InBound SA - Volume 2 I Issue 5

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BOBBY VAN JAARSVELD’S HEARTFELT TRIBUTE TO HIS MOM ON MOTHER’S DAY

ENTREPRENEURSHIP THE R4M BUSINESS THAT STARTED IN A GARAGE

NOMCEBO’S “IZONO ZAMI” IS BUZZING

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Editor’s Note

WHEN FAME GOES TO THEIR HEADS

YEARS AGO, I INTERVIEWED SINGER DIANA ROSS BUT WAS TOLD MINUTES BEFORE THAT I WAS TO ADDRESS HER AS MISS ROSS. I THEN TOLD HER PUBLICIST MISS ROSS WAS TO ADDRESS ME AS MR. PRINS. ANOTHER DAY, I RAN INTO THE BRITISH QUEEN, CAMILLA, AND AFTER I GREETED HER, SHE LOOKED AT ME, IGNORED ME AND WALKED AWAY.

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ome celebrities bury their fame and fortune inside their heads. And we, as fans, feed their egos with our adoration for them. Their bodyguards make them feel super important.

But billionaire’s wife and philanthropist Carolyn Steyn is different.

She has guards, assistants, pilots and quite a few staff members working in her R250 million mansion. But when she sat down with me for our cover story, she was just plain Carolyn – brilliant hosting skills and humble. Read our story about how she started 67 Blankets for Nelson Mandela Day, how Madiba saved her marriage and her explosive tell-all book.

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When you interview celebrities, they are assertive and confident as they talk about their craft. In this issue, as part of our Mother’s Day theme, we asked a few about the best advice their mothers have given them and one can read the love and respect in their answers.

Still on the subject of books, everyone is talking about Melinda Ferguson’s “When Love Kills,” based on the love life of rapper AKA. She explains why she wrote the book.

We also feature a man who, at the tender age of 46, has been on 40 holidays to Thailand. And Jerusalema’s Nomcebo shares with us the history behind her latest hit song, “Izono Zami”.

Enjoy.

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Contents May 2024

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LETTERS TO THE EDITOR

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STREAMING NOW

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COVER FEATURE: Carolyn Steyn to reveal all in explosive new memoir

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EVENTS & GIGS

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THE EDITOR’S FAVOURITE THINGS

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ENTERTAINMENT: 5 Minutes with standup comedian Celeste Ntuli

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MUSIC: Nomcebo’s Izono Zami is buzzing

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MUSIC: Know your May music history!

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ART: Emma Willemse turn trauma into exceptional art

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CELEBRITY NEWS: RHOD reality star Slee Ndlovu

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CELEBRITY TALK: The best advice I got from my mother...

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BEAUTY: Time for some skin pampering

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BEAUTY: Beauty expert Alana du Plooy

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FASHION: Bags

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FASHION: For Her - Calm the breeze with some cover-ups

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FASHION: For Him - For the fuzz, for the warmth...

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FASHION TIPS: Winter trends oversized coats, classic blazers and Mary Jane shoes

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LIFESTYLE: What your eyewear colour reveals about you

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COVER: Carolyn Steyn

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Contents May 2024

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FITNESS: The best time of day to exercise

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WELLNESS: When brothers and sisters fight

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THE LAST DESTINATION: Travel with singer Irene-Louise van Wyk

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TRAVEL: Meet the man who has been on 40 Thai holidays in 12 years.

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LOCAL TRAVEL: Napier - from arts and crafts to the finest wines

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LIVING ABROAD: Oxfordshire - A quiet lifestyle in a sleepy English village

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INTERNATIONAL TRAVEL: Mauritius to Cape Town on the Norwegian Dawn

Credits

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TRAVELLER SAFETY: Safety of women business travellers in SubSaharan Africa

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MEET THE CEO: Leadership is my style

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Q&A: UMP driving progressive change

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FINANCE: Break the grip of Black Tax

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Q&A: Sinayo diversifying into the energy sector

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BUSINESS INSPIRATION: Whycook - An award-winning food business that started in a Midrand garage

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RECIPES

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DRINKS

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TECH REVIEW: The last charger you’ll ever need

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COLUMN: Why doesn’t he call me?

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SUDOKU

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BOOK CLUB

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CONTRIBUTORS

THIS MONTH’S BURNING QUESTION… Is it more expensive to use a travel agency to book your holiday?

Jacky Dyer Jacky is sub-editor at InBound magazine and editor/writer at https://belovedmagazine.co.za.

Originally from the UK, she now resides in Cape Town.

Martin Headger Having worked for multiple publications and platforms across print, radio and digital media over the last 13 years, Martin is a journalist, turned PR powerhouse, who strives to tell stories in new ways.

Adele Camarena Adele is an eyewear stylist and optometrist who owns Spectacle World in Cape Town.

ANSWER: No! It could even be cheaper. Travel agents are paid through commissions by hotels, airlines, tour groups, cruises, etc. There are typically no expenses added by a travel agent to your costs. Some agencies ask for a service fee, which covers the cost of researching and building a vacation package, while others do not.

Also, if you’ve booked a trip with a travel agent and for whatever reason need to cancel, they might be able to help get the refund more directly.

Zaytoun Bhyat Zaytoun is a health, wellness and life coach based in Johannesburg.

Premie is a Human Resources Director and a seasoned businesswoman, specialising in fostering financial wellness and empowering human capital.

Sara Essop Sara is a travel blogger & writer at www.inafricaandbeyond.com

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LETTERS TO THE EDITOR

DISILLUSIONED IN LAGOS

OR Tambo, I cried that things I take for granted in my country are not automatically available elsewhere.

Dimakatso Motau, Pretoria

SPECIAL ASSISTANCE FAILURE

A few years ago, I did a work trip to Lagos, Nigeria. On arrival, my excitement soon faded.

Baggage trolleys had to be hired, the queue for immigration was endless and the officers were soliciting bribes. The hotel shuttle was stuck for hours in the chaotic traffic, and in the hotel, the employee serving me in the shop removed his shirt and said he was selling it, too!

I hardly slept the whole week, avoided the food and drank only Coke. On a night out, we were stopped by armed soldiers.

Returning, the shuttle left the hotel 6 hours early because of traffic. The flight was then delayed for 2 hours waiting for a dignitary to board. Landing at

A few years ago, I had a disappointing experience disembarking from a Mango Airlines flight from Johannesburg to Cape Town.

As a quadriplegic passenger, paralysed from the chest down, I had requested assistance in advance. Unfortunately, this information wasn’t communicated to Passenger Support upon landing. This resulted in a challenging situation. Since my wheelchair couldn’t fit down the aisle, I had to be physically carried off the plane, with help from my sister-in-law and a flight attendant. Additionally, being seated near the exit meant waiting until everyone else had disembarked before I could leave. Once outside the aircraft, my sister-in-law had to push me in my wheelchair and also carry our hand luggage from the plane to the building.

The entire process was not only inconvenient but also emotionally draining.

Whilma Liedeman, Cape Town

TRANSPORT TRIBULATIONS

Travelling to Cairo for work, an expeditor met me at the airport to help with translation.

When I introduced myself, he asked for my passport and walked off with it to

immigration. After a lot of talking in Arabic, the official stamped my passport and the expeditor led me to the baggage claim, still holding my passport. Outside, it was 7 am and my driver was not there. My colleague in Cairo didn’t answer the phone. I contacted my company’s local supervisor who told me to take any taxi. I had to take cash from the ATM to pay for the taxi. By now I was crying and very distressed. The expeditor found a reliable taxi driver and called him every five minutes on the journey to make sure I was safe. I also got my passport back finally.

Este Odendaal, Pretoria

HONEYMOON FROM HELL

We waited (a long time) to get married (pandemic and all). I had COVID very badly on our wedding day, which turned into a super spreader, but that’s not the worst thing. Later, on arrival at our long-awaited honeymoon destination in Mauritius, we were tested for COVID. By then, I tested negative, but my husband tested positive. He was promptly frog-marched to an “isolation room” while I was sent to our beautiful honeymoon suite. I had to bribe a waiter to show me where the isolation room was so that I could sneak my husband some beer! I spent a week on my own and flew back alone as he had to stay in isolation for an extra day!

Hanri Wondergem, Johannesburg

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SCANFOR LIFE

STREAMING NOW

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THE IDEA OF YOU on Amazon Prime The lead singer of the hottest boyband “August Moon” starts an unexpected romantic relationship with Solène, a 40-year-old single mom. Will this work out? Is this love?

Director: Michael Showalter Genre: Drama/ Romance Starring: Anne Hathaway, Nicholas Galitzine, Ella Rubin

MOTHER OF THE BRIDE on Netflix Lana’s daughter, Emma, arrives back from London with surprising news, she’s getting married next month. However, Lana’s joy is tinged with complication when she discovers that the man who has Emma’s heart is the son of the person who once shattered hers years ago.

Director: Mark Waters Genre: Comedy/Romance Starring: Brooke Shields, Benjamin Bratt, Miranda Cosgrove

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STREAMING NOW

Thelma the unicorn on Netflix When small-time pony, Thelma, aspires to music stardom, she is transformed into a unicorn in a pink and glitter-filled moment of fate.

She rises to global stardom, but finds that this new life comes at a cost.

Director: Jared Hess, Lynn Wang Genre: Adventure/Animation Starring: Brittany Howard, Will Forte, Jon Heder

BEAUTIFUL REBEL on Netflix The story of one of Italy’s greatest rock stars, Gianna Nannini, who chased her dream despite obstacles from her family and the music industry. The film traces her story from childhood to the height of her career, marked by a turning point in 1983 that throws her life into two parts. (Italian with English sub-titles).

Director: Cinzia Th. Torrini Genre: Biography/Drama Starring: Letizia Toni, Maurizio Lombardi, Andrea Delogu, Stefano Rossi Giordani

UNFROSTED: THE POP-TART STORY on Netflix A fierce rivalry between two breakfast giants, Kellogg’s and Post breaks out in Michigan in 1963. The battleground? The creation of a cake that could potentially redefine breakfast as we know it.

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COVER FEATURE

Carolyn Steyn

PIC CREDIT: KEVIN MARK PASS

TO REVEAL ALL IN EXPLOSIVE NEW MEMOIR

FROM A SURPRISE WEDDING TO A HONEYMOON THAT LASTED A DAY, TO HAVING FORMER PRESIDENT NELSON MANDELA AS A MARRIAGE COUNSELLOR, THE LIFE OF ACTRESS, PHILANTHROPIST, AND FOUNDER OF 67 BLANKETS FOR NELSON MANDELA DAY, CAROLYN STEYN, IS AS COLOURFUL AS THE TV ROLES SHE HAS PLAYED OVER THE YEARS.

BY GAVIN PRINS

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COVER FEATURE

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oday, she celebrates 10 years of driving one of the biggest charities in South Africa to honour former President Nelson Mandela and Nelson Mandela Day. She is a producer of the hit play Amadeus starring Alan Committie and is a proud patron and investor in The Devil Wears Prada which opens at the Dominion Theatre in London’s West End in October this year starring Vanessa Williams in the coveted role of Miranda Priestly with music by Sir Elton John.

But life, says Carolyn in an interview with InBound SA, has not always been a smooth ride. She is penning her memoirs in an explosive new book with a title she is keeping to herself - for now.

We sit at the Steyn mansion in Steyn City, north of Johannesburg, in the conservatory. One of three staff members keeps a close eye on my cup of coffee, making sure it is filled. “You have to try the cheesecake. It’s sugar free. I made it myself,” she says. “Really?”, I ask to which she says no. We laugh. She is a great spirit, and looks refreshed after just finishing her daily swim. Next to her is her personal assistant, Jaco Lotter.

67 blankets is born

Her eyes light up as she talks about the day the charity was born. Madiba had just passed away.

Douw, her husband, had recently come out of hospital and was recovering at home. Around the dinner table were friends, including Zelda La Grange, Madiba’s former personal assistant.

“It was a sad dinner. We shared stories about Madiba. Douw and Madiba had a father/son relationship. Douw built him a house on our game farm, Shambala. My husband used to behave around one person and one person only and that was Nelson Mandela. He was like a little boy around Madiba.”

“At one point, I was boasting about my domestic abilities of which I have none. And Zelda said, “Make 67 blankets for Mandela Day.” It was lighthearted banter – in one ear and out the other.

“Sure,” I said, “no problem.”

“Then Sharon (her sister) arrived the next day with

a bag of wool and a crochet hook, reminding me of my pledge. So, on Christmas Day, 2013, I started crocheting and realised I couldn’t make 67 blankets by myself. I turned to friends for help.

At 3 am, I put out a plea for help on Facebook.

The next day, I had more than 100 messages of support.

The concept is simple. People knit or crochet blankets in honour of Madiba and then hand them out to organisations like orphanages, hospitals and people in need. Because 67 Blankets became such a huge national drive, Carolyn needed more hands. “I went around the country scouting for ambassadors who would be able to drive the project in their respective regions. We now have 54 Ambassadors in SA and 20 globally” she says and then Jaco interrupts her.

“All in all, about 88,” “Oh, really?” she asks him, and he nods.

The ambassadors are tasked with driving 67 Blanket through initiatives, spreading the word all while keeping Madiba’s legacy intact. And so, 67 Blankets has grown into a global phenomenon.

When the Boks came back home with the Webb Ellis trophy in 2019, our KnitWits for Madiba created the biggest blanket in green and gold comprising thousands of individual blankets to honour our rugby heroes. People write songs and poems about 67 Blankets.

Carolyn’s eyes are visibly teary. “Mrs Graça Machel has been supportive of 67 Blankets since Day 1.

She loves what we’re doing. I only wish Madiba were here to witness all the beautiful work being done in his name.”

A highlight, of the project, she says, was making 350 blankets for Nazareth House, an orphanage in Yeoville, Johannesburg. “My two sisters and I went there armed with several truckloads of blankets. It was extra special because this is the orphanage where our mother, Yvonne Mazotti, was raised. It was sad but beautiful. My mother used to recount how people would come on Sundays to the orphanage to choose children.

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COVER FEATURE

Douw said, “No Madiba. I don’t expect you to fly to me. We will fly right back to South Africa.” A few hours later, we were on a plane back home so that Madiba could address Douw. That was the kind of relationship Douw had with Madiba.

He would hop, skip, and jump around Madiba. He absolutely loved Nelson Mandela.”

The book

PIC CREDIT: KEVIN MARK PASS

Our conversation turns to her tell-all book, in which she plans to write about everything from the impact her mother had on her and her life, to being arrested at a UK airport to a marriage that started with a few challenges.

occasion. My mother would always call out ‘Pick me, pick me’… She was never picked.”

Madiba - the marriage counsellor

Carolyn and Douw’s relationship with Madiba went further than just friends. She recalls one special moment in particular.

“We had just arrived in London and went to rest for a few hours. Staff knew that no phone call was to be transferred to our bedroom, even if the house was burning down. Unless, of course, it was Madiba. An hour into their sleep, the phone in their bedroom rang. “Douw woke up immediately. He answered it and Madiba was on the line, saying that he would fly to join us in London the following day because he needed to discuss something important with Douw.

Of course, I had arranged all this because of a certain issue I had with Douw’s behaviour. I just didn’t realise that Madiba would act so soon!”

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Then she gets sidetracked. “Gosh, it requires discipline to sit for 5 hours a day writing a book.”

She is certainly nervous about its contents, and says, turning to Jaco and laughing, “Sometimes I think it would be best if the book is only published after my death.”

Reflecting on her marriage, she tells us she and Douw were introduced by a mutual friend and fell in love. A few months later, on her birthday Douw arranged a party that turned out to be a surprise wedding. Carolyn fell even more in love with her husband. They flew to Spain for their honeymoon, adding to the former actress’s impression of a fairytale wedding, until her new husband’s team of lawyers insisted he return to SA immediately. On arrival the following morning, Carolyn walked into their living room at the Saxon Hotel where they were resident at the time, with the legal team insisting she sign reams of paperwork, which was the start of more to come with final divorce papers being signed just five months later. In the rush and plans for the surprise wedding, Douw had forgotten to have a notary public present, leaving the couple married in community of property. They were officially divorced in October, 2003. Douw and Carolyn remarried ten years later on February 11, 2013.

Today, Carolyn, says, she is even more in love with Douw. “Despite his health challenges, Douw has become the man of my dreams. He is kind, considerate, funny and generous. He listens to my radio show on Hot 1027FM every evening. And every single day he tells me just how much he loves me.” IB

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EVENTS & GIGS

Decorex Cape Town WHEN: 06-09 June 2024 WHERE: Cape Town Convention Centre Western Cape PRICE: from R110 Africa’s top decor and design platform brings together over 230 of the most exciting and imaginative companies from across the continent. It’s a special chance for professionals in the industry and fans of design to discover the newest trends and innovations in interior design and decoration.

Tickets at www.decorex.co.za

Thomas Anders of Modern Talking WHEN: 08 June 2024

Comrades 2024 Runner and supporter packages WHEN: 09 June 2024

WHERE: SunBet Arena at Times Square, Pretoria

WHERE: starting at the City Hall in Durban and finishing in Pietermaritzburg

WHEN: 07 June 2024

PRICE: From R595pp

PRICE: R900 - R3 000

WHERE: Picanha Grill & Brewery, 50 Springs Road, Nigel Come and enjoy a fantastic evening with us and Juanita.

The ticket price includes a 3-course meal.

Thomas Anders, renowned for his pivotal role in German pop duo Modern Talking, is gearing up for an electrifying music tour across South Africa in 2024. With a musical journey spanning four decades, Anders brings his remarkable legacy to the stage.

Join us for a hassle-free experience supporting your loved ones in South Africa’s famous race! Our package includes transport, refreshments, clean facilities, secure belongings handling, and on-site massage therapists. Stress less, enjoy more!

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PRICE: R6 500 per table

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EVENTS & GIGS

Keepers of the Groove and Vinyl Touch SA WHEN: 15 June 2024 WHERE: MEA CULPA 7 Produce St, South End, Gqeberha PRICE: R300

Swadini Gravel Grinder 2024 Peaches and Herb tickets WHEN: 15 June 2024 WHERE: Grand Arena at GrandWest, Cape Town

The Vinyl Touch SA (VTSA) is more than just a music movement; it’s a journey to transform our musical encounters. Through immersive deep house vinyl sessions, VTSA is reshaping the way we experience music while championing the vinyl culture.

PRICE: From R350

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Tannie Evita Praat Kaktus WHEN: 16 June 2024 WHERE: 8 Arcadia Street, Darling PRICE: From R250

The beloved duo Peaches and Herb, known as the Sweethearts of Soul, are coming to South Africa to perform their biggest hits like “Reunited” and “Close Your Eyes,” along with many other favourites.

Matilda The Musical WHEN: 19 June 2024 WHERE: Playhouse Company, Durban

WHEN: 15 June 2024 WHERE: Swadini, A Forever Resort, Blyderivierspoort Nature Reserve PRICE: R300 - R1 250 Swadini, A Forever Resort, welcomes cyclists to an exhilarating gravel race around the Blyde River Canyon Nature Reserve. With options to ride 60 to 70km daily or 120km, the threeday event offers flexibility, allowing participants to join for one, two, or all three days.

Free at swadinigravelgrinder2024. myactive.co.za

Chingadas Tequila Festival WHEN: 29 June 2024

Guess who’s returned? Tannie Evita is back, sporting a fresh appearance and her classic wit.

Catch her on Tannie Evita praat Kaktus, where she demonstrates that while the future may be certain, it’s the past that keeps us guessing.

PRICE: R50 - R100

WHERE: Chingadas Mexican Cantina, Walmer, Eastern Cape

Matilda The Musical, a delightful adaptation of Roald Dahl’s tale, follows the gifted Matilda as she faces neglect but uses her extraordinary abilities to confront challenges, including the formidable headmistress, Miss Trunchbull.

PRICE: R130 Get ready for a Mexican fiesta! Savour tequila, mezcal, tacos, and nachos, with tastings and street food. Dress up in Mexican style, join the bestdressed competition, and groove to live music by The Reunion. Arriba!

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THE SCIENCE BEHIND WINTER VIRUSES

Understanding How Cold Weather Affects Health

As winter approaches, so does the season of runny noses, sore throats, and sneezes. Colds and flu are more prevalent during the colder months,1a leading many to wonder why. Is the cold weather making us more susceptible to these illnesses, or are other factors at play?

1. Dry Indoor Air

When it’s cold outside, people tend to spend more time inside, creating an environment where viruses can spread more readily from person to person.1b Winter air also tends to be dry; cold, dry air can weaken resistance1c.

2. Virus Stability

Cold weather can help respiratory viruses remain stable and viable.2a This can increase the chances of infection.2b

3. Reduced Ventilation

Influenza is spread through droplets from infected people when they sneeze, talk, or cough.3a Research suggests sufficient evidence to demonstrate the relationship between ventilation and the control of airflow directions in buildings and the transmission and spread of infectious diseases.3b When the outdoor air supply is decreased in buildings, the risk of being exposed to infectious droplets released by other people indoors increases.3c Opening a window or door is the simplest and cheapest way to ventilate a space. However, it may not be possible to have windows open during the winter months. An air filter system is one technique to boost ventilation in a home without compromising thermal comfort.3d

How Cepacol® can help you and your family

Cold weather is not the only reason for winter viruses, but it’s a significant factor. The good news is that Cepacol® offers a range of solutions for cold and flu symptoms.

The Cepacol® range includes cough and cold syrup, including for nighttime relief, a throat spray and gargle; Medsip, a hot medicated drink in ginger and honey lemon flavours, and antibacterial throat lozenges in four flavours - regular, blackcurrant, honey and lemon and menthol.

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2023121310329374 References: 1.Johns Hopkins Medicine. Winter illness guide. Available from: https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/winter-illness-guide. 2. Audi A, et al. Seasonality of respiratory viral infections: Will COVID-19 follow suit? Front Public Health. 2020 Sep 15;8:567184. doi: 10.3389/fpubh.2020.567184. PMID: 33042956; PMCID: PMC7522168. Available from: https:// www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7522168/#. 3. Indoor Science. Ventilation helps reduce flu transmission. Available from: https://indoorscience.com/blog/ventilation-reduces-flu-transmission

ENTERTAINMENT

5 MINUTES WITH STANDUP COMEDIAN

Celeste Ntuli

BY TEMO MPODI

1. Comedy is so natural to you. Has it always been a childhood dream?

3. What’s “Celeste and Da Big Dudes” all about?

2. Your first quarter of the year has been quite interesting, including “The Showmax Roast of Minnie Dlamini?”

How did that go?

4. You sure do. What does the rest of year look like?

When I was young, I had no idea I would become a comedian. I didn’t even know there was such a thing called comedy. The only thing I knew for sure was that “One day I will be somebody”.

I remember the very first time I saw Whoopi Goldberg’s image in a magazine and having an inexplicable spark of recognition. I didn’t know who she was and what she was doing, but her image sent a thousand affirming words to me. It was a feeling I still can’t describe.

The Laugh Africa festival was epic for the comedy industry. The Roast of Minnie Dlamini was amazing to everyone who attended the recording, and it sure brought the heat. This was the second time in a row that I wasn’t on the roast seat, and that gave me the serenity to fully enjoy it, as if it was my first experience on the other side.

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Celeste and Da Big Dudes is a comedy show that I host. I started it last year on my birthday, and it’s even bigger in August this year, the numbers attending have grown unimaginably. I will be hosting it at the ICC Durban, Emperors Palace and Grand West Arena, and I have partnered with Doek On Fleek Lifestyle. I also have the best headline comedians. Skhumba Hlophe, Mpho Popps, Ndumiso Lindi, Mojak Lehoko, Robby Collins, Sandile Makhanya and Simphiwe Shembe.

I have a show in London on the 1st of September 2024 at Leicester Square. This will be the second time I have a show in that theatre.

5. Mother’s Day is almost here. Best advice your mother gave you?

“Be kind to yourself, others, your surroundings, and your environment.” I find that life is so much easier when we are kind, the universe sends it back to us tenfold. IB

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MUSIC

NOMCEBO’S

“Izono Zami” IS BUZZING

BY TEMO MPODI

SHE TOLD US THERE WAS A NEW SONG COMING. WE LISTENED, WE APPROVED. AND WE’RE NOT THE ONLY ONES. GRAMMY AWARD WINNER NOMCEBO’S NEW SONG “IZONO ZAMI” IS CREATING QUITE A BUZZ ON SOCIAL MEDIA. ONE TWEET SAID “NOMCEBO ZIKODE’S MUSIC IS LIFE, MAN. I MEAN THE #IZONOZAMI IS OUT OF THIS WORLD”. ALL THE COMMENTS WE CAME ACROSS HAD A POSITIVE RING TO THEM - IMPRESSIVE. ANOTHER SAID, “WAKING UP TO BEAUTIFUL MUSIC. WHAT MORE CAN YOU ASK FOR #SINGLE #IZONOZAMI. THIS WOMAN CAN SING.”

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peaking to InBound SA, she says she creates songs based on how she feels and where she is mentally. At the time, she says she was in a very dark space. “I realised that my solution to all my pain has always been praying to God. I believe He is allknowing of all our sins, pains and troubles. I wrote this song to show the masses that we are human too, but He never fails us “akehluleki”.

She appreciates that even during her break, people have been anxious to hear from her.

“It’s great to see people relate to the message in my music!”. She adds that, while she wants to represent South African sound and culture around the world, she also wants to link it to entrepreneurship. As a female record label owner, she wants to give young artists the opportunities she never had, creating a positive space for more women to be in power. Nomcebo listens to Whitney Houston, Busi Mhlongo and Tshepo

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Tshola but also has a thing for Beyonce, Teni, Khadja Nin and Salif Keita. “My favourite song right now is by Nomcebo Zikode”, she told Inbound SA. However, Nomcebo will always be remembered as the young singer who created a global hype with “Jerusalema”. Some even called it the “lockdown anthem”. Despite the global attention the song received, not to mention a whole Grammy Award, Nomcebo has remained humble. She is, after all, still a wife, a mother, a musician and a record label owner of Emazulwini Productions.

She mentions that each of these responsibilities comes with its own problems and joys, but she feels very privileged to perform her music around the world. “I feel very blessed that I have audiences in places such as France, Germany, Spain and Brazil.” IB

MUSIC

Elvis and Priscilla tie the knot King of Rock ‘n Roll Elvis Presley and his girlfriend, Priscilla Beaulieu tied the knot at the Aladdin Resort & Casino in Las Vegas on 1 May 1967 after just a short engagement. Priscilla was 21, Elvis was 32.

Many people thought their wedding was a bit sudden and Priscilla later said in an interview they had been talking about marriage for a while. The couple tried to keep their 8-minute wedding a secret from the press but eventually announced it at a press conference.

SA government bans Pink Floyd song The South African government on 2 May 1980 announced a ban on the Pink Floyd song “Another Brick in the Wall”, creating international headlines. Life imitated art in early 1980 when South African school children, fed up with an inferior apartheid-era education system, took to chanting the lyrics of Pink Floyd’s “Another Brick in the Wall (Part II).” The song, with a memorable line stating “We Don’t Need No Education,” had held the top spot on the local charts for almost three months, a total of seven weeks longer than it did in America.

Not Robert Plant

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KNOW YOUR MAY MUSIC HISTORY!

On 16 May 2019, the London Evening Standard reported that Led Zeppelin singer Robert Plant had been arrested at Atlanta Airport for being drunk and pulling a knife.

Since Plant was at his home in Wales at the time of the incident, the person arrested was a man impersonating Plant and the British paper ran an apology the following night.

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ART

Emma Willemse TURN TRAUMA INTO EXCEPTIONAL ART

HER ART IS VERY CLEAN, PECULIAR, AND UNIQUE, SOMETHING THAT CAN’T BE COPIED, MAYBE EVEN THOUGHT OF. IT HAS BEEN RECOGNISED BOTH LOCALLY AND INTERNATIONALLY. TEMO MPODI SPOKE TO EMMA WILLEMSE ABOUT THE INSPIRATION BEHIND THE ART AND HER GOALS.

1. You are an exceptional artist, art curator and educator. How did this come about?

My earliest memories are of me drawing and figuring out how to manifest the world around me in a visual way. I always wanted to become

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an artist, not only by depicting the world out there, but most of all to make a meaningful visual contribution through the interplay of the visual language and ideas. This quest came to be realised through a life-changing event.

After my first degree in Visual Art, I went

ART

seen my work earlier in the year, the organisers of the show asked me to present a show in their Special Editions section, with my suspended boat installation called Suture as the centrepiece.

I often use the boat as a metaphor for the experience of displacement, and all the boats that I have created are either broken, decayed or overladen, unable to perform their function.

Suture was exhibited in Somerset House, which is situated next to the Thames River in London, and the show included some of my collograph prints as well as my artist’s books.

through a spell where life happened, and I lost several homes consecutively. Throughout these traumatic experiences, my focus was on survival, physically and psychologically.

2. WOW! Where do you draw inspiration, and what message do you relay through your art?

Since I did my research in the early 2010’s, displacement has only become more and more relevant. It is known that the number of displaced people in the world has grown to be the greatest in human memory. Through my investigations, I have also come to the conclusion that this experience impacts all areas of our lives, so I have now widened my focus to what I believe is the zeitgeist of our times, namely the experience of loss.

4. Do you find yourself at times inspired by your own work?

Definitely. Sometimes, after I have created the work and I stand back, I become aware of unintended synergies that increase the meaning of a work. An example is the aerial views of the Stone Circle Project, which, for me relates to ancient archaeological sites. IB

I have recently also started to include ideas of restoration in my work, asking questions such as how we could commemorate through our engagements with place, how we experience a sense of place and the meanings that place generates for us.

3. I love the compassion and empathy behind it all. So, which art exhibitions do you consider the highlights of your art career?

Definitely my solo show at the 1:54 Contemporary Art Fair in London in October 2018. After having

TOP LEFT: Elegy for a deceased tree 2023, Monotype on Fabriano 71x71cm. TOP RIGHT: Suture 2018 Suspended boat installation and collagraphs at the 1:54 Contemporary African Art Fair, London. BOTTOM RIGHT: The Stone Circle Project aerial view in Riebeek Kasteel 202

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CELEBRITY NEWS

RHOD reality star

“I’M NOT BROKE AND I’M NOT A MAN-STEALER” 30 INBOUNDSA / May 2024

CELEBRITY NEWS

HER FELLOW CAST MEMBERS ON THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF DURBAN (RHOD) CALLED HER BROKE, ALWAYS BORROWING MONEY FROM FRIENDS. BUT WENDY “SLEE” NDLOVU (41) TELLS GAVIN PRINS SHE WAS NEVER BROKE, JUST FINANCIALLY OVERCOMMITTED FOLLOWING HER BREAKUP WITH AMAZULU FOOTBALL CLUB OWNER AND MILLIONAIRE SANDILE ZUNGU.

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he gets out of a sponsored vehicle as she enters the posh Maslow Hotel in Sandton where our meeting is being held. In front of me is the gorgeous former Uzalo actress Slee Ndlovu – reality star, wearing sunglasses, jeans, top, clutching a Louis Vuitton handbag. Make-up on point. No sign of poverty here.

Since then, the two have been at odds. “But I kept it cool, not losing focus of why I am doing the show. The show has taught me about myself.

Now I can keep calm, even under pressure. Jojo and Noku have been on my case since we started.

The one is always looking for drama and the other one has a limited supply of English in her vocabulary.”

We dive straight into the rumours. “Back then, I was financially overcommitted when Sandile and I split. But that gave them (fellow cast members) no right to be going into my finances.” When they broke up, Slee made sure she kept her branded clothes, her luxury car and a R300 000 limited edition Christian Louboutin handbag when she left.

Slee says she was also dragged onto social media for being nasty towards these two. “I have always said we need to address certain issues before we can be friends again.”

“I learned a few lessons from that relationship, mainly that I should be my own person in business. I worked in one of Sandile’s wedding venues. Since then, I’ve learned that I have to create my own source of income. I’ll never depend on a man again. Independence is key,” she says.

But her biggest lesson comes from RHOD – the Showmax reality show starring Noku Williams, Sorisha, Jojo Robinson, Zama Ngcobo, Ameigh Thompson, Angel Ndlela and Maria Val. It was fellow cast mate Noku, who brought her into the show, and who started the rumours that she was broke. “I never ever claimed that I was wealthy. Yes, I love beautiful things, but I never said I was a millionaire. With my breakup came some challenges. But to go and say that on TV was uncalled for. And then she accused me of talking to her husband behind her back.

Apparently, I told him that I am single and he needs to hook me up.”

Slee Ndlovu says RHOD is a great show but the drama on the show and even behind the scenes, is overwhelming. While she appreciates the friendship (with Sorisha Naidoo) she made on the show, she is considering not joining the next season.

“Sometimes I feel that I have overstayed my welcome at RHOD. I don’t want my kids (she has two from a previous relationship) to see me in all of the drama on TV. I am generally calm, but if you provoke me, you will get a reaction.”

For now, she has a new love. He lives in Johannesburg, and she is based in Durban, but the long distance makes the heart grow fonder.

As a child, Slee never went to her matric ball because her family could not afford a dress for her. Today, she regularly looks into her closets giving away branded dresses to matriculants who struggle financially. “It brings my heart joy. I live my own matric ball through the kids that I help.”

She is focusing on her new clothing line “Slee

by Slee” – easy to wear for women. It will be affordable yet stylish, she says. IB May 2024 / INBOUNDSA 31

CELEBRITY TALK

THE BEST ADVICE I GOT FROM MY

mother…

IT’S THAT TIME OF THE YEAR WHEN WE CAN GIVE OUR MOTHERS EXTRA SPECIAL ATTENTION. TO CONTINUE WITH THE THEME, WE ASKED A FEW MEDIA PERSONALITIES WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THEIR MOTHERS EVER GAVE THEM.

Solomon Cupido and Frances

“My mom said we all make mistakes. It’s how you react to the mistake you made that will tell what kind of person you are.”

Nobuhle Mahlasela and Nonhlanhla “The best advice my Mama gave me is never to judge a book by its cover, and always be kind to others.”

Loui Fish and Zelda

“My mother taught me never to look down on people. You treat people equally. From the caretaker to the president, it does not matter if people have different jobs, you treat them the same. Always help where you can because you never know what struggles the next person is going through.”

Gavin Edwards and Alta

“The best advice I’ll always remember from my mom is found in Philippians 4:13: ‘I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.’”

Bobby van Jaarsveld and Ronel

My mother helped me start my singing career. A lot of people told me it (career) is not going to work but she encouraged me to keep going. With hard work, honesty and authenticity, then people will always want to listen to you, she said. To my ma, I love you. Thank you for everything. I owe you every success that has happened in my career. Thank you for the years of touring the road with me. People were scared of you because you were so strict but I know you only protected me.

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SOME FASHIONISTAS MAINTAIN BLACK, BROWN AND WHITE ARE THE ONLY COLOURS FOR WINTER. WE SAY, WEAR WHAT YOU WANT TO WEAR. YES, WE ARE ALREADY FEELING THE WINTER CHILLS BUT NOTHING STOPS US FROM ADDING SOME COLOUR TO A GLOOMY SEASON.

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FASHION TIPS

Winter trends

OVERSIZED COATS, CLASSIC BLAZERS AND MARY JANE SHOES

Jenna McArthur, former fashion editor for ELLE magazine

1. Fashion and style are different, please break down the two for us?

Fashion is about current trends or trending items, pieces that you are wearing based on influencer content - it is temporary. Style is timeless, it’s more personal, it is what makes you have your own style ID. Style seeks quality and for me is more about classic pieces. Your style is an extension of your personality.

2. What trends are in this winter season in terms of style?

I’m trying to invest in pieces that will last and that aren’t defined by what is in and what is not.

Invest in an oversized coat this winter (80’s bold shoulder vibe), the bigger the better, a classic black blazer, natural nails, red wine slingbacks, chocolate hues, quality cashmere, and socks and Mary Janes, and a clean, slightly pointed-toe kitten heel boot.

3. What are the do’s of fashion and style this winter season?

Do layer, do leather, let outerwear be the focus of your outfit, and stick with the classic - it’s all about trying a timeless sort of elegance or opulence. This doesn’t mean unexciting clothes it just means less risk of buying things you won’t wear in a year or five.

4. What is a total no-no when it comes to winter style, what should we avoid?

Don’t try a trend that doesn’t work for your body or your personality. If your style is not yours it’s

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inauthentic and we have too much of that in this world.

5. Black, white, and nudes are well-known to be the usual winter colours. What’s your take on putting on bold colours during winter? Wrap it up for us, please.

I’m not that into bold colours - as I’ve matured I have refined my style. I love a pop of denim or cherry red or deep brown, but other colours I’m not into. I prefer to play with textures and interesting silhouettes in cream, white, black and neutrals, adding a pop of gold to my accessories. IB

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REVEALS ABOUT YOU EYEWEAR IS AS MUCH A VISION NECESSITY AS IT IS A FASHION STATEMENT. YET, THE COLOUR OF YOUR EYEWEAR SAYS A LOT ABOUT YOUR PERSONALITY. BLACK AND GOLD SCREAMS CONFIDENCE. RED COLOURS ARE USUALLY FOR THE ONES THAT THRIVE ON THE POWER OF AUTHORITY WHILE PURPLE OOZES, WELL, MYSTERY, WRITES EYEWEAR STYLIST AND SPECTACLE WORLD OWNER ADELE CAMARENA.

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n a world of fashion, your eyewear speaks volumes about your personality. Serving as a hidden messenger, it mirrors your unique style, identity, and personal traits. More than just its shape, the colour of your eyewear carries a wealth of information. Your chosen eyewear colour is a visual representation of who you are, your mood, and your ambitions. From timeless black frames to vibrant purple hues or bold red tones, each colour choice communicates distinct characteristics.

I personally gravitate more towards a pair that combines all my favourite colours such as red, blue, green, and purple into one frame. Colour holds symbolic meaning, conveying emotions, personality traits, and cultural significance in various contexts.

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LET’S LOOK AT WHAT YOUR COLOUR SAYS ABOUT YOU: RED Red embodies passion, love, power, authority, energy, and excitement. It signals to the world that you are daring, adventurous, and unafraid of challenges.

Wearing red means embracing your boldness.

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BLUE Blue conveys calmness, serenity, and harmony. It symbolises compassion, loyalty, professionalism, and trustworthiness, indicating your readiness to tackle tasks with determination and resilience.

GREEN Green symbolises nature, health, prosperity, and growth. Incorporating shades of green into your style not only honours your love for the natural world but also brings a sense of stability and grounding to those around you.

BLACK Black is considered a power colour that brings a bit of mystery and a sense of authority to its wearer. By choosing black glasses, you show the world that you are bold and strong and are not afraid to take on a challenge.

Black is simplicity, yet sophistication.

PURPLE Purple is linked with royalty, power, spirituality, mystery, creativity, imagination, peace, calm, freedom, and wisdom. It’s a standout colour often connected with creative problem-solvers who possess a distinct perspective on life. IB

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THE BEST

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IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN SAID THAT THE BEST TIME TO HIT THE GYM (OR STREETS IF ROAD RUNNING IS YOUR THING), IS IN THE AFTERNOON AS YOUR BODY’S TEMPERATURE INCREASES THROUGHOUT THE DAY, OPTIMISING YOUR MUSCLE FUNCTION AND STRENGTH. BUT PERSONAL TRAINER AND NUTRITIONIST EMMA SCHOLTZ SAYS ANY TIME OF THE DAY IS GOOD. IT ALL DEPENDS ON YOUR SCHEDULE.

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1. It is said people who exercise regularly have better mental health and emotional wellbeing.

Fitness and mental health are intrinsically linked.

Whenever we move our bodies, we are also prioritising our mental health. Exercise benefits us in physical, mental, and emotional ways. It is also an immediate release for the body which has multiple benefits such as alleviating stress, anxiety and depression. Exercise also assists in regulating our hormones, general body functions and with weight management. Working out and being mindful about nourishing our bodies are important forms of self-love that we often overlook.

2. Which exercises would you recommend for keeping both mentally and physically fit?

Any movement is “good” movement! People who move consistently in any way, shape or form experience many wellness benefits. Consistent movement results in improved sleep, decreased anxiety and depression, weight management, etc.

3. We should probably watch what we eat, right?

Choose “single ingredient,” foods. Choose options that

don’t have an ingredient list, are not processed/ preserved, and have an actual lifespan. These options will include all fresh produce (fruits and vegetables), low GI grains, legumes, nuts, and animal proteins (meat, fish, poultry). This covers all the macronutrients and micronutrients that your body needs to thrive and eliminates alcohols, sugars, and refined carbohydrates.

These are the foods that do damage to our bodies and leave us with negative symptoms such as fatigue, digestive issues, and hormone imbalances.

4. Best time in the day to exercise?

If you train first thing in the morning and your body has fasted through the night, your body will perform differently to if you train after a meal.

Some people want to train in a fasting state for the benefits of fat loss. There is most certainly something to be said for waking up early and moving first thing in the morning. Likewise, if you’ve worked an entire day and are training in the evenings after sufficient meals, your body is more likely to hold onto lean muscle mass.

This should be considered for people who have very specific goals that they want to achieve. If however, you just want to train to stay generally healthy then any time of day that best suits your schedule is absolutely perfect! IB

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WELLNESS

WHEN

brothers and sisters FIGHT

SIBLING RIVALRY IS A COMMON PHENOMENON BETWEEN BROTHERS AND SISTERS. IT REFERS TO THE COMPETITION, JEALOUSY, AND CONFLICTS THAT ARISE AMONG SIBLINGS. WHILE A CERTAIN LEVEL OF RIVALRY IS NORMAL AND CAN EVEN BE HEALTHY IF LEFT UNADDRESSED, LIFE COACH ZAYTOUN BHYAT WRITES THAT IT CAN ALSO CREATE DISTANCE BETWEEN SIBLINGS.

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everal factors contribute to sibling rivalry. Siblings often compete for their parents’ love and affection, leading to feelings of jealousy and resentment.

Differences in personality, interests, and achievements can also contribute. Siblings may compare themselves to one another and feel inadequate or overshadowed by their sibling’s successes.

Fostering a positive and supportive environment at home is essential to preventing the creation of distance between siblings. Parents should avoid favouritism and treat their children equally, otherwise it can intensify feelings of rivalry.

Parents should recognise and celebrate each child’s unique qualities and accomplishments.

Open communication is another critical element.

Parents should encourage their children to express their feelings and concerns openly and honestly. This can help diffuse tension and resolve conflicts before they escalate. Regular family meetings or discussions can allow siblings to address any issues they may have.

Encouraging cooperation and collaboration helps prevent rivalry. Parents can promote activities

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SIBLINGS NEED TO LEARN HOW TO MANAGE CONFLICTS CONSTRUCTIVELY AND FIND PEACEFUL RESOLUTIONS. that require teamwork, such as playing board games or engaging in group projects. This helps siblings learn to work together, appreciate each other’s strengths, and build a sense of camaraderie. By focusing on shared goals and fostering a sense of unity, siblings can develop a stronger bond and minimise feelings of competition.

Parents can also teach their children conflictresolution skills. Siblings need to learn how to manage conflicts constructively and find peaceful resolutions. Parents can guide effective communication, negotiation, and compromise, which will empower them to address conflicts and prevent them from escalating into longlasting disagreements that create distance.

Lastly, parents should prioritise spending quality time with each child individually. This helps create a unique bond between parent and child, strengthening the parent-child relationship.

When children feel valued and cherished by their parents, they are less likely to seek validation and attention through competing with their siblings. Regular one-on-one time also allows parents to understand their child’s individual needs and concerns.

Sibling rivalry is not uncommon, but parents can foster a positive and harmonious environment among their children by understanding the causes of rivalry and implementing strategies to prevent creating distance. By treating each child equally, promoting open communication, encouraging cooperation, teaching conflict resolution skills, and prioritising individual quality time, parents can minimise rivalry and help siblings develop a solid and supportive relationship that lasts a lifetime. IB

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THE LAST DESTINATION

TRAVEL WITH SINGER

Irene-Louise van Wyk The last country I travelled to was…

Paris, France.

What I loved about the country… was

My next destination... I will be doing a show in Namibia but will be going back to Paris next year as well as another new destination that I can’t talk too much about yet! IB

the European culture and architecture.

The people were… well, most European people do have a bad reputation for being a bit rude but I try and look past that and they usually end up being a lot friendlier.

4 items I never travel without

I found the food… to be always delish!

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What I found challenging was navigating the trains!

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1.

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Power Bank and charger is a must!

CALCVITA, or any immune booster. It’s so important to keep your immune system on track with the travelling.

Comfortable shoes.

My RINX perfume.

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MEET THE MAN WHO HAS BEEN ON

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TRAVEL

Faiek A

bad er wi th

tw o of e th s ocal ai l Th

FAIEK ABADER (46) IS AN INVESTOR WHO SOMETIMES LOSES COUNT OF HOW MANY RENTAL PROPERTIES HE HAS. HE WORKS IN HIS CAPE TOWN OFFICE FOR TWO MONTHS, AND THE NEXT, HE IS ON AN EXOTIC ISLAND FOR A MONTH. NOT BAD FOR A MAN WHO STARTED WORKING AS A CAB DRIVER. A CLIENT ONCE ENCOURAGED HIM TO INVEST IN PROPERTY. NOW AND AGAIN, FAIEK CHECKS IN TO SEE HOW HIS MONEY IS GROWING. AND FOR THE REST, HE TELLS GAVIN PRINS, IT’S PIÑA COLADAS AND OTHER ISLAND DELICACIES AS HE LIES ON SOME BEACH, SOMEWHERE.

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our life is insanely amazing!

How did it all start?

After matric, I went to UWC to study law but was not accepted. So, I did a B.Com in Business. My father paid my registration fee and from there on, I was on my own with no financial support. I immediately got a job at Pick ‘n Pay, working weekends and holidays. I covered the rest of my fees with a student loan. In my second year, I started to drive a meter taxi.

At 19 years old?

Yes. I had to have been the youngest meter taxi driver in Cape Town at that time. I made my money by getting lost with the people and not knowing where I was going as there was no internet, no cell phones and no Google Maps. But I did have a map book. I was not the brightest at reading a map and needless to say my driving skills were pathetic. Before this, I had failed my driver’s licence twice. But after a year or so, I managed to buy my own car, while still working at Pick ‘n Pay for R250 a week. Seven years later, I had 50 taxis on the road.

How did the property business start?

I picked up a rider one evening and he encouraged me to start investing in property. He

was a lawyer who bought properties and then rented them out. I set a goal for myself – to have more rental properties than birthdays. That goal has already been reached.

How did your obsession with Thailand start?

The very first time I went overseas I was 35 years old and I went to Pattaya, Thailand. I’ve been to Thailand probably about 40 times in the last 12 years. I go every 3 months. Bangkok and Pattaya are my favourite cities. The Asian beauties are just out of the world gorgeous. All you need to have is deep pockets and they will treat you like a king.

Another city I have visited 6 times is Ho Chi Minh City in Vietnam. I would be lying if I said I went back every time for the culture. I was there on my birthday in 2019 and ran into the most beautiful woman in the world. Talk about luck! Hence me going back another 5 times.

Where are you heading to next?

The next place I’d like to explore is South America. I want to go to Panama, Colombia and Brazil. I‘ve met plenty of Asian people and now I want to meet some Latinas. Just thinking about it puts a smile on my face. IB May 2024 / INBOUNDSA 55

LOCAL TRAVEL

Peace Valley Guest House

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LOCAL TRAVEL

Napier

FROM ARTS AND CRAFTS TO THE FINEST WINES

BY JACKY DYER I FIRST CAME TO NAPIER IN 2016 WHEN VISITING SOUTH AFRICA ON HOLIDAY. AN OLD UNIVERSITY FRIEND FROM THE UK, LORNA YOUNG, HAD MIGRATED HERE AFTER LIVING AND WORKING IN BOTSWANA FOR FIVE YEARS, AND WE HAD NOT SEEN EACH OTHER FOR A LONG TIME. BACK IN THE EARLY 2000S, LORNA HAD PURCHASED A STUNNING ESTATE IN NAPIER, A SMALL TOWN IN THE OVERBERG LOCATED BETWEEN CALEDON AND BREDASDORP. SHE SET IT UP AS A GUEST HOUSE CALLED PEACE VALLEY, A 4-STAR ACCREDITED PROPERTY WITH INDEPENDENT, SELF-CATERING ACCOMMODATION ONSITE. IT’S A STUNNING AND TASTEFULLY DECORATED HOME WHICH CAN SLEEP UP TO 8 PEOPLE.

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he town of Napier dates back to 1838 and was founded from a dispute between two neighbours over the proposed location of the community church. When neither would budge, two churches were built- one in what is now Bredasdorp, and the other in what grew to be Napier, named after the British Governor of the Cape Province at that time, Sir George Thomas Napier.

On my first visit, Napier was a sleepy little agricultural town, a main road with the church, a petrol station, a supermarket and a few antique shops and cafes. Over the last 8 years, it has expanded, and new developments are being built all around as people take advantage of the much lower land and property prices here than in the Cape Town hinterland. The population expansion has also led to a larger number of visitor-oriented amenities.

are looking for antique or second-hand furniture, exquisite hand-made jewellery, local wines, second-hand books or arts and crafts. There is a reasonable choice of eateries and a well-stocked supermarket and liquor store.

Bredasdorp, 16km away, boasts a wider selection of restaurants, a shopping mall, a hospital and other amenities. Moving south from Bredasdorp, another 30km takes you to Cape Agulhas, the Napier main road and church

Napier -a tourism hub for the Overberg Anyone visiting the Overberg and staying in Napier would be well placed to explore the area, or even to break the journey east towards Mossel Bay and the Garden Route.

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southernmost point of Africa, and the summer tourist spots of Struisbaai and Arniston. Popular pastimes include bird-watching and whalewatching (July-December).

Stop off on the way to see the historic village of Elim, order a spectacular platter and some wine-tasting at the divine Black Oystercatcher wine farm, or visit the exquisite Die Mond Nature Reserve.

Die Mond Nature Reserve

Recommendations

Napier and Agulhas Municipality are certainly on the tourist radar these days, but the area remains largely unspoilt and is best visited in the spring or autumn to avoid the seaside crowds.

If driving from Cape Town, make a diversion on the return trip to lunch at Stanford Manor, or at one of the classy eateries in Hermanus. Then take the coast road back to the Mother City and enjoy spectacular views. IB

Accommodation:

Peace Valley Guest House Wouter St., Napier 7270 www.peacevalleyguesthouse.co.za

Restaurants:

Suntouched Inn 58 Sarel Cilliers St, Napier, 7270 www.suntouchedinn.co.za Napier Farmstall 106 Sarel Cilliers St, Napier, 7270 Pascal’s of Napier 48, Sarel Cilliers St, Napier, 7270 www.pascals.co.za

Going in the opposite direction, the famous Robertson Wine Valley is a 75- minute drive away and makes for a great day out with river cruises, wine tastings and an olive farm.

Robertson Wine Valley

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The Black Oystercatcher Wine Farm Moddervlei Farm, Elim www.blackoystercatcher.co.za Stanford Manor Estate www.stanfordhills.co.za

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LIVING ABROAD

Name: PJ Wooldridge Current residence: Shrivenham, Oxfordshire, UK Born: Vanderbijlpark, South Africa Occupation: Solutions Director, 1218 Global

PJ Wooldridge and his husband, Steven Maguire and Max

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LIVING ABROAD

Oxfordshire A QUIET LIFESTYLE IN A SLEEPY ENGLISH VILLAGE

THE COUNTY OF OXFORDSHIRE IS KNOWN FOR ITS PLEASANT COUNTRYSIDE AND QUAINT VILLAGES, AS WELL AS BEING THE SETTING FOR ONE OF THE MOST FAMOUS EDUCATIONAL INSTITUTIONS IN THE WORLD, THE UNIVERSITY OF OXFORD, DATING BACK TO THE 11TH CENTURY.

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ow long have you been living in Oxfordshire and why did you move there?

My other half who is British, moved to SA, where we settled without considering immigrating, after we got married in 2015. However, because of career progression and the need for international exposure in my work environment, we moved to the UK in October 2021. I had worked in the recruitment industry for 14 years and was offered a great opportunity in the RecTec space which I could not refuse. This gave me a broader perspective on the world out there, and I’m still learning every day. We chose Oxfordshire rather than an international city like London because I wanted to experience true English culture. A lot of our South African friends live in London, but because my other half is from England we moved closer to his hometown, where we were fortunate to be surrounded by a support structure (local friends). We live in a ‘sleepy’ English village where life typically slows down, but we have great transport links to the local town and surrounding cities as well as the Cotswolds.

What do you love about English culture?

As I said, my other half is a Brit and I have already been exposed to English culture for almost 10

years now, so it is something I am used to. I love the English sense of humour and the banter, but also their rich history and the beautiful architecture the country has to offer. The people are extremely friendly (especially in our village) and if you make the effort to integrate, you are well accepted into the community.

What was your biggest adaption when you moved there?

The biggest adaption was definitely the weather, it takes some getting used to. It’s nice to have four separate seasons but you are not guaranteed a warm summer. Our first summer was the UK’s hottest since 1976, which was fantastic, however the following year, I very quickly learned that the UK has very unpredictable weather (ask our miniature Schnauzer, Max, he tells us off every day for the amount of rain he has to endure since we moved here).

What do you love about the food in the area you in are now?

I do miss eating lamb and steak on a regular basis, as it is very expensive here in England; however, I do enjoy chips, curry sauce and a battered sausage or a doner kebab after a night out at the pub. The curries are also fantastic due to the large Asian community living in the UK. May 2024 / INBOUNDSA 61

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St. Andrew’s Church, one of Shrivenham’s historical landmarks.

What do you find most challenging in this village/city/town you live in?

The village doesn’t have a local ‘chippy’ or kebab van, we need to travel into town to enjoy these treats,. Then there’s the fact that after 3 years we still haven’t seen real snow … but other than that, nothing really.

What do you miss about South Africa?

Food, family, friends, weather and the culture.

South Africa will always be home (we are fortunate enough to travel back regularly). I miss the fact that going out is much cheaper, and spending weekends at the Cape wine farms, nothing beats a good bottle of South African wine on a wine farm while enjoying the beautiful scenery.

What do you do when you miss South Africa?

I love cooking when I am not working and typically spoil friends or neighbours with a home-

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cooked meal, especially a good Bobotie which most of our British friends love. Alternatively, I’ll visit the local South African shop (they are everywhere) and buy biltong, boerewors and Castle Lites and enjoy a braai if the weather is half decent.

Any advice to someone who is thinking about emigrating to the UK?

Firstly, the visa fees are very expensive, but you can save money by applying for visas directly yourself and not using an immigration consultant. We submitted my spousal visa application directly and had no issues, the online application is straightforward and selfexplanatory. Secondly, consider where in the UK you want to live: look outside London, salaries might be a little lower, but housing/rents are generally much cheaper so your salary will go much further. The English countryside is beautiful, and I’d recommend village living if you are looking for a quieter lifestyle. IB

INTERNATIONAL TRAVEL

Mauritius to Cape Town

ON THE NORWEGIAN DAWN

BY SARA ESSOP

IT WAS SIR FRANCIS DRAKE WHO SAID: “IT ISN’T THAT LIFE ASHORE IS DISTASTEFUL TO ME. BUT LIFE AT SEA IS BETTER.” IF THIS WAS HOW SIR FRANCIS FELT IN THE 16TH CENTURY, DESPITE HIS HARDSHIP-FRAUGHT VOYAGES, I WONDER WHAT HIS TAKE WOULD BE ON LIFE AT SEA THESE DAYS, WITH ALL THE COMFORTS AND LUXURIES PROVIDED BY MODERN-DAY CRUISES.

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ruising offers a blissful escape from the hustle and bustle of daily life.

The soft caress of the ocean breeze, the mesmerising sound of waves against the ship’s hull and the sight of the endless horizon before you create a serene symphony for the soul. There is a sense of freedom in watching the world pass by–a feeling of time slowing down as you immerse yourself in the beauty of the ocean.

The cruising industry in South Africa has boomed over the past decade despite our choices being limited mainly to Mozambique and Namibia. This range of options just got a lot wider with the introduction of affordable Norwegian Cruise Lines

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(NCL) sailings between Cape Town and Mauritius.

The cruise line made its South African debut last year with the Norwegian Jade’s 12-day journeys around the coast of South Africa and Namibia.

This year, it returned with the Norwegian Dawn and a variety of itineraries covering a combination of Mauritius, Reunion Island, Madagascar, Namibia and South Africa.

Port Louis to Réunion

I boarded the Norwegian Dawn with my family in Port Louis, Mauritius, after spending three idyllic days on the island. It was my fourth cruise, although it was my first time on NCL. The atmosphere on the ship was festive as we prepared to embark on our journey, with many

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of our fellow travellers—who were predominantly from the USA, UK and Australia—heading to South Africa for the first time.

Embarcation was quick, and we headed directly to our ensuite balcony cabin to drop off our hand luggage. Our suitcases were already waiting for us, and so was our friendly Indonesian cabin steward, Bambang. Afternoon sunlight bathed the room in a golden glow, creating a warm and cosy atmosphere. In the room, there was a bed, a sofa converted into a pull-out bed for my son, a

wardrobe, a television, and a dressing table.

Picturesque views of Port Louis Harbour beckoned us from the balcony, and we enjoyed the vista for a while before heading out to explore our temporary home until it was time for dinner.

We were spoilt for choice, with over a dozen restaurants offering tantalising meal options, including Italian, French, Mexican, and Japanese cuisine. However, for our first night, we opted for the generous spread at the Garden Café buffet.

Norwegian Cruise Line is known for its freestyle concept, which means guests are not restricted to strict dining times, tables, or dress codes, unlike many other cruise lines. We loved the freedom to eat whenever we liked, wherever we wanted, and to dress as casually as we liked. Many of our fellow cruisers declared that they were loyal to Norwegian for this reason, while others loved how they catered for solo travellers.

After dinner, we began sailing away from the harbour into the horizon, and our voyage began.

Closing the curtains on Mauritius, we tucked in for an early night as the ship gently rocked us to sleep, and we awoke to a beautiful dawn in

Réunion. I was elated, as the French island had been on my bucket list for a while.

We headed out to explore Reunion, driving past breathtaking vistas and landscapes en route to the iconic Piton de la Fournaise, one of the world’s most active volcanoes, which erupts multiple times a year. A traditional Creole lunch followed the visit before we bid au revoir to the island and returned to our ship.

Réunion to South Africa

Logistical issues shortened our trip by two days, which resulted in the omission of Madagascar from our itinerary, and we proceeded to South Africa, where we would arrive after three days at sea.

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in meticulous detail, was left outside our room door every evening. It contained information on the port to be visited, the weather forecast, and a schedule of entertainment and events planned for the following day, among other things.

While some passengers preferred to relax at the poolside or soak in the hot tubs, we attended workshops, trivia games, art auctions during the day, and theatre events at night, where comedians, magicians, acrobats and musicians entertained us.

the ocean changed hues continuously. It never ceased to fascinate me. Occasionally, I managed to get gloriously pampered at the Mandara Spa. While my husband and I were otherwise occupied, my son had fun playing games at the Video Arcade. Younger kids are catered for with the Splash Academy Youth Centre and the Entourage Teen Club.

The East Coast to Cape Town

In Richards Bay, our port excursion led us to Isimangaliso Wetland Park, South Africa’s first UNESCO World Heritage site, where many of our companions had their first taste of a safari, and Cape Vidal, where the snorkelers among us had a ball.

Gqeberha was next on our route, and we headed to Addo Elephant National Park, where we saw elephants en masse and other wildlife. I had last been there 18 years ago!

Our penultimate stop was Mossel Bay, where we rubbed shoulders with residents of The World, the largest private residential yacht on Earth, who were also docked there. For our excursion, we chose to do a panoramic tour of the coastal town, while others opted for yet another safari in a nearby game reserve.

The ten days flew by, and as the cruise approached its terminus in Cape Town, a sense of excitement filled the air among most passengers who had never set foot in the Mother City. The ship docked overnight in the Cape Town harbour, allowing them to discover the city’s many wonders before disembarking and going their own way the following morning. IB

One morning, the general manager gave us a comprehensive behind-the-scenes tour of the ship. It was fascinating to learn how much work goes into the smooth running of such a huge operation.

In between activities, I loved walking on the open deck or sitting on my balcony captivated by the continuously changing scenes before me – as day turned to night, as sea views changed to harbour views, as ports, cities and countries altered and as

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DID YOU KNOW?

A large ship on a seven-day cruise, can use over 45000 eggs, 8160kg of coffee and 4080kg of lettuce! Oh, did we mention they also use 20 000 ice cream cones?

(Reference: lifewellcruised.com)

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TRAVELLER SAFETY

SAFETY OF

women business travellers

IN SUB-SAHARAN AFRICA INTERNATIONAL SOS RECENTLY RELEASED ITS SUB-SAHARAN AFRICA: TRAVEL SECURITY RISKS FOR WOMEN REPORT FOR ITS CLIENTS, WITH A SERIES OF TIPS SHARED FOR WOMEN INTENDING TO TRAVEL TO SUB-SAHARAN AFRICA – AND WHAT COMPANIES CAN DO TO SUPPORT THEM.

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ravel statistics reveal that last year, women made up some 64% of all travellers globally. However, females face unique and heightened challenges compared to other traveller groups, including sexual harassment, criminality, and social, cultural and religious norms.

Across Africa in particular, women often face greater exposure to certain risks and are also perceived as easier targets. According to Salome Odhiambo, Lead Security Analyst, East & Southern Africa at International SOS, given that women are disproportionately affected when travelling, especially in sub-Saharan countries, if a company is sending them on work-related events, they should be assessing all threats posed to their workforce.

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Tools available to help

“Not only should your employees who travel be made aware of the relevant risks, but they should also know what tools are available to help them manage these risks.

“Many businesses still do not consider whether their workforce has the correct support during travel, from vetting transportation and accommodation options as well as ensuring there are reliable communications. Additionally, ensuring travellers know who to contact in the event of an emergency is vital, and this means clearly communicating roles and responsibilities to relevant stakeholders in your organisation as well,” she says.

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• Odhiambo adds that such measures are even more required when a company is sending transgender women and other members of the LGBTQ+ community on business travel.

TRAVELLERS SHOULD BE MADE AWARE OF THE RELEVANT RISKS AND THE TOOLS TO HELP THEM MANAGE THESE RISKS...

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• “For example, we know that some local police on the continent may ignore crimes committed against transgender women and in other cases, reporting an incident may result in prosecution, extortion, or deportation of the transgender woman – so is your business prepared for this and have the proper procedures been put in pace for your employees that may be affected?

“As business travel opportunities become more prevalent within a company, do not merely examine this from a time or work perspective, but consider what this means for the company’s policies, approach and protection boundaries available for all employees, and especially female ones,” Odhiambo adds.

Key recommendations arising from the International SOS report, include: Assess the risks posed to workforce based on the location specific risks, and the travellers’ profile and itinerary.

Travellers should be made aware of the relevant risks and the tools to help them manage these risks, such as International SOS’ e-learnings and location guides.

Businesses should reconfirm the comfort levels of travellers prior to travel and reassess travel requirements, where issues arise.

Confirm that workforces have adequate support during travel to enable them to conduct business safely and successfully.

Ensure travellers know who to contact in the event of an emergency – incountry and at the company they are representing.

Ensure incident management protocols are in place for a variety of scenarios, including incidents of sexual assault and harassment. This should include early engagement of legal representation and of the police and plans for management of the welfare of the assaulted person.

Clearly communicate requirements for travel for your female employees, for example, local dress codes or local crime hotspots to avoid or whether they can take advantage of things like womenonly or women-driven taxis.

Familiarise all your staff with your organisation’s incident report protocols in the event of a security incident or an emergency when travelling.

Do research and take added precautions

“As a woman, if you are planning to travel, it’s important to do your research and take added precautions. From a business perspective, having an advisory partner that can clearly help you understand how women’s profiles can impact their risk exposure can better ensure their safety and organisations better execute their duty of care,” concludes Odhiambo. IB May 2024 / INBOUNDSA 69

MEET THE CEO

Name: Kevin Lennett Company: The Crazy Store Duration: 12 years Staff: 3 000

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MEET THE CEO

Leadership is my style BUT ON OCCASION, ONE MUST MANAGE

AFTER 20 YEARS OF BEING MANAGING DIRECTOR AT SPORTSMAN’S WAREHOUSE, KEVIN LENNETT TOOK A GAP YEAR. A FRIEND OF HIS HEARD THAT THE CRAZY STORE WAS LOOKING FOR A CEO AND SUGGESTED THEY CONTACT KEVIN. THE REST, HE SAYS, IS HISTORY.

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hey say there is a difference between being a manager and a leader. Which one are you?

Textbook question! Leadership is key, but so is doing. So, leadership is my style and focus but on occasion, one must manage.

A stranger sits next to you and asks what your company does. What would you say?

We are a discount variety store.

What is the biggest misconception about your company?

People perceived our brand as selling “cheap” products. Over time we have convinced our customers that we sell products at excellent value, rather than cheap.

Is having a micromanager in the office a bad thing?

There is room for all types in every organisation.

Often it is role dependent. I do not believe there is a right or wrong answer to this – it comes down to the task at hand. Ideally, you would prefer not to rely on micromanagement.

When you go on holiday, does the laptop go with?

The laptop stays at home. If there is a crisis, I am available via my cell phone. I know we have a

great team behind our brand who can more than adequately run the business without me.

What is the biggest crisis you have had to deal with as CEO?

Covid. We all experienced this crisis. The key was to keep planning for the future and moving forward. Standing still would have been a disaster.

A colleague is not meeting targets.

What is the first thing you do to handle this situation?

We handle this together to understand the factors at play before making any assumptions.

Thereafter we come up with an action plan.

What is your vision as CEO?

To provide a stable, happy and growing work environment, as well as internal promotion opportunities. Ultimately, we want our staff to progress and grow within our company.

Sometimes that means they leave and join other companies as a result of what they have learned with us – if so, we are happy that we played a role in that person’s career advancement. IB

CHARITIES THEY SUPPORT • •

The Red Cross Children’s Hospital The Animal Anti-cruelty League

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Q&A: UNIVERSITY OF MPUMALANGA

UMP driving PROGRESSIVE CHANGE PROF THOKO MAYEKISO VICE-CHANCELLOR AT THE UNIVERSITY OF MPUMALANGA

PROF THOKO MAYEKISO, VICE-CHANCELLOR AT THE UNIVERSITY OF MPUMALANGA (UMP) TALKS TO INBOUND SA ABOUT THE PIONEERING JOURNEY OF UMP, WHICH SPEAKS TO SOUTH AFRICAN REALITIES AND ENABLES TANGIBLE SOLUTIONS.

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hat are your thoughts on the role of higher education institutions in addressing the challenges South Africa faces, and also placing SA on the map in terms of being a country of innovation and talent?

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Q&A: UNIVERSITY OF MPUMALANGA

Universities are, by definition, social institutions.

As learning centres, they are established to be at the forefront of identifying their societies’ social and economic developmental challenges and opportunities. As social institutions, they tend to reflect their societies. This is precisely why the University of Mpumalanga was intentional from the get-go that it would become an authentic African University. A University that recognises, affirms, and welcomes the African experience and context in the academic project. UMP encourages and fosters an innovative and entrepreneurial approach, and it also keeps a close eye on sustainable development goals to engage with issues informed by where the world is headed.

Tell us a bit about the impact of UMP.

UMP is significantly contributing to socioeconomic development through job creation and education. UMP has enrolled 10 041 students in 2024, and 86% come from the Province of Mpumalanga. We have graduated 4 485 (2 861 females and 1 624 males), and 125 of them graduated cum laude. Many of these students are employed in the Province of Mpumalanga, and many others are pursuing postgraduate studies.

Additionally, UMP has established the Centre for Entrepreneurship Rapid Incubator (CFERI) to

AT UMP, WE AIM TO PRODUCE INNOVATIVE AND ENTREPRENEURIAL GRADUATES WHO ARE INTELLECTUALLY CURIOUS, INDEPENDENT, CREATIVE THINKERS, AND ABLE TO INNOVATE

BY APPLYING THEIR KNOWLEDGE AND SKILLS TO SOLVE NOVEL AND ROUTINE PROBLEMS FOR SUSTAINABLE DEVELOPMENT.

promote entrepreneurship and creative problemsolving in staff and students. The Centre plays a pivotal role in imparting the entrepreneurship DNA to students, regardless of their field of study.

At UMP, we aim to produce innovative and entrepreneurial graduates who are intellectually curious, independent, creative thinkers, and able to innovate by applying their knowledge and skills to solve novel and routine problems for sustainable development. In support of the entrepreneurship drive, UMP is a member of a consortium of nine Asian universities.

Opportunities such as WIL (Work Integrated Learning) and leadership vacancies created by industry assist in improving learners’ preparedness for the world of work and improve their chances of absorption by the constrained markets.

Through initiatives like ENACTUS, UMP students’ innovative and entrepreneurial competencies are enhanced.

What do you attribute UMP’s incredible growth over the past decade to?

The key drivers of the UMP’s growth are the state-of-the-art facilities and iconic infrastructure with the latest teaching, learning, and research technology.

The University is committed to the holistic development of students, and we endeavour to enable our students to realise their full potential across the spectrum of cognitive, social, aesthetic and personal dimensions in pursuit of democratic citizenship. The reputation of the institution in producing well-rounded students is growing. As a comprehensive institution, the University offers academic programmes ranging from Higher Certificates to Doctoral Degrees.

We offer career-oriented, professional and general formative qualifications to enhance the employability of our students. Therefore, the University is offering both access and articulation possibilities. The University has highly qualified academic staff, 52% of whom have doctoral degrees. All these factors coalesce to create a conducive ecology, contributing to the overall culture of excellence the University engenders in staff and students.

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What are some of the highlights?

They are as follows: • The opening of the Tfokomala Hotel and Conference Centre, a 4-star Hotel, at the Mbombela Campus will provide experiential learning opportunities for students registered for the Diploma in Hospitality Management.

• Student numbers increased from 169 in 2014 to 10 041 in 2024.

• The increase in academic programmes from three in 2014 to 72 in 2024 (2 Higher Certificates, 6 Diplomas, 7 Advanced Diplomas, 4 Postgraduate Diplomas, 14 Bachelor’s Degrees, 20 Honours Degrees, 14 Masters Degrees, and 5 Doctoral Degrees).

• Our research performance was recognised by the National Research Foundation through the National Research Foundation Acceleration Awards in 2022 and the National Research Foundation CEO’s Special Recognition Award in 2023.

• We won the Standard Bank Top Women Business Icons 2022 – An Honorary Legend of Empowerment and Transformation.

• We received the Built Environment Award from the Council for the Built Environment in 2023 in the category, “State-Owned Entity That Implemented Infrastructure Projects Timeously”.

• We have received unqualified (clean) audit opinions from the External Auditors for nine consecutive years since inception in 2014.

• Our pass rate has consistently been between 80% and 85%.

What lessons can other institutions, businesses, and governments learn from UMP regarding enabling growth?

A compelling vision, followed by a clear mission and strategic objectives set a tone for the institution to grow. Over and above that, adherence to values cascaded throughout the institution makes it possible for staff and students to pull in the same direction. A culture of excellence – and human relations informed by empathy and trust have enabled growth.

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A pioneering leader at the helm UMP has achieved much since its inception. Having previously held leadership positions such as heading up academic departments in already established educational institutions, what has the journey been like for you to be at the helm of driving growth at a newly established institution?

When I took the leadership role at UMP on 1 November 2014, I was acutely aware of the enormous responsibility and privilege of being a pioneering leader at the newly established University. The enormity of the task did not escape me, and my commitment to the pioneering project was unwavering. It was evident that one would need to approach this task of being at the institution’s helm with unfettered imagination and compassion. The challenge to leave footprints and prints on hearts was as exciting as it was daunting.

There was no question that my vision would come to fruition. I would have to bring an attitude of wholeness and sufficiency to this task, as well as a mindset of abundance.

There will always be one Founding ViceChancellor, and it is a humbling experience to be part of the pioneering journey, “luhambo lwemhlahlandlela”.

How has your leadership style enabled growth?

My leadership style has enabled growth at UMP. During my inauguration on 30 May 2015, I made the following statement:

“Pioneers have to build a firm foundation, mindful that what they are creating should be durable, marketable, sustainable and enduring.

Generations yet unborn must find a thriving university, one they will be proud to join, because we who pioneered it laid a firm foundation and got into this immense project with body, mind and soul”.

These words spurred us on and had a prophetic ring about them.

As a registered Clinical Psychologist, I knew well that it took courage for students and staff to join a new institution. My responsibility was to ensure that I nurtured their confidence – that innermost strength of believing in themselves. At the outset,

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excellence would have to be the institution’s lifeblood. I had to remember that for others to buy into this great opportunity of being trailblazers at UMP, the tone should be set at the leadership level. Trailblazing, pathfinding and pathbreaking would have to be part and parcel of our fabric. The unique attributes of pioneers, namely, resilience, vision, grit and determination, would form a considerable part of our approach.

Building trust, welding a team and dealing with conflicts are inevitable matters when working with people. The listening ear approach stood me in good stead as I worked with staff and students.

The key to being a responsive Vice-Chancellor lies in the so-called three L’s: listen, learn, and lead.

The challenge is to balance empathetic listening and learning with acting. It is essential to listen to all the voices on campus and to listen with empathy. Whilst tuned in and having empathy, I am conscious of holding others accountable. Many years of leading and managing have taught me that one size does not fit all. Being amenable to persuasion by others when their points of view had merit was necessary.

Humans are individuals, and it is, therefore, vital that you meet them at their uniqueness.

Emotional intelligence, having purpose and passion, and being informed by possibility go a long way. I found it quite helpful to keep asking myself, “What am I doing here?” and ‘’What is my purpose?” to keep the focus on what needed to be done and not to be distracted.

Being consistent and treating all staff equally have proved helpful. Exuding excellence, insisting on excellence and having the courage to hold each of us accountable have been powerful tools on our pioneering journey.

I have realised that the University community wants to see their Vice-Chancellor, and they want to know her. Therefore, no event is too trivial or unimportant not to justify the Vice-Chancellor’s presence. I have been consistently visible.

Yes, we know that there are not enough hours in the day. It is essential that effort be made and the Vice-Chancellor be accessible to the University community. The message conveyed to the University community, especially to students, is

that my door is open, and there is no need to kick it.

What were some of the most challenging aspects of running a new public university, and how did you overcome these challenges?

Growing our academic offerings from the three programmes launched in 2014 and broadening our Programme Qualification Mix required our urgent attention. We had to work closely with the Department of Higher Education and Training (DHET), the Council on Higher Education (CHE), the South African Qualifications Authority (SAQA) and several higher education institutions nationally and internationally. We were, therefore, juggling many balls in the air. We had to multitask and perform different roles at the same time.

When one sees the iconic infrastructure of the University and the vast expanse of land it now occupies, one tends to forget the pangs and pain of pioneering. The pressures from some organisations and communities threatened to scupper our plans. We remained resolute and unwavering, ensuring that our new infrastructure programme continued without interference.

Universities are about profile, reputation and branding. Loyalty to a brand, commitment and pride are not automatic processes. The t-shirts worn on the third Friday of every month by both staff and students with the tagline, “I love my campus: UMP My Campus My Pride“, is a campaign which was introduced in 2017. Loving the beautiful campus, jealously guarding it and being proud of it runs in our students and staff’s arteries and veins.

What is your most outstanding achievement to date, and what legacy would you like to leave?

My most outstanding achievement is the solid foundation that has been laid for the University to achieve its strategic intent: “To be an African University leading in creating opportunities for sustainable development through innovation”.

We take pride in the tremendous accomplishments the University has made in the past ten years and envisage a pathway to success for many years to come. IB May 2024 / INBOUNDSA 75

FINANCE

BREAK THE GRIP OF

“Black Tax”

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FINANCE

SUCCESSFUL BLACK PROFESSIONALS OFTEN FIND THEMSELVES CONSTANTLY WORRYING ABOUT THE FINANCIAL WELL-BEING OF EXTENDED FAMILY MEMBERS. THEY FEEL DUTY BOUND TO FINANCIALLY SUPPORT THEIR FAMILY CLAN, BUT YOU CAN GET OUT OF THIS, WRITES FINANCIAL EXPERT PREMIE NAIK.

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n our rainbow nation, there is a term that explains this situation and weighs heavily on the shoulders of many: Black Tax. It is not a monetary levy enforced by the government, but rather a cultural expectation that puts an extra burden on black professionals to financially support their extended families. While rooted in a tradition of communalism and solidarity, the Black Tax can hinder financial freedom and perpetuate cycles of poverty. So, how do we break free from its grasp and pave the way for a brighter future?

Firstly, let us acknowledge the complexities of the Black Tax. It is not solely a financial obligation, but a deep-seated cultural norm born out of historical inequalities. Families often rely on the success of one member to uplift the entire clan. However, this can create a cycle where individuals find it challenging to build personal wealth.

Education is key to breaking this cycle. By promoting financial literacy and planning, individuals can better manage their finances and support their families without sacrificing their futures. Workshops, mentorship programs, and accessible resources can empower people to make informed decisions about their money.

Furthermore, fostering a culture of open communication within families is crucial.

Discussing financial goals, boundaries, and obligations can help manage expectations and alleviate guilt or resentment. It is okay to set boundaries and say no when necessary.

Remember, you cannot pour from an empty cup.

Diversifying income streams is another strategy to mitigate the impact of Black Tax. Encouraging entrepreneurship and investing in ventures that generate passive income can provide financial stability while still fulfilling family obligations.

Additionally, advocating for systemic change is imperative. Addressing socio-economic inequalities, improving access to employment opportunities, and implementing social safety nets can alleviate the pressure on individuals who solely shoulder the burden of financial support.

BREAKING FREE FROM THE GRIP OF BLACK TAX WILL NOT HAPPEN OVERNIGHT. IT REQUIRES A COLLECTIVE EFFORT AND A SHIFT IN MINDSET. Breaking free from the grip of Black Tax will not happen overnight. It requires a collective effort and a shift in mindset. We must break free from the mental conditioning of being in debt and borrowing but work towards wealth building as a family. By fostering financial literacy, open communication, diversifying income, and advocating for systemic change, we can pave the way towards financial liberation.

We should all work together to create financial independence and a culture of wealth-building. This will ensure that future generations escape debt spirals. It is only then that we can create a more equitable future for all. IB May 2024 / INBOUNDSA 77

Q&A: SINAYO

Sinayo

DIVERSIFYING INTO THE ENERGY SECTOR BABALWA NGONYAMA | CEO: SINAYO GLOBAL

IN 2023, SINAYO SECURITIES (PTY) LTD CEO, BABALWA NGONYAMA HIGHLIGHTED THAT PLANS WERE UNDERWAY TO EXPAND THE SERVICE/ PRODUCT OFFERINGS OF SINAYO. TODAY SINAYO SECURITIES OPERATES ALONGSIDE ITS RELATIVELY NEW ESTABLISHED SISTER COMPANY SINAYO ENERGY UNDER THE UMBRELLA OF SINAYO GLOBAL. NGONYAMA TALKS TO INBOUND SA ABOUT THE VISION OF SINAYO ENERGY IN PIONEERING RENEWABLE SOLUTIONS FOR A GREENER WORLD.

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ell us about the expansion of Sinayo that will see it venturing into the energy sector.

Sinayo Energy, a pioneering force in the renewable energy sector, is distinguished by its women-led leadership and commitment to fostering clean, sustainable energy solutions. Our vision is to forge a future where sustainability is paramount, leading the charge in developing innovative renewable energy solutions for a healthier planet.

Our mission revolves around the core values

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of innovation, exceptional quality, outstanding service, and customer fulfilment. We are dedicated to playing a pivotal role in South Africa’s shift towards renewable energy, simultaneously championing women’s empowerment and generating new employment opportunities.

We provide a comprehensive range of highquality solar products, including photovoltaic (PV) panels, inverters, and batteries, catering to a wide array of needs from residential to commercial and industrial sectors, as well as large-scale utility projects. Our solutions are designed to ensure uninterrupted efficiency across diverse industries such as agriculture and mining.

As a member of the Sinayo Global family, Sinayo Energy benefits from international collaborations, including technological partnerships with Chinese firms and financial insights from our European hub, enriching our global perspective and capabilities.

Our ambitions for this initiative are manifold: • Establishing a leading women-led and owned business that powers Africa with sustainable energy.

• Offering cost-effective, sustainable energy solutions.

• Revitalising communities through direct support, investment, job creation, and empowerment initiatives.

• Aiming to positively impact a community of 5 000 within the first three years.

• Using South Africa’s rich natural resources to uplift society.

In terms of operations, tell us a bit about the solar plant facility that will be established.

Our vision is to establish large-scale solar farms across the African continent, designed to provide reliable power to regions plagued by frequent power outages and shortages. These initiatives will not only illuminate communities but also spark economic opportunities, creating numerous jobs in the localities where they are situated.

The construction and maintenance of these solar energy farms will offer both permanent and temporary employment, enriching local communities with income and valuable skills applicable to future endeavours and various sectors.

These initiatives promise to ignite a wave of skill

development across the energy sector and its allied fields. While the focus will be on nurturing technical and specialised talents, there will also be a strong emphasis on cultivating a broad range of general skills. This comprehensive skillset will prepare individuals for a diverse array of prospects, profoundly influencing their career trajectories and professional growth.

The Solar Energy project stands as a transformative venture, poised to revolutionise industries, and invigorate the economy. By harnessing the power of the sun, this ambitious initiative aims to provide a steady, sustainable energy supply to power-intensive industries, reducing reliance on traditional, non-renewable energy sources. The ripple effect of this green energy transition will be widespread, fostering innovation, driving technological advancements, and catalysing economic growth. As industries become more sustainable and efficient, the broader economy is set to benefit from enhanced competitiveness, job creation, and a significant reduction in carbon footprint, marking a new era of industrial and economic dynamism.

In our pursuit of enterprise development, we are committed to uplifting local businesses by prioritising them for our procurement needs.

This approach is expected to inject substantial economic benefits into local economies.

The ultimate reward of our solar energy projects will be felt by the local communities and industries, who will gain from enhanced energy security and the luxury of continuous electricity supply, even amidst loadshedding challenges.

Moreover, this electricity will be more costeffective compared to conventional grid power.

Expanding our horizons, we are also actively exploring opportunities in the broader African market, aiming to bring our sustainable energy solutions to a wider audience across the continent.

What challenges and opportunities do you foresee with this new business?

Considering that many of these projects are situated away from major economic hubs, securing suppliers for essential products and services could pose a challenge. Yet, this scenario opens doors for cultivating local sourcing channels by forging partnerships with community

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members and businesses. Such collaborations promise not only skill development but also invaluable firsthand experience for the local workforce.

What does this venture mean for industry/ business/public regarding energy security and achieving ESG goals?

This venture stands as a beacon of progress for industry, business, and the public throughout South Africa and the broader African continent, highlighting a pivotal shift towards enhanced energy security and the fulfilment of Environmental, Social, and Governance (ESG) goals. By channelling investments into renewable energy, the initiative promises not only a reliable and sustainable energy supply but also a significant reduction in the vulnerability of industries to energy disruptions, thereby bolstering economic resilience.

For businesses, the venture offers the dual benefits of operational stability and reduced energy costs, while also significantly lowering their environmental footprint. This alignment with global ESG standards enhances their appeal to investors who prioritise sustainability. Industries across the continent are set to experience a surge in innovation and competitiveness, fuelled by the accessibility of clean energy, while the wider public will benefit from environmental conservation and the creation of new jobs.

A cornerstone of this initiative is its leadership

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team, positioning Sinayo Energy at the forefront of gender empowerment within the African energy sector. By prioritising the advancement of women in key areas such as operations, procurement, and management, Sinayo Energy not only champions diversity and inclusion but also paves the way for a more equitable industry landscape.

Moreover, the venture acknowledges the profound social impact of secure energy access as a fundamental enabler of societal progress.

Reliable energy underpins various facets of daily life and economic activity, from education and healthcare to industrial production and digital connectivity. In this light, the initiative’s commitment to energy security transcends mere infrastructure development, embodying a catalyst for widespread social and economic empowerment across the continent.

This venture encapsulates a comprehensive approach to sustainable development, intertwining energy security with ESG achievements, gender empowerment, and broad-based social impact, thereby setting a new standard for the African energy sector’s evolution.

What do you think is critical in terms of diversifying business interests?

By diversifying our business portfolio, we not only reduce our reliance on any single revenue stream but also bolster our resilience and capacity to rapidly adapt to changing market conditions and seize emerging opportunities.

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This strategic approach fosters self-reliance, ensuring our sustainability and independence in the face of global economic fluctuations.

Through economies of scale, we harness the power of diversification to build long-term resilience and adaptability, crucial for mitigating risks and sustaining our operations. At the core of our success lies a steadfast commitment to innovative strategies and breakthrough solutions, guiding us toward a future marked by sustainability and autonomous growth.

Our mission is to reshape the global landscape by democratising investments and pioneering transformative changes. We empower our clients and partners with unparalleled insights, leading to significant and sustainable wealth. Aware of the dynamic nature of the world and the evolving needs it brings, we stay ahead of the curve.

Moving forward, our strategy includes the advancement of Sinayo Energy and expanding our global footprint. We are dedicated to introducing innovative products and services for our clients, while also deepening our commitment to Environmental, Social, and Governance (ESG) standards, in line with our foundational mission and vision.

How will this venture into energy assist in unlocking opportunities for investors?

This venture into the energy sector, spearheaded

by Sinayo Energy, is poised to unlock a wealth of opportunities for investors who align with our vision and mission. The energy market, particularly in South Africa and across the African continent, is characterised by a robust and growing demand. This demand, coupled with our strategic initiatives in renewable energy and sustainable solutions, positions Sinayo Energy as a promising avenue for investment.

Investors can anticipate higher-than-average returns on investment, reflecting the dynamic and essential nature of the energy sector. Our focus on innovation, sustainability, and market expansion not only meets the immediate energy needs but also contributes to long-term energy security and environmental stewardship. This unique combination of factors makes investing in Sinayo Energy projects an attractive proposition for those looking to contribute to sustainable development while achieving substantial financial gains.

OUR MISSION IS TO RESHAPE THE GLOBAL LANDSCAPE

BY DEMOCRATISING INVESTMENTS AND PIONEERING TRANSFORMATIVE CHANGES. Tell us a bit about the vision of Sinayo Global. As Sinayo Global, we touch the world by democratising We are focussed on securing our future –:a call to action for energy independence. Our journey about transforming Africa into a first-world continent with secure and sustainable energy is not just a vision – it is a shared responsibility. As citizens of South Africa and the broader African continent, we stand at a critical juncture. The path we choose today will shape our tomorrow, impacting generations to come.

Embracing this duty involves collective action and a unified commitment to invest in renewable energy, support innovative ventures like Sinayo Energy, and champion policies that promote sustainability. By doing so, we not only safeguard our environment but also unlock unprecedented economic opportunities, driving Africa towards a brighter, more resilient future.

Let us rally together, with a spirit of unity and purpose, to fulfil this pivotal role. It is within our power to lay the foundations for an Africa that thrives on secure, clean, and efficient energy – ushering in an era of prosperity and sustainability for all. IB

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BUSINESS INSPIRATION

Whycook:

AN AWARD-WINNING FOOD BUSINESS THAT STARTED IN A MIDRAND GARAGE

Partners in food. Mathapelo Montsho and Yolanda Dlamini

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MATHAPELO MONTSHO (35), A L’OREAL EMPLOYEE AND YOLANDA DLAMINI (39), A HOUSEWIFE, WERE SITTING AT A FRIEND’S BIRTHDAY PARTY AND CHATTING ABOUT HOW DULL AND BORING CAFETERIA FOOD IS LATELY. “LET’S START A BUSINESS!”, ONE OF THEM SAID. ONE PROBLEM: THEY HAD NO MONEY OR EQUIPMENT. BUT THEY HAD FAMILY.

tarting a business is always challenging. After all, startup capital is imperative to any business idea.

And what Mathapelo and Yolanda had in mind — good food presented exquisitely with high-end customers in mind — needed some serious help. Mathapelo looked at her garage and thought, “We can do this.”

After all, Google, Apple, and Amazon all famously started in a garage.

“Still, we had nothing. Yolanda’s mother sent a few big pots via courier from KZN to Gauteng.

Some of my uncles sent us a few chest freezers that we still use today,” says Mathapelo. The two friends started cooking from her garage in a residential complex in Midrand in Johannesburg.

There were a few obstacles. “We had to build a sink outside the garage but it had no hot water.

The drain clogged and caused a complex

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BUSINESS INSPIRATION

DON’T LET THINGS YOU DON’T HAVE HOLD YOU BACK. JUST WORK WITH WHAT YOU HAVE. WORK TOWARDS THE GOAL. blockage. It was a challenge but we worked with what we had.”

“It has been a great journey, a rags-to-riches situation.” Mathapelo says they drew inspiration from Tashas Cafe– a thriving food chain. “We borrow ideas from them in terms of look and feel.”

After nine months of operating, they landed two big contracts - L’Oreal and ACSA (Airports Company of South Africa). They moved to bigger premises with the extra money and could buy more equipment.

“We got a proper stove and a walk-in fridge. We were pushing 200 meals a day, it was becoming ridiculous.”

Whycook became one of the fastest-growing SMMEs in the country and won an award. In the first year, they made R1,5m, and the following year, this grew to R4m.

“When we started, it was just the two of us. We added staff one by one, but staff turnover is a problem. You always want your people to stay.”

They have just opened a cooking studio where they teach cooking, and have partnered with a drinks company for pairing.

“We were fortunate to find that one thing that made us stand out, which is our dumpling burger.

That one product has made us famous for the past 5 years,” says Mathapelo.

Their greatest motto is: “Don’t let things you don’t have hold you back. Just work with what you have. Work towards the goal.” IB

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Outdoors overlooking Nelson Mandela Square fountain, brothers Dennis and Allen have brought their vision of an un-forgettable dining experience to life with the contemporary Trumps Grillhouse & Butchery.

Not only can you enjoy the superior quality meat products at the Trumps restaurant, but you can now select your perfect cut of steak or meat from the all new bespoke butchery.

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RECIPES

QUICK & EASY CRISPY SPICED PORK FILLET OVER RICE

By SA Pork Discover the quick-fix secret to a crispy delight with our Sizzling Skillet Crispy Pork.

Thinly sliced pork fillet meets a seasoned crust and a sizzle in the pan for that perfect crunch. Served over steamy white rice with a side of colourful stir-fried veggies, all smothered in your favourite sauce. This easy, high-flavour dish is the midweek pick-meup to please everyone at the table!

Serves: 4 Prep time: 10 minutes Cooking time: 10 minutes

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INGREDIENTS • • • • • • • • • • •

500g pork fillet, thinly sliced for quick cooking 2 large eggs 1 cup all-purpose flour 1 teaspoon salt 1 teaspoon black pepper 1 teaspoon garlic powder Oil for pan-frying Cooked white rice (consider using quick-cook or pre-cooked rice) Pre-cut stir-fry vegetable mix (to save on prep time) Store-bought sauce (such as sweet and sour or your preferred Asian sauce) Optional garnishes: chopped green onions or cilantro, sesame seeds

METHOD 1.

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Season the flour with salt, pepper, and garlic powder on a plate.

Beat the eggs in a shallow bowl. Coat the pork slices

first in egg and then in the seasoned flour.

3. Heat a few tablespoons of oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat.

4. Fry the pork in batches until golden and crisp, about 2-3 minutes per side.

5. Remove and set aside on a paper towel-lined plate.

6. Wipe the skillet clean, add a little more oil, and toss in the stir-fry vegetables.

7. Cook for about 2-3 minutes until slightly softened but still crunchy.

8. Return the pork to the skillet with the vegetables, lower the heat to medium, and pour in the sauce. Toss to combine until everything is heated through.

9. Serve the pork and vegetables over rice.

Garnish with green onions, cilantro, and sesame seeds if desired.

RECIPES

COMFORTING BUTTERBEAN ROTIS

By Sarah Graham This is a delicious, unfussy midweek curry. Bulk it up by adding chopped cauliflower, or chunks of roasted butternut or sweet potato.

Add crumbled soft tofu along with the onions to up your plant-based protein.

Serves 2 Prep time: 20 minutes Cooking time: 20 minutes INGREDIENTS • • • •

1 onion, finely diced 1 teaspoon crushed garlic 1 teaspoon grated fresh ginger Olive oil

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1 teaspoon each garam masala, ground cumin, ground coriander and ground turmeric 2 cans butter beans, drained and rinsed 1 can coconut milk 2 handfuls baby spinach

Dressing: • squeeze of lemon juice + plain yoghurt, optional • store-bought crispy onion sprinkles, optional • chopped fresh coriander • rotis METHOD 1.

Fry the onion, garlic and ginger with a dash of

olive oil in a large pan over medium heat for 8 minutes, or until the onions have softened.

2. Stir in the spices and cook for a minute. Add the butter beans and coconut milk, lower the heat and simmer for 10 minutes.

3. Remove the curry from the heat and stir through the spinach until just wilted. Check for seasoning, add suggested toppings and serve warm.

4. If using store-bought rotis, wrap them together in foil and warm in a dry pan.

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DRINKS

CITRUS AND APPLE TEA

By Lucy Markewicz Although I’m a coffee lover through and through, lately I’ve been experimenting with alternative warm drinks to keep me comfy all day long! This one is especially great as it offers the convenience of being either a hot or cold option depending on the weather.

INGREDIENTS • • • • • • • • •

250g apples, sweet 250g naartjies/ grapefruit or oranges 5cm piece ginger ½ tablespoon brown sugar 1 cinnamon stick 1 clove 1 star anise 1 teaspoon Szechuan peppercorns 5 cups Water

METHOD 1.

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Quarter and remove the core from the apples.

Add apples, sliced ginger, brown sugar, cinnamon sticks, star anise, clove and peppercorns, and the water

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to the cooking pot. Using a pressure cooker, cook for 18 minutes at high pressure.

You may also simmer on the stovetop for 30 minutes.

3. Allow to cool slightly before straining into heatproof jug or jars. Press the fruit a little as you strain to release the juice. If storing seal tightly before storing in the fridge.

4. Serve either hot or cold, garnish glasses with a slice of apple and citrus and stick of cinnamon. Perfect for those chilly winter mornings

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COCKTAIL

PASSIONFRUIT AND COCONUT MARGARITA

By Landi Govender INGREDIENTS • • • • •

60ml tequila 30ml coconut cream 2 tablespoon passion fruit pulp 15ml fresh lime juice 15ml passion fruit cordial

METHOD 1.

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Add all ingredients to a cocktail shaker, and shake.

Strain into a short glass filled with ice.

Garnish with passionfruit and edible flowers. Enjoy!

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TECH REVIEW

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While the Anker Cube commands a premium price tag, it replaces countless cables and inferior charging docks, and the inclusion of MagSafe technology and fast charging justifies its higher cost.

The Anker 3-in-1 Cube with MagSafe impresses and delivers on its premium features and promise of simultaneous fast charging up to 3 devices. If you travel a lot for work, then you’ll never miss your bedside or desk dock because this will replace them both and offer you the convenience of home on the go. The Anker 3-in-1 Cube earns top points for its innovative design, superior charging performance, and user-friendly experience, making it a worthy investment for those invested in the Apple ecosystem. IB

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Fierce, Fun + Fab Dear Self,

Remember that hilarious moment when I thought a “no” was just an invitation to prove him wrong? How do I deal with myself in situations like these, when all I hear is the complete opposite? I’ve been raised on the motto “never take no for an answer”; but I went full steam ahead, refusing to let go of what I thought was the grand prize. But here’s the funny part: the dude never even tried to challenge me, he was clear as day about his intentions from the get-go: “I’m not after a relationship, just some fun,” he said before we even met up.

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Take that crystal clear, simple, straight-to-the-point statement and run it through the tangled web of my brain, and what do you get? “Oh, he totally likes me! He’s just pretending not to. Challenge accepted! I’ll show him how awesome I am, and he’ll come running, right?”

D-day finally arrived, and there it was: the chemistry, the flirting galore, the smiles, the kisses and all the things not so PG-13. As the night came to an end, I headed home, ready to spill all the details about my latest beau to my female entourage. I was convinced he was my forever man, of course, because who wouldn’t fall for me? After all, I’m the type of girlfriend that will help my boyfriend look for the chocolate I ate.

And then womp, womp, womp.

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As time passed, his responses grew shorter, my “why doesn’t he call me?” questions grew larger and the reality of where we stood became obvious.

It was a straightforward situationship, people!

Destined never to become a relationship… gosh the horror!

Why? Because he stayed true to his word, and I, well, I just refused to listen.

So, the joke’s on me, and I ended up making a complete fool of myself. Lesson learned, moving on, and I pray to my spiritual guides: will you please help me to avoid making the same mistake again?

Ps: Be on the lookout for the next InBound SA edition, featuring another cringeworthy dating tale.

Pss: What you’re reading are true stories, with a sprinkle of exaggeration added for your reading pleasure.

You’re welcome. IB

NOTE TO FUTURE SELF:

WHEN THEY SAY THEY’RE NOT LOOKING FOR ANYTHING SERIOUS, BELIEVE THEM. IT’S NOT A CHALLENGE TO CHANGE THEIR MIND!

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WHEN LOVE KILLS

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This story about AKA and Anele must have gripped you to write a book.

The story of AKA and Anele deeply disturbed me after news broke that Anele Tembe had “fallen” to her death on 11 April 2021. After she died, horrific images of their toxic relationship found their way into the press and on social media. Over time it worried me that the generally accepted narrative was that Anele had killed herself, but so many questions were left unanswered. And then last year, AKA was brutally assassinated. Two young talented people are now both dead. I was compelled to try and find out what had happened in the relationship that had started with so much promise but which had ended so tragically. And so, I began to try and unravel this story. It was an incredibly difficult book to write as the subject matter is very dark.

Why should we read it?

The story of AKA and Anele has captured the nation and has become the biggest media story since the Oscar Pistorius trial. For me, it echoes a modern Romeo and Juliet, devastating in its repercussions with the two heroes both now tragically dead.

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Our other favourites 8 Rules of Love

A revealing guide to every stage of romance, drawing on ancient wisdom and new science.

Nobody sits us down and teaches us how to love.

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Tipping Point examines some critical questions about the country’s political and socioeconomic landscape today and whether the 2024 election outcome is likely to signal more gloom, or will rather pave the way for positive and enduring reforms.

Tipping Point- turmoil or reform? South Africa’s political economy after 2024

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