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Life for astronaut families

Teepees, torches and s’mores Glamping on Lantau

Horizon Plaza made easy It’s panto time

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What’s on?

4 Editor’s Letter Adele Brunner falls for November.

6 Calendar Happening this month.

12 Zeitgeist Get in the spirit of Christmas fairs.

14 News Need to know.

18 Must haves Sleepover essentials.

Family 20 Meet the parents Astronaut dad.

22 Feature Making camp: Hong Kong under canvas.

28 Shopping Horizon Plaza cheat sheet.

Education 34 Open day Inside Nord Anglia International School.

40 Principal’s office Quizzing Nord Anglia’s Brian Cooklin.

Activities 44 After school Triathlon training for all ages.

48 Me and my hobby Joining the pantomime chorus line.

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Food 50 In season Hairy crabs and other autumn produce.

52 Table for four Hairy crabs and other autumn produce.

Home 56 The home front Study spaces: fun but functional.

Adventures 60 Big day out Star gazing in Sai Kung.

64 Travel Tokyo: maples and more.

Resources 68 Issue Parents on the front line of teen drug use.

70 Money & Me Ovolo’s Girish Jhunjhnuwala opens his wallet.

72 Marketplace Your guide to shops and services.

76 Business directory Numbers that make life easier.

80 The bald truth about fatherhood Simon Parry tries to flee the nest.

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editor’s letter

Editor Adele Brunner adele@fastmedia.com.hk Senior Consultant Editor Jane Steer jane@fastmedia.com.hk Managing Editor Hannah Grogan hannah@fastmedia.com.hk Editorial Assistant Cherrie Yu cherrie@fastmedia.com.hk Art Director Kelvin Lau kelvin@fastmedia.com.hk Graphic Design Evy Cheung evy@fastmedia.com.hk Setareh Parvin setareh@fastmedia.com.hk Head of Sales & Marketing Karman So karman@fastmedia.com.hk Sales & Marketing Executive Andrea Balboa andrea@fastmedia.com.hk John Lee john@fastmedia.com.hk

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xpat Parent is going to be easier to find than ever from this month, as we increase our circulation by 25 per cent to 12,500 magazines a month. We are also adding extra distribution points all around Hong Kong, so look out for it at convenient locations near you. For a full list of places that stock the magazine, see p.78.

Meanwhile, we’re enjoying the calm before the silly season storm. November is one of Hong Kong’s best months as far as the weather is concerned so outdoor action should be on the cards. With the humidity at a minimum, the sun shining and the sea still warm, it’s a perfect month for camping.

Our feature on page 24 recommends Hong Kong’s top camping spots, how to get there and what to take.

If sand in your sleeping bag isn’t your idea of fun, Big Day Out packs a picnic and a star map and goes stargazing in Sai Kung’s Astropark.

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lighter side of family life, we also recognise that bringing up children can be fraught with more serious problems. This month, we look at the topic of illegal drug use, which most parents would rather not even think about in connection with their children. Hong Kong is a pretty safe place to live but drugs are out there and our preteens and teens are no less vulnerable than those in other countries.

We talk to the KELY Support Group, a non-profit youth organisation attempting to raise drug awareness in Hong Kong, and hear from an expat mother whose daughter became addicted. Operating on the premise that forewarned is forearmed, we hope our feature helps parents to steer their children safely through the murkier waters of growing up.

Have a great month – and, for all our American readers out there, Happy Thanksgiving!

Adele Brunner

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What’s on in november

NOV 28-30 Clockenflap Tenacious D and The Vaccines headline Hong Kong’s funkiest festival, with music stages, art, film, cabaret and a silent disco. West Kowloon Cultural District. Tickets $580-$1,480 from www.clockenflap.com.

UNTIL NOV 2 Charlie & Lola’s Extremely New Play

the festival’s opening event. Former Kai Tak Runway, Kowloon. Noon-10.30pm. Tickets $15-$30 from www.discoverhongkong.com.

See the BBC’s favourite brother and sister live on stage. Drama Theatre, HKAPA, Wan Chai. Tickets $225-$435 from www.hkticketing.com, 3128 8288.

UNTIL NOV 8 Marco Polo Oktoberfest

UNTIL NOV 2 HK Wine and Dine Festival Great wine and food and amazing views at

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Fill your tankards for the annual German beer festival. Prost! 6pm-11pm (11.30pm on Friday and Saturday), Marco Polo Hotel, Tsim Sha Tsui. Tickets $110-$240 from www.hkticketing.com, 3128 8288.

UNTIL DEC 7 Headphone Lawn Cinema Kick back and enjoy Billy Elliot and other classic movies at this new outdoor cinema.

7.30pm-9.30pm. Tickets $160 from www.hushup.hk. Rooftop, The Pulse, 28 Beach Road, Repulse Bay, 6043 3702.

Nov 1 Pools close Most outdoor public pools close for winter.

Nov 1 Lamma Fun Day One of the most chilled and fun days of the year, with live music, market stalls, food, beach volleyball and a charity auction.

Tai Wan To Beach, Lamma Island, www. facebook.com/LammaFunDay.

Nov 1 The Roaring 20s Relive the glamour of the flapper era at a party in support of Christina Noble Children’s Foundation. 7pm-late. The Butcher’s Club Deli at Ed1tus, 16/F, 18 Wong Chuk Hang Road, Aberdeen. Tickets $1,200 from hongkong@cncf.com.

Nov 1-2 24-Hour Charity Dinghy Race The biggest weekend on the local sailing calendar with teams racing non-stop, while their supporters party overnight. Stalls, games, food and drink, capsizes, silly races and more. All welcome. Noon on Saturday until 6pm on Sunday. Hebe Haven Yacht Club, Pak Sha Wan, 2719 9682, www.hhyc.org.hk.

Walk for Nature: Fundraising at Mai Po Nature Reserve on Nov 8-9.

Nov 1 & 8 Stomp Your Foot!

The Hong Kong Welsh Male Voice Choir and friends perform. Concert Hall, HKAPA. Tickets $100-$250 at www.hkticketing.com, 3128 8288.

Nov 2, 9, 16, 23 & 30 Island East Markets

NOV 8-9 Hong Kong Southern District Beach Games Water polo tournament, dragon-boat races and a Zumba party plus food, entertainment and lots more.

9am-5pm, Repulse Bay Beach, www.openwaterasia.com.

The weekly Sunday farmers’ market sells everything from organic veggies to vintage goodies. 11am-6pm, Tong Chong Street, Island East, Quarry Bay, www.hkmarkets.org.

NOV 9 Ladies’ Purse Day

Nov 2 Sai Kung Sunday Market

NOV 9 Discovery Bay Cleanup

Monthly eco- and community-inspired indoor market for locally sourced produce and fun activities. 11am-5pm, Hong Kong Academy, Wai Man Road, Sai Kung, www.saikungmarkets.com.

Volunteer for the regular beach cleanup organised by DB Green and Plastic Free Seas. 1pm-4pm, Nim Shue Wan, Discovery Bay, www.dbgreen.org.

Grab your girls, slap on a hat and enjoy a glamorous day at the races. Noon-6pm, Sha Tin Racecourse, www.hkjc.com.

NOV 8-9 Walk for Nature

Nov 15-16 Hong Kong Classic Car and Vintage Festival

The annual fundraising conservation walk at Mai Po Nature Reserve. Details at www.wwf.org.hk.

There’s been a change of dates for this event, which was due to take place last month but was ousted by the umbrella

Charlie & Lola’s Extremely New Play, until Nov 2.

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What’s on in NOVEMBER movement. More than 100 rare cars and motorcycles will be on show alongside a vintage market, food, drinks and more.

11am-10pm, Central Harbourfront Event Space, www.hkclassiccar.com. Family tickets $600-$1,000 from www.ticketflap.com.

NOV 15-16 Arts in the Park Mardi Gras Themed “Defying Gravity”, thousands of young people and artists create original performances and visual art. Free admission. 10am-5pm, Central Lawn, Victoria Park, Causeway Bay, www.hkyaf. com/events, 2214 0266.

NOV 19 Bill Bailey Limboland, Live in Hong Kong The world premiere of British comic, actor and musician Bill Bailey’s new live show.

KITEC, Kowloon Bay. Tickets $688-$928 from www.hkticketing.com, 3128 8288.

NOV 19 Oxfam Trailwalker The seriously fit take to the hills for this annual 100km charity race along the

Children parade at the annual Arts in the Park Mardi Gras on Nov 15-16.

MacLehose Trail. For details and donations, visit www.oxfamtrailwalker.org.hk.

Nov 23 Peak to Fong Dogs and dog lovers walk from The Peak to Lan Kwai Fong in aid of Hong Kong Dog Rescue. Treats await at the end. From 11am. Tickets $250 (children $220) from www.hongkongdogrescue.com.

NOV 25-30 Avenue Q This puppet comedy phenomenon is strictly for adults only (for full puppet nudity and worse). Lyric Theatre, HKAPA, Wan Chai. Tickets $395-$795 from www.hkticketing.com, 3128 8288.

Nov 27-29 Oliver!

Hong Kong Youth Arts Foundation presents the beloved musical. Shouson Theatre, Hong Kong Arts Centre, Wan Chai. Tickets $200-$280 from www.urbtix.hk.

Nov 27 Thanksgiving Turkey time, USA. Join the dog walk from Peak to Fong, Nov 23.

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Nov 29 Kellett School Saturday Market The first of a new monthly event organised by the people behind the Sai Kung Sunday Market. Expect stalls and food with an eco streak. Noon-5pm, Kellett School, 7 Lam Hing Street, Kowloon Bay.

Nov 30 Race with Pink Heels Boys (and girls), pull on those vampy pink heels for this annual race in aid of breast cancer awareness. Noon-6pm, Stanley Main Street, Stanley, www.pinkheels. sportsoho.com.

NOV 28-30 Seussical the Musical The Cat in the Hat and Horton and the Whos lead the charge through Dr Seuss’ favourite tales. Lyric Theatre, HKAPA, Wan Chai. Tickets $265-$595 from www. hkticketing.com, 3128 8288.

NOV 23 Sand Sculpture Competition Get sandy at this LCSD sculpture competition, beach clean-up and games.

10am-2pm, Clear Water Bay Second Beach, www.epd.gov.hk.

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BOOK NOW dec 6, jan 17 Winter Garage Sale Bag a bargain. Tables are going fast.

9.30am-3pm, HKUST car park, Clearwater Bay, gujean@ust.hk, 9045 5942.

JAN 31 Lily Allen Live Sheezus hits town. AsiaWorld-Arena, Lantau.Tickets $788 from www.hkticketing. com, 3128 8288.

Jan 14-Feb 15 Kidsfest!

Well, slap my thigh, it’s Puss in Boots! The Hong Kong Players pantomime opens in December.

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Dec 5-7 & 11-14 Puss in Boots

DEC 21-JAN 4 Phantom of the Opera

It’s panto time with the Hong Kong Players (oh yes, it is). Joining in is mandatory.

Shouson Theatre, Hong Kong Arts Centre, 2 Harbour Road, Wan Chai. Tickets $250$330 from Urbtix, www.urbtix.hk.

The man in the mask returns in Andrew Lloyd-Webber’s renowned musical.

AsiaWorld-Arena, Lantau. Tickets $292$1,195 from www.lunchbox-productions. com, 8203 0299.

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Productions of The Gruffalo, The Tiger Who Came To Tea, Horrible Histories and more.

Drama Theatre, HKAPA, Wan Chai. Tickets from www.hkticketing.com, 3128 8288.

FEB 27-MAR 29 Hong Kong Arts Festival The city’s annual culture bonanza. Book at www.hk.artsfestival.org.

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zeitgeist Nov 15 Hidden Truffles Pop-Up Xmas Bazaar Nov 8 Hong Lok Yuen International School Fair This popular annual fair promises to be bigger and better than ever with performances by the school choir, a jazz band, talent show, stalls, refreshments and games for all ages. 10.30am4pm, 3 Twentieth Street, Hong Lok Yuen, 2658 6935.

Nov 3, 11 Dec 1, 15 Conrad Fairs No Hong Kong Christmas would be complete without the Conrad Fairs. Hundreds of vendors sell products from more than 30 countries, including toys, accessories, antique silverware and jewellery, as well as festive food and drink. From 2.30pm-6pm, a 15 per cent discount is offered on afternoon refreshments in the Garden Café, Cake Shop and Lobby Lounge. 10am-8pm, Grand Ballroom, The Conrad Hotel, Admiralty, www.prestigefairs.hk

Unique, homemade and personalised gifts are what this Christmas bazaar is all about. Take your pick of stalls selling clothes, home accessories, body-care products and items with children in mind.

There’s a kids’ corner to keep little ones busy with arts and crafts, plus a multicuisine bistro area. 11am-6pm, The Nov 13 Space, 210 Hollywood Road, Sheung Shoppinghongkong Wan,www.hiddentruffles.com.

Holiday Shopping Annual one-day fair with unusual local and international stalls selling jewellery, accessories, clothing, wine, cupcakes and more. Airplay will be offering complimentary blowouts and Little Steps is running a play area. Noon-8pm, Fringe Club, 2 Lower Albert Road, Central, www.shoppinghongkong.net.

Nov 8 Abacus BBQ Fun Day Perfect for families with little ones, this annual kindergarten fun day includes stalls, games, a bouncy castle, arts and crafts, Jaspa’s barbecue, cakes and more.

Children $20, adults $40. 11am-3pm, ESF Abacus International Kindergarten, 1A Mang Kung Uk Road, Clearwater Bay, 2719 5712.

Nov 22 Sha Tin Junior School and Sha Tin College Roll up, roll up! This year’s circus-themed fair will have games, refreshments, students’ fashion show and more stalls than ever. Noon-6pm, 3 Lai Wo Lane, Fo Tan, Sha Tin, 2699 1811.

Nov 14 AWA Charity Bazaar Shop till you drop at the American Women’s Association annual fundraising event, now in its 28th year. More than 100 vendors offer serious Christmas shopping, followed by bubbly and homemade cake on the terrace. 10am-6pm, entrance $20.

3/F-5/F, Happy Valley Stand, Hong Kong Jockey Club Racecourse, 2527 8961, info@awa.org.hk.

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Nov 14 Glenealy School The annual PTA bazaar features international food stalls run by parents, commercial stalls and games, face painting, arts and crafts for kids. 5pm8pm, 7 Hornsey Road, Mid-Levels, 2522 1919.

Nov 22 Chinese International School “CIS Got Talent” is a highlight of this year’s fair, with students showing what they do best. The popular vintage clothing stall is back along with games, food and charity stalls. 10am-4pm, 1 Hau Yuen Path, Braemar Hill, North Point, 2510 7288.

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Nov 29 Clearwater Bay School This ESF primary school stages seriously good fairs, with this year’s adopting a medieval theme, forsooth.

There will be commercial stalls, games, arts and crafts, live performances, a glamour booth, cakes, barbecue and the ever-popular bar. 1pm-5pm, Clearwater Bay Road, 2358 3221.

Nov 23 Jewish Women’s Association Charity Bazaar Shop for holiday items, clothing, toys, homeware, bags and more, with all proceeds going to women’s charities. Light refreshments available. Entry $10. 10am-5pm, Island School, 20 Borrett Road, Mid-Levels.

Dec 6 St Stephen’s Christmas Fete Santa will arrive by helicopter at noon for his annual visit to this popular outdoor fete, with live entertainment, games, stalls and refreshments. Entry $20, children free, with all proceeds going to charity. No parking. 11am-4.30pm, St Stephen’s College, Wong Ma Kok Road, Stanley, www.ststephen. org.hk.

Nov 29 German-Swiss International School The traditional German Christmas bazaar comes to Hong Kong, with stalls, live music, games and lots of festive feasting. 10am-4pm, 22 Guildford Road, The Peak, 2849 6216.

Dec 6 French International School The Christmas bazaar includes fun games in the Christmas Wonderland, student and professional entertainment, festive food and more than 50 commercial stalls. 10am-5pm, 34 Price Road, Jardine’s Lookout, 2577 6217.

Nov 29 Kellett School Held at the Kowloon campus, the new monthly Saturday market includes food, drinks and a wide variety of commercial vendors. Noon-5pm, 7 Lam Hing Street, Kowloon Bay, 3120 0700.

Nov 29 Renaissance College The school’s three sections join forces for a large fair with commercial stalls, secondhand books, inflatable games, international food and live entertainment. 11am-4pm, 5 Hang Ming Street, Ma On Shan, 3556 3556.

Nov 30 Canadian International School Jam-packed with entertainment, the Family Fun Fair includes arts and crafts, games, student performances, face painting, secondhand books and commercial stalls. Entry $150 for schoolchildren; free for adults and the under-twos. 10.30am-4pm, 36 Nam Long Shan Road, Aberdeen, 2525 7088.

Dec 6 Italian Women’s Association There will be delicious authentic Italian food and plenty of bargains at the Il Mercatino bazaar at this annual fundraiser in aid of the Duchess of Kent Children’s Hospital.

Entry $20; bring your own bag.

10am-5pm, 12 Sandy Bay Road, Pok Fu Lam.

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Giddy-up, volunteers Non-profit group Riding for the Disabled Association (RDA) is looking for volunteers to work in its centres in Pok Fu Lam, Lo Wu and Tuen Mun, where the association runs riding classes for special needs and disabled people.

“We rely heavily on the help of the public to be able to conduct our daily lessons,” says operations manager Jessamine A. Ihrcke. “We are always looking to raise awareness and for volunteers to help during lessons. We encourage volunteers to sign up for a term (15 weeks) at a time and come on a regular basis. The main reason is we try to pair each volunteer with a child when they first come and they do develop a relationship.

“Our volunteers take a role as either

a side helper, whose sole responsibility is the child’s progress and safety during the lessons, or as leader responsible for leading and managing the horse/pony during the lessons. When the volunteer has been with us for a time and shows interest, we will train them to become an assistant instructor and eventually an instructor.”

Recognised as one of the most beneficial forms of therapy, riding helps patients build self-confidence, improve concentration and self-discipline, and provides a means of recreation.

For details, contact Riding For The Disabled Association Of Hong Kong, 75 Pokfulam Reservoir Rd, Pok Fu Lam. For details, visit www.rda.org.hk, or email jessamine@rda.org.hk.

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EtonHouse International Preschool is hosting a talk on early childhood learning.

Keynote speaker Dr. Wang Zhenlin will be joined by a panel of educators, writers and parents who will seek to unravel the science behind learning behaviour in young children and the significance of exploration, hypothesis testing and discovery through play in early childhood settings.

Dr Wang is an expert on child psychology and was a recent visiting scholar at Cambridge University. This is a parenting talk that you cannot miss.

Register by emailing enquiry@ etonhouse.com.hk or call 2353 5223. From 10am, Saturday, November 1. 1/F, Redhill Plaza, 3 Red Hill Road, Tai Tam.

new parenting strategies Bebegarten is offering a range of new evening sessions on the upbringing and development of 21st-century children.

Sessions are suitable for parents, caregivers, grandparents and early-years teaching professionals. For the full list of upcoming sessions, please visit www. bebegarten.com.

In the first session, author and childdevelopment expert Mary Mountstephen will explore “Strategies for successful parenting: Understand and maximise your child’s performance, behaviour and potential”. Sharing her experiences and personal stories, she hopes to help parents better identify their child’s strengths and understand how they learn best. $250, 7pm-8.30pm, Monday, December 1. Unit 301-305, Level 3, One Island South, 2 Heung Yip Road, Wong Chuk Hang, info@bebegarten.com, www. bebegarten.com.

Dinner’s on us Expat Parent is giving away a dinner buffet for four via our Facebook page.

The winning family will enjoy an international buffet at Cafe Bord de Mer overlooking the sea at the Auberge Discovery Bay. Diners can feast on seafood, cold cuts, cheese corner, salad station, Thai, Vietnamese and Japanese dishes. There is also a dessert bar as well as crayons and colouring sheets for the

The science of play

kids. G/F, Auberge Discovery Bay, 88 Siena Avenue, Discovery Bay, 2295 8288, www.aubergediscoverybay.com.

For a chance to win, “like” our Facebook page, tag three friends in the page’s giveaway event comment box (www.facebook.com/expatparenthk) and send us a message with your name and telephone number.

Babylicious gifts for tiny tots New Hong Kong online gift store Babylicious sources quality presents for babies and young children from around the globe. The site also has a convenient gift registry service. Check it out at www.babylicious.com.hk. expat-parent.com

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Last call for Boxes of Hope

Creating with cardboard Returning to Hong Kong for the third year, The Global Day of Play: Cardboard Game Challenge is a day-long charity event for children to build creations using cardboard, recycled materials and plenty of imagination. Visitors can purchase tickets to play with the games created.

Proceeds go to the Hong Kong Council

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of Early Childhood Education and Services, which aims to improve the education, health and welfare needs of children in Hong Kong.

11am-5pm, Sunday, November 2. International Academy of Film and Television, 1/F Trust Tower, 68 Johnston Road, Wan Chai (next to The Pawn).

It’s not too late to put together a gift box of goodies for a child in need. Hong Kong charity Box of Hope, which asks children to decorate and fill an old shoebox with new gifts for less fortunate kids here and throughout Asia, will start pick up at schools across the city from November 3. For details, visit www.boxofhope.org.

Rumple and Friends book There’s No Place Like Home is the first book in the Clown Town series by local funnyman Matthew Coombes (aka Rumple the Clown).

Illustrated by Rebecca Howard, who was born and grew up in Hong Kong, the series follows Rumple’s adventures across the territory, discovering the different houses that his friends live in. It retails for $80 but signed and personalised copies ($150) can be wrapped and delivered to your child by Rumple himself (if booked for a private party). Copies are available from branches of Bookazine or by emailing info@rumpleandfriends.com.

Mini manager required It seems that work experience can never start too early. The Badrutt Palace Hotel in Switzerland is inviting children aged five to 12 to apply for the position of Junior General Manager. To qualify, the child should be able to speak English, German or Italian and be happy talking to all kinds of people.

Applicants must download and complete a questionnaire and create a short video about themselves, their hobbies and families.

The successful candidate’s “salary” will include a uniform, travel and half-board for themselves and two siblings for their term of duty at the hotel (two weeks from December 2014 to January 2015) and an additional week of family relaxation during summer 2015 including travel costs and half board. For details, visit www.badruttspalace.com/JuniorGM.

Cooking up a storm LIttle chefs can cook up a storm at Grano Italiano’s in iSquare. The restaurant’s junior pizza chef parties let children aged three to 15 get creative with fresh Italian ingredients and pizza dough. Each party is led by a pizza master, who helps with the cooking and offers kids an insight into Italian pizza traditions. Additional activities such as face-painting and clowns are available on request. Parties are $198 a head, including free-flowing soft drinks and juices and chef’s hats, for groups of 15-30 children. Book at least five days in advance with an initial 30 per cent deposit. 7/F iSquare, 63 Nathan Road, Tsim Sha Tsui, 2325 1920, info@granoitaliano.com.

Different strokes New app Chinese Letter Academy aims to help children learn to write Chinese characters in the correct stroke order. It offers clear ideas on where to start writing as well as the direction and sequence of the strokes. There is also a dictation function and an expanded letter library. Since its launch last month, the product has been featured as one of the Best New Apps in the Kids/Education category of iTunes Apps Store in more than 70 countries and ranks first in the Kids category in Hong Kong and Taiwan. Find it at www. toothybuddies.com. expat-parent.com

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must have

Sleepover parties

All-night party essentials, by Callum Wiggins.

Personalised toiletries bag $269 from Stuck On You, www.stuckonyou.hk.

Cotton Blanket $1,960 from Petit Bazaar, 9 Gough Street, Central, 2544 2522, www.petit-bazaar.com.

Just Dance 2015 (Xbox One/ Playstation 4 Version) $450 from www.wowhd.com.hk

Jellycat Blossom Bashful Beige Bunny $270 from Petit Bazaar, www.petit-bazaar.com.

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Pyjamas and nighties $100-$280 from Sam’s Jams, www.samsjams.com.hk.

Chicago Mix Popcorn $239 for one gallon tin from Garrett Popcorn, IFC Mall, 8 Finance Street, Central, www.garrettpopcorn.com.

Pillows $250-$340 from Petit Bazaar, www.petit-bazaar.com.

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meet the parents

Astronaut dad

One family reveals how they cope in Hong Kong while dad works overseas.

By Adele Brunner.

Steven and Simone Cranwell and their children Isabella, 15, Xavier, 13, and India, 10, have been living in Hong Kong for eight years. Steven has been working in Singapore for 10 months.

Steven is in finance and when he changed organisations last year, we knew he would eventually be based in Singapore even though his first few months in the company were in Hong Kong. We decided the

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children and I wouldn’t relocate with him primarily because of schooling. It is a crucial year for Isabella, who will be doing her GCSEs in May, and we didn’t want to upset that by moving countries and schools. In addition, the schools in Singapore required her to repeat a year but her grades are good so there was no benefit to this.

The children have adapted pretty well to not having their dad around. As it is rugby season, it is a little hard emotionally

for Xavier without Steven on the sidelines but I think he’s used to it now.

I never thought I would be an advocate of Snapchat and Instagram but they are the main methods of communication the children have with Steven. It’s a very simple way to communicate and it’s second nature to the kids. It means he gets instant photos and updates from them and he knows everything – probably even more than I do!

There is never a perfect time to call – the

The Cranwell family reunited.

He comes back every other weekend... when he is around the children factor in family time and don’t resent it

children have school and activities, he has meetings – but social media has made keeping in constant touch easy. Steven and I speak at 7.45am most mornings before work. [Simone is an educational assistant at Clearwater Bay School.] Because the children have already told him most of what there is to say, it means they are not our main topic of conversation and we can talk about other things.

The parent-teacher communication system at King George V School, where Isabella and Xavier go, is also very good.

It is all done via email so Steven is notified at the same time as I am about homework,

merits, concerns and other issues.

The children would, of course, rather have him here but we quickly realised it wasn’t sustainable for him to come back every weekend, which is what he was doing initially. Singapore isn’t far, but when you factor in getting to and from airports and waiting times on top of the flight, it’s an eight-hour trip each way. Steven would get on the plane after a full day in the office and hit the ground running when he got home. He’d then have to leave Hong Kong at 4pm on Sunday in order to be in the office first thing on Monday. After a while, he was absolutely exhausted with this schedule.

As the children are older, they have their own lives and I know they felt guilty going out with friends or to a party and not being around when he was back for the weekend. Now he comes back every other weekend so the children do what they on the weekends he isn’t here and when he is around, they factor in family time and don’t resent it.

Lots of families in Hong Kong are in a similar situation but different people manage it in different ways. Steven and I have never been joined at the hip and he used to travel constantly on business. Had I been used to having him at home, or if the children were still very young, it would have been far more difficult. The kids’ logistics were already in place so it wasn’t as though I had to make a drastic change as far as that was concerned and generally the time passes so quickly that I don’t have time to

dwell on being apart. Three very sporty, active children plus work is the key.

We need to be super organised about booking flights. We’ve studied the school calendar and tried to capitalise on public holidays, teacher CPD days and school holidays. We have broken the year down so we know exactly when the next big break is.

For example, we decided the children and I would go to Singapore for half term, stay in Hong Kong for Christmas and go to France as a family at Easter. Everything is booked so we have things to look forward to – you need rewards like these to keep going.

When Steven comes to Hong Kong, he gets straight back into everything. He goes to rugby games and sees friends as if he has never been away. It is hard for him not to be with us on a daily basis but it has also made it easier to immerse himself in his new role at work without the demands of family life. He stays in the office longer than he should but he has friends in Singapore so he plays tennis every week and catches up with them regularly. A lot of his Hong Kong friends travel to Singapore and meet up, so he doesn’t miss out on that social life. In some ways, it isn’t so different to how we lived before because he was constantly travelling.

One of the main problems is our joint admin – I have to be very organised about it. For example, Steven is the owner of our car so when the MOT was coming up, I had to go to the Transport Department to get all the forms for him to sign in advance before he went back to Singapore. It’s little things that can make the situation challenging. And we don’t want to waste the weekends he’s back doing admin.

I have work to keep me occupied but I feel less able to go out in the evenings. We have a great helper and the children don’t mind, but I’m conscious they have a lot of commitments and homework and I feel they need the support of knowing one of us is around. In the past, Steven made an effort to come home early when I wasn’t going to be there.

The situation is doable but I’m not sure how sustainable it is. We are working towards next June to decide our next step: Isabella will be starting her next cycle of exams and India will be starting high school so we’ll have some big decisions to make.

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Happy camping

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Embrace your wild side with a family camping trip.

Where to camp There are 41 official campsites in Hong Kong’s country parks, including 12 on Lantau and 16 in Sai Kung but none on Hong Kong Island. Our favourites include Wan Tsai West, a 20-minute walk from Hoi Ha in Sai Kung on the edge of a large open field perfect for a kick-about, and Tung Chung island, where you can pitch a tent next to a Qing Dynasty fort. There are also designated campsites on the lovely beaches at Pui O on Lantau, and Long Ke Wan, Sai Wan and Ham Tin in Sai Kung. Wild camping on beaches without designated campsites is not permitted in Hong Kong.

For a full list of sites, maps and gettingthere details, visit the Agriculture, Fisheries and Conservation Department website, www.afcd.gov.hk. Happy camping!

Long Coast Seasports

Glamorous camping, or glamping, in permanent tents with wood floors, en-suites and four-poster beds has taken Europe by storm, but it has yet to make it to Hong Kong. However, even a small tent can be comfy with these additions: -R attan beach mat, laid outside tent and swept regularly.

-B ucket of water for washing feet before entering tent.

-D ustpan and brush, for sweeping up stray drifts of sand.

- Battery-operated fan.

- Optional extra: small dog (for security).

Whether you’ve got a princess who doesn’t want to rough it or an adventure hound who does, Long Coast Seasports on one of Lantau’s longest beaches has an option to suit on its private beachfront campsite.

Choose from a basic four- or six-person tent ($170-$200), a luxury three-metre safari tent with furniture and air conditioning ($200$250), or stay in the guesthouse, which has four guest rooms with private showers, air conditioning and WiFi ($540-$790 for two people). Spend the day on the water – kayaks, surfboards, kiteboards, windsurfers, SUPs and more can be hired, with instruction available – or simply chill on the beach with rented deckchairs, umbrellas, ice boxes and volleyball nets. Activity and camping vouchers are $540-$720 for two people (depending on day and season), which includes use of kayaks, bodyboards, skimboards and camping facilities. 29 Lower Cheung Sha Beach, Lantau, 8104 6222, www.longcoast.hk.

Almost glamping sites

Palm Beach

Glamping

Island Club Making camp at Wan Tsai West, near Hoi Ha in Sai Kung.

including kayaking, windsurfing, banana boating, snorkelling, rock climbing, surfing and wakeboarding. Less glam than some of Lantau’s other camping options, it is reasonably priced. A day trip, including locker, loungers, umbrella and a barbecue buffet costs $350-$450 a person, plus $30-$60 for unlimited drinks and $200 to stay overnight. 23 Tai Long Village, Lantau Island, 2989 2315, www.islandclub.hk.

Accessible only by ferry from Cheung Chau, this inn and campsite on a private beach on Lantau offers activities galore

The 10 Safari Bush Campers at Palm Beach could have come straight from the Serengeti and are as stylish as camping in Hong Kong gets. Set in a 40,000 sqft herb garden on lovely Cheung Sha Beach, expat-parent.com

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Colourful tents line up at the beach campsite on Ham Tin in Tai Long Wan.

Lantau, each of the semi-permanent tents sleeps up to six people and comes with double airbeds, proper bedding, table and chairs, air coolers and mosquito screens ($1,200 a night at weekends). Showers and washroom facilities are available. The on-site Palm Beach Cafe offers light refreshments and nearby the beachside Stoep restaurant (2980 2699) serves delicious South African dishes and barbecue. Palm Beach, Cheung Sha Lantau, 2980 4822, info@palmbeach. com.hk, www.palmbeach.com.hk.

Teepee Village Grab your headdresses, pack your warpaint and get ready for action at Palm Beach’s Teepee Village. Eight handpainted teepees of various sizes, sleeping four to 20 people, have been erected on an 18,000 sqft lawn.

Weekend rentals start at $850 a night for a four-person teepee with sleeping bags and mats. Optional extras include camping lamps ($20), mosquito nets ($50) and air coolers ($100). The adjacent Palm Beach Watersports Centre offers kiteboarding,

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surfing, windsurfing and other activities.

Palm Beach, Cheung Sha Lantau, 2980 4822, info@palmbeach.com.hk, www.palmbeach.com.hk.

Ooh La La Part of the same organisation as the Treasure Island educational camps, Ooh La La offers private family camping in ready-pitched tents behind its beachside Mediterranean restaurant on lovely 3.5km-long Pui O Beach. Spend the day playing beach games, mountain biking, kayaking, surfing or simply sipping cocktail sundowners to lounge music at Ooh La La restaurant, which specialises in salads and barbecue dishes. A four-person tent costs $700 including sleeping bags, mat, coolers, charcoal, dishes and cooking equipment for DIY barbecues. Advance bookings recommended. Pui O Beach, Lantau, 2984 8710, www.oohlala-hk.com.

Tsim Bet Tsui Organic Farm Not everyone is a beach babe. If you dread

How to make a s’more Sticky, sweet and oozing chocolate and marshmallow, no campfire is complete without a s’more, the classic US snack that was first mentioned in a girl-scout camping guide way back in 1927. There’s more than one way to make (and eat) them, but this method is tried and tested.

You will need: Graham crackers or Digestive biscuits, milk chocolate and marshmallows.

- Place a marshmallow on a barbecue skewer and toast over a campfire or barbecue until hot and melting.

- Put a piece of chocolate on a cracker and place a hot marshmallow on top.

- Sandwich with another cracker and squish slightly to melt the chocolate.

- Eat immediately and ask for s’more…

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Star trekking, Hong Kong-style.

the thought of sand in your sleeping bag, stay in a Mongolian yurt at this farm in Yuen Long with spectacular views of the Mai Po marshes. During autumn and winter, its yurts are available for $800 for two to five people and $1,500 for eight to 10 people. The farm also has a petting zoo, a miniature train and barbecue pits. Lau Fau Shan, Yuen Long, 2472 6962

If you dread the thought of sand in your sleeping bag, stay in a yurt

GET KITTED OUT Protrek

This small shop is run by a nice man, who is happy to give advice on all your camping equipment needs. 303 Shanghai Street, Yau Ma Tei, 2835 1255, www.ycamping.com.hk.

A one-stop shop for campers selling high-quality camping gear and outdoor equipment by renowned international outdoor brands, including tents, sleeping bags, children’s jackets and nifty gadgets and accessories. 5 Tung Fong Street, Yau Ma Tei, 2322 8699, www.protrek.com.hk

A large shop with well-known brands, reasonable prices and a 20 per cent discount for those spending $300 or more, no membership required.

6A Nelson Street, Mong Kok, 2388 3626, www.chamonix.com.hk.

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All Weather Outdoor Gear Run by a helpful outdoor “tutor” who really knows his stuff, this shop stocks similar gear to bigger chains but at lower prices. 2/F, 13 Tung Choi Street, Mong Kok, 2384 8890, info@allweather.hk, www.allweather.hk.

Shun Kee City Houseware

Ying Cheong

Chamonix

Hollywood Plaza, 610 Nathan Road, Mong Kok, 2117 1810, www.overlander.com.hk.

The Overlander The flagship store of a six-branch chain offering famous brands, membership discounts and a bargain corner. 12/F,

“Harrods” in Sai Kung stocks Nikko tents, sleeping bags, blow-up mattresses, deckchairs, lamps, gazebos, backpacks and coolboxes, including one on wheels for the everything-but-the-kitchen-sink brigade.

6 Yi Chun Street, Sai Kung, 2792 9850.

Pak Mei Handily located for last-minute campers near the minibus terminal in Sai Kung, this small shop has a limited range of camping essentials, includng Nikko tents, sleeping bags and lightweight blow-up mattresses.

King Man Street, Sai Kung, 2792 6020.

CAMPING SURVIVAL GUIDE Tents, barbecues and feral children… camping is a great adventure, but getting back to nature can end in tears. Registered nurse Virginia Newhouse, who runs first-aid courses for parents and helpers (www.postnatalcare.com.hk), explains what to do in an outdoor emergency.

Burns The most common burns while camping are typically caused by fire, hot water, hot fat and hot metal. There are three levels of burn, classified according to their severity: first-degree burns are red and painful but don’t blister; second-degree are red, swollen and very painful with blisters; thirddegree burns can look charred, white and/ or leathery, usually with no pain at the

site of the burn because the nerves have been destroyed.

“Apply cool but not ice-cold water for 20 minutes,” Newhouse says. “If water isn’t available, use other drinks. Cover the burn with a sterile, non-stick dressing to reduce infection. Clingfilm is a good alternative if you don’t have a dressing. Do not break any blisters, remove peeled skin or pull clothing off the burn, but do loosen any tight clothing and jewellery such as bracelets or rings before swelling occurs.”

Burns to the face and neck can cause breathing difficulties and smoke inhalation can also be a medical emergency. If the burn is severe, do not give the patient anything to eat or drink and head to the Prince of Wales Hospital in Sha Tin, which has an excellent burns unit, Newhouse says.

Snakebite

Grab your headdresses, pack your warpaint... for Teepee Village

Hong Kong has eight species of venomous snakes: banded krait, many-banded krait, Chinese cobra, king cobra, coral snake, red-necked keelback, bamboo viper and mountain pit viper. The good news is these species are predominantly nocturnal and fatalities are rare. Bites are usually the result of the snake feeling threatened rather than an unprovoked attack.

If one of your party is bitten, call an ambulance immediately, lay the victim down and keep them still and calm, Newhouse says. The bite should be kept below the heart if possible and a pressure bandage applied, bandaging away from the heart towards the site of the bite. Mark the bite location on the outside of the bandage. “Do not wash off the venom and try to remember the colour of the snake,” she says.

Heatstroke

On Lantau, Teepee Village has air-cooled tents big enough to sleep 20 (close) friends.

Heatstroke is caused by over-exposure to high temperatures and may be life threatening. Symptoms include profuse sweating, flu-like symptoms such as headache, dizziness, nausea and fatigue, rapid pulse, thirst, flushed skin, delirium and loss of consciousness.

“To manage heatstroke, move the patient to a cool place and raise their legs 20 to 30 centimetres,” Newhouse says. “Cool, sponge or wet their clothes, place ice on the groin and in the armpits. Give the patient liquids only if they are fully alert, but dilute sport drinks by 50 per cent as they may have high levels of sugar.”

The patient should rest, but if their condition does not improve with time, seek medical attention.

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SHOPPING

Horizon Plaza cheat sheet Sophie Sherrard charts three routes through the Ap Lei Chau shopping complex.

Stylish outdoor spaces start at Everything Under The Sun.

When it comes to shopping for furniture, discount designer fashion or baby essentials, one destination springs to mind: Horizon Plaza. Navigating the 23 floors of this vertical warehouse-turned-shopping mall on Ap Lei Chau can be daunting, but veterans confirm that it’s worth the hike.

So we’ve planned three routes to save you time and energy while still hitting the highlights, especially with Christmas just around the corner.

Happy shopping!

Furniture heaven With flagship stores, discount outlets, bespoke furniture makers, antiques (retro

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and repro, Chinese and Western), and outdoor furniture specialists, there’s something here for every home and most budgets. Start at the top of the building and work your way down.

Tree Swoon for Tree’s signature reclaimed and recycled timber furniture for living, dining and bedrooms. There’s a tailor-made service, cool kids’ range and vintage and modern styles to choose from, plus a lovely cafe and a play area for the children. Retail therapy that makes you feel good? Yes, please. Open daily, 10.30am-7pm. 28/F, 2870 1582, www.tree.com.hk.

Everything Under the Sun This 16-year-old local company supplies top brands of outdoor furniture for homes, hotels and clubhouses. Knowledgeable staff offer great advice on arranging comfortable and beautiful outdoor living spaces, furnished with everything from awnings to barbecues, sun loungers to mist fans, all laid out in a large sundrenched showroom.

Open 10am-6pm. 9/F, 2554 9088, www.everythingunderthesun.com.hk.

Indigo and Indigo Kids Indigo sells contemporary furniture and homeware with an Asian twist laid out in stylish living, dining and bedroom displays.

Indigo Kids has children’s bedroom and nursery furniture, decorating bits and pieces, plus a small range of Stokke products and children’s toys. Open 10am7pm. Showroom, 6/F. Outlet 10/F, 2555 0540, www.indigo-living.com.

Shambala Shambala feels otherworldly with its mixture of antique, vintage and Asian-influenced styles. Explore every part of the store in the hunt for something different, then head to the Pacific Coffee Company concession and adjacent children’s play area for a welldeserved break. Open 9am-7.30pm. 2/F, 2555 2997, www.shambala.com.hk Tequila Kola People who arrive at Tequila Kola disinterested in furniture, leave inspired.

The main showroom store boasts spectacular styling of modern and vintagestyle pieces. As well as substantial carpet, upholstery and cushion-making services, there’s a small area for kids and a Classified coffee shop. The outlet store brims with sale items at discounts of 10 per cent-60 per cent rather than damaged and display stock. Showroom: open Mon-Sat 10am7pm, Sun and holidays 11am-7pm; 1/F, 2877 3295. Outlet: open Mon-Sar 10amRetro and repro pieces rub shoulders at Oriental Home.

Navigating the 23 floors of this vertical warehouseturned-mall can be daunting, but it’s worth the hike 7pm, Sun and holidays noon-7pm; 17/F, 2518 3193, www.tequilakola.com.

Shambala: Asian chic on the second floor.

More furniture highlights 26/F Three great furniture stores: Ad Lib (2552 0222) has lovely Western and Asian antique and vintage pieces, Okooko (2870 1132) has beautiful bedding and bedroom furniture, and Zense (3904 3666) offers custom-made furniture by local designers.

Oriental Home: Antique, new and custom Asian furniture. 20/F, 3542 5336.

OVO: Beautiful, modern and funky international designer pieces. 20/F, 2529 6020.

Jervis Bay: Barbecue specialist. 12/F, 2792 7268.

Garden Gallery: Outdoor furniture of all descriptions. 7/F, 2553 3251.

Discount fashion Horizon Plaza’s fashion outlets boast big designer names, a wide range of sizes and the correct (if not current) season. Most are nicely fitted out and many offer increased discounts when you buy more pieces.

27/F Hugo Boss, Marni and Diesel are the standouts, each offering discounts of more than 50 per cent. Juicy Couture offers smaller discounts but it has a good range and lots of sizes. The large Moda Mia outlet stocks mainly winter clothing.

Vivienne Westwood and Max Mara look a little tired, but are good bets for a winter coat. Folli Follie has discount bags. expat-parent.com

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Clockwise from top: Lane Crawford, Joyce and Ovo Studio are designer discount heaven.

18/F The real star is Ralph Lauren with friendly staff, big discounts, lots of sizes and last year’s winter range. Also on this floor – and all excellent – are Marc by Marc Jacobs, Yves Saint Laurent, Imaginex, Hit Gallery and A.T. Big-label hunters The big designer bargains can be found

at the large Lane Crawford, Joyce and Pompeii outlets. Joyce is a retail Tardis, Lane Crawford is stale-smelling and fluorolit, and the staff at Pompeii seem put off by customers. But perseverance pays off, with discounts of up to 90 per cent on major labels. While you’re at Pompeii, pop into its 22/F neighbour, Armani. Lane Crawford, 25/F, 2118 3403. Pompeii, 22/F, 3586 9026.

Joyce, 21/F, 2814 8313.

Navigation aids • Pick up a shopping guide on arrival, it’s invaluable.

• Plan a route starting at the highest floor on your list.

• When it’s busy, take the stairs rather than the slow and convoluted lift system.

• Give yourself plenty of time. There are no quick trips to Horizon Plaza.

• Don’t take the kids. There may be a few small in-store play areas, but there

are no open spaces to run off a bit of energy.

• If possible, avoid weekends.

• Only the brave would attempt to cover fashion and furniture in one day.

• Toilets alternate between men’s and women’s on each level in the stair wells and aren’t bad, although staff have been known to smoke in the disabled toilets with the baby-change tables.

Tree (28/F) has a change table.

Tree: eco-chic teak – and decent coffee.

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We see the individual.

Hong Kong Academy offers a rigorous international education that engages students as unique individuals with different interests, goals, and approaches to learning. As an IB World School for students ages 3 to 18, Hong Kong Academy challenges all students to reach their potential and prepares them for life in a dynamic and diverse world.

To learn more about our school and community or to arrange a tour, please visit www.hkacademy.edu.hk or call 2655-1111.

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SHOPPING

While Horizon Plaza isn’t great for shopping with kids, it’s a great place to shop for them Child's play While Horizon Plaza isn’t great for shopping with kids, it’s a great place to shop for them.

Bumps to Babes Parents come to Horizon Plaza just to visit the ultimate baby shop with its knowledgeable staff and huge stock of strollers, cots, bassinets, carriers, car seats, clothes, toys and food. It’s not a discount store, although it can feel like one. 21/F, 2552 5000, www.bumpstobabes.com

Toy-shop heaven: Bump to Babes.

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Mothercare Smaller than some of its other Hong Kong stores, this British brand is packed with maternity, baby and toddler essentials, sold

by informed staff. 19/F, 2518 0528, www.mothercare.com.hk Nursery and children’s furniture Tree: Sustainable children’s furniture that oozes cool, at a price. 28/F, 2870 1582, www.tree.com.hk Okooko: Modern but sweet and cosy bedroom furniture for children. 26/F, 2870 1132, www.okooko.com Nerd Kids for Living: Desks, chairs and sofas for older children. 19/F, 3105 9887, www.nerdkidsforliving.com Inside: A small but cute children’s range and some furniture. 12/F, 2873 1795, www.inside.com.hk Flexa: Hip furniture (bunkbed slide, anyone?) and soft furnishings for anklebiters. 11/F, www.flexaworld.co.uk.

Indigo Kids: All you need for a nursery or a child’s room in one place. 6/F, 2555 0540, www.indigo-living.com Birthday shopping Pollux Books: Good selection of books, toys, DVDs and more. 21/F, 2873 6962.

Toys Club: Toys, boardgames, books, party supplies and more. 19/F, 2836 0875, www.itoysclub.com.

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Mini Micro Scooter

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education open day

Inside Nord Anglia International School Open just two months, Hong Kong’s new school has big plans, writes Hannah Grogan.

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n September, the city’s newest international school opened in Kowloon. Located in refurbished premises in Lam Tin, Nord Anglia International School Hong Kong is now up and running, with children in years one to seven, and some places still available in certain classes. This is great news for families in Hong Kong, given the shortfall of an estimated 4,500 international-school places across the city.

It is a flagship school for the Nord Anglia group, which operates 31 premium educational institutes in 18 countries, including China (where it runs two schools in Beijing, two in Shanghai and one in Guangzhou), Singapore,

Thailand, Cambodia, the United States and countries across the Middle East and Europe, where the group began in Britain 25 years ago. Expansion into Hong Kong seemed a logical next step, with the group even relocating its headquarters from Staffordshire to Central three years ago, said head of school Brian Cooklin.

“The government made a policy decision to try to deal with the shortage of international-school places. In 2012, [it offered] three sites that could be opened up. They received 36 bids and we got this one – a former Catholic boys’ school that had been empty for a few years,” he says.

“The motivation for the government is an economic one; to encourage companies

Three cheers for Nord Anglia’s first full-school assembly. Opposite: lunchtime on the astroturf playground.

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education open day

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Families with young children were finding it really difficult to get places

Focusing in a year two classroom.

to invest and send their workforce to Hong Kong. The Chambers of Commerce – British, American, Australian, etc – had all made the point that families with young children were finding it really difficult to get places in a school. Primary schools, in particular… some have huge waiting lists of 400. So in an attempt to bridge that gap, we had the opportunity to build this school, which we’ve done in one year. It was quite a feat. The scale of the project was pretty massive.”

While the original structure remains, it’s been updated and modernised. A new walkway links the two sides of the school and a swimming pool is underway for next year.

It’s not just the building that is growing.

Eventually, Nord Anglia hopes to expand into a through school. It’s licenced to open year eight and nine classes in the next two years in its current location, and is already bidding on another site that could enable it to open years 10 to 13 in future with a view to offering IGCSEs and the IB diploma.

Class sizes are small, with a maximum of 22 children in a class and the school currently operates 24 classes, some of which still have places. A limited number of individual and corporate debentures are available, starting at $400,000 and depreciating by 12.5 per cent every year.

Cooklin says the majority of Nord Anglia’s students are new to Hong Kong, with others switching from other schools, with a multicultural mix of more than 30 different nationalities.

“About 200 families have relocated from around the world, so clearly that is working. We are playing our part in making

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education open day

Jumping through hoops at breaktime. Below: getting to grips with drama.

We offer the English National Curriculum tailored to Hong Kong

sure families are able to take employment and feel secure that their child is in a school they want their child to be educated in,” Cooklin says.

The staff is also international, with Cooklin, who hails from Scotland, employing teachers from Hong Kong, Britain and around the world. About a

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quarter came from other Nord Anglia schools “We offer the English National Curriculum as a framework, tailored to where we are – Hong Kong. For example, we have Mandarin daily for all children up to Year 5, and after that the children will have it three times a week and we introduce Spanish as another language. This means that English, Spanish and Mandarin are taught in school as they are the most widely spoken languages in the world. I think that’s a really good opportunity.”

Extending this multicultural theme is Nord Anglia’s Global Classroom concept, which links all the group’s 31 schools via the internet and encourages collaborative projects between children around the world. Children in Hong Kong studying geography of mountains, for example, can talk directly to classes in Swiss schools about the Alps. It’s an idea that takes the international school to a whole new level.

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principal’s office As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?

When I was a small child I wanted to be an orchestral conductor, but I wasn’t musical.

At the age of 10, I wanted to be a teacher.

I’ve been a teacher for 38 years, the last 18 as a headteacher or principal.

What do you enjoy most about being a principal?

I enjoy being involved with the children.

Until recently I’ve continued to teach because I didn’t come into [education] planning to be a principal, I came in to be a teacher. English is my subject that I teach at secondary age so I always loved that.

Brian cooklin

Nord Anglia International School’s principal on quizzes, toddlers and becoming Mr Cookie.

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What are the challenges?

There are many. The amount of form filling and dealing with regulations and ordinances is time consuming. A major aspect is managing people: members of staff, parents, children, outside agencies and companies. It’s a huge range of different interpersonal situations and skills you need to deploy in different ways with different groups at different times. I was head of

a secondary school so I had many years’ experience of dealing with older children.

When I became principal of a school with children aged one to 18, [I had] to pitch and speak to one- and two-year-olds – learning how to communicate right across the board is a challenge.

What do you like most about Hong Kong?

I’ve been in Hong Kong nine months, very little time. I like the diversity. You can turn a corner and come across a temple where people are bringing their babies to be blessed and there’s a fancy French restaurant next door and an Italian down the road and somebody else is making this, that or the other. That’s the part of Hong Kong I like the best.

What was the best advice you were given by a teacher?

My history teacher was inspiring because he basically threw the books out. I was educated at school with a traditional format – memorise this, here are the answers, as long as you know it going into the exam you’ll be fine. There was little room for

creativity. He was like, “What do you think of this particular event in history and why do you think it worked out like that?” And he was very funny.

Do the kids at school have any nicknames for you?

It’s a bit soon here. Some of the younger children have difficulty saying Mr Cooklin so it’s become Mr Cookie.

Any tips for de-stressing?

My way of de-stressing is to go to the gym.

The other is to have a sense of humour.

What talent would you like to have?

I wish I could play an instrument. I still think I can sing and I’ve thrown myself into it wholeheartedly, much to the embarrassment of my family. But I don’t have a musical talent and I’d like one.

What quality do you value in people?

It comes down to trust and loyalty, that you can depend on a person in every respect.

Do you have any hobbies?

I’m a quiz fanatic. My great claim to fame is that I appeared on the BBC’s Mastermind and other quiz programmes.

What was your favourite school subject?

I love history, English and the classics.

Nord Anglia International School, Hong Kong Address: 11 On Tin Street, Lam Tin, Kowloon Tel: 3958 1488 Website: www.nordangliaeducation.com.

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ITS offers tips for helping your child to embrace their least-favourite subject.

When children develop passions about school subjects, it is a moment of both pride and comfort for the parent.

Encouraging a child to flourish in their favourite subject is a joy that can expand a child’s talents exponentially. But not every subject can be a favourite, or even tolerated. These subjects can be detrimental to the child’s education, self-esteem and family relationships. As a parent, you have the control to help your child embrace their least favourite subject.

If you can’t talk about it, you can’t fix it Your first goal should be communication.

Do not get upset with your child for their resistance to a subject. Instead, encourage them to express themselves more thoroughly about it. Even if you found the subject easy when you were in school it doesn’t mean your child should. Curricula

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have changed drastically, especially in science and maths, so you may be learning right along with your child.

Understand the subject yourself Better understand the subject frustrating your child, as well as the structure of the classwork. Sometimes children understand the basic material early in the year, but then miss a key concept and feel lost later on. There is no harm in asking to see your child’s textbook to understand better.

Use different techniques An excellent technique is to have your child list on paper what bothers them about the subject – the issue may be a classmate distracting them, or something similar. Even if you can’t help, you can share the list with their teacher for advice.

Helpful tips - Make games out of tasks such as studying for a test or quiz. Involve the family and

as your child improves they will gain confidence by outperforming the family.

- Incorporate a subject your child loves with the one they struggle with. Make a math problem into a funny word with their English or foreign-language vocabulary.

Not only have subjects changed but teaching methodology has too. These barriers are very real. However, schools are aware of these communication problems and want to work with both teachers and parents for the good of the student. By being open-minded and willing to try new ideas, you can help your child succeed in school.

ITS Educational Services offers numerous services to families who are looking for entrance to international schools.

These range from school advice, school assessment preparation, intensive English courses for entry into mainstream schools and consultancy support for entrance to universities. For details, email anne.m@itseducation.asia.

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Triathlon Training

Future Ironmen start young, with specialist swimming, cycling and running training. By Adele Brunner.

26 Coaching Offering some of the best youth triathlon training programmes on Hong Kong Island, 26 Coaching aims to develop techniques and teach children the importance of strength and conditioning as well as performance. The organisation offers running, track athletics and aquathon training for children from age six with all coaches qualified and insured to coach (although this is not required by Hong Kong law).

The Youth Aquathon programme holds weekly sessions at Repulse Bay Beach developing open-water swimming and running and the transition between the two.

To participate, children must be able to swim 200m unassisted. Wednesdays 4pm5.15pm; Saturdays 8am-9.15am, 9.30am10.45am and 3pm-4.15pm.

The Youth Running programme encourages young athletes to participate in endurance and athletic events by perfecting running techniques, with sessions in Aberdeen, Happy Valley, Repulse Bay and Kowloon Bay, 5pm-6.15pm, every week day. Fees are $3,260 for a 10-week Youth Aquathon or Running programme and club T-shirt; discounts for multiple sessions.

26 Coaching also runs indoor bike sessions for those with their own road bikes to overcome the difficulty of cycling on Hong Kong Island. $3,940; 11.30am12.45pm and 1pm-2.15pm. French International School, Jardine’s Lookout.

In addition, a Youth Development Squad aims to train promising athletes aged 10 to 20, selected at trials or following solid performances in races, to national level and possible regional and Olympic success. As well as swimming and running training, the squad cycles in the morning on the road. For further details, contact info@26coaching.com.

Aqua Gym This Tung Chung-based club runs sessions almost every day for children aged from seven up. Beginners are encouraged to attend twice a week but older and more advanced athletes train up to five times a week. Duathlon training (cycling and running) includes bike skills and drills, cornering, riding safely in groups, running techniques and breathing as well as transitioning between the two disciplines.

There is also a junior swim squad at Tung Chung Swimming Pool for children

Where to get the gear Escapade Sports sells 2XU junior triathlon suits, shorts and vests. 1/F, 19 Leighton Road, Causeway Bay; 7/F, Silverstrand Mart (above Fusion), Silver Cape Road, Clearwater Bay. When to use it Splash N Dash Revolution Asia’s series of aquathon races is held annually, typically in May and June. Children aged eight to nine swim 75m and run 750m, 10- to 11-year-olds swim 150m and run 1.5km and 12- to 15-year-olds swim 375m and run 2.5km. For details, visit www.revolution-asia.com.

Ocean Swim These open-water races are held monthly from August to October with distances varying from 250m (eight- to 13-year-olds) to 500m (10 years and over). Competent swimmers aged 10 and over can also tackle the long course of 1.4km-1.8km. For details, visit www.revolution-asia.com.

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Junior triathletes: Fit, focused and up for a challenge.

Participation in local and overseas competitions is encouraged aged eight and up who can swim 100m confidently in deep water, often followed by running training. $140-$180. Contact Erik Chan on 2914 0658.

Junior Run Club Personal trainer Tim Stevens and Ironman triathlete Warren Warner put kids through their paces on Mondays at Sai Kung Stadium and Tuesdays at Tseung Kwan O Stadium. The focus is on drills to improve running technique, muscular and core strength and endurance with an emphasis on taking part, getting fitter and having fun. Monday’s run club is split into two age groups: nine- to 11-year-olds, 4.45pm5.30pm; 12 years and up, 5.30pm-6.15pm.

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All ages run together on Tuesdays from 5pm-5.45pm. Fees are $150 a session, but commitment to an eight- to 10-week course is required.

In July and August, Warner runs weekly

aquathon camps combining swimming and running training and finishing with a fun competition among participants. Contact Tim Stevens (timstevenshk@hotmail.com), Warren Warner (waz.warner@gmail.com)

Study, sleep, train. Repeat Andrew Wright of 26 Coaching explains how young athletes can fit in training with schoolwork and a social life.

Ask for help: Let your parents, teachers and coaches know your schedule and how they can help. Schools are proud to have good athletes so will hopefully accommodate the training needed.

Set goals: If you don’t know your sporting and academic goals, you won’t be able to allot time to each area efficiently. Use a yearly planner to plot exam and competition dates as well as intense training and study periods.

Prioritise: Something has to give. Being the best at school and sport will mean sacrificing social activities. Tell your

friends what you’re doing and why you might not be available.

Don’t waste time: Interruptions like Facebook, texts and television can be seriously disruptive to studying. Plan time blocks where disruptions are not a factor and get your schoolwork done.

Sleep: This should be your number one priority. Without at least eight hours a night, recovery will be compromised and results will suffer. Early-morning training = early to bed.

Think like a champion: The sooner you get your priorities right and start thinking positively, the quicker this will translate into victories.

For details, visit www.26coaching.com.

or Michelle Jordan (djordan@ netvigator.com).

Mango Swimming Club Hong Kong triathlete Mango Cheung Man-kwong, who has competed internationally, offers all aspects of triathlon training to children aged five to 17. Based in Sai Kung, he makes every session different, including short-distance track training, longer distance runs and year-round swimming training in Sai Kung Swimming Pool, indoors at Lam Tim or in open water. Cycling for children aged seven and up takes place at Sha Tin Science Park at 7pm-9pm on Friday, Saturday and Sunday evenings, with parental help required for younger athletes. Long-term participation is encouraged to see the benefits of the training but each session (held in English and/or Cantonese) costs $85 and Cheung welcomes children to try out.

He also organizes personalised children’s tri-suits ($608 each).

For details, WhatsApp him on 9010 5962.

Sonic Sports Association Founded in 2003 by elite Hong Kong triathletes, registered coaches and sports enthusiasts, Sonic Sports Association offers regular group training in running and swimming.

Juniors and adults of all levels are welcome from fitness beginners to semi-pro athletes.

Swimming training focuses on etiquette, freestyle technique and drills while the running sessions are all about form and endurance training. Sonic’s training also encompasses transitioning techniques and practice. Sessions may include circuit training, nutrition advice and warm-up and cool-down exercises. Participation in local and overseas competitions is encouraged. The youth section is open to children aged eight to 17, who can swim 200m freestyle. Training

at Sun Yat Sen Memorial Park and Swimming Pool is held on Thursdays, 6pm-7pm (run) and 7pm-8pm (swim), and Saturdays, 4pm-5pm (run) and 5pm-6pm (swim). At Yuen Long Sports Ground and Swimming Pool, sessions are held on Thursdays, 5.30pm7pm (run) and 7pm-8.30pm (swim) and Saturdays, 2pm3.30pm (swim) and 3.30pm5pm (run). $900/month.

For details, email dj_ball@yahoo.com.

Specialised Elite Coaching Run by experienced coaches who have competed nationally, Specialised Elite Coaching offers athletics training for kids aged six and up, plus youth triathlon training and personal training. The club aims to teach the relevant athletics skills as well as giving participants a sense of accomplishment and pride. Sessions take place at Aberdeen Sports Ground and Athletics Track and cost $180 for kids, $200 for youth ($150/session for youths who attend twice weekly). Contact specialisedelitecoaching@ gmail.com.

Titan Triathlon It’s never too early to become a triathlete. Children aged eight and up can join the Titan Triathlon club, which trains daily in Sha Tin. It aims to provide in-depth triathlon knowledge through aquathon and duathlon training.

Participants are required to pass a swimming test at Sha Tin Swimming Pool as swim training is all about honing strokes and building endurance rather than learning to swim.

It costs $1,200 a month for unlimited sessions or $110 a day. A club tri-suit and T-shirt is provided. Adults welcome.

Participation in local and overseas races is encouraged.

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me & my hobby (Oh yes, it is)

Jasmine Turner The 12-year-old chorus girl talks to Hannah Grogan about her life in panto.

Rehearsals are enjoyable and like no other.

The chorus meets every Wednesday and Thursday, and the whole cast on Sunday.

There’s no sitting around, waiting for your turn – you’re up and about every second.

Friendships are formed and memories are made.

My favourite part of the panto is the shows and the joy of showing Hong Kong something that you have put hours and hours into just to put smiles on their faces. Christmas is a time to celebrate and have fun and the panto has that covered.

I’m in year eight at Kellett School. My hobbies are dancing, singing, acting and sports.

The feeling I get inside is the reason I like performing on stage. When you’ve worked so hard, it’s like you’re on a mission to make people happy and, when they are, a feeling of joy and happiness bubbles up.

I have to thank my mum for getting me into the pantomime. I am useless at organising events so without her I wouldn’t even know you could audition. I was so ready. I was with my brother, and a few other girls who would eventually become close friends, standing in a room. I never knew an audition would be so calming and easy. The time just flew past as I was having so much fun.

This is only my second panto but the whole cast is so welcoming and kind to new crew members that I feel I have been doing this show for longer.

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I’ve been lucky to be in other shows such as Hairspray, Oompa Loompa, last year’s panto Sleeping Beauty and a bunch of dance shows.

All you need is confidence and a spark of quirkiness to try out.

What keeps me committed is knowing that everything I’m doing now will pay off in the future. All the rehearsals result in a better and more amazing show.

I wouldn’t be able to do this without my family. I am forever grateful for all the long car drives to and from rehearsals.

My week is pretty full with dance lessons, panto and another show but Saturday is saved for homework and maybe a catch up with friends.

If you want to try out next year but feel nervous, just try. Be confident and take a chance. I did at my first audition and I will never regret it.

Puss in Boots will be held on December 5-7 and 11-14 at Shouson Theatre, Hong Kong Arts Centre, 2 Harbour Road, Wan Chai.

Tickets $250-$330 from Urbtix, www.urbtix.hk.

Jasmine Turner enters stage left.

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food Healthy Appetites

in season

With the cooler weather, a new glut of natural goodies has arrived at the market.

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Tangerines Cost: $20 for three.

Chinese name: Gum. Best served: Peel and eat raw. Save the peel, which can be dried, grated and used as a tangy glaze or preserve.

Pea shoots Cost: $38 a catty.

Chinese name: Dau miu.

Best served: Sweet, tender and delicious, this nutritious local favourite is best stirfried with sesame oil and garlic.

Papaya Cost: $28 each.

Chinese name: Mo gua.

Best served: Eat raw or shred the unripe fruit and add to shrimp, chicken or tuna salad or use in a warming soup.

Pomegranates Cost: $10-$15 each.

Chinese name: Shek lau.

Best served: Eat the seeds raw or add to salad, couscous or vanilla yogurt for a power boost.

Sweet potatoes Cost: $8 a catty.

Chinese name: Tim fan shu.

Best served: Hailed as a superfood for its nutritional content, sweet potatoes are delicious sliced and roasted in olive oil, or grilled and served with lime juice for a taste sensation.

Chinese long beans Cost: $4 for six.

Chinese name: Dou kok.

Best served: These crisp tender pods cannot be eaten raw. Try slicing and stir-frying with eggs.

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Hairy crabs

With winter around the corner, the annual invasion of hairy crabs has begun. Prized for their sweet flesh, male and female hairy crabs – or Chinese mitten crabs – are eaten at different times of the year: males in September and October and females in November, when they are crammed with creamy, delicious roe. The sexes have different body shapes, with females having rounder bodies than the longer, sharper males.

Available at market stalls and speciality shops, the live crabs are usually stored inside a fridge and sold with complimentary leaves used for wrapping the crab in the steamer. They should be eaten within a few days of purchase. Allow one to two crabs per person.

To prepare the crabs, brush off any dirt and debris from the shell – an old toothbrush is useful for cleaning the tiny cracks – then tie the legs and claws tightly with string. Place the crab on its back in a steamer to prevent the juices from spilling out. Steaming time varies, but as a rule of thumb allow about 20 minutes for four crabs and 25 minutes for six crabs. Traditionally, they are eaten with ginger tea to balance the crabs’ “cooling” property.

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turkey Cherrie Yu and Callum Wiggins give thanks for roast turkey with all the trimmings.

Mandarin Oriental A top choice for Thanksgiving, with wonderful service and food, the Mandarin Oriental offers both dine-in feasts and takeaway turkey in five of its restaurants.

Thanksgiving buffets will be available from November 25 to 30 at the Clipper Lounge and family-friendly Cafe Causette, where the food comes with crayons and colouring games for the kids. On Thanksgiving (November 27), The Chinnery and Mandarin Bar & Grill will be serving elegant twoand three-course traditional turkey meals with pumpkin soup and all the trimmings.

And for those who prefer the cosiness of dinner at home, but without the effort, the Mandarin Cake Shop’s Thanksgiving takeaway boxes come crammed with goodies, including a cooked turkey with stuffing, cranberry sauce, gravy and all trimmings and a choice of classic pumpkin pie or salted butter pecan pie. Simply reheat in the oven for 15-20 minutes before serving. Prices start at $2,098 for a 7kg bird. The turkey takeaways are available from November 1-30 and December 24-31

Thanksgiving takeaway boxes come crammed with goodies and can be delivered. 5 Connaught Road, Central, 2825 4828, www.mandarinoriental. com, mohkg-restaurants@mohg.com.

Dan Ryan’s & Lucques Tavern Relaxed American-style family restaurant Dan Ryan’s is a perennial favourite with kids, thanks to handouts of crayons, games, keychains and balloons – who doesn’t love a balloon? For Thanksgiving on November 27, Dan Ryan’s and its sister restaurant Lucques Tavern are offering a special fourcourse menu, starting with a relish tray and

pumpkin soup, followed by roast turkey, gravy, candied yams, mashed potatoes and vegetables with walnuts, and those staple Thanksgiving desserts apple or pumpkin pie. Highchairs are available for little ones.

Prices are $398 for adults and $208 for children. Dan Ryan’s Chicago Grill, Pacific Place, 88 Queensway, Central, 2845 4600; and LG/F Festival Walk, Kowloon Tong, 2265 8811. Lucques Tavern, Level 3, Ocean Terminal, Tsim Sha Tsui, 2735 6111, www.danryans.com.

Flint Bar and Grill For a stylish Thanksgiving on November 27, the JW Marriott’s Flint Bar and Grill is offering a four-course traditional Thanksgiving dinner in a decidedly nontraditional industrial-chic setting. Catering to children with special utensils, colouring pens and games, the set dinner ($880 a person) includes marinated salmon Napoleon, butternut squash with shaved Iberico ham, roasted turkey roll or honeyglazed smoked ham, grandmother’s apple pie with vanilla bean ice-cream and more. expat-parent.com

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Clockwise from top left: Thanksgiving turkey at Lucques Tavern; the interior of Liberty Exchange Kitchen & Bar; head chef Sven Wunram at Flint Grill & Bar; American-style dining at Dan Ryan’s; the family buffet at Cafe Causette.

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Hotel deli Dolce 88 is also offering cooked festive takeaways of turkey ($1,888 for six to eight people) or honey-glazed ham ($2,288 for eight-12) with homemade trimmings and pie of your choice. One day’s notice is required. Available November 27 and December 24-31. Flint Grill & Bar, Level 5, Pacific Place, 88 Queensway, 2810 8366, www.jwmarriotthongkong.com.

Dessert is a hearty slice of Americana in the form of pumpkin meringue pie Peak Lookout

Turkey dinners to go Main St. Deli Turkey-to-go combo takeaways are available in two sizes, priced $1,838 (for six-10 people) and $2,488 (for 16-20). Order now and enjoy early-bird discounts of 10 per cent in November.

The takeaway menu is available for both Thanksgiving and Christmas, from now to December 31. Call 2132 7898 at least 48 hours in advance. Alternatively download an order form at www.hongkong.langhamhotels.com.

The Butchers Club With the opening of the new Butchers Club Shop on November 1, families can find premium turkeys in store or online. US corn-fed turkeys are $525 for an 18lb-25lb bird that comes brined, seasoned and ready for the oven. The new shop is also stocking apricot and sage stuffing, classic pork sausage stuffing, house-made cranberry jelly,

turkey gravy and more for the perfect Thanksgiving or Christmas feast. Also available is prepared turducken: turkey breast layered with cranberries and herbs, maple-leaf duck, deboned chicken and foie gras, $2,400 for 4kg. 20/F, Kwai Bo Industrial Building, 40 Wong Chuk Hang Road, Aberdeen, www.butchersclub.com.hk.

85 South This authentic southern barbecue restaurant is offering smoked turkeys for Thanksgiving. Turkeys are marinated overnight to tenderise and flavour the meat and then smoked over hickorywood chips. A 16lb turkey is $1,000 with stuffing throughout November and December. All turkeys must be pre-ordered 48 hours in advance for collection from the restaurant, hot and ready to eat. 8-10 Kau U Fong, Central, 2337 2078, www.85south.hk.

For turkey in a spectacular setting, head to the historic Peak Lookout on November 24-30 for a special four-course Thanksgiving menu. Sit by the stone fireplace or eat alfresco on the expansive terrace, warmed by heaters on cold nights, for dinner with a difference. The menu includes roasted parsnip soup, roast turkey breast and trimmings and roasted pumpkin pie with vanilla ice cream ($428 per person). Young children are welcomed with crayons and colouring materials. Look out for the Christmas set menu on December 24-25 and New Year’s Eve. 121 Peak Road, 2849 1000, www.peaklookout.com.hk.

Liberty Exchange Kitchen & Bar For a twist on the traditional, try the Thanksgiving meal at Liberty Exchange Kitchen & Bar. The special menu starts with a choice of roasted Hokkaido scallops or pan-roasted Argentinean red prawns followed by roasted turkey roulade with sage bread pudding and pan gravy or gingerbread-crusted duck breast with squash puree, Brussels sprouts and cranberry jus. Dessert is a hearty slice of Americana in the form of pumpkin meringue pie. Keeping the kids happy, Liberty Exchange provides colouring games and high chairs. Thanksgiving dinner is available from November 20 at $558 a person. Christmas and New Year’s Eve specials will also be available next month.

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Hot desks

How to create a fun but functional study area.

By Caroline Basham.

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etting children to sit down to do their homework can be a minefield of tears and tantrums but it’s made easier when your children have a study area they like – and that keeps distractions at bay.

Freya Taylor was just seven years old when she started badgering her mother, Tania, for her own desk. The problem was a lack of space in her bedroom.

“As she is the youngest of my three children, Freya was stuck with the smallest bedroom in our village house as her older brothers were already in the larger rooms when she was born,” Tania says. “Her room has a built-in wardrobe and drawers so we don’t have the luxury of shuffling furniture around and if we tried to fit in even a small desk she either wouldn’t be able to get to her bed or open her wardrobe doors.”

Freya suggested a platform bed and, although Tania wasn’t keen as her daughter’s existing bed wasn’t old, she capitulated as it was the only solution available.

“Part of the reason Freya was so keen on this ‘bedroom solution’ was the excitement of climbing a ladder to bed,” Tania says. “But her friends had also started to get desks so I’m sure she kept asking for one because she wanted to be the same as expat-parent.com

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Platform beds, incorporating a desk like this one from Flexa, are a good solution for small spaces.

them. She is young and her homework is minimal, but because she kept insisting she wanted to study in the peace and quiet of her bedroom rather than downstairs on the dining-room table, I felt I should encourage her.”

Bumps to Babes (www.bumpstobabes.

com) and Indigo Living (www.indigo-living. com) have loft-style beds incorporating desks, wardrobes, drawers and bookshelves. The Stuva modular bed by Ikea (www.ikea.com.hk), which Tania chose for its price ($3,650) and size, includes a platform bed, shelves, mini wardrobe

Study aids How to increase the chances of effective homework.

Noise: Create a quiet period each day when homework can be done – especially if you have children of different ages. If your child has to wear headphones to deal with the noise, something’s wrong.

Drinks and snacks: Make sure the child has a water bottle on the desk, and possibly a supply of nuts, fruit and

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protein bars for when concentration wanes.

Timers: Many students (particularly teens) work well by setting allocated times to complete a piece of work. Use a dedicated alarm clock rather than a smartphone.

Smartphones: These phones are a formidable distraction that don’t mix with concentrated study. Leave it in another room, switched to silent.

and desk. The desk can either fit directly beneath the bed, running the length of the mattress, or if there is more space it can be positioned at a right angle at one end. The wardrobe doors and desk drawers come in four mix-and-match colours.

Creating a productive study isn’t only about space. As anyone who works in an office can attest, health and safety requirements have changed the ergonomics of desks and chairs. At home, the use of computers from an early age has an inevitable impact on a child’s posture and physical development, so choosing the correct desk-and-chair combination is essential.

Chair height should be set so the feet can rest flat on the floor with shins vertical and knees bent at 90 degrees. Dangling legs or knees knocking the underside of a desk can restrict blood circulation, leading to discomfort and loss of attention. The desk should allow the child to rest their elbows and forearms on the desktop

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without hunching their shoulders or leaning forward.

Some children’s desks have surface heights and seating that can be adjusted for children aged three to 13. Top-of-therange models can be tilted for writing (flat), reading (15-degree tilt) and drawing/ painting (45 degrees), keeping the distance from the eyes to the work surface within a healthy range. Before buying one, however, consider whether the child can adjust the tilt and extension mechanism themselves rather than relying on an adult.

The German-made Moll Champion desk ($12,980 from Nerd Kids for Living, 19/F, Horizon Plaza, Ap Lei Chau, 3105 9887) is split in two, allowing one side, matched to whether the child is right- or left-handed, to be tilted for drawing, writing and reading while the other side remains flat. Moll also

makes ergonomic chairs such as the heightadjustable Maximo ($5,980) in a range of funky colours, with a swinging backrest for extra support.

Danish company Flexa (261 Queen’s Road East, Wan Chai, 2688 2303) specialises in the design and manufacture of children’s furniture that ticks all the boxes when it comes to style, practicality and ergonomics. Its Study desk (from $4,000) is height and tilt adjustable and can be personalised with legs in blue, yellow or white and desktops in clear lacquered pine, whitewashed pine or white MDF. It was designed by Danish architect Anders Smidt.

“Making a study table for kids that is functional, ergonomic and grows with the child was a great challenge for me,” he says. “The table provides intuitive height and tilt adjustability, colour personalisation

The Moll Champion desk has a split desktop that can be tilted for reading and painting.

She wanted to study in the peace and quiet of her bedroom as well as easy technology integration in a seamless whole while utilising friendly, environmental and safe materials that are long lasting.”

As for working in a messy bedroom, studies have shown we are all more effective with less clutter. However, to your child, clutter may not be a distraction at all – except when they realise something precious or familiar isn’t there. A key issue here is that the worktop is clear and books, treasures and stored resources are readily accessible.

Many furniture companies sell underdesk storage cabinets and filing boxes.

Consider buying a small filing system to help your child become organised and more systematic in their work routines.

The next consideration is lighting. The light level at the desktop surface should be 500-700 lux, which can be measured by downloading a free Lux Meter app onto your smartphone. Choose a desk lamp that enables your child to easily move the light source, such as an Anglepoise design. This allows children to learn to control the glare from artificial lights. Daylight is ideal as long as strong sunlight can be defused by a blind or curtains to avoid glare and heat build-up.

“Freya enjoyed picking out the colour of the drawers and doors of her new desk area and if that all makes her keen to do her homework so much the better,” Tania says. “At least now she doesn’t have any excuse not to get it done.”

Caroline B (www.caroline-b.hk) is a bespoke personal-assistance service for families and individuals. expat-parent.com

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big day out good heavens

Written in the stars Gaze skywards at Sai Kung’s Astropark.

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iven the level of light pollution in Hong Kong, stars can be elusive on even the clearest night. For the best views of Orion, the Big Dipper and other constellations, head to the Hong Kong Space Museum’s Astropark in the darkest reaches of Sai Kung Country Park.

What to expect? Opened in January 2010, the Astropark is an astronomical theme park at West Sea Cofferdam near Sai Kung’s High Island Reservoir. Instead of rides and water slides, it features stargazing facilities such as Chinese and Western astronomical instruments both ancient and modern, including telescopic binoculars, astrological dials and a star dome with an electronic display of the night sky, all available for public use. It’s a large space in an otherwise empty (unless you count the cows) field next to the waterfront and the Chong Hing Water Sports Centre.

Why go? To escape hectic Hong Kong and enjoy some peace and quiet under the stars. On a clear evening you can lie back on your own circular star-gazing seat and gaze at the Milky Way to a soundtrack of quiet clicking from starryeyed photographers with telescopic lenses pointed at the heavens.

What to take? Amateur stargazers don’t need to bring anything other than themselves, a picnic and a star map, available for download on the Astropark website. Or download the Night Sky app for iPhone and Android from iTunes for expat-parent.com

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The sky in November Nov 5-6 South Taurids Meteor Shower Meteors radiate from constellation Taurus, but you’ll need to find a dark spot away from city lights to see it.

Nov 6 Full Moon The brightest night of the month – with the highest tides.

US$0.99. Keen astronomers with their own telescopes can use the electricity provided.

Make a night of it and camp in the nearby field, available for booking through the water sports centre (tel: 2792 6810).

When to go? It’s a beautiful setting, so arrive before dark to catch the sunset over the channels and islands of Inner Port Shelter. The park is open 24 hours and you don’t need to book, unless you want to camp.

Stargazing facilities at the Astropark.

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Nov 17-18 Leonides Meteor Shower Expect up to 15 meteors an hour – best viewing after midnight.

Nov 22 New Moon The darkest night of the month is a good time to see faint objects such as galaxies and star clusters.

How to get there? Take a taxi from the Sai Kung Country Park gate at Pak Tam Chung to the Chong Hing Water Sports Centre (about $50); turn right off Sai Kung Man Yee Road immediately after crossing the High Island Reservoir West Dam. The centre also runs a shuttle bus from Sai Kung town, which is available for campers. To book, call 2792 6810.

For details and star maps, visit www.lcsd.gov.hk/CE/Museum/Space.

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travel Nippon November

Momiji-gari or maple viewing in Tokyo’s Koishikawa Korakuen.

Painting the town red

There’s more to do in Tokyo this month than watch the leaves turn, writes Shirley Lau.

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n November, Japan hurtles to the top of Hong Kong’s travel wish list. The lure? The spectacular autumn leaves of the maple trees that paint many parts of the country in a blaze of red. While Kyoto and Hokkaido are the most popular places for viewing the autumn foliage, Tokyo is a better option for families with children. It has no shortage of beautiful gardens filled with maples, but when the little ones are bored with momiji-gari (maple viewing), there are plenty of other fun things to do in the Japanese capital.

Maple viewing In Tokyo, the amazing annual burst of colour as the maples turn from green to bright red is usually best from late November to early December. Big parks across the city, including Rikugien Garden, are popular locations for viewing the fabulous autumn foliage. The views are particularly magnificent along the stream near Takimi-no-chaya teahouse. Koishikawa Korakuen, one of Tokyo's oldest Japanese gardens, pulls a crowd with dozens of maple trees around three ponds and, in the southeast corner, a small grove of ginkgo

Yosakoi dancers in Tokyo combine traditional dance with current music.

trees that turns a glorious golden yellow.

Across the city, thousands of gardens and green spaces offer breathtaking views wherever you look.

When: All month.

Where: Green spaces near you. For top spots, visit www.japan-guide.com and www.gotokyo.org.

Dream Yosacoy Festival Kick up your heels at the Dream Yosacoy Festival, a colourful Tokyo dance festival

held across the city in early November.

Now in its 12th year, the weekend event sees 6,000 dancers from about 80 teams perform the yosakoi dance. Different versions of the festival are held across Japan, but this one is a crowd puller that last year attracted half a million spectators.

Originating in Kochi prefecture in southern Japan to celebrate postwar reconstruction, the energetic dance combines traditional dance moves with modern music. While traditional Japanese dance forms rarely

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Light up your life at Rikugien Gardens.

evolve, the yosakoi changes with the times, incorporating current fashion trends, design and dance styles. This year’s venues include Diver City Tokyo Plaza, which will have paid seats and food booths.

When: Nov 2, noon-9pm, and Nov 3, 10am-9pm.

Where: Various locations. For details, visit www.dreamyosacoy.jp (Japanese) or www. gotokyo.org (English).

Kawaii rite of passage One of the cutest festivals in Japan, Shichi-Go-San (meaning seven-five-three) celebrates the growth and wellbeing of seven-year-old girls, five-year-old boys and all three-year-olds. On November 15, or the closest weekend, appropriately aged

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children clad in kimonos or traditional Japanese clothing and their parents go to Shinto shrines to pray for health and happiness. The traditional rite of passage dates back a millennium, when raising a child to the age of seven was cause for celebration. This picturesque Japanese family festival is lovely to see and proud parents are usually happy for tourists to photograph their children. Popular ShichiGo-San destinations include the venerated Meiji Shrine in Tokyo and Hie Shrine in Akasaka. Mid-morning is the best time to arrive.

When: Nov 15-16.

Where: Shinto shrines (including Meiji and Hie) with a sign reading 七五三 (“seven five three”).

Tokyo illuminated Lighting up the dull November nights are special illuminations at two locations in Tokyo. In early November, Smart Illumination Yokohama will brighten the commercial waterfront of Yokohama, home to Japan's biggest Chinatown, with light art installations made by Japanese and international artists from the latest energy-efficient lighting technology.

Closer to the city centre, the famous red and golden trees of Rikugien Gardens will be illuminated nightly until 9pm for 17 nights in late November and early December. The surreal spectacle attracts hordes of amateur photographers every year, and there are stalls throughout the gardens selling hot green tea and snacks to fight the cold.

Smart Illumination Yokohama: When: Nov 1-13, 5pm-10pm.

Where: Yokohama waterfront (Nihon Odori Station, Minato Mirai Line).

Rikugien illumination: When: Nov 20-Dec 7, 4pm-9pm (last entrance 8.30pm).

Where: Rikugien Gardens, entry via the Somei Gate (Komagome Station, JR Yamanote Line).

Christmas at Disneyland Get into the Christmas spirit at Tokyo Disneyland. The theme park’s Christmas Fantasy includes a boisterous parade of your children’s favourite characters at Santa Village. At Tokyo DisneySea, a 49-foot sparkling Christmas tree is the centrepiece of the Christmas Wishes celebration and show “Holiday Greeting From Seven Ports”.

When: Nov 7 to Dec 25.

Where: Maihama Station, JR Keiyo Line or JR Musashino Line.

Website: www.tokyodisneyresort.jp/en.

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Dealing with drugs A new initiative aims to help parents and teenagers talk about illegal drug use, writes Jenny Bate.

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s an expat teenager in Hong Kong, Nathalie had a promising future. The daughter of successful professionals, this popular and intelligent girl had moved countries a few times, but returning to school in Hong Kong after a few years in Australia, Nathalie found her old friends had moved on or moved away.

Feeling rejected, she starting hanging out with a group she describes as “the cool kids”. They were taking illegal drugs and Nathalie started taking them too.

Her mum, Sarah, says: “Never in my life did I expect to have a drug addict in our family. When I received her suspension letter from the school for possession of a drug I was terrified.”

Nathalie (not her real name) started smoking cannabis aged 15 and became addicted to methamphetamine. Over the next three years, her family, school and counsellors tried to help with little success until Nathalie enrolled in a residential rehabilitation programme overseas.

Today, Nathalie is 23, drug-free and attends university in the United States.

Sarah hopes the support network and the communication they have built will be enough to keep Nathalie free of drugs. But it was a long road, potholed with relapses, rehab and halfway houses, at no small financial cost. The journey “tore the family apart”, says Sarah (not her real name).

“We are now living on three different continents,” she says. “My daughter's addiction did not entirely contribute to our divorce, [but] her manipulative addictive behaviour did contribute to some intense conflicts between my husband and myself. It was fortunate we sent our son to boarding school before she became a full-time active addict. He did not see the

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frequent nasty confrontations until we packed her off to rehab for the first time on Boxing Day. “We are still participating in her recovery programme, making sure her sobriety is solid and sustainable. I don't see there is an end to it. I call her an 'addiction survivor'.”

Looking back, Sarah highlights the importance of an open and honest dialogue.

“I was in denial,” she says. “I wish I had been equipped with the abundant up-todate knowledge that is now available about drugs and addiction.”

A new initiative by local youth charity KELY Support Group is aiming to address

Parents are the first line to tackle drug experimentation and drug use Why teens take drugs When asked why they take illegal drugs, the main reasons teens gave were: - Friend’s influence - To relieve boredom - To relieve stress - Because it feels good/excitement.

Curiosity was also commonly stated as a reason for first-time use.

this point with training sessions to provide parents with the information and skills to talk to teenagers about illegal drug use. The group also helps teenagers with communication and refusal strategies.

“Parents are the first line to tackle drug experimentation and drug use,” says KELY’s acting executive director, Sky Siu. “Many young people say they feel parents are unable to understand them and, because of this, they find it difficult to talk to their parents about problems they face at school or with their friends. Speaking about drugs is not a popular family conversation – we can only presume this will also not be a topic of choice when the drug problem has escalated into a level of abuse.”

Statistics indicate drug use among teenagers is less common in Hong Kong than in the US, Britain or Europe. In Hong Kong, the government’s Narcotics Division (part of the Security Bureau) undertakes regular confidential surveys asking students at local and international schools about illegal drug use. The most recent study in 2011-12 found 2.3 per cent of secondaryschool students had tried drugs at least once in their lifetime (down from 4.3 per cent in 2008-09) spread across 105 of 106 schools in all geographic and income brackets. Numbers peaked at ages 15 and 16, with more boys than girls trying drugs.

However, KELY’s communication and development coordinator Victoria Wong says the real figure may be higher. She cites the latest statistics from the Central Registry of Drug Abuse (part of the Narcotics Division), which show almost a quarter of 1,044 newly registered drug abusers are less than 21 years old.

“Currently, newly reported drug abusers under 21 for the second quarter of 2014 (to June) is 24.1 per cent. This

measures all newly reported drug abusers under this age in Hong Kong, regardless of educational status,” she says.

Among students who had tried drugs, more than half had tried cannabis, with ketamine a close second, and almost half had tried more than one type of drug. KELY notes that ketamine was more popular among students at local schools, while international school students tended to try cannabis. Other substances taken by students in Hong Kong include ecstasy, methamphetamine, cocaine and heroin.

In most cases, there is no drug dealer at the school gates trying to recruit new users.

Instead, the survey shows students are much more likely to score drugs off their friends, schoolmates, or friends of friends.

What’s more, 80 per cent of secondaryschool students who had taken an illegal drug took them at home or at a friend’s home, which makes parents crucial in preventing drug use.

This is why KELY’s new initiative is targeting parents directly. The fear is that talking about drugs will make children more likely to try them, when the opposite is true.

Discussing the issue also means that if your child does use drugs, they will be more aware of the risks and how to reduce them.

Sarah says her experience has taught her to be a good listener, to avoid judgement and to be vigilant. “If parents are concerned or suspect their children of substance abuse, they must talk to their children with an open mind. They must communicate their concern,” she says.

To keep things in perspective, the overwhelming majority of Hong Kong students have never taken an illegal drug.

It’s also worth pointing out that most students who try drugs will not become addicted or come to any long-term harm, according to drugs-advice website Frank (www.talktofrank.com). Nevertheless there are risks to any illegal drug use.

When it comes to preventing or dealing with teen drug use, the experts agree: communication is key.

KELY Support Group is a Hong Kongbased non-governmental organisation that provides support to young people aged 14 to 24. Its mission is to provide empathetic, non-judgmental, confidential and inclusive peer support. To take part in training for parents about teenage drug use, please log onto the survey at www.surveymonkey. com/s/L3CH7CV to tell KELY where and when you’d like to access this training. For details, email contact@kely.org.

Kids have their say “I do believe drug use is rather common among young people… for recreational use.

I don’t believe parents have a thorough and accurate understanding of what young people get up to” – Vicky, 16 “Drugs are relatively easy to get hold of, most kids would probably know how to get in touch with a user and find out where to get hold of drugs” – Amy, 16 “I won’t be seeking help from my parents, I guess, as I think instead of helping they will shout or make it into more problems” – Sally, 17 “I honestly think I wouldn’t be able to seek help from my parents as all children are afraid of being punished and not understood” – Matthew, 17 Names have been changed.

The law on illegal drug use Hong Kong police practice a zero-tolerance approach to drugs, including cannabis.

According to the Dangerous Drug Ordinance Chapter 134, all illegal drugs carry the same penalty. Trafficking (including sharing with friends) and manufacture can lead to a $5 million fine and life imprisonment. Possession can result in a $1 million fine and seven years in prison. Children found in possession of drugs may have their visa revoked, however, visas for rest of the family will not be affected.

Where to get help For a more complete list, please visit www.expat-parent.com or kely.org.

Counselling services Caritas HUGS Centre – Individual, group and family counselling services for young drug abusers, plus rehab referral.

Contact: 2453 7030, www.hugs.org.hk KELY Support Group – Drug and alcohol prevention education and counselling services for local, ethnic minority and non-Chinese-speaking youth. Contact: 2521 6890, contact@kely.org, kely.org Narcotics Anonymous HK – Support group for recovering drug addicts.

Contact: 9332 2679, help@hkana.net, www.hkana.net.

St John’s Counselling Services – Affordable, safe, effective, multiculturally sensitive, caring and professional counselling to individuals and families.

Contact: 2525 7207, 2525 720, info@sjcshk.com, www.sjcshk.com.

Resource Groups Community Drug Advisory Council – English and Chinese training/education programmes about drug misuse for students, teachers and parents. Contact: 2521 2880, www.cdac.org.hk.

Hong Kong Jockey Club Drug InfoCentre – Exhibition on drug-related information and resources. Contact: 2867 2831, www.nd.gov.hk Online Resources Drug Free World – Public-benefit corporation offering factual information about drugs for teens and adults: www. drugfreeworld.org.

The 20 Minute Guide – Information for families and friends of those struggling with substance abuse: the20minuteguide.com.

Drugfree – Information to reduce teen substance abuse and help families: www.drugfree.org.

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money & me How do you teach children about money?

I have two daughters in their 20s and a boy of 19 in college. Always write down how much you spend, like keeping a diary, it was something my father taught me and I’m teaching them. Write it down and you start seeing where you spent your money. My father taught me about cashflow – I always focus on cashflow.

Will your children join your business?

My oldest daughter helps out in marketing.

My son plans to join me one day. The hotels are independent, we are not attached to any chain, and we own every single one of our properties.

How did you learn to evolve so quickly?

I think it is believing in myself. When you believe you can, you just do it. When I was thinking of changing from serviced apartments to hotels, I was questioned by my people because we were quite successful. It happened right after the global economic crisis – it was good we switched at that time.

Girish Jhunjhnuwala Talking business with the founder and CEO of Ovolo Hotels.

Tell us about your start in business.

In 1984 I entered the family watch business, which my father started in 1953 in Hong Kong. He was born in Myanmar and began in watch trading then manufacturing. I worked in my father’s factory.

How did you make the transition from watches to hospitality?

The watch industry is the only one I know of that went backwards in its technology.

It just happened, the transition. My wife wanted to open a restaurant. We were looking at sites in Arbuthnot Road and there was a “for sale” sign on a shop. I asked if the shop was for sale and [the owner] was like, “No, you can only rent the shop – but the building is for sale.” So one thing led to another and... … it became the first Ovolo. Why did you make it serviced apartments?

I was looking at doing a boutique hotel.

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But as I did the studies, I saw serviced apartments had huge waiting lists. They were charging a lot and they were really not nice-looking. Hong Kong is a metropolitan city and I wanted to bring something like from New York here. And that’s when I came up with the idea.

What adversity have you faced?

We opened in September 2002 and for the first three months we only had one person staying, a Cathay Pacific pilot. I tried to be patient. A month later, business started picking up.

How many properties do you have in Hong Kong now?

I have seven: two serviced-apartment blocks and five hotels. Will we change the serviced apartments? No, they will stay because they are residential buildings. We could make them into hotels but there would be too many changes.

Do you own your home in Pok Fu Lam? Yes. And I have properties here on Arbuthnot Road – I used to have 22 apartments in this building. It’s quiet and close to SoHo. Do you believe in Hong Kong property?

Yes, I do. Outside Hong Kong, I have invested in Australia – two places in Sydney, two in Melbourne and I’m planning for one in Brisbane.

How much is in your wallet? $300, plus a Visa card and American Express for its customer service. I use it to make restaurant bookings.

Are you a spender or a saver?

I am very, very, very thrifty.

What is your most extravagant purchase?

Wine. I enjoy wine. Aussie wine is cheaper in Hong Kong than in Australia.

Anthing you'd change about Hong Kong?

Hong Kong is a great city, you can wake up at 2am and don’t have to worry that your kids aren’t home yet. It is very safe. The lifestyle is great. I can jump in a taxi and be home in five minutes. Of my friends, I was the first to live on the Southside and now almost 90 per cent of my friends live there.

And they all love it. It is a great place.

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telephone numbers where we may or may not be contactable in the event of an emergency.

There never are any real emergencies, of course. Except for the time two of them went missing in the undergrowth behind our house at night for an hour or so, and the evening in May when our youngest son and his friends were nearly washed away in a stream that turned into a raging torrent when a typhoon warning was up.

But however close to death and calamity they come, we always tell them afterwards it’s good character-building stuff and it’ll toughen them up for the day they leave home, which will be all too soon (and possibly sooner still should any social workers read this).

We also tell them gently that it’s important for mum and dad to have time away together so they can forget the shuddering horror of parenthood for a while and act like the carefree young couple they once were.

And that is the biggest fib of all.

Ask any expat couple who, like us, take advantage of cheap imported labour and own inherently reckless dispositions to escape their children for days at a time and they’ll tell you the same thing. You spend a third of your time away talking about them and boring the pants off everyone around you, another third of your time buying presents for them – and the remaining time Skyping and calling them. By the time you get home, you’re frankly sick of the sight and the sound of them.

You can go to Thailand. You can go to Turkey. You can go to Timbuktu. It doesn’t matter how many miles you put between yourselves and your offspring. They’re always there. It’s not fair. Not bloody fair at all.

Illustration by Evy Cheung

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he fateful day comes around so much sooner than you imagine. One minute, they’re small, smelly, snotty and clueless. The next, they’re big, smelly, snotty and clueless – but so annoying and expensive to maintain that it’s time to leave home.

They’re still your children but they’re different somehow. They used to rely on you for everything. Now there are all sorts of things they can do all by themselves. They can order the helper to make them a jam and peanut butter sandwich, for instance, or memorise your credit-card number and security code and order expensive and unnecessary things from Amazon.

Once they’ve mastered these essential life skills, it’s time to cut the apron strings, time to fly the nest, time to step out alone into the big wide world.

Inevitably, as you stand in the doorway and say your farewells, there are sniffles and a wave of overwhelming nostalgia for the days when you went everywhere together.

But those simpering, dewy-eyed moments don’t last long.

Before you know it, you’ve left the little wretches behind and the two of you are driving west to the airport, high-fiving each other and cackling uncontrollably as you contemplate a week of freedom on the other side of the world, starting in the business-class lounge with an attempt to set a new record for the most Veuve Clicquot consumed in the hour preceding a night flight to London.

Far away, in another universe almost, your children are still standing bemused on the doorstep, crying tears of bitter abandonment as the helper begins slowly dicing carrots for the first of 17 servings of fried rice that will constitute every meal from your departure to your return.

I’m proud to say that we’ve pulled off these getaways two or three times in the past year alone, and we’re always very responsible about it.

We leave the children in the charge of a highly professional, caring and intelligent childcare expert, or our own slightly less qualified helper if one isn’t immediately available, as is generally if not always the case. We leave at least $500 and some loose change on the table for food and provisions as we hurry to the door. And we casually stick on the fridge an illegible list of random overseas

Formerly the owner of dreams and a full head of hair, Simon Parry is a jaded, middle-aged journalist and father of four. He lives in Sai Kung with his wife, his children and his sense of profound disappointment.

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