Church of Saint Mary Parish Bulletin: February 11, 2024

CHURCH of SAINT MARY The Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time February 11, 2024

Reverend Father Robert A. Romeo | Pastor Reverend Father Dominik Wegiel | Parochial Vicar Reverend Father Rafal Borowiejski | Parochial Vicar Reverend Father Edward Obi, MSP | Parochial Vicar

1300 Northern Boulevard | Manhasset, New York 11030 516 627 0385 | Fax 516 627 6070 www.saintmarysmanhasset.org

Parish Mission Statement We, the community of Saint Mary’s, Manhasset, building on our rich heritage of Catholic faith and tradition, center ourselves in the Eucharist and honor God in proclaiming the Good News of Jesus Christ.

Guided by the Holy Spirit, we seek to be the presence of Christ through our liturgical, educational and social ministries.

We dedicate our time, talent and treasure to the service of all as we build the kingdom of God in our world. We commit to this mission in the name of Jesus Christ.

Church of Saint Mary 1300 Northern Boulevard Manhasset, New York 11030 (516) 627-0385 Fax (516) 627-6070 www.saintmarysmanhasset.org

Schedule of Masses Thursday 7:00 AM (when school is in session) Monday–Friday 9:00 AM Saturday 9:00 AM, 5:00 PM Sunday 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, 12:00 Noon

PARISH DIRECTORY Pastoral Staff Rev. Fr. Robert A. Romeo Pastor 627-0385 | ext. 1004 pastor@stmary.ws Rev. Fr. Dominik Wegiel Parochial Vicar 627-0385 | ext. 1006 frdominik@stmary.ws Rev. Fr. Rafal Borowiejski Parochial Vicar

Sacrament of Penance

Rev. Fr. Edward Obi, MSP Parochial Vicar

Saturdays from 4:00-4:45 PM and by appointment. Please call 627-0385.

Parish Staff

Anointing of the Sick The Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick is celebrated in the Chapel on the second Sunday of the month following the 10:30 AM Mass. If you are unable to come to Church, please call the Parish Office to make arrangements for Anointing or to receive the Eucharist.

Parish Office 627-0385 | Fax 627-6070 Monday 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM Tuesday - Friday 9:30 AM - 4:00 PM Saturday - (phone only) 10:00 AM–1:30 PM Sunday 9:30 AM - 2:00 PM E-mail: information@stmary.ws

Parish Social Ministry 365-2705 Monday-Wednesday-Thursday 11:00 AM-3:00 PM E-mail: kkosciusko@stmary.ws St. Vincent de Paul Society: svdp@stmary.ws

Religious Education 627-4028 Monday 12:00 Noon-8:00 PM Wednesday 9:00 AM–5:00 PM Tuesday and Thursday 9:00 AM–6:00 PM Closed on Friday

Jane Clifford Bulletin Editor bulletin@stmary.ws Marie T. Granieri Director of Religious Education 627-4028 | ext. 1127 releddirector@stmary.ws Vincent Hartley Facilities Manager 627-0385 | ext. 1002 Kathleen Kosciusko Director of Parish Social Ministry 627-0385 | ext. 1126 kkosciusko@stmary.ws Jennifer LaChance Office Manager 627-0385 information@stmary.ws Daniel Maimone Music Director 627-0385 | ext. 1021 dmaimone@saintmarysmanhasset.org Vanessa Quiros Parish Office 627-0385 vquiros@stmary.ws Sr. Teresa Raftery, IHM Adult Faith Formation 627-0385 | ext. 1010 traftery@stmary.ws

The Schools of Saint Mary Nursery through 12th Grade Very Rev. Dom Daniel Nash, Can. Reg. President

627-2711 president@stmary.ws Norma Ragalli Stafford Director of Admissions 627-2711 | ext 1084 nstafford@stmary.ws Edward Short Vice President of Development 627-2711 | ext 1120 eshort@stmary.ws Eileen M. Symmons ’82, ’86 Director of Communications 627-2711 esymmons@stmary.ws Kiera Gmelich Walsh Director of Alumni and Parent Relations 627-2711 | ext. 1162 kwalsh@stmary.ws Sarah de Venoge Griffin ’02, ’06 Liaison for School Relations sgriffin@saintmarysmanhasset.org St. Mary’s Elementary School 627-0184 www.stmary11030.org Theresa A. Kemp Principal tkemp@stmary11030.org St. Mary’s High School 627-2711 www.saintmaryshs.org Gerard J. Buckley Principal gbuckley@saintmaryshs.org

From the Pastor’s Desk Dear Parishioners,

“Do everything for the Glory of God.” (1 Corinthians 10:31) What wonderful words these are to live by! How wonderful our world would be if more and more people could embrace this mantra of life. But what does it mean to give glory to God in all things? Maybe these are some practical ways to put flesh on St. Paul’s invitation to give glory to God in our daily lives.

St. Paul tells us in his letter to the Colossians to surround ourselves with songs of praise and worship to God. When our hearts and lips continually offer those hymns of praise, it lifts up our spirits. It has the ability for us to experience the presence of God. It may even raise us above any difficult situation so we can know we are not alone.

Serving others and placing them first offers us an opportunity to see as Jesus does. His concern in today’s Gospel was for the curing of the leper. He knew that this disease separated the man from the community. It forced him to live a life of loneliness and exile. The reaching out of Jesus, even before the cure, I am sure that man was comforted by Jesus. He was acknowledged as a human being and not as a shunned entity. Each time we reach out to any person in need we help to restore their human dignity; we restore their sense of worth. How often can we consciously or unconsciously find ourselves reacting in a negative way to the “lepers” in our midst, like those who contracted the COVID-19 virus? Not that we take unnecessary risks or put ourselves in danger, but we might have an attitude that reveals a judgment upon them. Like anyone in need, they require the love of Christians. This service might just mean a phone call, or a note expressing a prayer for a speedy recovery. Doesn’t this serve as a reminder that people are still part of a loving community?

Share the Gospel of Jesus. Talk about your faith and what it has done for your life. Not in a threating or controlling manner, but with a gentle reminder for all that God has done. In these days of secularization, we may become leery or fearful to speak about faith. I can assure you people need to hear it. We shouldn’t place our faith in such a box that it never sees the light of day. All people, most especially the young, need to hear and experience through us that faith is important to our daily lives.

We may, by our words and witness, bring others to a deeper relationship with Jesus. Hearing our own story out loud may even concretize and deepen it for their own lives.

God has given each of us a purpose in this life. Our journey should be to discover what that path is. When we find the purpose that God has for us, then we can act in His will. This is meant to bring peace and joy to our lives. God wants only the best for us. So this path of discovery and discernment should be ongoing and, yes, even daily. We think, erroneously, that when we become settled in our life; e.g. adults, that the discernment of our purpose is completed. Not so! God calls us in every age and moment to deepen the purpose He offers us. In the daily reflection and examination of conscience the question of where God wants us to grow and move should be paramount. The true purpose of our lives, which serves God, keeps us on His path.

In daily life, stay connected to Jesus. Silent prayer (that personal conversation with Jesus), daily reflection on the Sacred Scriptures, and Mass give us wonderful opportunities to remain in Jesus. When we have put Jesus in such a prominent place in our lives, it can make us more aware of His presence within us. This daily presence then has the ability to make us respond more deeply as believing Catholic Christians.

In my mind, probably the most import way to serve God is to have the eyes that see these and other opportunities to be the healing and joyful presence of the Lord in our world. God puts people in our lives and puts us equally in the path of each other so that we, as His beloved people, may have the opportunity to be His instruments of not only giving but also of receiving His peace in a world that can seem so consumed with darkness. Those moments are there…we just need the eyes to see, the ears to hear, and a heart that feels!

So let us continue to serve God in all things even if we may think of them as small and “insignificant.” If done for Him, we then truly ”do them for the glory of God!” This Wednesday is Ash Wednesday, the beginning of the Great and Holy Season of Lent. Please see this bulletin for the regulations for fast and abstinence. I encourage you to pray the ancient prayer form of the Stations of the Cross each Friday in Lent here at St. Mary’s at 7:00 PM in the church.

In Jesus, Fr. Bob

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Stewards of God’s Gifts In today’s Gospel, Jesus heals the leper who came to Him for help.

Living Stewardship ~ (Pillar of Prayer): Is there something in your life that is causing you stress or discomfort?

Come to Jesus in prayer (especially before the Blessed Sacrament) and bring your troubles to Him.

The collection for Sunday, February 4, 2024 amounted to $24,665.00.

The collection for Sunday, February 5, 2023 amounted to $24,526.00.

Have you enrolled yet? Visit www.faithdirect.net. Our parish code is NY281.

We Care for Our Parish Community Baptism We celebrate Baptism at 1:30 PM on the second Sunday of the month and at 12:30 PM on the fourth Saturday of the month as scheduled. Please call the Parish Office at least one month in advance to see if a date is available and to arrange to fill out pre-baptismal paperwork. New parents are required to attend a Baptism preparation session held once every month. Those chosen as sponsors for Baptism should lead lives in harmony with the Catholic faith and the role of Godparent.”

4:30-5:30 PM. Classes also meet on Sundays from 9:3010:20 AM for Grades 1 through 8 and on Mondays from 7:00-8:00 PM for Grades 6, 7 and 8. We also offer the option of an online home program for Grades 1 through 7. For information about Grades 1-8 call 627-4028 or email Mrs. Marie Granieri at releddirector@stmary.ws.

Parish Social Ministry We care for our sisters and brothers through our Parish Social Ministry and Food Pantry. For information call 365-2705.

Marriage Youth Ministry

At least six months before you plan to be married and before you make arrangements for the reception, please make an appointment with one of the priests to begin the necessary preparations.

We reach out to our teens though our Youth Ministry Program. For information email youth@stmary.ws or visit stmarysyouth.weebly.com.

Children’s Education

New Parishioners

Saint Mary’s Elementary School offers excellent education in the spirit of the Gospel from grades N, Pre-K to Eighth grade. For information call 627-0184.

We welcome new members to the Catholic Church and to Saint Mary’s Parish. If you are new in the area or interested in learning more about the Catholic faith, please call the Parish Office.

Empowering Character, Innovation and Leadership in our students, Saint Mary’s High School is a dynamic, contemporary, Catholic value-centered school, combining a commitment to academic excellence and educational innovation, with a passion for learning, and an emphasis on moral character development through the pursuit of truth and discovered in faith and reason. For information call 627-2711.

The Religious Education Program provides excellent formation in the Catholic Faith for children in public or private schools. Preparation for First Holy Communion and Confirmation requires two years. Classes are held at St. Mary’s for Grades 1 through 5 on Tuesdays and Thursdays

Opportunities For Prayer The Church is open Monday to Friday until 8:45 PM, on Saturday until the end of the 5:00 PM Mass, and on Sunday until 6:00 PM so that we may have the opportunity for quiet prayer before the Blessed Sacrament. The Miraculous Medal Novena is said each Monday following the 9:00 AM Mass. Monday to Saturday the Rosary is said following the 9:00 AM Mass. Eucharistic Adoration is held every Monday from 3:00 to 5:00 PM in the Chapel. On First Saturdays, the Scriptural Rosary is recited following the 9:00 AM Mass.

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Masses and Special Intentions Ronald Grubert Mickey Kennedy Dr. Michael O’Grady Sarah Horsham Gladys Jean Nina Principe Douglas Martocci, Sr. Cole Marguglio Theresa Fallon Katharin Whelan Sandy Pittman Christine Marchese Carol Furciato Richard Atkinson Maria DeAngelis Mason Anthony Polizzi Donna Chesney Tom Francess Mary Beth Brady Erica Klock Gabriel Romeo Jacob Rivera Helen Kennedy Jaxson Rivera Ann Shields Names will remain on the list for three months. Please email bulletin@stmary.ws if you would like to continue with the listing.

Roger Barnaby, Sr. Anne P. Carlson Margaret Anne Arenare George Rocklein Hilton, Nathaniel, SGT, USA Horner, Brian G., 1stLt, USMC Howard, Edward M., GySgt, USMC Jones, Scott B., LT, USN Jones, Katherine L., LTJG, USN Kennedy, Michael, Col, USAF LaManna, Vincent S., Jr., PVT, USA Landolphi, Michael, ENS, USN Lanza, Anthony E., LtCol, USMC Madden, Michael E., Major, USAF Major, A. Edward, III, LTC, USA Marine Medium Tilt Rotor Squadron 161 Marine Transport Squadron 352 McGorry, Patrick F., HM2, USN McKievear, Gary, LT, USA Millau, Jeffrey, PFC, USMC Morris, Jr., Brian J., ENS, USN O’Leary, Jason, SSgt, USAF Petracca, Evan L., LTJG, USN Quinn, Anthony, Jr., SGT, USA Richardson, Timothy, PV2, USA Radman, Paul Cpl, USMC Rodi, Caroline G., CAPT, USN Saville, John A., ENS, USN Sharkey, John J., LtCol, USMC Spivak III, Edmund, Capt, USAF Sweeney, Timothy, CPT, USA Swersky, Roberto, Capt, USMC Tafone, Samantha, SGT, USA Ullrich, Kenneth C., HN, USN Unger, Matthew J., SPC, USA Vachris, Madison, LTJG, USN Wood, Kelly, BMSR, USN

125th Brigade Support Battalion 23rd Marine Regiment 25th Marine Regiment 2-4 GSAB Task Force Mustang 2-211th GSAB Task Force War Horse 51st Security Force Squadron 75th Ranger Regiment 82nd Expeditionary Rescue Squadron Alacqua, Alexander, 1LT, USA Amerson, Jason, CPT, USA Anderson, Michael, 1LT, USA Arnold, James, LCpl, USMC Arnoux, Seraph, PFC, USA Avasthi, David, Capt, USAF Baber, Joseph, Maj, USAF Broderick, Evan, SGT, USA Broderick, Steven, SN, USN Brodie, Virgina H., 2ndLt, USMC Brown, Jason, SGT, USA Collins, Matthew, LT, USN Fontanetta, Joseph, Maj, USMC Hannan, Jack, ENS, USN Hayes, Andrew, Capt, USMC Hellman, Thomas, 2d Lt, USSF Hernandez, Steven, SSgt, USAF Higgins, James, GySgt, USMC Hilton, Justin, SGT, USA If you have a service member that you would like to add to this list please e-mail bulletin@stmary.ws. Please include name, rank and branch of service.

Masses for the Week Monday, February 12th Jas 1:1-11, Mk 8:11-13 9:00 AM | John Howard Tuesday, February 13th Jas 1:12-18, Mk 8:14-21 9:00 AM | Mae Pierson Wednesday, February 14th Ash Wednesday 9:00 AM | Richard Masterson 12:00 Noon | John J. Howard 4:00 PM | Liturgy of the Word 7:00 PM | Jerry Raihl Thursday, February 15th Thursday after Ash Wednesday Dt 30:15-20, Lk 9:22-25 7:00 AM | Virginia Anne Schiller Waicul ’58 9:00 AM | Pierina DeMarinis Friday, February 16th Friday after Ash Wednesday Is 58:1-9a, Mt 9:14-15 9:00 AM | Kathleen Rorke Saturday, February 17th The Seven Holy Founders of the Servite Order Is 58:9b-14, Lk 5:27-32 9:00 AM | William Sanzeri 5:00 PM | Harry Pierson Robert W. Symmons, Sr. Angelo Papa Thomas J. Flynn, Sr. Michael Anthony O’Neill Pierina DeMarinis Rick Carvia Sunday, February 18th The First Sunday of Lent Gn 9:8-15, 1 Pt 3:18-22, Mk 1:12-15 7:30 AM | People of the Parish 9:00 AM | William Lewis 10:30 AM | John Howard 12:00 Noon | Robert W. Symmons, Sr. (1st anniversary) Maria Borowiejska Yolanda & Anthony Spinetta Filippa & Gaetano D’Arrigo Anthony Arenare Fara Vitale Milazzo Marilyn Herschlein

Cover Art: The Healing of the Leper.

Artist: Harold Copping (1863-1932).

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ST. MARY’S GIFT SHOP

IS OPEN ON SUNDAYS AFTER THE 9:00, 10:30 AM, & 12:00 NOON MASSES WE HAVE BEAUTIFUL ITEMS FOR LENT AND EASTER Located in the Parish Ministry Center 516-627-0385 ext. 1033

EASTER SUNDAY MASS INTENTIONS MAY BE REQUESTED BEGINNING TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 13TH

Readings and Questions for Faith Sharing on the First Sunday of Lent Reading I: Genesis 9:8-15 See, I am now establishing my covenant with you and your descendants after you and with every living creature that was with you.

Bread & Wine are offered this week in loving memory of

Joseph & Harriet Brensic

Reading II: 1 Peter 3:18-22 Christ suffered for sins once, the righteous for the sake of the unrighteous, that He might lead you to God. Gospel: Mark 1:12-15 This is the time of fulfillment.

The kingdom of God is at hand.

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Question for Adults: How will I use these forty days to make myself a better disciple of Jesus?

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Question for Children: What am I doing during Lent to get ready for Easter Sunday?

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at St. Mary’s February 14th A Holyday of Fast and Abstinence* Mass at 9:00 AM, 12:00 Noon, and 7:00 PM Liturgy of the Word Service at 4:00 PM Ashes will be distributed at all Masses and the 4:00 PM Prayer Service.

Today, the Church begins the season of Lent, a time of preparation for the ascent to the holy mountain of Easter. We are invited to listen more intently to the Word of God and devote ourselves to prayer, fasting, and alsmgiving so that we are prepared through a spirit of repentance to renew our baptismal promises on Easter. As the priest imposes the ashes on each person, he says one of the traditional formulas: Repent, and believe in the Gospel. or Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return.

*FAST AND ABSTINENCE - Those who have reached their fourteenth year are bound to abstain entirely from meat on Ash Wednesday and all the Fridays of Lent. All Catholics between the ages of eighteen and fifty-nine are also bound to fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. This means to limit oneself to a single full meal and avoid food between meals. Two other light meals, which together do not equal a full meal, may be taken during the day.

DAILY MASS DURING LENT is celebrated at 9:00 AM Monday through Saturday 7:00 AM on Thursday

EXPOSITION AND ADORATION OF THE BLESSED SACRAMENT WITH BENEDICTION is held on Mondays from 3:00 to 8:00 PM in the Church.

STATIONS OF THE CROSS are held in the Church every Friday at 7:00 PM. SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION Lent is a special time to celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation.

Priests are available for confession each Saturday from 4:00 to 4:45 PM and Monday from 7:00 to 7:45 PM or by appointment. Call the Parish Office at 627-0385 to make an appointment.

RECONCILIATION MONDAY On the Monday of Holy Week, March 25th, confessions will be heard from 2:00 to 4:00 PM and 6:00 to 9:00 PM in all the churches in the Rockville Centre diocese, the Brooklyn diocese and the Archdiocese of New York.

The Rosary Society Annual Day of Recollection is scheduled for Thursday, March 14th. Details to follow.

Lenten Soup Supper, hosted by the Daughters of Mary, will take place on Friday, March 15th, prior to the Stations of the Cross. Details to come.

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RCIA and Adult Faith Formation The RCIA candidates will be attending the Rite of Election at St. Agnes Cathedral next Sunday, February 18th. They will join with the RCIA candidates from all the parishes in Nassau County. A significant part of the service enables the candidates to go up to the altar accompanied by their sponsors to sign their names in the “Book of Life” as persons who have chosen to follow the Lord. Do keep them in your prayers.

Looking for Something Special to Do for Lent?

Join a Prayer Group!

Sr. Teresa will be offering opportunities for prayer in a group setting here at St. Mary’s during Lent. If you are interested, give Sister a call or stop by during her office hours listed below.

Sister Teresa can be contacted about our Adult Faith Formation programs at 516-627-0385, ext. 1010. Her office hours are Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday between 10:00 AM and 4:00 PM and other times by appointment.

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Still Looking for Something Special to Do for Lent?

Join Our New BOOK CLUB! Fr. Eddy will facilitate a Book Club on Thursdays at 10:00 AM beginning on February 15th (day after Ash Wednesday). The meetings will be held in the Saint John Paul II Room in the Parish Center and last about an hour. The group will discuss Matthew Kelly’s recently revised book, Perfectly Yourself: Discovering God’s Plan for You. The Amazon review call the book “life-changing” and says that “Matthew Kelly shows us how to find lasting happiness in a changing world.” The book is available on Amazon and Barnes and Noble in e-book form, hard cover, or paperback.

The group is open to anyone who has lost a spouse, partner, parent, child, or sibling – including non-parishioners and people of other faiths.

For complete details, guidelines, and registration*, please scan the QR code or visit https://tinyurl.com/forthebereaved FOR FURTHER INFORMATION, CALL 516 365 2705

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Spirits Soar During Catholic Schools Week at Saint Mary’s Elementary & Middle Schools When you think the school spirit is already fantastic at Saint Mary’s Elementary and Middle Schools– along comes Catholic Schools Week!

With the weeklong activities and lessons around this year’s theme, “Catholic Schools: United in Faith and Community,” the school spirit soars to incredible levels when the entire community joins in celebrating this annual national event.

Elementary and Middle School Principal Theresa Kemp noted, “This week is a beautiful reminder that we are part of a larger family, as Catholic schools in our local area and across the nation plan for this yearly event. Our daily focus at St. Mary’s revolves around educating the whole child through the Gospel teachings of Jesus while we grow in faith. So, the energy and spirit soar beyond compare when we focus on creative, faith-filled lessons, activities, and community service in one concentrated week.”

The week began with the celebration of the Eucharist on Sunday, January 28, 2024, when families attended Mass at the Church of St. Mary, followed by the Open House for Admissions. The St. Mary’s community welcomed prospective families to campus for tours and informational sessions on the academic and extracurricular offerings.

Events during the week included a school-wide religious concept LEGO competition; Buddy Day, which paired older students with younger learners for a class lesson; a S(o)uper Bowl canned soup drive; 8th grade vs faculty volleyball game; school-wide Escape Room, Nursery-Pre-K Dance Off, and a beautiful Eucharistic Procession with Adoration led by the School Chaplain, Fr. Dominik. The week concluded as it began with Mass in the Church of St. Mary, as the entire student body and family members attended First Friday Mass celebrated by Fr. Bob. Thank you to the entire faculty, staff, clergy, and parents for their boundless energy in making Catholic Schools Week 2024 so memorable for our community. Each of you plays a critical role in our children’s success – and your spirit is truly uplifting!

Rosary Society Our Mission Statement: The Rosary Society fosters devotion to Mary through prayer and good works for causes that would be dear to her heart Invest 20 minutes of your day to pray the Rosary, and see the difference it will make in your life.

If you would like the Rosarians to pray for a special intention, please e-mail us at rosarysociety@stmary.ws.

Sunday, February 11th - Feast of Our Lady of Lourdes The Story of Our Lady of Lourdes On December 8, 1854, Pope Pius IX proclaimed the dogma of the Immaculate Conception in the apostolic constitution Ineffabilis Deus. A little more than three years later, on February 11, 1858, a young lady appeared to Bernadette Soubirous. This began a series of visions. During the apparition on March 25th, the lady identified herself with the words: “I am the Immaculate Conception.”

Bernadette was a sickly child of poor parents. Their practice of the Catholic faith was scarcely more than lukewarm. Bernadette could pray the Our Father, the Hail Mary, and the Creed. She also knew the prayer of the Miraculous Medal: “O Mary conceived without sin.”

During interrogations Bernadette gave an account of what she saw. It was “something white in the shape of a girl.” She used the word aquero, a dialect term meaning “this thing.” It was “a pretty young girl with a rosary over her arm.” Her white robe was encircled by a blue girdle. She wore a white veil. There was a yellow rose on each foot.

A rosary was in her hand. Bernadette was also impressed by the fact that the lady did not use the informal form of address (tu), but the polite form (vous). The humble virgin appeared to a humble girl and treated her with dignity.

Through that humble girl, Mary revitalized and continues to revitalize the faith of millions of people. People began to flock to Lourdes from other parts of France and from all over the world. In 1862, Church authorities confirmed the authenticity of the apparitions and authorized the cult of Our Lady of Lourdes for the diocese. The Feast of Our Lady of Lourdes became worldwide in 1907.

Lourdes has become a place of pilgrimage and healing, but even more of faith. Church authorities have recognized over sixty miraculous cures, although there have probably been many more. To people of faith, this is not surprising. It is a continuation of Jesus’ healing miracles—now performed at the intercession of his mother. Some would say that the greater miracles are hidden. Many who visit Lourdes return home with renewed faith and a readiness to serve God in their needy brothers and sisters.

World Day of the Sick St Pope John Paul began the observance of the World Day of the Sick in 1992 to encourage people to pray for the ill, as well as their caregivers. He chose February 11th because it coincides with the Feast Day of Our Lady of Lourdes. Lourdes has been a pilgrimage site for healing for over a century.

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Rosary Society Prayer to Our Lady of Lourdes O ever Immaculate Virgin, Mother of Mercy, Health of the Sick, Refuge of Sinners, Comfort to the Afflicted, you know my wants, my troubles, my sufferings. Deign to cast upon me a look of mercy. By appearing in the Grotto of Lourdes, you were pleased to make it a privileged sanctuary, whence you dispense your favors; and already many sufferers have obtained the cure of their infirmities, both spiritual and corporal.

I come, therefore, with the most unbounded confidence to implore your maternal intercession.

Obtain, O loving Mother, the granting of my requests.

Through gratitude for favors, I will endeavor to imitate your virtues that I may one day share your glory.

Our Lady of Lourdes, pray for us. Amen.

(Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory Be.)

Columbiettes Bake Sale: Thank you all who helped support the Columbiettes Annual Valentine’s Day Bake Sale by providing your time and talent baking delicious treats. The funds are used to aid the auxiliary in promoting the spiritual, charitable, and social welfare of its members. If anyone is interested in joining the Columbiettes, please contact Maura Clifford via email at: macliff56@gmail.com Our Traveling Statue of Our Lady of Fatima: In 2017, the centennial anniversary of the apparition of Our Lady of Fatima, the Rosary Society of St Mary received the statue as a gift with the caveat she be shared throughout our parish. Since that time, Our Lady has been visiting with many of our parishioners; bringing peace, hope, comfort and a renewed sense of faith. If anyone is interested in hosting Our Lady please contact Mary Lou DeVenoge via email at: doggonelab@msn.com

Looking Ahead to March: March 8th March 14th March 15th

Monthly Meeting and New Member Welcome Lenten Day of Recollection with Guest Speaker - Look out for the Evite heading your way Lenten Soup Supper hosted by our Daughter’s of Mary- Check upcoming bulletins for more details

Society of St. Vincent de Paul In the Gospel today Jesus moved with pity touched the leper and healed him. Let us pray today for the grace to be generous with our gifts to help those who are suffering. By your gift to the Society of St. Vincent de Paul you indeed put your faith into action as you bring healing to the poor, hungry and weeping.

Our St. Vincent de Paul Conference is able to help our neighbors in need through the generosity of our St. Mary’s parishioners. Each time you donate, either through the collection slots at the doors of the church, or in an envelope marked for St. Vincent de Paul, you are helping our neighbors within St. Mary’s Parish. If you or someone you know is in need of assistance, contact the St. Vincent de Paul Society at 516-627-0385, ext. 1125, or email SVDP@stmary.ws. To donate furniture, clothing or household items, please call the store in Garden City Park at 516-746-8250. Thank you for your continued support.

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FREE THROW CHAMPIONSHIP SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 24, 2024

FREE TO ALL CHILDREN AGES 9-14 ST. MARY’S MIDDLE SCHOOL R EG I S T ER AT 9:00 AM THE WINNERS WILL ADVANCE THROUGH LOCAL, DISTRICT, REGIONAL, AND STATE COMPETITIONS. THE COMPETITION WILL BEGIN PROMPTLY AT 9:30 AM. PARTICIPANTS WILL BE ASKED TO SHOOT 25 CONSECUTIVE FREE THROWS. THE WINNERS OF THE TOURNAMENT WILL PROCEED TO THE COUNTY CHAMPIONSHIPS IN MARCH. ALL PARTICIPANTS WILL COMPETE IN THEIR RESPECTIVE AGE DIVISIONS. PARENTAL/GUARDIAN PERMISSION IS REQUIRED FOR THIS COMPETITION.

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WEDNESDAY, MARCH 13 | 12:00 NOON

FINN MACOOL’S RESTAURANT 205 MAIN STREET, PORT WASHINGTON | $35 PER PERSON Traditional corned beef and cabbage will be served. A chicken and vegetarian option will be available. Includes appetizer, dessert, and soft drinks.

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Please make checks payable to: St. Mary’s Parish Social Ministry 1300 Northern Blvd., Manhasset, NY 11030 | Att: FOCUS Luncheon

Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time!

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1 Corinthians 10:31-33: “Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God-even as I try to please everyone in every way. For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they may be saved.” As St. Paul says, Do it all for the glory of God. God also wants us to seek the good of our spouse. Learn the five tools for a better marriage by signing up and attending a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Experience.

You will be glad you did! You can find one by looking up WWME.org. Some of the dates to sign up are: March 15-17, 2024 in Upton, MA

JUNE 15, 2024

April 26-28, 2024 (non-residential weekend) in Connecticut June 21-23, 2024 in Huntington, NY

MANHASSET BAY YACHT CLUB MORE DETAILS TO COME!

Knights of Columbus Father William A. Daly S.J. Council #2122 Serving St. Mary’s Parish in Manhasset and St. Aloysius Parish In Great Neck www.kofc2122.org

Worldwide Marriage Encounter sponsors a variety of in-person and virtual marriage experiences, some on weekends and some on seven weekdays. Couples explore their relationship with each other, God, and the Church.

Registration is limited; there is a $100 application fee.

For more information or to apply, call Kevin & Regina Hickson at 516-554-3835 or https://wwmenyli.org/.

What is a Knights of Columbus Family?

We are Catholic families building a bridge to our faith.

Our lives, time, efforts, and resources are dedicated to these values: Charity. Unity. Fraternity. Patriotism.

We come from different places, backgrounds, and all stages of life. But the common thread is our Catholic faith. We are Catholic families seeking to improve ourselves and the world. It’s one thing to say who you are. It’s another thing is to live it. Put your values into practice. Become a Knights of Columbus family.

Interested? Please call: Tony Racioppo 917 539 0859 Dan Garcia 516 358 1817

Let the little children come to me... (Matthew 19:14)

All Children Are Invited to Participate in Children’s Liturgy of the Word Every Sunday at the 9:00 AM Mass

Ladies interested in joining the Columbiettes Please contact Maura Clifford at Macliff56@gmail.com Church of Saint Mary | 16

Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament Adoration–Spending Time in Prayer with the Blessed Sacrament In Matthew 28:20, Jesus tells us “I will be with you always.” This is certainly true in the Eucharist and one of the reasons why many Catholics pray in Adoration.

The practice of Adoration dates back to the early Church but surged in popularity during the Middle Ages. It remains an important part of the prayer life of millions of Catholics.

The USCCB considers adoration “the natural consequence of the Eucharistic celebration.”

For Eucharistic Adoration, the Eucharist is sometimes displayed in a monstrance, a metal stand that resembles a sunburst that holds a consecrated host. Other times, it is kept in a ciborium (the dish from which hosts are distributed during Holy Communion) inside of a tabernacle. A candle signals the presence of Jesus.

Either way, that concept is the same: Being physically present with Jesus, who is physically present with us in the Eucharist.

Churches that offer perpetual Adoration often have volunteers sign up for one-hour time slots so that someone is always present to adore Jesus.

Prayers to Say During Adoration There is no exact “right” prayer (or way to pray) during Adoration.

Fr. Josh of Ascension Press explains that Adoration is about imitating God: “We want to imitate our Savior, Jesus Christ. Any time we spend time with people, we become more like the people we hang out with,” he said. “The more we spend time with Jesus, the more we’re going to be like Jesus.”

Consider that as a starting point: Merely being with Christ in the Eucharist helps us draw closer to Him, regardless of the prayers we offer.

Still, Adoration can be a powerful opportunity for transformative prayer. Adoration can involve any of the following prayers or meditations: Holy Hour, Praying the Rosary, Lectio Divina

You can also say this prayer from St. Alphonsus Liguori: My Lord Jesus Christ, it is Your great love for us that keeps You day and night present in the Blessed Sacrament, full of compassion and love, waiting for us to visit You. I believe that You are really present in the Sacrament of the Altar.

From the depth of my heart, I adore You and I thank You for the many graces You have given me, especially for the gift of Yourself in this Sacrament, for the gift of Your most holy Mother as my Mother and for the privilege of visiting You in this church at this time.

My Jesus, I love You with all my heart.

I am sorry for my ingratitude and I now resolve, with the help of Your grace, never to offend You again.

I consecrate my entire self to You, my thoughts, my feelings, and all that I have.

From now on, do whatever You want with me.

All I ask for is Your love and strength to do Your Holy Will.

Amen.

Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament with Closing Benediction Mondays 3:00 - 8:00 PM in the Church Please note the extension of Adoration to 8:00 PM for the weeks of Lent.

Confession is also available on Mondays from 7:00 to 7:45 PM during Lent.

The Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time | February 11, 2024

Marriage Struggling?

Do you feel alone?

Are you frustrated or angry with each other?

Do you argue or have you just stopped talking to each other?

Does talking about it only make it worse? x Are you separated or divorced, or thinking about separation or divorce? x x x x

Another marriage-saving weekend is coming to the Metro/New York Area: April 26-28,4-6 2024 November, 2022 The Retrouvaille Program helps couples through difficult times in their marriages. To be connected directly and confidentially to someone who can help, or to register, contact:

1-800-470-2230 or

www.helpourmarriage.org Long Island/Metro Retrouvaille is a 5013c non-profit, peer ministry. Couples of all faiths, or no faith, are encouraged to attend, and no one is ever turned away for lack of funds.

Retrouvaille (Retro vi – French for rediscover) Because No Marriage is Beyond Hope

Venerable Anthony Vincent Gallo Diocesan Priest, Oblate of the Congregation of the Priests of the Sacred Heart Montforte Irpino: 11 January 1899 - Rome: 2 May 1934

O Most Holy Trinity, Who deigned to raise Venerable Anthony Vincent Gallo to the priesthood, and endowed him with precious gifts, especially that of a burning love for suffering and immolation, we humbly beseech You, if it be Your will, that he may be glorified on earth, and that we may obtain through his intercession the particular grace which we ask for with living faith.

Amen.