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Sr. Mary Rinaldi’s Letter Dear Friends, The “Year of St. Joseph” proclaimed by Pope Francis has begun, and it’s no secret that the Salesian Sisters have a special and fervent devotion to the Foster Father of Our Lord.

We’ll be highlighting St. Joseph in Partners in Giving throughout the year.

The statue on our cover of St. Joseph cradling the sleeping baby Jesus holds special significance for me.

Twice in my journey as a Salesian Sister, when starting a new assignment, I had a special friend waiting for me. The first time was in 1970 when I arrived at Camp Auxilium in Newton, NJ, and saw this statue.

It had pride of place and was reverenced by campers and staff alike, with many stories told of graces received through St. Joseph’s intercession.

Fast forward to 1989, and my new assignment as the first-ever Director of Development for our Province.

As I stepped into my new “office” – a Mary Help of Christians Academy space that was a backstage area, temporary chapel, and finally a classroom – there on a table was the same statue! I was so thrilled that, there and then, I promised a votive candle would be lit each day in St. Joseph’s honor in gratitude for what was to be, as I embarked on a quest for friends and funds!

Through the years Joseph’s name and his power have been well known to staff in our Development Office.

Prayer requests received by phone, letter, or e-mail are placed beside the statue or under the mirrored tray. Countless prayers have been answered!

Joseph’s statue is no longer shiny and new, but touched and worn (especially his burnished face and hands) by 31 years of candles. I estimate that to be about 11,315 votive lights – and, many many blessings!

Peace,

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Please pray to St. Joseph

hroughout 2021, the “Year of St. Joseph” marking the 150th Anniversary of the declaration of St. Joseph as the Patron of the Universal Church, please join the Salesian Sisters in praying the following every day: O Good and Holy St. Joseph, husband of the Blessed Virgin Mary, foster-father of Jesus, and patron of the Universal Church, we beseech you to hear our humble petitions.

9 As the guardian of Mary and Jesus who trusted in God’s plan, we seek your intercession to protect the Church from all evils.

9 As a loving spouse to Mary, we ask you to teach us purity of heart.

9 As a nurturing foster-father to the child Jesus, we implore you for a greater respect towards all human life.

9 And when our earthly life nears its end, we pray that, like you, we may have a happy death and welcomed by Jesus and Mary into the eternal joy of Heaven.

9 O Saint Joseph, our guide and patron, pray for us. Amen.

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Dear Friends: A message from Sister Joanne

The Year of St. Joseph is here

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ur Holy Father, Pope Francis, gave us a great gift when, on December 8, 2020, he announced that 2021 would be the Year of St. Joseph. This announcement brought great joy to the Salesian Sisters since in our Institute, each province or region is dedicated to a particular Saint, and we are the Province of St. Joseph.

father unknowingly emulated some of the attributes of St. Joseph. My brother and I were not worried about the car and, in fact, my father made it adventurous. Can you imagine St. Joseph taking care of Mary and Jesus at His birth, and how he protected and provided for them as they took refuge in Egypt? Then, once they returned to Nazareth, he did the same thing – protecting and providing for his loved ones.

Pope Francis wrote an Apostolic Letter, Patris Corde (“With a Father’s Heart”), in which he describes the During this year we will have a chance to reflect on the qualities that St. Joseph lived out as the guardian person of St. Joseph and how he intercedes for us in of Jesus and Mary. Joseph, not afraid to be in the our many needs if we indeed “go to Joseph” (Genesis background, was honored with and faithful to his 41:55). Our Holy Father is granting the “gift of special responsibility to protect, serve, and support his family. indulgences” for those who celebrate the feasts of St. In the letter our Holy Father describes seven attributes Joseph and keep Wednesdays and of St. Joseph: a beloved Father; a tender the 19th of each month special (see and loving Father; an obedient Father; “During this year www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/ an accepting Father; a courageous Father; a working Father; and a Father reflect on the person fifteen-ways-to-gain-an-indulgencein-the-year-of-st-joseph-81304). in the shadows.

of St. Joseph and how he intercedes for us in our many needs if we ‘go to Joseph.’”

As I read Patris Corde (see http://bit. ly/patriscorde19) I could not help but think of my own father. I remember one particular time in which my Dad, in his own unassuming way, protected my brother and me when we got stranded on the road. I was about nine years old and we were going to visit my grandmother. It was winter, so it was cold and there was snow on the ground. When we got to the tollbooth on the Atlantic City Expressway, my father gave my brother and I each a coin so we could throw it in the basket (in the days before E-Z Pass).

As we were driving along, my father’s Buick decided to overheat and we needed to pull over. Dad didn’t make a big deal of it. First he told us, “We don’t have any heat until I get the car running, so I want you to think warm thoughts.” This was Dad’s calm way to tell us he didn’t want to hear us complaining since “it is what it is”!

After waiting for the car to cool off he gathered some snow and painstakingly put it in the radiator with his bare hands. Within the hour we were cruising down the expressway to Nanny’s and of course were treated with hot chocolate and cookies on arrival.

As we begin this New Year and prepare for the season of Lent, it would benefit us to increase our devotion to St. Joseph. He will certainly guide and protect us as he did with the Holy Family. As our spiritual father, he will intercede for us and all of our many intentions for the world, our country, and our families, as he leads us closer to his family of Jesus and Mary. Our Holy Father ended his letter with this prayer to St. Joseph: Hail, Guardian of the Redeemer, Spouse of the Blessed Virgin Mary. To you God entrusted His only Son; in you Mary placed her trust; with you Christ became Man. Blessed Joseph, to us, too, show yourself a father and guide us in the path of life. Obtain for us grace, mercy, and courage, and defend us from every evil. Amen.

As I daily pray to St. Joseph I will keep you and your loved ones in mind! Have a blessed New Year and a fruitful Lenten Season.

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– Sr. Joanne Holloman, FMA, is the Superior of the Province of St. Joseph Partners in Giving • Winter 2021 • 3

A Salesian Sister Act for more than 75 years

Meet the Di Peri’s: Rosalie and Domenica

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hen it comes to biological sisters who both became Salesian Sisters, our Province of St. Joseph has seen a few pairs over its 113-year history. For example, many will recall the Carini sisters, Sr. Lydia and Sr. Josephine, both of whom served as Provincial Superiors. And the Winterscheidt’s, Sr. Mary and Sr. Pat; the Ossi’s, Sr. Ida and Sr. Rena; and the Dunn’s, Sr. Regina and Sr. Marie.

The eldest reigning “Salesian Sister Act” are the Di Peri’s, Sr. Rosalie, 97, and Sr. Domenica, 95. Sr. Domenica will be celebrating her 75th anniversary as a Salesian Sister this year, and Sr. Rosalie her 76th. The Salesians have been at part of their lives from the very beginning. “As blood sisters, we grew up at Mary Help before it was even ‘Mary Help’ as we know it today,” Sr. Domenica recalls. “My mother died when I was four, so my father brought Rosalie and me to the convent and we grew up among the Salesian Sisters.”

The Di Peri girls regularly saw their father, who lived nearby, but living with the Sisters enabled their father to work and not worry about the safety and care of his young daughters. The Salesian Sisters became a vital

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Rosalie on her Confirmation day, with Domenica and their Aunt Carmela.

part of their family. The girls weathered World War II with the Sisters while attending the newly-opened Mary Help of Christians Academy.

“The Sisters had a hard time getting the all food we needed, whether it was the bread, fruit, butter or whatever, but they somehow managed to provide,” Sr. Domenica says. “It was very difficult for everyone.”

It wasn’t long before both girls discerned their vocation. “As the years went by, I inevitably had to think of my future life,” Sr. Rosalie remembers. “I thought of my Dad. I was his favorite and it must have been difficult for him to give me his permission. He said, ‘Remember, if you ever want to come home, I’ll be there.’” Meanwhile, Sr. Domenica made up her mind in her freshman year.

“The Provincial at the time, Mother Tulia, told me to wait until I was a senior,” she says. “This gave Rosalie a chance to enter before me on January 31, 1942. I entered on September 12, 1943, and graduated from Mary Help the following spring as part of the first graduating class of 1944.”

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Sr. Domenica and Sr. Rosalie with their father, Leonard (center) and brother Sam.

One of the most endearing things about the Di Peri sisters is how they have supported one another throughout the years. Although long-distance phone calls were rare, they did call one another whenever they could during the 20+ years “Rosie” was living on the western side of the country, while “Mamie” was on the eastern side. Sr. Domenica remembers a moment that makes her smile, even today. “When I was “We still love our in Miami and she was in Salesian life with San Francisco, I called my sister and told her I all its surprises needed a scarf. She said, and blessings.” ‘In Miami?!’ But I knew that in February I would be going to Washington, DC for something and I’d need a scarf, so she crocheted a beautiful white one for me. I still wear it to this day.”

Sr. Domenica and Sr. Rosalie share the long scarf that Sr. Rosalie and Sr. Domenica have a long list of accomSr. Rosalie knitted for her sister, many years ago. plishments throughout their lives as Salesian Sisters. world,” she says. “They value the fact that you write to Sr. Domenica still gets letters from the students she had them and know they are in your prayers, and we need when she was the first-grade teacher for 18 years at the their prayers, too! Rosie and I pray for all of our Adopt12th Street School in New York City. Sr. Rosalie served ers every single day. We enjoy getting to know them the young as teacher, camp directress, and principal in five states. She is forever answering letters and cards from either through letters or calls.” her many friends and Adopters, among them those who Both radiate the joy and fulfillment of a near-lifetime treasured their time at Camp Auxilium. Sr. Domenica as Salesian Sisters. “The ‘yes’ given to God’s call opened works as her “assistant secretary” and regularly visits Sixth-grade zebras, a wide and beautiful horizon of apostolates, places, her sister, who lives just down the hill at the ProvincialElissa and Arianna, and Sisters that we could never have imagHouse, as short walk from Sr. Domenica’s home at Maryare onfriends, the move! ined, ” Sr. Rosalie says. “We have loved and still love our Help, where they both began their Salesian life.

Salesian life with all its myriad surprises and blessings.

Mary has always been our sure help and continues to be Very proud of her Adopters and those of Sr. Rosalie, the guiding star of our lives.”

Sr. Domenica loves being a part of the Adopt-a-Sister program. “It lets you meet people who are not only in – Sr. Brittany Harrison, FMA the same state as you, but from all over the country and Visit us online! www.salesiansisters.org

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Now more than ever

Please Adopt a Sister!

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specially in these uncertain times, please consider joining our friends of all faiths who have experienced the transforming power of prayer and loving friendship with a Salesian Sister, every day of the year, through our Adopt a Sister Program.

Sr. Catherine Novo at the St. Joseph Provincial Center in Haledon, NJ.

Whether the Adopted Sister is for yourself, a family member, or a friend in need of spiritual strength, you will find comfort knowing that your intentions will be remembered each day by your spiritual prayer partner. And it makes the PERFECT gift, especially for a wedding, First Holy Communion, Confirmation, birthday, anniversary – and Easter!

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CVV: _____________

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Please come for “lunch” on March 19

Join the virtual Adopt a Sister celebration!

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he annual Adopt a Sister Luncheon on the Villa Madonna Campus in Tampa, FL, has been a favorite event for the past five years, a chance for Adopters to gather with the Salesian Sisters and introduce family and friends to the program.

Due to the pandemic, this year’s celebration will be a virtual one on, fittingly, St. Joseph’s Day: Friday, March 19, from 12 Noon to 1 p.m. We invite everyone to fix their lunch, gather around their computer screen, and log on to salesiansisters.home.qtego.net.

Our “luncheon” is a great opportunity to introduce friends and family members to the Adopt a Sister program, at no obligation.

Today, the Salesian Sisters’ hearts are full of love for their extended family. They pray every day for their Adopters’ needs and requests, and are delighted to hear from them. Close bonds between Adopters and Sisters are formed, making it truly one big family.

A suggested donation of $160 enrolls you or someone you love in the Adopt a Sister program for one year. Your gift helps provide for the Sisters’ retirement needs. In gratitude for your faith and friendship, your “adopted” Sister will pray for you daily. Adoptees receive a photo and biography of their Sister and a “Certificate of Adoption.”

Please visit salesiansisters.home.qtego.net to register for the March 19 event. A credit card is required for registration, but will not be charged unless you decide to Adopt a Sister or make a donation. For more information, please call Theresa Anderson: (813) 2053195 or e-mail tandersondev@hotmail.com.

BACK IN THE DAY

The virtual show will feature glimpses of Sisters who have served in Florida, and a short synopsis of how the program’s growth has blossomed over the years, including the 1999 feature on ABC’s 20/20, which overnight generated 7,000 calls to the Development Office! Our celebration is dedicated to the memory of Sr. Rosemary Cordes, who served in Tampa for many

years and was beloved by young and old.

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In 1921 the Salesian Sisters acquired the Muhs Estate in Haledon, NJ, for their growing ministry. Here the Sisters gather outside the “White House” where can be seen the first statues of Mary of Help of Christians and St. Joseph that stood guard over the property.

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On the Journey with Sister B

Learning from “giants” how to define success

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ow do you define success? When I was a child, success equaled popularity and was something I failed at horribly. I was never popular as a child, so I thought I was not successful.

The standards for success by which I measured myself were where you sat in the cafeteria, who picked you in gym, and getting the most Valentines on St. Valentine’s Day. These seem as irrelevant things to me as an adult, but as a child, situations such as these defined my happiness.

As a young adult, success was getting into the best university, with the most scholarship money possible. I had all of the best letters of recommendation and had networked my way into a good program, but then God had other plans.

Following my vocation as a Salesian Sister meant letting go of what my idea of success meant. I had fought long and hard for the ability to achieve higher education, and dropping my nets, like St. Peter when Jesus called him, didn’t seem very attractive. But I could not deny how my heart ached to follow Jesus’ call.

My idea of success has changed over time, as I am sure yours has, too. As part of maturing and adding life experience to aspirations, our concept of what makes a successful life changes from popularity in the lunch room to the legacy a life has left at its passing.

Since I live at the Provincial House in Haledon, NJ, it is my privilege to be with the so-called “retired” Sisters of the Province, who actually never stop working. Although they may be out of the classroom, they spend their time praying, talking to people who need encouragement and prayers, and writing to Adopters and friends.

Some are still teaching religious education in their eighties! When one of them passes away, like Sr. Grace, “Success is the stories of their true legacy pours out, and it’s always humbling to discover that seen in lives the Sister who scrubbed dishes every day transformed, was also the foundress of a school, or a one at a time.” great nurse, or an amazing missionary.

Eventually, I let go of my security and success and jumped into Jesus’ boat, instead of driving my own, by my own standards.

In this issue, you read the stories of many successful people. From Sr. Rosalie and Sr. Domenica who transformed thousands and thousands of lives throughout their 75+ years of ministry each as Salesian Sisters, to the Jordan siblings whom I was blessed to accompany for a few years. I am especially familiar with the difficulties faced by Elizabeth and Clare Jordan as they chased their dreams as nursing students. As often I’d text them back, “You can do this.

I am so proud of you,” I would echo the same thing to myself as I tried something new at the request of my

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Sisters, liked editing Partners in Giving or learning how to create a video with a new effect.

I am very aware that I live among giants, women who may not have a lush 401k to show off or a vacation home in Florida, but whose success is seen in the lives they’ve transformed, one relationship at a time. Theirs is the kind of success I now aspire to, the one Jesus defines by kindness, generosity, mercy and love; the kind of success I see when I look from the Bethlehem crib to the Jerusalem cross and know that God’s idea of success can be very different from my own.

It’s the kind of success I wish for all of us.

– Sr. Brittany Harrison, FMA, is the Social Media Coordinator for the Province and Editorial Manager of Partners in Giving.

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he Salesian Sisters Partners Circle was founded in 1991 to provide unrestricted funds for urgent needs of the Salesian Sisters and their mission.

These include support for capital needs, scholarship assistance, technology upgrades, and funds for those unforeseen situations that require immediate attention (such as the current COVID-19 pandemic). Your annual contribution to this fund empowers the Sisters to continue their mission: To Provide Financial Assistance and Volunteer Services to the Salesian Sisters and to the Young People in their Care for the Advancement of Education, Vocations, and Community Life.

The fire which destroyed the Chapel at Mary Help of Christians Academy in May 2018 underscored the vital importance of the Partners Circle Fund, enabling the Sisters to respond quickly in an emergency.

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There are nine levels of membership, starting at $250, which are listed on these three pages. PC denotes a member of the Partners Circle National Board of Trustees, a group of talented lay people who advise the Sisters on distribution of the fund. Won’t you consider joining this dynamic group as we celebrate our 30th anniversary?

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Sr. Livia Setti joins the Sisters in prayer in the chapel of the St. Joseph Provincial Center.

Please “Give Us This Day”!

An exchange of love

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s there a better gift than a day of prayer? Do you have a happy occasion you would like to share? The Salesian Sisters will celebrate with you. Is it a time to commemorate a less-than-happy occasion? Let the Sisters help. Have you someone to thank? All of us will multiply this gratitude to that special person.

So, please “Give Us This Day”!

Any and every event or person or situation that merits special attention will be publicized on a bulletin board outside our chapel on your special day. All the Sisters, on that day, will pray for that person/event and for the person who requests prayers for the day. In turn, your donation will support the Sisters’ endowment fund.

Our Lord has assured us, “Where two or three are gathered in My Name, I am among them.” What better assurance can we have? Let this exchange of prayer be an example of our concern and love for one another.

Thank you, and God bless you.

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On the farm with Sr. Janet Keller

Seeking the greater good – even among pigs!

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f you frequented the 4-H and Future Farmers of America circles of Louisiana in the early 1990s, you may have encountered the future Sr. Janet Keller, showing her family’s prize pigs. Our magazine, Partners in Giving, is abbreviated as “P.I.G.” among those who work on it, so we thought it might be fun to include here some of the lessons Sr. Janet – now at Villa Madonna School in Tampa, FL – gained in her early life showing and raising pigs.

What kinds of animals were on the family farm?

We had pigs, dogs, chickens, cows and horses, but pigs were our main stock.

Among the pigs, my favorite were called the Blue Butt, a mix of Hampshire and Yorkshire breeds.

They are so cute – light-colored with blue markings on their backside.

Sr. Janet with a prize pig in 1993 (above) and at Villa Madonna School today.

Are pigs easy to train?

You definitely have to spend time with pigs, otherwise they don’t know you and trust you. I used to go out to their pen with a box of vanilla wafers, one of their favorite treats. I’d eat one and give the pigs one, and then eat another, and give them another. By spending time with them like this and being around their pen, they became comfortable with me and I was able to train them for shows.

Did you ever win at any of the shows you attended?

Yes! I got many ribbons and did get Grand Champion one time, which came with a belt buckle. I was proud of that baby – it had a pig on it!

Is it intimidating showing pigs at these big events?

When I first start starting showing, which I began in fourth grade and went until senior year of high school, a pig got loose and ran right between my legs Visit us online! www.salesiansisters.org

and I got stuck on top of it, facing backwards. The pig was running around the pen; it was squealing, I was screaming and I had to be saved. At the time I was so embarrassed, but now I look back on it being a really funny memory. Showing pigs got easier after that!

How do you think growing up on a farm prepared you for life as a Salesian Sister?

There’s no way I could run a farm on my own, which taught me how important it is to work together as a family and community. When you are united in a common goal, whether it’s having champion pigs or running a quality school, you can accomplish it if you do it together.

Growing up with lots of kinds of animals helped me to learn patience and perseverance in getting to know their temperaments and how best to work with each one, because everyone is different.

This translates into the classroom and playground, as each child is unique with their own personality and needs.

Farm work is hard, but fun, and being a Salesian Sister is somewhat similar. We work hard as Sisters, but together we get so much done. We have fun together and share a lot of beautiful moments, because we do what we do together, just like my family used to do on the farm.

I never thought God would call me from the pig farm to the convent, but here I am. Everything that happened in my life before becoming a Sister prepared me for what I do now, in one way or another. I think that is true for all of us in our vocations, whether we are married, or single, or a Sister, priest, or brother.

God uses every experience for a greater good and our growth – even pigs!

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Partners Circle founder

A Love That Lasts Forever

Michael Massood, 96

You can honor a cherished relative or friend with an everlasting gift of love – a memorial.

Our Partners in Giving Memorials & Tributes give you the opportunity to comfort those who have lost a loved one or to commemorate a special occasion.

This gift lives forever, joining our loved ones to the prayers of the Salesian Sisters while supporting their good works.

The name of your loved one will appear in our Partners in Giving magazine – a priceless gift to those you love.

Give the gift that lasts forever.

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he Salesian Sisters mourn the passing of Michael Massood, Sr., on December 2, 2020. Michael, a founding member of the Partners Circle and a longtime friend, was 96.

Born in 1924 in Paterson, NJ, Michael was the oldest of ten children in his family, who emigrated from Aleppo, Syria.

A self-educated man, he worked for his father’s business, Lou Massood & Sons, delivering fruit in the 1940s. In 1952, after serving in the Army Air Force and having attained the rank of Corporal with a specialty as an Airplane Engine Mechanic, Michael co-founded MGM Transport Corp., with his brother George. MGM Transport would grow to be one of the largest furniture carriers in the U.S. In 2015, Michael was inducted into the American Home Furnishings Hall of Fame, honoring his legacy of hard work, reliability, integrity and innovation.

“Michael was present thirty years ago in 1991 for the founding of the Partners Circle,” recalls Sr. Mary Rinaldi. “Over the years the Salesian Sisters relied on his expert advice and incredible generosity. He was a gentle giant of a man, and will be much missed. Our thoughts and prayers go to Michael’s extended family, especially his children, Elias, Michael Jr., Edward, Mary, and Bernadette.”

Tributes Received between December 1, 2020 & January 31, 2021

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Michele Crivella Ms. Elizabeth D. Niemeyer

Mile Mannoia, 90th Birthday Mr. & Mrs. Raimund Skrabitz St. John Bosco Ms. Anne Marie Torcicollo

Lucian Niemeyer Ms. Elizabeth D. Neimeyer

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Memorials Received between December 1, 2020 & January 31, 2021 Sr. Rosemary Cordes, FMA Mr. John Graban The Anderson Family Sr. Grace Ruiz, FMA Ms. Elizabeth Bogert Jane Licata Dr. Jane Licata Roseann Mosseau Felix Rendina The Anderson Family Dr. Joe McAleer Michael Massood Ms. Eileen Palazzone Ms. Diane Palazzone Ms. Marie Palazzone Columbia Bank Ms. Mary Jean Hayek Mr. & Mrs. Brian Fuhro Mr. & Mrs. Mark Mazza Mainardi Management Company Severna Operations, Inc Mr. & Mrs. J. Kenneth Pagano

Mr. & Mrs. Paul Van Ostenbridge Mr. & Mrs. George Mammola Mr. & Mrs. Henry Kuiken Mrs. Susan Mingione Mr. & Mrs. Ron Nahas Ms. Julia Massood Maryrose Schall Sarah Queipo Christina & David McAleer Salesian Sisters Partners Circle Board

Lois Farley Mr. & Mrs. Joseph Boccassini Ms. Sheila Calello

Ben Konopacki Mr. & Mrs. Kenneth H. Indy

Brian Baker Mr. & Mrs. Mark Chernalis

Michael Gallagher, II Mrs. Cathy Danial

Camille D’Amato Kornutick Ms. Carol Kasper

James Millar Mr. & Mrs. William R. Little Mr. & Mrs. David A. Lane

Alma A. Curcio Ms. Maria Franzone Dorothy Bagli Mrs. Frances Bagli Helen Baker Mr. Phillip T. Zeilinger Gilbert Menendez Mrs. Darlene Menendez Hon. & Mrs. E.J. Salcines

Florence O’Donnell Ms. Carol Kasper Dorothy Jane Steele Ms. Penny Smith Glen F. Hurley Mr. & Mrs. John Donovan Andrew Rodriguez Mr. & Mrs. Kevin Lane Mrs. Rosemarie Saunders Mr. & Mrs. Joseph Scillieri

Connie Paolone Dr. & Mrs. James C. Cumella Thomas Zambito Mr. & Mrs. Rene Rodriguez Jonathan Vitaletti Ms. Doris V. Loverich

John Lieselotte Mr. & Mrs. Jeffrey Quinn

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he COVID-19 pandemic has caused housing, health, safety, and financial issues for many families around the globe, often displacing those in difficult situations.

The Salesian Sisters in Canada have worked closely with their domestic and international volunteer service organization called “VIDES” – “Volunteers in Development, Education, & Solidarity” – to meet some of those needs.

Beginning in March 2020, the Sisters in Etobicoke, Ontario, received a refugee family from Eritrea, Africa (with a warm airport welcome, right). The family of seven was adopted by VIDES and the Salesian Sisters, who committed themselves to provide housing, practical education, and support for one year, as the family is settled into their new country. VIDES and the Salesian Sisters are also assisting a young immigrant from Haiti as she begins an online nursing program in Quebec, and continue to address other needs as they arise.

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Have you heard of the “Mothers of Lu”?

When people pray, vocations will follow

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ave you heard of the “Mothers of Lu”? In the mid-1800s, a group of mothers in the village of Lu Monferrato, Italy, would gather regularly to pray for priestly vocations to come from their own families. Well, during those 65 years when the mothers met, more than 300 priestly and religious vocations sprang forth from among their children!

Equally impressive is that this prayer group bore 30 Salesian vocations from Lu. These include Blessed Fr. Philip Rinaldi (third successor to St. John Bosco), Fr. Peter Rinaldi (pastor of Corpus Christi Parish and founder of the National Shrine of the Holy Shroud, both in Port Chester, NY), and Sr. Mary Rinaldi (our Development Director since 1989).

clarification, the Vocation Director is readily available by phone, e-mail, or video call.

Back to the Mothers of Lu. When mothers pray, Jesus listens. Fast forward to 2019 to the Parents of Rochester, NY. Inspired by the story of the Mothers of Lu told at a diocesan family picnic, mothers as well as fathers decided to “pick up” where Lu left off and began a virtual village of praying for vocations to come from their own families. And it has done more than that.

A 1946 vocations reunion held in Lu Monferrato, Italy, brought together 323 Priests and Sisters.

The power of prayer. The power of openness to God’s call for your child. The power of surrender.

For most young men and women who feel a tug in their heart to a religious vocation, parental objection is a formidable obstacle (student debt is the other major hurdle). It’s natural and not unusual for parents to feel conflicted when they hear that their son or daughter is considering a religious vocation. After all, their vocation was to the married life, joys and challenges included!

I always encourage young women who are discerning their vocation to listen – to God speaking in their heart, to Jesus in the Word, Adoration, and the Sacraments – and also to their parents. I encourage the young woman to ask her parent(s), whenever possible, sooner rather than later, about their concerns, worries, and fears about her entering religious life. Confusion and misunderstandings about what it means for “my daughter to be a (Salesian) Sister” can be cleared up by simply talking and listening to one another.

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“In essence, we are not only praying for our children’s vocations, but also are praying for the healing of our communities through Adoration and love of the Eucharist,” says one mother. “It helps us as parents to focus on making our homes more Christ-centered.”

When mothers and fathers open their hearts to God’s call for each child in their own home, priestly and religious vocations are indeed born. But be not afraid: no one can become a Sister or priest because the mother or father desires it. It is God’s call, and requires the young person’s response.

– Sr. Theresa Lee, Vocation Director Think God may be calling you to be a Salesian Sister or know someone who may be? Please contact Sr. Theresa Lee: happynun@gmail.com or visit salesiansisters.org.

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“She always had an eye for those in need”

Rest in peace, Sr. Grace Ruiz, FMA

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nown to many as the friendly, welcoming Sister who always had a good word for everyone and was ever eager to chat with those who needed a listening ear, Sr. Grace Ruiz passed away unexpectedly on January 22, the feast of Blessed Laura Vicuña. She was 78 years old and had been professed as a Salesian Sister for 57 years.

Grace was born in Guadalajara, Mexico on March 2, 1942, one of eight children. Her father owned a small grocery store and worked long hours to provide for his family. The Ruiz’s were very involved in their parish and the children all received a Catholic education. Young Grace, however, did not like studying, so after eighth grade she planned to quit school and work in her father’s store. Her parents and friends saw that she was capable of greater things and encouraged Grace to take a business course. This led to much happiness as Grace earned a good salary and contributed to the financial needs of her family.

Like many young people at that time, Grace became involved in “Catholic Action,” which sought to blend spirituality and social outreach to alleviate suffering in the world. Her particular work found her teaching catechism to the children of the parish in addition to helping her neighbors in need. This had to be done with great discretion as the Mexican government did not allow religious freedom.

When two Salesian Sisters came from Cuba to visit their families who resided in Grace’s village, Grace had her first encounter with the Salesian charism and was impressed by the Sisters’ spirit and joy. She asked many questions and the seed of her future Salesian vocation was planted. Around the same time, Grace’s family decided to immigrate to the U.S. At the cost of much sacrifice and many difficulties, they settled in California, which also brought Grace closer to the Salesian Sisters, who had several ministries in the state at that time.

In the United States, Grace attended public high

school, but daily visited Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament in the Catholic Church across from her school.

The pastor became her confessor and mentor, and guided her as she discerned her vocation. With the encouragement of her family, in 1960 Grace joined the Salesian Sisters at the house for aspirants in Aptos, CA. She made her first profession on August 5, 1964.

As a young Sister her talent for caring for the sick was recognized and she was sent to the Cottolengo Hospital in Turin, Italy, to obtain a nursing degree, a skill she used her entire life to help those around her.

In addition to serving the sick and elderly Sisters, Sr. Grace also taught at Camp Auxilium in Newton, NJ, and at Our Lady of Fatima Parish in Passaic, NJ. Later on, she brought her gifts to Texas and Florida.

Everywhere she went she was noted for her gentle kindness and compassion.

When a home for the sick and elderly Sisters was built in Haledon, NJ, she was made the nurse in charge. “The opportunity to give nursing service to the Sisters was one of the greatest gifts God gave me,” she said. She gave her entire self in whatever she did, always with a special care for those most in need.

Speaking of Sr. Grace’s way with others, Sr. Carmen Morales reminisced, “Sr. Grace always had an eye for those most in need, both in the community and outside of it. Her heart was for the poorest of the poor.

Whenever she could, she shared whatever extras she was given with them. She was very generous. Her presence is already missed.”

The Salesian Sisters extend their deepest condolences and fervent prayers to the Ruiz family. May dear Sr. Grace rest in peace.

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Salesian School Alumni Spotlight

The Jordan Sisters: 5 graduates of Mary Help

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eet the Jordan sisters: five siblings who have left a legacy at Mary Help of Christians Academy in North Haledon, NJ. Almost every faculty member taught one or more of the Jordans at one time or another, and all of them distinguished themselves through their intelligence, service, and dedication, leaving Mary Help a better place than when they entered it. Each discerned a call to enter the medical field, motivated by a desire to help and heal, born of their Salesian roots and their family’s strong Catholic faith nurtured by loving parents Germaine and Michael Jordan of Saylorsburg, PA (formerly of Milford, NJ).

The eldest, Kathleen (class of 2010), a Pediatric ER and Trauma nurse at a Level 1 Trauma Center, was the first to attend Mary Help. She admits that the allgirl environment was not initially attractive to her, but with time she saw its value. “Mary Help gave me the freedom to explore a wide variety of interests offered at the school,” she recalls. “Uninhibited by any social pressures from boys, I had the freedom to explore my interests as a woman that ultimately led me to becoming a nurse in college.” In her work she encounters patients in difficult situations. “Many of the families and patients I interact with have not always been as fortunate as I am,” she says. “Jesus’ words, ‘To whom much is given, much is expected’ (Luke 12:48), stay at the forefront of my mind and help me approach each situation with a renewed sense of grace and mercy. I firmly believe that we are all stumbling and struggling in some capacity or another through this life. As a Christian it is our role is to share each other’s burdens along the way.”

Following Kathleen a year later was Therese, now a Doctor of Physical Therapy who works in the pediatric field. “I grew more deeply in my Catholic faith at Mary Help and learned that faith did not have to be limited to a church structure, but rather was something that could be lived out through our day-today actions,” Therese says. “I developed a strong sense of compassion and a desire to help and serve others, which I believe guided me to my current career path.

Mary Help gave me the confidence I needed to forge

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Meet the Jordan Sisters, all graduates of Mary Help of Christians Academy and its Health Care Connections Program: Elizabeth, Maria, Kathleen, Clare, and Therese.

ahead, despite the many obstacles I encountered along the way.”

The future doctor Maria, also a Doctor of Physical Therapy, joined Mary Help in 2013. She finished her doctorate last fall and now works as an outpatient physical therapist with a focus on orthopedics and neurology. “Mary Help taught me how to empower others, something that I bring into my clinical practice each and every day,” she says. Her work in assisting the rehabilitation of patients finds her accompanying others through a difficult period in their lives. “At Mary Help we memorized Scripture verses; doing this helped me because I recite them in my mind during tough moments,” she notes. The home screen on her cellphone is Jeremiah 29:11, a passage she learned in theology class: “For I know the plans that I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

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“Mary Help is a very unique place filled with Sisters who will constantly pray for you no matter what, teachers that want the best for you, and people who want to see you succeed,” says Elizabeth, class of 2015.

“It is a place filled with so much love and allows you to be shaped and molded into the person God wants you to become. I am so blessed to have gone there, a place where I learned so many lessons – some hard, but all good, and I am a better person for it.” Elizabeth went on to become a medical-surgical nurse. “If you’re looking to become a nurse, don’t quit when it gets hard,” she advises. “It’s hard for a reason – you have someone else’s life in your hands and they are counting on you to know what needs to be done. As a nurse, you get this special opportunity to make them feel better, and I love that.”

Clare was the last Jordan sister to attend Mary Help and graduated in 2016. Now a cardiac medical-surgical nurse, she has found herself treating COVID-19 patients in her unit, a kind of trial-by-fire for any newly-minted medical professional. At Mary Help, the quote from St. Francis de Sales, “Be who you are “Mary Help and be that well,” gave her guidance and strength gave me the in pursuing her nursing confidence I goals. “Mary Help offered needed to forge me the tools to grow in leadership through ahead.” various activities such as sports, student council, clubs, and leadership retreats,” Clare says. “Each of these opportunities allowed me to grow and learn various skills that I was able to use throughout school and into my career as a nurse. Nursing is challenging, especially during a pandemic, but it’s a good kind of challenging, the kind that helps you to become a better nurse and a better person.”

When asked for advice for anyone considering the medical field, all five Jordan sisters recommended spending time researching the specific branch that interests you, and finding opportunities to shadow those currently in that field. Invest in yourself through self-confidence and courage, they say, by not allowing the inevitable difficulties, challenges, and, yes, even failures, deter you from your goal. That’s a good message all of us can take into this new year filled with hope and possibilities.

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Salesian Cooperators

A hat fit for a Saint

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dear friend and fellow Salesian Cooperator recently told me about a gift she received.

“My friend stopped by the other day to bring me Holy Communion, and he gave me this beautiful statue of St. John Bosco with his mother, Mama Margaret,” she said.

“Oh, it’s lovely,” I said.

“But, what’s that on his head?”

“Well, that’s his new hat!”

Mrs. Smith and I have been friends for over 20 years.

We were both called to serve as Salesian Cooperators, and made promises to always serve the youth and the poor. Our faith and love of St. John Bosco and his teachings has fostered a beautiful friendship, and I am blessed to call her “friend.”

She explained how her grandson had made a very tiny hat for her as a gift. When she received it on Christmas Eve, she exclaimed, “That’s PERFECT! You can place that right on St. John Bosco’s head!

Now he’s ready for winter!”

As an educator, I find an excellent role model in St. John Bosco. When asked about my teaching philosophy, I simply state that they are the same principles that St. John Bosco taught to others: “Reason, Religion, and Kindness.” “The Salesian Spirit” is the embodiment of the joy and love for the Lord that he shared with others.

– Francesca Rosa Merendino Francesca has been a Salesian Cooperator since 1996 and has taught religious education at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Elizabeth, NJ, for over 25 years.

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SALESIAN SCHOOLS !

ST. ANTHONY SCHOOL, Hawthorne, NJ – The joy is palpable among the four-year-olds (below) at St. Anthony’s, where Sr. Maria Nguyễn Thị Long Phượng holds court! At right, Sr. Marisol Guzman-Lopez poses with winners of the essay contest on the topic, “When was a moment when you felt close to God?” Eighth-grade winner Ashley Roughgarden (second from right) wrote, “In this world, it is easy to feel alone or lost. No matter how alone you may feel, someone is always supporting you. That someone is God. He is a friend and guide to all.”

CORPUS CHRISTI HOLY ROSARY SCHOOL, Port Chester, NY – Students from five Salesian schools gathered via Zoom to celebrate the Feast of St. John Bosco two days early on Friday, January 29, The hour-long “Don Bosco Bash” featured fun, prayer, special guest Fr. Steve Ryan, SDB, and plenty of entertainment. Above, Sr. Elfie Del Rosario, dressed in Don Bosco garb, leads the cheers with second-graders at Corpus Christi Holy Rosary.

MARY HELP OF CHRISTIANS ACADEMY, North Haledon, NJ – Before beginning the winter break, Mary Help faculty, students, and staff met for a virtual Christmas prayer service. Focusing on the theme, “Jesus is the gift,” each person offered a reflection about gift they could give their families for Christmas. From cheerfulness to patience to spending quality time together, each gift was then illustrated or written down and displayed on screen for the rest of the school community to see. Gifts ranged from “Surprise my family by cooking dinner” to “Writing a gratitude letter to each person” to “Spread Christmas joy.” Students, faculty, and staff of Mary Help were inspired and motivated by each other’s ideas to make this Christmas overflowing with generosity and peace.

VILLA MADONNA SCHOOL, Tampa, FL – Although much has changed this school year, there’s no denying graduation is right around the corner thanks to the class shirt! Villa eighth-graders designed theirs, all the way down to the color and their signatures located in the “21” on the back. It’s getting real, class of 2021!

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SALESIAN SCHOOLS !

ST. JOHN NEUMANN HIGH SCHOOL, Naples, FL – For three weeks in January, a seminar for students from the Peer Ministry and Campus Ministry teams offered a chance to develop leadership skills through games, activities, reflection, and prayer, as part of the school’s pastoral plan, “Answer the Call: Be Good Christians and Honest Citizens.” The seminar was headed by Campus Minister Kyle Weaver, Sr. April Cabaccang (below) and Sr. April Hoffman (right). Good fun and fellowship were had by all – including, evidently, Spider-Man!

ACADEMY OF OUR LADY, Marrero, LA – The entire Academy family took time off from the classroom to celebrate St. Mary Mazzarello Day, a new Academy tradition to honor the co-foundress of the Institution of the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians. Events included Salesian learning sessions, Powderpuff flag football at Archbishop Shaw High’s stadium (the junior class team is seen at right), and the presentation of the 2020 Homecoming Court. It was a fun day filled with Salesian family spirit!

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Handy information from the Development Office

Multiple ways to support the Salesian Sisters

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s we enter the new year and complete almost a full 12 months of this pandemic, we still think about how so much has changed around us. Fundraising is no exception, and going “virtual” is now the norm. Still, many things have not changed. Here’s a refresher on the many ways you can support the mission of the Salesian Sisters.

Did you know many employers participate in matching donations?

Corporate matching gifts are donations made by a company to a non-profit entity, like the Salesian Sisters, which an employee supports. Donors may be unaware that their donations qualify to be matched.

Ask your human resource department, or visit this website for a list of some companies that match gifts: www.mobilecause.com/top-matching-gift-companies Did you know you can transfer stock as a donation?

While 2020 held many trials and tribulations, we were

pleasantly surprised by how many of our friends made donations by sending us shares of stock. “By donating stock that has appreciated for more than a year, you are actually giving 20 percent more than if you sold the stock and then made a cash donation,” according to experts. For more information, consult your tax advisor.

Technology! Making a donation has always been easy by simply mailing a check in the envelope inside this magazine. An even faster way is online.

Please visit www.salesiansisters.org and see how you can give with just a simple click of a button.

The staff in the Development Office is always available to answer your questions on making a donation: please call (973) 904-0102 or toll-free (877) OUR-NUNS. Thank you, and stay safe!

– Sonya Fernandez

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ow do you host a Christmas Party during a pandemic, an event which normally attracts 600 people and is one of our biggest annual fundraisers for Mary Help of Christians Academy? You go virtual and get creative! Our Christmas Party Volunteer Committee along with the Development Office organized a Christmas Challenge Sweepstakes, which reached beyond our local community and allowed us to gather together during a time of being apart. The event raised more than $120,000 and many walked away with fabulous prizes as the winning tickets were drawn by Sr. Mary Rinaldi during a live broadcast.We thank all our generous sponsors and prize donors. Watch for more creative virtual events soon!

At right, enjoying his first birthday present of a toy Mercedes-Benz car is Desmond Massey Licata of Marlton, NJ. Desmond’s grandmother, Jane Massey Licata, won the prize during our virtual Autumn Gala.

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om Brady and the Tampa Bay Buccaneers have an enthusiastic band of supporters at Villa Madonna School, as students like these first-graders cheered the home team on to the NFL Super Bowl, held just down the road at Raymond James Stadium. Partners in Giving went to press before the big game on February 7, so fingers are crossed that Villa students are still smiling!

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