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On the Cover: Mike Burnett from Advance Business Systems Cover Photo by: Trevor Booth Story Written by: Jesse Ziter

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CONTENTS 14 PORTRAIT Advance Business Systems steps into a new era of innovation while continuing nearly 40 years of trusted service in Windsor-Essex

ISSUE 170 DRIVE RECIPE 13 Oh So Mona brings timeless flavours to life with pistachio oat bars and an orange blossom smoothie DRIVE COMMUNITY 22 Carson Woodall’s journey launching Woody’s Hoodies and supporting cancer research fundraising DRIVE FASHION 34 S tyle Me Mena shares a guide to building a capsule wardrobe and maximizing your style DRIVE THRU 38 E xplore five Windsor-Essex cafés putting a creative spin on a global favourite with ‘Matcha Madness’

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DRIVE MIND 42 I f you plan to be married a long time, explore Teri Gyemi’s insights on lasting relationships DRIVE EVENTS CALENDAR 46 Stay in the loop with local events in each issue and on our website thedrivemagazine.com

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A NOTE FROM THE PUBLISHER Spring has sprung (or at least it’s trying to). Sunshine, rain, wind, and the occasional surprise cold snap… that’s Windsor-Essex for you. With a new season comes fresh energy, new beginnings, and plenty to explore, and in this issue of The DRIVE, we’re shining a light on the people, places and trends blooming across our region.

Discover the modern obsession behind Matcha Madness as we explore five local cafés serving creative takes on the centuries-old beverage, from traditional preparations to playful new flavour combinations, you'll be googling local cafes in no time. Don't miss out on our cover story which spotlights Advance Business Systems, a local institution embracing a bold new chapter after nearly 40 years in business, proving innovation can come from the places you know best. And that’s just the beginning. Flip to the other side for empowering women’s features, inspiring stories, and even more local voices making an impact. There is so much more to discover in these pages. Have a story you’d love to share?

Visit our Voices of Windsor page on our website and be part of the conversation. Until next issue, enjoy the season, support local, and keep discovering what DRIVEs our community forward.

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What we love about spring at EHF are the new arrivals and fresh new looks designed to inspire. Here are some of the featured highlights for Spring 2026. With over 20,000 sq foot of showroom, we are a destination of discovery for finely crafted furniture.

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LOUNGING LIFESTYLE Décor Rest continues to explore ways to elevate everyday comfort.

(Above) Their popular reclining frames have now expanded to sectionals from their initial launch of reclining sofa, loveseat and chairs. Enjoy the optional power headrest and lumbar and adjust to fit your personal seating preference. (Left) Oversized cuddle pieces are another specialty, these are perfect for those that truly like to rest and relax. Customize with one of the hundreds of fabrics in the Décor Rest custom gallery.

SENSATIONAL STORAGE These smart storage pieces from Décor Rest Accent on Home collections add character to the room and double as sensible, smart storage. Perfect for bathrooms, living and dining areas, they are multifunctional and make a statement.

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MUST HAVE MOTION These are sure to please any consumer looking for something that is high on fashion and comfort. Décor Rest recognizes the need for reclining designed with a modern edge. While they are not hitting the EHF showroom until this June, these recliners will be worth the wait and will be available in your selection of leather and fabric.

DISTINCTIVE DINING The Accent on Home collection also has a selection of mix and match, on trend, dining looks that don’t break the bank. They are a variety of looks that include glass tables, marble, ceramic and wood surfaces so, there is ample variety to find something that suits your budget and everyday dining needs. The upholstered chairs in beige and grey tones have a variety of profiles making this year’s dining presentation their best yet.

SECTIONALS WITH STYLE We always appreciate Décor Rest as they are a quality manufacturer that is always working to produce styles that offer the most current and progressive looks in the marketplace. Visit the EHF showroom to try one of their many sectionals that really offer a wide range of shapes and seating options to allow for you to select a personalized layout and seating set to your standards, Soft? No Problem, Firm? No problem, Deep seat? No problem. You get the idea, finding a sectional is made easy.

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Experience a fresh take on timeless aromatics with these two vibrant, health-conscious treats.

By drawing inspiration from traditional Middle Eastern ingredients like delicate orange blossom water and rich pistachios, I've put together a refreshing fruit smoothie and a chewy chocolate oat bar that feel like a dessert but nourish like a snack.

ORANGE BLOSSOM FRUIT SMOOTHIE Ingredients • 2 cups of your desired frozen fruit (I used frozen mango, peaches, dragon fruit, and strawberries) • 3 tbsp orange blossom water • 3 tbsp honey, plus extra for garnish • Shredded coconut for garnish

Directions 1 . In a blender, combine orange blossom water, honey, and fresh fruit, then purée until smooth.

You can add a small splash of water (a tbsp at a time) to the mixture if the blend is coming out a little too thick or, if it is not blending easily.

2. Pour into a glass, finishing it with coconut flakes and a drizzle of honey. You can also pour the smoothie in stages, adding the honey and coconut in-between each layer.

PISTACHIO CHOCOLATE OAT BARS Ingredients • ¾ cup pistachios, chopped • ¼ cup pecans, chopped • ½ cup rolled oats • ¼ cup mini chocolate chips • ¼ cup ground flaxseed • ¼ tsp salt • 1 tbsp coconut sugar • 2 tbsp coconut oil, melted • 1 tbsp unsalted almond butter • 3 tbsp maple syrup • ½ tsp almond extract • 1 tbsp honey

Directions 1 . Preheat the oven to 325°F. Line an 8-inch square baking pan with parchment paper.

Set aside for later.

2. Add pistachios, pecans, oats, chocolate chips, flaxseed, and salt to a bowl. Stir until well mixed.

3. In a separate bowl, add coconut sugar, coconut oil, almond butter, maple syrup, honey and almond extract. Mix using a spatula until well incorporated.

4. Pour the dry ingredients over the wet, then, using a rubber spatula, fold until very well mixed.

5. Pour the mixture into the prepared baking pan.

Then, using the spatula, press the mixture firmly down into an even, very tightly packed layer.

6. Bake for 22-27 minutes.

7. Place the pan onto a cooling rack to cool for about 30 minutes, or until completely firm. After, lift bars and parchment paper onto the cooling rack to finish cooling for 1-2 hours. Slice and enjoy!

Mona Elkadri is not just a food writer, but also a skilled recipe developer, former restaurateur, and culinary teacher. She possesses a keen appreciation for that elusive secret ingredient that invariably elevates each dish to perfection.

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THE BUSINESS BEHIND THE BUSINESS: ADVANCE BUSINESS SYSTEMS Powering Southwestern Ontario businesses with innovative solutions, trusted service, and a bold new vision for the future

By Jesse Ziter Photos by Trevor Booth

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After almost forty years of industry-leading service, Windsor’s Advance Business Systems continues to move forward. Now led by a longtime fixture of the local business community, the area institution is debuting a new visual identity and some future-focused services you might be surprised to find from the people who restock your toner cartridges.

clients and customers but very conspicuous 40 employees. According to Burnett, the to a company’s day-to-day operations team— average length of employment across its team approaches an impressive 13 years of and on its balance sheet. dedicated service.

Advance has been a fixture of the SouthAlthough Burnett is something of a western Ontario business community for nearly four decades: At press time, it will newcomer in that context, having come soon celebrate its 38th anniversary. Origi- aboard less than six years ago, he bet big on nally a small copier outlet, ABS now more ABS when he purchased the company with or less does it all for small to large-sized his wife, Stacy, in 2022.

Whether you realize it or not, your businesses across Southwestern Ontario— business is Mike Burnett’s business. and beyond. Today, ABS frequently operates President and owner of Windsor’s as a managed service provider (MSP), an Advance Business Systems (ABS), Burnett external organization that handles a client’s spends his days helping companies across holistic needs in areas like information Southwestern Ontario allocate their time technology (IT), full-office automation, and energy to whatever it is they do best. telecommunications, and security.

Born and raised in Ottawa, Burnett made the long trip down the 401 permanent in 1999 when it came time to establish roots and start a family in Stacy’s hometown.

The couple, now proud parents to daughters Mackenzie and Mikaela, have lived in Windsor-Essex ever since.

Essentially, ABS handles the physical and Advance, which also gladly provides Both Burnetts found their feet in the digital infrastructure often invisible to à-la-carte services, currently boasts over funeral business and enjoyed long careers as

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funeral directors in Windsor. In 2020, Mike Burnett was approached by ABS’s previous ownership to head up the company’s sales department. Ready for a career transition, he accepted the opportunity, voraciously learning as much as possible about his new field of work.

the company forward in several exciting ways and increase the footprint we have within the region without forgetting our existing clients.”

To this end, ABS recently unveiled a new, modernized visual identity intended to reflect its “evolution in today’s fast-moving Two years later, Burnett explains, market.”

Internally referred to as a “complete the opportunity to acquire the company visual system,” the update includes a presented itself, and he and Stacy opted redesigned website and striking new signage. to purchase the business outright. While ABS was already on its way to becoming The fresh visual brand—eagle-eyed Drive something of a one-stop shop for area readers may have spotted it while driving businesses, the Burnetts have opened the westbound past Jefferson on the EC Row Expressway—orbits around a professionthrottle without compromising the compaal-yet-inviting new logo. Featuring a modern ny’s existing virtues or values. “We’re not typeface with rounded edges and a subtle pop trying to fi x something that wasn’t broken,” of a familiar shade of red, the new insignia assures Burnett. “We want to move is an elegant geometric design defined by three overlapping circles. Its designers hope the visual motif communicates completeness, community, and interconnectedness, ultimately representing the multi-dimensional nature of ABS’s operations.

“This is more than a visual change,” Burnett clarifies. “It’s a renewed commitment to excellence, innovation, and the communities we serve. At the same time, it’s the same company. We are honouring our past while embracing the future.”

While ABS has no plans to pivot away from printers and copiers, Burnett emphasizes the company’s present-day expertise in and access to mailing machines, all varieties of cabling, and phone and videoconferencing equipment, among other business products. Some of its offerings might surprise you! Consider, for example, ultraviolet laser printers, which can etch plastic, cotton, other materials with remarkable precision. “I always say to my sales team, anything you see in a workplace visit, from the time you get out of your car to when you sit at the client’s desk, we can get for them,” offers Burnett. "We continue to deliver top-tier products from the industry’s most trusted manufacturers, backed by the reliable, personalized service that has earned us a reputation for excellence.”

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While ABS does most of its business in Southwestern Ontario (including Windsor, Chatham, Sarnia, and the tri-county area), the company is well-positioned to service clients farther afield in certain aspects.

“We can go nationwide for some of our products,” confirms Burnett. “And our phone system can go worldwide.”

Advance has expanded into full-office automation and sophisticated IT solutions.

“We have the capacity to operate as a total service provider,” says Burnett. “We have the staff, infrastructure, and relationships Over the years, this reputation has been to do essentially anything a dedicated IT bolstered by formal recognition in the form company can do, including essential corpoof awards from industry leaders like Ricoh, rate services like companywide backups and firewalls.”

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Moreover, ABS is investing meaningfully in automation. According to Burnett, this word can mean something as simple as a door-swipe system to replace standard locks and keys, high-capacity robotic vacuum cleaners, or even humanoid robots capable of delivering room service or clearing restaurant tables. “We’re always looking for ways to bring new technology to local businesses and investing in training technicians to support local business operations,” says Burnett.

to minimize its environmental impact.

“That’s a very big, important thing for us,” stresses Burnett. “We try to recycle product, including but not limited to toner cartridges, to the greatest extent possible.”

While “Business” is right in its name, ABS offers a surprising suite of homeowner-facing services, including Lenovo personal computers and home servers and whole-home security solutions that include local or cloud storage backup and 24-hour monitoring. For both corporate and personal clients, ABS operates as the designated Lenovo repair depot for the Windsor area.

Advance recently began a productive business relationship with Epson, which Burnett calls, “a leader in sustainability in the printing and technology business.”

Known for using the smallest possible number of moving parts, the venerable Japanese electronics giant regularly fabricates printers and other business productivity essentials from post-consumer recycled materials using heat-free technology.

In its own purchasing and partnership decisions, ABS has prioritized ethically operating companies like Ricoh (for which it is currently “Dealer of the Year”) that willingly comply with relevant local and multinational sustainability standards.

Anything you see in a workplace visit, from the time you get out of your car to when you sit at the client’s desk, we can get for them. at great expense to the Bullfrog Environmental Token, an emergent digital technology ensuring the long-term traceability of its environmental impacts. Platforming efforts like this one ensure ABS clients remain complaint with governmental and industry-specific environmental codes; it’s also the right thing to do.

Moreover, under Burnett, ABS has gradually moved in favour of bringing local Whenever possible, ABS partners According to Burnett, ABS’s mailing deliveries in house. “We’re doing more and with sustainable suppliers and endeavours and inserting partner, Quadient, subscribes more of our deliveries ourselves to make the 18

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whole system more efficient,” he explains.

“We make sure our technicians and salespeople are taking product with them whenever possible. This allows us to check in and connect with our customer partners on a consistent basis.”

Advance has left its mark in other ways.

Befitting its status in Windsor-Essex, ABS actively participates in local initiatives and charitable partnerships across the region.

Burnett is happy to highlight the company’s American Thanksgiving Charity Football Classic, a popular annual fundraiser that

has been held for 34 years. Last year’s event raised more than $23,000 for Ignite Academy, a “cradle to career” literacy- and numeracy-boosting initiative from United Way Centraide Windsor-Essex.

“We are fortunate to have a great team at Advance Business Systems that are always willing to put in countless hours to help put this event together,” stresses Burnett. “It keeps getting bigger and bigger each year. I was brought up in a family where both parents volunteered for many different charities, so I’ve always under-

stood the importance of giving back to the community. When I took over the company, I understood these were great initiatives that needed to be carried on.”

“At Advance Business Systems, philanthropy is clearly embedded in the culture,” adds Leslie Frattaroli, vice president of development for United Way Centraide Windsor-Essex Chatham Kent. “Owners Mike and Stacy have inspired those around them to give back in meaningful ways, from fundraising through their 34th annual Football Classic to volunteering at our annual golf tournament. Their partnership with United Way is helping create brighter futures for children and families, and we are deeply grateful for their continued leadership in the effort to eliminate childhood poverty.”

Advance is also a proud supporter of co-op programs administered by TRIOS College and the Greater Essex County District School Board, regularly hosting and training ambitious students for months at a time.

In our part of the world, anyone who has owned, operated, or otherwise been invested in a business over the past handful of years knows change can be daunting. “While we move forward, and as we continue to adapt to changing customer needs and industry trends, our foundation remains unchanged,” Burnett promises. “While our name stays the same as a tribute to our longevity and the trust from and connection to the community we’ve built over decades, I do think it’s meaningful to find small ways to mark a new chapter. I think it’s important to highlight our growth, our expanded IT focus, and our continued commitment to innovation.”

Or, in a word, ABS’s advancement.

“What hasn’t changed—and never will,” Burnett concludes, “is our commitment, as a family-owned and operated business, to putting our current and future clients first.”

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HEATED CHARITY CARSON WOODALL ON WOODY’S HOODIES Cozy hoodies, an unlikely superstar, a pandemic silver lining, and a six-figure injection into local cancer research

By Jesse Ziter

Carson Woodall can’t stop playing defence.

Number 24 on the ice, the Belle River native is a mobile, puck-moving D-man for the OHL West Division champion Windsor Spitfires. Increasingly, through his grassroots clothing initiative Woody’s Hoodies, Woodall is becoming just as well known for his efforts slowing the progress of an opponent more formidable than any Junior hockey skater: cancer.

In 2020, a bit stir-crazy amidst pandemic lockdowns, a 17-year-old Woodall collaborated with his father, Scott Woodall, to design and manufacture a limited run of hooded sweatshirts branded with a play on the family name. “Honestly, I’ve always liked fashion,” recalls Woodall, who had kept an eye on trends via social media, “and hoodies are my favourite item of clothing. I didn’t have any experience with a clothing line or in any type of business, but my dad had started a construction company.”

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Using Scott’s connections, the pair arranged a meeting with a local print shop to learn more about the design and production processes. Woodall gifted the initial few batches of hoodies to his teammates—first with his U16 Toronto Marlboros AAA club and later with the LaSalle Vipers—to, in his words, “foster unity and camaraderie on and off the ice.”

Years later, after both his grandmothers had been diagnosed with cancer, Woodall saw an opportunity to do something more meaningful with the brand. (Woodall’s maternal grandmother, Deborah O’Brien, died from breast cancer in 2023, while his paternal grandmother, Carol Woodall, is currently living with ovarian cancer.)

Woody’s Hoodies was launched in earnest about two years ago with the goal of contributing 24 percent (see what he did there?) of proceeds directly to cancer research, support, and prevention in Windsor-Essex. “I didn’t think it would brand began with a logo jointly designed by become a big thing,” Woodall admits, “but Woodall and his father, and the right sleeve with the help of the Windsor Spitfires and of every hoodie features a ribbon conceived social media, it grew fast.”

by Woodall that combines symbols repreTo date, the brand has raised $175,000 senting breast and ovarian cancer, design and sold nearly 5,000 hoodies. A significant inspiration has come from the team at share of that total has benefitted Play for Hogan’s, other Woodall family members a Cure, a “pro-am” tournament that brings and friends, and even fans. together retired professionals, hockey-adjaWoodall himself has flexed his hockey cent celebrities, and local junior and minor connections to create limited-run collabohockey teams. The annual event is the major rations with several minor hockey organifundraising vehicle of the Cancer Research zations and companies like Toronto-based Collaboration Fund, a charitable organiperformance hydration and supplement zation founded by the cancer survivor Jeff supplier BioSteel. “Being able to network Casey, his wife, and the local philanthroand collaborate with many other brands pists Harvey and Elaine Snaden. It currently and hockey teams has helped us so much in supports a three-year triple-negative breast raising money,” he shares. cancer fresh tissue clinical trial in Windsor.

The initiative has rippled through the “We’re both involved in hockey and have the same initiative and end goal,” says Woodall broader Major Junior hockey community. of Casey. “The Play for a Cure event is “We have had a ton of support from London incredible, both for cancer research and the Knights players, including Sam Dickinson day itself. It’s always a great, fun day full of and Easton Cowan,” says Woodall, who notes Cowan wore a Woody’s Hoodie when good hockey.”

The hoodies, which are primarily sold he was awarded the OHL’s most valuable through a full-featured website Woodall’s player award. “I’ve had a lot of players and uncle helped build, are produced at Hogan’s referees coming up to me on the ice and Printing, a longstanding family-owned telling me about their stories of how they business on the outskirts of Walkerville. were affected.”

tion allowed the Woodalls to use its logo and take advantage of its platform. “I could not be more appreciative of the ownership of the Windsor Spitfires for helping me on this journey,” says Woodall. “It’s amazing to see the masses of people supporting Woody’s Hoodies at the WFCU Centre— and to walk in any rink in the OHL and see Woody’s Hoodies.”

I didn’t think it would become a big thing, but with the help of the Windsor Spitfires and social media, it grew fast.

Now at the tail end of his fourth OHL season, Woodall has committed to suiting up for Boston College in the fall. A strongskating, proactive defender known for his outsized offensive contributions, Woodall was a highly regarded prospect in NCAA The Spitfires, to their credit, have been circles. He’s also eligible for this year’s NHL (“They have been amazing for this whole process,” enthuses Woodall.) While the incredibly supportive. The OHL organiza- draft. According to Woodall, Woody’s THEDRIVEMAGAZINE.COM

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Hoodies has been a regular topic of conversation in his chats with coaches and scouts.

“I share my stories with them, and they share theirs with me,” says Woodall, who would like to see the NCAA support the initiative in the future. “I think it shows I like to give back to my community and use my platform to help others, which is something I try to get other people to do.”

While Woodall, the second-highest scoring defenceman in OHL regular season play, has legitimate professional aspirations, his experience with Woody’s Hoodies has been a window into a productive post-hockey career path—whenever that begins. “Woody’s Hoodies has helped me learn a tonne about the business world,” shares Woodall, who will study business in Boston. “It has taught me how to manage finances and connect with people to help make sales. I’ve learned a tonne about how social media works and how it can help grow a brand.”

The Drive is happy to report Nana Woodall is ready to cheer on her grandson’s collegiate efforts. “She’s doing great!” says Woodall. “She’s been out to a bunch of my games, which is a good sign. I went to her house the other day, and she was full of energy, which I love to see.”

Cool story, right? To learn more, build your own hoodie, explore existing collaborations, or propose your own, point your browser to woodyshoodies.ca.

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GET YOUR METAL ROOF FROM THE EXPERTS!

By Devan Mighton

For decades, Double AA Metal Roofing has been the one-stop shop for Windsor-Essex’s quality metal roofing needs. Family-built and results-driven, Jake Eansor and his team at Double AA provide expert knowledge and craftsmanship that only decades of experience and specialization can offer.

cost may be higher, but it is cheaper in the skill set. It’s important to work with a team that long term due to no replacement. Double AA’s specializes in it and understands the details that roofs are incredibly durable and long-lasting make it perform long-term.” compared to standard roofing materials.

Double AA has built its reputation on “There is a cost to what we offer, but that reliability, experience, and consistent quality. reflects the level of quality, experience, and With a growing client base, Jake and Tim professionalism behind our work,” explained continue to focus on what they do best - metal Jake Eansor. “For homeowners planning to stay roofing - while helping homeowners understand long-term, a properly installed metal roof can their options and make informed decisions.

While other contractors may offer metal be a one-time investment.”

Double AA focuses exclusively on metal roofing, it’s often just one part of what they do, roofing, which remains relatively specialized rather than a dedicated specialty.

Founded by his father, Tim, the father/ son team has worked side-by-side for years, with Tim serving as an active mentor and role model, emphasizing positive customer interactions, professionalism, and advanced technical knowledge.

“We don’t just try to sell a roof, we try to in our region. Their systems are mechanically understand what the customer actually needs,” fastened—not bonded or soldered—and installed Double AA focuses on specialization over generalization. They ONLY do metal roofing. by experienced, dedicated crews who work with states Eansor.

They may be more expensive, but the results metal roofing every day.

Metal roofs are a lifetime solution and speak for themselves. As they advertise, it will “There’s definitely competition in roofing,” can outlast the house, while other roofing be “the last roof you’ll ever buy.” Upfront, the Eansor adds, “but metal roofing is a different requires inevitable replacement and is subject 26

to rising costs over time. “You’ll pay more upfront, but over time, it’s actually the less expensive option.”

Installed by Double AA’s trained and certified professionals, these metal roofs are primarily made from steel, a material widely used in commercial construction. These roofing systems are interlocking and are secured with screws, as opposed to nails, for added strength. Designed to be permanent or long-term solutions, many of their products come with 50-year warranties. Typically, the average non-metal roof needs to be replaced every 12–20 years. Additionally, Double AA’s metal roofs do not require any special electrical bonding, as they are grounded through the home, and they are highly compatible with solar panel systems. In addition, the interlocking design helps withstand high winds and severe weather, making them more durable than traditional shingles.

Metal roofing now comes in a variety of designs, not just “barn-style” anymore. With options like metal slate, metal shake, metal shingles with a traditional appearance, and standing seam, metal roofs can achieve both modern looks and traditional styles.

Double AA Metal Roofing is all about doing it right and making it last. Through their experience, the trust they’ve earned from a satisfied customer base, and their unwavering commitment to quality, the Eansors continue to raise the bar for what homeowners should expect when it comes to the metal roof over their heads. When it comes to lasting peace of mind, Double AA’s message is clear - come to us, and the roof will speak for itself.

“I want to be remembered as someone who was punctual, professional, knowledgeable, and did things the right way,” says Eansor.

So, next time you are considering the roof that will be over your head for generations to come, remember Double AA Metal Roofing for your long-term roofing needs.

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CONGRATULATIONS! MEET WINDSOR’S NEXT TOP PHOTOGRAPHER From a Costco miscue to in-demand photog maverick

By Devan Mighton Photos by Ryan Ouellette

Ryan Ouellette never dreamt of being a photographer – let alone Windsor’s Next Top Photographer. By his own admission, it all happened by chance.

“I got into it by accident,” admits Ouellette. “It was Black Friday, I had about $450 to buy presents for my kids, and I ended up buying a camera for $388 on a whim.

I went out to the car and started crying, like, ‘What did I just do?’ But my wife told me to figure out how to use it—and that’s where it all started.”

It began with that Black Friday special and grew into a passion, a passion that he develops everyday.

“I always say I’ll be better than I was yesterday—that’s what drives me,” he explains. “My daughter (Anya) is the same way, she’ll work until she’s the best at something, and I’m not going to be outworked by my own kid. So, anything I learn, I push it as far as I can.” He says that Anya, who has autism and ADHD, is a great a motivator in his life, deeply impacting his perspective. Through his daughter, he discovered he shares similar traits.

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competition pushed him, requiring pre-planning, where he tends to be more spontaneous.

However, he showed his strength through his adaptability and creative flow.

One of his favourite mottos: “We’re going to have a lot of fun and great pictures will just happen,” exemplifies his thought process.

“I don’t force anything or tell people to act a certain way - I just create an environment where real emotions come out, and that’s what I capture.”

Next, Ouellette plans to attend the upcoming Olympia Bodybuilding World Championships in Las Vegas, the North American Championships in Pittsburgh, and the Toronto Pro Super Show. Following his win, he’s also excited to begin working with the Canadian Mental Health Association, contributing photography to their upcoming book and capturing Windsor-Essex through his lens as part of the “Winning” project.

“There are so many good photographers out there, I don’t ever believe the hype,” he states. “If I start believing it, that’s when I stop growing. Winning means a lot, but it really just feels like validation for the people who believed in me.”

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CELEBRATING 40 YEARS MANOR WINDSOR REALTY LTD. IS HERE FOR YOU!

By Devan Mighton

Forty years ago, Real Estate agents didn't have the options they do today. The existing brokerage model was heavily skewed in the favour of owners and brokers, and not the agents who did the work. At the time, agents were hindered by low commission splits and were often left footing the bill for many of their own business expenses.

We didn’t just adapt to the electronic age.

We’ve embraced it and positioned ourselves at the forefront of social media and digital marketing.

However, on March 17, 1986, Manor Windsor Realty Ltd. was launched and forever changed the game. Founded by present-day owner Steve Mustac, the late Bill Girard, and the now retired Jack Genaro, Manor set out to create an agent-centric company where the people who did the work were better supported, trained-up, and fairly compensated.

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It was simple. It was revolutionary. and positioned ourselves at the forefront of However, it was foundational—if agents are social media and digital marketing.” well-supported and successful, their clients What sets Manor apart from the rest? benefit too.

Plenty. Their agents enjoy high commisFrom the very beginning, Manor held sion splits, no desk fees, strong training true to their founding philosophy: putting and mentorship, hands-on leadership, full agents first. With their focus on strong marketing support, and strong agent retentraining and mentorship, better financial tion. They have built an environment where structure for agents, and a supportive and agents “come, grow, and stay,” where they collaborative environment, Manor has know they always have support where they remained dedicated to their core identity need it. for four decades and counting.

“The goal from day one was to build a brokerage where agents were supported, fairly compensated, and set up to succeed,” explains Rob Agnew, Manor’s broker/general manager. Agnew knows what it’s like to be a part of a supportive environment and thrive, having won both the WECAR Distinguished Realtor ® Award and OREA Provincial Fellowship Award. “When your agents are well-trained and happy, that naturally translates into better service for clients.”

Built on four pillars of success; Training & Mentorship, Quality Sales & Service, Client Retention, and Community Involvement; Manor has grown with the industry— from the old, printed listing books and pagers to today’s social media marketing and video/content creation. As a company, there have been many changes over the years.

Manor made the move from Howard Ave. to their manor-style building on Walker Rd. They have also invested in modernization through their soundproof content studio, videographer and social media director, their in-house IT expert, and training staff.

They are optimistic about the growth of the region. With Windsor’s population projections in the range of around 700,000 people by 2040, and rapid expansion in the tech industry, there is plenty to get excited about and plan for. Manor isn’t just adapting, they are leading. Their focus on social media content and learning how to better utilize AI shows their dedication to giving the best possible realty experience to their customers.

“Just like the first 40 years, we’re excited for what the next 40 will bring,” says Agnew.

As Manor Windsor Realty Ltd. celebrates 40 years, it does so not by looking The goal from day back, but by looking forward. With a strong foundation, a commitment to innovation, one was to build a and a deep connection to the Windsorbrokerage where agents Essex community, Manor is positioned for were supported, fairly continued growth in a rapidly changing compensated, and set up industry. The tools may evolve, and the to succeed. market will shift, but Manor’s core promise remains the same: supporting agents, serving clients, and leading with integrity Manor Windsor Realty Ltd. is also deeply into the next era of Real Estate. committed to giving back to the community.

One of their major initiatives is Manor Keys of Hope, which has donated in excess of $150,000 to support local, non-government-funded groups in the Windsor-Essex region such as Sleep in Heavenly Peace—a not-for-profit group that builds beds for local children—among many others. Manor Keys of Hope gives its agents the opportunity to give back to the communities that they love by making contributions on each sale, with the company matching the funds.

As a company, Manor is still focused “We didn’t just adapt to the electronic age,” states Agnew. “We’ve embraced it on evolving and building for the future.

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MAXIMIZE YOUR WARDROBE WITH STYLE ME MENA A guide to building a capsule wardrobe

By Layan Barakat

"Oh god, please don’t bring low-rise jeans back!” I heard my friend say as we walked through the doors of Devonshire Mall, a giant advertisement for a look that screamed “Y2K” glaring at us. I looked up, flashbacks of my childhood wardrobe circling through my mind. “They’ll have to learn the hard way,” I sighed, bracing myself for a velour tracksuit with a bedazzled backside to come creeping through the shadows.

I believe it was Coco Chanel who said, “Fashion changes, but style endures,” a sentiment that perfectly captures the idea of a capsule wardrobe. I caught up with Mena Biafora Vincelli, better known as Style Me Mena, to better understand this trend that allows you to build a wardrobe full of timeless staples to make the most of your closet and your wallet. “A capsule wardrobe is a thoughtfully edited collection of clothing where everything works together.

It’s not about owning less—it's about owning better,” explains Mena. “Capsule wardrobes save time in the morning and remove the ‘I have nothing to wear’ feeling. They reduce over-shopping, help you make smarter purchases, and create outfits that always look polished.”

The term “capsule wardrobe” actually dates to the 1970s and was coined by London boutique owner Susie Faux. In her book Wardrobe, Susie highlights the impor-

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think you should be. If you’re not sure what your style even is, Mena suggests starting with a few guiding words. “Choose three to five words that describe how you want to look and feel—polished, edgy, feminine, relaxed. Use your words as your filter for everything.”

Functionally, most capsule wardrobes are built from a mix of core categories: tops, bottoms, layers, dresses, shoes, outerwear, and accessories. Within those, Mena points to a few tried-and-true staples: a white button-down, a classic blazer, a great pair of jeans, a little black dress, a versatile knit, neutral flats, and a structured coat.

“Each piece can be styled multiple ways,” she says. “That’s what gives you more outfits with less effort.”

But one of the most overlooked elements in any wardrobe is colour.

“Neutrals form the backbone of a capsule wardrobe,” Mena explains. “Choose two to three that flatter you, like black, navy, camel, or ivory, then add a few accent colours you love. That’s what allows everything to mix and match effortlessly.”

Fit, she adds, is just as important: “A smaller wardrobe only works if your clothes fit beautifully. Prioritize pieces that flatter your shape, and don’t be afraid to tailor.

Those small changes make a big difference in how polished you look.”

If you’re feeling the urge to go out and replace everything immediately, don’t do it.

tance of finding a capsule wardrobe that fits your lifestyle: “The idea is to have clothes that you love to wear, that are right for your life,” says Faux. A decade later, the idea became mainstream when Donna Karan introduced her new line called “Seven Easy Pieces.” This collection highlighted a few core pieces that could be mixed and matched to create a full wardrobe, making fashion more accessible. Decades later, the capsule circled back with the rise of Pinterest vision boards, but this time added a new pillar to its classic branding—sustainability. The concept played perfectly into the THEDRIVEMAGAZINE.COM

intentional living wave that became part of the zeitgeist with the popularity of Marie Kondo’s, “Does this spark joy?”

“Shop intentionally, not on impulse,” Mena says. “Only buy pieces that fill gaps and can be styled at least three ways with what you already own.” She also recommends thinking in terms of cost per wear: a higher-quality piece you wear often will always outvalue a cheaper item that sits untouched. And while the idea of a smaller wardrobe might sound restrictive, Mena sees it differently. “A capsule wardrobe is about freedom, not restriction; it gives you confidence, ease, and less stress every day.”

Before you Marie Kondo half your closet, Mena stresses that building a capsule wardrobe starts with honesty. “Start with your real life, not your fantasy life,” she says.

“Look at what you actually wear day to day— work, casual, events, travel—and build your At the end of the day, trends will always wardrobe to support that lifestyle.” come and go. Low-rise jeans might make From there, it’s about editing with inten- their comeback, but personal style is how tion. Keep pieces that fit your current body, you make a statement, and with these tips feel good, and reflect who you are now—not from Mena, you’ll never have to say the who you were five years ago, or who you words, “I have nothing to wear!” again.

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MATCHA MADNESS 5 Local Spots Whisking Up Gorgeously Green Creations

By Jen Brignall-Strong

With roots that trace all the way back to the seventh century, matcha isn’t exactly new on the scene. From China’s Chang Dynasty to Japan’s Buddhist monks, this earthy, finely ground tea powder is steeped in centuries of ceremonial rituals.

But now, this ancient tradition is having a modern moment. What was once a meditative practice has evolved into a worldwide phenomenon that can be found in everything from lattes to desserts.

In Windsor-Essex, the trend continues to grow, with more and more local cafes serving up their own unique takes on the popular beverage.

Prefer yours hot or iced? Traditional or fun flavour combos? Never tried and interested in going green? Here are five local places serving up some of the dreamiest matcha creations that look ALMOST as good as they taste:

MOONI MATCHA (2748 Seminole St., Windsor) Located inside Wolf & Rebel in Ford City, Mooni Matcha was Windsor’s first strictly matcha cafe, recently celebrating three years in business. That’s right; matcha is so popular in our area, there’s a spot 100% dedicated to it.

While you can always enjoy a customary hot or iced matcha latte, Mooni is always coming up with their own unique flavour combinations, like the ultra-popular blueberry pancake matcha, salted maple date matcha, and strawberry shortcake matcha.

Now, the café is excited to offer Windsor’s only “matcha on tap,” offering smoother, bolder, more consistent pours. Look for the matcha on tap at Mooni Matcha market popups around Windsor-Essex this spring and summer.

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LA DULCE VIDA CAFÉ (15 Division St. S, Kingsville) Situated in the heart of Kingsville, La Dulce Vida is a European-inspired coffee shop with serious matcha game.

In addition to their traditional café offerings of coffee, pastries and sandwiches, they also specialize in a variety of vibrant matcha creations including banana bread matcha latte, pistachio white chocolate matcha latte, and the standout horchata matcha, which replaces the milk base with the sweet Mexican rice drink, which the café makes in-house.

Want to try something different every time you visit? Keep your eyes peeled for their special monthly matcha features, too.

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LOTUS & LATTES (839 Erie St. E, Windsor)

(1646 Tecumseh Rd. E, Windsor)

With its Instagram-worthy, Zen-like vibes and extensive menu of matcha drinks and desserts, this cozy café nestled in the heart of Via Italia has quickly become a favourite among matcha purists and those who love to sample something new.

Another coffee shop with a penchant for combining distinctive fl avours with the bold, earthy taste of matcha, Camp Coffee likes to keep things fresh by switching up their beverage lineup each month. Found a new favourite matcha mix-up and sad to see it go at the end of the month? Don’t worry; they periodically bring back some of their top-sellers, or new twists on old favourites.

Top picks among regulars include the subtly sweet lavender honey matcha latte, the stunning purple-hued ube coconut, as well as banana bread, mango matcha lattes, and rotating seasonal creations, all crafted with ceremonial-grade matcha and in-house made syrups.

This month’s features include carrot cake matcha, banana cream pie matcha, and hibiscus tea matcha cloud, but there’s no doubt next month’s will be equally crave-worthy.

You can also choose from regular menu items like original matcha and blueberry earl grey matcha, available hot or iced.

Can’t decide between their 15+ fl avour options? Sip and sample with their matcha flights, which include three 8-ounce flavours of your choice.

BUCKET LIST COFFEE ROASTERY (79 Murray St., Amherstburg) This small-batch coffee roastery and eatery is known for so much more than serving up a mean cup of Joe. While coffee may be in the name, the popular Amherstburg café has also garnered a reputation for their silky smooth matcha concoctions, including seasonal features as well as staples like the rose petal, passion fruit, and caramelized banana matcha lattes, all made with their in-house made syrups.

Can’t decide which one to try? Enjoy all three in their new matcha flights.

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REMEMBER, IT’S YOUR CHOICE WHERE YOUR CAR IS REPAIRED!

By Devan Mighton

Have you been in an accident? It probably feels like the worst day of your life—but does it have to be? Windsor-Essex’s independent collision repair shops are here for you with their shared commitment to quality, transparency, and customer choice.

All three shops have invested heavily in modern capabilities, including computerized measuring systems, advanced welding equipment, aluminum repair stations, and in-house diagnostics, scanning, and recalibration. By keeping work under one roof, rather than subletting critical repairs, they maintain For Donato Collision, Marcel’s Collision, consistency, accountability, and a higher and Reiner’s Guaranteed Collision, they believe that repairs should follow manufac- standard from start to finish. turer standards, not corporate shortcuts.

Across all three businesses, they share decades of experience in making your worst day more bearable. Over the years, the hands-on repair work of the auto shop has become a highly technical trade requiring advanced equipment, ongoing training, strict adherence to OEM procedures, and expertise in electric vehicles. Today’s vehicles demand precision at every stage of repair, and these three shops are here to do the job right the first time.

The major difference between Windsor’s independent repair shops and the insurance-preferred alternatives lies in their priorities. Rather than focusing on volume-driven, flat-rate production, these businesses emphasize repair quality over speed. Proper hourly structures allow technicians the time needed to complete safe, thorough work and reduce the risk of costly re-dos, comebacks, and safety concerns down the road. They value craftsmanship over quotas.

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Have you been in an accident? It probably feels like the worst day of your life—but does it have to be?

dent shops emphasize that understanding this right is critical, especially in stressful post-accident situations where drivers may feel pressured to follow direction rather than make informed decisions.

Advocacy matters in parts selection, too.

While insurance companies often dictate what is covered, these independent shops push for proper fit, finish, and your safety, seeking OEM price matching whenever possible and encouraging customers to review their policies. When questions arise; whether about estimates, total loss evaluations, or repair options; our guidance is often provided at no charge.

Despite what they tell you, your insurer’s shop will not make your car come back to life sooner. Turnaround depends on damage severity, parts availability, and workflow.

Independent shops can provide more focused attention and flexible sourcing, including access to parts beyond local suppliers, to help move repairs forward without sacrificing quality and care.

Their independent shops are not bound

by Direct Repair Programs (DRPs), referral agreements, or volume-based incentives. They are loyal and responsible to their customers, not the insurer. This independence allows To these shops, this is about integrity. them to advocate more strongly for proper repair procedures, parts selection, and vehicle These businesses believe collision repair safety without outside pressure to cut costs. should be led by experience, training, accountability, and not external pressure.

Drivers have the right to decide where It’s this philosophy that has allowed them to their vehicle is repaired, regardless of their remain trusted and strongly independent in insurer’s recommendations. These indepen- Windsor-Essex.

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Celebrating 50 years in business, Donato Collision represents three generations of family dedication. Founded by John Donato, carried forward by Joe Donato, and now joined by Gianfranco Donato, their legacy is built on hands-on experience, evolving with the industry while staying rooted in quality workmanship. With full in-house capabilities, advanced equipment, and a strong customer-first approach, the Donato family continues to set a high standard for independent repair. Their long-standing presence in Windsor-Essex reflects the trust they’ve earned through their dedication to doing repairs the right way.

Founded in 1960, Reiner’s Guaranteed Collision is led by Dan, Max, and Macaul Reiner, continuing a proud family tradition grounded in craftsmanship and accountability. They stand behind every repair with confidence and care, with a focus on precision and long-term reliability. They continue to combine modern technology with hands-on expertise to ensure each job meets the highest standards. Reiner’s prioritizes thorough, accurate repairs over rushed timelines, reinforcing their commitment to customer safety and satisfaction.

All repairs are full guaranteed and come with a written warranty from Donato Collision, Marcel’s Collision, and Reiner’s Guaranteed Collision – because quality should always be backed with confidence.

MARCEL’S COLLISION Dating back 75 years, Marcel’s Collision has built its reputation on trust, communication, and attention to detail. Led by Marc Marier and his daughter, Michelle Whitehead (Marier), their team believes customers deserve clear and honest guidance, especially when navigating insurance claims and repair decisions. They take a hands-on, transparent approach, offering support and advice at no charge so customers can make informed choices without pressure. Every repair is completed with a focus on safety, proper fit, and long-term quality, ensuring customers feel confident and taken care of every step of the way. Marcel’s has in-house mechanical and their own rental vehicles on-site to ensure all repairs and processes meet their standards.

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GET MORE COMFORTABLE SAYING… Long marriages aren’t built on grand romantic gestures alone. They’re built in the quiet, ordinary moments, when you're tired, stressed, misunderstood, or simply human. The couples who stay connected over decades aren't the ones who never argue. They're the ones who learn how to repair quickly, speak with humility, and stay emotionally generous with one another.

In long-term relationships, small phrases carry enormous power. The right words soften tension, rebuild trust, and remind your partner that you're on the same team, even when you disagree.

If you plan to be married for a long time, get more comfortable saying things like: 1. “You bring up a good point, I hadn’t thought of it that way, but I see where you’re coming from. Let’s come up with a plan that incorporates both our needs.”

One of the biggest relationship pitfalls is believing that compromise means losing. Compromise is how two individuals create something new and stronger together. When you acknowledge your partner’s perspective, your communicating respect and respect is the foundation of long-term intimacy.

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DRIVE MIND Even when you still disagree, validating your partner's viewpoint lowers defensiveness and keeps the conversation productive. It signals emotional maturity and a willingness to collaborate instead of competing. Over time, this creates a pattern where both partners feel heard, valued, and safe expressing themselves.

This, importantly, displays flexibility, which is an essential skill for navigating life’s inevitable changes. Careers shift, children arrive, health evolves, and priorities change. Couples who practice mutual problem-solving early are far better equipped to handle the bigger challenges that come later.

2. “I’m sorry for getting defensive and not hearing you out. Would you share that again so I can understand what you were saying?”

Defensiveness is a natural reaction. When we feel criticized or misunderstood, our instinct is to protect ourselves. But defensiveness often blocks understanding and escalates tension.

When you pause, take responsibility, and ask your partner to repeat themselves, you’re doing something incredibly powerful: you're reopening the door to connection. You're showing that your priority isn't winning, it's understanding.

This kind of response builds emotional safety.

Your partner learns that even if conversations get heated, you're willing to reset and listen. Over time, this reduces the fear of bringing up difficult topics, which is crucial for preventing resentment from quietly building beneath the surface.

Healthy marriages don’t avoid difficult conversations; they create an environment where those conversations can happen without damaging the relationship.

3. “I was thinking about our argument last night and I’m sorry I raised my voice at you.

I need to work on staying calm and finding the words for what I need. How are you feeling about last night?”

Repair doesn’t always happen in the moment.

Sometimes we need time to reflect and cool down. What matters most is that we come back to the conversation with humility and care. Following up after an argument shows emotional responsibility. It tells your partner that the relationship matters more than your pride. It also demonstrates growth, acknowledging not just what happened, but what you want to see improved moving forward.

Asking how your partner is feeling invites them back into emotional connection. It communicates that you care about their experience, not just your own perspective. Over time, these follow-up conversations reduce lingering tension. Instead of unresolved conflicts stacking up, couples clear the emotional air and rebuild trust again and again.

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4. “I want you to know that I see and appreciate how much you do for our family and home.

I feel lucky to have you as my partner.”

Appreciation is one of the most overlooked yet powerful tools in marriage. Over time, it’s easy to start taking each other for granted; the daily routines, responsibilities, and quiet contributions fade into the background. But feeling seen is deeply human. When you acknowledge your partner’s efforts, whether it’s managing schedules, supporting you emotionally, or handling everyday tasks, you're reinforcing their value in your life.

Gratitude also shifts the emotional tone of a relationship. Instead of focusing on what isn’t getting done, appreciation highlights what is going well. This creates a more positive, resilient partnership. Research consistently shows that couples who regularly express appreciation experience higher satisfaction and stronger emotional bonds. Simply put, appreciation builds goodwill and goodwill carries couples through tough seasons.

5. “I know I’ve been more on edge and irritable this week. I shouldn't take out my stress on you and I’m sorry.”

Life gets stressful. Work demands, fi nancial concerns, parenting responsibilities, and health challenges all create pressure. Sometimes, the people closest to us feel the spillover. Owning your stress response prevents small tensions from turning into larger conflicts. It also reassures your partner that your irritability isn’t about them personally.

This kind of self-awareness strengthens emotional trust. Your partner learns that even when you're overwhelmed, you're still accountable for how you treat them. Additionally, sharing stress openly creates an opportunity for support. Instead of feeling pushed away, your partner may step in with empathy, encouragement, or practical help.

Marriage works best when both partners acknowledge their humanity and extend grace to each other during difficult seasons.

6. “You’re right, I didn’t get that done as I had promised. I know it was important to you and I’m going to get it done today.”

Reliability builds trust. When we follow through on commitments, we reinforce that our words matter. When we don’t, even small things can create frustration and disappointment. Taking responsibility without excuses is incredibly powerful. It shows maturity and respect for your partner’s expectations. Instead of deflecting or minimizing, you're acknowledging the impact and committing to action.

Consistence in these moments builds long-term trust. Your partner learns that even when

mistakes happen, you’ll take ownership and make things right. Over time, this creates a stable emotional foundation, one where both partners feel they can depend on each other.

7. “I know I’ve been so busy lately, but my priority is getting some quality time with you this weekend. I wanted to plan a surprise activity for us, but do you prefer to think of something together?”

Time together doesn’t just happen; it has to be protected. Between careers, family responsibilities, and everyday obligations, couples often drift into logistical partnerships instead of emotional ones. Prioritizing quality time signals that your relationship matters. It reminds your partner that they are not just part of your routine; they are part of your joy.

Whether it’s a walk, dinner, a shared hobby, or simply uninterrupted conversation, intentional time strengthens emotional connection.

It creates space for laughter, vulnerability, and rediscovering each other. Long-lasting marriages are built not just on commitment, but on continued friendship. Quality time keeps that friendship alive.

Marriage Reminder No one is perfect. We all get defensive, forget things, lose patience, and sometimes say the wrong words. But thriving marriages aren’t built on perfection; they’re built on repair. For a marriage to thrive, we must be willing to apologize, acknowledge how things have been lately, and share how we plan to do better. Marriage requires self-reflection and emotional honesty. It asks us to recognize how our actions, attitudes, and choices impact relationships.

The strongest couples don’t avoid mistakes; they become skilled at course-correcting quickly and kindly.

Your Action Step — Start Today Choose one phrase from this list and use it within the next 24 hours.

Don’t wait for the perfect moment. Look for a small opportunity, acknowledge something your partner did, apologize for something minor, or suggest intentional time together. Small moments of humility and appreciation create powerful shifts over time. One sentence can soften tension, rebuild closeness, and remind your partner that you’re committed, not just to marriage, but to growing within it.

Because long marriages aren’t built in big moments. They’re built in the quiet, everyday words that say: I see you. I value you. And we’re in this together.

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MAY 1 Line Dancing at The Fort Fun Center 7-10pm

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MAY 17 Yesterday and Today Car Show Colasanti’s Tropical Gardens | 11am-4pm

MAY 2 Spring Market in the Village Canadian Transportation Museum & Heritage Village 9am-4pm

MAY 18 Card Board Game Night The Shadowbox Theatre | 5-10pm

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MAY 21-24 178th Leamington Fair Leamington Fairgrounds | 3pm MAY 22-24 Windsor Rib and Beer Festival Riverfront Festival Plaza | Time TBD

MAY 3 Rachmaninoff | Windsor Symphony Orchestra | 2:30-4pm MAY 7 Destroyer (solo) w/ Fortunato Durutti Marinetti | Meteor | 7:30pm MAY 9 Hysteria Def Leppard Tribute The Cherry Rock Lounge | 9pm

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JUNE 5 Southwind Buoys | Parkside Grille 6pm

MAY 31 LaSalle Night Markets | LaSalle Civic Centre | 4-8pm JUNE 4-7 Windsor Poutine Feast | Riverfront Festival Plaza | 6pm JUNE 5-7 The Nashville Takeover Various Locations JUNE 5-7 Amherstburg Open Air Weekends Downtown Amherstburg | 2pm JUNE 5 Race to the Sunset | Belle River Lakeview Park | 6:30-8pm JUNE 6-7 Art In the Park | 10am-5pm JUNE 6 Tecumseh F7 Festival Tecumseh Fire Station #2 | 10:30am

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