Church of Saint Mary Parish Bulletin: October 15, 2023

CHURCH of SAINT MARY

The Twenty-Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time October 15, 2023 Reverend Father Robert A. Romeo | Pastor Reverend Father Dominik Wegiel | Parochial Vicar Reverend Father Rafal Borowiejski | Parochial Vicar Reverend Father Edward Obi, MSP | Parochial Vicar

1300 Northern Boulevard | Manhasset, New York 11030 516 627 0385 | Fax 516 627 6070 www.saintmarysmanhasset.org

Parish Mission Statement We, the community of Saint Mary’s, Manhasset, building on our rich heritage of Catholic faith and tradition, center ourselves in the Eucharist and honor God in proclaiming the Good News of Jesus Christ.

Guided by the Holy Spirit, we seek to be the presence of Christ through our liturgical, educational and social ministries.

We dedicate our time, talent and treasure to the service of all as we build the kingdom of God in our world. We commit to this mission in the name of Jesus Christ.

Church of Saint Mary 1300 Northern Boulevard Manhasset, New York 11030 (516) 627-0385 Fax (516) 627-6070 www.saintmarysmanhasset.org

Schedule of Masses Thursday 7:00 AM (when school is in session) Monday–Friday 9:00 AM Saturday 9:00 AM, 5:00 PM Sunday 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, 12:00 Noon

PARISH DIRECTORY Pastoral Staff Rev. Fr. Robert A. Romeo Pastor 627-0385 | ext. 1004 pastor@stmary.ws Rev. Fr. Dominik Wegiel Parochial Vicar 627-0385 | ext. 1006 frdominik@stmary.ws Rev. Fr. Rafal Borowiejski Parochial Vicar

Sacrament of Penance

Rev. Fr. Edward Obi, MSP Parochial Vicar

Saturdays from 4:00-4:45 PM and by appointment. Please call 627-0385.

Parish Staff

Anointing of the Sick The Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick is celebrated in the Chapel on the second Sunday of the month following the 10:30 AM Mass. If you are unable to come to Church, please call the Parish Office to make arrangements for Anointing or to receive the Eucharist.

Parish Office 627-0385 | Fax 627-6070 Monday 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM Tuesday - Friday 9:30 AM - 4:00 PM Saturday - (phone only) 10:00 AM–1:30 PM Sunday 9:30 AM - 2:00 PM E-mail: information@stmary.ws

Parish Social Ministry 365-2705 Monday-Wednesday-Thursday 11:00 AM-3:00 PM E-mail: socialmin@stmary.ws St. Vincent de Paul Society: svdp@stmary.ws

Religious Education 627-4028 Monday 12:00 Noon-8:00 PM Wednesday 9:00 AM–5:00 PM Tuesday and Thursday 9:00 AM–6:00 PM Closed on Friday

Jane Clifford Bulletin Editor bulletin@stmary.ws Marie T. Granieri Director of Religious Education 627-4028 | ext. 1127 releddirector@stmary.ws Vincent Hartley Facilities Manager 627-0385 | ext. 1002 Kathleen Kosciusko Director of Parish Social Ministry 627-0385 | ext. 1126 kkosciusko@stmary.ws Jennifer LaChance Offi c e Manager 627-0385 information@stmary.ws Daniel Maimone Music Director 627-0385 | ext. 1021 dmaimone@saintmarysmanhasset.org Vanessa Quiros Parish Offi ce 627-0385 vquiros@stmary.ws Sr. Teresa Raftery, IHM Adult Faith Formation 627-0385 | ext. 1010 traftery@stmary.ws

The Schools of Saint Mary Nursery through 12th Grade Very Rev. Dom Elias Carr, Can. Reg., Ph.D. President

627-2711 president@stmary.ws Norma Ragalli Stafford Director of Admissions 627-2711 | ext 1084 nstafford@stmary.ws Edward Short Vice President of Development 627-2711 | ext 1120 eshort@stmary.ws Eileen M. Symmons ’82, ’86 Director of Communications 627-2711 esymmons@stmary.ws Kiera Gmelich Walsh Director of Alumni and Parent Relations 627-2711 | ext. 1162 kwalsh@stmary.ws Sarah de Venoge Griffin ’02, ’06 Liaison for School Relations sgriffin@saintmarysmanhasset.org St. Mary’s Elementary School 627-0184 www.stmary11030.org Theresa A. Kemp Principal tkemp@stmary11030.org St. Mary’s High School 627-2711 www.saintmaryshs.org Gerard J. Buckley Principal gbuckley@saintmaryshs.org

As Catholics, we condemn violence of any kind. In light of recent world events, let us unite in prayer for a peaceful and diplomatic solution to the conflict in the Holy Land: O God, merciful and strong, who crush wars and cast down the proud, be pleased to banish violence swiftly from our midst and to wipe away all tears, so that we may all truly deserve to be called your children.

Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, God, forever and ever. Amen.

- Roman Missal, Collect Prayer for In Time of War or Civil Disturbance

Cardinal Mario Grech, the Secretary General of the Synod, has called Catholics worldwide to unite in prayer for the Synod on Synodality which began in Rome on October 4th. Cardinal Grech describes this gathering as a profound “event of prayer and listening” that calls upon every baptized individual. He believes that every Catholic has a role to play in this global undertaking, that “all of us...are called at this time to unite in the comunion of prayer.”

A series of special intercessions have been crafted for this occasion. They include:

For the Church, on the eve of a new phase in the synodal journey, that the presence of the Gospel, alive and at work in her, may make her like the vineyard in the parable, a vital place where all men and women who seek meaning in their life find a place, a word, and a breath of hope, we pray.

For the bishops and all the participants in the Synodal Assembly, that proposals may spring forth from their listening to the Holy Spirit, so that the entire People of God, in a dynamism of communion, may feel that they are truly participating in the life of the Church and be a living and attractive witness to the newness of the Gospel in the world, we pray.

For theologians: may the gifts of wisdom and revelation accompany their contribution to the work of the Synodal Assembly, so that the gift of faith may become life in all God’s people, we pray.

For young people, seekers of truth and authentic witness, concreteness and spirituality; that, as a result of the synodal journey, they may feel increasingly involved in the Church’s life and mission in the midst of the challenges of today’s world, giving to so many, with the enthusiasm of their age, the hope that springs from an encounter with Jesus, we pray.

For us gathered here in communion with Christian communities throughout the world: that by tasting the goodness of the Lord that comes to each one in the body and blood of Jesus, we may receive from him a fresh view of our neighbor and be made witnesses to generosity in the world in which we live, we pray.

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Stewards of God’s Gifts In today’s Gospel, Jesus tells another parable as a warning to Israel, similar to the past weeks, about the importance of following God in word and deed.

Living Stewardship ~ Pillar of Hospitality: This week, if you are able, perhaps pick up extra groceries to donate to your parish’s food pantry.

The collection for Sunday, October 8, 2023 amounted to $22,539.00.

The collection for Sunday, October 9, 2022 amounted to $20,378.00.

Have you enrolled yet? Visit www.faithdirect.net. Our parish code is NY281.

We Care for Our Parish Community Baptism We celebrate Baptism at 1:30 PM on the second Sunday of the month and at 12:30 PM on the fourth Saturday of the month as scheduled. Please call the Parish Office at least one month in advance to see if a date is available and to arrange to fill out pre-baptismal paperwork. New parents are required to attend a Baptism preparation session held once every month. Those chosen as sponsors for Baptism should lead lives in harmony with the Catholic faith and the role of Godparent.”

4:30-5:30 PM. Classes also meet on Sundays from 9:3010:20 AM for Grades 1 through 8 and on Mondays from 7:00-8:00 PM for Grades 6, 7 and 8. We also offer the option of an online home program for Grades 1 through 7. For information about Grades 1-8 call 627-4028 or email Mrs. Marie Granieri at releddirector@stmary.ws.

Parish Social Ministry We care for our sisters and brothers through our Parish Social Ministry and Food Pantry. For information call 365-2705.

Marriage Youth Ministry

At least six months before you plan to be married and before you make arrangements for the reception, please make an appointment with one of the priests to begin the necessary preparations.

We reach out to our teens though our Youth Ministry Program. For information email youth@stmary.ws or visit stmarysyouth.weebly.com.

Children’s Education

New Parishioners

Saint Mary’s Elementary School offers excellent education in the spirit of the Gospel from grades N, Pre-K to Eighth grade. For information call 627-0184.

We welcome new members to the Catholic Church and to Saint Mary’s Parish. If you are new in the area or interested in learning more about the Catholic faith, please call the Parish Office.

Empowering Character, Innovation and Leadership in our students, Saint Mary’s High School is a dynamic, contemporary, Catholic value-centered school, combining a commitment to academic excellence and educational innovation, with a passion for learning, and an emphasis on moral character development through the pursuit of truth and discovered in faith and reason. For information call 627-2711.

The Religious Education Program provides excellent formation in the Catholic Faith for children in public or private schools. Preparation for First Holy Communion and Confirmation requires two years. Classes are held at St. Mary’s for Grades 1 through 5 on Tuesdays and Thursdays

Opportunities For Prayer The Church is open Monday to Friday until 8:45 PM, on Saturday until the end of the 5:00 PM Mass, and on Sunday until 6:00 PM so that we may have the opportunity for quiet prayer before the Blessed Sacrament. The Miraculous Medal Novena is said each Monday following the 9:00 AM Mass. Monday to Saturday the Rosary is said following the 9:00 AM Mass. Eucharistic Adoration is held every Monday from 3:00 to 5:00 PM in the Chapel. On First Saturdays, the Scriptural Rosary is recited following the 9:00 AM Mass.

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Masses and Special Intentions Donna Chesney Mason Erica Klock Tom Francess Jacob Rivera Gabriel Romeo Jaxson Rivera Helen Kennedy Theresa Fallon Ronald Grubert Ann Shields Christine Marchese Anna Forte Jane Hone Maria DeAngelis Dr. Michael O’Grady Mickey Kennedy Marguerite Barone Gladys Jean Sarah Horsham Vincent Nicky Douglas Martocci, Sr. Nina Principe O’Donnell Katharine Whelan Laarni Melliza Carol Furciato Names will remain on the list for three months. Please email bulletin@stmary.ws if you would like to continue with the listing.

Josephine Arkwright Br. Henry Sawicki, FMS Martin J. Gately ’55, ’59 Terence N. Quinn

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Masses for the Week Monday, October 16th St. Hedwig, Religious St. Margaret Mary Alacoque, Virgin Rom 1:1-7, Lk 11:29-32 9:00 AM | Veronica Brooks Tuesday, October 17th St. Ignatius of Antioch, Bishop & Martyr Rom 1:16-25, Lk 11:37-41 9:00 AM | Pierina De Marinis Wednesday, October 18th Ss. Luke, Evangelist 2 Tm 4:10-17b, Lk 10:1-9 9:00 AM | Sal Butta Thursday, October 19th Ss. John de Brébeuf & Isaac Jogues, Priests, and Companions, Martyrs Rom 3:21-30, Lk 11:47-54 7:00 AM | Michael Sangirardi 9:00 AM | Mimi & Vincent de Venoge Friday, October 20th St.Paul of the Cross, Priest Rom 4:1-8, Lk 12:1-7 9:00 AM | Otto Hildebrand (living) Saturday, October 21st Rom 4:13, 16-18, Lk 12:8-12 9:00 AM | Richard Masterson 5:00 PM | Kathryn & Arthur O’Brien Thomas J. Flynn, Sr. Nunzio DiMieri Casey Brosokas Jeanette Albanese Peter Militello Sunday, October 22nd The Twenty-Ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time World Mission Sunday Is 45:1, 4-6, 1 Thes 1:1-5b, Mt 22:15-21 7:30 AM | People of the Parish 9:00 AM | Sabrina Brunetti 10:30 AM | Connie Cuttita 12:00 Noon | Mary Simone Ellen Coughlin Salvatore Mendolia Pierina De Marinis Marie Gula Stefanos George Patricia Mirabile

Cover: The Holy Family.

Artist: Bartolomé Estaban Murillo (1617-1682).

If you have a service member that you would like to add to this list please e-mail bulletin@stmary.ws. Please include name, rank and branch of service.

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Mass Intentions Book for April 1, 2024 - June 30, 2024 will open on Tuesday, October 31st.

Please note our policy whereby you will be able to reserve only two Masses during the first two weeks of the opening of the Mass Intentions Book for the second quarter of 2024.

After that time, you may reserve any additional Masses for the period. Mass intentions may be requested in person at the Parish Office, Monday through Friday, 9:30 AM to 4:00 PM, Sunday 9:30 AM to 2:00 PM or call (516-6270385) or email (information@stmary.ws) for other options.

Readings and Questions for Faith Sharing on the Twenty-Ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time

First Time Andrew Dion and Katherine McCarthy St. Mary, St. Mary, Manhasset, NY Manhasset, NY

Reading I: Isaiah 45:1,4-6 I am the Lord, there is no other.

Donald Denihan and Tiffany Trilli St. Mary, Homestead, FL Manhasset, NY Second Time Joseph Marin and Anne Wilder St. Ignatius, St. Ignatius, Newton, MA Newton, MA

Reading II: 1 Thessalonians 1:1-5b Unceasingly calling to mind your work of faith and labor of love and endurance in hope of our Lord Jesus Christ, before our God anf Father.

Gospel: Matthew 22:15-21 “Then repay to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and to God what belongs to God.”

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Question for Adults: How can I help government leaders cooperate with God’s will?

Question for Children: How can I recognize leaders who are doing the will of God?

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Parish Social Ministry DRIVE-THROUGH HOLIDAY FOOD DROP MONDAY, NOVEMBER 6TH 4:00 - 8:00 PM IN THE PARKING LOT BEHIND THE CHURCH God’s people of all ages are suffering in poverty right here in our neighborhood.

They need food assistance all through the year but especially during the holiday season. Good Samaritan House is hosting a “drive-through holiday food drop” with the goal of collecting the freshest possible food items to allow our neighbors suffering in poverty to enjoy a true feast with their families on Thanksgiving. We will be hosting this drive-through collection on Monday, November 6th from 4:00 PM - 800 PM. This drive through collection will take place in the parking lot behind the church. (You may also drop the items by our office on Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday from 11:00 AM – 3:00 PM the weeks of November 6th and 13th.)

The items we are collecting for this drive are:

Frozen Oven Stuffer Chickens* Frozen Turkeys (10-15 lbs. max) 3-8 Pound Bags of Potatoes Crescent Rolls or Biscuit Tubes Frozen Pies, Cakes, Cookies Cake, Muffin, or Brownie Mix Fresh Apples

Fresh Oranges Frozen Pounds of Butter Cans of Corn Cans of Carrots Cans of Beans Cans of Mixed Vegetables Quarts of Milk (no gallons)

*Stuffer chickens are preferred by some clients due to their size. No stuffing, gravy, canned yams, or cranberry sauce, please!

Unfortunately, for these families this holiday meal is only that - a one day meal. While we hope it will be very enjoyable for them, they still need food assistance throughout the rest of the month and into next year. The St. Mary’s community does a wonderful job of supporting these families, but we are asking for a little extra at this difficult time.

If you are able to provide grocery store gift cards to the parish social ministry office, they would be put to good use providing much needed food to these families during the holidays and into next year. In addition to grocery store gift cards, we provide non-perishable food items to all our families throughout the year. Please consider donating any non-perishable food you can. We are always in need and nothing goes to waste. Thank you in advance for your continued generosity and may God bless you and your family over this holiday season and in 2024.

Standard Pantry Non-Perishables: Cereal, Oatmeal, Soup, Tuna Fish, Beans, Baked Beans, Chef Boyardee, Pancake Mix, Syrup, Chili/Stew, Peanut Better, Jelly, Pasta, Jarred Pasta Sauce, Mac and Cheese, Instant Potatoes, Small Bags of Rice, Cake Mix, Jell-O, Crackers, Snacks, Canned Fruit, Juice, Instant Coffee, Tea

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Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament Reasons for Prayer: A-C-T-S Thanksgiving Litany

Adoration I adore You, Bread from Heaven.

I adore You, Bread of Angels. I adore You, My Jesus, truly present in the Blessed Sacrament.

(Pause for silent adoration.)

I adore You, Jesus, my true life because You died for love of me. I adore You, Jesus, Divine Light, because You show me the way to heaven. I adore You, Jesus, Divine Lamb. Who takes away the sin of the world.

(Pause for silent adoration.)

My God and Savior Jesus Christ, true God and true Man, I firmly believe that You are really and bodily present in the Blessed Sacrament of the Altar. From the very depths of my heart, I adore You.

Contrition My Jesus, I am sorry for my sins. I am sorry for the times I have offended You. Help me to tum away from sin. Help me to live more like You every day.

Because You are in the Holy Eucharist Jesus, we thank You. Because You offer Yourself in Holy Mass Jesus, we thank You. Because You come to us in Holy Communion Jesus, we thank You. Because You remain always in the tabernacle Jesus, we thank You. Because of Your great love for us Jesus, we thank You. Because of Your great goodness to us Jesus, we thank You. Because You understand us Jesus, we thank You. Because You love us Jesus, we thank You. Because every gift comes from You Jesus, we thank You. Jesus, because of Your Dear Sacred Heart Jesus, we thank You. (Pause to thank Jesus for your blessings)

Supplication Jesus, I pray for peace in the world. in my family and in my heart. I ask You to bless my family and friends. I ask You to bless the poor and the homeless, the sick and the dying. I ask You to send more priests and religious! to bless our Pope, and to protect the church from all harm.

Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament with Closing Benediction Mondays 3:00 - 5:00 PM in the Church

Altar Server Training

Let the little children come to me... (Matt 19:14)

Children’s Liturgy of the Word Every Sunday at the 9:00 AM Mass

Begins on Monday, October 16th, at 5:15 PM in the church All children in the 4th Grade on up are welcome.

Any questions, please contact Fr. Dominik at frdominik@stmary.ws or call 516-627-0385, ext. 1006 Church of Saint Mary | 8

Rosary Society Our Mission Statement: The Rosary Society fosters devotion to Mary through prayer and good works for causes that would be dear to her heart Invest 20 minutes of your day to pray the Rosary, and see the difference it will make in your life.

If you would like the Rosarians to pray for a special intention, please e-mail us at rosarysociety@stmary.ws.

October is the Month of the Holy Rosary “With the Rosary, the Christian people sit at the school of Mary and are led to contemplate the beauty on the face of Christ and to experience the depths of His love.

Through the Rosary, the faithful receive abundant grace, as though from the very hands of the Mother of the Redeemer.” - St. John Paul II, 2002, as the Year of the Rosary and addition of the Luminous Mysteries were announced.

Sunday, October 29th - All parishioners are invited to join us for a Musical Rosary in the Church after the 12:00 Noon Mass.

RCIA and Adult Faith Formation Do You Know Someone Who Would Like to Become Catholic?

Do You Need to Complete Your Sacraments of Initiation?

This Year’s Program Has Begun, but There Is Still Time to Join!

The RCIA process for adults has begun meeting on Wednesday evenings from 7:30 until 9:00 PM and Sunday mornings from 9:00 until 10:20 AM. For more information, call Sr. Teresa (see below).

It is not too late to join either as a member of the presentation team or one of the candidates.

Sister Teresa can be contacted about our RCIA and other Adult Faith Formation programs at 516-627-0385, ext.

1010. Her office hours are Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday between 10:00AM and 4:00PM and other times by appointment.

Society of St. Vincent de Paul In today’s Gospel we hear Jesus say: “Many are invited, but few are chosen.” To give thanks for all that God has given to you, have you considered answering the call to help serve the poor by joining the Society of St. Vincent de Paul?

Our St. Vincent de Paul Conference is able to help our neighbors in need through the generosity of our St. Mary’s parishioners. Each time you donate, either through the collection slots at the doors of the church, or in an envelope marked for St. Vincent de Paul, you are helping our neighbors within St. Mary’s Parish. If you or someone you know is in need of assistance, contact the St. Vincent de Paul Society at 516627-0385, ext. 1125, or email SVDP@stmary.ws. To donate furniture, clothing or household items, please call the store in Garden City Park at 516-746-8250. Thank you for your continued support.

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The Schools of Saint Mary “Falling” Back to School

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all is officially here, and our students have been “falling” in love with learning! Nursery students have been enjoying their time playing and making new friends! They had a sing-a-long in Mr. Prezzano’s Music class and were even able to hear him play the guitar!

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rs. Deriu’s Kindergarten class is sweet to the core! Students learned about the parts of an apple and then tasted four different types - Red Delicious, Granny Smith, Golden Delicious, and Honeycrisp to see which was the class favorite. It was a tie between Red Delicious and Granny Smith! Which apple is your favorite?

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ur fifth graders have been learning about exponents in math class. They put their skills to the test with a multiplication scavenger hunt around their classroom, and were able to collaborate with their classmates when problem solving!

High School Hosts Mock Admissions Event

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he St. Mary’s High School Guidance Department recently hosted its annual Mock Admissions Event. Seven college representatives met with small groups of parents and students to reveal insider tips on the college admissions process. The event was a huge success because of the engagement of the St. Mary’s families and the enthusiasm of the admissions representatives. We are incredibly grateful for the representatives who joined us for Mock Admissions. We hope that our relationship with these colleges and numerous others will continue to grow as they recognize the exceptional achievements of the St. Mary’s High School community. This year’s representatives joining us were from Hofstra University, Iona University, Ithaca College, St. John’s University, Stonehill College, SUNY Albany, and the University of Scranton. For more information on our Guidance Department’s exceptional services, please get in touch with Mrs. Jessica Kemp, director of student services (jkemp@saintmaryhs.org).

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“Eachh one will bee like a sheltter from the wind and a refuge from m the storm, llike streams of water in tthe desert an nd the shhadow of a great g rock in a thirsty lan nd.” (Isaiah 4:6) 4 October 2023 As wee enter the beautiful b seasson of autum mn, it is a wo onderful timee to reflect oon the spirituual growth aand expansion of ourr faith, especcially as we approach the culminatio on of our lituurgical year. I pray that yyou and youur loved oness are w well and that you have a blessed b holid day season with w them. I would like tto express m my gratitude to you and your fellow parish hioners for the t prayers and a support that t have beeen offered on behalf of oour parish.

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For the Patient Audience Seminar 1: Monday, October 16 1:45-2:45 PM

Understanding Alzheimer’s and Dementia

Learn about detection, causes, risk factors, stages and treatment of Alzheimer’s disease.

Seminar 2: Monday, October 23 1:45-2:45 PM

10 Warning Signs of Alzheimer’s

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Learn the 10 Warning Signs of Alzheimer’s disease, hear from people who have the disease, and find out how to recognize the signs in yourself and others.

Seminar 3: Monday, October 30 6:30-7:30 PM

Dementia Conversations

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For the Caregiver Audience

When someone is showing signs of dementia, it’s time to talk. The Alzheimer’s Association Conversations about Dementia Program is designed to help you talk with your family about some challenging and often uncomfortable topics around Alzheimer’s and dementia.

Seminar 4: Monday, November 6 6:30-7:30 PM

Effective Communication Strategies

Seminar 5: Monday, November 13 6:30-7:30 PM

Managing Money: A Caregiver’s Guide to Finances

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This program provides practical information and resources to help dementia care partners learn to decode verbal and behavioral messages from people living with dementia.

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This interactive program offers information about how caregiving impacts finances, preparing for discussions about finances, and steps to lower chances of financial abuse. You will also learn about legal and financial documents that should be put in place.

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Pre-registration is required. All seminars will take place in the Parish Ministry Center, which has elevator to access the lower level. Please arrive 10 minutes prior to the start time for check-in. All are welcome to attend!

Three ways to register:

• Scan the QR Code for the Registration Form • Visit https://tinyurl.com/stmaryseminars • Call the Good Samaritan House at 516 365 2705

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Register for one or more seminars today! Visit our website for all details and Registration Form. Please encourage family and friends to attend!

St. Mary’s to Present Alzheimer’s Educational Series

SCAN CODE to Register!

• 18 5 3

The Society for the Propagation of the Faith a Pontifical Mission Society

World Mission Sunday 2023 October 22nd

Hearts on fire, feet on the move.

Luke 24:13-35

Second Collection Next Weekend Next Sunday, we will celebrate World Mission Sunday.

Pope Francis invites the entire Church to support mission dioceses in Africa, Asia, the Pacific Islands, and parts of Latin America and Europe, where priests, religious and lay leaders serve the world’s most vulnerable communities.

Please keep the Pope’s missions in your prayers and be generous in next week’s collection for the Society for the

ST. MARY’S GIFT SHOP IS O P E N

on SUNDAYS

after the 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, & 12:00 Noon Masses.It is located in the Parish Ministry Center below the church.

516-627-0385 ext. 1033

Parish Blood Drive a Big Success In the midst of a national blood emergency, our September 24th Blood Drive collected a record 80 units of blood! That is almost twice the number of our usual donations! Thank you to all those who came to give the gift of life.

Twenty-Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time ”My God will supply whatever you need.”

Phillipians 4:13 and 19 “I can do all things in Him who strengthens me. My God will fully supply whatever you need.” Make your requests known to God and he will bless your marriage and your life. Check out a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Experience. You can find one by looking up WWME.org. Some of the dates to sign up are: October 20-22, 2023 in Barre, Vermont (St. Monica/St. Michael) November 10-12, 2023 in Huntington, NY (Immaculate Conception Seminary) Worldwide Marriage Encounter sponsors a variety of in-person and virtual marriage experiences, some on weekends and some on seven weekdays. Couples explore their relationship with each other, God, and the Church.

Registration is limited; there is a $100 application fee.

For more information or to apply, call Kevin & Regina Hickson at 631-486-8607 or https://wwmenyli.org/.

KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS FR. WILLIAM A. DALY COUNCIL #2122

Diaper Drive SECOND ANNUAL

The Fr. WIlliam A. Daly Columbiettes Invite You to A Fun Evening of Bingo Friday, October 27th, at 7:00 PM St. Aloysius Church Parish Center 592 Middleneck Road, Great Neck (Parish Center is behind the church and is wheelchair accessible) Cost is $10.00 includes 1 bingo packet Additional cards will be available for purchase 16 and older, please.

CASH Prizes 50/50 and Lottery Tree Raffle Holiday Boutique Snacks, Dessert, Coffee/Tea will be served or feel free to bring your own.

Seating is limited.

Must RSVP with payment by October 20th.

Checks payable to Fr. William A. Daly Columbiettes Send your Name, Address, Phone No., Number of reservations to St. Aloysius Church, Attn: Sara, 592 Middleneck Road, Great Neck, NY 11023

The Fr. William Daly Council #2122 will be collecting diapers, baby formula, blankets and such for the ASAP Program (Aid & Support After Pregnancy).

This collection will coincide with Respect Life Month starting October 7-22. Boxes will be in the south lobby of the Church. Please contact Thomas Mayerhauser at 516-852-0812 with any questions.

Thank you for your generosity!

Knights of Columbus Father William A. Daly S.J. Council #2122 Serving St. Mary’s Parish in Manhasset and St. Aloysius Parish In Great Neck www.kofc2122.org

What is a Knights of Columbus Family?

We are Catholic families building a bridge to our faith.

Our lives, time, efforts, and resources are dedicated to these values: Charity. Unity. Fraternity. Patriotism.

Bulletin Submission Policy We welcome submissions to the weekly Bulletin. All copy and material is due by noon on Mondays preferably in electronic format - original documents, no PDFs. Photos or supporting graphics should be hi-resolution and sent via E-mail as attachments. Phone photos should be “actual size.” No copyrighted material, text or photos. The Bulletin Editor may edit submissions for content, clarity and/or size. Please E-mail your submission to bulletin@stmary.ws.

We come from different places, backgrounds, and all stages of life. But the common thread is our Catholic faith. We are Catholic families seeking to improve ourselves and the world. It’s one thing to say who you are. It’s another thing is to live it. Put your values into practice. Become a Knights of Columbus family.

Interested? Please call: Tony Racioppo 917 539 0859 Dan Garcia 516 358 1817 Ladies interested in joining the Columbiettes Please contact Maura Clifford at Macliff56@gmail.com

The Twenty-Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time | October 15, 2023

Marriage Struggling?

Do you feel alone?

Are you frustrated or angry with each other?

Do you argue or have you just stopped talking to each other?

Does talking about it only make it worse? x Are you separated or divorced, or thinking about separation or divorce? x x x x

Another marriage-saving weekend is coming to the Metro/New York Area: November 3-5, November, 4-62023 2022 The Retrouvaille Program helps couples through difficult times in their marriages. To be connected directly and confidentially to someone who can help, or to register, contact:

1-800-470-2230

Venerable Anthony Vincent Gallo Diocesan Priest, Oblate of the Congregation of the Priests of the Sacred Heart Montforte Irpino: 11 January 1899 - Rome: 2 May 1934

or

www.helpourmarriage.org Long Island/Metro Retrouvaille is a 5013c non-profit, peer ministry. Couples of all faiths, or no faith, are encouraged to attend, and no one is ever turned away for lack of funds.

Retrouvaille (Retro vi – French for rediscover) Because No Marriage is Beyond Hope

O Most Holy Trinity, Who deigned to raise Venerable Anthony Vincent Gallo to the priesthood, and endowed him with precious gifts, especially that of a burning love for suffering and immolation, we humbly beseech You, if it be Your will, that he may be glorified on earth, and that we may obtain through his intercession the particular grace which we ask for with living faith.

Amen.