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run for County Supervisor knowing that she would be going up against the party establishment. We believe all candidates who file on time should be at least considered – interviewed – for their party’s endorsement. So kudos to Laura for taking on democracy’s back room. Not surprisingly, Laura’s courage in the face of political pressure is evident elsewhere in her public service.
For example, when a challenging and highly charged issue came before the School Board, related to the firing of San Marcos’s principal, Laura took seriously her responsibility to consider the disparate and at times emotional pleas coming at her from all sides; and in the end she had the courage to be the lone dissenting vote in that decision. We commend Laura for working to understand
Born London, 1933. Mother Canadian. Father a British civil servant. World War II childhood spent mostly in Toronto and Washington, D.C. Berkeley PhD. in American History, 1964. Living in Santa Barbara since 1973. No children. Best-known for his illustrated epigrams, called “Pot-Shots”, now a series of 10,000. Email ashleigh@west.net or visit www.ashleighbrilliant.com Guest Who? O ne mark of a civilized society is a code of manners, part of which involves rules of hospistrangers than I was. Still, after all these years, the memory weighs heavily on my conscience.
the divergent perspectives of a complicated issue, and for standing up to untold pressure and voting for what she believed was right, rather than for what was politically expedient.
This is the kind of brave leadership we deserve; a leader who has the patience and interest to take in diverse stakeholder perspectives, and create thoughtful policies based on that understanding. Our district deserves nothing less than an inspired leader. Laura’s strong work on the Santa Barbara School Board, her proposal for an ethics commission and campaign finance reform within our county, her work with state and national organizations to combat climate change, her leadership in the county’s fight against hunger and poverty, and her strong record advocating for women and children are just some of the reasons we enthusiastically support Laura.
We think it’s worth mentioning that Laura cut her teeth in the White House, working in the Communication’s Office and as a Presidential speechwriter, alongside some of the most storied and experienced names in American politics. Her father was a revered UCSB professor and Congressman; her mother was a school nurse who went on to become an equally beloved member of Congress. Laura, like her folks, is a credit to the Capps family name – good people who have done good and important work from which we have all benefitted. She is a chip off the old block in the best possible way. Integrity is in her DNA.
As a community we face many profound issues, including: vital environmental concerns, the need for further natural disaster abatement and rebuilding, congestion issues regarding traffic and its pervasive impact on residents and businesses, density and other quality of life issues, homelessness, poverty, not to mention our own potential upcoming cannabis issues.
Now more than ever we need a fearless and inclusive leader with unwavering integrity who will actively explore innovative solutions and bravely face the inevitable resistance that seems to always ride shotgun along with change.
And… we deserve a leader who, when she makes a mistake, as humans do, will have the humility and courage to say, I’m sorry. We are inspired by Laura Capps the candidate and Laura Capps the person, and we would very much like to see what she will do as our 1 st
District County Supervisor. We deserve it.
VOTE LAURA CAPPS FOR 1st DISTRICT COUNTY SUPERVISOR.
But no matter who or what you support, our most important responsibility is to our democratic process. So, if you haven’t already done so by mail please… DON’T FORGET TO VOTE MARCH 3. •MJ
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tality. How should one behave when one is a guest or a host? We are not usually taught such things at school. There are books of “etiquette” – but, if we learn these rules at all, it is mostly from our parents. The supreme guiding principal is of course the “Golden Rule.” Do as you would be done by. Treat others the way you would wish to be treated.
But what if this involves expense and inconvenience? What if your own comfort has to suffer in order to make your guests comfortable? And just how long should you have to put up with them anyway? I think it was Benjamin Franklin who said that fish and visitors begin to smell in three days.
But, as a general rule, the more harsh the conditions may be outside your dwelling, the more you are obliged to offer refuge to anyone seeking it. That is why desert-dwellers like the Arabs are famous for their hospitality. Some years ago, I had an almost embarrassing experience of this attribute, when hitchhiking in an Arab region of Israel. Not only was I invited into the tenthome of a family who saw me passing by on the road, to share their simple dinner, but, when I left, the children ran after me, offering coins, which of course I couldn’t accept.
I’m not by nature a compassionate person – but am still haunted by the memory of an incident more than 40 years ago, when I failed to meet the minimal test of being a “Good Samaritan.” Time has erased many of the details, but I had heard on the news something about a big fire on a far edge of our community, with a number of people driven from their homes. And what I remember is that I received a telephone call from someone I didn’t know, but who was in need of somewhere to stay, because of the fire. It appeared that the only reason he chose to call me was that I was a sort of local celebrity, with my name and work in the paper every day. I don’t think our conversation was very long – but it did not end with my inviting this person to come and stay with me – or even offering any other kind of help.
I could offer you excuses, such as having had an upbringing in which I’d always been cautioned to beware of strangers. Or the fact that my wife happened to be away, and it was really her house, and she was even more wary of
Nowadays, along with the debasing of many other words and concepts in our language, “hospitality,” once something of a family virtue, has become a mass- marketed industry, with its own schools, standards, and certifications. Millions earn their livelihoods by accommodating and entertaining others. The comforts of eating, sleeping, and relaxing have become highly homogenized, as represented by chains of lodging-establishments, national and international, in each of which you may expect to find facilities so similar that it is easy to forget just where you are.
MONTECITO JOURNAL 33 Nevertheless, there are no corresponding schools of what I might call the art of “guestmanship.” The trouble is, there’s no money in it. Unless you happen to be a truly exceptional person, very few people will pay for the privilege of receiving you in their house. In most cases, they will feel that the free room and board they’re providing is quite enough. Some people have become so adept at moving about from house to house of friends or family members, that they might be called professional guests.
But being a guest provides its own problems in etiquette. For example, hosts put out “guest towels” in their bathrooms – but is the guest really supposed to use them? If so, why are those towels so inadequate, compared with all the others on display? And how does one resist the temptation, when securely locked in that little room, to inspect the contents of one’s host’s medicine cabinet?
Of course, like everything else in our now-digital world, there are today plenty of online methods of matching hosts and guests, who might otherwise never have met. But, however it has been arranged, the big difference between host and guest remains unchanged: only the guest can go home. •MJ
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