public school’s commitment to diversity & inclusion, which they not only actively reflect in the classroom, but use in their teaching to assure that students can embrace their identities.

There are plenty of resources for multilingual and special education learners, so no child is left behind in NYC public high schools!

As your teen takes on more responsibility in high school, they’ll also learn how to better manage their time, balance their interests and graduation requirements, plan for college and career, and more.

Private Schools At NYC private schools, your high schooler will have an abundance of opportunities, activities and clubs, meaningful projects, and more to choose to get involved in. With

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expansive indoor and outdoor facilities, technology resources, student publications, athletic teams, and summer opportunities, your teen will have what they need to succeed.

With NYC private high schools, we love the emphasis on individuality and responsibility.

Your kids are treated like adults, in that teachers trust and respect them, they’ll have plenty of ways to pursue their independent interests, and they’ll get to exercise leadership through various outlets, in and out of the classroom. Because of smaller class sizes, kids get to really get to know the people in their classes and form meaningful connections with their teachers, all while getting the help and support they need.

Boarding Schools If you really want your high schooler to have a more independent experience, consider NYC boarding schools! At boarding high schools, students may come from all over the world, so your kids will be immersed into a diverse environment where they’ll learn and grow. Your high schooler will also have access to incredible facilities complete with libraries, studios, tech and science labs, and more. They’ll get to take on University coursework and leadership opportunities that will prepare them for college, in addition to having beyond excellent resources for college counseling. Our favorite thing about NYC boarding schools for high schoolers is that they’ll get to experience dorm life before college, where they’ll get to form meaningful connections with their peers that go beyond classroom interactions. There’s a few boarding schools in NYC, but you can even expand your search to boarding schools in New York state, NJ, or even further to have more options!

Charter Schools With now 260 charter schools in NYC, we’ve grown to know and appreciate these free public schools open to all NYC kids, but independent of the Department of Education (DEO). So what’s the benefit of a charter school? These schools have more freedom

and accountability (if charter schools don’t meet certain goals, then they can be closed), so they can try out new approaches to learning and easily adapt to the needs of their students and the broader school community. Many charter schools have longer days and years because they are not confined to a certain school calendar set by the DEO, and your family can choose the charter school that best suits your needs.

Charter schools also support kids with special needs and students who are learning English. With clear performance goals, charter schools are incredibly motivated to set your kids up for success as they head into college and careers through honing in on written and verbal communication skills, improving time management and study habits, encouraging extracurricular activities, and preparing students for excellent academic performance.

Catholic Schools At an NYC Catholic high school, your teen will learn to better understand themselves and their relationship to God and others.

All high school programs are rooted in Catholic religious beliefs and values, fostering a safe and nurturing environment. NYC Catholic schools are known for their stellar record with high graduation rates, college acceptances, and successful careers. There are many different schools to choose from,

including co-ed and single sex. The three main types of Catholic high schools are independent, parish, and private, each with a unique atmosphere. If your eighth grader is considering applying to a Catholic high school, be sure to look into the required Test for Admission into Catholic High Schools (TACHS) exam.

Jewish Schools Combining education with traditional

Jewish values, Jewish high schools in NYC offer a stellar experience for your kids as they transition into young adults. In high school, your child will continue to study Torah and develop their relationship to God, practice meaningful observance, recognize their shared history with Jewish people, deepen their knowledge and respect for the State of Israel, learn Hebrew language and literature, and actively engage through self-reflection and social and political activism. We really love the emphasis on learning experiences that happen both inside and outside of the classroom at NYC Jewish schools through clubs and extracurriculars, religious observances, and trips in and beyond NYC. There are many Jewish high schools to choose from in NYC, both co-ed and single-sex, so find out which one is best for your family.

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high Schools Directory | Special Advertising Supplement Archbishop Molloy High School

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83-53 Manton St., Briarwood, NY 718-441-2100 molloyhs.org A Catholic Marist college preparatory school that nurtures intellectual curiosity, creativity, personal growth and faith. Students are eager to meet the school’s tradition of high standards in academics, athletics and service to others. They are challenged to excel by a top-tier faculty, dedicated coaching staff and competitive curriculum. Students feel like they are part of a family, and with many after school activities and programs, there is something for every student. The school continually benchmarks its current academic offerings and use of technology with other higher learning institutions to keep evolving as a dynamic place of learning in a rapidly changing world. Non scholae, sed vitae (Not for school, but for life).

Brooklyn Friends School Upper School Brooklyn Heights - Downtown Brooklyn 116 Lawrence St., Brooklyn, NY 718-852-1029 brooklynfriends.org Since 1867, providing a college preparatory program serving students from preschool to grade 12, and committed to educating each student intellectually, aesthetically, physically, and spiritually. A thriving community of educators and learners actively engaged in intellectual growth and participation in the arts and athletics, guided by the Quaker principles of truth, simplicity and peaceful resolution of conflict. Each student is offered a challenging education that develops intellectual abilities and ethical and social values to support a productive life of leadership and service. BFS offers the International Baccalaureate (IB) Diploma Program for high school juniors and seniors.

Cathedral High School Midtown East 350 E. 56th St., New York, NY 212-688-1545 cathedralhs.org

Cathedral High School, a Catholic College Preparatory school of the Archdiocese of New York located in the heart of Manhattan, welcomes young women of all faiths and cultures. It is a community of students, teachers, staff, parents and alumnae committed to achieving excellence in education. They continually challenge their students to become productive members of society who will conduct themselves with religious and moral integrity in the pursuit of social justice.

Dominican Academy Catholic College Preparatory School for Girls 44 East 68th Street, New York, NY 10065 212-744-0195 DominicanAcademy.org Direct all inquiries to: Madeleine B. Metzler, ‘07, Director of Admissions, 212-744-0195, ext. 131 or admissions@ dominicanacademy.org Since 1897, Dominican Academy (D.A.) has consistently ranked among NYC’s best high schools. Located in a mansion on Manhattan’s Upper East Side, D.A. unites academic excellence with a family-like atmosphere. Sponsored by the Dominican Sisters, we are the only all-honors high school for girls in NYS. D.A. challenges and empowers students to be leaders on a local and global scale. Our 250 students come from all boroughs of NYC, CT, Long Island, NJ, and Westchester.

Students benefit from a robust academic program with 15+ A.P.s and 20+ electives, our 30+ clubs and 8 Varsity Athletic teams, and our Service Learning Program..

Fontbonne Hall Academy Bay Ridge 9901 Shore Road, Brooklyn, NY 718-748 2244 fontbonne.org A college preparatory Catholic secondary school for young women sponsored by the Sisters of Saint Joseph, offers a superior educational program to form and empower women of confidence and compassion. They provide a learning environment that not only stresses academic excellence, but also spiritual growth,

Belong. Believe. Become.

CATHEDRAL HIGH SCHOOL VIRTUAL OPEN HOUSE Join us and discover how your daughter will succeed!

We wish students and teachers a safe and healthy start to the 2020-2021 school year!

For updates about our Open House, please check www.molloyhs.org.

83-53 Manton Street Briarwood, NY 11435 718-441-2100 @molloyhs

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• State-of-the-Art STEM Academy • Medical Gateways Academy including a partnership with The Memorial Sloan Kettering Science Enrichment Program • Business and Law Academy featuring internship opportunities and career awareness • Honors Academy • All students receive chrome books and use Google classroom making remote learning when necessary seamless and effective • Strong Arts Program • Competitive Sport program and rich extracurricular activities • The Class of 2020 earned over $20 million in college scholarships and grants • Academic Scholarships and Financial aid packages available

Sunday, October 18th, 12 PM–2PM Wednesday, October 28th, 6PM–8PM Registration Required.

Visit cathedralhs.org/visit-our-school for details 350 East 56th Street, NYC • www.cathedralhs.org • 212.688.1545

Your first day of a world-class education begins now.

Students and families are invited to join virtual open houses with Brooklyn Friends for Pre-K through High School to become immersed in our vibrant community. Meet with divisional leaders who will give you a front row seat to all Brooklyn Friends has to offer your family.

Visit brooklynfriends.org to learn more or email admissions@brooklynfriends.org BROOKLYN FRIENDS SCHOOL 375 Pearl Street • Brooklyn, NY 11201

INSPIRING MINDS AND HEARTS SINCE 1867

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high Schools Directory | Special Advertising Supplement which is embodied in their mission statement of “unity and reconciliation through allinclusive love”. Fontbonne has a longtradition of sisterhood that has provided a welcoming environment that invites social inclusiveness and moral support while instilling leadership skills, spiritual strength and self-confidence.

Garden School

Williamsburg Charter High School (WCHS)

Still accepting applications for the 2020-2021 school year.

Hybrid and Remote Learning Available!

WCHS offers: • Advanced Placement (AP) and Syracuse University Project Advance (SUPA) classes • Special Education (SPED) and English as a New Language (ENL) services

• Student-driven course selection • Social emotional supports • Visual and performing arts, extracurricular activities, and athletics

Visit www.thewcs.org to

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33-16 79th Street Jackson Heights, NY 11372 718- 335-6363 info@gardenschool.org Gardenschool.org Founded in 1923 to meet the need for a high-quality, individualized and independent school in Queens. Their low tuition, compared with that for other independent schools in the metropolitan area makes it a realistic option to a broad spectrum of families. The student body reflects the rich and diverse Queens community. Thousands of families have put their trust in Garden School and nearly 100 years of success with students prove that their trust has paid off.

Holy Cross High School 26-20 Francis Lewis Blvd., Flushing, NY 718-886-7250, ext. 524 www.holycrosshs.org admissions@holycrosshs.org Holy Cross High School, a Catholic college preparatory school in Queens, educates the hearts and minds of young men and women following the educational and spiritual vision of Blessed Father Basil Moreau, founder of the Congregation of Holy Cross. The Congregation of Holy Cross also sponsors six colleges and universities in the United States including St. Edward’s University, the University of Portland, Stonehill College, King’s College, Holy Cross College, and the University of Notre Dame.

Graduates have a competitive edge in regards to scholarships and programs when applying to these colleges, as these schools are aware of the quality education students receive at Holy Cross.

The Kew Forest School 119-17 Union Turnpike Forest Hills, NY 11375

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718-268-4667 kewforest.org Established in 1918, The KewForest School is the oldest independent co-ed, college preparatory school in Queens.

Their mission states: “We are The Kew-Forest School. Our community nurtures lifelong learners from around the world. Our educators inspire young people to think boldly and find their voices. Our students support each other and explore thoughtfully as they shape the future.” The School offers on-site, hybrid, and remote learning for students in Preschool through Grade 12. Their next Open House is Saturday, October 24. For more information, please contact Soraya Diaz Tamayo, Director of Admission & Tuition Assistance, at admission@kewforest.org.

Lower East Side Prep High School 145 Stanton Street New York, NY 10002 212-505-6366 www.lespnyc.com ranaya@schools.nyc.gov Lower East Side Preparatory HighSchool boasts a safe, supportive, and Technologyrich environment that motivates all students to succeed.

With a renowned ESL/Transitional Bilingual Program in Spanish and Chinese and a variety of Enrichment, AP, Regents, Prep and extended day courses, LESP sends more than 80% of their graduates to college. The Transfer School provides structure and support to those who are over-aged and under-accredited and helps students get a new start, whether from around the world or around the block.

Monsignor McClancy Memorial High School 71-06 31st Ave., East Elmhurst, NY 718-898-3800, ext. 11 msgrmcclancy.org An outstanding co–educational college preparatory high schools in Queens.

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The Brother Martinian Scholarship (1/3 Reduction) =85 to 89 on TACHS test + 90 or better average in 7th and 8th grade

The Brother Vincent Cincotta Scholarship = $2,000 per year based on current academic achievement

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GRADUATING INDEPENDENT WOMEN SINCE 1937

Fontbonne Hall, a college preparatory school for young women located in Bay Ridge, founded on the gospel of Jesus Christ and inspired by the philosophy and charism of the Sisters of Saint Joseph, offers a superior educational program to form and empower women of confidence and compassion.

• Offering a hybrid learning model consisting of synchronous online instruction and in-school instruction for Fall 2020 • The only all girls Catholic HS in NYC and Long Island to offer the AP Capstone Program; 16 AP courses offered • College partnerships in Performing Arts, Nursing, Elementary Education and more • Fontbonne is the exclusive school in NY to offer the Brown University Women in Engineering Program as part of our comprehensive STEM program • Beautiful multi-building campus located in Bay Ridge • Over 30 Clubs and Activities and a wide selection of Athletics • Virtual info sessions and visit days available for prospective students.

Visit www.fontbonne.org for information on our virtual OPEN HOUSE and to sign up for a virtual VISIT DAY. 9901 SHORE ROAD, BROOKLYN, NY 11209

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provided for college credit courses, AP classes and a challenging Honors Program.

The co-curricular program of clubs and activities offers students social, cultural and creative experiences.

Celebrating over 50 years of Catholic education in Queens, the school is permanently chartered by the State of New York and fully accredited by the Middle States Association of Secondary Schools and Colleges. [TACHS CODE:#017]

Saint Demetrios High School 30-03 30th Dr., Astoria, NY 718-728-1754 SDPrep.org As education faces challenges due to COVID19, Saint Demetrios School is pleased to inform parents that in addition to 5 day in school sessions there is also remote online synchronous learning available to students. Accredited by the NY State Department of Education (Board of Regents) and the Ministry of Education of Greece, the high

school provides a college preparatory education while also promoting Christian values of service and charity to the community. A class size of approximately 15 students allows for individualized and personalized attention by the faculty. Tuition is affordable and qualifying students may receive merit and athletic scholarships. Graduates are accepted to some of the finest colleges/universities including: NYU, Fordham, Macaulay Honors (CUNY), SUNY, Cornell, Columbia and Yale. The School was recently ranked one of the top private schools in NYC by Niche.com.

St Raymond’s High School for Boys 2151 Saint Raymond Avenue, Bronx, NY 10462 718-824-5050x106 www.straymondhighschool.org admissions@ straymondhighschool.org St. Raymond High School for Boys is a Catholic high school, founded in 1960, offering a college preparatory curriculum which

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LE AR N TO DAY. LE AD TO M O R ROW. LE AR N TO DAY. LE AD TO M O R ROW. A Private College Preparatory School for Students in Grades 7 – 12 A Private College Preparatory School for Students in Grades 7 – 12

Applications Being Accepted for Immediate Enrollment in Grades 7-12 -------------------------------------------------------Limited Seats Available!

Affordable Tuition · Generous Scholarship and Financial Assistance Offers · Flexible Tuition Payment Plans Available

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4 In-Person Instruction Five Days a Week 4 Maximum of 10 Students per Class 4 Proper Social Distancing per CDC Guidelines 4 Enhanced Air Filtration System School-Wide

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DISCOVER WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A RAVEN SUNDAY, OCTOBER 18, 2020 Virtual Open House - https://bit.ly/3krDT3h

College Preparatory Curriculum Honors Division 100% College Acceptances Individualized Course of Study Advanced Placement Courses State of the Art Technology Three new Science Labs Two new Computer Labs

Music and Art Studios College Counseling Championship Athletic Teams Intramural Sports Extracurricular Clubs and Activities Community Service Program Fitness Center

Batting Cages Fully Air-Conditioned Classrooms

Chromebook Program College Credit Program with Pace University

Private Tours Available starting October

AFFORDABLE TUITION AFFO Tuition F Frozen for all Four Years

ACADEMIC SCHOLARSHIPS Scholarships and Financial Aid Available

www.straymondhighschool.org • 718.824.5050x106 2151 St. Raymond Avenue, Bronx, NY 10462 For more information email admissions@straymondhighschool.org TACHS EXAM CODE 115

A NYC Public School Dedicated To Giving A Highly Personalized Student Experience

Lower East Side Preparatory High School Get into the college or career of your dreams!

• Nine AP Courses • 80+ Paid Internships • Flexible Programming • Extensive Clubs and • After-school Programs

Register directly at LESP, 9am-1pm daily, or call for more information.

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Considering Independent School For Your Family?

is uniquely designed to meet the needs of all students, encouraging critical thinking, creativity and the ability to relate to the world. St. Raymond offers programs to students of varying academic ability levels, including honors, advanced placement and college credit. In addition to outstanding academics, St. Raymond has always been known for its championship athletic teams, extensive intramural sports program and diverse extra-curricular activities.Tuition $7,800 and $570 fees. Virtual Open House: Sunday, October 18 https://bit.ly/3krDT3h

Williamsburg Charter High School

Things look different this year but we are open and thriving!

Inquire about Garden School Cultivating Success in Every Child Grades: N-12 Call: (718) 335-6363 • Email: admissions@gardenschool.org Visit our website: www.gardenschool.org to register for one of our weekly virtual information sessions.

198 Varet St., Brooklyn, NY 347-217-6995 thewcs.org admissions@thewcs.org The Williamsburg Charter High School unites youth, families, staff, teachers and the community at large in providing young people with the tools necessary to make sense of the world.

VIRTUAL OPEN HOUSE Friday, October 23, 2020 Tours by appointment only.

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Young people accomplish this through participation in a liberal arts education that includes language, literature, writing, science, history, mathematics, the visual and performing arts, technology and explorations in disciplines designed to teach justice, independent thinking, respect and compassion for themselves and others as well as the skills of critical thinking, communication and research.

The Windsor School 37-02 Main Street Flushing, NY 11354 718-359-8300 thewindsorschool.com IN-PERSON INSTRUCTION FIVE DAYS A WEEK IN GRADES 7-12. Average class size of 10 students per class provides proper social distancing. Immediate enrollment with generous scholarship and financial assistance offers available. At a time when students and families need full time in-person instruction, Windsor School is here for you!

ContaCt us 718-728-1754 SDPrep.org

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pets

Welcoming a Pet into Your Family NYC animal shelters that offer fostering and adoption of dogs and cats during COVID

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re you feeling ready to welcome a cuddly new family member? Dogs and cats make for the best of companions, and give a lifetime of memories for the family.

With all this time spent at home, now is the perfect opportunity for adopting or fostering a pet.

We’ve put together a list of some animal shelters around New York City that value rescues and give them the love and care they need before you can.

Second Chance Rescue 260 6th St, Verplanck, NY 10596

This shelter has rescued thousands of animals in New York City and taken care of these four-legged friends like they’re family.

Each rescue is taken to a veterinary clinic for proper medical treatment, where they are spayed/neutered, vaccinated, microchipped, and tested for heart worm before they’re available for adoption or fostering.

The applications for adoption and fostering are all online. Potential adopters can see all the animals they have available listed online!

Contact: nycsecondchancerescue.org/contact/ for email form Best Friends in New York 307 West Broadway New York, NY 10013

Adopt a dog or a cat completely online! Best Friends offers a virtual adoption process, where applicants are able to peruse a list of available pets, interviewed through videoconference, and meet their potential pet over Zoom. If you’re in the market for a more mature pet, adoption fees are waived for pets that are over the age of 8!

Contact: contactnyc@bestfriends.org ASPCA in NYC 424 E. 92nd St. New York, NY 10128

The ASPCA adoption center in NYC is persevering through COVID, thanks to the kindness of their volunteer foster caregivers.

These caregivers are conducting remote animal adoptions, with videoconference calls and minimal-contact meetups. ASPCA also works to give affordable medical care

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to animals, making it so that financially struggling families can give their pet the proper treatment it needs.

Contact: (212) 876-7700 ext. 4120.

Animal Care Centers of NYC 11 Park Place, Ste 805, New York, NY 10007

This animal shelter houses not only dogs and

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cats, but bunnies too! Adopters can browse Animal Care Center’s website for cats, dogs, and bunnies, and contact this organization identifying which friend they’d like to adopt.

Animal Care Centers of NYC is dedicated to serving the community by partnering with over 200 animal placement organizations.

They act as a huge resource to the NYC animal community.

Contacts: adopt@nycacc.org; foster@nycacc.org

With all this time spent at home, now is the perfect opportunity for adopting or fostering a pet.

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City Critters

Animal Haven

Petco, 991 Second Ave; PetSmart, 632 Broadway

200 Centre Street New York, NY 10013

City Critters takes animal adoption very seriously, making sure their animals get the best home possible. They conduct several rounds of interviews with adopters, as well as requiring references from adopters’ friends/family/or coworkers before giving permission to adopt. Of course, due to COVID, this will be a fully virtual process done through videoconference, phone, and email.

Contact: Petco: 212-593-7213; Petsmart: 212475-0893

Operating by appointment only, Animal Haven works their hardest to make sure that every animal is at its highest chance of being adopted. They take excellent care of their cats and dogs, spaying/neutering them, giving them core vaccines, and microchipping them. Animal Haven also provides behavior intervention to animals that need it, giving them the best chance at being adopted.

Contact: 212-274-8511 Bideawee 410 East 38th Street, New York, NY

Bideawee’s mission is to make sure that your new furry friend’s transition from shelter to home goes as smoothly as possible. First, they make sure the condition of the shelter is absolutely flawless so that the animals stay content and comfortable. Bideawee’s also sure to give these furry friends the necessary medical treatments to make sure their health is in tiptop shape. They also make sure to properly socialize the animal before placing it into a new home, keeping them engaged in socially-focused activities.

Contact: 212-271-2984 Badass Brooklyn Rescue This animal rescue program doesn’t have a physical location but instead relies on foster families to take care of animals before they’re adopted. Even though there’s no “one shelter,” their program’s volunteers couldn’t be more close-knit. Badass Brooklyn Rescue makes sure that each animal is provided with vetting, boarding, spaying/neutering, and a collar and leash.

Contact: adopt@badassbk.com

OPEN HOUSE

October 18, 2020 • 12pm - 4pm

Advanced Registration Required RSVP online at www.holycrosshs.org/RSVP Educating the Hearts and Minds of Young Men and Women • 12:1 Student to teacher ratio • Over 42 Honors and AP Courses Offered • 50 Electives • 30 Athletic Teams • 37 Clubs and Organizations • Over 1,000,000 dollars invested in our STREAM program • Every incoming freshman is provided with a Chromebook and full access to the Google Apps for Education • Class of 2020 earned over $15million in academic scholarships • 100% graduation rate *Only families with reservations for our open house will be admitted For more information contact Mrs. Andrea Aloi 718-886-7250 x 524 or text 718-309-0589 email admissions@holycrosshs.org

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Fall Books for Kids Your go-to round-up of the latest releases

By Mia SalaS

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ooking to sneak in some extra fall reading in between remote and in-person classes? Maybe you want your kiddos to brush up on their reading skills?

Well, we have the go-to fall reading list for you! We scoped out the latest in children’s books to round up new releases (and some throwbacks) for all reading levels, from early readers to young adults. We’re really loving some of the reads centered around diversity & inclusion, and we were sure to include a lot in our guide to fall reading. Browse our list and start reading with your kiddos!

Early Readers (Preschool – 1st Grade)

There’s an Alien in Your Book by Tom Fletcher, illustrated by Greg Abbott

We’re obsessed with this picture book that was just released in late June. For little ones who just can’t seem to sit still to read a whole book (classic kiddos!), this story is interactive. Little readers have to jiggle, bounce, and turn their book around as they try to launch Alien back up into space.

You may remember Fletcher’s There’s A Superhero in Your Book, There’s an Elf in Your Book, or many more, so this latest release is an addition to his engaging series.

I Am Every Good Thing by Derrick Barnes, illustrated by Gordon C. James

This is a must-read for your preschoolers.

This confident Black narrator is proud of who he is, and he

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perfect for all reading levels

encourages young readers to take the time to understand the people around them. What we love about this book is that your little ones will not only see someone who knows who he is, what he wants, and what he can accomplish, but they’ll also see someone who is often misunderstood. We highly recommend this timely children’s book this fall.

The Tiny Chef by Rachel Larson, Adam Reid, and Ozi Akturk

From the creators of The Tiny Chef Show comes their debut children’s book about the Tiny Chef who misplaces his favorite recipe book. How could he possibly whip up the best creations without his recipes? After looking for it for a while, Tiny Chef decides to go for a walk, and suddenly he has an idea for a new recipe. Your kiddos will love the Tiny Chef illustrations, and they’ll take away a message about perseverance, creativity, and confidence.

She Persisted in Sports by Chelsea Clinton, illustrated by Alexandra Boiger

This is our top pick for your little girl. An inspiring story about women in sports, your young girls will feel a sense of empowerment as they read about some of the greatest female athletes of all time. While we’ve come a long way, women have constantly been told that they can’t achieve their dreams. In this third She Persisted book, Clinton tackles the challenges that women athletes have overcome, just in time for the Olympics!

Will You Be My Friend? by Sam McBratney, illustrated by Anita Jeram

Remember Guess How Much I Love You, written twenty-five years ago? Well we now have a sequel to this popular children’s book! Little Nutbrown Hare finds a new friend while he’s out on one of his adventures. Young readers will follow this heartwarming story of friendship, and maybe even learn something about how to be a great friend in their lives. We recommend pairing this with Guess How Much I Love You if your little one hasn’t read it yet! On sale September 29, so this is the perfect October read to look forward to.

Just Like Me by Vanessa BrantleyNewton

We’re crazy about this collection of poetry and illustrations filled with stories about all kinds of girls: girls who feel happy, sad, scared, powerful; girls who love their bodies and girls who don’t; country girls, city girls; girls who love their mother and girls who wish they had a father. This book explores self-esteem, positivity, diversity and inclusion, and so much more. The artwork is absolutely beautiful, and your little ones will definitely appreciate a glimpse into poetry, art, and the power that this form of writing can have.

First Chapter Books (Grades 1 – 3) Absolutely Alfie and the Furry, Purry Secret by Sally Warner, illustrated by Shearry Malone

If you were a fan of the Judy Moody books, then we highly recommend this debut children’s chapter book for your kiddos. A story of a bossy friend and her kittens that Alfie becomes very obsessed with, we’re loving the humor and lessons of friendship that this book has. But be careful— your kiddo may start asking for a kitten after they’re done with this read! Or they may just want to get their hands on the next book in the series: Absolutely Alfie and the First Week Friends.

Dory Fantasmagory: Tiny Tough by Abby Hanlon

If you’ve been following this super popular series, then your kiddos will be very excited to know that the fifth book is coming out this fall on September 8! Dory thinks

that her sister’s lost treasure (a friendship bracelet) has something to do with pirates, so she heads to the sea to meet up with a pirate crew. This is a great introduction to chapter books, full of imagination, adventure, and much more!

never get to travel anywhere, but the fair unlocks a ton of possibilities. The series is inspired by the life of 11-year old viral sensation and social activist Sarai Gonzalez.

We’re here for the Latinx representation in children’s first chapter books!

Sarai and the Around the World Fair by Sarai Gonzalez, illustrated

by Monica Brown

The 17th book in the Dragon Masters series is finally here this fall on October 6! The series is a part of Scholastic’s early chapter book line with easy-to-read text, illustrations, and a super engaging plot. In this book, the Dragon Masters have to stop an evil wizard from becoming the most powerful wizard in the world. For your adventure-loving kiddos, this book is just for them.

In the fourth and latest book in the series, Sarai goes to her school’s first Around the World Fair. After she outgrows her bike, she worries that she’ll

Fortress of the Stone Dragon,

by Tracey West, illustrated by Matt Loveridge

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Upper-Level Chapter Books (Grades 4 – 6) Brave. Black. First.

by Cheryl Hudson, illustrated by Erin K. Robinson

Published in collaboration with the Smithsonian National Museum of African American History and Culture, this is a must-read for the fall!

Your kiddo will read the stories of over 50 incredible African American women, like Harriet Tubman, Rosa Parks, Serena Williams, Michelle Obama, and many more. A book of inspiration, bravery, and heroism, we 100% recommend this for your daughters (and sons!) in middle school or late elementary school.

The Lonely Heart of Maybelle Lane by Kate O’Shaughnessy

Your middle schooler is sure to binge-read this book in one day!

Maybelle loves sounds and music, especially the recording she has of her dad’s laugh saved in a voicemail. Then one day, she hears his laugh on the radio, and he announces that he’s going to be a judge for a singing contest in Nashville. Maybelle decides to take a trip to Nashville to compete in the contest and meet her dad in person.

Along the way, Maybelle finds courage and true friends in her journey to Nashville.

Orange for the Sunsets by Tina Athaide

When Idi Amin announces that Indians have ninety days to leave the country, suddenly Asha and her best friend Yesofu are forced to confront their different backgrounds: Indian and African. As tensions between Indians and Africans rise, the friends are torn apart between family, friends, and society. Living under Ugandan President Amin’s divisive rule, they must consider where and who they call home. This upper level chapter book is such a powerful read that will introduce your kids to diverse perspectives.

Other Words for Home by Jasmine Warga

A heartwarming story about losing, but then rediscovering home, Other Words for Home is one of our top picks for upper level chapter books. A young girl has to leave Syria to move to America with her mom as things in her hometown start to get volatile. At first, Jude struggles with the cultural differences and her new label of “Middle Eastern”, an identity she’s never known before. But soon Jude finds family and friends in America, and along the way she also finds herself. Both a New York Times Bestseller and Newbery Honor Book, this story will teach your tweens a lot about multiculturalism, diversity and inclusion, and what it means to empathize with someone else’s experience.

Wink by Rob Harrell

For your kiddos who are nervous about starting middle school or moving up a grade, this story will give them a new perspective that will calm their nerves and encourage empathy.

A seventh grader is diagnosed with eye cancer, and all he wants is to live a normal life. He doesn’t want to be called “the cancer kid” or have to wear a hat to cover up his hair loss. Both heartbreaking and hilarious, uplifting and unforgettable, this novel is based off of the author’s real experience, making it personal and moving for your middle schooler.

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Young Adult (Grades 7 – 10) Smile Like You Mean It by Willow Hadley

After Charlotte’s father died, her mother changed. One night after an incident with her mother, Charlotte is arrested and taken to juvie. When Charlotte is released, her uncle surprises her and takes her home, where she meets his step-son who is her age and has four best friends who are all so welcoming. As Charlotte deals with anxiety and her troubled past, she also learns to let people in, and she grows close to the group. Just released this

summer in late August, we really like this story of overcoming challenges for teens and young adults.

Good Talk by Mira Jacob

We really recommend this book for both young adults and adults, but it can especially have an effect on teens who are still learning, absorbing, and discovering who they are. This is a unique read because it’s a graphic memoir told through conversations. The story takes readers through key moments in America’s history, like 9-11, Obama’s presidency, and the 2016 presidential election. Through it all, Jacob tries to explain to her mixed race, six-year-old son what it all means, and he has a lot of questions. This memoir tackles racism in America, interracial families, American identity, and much more as Jacob reflects on her own childhood and how she learned the answers to some of her son’s questions.

The Gravity of Us by Phil Stamper

When Cal’s father is selected for a highly publicized NASA mission to Mars, Cal and his family move to Houston from Brooklyn, where Cal meets (and falls in love with) another “Astrokid,” Leon. But when secrets about the program surface, Cal tries to reveal the truth without hurting the people closest to him. Stamper explores self-doubt, first love, and identity in this young adult novel. We love the LGBTQ+ representation in literature for teens!

This is All Your Fault

by Aminah Mae Safi

Coming out on October 13, 2020, we are patiently waiting for this fall read to print! Set over the course of one day, the story follows three young women determined to save their indie bookstore. We’re all about this feminist young adult novel, perfect for kids in grades 7 through 9 who are looking for a story of empowerment (and a transition from the “kiddy” books they’ve grown out of).

COULD IT BE HUNTER SYNDROME? A rare combination of common childhood complaints could indicate Hunter syndrome (MPS II), a progressive, genetic disease.1,2,3 Talk to your doctor, or learn more at:

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Fall Pumpkin Patches!

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Our ultimate guide to pumpkin farms that are closer than you think

ctober is almost here which means it’s that time again to head to a pumpkin patch. Head to one of these pumpkin farms in and near New York City to choose from a variety of gourds, munchkins, and other pumpkins. The best part is that it’s also apple-picking season, which means there will be plenty of apple cider, apple cider donuts, and baked goods for you and your family to enjoy as you roam the pumpkin patch, pet farm animals, and pick jack-o’-lantern worthy pumpkins to carve. We’ve even included the travel distance from Midtown so you know how long the journey will be. So find a weekend, and take a trip to one of these pumpkin patches and experience fall to its fullest. Visit websites for COVID updates and guidelines before visiting.

come during the week to purchase pumpkins in the Farm Store. Open to the public on Saturdays and Sundays, October 3–October 25, 2020 and Mon, October 12 11:00 am–4:30 pm. General admission is free to the public, except during special events.

Hillview Farms 223 Meyersville Road, Gillette, NJ 908-647-0957 (50 min from Midtown)

Choose the best pumpkins at Hillview Farms!

In October, you and your family can visit this family-owned and operated farm that has 53 acres of locally grown food. You can even visit their roadside market that has apples, pumpkins, vegetables, tomatoes, donuts, cider, and bakery items. Open 9 am-6 pm (field closed to the public at 5 pm), daily.

Under One Hour Demarest Farms 244 Wiermus Road, Hillsdale, NJ 07642 201-666-0472 (40 min from Midtown)

Demarest Farms’ pumpkin season starts September 19th! Make your reservation on their site and choose out the perfect pumpkin.

Once you make a reservation, you will be given a date and time to arrive at the farm. Although hayrides are limited this year, you can still take a private hayride throughout the orchard and take home a pumpkin of your choice. The cost for general admission is $7, includes free parking and entrance to pumpkin patch; plus $12 for the largest pumpkin you pick. Children 2 and under can enter for free. Open 8-5 pm, daily.

Queens County Farm 73-50 Little Neck Pkwy., Queens, NY 11004 718-347-3276 (40 min from Midtown)

As the longest continually farmed site in New York State, Queens County Farm opens their pumpkin patch up again this October for families to enjoy. Pumpkin month at Queens County Farm is full of excitement with autumn in the air. While the pumpkin patch is open primarily on weekends, feel free to

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One Hour to One Hour and a Half Secor Farms 85 Airmont Ave, Mahwah, NJ 07430 201-529-2595 (1 hr from Midtown)

Make picture-perfect memories at Secor Farms’ storefront pumpkin patch. No reservations are required to enter the pumpkin patch, though there may be lines, as they will be limiting their capacity in the patches. Don’t leave before browsing the farm’s market, full of freshpressed apple cider and homemade apple cider donuts. Open 9 am-5 pm, daily. The pumpkin patch will be open through Oct. 31st.

Riamede Farm 122 Oakdale Road, Chester, NJ 07930 908-879-7762 (1 hr & 20 min from Midtown)

You might know Riamede Farms for iconic apple orchards, but they also have a CutYour-Own-Pumpkin Patch! Cut pumpkins right from the vine in this pumpkin patch at the beginning of the season. Riamede Farm recommends that you bring your own cutting shears as well. Make sure to also grab some delicious apples, donuts, and baked goods during your visit. Pumpkin and squash fields open in late September. Open 9 am-4:30 pm, daily.

Harvest Moon Farm & Orchard 130 Hardscrabble Road, North Salem, NY 10560 914-485-1210 (1 hr & 20 min from Midtown)

Every weekend in October, head to Harvest Moon Farm & Orchard to pick pumpkins!

Access to the pumpkin patch is available only through purchasing apple orchard tickets, so reserve your ticket on their website. One ticket gives entry up to four guests. Kids under 10 get free entry. Your pumpkin patch experience is sure to be an exciting one for the whole family here! Cash only with an ATM available in the farm store. They’re open 10 am-5 pm daily, and pumpkin picking is available on weekends only, (10 am- 4:30 pm).

Dr. Davies Farm 306 NY-304, Congers, NY 10920 845-268-7020 (1 hr & 10 min from Midtown)

Stuart’s Fruit Farm 62 Granite Springs Road, Granite Springs, NY 10527 914-245-2784 (1 hr & 20 min from Midtown)

With a scenic trailer ride that takes you to the Pumpkin Patch, Dr. Davies Farm is a great spot to enjoy an autumn day outside and find beautiful pumpkins! The hayrides have been a farm favorite for decades, transforming your pumpkin patch experience into much more than choosing a pumpkin. Call ahead to ensure availability for the hayride as the farm will be limiting the number of guests. Open 10 am-4 pm, daily.

Not only a fruit farm, Stuart’s Fruit Farm features the perfect pumpkin patch for families, and it is family-operated! Enjoy the autumn air and the farm views as you survey the pumpkins and choose your favorite. You can also buy pre-cut pumpkins and gourds at the farm stand if you don’t have the time to venture into the pumpkin patch. Open 9 am-6 pm from August 1st to November 1st, daily.

Cash or check only.

Alstede Farms 1 Alstede Farms Lane, Chester, NJ 07930 908-879-7189 (1 hr & 20 min from Midtown)

Head to Alstede Farms to choose the freshest pumpkins with your family! There are plenty of pumpkins in all shapes and sizes to choose from. Due to COVID, there will be limited tickets on the weekends to avoid crowding; guests are encouraged to visit on the weekdays where there is less attendance.

Open 9 am-6 pm, daily.

Wilkens Fruit & Fir Farm 1335 White Hill Rd, Yorktown Heights, NY 10598 914-245-5111 (1 hr and 20 min from Midtown)

The pumpkin patch is open for the season at Wilkens Fruit & Fir Farm! Spend the day with your family in the patch as you search for your favorite pumpkin. Wilkens Fruit & Fir Farm is also very well known for their markets: the bakery, apple farm market and the country market. Purchase tasty treats, decorations, and, of course, pumpkins!

Currently, the farm is operating at a reduced capacity, so try to get there early! They’re open 10 am-4:30 pm, Wednesday-Monday (closed on Tuesdays).

Apple Ridge Orchards 101 Jessup Road, Warwick, NY 10990 845-987-7717 (1 hr & 30 min from Midtown)

Looking for an educational and interactive experience at the pumpkin patch? Check out Apple Ridge Orchards for some family fun with pumpkins! You can taste sweet treats and pet the farm animals as you visit the farm. No reservations needed. Pumpkins cost $10 and general admission is $3 which includes free parking and entrance to the farm. Open to the public 9 am-6 pm, Thursday-Sunday and holidays.

Barton Orchards 63 Apple Tree Lane, Poughquag, NY 12570 845-227-2306 (1 hr & 30 min from Midtown)

Beginning in late September and running

through the end of October, Barton Orchards boasts a wonderful, family-friendly pumpkin patch. Barton Orchards started as an apple farm, but they have since expanded to include tomatoes, cucumbers, eggplants, peppers, squash, and, of course, pumpkins! There are plenty of other exciting activities to do and food to taste during your visit. Online ticketing is required, with tickets available one weekend at a time. Open 11 am-5 pm, daily. $10 minimum purchase required.

Fishkill Farms 9 Fishkill Farm Road, Hopewell Junction, NY 12533 845-897-4377 (1 hr & 30 min from Midtown)

The pumpkin patch has both edible and decorative pumpkins to choose from, as well as gourds, squash, corn stalks and straw bales for your fall decor! Make sure to book your reservation to find pumpkins with the family at Fishkill Farms and don’t leave without tasting their freshly made donuts at the farm store! Open 9-4:45 pm (field closes at 5:45 pm), Tuesday through Sunday for PYO.

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Power Mom Kimberly Seals Allers on fighting to lower Black and brown maternal mortality rates

By Donna Duarte-LaDD

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imberly Seals Allers is that human. She speaks truth to power and is the mother that women and, more importantly, Black and Latina mothers have in their corner.

A former editor of Essence and writer at Fortune, she is also an award-winning journalist, author, international speaker, strategist, and, most importantly, an advocate for maternal and infant health. Kimberly is fighting for racial equity in birth and breastfeeding and to end the unconscionably high Black maternal mortality rates.

Something that is much needed in New York. Senator Kirsten Gillibrand stated last year, “Over the past decade, New York State has experienced a 60 percent increase in maternal mortality. According to the NYS Department of Health, the rate of maternal deaths in New York City has risen from 18.7 per 100,000 live births in 2007 to 31 per 100,000 live births in 2015. Racial disparities are also very evident, particularly in New York City, where more than half of all births in the state take place. In New York City, Black women are estimated to be up to 12 times more likely to die during pregnancy and childbirth than white women and are three times more likely to suffer from life-threatening complications according to a 2018 study.”

As we have seen with the recent deaths of Bronx mother Amber Rose Issac and new mother Sha-Asia Washington from Brooklyn, this is startlingly true and downright frightening. Kimberly Seals Allers knows this needs to change. To empower Black and brown mothers before they go to a hospital, she developed an app called Irth — as in Birth but without the B for bias — where mothers of color can share their experiences of care, and pregnant women and new moms can find a hospital or doctor review from a fellow mother who is like them.

We chatted with Kimberly on the state of Black and brown mothers and why the Irth app matters.

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“Imagine knowing that other people who didn’t look like you were raving about a place that treated you so disrespectfully.”

When I heard you speak at a past mom summit you shared that your own personal birth experience led you to create the concept for the Irth app, can you share how this experience changed your life?

When I gave birth to my first child, just as I was completing my Masters degree at Columbia University and, I was anxious and elated. During my pregnancy, I asked many colleagues and girlfriends with children, most of whom were white, where to give birth. I read all the rankings list and listened to their glowing experiences and I went exactly where they recommended. While they walked out of the same hospital raving about their care, I left feeling traumatized. I had a C-section I still can’t fully explain, my baby was given infant formula despite my explicit direction that I was breastfeeding, I had to fight and cry to have my baby with me in my room. They could not believe the things that I experienced. It was as if I was at a completely different place. However, the truth was that at that time of my life, I was not yet married and I was still on student health insurance.

And I was treated like an unwed Black woman with basic coverage. I felt that, I lived

that. Imagine having such high expectations for your childbirth experience and then having a starkly different experience. Imagine knowing that other people who didn’t look like you were raving about a place that treated you so disrespectfully. That experience always stayed with me — because it was clear that people are not being treated the same way even at the same place. Although these women were my “peers” in many ways — we attended the same college or worked at the same companies — based on my life circumstances at that time — they were not the best sources for referrals or reviews.

I wish I could have found a review from someone actually like me — race, socioeconomics, relationship status — all of it.

That’s the key problem Irth seeks to solve — giving you reviews from someone like you.

Amber Rose Issac and Sha-Asia Washington’s deaths from complications of childbirth has brought to light the crisis that Black and Latina women face in childbirth in New York City. Why are Black and Latina mothers more likely to have complications in childbirth than white women?

All women can face complications after childbirth — but Black and Latina women disproportionately die from those complications — this is the problem. Often and especially in the case of Amber Rose and Sha-Asia — both had expressed that their concerns were being ignored. Complaints about their health were ignored, concern about pain was ignored — these are common threads in many experiences of Black and Latina women and sadly they too often lead to a preventable death. The New York State Task Force on Maternal Mortality and Disparate Racial Outcomes has directly linked racism and implicit and explicit bias to New York’s rising maternal mortality and morbidity rates.

The fact is that despite socio-economic status

and access to prenatal care, these disparities still exist. We can look at the harrowing story of Serena Williams’ near-death experience during childbirth to know that income and celebrity status do not prevent disrespectful, dismissive or poor care.

Secondly, many of the complications are due to how we birth. Black women have some of the highest rates of C-sections. According to studies, Black women are more likely to be given cesarean sections than other races, even in low-risk pregnancies. (In 2018, over 30% of Black women with low-risk pregnancies delivered via C-section, compared to under 25% of white women.) And a 2008 review found a race-based discrepancy in C-section rates that persisted even after adjusting for the fact that Black people are more likely to have preexisting conditions that might necessitate the procedure. C-sections are indeed at times necessary, but they are risky and increase the chance of hemorrhage, surgical errors and other post-operative complications — this is often what kills Black and Latina women.

Also we can’t ignore the fact that the medical system is actually rooted in racism.

In my first book, The Mocha Manual to Fabulous Pregnancy, a guidebook for Black women, I wrote: “Just being a Black woman places you at a higher risk of poor birth outcomes...and at the root of it are the stresses of racism and the biased treatment you may receive.” That was in 2006 — and sadly, not much has changed. According to the CDC and many other agencies, 60% or more of childbirth-related deaths are preventable.

Recently in NYC, a statue of Dr. Marion Sims was taken down in Central Park. Dr. Sims was known as the “Father of Gynecology” but most of his studies were performed on enslaved Black women — without their permission and often without anesthesia.

Then there’s Henrietta Lacks and her cells and the history of eugenics — throughout history Black women’s bodies have been disrespected and mistreated by the medical establishment and sadly there is more work to be done.

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How and why did you develop the Irth app?

In my past eight years of experience working on the ground developing community engagement strategies and community-led interventions to improve birth and breastfeeding outcomes across the U.S. — one thing was clear: far too many Black and brown women had a story. Of mistreatment, or neglect or dismissiveness — those were the ones that lived to share their story. Or they knew a friend or family member who died in childbirth.

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Countless scientific studies have also documented the problem of provider bias with one landmark study showing doctors giving different treatment options for hypothetical Black patients than for hypothetical white patients presenting the same symptoms.

Right now, hospitals are primarily addressing this problem with an anti-bias or cultural competency training. This is an important start. However, these trainings lack public accountability. Nobody is checking or publicly tracking these hospitals to see if the patient experience of care is actually being impacted positively, negatively or not at all.

Meanwhile, these one-size-fits-allproviders trainings that focus on the individual, don’t have the granular details of what exactly are the spectrum of experiences that leave Black and brown birthing people feeling traumatized. Plus, they call it unconscious bias for a reason. It often occurs unconsciously, so we must detail what is perceived as an experience of bias to better inform these efforts. We can’t change what we don’t see or know about.

Kimberly Seals Allers with her children, Michael-Jaden and Kayla.

How does the Irth app work and what has been its impact?

As a consumer tool, when Irth launches nationwide in early November, it will be a Yelp-like review and rating platform for physicians and hospitals that helps Black women and birthing people of color find providers with good reviews from people just like them.

Irth captures prenatal, birthing, post-partum and pediatric visits for up to one year to offer a new lens for looking at experiences of bias across the maternity and infant care continuum. You can leave a review to inform others or you can search for reviews and filter it by race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identification, income and etc. — to find reviews from people just like you. Irth empowers a low income Black woman or a Latina same sex couple with information they’ve never had before to find a real-time, peer-reviewed and trusted provider—a known factor in improving patient compliance & behavior change.

On the back end , Irth creates the first ever national repository of experiences of care among marginalized groups. We know these experiences are everywhere — from New York City to Detroit to California. This new data set will be used to provide critical patient reported insights to hospitals, that can reveal and detect blind spots, specific behaviors in care & identify specific trends in experiences of bias. We can then work directly with

hospitals to create more respectful, culturally responsive care. Thus, Irth becomes an innovative tool to advance equity in quality improvement measures.

Through our preliminary data we have already been able to identify trends in hospital care and we are starting to share that information with hospitals and providers.

This is critical!

Hospitals can’t change what they can’t see — and having an intellectual, 90-minute training about bias for healthcare professionals versus literally seeing actual experiences of patients and what was perceived as disrespectful, uncomfortable or traumatizing is an important piece in addressing the Black maternal mortality and morbidity crisis.

There is also great momentum with Maternal Mortality Review Committees (MMRCs), but these efforts look to address the problem “from the grave” — Irth gives front end insights so we can prevent death by identifying the behaviors that lead to neglect.

Also, although the app is “Yelp-like” — Irth is not a free form commenting space.

You have to literally identify what happened that you perceived as bias — was it lack of eye contact? Dismissiveness about pain levels? A rude comment? Lack of receiving a diagnostic test in a timely fashion? We already have about 20 frequently reported experiences that we keep adding to as women share reviews--so we are literally decoding bias to

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provide specific information to providers and institutions. You can’t change what you can’t see! This is the most important part of how Irth will be a game changer.

What resources if any can a Black and brown mother with limited financial resources find available to support her post birth?

In NYC, the Health Department has a number of prenatal and postpartum resources including low or no-cost community doulas, who also support families postpartum. For example, Healthy Start Brooklyn offers the By My Side Doula program, the Healthy Women, Healthy Futures program and other city-wide resources include Ancient Song Doula services in Brooklyn.

There are also a number of amazing online resources such as The Black Mamas Guide by Mamatoto Village and of course, my Mini Mocha Manual to Pregnancy and Childbirth ebook on Amazon and don’t underestimate the power of social media to find support. However, we must make sure doulas are paid a living wage and out of hospital births at childbirth centers become more of a standard option for New York birthing people. The SaveARose Foundation, started by Amber Isaac’s partner, is currently raising funds to bring a childbirth center to the Bronx.

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Book Smart Our picks for Fall reading

By Hester ABA

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all is the ultimate reading season, and there has never been a better time to escape from our current reality and curl up with a great book. We’ve rounded up five notable recent and upcoming fiction releases, including the highly-anticipated Cobble Hill by the author of the Gossip Girl series, Cecily von Ziegesar, from a diverse group of authors.

Cobble Hill by Cecily von Ziegesar

If you’re expecting Gossip Girl part deux, adjust your expectations, as in this novel von Ziegesar has exchanged glam, sexy teens for some middle-aged Brooklyn parents going through various life crises. Fun and fluffy, this is not, but if you’re looking to get lost in someone else’s problems and savor the Cobble Hill setting, pre-order this. Out November 10.

When No One is Watching by Alyssa Cole

In the historically Black fictional Brooklyn neighborhood where heroine Sydney Green lives, gentrification is on the rise. But when Sydney’s Black neighbors start going missing at an alarming speed, she starts to suspect something more sinister is happening. Billed as Rear Window meets Get Out, this book is filled with suspense, social commentary and a wonderfully drawn female lead.

The Year of the Witching by Alexis Henderson

There’s nothing like a spooky read in October, and The Year of the Witching is a great novel to dive into! The story follows Immanuelle, a young woman living in Bethel, a deeply puritanical town led by a Prophet. When Immanuelle accidentally gets lost in the nearby forest, she discovers the secret of her past as well as four witches who call down plagues upon Bethel. Can Immanuelle step into her power in time to save her family, and Bethel? Light a candle, and get ready to hide under the covers.

The Death of Vivek Oji by Akwaeke Emezi

The Death of Vivek Oji is a book to reach for if you want a really thought-provoking read

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this month. Written by a non-gender-binary author, set in Nigeria, the story begins with the unexplained death of the title character, Vivek Oji, a troubled young trans woman (though this book avoids such labels). Their naked body is left at their parents’ door on the day the market burns down. Kavita, Vivek’s mother, and Osita, their cousin and lover, work through their grief and try to understand what happened, and what power they might have had to change things.

The Grace Year by Kim Liggett

The Grace Year is The Handmaid’s Tale meets Lord of the Flies with a dollop of The Hunger Games. Set in a dystopian world where upon reaching the age of 16, girls are sent away for a year to live as a group on a remote island.

The girls must figure out how to survive the elements, lack of food and being hunted by poachers, but their greatest threat is each other. If you’re a fan of dystopian fiction, you’ll really enjoy this (if you can overlook the slightly unnecessary and vaguely disturbing love affair that skirts this book close to YA territory).

Hester Aba is an Editor, Creative Director, and Mama to two girls. She is also the Founder of Delilah Creative, a creative agency. Hester loves to partner with brands and publications in the parenting and lifestyle spheres and, most recently, held the role of Publisher for New York Family Magazine. You can peep Hester’s work and creative portfolio at hester.co or get in touch by emailing hesteraba@gmail.com

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Submit virtual or written entries limited to 250 words either by email or by using the hashtag #YourVoiceYourViewpoint on social media including: Instagram or TikTok. Video entries can be emailed to YourVoiceYourViewpoint@schnepsmedia.com. Please include your name, age, and school with entries. Submissions will be published in Schneps Media’s multiple platforms of print, digital, and broadcasting. 3 middle school students and 3 high school students will each be awarded a prize of $500 by a panel of Queensborough Community College students. Submissions will be accepted through Friday, Oct. 30, and winners of the prize will be announced on Friday, Nov. 6. For additional information please call 718-260-2500.

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