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December 2023

To Serve and Protect

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PUBLISHER’S LETTER

Publisher Tracy Tuten Editors Kristi Antley Paige Youmans Design and Production Kristina Parella Contributing Writers Mark Aker

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Kristi Antley Jennifer McCall Pastor Stephen Mims Paige Youmans Photographers Ben Barrs Jessica Meetze Hop Ridgell Sales Tracy Tuten Tracy@OurTownNow.com 803-603-8187 Our Town Magazine (Vol. 1. Ed.2.) is a bi-monthly magazine published by RIT Media LLC. The contents of this publication may not be reproduced without written authorization from the Owner of RIT Media. The publisher is not responsible for the authors’ opinions or comments or the advertisers’ promotions of their individual businesses.

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“IT’S THE MOST MAGICAL TIME OF THE YEAR!”

s a child, my parents really went above and beyond to make Christmas special for my brother, Bobby (now known by his adult name “Robert”) and I. We would hunt for the perfect tree to chop down, and then decorate it with ornaments that were given to us every year. We would go to our Nanny and Pappy’s home on Christmas Eve and spend time with the Steele side of the family, and then Grandma’s house to spend time with the Ivey crew on Christmas night. Christmas morning was always special; it was a time to wrestle Daddy out of bed while Mom took pictures, open our gifts, and spend the day playing with everything Santa had delivered.

As parents, Brian and I have tried to do the same for our family. The same ornaments I received as a child decorate our tree now, along with our children’s handmade ornaments and the ones they have received over the years. We spend time decorating the house, both inside and out, make a special breakfast on Christmas morning, and take time to visit family and friends. It is a joy seeing those who live out of town that are home for the holidays and we truly try to soak up every minute.

This year we have another reason to celebrate as my daughter, McKayla, is graduating in December from USC!!! We cannot begin to say how proud we are of her, her accomplishments, her determination, and her focus while attending college and working to support herself. She is not only a beauty, but brains too; she is a blessing to everyone she meets with her kindness and compassion. I know that God has a plan for her and I am excited to watch as she continues to do wonderful things.

I hope this Christmas everyone can find something to celebrate. I hope you spend time with loved ones and remember that Christmas is so much more than material gifts and gatherings. It is the day that many celebrate to recognize the birth of Jesus Christ, our King. So Merry Christmas my friends! May God bless you and your loved ones.

Tracy Tuten, Publisher

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

16 To Serve and Protect Honoring Local Heroes

6 Shopping Small Benefits your Community

12 Answering the Call 14 The “Karolina Karver” Mission Lexington

18 The Camel for Christ 26 Chef's Selections Jesus is His Name Ministries

December Desserts

Mark Aker

28 Inspiration

The Joys of Generosity

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EVENTS

Local Events: December Things to do in and around Our Town!

HIGHLIGHTED EVENT SUNDAY, DECEMBER 3 Town of Lexington Snowball Christmas Parade Main Street, Lexington, 3pm

Get in the Christmas spirit as you witness motivating performances from local organizations, wave at local dignitaries, sing along with live music, and watch the extravagantly decorated, themed floats make their way through the Town.

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 1-SUNDAY, DECEMBER 17

Chapin Theatre presents “It's A Wonderful Life” 830 Columbia Ave., Chapin, various times This beloved American holiday classic comes to life as a live 1940s radio broadcast. Hear the existential crisis of idealistic George Bailey through a cast of 6 actors portraying characters on the stage.

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FRIDAY, DECEMBER 1-SUNDAY, JANUARY 14 FRIDAY, DECEMBER 1SATURDAY, DECEMBER 30

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 1-SUNDAY, DECEMBER Fireflies’ Holiday Lights Events 31 Segra Park, 1640 Freed Street, Columbia, 6pm-9pm Each night (except Dec. 25th) includes special holiday activities, photo opportunities with Santa and Fireflies’ mascot Mason, food specials, designated theme nights for your fur baby, and much, much more.

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Hite Family Christmas Lightshow 213 Meetze Ave., Lexington, Sunday-Thursday 6pm-10pm, Saturday-Sunday 6pm-11pm Celebrate the holidays by visiting a free local light show with thousands of dancing lights! Donations benefit the Make-A-Wish Foundation of the Midlands.

Wild Nights at Riverbanks Zoo Riverbanks Zoo & Garden, 500 Wildlife Pkwy., Columbia, 5pm-9pm Enjoy new, interactive light displays and activities for all ages, as well as seasonal favorites such as nightly snow flurries and visits with Santa (through December 23rd).

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Town of Lexington Carolighting Ceremony and Activities Icehouse Amphitheater, 107 W. Main St., Lexington, 6:30pm-8:00 pm Join your neighbors and take the kids for photos with Santa from 4pm-8pm. Lift your voice to sing traditional Christmas carols as the enormous tree is illuminated at 6:30pm.

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SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2

Town of Lexington Snowball Festival, Carnival, and Movie Icehouse Amphitheater, 107 W. Main St., Lexington, 1pm8:30pm Gather the kids and head to the amphitheater for this special event featuring photo opportunities with Santa, rides, face painting, balloon art, food, and much more! The Santa Clause (PG) movie will be featured at 5:30pm.

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SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2

Richland County Recreation Commission presents Breakfast with Santa St. Andrews Park, 920 Beatty Road, Columbia, 9am-12pm Bring the kids (ages 2-12) to the park for a morning of holiday fun, great food, memories, and handmade crafts! Supplies are limited; registration is $10 per child.

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SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9 Christmas Craft Show Barr Road Sports Complex, 213 Barr Road, Lexington, 9am-2pm Browse handmade craft items and food trucks at this wonderful event sponsored by the Lexington County Recreation and Aging Commission. Admission is free with a donation of household items or canned goods.

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THURSDAY, DECEMBER 7 The FARM 1780 hosts Hen’s Night Out–Holiday Market 1127 Corley Mill Road, Lexington, 4:30pm-7:30pm Shop local for the holidays with over 25 vendors while enjoying scrumptious farmto-table delicacies. This event is for ages 21+; tickets are $49 which includes a fresh meal, bottomless wine, and a special goody bag from participating vendors.

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9 North Pole Event & Holiday Parade of Lights 1006 12th Street, Cayce, 12pm Enjoy a day of free holiday fun hosted by the Greater Cayce-West Columbia Chamber! Let the kids chat with Santa as you browse holiday gifts and crafts until 4pm; parade starts at 5:30 pm.

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SUNDAY, DECEMBER 24 Christmas Eve Build a gingerbread house or make ornaments with your family; read a seasonal story together before bed. Don’t forget to leave cookies and milk by the tree for Santa!

MONDAY, DECEMBER 25 MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM OUR TOWN MAGAZINE! Cherish the season with your loved ones; visit nearby friends, call distant relatives, worship with family, share a meal, reflect on the year’s accomplishments, and make precious memories!

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 31

New Year’s Eve Ring in the New Year with family and friends!

Have fun, but be safe—be prepared with a designated driver if necessary.

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SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2 Lake Murray Christmas Boat Parade Lake Murray Dam, 1797 North Lake Drive, Lexington, 4:30pm-8pm Don’t miss this free, familyfriendly, signature waterfront event! Experience the unique, floating boat procession as it gracefully meanders through the lake in sync with choreographed music (93.1 The Lake) and ends with an amazing fireworks finale.

Space is very limited; make plans to arrive early, and for their safety, please leave pets at home for this event.

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FRIDAY, DECEMBER 8 – SUNDAY, DECEMBER 17

Jesus is His Name Live Performance South Congaree Arena, 395 Oak Street, West Columbia, various times Witness this free, astonishing two-hour program that journeys through the birth, life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

This is an indoor performance; reservations are not required.

Town of Chapin Old Timey Christmas Event Beaufort and Clark Streets, Chapin, 5pm-8pm Don’t miss this night of holiday cheer and fun activities! Watch the tree light up at 6:30pm, visit Mr. & Mrs. Claus, listen to live music and special festive readings, and sing along with the carolers as you shop!

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HAPPY NEW YEAR FROM OUR TOWN MAGAZINE! Share anticipated 2024 blessings and upcoming plans, set future intentions over a traditional meal with family; watch televised parades, or play a game of football.

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SHOP LOCAL

Shopping Small Benefits your Community

By Jennifer McCall

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he holidays are upon us, and everyone is in a hurry to get things done! Even the most organized people struggle to balance family gatherings, traveling, company parties, home decorations, and, of course, gifts. Although holiday festivities are intended to spend time with those we love and create lasting memories, most people will agree that it requires a substantial amount of money and time. Regardless of the size of your budget, results from the 2023 Deloitte Holiday Retail Survey

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indicate that consumers are prepared to spend an average of $1,652 this holiday season, surpassing pre-pandemic figures for the first time.

Recognizing where you spend money is just as important as keeping track of how much money you spend. Have you heard of the “multiplier effect”? This term refers to the increase in local economy that results from locally owned, independent businesses, owners, and their employees spending business revenue within the same area. According to the American Independent

For the boater or gardener in your life: Drop by family-owned Boland’s Ace Hardware in Chapin and browse the huge assortment of signature specialty gift items, boating supplies, gardening supplements, automotive supplies, and yard tools. Owner Eric Boland has something for everyone; he even offers handyman services for those tough home projects.

For the “furbaby” in your life: Stop by Lazy Creek Pet Food Center, owned by Michael and Pam Modica. They offer an extensive array of pet food, treats, toys, and small pets. Their energetic and knowledgeable employees are ready to help you make a smart selection. Michael and Pam are invested in contributing to rescue efforts and donating supplies to local shelters.

Visit their stores in Lexington and Leesville.

For your significant other: Let Chris and Ruth Chapman, owners of The Chapman Company Fine Jewelers, show you the most current, exquisite jewelry selections along with heirloom pieces that will create smiles for generations to come. With over 25 years of experience, Chris can repair or refurbish almost any piece of jewelry with delicate, precise craftsmanship and expertise.

For the “Fashionista” or “Cowboy” in your life: How about a handmade, monogrammed, leather belt, pair of boots, bag, ornament, hat, or wallet from Lexington Leather and Shoe Repair, owned by Larry and Lisa Davis? Larry has been repairing shoes for 38 years and added handcrafted leather items a few years ago. Stop by one of their 3 locations in Lexington for gift browsing and remember to bring any leather items that may need repairs.

Alliance (AIBA), you can expect a firm 48% return to your community when you shop locally within your zip code, versus 13.6% when shopping elsewhere.

Why should you “shop local?” Because it protects our precious community, its economy, and its residents. When a company has a steady flow of business, employees will be hired to serve customers, creating more jobs for neighbors, friends, and family.

Shopping online may be more convenient or slightly cheaper at times, but your hard-earned money is directed away from your local area. Small, independently owned companies support your grandchild’s school fundraiser, promote local animal shelters, sponsor local sports teams, and host local charity events because they are invested in their community. Shopping local guarantees that your money will benefit the regional tax base to improve the roads, parks, schools, etc. that you, your family members, and your neighbors use regularly.

As you begin searching for that “perfect gift”, here are a few great ideas to keep in mind from locally-owned businesses in Lexington County: For the cook in your life: How about some delicious, high-quality, herb-infused olive oil, flavored balsamic vinegar, or unique kitchen accessories from The Classy Cruet, owned by Greg and Kaye Gerrald? Greg and Kaye’s passion is promoting healthy living. Visit their stores in Lexington or Chapin.

For your co-workers: Order a customized selection or build your charcuterie board gift with Tony Malizia, owner of Carolina Charcuterie Company. Choose from a huge array of boxes, cups, boards, traveling boards, grazing tables, and more, with private labeling available for special occasions. Customers are invited to bring their favorite board from home!

For the office party: Whether you are feeding a party of 6 or 60, check out Diablo’s Southwest Grill in Lexington for fresh, savory, apple-wood smoked meats and side dishes that will delight everyone! Owner Kevin Boyd also carries local craft beer and networks with many local charity organizations.

For mailing gifts and cards: It’s never too late! Remember to get your gifts and cards in the mail with Tim and Jane Ivey, owners of The UPS Store before the rush begins. Be sure to ask about their "Pack & Ship Guarantee" at both locations in Lexington.

Let’s face it—money will be spent for the holidays; why not help your community in the process? While we want to recognize the people in our lives by giving things that will stand the test of time, we also want to offer some fun, practical solutions, and maybe even hit a trend. No matter what your budget may be, these ideas should make your search a bit less stressful and give you the peace of mind that comes with supporting and empowering your community.

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Lindsey Pilkington Memorial Foundation

Lindsey, Family, Friends, and the Future

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By Kristi Antley

indsey Nicole Pilkington was a sharp, active, young woman with an infectious smile and glowing personality. Originally from Arkansas, she was employed by the Lexington Police Department IT Division in 2012 and had a passion for numbers, computers, and stimulating conversation. Lindsey was in great physical shape and held many titles in Judo, competing across the United States. On March 13, 2017, she was murdered in her home at the vibrant age of 31 by her estranged husband.

Lindsey's family, friends, and co-workers made a vow not to allow Lindsey’s light to fade, but to elevate it so that others could be inspired by the things she represented and had accomplished. Together they created the Lindsey Pilkington Memorial Foundation to help empower women, educate the public, and raise awareness of domestic violence in the Midlands. Partnering with vetted and verified businesses and compassionate individuals has allowed the foundation to enrich the lives of countless women and their families since it was established in 2017.

The Lindsey Pilkington Memorial Foundation is a 501c3 nonprofit that strives to provide and facilitate efforts to combat violence against women. Services are based on availability and need and include but are not limited to the following: prevention and awareness tools for youth, scholarships for Jiu-Jitsu training, counseling and mentoring therapies, self-defense techniques,

firearms training for women who want to be better prepared, intervention and support for survivors, and immediate mental health services for women in distress. Members of the foundation also volunteer their expertise and personal time to benefit other programs and initiatives that support Lindsey's mission.

Domestic violence takes many forms and exists on almost every level of society. The first person a victim turns to is most often a friend, family member, or trusted faith leader or therapist. The Lindsey Pilkington Memorial Foundation focuses on building the confidence and competence of individuals in the community to acknowledge, support, and uplift survivors. Although physical force is one means of power and control, it is often not the first one experienced. Being familiar with more subtle or non-physical types of abuse is an important part of being able to recognize situations that could potentially result in violence, both in your own life and other people's lives.

Contributions from donors enable the foundation to provide services and resources for women in many different stages of life. This is where you can help; be an advocate and help combat domestic violence. For more information on how to get involved in the effort to protect victims of violence and spread awareness, visit LinzFoundation.com or follow their social media pages. For details regarding an upcoming opportunity on March 23, 2024, don’t miss an issue of Our Town Magazine!

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McLeod's Mission

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aring for the greatest generation” is not a random phrase that Tim and Melisa McLeod use loosely; they view caregiving as a true honor. This commitment is attributed to Melisa’s care of her Uncle Paul, who developed diabetes in his latter years. Paul Herrington, a retired fire chief, was highly respected by the community and was cherished by friends and family.

He embraced each day with a joyful heart and kept a smile on his face. He did not allow negative past experiences or career hardships to reflect in his approach to life.

Melisa quickly developed a passion for this type of servitude, and after discussing possibilities with her husband, they were determined to make a difference.

Tim and Melisa McLeod have been dedicated to making McLeod Home Care the leading in-home care service in the Midlands since 2016. As they continue to develop and train their growing team

of skilled and compassionate caregivers, McLeod Home Care has expanded to the Charleston region. The couple says their success is due first and foremost to God, who has graciously provided them with the knowledge, personnel, patience, and resources required to deliver quality services with integrity to each client. Tim and Melisa have been personally rewarded by improving the quality of life for seniors in the Midlands and are confident

that this is their mission.

Each senior has specific preferences, limitations, characteristics, interests, and restrictions, and the McLeod Home Care “Professional Approach” takes every detail seriously. There are several options to choose from, including but not limited to personal care services, Alzheimer's and Dementia care, companion care, light housekeeping, transportation services, meal preparation, VA care, and VA respite care. They know that the home is usually a person’s greatest investment and safe haven. Regardless of which stage you or your beloved elder may be in life, the team at McLeod Home Care will make life easier, more comfortable, and more secure while maintaining the freedom to live as independently as possible. “No matter what kind of care a client needs, we will respect their home like our own,” Melisa explains. “With carefully planned solutions for clients, we can make sure that everyone is happy, whether we're cooking or helping someone with memory issues.”

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GIVING BACK

Answering the Call

By Paige Youmans

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llness. Accident. Job loss. Eviction. For some Lexington County residents, these issues could result in a sense of helplessness and hopelessness. Enter Mission Lexington, a coordinated response for those who find themselves amid a crisis.

Founded in 1978, Mission Lexington serves as the hub of care, assisting families and individuals in crisis with major essentials: food, clothing, shelter, resources, and guidance. With its mission based on Matthew 25:40 to “glorify God by serving our

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neighbors in crisis,” the Mission operates a thrift store, social service information center, food bank, and donation center.

With a limited full-time staff coordinating efforts, the Mission counts among their network partners many local businesses, government agencies, corporations, organizations, individuals, and more than 50 member churches who sustain and support their vision.

Executive Director Robin Bowers has continued to ensure the success of the Mission’s programs and its ongoing financial stability. This includes maintaining independence as well as overseeing the expansion and restructuring of facilities to accommodate the needs of the ever-expanding Lexington population.

Under Bowers’ leadership, the Mission has seen the percentage of families and individuals served increase exponentially.

Amy Reeves, Director of Community Relations, notes that "Lexington County is growing at a rate of 13% annually, and the number of our neighbors in need is growing." This has resulted in a staggering increase in the numbers served by the Mission. Each month the food pantry assists 1200 families and an additional 170 seniors through the mobile food pantry outreach. During the holidays roughly 2000 families are accommodated with holiday food baskets and 700 families receive gifts to place under the tree.

In addition to food and basic hygiene provisions, the Mission also provides clothing. Reeves adds that the Mission has distributed $95,000 in clothing vouchers this year, which comes to about $8,000 a month in clothing provided for eligible clients.

As a fiscally savvy visionary, Bowers proudly notes that the thrift shop funds the operational budget, ensuring the Mission remains financially sound, which is often a difficult status for nonprofit organizations to secure. The Mission continues to seek community support through financial contributions, donations of basic necessities, and volunteers to deliver quality services to Lexington County residents in crisis. There are many opportunities to get involved, such as signature events that

SOCIAL SERVICES | THRIFT SHOP | FOOD PANTRY include Undercover Buddies in October (formerly “Socktober"), a local drive to restock clothing shelves with essentials for residents in need. In November, Mission Lexington hosted its annual “Oyster Roast for a Reason,” a night of awareness for neighbors in need. Not only did the event celebrate the Mission’s successes and its comradery with the community, but it also raised funds to allow for upcoming projects. In response to the generosity of the community, Reeves enthusiastically states, “We are so thankful for our volunteers, donors, and partners in prayer that continue to support Mission Lexington.”

To witness firsthand how Mission Lexington operates, the staff of Our Town toured the facilities and worked in the thrift shop, donation center, and food bank. We were warmly welcomed with a summary of the infrastructure and allowed to shadow the staff and regular volunteers. It was amazing to see how smoothly volunteers and staff worked in a coordinated effort to organize the multitude of food, clothing, and product donations. The facility has successfully implemented and honed donation acceptance and distribution procedures to efficiently serve the community, ensure the effective use of volunteer time, and simplify the process to allow for intermittent untrained help (like us). It is an impressive operation that answers the needs and prayers of Lexington County individuals and families in crisis. Thank you to the folks at Mission Lexington for opening your doors to Our Town Magazine and granting time to serve alongside you!

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LOCAL ARTIST

The “Karolina Karver”

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By Mark Aker

was born and raised in central Illinois on a large farm with my parents and four other siblings. Being the oldest son, I was up before school for chores and hurried home after school for more chores. Farm life involves the entire family, and though I didn’t think about it at the time, I’m blessed to have been raised learning to work for the things I wanted or needed. I have always enjoyed working with my hands. My dad was a carpenter and I helped him complete several small home remodeling projects as a teenager.

Tina and I were married in 1983 and moved to South Carolina in July of 1995.

We will celebrate 40 years of marital bliss this November. I attended Midlands Tech and worked as an HVAC technician before being hired at the University of South Carolina as a Mechanical Supervisor. I retired in 2019, and am currently filling my retirement years with traveling, working out at the gym, volunteering at my church, and carving as much as possible.

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My woodcarving journey began in 1985 after attending a woodcarving meeting with a bunch of “old” guys in the basement of a church in Illinois. It was fascinating to watch what could be produced from a block of wood, and it wasn’t long before I was hooked. I couldn’t get enough of the craft; I attended carving shows, read every magazine article available, entered competition events, and thoroughly enjoyed participating in anything related to woodcarving. Though I have won many awards throughout my years of carving, the one I am most proud of is Santa dragging his Christmas tree home through the snow. It was chosen as the overall winner in the 2007 Woodcarving Illustrated National Santa Carving Contest. Exposure from that competition brought attention to my name in the carving world. That success, along with the explosion of the internet, ultimately turned my “hobby” into a solid business.

Working with wood is my way to relax and release stress. Spending time in my woodshop listening to great Christian mu-

sic and settling into a new carving project is my idea of the perfect day. For anyone contemplating beginning wood carving, I would suggest that you start as you would with any other hobby: practice, practice, and then practice some more. Attend or watch as many seminars as you can, as each teacher has a different way of creating, preparing, and presenting projects. As you learn these different techniques, your individual style will emerge. Also, please wear all the recommended safety items related to woodcarving such as a leather apron or a cut-proof glove. They may seem like a nuisance, but they can prevent a serious cut or even a trip to the emergency room for stitches!

Mark can be reached for teaching seminars, competition judging, rough-out, and completed carvings sales at: Makers415@gmail.com To access Mark’s online instructional courses: WoodCarvingAcademy.com

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COVER STORY

To Serve and Protect

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By Kristi Antley

espite the wide range of vital and skilled services that first responders provide, their contributions and expertise are often unknown, misunderstood, or overlooked. Even those receiving active services do not understand this broad community and its full range of capabilities and resources. Its members stand ready and willing to provide lifesaving services 24 hours a day, seven days a week for both natural and man-made disasters, hazards, and emergencies. The essential responsibilities of first responders (not limited to, but including emergency medical technicians and dispatchers, paramedics, search and rescue personnel, firefighters, police officers, etc.), are very strenuous in many different mental, physical, and emotional aspects, both long and short-term. The superior level of support and attention given by the County of Lexington and its first responders is overwhelming. Our Town Magazine is honored for the opportunity to recognize their dedication and bring awareness to our community.

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Terri Bushman has been a Training Staff Sergeant with Lexington County EMS (Emergency Medical Services) for a little over a year. “I'd been in EMS for 7 years and had been a paramedic for 5 years. This job offered me a chance to keep running calls, but to do it from a different perspective.” Supervising and directing personnel in a dangerous, exhausting, high-pressure environment takes a toll on even the most prepared person.

“My poor husband gets to listen to all my grievances,” she says. “He is extremely supportive and tells me frequently how proud he is of me and the job I do; he thinks all of EMS is amazing!” Sergeant Bushman and her husband are delighted that their daughter joined Lexington County EMS last year.

Lexington County EMS Training Staff Sergeant Terri Bushman

Despite their willingness to serve, there is often not enough time to recover and decompress between traumatic events for first responders. They may feel unable to ask for help or recognize their own problems, let alone distinguish their experience from the perceived norm associated with their occupation. As Chief Cannon remarks, improvements are being made as the County grows and infrastructure expands further into rural areas. “The past few years have brought more per-

Lexington County Fire Service Battalion Chief Steven Cannon

Steven Cannon, Battalion Chief, has been with the Lexington County Fire Service for almost twenty years. Other than being the incident commander and safety officer on major incidents such as structure fires, forest fires, and vehicle accidents, he manages nine stations and their employees.

“Dealing with the emotional and psychological components of the position comes with having someone you trust that you can talk with,” Chief Cannon explains.

“There could have been a serious call that had a fatality or a call that you felt should have gone a little better.”

Town of Lexington Assistant Chief of Police Matt Davis

sonnel to the floor, and the department is growing. We now have aerial monitoring devices throughout the County, as well as two more stations that are getting ready to start building.”

Recruits are always needed, as Matt Davis, Assistant Chief of Police for the Town of Lexington explains, “Unlike 25 years ago, virtually every law enforcement organization in the nation is struggling to acquire and maintain a full complement of police officers. We as a department are trying several different avenues to cope with this issue,” Chief Davis continues.

“The first is that we have completed a study on what other local and state agencies are paying their officers. Second, we are looking for new places to recruit candidates from, and third, we have changed police culture, meaning that officers are allowed to take their vehicles home.”

Thomas W. Griffin, Chief of Police for the Town of Chapin, started his career in law enforcement almost 14 years ago with the West Columbia Police Department. He was honored to be appointed in his hometown of Chapin 2 years ago and agrees that recruitment and retention are vital to having a strong force. “To put it simply, this job isn’t for everyone. Being a police officer in Chapin, or anywhere in South Carolina, it is often hard to walk through a store or sit down to eat, without being interrupted and thanked for our service,” Chief Griffin remarks. “This shows that the perceived public opinion is not always true in your local communities. The outpouring of support for our officers from the community of Chapin has been nothing short of stellar.”

The presence of local first responder personnel ensures the safety and well-being of the population at large. How can we, as a community, reduce burnout, fatigue, or other issues associated with being overworked, uncertain, or stressed for these humble servants? You can drop a note in the mail, volunteer your time, post a glowing review on social media, share and sponsor local events, or deliver treats and/or gift cards to your local public service officers. Simply being recognized, acknowledged, and appreciated is guaranteed to bring a smile to each of their faces!

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ABRAHAM THE ACTOR

The Camel for Christ

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By Paige Youmans

hat local actor has appeared in numerous plays regarding the birth of Christ, sports a humped back, and loves Mountain Dew? Abraham the Camel! If you’ve spent the holidays in Lexington County during the past two decades, you’ve probably encountered Abraham, the Mountain Dew-guzzling camel.

When the need for a camel arose for their church’s Christmas program over twenty years ago, Cliff and Margaret Fisher prayed for a way to help and ultimately found an answer to their prayers-they adopted a three-month-old camel!

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At that point, “Abraham” would come into the house for bottle feedings, often distributed from repurposed, sanitized Mountain Dew bottles. This process led to Abraham’s infatuation with Mountain Dew as an adult!

Abraham found himself basking in the spotlight as part of the livestock actors in several Christmas pageants, numerous local events, and dramas such as This Man Called Jesus. When the drama concluded production, Cliff created Jesus is His Name Ministries with Abraham by his side. Abraham quickly developed a huge following as a local celebrity.

People are drawn to community events featuring Abraham, and their reactions continue to be warm and positive as they witness the camel’s personality and famed relationship with Mountain Dew. He has performed for over 26 years in church programs, VBS sessions, nursing homes, and school events; he ventures out to visit the public once or twice each week.

Caring for an unusual and large pet like Abraham is a lot like owning and caring for a horse. “He’s just like a big dog; I never told him he was a camel. He just follows me around the farm,” jokes Cliff.

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Carrying Your Load

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1. Dedicate time for self-reflection: As one year prepares to end and another to begin, take time to reflect on this year’s highlights as well as persisting challenges. What factors were/are in your control versus out of your control? Are there opportunities to appreciate the impact others have had this year or to allow others to better assist going forward? Are the expectations you set for yourself or others reasonable/achievable?

2. Communicate: Though it can be easy to assume others automatically know our individual perspectives and needs, frustration and disappointment can take root if we do not consider what our expectations are and how we communicate them to others. Is our support network sufficient, or might having outside support and perspective be advantageous?

3. Be intentional with time management: What are your top priorities today/this week/this month? Block off time on your calendar (or set phone alerts) to focus just on that priority/challenge for a certain amount of time with little or no distractions.

How can you tackle that priority/challenge in a new or different way that may offer better results than you have been experiencing? Who might be able to assist you in creating a new plan of action?

4. Establish and maintain boundaries: Availability of time and resources differs greatly among those in our lives. A great way to reduce stress and maintain positive relationships with others is to proactively establish and clearly communicate what we have to offer to those we love and care for and what boundaries may need to be established to ensure balance is maintained.

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CHEF'S SELECTIONS

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hether visions of sugarplums are dancing in your head, or you’re toasting the approaching new year, these desserts are sure to brighten holiday celebrations before any New Year’s resolutions take effect. Throw caution to the wind and satisfy your sweet tooth with Our Town’s assortment of December Desserts submitted by Lexington locals. We wish you a joyous holiday season and delicious merriment as you enjoy these tasty treats!

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Easy New York Style Cheesecake with Raspberry Purée Submitted by: Kevin Boyd, Diablo’s Southwest Grill INGREDIENTS: 16 oz. cream cheese 1 3/4 c. sugar, divided 1/2 c. sour cream 2 eggs 2 tsp. vanilla extract 1 lemon, cut in half 2 12 oz. packs of fresh raspberries* 1 store-bought large graham cracker pie crust

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DIRECTIONS: For Cheesecake: 1. In a blender/food processor, add cream cheese, 1 c. sugar, vanilla, eggs, sour cream, and ½ squeezed lemon. Use a fine mesh strainer to catch lemon seeds.

2. Blend until completely smooth, and no clumps of cream cheese are visible; about 5 to 6 minutes.

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. We will be baking this in a water bath using a large foil pan to fit the pie crust, with about 1 1/2” of water filling the pan.

Fill pie crust with cheesecake mix, set into water pan. Water should cover the pie pan foil halfway.

Place in center rack of oven uncovered; bake for 1 hr. 15 min. Pie should be firm with mild browning on top.

Remove from oven; remove from water pan and chill in refrigerator for a minimum of 4 hrs.

For Purée: 1. In a blender/food processor, add raspberries, other half of lemon squeezed using strainer to catch seeds, 3/4 c. sugar.

2. Blend until completely smooth, about 5 minutes.

3. Use fine mesh strainer to strain finished purée; catch raspberry seeds.

4. Chill in refrigerator for a few hours to cool.

5. Serve poured over chilled cheesecake. * Strawberries can be substituted, and no strainer is necessary.

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Submitted by: Heather Bruce, The Blended Bakery INGREDIENTS: 1 1/2 c. unsalted butter, softened to room temperature (not melted) 1 c. granulated (white) sugar 1 c. packed brown sugar 1/2 c. unsulphured molasses 2 eggs 4 1/2 c. all-purpose flour 4 tsp. baking soda 1 tbsp. ground ginger 2 tsp. ground cinnamon 1 tsp. ground cloves 1 tsp. salt DIRECTIONS: 1. In a medium bowl, whisk together flour, soda, cinnamon, cloves, ginger, and salt. Set aside.

2. Using a separate mixing bowl, either with a stand mixer or a hand mixer, cream together the softened butter and sugars on medium-high speed until the mixture is light and fluffy and a pale-yellow color, about 2 minutes, scraping down the sides occasionally as needed.

3. Mix in the eggs (one at a time) and molasses and beat on medium-low speed until each is combined.

4. Gradually add in the dry ingredient mixture and beat until it is evenly incorporated.

5. Transfer the dough to an airtight container and refrigerate for at least 2 hours, until dough is chilled.

6. Preheat oven to 350°F. Line a sheet pan with parchment paper; set aside.

7. Use a 2 in. cookie scoop and scoop into balls.

8. Fill a separate small bowl with sugar and roll each ball in the sugar until it is completely coated. Place dough balls on the prepared baking sheet.

9. Bake for about 8-10 minutes, until the cookies begin to slightly crack on top. Remove from the oven and let cool for 4-5 minutes. Transfer the cookies to wire racks to cool completely.

10. Serve warm and enjoy!

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2. Fill the bottom of the trifle dish with half of the cake or doughnuts.

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INSPIRATION

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As a child, that question consumed my thoughts from Black Friday until 7am Christmas morning. (That’s the earliest my parents would get up). For me, the lights, cookies, decorations, and holiday TV specials were merely added bonuses to the true meaning of Christmas—getting presents. Sure, I knew that Jesus was the real reason for the Season, but I also knew that He was the best gift ever. That simply confirmed it. Christmas is all about getting.

Then, when I was 9, my 11-year-old brother got the idea that we should give our parents a ceiling fan for Christmas. This was quite the gift, given our $5/week allowance. We had to save up for months, but it was totally worth it. When I saw the look on my parents’ faces as they opened this amazing gift, in that moment I realized that true joy wasn’t in getting. It’s in giving.

The Bible tells us, “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35 NRSV). That Christmas I experienced this reality for the first time, and as I look back on Christmases past, the gifts I remember most aren’t the ones I was given. They’re the ones I gave. That’s because the true joy of Christmas is found in generosity. Studies have shown that giving to others actually produces a reaction in our brain that creates happiness and that the happiest people in the world tend to be more generous than others. Therefore, giving shouldn’t simply be a holiday tradition. It should be a way of life. So remember, when the tree comes down and the decorations are back in the attic, toys may break, clothes wear out, and electronics die, but the joy of generosity lasts a lifetime.

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