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The Great American Getaway Gulf Coast Edition
From Panama City to New Orleans, the Gulf Coast offers endless opportunities to explore, reconnect, and fall in love with our favorite destinations all over again. As we celebrate America’s milestone anniversary, there’s no better time to revisit the places that continue to shape our own memories, one summer at a time.
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The Emerald Coast is not just becoming a place women visit, it is becoming a place where they expand. At the center of this shift is a growing intersection between lifestyle and leadership. Today’s female founders are seeking environments that support both, and the Emerald Coast is uniquely positioned to deliver exactly that.
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Soak Up the Sun Ok ladies, it’s officially “it’s so hot outside” weather, so let’s get right to it. Our Vacation issue’s cover story, Where Business Meets Beach (pg17), explores something we’ve seen firsthand along the Gulf Coast: the growing number of women who are building successful businesses while embracing a lifestyle that balances ambition with quality of life. From Pensacola to Destin, 30A to New Orleans, our region has become more than a vacation destination — it’s a place where entrepreneurs are planting roots, building brands, and creating opportunities. And I’ve seen that first hand, after attending some of the amazing women’s conferences in the area this year, like The Power Table Live hosted by Taylor Smith in Fort Walton Beach, Florida last April. Being in a room full of focused, dedicated, supportive women is definitely a great way to boost your confidence and your bottom line — which is an equally intense, but very different kind of hot, if you know what I mean! And getting to do all your boss babe growth at the beach is just icing on the money cake. Summer, aka vacation, looks a little different for everyone. For some, it’s all about relaxation. For others, it’s about exploration, connection, or creating memories with the people they love most. This issue celebrates all of those approaches. You’ll find practical tips for traveling in style in Packing Like a Pro (pg32), refreshing watermelon-inspired Taylor Smith and Jessica Grana at The Power Table Live, 2026 recipes in Thirst Trap (pg37), and creative ideas for turning thrift shopping into a vacation adventure in Thrifting (pg42). After all, some of the best souvenirs aren’t found in gift shops — they’re discovered in unexpected places. And because real life doesn’t pause just because we’ve spent a few days away, we’re also taking an honest look at The Post-Vacation Slump (pg34). If you’ve ever returned from a wonderful trip only to feel less than enthusiastic about answering emails or tackling laundry, you’re definitely not alone. Sometimes the transition back to everyday life requires as much intention as the getaway itself. So whether you’re traveling this summer or simply dreaming about your next destination, I hope this issue inspires you to create your own kind of hot-girl summer. Embrace a little adventure, collect moments rather than souvenirs, and find the joy in small discoveries at home or wherever the season takes you. At Scarlett, we love bringing you the latest in women’s fashion, beauty, home decor, lifestyle, and health. Thank you all so much for the support as we start our sixth year of Scarlett. Enjoy this issue and connect with us on social media on Facebook: Scarlett Magazine and Instagram: @scarlett.magazine. Because frankly, we know you give a damn.
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s America celebrates 250 years of independence, we're taking a closer look at the destinations, traditions, and unforgettable adventures that make summer travel uniquely American … right here along the Gulf Coast. From charming seaside towns and sugar-white beaches to historic landmarks and family traditions passed down through generations, these are the places that remind us why some of the best vacations are found close to home. When we think of vacation, it's easy to imagine boarding a plane to somewhere far away. But some of the country's most memorable experiences are just a short trip along the coast.
Pensacola: Watch the Blue Angels Soar
It's a fitting time to celebrate the places, traditions, and simple pleasures that have become part of the Gulf Coast way of life. The beaches may be familiar, and the road trips well-traveled, but perhaps that's exactly what makes them special. These are the places where family traditions are born, where generations gather year after year, and where every summer seems to create a new favorite memory. This season, consider revisiting some of the Gulf Coast's most beloved destinations — with a fresh perspective and a few bucket-list experiences along the way.
Pensacola's beaches are reason enough to visit, but one of the area's most iconic experiences happens in the sky. For decades, locals and visitors alike have gathered along the Gulf Coast to watch the Blue Angels perform breathtaking aerial maneuvers. Whether you're catching a practice session or attending a full air show, it's one of those uniquely American experiences that never loses its magic. Bucket List Moment: Watch the Blue Angels streak across the sky over Pensacola Beach and stay for a sunset at the pier afterward. The combination of military tradition, coastal beauty, and summer nostalgia feels perfectly fitting as the nation celebrates 250 years of independence.
Destin: Get on the Water
Most of us have spent countless hours on Destin's beaches, but the real magic often happens offshore. Charter a fishing boat, book a sunset cruise, rent a pontoon for Crab Island, or simply paddle through Choctawhatchee Bay. Experiencing Destin from the water offers an entirely different perspective on a destination many of us know by heart. Bucket List Moment: Spend an afternoon at Crab Island followed by fresh Gulf seafood at a harbor-front restaurant. It's the kind of carefree summer day that reminds us why generations of families keep returning year after year.
Panama City/PCB & 30A: Ride, Wander, Repeat
While Panama City/PCB and 30A offer distinctly different vibes, they share something in common: they're best experienced at a slower pace. Trade your car keys for a bicycle and spend the day exploring the beach communities that have become Gulf Coast favorites. Browse local bookstores and boutiques, stop for an afternoon coffee, and discover side streets you've somehow overlooked despite visiting for years. Bucket List Moment: Bike between beach communities along 30A and catch a sunset from the amphitheater in Seaside. Or take the afternoon to shop the reimagined downtown Panama City or Pier Park in PCB. Sometimes the best vacation memories come from an unhurried afternoon with nowhere particular to be.
Mobile: Step Into History
While many travelers head straight for the beach, Mobile offers a refreshing change of pace. Rich in history, architecture, and culture, this coastal city provides a uniquely Southern getaway. Stroll beneath oak-lined streets draped in Spanish moss, explore the vibrant downtown district, or spend an afternoon aboard the legendary USS Alabama, where visitors can walk the decks of one of America's most storied battleships. From its maritime heritage to its thriving arts and culinary scene, Mobile offers a fascinating blend of past and present that feels especially meaningful during America's 250th anniversary celebration. Bucket List Moment: Tour the USS Alabama, then spend the evening exploring downtown Mobile's local restaurants, shops, and historic streets.
New Orleans: Follow the Music
No destination on the Gulf Coast celebrates culture quite like New Orleans. Even for those who've visited countless times, there's always another hidden courtyard, neighborhood café, jazz club, or historic corner waiting to be discovered. The city rewards curiosity and invites visitors to wander. Bucket List Moment: Skip the itinerary for a day. Follow the music, explore side streets, and see where New Orleans takes you. The result is often a far more memorable experience than anything you could have planned. You don't have to cross oceans or collect passport stamps to experience something unforgettable. Some of the most meaningful adventures are found in the places we think we already know. From Panama City to New Orleans, the Gulf Coast offers endless opportunities to explore, reconnect, and fall in love with our favorite destinations all over again. As we celebrate America's milestone anniversary, there's no better time to revisit the places that continue to shape our own memories, one summer at a time.
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here is a shift that happens when you arrive along the Emerald Coast. The air feels softer, the pace slows, and the horizon stretches wide in a way that makes everything feel possible. For years, destinations like Destin and Pensacola have been known for white sand beaches and family vacations, but recently, something else has been taking shape. Entrepreneurial women are not just coming here to vacation. They are coming here to build. What was once considered a seasonal escape is emerging as an unexpected hub for women in business, where strategy sessions happen poolside, partnerships form over sunset dinners, and ideas are born somewhere between the shoreline and a shared table. At the center of this shift is a growing intersection between lifestyle and leadership. Today’s female founders are seeking environments that support both, and the Emerald Coast is uniquely positioned to deliver exactly that.
Across Destin, Pensacola, Navarre, and Fort Walton Beach, the region has seen a rise in curated retreats, masterminds, and conferences designed for women in business. One standout example is The Power Table, founded by Taylor Smith, a personal brand strategist and international keynote speaker based in Perdido Key. What began as a single coffee meeting has grown into something much larger. “I originally set out to meet just one woman for coffee in downtown Pensacola because I was working with clients entirely online and wanted to form connections locally,” Taylor shares. “Now, we have hundreds of women traveling in for our sold-out annual conference.” That flagship event, Power Table LIVE, was hosted this year at The Island Resort in Fort Walton Beach and continues to draw attendees from across North America. The 2026 event welcomed nearly 200 attendees, with more than half flying in and approximately 10% traveling from Canada alone. 19
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Beyond the annual conference, The Power Table also hosts twice-annual retreat weekends, positioning the Emerald Coast as more than a destination. With an abundance of upscale beachfront homes and large luxury vacation rentals, the area is especially wellsuited for intimate retreats and mastermind experiences for groups of 10 to 20 entrepreneurs. That is part of what makes this region so appealing to high-level founders, coaches, and community builders. A private chef dinner, a yacht charter, a beachside yoga class, or a beautifully designed waterfront property can turn a business event into something far more memorable and meaningful. And it is not happening in isolation. Women in entrepreneurship are thriving all across the Southeastern United States, according to Forbes. Florida, in particular, ranks above the national average for women-owned businesses, with the Emerald Coast reflecting that momentum. With a large military spouse population, many women turn to entrepreneurship out of necessity, building flexible, location-independent businesses that contribute to a thriving, collaborative ecosystem. At the same time, the destination itself is gaining increased national recognition. In 2026, Pensacola Beach, Navarre Beach, and Destin were named among the top beach destinations by leading travel publications and platforms, including Condé Nast Traveler and Expedia, bringing a new wave of visitors to the area. Many of them are looking for more than a getaway. They are looking for proximity, community, and momentum. 21
What makes the Emerald Coast particularly compelling is the way it blends productivity with presence. A morning workshop can lead to an afternoon on the water. A networking dinner can take place at one of the area’s standout restaurants, followed by conversations that continue long after sunset. The environment invites a different kind of connection, one that feels both ambitious and grounded. For event hosts and community builders, this creates a powerful opportunity. Hosting in a destination like this does not just elevate the experience — It transforms it. What starts as a retreat weekend or a twoday conference often becomes a catalyst for collaboration, visibility, and long-term business growth. The same environment that attracts women here is often the very thing that allows them to think bigger once they arrive. The Emerald Coast is not just becoming a place women visit. It is becoming a place where they expand. Sources: Condé Nast Traveler, Expedia, Forbes
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When it comes to success, Fallon’s definition has evolved. While financial stability still matters, it’s no longer the foundation. “Success starts with how I feel about myself,” she says. For her, it looks like emotional intelligence, aligned work, and most importantly, motherhood. Raising her daughter with intention, presence, and open communication is her proudest accomplishment … and her greatest measure of success. As for balance? Fallon doesn’t believe in it. Instead, she embraces harmony. “Like a song,” she explains, “some notes are high, some are low.” Her approach to self-care reflects that philosophy to include daily movement, nourishing routines, hot baths, and a deep commitment to inner work. Looking ahead, Fallon’s vision is expansive. She’s stepping onto more stages, expanding her group offerings, and reaching wider audiences with her message. But at the heart of it all is one simple mission: to help people come home to themselves.
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Another common myth is that sunscreen is only necessary on bright, sunny days. UV rays can penetrate clouds, meaning your skin is still exposed during overcast weather. You can also receive significant UV exposure while driving, sitting near windows, or spending time outdoors running errands. If daylight is reaching your skin, UV rays are likely reaching it too. Dermatologists generally recommend using a broad-spectrum sunscreen with an SPF of at least 30. “Broad-spectrum” means the product protects against both UVA rays, which contribute to aging, and UVB rays, which cause sunburn. Sunscreen should be applied generously to all exposed skin about 15 minutes before heading outside and reapplied every two hours, or more frequently if you’re swimming or sweating. Don’t forget the often-overlooked areas: ears, neck, chest, tops of feet, and the backs of hands. These spots frequently show signs of sun damage because they’re exposed regularly but often missed during application. If you wear makeup, many products now include SPF, but most people don’t apply enough makeup to achieve the level of protection listed on the label. Think of SPF-containing makeup as a bonus layer rather than your primary defense. A dedicated sunscreen underneath is still your best bet. The good news is that sunscreen has come a long way. Today’s formulas are lighter, less greasy, and available in options designed for sensitive skin, acne-prone skin, and deeper skin tones. Whether you prefer a lotion, spray, stick, or tinted formula, there’s likely a sunscreen you’ll actually enjoy wearing. Healthy skin isn’t just about what you put on at night or the latest beauty trend. Sometimes the most effective skincare product is also the most basic. Making sunscreen part of your daily routine may not feel glamorous, but years from now, your skin will thank you for it.
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different climates. And always, always, pack your liquids in a sealed bag. Future you will be grateful. Accessories are where you can have a little fun without taking up space. A statement pair of earrings, a lightweight scarf, or a bold pair of sunglasses can completely transform an outfit. It’s the easiest way to go from beach casual to dinner-ready in seconds. One of the most overlooked packing tips? Leave room. Whether it’s for souvenirs, a spontaneous shopping find, or just the mental ease of not cramming everything in, giving yourself a little extra space makes the whole experience feel more relaxed. Overpacking leads to stress, and that’s the exact opposite of vacation energy. Packing like a pro isn’t about perfection, it’s about confidence. It’s knowing you have everything you need (and nothing you don’t), so you can focus on what really matters: the experience. So next time you’re zipping up your suitcase, take a breath, edit ruthlessly, and channel that effortlessly put-together woman at the airport. Look at her … now look at you!
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ou spent weeks planning the trip. Maybe months. You researched restaurants, booked excursions, bought a few new outfits, and counted down the days until departure. Then suddenly, it’s over. The suitcases are unpacked, the laundry is done, and you’re staring at an inbox that somehow multiplied while you were gone. If you’ve ever felt a little down after returning from vacation, you’re not alone. While we often talk about the excitement of getting away, we rarely talk about what happens when we come back. That post-vacation slump is surprisingly common, and it has less to do with the destination and more to do with how our brains process anticipation, novelty, and routine. Much of the joy of travel happens before we even leave. Looking forward to something gives us a mental boost. We imagine ourselves relaxing on the beach, exploring a new city, or simply escaping our everyday responsibilities for a while. Anticipation creates excitement, and our brains reward us for it. Then comes the trip itself. New sights, new experiences, different schedules, and a break from familiar responsibilities all stimulate our minds. Whether you’re exploring New Orleans, lounging along the Emerald Coast, or taking a road trip with the family, travel naturally introduces novelty into our lives. Our brains tend to enjoy novelty because it requires us to be present and engaged. Returning home often means returning to routines, obligations, and the realization that the thing you’ve been looking forward to is now behind you.
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That emotional drop can feel surprisingly significant, even after a wonderful vacation. The good news is that post-vacation blues are usually temporary, and there are ways to make the transition easier. One of the biggest mistakes people make is trying to jump back into full-speed life the moment they get home. If possible, build a buffer day into your schedule. Give yourself time to unpack, grocery shop, catch up on sleep, and mentally adjust before diving back into work or responsibilities. Another helpful strategy is to focus on what you brought home from the experience rather than what you left behind. Maybe you discovered a new favorite food, found a local artist you love, or spent uninterrupted time with people who matter most. Vacations often remind us what brings us joy, and many of those things can be incorporated into everyday life. Instead of viewing vacation as an escape from reality, consider it a glimpse into the life you want to create more often. If you loved reading on the porch every morning, keep that habit going once a week. If
evening walks by the water helped you feel calmer, find a local park or neighborhood route to continue the practice. Small pieces of vacation can become permanent parts of your routine. It can also help to plan something new to look forward to. It doesn’t have to be another major trip. A weekend festival, a dinner with friends, a concert, or even a day trip can provide the anticipation that helps boost your mood. Having something on the horizon reminds your brain that excitement isn’t over — it has simply shifted to a new chapter. Perhaps most importantly, give yourself permission to feel whatever comes up when you return home. Feeling a little sad that a great experience has ended doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful for your everyday life. It simply means the experience mattered to you. Vacations may come and go, but the memories, lessons, and moments of joy they create don’t have to stay packed away with your suitcase. Sometimes the best souvenir isn’t something you bought on the trip — it’s finding a way to bring a little more of that happiness home with you.
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othing says summer quite like watermelon. Sweet, juicy, and refreshing, it’s practically the official fruit of pool days, backyard barbecues, and long afternoons in the sunshine. Whether you’re looking for a festive cocktail or a family-friendly refresher, these watermeloninspired drinks are guaranteed to keep things cool all season long.
Watermelon Mint Cooler 4 cups seedless watermelon, cubed Juice of 1 lime 8-10 fresh mint leaves 1 tablespoon honey or simple syrup (optional) 1 cup sparkling water Ice
Non-Alcoholic: Blend the watermelon until smooth. Strain if desired. Muddle the mint leaves with the lime juice in a pitcher, then add the watermelon juice and honey. Stir well. Fill glasses with ice, pour in the mixture, and top with sparkling water. Garnish with a watermelon wedge and fresh mint.
Watermelon Margarita 2 cups seedless watermelon, cubed 2 ounces tequila 1 ounce triple sec 1 ounce fresh lime juice Ice Salt or Tajín for the rim
Cocktail: Blend the watermelon until smooth. Fill a cocktail shaker with ice and combine the watermelon puree, tequila, triple sec, and lime juice. Shake vigorously. Rim a glass with salt or Tajín, fill with fresh ice, and strain the cocktail into the glass. Garnish with a lime wheel. 37
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Spiked Watermelon Lemonade
2 cups watermelon puree 1 cup prepared lemonade 2 ounces vodka Lemon slices Ice
Cocktail: Combine the watermelon puree, lemonade, and vodka in a shaker or pitcher. Stir or shake until chilled. Pour over ice and garnish with fresh lemon slices.
Non-Alcoholic: For a sparkling version, skip the alcohol and add a splash of club soda before serving.
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One Spot. All Day.
Pensacola Beach Has a New Kind of Perfect Day. article + photos submitted by: The Wharf Fish & Oyster Co.
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ome beach days are just better than others. The best ones start with salt air and bare feet, shift somewhere around golden hour into something a little more dressed up, and end with a table full of people who didn’t want to leave. If you know where to go, you can live that entire arc without ever moving your car. That place is the boardwalk on Pensacola Beach, where The Wharf Fish & Oyster Company and Hideaway Beach Bar sit side by side, offering two entirely different experiences that come together for one unforgettable day. Start at Hideaway. It meets you exactly where you are: sandy, sun-warmed, and in no particular hurry. No dress codes, no pretension, and absolutely no reason to check the time. Whether you prefer tequila, rum, or frozen classics, the menu gives you three lanes, and all of them are good. The tequila side is bold and made for sipping in the sun, with drinks like the Get Toasted built for long afternoons in good company. The rum section goes tropical and full-flavored, anchored by the Getting Barrelled for anyone who knows a great beach cocktail deserves just as much craft as anything you’d order anywhere else. And if a frozen drink is calling your name, the frozen classics are exactly what a beach day calls for. The food truck on-site turns out handheld bites like sticky ribs, classic po’boys, and awardwinning burgers. Hideaway’s walk-up design means you never have to leave your spot in the sun. On weekends, DJs and live music turn the energy all the way up. Hideaway draws a crowd ranging from locals who have been coming since the beginning to vacationers who stumble in and immediately understand why people keep coming back. Between the two spots, fire pits, volleyball nets, ping pong tables, and a playground keep everyone covered from afternoon to evening. Once you’re here, there’s really no reason to be anywhere else. When the sun finally drops and the mood shifts toward dinner, The Wharf is right there waiting. Head back to wherever you’re staying, rinse the salt off, and come back. Weekdays from 2 to 6 p.m., happy hour gives you a reason to ease into the evening before dinner officially begins. “We wanted to create an experience that organically complements a beach day,” says Brittney Highers,
General Manager of The Wharf Fish & Oyster Company. “Whether you’re a local who knows this stretch of water like the back of your hand or a visitor experiencing Pensacola Beach for the first time, there’s a place for you here from the moment the afternoon starts to the last bite of the evening.” The Wharf is the other half of the story: a fullservice waterfront seafood restaurant that takes sourcing and craft seriously without ever making
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you feel like you should be taking notes. If your group can agree on one thing, make it the Seafood Tower. Gulf oysters, Atlantic lobster tail, shrimp and bay scallop ceviche, blue crab claws, snow crab clusters, cocktail shrimp, and ahi tuna poke arrive stacked and spectacular. It sets the tone for the whole table. From there, the kitchen continues to deliver. The Crispy Rice Tuna Tartare is new this season and already hard to pass up. The Seafood Boil is a full commitment and worth every bit of it. The Crab and Shrimp-Topped Grouper and Seafood Bucatini round out a menu that gives you a real reason to come back and order something different every time. And for anyone not in the mood for seafood, there’s plenty to choose from there too. The bar program holds its own. Order the Ghosted, a mix of tequila, mango, cilantro, habanero, and a chamoy popsicle garnish, and you’ll understand immediately why it never leaves the menu. Or go for the Paid Vacation, featuring vodka infused with passionfruit and tarragon, finished with a buzzflower that tingles on the tongue and ignites everything that follows. There’s nothing else quite like it on Pensacola Beach. One perfect day. One boardwalk address. Zero reason to look anywhere else. The Wharf Fish & Oyster Company and Hideaway Beach Bar are located on the Pensacola Beach Boardwalk. The Wharf is open daily. Hideaway is open daily. Reservations for The Wharf are available online.
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| Thrifted
Thrifting
on Vacation written by: Jessica Graña
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hen you’re on vacation, it’s easy to fall into the souvenir shop cycle. You know the one: magnets, keychains, T-shirts you’ll probably wear exactly once, and coffee mugs that somehow survive the trip home only to collect dust in the back of a cabinet. And listen, we’re not here to throw shade at tourist shops. They exist for a reason, and sometimes that giant beach-themed Christmas ornament simply calls your name. But if you’re looking for a memorable activity and a unique keepsake, consider adding a thrift store stop to your vacation itinerary. Think about it: every town has a story to tell, and thrift stores are often where those stories end up. Vintage postcards, local pottery, old cookbooks, handmade quilts, regional artwork, quirky barware, and one-of-a-kind home décor pieces all offer a glimpse into a destination’s personality. Unlike mass-produced souvenirs, thrifted finds come with a little mystery and a lot more character. One of the best parts of vacation thrifting is that it doubles as entertainment. On a rainy afternoon, between sightseeing stops, or during a leisurely morning before brunch, wandering through a local thrift shop can be as fun as visiting a museum — just with the added possibility of taking something home. You never know what you’ll discover. Maybe it’s a vintage Mardi Gras glass in New Orleans, a retro beach painting in Pensacola, or a handmade basket crafted decades ago by someone who once called that town home. Thrifting also gives you a chance to bring home souvenirs you’ll actually
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use. Instead of another trinket destined for a drawer, imagine returning with a beautiful serving tray, a set of cocktail glasses, a cozy throw blanket, or a piece of wall art that reminds you of your trip every time you see it. Every item comes with a built-in story: “I found this while we were vacationing in Portland,” sounds a lot more interesting than, “I grabbed it from the gift shop.” If you’re traveling with friends or family, make a game of it. Set a budget and challenge everyone to find the most unusual item, the best vintage piece, or the souvenir that best represents the destination. The winner gets bragging rights until the next vacation. A few tips can help make your thrifting adventure successful. Bring measurements if you’re hunting for home décor, leave extra room in your suitcase, and don’t be afraid to ask shop employees about the history of a neighborhood or area. Many local thrift stores are staffed by people who know the community well and can point you toward hidden gems both inside and outside the store. And if you happen to leave empty-handed? That’s okay, too. Half the fun is in the hunt. Sometimes
the best vacation memories aren’t made at the most famous attractions — they happen while digging through shelves of forgotten treasures in a place you’d never planned to visit. So the next time you’re packing for a getaway, leave a little room in your itinerary — and your suitcase — for a thrift store adventure. Your future favorite souvenir might be waiting on a dusty shelf somewhere, just hoping you’ll wander in.
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How to: Nail a Selfie L
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Hey! I’m Shanna Star. Photographer, hype woman, podcaster, and lover of the fabulous Gulf Coast I now get to call my home — here to photograph YOU with bright, fun photos, great poses, and of course locations and sets that connect with you!
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How I set up for a self portrait session: I use a 35mm lens and set my focus on an object placed where I’ll be standing. I look for soft natural light from a nearby window—either in front of me or slightly to the side—and sometimes add a little extra lighting if needed. My camera sits on a tripod and is set to take a photo every five seconds while I move through different poses. I even place a mirror behind the camera so I can see what I’m doing. And yes, I absolutely do the fake laugh, even when I’m completely alone. Those are usually the photos I end up loving most because they feel the most natural and genuine.
et’s be honest — half the battle of taking a good selfie is not deleting all 87 photos immediately after. But a great selfie isn’t about having the perfect face, body, or outfit. It’s about knowing a few simple tricks that help you look and feel like the best version of yourself. As a photographer, I can tell you that even the people you see posting flawless photos aren’t relying on luck. A little good light, a flattering angle, and a dash of confidence can work wonders. So before you give up and hand the phone to a friend, try these five selfie secrets that can take your photos from “meh” to main-character energy.
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Packing for a
July 4th Getaway written by: Emily Jones
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here’s something magical about celebrating Independence Day away from home. Whether you’re heading to the beach, spending a long weekend at a lake house, exploring a historic Southern city, or road-tripping along the Gulf Coast, the Fourth of July has a way of turning an ordinary vacation into a memorable summer tradition. Of course, holiday travel comes with its own set of challenges. Between fireworks, outdoor festivities, scorching temperatures, and packed itineraries, a standard vacation packing list may not be enough. Before you zip up your suitcase, consider adding these often-overlooked essentials to help make your July 4th getaway more comfortable, festive, and stressfree. Start with outfits that can do double duty. A breezy sundress that works for sightseeing during the day and dinner by the water at night will save valuable suitcase space. Lightweight fabrics such as linen and cotton are your best friends during July, especially along the Gulf Coast where heat and humidity are practically guaranteed. If you’re feeling festive, incorporate subtle red, white, or blue accents rather than going full flag-inspired fashion. A striped tote, colorful earrings, or a classic navy-and-white ensemble can feel celebratory without looking like a costume. A lightweight layer deserves a spot in every suitcase, even in the middle of summer. Fireworks displays often mean sitting outdoors after sunset, and air-conditioned restaurants, hotels, and theaters can feel surprisingly chilly after a day in the heat. A denim jacket, oversized button-down, or lightweight sweater can make all the difference. Speaking of fireworks, don’t forget the ear plugs and a blanket or oversized beach towel. Whether you’re watching from the sand, a park, a marina, or a town square, comfortable seating is often hard to come by. A compact blanket folds easily into a tote and instantly upgrades your viewing experience. Sun protection may seem obvious, but most travelers underestimate how much time they’ll spend outdoors over the holiday weekend. Pack more sunscreen than you think you’ll need, along with a wide-brim hat, sunglasses, and a reusable water bottle. Long days in the sun can sneak up on even the most seasoned vacationers. One item many travelers forget? Portable phone chargers. Between snapping photos, navigating unfamiliar areas, checking event schedules, and posting vacation updates, your battery can disappear surprisingly fast. The last thing you want is a dead phone right before the fireworks begin. For beach destinations, consider packing a lightweight mesh tote specifically for holiday festivities. It can hold sunscreen, snacks, extra towels, and all the little essentials that tend to accumulate during a full day outdoors. Bonus points if it folds flat in your luggage. If your destination hosts a parade, concert, or fireworks show, bring a small crossbody bag. Large crowds and hands-free convenience go hand in hand. Keep your essentials secure while still having room for a cold drink, ice cream cone, or souvenir shopping along the way. Holiday weekends are also perfect opportunities to create traditions. Pack a deck of cards, a favorite board game, or even a disposable camera. While our phones capture countless photos, there’s something charming about intentionally documenting a family trip or gathering in a more nostalgic way. And finally, leave a little room in your suitcase. Every great vacation seems to come home with a few unexpected treasures — a local artisan find, a favorite new beach cover-up, a bag of pralines from New Orleans, or a souvenir that makes you smile every time you see it. The best July 4th getaways aren’t necessarily the ones with the most elaborate plans. They’re the ones filled with spontaneous adventures, sunset fireworks, shared meals, and memories made with the people you love. Pack thoughtfully, travel lightly, and make room for a little summer holiday magic along the way.
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| 850 Foodie
A food Lover’s S with Scarlett’s Foodie Expert
Joanna Davis
Hello! I’m Joanna Davis, resident Foodie expert — a lifelong lover of delicious bites and local gems. Born into a Filipino family where food was a cherished love language, meals were more than just nourishment — they were connection, celebration, and culture. From becoming a Yelp Elite to launching a successful foodfocused Instagram page, I now have over 50,000 followers and have judged food festivals, dined across the Emerald Coast, and supported countless small businesses from Pensacola to Destin.
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ummer is the perfect time to create new foodie adventures without booking a flight or planning an elaborate vacation. Some of my favorite days are spent picking a direction, hitting the road, and discovering places that make the journey worthwhile. This Gulf Coast day trip takes you from a standout breakfast in Miramar Beach to a relaxing wine experience in Panama City Beach before ending with one of 30A’s most beloved dinner destinations. Start the day at Two Birds Coffee + Café in Miramar Beach. Their popular Breakfast Sammy is the kind of breakfast that sticks with you long after the last bite. Served on a soft bagel and loaded with bacon, egg, cheese, and avocado, it’s the satisfying yolk drizzle that takes it over the top. Pair it with one of their handcrafted coffee drinks and you’ve got the perfect start to a summer adventure. Before heading out, grab one of their made-from-scratch pastries to enjoy later in the day. Then make your way east to Duplin Winery in Panama City Beach for something a little different from the typical beach scene. The property offers a beautiful setting with a waterscape, comfortable lounging areas, and a relaxed atmosphere that invites you to slow down and stay awhile. Enjoy a wine tasting, take in the views, and don’t leave without trying their house-made cheesecake. Flavors rotate regularly, and the light, creamy texture makes it the perfect sweet treat. If you’re more in the mood for something savory, the warm pretzel with cheese dip remains one of the best versions I’ve found anywhere along the Gulf Coast. Depending on the day, you may
even catch karaoke or line dancing, adding another layer of fun to the experience. As the sun begins to set, head to Basmati’s Asian Cuisine on 30A. In an area known for seafood restaurants and coastal fare, Basmati’s offers something refreshingly different. This longtime local favorite has been serving creative Asian-inspired cuisine for decades. The setting is intimate, the service welcoming and the snapper is absolutely worth ordering. It’s the kind of dinner that encourages you to linger a little longer and savor the end of a great day. From a breakfast worth the drive to a unique wine tasting experience and a memorable dinner, this Gulf Coast foodie road trip proves you don’t have to travel far to discover something special.
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| The Advocate
Crista Brandt President, Valerie’s House NWFL Pensacola, FL
You’ve dedicated your career to supporting vulnerable children. What first inspired you to pursue advocacy work, and how has that motivation evolved over the years? Losing my mother at 11 changed the course of my life in ways I didn’t understand at the time. Without the support or language to process what I was experiencing, that grief shaped how I made decisions, how I connected with others, and how I carried myself for years. That lived experience is what ultimately led me into this work. It’s the reason I am committed to making sure children have what I didn’t — guidance, support, and a space to understand their grief so they can move forward with strength instead of carrying it alone. In my 20s, while living in Atlanta, I started volunteering with a peer-based grief support program for children. That experience was a turning point. I saw what happens when a child realizes they are not alone — when they can sit across from someone who understands without needing to explain. At the same time, I began to process my own grief in a way I never had before. Years later, after moving to Pensacola, a close friend passed away, leaving behind an 11-year-old daughter. Watching her navigate that loss made something very clear — there were no local resources to support children through grief in this way. That gap couldn’t be ignored. What began as a personal connection to this work has grown into something much larger. When grief goes unsupported, it doesn’t stay contained to childhood. It shows up later in life through mental health struggles, addiction, academic challenges, and other long-term consequences that affect not just individuals, but entire communities. This work is about changing that trajectory. By giving children the tools, support, and language to process grief in healthy ways, we are not only helping them navigate loss—we are shaping stronger, more resilient futures for them and for our community. For readers who may not be familiar, what is the mission of Valerie’s House NWFL, and what does your role as CEO look like on a daily basis? Valerie’s House Northwest Florida exists to ensure that no child grieves alone. We provide peer-based grief support for children ages 5–18 and their caregivers after the death of someone they love, giving them a safe place to express emotions, build coping skills, and connect with others who understand their experience. On a daily basis, my role as President is a balance of vision
and mission execution. I’m focused on growing access to care, strengthening partnerships across the community, and ensuring our programs remain high-quality and impactful. And ensure we have the resources to support the growth short and long term. That can look like working with donors and community leaders, supporting our team and volunteers, building systems for sustainability, or stepping into conversations with families. It’s not a traditional role — it requires both strategy and heart. Every decision ties back to one question: How do we better serve grieving children and families? Many people feel a pull toward helping their community but aren’t sure where to start. What do you believe are the most accessible ways someone can begin advocating for children and families in need? Think of something you are passionate about and then find local organizations that share that same passion. Like many nonprofits, we have a variety of different ways for people to participate in our mission. Advocacy doesn’t have to be big or formal to matter. It can be as simple as showing up with a gift of time, financial support, sharing the mission. For grieving children, having one safe, consistent adult in their life can make a significant difference. 55
| The Advocate You can also advocate by learning. Understanding how trauma and loss affect children helps you respond differently — as a parent, teacher, neighbor, or employer. And if you’re in a position to give — whether that’s resources, connections, or financial support — that can expand access for families who otherwise wouldn’t have it. The most important step is just starting. What is one misconception people often have about grief, and how do you wish the community understood it differently? One of the biggest misconceptions is that children are “resilient” in a way that means they’ll just bounce back on their own. Children are resilient — but only when they have the right support. Without it, trauma doesn’t disappear. It shows up later in ways that impact mental health, behavior, relationships, and overall life outcomes. When grief goes unsupported, its impact doesn’t end in childhood — it ripples outward, becoming a root cause of long-term, systemic challenges in our society. These children grow into adults who are more likely to struggle with addiction, mental health issues, homelessness, academic and workforce instability, creating a cycle that affects not just families, but entire communities. I’m passionate about connecting the broader impact I wish the community understood that early support isn’t optional, it’s preventative. When we give children tools to process grief and trauma, we’re not just helping them in the moment, we’re changing their trajectory. You’ve seen firsthand how trauma affects children. What keeps you hopeful, and what moments remind you of the importance of the work being done at Valerie’s House NWFL? The transformation keeps me hopeful. What keeps me hopeful and what continually reminds me why this work matters are the voices of the children and families themselves. We see progress in many forms, but the most powerful moments are when a child finds the words, the confidence, or the peace they didn’t have before. Those breakthrough moments are everything. One young participant, Emma, shared something that has stayed with me. When asked what she would say to the people who make Valerie’s House possible, she said: “I would love to say that we love all of you, and I could not even begin to tell all the people who’ve made this possible, how far it’s put me in life, and how much I’ve benefited from it, really. And how I’m sure so many other people just like me have — and I really hope that they actually understand the weight of our gratitude.” It’s hard to put into words what it means to hear that directly from a child. Moments like that are a reminder that this work isn’t abstract — it’s real, it’s immediate, and it’s changing the trajectory of a child’s life. Advocacy frequently requires both heart and grit. When you face emotionally difficult days, what practices or support systems help sustain you? www.ScarlettMag.com
This work requires both heart and grit, and it takes a real emotional toll. Because of that, I have to be intentional about how I show up — both for the children and families we serve, and for myself. This isn’t always easy to do. I’ve learned that I can’t pour into others if I’m not taking care of my own capacity to do this work well. I lean heavily on the people around me, our team, my mentors and community of connections in similar roles. This isn’t work you do alone, and it’s not meant to be. Having people who understand the weight of this work, who can step in, support, and carry it alongside you, makes all the difference. I also stay deeply connected to the “why.” On the hardest days, I go back to what it felt like to be a child navigating grief without support — and I think about what it means that today, these children don’t have to do that alone. That perspective grounds me and reminds me why this work matters. Can you share a program, initiative, or recent milestone at Valerie’s House NWFL that you are especially proud of? One of the milestones I’m especially proud of is our transition in 2026 to an independent organization — Valerie’s House Northwest Florida, Inc. After five years of growth as a chapter, this step allows us to fully center our work around the unique needs of families in our region. With local governance and leadership in place, we’re able to make decisions rooted in a deep understanding of Northwest Florida and be more intentional in how we expand access to care. In a region where an estimated 13,000 children will experience the loss of a parent or sibling before age 18, this transition strengthens our ability to meet that need — both now and long term — by building sustainability, deepening partnerships, and continuing to grow our impact in a way that is truly tailored to our community. I’m also incredibly proud of the growth itself over 5 years. We started in 2021 with just 15 children and 10 caregivers. Today, we’re serving more than 1,000 individuals across multiple group nights and community-based programs. • 55,000 hours of care • 375 Group Nights • 1 part-time staff to 6 full-time staff • Over 40 program collaboration partners and 40+ others If you could encourage every reader to take just one action this month to help protect or uplift a child in their community, what would it be? If a child in your life is going through something difficult, don’t avoid it or assume they’ll be okay. Acknowledge it. Give them space to talk. Let them know they’re not alone. You don’t need the perfect words, you just need to be present. That one action can change everything for a child. Visit our website ValeriesHouseNWFL.org to learn about making a difference.