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Dr. Susan Crockett Inspiring surgeon, teacher, and mentor goes global

IN THIS ISSUE

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Turning roadblocks into opportunities helps Dr. Susan Crockett grow beyond challenges.

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The Alamo City’s hospitality and tourism industries were hit hard by the pandemic.

Meet 3 women keeping these industries alive and thriving!

43 Women in Residential Real Estate

Amber Thomas, Platinum Top 50, guides you through choosing the right residential real estate agent for every need.

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Elegant Terrell Hills home strikes a balance between Old World and contemporary.

TABLE OF CONTENTS

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Stories

26 Role Model 28 Guy to Know 94 Art Beat

Business

32 Business Insight 34 Spotlight: Sheila Masterson Piazza 4 3 Wo m e n i n R e s i d e n t i a l R e a l E s t a t e 5 6 Wo m e n o n t h e M o v e 73 Dossier: Interior Designers

Lifestyle

5 8 Fa s h i o n 62 Beauty 6 5 At H o m e 7 0 At H o m e E x t ra 80 Mommy Matters 8 1 We l l n e s s

Food & Entertainment

86 Hill Country Destinations 88 Hill Country Eats 9 0 D i n i n g : L a n d ra c e 95 Entertainment 9 6 We d d i n g

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C O N T R I B U TO RS

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photographs the restaurants and homes seen in San Antonio Woman magazine.

“My photographs use light to bring a home’s personality to life. When I raise the camera and focus on a room’s view, I am composing to express its owners’ personality in the best light.” He has had more than a dozen major solo exhibits, and his work is in such permanent collections as the National Portrait Gallery of the Smithsonian Institution and the National Museum of Mexican Art in Chicago.

is a local artist, professional photographer, and SA Woman’s new Production Coordinator.

Her love and passion for movement and light led her to a fulfilling career as a dance and contemporary portrait photographer and her work has been both locally and internationally published. Nina is excited to bring her love for the arts, public health, and photography to the SA Woman Dream Team.

A self-proclaimed people person - is a free-lance photographer that loves to tell people “good morning!” in the afternoon, to try to make them smile. He enjoys coffee, tacos, and writing letters on his 1968 German typewriter. When he is not writing about himself in the third person, David can often be found in a foreign country, photographing ballerinas with his 40-year-old Hasselblad camera. David has been blessed to be able to make people smile at his jokes on four continents - and to work with an awesome team of people.

Dawn Robinette

Bonny Osterhage

Jenny Jurica

is an award-winning writer, communications expert and founder of Tale to Tell Communications, Dawn Robinette loves to share the stories behind the faces and places that make San Antonio shine. Despite being told by her high school English teacher that she couldn’t write, Dawn has made a career doing just that and is a regular contributor to Alamo City Moms, Rio Magazine and Texas Lifestyle Magazine.

is a local journalist and public relations professional with more than 20 years in the industry. With a passion for all things health and fitness, Bonny moonlights as an instructor at JoyRide Cycle and Fitness and is the founder of B-FITSA. com. She and her husband, KSAT 12’s Mike Osterhage have proudly called San Antonio home for 25 years.

is a freelance writer who lives in the beautiful Texas Hill Country with her husband, two children, and a house full of assorted and beloved pets. An introvert at heart, Jenny’s idea of paradise is set somewhere in the mountains of the Desert Southwest. Her work regularly appears on various parenting and pet focused websites, as well as several local print publications.

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Steve Bennett a native Texan, Steve Bennett has written about art, architecture, and books for more than 30 years, working for the San Antonio Light, Express-News and Austin American-Statesman.

Currently a freelance writer and editor, Steve makes a mean platter of green enchiladas and enjoys cycling, British detective shows and the Dallas Cowboys.

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Janis Turk is an award-winning travel writer/photographer, and author of several books and travel guides. Her culinary photography appears in the James Beard Award-nominated “Come In; We’re Closed” and in “Queens: A Culinary Passport.” Her byline has appeared in national and international magazines and newspapers. Follow Janis at www.TurkTravels.com

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EDITOR’S LETTER

MARCH/APRIL 2021 EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Cathleen Lane CREATIVE DIRECTOR & GRAPHIC DESIGN Miriam Jesaijes PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Nina Padilla DIRECTOR OF DIGITAL MEDIA Taylor Lane DIRECTOR OF SALES & PARTNERSHIPS Dale Lane WRITERS Steve Bennett, Jenny Jurica, Bonny Osterhage, Dawn Robinette, Janis Turk, Dr. William Albright, Courtney Balsam, Jeannie Dimaline, Amy House, Martha Livingston, PhD, LPC

Welcome to our latest edition! Spring is in the air, and that means Fiesta (condensed this year), bluebonnets, road trips, and plenty of margaritas on one of the fantastic outdoor dining spots around town!

Our Cover Profile this month is Dr. Susan Crockett. Her story inspires, not only because she has earned many accolades as a top robotic-assisted surgeon, but also because she hasn’t rested on her accomplishments. She continues to push herself to grow and become more of who she was created to be. And she continuously finds ways to help others.

Our pages are filled with stories of people who continuously learn and grow and live their lives to help others. From our Role Model, Marina Gonzales, who actively looks for young women to mentor, to our Guy to Know, Sam O’Krent, who lives by the philosophy that success can only come with the help of others, so we should always give back.

We hope you find inspiration to explore our amazing city as you read through this issue! It’s the best time of year to get out and see all that our vibrant city has to offer.

¡VIVA San Antonio!

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SA CURATED

SA CURATED With Spring knocking on the door, it’s time to get back outside! SA Curated brings you the best events announcements, SA Woman staff favorites, things to know, and places to be in San Antonio!

SMH Student Makes History as Female Eagle Scout Saint Mary’s Hall (SMH) senior Michelle Bourland ‘21 has made a historical achievement. She is one of four San Antonio teens who are among the nation’s first female Eagle Scouts. Eagle Scout is the highest rank attainable in the Boy Scouts of America (BSA), achieved by only four percent of scouts since its inception in 1911. KENS 5 recently featured Michelle as part of their coverage of these trailblazing young women.

“Being one of the first female Eagle Scouts means being an example to younger women and girls for the rest of my life, and being responsible for showing girls that they can do just as much as their male classmates,” said Michelle.

Not only is Michelle a member of the historic inaugural class of female Eagle Scouts, she is one of a total of six Eagle Scouts in SMH’s Class of 2021 and one of five scouts from SMH’s troop this school year to be awarded the rank.

To achieve Eagle Scout rank, scouts must earn at least 21 merit badges, demonstrate Scout Spirit, and conduct a service project. Michelle’s project was to refurbish changing tables for special-needs campers at Children’s Association for Maximum Potential, an organization she has volunteered at for many years. While at SMH, Michelle has earned the President’s Volunteer Service Award (Gold Level) for four consecutive years for her work with the San Antonio Zoo.

Eagle Scout and SMH senior Michelle Bourland

“I have always held the idea that if you are able to do something, do it to help others,” said Michelle.

“I believe that volunteering isn’t about what you get in return, it’s about how much you are able to change someone’s life that day.”

Michelle has been a student at SMH for nearly 14 years, since Montessori. She has been involved in dance and band at the school, and has been a part of the National Charity League since seventh grade. Michelle attributes being a scout and SMH student to helping her develop leadership skills, which will assist her in achieving her dream of owning a veterinary practice.

SMH has a storied history of students earning the Eagle Scout distinction with 69 SMH scouts reaching this status. The school has sponsored the Pack 496 Cub Scouts and Troop 496 Boy Scouts since 1999 and has had more than 1,000 scouts associated with SMH since that time. For a glimpse into leadership development and the student experience at SMH, visit our Student Life webpage at www.smhall.org/smh-life/student-life

Editors Pick: Great Reads!

Where the Crawdads Sing By Delia Owens A debut novel about an unforgettable young woman making her way alone in the wilds of North Carolina.

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CREW announces Board of Directors

Commercial Real Estate Women of San Antonio (CREW) announced 11 women were appointed to the Board of Directors, which will be led by President Dawn Vernon in 2021. Vernon and other members of the 2021 Board officially took office in January of this year. CREW San Antonio’s mission is to pave the way, breaking barriers for women to enter and excel as leaders in the commercial real estate industry. CREW provides unsurpassed connections, innovative resources and education to enhance the real estate community. For more information on CREW San Antonio, visit www.crew-sanantonio.org

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Women’s History Month

Women in History: Lila Cockrell (1922-2019) Born in 1992, Lila Cockrell is a legendary San Antonio woman. She was elected as San Antonio’s first female mayor in 1975, and is said to have been the first female mayor of any major metropolis. She was an advocate for the arts and environmental issues, and was instrumental in bringing major growth and development to San Antonio. In her book, Love Deeper Than a River, she recalls her life as a public servant in the city she loves and, as member of the Greatest Generation, recounts how coming of age during Prohibition, the Great Depression, World War II, and the burgeoning civil rights movement influenced her political views and kindled her passion to serve her country and community.

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“The success of every woman should be the inspiration to another. We should raise each other up.

Make sure you’re very courageous: be strong, be extremely kind, and above all be humble.”

— Serena Williams

H-E-B Quest for Texas Best The call for entries is now open. In its eighth year, H-E-B Quest for Texas Best has expanded its search for the finest foods and beverages in the Lone Star State to also include non-food items. In addition to food creators and innovators, Texas-based purveyors of beauty items, toys, home goods, household necessities, gardening supplies, coolers and everything in between are now invited to join!

Submissions will be accepted through April 7.

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PROFILE

Dr. Susan Crockett Navigating Life’s Obstacles to Grow, Achieve and Shine

By Dawn Robinette Photography by David Teran

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“Don’t be afraid to be a badass.”

To realize her dream of becoming a plastic surgeon, Susan Crockett, MD, had to land a general surgery rotation during her residency. But that didn’t happen. “I was devastated because you had to do general surgery to get into plastics.”

Her next rotation was OB-GYN. There, the doctors were performing laparoscopic surgery. “They were doing much cooler surgery than general surgery. And I just fell in love with it. That pathway just opened like it was where I was supposed to be.”

Dr. Crockett now practices at Virtuosa GYN, the premier location for advanced benign gynecological surgery in San Antonio. “Some of it is even plastic surgery, like reconstructive pelvic surgery, but nobody gets to see my work,” she jokes.

Named a Top Doctor by “US News and World Report” for robotic gynecologic surgery and recognized as one of San Antonio’s best doctors for many years, Dr. Crockett landed where she is thanks to roadblocks along the way. That includes missing out on that general surgery residency.

“We think we know what life’s going to be, but you really only understand it looking backward. I was meant to be here. When I was choosing a career, I couldn’t have said, ‘I want to be a robotic surgeon.’ That didn’t even exist.

Robotic surgery didn’t even come about until I was in my 40s. But God kept putting me on the right path and opening up the doors. And I kept walking through.”

Her passion for robotic surgery stems from the impact it has for her patients. “It’s completely life-changing and very rewarding. If you’ve ever met a woman who can’t get out of her house because of bleeding or prolapse issues, and then you see what they’re like after their surgery – they come in, and they’re happy. It’s just an amazing thing to be able to do.”

With joysticks, foot pedals, and a console reminiscent of a video game, robotic surgery sounds like a futuristic movie. “I can replicate anything that I would do in open surgery, but I’m doing it in much finer detail because I’m right in there looking at it.

“It makes surgery so much easier for patients. I’ve gone from doing hysterectomies as mostly open with large incision surgeries to transitioning to laparoscopic, to now doing robotics. So instead of my patients having six weeks of recovery from a big incision and three days in a hospital, 95 percent of my surgeries go home, same day, even my really big cases. My whole purpose for surgery is to make it easier for women and for them to be in more control of their lives.”

For Dr. Crockett, that extends beyond the physical. “So much of what we struggle with as women is mental, like our weight and our habits and our relationships and just all of those things that impact our health as well.”

That mental struggle became an issue for Dr. Crockett when her ex-husband, her children’s father and husband of 22 years, died unexpectedly. To help her manage her grief, she turned to life coaching.

“Life coaching is basically brain management. We have the ability to handle so much in life, both the good things and the bad things. My personal philosophy is really to always keep growing. As I started learning more about brain management and life coaching, I wanted to increase my own capacity. How much more am I capable of, and how much greater can I do for people? How can I better help my patients?”

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“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. And we ask, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?

Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God, and your playing small does not serve the world.”

- Marianne Williamson

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The exploration led Dr. Crockett to become a certified life coach. She opened an online coaching business and created a podcast, “Becoming Virtuosa,” where she shares practical advice about navigating life’s transitions and obstacles.

When COVID-19 struck, Dr. Crockett saw the need to help her fellow healthcare workers manage the stress they were under. She created a website with free access to life coaches through virtual lectures and sessions. “Every day, we would do a lecture to coach frontline workers on how to handle the stress and the fatigue to better deal with the trauma they were experiencing.

“I was actually teaching people how to thrive through adversity. We don’t grow unless we get challenged. We can look at bad things when they happen as terrible things. But we can also look at them and see them as stones that sharpen our ability to grow, handle more and be able to be more and do more as people,” she explains.

Her efforts were recognized by the Women of Heart Awards, which named Dr. Crockett as one of only 50 women internationally as being pioneers in their fields.

“I want to be part of empowering women, lifting them up and teaching them that they have the ability to rise above where they are, to be encouraged by each other, and to pursue those things within their heart.”

In spite of the accolades, the coaching business did not succeed. “I say flop rather than failure because I’m rethinking the word failure. It was an experiment that didn’t work. Historically, I’ve been hard on myself. But I’m learning that there’s really no failure, except for not aligning yourself with where you’re supposed to be going.”

talents and gifts that God has given them are. And to realize that wherever they are on the spectrum of the gifts and talents and people surrounding them, that they can take what they have and move forward and grow.”

“We have a choice about managing our brains and what thoughts we choose to think and how much that affects the outcome in our lives,” she explains. “Until I figured out how to get a hold of the demons in my mind and stop those negative feedback loops that I was doing to myself, I really didn’t start going to where I am right now.”

Managing that determines how people deal with setbacks, she explains. “Two people can go through the same tragedy, and one person will be beaten down by it.

And the other will be stronger on the other side of it. It all has to do with our thought world.”

The positive change she’s seen in her own life further fuels her desire to help others. “There’s so much reward in giving others the permission to do the same thing. It’s emboldened me. It’s given me the courage to increase my capacity, knowing that I am going to reach more people and have more impact, and shine a little bit brighter. There’s going to be more to deal with and more struggle where you can also flip that around and increase your capacity, and you just keep growing. You just keep spreading the light.

“There was something about losing my ex-husband that changed how I look at every day. It’s given me and my children a real appreciation and richness for life. Every day waking up is a blessing. I look forward to that and cherish that. Tomorrow is not a promise. So live life to your fullest, take it all, live it all deeply – the good and the bad.”

For Dr. Crockett, that path includes turning her podcast into a television show, “Soul Healing Sundays,” debuting this summer. The seeds for the show were planted years ago when she came across a quote from Marianne Williamson: “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.

And we ask, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God, and your playing small does not serve the world.”

That quote fuels where she is today and the advice she gives other women: Don’t be afraid to be a badass.

“As women, we have a tendency to think ‘who am I to do that?’ Like when I got knocked down from wanting to go into general surgery, who did I think I was anyway? Then figure out a way to strap on your boots and go on anyway.

I did not come into my badassery until the last two or three years, and I’m like, yeah, go for it.

“I think people need to think about what they have and what they’ve been given in their lives and what those

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¡VIVA San Antonio!

How Three San Antonio Women are Working To Rebuild Travel and Tourism

By Bonny Osterhage Photography by David Teran

San Antonio, with its historic sites, Riverwalk, and family-friendly vibe, has been recognized by both National Geographic Traveler and Travel + Leisure magazines as one of the top places to visit, drawing more than 34 million tourists per year. Then COVID-19 took the entire country by storm, and our once-bustling downtown grew eerily quiet. The following three women have worked tirelessly to help San Antonio’s hard-hit hospitality and tourism industries through promotion, advocacy, and education, with the goal of helping our city survive and once again thrive in a post-pandemic world.

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Sharon Aguillen President & CEO, San Antonio Visitor Alliance ”Trial by fire.” That’s how Sharon Aguillen describes her role as President and CEO of the San Antonio Visitor’s Alliance, a position she’s held since August 2019.

“My first passion was on the entertainment and customer service side of the hospitality industry, which led me to theme parks,” explains the Niagara Falls native who came to San Antonio in 2007 with Sea World Parks and Entertainment (formerly Busch Gardens). “I was still relatively new in this role when the pandemic hit.”

The San Antonio Visitor Alliance is a non-profit made of members ranging from hoteliers to restauranteurs, cultural attractions, museums, theme parks, destination marketing agencies, and more. When COVID struck, Guillen’s focus was two-fold. First, she had to make sure the association as a whole survived.

That meant putting cost-containment measures in place right away that would allow the association to remain financially healthy. Second, she had to make sure that everything was being done to help the members, from championing certain entities like theme parks that were not being represented to helping smaller operations research and navigate the latest information.

“This was all new and uncharted territory,” she recalls.

“We were completely focused on how to function as an association along with keeping up with what our members needed from us. We were wearing more hats than ever, and with fewer resources.”

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and visitors alike have plenty of incentive to enjoy all their favorite places or to explore something new. And while there’s no denying the recovery will be slow, Aguillen says she thinks that the pandemic made us take a closer look at everything we do and that some of the changes businesses were forced to implement might actually be for the best.

“There have been some really cool, innovative things that have come out of this,” she says, citing paperless menus at restaurants as one example. “We have been forced to think differently about some things that are now here to stay, and maybe that’s for the better.”

Like Madsen, Aguillen is optimistic about San Antonio’s travel and tourism picking up, especially in light of recent studies that suggest that people are planning more “road trip” destinations and “staycations.”

“There are many locals who haven’t even begun to experience everything that’s right here in our own backyards,” she says. “We are here to remind them of what’s available.”

Michelle Madson President & CEO, San Antonio Hotel and Lodging Association Like a mini chamber of commerce for the hotel industry, the San Antonio Hotel and Lodging Association serves as an advocate for its nearly 200 members among local and state government officials. Port Naches native Michelle Madson joined the non-profit in 2016 as the Vice President and Communications Director before stepping into her current role of President and CEO in January 2021. At the onset of the pandemic, she spent much of her time keeping members informed of the ordinances and rules that seemed to change almost daily.

“It was like a game of ‘Whack-A-Mole,’” she describes. “We had to stay closely connected to city leadership to make sure we not only understood the latest guidelines, but that we effectively communicated them to our members.”

Communication is a two-way street, and Madson continues to make sure that the city and community leaders understand the importance of the industry and the impact COVID has had.

“Ours was the first and hardest hit,” she says. “We have to continue to develop relationships with the city, county, and community leaders to make sure our best interests are represented.”

Part of those interests includes taking care of their own.

The association held employee food distribution events through a partnership with the San Antonio Food Bank, and provided employees with $100 HEB gift cards.

“The hospitality industry really is a family, and letting employees go is hard. We decided it would be part of our mission to provide compassion and relief to those people and hopefully spread a little good cheer.”

Although times have been tough, Madson says that she sees the light at the end of the tunnel where the industry is concerned.

“I definitely think it will come back, but it will be tiered with leisure travel first, then business and convention,” she says.

When it does happen, Madson says San Antonio will be ready thanks to programs including the Tourism Public Improvement District that was established in 2019 and allows hotel owners to assess a fee on room night bills that is donated to Visit SA for marketing purposes.

“That dedicated revenue will be crucial as we move forward from the pandemic because it is earmarked to promote San Antonio as a destination, which is something we will really need as leisure travel becomes more of the focus.”

Madson says San Antonio’s reputation as a warm, welcoming community is well known and that she expects to see the Riverwalk once again filled with tourists as more people are vaccinated, and restrictions begin to ease.

“We are so fortunate that our reputation as a warm, welcoming community is pervasive throughout the country,” she says optimistically. “San Antonio is an easy sell.”

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Hope Andrade Chair of the Board, San Antonio Chamber of Commerce A San Antonio native and entrepreneur with more than 40 years of experience under her belt, former Secretary of State for Texas Hope Andrade has enjoyed a career in both the private and public sectors. As one of the partners in Go Rio San Antonio River Cruises, she has seen first-hand the effects of COVID on the city’s tourism revenue.

“We closed the week of spring break 2020, and it was devastating because that is one of our busiest weeks,” she says. “Everyone who had prepared for that rush of business was left holding the bag.”

It was time for a plan. Andrade and her fellow chamber members put their collective experience together and came up with the One City Effort to help downtown get back on its feet.

Andrade leads the charge with a staff that devotes their time and energy to facilitating and coordinating the effort. They work with other local chambers, downtown businesses, and stakeholders to determine what is needed and then identify and prioritize the goals.

“It’s always hard to get your arms around something this big that needs to get done, but we believe the coordinator role is what we as a chamber can do best.”

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and Robert Thrailkill, VP of Operations for Zachry Hospitality, the Chamber is working with city leaders to “spiff up” the downtown area with the goal of attracting locals back to the heart of the city. A heart-tugging video on the Chamber’s website details the history and growth of San Antonio and is designed to create a spirit of community and a “we’re all in this together” approach.

“We need to remind our locals to fill the void,” says Andrade. “We are functioning at only 35% of business from 2019, but we believe that it will come back if the locals will start exploring all the things that downtown San Antonio has to offer.”

As an entrepreneur, Andrade says she finds the One City Effort exciting, and she is proud to be part of something designed to help her hometown return to its former glory.

“It is important to me to give back to this community that has given my family and me so much,” she says fondly.

“I want to make sure we all work together so that San Antonio remains a great place to live, work, and play.”

ROLE MODEL

Marina Gonzales, J.D. Rising to the Top By Advocating for Others While much of the world has been on pause waiting out COVID-19, Marina Gonzales hasn’t missed a beat, stepping into a new role as the president and CEO of the San Antonio Hispanic Chamber of Commerce (SAHCC) and getting married in the midst of it all.

“There just wasn’t enough going on in 2020, I needed a new job and a wedding in the middle of a pandemic,” she laughs.

An outdoor wedding location – chosen before COVID – allowed Gonzales and her husband, Gerald Lee, to host an intimate, COVID-safe wedding. And she’s laser-focused on helping SAHCC members weather the pandemic as well.

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“There’s always an opportunity where there are challenges. That’s why I wanted to come over. I saw the need. Our members need us now more than ever.

I’m challenge-driven. I can’t seem to get away from wanting to jump right into it and try to win it. I like seeing a big challenge and finding a way to make it better.

“It’s personal for me. My dad’s a small business owner. I grew up in a Tex-Mex restaurant family. I saw how hard he worked, and I know the inside of running a small business. I see so many other families like that in San Antonio.”

Gonzales joined SAHCC from Child Advocates San Antonio (CASA), providing trained court-appointed advocates to foster children recovering from abuse and neglect. She sees the roles as closely related.

“Advocacy is the core value, and that, of course, is what we do. I see SAHCC as another way to advocate for San Antonio. It’s just doing it in a different way.

Small businesses really make up San Antonio. We are going to keep people employed. We’re going to keep some of those social issues from becoming bigger issues that turn into a foster care situation.”

Tackling challenges has always motivated Gonzales. “I love to problem-solve. Even as a kid, I loved puzzles, and the game Clue was my favorite. If you ask my dad, he’ll tell you I was always solving or figuring something out. It’s a habit that has continued into adulthood, that investigation and how do we make it better and how can we be more efficient and more thoughtful. That constant drive to continue to evolve and learn.

don’t have to be limited to women. I started a career thinking that I needed to find these female role models, and I’ve found some amazing ones. But don’t forget about the guys too, because they have some good career advice as well.”

“My mentor tells me always help each other. And you’re never too young to mentor someone. Pass it on. Do what you can. You’re never too young or old to mentor.”

Following that lead, Gonzales herself actively mentors other women, openly asking young women she meets how she can help them. “I don’t mind putting myself out there and asking how I can help. Looking back, I would have benefited from advice, but I didn’t proactively seek that out. I always felt it was awkward to ask people to mentor me. So now I try to look for those opportunities and ask, ‘How can I help you? Can I mentor you?’ I try to just open that door because we need that next generation of women.”

A recipient of the 2020 San Antonio Business Journal’s 40 Under 40 Award and the 2019 San Antonio Business Journal’s Women’s Leadership Award, Gonzales notes, “None of us have it all figured out. I think it’s about what we’ve learned from our experiences and passing on that knowledge, so hopefully, somebody doesn’t have to learn the hard way. I think that our role, each generation, is to make it more accessible and have more open doors for women as we go.”

“I think it’s also a habit that influenced where I’m at right now. If you are a lifelong learner, you are open to new opportunities. Running a chamber is not something I would have thought of when I went to law school, but it’s what evolved.”

Gonzales holds a J.D. from the University of IllinoisChicago John Marshall Law School and a B.A. from St. Mary’s University, and believes her career path fits her personal philosophy. “Always keep an open mind for new opportunities,” she explains.

And she believes in asking for help. “Wherever you’re at in your career, find your mentors, find your friends, your people. That’s how I say it. Find your people, find your tribe, whatever that means to you. They

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GUY TO KNOW

Sam O’Krent:

A Man with Heart

After losing both his grandfather and father to heart disease Sam O’Krent not only devoted himself to the family’s flooring business, but he also devoted his time and resources to the American Heart Association (AHA), serving as Chairman of the Board in 2000-2001.

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After losing both his grandfather and father to heart disease Sam O’Krent not only devoted himself to the family’s flooring business, but he also devoted his time and resources to the American Heart Association (AHA), serving as Chairman of the Board in 2000-2001. He, along with his wife (and childhood sweetheart) Margie established the Arthur O’Krent Golf Classic in 2003 in honor of his late father. To date, this tournament has raised more than $1.3 million for the AHA and its various programs, solidifying O’Krent’s reputation as a San Antonio philanthropist and business leader with a heart for his fellow man.

You lost both your father and grandfather in 1997, and a year later you joined the Board of the American Heart Association.

How did you evolve from chairing the board to chairing the annual charity golf tournament?

My father was only 62 when he died from heart disease.

It is the number one killer, and it affects so many people’s lives. And the AHA was a natural fit because of my personal experience. When I became Board Chairman in 2000-2001, the organization already had several strong, successful fundraising events in place.

Then 9/11 happened, and the fundraising began to dry up in its wake. We realized that we couldn’t afford to continue with some of our events, including the annual golf tournament. That’s when Margie and I decided to chair the tournament ourselves and donate all of the proceeds to the AHA. We hold it every Columbus Day at the La Cantera Resort and it’s always a big success. The $1.3 million we’ve raised since 2003 has gone to a wide range of initiatives, including the purchase of AEDs, CPR training and equipment for elementary schools, and the F.A.S.T. program for stroke awareness. This past year we included food prescriptions for people with food insecurity. Although it goes beyond the heart, it still relates to health, and keeping South Texans and San Antonians healthy is paramount.

How did you handle the tournament during COVID? We had to get very creative. Instead of putting the tournament out there, we decided to sell playing sponsorships instead. As a sponsor, you bought a tee time and then went out and played on your own. We gave people gift cards for food and beverages while they played, and we held our “Super Raffle” via Zoom with one lucky winner walking away with his or her choice of a prize valued at $5000.

You are the fourth generation to run the family flooring business. What are some of the biggest lessons that you have learned over the years?

Our family has passed down through the generations that any success we have in business is a direct result of the community and we should always give back.

That’s why philanthropy has always been the focus of what I do. I serve on many industry boards as well as local boards, including Methodist HealthCare Systems, Methodist Healthcare Ministries, and Margie and I serve

together on the South Texas Blood and Tissue Center Foundation Board, and the Mays Cancer Center Board of Governors in support of Margie, who is a breast cancer survivor. I’m also the past president of the Rotary Club of San Antonio which was at that time the world’s largest Rotary club. In addition to community, we believe that our success is dependent upon our employees. It is a team effort and our employees are like family. Many of them have been with us for several decades. We know that our employees spend more time here every day than they do with their own families, so we have to create an environment that they will enjoy. That includes everything from involving them in the hiring processes to providing an on-site gym, to the addition of our office dog Kai, a five-year-old Lhasa Apso rescue. Lastly, we don’t believe in resting on our reputation. “Continuous Self Improvement” is one of our core values, and we take pride in evolving and staying relevant by incorporating technology, keeping the showroom fresh, and moving to a paperless system.

What is your business philosophy?

Life is in the people business, but it doesn’t matter what you do; you have to care for your fellow man. When I leave this earth, I want to know that I’ve touched someone’s life and made it better. Anything I can do to put a smile on someone’s face is worth it.

What puts a smile on your face?

Margie.

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Angela Holliday President of Frost Investment Services

By Jenny Jurica Photography by David Teran

Twenty-five years ago, Angela Holliday never expected to be doing what she’s doing now. When she began her career as a sales assistant for Frost Bank, her intellect, tenacity, and passion for helping people made her a standout and boosted Holliday up the corporate ladder, propelling her into a leadership position in a mostly male-dominated industry.

Holliday, who has lived in San Antonio for the past 30 years and heads up a team of advisors, as well as oversees compliance and operations at Frost, is enthusiastic about financial wellness. She is an active participant in Frost Bank’s “Opt for Optimism” initiative that opens up a dialogue about money and planning and puts an optimistic spin on the topic.

“There are so many opportunities for communities that are underserved--women, people of color, who don’t understand basic financial principles. We’re taking a focus on that and teaching people that wealth is relative...building over time. You can have financial success based on your goals,” said Holliday.

But Holliday doesn’t have to be on the clock at Frost to lend a hand to people (specifically women) who need financial advice.

“I was hiking last weekend, and there were some ladies behind me talking about taking money out of their savings to pay credit card bills. I stopped them and said, ‘You will not do that! There are other options,’” said Holliday.

“They followed me to the car, and I gave them my card. When the ladies walked away, I could tell that they had so much more confidence,” she remembered.

“I love to be able to help people find a sense of security and to be able to sleep at night. It’s not about a big dollar amount or a certain type of account. We’re here to help everyone,” she said.

Another passion of Holliday’s is her 22-year-old son, Matthew.

Holliday, who has been a single mother for the entirety of her son’s life, learned quickly the importance of “getting her house in order” and making sure that she was saving money for his eventual college.

“I wanted him to be able to have all of the opportunities and not ever have to do without because he was from a single-parent home, so I worked extra hard to make sure that he could do anything he wanted.”

Holliday’s hard work certainly paid off, as Matthew recently graduated from college (a year early).

“He’s an inspiration. He has so much admiration for me, and I always seek to make him proud,” added Holliday.

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BUSINESS INSIGHT

Things I Have Learned by Being a Business Coach

By Amy House Photography by Ismael Rodriquez

1. Learn to manage money.

3. There is no such thing as failure.

How you treat your personal finances will indicate how successful you will be managing your business finances. Understand how “pink tax” affects you.

Change your perception that a budget is restrictive.

A budget is actually a tool of freedom; freedom from worry, freedom to enjoy, freedom to plan and dream.

Adjust your mindset from scarcity to abundance and be willing to begin using money as a tool. Wealth building is not about greed. It is about security and having the ability to share with others.

Even when I have coached a client that completely changes direction - they end a business, launch something new, completely leave an old career for a new one…those pivots do not indicate a failure. They learned valuable skills. They built powerful networks of people. They dealt with difficult situations that make them creative problem solvers. There is no such thing as failure.

2. Every action does pay off.

4. If you want to move faster, learn to accept feedback.

It just may not pay off in the next month or year. In training salespeople, we talk a lot about 90-day sales cycles. We discuss short sales cycles and long sales cycles. We visit about the difference between “herds of buffaloes” or “taking the whale.” Too many of us operate with only instant gratification in mind. We want “whales” but only give projects or relationships the attention of a “gnat.” Learn to play a long game. Change your idea of success to allow for the celebration of the DOING versus only celebrating the result.

Feedback is not a critique but rather an adjustment.

Coaches help athletes perfect their form, increase their strength and improve their timing. Those tweaks are not about being critical; they are about helping athletes make necessary adjustments. Feedback is all about adjustments. Take it. Think about it. Glean what will work for you. Then make necessary adjustments. I always tell my clients…. breathe, give it 24 hours, then decide.

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WOMEN’S HEALTH

Empowering Woman Through Education on Cosmetic Procedures

According to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, 1 in 10 women in the United States had a cosmetic procedure last year alone. Many people now are looking to improve the “Zoom face” and take advantage of the “no-one-has-to know” recovery while working from home. Here are some tips to successfully navigate choosing a qualified plastic surgeon and achieving the incredible results you deserve.

1. Healthy Patient - Patient health and safety are always my top priority. I recommend a patient be a healthy weight and nicotine-free for six weeks before and after surgery for an elective cosmetic surgery.

2. Online Research - Create a ‘short list’ of surgeons for consultations based on online research and personal recommendations. Read through both good and bad reviews. Pay careful attention to one-star reviews, which may indicate underlying problems, such as surgical complications. Next, peruse their websites and social media to get a feel for specializations and quality of results.

3. Consultations - I recommend having a clear understanding of what your goals are for your procedure. With this information, the plastic surgeon can then recommend an individualized surgical plan to meet those goals and answer your questions about the procedure. At the end of the consultation, you should understand what procedure is recommended and why. You should also have a “gut-feeling” about the surgeon and their office staff.

4. Questions - Wanting patients to be engaged in the surgical plan and procedure, I suggest you ask questions such as:

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Are you certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery?

Where is the procedure performed?

Do you have before and after photos of this procedure?

What should be expected during recovery?

If there are complications, how are they handled, and what costs could be incurred?

5. Pricing - Don’t fall for the pressure sales. The ‘10 % discount’ for booking now, or ‘the quote is only good for 24 hours,’ etc.… Get multiple quotes, and make sure you are comparing apples to apples (surgeon’s fees, breast implant cost, anesthesia, and surgery center fees, postoperative care, etc.).

6. Recovery - Following recovery guidance from your surgeon is critical to your obtaining the optimal result. If you have questions about what you may or may not do, ask first. This is the main reason why I discourage patients from traveling great distances for cosmetic surgery, as follow-ups may be difficult, and results may be compromised.

7. Enjoy - Take time to appreciate your new look!

About Dr. William Albright Recently named in Super Doctors® Rising Stars™ list, Dr. Albright, board-certified plastic surgeon, utilizes the latest techniques to deliver life-changing plastic surgery experiences and outcomes for his patients at his practice, Alamo Plastic Surgery

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SPOTLIGHT

Sheila Masterson Piazza Piazza Realty Group, LLC, Piazza Lending, LLC, Piazza Insurance Agency, LLC moving from other states to Texas. Low interest rates are also stimulating the market. Like everything else, real estate has also made a huge transition to more online and virtual sales.

What makes Piazza Realty different from other real estate brokerage firms?

My customers can go to one place and find their home, the money to buy their home, AND the right insurance coverage. A company to manage their properties if they are a portfolio investor. My agents can obtain multiple licenses to maximize their talent and provide added knowledge AND service.

Where do you see your business in five years?

I currently have agents in San Antonio and Dallas. I am looking forward to expanding to other cities in Texas with my one Agency concept.

Who are the men standing behind you in the picture?

Some women believe that to be an independent, strong woman means you cannot have help from a man. But the truth is a strong person knows to ask for help from whoever can help them succeed. In my case, it happens to be a tribe of men: mentors, self-defense instructors, lawyers, investors, future deal makers, clients, and confidants.

What do you enjoy the most about your work?

Every day is different. There are hurdles sometimes in getting the sale from under contract to closed. I like a challenge, and I enjoy being a problem solver. But most of all, I enjoy my clients, which most of the time wind up being not just a client but a friend.

What changes have you seen in real estate over the past year?

The market is transitioned to a sellers’ market due to COVID, lack of inventory, and the influx of people

What do you do to relax outside of work?

When in San Antonio, I usually enjoy a nice day by the pool with a margarita and a good book! I am Italian and Irish. I like to make a home-cooked meal and enjoy a glass of wine. I also love to grab my friends and try all the amazing new restaurants San Antonio has to offer and maybe stop by a karaoke bar to end the night.

Otherwise, I love to travel.

What is the best advice you ever received?

From my Father, always consider the source of the information, stay your course in life and never ever give up.

Office location(s): Real Estate & Lending: 7227 Broadway San Antonio, Texas 78209 Insurance: 29710 US HWY 281 N STE 101 Bulverde, Texas. 78163 Phone number: Piazza Realty Group: 210-822-2702 Piazza Lending: 210-881-7919 Piazza Insurance: 210-775-0572

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Girls are Having a Mental Health Crisis – Some Solutions, Though, Are Simple Reprinted from Girl Scouts of the USA’s Raising Awesome Girls Series When popstars sing about abandonment and hopelessness, girls get it. When their favorite artists sing about holding their breath and feeling stressed, girls relate. Even animated shows targeting younger girls focus on issues of isolation, misunderstandings, and feeling left out. While we’d like to think of girlhood as a time for carefree fun, friendship, and adventure, the numbers show it’s currently anything but.

post, but you’re not going to have the same biological brain reaction to that attention as you would if they were there in person. When people show up for you physically, there’s a different level of effort put in than just clicking on a photo or replying with emojis—and kids respond to that.”

“Girls were definitely experiencing loneliness and isolation, even when they were able to be with their peers,” says Amy Kaufman, a clinical therapist in Southern California who specializes in teen and tween girls. “It can be hard to feel like you really fit in or are wanted when most interactions outside class are taking place over social media or online. Plus, virtual communication is actually exhausting. Part of your brain might acknowledge that your friend texted or liked your

The bottom line? Girls need to feel a sense of belonging— now more than ever—and you can help.

Now, with many schools needing to be online for safety reasons, Ms. Kaufman says girls are facing even more Two years ago, girls in a national survey reported the isolation. “It can be hard to make friends in school in the highest rates of loneliness on record(1). Then in 2019— best of times, but it’s nearly impossible to make actual months before COVID-19 was even a blip on most friends in an online classroom with 30 other faces on the people’s radar—more than one in three girls in the U.S. screen.” Your girl can see she’s part of a large group in a way, but there’s no opportunity for said they felt extremely anxious on “…A sisterhood…that her to make a real connection. Even if a daily basis(2). Most tragic of all, nurtures my confidence has her school is meeting in person, she suicide rates in girls ages 10–14 can’t just lean over to a friend and tripled between 1999 and 2007(3) made such a difference... share a joke or ask for help with a and have risen by thirteen percent When plans get canceled, math problem, because people need since then(4).

I know I have the power to to remain at a social distance. Beyond make new ones.” that, younger girls who are just starting Add a global pandemic, widespread to form social skills are missing out on lockdowns, separation from their friends, social unrest, and a long-term pause on many formative experiences with sharing, playing together, social activities and routines, and girls are truly in crisis. and working as a team.

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Having the camaraderie and friendships that come from being in some kind of local group or club can help show your girl that others are having similar issues to hers and that she’s not alone. “Community makes people feel safer. And girls desperately need that right now,” says Ms. Kaufman.

as well. “When the pandemic began, our Girl Scout troop leaders did not think twice about continuing and immediately set up online meetings that continued through the summer,” says Stephanie Samperi-Gonzalez, mom to a nine-year-old girl. “It made a dreary time in quarantine more bearable, because my daughter knew “If she doesn’t have one already, help her start a social she would ‘see’ friends, even without seeing them group with other girls her age,” Ms. Kaufman suggests. in person. The troop leaders even talked to the girls “This might be a film club where the girls watch movies about the reality of the pandemic and other issues at the same time and talk about them, a book club, or in a way they could understand and be a part of the some other kind of structured time she knows she can conversation. In that way, by discussing, never ignoring count on.” She recommends socially distanced in-person very important current events, I feel Girl Scouts hasn’t only supported our daughter but meetings if they can be done safely, “Having a space also her parents.” because people bond differently and she can depend on, even more easily when they’re physically together, but says even regular virtual online…where making friends Coordinating social meetups for meetings can make a big difference. and having fun is priority — girls might not seem like the most important thing right now, but it’s can combat feelings actually more vital than ever. “It’s “Having a space she can depend on, of alienation.” so important for girls to see that even online, that’s dedicated to her parents and other adults care,” says having a social outlet and being a Ms. Kaufman.

Even if they don’t tell you how much it social support to others in her community—a space means, or if they act like it’s not a big deal, you’re giving where making friends and having fun is the priority— them a sense of safety and love—something that, in can combat feelings of alienation,” says Ms. Kaufman, these times, could truly make a meaningful difference who recommends finding ways to do activities together, in her life. even if girls can’t be in the same space.

Sadly, no side ponytail, cool sunglasses, or randomly inserted slang can make your girl see you or other adults as a replacement for friends her own age (honestly, she might think you look silly and roll her eyes), but you can help bridge that gap in a meaningful way.

Girl Scouts, whether in person or virtual, has been a key support for many girls right now, both younger and older. “I’ve felt the stress of uncertainty most days this year, but I’m also more thankful than ever for Girl Scouts,” says 15-year-old Lizzie. “Having a sisterhood I can depend on to share serious thoughts and silly photos with and a community that nurtures my confidence has made such a difference. When one door closes, I know I can find and open another. When plans get canceled, I know I have the power to make new ones.”

Parents of younger girls say the structure and community of Girl Scouts has made a difference in their families

Interested in joining? Simply mention this article when you join for a free Fiesta medal from Girl Scouts of Southwest Texas.

Sources:

1. Ipsos poll conducted Feb. 21-Mar. 6, 2018 on behalf of Cigna [https://www.cigna.com/ about-us/newsroom/news-and-views/press-releases/2018/new-cigna-study-revealsloneliness-at-epidemic-levels-in-america] 2. Social & Demographic Trends, Pew Research Center, Feb. 20, 2019 [https://www. pewresearch.org/social-trends/2019/02/20/most-u-s-teens-see-anxiety-and-depressionas-a-major-problem-among-their-peers/] 3. National Center for Health Statistics, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, April 2016 [https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db241.htm] 4. JAMA Network Open, May 17, 2019 [https://jamanetwork.com/journals/ jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2733430] and [https://jamanetwork.com/journals/ jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2733419]

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Who We Are Girl Scouts is a 21st century experience for girls and remains the best leadership development organization designed to help them learn to be leaders in today’s world.

How to Become a Girl Scout • Be a girl in grades K-12 • Accept the Girl Scout Promise and Law • Pay $25 for your one-year membership (financial assistance is available)

We build leaders by using research-backed methods with exciting, modern programming that speaks to today’s girls. In Girl Scouts, girls are exposed to outdoor adventure, the cookie program, STEM and the arts. We offer a truly one-of-a-kind experience.

Q: Are uniforms required in Girl Scouting?

A: A girl is always welcome to participate in Girl Scouting whether or not she chooses to have a uniform. Girls are encouraged to purchase a sash or vest on which to display earned awards and other official insignia. Financial assistance is available.

We are diverse and inclusive. Fifty percent of our girls live in marginalized communities, allowing Girl Scouts to serve as a pathway to a brighter future. Our signature in-person programs, based at our West Side Girl Scout Leadership Center or on campuses in partnering school districts, adjusted their method of delivery to accommodate additional school breaks and offers synchronous and asynchronous virtual programming made necessary by the COVID-19 pandemic.

Q: Is financial assistance available?

A: Yes. GSSWT believes no girl should ever be denied the opportunity to participate in Girl Scouts because of financial need. Funds are available to assist girls with council activities, membership dues, books, etc.

In a world of problems, Girl Scouts see possibility. We’re a champion for girls because we know their style of leadership is needed now more than ever.

Q: Who do I contact for information or help?

A: Much information may be found online at girlscouts-swtx.org or call 210-349-2404 (toll free 800-580-7247).

Q: Who can be a Girl Scout volunteer?

A: Anyone over the age of 18 is welcome. GSSWT offers adult learning opportunities online and in a live class format to provide volunteers with a solid foundation for guiding the leadership development of girls.

Visit or Contact GSSWT

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Women in Residential Real Estate

Matchmaker, Matchmaker Find Me a House

Finding and Choosing a Residential Real Estate Agent

By Jenny Jurica

When deciding to sell a home or looking to purchase, finding a real estate agent is typically the first step in this emotional process. For many, the knee-jerk reaction is to reach out to the first person you know who is an agent. While this method might work for some, for many others, the process of finding a real estate agent requires a bit more due diligence.

Amber Thomas, President and CEO of Platinum Top 50, offers tips for finding and choosing the right residential real estate agent.

Here are Thomas’ suggestions for finding and choosing your next real estate agent:

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Trust Your Gut It is important to have a good working relationship with your real estate agent. “Sometimes you have to have straightforward conversations and trust your intuition to say, ‘I can see myself working with this person, and I trust them to work hard on my behalf, to communicate well and to advise me,’” said Thomas.

“The agent doesn’t make decisions. They guide the buyer or seller through the process,” she added.

Word of Mouth and Vetting “A positive review from someone close to you is a good indicator, but it shouldn’t be the only way to find an agent,” said Thomas.

Thomas reminds us how important it is to make sure that your agent is the right fit for you. She suggests interviewing a few and being thoughtful in your decision. Their experience, knowledge and expertise should also be considered as well as their reputation in the community.

Find a Niche Agent If you have a specific neighborhood that you are interested in or a special type of property, chances are that you can find an agent who specializes in just what you are looking for. Luxury Home Specialists, Military Relocation Specialists, agents who are “Green” certified, and even New Home Specialists can help you to find your dream home.

Understanding the client’s end goal, guiding them on the financing, advising them on the terms of the contract and, in this market, how to make their offer stand out, are just as important,” said Thomas.

“Platinum Top 50 is a network of top producing agents who are civic leaders, industry leaders, and have really great reputations,” she said.

Thomas reminds us that while most anyone can go online and look at listings, a real estate agent can help you to narrow your search.

“We’ve created this recognized network within the group. Through our website (www.pt50.com), you can go and search the criteria. There really isn’t a “Match.com” for people to find their agent, but that’s something that we’re trying to build.”

“Agents are there to guide and advise a client from start to finish. Finding the home is just one small part.

“You want to find an agent who will help you take it to the finish line,” added Thomas.

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Kathy Ripps Kuper Sotheby’s International Realty 4 Dominion Drive, Building 2 San Antonio, Texas 78257 + 1 210-240-4464 kathy.ripps@sothebysrealty.com https://kathyripps.kuperrealty.com

San Antonio Realtor Kathy Ripps has dedicated much of her life to giving compassionate, dedicated care to her clients. With a background as a professional counselor and years of experience in real estate investing and property management, Kathy made a natural transition to a real estate agent and luxury home specialist, offering dedication and understanding to every transaction.

With a Master’s in both Education and Counseling Psychology, Kathy spent 31 years working in the San Antonio school system, first as a special education teacher and then as a counselor for middle and high school students. This extensive background has given her a strong ability to understand and relate to others’ needs, allowing her to truly recognize the significant impact buying or selling a home can have on a person’s life.

Her people skills are coupled with a keen business and marketing sense, which she built through many years of helping her husband with his personal investment business. Kathy now enjoys helping others to navigate through the real estate process with ease.

Kathy dedicates herself to personal growth in both life and business and takes pride in being a part of all aspects of San Antonio’s diverse community. She is a member of numerous organizations, including the National Association of REALTORS, SA Cancer Council, National Association of Women Business Owners, and Platinum Top 50. She also strongly supports organizations and charities to include: SA2020, Impact SA, Kindness Daily, Platinum Top 50’s Toy Drive for Haven for Hope, her church, and scholarships through the High School Mentorship Program. Kathy fully supports the Arts in San Antonio, as well.

San Antonio’s growth and development inspire Kathy, and she hopes, as your Realtor, she can help you find that same inspiration. She conducts all business with integrity, honesty, and transparency.

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Leesa Harper Rispoli President, Broker/Owner

Coldwell Banker D’Ann Harper, REALTORS®

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18756 Stone Oak Parkway, Suite 102 San Antonio, TX 78258 210-483-7004 www.cbharper.com

Coldwell Banker D’Ann Harper, REALTORS® is a full-service brokerage. Our well-trained farm and ranch team specializes in hunting, equestrian, and cattle ranches. The Coldwell Banker Global Luxury program redefines the world of luxury real estate marketing. This is why Coldwell Banker has sold more million-dollar homes than any other brokerage. Our award-winning Relocation Department assists buyers and sellers moving throughout the world, helping to guide clients along the way. And our Property Management Department is dedicated to providing the highest quality professional services for single-family residential properties.

We know that innovation is a key ingredient in representing you during this important endeavor, and while we are confident that our “Powerhouse Marketing” program provides the most robust exposure available, we also believe that integrity and trust are critical in selecting the right partner. Trust begins with the Coldwell Banker brand. Founded in 1906, Coldwell Banker is the oldest and most established residential real estate franchise in North America.

Over the years, we have consistently received many awards, including Best Places to Work and Highest Ranked real estate brokerage by the San Antonio Business Journal and nationally ranked by RealTrends 500, a leading source of real estate analysis. We have received the coveted Coldwell Banker Chairman’s Circle award 35 years in a row.

Additionally, our President/Broker sits on The Realty Alliance Board (a network of North America’s elite real estate firms) and was recognized this year as the 2020 Broker of the Year by the San Antonio Board of REALTORS®.

We’ve won a lot of awards, but nothing is more important to us than the integrity and trust they represent. If you choose to partner with us, you can trust that your REALTOR® is current with the latest marketing trends, legal issues, and real estate expertise required to represent you.

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Women in Residential Real Estate

Leslie Reyes Idais

Ruth Storrie

ABR, GRI, MRP, REALTOR®

REALTOR®

4372 N. Loop 1604 West, Ste. 102

4372 N. Loop 1604 West, Ste. 102

San Antonio, Texas 78249

San Antonio, Texas 78249

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rstorrie@phyllisbrowning.com

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A proud San Antonio native, no other place has ever felt like home to Leslie Idais. Passionate about the culture offered by the Alamo City, Leslie now prides herself on remaining an expert within this real estate market. She proudly became an agent to create a fulfilling career guiding others on the journey of homeownership and currently serves on the San Antonio Board of REALTORS® Military Committee. Focused on continued learning and personal growth, Leslie’s colleagues and friends alike are quick to tout her trustworthiness and patience.

Sherry Braslau REALTOR® 6061 Broadway San Antonio, Texas 78209 O (210) 824-7878 C (210) 313-7256 sbraslau@phyllisbrowning.com www.phyllisbrowning.com Sherry has been surrounded by the real estate industry since childhood. Growing up in a real estate family fueled her passion for the industry, as well as a strong desire to help others realize their goals. As a longtime San Antonio resident, Sherry was the owner and founder of Paint Clay Café in Alamo Heights, the city’s first paint-your-own pottery studio. Sherry’s outstanding expertise, listening skills and patience are the traits her clients value most. After years of being a licensed agent, Sherry’s motto is still the same, “I don’t just sell homes, I help people’s dreams come true.” Sherry uses her communication studies to provide an unparalleled level of personal service in a business where clear and honest communication is key.

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Born into a family steeped in property sales and development throughout greater San Antonio, Ruth Storrie is committed to guiding clients through the complicated process of buying and selling real estate.

Experienced with investors as well as homeowners, Ruth’s background, knowledge and diligence assure that her clients achieve their goals. She is a board member of National Charity League, on the Diversity Committee for San Antonio Board of REALTORS® and a Girl Scouts volunteer.

Women in Residential Real Estate

Kristin Troilo REALTOR® 4372 N. Loop 1604 West, Ste. 102 San Antonio, Texas 78249 O (210) 550-0526 C (210) 408-2500 ktroilo@phyllisbrowning.com www.phyllisbrowning.com

Kristin Troilo was born and raised in the Alamo City, though her husband’s military career took her and their twins from coast to coast – Florida to Hawaii, plus locations in between. Along the way, they designed and built homes in Washington, DC. Kristin earned a BA in Exercise and Sport Science while playing on the soccer team at St. Mary’s University. She has been in real estate since 2008.

Brought up in the San Antonio Parade of Homes tradition since the 1980s, Kristin evolved naturally to building and selling homes with her husband. Her building experience translates flawlessly into valuable understanding and knowledge for her clientele. Kristin’s familiarity with integrity in construction and her passion for efficient design give her a confident hands-on approach that assures buyers and sellers alike that she will work at every level for their success. She also has an exceptional database of contractors for advice and opinions, so clients are comfortable evaluating their options.

Kristin believes in honesty and hard work, valuing the relationships she forges with people during business. A born negotiator, she enjoys the personal and often complex processes of real estate transactions. Happy to go above and beyond on behalf of her clients, Kristin will fight on their behalf. Her reputation, though, is built on a successful approach to negotiating contracts and creating enjoyable agreements by putting people at ease.

The relationships that Kristin has made within the real estate community here in San Antonio create more opportunities for her clients. She has an impressive national network of clientele, which speaks to her broad expertise on the industry. Locally, she consistently supports the San Antonio Food Bank and St. Mary’s Alumni.

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Rebekah Kelso Fernandez

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The Mosaic Group Keller Williams Realty 1102 E. Sonterra Blvd, Suite 106 San Antonio, TX. 78258 (512)-517-8659 rebekahkelso@kw.com Rebekah Kelso Fernandez is a platinum producing agent with The Mosaic Group at Keller Williams Legacy, where she works on a team with her husband, Art. Rebekah attributes their success to a wealth of experience and to great client relationships, which she says extend well beyond the real estate transaction. “When it comes to our clients, it’s not only about buying or selling. We seek to become life-long advisors and trusted resources for all things “home.” This dedication to service is why over 90% of their business comes from word-of-mouth referrals.

Rebekah serves on the Associate Leadership Council for her brokerage and was recognized in 2020 for her work on the St. Jude’s Dream Home Giveaway in San Antonio.

Maria Navarro

Broker Associate, CRS, GRI, ABR, MRP

Center Point Realty Company

6735 IH 10 West, suite 103 San Antonio, TX 78201 C (210)- 781-0651 O (210)-558-9899 navarroreo@gmail.com

Whether buying, selling, or investing in a home, Maria Navarro’s commitment to her clients remains the same: to provide them with excellent customer service while building relationships that last beyond closing. From working with bank-owned properties and hedge funds to working with builders, the experience has provided her with valuable skills that she uses daily in real estate negotiations, educating home buyers and sellers, and effectively marketing her listings. A BrokerAssociate, Ms. Navarro carries several designations to include CRS, GRI, ABR, and MRP and has been consistently recognized locally, statewide, and nationally in the prestigious NAHREP Top Latino Realtors, as well as other local awards.

Maria Navarro has earned the respect of her colleagues, along with an impressive base of buyers and sellers in the San Antonio, San Marcos, and Austin markets. Maria Navarro showcases her listings on her website and uses a team of professionals to assist her clients in their buying and selling needs.

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CORIE PROPERTIES Group

Partners with Compass to Continue Founder’s Legacy

CORIE PROPERTIES, founded by the late Corie Boldt, has joined Compass, a real estate technology company.

Corie Fuhrmann Boldt was known throughout her community as a high-energy power agent with an abundance of knowledge on the San Antonio real estate market, a penchant for giving back to the community she served, and a loving mother to Hunter and Samantha.

Corie passed away in August 2020.

Now led by her husband Fred Hutt, the brokerage will honor Corie’s legacy with the move to Compass.

“Through the strength of Corie’s spirit, we have chosen to carry on her legacy through a strategic partnership with Compass,” says Fred Hutt. “By joining Compass, we can empower our CORIE PROPERTIES family and continue to provide exceptional service to our clients in a way that I know would make Corie proud.”

CORIE PROPERTIES Group 4901 Broadway, Ste. 132 San Antonio, Texas 78209 O (210) 824-1115 www.corieproperties.com

Tracie S. Hasslocher

Licensed Real Estate Broker/Owner HASSLOCHER BOUTIQUE REAL ESTATE

8520 Crownhill Blvd.

San Antonio, TX 78209 O: 210-568-9595 C: 210-863-2629 tracie@09boutique.com hasslocherrealestate.com

Memberships: San Antonio Board of Realtors, Texas Realtors, National Association of Realtors.

Designations: Master’s Degree in Residential Real Estate Marketing & Broker Management, Bachelor of Arts - NC State U, Certified Luxury Home Marketing Specialist, Certified Residential Specialist, Certified Residential Probate Specialist, Graduate of Realtor Institute, Leadership Training Graduate

Tracie has been selling real estate in San Antonio since 2005 in Bexar, Comal, Atascosa and Medina counties. Her philosophy is to provide exceptional service, placing the needs of her clients first to achieve their desired goals by providing her professional advice based on her knowledge of the current market.

Real estate changes on a day to day basis and education is an important component of Tracie’s business. She is also involved at the San Antonio Board of Realtors and currently serves on the Board of Directors. Is Chair Elect 2021 and she will serve as Chair beginning 2022.

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Tiffany Long, AIA, ACHA, RID, EDAC, LEEDAP

Partner at Marmon Mok Architecture If you have been a visitor or a patient at a new hospital recently, you might have noticed a difference in the aesthetic of the buildings, both inside and out.

Gone are the cold, sterile-looking hospital rooms and waiting areas of the past, replaced with warm and cozy color palettes, comfortable furniture, and, in some cases, a decidedly spa-like feel at your local hospital.

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This change in the design of healthcare facilities is part of a growing movement to make hospitals and doctor’s offices more calming and comfortable. Research has shown that the aesthetic of the spaces aids in the recovery of the patient and reduces the overall stress levels of everyone who sets foot inside--from patients, visitors, and healthcare workers. Among those industry leaders focusing on the architecture and interior design of healthcare facilities is Tiffany Long, a partner at Marmon Mok Architecture.

wanting to learn more about healthcare architecture, and that leaves us wondering how we might design environments in the future that could benefit us in a similar situation.”

Long knew from the time she was a teenager that she wanted to study architecture. Born and raised in San Antonio, she drew inspiration from the architecture of the missions and other historic spaces in the city.

“[Prior to COVID] Design was trending to more open office environments, and now we’re rethinking that.

Everyone is guessing what things will be like going forward,” she added.

“It’s one of the things that inspired my interest in architecture...the history and culture surrounding the buildings and missions of San Antonio,” said Long.

Sometimes it is little “tweaks” in an environment that can add up to significant changes in the patient’s experience. For instance, Long recently worked on the design for a cancer center. In Long’s design, windows were strategically placed to provide positive distractions so that patients could see outside while they sat in the treatment room for hours at a time.

Long attended Texas A&M University, where she obtained a Bachelor of Environmental Design and then received her Master of Architecture, specializing in Healthcare Systems and Design.

“I took a lot of Psychology classes in college and enjoyed the science and research, but still loved architecture, so I found a way of blending both,” she recalled.

Long has been with Marmon Mok Architecture for 14 years, where her portfolio consists of developing the scope and compiling research for how to design hospitals and other healthcare facilities to reflect a sense of comfort and calm to patients and visitors.

In addition to receiving a recent promotion, Long is also a recipient of The San Antonio Business Journal’s “40 Under 40” award. Long is currently leading a project team on a 700,000 square foot facility for University Health System’s Women’s and Children’s Hospital, slated to open in 2023.

“Lots of our decisions for the project are based on research,” said Long. “Private NICU rooms are new for this region and really encourage ‘couplet care’ and mother-baby bonding. It shows measurable benefits for both mother and baby in terms of recovery and healing,” added Long. When asked how COVID has impacted her designs, Long is quick to respond.

“With COVID, there has been an influx of others

For instance, Long explained how mechanical engineers are making sure the airflow is filtered to the maximum extent in healthcare facilities. And now, clients in different market sectors have reached out to Long for advice on design in areas beyond healthcare work.

However, when Long went to the facility after it was completed, she noticed that the staff had inadvertently turned the treatment chairs to face away from the windows. Long suggested that the chairs be repositioned, and the whole vibe of the room quickly changed for the patients.

“Even when you don’t realize it, your surroundings play an important part in your perception and overall feeling of a place,” said Long.

Long attributes her professional success to a drive to always better herself by seeking additional education and credentials (Long is one of only a few local architects to receive the ACHA [American College of Healthcare Architects] recognition), as well as the people who have supported her throughout her career.

Long currently serves on the American Heart Association “Go Red for Women” Executive Committee and the Circle of Red Leadership Team, helping to advance funding for research, education, and advocacy for women’s healthcare and nutrition.

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Penny DiRago Senior Vice President - Investments What is the most important advice you are giving your clients about navigating the current COVID-19 financial crisis?

Stick with your plan. If you don’t have one, consider getting one.

In your mind, separate politics and COVID from your long-term investment plan.

What types of services do you provide for your clients?

First and foremost, nothing cookie-cutter. Our team (Joe, Bill, Kirk, Teresa, Katie, and Jimmy – who are all wonderful!), help our clients get where they want to be. We focus on estate planning strategies, multi-generational planning, and asset allocation.

What types of clients do you specialize in?

Individuals, families, and business owners.

What is your investment philosophy?

Stay diversified! That alone helps cure short-term upset.

How long have you been in business?

33 years.

What do you love about your job?

I get to wear many hats with my clients—confidant, friend, teacher, advisor. What a great business!

How am I different from other financial advisors?

Again, no cookie-cutter portfolios – with 33 years of experience and many market cycles under our belt, asset allocation and portfolios customized to our clients’ risk tolerance is the key. We like for our clients to have confidence.

How do you spend your free time away from the office?

I’ve been blessed with a beautiful family – husband Joe, daughters Sarah and Katy, son-in-law Dalton, and grandson Carter – they make my life complete!

I currently serve as Chairperson for the Advisory Board of the Salvation Army here in San Antonio. I’m also blessed to serve as President of the Board of Dare for More – a Women’s Ministry set up to help women and children escape from human trafficking around the world.

DiRago & Lee Financial Strategies Group of Wells Fargo Advisors 777 E. Sonterra Boulevard San Antonio, TX 78258 210-489-7671 home.wellsfargoadvisors.com/dirago-lee

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WOMEN ON THE MOVE

Linde Murphy Linde Murphy, managing director for Argent Retirement Plan Advisors, has been named one of the National Association of Plan Advisors (NAPA) 2020 Top Women Advisors in the Rising Stars category. She is one of two Texas-based advisors honored and the only one honored in the San Antonio area.

Ann Reeder After nearly 15 years at Spectrum Reach, Ann Reeder is pleased to join the teams at The PM Group and SA Yes as a Special Projects Manager. Reeder’s experience includes advertising and marketing, event planning and project management. Prior to working at Spectrum, Reeder spent nearly 20 years working in local news media.

She volunteers with several local organizations including the San Antonio Humane Society where she sits on the Board of Directors.

Irma Goodman, CPA Irma Goodman, CPA, brings over 20 years’ experience to the KFORD Group, working with publicly traded companies, public accounting firms, and as a controller for a real estate management company.

Skilled in problem analysis and innovation, she is passionate about working with closely-held businesses to achieve their goals through strong client relationships.

Margaret Wallace, CPA Margaret Wallace, CPA, focuses on tax compliance and planning to at the KFORD Group, with accuracy and attention to detail for individuals and their families, closely-held businesses, and nonprofit Private Foundations of various sectors. With over 25 years’ experience, she is committed to “creating compassionate client connections and providing data-driven solutions for financial confidence.

Beth Confer, MA, LPC Beth Confer has joined Esperanza Eating Disorders Center as Community Outreach Director. Beth is a Licensed Professional Counselor who has been a part of the San Antonio behavioral health community since 1989, both as a marketing representative for mental health agencies and as a clinician.

Congratulations to these amazing women making moves in their industries!

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FASHION

Fit for a Queen It wouldn’t be San Antonio without FIESTA! Flowers, floats, and fierce Fiesta queens capture the pulse of our vibrant city. Though we instantly picture iconic Fiesta fashion staples like beautifully embroidered blouses, bright flowers and long ribbons, these queens are so much more than just extravagant gowns & crowns. Each queen’s title holds longstanding historical significance, and represent the organizations that have helped make Fiesta what it is today!

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Calista Burns Miss Fiesta San Antonio As a Fiesta Queen, how do you give back to the community?

As Miss Fiesta, my community service project is with GEMS which stands for Girls in Engineering, Math, and Science. GEMS is a free all-girls program that hosts camps during the summer and clubs during the school year and teaches the students about STEAM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts, and Math). The GEMS mission statement is to inspire and empower young girls to be innovative with their future in the fields of STEAM. I am currently a Junior majoring in Education with a double minor in Math and Reading and I hope to be a math teacher and eventually teach math at the college level.

I hope that I can be a role model to young girls and lead by example for GEMS and for San Antonio, proving that females can enter the STEAM fields with no limitations.

What’s your usual wardrobe color palette?

My wardrobe color palette is a lot of blues and grays. I like to keep it simple for everyday outfits especially since I’ve been doing school online from home. In the summer I like to wear brighter colors like pinks and yellows!

Gabrielle Uribe La Reina de la Feria de las Flores Gabrielle is a San Antonio native that recently joined the team at Dell Technologies after earning a Bachelor of Arts in International Economics at Texas Christian University.

Her strong San Antonio roots prepared her for success in college and in her professional life. It is the appreciation of her upbringing and experiences throughout her education that emboldened her passion to give back to her community.

Gabrielle has been an active volunteer in organizations in the San Antonio area such as The Davidson Respite House, SNIPSA, and Women’s Global Connection.

Gabrielle’s reign as La Reina de la Feria de las Flores will be a culmination of positive influences throughout her life. Like most San Antonians, she was exposed to Fiesta at a young age and was enthralled by the idea of both celebrating and supporting her community. A graduate of Incarnate Word High School, Gabrielle witnessed first-hand the impact that joint community efforts have. Fiesta in many ways combines the concept of community togetherness and civic duty, instilled in Gabrielle by her family.

Gabrielle committed to raising funds for the LULAC Parent/ Child Scholarship Program, an extraordinary program that offers scholarships that support two generations of students.

She hopes that through this and future ventures throughout her life, she can make a difference in her community.

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Sophia Christiansen Fiesta Teenage Queen As a Fiesta Queen, how do you give back to the community?

I am involved with Respite Care of San Antonio, a Woman’s Club charity, which is a home for abused and neglected children. I help organize their annual Christmas party benefitting the children of Respite Care. I coordinate the gift wrapping to ensure each child has a special gift. I also created a Supply Drive receiving donations of books, toys, bikes, luggage and furniture for Respite Care. I serve as Senior Class President of Reagan High School and a Vice President of the National Honor Society where I am responsible for organizing volunteer events at Animal Care Services for NHS members. The Woman’s Club supports the Volunteer Service Council for the Texas State Hospital, Texas WINGS, and provides scholarships to students at San Antonio College. I am also a certified Water Safety Instructor. I truly am passionate about advocating for women in sports and educating children in water safety.

What’s your favorite Fiesta tradition?

The Woman’s Club Fiesta Flower Show- an official Fiesta event that is going on its 107th year. I have participated in the Flower Show every year since elementary school. This event showcases beautiful flowers, creative arrangements, and the gardening talents of the community.

Alexa Primera Charro Queen What’s your favorite Fiesta tradition?

My favorite tradition so far would be the opening Fiesta parade. The short walk around downtown is so fun because you can see everyone getting excited for the upcoming weeks.

I like to stay comfortable and in loose-fitting clothes. I love 90’s grunge fashion, so my go-to outfit is usually “dad jeans,” a shirt or tank top with an oversized cardigan and high-top converse. I also love rings. I feel like having your fingers filled with rings can make you feel powerful. It just looks so cool! I love wearing them and seeing others with them.

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How would you describe your personal style?

Rebekah Wynn Queen of Soul How did your Fiesta royalty position originate?

Photography by Nina Padilla

In 1969, Mr. Tom E. Turner organized the Queen of Soul.

He felt that all people should have full representation without any issues. This was not the case for his neighboring African American community, especially in April during Fiesta week. He recruited Ms. Gracie (Griffin) Poe to produce and direct the first pageant, which was hosted in the Penthouse room of Atkins Advertising.

Each year, more and more interested community leaders and organizations became a part of the support and leadership cadre. The very first Queen of Soul crowned was Miss Libby Barksdale (1969-1971). As the current Queen of Soul, one of my main goals is to empower young African Americans and all girls of color to find love and confidence in themselves. Encouraging them to identify and achieve their goals is key.

How would you describe your personal style?

My style is unique, just like my personality. I love to wear dresses and jumpsuits. When I go out, you’ll find me wearing a flowy maxi dress and some flats. I love to wear sun hats- the bigger, the better! When I dress up, I love to wear a long gown, something silky with a little bit of bling. Brighter colors compliment my skin beautifully, so I gravitate more towards them, especially reds.

Natalie Torresday Miss San Antonio As a Fiesta Queen, how do you give back to the community?

I believe it’s our social duty to take care of our community! Coming from a family of immigrants, having access to attend a university is the most beautiful gift my parents have gifted me. For those reasons I’m very dedicated to helping other students continue their education and founded my own scholarship foundation with Cafe College called, “Latinos Severing Latinos, Unidos Podemos.” I also love children and have organized a Santa Toy Drive and Valentine’s Cupcake event for the SA Children Shelter. I’m currently in the works of planning an Easter Egg Hunt Eggstravaganza so stay tuned!

What’s your favorite accessory?

Shoes! I loveeee wearing high heals! The click clack sound, the attitude, the femininity! Ahh Im obsessed! If I could go to the gym in heels I would!

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BEAUTY

Love the Skin You’re In For most, Winter weather means dry, dull skin. To keep up with changing seasons, routines, diets, and stress, it’s important to make sure your skincare routine stays updated! There’s not a one-size-fits-all solution for skincare woes. Luckily, there is a whole world of products and regimens out there to help you achieve that effortless glow!

This oil Instantly repairs and replenishes for a clear and calm complexion. Ultra smoothing with weightless wear, it tightens, lifts and firms, and boosts collagen production.

Lab to Beauty The Recovery Oil $85

A cutting-edge, firming, anti-wrinkle neck cream with shiitake extract and hydrolyzed collagen that helps reduce the appearance of vertical lines and sagginess.

Inhibit Retinol Neck Cream $215

A powerful serum that helps regenerate, hydrate and deeply nourish skin while reducing wrinkle depth. Its intense tightening action combined with extraordinary lifting effects helps fight sagginess and redefine your facial contour to reveal firm, radiant skin.

Natura Bisse Essential Shock Intense Complex Firming Serum $255

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Treat yourself to the best-selling Green Cure Mask.

It detoxifies, reduces inflammation, and smells amazing. Made with organic matcha, French green clay, lavender, and hemp-derived CBD, It is made for all skin types and is the perfect gift!

Lab to Beauty The Green Cure Mask $60

Revive tired, weary eyes with this Multi-Task Eye Serum Mask. Restoring a youthful look back into skin, the eye mask helps to firm the appearance of skin, brighten dark spots and discoloration, and calm sensitive, irritated complexions.

Erno Laszlo Multi-Task Eye Serum Mask (6 Pack) $42

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This deep- and fastpenetrating serum reduces the look of multiple signs of aging caused by the environmental assaults of modern life. Experience the next generation of Estee Lauder’s revolutionary formula— the most comprehensive Advanced Night Repair serum ever.

Estee Lauder Advanced Night Repair Synchronized MultiRecovery Complex $105

Wake up hydrated, restored, and refreshed thanks to a repairing mix of 24-hour Smart Hydrators. Prickly Pear Extract and Vitamin E work together to bind moisture to the skin while increasing firmness and elasticity. Erno Laszlo Hydrate and Nourish Hydra-Therapy Memory Sleep mask $108

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Erno Laszlo Transphuse Line Refining Cream $248

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An intensive night serum specially formulated to help visibly rejuvenate the appearance of skin around your eyes. octamioxyl-6 and retinol helps relax the appearance of facial lines and reveal smoother and plumper-looking skin.

Inhibit Retinol Eye Lift Serum $150

AT HOME

A Modern Sense of the Old World Homeowner Wende Lancaster mixes European antiques with contemporary accents in her elegant Terrell Hills home.

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With its clean white walls, square clerestory windows, and 25-foot barrel-vaulted ceiling, Wende Lancaster’s living room has the feel of the nave of a church A dark, centuries-old painting depicting the biblical story of Judith and Holofernes hangs over the carved stone fireplace mantle, rescued from a French chateau, and Lancaster’s collection of old metal crowns — Mexican and Italian in origin — rests on a shelf supported by a reclaimed classical column capital.

Elsewhere in her graceful Terrell Hills home, Lancaster has a small painting from the 1400s of a Madonna watching over the master bedroom, antique carved angel statues, a wall of retablos in the home office, and old-world gilt candlesticks dripping with melted beeswax.

But it would be wrong to pass off the 3,645-squarefoot, four-bedroom house, built in 2008, as a one-note pseudo-religious experience.

Svelte and stylish and blonde, Lancaster, 60, is a Tyler native, a ranchwoman with a discerning eye, a love for antique-collecting (especially Italian, Spanish, French, and Mexican from the 17th and 18th centuries), and, most importantly, a sense of fun.

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going, both finding them and living with them. They offer a sense of security and comfort and just … being at home.”

The church-vault living room also features a portrait of the homeowner against a bright pink background, painted with love by her ex-husband, Spanish artist and designer Fabian Lainez; a low-slung, L-shaped contemporary custom-built couch in sand-colored linen; a shiny black Yamaha grand piano; and an antelope trophy and taxidermied wild turkey in flight.

In the adjoining dining room, a large, vibrant painting of horses by contemporary San Antonio artist Bettie Ward dominates one wall, while the adjacent kitchen features stainless Miele and Fisher & Paykel appliances and an island topped with a slab of veined Calcacatta marble the size of a billiards table. The dining tabletop is a slab of sheet metal pattern-painted, and the dining chairs, so the story goes, were once owned by singer/songwriter Carly Simon, snapped up at auction.

“Wende has good vision when it comes to design,” said Lori Urbano, founder and owner of San Antonio’s Urbano Design and Build, which helped with a remodel and extension of the master bath suite before Lancaster moved in 2014. “And it’s fun to work with somebody like that. She offers an opportunity to really be creative and do things outside the box. But the design is all Wende.”

Left page: Left photo: With glass French doors looking out on a pool area, the living room features a custom linen-upholstered sofa, antique wingback chairs and a painting above the fireplace depicting the biblical story of Judith and Holofernes.

Right photo: A Flemish tapestry in an alcove depicts Alexander the Great and features lamps made from old candlesticks with custom shades of Fortuny fabric.

Right page: Top photo: A daybed is the perfect place to relax in the master suite’s sitting room, which features a Flemish tapestry from the 1800s and an armoire full of collectible candlesticks. The coffee tables are made from old column capitals.

Bottom photo: The master bathroom features an antique vanity, mirror and wall sconce.

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Not completely. Lancaster’s cohort in creativeness is local designer and antique dealer Sherrie Sanderson, who has accompanied her friend on many collecting excursions, whether at Round Top or fairs in the South of France.

“We both like to mix the old and the new because it’s just more interesting to, say, pair an 18th-century European piece with a contemporary painting. You try to achieve a balance. We both enjoy taking old architectural elements and making something new out of them. Wende has a beautiful sense of style in her home and in the way she dresses. She’s edgy yet loves beautiful old things with a warm patina. She has soul, and her house reflects that.”

Often, antique collectors can go overboard; visiting their homes is akin to dropping by a junk shop. But there is a seamlessness to Lancaster’s design choices that makes her home captivating rather than claustrophobic.

Sightlines are clear. Although there is something to marvel at in every room — from a monumental Belgian tapestry depicting Alexander the Great to a collection of antique apothecary jars in a glass-doored kitchen cabinet — there’s a sense of organization rather than confusion. It’s not going too far to say that Lancaster is a collecting addict with a sense of economy.

“I’ve loved antiques since I was young. I’m a collector, and the house represents 20 years of collecting,” she said. “I’ll go in any antique store and even a junk shop and look at any little thing.”

“I’ve loved antiques since I was young.

I’m a collector.”

She likes to mix things up, enjoys the juxtaposition of, say, upholstering her headboard with a swath of an 18th-century tapestry, or transforming antique fourfoot candlesticks into lamps with shades covered in rich Fortuny fabrics. Throughout the house, hand-knotted Oushak rugs from Turkey cover what seems to be acres of once-dark wood floors that were stripped and whitewashed and distressed.

“I guess my best advice is don’t do too much,” Lancaster said. “Whatever you do, do not clutter. And, if you find beautiful things that you love, you will never get tired of them.”

A small 15th-century Madonna painting watches over the master suite bed, which has a headboard covered in old tapestry fabric.

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AT HOME EXTRA

Freshening Your Interiors for Spring

By Courtney Balsam

Spring is here, and since we have been at home more over this past year, we could all use a little change of scenery.

Sprucing up our homes and creating rooms that exude hope and happiness are a top priority. Simple solutions to create inspiring spaces are adding light fixtures, cabinet hardware, wallpaper, window treatments, art, and accessories. Each of these components should work together to enhance the overall feeling and design of your space.

Lighting Decorative chandeliers and lamps not only add an additional layer of lighting but also provide a new layer of style. Known as ambient lighting, decorative light fixtures can elevate the mood and drama of a room. These decorative elements also add height to a space, bringing your eye up to achieve interest at different levels.

Pro Tip: Make sure the hardware coordinates with other design elements of the space such as plumbing and lighting fixtures.

Art Art helps elevate the eye in a space. It can balance heavy pieces such as large sofas or consoles. Art can also reinforce a color scheme to keep your eye moving around the room. Wall decor such as metal sculptures or baskets are nice to add height and texture in a space that may not support an actual art piece.

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Small art pieces can help fill bookshelves or

Pro tip: Pay close attention to scale and proportion when

side tables.

Wallcoverings Wallpaper can add depth and dimension to a room.

Common rooms where wallcoverings can provide a big impact are Bathrooms, Dining, and Laundry Rooms. These areas typically don’t have soft goods such as upholstery and fabrics that add pattern & texture. Wallcoverings in these spaces provide an additional element of design.

Accessories Accessories are the key to making a room look magazineworthy. Creating vignettes of unique items that speak to your personality and lifestyle is essential to creating a finished look. Colorful books in various sizes can add height and weight to an otherwise simple accessory. Pairs or small groupings of items keep things interesting and the eye moving.

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selecting fixtures.

Don’t forget about the fifth wall…the ceiling!

Window Treatments Fabric drapery panels or shades can add height and softness. This luxe layer can put the finishing touch on any space to make it feel complete.

Pro Tip: Window Treatments don’t have to impede your

view. You can add stationary panels to give the illusion of fully functioning curtains. This cuts down on fabric while still framing your windows.

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Hardware Cabinet Hardware is like jewelry for your cabinetry. Recent trends have shown larger hardware used as statement pieces.

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Greenery is a neutral. Plants, flowers, or other natural elements are always a great addition to a space.

Courtney Balsam received her degree in Interior Design from Baylor University. She is a registered Interior Designer in the state of Texas and has been practicing residential design for 16 years. www.balsaminteriordesign.com Office: (210) 816-7052 @BalsamInteriorDesign

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Jana Ward Interiors Jana Ward, owner of Jana Ward Interiors (JWI), has been making homes beautiful in San Antonio since 1998. Her award-winning designs have been featured in magazines and on television. Jana has been a featured guest on the San Antonio Living Show over the past 15 years, where she discusses design trends and construction tips.

Jana Ward Interiors has a beautiful retail showroom showcasing furniture pieces and accessories. JWI also has an online store, www.janawardinteriors.com, with over 3,000 furniture pieces, accessories, lamps, mirrors, and more.

Jana not only owns JWI, but she also owns a full-service remodeling company, Clear Choice Remodeling, which has won over 35 Summit awards from the Greater San Antonio Builders Association for the best remodeled projects in San Antonio, including Grand Remodeler of the Year in 2017 & 2018.

Creating amazing spaces is Jana’s specialty. “We have been creating home offices and children’s work-stations lately, since many families are working and studying from home.

“I love helping my clients design and build the kitchens, bathrooms, or home offices of their dreams,” says Jana. “It gives me such joy to see the happy smile on their face as they see the finished product.”

Jana can work with any style, whether traditional, transitional, contemporary, or completely out of the box. But she believes that regardless of your style, functionality must be first and foremost. Her work can be seen on Houzz.com, Facebook and Angie’s List as well as her websites, janawardinteriors.com and clearchoicesa.com.

Jana has been a resident in San Antonio for over 20 years. She loves the area, the people, and the diverse culture. “San Antonio has so much to offer, and I love that it is multi-cultural, and everyone gets along so well.” Jana lives with her husband, Jim, and their two dogs Sparky and Susie. She enjoys tennis, biking, travel, a good book, and serving at her church.

JANA WARD INTERIORS 111 W. Rhapsody San Antonio, Texas 78216 (210) 524-1013

CLEAR CHOICE REMODELING 5139 N. Loop 1604 W. San Antonio, Texas, 78249 (210) 377-0259

www.clearchoicesa.com www.janawardinteriors.com

Sanderson Antiques & Designs Sherrie Sanderson What is your favorite design project?

A clean palette from the ground up. Having to use your great grand-mother’s sofa when you desire a new fresh modern home can be limiting.We upholster it with a punchy, colorful fabric to give it new life!

How do you help clients find their decorating style?

By getting to know them, how they live, and what they want their home to reflect. Most of my clients are confident, warmhearted, expressive, and open to new ideas.

They’re not shy.

The house should reflect the family that lives in it. Usually, I find it can be filled with interesting treasures from their travels. Textiles can be brought to new life in headboards and statement pieces. Colorful pillows can enhance a sofa or can be tucked into a comfy chair.

Using a splash of antiques creates warmth. The richness of a room can seduce, or the simplicity can calm you.

How would you define your design style?

I love beautiful textiles and fabrics.

I incorporate them in all my homes. I love to create unique, one of kind objects out of 17th and 18th-century elements.I love homes that have a bit of whimsy but are sophisticated.

There is not one particular style I’m drawn to, I have found myself loving clean, simple lines.

Balance and symmetry play a certain role. A home should bring you to a place of comfort and refuge. The objects should enchant and delight you when you walk in.

Decorating shows - love them or leave them?

I’m proud of the people----they have enhanced their careers and have done an amazing job with their clients. However, it’s not my thing.

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JM Design Group & Stone Masters Jenny Maples How much should I budget for a design project and how much time should I plan to complete the project?

There is no design fee if clients hire my team to do their remodeling/construction project. Generally, we complete our design portion of a project within 3 weeks and construction timelines vary based on the size of the project.

How has your design process changed with pandemic?

Other than everyone on our team wearing masks and respecting a safe distance we have been able to do our business ‘‘as usual.’’ We do share design ideas via email and photos more now.

What do you feel is a priority for clients when planning a design project?

Clients want to feel we have paid attention to their design ideas/tastes to ensure the end result reflects those.

What trends are you looking forward to? What trends are you happy to say goodbye to?

I have enjoyed seeing more neutral walls and floors with amazing ‘‘Pops’’ of color, particularly ‘‘Green’’!

I am not going to miss the color ‘‘Gray’’ or ‘‘Grey’’!

Decorating shows - love them or leave them?

Love them!!

What makes JM Design Group different from other Design Firms?

We are truly a ‘‘One Stop Shop’’...all designs, selections are made here at our Studio along with countertop fabrication (Quartz and Natural Stone- Hence the saw in shop) and any remodeling/construction that a client needs.

Why would someone hire a Design Firm to do Construction?

Every project begins and ends happily with great Design! Our in-house construction team is more efficient with direct communication and project management. Details are never missed!

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Red Couch Interiors Darla Harmon What’s your favorite type of design project?

I love a fresh beginning that comes with a new build but also love the challenge with a remodel.

How do you help clients find their decorating style?

Magazines and Pinterest! Clients mark everything they like. I see a pattern, and that’s their style!

How much should I budget for a design project, and how much time should I plan to complete the project?

Budgets will vary from project to project and client to client. I often help the client come up with a budget. The same goes for a time frame; it varies.

What do you feel is a priority for clients when planning a design project?

The planning stage is where all ideas are created. By the end of this stage, the client should have an excellent understanding of the design/style so that there are little to no changes. Changes cause more time and money.

What trends are you looking forward to?

What trends are you happy to say goodbye to?

“Grandmillenial: a spin on grandma’s house with a modern twist.” Goodbye, everything white, hello color!

How would you define your design style?

I lean more traditional, cozy, homey but love mid-century.

Decorating shows - love them or leave them?

Love them for inspiration, leave them for false expectations. TV really is magic.

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MOMMY MATTERS

Life After High School Is There a Different Route to Success?

By Jeannie Dimaline

During my many years as a high school counselor and in my new role as Churchill’s College, Career, Military, Readiness Specialist (a new position at each NEISD high school), I have seen multiple changes in opportunities for seniors’ future successes. Attending a four-year university after high school may not be for everyone. Students have many more choices!

The different path to travel…

Students can choose their own unique path. Parents often want to choose for them, but based on my experiences, when a parent forces a student to attend a particular college, the results do not always turn out the way the parent expected. So, when I am discussing post-high school options, I like to offer a variety of choices for students to make their own decisions about their future. My questions to students are, “What will make you happy? What do you see yourself doing in 5, 10 years from now?” Most seniors really do not know the answer!

I tell them that it is their own choice and encourage them to dig deep into their heart and think about what they enjoy and what they are good at. Their answers to these questions might take them outside the traditional route.

Here are just a few options students can pursue beyond going directly to a four-year university: Technical/Trade school professions are just as important as professional jobs that require a four-year degree.

Learning on the job can be very valuable for students.

The “hands-on” approach can be more meaningful than reading a textbook. These types of schools offer specific vocational training that can lead to lucrative salaries.

Industry certifications such as dental hygienists, radiology techs, plumbers, electricians, and automotive technicians typically require two years or less training. Avoiding college tuition can lead to saving thousands of dollars that might have been spent on a student attending a fouryear university.

Gap Year: What is it? Students may want to take a year off before heading to college to explore other interests.

Maybe your kiddo is not ready for college right after high school and needs a break from the classroom setting.

Some students may want to travel, volunteer, or maybe work for a year to save money to help pay for college.

Did someone say, “Get a job?” Moving right into the workforce is an option. Having a job will help with the financial obligations of eventually attending a four-year university if that’s what the student wants (room and board, lab fees, tuition, supplies, books). Working can also provide many valuable lessons for life. Learning to pay attention to a first-time bank account or even set an alarm clock to wake up on time can be just as important as classroom learning. The value of empathy, learning to work with people, and treating customers and others with dignity and respect are critical to success in any career.

In some instances, businesses even offer scholarships to help their employees with tuition or books.

Serving in the Military… Joining the military after high school, with various branches to choose from, can offer many benefits to students. While serving our country, students can earn a salary, receive paid college tuition from the GI Bill, have room and board, train for future career paths, and qualify for retirement after 20 years of service.

More than ever, counselors have been working hard to guide students throughout their high school years. These past several months, Covid-19 has added additional stress to students (and parents). With all the challenges of career choices, educators and counselors have learned that we are partners in listening to students’ needs. For some students, a four-year college education is the right choice. For others, it may be a path different from the traditional one. Understanding that it is perfectly okay to walk that different path is what is important!

Jeannie Dimaline was born and raised in northern Indiana, attended high school in Edinburg, TX, and graduated from the University of Texas, San Antonio with a Bachelor’s of Art Undergraduate Degree and Masters of Arts Graduate Degree. She and her husband, AJ, have two boys, Joseph (25) and Jonathan (22). Jeannie has been a counselor with NEISD at Winston Churchill High School since 2003 and is currently serving as WC’s College, Career, Military Readiness Specialist 2020-21. She can be reached at Jdimal@neisd.net.

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Mindfulness Matters

By Martha Livingston, PhD, LPC

In the technology-saturated world that we live in, it can be easy to let our minds run a million miles a minute, from thinking about all of the things that need to be done to stressing about things that have happened, and then anxiety sets in. The practice of mindfulness sounds simple; it’s the ability to be fully present and attuned to where we are in that exact moment. It can be increasingly difficult to be mindful when we have busy schedules, work deadlines, overwhelming thoughts, and the unknowns that have arrived with COVID. Incorporating mindfulness into daily life is easier than most people imagine. It can be done in a wide range of ways; it could be as simple as a couple of brief minutes or a full meditation session. There are so many ways to practice.

Some of those include: - Go for a walk

- Notice your breathing, take slow, controlled breaths - Listen to a favorite song – notice how it makes you feel - Stretch your muscles – which muscles are feeling tense?

- Download a mindfulness app - Set your intention for the day Many mindfulness practices are completely free and can be done anywhere at any time! It is something I practice daily and incorporate with my clients on a regular basis. That’s one of the things I love most about this practice; mindfulness is not a special added change, this is an ability that we all have, and it does not require anyone to change their beliefs or who they are. It is so universal.

Give it a try! Take 5 minutes to practice mindfulness each day and notice how it makes you feel!

GIVING BACK

The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society Woman of the Year Candidate

Lisa Pinto Vice President of Public Relations & Corporate Communications for SWBC

Hi! My name is Lisa Pinto. I’m the Vice President of Public Relations & Corporate Communications for SWBC – an international financial services company headquartered in San Antonio. I’m also a candidate for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society’s (LLS) 2021 Man and Woman of the Year. As you can imagine, I stay pretty busy in my role, as I’m also active in our great community. But, when I was nominated for this honor, I didn’t have to put a lot of thought into my decision – I have two “whys” that make this competition one that I’m ready to take on.

My Grandma (on my mom’s side) and my Aunt (on my dad’s side) – are the two reasons, among others, why I have decided to partake in this endeavor. My Aunt is currently fighting multiple myeloma. She has to drive to Dallas for treatment and recently underwent a stem-cell transplant. The doctors say she has a very good chance of heading into remission. What’s ironic – when I told her I was taking on this challenge, in part for her – she said that LLS gave her a grant of $11,000 last year, which helped cover her deductibles. They also gave her a prescription card so that anything related to the disease is covered. (My Aunt is a retired teacher, so every single bit helps.) When she told me all of this, I literally got chills, and it just reinforced my decision to accept the challenge. My grandma has a blood disorder that was caught before it turned to Leukemia. She sees a hematologist who monitors her numbers and keeps them in check with different medications. She turned 95 in February, and she is doing well except for the fact that she misses seeing her family and friends.

The Mission of LLS: Cure Leukemia, lymphoma, Hodgkin’s disease, and myeloma, and improve the quality of life of patients and their families. LLS is at the forefront of the fight to cure cancer. So how can you help? I would love for you to donate to my campaign (https://pages.lls.org/mwoy/stx/sat21/lpinto). It kicks off on April 1 and runs through June 10. If you, your family, and/or friends have not been affected by blood cancer, count yourself lucky. Donate today to help find a cure. I’d be eternally grateful.

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NONPROFIT SPOTLIGHT Nonprofits are the heartbeat of our community.

Behind each organization is a dedicated team driven by a unique mission to provide a necessary service to our city. In fact, San Antonio is home to over 12,000 registered nonprofit organizations that employ almost 68,000 San Antonians each year (San Antonio Nonprofit Economic Impact Study, 2020). What are these organizations and whom do they serve? Who are their employees and what work do they do? Nonprofit Spotlight will shed light on a local organization, a member of their team, and a peek behind the curtain to understand what it takes to serve our community.

Kim Abernethy, ChildSafe President & CEO In the Spotlight:

ChildSafe What is your role at your organization and what does it entail?

As President and CEO of ChildSafe, it is my responsibility and privilege to lead and guide board and staff members to ensure every child who walks through our doors is treated with dignity and respect and receives the most advanced care possible during what is likely the most traumatic time of their lives. Our new Harvey E. Najim Children & Family Center is a model for other nonprofits to understand how informed design can inspire healing. The beautiful campus is a trauma-informed setting that says to all who enter—clients, partners, staff members, and the community at large—”you are welcome, you are safe, and you are special.” The new campus is a sanctuary for children, their families, and the professionals who care for and protect them, dramatically impacting a child’s ability to heal.

Describe your organization’s mission in your own words.

To provide care and services

directly to children and adolescents traumatized by sexual abuse, severe physical abuse, neglect, or exploitation and heal from the abuse they have suffered at the hands of an adult. As the only Children’s Advocacy in Bexar County, we coordinate efforts of child protection staff, law enforcement professionals, family advocates, medical experts, and mental health clinicians for children and adolescents traumatized by abuse.

What is a common misconception about your organization or the mission you serve?

Many people think ChildSafe provides housing for overnight treatment of clients, but that is not the case. All of our services, starting with forensic interviews, family support and case management, counseling, outdoor behavioral healthcare, and referrals to vital community services, are provided on-site during extended hours of the week. A large percent of the children and families we serve have never been in the child welfare system.

What does $100 support when giving to your organization?

A donation of $100 can allow us to provide coping kits for eight children, or two clinical therapy sessions for one child, or bus passes for four families coming to receive services at ChildSafe. For every $1 donated to ChildSafe, 88¢ goes directly towards client services.

What is an upcoming way to get involved at ChildSafe?

April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month. We recognize it by conducting our annual Cardboard Kids campaign to heighten awareness about child abuse in our community. This year we will have several drive-thru locations, including Olmos Basin Park, Roosevelt Park, UTSA, and ChildSafe. It is an excellent way for individuals, families, organizations, and businesses to get involved and learn more about this pressing issue facing Bexar County.

People can learn more about the campaign by visiting

www.childsafe-sa.org/CardboardKids/.

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HILL COUNTRY DESTINATIONS

A Trip to The Wayback The tranquility of the Texas Hill Country is minutes from town but miles from ordinary.

Carly Summers & Jenna McElroy

When traveling from San Antonio to Austin, I always take the scenic route to enjoy the Spring wildflowers, clear Texas streams, and small towns. Sure, it might take you a little longer, but it is well worth the trip!

From San Antonio, head straight to Wimberley; this small artist community is a must stop for a one-hour stretch and stroll. Reserve a patio table at The Leaning Pear to enjoy Hill Country cuisine and river views. It might sound old school, but you have to try the meatloaf and mashed potatoes! After lunch, head straight to Jacobs Well, a small but beautifully blue watering hole just minutes out of town. There is a short hike into the park, so make sure you bring some walking shoes. You can choose to spend all day by the water or simply stop in to view the beautiful site.

After cooling off at Jacobs Well, head back down the road to Dripping Springs - the up-and-coming Texas wine country. At my favorite spot, Hawks Shadow Winery, you can enjoy a nice glass of organic Estate red wine on the patio with unobstructed views of the Hill Country. I might be biased but ask for my brother, Sam Bell, upon arrival. Not only does he make the wine, but he also serves it to guests and is quite the entertainer. Fun fact - you can schedule a barrel tasting which includes a journey down to the cellar, built into the Texas Limestone that has natural cooling abilities.

After your tour, head up the hill to check out the horses and donkeys on the property!

Next stop, Texas Olive Oil Ranch, to pick up some organic olive oil! Stroll through the olive vineyards to the back of the property to visit the chickens and enjoy an olive oil tasting. If you need an afternoon snack, they have a small gift shop serving charcuterie and cheese boards.

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guests when they check-in. This boutique hotel offers eight private cottages surrounded by wildflowers and nature. The interiors include plush beds with luxury organic linens, custom art, and curated vintage pieces.

If available, check into Cottage 8. This cottage is perfect for both quick romantic getaways and extended stays.

Curl up on the sofa in front of the gas-burning fireplace before visiting the onsite café to enjoy a farm-totable meal and craft cocktail. After dinner, sit fireside and enjoy stargazing from the back lawn. If you have family in town, you do not have to stay onsite to enjoy a glass of Texas wine or a meal inside the café! Our recommendation is to stay two nights so you can enjoy chicken and waffles for brunch and sit poolside under the Texas sun enjoying your relaxing getaway!

15-miles from downtown Austin, The Wayback Café and Cottages opened its doors in the Winter of 2018.

Mother-daughter dynamic duo Vicki Bly and Sydney Sue, envisioned a place to take in a breath of fresh air outside of the bustling city - a place to stay awhile. On three acres of land overlooking the Texas Hill Country’s rolling hills are eight cottages available for nightly rental. The café is open Wednesday-Sunday serving farm-to-table meals for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

Their bar serves craft cocktails, organic wine, and a full coffee bar. And yes, there is a drive-thru coffee hut providing espresso drinks and food-to-go for those beating the morning traffic. The Wayback is ready to house guests any time of year, opening their saltwater pool and cocktail cabana in the Spring and Summer or making s’mores by the stone fire pit during the Fall and Winter. To learn more, visitwww.waybackaustin.com or follow along on Instagram or Facebook.

The Wayback Cafe and Cottages 9601 Bee Cave Road Austin, Texas 78733​

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Austin

On your way to visit our favorite places:

The Leaning Pear The “New Pear” is a celebration of the rustic character of its original site, blended with a clean, fresh, environmentally sensitive design concept. Truly a testament to the eclectic spirit of its hometown, The Leaning Pear is Wimberley’s destination spot for unique, well-crafted, delicious food in an idyllic hill-country setting.

Wimberly, Texas www.theleaningpear.com

Uchi Translated from the Japanese word “house,” the original Uchi is located in a refurbished South Austin bungalow. Award-winning Chef Tyson Cole’s signature non-traditional take on Japanese food has delighted Austin’s diverse dining crowd as well as visitors from across the country and around the world since 2003.

Austin, texas www.uchiaustin.com

HILL COUNTRY EATS

Loro Head to Austin and enjoy this Asian smokehouse fusion eatery and bar with a menu featuring grilled and smoked meats, sides, craft beer and batch cocktails. You can order food at the bar and sit in the warm and expansive indoor space or outside on the porch shaded by a canopy of hundred-year-old oak trees!

Austin, Texas www.loroeats.com

Hawk’s Shadow Winery With sweeping views of Texas Hill County, Hawk’s Shadow Winery & Vineyards offers a relaxing escape from the working world and an authentic taste of handcrafted Texas wine. We welcome picnics on the patio and dinners in the Cellar. Four legged friends are welcome to join us as well!

Drippings Springs, Texas www.hawksshadow.com

DINING

Landrace Keeper of the Flame

By Janis Turk

Chef Steven McHugh is not cool.

Or so he says.

As we tour his new River Walk restaurant, Landrace, the likable local celebrity chef mentions in passing that he was never one of the cool kids in school.

But how could anyone uncool have two of the most popular restaurants in town?

Landrace, which debuted in February at downtown’s new Thompson Hotel across from the Tobin Center, and McHugh’s game-changing gastropub, Cured at Pearl, are both smoking hot.

At the burning heart of Landrace, an eight-foot-long, gleaming, dragon-like, custom Infierno X100 grill hisses, smokes, sizzles, and roars with ferocious, fiery leaping tongues. Its industrial chain-and-gear wheel lift lowers and raises meat above blood-orange embers.

Dine at the counter and stare into its Dante-esqe soul.

Grills like this belong in Buenos Aires, but they’re not what foodies expect to find along the River Walk.

Still, in spite of this wood-fire wonder, Landrace is neither a Texas barbecue joint nor an old-school steakhouse.

“It’s almost an anti-steakhouse,” says McHugh. No pretense, no fuss; it’s urban, young, modern, and decidedly cool. Mostly, it’s Texan.

“I like the term ‘Texas terroir,’” says Chef McHugh, “The focus is on place: food from the Texas earth, including ‘landrace’ ingredients found elsewhere that, when brought to a new region, thrive, and evolve, becoming even more dynamic.” Landrace and terroir are terms often

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associated with animals, crops, and grape varietals that adapt well to a new place—just like McHugh.

“Ever since my wife Sylvia and I moved to San Antonio, life got better. Texas really resonates within us,” says McHugh.

Raised on a Wisconsin dairy farm, McHugh attended culinary school in New York’s Hudson Valley, cooked in New Orlean’s finest kitchens, opened restaurant Lüke in San Antonio in 2010, won a hard battle with non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma, and in 2013 opened Cured at Pearl, which still fires on the front burner of his heart.

McHugh also hosts the Cured for a Cure benefit, SA’s annual culinary apex.

If that’s not cool enough, McHugh has been nominated five times for a James Beard Award.

Eventually, all roads led to Landrace.

At first glance, the Landrace menu may read a tad sophisticated. But break it down, and it’s simply local staples: steaks from South Texas cattle, quail from Bandera, Gulf seafood, ranch-style pork chops, Hopi corn hushpuppies, Texas black rice, wines from Lubbock grapes, and greens from local gardens. Although his focus leans local, if the freshest trout is found in Idaho’s Rocky Mountain streams, McHugh has it flown in.

The basics are all here, like a dynamite chicken club sandwich, a Wagyu beef burger, and alluring desserts.

Still, McHugh twists the traditional, making his French dip with mushrooms, and serving carrot cake with prickly pear icing and butterscotch made in-house from singlemalt Scotch.

“ San Antonio’s coolest new hot spot simply sizzles” Good luck saving room for dessert, especially after enjoying a tender lamb loin or a thick NY strip. Landrace’s Riverace trout will probably become my go-to order, or the vegetarian lasagna, layering béchamel sauce, sautéed onions, squash, slow-cooked greens, and herbed handmade pasta.

Out front, cages stand stacked with mesquite and oak.

Inside, a spacious modern mid-century dining room, with monochromatic colors, warm wood-grain tables, butterysoft leather banquettes, and shimmering touches of brass are juxtaposed against a rough chopped woodpile and showstopper grill.

Motown and R&B music drops in like a low note below high-style horseshoe-shaped booths and swank 50s-era light fixtures. Like in an old Irish pub, a hunter green leather banquette lines bar walls, while a Mad Men-style bar cart wheels about the dining room, offering Old Fashioned cocktails mixed tableside. With a chill patio overlooking the river and a curtained wine room, Landrace feels easy, like a weekend.

Perfect for dining pre-show at the Tobin Center and The Majestic theatre, Landrace is the quintessential New Texas eatery, open for breakfast, lunch, happy hour, and a downtown dinner.

Landrace’s “Walking A” logo, like an old-school cattle brand, is but one of the handsome Texas touches that Landrace gets so right, making it all seem effortlessly cool—just like its chef.

Chef McHugh is pleased to introduce to the Landrace kitchen chef de cuisine Taylor Martin-Funk and sous chef Blake Matney, both having also cooked with him at Cured.

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SA EATS

Our favorites:

The Hayden I was blown away the first time I experienced The Hayden. The most incredible, attentive, and knowledgeable staff that helped me make up my indecisive mind! Every sip and bite was delicious. This Jewish-deli-meets-South-Texas-Diner is filled with greenery and hospitality inside and out!

4025 Broadway www.thehaydensa.com

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The Good Kind South Town I love the newest location of The Good Kind! It takes what’s good and makes it even better. The Good Kind Southtown offers breakfast, a quick lunch spot, and a leisurely dinner. Eat in a green oasis tucked away from the hustle of the city. Great sunday afternoon spot!

1127 S St Mary’s St www.eatgoodkind.com

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El Mirasol Our family has enjoyed El Mirasol for many years now, and we still can’t get enough! Great Mexican food (and the best chips & salsa) paired with top-notch service and an atmosphere you’ll want to spend all evening in. Their newest location on 1604 has an outdoor patio that backs up to the Sonterra golf course. It’s so fun to see families and couples park their golf carts right outside the patio for lunch or dinner! My order? Jalapeño Chispas with a chili-salt rim, and Tacos Norteños.

10003 NW Military Hwy ste 2107 938 North Loop 1604 W. www.elmirasolsa.com

IDA CLAIRE Enjoy these beautiful spring weekend days and sit in the big garden an enjoy their most delicious hearty, southerninspired dishes made with locally sourced produce. The supper bell is ringing! Don’t forget to order one of their delicious cocktails!

7300 Jones Maltsberger Rd. www.ida-claire.com

ART BEAT

Lana Meador Assistant Curator, San Antonio Museum of Art interpretation, acquisition of new artworks, special exhibitions, educational programs, and more, museums can offer new perspectives on art, life, and our shared histories. In this historic moment, when longstanding racial and socio-economic inequities have been magnified by the pandemic, there is great potential for museums to be sites of social awareness and change. It is ongoing work to expand the diversity of voices in our galleries, programs, and staff, but that work is vital.

What project are you currently working on?

What do you love about your job?

I am continually learning. Whether it be researching an artwork, talking with a colleague, or visiting an artist’s studio, working at an art museum offers endless opportunities to discover and engage with new ideas.

While my focus is on contemporary art, by working at an encyclopedic museum, I can make connections across cultures and time periods represented in our permanent collection, which I find incredibly rewarding.

The exciting part of working with contemporary art and artists is that it’s global and constantly changing.

Why are museums important?

Museums like SAMA that house permanent collections have the important responsibility of preserving art and material culture for future generations. This is no small feat to care for 30,000 objects spanning 5,000 years of history from cultures all over the world! Beyond this role as a repository, museums have an expanded position and duty to engage with our communities and foster ongoing dialogues. Through research and 94

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I am working on an installation of recent photography acquisitions that will be on view later this spring.

The museum’s photography collection has grown exponentially over the past several years through generous gifts of art and strategic acquisitions. I am excited to share works that will be on view for the first time by Christina Fernandez, LaToya Ruby Frazier, Leonard Freed, Earlie Hudnall Jr., and Danny Lyon.

These photographers span different generations and backgrounds, but their images are united by an insightful awareness of everyday life in America, especially the experiences of marginalized communities.

These powerful works are visually rich but also socially conscious. I am very interested in society’s relationship to photography. It is the one artistic medium that we all utilize in our daily lives. I hope visitors will make connections between the works and their own surroundings, as well as each other.

Do you have any advice for people who want to learn more about art?

If there is a silver lining to the pandemic, it is the wealth of resources that are now available online. Last spring, museums had to pivot quickly to transition our programming to virtual platforms. There are countless artist conversations, lectures, and tours that are now available to peruse from the comfort of your home presented by arts organizations across the globe. SAMA has regular offerings that you can tune in to live or view later on our website and YouTube channel. My best piece of advice for learning about art is to get out there and see as much as you can. Many art spaces in town are open and taking all the necessary pandemic precautions, if you are comfortable visiting in person. I am eagerly awaiting the day when we can all visit these places together and more freely!

ENTERTAINMENT

BRICK at BlueStar Open Studio

McNay Exhibition: Limitless!

Visit the McNay’s newest exhibition, Limitless! Five Women Reshape Contemporary Art, presented

by Bank of America. The new exhibition offers trailblazing installations in diverse mediums by female artists Martine Gutierrez, Letitia Huckaby, Yayoi Kusama, Sandy Skoglund, and Jennifer Steinkamp. From floor-to-ceiling art and video installations to a fan-favorite Infinity Mirror Room, this multigenerational and multicultural group of artists demonstrates boundless creativity and serves as inspiration to their contemporaries and future generations. The exhibition is on view at the McNay from March 4 to September 19, 2021.

Every Tuesday from 5:00-9:00pm, BRICK’s studio space is open for artists to create, collaborate, and hydrate- cheers!

Valero Texas Open

The Valero Texas Open Is Back For Fans To Enjoy! Hosted at TPC San Antonio’s The Oaks course from March 29 - April 4, 2021. Tickets on sale March 1st.

Outdoor Movie Festival

The Good Kind Southtown, in collaboration with Slab Cinema will host a socially distant outdoor movie Food Film Festival that will take place every Wednesday in The Good Kind’s garden lounge This outdoor movie series will celebrate cinematography with foodie friendly elements. Since March is Women’s History Month, the first half of the series focuses on women chefs. This is doubly appropriate as The Good Kind owner, Tim McDiarmid, is one of San Antonio’s top female chefs. The series kicks off on Wednesday, March 3rd with a showing of Babette’s Feast.

The Briscoe’s Night of Artists

The largest Western art auction in Texas and one of the largest in the world, Night of Artists includes the viewing and sale of nearly 300 new works of painting, sculpture and mixed media by 80 of the country’s leading contemporary Western artists. To celebrate the 20th anniversary of the Night of Artists, the Briscoe will welcome a virtual audience, as well as host the event in-person for the first-ever hybrid Night of Artists event.

March 27, 2021 Celebration and Auction. March 28 – May 9, 2021 Public Exhibition and Sale.

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WEDDING

Love is in the air...

Bride & Groom Savannah Mitchell, Shane Hessling Photographer

Aubrey Caye (@aubrey_caye @allisonjeffersassociates) Venue Chandelier of Gruene Venue (@chandelierofgruenevenue) Planner Debra Reece Events (@debrareeceevents) Rentals Merveille Events (@merveilleevents) Donut Cake Shipleys Donuts (@shipleysdonuts) DJ Power Sounds DJ (@powersoundsdj) Hair and Makeup Lisa Johnson & Genevieve Contreras (@knotandveil) Catering Pappasitos Dress Olivia Grace Bridal (@oliviagracebridal) Bar Bartenders4You (@bartenders4you) Florist Katherine Hood (@merveilleevents)

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Mr. & Mrs. Hessling What was the most memorable moment from your wedding day?

The most memorable moment from the wedding was Shane and I’s last dance. It was such a sweet moment that we got to have with just each other.

What was the most stressful part of your wedding day?

To be honest, I was not very stressed on my wedding day. If anything was going wrong on the wedding day, I never knew or heard about it because Debra took care of it. Debra did a wonderful job of helping me plan and execute the wedding I have always wanted, and she did this in a pandemic. I am unbelievably thankful that I had such a wonderful wedding planner during what should have been the most stressful time to plan and have a wedding.

The main stressor was COVID issues before the wedding. For example, our original hair and makeup team cancelled due to COVID. Luckily, they referred me to Knot and Veil in which I had a wonderful experience as they were able to get me in for a trial on such short notice, and were just extremely talented in what they do and fun to work with. I cannot stress enough how wonderful my vendors were, especially my photographer, Aubrey Caye. She made taking pictures enjoyable and was one of my favorite people to work with.

What are/were your Honeymoon plans?

We have not been able to go on our honeymoon due to COVID. Our original plan was to go to Cancun, however, now we are unsure what we are going to do. We are looking forward to figuring that out soon!

We’ve been thinking about Disney World!

If you had to do it all again, would you change any part of your wedding?

If I had to do it all over again, I would want the people that were unable to attend due to COVID restriction to be able to celebrate with us. It was difficult for us that we did not get to share this special day with all of our loved ones. Other than that, it truly was a magical day!

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FINAL THOUGHTS

Painting by:

Andrea Almond “Up Close”, Oil, 24” x 24” About the Artist: Andrea Almond is a landscape painter with a BFA from the University of North Texas. She has studied under notable artists: Ken Auster, Peggy Knoll Roberts, Kim English, and Calvin Liang. Andrea is a native Texan, born in Fort Worth, and currently lives and works in San Antonio.

With 2020 travel restrictions limiting the artist’s freedom to travel and paint beautiful cities around the world, her focus turned to the world class city she calls home. “I am drawn to the river,” says Andrea, “Living near the river gives me many opportunities to study its light and colors. It is all so peaceful.”

Photo of painting courtesy of

The Felder Gallery

2516 N. Main Ave. San Antonio, Texas 78212

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