Pine Country Beacon Winter 2017

10 THINGS YOU MAY NOT KNOW ABOUT PALESTINE

WINTER 2017

CONTENTS

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05 TEN THINGS IN PALESTINE We found out some pretty cool things during time spent in this historic city. Found out how much you know about Palestine

04 THE MAYOR BOB HERRINGTON

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What better way to find out about the identity of a city than talking to its elected leader?

THE HOPE STATION Incredibly talented folks in the old railroad medical center

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THE STOCKPOT

FAMILY PEACE PROJECT

REFUGE OF LIGHT

See what this ministry is up to, and if you could fit in to serve your fellow man one meal a day

Do you know the twelve signs of an abusive relationship?

Be proud of what our fellow Palestine natives are doing in the area and beyond

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06 HOME FOR CHRISTMAS Helps restore self-worth, confidence, trust, disciple and compassion

12 PALESTINE YMCA Our YMCA has something for everyone!

14 FIRST RESOURCE CENTER Get involved and see what First Resource is doing for Anderson County

MEDIA PARTNERS We are excited about partnering with our good friends at 93.5 KBPC. Pine Country 93.5 is the one station that listeners from East Texas, can count on for instant, up-to-date weather information...the latest SRN Network News at the top of the hour... and the biggest variety of Today’s Country Hits music

08 STUDENT WRITERS The Beacon has an exciting new program to watch out for… Our Student Writers Initiative. The young people in the community are getting out in the area and sharing their stories of service, as well as spotlighting different ministries and organizations in Palestine and the surrounding areas.

EDITOR’S NOTE

PALESTINE BEACON We are excited to deliver, hope, inspiration, and change to Palestine and surrounding areas.

Greetings! Thank you for allowing us to share some table space with you, and giving us a chance to reflect on the good that is happening in the Palestine area. The Beacon began as a response to the dark days following September 11th, 2001… we wanted to share with people that there is still good in this world, as well as in our local community.

This magazine broadcasts a few organizations making a difference here in Pine Country. Learn who is giving their time for different passions, and reach out for ways you can help with a cause in town. We

are already so impressed by the hospitality here, and cannot wait to meet more of the city.

It’s simple… We should all be proud of where we are from, and everyone making a small difference is the formula for a town that broadcasts its pride to the entire region.

“Thank you for welcoming us to the great Palestine area, and let’s get 2017 started the right way!”.

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OUR COMMUNITY CONVERSATION

BLAKE CLIFTON BEACON STAFF

WHAT BETTER WAY TO FIND OUT ABOUT THE IDENTITY OF A CITY THAN TALKING TO ITS ELECTED LEADER? MAYOR BOB HERRINGTON OPENED UP ABOUT HIS FAVORITE PARTS OF PALESTINE, HOW THE CITY HAS COME TOGETHER TO TAKE CARE OF ITS OWN, AND HIS PLANS ONCE HIS TIME AS MAYOR COMES TO AN END IN A FEW MONTHS.

MAYOR BOB HERRINGTON BLAKE: Thanks for taking time for us mayor

entitled to it. I asked him, “What do you think,” to which he replied, “We can’t deny her a new mobile home.” I asked, “So, what’s the problem then?” I guess I’m especially passionate when it comes to government withholding information and denying people their rights simply because someone in a position of authority doesn’t like what the outcome might be. I do get a little passionate about things like that.

Herrington! How have you seen good prevail in the Palestine area?

BLAKE: If you could see one thing thrive in the

MAYOR BOB: Mainly through the actions of the

MAYOR BOB: The people. I would love to see

people who live here. It’s easy to get divided politically, but when a crisis occurs, the goodness in our community sets aside any political differences and comes together as one. I’ve seen people come to the rescue of those less fortunate on so many occasions. In 2011, we had horrific wildfires in the area. The response of our local residents was to rise up and join in the effort to provide nourishment and water to the firefighters and volunteers who were battling the fires. Our local Churches and businesses have all been very generous in helping people in times of difficulties. Most recently, the devastating flood in April 2016. Community response was tremendous.

BLAKE: What are a couple things that you are personally passionate about when it comes to helping others?

MAYOR BOB:I don’t like seeing people mistreated or bullied into submission. Personally, I’ve always been for the “little guy”, and I’ve tried to make sure the playing field is equal for all. I believe in people knowing what their rights are. I was serving as chairman of our planning and zoning commission at the time, I think it was in the mid 2000s, and an elderly lady lived in a mobile home.

The home burned and she wanted to get her a new one. I got a phone call from the lady and she said the city told her she couldn’t replace the mobile home. I called the development services director and he told me the mayor and a couple of members on city council didn’t want a new mobile home back at that location. I had reviewed the original application and zoning request and knew she was

WHAT IS A TANGIBLE WAY YOU HAVE SEEN THE COMMUNITY COME TOGETHER FOR A COMMON GOAL?

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Palestine area, what would it be? all people thrive. To be free of worry and anxiety about their own futures as well as the worry and guilt that comes from not being able to meet commitments. I would like to see people stand up for themselves and not feel as though they need anyone’s permission to proceed. Prayer is a powerful thing. Pray about it with God. What would make you happy? What is God’s plan for you?

Government can’t really answer those questions and I don’t really think government is necessarily in the position of providing true relief for what ails people. People helping people, as God intended, is perhaps our best course of action. Prayer works and I think people need to put more faith in God and in the prayer warriors who stand ready to help.

BLAKE: What are you plans when your mayoral term comes to an end? Golf? Fish?

MAYOR BOB: I plan to continue my morning talk radio show. I want to continue to educate people about the governmental process. I’ve always tried to explain some of the complexities of city government in terms everyone can understand. I believe an informed voter is the best hope for our future.

People need to be involved in the process and really question what is being said. Can you really trust the information you’re getting? Informed voters are the sentinels of liberty. I know I sound old fashioned at times, but when you think of all the suffering, all of the sacrifices that have been made from the beginnings of our country, you can’t help but feel a sense of pride and to realize you don’t want to be known as the person who let it all slip away. And yes, I will find time for golf and fishing!

April 30, 2016. Worst day in Palestine’s history. Torrential rains, some 8 inches in less than hour resulted in the loss of six lives and millions in property damage. As I stated in my address to the city, we saw wonderful tributes to the love in people’s hearts, when I heard them say “I gave $10 or $20, I wish I could give more but it’s all I can afford.” There was such a show of strength and support to those who lost so much.

HOPE STATION THE

1O THINGS ABOUT PALESTINE 1. CAPITAL OF TEXAS? Palestine was one of three cities for consideration to become the Texas state capitol, before Texas ultimately decided on Austin. Could you imagine Austin and Palestine trading places?

2. HISTORICAL HOMES Palestine is tied with Galveston for the most historical standing homes in a Texas city.

3. BEAUTIFUL COURTHOUSE The “A ship in harbor is safe, but that is not what ships are built for.” This quote

by William G.T. Shedd illustrates what the Hope Station is all about. The reputation of the Hope Station is spreading like wildfire now, but what most haven’t heard is how they came about, and the vision they share toward the future.

Within the walls of the old railroad medical center lies some incredibly talented folks who have left the harbor of their lives, and are living out their beliefs on some life-changing waters.

Brandon Greene is the Director of the Hope Station, and has had this vision for over 7 years before seeing the plans come to be. Brandon, along with most every volunteer, moved fully to the Hope Station about 2 years ago. Actually, February 1st, 2017 is the 2-year anniversary of the birth of Hope Station, and they are going nowhere but up. Brandon was meeting a few years ago with other leaders from the homeless ministries in Texas, and after seeing others go through the roller coaster of ministry, Brandon was tired of only hearing from others what was happening in Palestine.

“I don’t want to be just be inspired anymore, I want to see it for myself.” He spent a long car ride home later on creating a vision, mission statement, and name for what was coming. He loved the railroad tradition of the area, and knew he was there to offer hope from above, hence the name Hope Station.

The first step of leadership is to pinpoint weaknesses, and fill those weaknesses with the strengths of those around them. Brandon has been blessed with a great team to complement what

the Hope Station is going after. The mission is to fight homelessness and hopelessness in Anderson County. It is not enough, however, to help their clients then leave. Hope comes from investing time to teach how to work, cook, be a good family member, and depend on the right things to be happy. The trick is to make clients that are in the program dependent of Hope Station volunteers, then by the time they graduate, become dependent on only God and themselves.

The very first clients in the program just graduated, and are doing very well!

Corporate sponsors help with food every month, and massive containers have been donated for storage. We looked through and shopped at the new resale store on the second floor of the Hope Station building. A great system these guys have is partnering with churches, who write vouchers out for people to bring to the Station to shop for. Anything on that voucher is free for the person who brings it. So much giving, so many involved, led Brandon to the great realisation that “you still can’t outgive God.” This is a divinely appointed job being performed by ones who have committed their lives to the cause. Take a step into the building, the offices, the store, and you’ll see what we’re talking about.

There is no better word than hope itself to describe the happenings of the Hope Station. Go check it out.

For more information, email hopestationpalestine@gmail. com, or call 903.723.2930

Palestine courthouse has been ranked in the top ten most beautiful courthouses in the country.

4. DENZEL WASHINGTON The Great Debaters was filmed partially in Palestine, using the railroad station as a setting.

5. GRINCH THEME Every year during Christmas time, the old jail house is decorated with a Grinch theme for folks to visit. Word on the street is the place is haunted… that’s for you to decide.

6. #14 PLACE TO VISIT Palestine was ranked #14 in Texas for places to visit according to Texas Highways Magazine. Between the railroad, traditional buildings, and natural beauty, that’s no surprise

7. NASA AMONGST US

The Columbia Scientific Balloon Facility, operated by NASA, is located just outside of Palestine city limits.

8. REDLAND BUILDING

During the 1920s-40s, at least 500 people would be working daily at the Redland Building, known then as the Missouri Pacific Building, who operated national railroad systems out of the building.

9. YMCA FIELDS Get ready for a massive park and field project up road 287 that will offer fun for any and everyone coming soon. Check out the blueprints for the fields at the YMCA

10. ADRIAN PETERSON ex Palestine native, delivered thousands of dollars of supplies and resources to get the town back on its feet after the floods in April editorial@PalestineBeacon.com PALESTINEBEACON.COM | 5

OUR COMMUNITY

HOME FOR CHRISTMAS “The whole adventure has been a process of watching God work little miracles time after time, at exactly the needed time. It’s truly amazing,” - Shannon DeCraene BEACON STAFF

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THE KING’S REIN IS AN EQUINE ASSISTED OUTREACH THAT HELPS PEOPLE WITH EMOTIONAL, MENTAL AND BEHAVIORAL CHALLENGES DUE TO TRAUMATIC LIFE EVENTS. THE PROGRAM HELPS TO RESTORE PEOPLE’S SELF-WORTH, CONFIDENCE, TRUST, DISCIPLINE AND COMPASSION. THROUGH THE HORSES AND VOLUNTEERS, THE PEOPLE WHO COME TO THE KING’S REIN EXPERIENCE HEALING AND THE TRANSFORMING POWER OF LOVE THROUGH ACCEPTANCE AND ENCOURAGEMENT, REALIZING THEY HAVE HOPE AND A FUTURE.

Everyone loves a good Christmas story, and The King’s Rein, a local Equine Assisted Outreach, has one to share.

Last year, The King’s Rein started a program to get a veteran in need a small home for Christmas. Benjamin Cordero, the program recipient, had been living in a used FEMA RV for Many years. The RV was at a point where it had become uninhabitable due to water leaks, rotting, mold, and lack of heating or cooling. Winters and summers had been extremely hard for Cordero for several years. Seeing his need, The King’s Rein started a program to get him a new dwelling.

The program kicked off in November of 2015 with a match grant from The Home Depot in Tyler and goal of raising the needed funds for a structure so the veteran could be under cover by that Christmas. The journey took a bit longer than expected, but it made the ending so much sweeter.

“Being a young organization, it was a real learning experience about fundraising,” said Shannon DeCraene, president of The King’s Reign organization. “It took so much more time to raise the funds needed to purchase a cabin shell than we had ever expected, however, we encountered so many generous people, churches, organizations and companies along the way, which perfectly illuminated the true spirit of Christmas.”

DeCraene said it was a great experience watching people work together for the right goal. “It is truly amazing to see the communities of Henderson, Anderson, and Smith County all work together to help provide a solution for a man in need.”

Finally reaching their fundraising goal for the structure in early December 2016, The King’s Rein was able to purchase a 14-by-34 foot Derksen Cabin that is wood construction with a

metal roof. The cabin was delivered right after Christmas, and Benjamin was given shelter and a new start going into the new year.

DeCraene said the Men’s Ministry at The Cowboy Church in Athens jumped in, and got the interior framing, electrical and plumbing taken care of. Cordero is a member at the Cowboy Church in Athens, and his need came to light about the same time the Cowboy Church was starting a new men’s ministry, ‘Cowboy Way’, which provides skilled craftsmen and construction services to community members in need.

After the electrical and plumbing were completed, Garland & Jones from Tyler installed spray-in foam insulation for the building. “It was our pleasure to help Mr. Cordero and The King’s Rein,” said Garland & Jones General Manager Scott Wamack. “We were happy to insulate Ben’s cabin, and we sincerely thank him for his service to our nation.

No veteran should ever be left homeless.

East Texas Home Inspection Services of Palestine donated turn-key services, from termite pre-treatment to final inspections.

Among other supporters from Palestine were the Disabled Veterans Chapter and members from Sacred Heart Catholic Church, who helped with financial donations and volunteer support. . “We thank everyone for taking part in this beautiful Christmas story, and helping provide something to celebrate in the New Year for Veteran Benjamin Cordero.”

For more information, contact Shannon DeCraene at The King’s Rein at 903.714.0830 or by email at info@thekingsrein.org. Donations can be made online at www.thekingsrein.org. The King’s Rein Equine Outreach is a Texas non-profit 501(c)3 organization.

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OUR COMMUNITY Fight for Forensics

CHARLEE COCKRELL, 12TH GRADE PALESTINE HS

The term “forensics”, although now commonly known as speech and debate, comes from old English used in describing the legal court system. Forensics may be a dying school program, but at Palestine High School, the academic contest is flourishing. We have students compete in Congress, Lincoln-Douglas, Cross Examination, and also Extemporaneous Speaking. Every semester, students receive a topic to make a case upon, both in favor and against, whether it is about the media, political parties, or the current “globalization vs. protectionism”. Debate is a great activity because it teaches you to look at both sides of an issue, though a person might rather only make opinions based on one idea. You also have to think on your feet because you never know what arguments will be thrown at you in

Renovations and Restorations

TERRY MOLINA, 12TH GRADE PALESTINE HS

What I would like to see happen in our city is some kind of project between the high school and the city of Palestine to renovate and restore a lot of the old buildings we have downtown. Not many cities and towns have much of their origins standing and everything is too modern. When I see old pictures of Palestine, I am proud of how great our buildings looked back in the early days. A great deal of those buildings and streets we see in those pictures are the exact same buildings and streets we walk by in downtown today. It is like stepping back into the past, and an experience worth having and preserving.

The only thing is, most of the buildings that haven’t been torn

Dual Credit Classes and their impact on my life.

MACY STONE, 12TH GRADE PALESTINE HS

I have been a part of the “Wildcat University” since I was in the 10th grade and have taken over 15 college classes. By high school graduation I will have 55 college hours that will transfer to Texas A&M College Station, the school I will be attending next fall. Wildcat University is a partnership between Palestine High School and Trinity Valley Community College that allows high school students to take college level courses while still in high school. This enables me to start learning what I’m passionate about, and save my parents several thousand dollars. The pro-

the next round. You have to build a solid case based on evidence, logic, and reasoning, which are mainly based on philosophy. But above all, you must know how to stand your ground. Debate prepares you for the real world because foes may try to trick you or shatter your beliefs, but you must always be able to stand up for your values and what you believe is right, even if it means walking alone. This year’s current topic of globalization shows how people need interdependence among all types. By bonding together as one, we can create prosperity, innovation, and above all, peace. Debate broadens horizons and creates mental independence, with a rise in self-determination. Though some schools might be cutting back, organizations such as the student run, Fight For Forensics, argue the benefits are endless and ultimately priceless. By teaching one student to become confident in public speaking along with understanding the issues around the world, we have created a leader of tomorrow, who can change the world. down to build new ones are just rotting away and falling apart. My idea is that the school should take on a project to adopt a building every other year . Almost every division of the school could get into repairing and restoring the building, which would have many positive effects for our town and our future students. Everyone in the school would be able to volunteer to be a part of the project. Anyone could help start cleaning up, students in the wood shop and welding classes could start the repairs and renovation of the building. The art students, and any others with creative imaginations could give the building a completely new look, instead of rotting and broken. The football team, cheerleaders, band, and rest of the school could have events that go on in town to provide the fundraising needed for the project. This could all be a great experience for many of the students who could use the skills they learn in future endeavors, and even college.

gram has also given me experience in balancing my schedule, dealing with strict deadlines and how to handle things like taking online classes while also taking regular classes. I am also lucky enough to to have been recently inducted into the Phi Theta Kappa honors organization, open to students with a 3.5 GPA in two year colleges.

This is such a unique opportunity that I know many don’t get to experience and I am so grateful for the path that Palestine has allowed me to create at such a young age. Other students can do the same, it’s a great head start and affordable too!

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Paw-Paw

SHASTA CARWELL, 12TH GRADE WESTWOOD HS

Family. It’s funny how six measly letters can come together to make such a powerful word. My family is my life and strength. They support me through the good and the bad.

We’ve been through ups and downs, and you could never tell because we always wear a smile on our face and treat each day like it’s our last. My family took a lot of hits, but we’re still recovering from our biggest blow; the loss of my grandfather.

A few years ago, the summer before I started my first year of high school, my grandfather (Paw-Paw) was sent to the ER. My parents told me that he was sick and was just getting checked to see if everything was okay. Frankly, I didn’t think much about it. Aside from my father, my grandpa was the strongest man that I knew. As I was growing up, I didn’t know whether I was intimidated by him or just plain awe-struck.

From my perspective as a young girl, my grandpa was huge. PawPaw’s presence would fill up the room with joy, laughter, and love.

Paw-Paw loved to tell jokes and stories. I used to think he liked laughing about his stories more than telling them. Paw-Paw was the glue that held our family together, so when his sickness started to get worse, my family was slowly starting to fall apart.

Paw-Paw was diagnosed with cirrhosis of the liver. Meaning, he had chronic liver damage, which wasn’t curable. That summer was

Believing In Yourself

SHANNAH AVILA, 12TH GRADE PALESTINE HS

There are moments in our lives where we aim for a goal, but we question our ability in accomplishing it. Whether you’re looking for a specific job, a newly graduated high school student searching for your purpose in life, or you’re someone who is still trying to discover who you are, aiming for a goal is important. But believing in yourself is even more crucial.

1. ALWAYS think positive and BELIEVE in yourself Thinking positively will allow you to see your goal as attainable.

Whether you seem to be in a good or bad situation, thinking to yourself “I can do it” or “it is possible” gives you the ability to strive for that goal. Inputting negative thoughts into your mind sets you up for failure and is the primary reason people limit themselves from success.

2. NEVER lower your goals just so you can reach them.

Les Brown, a motivational speaker said that it’s okay to “aim too

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the longest summer of my entire life. Paw-Paw stayed at a hospital 45 minutes from where we lived. My family and I spent many days and nights in that hospital. I was only 14 at the time, so my parents didn’t tell me a lot of what was going on. I was naïve and I thought he was going to get better, so when I found out he wasn’t - my whole world fell down.

I read a lot of books that summer to help cope and take my mind off things. One book in particular stood out to me. The book was about a girl who was going through a similar situation I was going through, which helped me see things in a different light and understand life better.

As the summer was ending, Paw-Paw’s condition was only getting worse. Death loomed over us and we hoped it wouldn’t strike too soon. My grandfather was a fighter, he fought the sickness, and he fought until there was no fight left in him. On August 15, my grandfather passed away. He was 53.

I will never forget my Paw-Paw. I love and care about him, and I know that he loves and cares about my family and I as well. In a way, I’m happy for him, because I know that where he is now is far greater than I could ever imagine. Although I miss him, I’m glad that he is finally at peace. Cherish the time that you have with your loved-ones, because we never know when our time will come. Life is a battle, learn to use love as your weapon. I love you Paw-Paw.

high and miss” but it’s not okay to “aim too low and hit.” Once you lower your standards to what you “think” you are capable of, the success you’ve planned for yourself dwindles. Instead, raise the bar and make your goals higher and higher each time you reach them.

3. Don’t be afraid of failure.

Failure is the reason why most people back down from reaching their goals, but what they don’t realize is that failure is a lesson that we get stronger every time we rebound from it. It’s what drives a person to keep going and pursue their dreams. At times, you will fail, but remember the most successful people have failed as well.

“You will fail to succeed”, states Les Brown.

Start a new chapter in your life and make your goal the main idea.

The Beacon has an exciting new program to watch out for… Our Student Writers Initiative.

The young people in the community are getting out in the community and sharing their stories of service, as well as spotlighting different ministries and organizations in Palestine and the surrounding areas.

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OUR COMMUNITY

“ALL ARE WELCOME”

Is your church involved with the Stock Pot? See what the ministry is up to, and if you could fit in to serve your fellow man one meal a day.

Sitting on the street of Avenue A in the center of Palestine is the beautiful building of First Presbyterian Church. Behind it you’ll see a white building that most of the town has come to recognize: the Stock Pot. Since 1986 the Stock Pot has served as the main food kitchen of Anderson County. What takes you back is the atmosphere inside. The moral is high, the volunteers are joyful, and something always smells good, ready to be served.

Every weekday from 11:30-12:15 the Stock Pot opens its doors to anyone and everyone.

Depending on the day and part of the month, anywhere from 60-100 meals are served every time the doors open. The price of admission is leaving your troubles at the door, and leaving full. 1500-1800 meals are given out every month, prepared by the hands of volunteers. The volun-

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Main Food Kitchen of Anderson County

Volunteers of the city have become the hands and feet.

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teers change every day, with churches claiming days to invest in the city. There is no denying that you, the city, has become the hands and feet of the Stock Pot, and the message the ministry wishes to convey is that of gratitude. Without the support of time and donations, many would go hungry.

These volunteers stick to healthy meals, knowing some visitors may only take this one free meal a day. There is a sense of trust and camaraderie throughout the tables. It is hard to look at a room full of residents enjoying their time together` and see anything besides purity in its intentions. No part of our job is ever better than experiencing the world on the front lines.

No volunteers or board members have ever received pay for their dedication and work.

Their pay comes in the spiritual realm, in blessings from above. Not only can we ensure a tasty meal if you visit the Stock Pot, but a great conversation with the staff or other visitors. All donations go directly to supplying food for the hungry of Palestine and Anderson County.

03 HOURS Monday - Friday 11:30 - 12:15 60 - 100 meals are served Free

THE FAMILY PEACE PROJECT:

A BEACON OF HOPE Domestic violence and sexual abuse is pandemic. Although it’s widespread, it’s a taboo subject doused with shame and met with pity.

The first question people ask when talking about domestic violence and/or sexual abuse is, “why don’t they just leave?” Or they say, “I don’t understand how you stay in that situation. The first time someone hit me, I would get out.” Another reaction is that of disdain.

Though it might seem inconceivable to stay and/or keep returning to an abusive relationship, that is a typical pattern. The abuser makes leaving seem impossible by exerting control over every aspect of the victim’s life.

Because of the emotional abuse, influence and the ideal that the abuser loves them, leaving is a process.

The Family Peace Project’s main job is to advocate for victims and provide a faith-based program for healing. It works to protect, educate and empower victims to move forward.

Although, women are the overwhelming targets; violence against men is on the rise. 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime as will 1 in 7 men. It is estimated that nearly ten million children in our country are exposed to domestic violence each year.

Community support is critical in helping to provide life-changing services for victims and their children. This is where the Family Peace Project (FPP) stands in the gap.

It is important to remember that it is not the victim’s fault. Abusers are master manipulators who have a dynamic ability for spinning their victims in circles and making them believe they deserve the way they are being treated. The abusers goal is to convince their partners that they do not deserve better treatment and they will not get anyone better.

Abusers typically act charming and nice in

public so that others have a good impression of them. However, it’s a completely different story in private.

Abuse is not always as obvious as being hit or shoved. Most abuse starts very subtly. The victim feels like they are walking on eggshells and thinks it’s their fault. It’s a subtle game that abusers play with their victims. Abusers get a lot of reinforcement out of using the word “love” as it seems to become a magic word to maintain control.

FPP’s services include court advocacy, counseling, referrals, a 24-hour hotline and shelter. The advocates provide victims with a sense of hope that life outside of their current relationship is indeed possible.

Many victims try to go on about life without dealing with their hurts. This can often lead to even greater struggles in the future when one tries to bury their hurt and go on without first addressing it. FPP’s ability to continue to operate is due in large part to the support from individual donors who believe in its mission, as well as gifts from businesses and corporations. For immediate danger, dial 911 or contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-787-7233.

About The Family Peace Project The Family Peace Project, a 501(c) 3 organization, provides domestic violence survivors with a variety of services and support aimed at establishing self-sufficiency. Through its housing programs, families are provided a secure environment while simultaneously obtaining life skills, education and improvised employment opportunities. For more information, go to www.familypeaceproject. org.

12 SIGNS OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP 1. Constant calling or texting when you are not with him/ her 2. Humiliating or embarrassing you 3. Use of sarcasm and unpleasant tone of voice 4. Act jealous or possessive of you 5. Extreme moodiness 6. Control what you do, who you see or where you go 7. Isolate you from friends and family 8. Saying, “I love you but…”

9. Using money to control you 10. Making everything your fault 11. Refuses to change or talk about problems 12. Constant name calling

Media Inquiries: Louisa Garrett, Marketing Director lgarrett@familypeaceproject.org 254-681-1908 Volunteer Opportunities: Flisha Stewart, Volunteer Coordinator fstewart@familypeaceproject.org 469-410-1337

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OUR COMMUNITY

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The Palestine YMCA is a 501c(3) nonprofit organization that welcomes all who wish to participate. The Palestine Y raises funds each year to help provide a safe and positive place where values such as caring, honesty, respect and responsibility are much more than just words. Since 1892 the Palestine YMCA has been a gathering place for fellowship, sports, personal fitness, and for social gatherings for individuals and families. But as our members know, it is not the facilities that makes the Y special…it is the people.

Our members and guests LOVE THIS PLACE, and it is because the Y has a great staff. From the fully trained child care team to our fun-loving group exercise instructors to our ever-diligent lifeguards, and friendly and helpful desk personnel, the Palestine YMCA staff help to provide a safe, fun environment that supports a healthy lifestyle.

We invite you to come visit the Y! We have something for everyone.

Our youth sports program continues to grow each year and we are thrilled that our new Alex Patel Soccer Complex will open in February. This amazing facility will soon host tournaments for children of all ages. In addition, our adult soccer program will begin this summer. This new multifunctional facility will be utilized for a variety of fun youth and family activities including archery and hiking trail.

We hold the charter for the Palestine Little Dribblers program and we were excited to host the Regional Tournament last spring. Our quarterly adult five on five basketball tournaments draw a host of talented players who compete for a trophy while helping to support our youth basketball program.

Other Y youth sports include a vibrant volleyball program for girls in grades 4-6.

Our T-ball program is another favorite co-ed spring sport.

Adult co-ed sports include dodgeball,

volleyball and softball, and coming this summer, adult soccer.

The Y also is home of some of our community’s favorite happenings. For thirty years, on one very special night in February, the Y has transformed its facility into a fairyland for the annual Daddy/Daughter, Mother/Son Dances. Through the years themes from Hearts to Hollywood, Jungle to Winter Wonderland, Teddy Bears to a Starry, Starry Night have been carried out throughout the Y. Boots and Bling is the popular choice this year and Saturday, February 11th is the special day.

We are thrilled that we have two great racquetball courts and a 30 foot climbing wall inside our facility that is available to our members and guests. Benefits of a Y membership include a spacious wellness center with state-of-the-art equipment, two hours of free daily child care (with a family membership), personal training and more than thirty group exercise classes available during the week, as well as discounted Y program fees.

Another great addition to our community is the Steven Bennett Aquatic Center which houses a seasonal Olympic-sized pool which is home of the YMCA Piranha swim team for children ages five to eighteen years.

This leadership building swim team competes both locally and regionally and has many honors and medals to boast about.

The Aquatic Center is staffed by YMCA lifeguards for both recreational swimming, exercising and Swim America swim lessons.

Swim lessons are available for children ages six months and older as well as swim lessons for adults. Private swim lessons are also available.

Our Texas Rising Star and State Licensed Early Childcare center is the hub of laughter, fun, and excitement each week day with children from 6 weeks to 5 years old learning and growing daily under the guidance of our trained and loving staff. We also offer an after school program for children ages 4-12, with Y bus pick-ups at Elkhart and Westwood School districts. The Palestine Schools bus the children in our program directly to our center each day where they all get a full meal, help with homework, have fun, and exercise. This program is essential to working parents who can then pick them up by 6pm. Our center also offers day out of school programs, spring break camp, and holiday camps. One of our favorite programs is our day camp program for children ages 5-12. This summer we plan to swim daily, take exciting field trips weekly, do arts and crafts, and have a ton of fun inside and out of the YMCA. Our Childcare Center is open 7am to 6pm weekdays.

And of course we have a wonderful and

spacious wellness center with state of the art equipment, a wide array of machines to strengthen and tone the body and mind , and personal trainers to help you achieve your wellness journey. One of our qualified, energetic personal trainers is just the right fit for you if you want the extra help and encouragement to meet your fitness goals.

We offer a great assortment of group exercise classes each week. These include Les Mills Bodypump, and Bodystep, as well as CORE, Zumba, Yoga, Silver Sneakers, Cycle Blast, Pilates, Kickin it Old School, Pacers, and water aerobics (seasonally), and more!

Check out the Y website at www.palestineymca.org to download schedules and forms and keep up to date on the latest information!

Something a lot of people do not know about the Y is that we are a non-profit. We do charge memberships to be able to provide the facilities and programs to our members, guests and participants, and to create a sense of belonging. There is no contract and should you move or need to cancel, you can do that at any time. Our struggle each year is to balance our budget, pay our bills AND provide our community’s needs. We do offer scholarships to those who show a financial need. Only in very rare and extreme cases do we offer a full scholarship. We feel everyone needs to pay a portion of the expense, but we are here to help in times of job loss, health struggles, and hard times. We will find a way to help you become a part of the Y family as we know for sure that positive change happens here! We are open great hours at the Y to serve our members, guests and participants!

Monday-Thursday 5am-10pm, Friday 5am-8pm and Saturday 8am-5pm. We are closed Sunday to worship and spend time with family and friends The Y is a cause driven organization that is for youth development, healthy living and for social responsibility. Our mission is to put Christian principles such as caring , honesty, respect, and responsibility into practice through programs that build healthy spirit, mind and body for all. “It is this mission that helps unite our community and pushes each of us to make our home town a friendly, healthier, happier place to live, work, thrive and be proud of.” The generosity of others is the core of our existence. It is only through the support of our numerous volunteers and donors that we are able to give back to the communities we serve.

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HEALTHY LIFE

FIRST RESOURCE CENTER BEACON STAFF

Get involved and see what First Resource Center is doing for Anderson County. Harold Pettit, the director of the Center and Treasurer of the Salvation Army for Anderson Country, can be reached at 903.731.9270 storehouse801@embarqmail.com.

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We all need food. The process in which we do so are different from person to person, but we all need the same thing. The First Resource Center not only gives away an incredible amount of food and produce, half a million pounds a year to be exact, they equip and empower our community to learn how to live a fruitful life as well.

There are 248 food banks in East Texas.

First Resource Center has grown to number 10. They are at the front lines of fighting poverty. The poverty rate is 1:5 in Anderson County. “The root of poverty comes from family,” Harold Pettit claimed. He believes that offering food is not enough to change the community, that we must come together and stay active if we are to help the impoverished truly heal.

Walking through the building was eye-opening. Room after room held food for Palestine. As impressive as the imperishables were, the true light coming from the building

were the souls inside, volunteering their days to and shining a light to make a difference.

The message: do something. Someone said once that all evil needs to take hold of this world is for good people to do nothing. First Resource agrees. “For me, to sit back and do nothing to help is a sin in itself,” says Harold.

“No day is ever discouraging. I know how big God is.”

Between the walls of the First Resource Center are delicious food and hearts of gold.

The walls themselves, however, are just about used up. The wiring is struggling, and the cracks are beginning to pile. The vision of the Center is to move to a new building. They depend on us, the community, to keep food, trucks, and everything else coming in. Let us not stand on the sidelines as our neighbors change the world. The generous are always blessed, see what giving will give to you!

HEALTHY FOOD

REFUGE OF LIGHT

Be proud of what your fellow Palestine natives are doing in the area and beyond.

BEACON STAFF

Making this world a better place doesn’t take going to Africa. There are so many causes here in town that not only could use your help, but are in need of your attention!

Refuge of Light is undeniably a worthy platform of good.

The vision for Refuge of Light began in 2008, when Norma and Mike Melican knew they wanted to create a full time ministry involving helping young people. After hearing of the horrendous ongoings of human trafficking in the United States, they had their answer of what to make their ministry on. State officials assured the couple that a license would never be granted to them, and that opening a house for girls in need would be a long shot. They fought the uphill battle, raised money and awareness, and opened their house with a license in 2014. The location is disclosed to protect the girls in the house, to give the idea of how serious this problem is in our backyards.

Girls never expect their fate to fall into trafficking. It begins so often by someone else’s hand, and they fall further and further down this tragic hole. It is believed that roughly 200,000 children fall into human trafficking EVERY YEAR in the United States. We cannot accept that, we cannot tolerate it. However, there are folks here fighting this evil on the ground level. “These are kids, someone needs to be protecting them,” Norma shared. Light is being brought to the darkness. Many girls in the Refuge of Light has been in the program for a year and a half. An individual, whose name cannot be shared, received her GED and is enrolling for college. Another is working to earn her GED, and become an investigator to help the ones going through the same life she has come out of.

If Refuge of Light can get the money they need, they will continue sheltering these girls. With enough time for healing and

growth, we will see some real world changers out of the house. This is such a new endeavor for our country, because no one really knows how bad it’s been in our country. Girls chose to stay with the Refuge even after their nine-month program ends. Some of them have babies of their own, from pregnancies that began before their time in the house. Parenting classes are offered so these young ladies can mature into great moms themselves. There is so much more to share, and we are excited to reflect to you what this great cause is up to in the future. For more information, including how to support Refuge of Light, visit www.refugeoflight.org.

The Boutique Tree in Palestine directly helps raise funds for the house, so take a look over there. Refuge of Light is always gracious for support from the community. The backbone of the Refuge’s survival is small monthly donations by “Freedom Fighters”, and from churches in town. See if yours is involved!

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