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Introduction: The Call to Go Discover the heart and vision behind this journey—why every believer is called to be a disciple and make disciples.
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Lesson 1: What Does It Mean to Be a Disciple? Understand the biblical definition of a disciple and explore how identity, obedience, and intimacy with Jesus shape the disciple’s life.
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Lesson 2: The Foundation of Disciple-Making Explore the spiritual principles and relational posture needed to lay a strong, reproducible foundation for making disciples.
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Lesson 3: Why Discipleship Matters Break free from the idea of cultural Christianity in America as well as learning about the state of the unreached people around the world.
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Lesson 4: Who is My Neighbor? - Part 1: Near Learn how to recognize and reach the people already in your everyday life—family, friends, coworkers, and neighbors.
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Lesson 5: Who is My Neighbor? - Part 2: Far Gain a heart for the nations and understand God’s call to the global mission field— both local outreach and cross-cultural impact.
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Lesson 6: The Building Blocks of Discipleship Learn the value of serving others, biblical community and how gathering regularly fosters spiritual growth, accountability, and multiplication.
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Lesson 7: How Do I Actually Do This? Practical tools and real-world rhythms for living a disciple-making lifestyle—starting with simply moving people closer to Jesus.
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Lesson 8: The Beginning of the Rest of Your Life This isn’t the end—it’s the launch. Embrace your role in God’s unfolding story of discipleship and multiplication.
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INTRODUCTION
THE CALL TO GO
Welcome to The Commission—a journey not just of learning, but of living. This guide was created to help you embrace a lifestyle that reflects the very mission Jesus gave His followers: Matthew 28:19 Go and make disciples of all nations. But making disciples isn’t just for pastors or missionaries—it’s for everyone who follows Jesus. This is not a program or a box to check. It’s a way of life. One that begins with a deep personal relationship with Jesus and overflows into everyday relationships, rhythms, and opportunities. We want to demystify what it means to make disciples and help you see that it’s possible, practical, and powerful—right where you are. In this guide, you’ll explore what it means to be a disciple before learning how to make disciples. You’ll discover the biblical foundations, the heart of God for people near and far, and the essential role of community, service, and the Holy Spirit in it all. You’ll be equipped with practical tools—how to identify and walk with your “One,” how to engage in meaningful conversations, and how to live out your faith in a way that is both bold and humble. We believe that when everyday believers step into their calling to live on mission, entire families, communities, and even nations can be transformed. Discipleship is not about perfection. It’s about obedience, availability, and multiplication—one life at a time. The lessons ahead are more than information—they are invitations. To slow down. To listen. To say “yes.” To lead by example. To live the rest of your life carrying the commission of Jesus wherever you go. Let’s begin. Let’s make disciples. And let’s see what God will do.
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WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE A DISCIPLE? In the Church today, disciple is not a term we often use or refer to. Think about it. When was the last time someone asked you if you were a disciple? Or when is the last time you asked if someone was a disciple of Jesus? Rather, we may ask, “are you a believer”? This is not a bad question, but it is also not the best. Others may ask, “are you a Christian?” Unfortunately, here in the U.S., the term Christian is used loosely. Far too many identify as Christians, but don’t fully understand what it means to be a Christian—a follower of Jesus.
WHAT IS A DISCIPLE? Did you know that disciple was the only name for Christ’s followers in the Gospels? It wasn’t until the early Church was born in which we see the term Christian appear. Acts 11:26 ESV ...And in Antioch the disciples were first called Christians. The Greek word for disciple is mathētēs, and can be translated learner, pupil, disciple. It’s used 261 times in the New Testament and implies a relationship of instruction, imitation, and loyalty. In the context of the New Testament, it most often describes the followers of Jesus who learned from Him and adhered to His teachings. When you look at Jesus calling His disciples to Him he uses the language, “follow me”. GROUP SHARE • What was Jesus asking when He said “follow me”? • How would you explain what it means to be a disciple of Christ?
THE GREAT COMMISSION So, Jesus, being the source, decided to show the way to His disciples. He set them in motion, then released them and discipleship began. He commanded them to Go AND Make disciples. Matthew 28:19-20 ESV Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age. If you have professed Jesus as Lord and Savior of your life, then you must do and obey, become a disciple and then disciple others. He has called you to make disciples. He has called you to teach others the gospel—the greatest news of all time! This is not just for missionaries, pastors, elders, deacons etc. It’s everyone and we all have a part to play! Frederic W. Farrar, a 19th-century English theologian, pastor, and scholar says… “A disciple of Christ is one who believes His doctrine, rests on His sacrifice, imbibes His Spirit, and imitates His example.” So let’s take a look at this helpful definition for us to live out as disciples.
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Believing His Doctrine To believe His doctrine means we fully accept, trust, and live according to His teachings as revealed in Scripture. There is a faith we walk by and it is not of our own understanding. Resting on His Sacrifice To rest on His sacrifice means we have confidence in His finished work on the cross for our salvation, not relying on our own efforts for righteousness. Imbibing His Spirit To imbibe means to consume, to absorb or soak up something such as water, light or heat. We soak up His presence and power of the Holy Spirit in our life. It’s more than just acknowledging His existence—it’s about allowing Him to fill, guide, and transform you by the power of the Holy Spirit. Imitating His Example To imitate His example means to follow His way of life, adopting His attitudes, actions, and character in how we live, love, and serve. It’s not just about admiring Him but actively patterning our lives after His. GROUP SHARE • How would you describe your current execution of the Great Commission in your own life? • Which of these four ideas of discipleship stood out to you the most?
CALLED TO MULTIPLY We are all called to multiply. If Jesus called people to follow Him, then we are to do the same. Even this group… it is not to be completed and then done. It is to be completed then replicated. It is to be completed by you and then led by you to others who will do the same. Our goal throughout this group is for you to realize you have been commissioned by the Living God— and we want to help you fulfill the mission He has called you to. He will be with you. He will empower you. He will guide you. He will be with you. But before you say yes, you must first understand that it will cost you something—surrender and obedience to Him. Are you willing to lay aside your dreams and your desires for the glory of God? Are you ready to stop living for yourself and jump into discipleship? A rush of movement, splitting and spilling in a beautiful, unstoppable flow—one disciple after another from generation to generation. It will not be easy. But it will be an adventure and it is worth it! GROUP SHARE • What’s the difference between being a believer and being a disciple? • What fears or barriers come to mind when you think about making disciples? Everyone in fact has a part to play in the great commission! Pastor Rob preached a great sermon entitled “Rope Holders.” He clearly explains how we are all able to play our part in taking the gospel to the ends of the earth—including you!
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THE FOUNDATION OF DISCIPLESHIP Now that we are beginning to understand what it means to be a disciple, let’s begin to unpack the foundation of discipleship. That foundation is abiding in the vine. John 15:4-5 tells us that for us to bear good fruit we must abide in Jesus who is the vine and if we abide in Him, He will abide in us. He also cautions that apart from Him, we can do nothing. What we give to the world, to our spouse, kids, family, friends, or strangers is only going to be an overflow of our time with the Lord. It is essential to daily be in the Word, Worship, and Prayer to be a disciple of Christ.
ABIDING IN THE VINE Jesus doesn’t suggest connection with Him—He demands it. “Apart from Me you can do nothing.” This is not a metaphorical encouragement; it is a spiritual law. A disconnected branch may appear to have life for a while, but it inevitably withers. Abiding is not a passive state. It’s a daily rhythm of receiving life, surrendering control, and cultivating relationship. It means lingering in Scripture, lingering in prayer, and allowing the Holy Spirit to shape your thoughts, priorities, and actions. It’s where identity is formed and purpose is clarified. Discipleship doesn’t begin in a classroom, a church, or a strategic plan. It begins in the secret place—in stillness, dependence, and ongoing relationship with Jesus. The foundation of all fruit-bearing life in the Kingdom is found in this one spiritual posture: abiding. It’s not glamorous. It’s not fast. But it is essential. If we skip this step—if we try to lead, serve, evangelize, or multiply without daily drawing life from the true Vine—then we aren’t making disciples. We’re building hollow models that look good from a distance but lack lasting transformation. Abiding is not just a spiritual discipline; it’s a way of life. And it is the only foundation sturdy enough to carry the weight of real disciple-making. GROUP SHARE • Have you heard of the term abiding before in a Christian context? • What does “abiding” mean to you?
THE POWER TO BE WITNESSES Right before Jesus ascended into heaven, His disciples had one last question: Acts 1:6 Lord, are you going to restore the kingdom to Israel now? They were still thinking in terms of earthly power and political rule. But Jesus redirects their focus. He doesn’t give them a timeline—He gives them a mission. He tells them that they will receive power, not for political influence, but to be His witnesses—to carry His message of hope, redemption, and eternal life to the entire world.
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This power comes through the Holy Spirit. Disciple making isn’t built on our charisma, Bible knowledge, or strategy—it’s built on the foundation of the Spirit of God living in us and working through us. The Holy Spirit is not just for Pentecost. He is our daily guide, our comforter, and the source of power for disciple making. When we walk in step with the Spirit, we begin to see people differently. We’re more aware of those around us. We become sensitive to their struggles, their stories, and their needs. “What if, as I go throughout my day, I pray for God to give me eyes to see and ears to hear others who have the same heart language as I do?” This is where disciple making starts—in everyday moments of awareness and obedience. When we connect with people on a heart level, relationships form. And through relationships, discipleship happens. It’s not about having all the right answers. It’s about being available, being intentional, and allowing the Holy Spirit to lead. Pray this simple prayer each morning: “Holy Spirit, open my eyes to see the people you want me to notice today. Open my ears to hear their heart. Give me the courage to start a conversation, build a relationship, and share Your love.” And then—pay attention. Be expectant. God may be preparing someone around you right now who needs exactly what you carry. GROUP SHARE • How does the Holy Spirit empower you to grow as a disciple? • Do you regularly ask for the Holy Spirit to help you throughout the day? Discipleship Lifestyle Application #1 - 30 Minutes of Prayer and Bible Reading Daily This is an important habit to introduce early in the process of disciple-making. Here’s how you can approach it: 1. Establish a Daily Rhythm Spend 30 minutes of intentional time with God each day: • 15 Minutes in the Word: Use SOAP (Scripture, Observation, Application, Prayer). Don’t just read— listen. • 15 Minutes in Prayer: Include adoration, confession, thanksgiving, intercession, and listening. 2. Listen and Respond Abiding involves not only speaking to God, but listening. End your quiet time with the question: “Jesus, what are You saying today?” Write it down and obey it. 3. Pray for the Filling of the Spirit Invite the Holy Spirit each day: “Fill me afresh. Lead me today. Guide my eyes, my ears, my conversations.” 4. Cut What Chokes the Vine Jesus warns that some branches need pruning. What is stealing your attention? What is competing with Jesus for your heart? Make space.
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5. Journal Your Journey Track what God is saying, where He’s showing up, and how your heart is changing. This is your record of His faithfulness. Accountability Set up a system of accountability where individuals check in with each other about their daily time in prayer and Bible reading. This could be in the form of small groups or a discipleship partner. Consistency Emphasize that spiritual growth comes through consistent habits. This 30-minute daily commitment can be a starting point for deepening their relationship with God. GROUP SHARE • What are your biggest distractions from spending time with Jesus? • How can the group encourage you to remain rooted in spending time with God each day?
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WHY DISCIPLESHIP MATTERS Discipleship isn’t just a biblical command—it’s a global necessity. In America, the church faces cultural drift, biblical illiteracy, and shallow faith. Globally, 42% of the world remains unreached, meaning they have little to no access to the gospel, no churches, and no known believers. Discipleship isn’t optional; it’s urgent. Jesus didn’t just call us to make converts—He called us to make disciples. Discipleship is the Church’s response to spiritual confusion, cultural decline, and eternal need. If we fail to disciple, we fail the mission.
THE AMERICAN CHURCH IN CRISIS In a nation flooded with churches, podcasts, and Christian resources, America is paradoxically becoming one of the greatest mission fields. Discipleship is the missing ingredient. As a nation, we find ourselves as mostly made up of believers, but not disciples. Many Americans say they believe in God. Many even identify as Christians. But there’s a profound difference between belief in God and following Jesus. According to Barna Research, only 6% of American adults have a biblical worldview. We’ve confused conversion with discipleship. The result is a church full of attendees but lacking reproducing followers of Jesus. The question we should all ask ourselves is “Do I simply believe in Jesus or do I actually follow Jesus?” Despite having unlimited access to Scripture as Americans, biblical illiteracy is at an all-time high. Why does this matter? Because if we don’t know God’s Word, we can’t obey it. And if we don’t obey, we’re not disciples—no matter how many services we attend. Biblical literacy isn’t just head knowledge— it’s the fuel for obedience. Discipleship breaks this pattern by calling believers into a whole- life surrender to the way of Jesus. It’s not about perfection—it’s about direction. John 8:31-32 If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. GROUP SHARE • Which of these cultural issues resonated with you most? Why? • Where do you see “cultural Christianity” in your life?
CONSUMERISM VS. COSTLY OBEDIENCE Many churches today are shaped more by marketing than mission. When the church becomes a product, Christians become consumers. And consumers don’t die to themselves—they shop for comfort. But discipleship calls for the cost of obedience.
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The U.S. Surgeon General declared loneliness a public health crisis. Despite digital connection, Americans are more isolated than ever. Discipleship matters because it restores: • Relationship: Real, deep, spiritual friendships • Accountability: A place where people are known and challenged • Community: The biblical model of church as family The early church wasn’t built on events—it was built on relationships. Discipleship is God’s answer to the loneliness epidemic. We live in an age of identity crisis: gender confusion, purposelessness, constant comparison, and despair. Your identity fuels your purpose. Discipleship connects believers to both. 2 Corinthians 5:17-20 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come... we are therefore Christ’s ambassadors… Discipleship is not just what America needs—it’s what the church needs. We’re not called to survive the culture but to disciple it. This isn’t the time to retreat. It’s the time to rise, train, multiply, and go. America is a mission field. Will we answer the call? Examine Your Own Walk Take an honest look: • Am I a fan or a follower? • Where do I need to grow in obedience? • Do I have anyone discipling me? Am I discipling anyone? Create Discipleship Relationships • Invite someone to walk with you spiritually. • Don’t overcomplicate it. Meet weekly. Open the Word. Pray. Ask good questions. • Commit to growth, not comfort. GROUP SHARE • What does it look like for you personally to move from believer to disciple? • How might discipleship speak into loneliness or identity struggles around you?
TO THE ENDS OF THE EARTH There are over 3 billion people in the world today who have never heard the name of Jesus. Many have no access to a church, a believer, or a Bible. Missions without discipleship is incomplete. Jesus didn’t say “Go and preach”—He said, “Go and make disciples of all nations.” The world is more connected than ever—through technology, travel, and communication. Yet 42% of the global population is still considered unreached with the gospel. That means: • No known believers in their community • No access to a local church • No Scripture in their language • No one actively discipling them
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These are not just distant statistics. These are real people with real names and real souls—men, women, and children whom Jesus died to save. Romans 10:14 How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? Evangelism introduces people to Jesus. Discipleship teaches them to follow Him. Jesus’ method was not just powerful—it was repeatable. He made disciples who made disciples. In many unreached regions, traditional mission work is blocked by political restrictions, religious persecution, visa limitations, and war and instability. But discipleship-based movements are flourishing in these same regions. Underground house churches are multiplying in the Middle East. There are movements of former Muslims in North Africa coming to Christ. Oral Bible storytelling is growing among unreached tribes in Southeast Asia. God is moving among the nations! Why is this happening? Because relational discipleship doesn’t rely on buildings. It can happen in homes, fields, or cafés. These movements multiply through trust and obedience, not money or programs. These movements prove that Jesus’ method still works. GROUP SHARE • Have you ever thought of discipleship as a global issue? • How does it make you feel that 42% of the world has little or no access to the gospel?
DISCIPLESHIP IS A JUSTICE ISSUE Imagine a child born in a remote village who lives their whole life never meeting a Christian, never hearing the gospel and never reading Scripture in their language. This is not just a mission issue—it’s a justice issue. Everyone deserves the chance to respond to the gospel. You don’t have to move overseas to be part of the global mission. But you do have to care. Everyone has a part they can play. Here are 3 roles that any Christian can undertake: • Go: Short or long-term to serve unreached people directly • Send: Financially and relationally support those who are going • Mobilize: Inspire, equip, and disciple others into God’s global heart This is God’s Global Strategy. Ordinary believers → Discipled deeply → Equipped to multiply → Sent strategically How can we do this? Here are four ways we can practically apply this to our everyday lives. 1. Learn About the Unreached • Explore the Joshua Project, Operation World and Project 42. • Choose a people group to research and pray for this week
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2. Give with Eternity in Mind • Support a missionary or missions organization focused on unreached peoples • Consider giving monthly—not just one-time—to sustain long-term disciple-making 3. Disciple with a Global Lens • Share the global need with those you’re discipling • Teach them early on that their faith is not just personal—it’s missional 4. Engage Locally • Reach international students or refugees in your city • Invite someone from another culture into your home • Begin spiritual conversations with love and listening GROUP SHARE • Which of the three roles (Go/Send/Mobilize) do you feel most drawn to right now? • What would it look like to be part of reaching the unreached, even from where you live? The Great Commission is not just local. It’s global. And it doesn’t stop at evangelism. It begins with discipleship. “Only a disciple can make a disciple.” – A.W. Tozer This is our hour. We don’t need to reinvent Jesus’ strategy—we need to return to it. One disciple at a time. Until every nation knows.
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WHO IS MY NEIGHBOR? - PART 1: NEAR We hear the word “neighbor” a lot in our culture, but what does it actually mean? Who does the Bible say our neighbor is? As Christians, expanding our understanding of who our neighbors are helps us recognize the breadth of who we are called to love and serve. The pattern starts close to home (Jerusalem), then extends outward (Judea and Samaria), and ultimately reaches the entire world (the ends of the earth). In this lesson, we’re going to explore what Jesus teaches us about neighbors that are near to us and how we can practically apply that understanding to our own lives.
BIBLICAL DEFINITION OF “NEIGHBOR” Let’s start with how the Bible defines our “neighbor.” Jesus taught and modeled this throughout His ministry, and His definition is often broader than we might naturally think. Here are some key passages: Matthew 22:36-40 (The Great Commandment): Love your neighbor as yourself. Jesus sums up all the Law and Prophets with two commands: Love God and love your neighbor as yourself. Who is our neighbor? It’s anyone we encounter who needs love. Luke 10:25-37 (The Parable of the Good Samaritan): Neighborly love transcends social and ethnic boundaries. Jesus uses this story to answer the question, “Who is my neighbor?” The surprising answer? It’s not just those who look like us, think like us, or share our beliefs. It’s anyone who crosses our path who needs compassion. Matthew 5:43-48 (Love Your Enemies): Our neighbors can even include those we might consider our enemies. Jesus challenges us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us. This concept expands the definition of neighbor far beyond those we naturally gravitate toward. GROUP SHARE: • How does this challenge or expand your current perspective on who your neighbor is? • How might your everyday interactions change if you saw everyone you encounter as your neighbor?
WHO ARE OUR NEIGHBORS TODAY? If Jesus called us to love our neighbors, it’s important to ask ourselves: Who are the people in my life that I’m called to love? Our neighbors are not just those we naturally connect with or those in our immediate community—they include people we encounter in our daily lives, those who might be different from us, and even those we struggle to get along with. Now that we have a clearer picture of who our neighbor is, let’s talk about how we can effectively reach them. This is where the concept of Oikos comes in. Definition: “Oikos” is a Greek word meaning “household,” but biblically it refers to one’s relational network. Your Oikos includes family members, friends, coworkers, neighbors, and anyone else you have a natural connection with. The early church often spread through these networks—by first sharing the gospel within their Oikos.
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As believers, we are called to step into our identity as ambassadors for Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17-20). This isn’t just a title—it’s a mission. We’ve been given the same command Jesus gave His disciples. Simply put: God has placed us all in community—our Oikos—and we’ve been planted there for a purpose. Our role is to be obedient to His command, taking ownership of our part as ambassadors to the Oikos He has brought to us. The principle of Oikos evangelism is simple: start where you are. 1. Identify Your Oikos Who has God already placed in your life? Think broadly and specifically—family, friends, neighbors, coworkers, acquaintances, etc. 2. Build Your Oikos Map Make a list or a visual map of everyone in your Oikos. This will be your prayer list and relational focus. - Personal Mapping: Who Is in Your Oikos? - Take a few minutes to sketch out your Oikos map. Include: Family members, friends, neighbors, coworkers, regular acquaintances (like a barista, gym buddy, store clerk, banker, etc.)
3. Pray for Your Oikos Commit to praying regularly (weekly) for those on your map. Ask God for opportunities to connect more deeply, to show love, and give you boldness to share the Gospel when the time is right. 4. Intentionally Engage Find ways to build deeper relationships—make a plan to intentionally spend time with at least one person from your Oikos each month. Consider sharing a meal, inviting them to a community event, or just checking in to see how they’re doing. Remember: Your Oikos are your mission field. Start with those closest to you, pray for them consistently, and look for small, consistent ways to love them like Jesus. GROUP SHARE • Who are the people in your Oikos that God might be prompting you to pray for and reach out to? • What barriers have kept you from engaging with your Oikos in the past?
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Discipleship Lifestyle Application #2 - Prayer Walk Around Your Neighborhood 2x a Month As part of living out The Commission, we’re committing to build a foundation of prayer for our communities—starting right where we live. Here’s how to get started: Set a goal to prayer walk your neighborhood at least twice a month. Put it on your calendar like any other important appointment. Use the Bless App to identify your neighbors by name and track your prayers for them. This helps you stay intentional and consistent in your intercession. The Bless App exists to help followers of Jesus successfully participate in the Great Commandment and Great Commission. As you walk, pray specifically: • That God would reveal Himself to each household. • For peace, healing, and answered prayers in your neighbors’ lives. • For open doors to meet, connect, and eventually share the gospel. Ask God for divine appointments—moments where you naturally cross paths with your neighbors and can show them love, kindness, and truth. You don’t need a perfect script—just a willing heart. As you walk and pray, trust that God is already moving. The simple act of walking your streets with a spiritual purpose can shift the atmosphere of your neighborhood.
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WHO IS MY NEIGHBOR? - PART 2: FAR The heartbeat of God is not limited to a single city, culture, or country. From Genesis to Revelation, the story of Scripture reveals a God who pursues every tribe, tongue, and nation. Disciple-making is not only local—it is global. To follow Jesus is to care about what He cares about, and He cares deeply about reaching the nations. In a world filled with brokenness and separation, the Gospel unites people across languages and borders. Missions is not a department of the church—it’s the DNA of a disciple. This week, we explore God’s missionary heart and our role in His global redemptive plan.
GOD’S GLORY AMONG THE NATIONS God’s ultimate desire is for His name to be glorified among all peoples. This longing is not rooted in divine ego but in holy love—the kind that invites humanity to worship the One who alone is worthy. From Eden to the new Jerusalem, the biblical narrative consistently moves outward—God blessing His people so they might be a blessing to others. Jesus’ words are an invitation into that divine momentum: “Go… make disciples of all nations.” We are not just carrying a message—we are participating in the fulfillment of God’s redemptive plan for the world. God’s heart for the nations is driven by His love and the exclusivity of Christ as the only way to salvation. God is not offering the world many options—He is offering one hope through His Son. Every people group needs the gospel because there is no other way to be reconciled to God. Good intentions, cultural heritage, or spiritual curiosity cannot save. Only the blood of Jesus can bridge the gap between a holy God and sinful humanity. Acts 4:12 Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved. The urgency of the Gospel is real because without Christ, people are lost. This is the truth we must not water down. GROUP SHARE • What are some ways we can participate in making God’s name known among the nations? • How can we balance truth and love when telling others that Jesus is the only way?
THE HARVEST IS PLENTIFUL, BUT WORKERS ARE FEW There are billions who have not heard the gospel, yet God is actively drawing people to Himself. While we often focus on unreached people groups as statistics, heaven sees souls. And the good news is that God is not passive. He is working even now—through dreams, miracles, creation, and the quiet witness of His people—to call every tribe and tongue to Himself. Jesus told His disciples to pray for laborers, showing that the problem is not the harvest but the lack of workers.
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Matthew 9:37–38 The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field This simple command reveals the heart of Jesus: He sees the need, He sees the readiness, and He invites us to pray with Him for more workers. Our first action in missions is not strategy—it’s intercession. Every believer is called to go, send, or support in reaching the unreached. Missions is not reserved for the few but is a responsibility of the entire Church. Some will cross cultures, some will write checks, and others will intercede faithfully in prayer closets. All are vital. The global mission of God will be fulfilled by a global church embracing their roles with faithfulness and urgency. GROUP SHARE • What are some practical ways we can pray for and support missionaries? • How can we raise up more workers for the harvest within our local church?
THE RELIGIONS OF THE WORLD Overview. We will review three of the most well-known world religions. They are Islam, Buddhism and Hinduism. We will look at their main beliefs and then consider practical ways to build relationships with these people and share the love of God with them.
ISLAM Key Beliefs Oneness of God (Tawhid): Islam is strictly monotheistic, emphasizing that there is only one God (Allah), with no partners or equals. Prophethood (Risalah): Muhammad is the final prophet in a line of messengers, including Moses and Jesus, who conveyed God’s guidance to humanity. Afterlife (Akhirah): Life is a test, and after death, individuals will be judged by God, leading to eternal reward in Paradise or punishment in Hell. The Five Pillars: These are fundamental acts of worship: Shahada (faith), Salah (prayer), Zakat (charity), Sawm (fasting), and Hajj (pilgrimage).
Sharing the Gospel with a Muslim Key Considerations: • Muslims respect Jesus (Isa) as a prophet but deny His divinity and crucifixion. • They value monotheism and submission to God. • Honor and community are significant in their worldview.
Gospel Approach Start with Common Ground: Affirm their belief in one God and that Jesus is a prophet, then introduce Him as more than a prophet (John 1:1, 14).
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Explain Jesus’ Identity: Use Scripture to show that Jesus is God’s Word and the Messiah (Surah 3:45 mentions this). Address Sin and Salvation: Islam teaches that good deeds must outweigh bad ones. Show how only Christ’s sacrifice can remove sin completely (Ephesians 2:8-9, 2 Corinthians 5:21). Explain the concept of God’s love and grace (John 3:16). Discuss the Crucifixion and Resurrection: Gently challenge their belief that Jesus was not crucified (Surah 4:157). Show biblical and historical evidence that He died and rose again (1 Corinthians 15:3-4). Use Testimonies and Stories: Many Muslims come to faith through dreams, visions, and personal testimonies of Jesus. Encourage them to pray, asking God to reveal the truth about Jesus. Emphasize the Common Ground: Find areas between Islam and Christianity, such as belief in one God and respect for Jesus.
Key Verse 1 Timothy 2:5 For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus. GROUP SHARE • How does the Islamic understanding of God (Allah) compare with the Christian view of God as revealed in Jesus Christ? How can we communicate the concept of the Trinity in a way that makes sense to a Muslim? • What are common misconceptions Muslims have about Christianity, and how can we address them with truth and grace?
BUDDHISM Key Beliefs The Four Noble Truths: Life involves suffering, suffering has a cause (craving/attachment), suffering can end (nirvana), and the Eightfold Path is the way to enlightenment. The Eightfold Path: A guide for ethical living and spiritual development, including right understanding, intention, speech, action, livelihood, effort, mindfulness, and concentration. Karma and Rebirth: Actions (karma) shape future experiences, and beings undergo cycles of rebirth (samsara) until they attain enlightenment. Non-Self (Anatta): The idea that the self is an illusion, and clinging to it leads to suffering. Letting go leads to liberation.
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Sharing the Gospel with a Buddhist Key Considerations: • Buddhists do not believe in a personal God but seek enlightenment (nirvana). • They view suffering as the result of attachment and desire. • Many emphasize self-effort and moral living over divine intervention.
Gospel Approach Address Suffering and the Need for a Savior: Instead of escaping suffering through detachment, Jesus enters into our suffering and brings true peace (Isaiah 53:4-5). Introduce a Loving, Personal God: Unlike impersonal karma, God loves them and desires a relationship with them (John 3:16). Share your personal experiences of God’s presence in your life (1 John 1:3). Explain Grace Over Self-Perfection: Buddhism teaches self-purification, but Jesus offers forgiveness freely (Ephesians 2:8-9). Present Resurrection as True Hope: Instead of reincarnation, Jesus offers a resurrection to eternal life (1 Corinthians 15:20-22). Address the idea of emptiness and how Jesus offers fullness of life (John 10:10). Use Parables and Personal Stories: Buddhists resonate with wisdom stories. Jesus’ parables (like the Prodigal Son) and testimonies of transformation can be powerful.
Key Verse: John 14:6 I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. GROUP SHARE • Buddhism emphasizes suffering (dukkha) and the path to enlightenment through self-effort. How can we present Jesus as the true source of peace and liberation without simply sounding like another religious teacher? • Since many Buddhists do not believe in a personal God, how can we communicate the relational love of God in a way that makes sense to them?
HINDUISM Key Beliefs Dharma (Righteous Duty): Each individual has moral and social responsibilities based on their position in life and society. Karma (Action and Consequence): Every action has consequences that affect one’s future, either in this life or the next. Samsara (Cycle of Rebirth): Souls are reborn in different forms until they attain liberation (moksha).
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Moksha (Liberation): The ultimate goal is to escape the cycle of rebirth and unite with the divine (Brahman).
Sharing the Gospel with a Hindu Key Considerations: • Hindus have many gods but also believe in an ultimate reality (Brahman). • They accept Jesus as a great teacher or divine being but not exclusively God. • Karma and reincarnation shape their understanding of sin and salvation.
Gospel Approach Use Familiar Concepts: Explain that Jesus is not just one god among many but the true and living God (John 14:6). Address Sin and Grace: Unlike karma, where actions determine destiny, Jesus offers grace—forgiveness that cannot be earned (Romans 6:23). Explain the uniqueness of Jesus and His role in salvation (John 14:6). Present Jesus as the Answer to Liberation (Moksha): Instead of endless rebirths, Jesus provides eternal life and release from the cycle of suffering (John 11:25). Share the hope and assurance you have in Christ. Emphasize Relationship Over Rituals: Hinduism is works-based; show how Jesus offers a personal relationship with God, not just religious duties. Emphasize God’s personal nature and His desire for a relationship with us (Jeremiah 29:11-13). Use Stories and Miracles: Many Hindus are drawn to Jesus through His power to heal and answer prayers. Share testimonies of His work in people’s lives.
Key Verse Matthew 11:28 Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. GROUP SHARE • Hinduism teaches that there are many paths to the divine and that ultimate reality (Brahman) can be experienced in various ways. How can we share the uniqueness of Jesus as “the way, the truth, and the life” (John 14:6) in a way that resonates with a Hindu worldview? • How can we use biblical themes such as sacrifice, devotion, and liberation from karma to help Hindus see the gospel as the fulfillment of their spiritual longings?
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LESSON 6
THE BUILDING BLOCKS FOR DISCIPLESHIP A disciple must trust in and follow the teachings of that leader, imitating their life, and living a life of love and service. To be like Jesus, one must strive to become a servant and actively live our faith with others. Jesus demonstrated the qualities of a servant leader in the Bible – He cared for the least and the lost. He ate with them, He engaged them, He listened to them, and He loved them. Jesus chose to seek out the people who needed Him the most.
THE SERVANT NATURE OF A DISCIPLE To truly understand the meaning of service, we must examine Jesus Christ as the most perfect servant leader. When instructing His disciples, Jesus said: Mark 9:35 If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all Jesus served and died for those who loved and despised Him. A King washed the feet of His disciples and welcomed the meek and weary into His arms. Jesus is set apart from everyone else in the world by His divinity, His perfection, and His heart—which overflows with love. This is the key: serving is beyond helping someone; it is a transformation of the heart that allows the Spirit to fill your cup with everflowing love and empowers you to care, help, and serve everyone. Jesus says that servanthood is what makes a person great, and that no one can become great without it! What is a servant? A servant is one who lives to benefit another person—they sacrifice for someone else’s joy or fulfillment. Sacrifice is the only status symbol in the kingdom of God. Servanthood exists in authentic discipleship. It is a lifestyle that is engraved on your heart. Following Jesus selflessly to serve others means we must constantly die to self. GROUP SHARE • What grace has God extended to you that motivates you to love and serve others? • If you were honest, what act of service would require you to be most humble/selfless?
HOW WE SERVE OUR CHURCH FAMILY In Biblical terms, the people in our church are our family. When Paul wanted the Roman church to welcome and help Phoebe, he called her “our sister” (Rom. 16:1); when Peter wanted to commend Silvanus, he called him “a faithful brother” (1 Pet. 5:12). When the apostolic writers wanted to address an entire congregation, they frequently called them “brothers” (or “brothers and sisters”). Like the members of our biological family, we haven’t chosen them for ourselves, but they have been chosen for us, and we are therefore inseparably bound to them. Because we belong to Christ, we belong to his family. Being family means we love, care, and support those in our church. The Church family should serve one. In practical terms, how can we as the church spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Here are a few examples: Volunteering, Welcoming, Acceptance, Providing Childcare, Prayer, Making Meals, Offering Forgiveness. The Church is the local body of Christ where love and good deeds can be lived out.
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To serve and encourage the body of Christ, we must use our gifts. We know that God has given each and every person a unique set of gifts that He wants to use to build His kingdom. Your calling is what God has put on your heart as a way to serve Him! The way you use your gifts is putting action to that calling in serving others and building up the body of Christ. Each person is indispensable to the function of the whole church! Serving should be ongoing in the life of a servant-hearted disciple.
Action Steps 1. Know your spiritual gifts • www.spiritualgiftstest.com 2. Use your gifts • Join a serve team at your church to fill the needs during weekend services GROUP SHARE • Are you familiar with your Spiritual Gifts? • Are you currently using your gifts to serve others? If yes, how so? If not, why not?
HOW WE SERVE OUR COMMUNITY The Christian life isn’t meant to be lived carefully protected in a box, and certainly not in a box, on a shelf or locked in the closet. One could say “the box” is the church. Many people will never make it into your church. But, you can go to them! Serving those in our communities is really about bringing the church to people. Serving our community can be done very simply through being kind, intentional, inviting and resourceful. You can also meet practical needs through donations and simple acts of service. You can bring the Good News into your community through evangelism and hope through prayer. Remember, it is only through God’s grace that we get to be servants. At the end of the day, the only way you and I can be servant disciples is if God gives us the grace to do so! It is a gift to be used! The Holy Spirit will equip you and give you boldness! GROUP SHARE • Are you watching out for those in need around you or are you living for yourself? • In what ways are you doing that? Discipleship Lifestyle Application #3 - Serve Others Once a Month Joining a Serve Team at Church helps create an environment where we welcome people every weekend into the family of God. When you sign up to greet, be an usher, make coffee or disciple kids, you are actively contributing to the body of Christ through serving His church. First Saturday Serve is River Valley’s initiative to consistently show up in our communities, to share the love of Jesus Christ in very practical ways. Serve with people from your campus on the first Saturday of every month!
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The details and organizing are done for you! You can simply sign up, show up, serve and make a difference. Teams and projects can be found at rivervalley.org/serve Serve Day is a national campaign; a day dedicated to showing people that we love the city they live in, the schools they go to, the parks they play at, and we will serve however we can! Simple acts of selfless love can open hearts to Jesus, and together we can make a difference. This day happens on the second Saturday in July!
WHY MEETING IN GROUPS MATTERS In a world that often pulls us toward isolation or superficial “social media” connections, regularly gathering in-person with other believers offers strength, encouragement, and spiritual growth. The Bible shows us that faith isn’t meant to be lived alone—God designed us for community as He is in community (e.g., The Father, the Son and Holy Spirit). Regular Bible study in a small group is foundational to our faith and Christian growth. It keeps us rooted in God’s Word which is alive and active, shaping our minds and hearts as we engage with it together. The early church in Acts 2:42 devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching, and their commitment fueled their growth and unity. Bible study in small groups is a safe space helping us process life. We can ask questions (e.g., “what does this mean?”), explore doubts and celebrate “wins” together as well as point each other back to God’s truth and promises. Imagine the impact if every believer committed to this! We’d be a church that shines brightly, reflecting Christ to the world. GROUP SHARE • How are you challenged or inspired to prioritize Bible study together? • What is one way regular study with others could deepen your faith?
HOW TO GROW AS DISCIPLES Growing as disciples means following Jesus closely every day and small groups are a key part of that journey. Four discipleship truths are: 1. Discipleship is about relationships. Jesus modeled this with His disciples, teaching them through shared life, not just lectures. Small groups of disciples learn from each other’s faith, failures, and victories 2. Discipleship is about “obedience.” The Great Commission (Matthew 28:19-20) calls us to make disciples by teaching others to obey Christ’s commands. Small groups give a safe space to practice this together praying, serving, and holding each other accountable 3. Discipleship is about encouragement. When we’re discouraged, others in our group can lift us up, reminding us of God’s faithfulness 4. Discipleship is about action. Small group members push one another to live out faith, not just talk about it, by intentionally sharing the gospel
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Hebrews 10:25 urges us not to give up meeting together, and for good reason— consistent connection fuels our faith. Whether it’s weekly Bible study, prayer, or a simple check in, regular meetings build relationship, community, trust and spiritual growth rooted in Biblical truth. Think about the early Christians of Antioch in Acts—they met daily to share life, break bread and support one another to spread the gospel despite severe opposition. While daily might not fit our schedules, the principle remains: regular small group time strengthens us as Christ followers! It’s in these moments that we laugh, cry, pray, grow and become the three-strand chord that’s not easily broken. GROUP SHARE: • What type of small group excites you most? • What other ideas or vision do you have for a small group? Discipleship Lifestyle Application #4 - Meet in a Small Group Once a Week 1. Choose the Right Group Look for a group that fits your life stage, schedule, or interests (e.g., young adults, parents, new believers). Use your church’s website or app to explore and sign up. Then, you may have to visit 2–3 different groups if needed before committing. Find a group that feels like a fit spiritually and relationally—it’s okay if it takes a try or two! 2. Block the Time Weekly Set a recurring calendar reminder (treat it like a meeting you don’t cancel). Let your family or roommates know this time is set aside for your small group. Plan meals or errands around it so it doesn’t feel like a burden. Consistency builds momentum— protect the rhythm before it becomes optional. 3. Prepare Before You Go Read any assigned Scripture or material beforehand. Make sure to pray briefly for God to speak and for the people you’ll see. Bring a journal or notebook if you find it helpful. Showing up ready shifts you from consumer to contributor. 4. Participate Fully Share honestly, no need to overshare, just be real. Ask questions and listen well to others. Offer to help—bring snacks, offer a ride, help clean up. The more you put into group life, the more meaningful it becomes. 5. Build Relationships Outside the Group Text someone from the group mid-week to check in or encourage them. Plan to hang out with someone outside of the group time (coffee, dinner, etc.). Make sure to celebrate life events together—birthdays, milestones, wins. True community grows between the meetings. 6. Invite Others Along Ask a friend, co-worker, or neighbor to come with you. Share what your group means to you on social media or in conversation. Be open to starting a group if you notice a need. Groups aren’t just for you— they’re a doorway for others to experience Jesus through community. 7. Reflect Regularly Once a month, ask: “How has this group shaped my walk with God?” Write down personal spiritual growth, answered prayers, or new friendships. Stay aware of what God is doing through this lifestyle rhythm. Reflection keeps you from going through the motions—it helps you see the fruit.
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LESSON 7
HOW DO I ACTUALLY DO THIS? The Great Commission isn’t just a powerful ending to the book of Matthew—it’s the beginning of a movement that changed the world. When Jesus said, “Go and make disciples of all nations,” He wasn’t giving a suggestion. He was inviting His followers into a lifestyle of purpose, impact, and eternal significance.
PUTTING THE GREAT COMMISSION INTO PRACTICE But here’s the honest question many believers wrestle with: “How do I actually do this?” What does it look like to live on a mission in real life—with your family, neighbors, coworkers, classmates, or even the people you meet at the gym? Think about the last time you attempted to have a spiritual conversation or shared your faith with someone—whether it was a friend, co-worker, neighbor, or even a stranger. Don’t overthink it—this isn’t about having a perfect moment, but a real one. Let’s take a few minutes to hear from each other. So far, we have been laying a strong foundation of The Commission—praying, studying God’s Word, serving, and surrounding yourself with community. But now it’s time to take the next bold step: Engaging others. Sometimes we think only the ones with the knowledge and expertise are the ones that should be going out and putting themselves out there. But you don’t need all the answers—you just need a willing heart. Jesus does the transforming; you just get to show up, listen, and share. Evangelism isn’t about being eloquent—it’s about being available. GROUP SHARE: • When was the last time you shared your faith with someone? • How did you feel like it went?
JESUS AT THE CENTER When Jesus is part of your everyday life, your marriage, work, passions, and friendships, evangelism becomes natural. You’re not squeezing Him into conversations, He’s already there. It’s not just “Jesus or my life”, it’s Jesus IS my life. Let your life say: Jesus and my marriage. Jesus and my career. Jesus and my kids. When He’s the whole pie, not just a slice, sharing Him is simply sharing your life. So make the shift: Don’t compartmentalize your faith. Let your words carry grace and truth. Let your joy point to your source. Let Jesus be your life—not just part of it. Evangelism isn’t limited to a church building or a Sunday sermon. God wants to use your ordinary life to bring extraordinary hope to the people around you. The goal isn’t to perform—it’s to be present. The world doesn’t need another perfect Christian. It needs real people who have made Jesus a part of their everyday lives.
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GROUP SHARE • What keeps you from feeling “available” to share your faith? • How can you invite Jesus into the ordinary rhythms of your life this week?
MOVING CLOSER TO JESUS IS THE WIN In today’s world, people don’t want to be talked at—they want to be known, heard, and understood. That’s why starting with curiosity can be one of the most effective tools in evangelism. When you ask thoughtful questions, you’re not just trying to steer the conversation toward Jesus—you’re showing someone they matter. You’re building trust. You’re opening the door for God to move. And often, it’s in those quiet, humble moments of asking and listening that the Holy Spirit does His best work. These questions don’t force a spiritual move—they invite it. And they remind us that evangelism doesn’t start with pressure; it starts with presence. Being patient, empathetic and taking a genuine interest in the lives of those around you is not only rare but makes you stand out to be heard as you share Jesus. Imagine the Gospel journey as a scale from -10 to +10. -10 to 0 is evangelism—guiding people closer to Jesus, one conversation at a time. 0 is the moment of salvation. +1 to +10 represents discipleship—growing in faith, understanding Scripture, and living it out. The farther into the negatives someone is, the more resistant they may be. That’s why we start with relational trust, move to spiritual curiosity, and then invite them into Gospel truth.
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TYPES OF CONVERSATIONS Relational Conversations (-10 to -7) Build connection through shared interests. • How long have you worked there? • Tell me more about your passion for • How did you and your partner meet?
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Spiritual Conversations (-6 to -4) Add depth and point toward spiritual themes. • Do you think your work ties into your purpose? • What does real love mean to you? • Do you have a spiritual background? Gospel Conversations (-3 to 0) Share truth from Scripture and introduce Jesus. • What if God gave you a purpose through your work? • How do you understand forgiveness? • What if Jesus is the starting point for true transformation? GROUP SHARE • Which type of conversations do you think you can start engaging in right away with the people you interact with daily? • How can asking thoughtful, curious questions—like “What brings you peace when life is hard?”—create more natural openings for gospel conversations in your life? Discipleship Lifestyle Application #5 - Spend Intentional Time with a Lost Person Once a Month
WHAT THIS LOOKS LIKE PRACTICALLY 1. Commit to the Rhythm • Set a personal goal to spend intentional time with one lost person each month. • Add it to your calendar just like any other appointment. • Pray at the beginning of the month: “Lord, who should I share a meal with this month?” 2. Identify the Person • Think about your circle of influence: - Coworkers - Neighbors - Teammates or classmates - Friends or acquaintances without a church home • Start with someone you already know or interact with often.
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3. Make the Invitation Simple • Keep it casual: - “Want to grab lunch next week?” - “We’d love to have you over for dinner sometime soon.” - “Let’s catch up over coffee—my treat.” • Don’t overcomplicate it. The goal is connection, not a presentation. 4. Be Present and Curious • Ask good questions and listen well. • Show genuine interest in their story. • Be real about your life and how your faith shapes it. 5. Pray for the Conversation • Before: Ask God to open hearts and give you grace and wisdom. • After: Ask God to keep working in their life and show you next steps.
Remember: This isn’t about checking a box—it’s about living missionally. Sharing a meal can be the first step toward someone discovering the love and truth of Jesus.
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LESSON 8
THE BEGINNING OF THE REST OF YOUR LIFE DISCIPLES ARE CALLED TO MOBILIZE Over the past 7 weeks we have learned what it means to be a disciple of Jesus, and the cost it will require of us. We have learned, to be a disciple is to obey His commandment in fulfilling the great commission. We learned that this commission Jesus gave to His disciples is the same commission, command, and calling He has given to everyone who is a follower of Jesus today. By now we have all agreed that every believer is called to make disciples. Therefore, every believer is called to be a Mobilizer. To be a mobilizer, you must first be a disciple—someone who follows Jesus daily, lives with intentionality, responds to the Holy Spirit, and loves people near and far from God. We lead by example, then invite others to join us in the mission. 1 Corinthians 12:12–26 teaches us that the Body of Christ is made of many unique parts, each vital. No one can say, “I don’t need you.” We all need each other to function as God designed. God placed each part just as He wanted. Everyone’s role matters in building His Kingdom. Jesus, in His human body, could only be in one place at one time. But when He left, He sent the Holy Spirit to fill His followers—making us His Body on earth. Now the mission of Jesus continues through all of us—across nations, generations, and places His physical body could never reach alone. GROUP SHARE: • What is something that you’ve recently been very excited about and wanted to bring others with you so they can enjoy it too? • What does it mean to be a disciple who pursues fulfilling the Great Commission?
DISCIPLESHIP ISN’T ADDITION—IT’S MULTIPLICATION Discipleship begins with intentionality. It’s not random—it’s relational, prayerful, and Spirit-led. “Finding your One” is about identifying someone God is calling you to walk with for a year, modeling a life of obedience to Jesus and helping them take their own steps of faith. This process is rooted in love, prayer, and multiplication.
It All Starts with One One person who needs encouragement. One person who hasn’t been activated. One person who needs to be invited into the mission. And it all begins when we say “yes” to loving God, loving people, and inviting others to do the same.
How to find your “One” 1. Begin with Prayer and Fasting Before you take action, start by seeking God’s direction. Spend time in prayer—consider fasting for 3 days—and ask the Lord: • Who have You already placed in my life? • Who are You calling me to disciple this year?” • Am I available and surrendered to Your will?”
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Discipleship isn’t about our plans. It’s about yielding to His. 2. Lead with Invitation Once God highlights your One, be the first to reach out. Use the power of the invite. Start with something simple: • Coffee • A shared meal • A walk, workout, or meaningful activity These spaces create opportunities for conversation and connection. Don’t overthink it. Just show up faithfully and consistently. Make plans to meet regularly—weekly or biweekly—and allow the relationship to grow naturally. 3. Cover It All in Prayer Before each meeting, take time to pray specifically: • Ask God to guide your conversation. • Pray for openness and honesty. • Ask the Holy Spirit to fill you with boldness and grace. • Surrender your agenda and ask God to align your heart with His for your One. “Prayer is the work. Everything else flows from that.” 4. Live Your Faith Out Loud Invite your One into your life. Let them see your obedience. Bring them along in your own next “yes” to God. 1 Corinthians 11:1 Follow me as I follow Christ. When they witness your journey—whether it’s serving, giving, studying Scripture, or navigating challenges—they’ll begin to understand what obedience looks like practically. 5. Ask the Right Questions Every time you meet, create space to ask and listen: • What is Jesus asking you to do right now? • How can I support you in that step? • What’s God been showing you lately? • How are you applying Scripture in your life? These questions help move the relationship from casual friendship to intentional discipleship. 6. Pray With Them, Not Just For Them Always take time to pray together when you meet. Why? • You won’t forget to pray later. • You model that prayer is simple and essential. • Your One sees that prayer is a normal, powerful part of relationship with God. • It empowers them to begin praying with others.
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7. Prepare for Multiplication As your year comes to a close, begin the handoff. Ask: • Who is God highlighting for you? • Are you ready to walk with someone else the way I’ve walked with you? Encourage them to repeat the process—pray, invite, disciple. You’ve shown them what it looks like. Now it’s their turn. Continue meeting monthly for encouragement but give them space to lead. Discipleship is not a solo sprint—it’s a relay race. As Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 9:24–27, run to win. But in this race, winning means handing off the baton. Let’s not treat discipleship like a one-time project. Let’s be lifelong runners—committed to multiplying the Gospel until it reaches the ends of the earth. GROUP SHARE • How has your perspective changed about your part in the Great Commission over the past 8 weeks? • Who are you going to invite to take the next Commission class? Discipleship Lifestyle Practice #6 - Disciple At Least One Person Every Year When making disciples becomes a lifestyle rather than a task, every moment holds eternal potential. It’s not limited to a program or a church setting—it happens over coffee, in car rides, through text messages, and at dinner tables.
Practical Discipleship Next Steps • Who could you partner with to help others understand God’s heart for the world? • Invite someone to come to The Commission class with you next Small Group Semester • Recruit a whole table of people to go through The Commission with you next semester • Start doing a DBS bible study with one or more people • Invite someone to go on a Virtual Global Team with you • Help pay for someone else’s Global Team • Invite someone to go on a Global Team with you • Lead The Commission at your campus. • Be an Advocate for those in the Missionary Action Plan (MAP) • Join the MAP Discipleship Lifestyle Practice #7 – Multiply Yourself By Asking Your Disciple to Disciple Their One
As each person says “yes” to Jesus and begins discipling someone else, the ripple effect is unstoppable. What begins with one simple step of obedience multiplies across families, communities, cities, and nations. The beauty of this practice is that it doesn’t end with us—it continues through us. Because when we choose to make disciples, we’re not just shaping lives—we’re expanding the Kingdom. The possibilities truly are endless.
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THE DISCIPLESHIP PATHWAY At River Valley Church, we have a clear and comprehensive Discipleship Pathway that we want everyone in our church to walk through. Perhaps you are at the end of the Discipleship Pathway, or you now recognize there are pieces you still need to complete. Now that you’ve finished The Commission, consider who you will bring with you as you continue your discipleship journey. This is not just for you to complete, this is designed for you to become a holistic disciple of Jesus who in turn makes more disciples.
The mission of Jesus didn’t stop with the disciples—it multiplied through them. Now it’s your turn. Go. Make disciples. Multiply!
DISCIPLESHIP LIFESTYLE PRACTICE LIST 1. Read you Bible and Spend time in Prayer for 30 Minutes a Day 2. Prayer Walk around your Neighborhood twice a Month 3. Serve Others Once a Month 4. Meet in a Small Group Once a Week 5. Spend Intentional Time with a Non-Christian Once a Month 6. Disciple Someone Intentionally for an Entire Year 7. Multiply Your Discipleship by Asking Them to Disciple Someone
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