EARLY WINTER 2025
A PUBLICATION OF THE SALESIAN SISTERS OF ST. JOHN BOSCO
Sr. Mary Rinaldi, FMA may 13, 1944 -Nov. 30, 2025
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A MESSAGE FROM SISTER COLLEEN
Simplicity: A Hidden Path to Sanctity
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n this latest installment about Salesian virtues, let’s explore one of my favorites—simplicity. Simplicity is manifested in many ways, from living by the adage, “less is more” to taking an uncomplicated approach to everything, including prayer. In tandem with the virtue of service we discussed last time, simplicity is evident every day in the life Sister Anita Durocher has lived for so many years. When I was in school, Sister Anita would quietly rein us in after lunchtime by smiling at us while she held her finger up to her lips, gently reminding us to pipe down and prepare for the seriousness of the classroom. We all knew and actively felt how much she loved us in that experience, in that moment, and in her simple gesture. Once I entered the convent, I realized the enormity of the single task she was assigned—she was in charge of our laundry. There were more than 30 of us generating laundry every day, making what must have been a mountain of work for her seven days a week, without a break. Back then, our tablecloths were also part of the laundry, in addition to our clothes, our sheets and towels, the kitchen towels and rags, pajamas, the sheets that were hung between the beds in our rooms…the list feels almost endless. I know what I was like—whenever there was a chance to work outdoors, I embraced it, without concern for whether I would stain my uniform; in short, I was oblivious. Our bed linen changing day was Thursday; invariably, I would forget, which meant I would change mine on Friday, undoubtedly throwing off her routine significantly. Sister Anita would have been well within her rights Sr. Anita Durocher with Sr. Helene to be frustrated Godin and Sr. Pierrette Carpentier
by my casual approach to how much laundry I produced, along with my consistent forgetfulness about our assigned days for specific laundry items—but she never appeared to be frustrated. As a matter of fact, during summer camp, my clothes got filthy from the children and their activities, and Sister Anita always encouraged me to feel free to change throughout the day—not to worry about the extra work it generated for her. Sister Anita conveyed simple love and support to me, despite the extra work I so often caused her. Her laundry duty, despite my shortcomings, was reliably completed EVERY DAY. This task was both critical for our community, and invisible to those outside our family of Sisters. Her life of simplicity is so much like one of our Salesian Saints: Blessed Laura Vicuña. Blessed Laura Vicuña was a girl who attended a Salesian school. She, too, embodied the simplest approach to life—even if it were only a smile. She once decided to adopt the very simple practice of never passing anyone without acknowledging them. Blessed Laura Vicuña knew that each of us is made in God’s image and therefore, worthy of attention and respect. This simple approach certainly caused others to feel seen; it likely had a significant impact on every person she acknowledged this way. Like Sister Anita, Laura was diligent in fulfilling her daily responsibilities, and did so with the clear intention of achieving God’s will. “Doing what I have to, I fulfill what God wants of me, and this is my best prayer.” Her spirituality was uncomplicated in the most Salesian way. This is who Blessed Laura Vicuña was; this is who Sister Anita is—heart and soul. This is the Salesian way of simplicity. Let’s work to join them in the beauty of their simple lives. Let’s become Salesian saints with them! I leave you in the heart and hands of Our Lady, —Sr. Colleen Clair, FMA, is the Provincial of St. Joseph Province Early Winter 2025 • Partners in Giving • 3
Into the Arms of God: The Life and Legacy of Sister Mary Rinaldi On the morning of November 30th, just as the sun was rising, our beloved Sister Mary Rinaldi passed peacefully into the arms of God. Diagnosed with a glioblastoma in July, she remained remarkably serene and deeply united to God’s will throughout her entire illness. Know that she was praying and offering for us until her final breath—and we trust she will continue to do so even more powerfully from heaven. Because her passing came so close to the printing of this issue, we will offer a full tribute to her in a future edition. Still, we could not let this moment pass without pausing to thank Sister Mary for all she has done for our Sisters and for countless young people. Her absence leaves a hole that cannot be filled. In the pages that follow, we share a brief biography of her life and photos from her childhood up through the night she was honored with a Lifetime Achievement Award at our Autumn Gala. Sister Mary, we love you. We are so grateful for your witness of love and service. Help us to follow Christ and serve others as wholeheartedly as you did.
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ister Mary Rinaldi, FMA, died peacefully on November 30, 2025, at St. Joseph Provincial Center in Haledon, New Jersey, surrounded by her Sisters. She was a Daughter of Mary Help of Christians —also known as a Salesian Sister of St. John Bosco—for 61 years. Born on May 13, 1944, in Tampa, Florida, to Augustus and Nancy (Midili) Rinaldi, she was the third of seven children. One of Sister Mary’s favorite sayings was that she was the third Sister Mary Rinaldi in her family. Her aunt and great-aunt, both named Mary, were Salesian Sisters. In a letter announcing his daughter’s birth, her father wrote to his sister, “I gave her your name, hoping that she will follow your example.” In time, she fulfilled that hope in every way. Sister Mary was one of thirty Salesian consecrated religious in her extended family, including her grandfather’s uncle, Blessed Philip Rinaldi, SDB. She grew up in San Antonio, FL, a small citrus town north of Tampa, where her father often remarked, “I don’t want to raise my children in the streets of a big city.” There,
she learned the value of hard work from both parents, especially her mother, who was widowed at forty-two with seven children ranging in age from four to sixteen.
“I have been very happy as a Salesian Sister. I have lived a good life. If God asked me to do it all over again, I would, without hesitation.” Her early Catholic education was entrusted to the Benedictine Sisters, and after the sixth grade she transferred to the local public school. During these formative years she felt a clear call to religious life. Her desire to know, love, and serve God led her to seek entrance into the Salesian order while still in high school. She moved to New Jersey and graduated from Mary Help of Christians Academy in 1963. Throughout her time as a Salesian Sister, Sister Mary served as a primary school teacher, director of Camp
A LIFE WELL-LIVED Auxilium, and founder of the Auxilium School for children ages three to five. Under her guidance, Camp Auxilium thrived for eighteen years, shaping the lives of generations of young people. In 1989, Sister Mary was asked to open the Province’s first Development Office—a major transition from her years in education. Although the shift was challenging, she embraced the mission wholeheartedly. Over nearly forty years in development, she not only learned the mechanics of fundraising but also cultivated relationships that became cherished friendships. “I learned to raise money,” she later reflected, “but best of all, I learned to make many friends.” Several influential mentors contributed to her conviction that development was ultimately a ministry of relationships. Mr. Joseph J. McAleer of Greenwich, Connecticut—introduced to her by her uncle, Fr. Peter Rinaldi—encouraged her to form a Partners Circle of dedicated supporters who would advise and sustain the Sisters’ mission. His vision gave rise to the Partners Circle National Board of Advisors, which grew to include eighteen members and hundreds of annual benefactors. Another turning point came at a fundraising event for elderly Sisters, when Mr. Fortune Bosco of Tampa, Florida rose and declared, “Let’s adopt these Sisters! After all, we have more need for their prayers than they have for our money.” From his words, the beloved Adopt-A-Sister program was born. It gained national attention in 1999 when it was featured on ABC’s 20/20, a television newsmagazine, resulting in an outpouring of support. About the program, Sister Mary remarked, “I wanted to build a house of bricks, but we built a family.” In 2002, when the science wing at Mary Help of Christians Academy was under construction, the dedication of volunteers—including a group led by Beverly Rohde—sparked in Sister Mary and Christina McAleer the inspiration for a lasting volunteer organization. This vision became The Dames of Mary Help, a dynamic group of women committed to maintaining the beauty of the Academy and advancing its mission to educate and empower young women, especially those most in need. They were the force behind the annual Autumn Gala for many years. Sister Mary often said that her greatest success was walking with people of faith. She saw generosity
From top to bottom: Sister Mary, second from the left, with her siblings; Sister Mary serving lunch to summer campers in Newton, NJ; Sister Mary with Sister Arlene Rubino in the Camp Auxilium kitchen Early Winter 2025 • Partners in Giving • 5
A LIFE WELL-LIVED expressed not only in resources but in trust, prayer, and shared mission. She visited people in times of sorrow and celebration, in mansions and in humble homes—always with the same conviction: everyone needs God’s blessing. She credited her perseverance in religious life to the unwavering support of her family, the strength of her mother, and the love of her Salesian community. Deeply grateful for her vocation, she once reflected, “I have been very happy as a Salesian Sister. I have lived a good life. If God asked me to do it all over again, I would, without hesitation.”
A Funeral Mass was held on Friday, December 5, 2025, at St. Joseph Chapel in North Haledon, NJ. Hundreds of friends, family members, and Sisters were in attendance. Sister Mary Rinaldi, FMA, leaves behind a legacy of faith, dedication, and joyful service. She is remembered with affection and gratitude by her family, her Salesian Sisters, and the countless benefactors and friends whose lives she enriched through her ministry. To honor her memory, gifts can be made to the Sister Mary C. Rinaldi Endowment for Salesian Sisters.
From top, clockwise: Sister Mary with an army of Sisters during summer camp in Newton, NJ; receiving Eucharist from St. John Paul II; Sister Mary with her community; with the Rohdes and McLaughlins, long-time friends; Sister Mary receives a flower from a student on the occasion of her 60th anniversary as a Salesian Sister; on a visit to Haiti after raising funds for earthquake relief
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THE 22nd ANNUAL AUTUMN GALA
Celebrating a Lifetime of Achievement
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n Thursday, October 25, 2025, Sister Mary Rinaldi was honored as the recipient of the first ever Salesian Sisters Lifetime Achievement Award at the 22nd Annual Autumn Gala. She also was named an Alumna of Distinction for Mary Help of Christians Academy. The evening was a celebration of the decades of dedicated service she offered on behalf of the students of the Academy, the Salesian Sisters, and young people throughout the Province of St. Joseph. As a surprise, there was also a scholarship instituted, in honor of Sr. Mary, that will go toward the education of young people in Salesian works across the country. The gala was a special opportunity for Sister Mary to see her closest friends, family members, benefactors, and Sisters all together in one space, united in their love for her. The anticipation of the event brought her much joy during her weeks of chemotherapy treatment. We thank all who were able to join us in celebrating her.
From top right, clockwise: Sister Mary receives her Lifetime Achievement Award surrounded by Sister Colleen Clair, Sister Kelly Schuster, and Sister Katie Flanagan; Sister Mary Rinaldi and Sister Marisa DeRose greet Stephen Papetti; Sister Mary surrounded by all her sisters; Sister Mary with her extended family.
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THE 22nd ANNUAL AUTUMN GALA
From top left, clockwise: The human slot machine in action at the gala; Pat Connors tries to match all three shapes in the slot machine; Maria Losurdo with Sister Domenica DiPeri and Sister Mary Ann Caspary; Sister Katie Flanagan with members of the gala committee; Rich and Aleta Taylor with Cathy Davey
Please “Give Us This Day”!
Our Exchange of Love
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o you have a happy occasion you would like to share? The Salesian Sisters will celebrate with you. Is it a time to mark a less-than-happy occasion? Our prayer for your special day will commemorate this event. Do you have someone to thank? All of the Sisters will help multiply your gratitude. When you “Give Us This Day” the Sisters will pray for your intention and for the person whose sacrificial gift supports the endowment for our retired Sisters. Let this gift of time be an expression of our concern and love for one another. Thank you, and God bless you!
VOCATIONS UPDATE
Don Bosco's Oratory Comes Alive at the 2025 National Catholic Youth Conference By Alana Brooks-Murphy, Aspirant
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rom November 20-22, members of the Salesian Family attended the National Catholic Youth Conference (NCYC) in Indianapolis, IN. Over thirty Salesian Sisters, Brothers, and Priests—along with men and women in formation and lay volunteers— represented the Salesian Family at a booth promoting the four pillars of St. John Bosco’s oratory model: a home that welcomes, a Church that prays, a school that educates for life, and a playground where friends meet. Young people who stopped by the booth had the opportunity to share about themselves and their hometowns, dunk the Sisters in the dunk tank, venerate relics, and learn about the intimate gaze of Jesus in Eucharistic Adoration. The booth offered the young people the chance to witness the Salesian Family in their element: working with and for the young. Throughout the weekend, this makeshift “Oratory” was alive with chatter, activity, and joy—a true taste of heaven on earth. The Salesian Sisters also proudly cheered on Sister Elfie Del Rosario, FMA, who served as co-emcee of the event alongside Gian Gamboa. Sister Elfie’s chrism-scented bubbles brought delight to the nearly 17,000 participants filling Lucas Oil Stadium. With both emcees bringing vibrant faith and joyful energy, participants were drawn into an atmosphere where the love of Christ flowed freely in a distinctly Salesian spirit, where faith and fun were intertwined.
The weekend also featured several captivating talks. Beginning on Thursday, Rabbi Dennis Sasso explained the significance of God revealing Himself as the great I AM to Moses and the Jewish people. Over the course of the conference, attendees were then encouraged to reflect on how the faithful are called to encounter the same God, today, in the Sacraments. The next day brought one of the most anticipated moments of the whole weekend—a digital encounter with Pope Leo XIV, which was heavily covered by Catholic media. Pope Leo XIV answered questions from young people who had been selected for this honor, weeks prior to the encounter. Pope Leo XIV emphasized that young people are not only the future of the Church but also its present. He encouraged them to help the Church glorify God now, through their prayer and their communities of faith. Later that evening, Sister Miriam James Heidland, SOLT, spoke on healing and reconciliation before a time of Adoration and Confession. Many flocked to the confessionals, seeking to experience the love of Christ in the Sacraments they had been hearing about throughout the weekend. The movement of the Holy Spirit was evident and inspiring to all who witnessed it. Another Salesian Sister, Sister Guerline Joseph also led a breakout session on Mary, titling it, “The Teenager Who Changed the World.” One Sister commented at
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VOCATIONS UPDATE the wonderful turnout saying, “Wow, kids were even sitting on the floor!” When asked about the session, one student commented, “I loved it! It was really interactive, and I love when talks are interactive.” Youth and adult chaperones at NCYC were also led into a deeper experience of the liturgy—with the communal praying of the Liturgy of the Hours. One aspirant of the Salesian Sisters described the gift of watching students take part in aspects of the liturgy, noting the beauty of seeing them grow in reverence for moments of prayer once unfamiliar to them, aided by the emcees and worship leaders. The conference concluded on Saturday evening after nearly 25 bishops and more than 200 priests concelebrated a closing Mass, sending the congregation forth to bring their renewed hearts back to their families and local communities.
From top, clockwise: Sister Colleen Clair with a young person who created her own holy card as one of the activities at the Salesian booth; Aspirant Alana Brooks-Murphy waits to get dunked by a young person; Paterson Bishop Kevin J. Sweeney with Sisters and postulants; Aspirant Aislinn Gayle Domantay catechizes young people on Eucharistic Adoration; Sister Elfie Del Rosario served as one of the main emcees for the event.
VOCATIONS UPDATE
Renew Toronto Calls Young Adults to Make Christ King of Their Hearts and Their Lives Salesian Sisters from Canada and Columbus, OH participated in Renew Toronto.
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enew Toronto is an annual Young Adult Conference attended by around 700 young adults from the Archdiocese of Toronto and surrounding areas. It was held on November 21-23 at Canada Event Center in Whitby, Ontario and St. Michael’s Cathedral Basilica in Toronto, Ontario. The theme was “You also are my witnesses, because you have been with me.”- John 15:27. The Salesian Sisters organized a booth to promote the programs that the Sisters offer in the Diocese, including discernment and volunteering opportunities. Sister Hae-Jin Lim also gave a breakout session to all the women. Her topic was “In the World, Not of the World: The Salesian Way for Women to be Holy and Fully Alive.” Every woman, no matter her state in life, is called to transform the world through ordinary moments of daily living. Rooted in the gentle strength of St. Francis de Sales and the ardent zeal of St. John Bosco and St. Mary Mazzarello, this talk invited Catholic women to discover how holiness is not beyond them but within their reach.
Sister Hae-Jin Lim with two of the emcees.
Sister April Cabaccang and Sister Natalie Doummar participated in a Breakout Session given by Fr. Matt McCarthy, the Vocation Director for the Archdiocese of Toronto about “Finding God in the Familiar.” Young men and women were then encouraged to speak to the religious and priests present, and Sister April and Sister Natalie accompanied young women who had questions about religious life. Renew ended with Mass at St. Michael’s Cathedral Basilica, celebrated by His Eminence Frank Cardinal Leo, Archbishop of Toronto. He encouraged the young people to ask themselves if Jesus was the king of their hearts and their lives. Sister Hae-Jin Lim giving a breakout talk to women on living holiness in the ordinary circumstances of their lives.
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A Love That Lasts Forever
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CATECHETICAL CORNER
The Healing Grace of the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick By Sister Theresa Kelly, FMA
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uffering is an inevitable fact of human life. We know that God is present in all of our suffering – God loves us and is with us. Jesus showed great compassion towards, and identification with, those who suffered in whatever way. We know that Jesus carried on a constant healing ministry: He healed bodies, relationships, and souls. He instructed His disciples to heal the sick, forgive sinners, and have compassion toward all. We find stories of healing in all four of the Gospel accounts.
“Concern for those who are suffering is seen as part of the mission of everyone in the Church.” As members of the Church, a community of faith, hope and love, we are responsible for continuing Jesus’ ministry of healing, each in our own way. We find the earliest references to the Church’s ministry of healing in the Acts of the Apostles. The Letter of James gives an early testimony of the “anointing of the sick”: “Is there anyone sick among you? He should ask for the presbyters of the church. They, in turn, are to pray over him, anointing him with oil in the Name of the Lord.” (James 5:14)
Vatican Council II renewed the sacrament and restored its original meaning and name: “The Anointing of the Sick.” Changing the name back to what it was in the Early Church was meant to reflect a broader understanding of the sacrament's purpose, beyond just the dying. It also emphasizes that the pastoral care of the sick is an essential element of parish ministry. This sacrament is not just for the dying, but also for the elderly and the seriously ill, and for those facing major surgery. It can be received when needed, even more than once within the same illness. Concern for those who are suffering is seen as part of the mission of everyone in the Church. This sacrament can be received anywhere—it can also be received during the Eucharistic Celebration after the Liturgy of the Word. As the minister of the sacrament, the priest is the spokesperson of the whole Church. The Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick is given to those who are seriously ill by: • Anointing them on the forehead and hands with blessed olive oil (the oil of the sick) • Saying these words (once): “Through this holy anointing, may the Lord in his love and mercy help you through the grace of the Holy Spirit. May the
In the early centuries of the Church, this prayer of healing was seen as part of the overall ministry of the Church. The term "Anointing of the Sick" became "Extreme Unction" during the Middle Ages, likely around the 12th century, as the sacrament began to be reserved for those on the point of death and could be received only once. "Extreme Unction" translates to "final anointing" and reflected its association with a person who was in extremis (near death). Since it could be received only once and was meant for the dying, many people waited before calling the priest and it often happened that by the time the priest arrived, the person was not aware of or able to receive the comfort and strength of this sacrament.
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CATECHETICAL CORNER Lord who frees you from sin, save you and raise you up.” It is recommended that, if possible, family members. friends, caregivers be present at the anointing, so that they can participate and pray for the person. Anointing strengthens the connection between the seriously ill person and the rest of the body of Christ. The grace given in the sacrament is always a healing grace:
• sometimes physical • sometimes for the forgiveness of sins • sometimes spiritual/emotional: for peace and acceptance of one’s condition Let us thank God for the beauty and gift of this sacrament that helps us to unite our sufferings with those of Jesus and that gives us comfort and hope in the certainty that when our earthly life is over, we are called to the unending joy of eternal life!
A Gift of Gratitude: Modernized Patio Completed at St. Joseph Provincial House
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t. Joseph Provincial House in Haledon, New Jersey, the residence of many elderly Salesian Sisters, recently completed a full replacement of its original patio with a modern, expanded, and accessibility-focused design. The new 3,500 square foot space, situated directly behind the chapel, provides a serene outdoor environment where Sisters can gather, pray, and enjoy fresh air with greater ease and safety. The redesign prioritizes mobility, featuring a layout that accommodates walkers, wheelchairs, and secure walking paths. Overgrown trees and shrubs were removed during construction, and a refreshed landscape plan will be implemented in the spring to introduce plantings that enhance the atmosphere of beauty, peace, and contemplation.
din and a committee of Salesian Sisters across several design phases before final approval. The initiative began when Sister Helene reached out with a simple request for assistance, prompting swift action and remarkable donor engagement. Through the combined support of benefactors, the leadership of Sister Katie Flanagan, Director of Development for the Salesian Sisters, and the dedication of two contracting teams who partnered to accelerate the schedule, the patio was completed in only four months.
The project was led by Partners Circle Trustee John Capeci, who worked closely with Sister Helene Go-
Sister Helene shared that the final result “exceeded all expectations,” while Mr. Capeci noted, “There is nothing more satisfying than giving back to those who have given us so much.” The new patio now stands as a tangible expression of gratitude, stewardship, and sustained commitment to the well-being of the Sisters who have dedicated their lives to the service of others.
The back patio before the project
The back patio after the project
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DEVELOPMENT OFFICE
A Festive Tradition Continues - the Sisters' Annual Christmas Party
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n Sunday, December 7th, over 450 people descended upon Mary Help of Christians Academy in North Haledon, NJ for the Salesian Sisters Development Office’s Annual Christmas Party. With all proceeds going to the Financial Aid Fund of the Academy, shoppers delighted in winning baskets full of toys, fashion accessories, and kitchen supplies. From shopping at the Santa’s Workshop to taking a chance at the candy pull, there was something for everyone—not to mention a delicious meal from The Market Basket! Thank you to all who came out to support this festive event!
From top left, clockwise: Sister Mary Jackson selling tickets; Sister Katie Flanagan with Pat Connors; Linda Koski decides which baskets to put her blue tickets in; the event took place in the gymnasium of MHC Academy; Sister Helene Godin, Dee Tango, and Sister Carmen Morales are feeling festive; Provincial, Sister Colleen Clair, Sister Florine Lagace, Sister Mary Anne Zito, Sister Mary Bertha Paquin, and Sister Suzanne Dauwalter sitting with friends; surveying all the baskets available to win
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lease consider joining our friends of all faiths who have experienced the transforming power of prayer and loving friendship with a Salesian Sister, every day of the year, through our Adopt-a-Sister Program.
Sister Rachel Lauritsen with Julie Patten
Whether the Adopted Sister is for you, a family member, or a friend in need of spiritual strength, you will find comfort knowing that your intentions will be remembered each day by your spiritual prayer partner, and your sacrificial gift will support our elderly Sisters. It makes the PERFECT gift, especially for a wedding, birthday, anniversary, First Holy Communion, graduation — or any occasion! Simply complete the form below, call us toll-free: (877) OUR-NUNS, or visit www.salesiansisters.org. Thank you, and God bless you!
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SALESIAN SCHOOLS ST. ANTHONY SCHOOL, Hawthorne, NJ — SAS honored the nation’s veterans on November 11, 2025, through a series of meaningful observances. The day began with first grade and eighth grade students walking to the Municipal Building to take part in the town’s Veterans Day service. Despite cold temperatures, snowfall, and strong winds, local veterans expressed sincere appreciation for the students’ commitment and presence. In the afternoon, the school hosted its own ceremony, welcoming more than twenty-five veterans connected to
the school community. Mayor Lane and Father Brendon from the parish were also in attendance. The prayer service was organized by office staff members Michele Hancewicz, Jazmin Parra, and Sister Mary Jackson. The events offered students a powerful reminder of the courage, sacrifice, and service of all who have served in the United States Armed Forces. The St. Anthony school community joined together to honor both their own family members and the countless men and women who have protected the nation’s freedoms.
Top to bottom: First and Eighth Graders at the Municipal Building with Vietnam War Veteran, Councilman Mele; A Vietnam War Veteran saluting the flag while receiving a gift from an 8th grader. Three students at the Hawthorne Veteran's Day Service.
ST. FRANCIS DESALES HIGH SCHOOL, Columbus, OH — Sister Theresa Samson and Ms. Rebecca Metzger, Director of Campus Ministry at St. Francis DeSales High School, accompanied members of the school’s Sororitas Girls Bible Study group to a Marian Evening held at St. Andrew Church. Participants attended Mass and later joined Sisters from several religious congregations for an evening of fellowship. The gathering featured informal conversations, refreshments, and opportunities for students to engage with women living consecrated life. The event provided the students with a meaningful encounter with the wider religious family serving the Church.
SALESIAN SCHOOLS ST. THERESA SCHOOL, Kenilworth, NJ — On Sunday, December 7, St. Theresa School's Parent-Teacher Organization hosted a Breakfast with Santa. Smiles, laughter, and Christmas cheer filled the room as close to 150 people enjoyed a catered breakfast and took photos with Santa. In the library, a Christmas shop was also set up for families to buy Christmas presents. There were also door prizes and a raffle to win—all in support of the school. Sister Jessica Castillo and Sister Kathleen Deighan happily posed with Santa too! MARY HELP OF CHRISTIANS ACADEMY, North Haledon, NJ — This year Mary Help of Christians Academy launched its first ever Day of Giving campaign called Play It Forward. It ran alongside the three days of Intramurals — the school's annual tradition of friendly competition between the grade levels — and brought a fresh wave of energy to the MHC Academy community. Students, families, alumnae, and friends joined together to support programs that strengthen campus life, with more than fifty first-time donors adding exciting momentum to this new tradition. Each grade vied to raise the most money, with the Green Team, the sophomores, having the highest overall participation. The Blue Team of juniors made its mark by contributing the largest share of total dollars raised. Yellow and Red also showed strong class pride and helped drive the campaign forward. Play It Forward is already becoming a meaningful celebration of teamwork, spirit, and generosity and is poised to take its place as an added component to the yearly Intramurals competition.
Students from the choirs of MHC Academy and Don Bosco Prep sang "Dormi, Dormi, O Bel Bambin" and "Deck The Halls" before the December 10th performance of the Christmas Spectacular Show at Radio City Music Hall.
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SALESIAN SCHOOLS ST. JOHN NEUMANN CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL, Naples, FL — SJN held a Sophomore Retreat on the theme “Made with Purpose,” which emphasized God's unconditional love. This full day of faith formation included reflection time and community building, and a series of structured activities. Participants engaged in a chant competition and trust walk, listened to student witness talks, and prayed before the Blessed Sacrament before going on a contemplative walk to the beach. Throughout the day, students examined themes of letting go, trusting God’s plan, and addressing fears or past challenges. The retreat provided a framework for students to identify their purpose, operate with clarity of mission, and confront life’s demands with a confidence rooted in faith.
More than one hundred fifty women gathered for an evening dedicated to faith, fellowship, and creative expression. The Night of Advent Reflection and Wreath Making was jointly facilitated by the Saint William Council of Catholic Women, Saint William Walking with Purpose, and St. John Neumann Catholic High School. Sister Pamela Rose delivered an insightful reflection designed to guide attendees into the Advent season focusing on Mary as a deep woman of listening who held both joy and suffering and was filled with hope.Each of the guests then created their individual Advent wreaths, crafting them with personal meaning and symbolic significance.
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SALESIAN SCHOOLS IMMACULATA-LA SALLE HIGH SCHOOL, Miami, FL — The ILS community gathered in a powerful show of unity for this year’s Miracle Walk, an event dedicated to celebrating individuals with Down syndrome and supporting the families who care for them. Families walked proudly in honor of loved ones, while the crowd shared stories, encouragement, and spontaneous celebrations along the way. ILS's campus came alive during STEAM Week as students engaged in hands on challenges across the school’s STEAM Playground, an interactive hub designed to spark creativity and experimentation. Rotating through stations that blended science, technology, engineering, arts, and math, students constructed earthquake resistant towers, coded miniature robots, explored digital art, and experimented with circuitry. The celebration underscored the school’s commitment to cultivating innovators and problem solvers, showcasing a dynamic learning environment where imagination and inquiry take center stage.
ACADEMY OF OUR LADY HIGH SCHOOL, Marrero, LA — AOL welcomed nearly 100 students and their mothers (or mother figures) on December 6th for the annual Mother-Daughter Christmas Party, where the PTO under Mrs. Kristy Gros transformed the cafeteria into a cozy holiday space filled with twinkling lights. The evening included fun games, delicious food, and a lively white elephant gift exchange, all while wearing pajamas. The evening was a joyful celebration of laughter, togetherness, and the special bond shared between our Penguins and the women who support them.
Top right, clockwise: Sister Boram Lee shows off her hula hooping skills; Sister Myriam Meus enjoys the evening activites; AOL students participate in a line dance.
ON THE JOURNEY WITH SR. B
The Subtle Ways God Shows Up
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od has a way of quietly slipping into our lives. Not in a secretive way, but in the gentle and unexpected moments we might miss if we are distracted or rushing ahead. Again and again, I have found that He tends to surprise me when I am not looking for it, and when I am looking, I often get frustrated that He is not moving on my preferred timeline. Yet I cannot shake the sense that He delights in drawing close to every ordinary moment of my life.
“We discover that God’s presence is not scarce; it is simply quiet, persistent, and deeply personal.” Scripture gives us countless examples of Jesus appearing in ways that catch people off guard. On the road to Emmaus after the Resurrection, He walks beside two disciples for miles, and they do not recognize Him until the moment He breaks the bread and vanishes. When the disciples are fishing, He is suddenly there on the shore, quietly cooking breakfast. When they hide in fear in the upper room, He walks through the locked door and stands among them. Even His birth quietly takes place in a cave, away from attention and danger, slipping under the surveillance of King Herod. Jesus consistently steps into ordinary moments in extraordinary ways. In our prayer lives, God usually works with that same quiet rhythm. He rarely uses dramatic signs. More often, He communicates through interior movements: warmth, comfort, clarity, conviction. At other times, the longing or emptiness we feel becomes His way of drawing us toward a deeper relationship by inviting us to strengthen our perseverance and faith. Many people say, “Sister, I have never felt anything in prayer except distraction.” I understand that. Our culture overstimulates us, and silence can feel unfamiliar, even uncomfortable. When we finally pause, our minds fill the space with every unfinished task and every passing worry. But those scattered thoughts can become the very place God wants to meet us.
the ache in our back, the irritation from an earlier encounter—all of these can be offered to Him. Allow God to slip into those moments: simply notice the thought, hand it to the Lord, and speak honestly about it. Even a wordless offering becomes prayer. In that exchange, He brings peace, often in ways so gentle we only recognize it afterward. And boredom, well, that happens too. There are days when I sit with the Lord and feel restless, tempted to check the time every two minutes. For me, boredom often hides something I am trying to avoid. In those moments, I imagine Jesus settling into the chair beside me saying, “Why don’t we talk about that?” I sigh, look away, and insist it is all terribly dull. And yet, even then, He stays. I often sense a quiet nudge in my spirit, a simple invitation: “Talk to me.” But He never forces. He waits. When we begin to trust these subtle encounters, something shifts. We stop demanding signs on our terms and start recognizing grace on His. We discover that God’s presence is not scarce; it is simply quiet, persistent, and deeply personal. He meets us in the ordinary because He desires to be woven into the fabric of our real, daily lives. If we allow ourselves to be still, even for a moment, we will find that God is already beside us, already speaking, already loving us into deeper surrender. The quiet becomes a place of encounter. The distractions become invitations. The longing becomes a doorway. And slowly, almost imperceptibly, we learn to recognize Him in all things. May His quiet presence steady our hearts and guide our steps. May we move through the coming days with a sharper awareness and a receptive spirit, confident that God is near and attentive in every circumstance. He is never absent. He is always arriving. He is here.
Instead of fighting distraction, we can turn it into prayer. The random thought about an upcoming responsibility,
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Sister Myriam Meus spoke about Mary, Mother of Hope, at St. Anthony Parish in Hawthorne, NJ as part of their Advent by Candlelight event. The evening began with a candlelight procession into the Church and concluded with a festive dinner in the school gymnasium.
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