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PUBLISHER’S LETTER
Mother’s Day and Father’s Day have always been special occasions in my family. When we were little, it meant a time of rest and relaxation for Mama and Dad. It meant bringing them little handmade cards and gifts that they would happily display on the refrigerator or on the table. When I got married, I was blessed to have a motherin-law whom I love, and thankfully, she loves me, too. Now, we celebrate with dinners, flowers, cards, and edible arrangements for parents and grandparents while enjoying each moment together.
Next came the birth of my children. My daughter and son are grown now, but I, too, still have those sweet little handmade cards and gifts that they created with all the innocence and love children have for their parents. I am so proud of the adults they have become, and this new milestone ushered me into another phase of parenthood. This is not necessarily a bad thing; it is simply different. Instead of sharing about their playground adventures, they tell me about their days at work. And I listen to them tease each other as only siblings can, and I think: FINALLY THEY ARE FRIENDS! It makes me so happy to know that this time has arrived. Do not get me wrong, they have always loved each other, but the teasing would often turn into fussing like it does with most siblings. This new part is refreshing to say the least, and I am thankful to be around them to see it firsthand.
Not to rush things, but I am truly looking forward to the time when they have their own children and become parents themselves. I tell my husband, Brian, all the time that when I do have a grandbaby, the world needs to look out because he or she is going to be so spoiled. He laughs and says that, after a day spent with us—loading them up on sugar and caffeine—we can always send them home!
What are some of those special mementoes you have stockpiled around your home? What are some of the memories you and your family are currently making and hope to make in the future? Whatever they may be, I hope that all your future Mother’s and Father’s Days are full of love, hugs, and blessings.
Local Events: May/June
HIGHLIGHTED EVENT
SATURDAYS, MAY 16-SEPT 24
The Market at Icehouse
Icehouse Amphitheater
107 W. Main St., Lexington 9am-1pm
Saturdays are for strolling, sipping, listening to live music, and discovering hidden gems at the Market at Icehouse! From handmade goods to fresh produce and one-of-a-kind treasures, every booth has something special waiting for you. Come shop local and support the heart of Lexington!
IcehouseAmphitheater.com
SATURDAY, MAY 2
Diary of a Wimpy Kid: The Musical Harbison Theatre
7300 College St., Irmo 2pm & 6pm
Based on the beloved Diary of a Wimpy Kid book by Jeff Kinney, this hilarious and heartfelt production brings Greg Heffley’s cartoon diary to life on stage. As Greg navigates friendships, popularity, and the dreaded “Cheese Touch,” he learns what truly matters in life. Packed with humor, energy, and relatable moments.
ColumbiaChildrensTheatre.com
SATURDAY, MAY 2SUNDAY, MAY 3
Repticon Columbia Jamil Shrine Temple 206 Jamil Rd., Columbia Times Vary
This show brings everything you love about Repticon’s two days of fun and excitement to the Midlands! See live reptiles and exotic animals from around the world, shop for pets and pet products directly from the experts at unbeatable prices, and learn fascinating facts about these incredible creatures.
Repticon.com
SUNDAY, MAY 3
Spring Open House
Lexington County Museum 242 Fox St., Lexington 2pm-5pm FREE EVENT! Visitors are invited to explore the museum’s grounds and historic buildings while learning about the rich heritage of the county. Enjoy live demonstrations including blacksmithing, basket making, and traditional cooking. Perfect for all ages, this familyfriendly event also features complimentary refreshments and hands-on opportunities to experience history up close. LexingtonCountyMuseum.org
FRIDAY, MAY 8
The Return: A Tribute to the Beatles
Moore Park
7473 Church St., Irmo 5pm-10pm
Close out the Irmo Town Limits Spring Concert Series with an unforgettable night of music and nostalgia. The Return brings the iconic sound of The Beatles to life with spoton vocals, vintage instruments, and authentic style. Enjoy a lively evening filled with charttopping hits!
IrmoAMP.com
SATURDAY, MAY 9
Guided Paddle Tour
Saluda Shoals Park
5605 Bush River Rd., Columbia
10am-12pm
Experience the beauty of the Lower Saluda River. Learn about the area’s natural history while enjoying a relaxing trip downriver, with all equipment provided. Be ready to get wet as you explore this scenic waterway—weather and river conditions permitting. Open to ages 5 and up, but children under 11 must ride in a tandem kayak with an adult.
ICRC.net
SATURDAY, MAY 9
Lexington’s Wine Walk Icehouse Amphitheater
107 West Main St., Lexington 4pm-7pm
Stroll through the downtown area during the popular Lexington Wine Walk, where local shops open their doors for an evening of wine tasting and relaxed shopping. Guests can sample a variety of wines while exploring participating businesses, discovering unique finds, and enjoying the lively atmosphere of Main Street.
LexSC.gov
WEDNESDAY, MAY 13
Senior Singles Mingle
Mungo Park
2121 Lake Murray Blvd., Columbia
5pm-7pm
Enjoy an exciting night of speed dating for singles 50 and up, with admission just $20 per person. Break the ice with guided questions and playful games, snack on finger foods, and enjoy live music and a cash bar. It’s a relaxed, welcoming way to meet new people.
ICRC.net
THURSDAY, MAY 14SUNDAY, MAY 31
Nana’s Naughty Knickers Chapin Theatre Company 830 Columbia Ave., Chapin Times Vary
A recent college graduate, Bridget, is moving in with her sweet grandmother for a relaxing summer before she heads to law school. However, when she discovers that her grandma is running an illegal business selling handmade “naughty knickers” especially made for seniors, relaxation is out the window. Will grandma get arrested - or worse, evicted?
ChapinTheatre.org
SATURDAY, MAY 16SUNDAY, MAY 17
Festival at the Friar’s Gate Moore Park 7473 Church St., Irmo 10am-6pm
Step into a land of old-world charm at the First Grand Festival at Friar’s Gate in the village of Ravenmoore. Experience a day filled with live music, roaming performers, and exciting contests of skill and honor. Although not required, guests are encouraged to dress in medieval or fantasy attire. Admission is free, so secure your online tickets today.
FriarsGateFestival.com
THURSDAY, MAY 21
Icehouse Live Spring Concert Series: The Fringe Benefits
Icehouse Amphitheater 107 West Main St., Lexington 6:30pm-9pm The Spring Concert Series is closing out with a party to remember! Now based in Lexington, SC, The Fringe Benefits are a high-energy, five-piece cover band serving up dance-floor favorites from the ’80s, ’90s, Motown, and today’s Top 40.
IcehouseAmphitheater.com
SATURDAY, MAY 30
The Dam Boat Run at Lake Murray 2026 Lake Murray Marina 1602 Marina Rd., Irmo 9am
Get ready to light up Lake Murray for The Dam Boat Run, South Carolina’s ultimate powerboat charity event. High-performance boats and powerhouse crews take over the water for a high-energy day on the lake, with Lake Murray Marina and Liberty on the Lake serving as the hubs for the action.
LakeMurrayPowerBoatRun.com
SATURDAY, JUNE 6
Shock The Block 5K Saluda Shoals Park 6071 Saint Andrews Rd., Columbia 8:30am
This event invites runners and walkers of all ages to support the American Cancer Society and its mission in the community. Activities will include a Kids Fun Run, local vendors, free food and drink vouchers, event T-shirts, and finish-line medals in a fun, energetic atmosphere.
StrictlyRunning.com
Veteran Home Care Services Through the VA Community Care Network Veteran Services - Proudly Serving Those Who Served Us
Assisting Hands® is proud to partner with the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) as a provider within the Community Care Network (CCN). Through this partnership, we help ensure that eligible Veterans receive the support they need to remain safely and comfortably in their homes.
The VA Community Care Network offers supportive services to chronically ill or disabled Veterans of any age. These home care services are considered extended care and are prescribed and overseen by a VA physician.
Veterans who qualify may receive professional home care services from a VA-approved agency, wherever they call home. This program is designed for individuals who require assistance with daily living activities, as well as those who may feel isolated or whose primary caregivers are experiencing strain.
Homemaker & Home Health Aide
Services: A Homemaker or Home Health
Aide is a trained professional who visits
a Veteran’s home to assist with daily activities and personal care. While they are not nurses, they work under the supervision of a registered nurse who evaluates and monitors the Veteran’s needs.
Services are customized based on individual assessments. To qualify, Veterans must receive a referral from their VA physician at their local VA clinic.
Examples of Services Include: Personal care and grooming, assistance with dressing, bathing support, help with toileting, mobility assistance, transportation to and from appointments, meal preparation and eating assistance.
No-Cost
Care for Eligible Veterans: For qualifying Veterans, these essential home care services are provided completely free of charge, ensuring access to the support they deserve without financial burden.
When exploring eligibility, you may need to provide basic information such as the
Veteran’s name, date of birth, and Social Security number. VA representatives can help determine available benefits
Choosing Your Care Provider: It is important to note that the VA may automatically assign a home care agency if no preference is stated. To avoid this, clearly communicate with your chosen agency when arranging services.
Once a referral is submitted, Assisting Hands will coordinate with the Veteran and their family to establish a care plan. The agency will then deliver services and bill the VA directly on a weekly basis.
Assisting Hands is a non-medical inhome care agency, serving the Midlands since 2012. We are a locally owned franchise, licensed, bonded, and insured with an A+ BBB rating. Learn more at www.assistinghands.com/midlands or call 803-661-7557.
Our caregivers help improve a Veteran’s quality of life by helping with activities of daily living. Discover the care you deserve today.
Thomas & Jayne Falk
Buy, Sell, or Build Your Team Matters
By Julia Bell
The secret’s out—Lexington County is a wonderful place to call home! According to the U.S. Census Bureau, this area has experienced a 15.7-percent population growth in the last ten years. These figures represent individuals who have chosen to relocate to the area, and that decision often involves finding long-term housing. Whether the goal is to buy, sell, or build a home, the experience will be much more gratifying if the future homeowner does their homework ahead of time and selects the right team to assist in the process.
“Lexington offers an exceptional cost of living and contributes to a strong economic base here in the Midlands,” says Lisa T. Moore, a Coldwell Banker top-producing realtor and longtime Lexington County resident. “We are fortunate to have thriving communities filled with churches, programs for children and families that include a great variety of activities
and sports.”
When buying and selling a home, Moore assists individuals and families with this major undertaking, and their involvement makes the process run more smoothly. For instance, she can help buyers and sellers navigate the local housing market and position her clients for success. Moore can assist by negotiating contracts, inspections, and appraisals in both roles of representation.
Moore strongly believes that “you never get a second chance to make a good first impression.” In addition to routine maintenance, she can recommend less expensive improvements, such as landscaping, fresh paint, and better lighting, which make property more marketable. Other tips, like prioritizing upgrades to a kitchen and master bathroom, help a client get the best return on their investment.
Buyers are a step ahead of their competition when they get preapproved by local reputable lenders. Moore and realtors like
her are available to guide buyers and sellers in one of the largest financial decisions that will directly impact their family for years to come. Buyers should review insurance options, local utility companies and their rates, and property tax information to help anticipate the cost of living.
A real estate attorney is another important resource in the home-buying and selling process, and Lexington Attorney James McCutchen of McCutchen McLean, LLC, has handled real estate transactions while serving the Lexington community for the past 15 years. The responsibilities of firms such as this include preparing legal documents, verifying that a clear title is transferred, and ensuring the buyers have title insurance to protect their assets. They also review prior surveys and deeds to confirm there are no title defects, potential liens, or judgement liens attached to the property.
In addition to educating clients on town, county, and state requirements and taxes, real estate attorneys can advise them about new laws and regulations that may apply to or benefit them. Following the closing, attorneys distribute sale money to real estate agents and toward lender fees, closing costs, and any mortgage, repair, and lien payments.
Attorney McCutchen recommends that home buyers take time to select the right local real estate agent, lender, and closing attorney when buying and selling. “Do your homework, make sure they have experience in real estate closing, tax issues, probate issues, and that they know the local market,” he advises. “It can be the Wild West out here, and when sellers receive multiple offers, they often look at the real estate agent. Sometimes that can affect whether you get the contract or not.”
When building a new home, attorneys also provide essential services during the construction process. If required by the lender, they assist in an extra closing and help clients understand the construction loan terms. For example, an attorney would inform home builders that lenders usually lock rates after the first year of construction and then issue a fixed rate or variable rate loan. The construction process includes paying contractors in phases with heavy lender involvement, which are financial details a homeowner building their first homes should understand before beginning the process.
Seventeen years ago, Emily and Joe Wright founded The Wright Group Construction company, a business that specializes in creating custom homes, as well as remodels and additions. According to Emily Wright, choosing the right builder makes all the difference within this process. “We work hard to minimize issues, use trusted vendors and subcontractors, and work to resolve any issues quickly,” she says.
As an experienced builder, Wright also says that there are several important factors to consider when beginning this complex process. For example, municipal regulations may dictate the placement of the house on the property. Additionally, fees for utilities should fit within the homeowner’s budget, but if those services are not available, a well and septic tank must be installed, which requires guidance from the Department of Health and Environmental Control (DHEC).
a “forever home” or an investment to sell in a few years. With a construction loan, “a certain amount of work must be completed to be able to turn in a draw and get money off of the loan,” Wright explains. When budgeting for the project, she also advises adding 10-15 percent for unexpected contingencies. Wright concludes, “Choosing to build can be a challenging process, but the beautiful custom home you create is worth it in the end.”
Whether the goal is to buy, sell, or build your home, the experience will be less stressful and much more enjoyable if you choose the right team members to help in the process and do your homework ahead of time.
Lisa T. Moore
Coldwell Banker Realty
803-348-0601
LisaTMoore.com
James McCutchen
McCutchen McLean, LLC
803-785-4529
McCutchenMcLean.com
Emily Wright
The Wright Group
803-233-3373
TWGSC.com
“When choosing a house plan,” Wright adds, “it's important to consider not only what will fit on your lot, but also how much square footage and what type of layout will work best for your lifestyle.” These selections can impact the price, so homebuilders are cautioned to think about the end goal—whether this will be
The Harmon Family How They Turned Grief Into a Gift of Hope
By Samantha Brown
Everyone knows the story of the tortoise and the hare. The slow, steady turtle wins the race, not because he’s fast, but because he refuses to give up. But there’s a question that the story never answers: How did the turtle learn not to give up? For the Harmon family, that question became the foundation of a children’s book that would honor a mother’s courage, help a family heal, and offer hope to others walking through the darkest valleys.
Sarah Harmon faced a nearly two-year battle with colon cancer with faith and determination that left a lasting mark on everyone who witnessed it. Throughout her journey, she documented her experiences on CaringBridge and YouTube, sharing not just the struggles but also the hope that sustained her family.
Her husband Jesse watched helplessly as his wife fought with everything she had. “It was a real struggle early on,” Jesse recalls. “None of it really makes sense.” He also faced questions no parent wants to answer: How do you tell your children their mom has cancer? How do you explain what cancer is to a six-year-old?
Sarah passed away on March 21, 2025, leaving behind Jesse and their children, but in the midst of their grief, the family found a way to honor her memory while helping others who face similar battles. The book they published, titled My Mom Is My Hero and Her Journey to #Fighthard Against Cancer, began as a way for Jesse to answer his children’s questions and put a purpose to their pain. “It was a way for us to process what we were going through,” Jesse explains, “to put pen to paper about feelings we had but also to, hopefully, help other people in similar situations.”
The story follows a character named Tank the Turtle, who learns perseverance by watching his mother battle cancer. Since the narrative mirrors the Harmon family’s
own journey, Jesse hoped the book would create conversations about cancer, show how people can help, and offer hope through the process.
What makes this book even more remarkable is that it’s entirely a family creation. “Everything in the book, between content and illustration, is all us,” Jesse says. Jesse’s son, Graham, who is now 13, created all the artwork for the book when he was just 12. This included illustrating the story on every page, designing the front and back covers, and contributing to every design element of the publication. The younger children were involved, too, as Jesse would read drafts to them, and they would offer feedback about what they thought.
The book even comes with a plushy pillow of Tank the Turtle. However, the first prototype of the character didn’t pass muster with the two younger children. “Dad, this is horrible. You need to do something different,” they told him, so Graham came up with ideas for a redesign, and this second version is what accompanies the book today.
Ultimately, this collaborative process gave each child a way to honor their mother and process their feelings—they weren’t just reading a story about loss and perseverance; they were helping create it.
At the heart of the book is a message that sustained the Harmon family through their darkest moments: Trust God and never give up. Relatedly, Sarah’s favorite Bible verse was Proverbs 3:56, which says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart.” That verse became the backbone of how the family faced each day.
“Whenever life throws you the craziest curveballs, where do you go?” Jesse asks. “We want people to see that no matter the
circumstances, no matter the pain, trust in the Lord with all your heart. That’s what we want the message to be about through this whole process.”
Faith wasn’t just something the family talked about—it carried them through nearly two years of treatment, uncertainty, and loss. And it continues to sustain them as they share Sarah’s story, as the Harmon family has turned their grief into active outreach. They speak at churches and Fellowship of Christian Athletes meetings, sharing the book and its message.
People can purchase copies at tanktheturtle.com, but the
family is equally committed to giving books away to families in need. Last October, during Breast Cancer Awareness Month, they set a goal to give away one book a day for a total of 30 families facing cancer. “We ended up giving away 80-something books in the month of October,” Jesse shares.
This past March was especially significant, as this is Colon Cancer Awareness Month and it marks the one-year anniversary of Sarah’s passing. Because of this, the family is planning additional initiatives—ways to honor her memory while continuing to support others facing cancer battles—but they have not yet announced these plans publicly.
Although Sarah’s battle with cancer ended about a year ago, the legacy of her life continues. Through every copy of the book given to a family who has heard the words “you have cancer” for the first time, Tank the Turtle’s enduring example demonstrates the life lessons that the Harmon children learned from their mother’s experience: that perseverance is born from faith, that hope can sustain us through the hardest battles, and that even in loss, love creates something lasting.
When Jesse started writing this book, he was trying to answer his children’s questions and process his own pain, but what emerged was something bigger: a resource for families, a tribute to a remarkable woman, and a testimony to a faith that does not waver, even when circumstances seem impossible. My Mom Is My Hero isn’t just the title of a children’s book; it’s a declaration that rings true for the Harmon children and for countless other families who have found comfort and courage in its pages. Sarah may be gone, but through this book, her message endures: Trust God with all your heart, and never, ever give up.
Embrace a Better Healthspan!
Mosquito Joe of Lake Murray Their Quest to Cut Pests
By Marilyn Thomas
Mosquito Joe of Lake Murray, a local, award-winning pest control company, was launched by the Powell family in 2015 because they were personally sold on the franchise’s product and approach, which are effective, eco-friendly, and customer-oriented. The business still thrives today, and its goal is to continue to provide satisfactory services to the greater Lexington community and beyond.
Originally from Virginia, Trey and Cindy Powell moved to Columbia in 2003 to develop a franchise for preparing income tax, but by 2015, they were looking for a different type of business to invest in. When a friend who was affiliated with Mosquito Joe encouraged them to consider their company, “I kind of laughed at her and said, ‘I don't think I can get excited about pest control, but if you can kill some bugs, come on over, because I’ve got a million of them,’” Trey recalls.
About a week later, a technician from Mosquito Joe in Columbia arrived at the Powell’s lakefront property to treat their house and yard for insects. They were so successful at eliminating several types of annoying pests, Trey told four of his neighbors about their services, and they,
too, scheduled treatments that same week. Because of their effectiveness, Trey paused to reflect upon his assumptions about the company, and it wasn’t long before he contacted his associate to say: “Tell me about this franchise. Why have I never heard of this? People need to know
about this—this is amazing!” She responded to his inquiry by explaining that treating outside insects was the latest innovation in pest control, and in about a month, Trey and Cindy had decided to launch a Mosquito Joe in the Lake Murray area. Shortly after, the
Powell family moved to Lexington where their fledgling company was founded. “We got started, the community embraced us,” Trey says, “and we just started growing like wildfire.”
Although they began with just one administrative person and a technician to treat the properties, today, they have a staff of 25 with 4 in the sales and customer service department and 19 technicians in the field. They also own a fleet of 16 vehicles, some of which are used by a second branch that they now own and operate in Augusta, Georgia.
In the beginning, Mosquito Joe of Lake Murray was licensed to only treat mosquitoes, but over time, their technology evolved.
“We're really excited at this point to continue expanding our business into offering these other services,” Trey says. “The services that we offer are mosquito, flea and tick, fire ant elimination, [and] home pest defense, which is general pest control to keep roaches and ants out of your house or business. We do termites… and we do rodent control, which is designed to keep mice and rats out of your house.” Cindy adds that they also treat a lot of lake houses, docks, and boats for spider infestations.
and I don't see us as any different than that.”
According to Trey, Mosquito Joe strives to be a company that is “as easy to do business with as possible.” One of the ways they achieve this is by not requiring contracts with clients, and services are based on their customers’ needs, the climate, and the life cycle of insects. For example, mosquito control is typically done every three weeks between late February and mid-November, while fire ants are treated annually. Other exterminator services are offered yearround on a bi-monthly or quarterly basis.
“We believe that we want to earn your business the right way, every single time. We have a done-right guarantee on all services. If they're not happy, or they're having any kind of breakthrough, we do it again for free,” Trey explains. “I believe that every business is in business to help people,
Trey says that communication is the key to strong customer relations, and it begins with scheduling the appointment. “We are never going to show up unannounced,” he says. The technicians text and email before arriving, and the client can reply to and communicate with the technician if they need to provide special instructions before the visit. “It just gives them peace of mind that the technician who's there cares and will do everything that they can to resolve their problems,” he continues. After the job is finished, and before leaving the property, the technician will send another follow-up message to explain what work was done.
“At the end of the day,” explains Trey, “we're leaving a product that you can't see, you can't smell, you can't taste, and the only way you know it's working is that you don't have bugs.” Furthermore, when customers tell him they are happy to be buying outdoor furniture for the first time in years, Trey knows that Mosquito Joe’s problem-solving skills have been helpful and successful.
In 2024, U.S. News and World Report selected Mosquito Joe as the most eco-
friendly pest control company in the country. When requested, the company even offers a “100-percent eco-friendly” option, but they always endeavor to use the most effective and environmentally safe products available to eliminate pests, while avoiding “collateral damage” to beneficial insects like bees and butterflies.
Locally, the company was named “Small Business of the Year” in 2017 by the Lexington Chamber of Commerce, an organization in which the Powells are actively involved. Also, the Lake Murray branch of Mosquito Joe, which services the areas of Lexington, Irmo, Chapin, West Columbia, and beyond, was selected by the umbrella company as the “National Franchisee of the Year,” out of hundreds of branches throughout the United States.
“Mosquito Joe is big, but at the end of the day, this is still a family-owned business run by a family that lives here in Lexington,” says Trey. “Because we're a local, family-owned business, we're going to take care of their needs. Give us the opportunity to earn your business the right way.”
Mosquito Joe of Lake Murray MosquitoJoe.com 803-223-7916
Fishing with Dad Wrong Time, Wrong Place
—A Success Story
By Jacob Hester
Simply put, summers in South Carolina are HOT with temperatures sometimes rising to the 100-degree mark. For the fisherman, the sweltering climate creates its own set of unique challenges, and at Lake Murray, the warm-bath waters force the fish to dive down deep, in search of relief and sustenance. On any particular summer weekend, experienced fishermen arrive early to beat the heat in hopes of hooking a few bass. As the sun rises, their boats are seen floating in the middle of the lake with their lines submerged in the water.
Thus, it’s no surprise that the idea of going fishing at two o’clock in the afternoon would never cross my mind, but this would not necessarily be the case for my enthusiastic sons, who are nine and six years old. On a bright Sunday morning, I was awakened unreasonably early by the nine-year-old who was practicing with the new “bait casting” reel he had received as a recent birthday gift. When he hooked the crawfish jig in the comforter on my bed, that was my sign to change course.
“Dad, the sun is up. Let’s go!” he begged.
“Bubs, we have church, and your brother is still asleep,” I reminded him.
When a big sigh heaved from his little lungs, I decided to task him with something doable to keep his spirits up. I took him outside, pitched a paper plate in the yard, and suggested, “Son, while I make breakfast, try to hit the plate with your bait.”
As I pulled open the refrigerator door and grabbed the canned cinnamon rolls, the back door burst open. Sure enough, the plate was successfully hooked, and his face radiated the
elation of a child who has just accomplished something for the first time. I was filled with pride, but I also knew my time was running out before we had to get out on that lake.
After eating breakfast, attending church, and grabbing a quick lunch, we were finally ready to gather up our gear and head to the boat.
“Dad,” my oldest exclaimed, his excitement barely contained, “I got our life jackets, the sunscreen, our fishing hats, sunglasses, the boat keys, and the safety switch lanyard. I got all the rods ready to go and a cooler packed.”
As I thanked him for helping, a concern arose within my brain: “All the rods?
Sure enough, he had piled every rod we own into the boat, so we spent the next few minutes sorting through them and narrowing down our choices to the ones that were best suited for our task.
Finally ready to go, I turned the key in the ignition, and before we even pulled away from the dock, my son had begun plotting: “Dad, what lure do you think would work best?”
“Bubs, its two o’clock and 900 degrees,” I reminded him, “so we need to be tossing a herring-looking bait at a point somewhere out in the middle of the lake.”
“But, Dad,” he immediately countered, “I don’t want to go out there. I want to go where we saw that one log in the water a few days ago.”
Now, I usually have a good memory, but his description of “that one log… a few days ago” was a little vague. Having grown up on this lake, I could show you where 1,000 such logs
might be located, so on that day, I had no clue which one he was talking about.
As my younger son commenced deejaying the sound system on the boat, my oldest climbed onto my lap and assured me, “Dad, I know where it is.”
Slowly, we idled into the lake, and sure enough, after a 10-minute ride, we pulled into a cove where my son excitedly pointed out the area where he wanted fish. With some concern, I noted that the waters there might only be about eight feet deep at the most. Needless to say, I had to contain my this-isn’tgoing-to-work thoughts and, instead, reverted to the trolling motor.
“Dad, I’m thinking I want to throw a crankbait in here,” my son suggested.
Knowing that probably wasn’t the best option, I mildly advised, “You might want to grab the biggest worm or jig in the tackle box because, if there is a fish in here, he will not want to exert a whole bunch of energy into feeding right now.”
Without missing a beat, he scooted over to the container to select a lure. After setting my younger son’s line with a cricket, I then commenced helping my older son find the right kind of bait. As I sifted through the tackle box, I located an old five-inch grub worm attached to a shaky head weight and hook. I handed it to him, and without hesitation, he tied it to his line and flipped it into the water.
A few minutes later, my younger son was calling for another cricket, and as I made my way to where he was, my oldest started frantically yelling: “Dad! DAD!!” As I turned around, I saw that his brand-new rod was furiously arching over the side of the boat as he battled what appeared to be a fish of improbable proportions. In the struggle, he reeled madly, the fish jumped, and he screamed. I ran to assist and almost fell overboard wrestling the monster onto the boat.
At the end of the day, my son was the happiest child on Lake Murray because his dad had helped him wrangle the biggest largemouth bass that he had ever caught on his own. So, the moral of this story is: The next time your son or daughter wants to fish during the hottest time of the day on a South Carolina lake, just do it. Grab the required equipment and muster up some optimism because you might just end up having the most memorable “wrong place at the wrong time” experience you ever had.
Starting the Conversation — Finding the Right Fit for Senior Living and Care
By Denise Dickinsen
Why planning ahead—and talking early—makes all the difference.
Choosing the right level of care often starts with something simple: a conversation.
For many families, knowing how to begin can feel like the hardest part. It doesn’t take perfect timing or the perfect words—just a caring approach. Sometimes it’s as simple as saying, “I’ve been thinking about how things are going at home—how are you feeling about it?” That small step can open the door in a way that feels supportive, not stressful.
From there, focus on what matters most. Is it staying active? Having fewer responsibilities? Feeling more supported day to day? When the conversation centers on lifestyle and preferences—not just needs—it becomes more comfortable and productive.
"My best advice is simple: plan ahead. Choose with clarity — not in crisis,” notes Denise Dickinsen, Lutheran Homes of South Carolina.
Understanding the options can make that conversation easier.
Independent Living
Perfect for those who are active and ready to enjoy life without the responsibilities of home maintenance. With din-
ing, social opportunities, and a built-in sense of community, it’s about freedom, connection, and enjoying each day.
Assisted Living
Offers help with everyday tasks like dressing, bathing, and medications— while still encouraging independence in a safe, welcoming environment.
Home Care
Brings support right to your door. Whether it’s a few hours a week or more regular assistance, it allows individuals to remain in the comfort and familiarity of home.
Memory Care
Specialized support for those living with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia, with structured routines, secure environments, and compassionate, trained caregivers.
Skilled Nursing
Provides around-the-clock medical care for those with more complex health needs, delivered by licensed nurses and clinical professionals.
Short-Term Rehabilitation
Designed for recovery after surgery, illness, or injury, helping individuals
regain strength and confidence with the goal of returning home safely.
Every situation is different, and the right choice depends on individual needs and goals. But one thing is always true—it’s easier to make thoughtful, confident decisions when you start the conversation early.
Here in our community, those conversations are happening every day— around kitchen tables, during walks with neighbors, and in quiet moments when families begin thinking about what comes next.
Because in the end, it’s not just about planning ahead—it’s about making sure the next step feels right, when the time comes.
Interested in Learning More?
Get connected with Beth McLean at the Heritage at Lowman: 803.732.8800.
About the Author
Denise Dickinsen is the Vice President of Planned Growth & Development for Lutheran Homes of South Carolina, guiding strategic initiatives that support vibrant, mission-driven senior living communities across the state.
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Lighthouse for Life Radiating Hope, Freedom, and a Future
By Marilyn Thomas
Lighthouse for Life, a local nonprofit dedicated to eradicating human trafficking, defines this crime as “the force, fraud, or coercion of an individual for commercial sex or forced labor in exchange for something of value (money, clothing, food, etc.).” As a faith-based organization, Lighthouse for Life bases their rejection of human trafficking on the biblical belief that all of humanity is created by God and has been made in His image. Social media, commercials, and the entertainment industry fuel the sexualization of human beings, and some people are willing to pay money to fulfill their selfish desires at the expense of others. Some of the risk factors for a potential victim include a difficult home life, lack of a personal support system, previous abuse, poverty, and addiction. Predators are experts at using these vulnerabilities to manipulate and control others, and the perpetrators of this behavior can be anyone—neighbors, classmates, relatives, or potential employers.
More common than one might realize, human trafficking happens everywhere— even in South Carolina. The state’s Human Trafficking Task Force Annual Report for 2025, recently released by Attorney General Alan Wilson, revealed that the South Carolina Law Enforcement Division (SLED) investigated 315 related tips last year, which included more than 300 potential victims, and most of these involved minors.
SLED’s data also disclosed that Lexington and Richland are both of the top five counties in the state where these cases were reported.
In February of 2025, Lighthouse for Life partnered with Fisher Films, a Columbia-based video production studio, to create a documentary entitled “A Slave in Your Backyard.” This film, which has been viewed by thousands on streaming services like Amazon Prime, Apple TV, and Tubi, “showcases what trafficking looks like in South Carolina by highlighting Heather Pagan’s personal story, as well as many others,” says Lisa Kejr, the chief executive officer of Lighthouse for Life. “It is now making its way through the prison systems and providing a gateway for individuals to come forward with their own stories and seek help!”
Lighthouse for Life, one of the leading organizations in the state combatting this detrimental crime, has adopted a mission to fight back by educating the community and empowering survivors to break free. In addition to providing informative resources online, training service providers, and sharing with the public through presentations statewide, Lighthouse for Life offers valuable assistance directly to those who are at risk or have experienced human trafficking personally.
To empower survivors, Lighthouse for Life oversees several different operations. “In June of 2024,” shares Kejr, “we had the grand opening of The Harbor, our drop-in center for survivor support. This is a location off of St. Andrews Road that we want to be known within the community. It is equipped to provide a warm meal, shower and laundry capabilities, life skills and trauma support classes, community gatherings, and advocacy support!”
After its opening, Lighthouse’s Survivor Support Team was able to assist a woman called “BJ” as she transitioned from a trafficking situation. Upon arriving at The Harbor, she was able to enjoy rest, safety, and warm meals; use their laundry and other facilities; and enroll in a class at the home. During her case investigation, Lighthouse transported her to a safe hotel room and provided her with clothing, groceries, and “a freedom bag,” which contains basic necessities. Because of
Lighthouse’s involvement, BJ said, “Just wanted to say thank you for everything you doing for me. I really do appreciate it. These people like you that give people like me hope.”
While the Harbor welcomes female adults, another safe house they operate, known as Karis Home, is open to minors aged 12 to 21. Moreover, Lighthouse for Life’s Survivor Support Program is available for any situation or individual related to trafficking. “In 2025 alone, our Survivor Support Program came alongside 65 survivors, and 11 individuals who were high risk,” Kejr notes.
In 2025, the organization also established several strategic partnerships, including one with another nonprofit known as “Freedom Signal.” This tech company has created software that allows advocates like Lighthouse for Life to send secure text messages—directly and proactively—to those who are being exploited in online advertisements.
“Through the use of this tool, we were able to engage in over 200 conversations last year, and we look forward to more this year with the hopes that those conversations will eventually lead to lives changed!” says Kejr.
Relatedly, Lighthouse for Life is dedicated to training and providing information about human trafficking. Later this year, the nonprofit will “unveil a video training series for counselors and other direct services providers that will assist them as they seek to come along survivors in an understanding traumainformed way,” explains Kejr. Currently, Lighthouse is also collaborating with the South Carolina Department of Corrections to offer an empowering curriculum entitled “Ending the Game” in the state’s women’s prisons.
To bring awareness to the general public, “We are always open to any opportunities to come meet with individuals, either one on one or in any group capacity, to help them understand the realities of human trafficking better,” Kejr states.
In 2025, the South Carolina Human Trafficking Task Force launched the South Carolina Safe House Certification Program for service providers who assist human trafficking survivors. In fact, South Carolina is the first state in the nation to implement such a requirement for these kinds of programs, and Lighthouse for
Life was one of four organizations in the state that completed this certification. Members of the community can support Lighthouse for Life’s efforts by giving financially, praying for the volunteers and recipients of services, and volunteering and participating in the organization’s many activities. More information about the nonprofit is available online.
Lighthouse for Life
803-669-0110
LighthouseForLife.org
info@lighthouseforlife.org
For donations please mail: 7320 Broad River Rd., Suite K 247; Irmo, SC 29063
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Mayoral Accolades
By Marilyn Thomas
Hazel Livingston Tribute
Every year, the Lexington Woman’s Club, a volunteer service organization that has invested in the local community for nearly 70 years, sponsors an award to recognize a “Woman of Distinction.” Recently, Lexington’s mayor, Hazel Livingston, was the recipient of this notable accolade. In response to this award, she states, “I am deeply humbled and honored to have been chosen by the Lexington Woman’s Club as the Woman of Distinction for 2025–2026.”
“[I] had no idea I would be receiving such a special honor that evening at the Lexington Women’s Club meeting,” she recalls. “When my name was called, and I was presented with a dozen beautiful roses and an engraved crystal vase, I was truly surprised.”
In addition to being a female Lexington resident, the qualifications for this tribute include demonstrating outstanding character and leadership, and a loving commitment to serving the county, state, and community through personal and professional endeavors.
“The women of this organization quietly do so much for our community,” continues Mayor Livingston. “Their dedication, generosity, and servant hearts make a real difference in the lives of so many. To be recognized by a group of women who give so much of themselves to help others means more than I can express.”
One major event the Woman’s Club sponsors is a spring golf tournament that raises funds for those in need throughout the local area. Organizations they have supported through this activity and other volunteer work include Camp Kemo, Mission Lexington, Sexual Trauma Centers of the Midlands, Chris Myer’s Children’s Home, Samaritan’s Well, Lexington County Library, and local law enforcement agencies.
Mayor Livingston expresses her sincere gratitude to the Woman’s Club for this honor, and adds, “Thank you for all you do to make Lexington such a wonderful place to live, serve, and call home. I am grateful to be part of a community that cares so deeply for one another.”
Mayor Bill Danielson Appointment
If “two heads are better than one,” then certainly a group of thousands of municipal leaders meeting together to discuss concerning issues is a tremendously valuable resource. Such is the National League of Cities (NLC), a nonprofit organization that brings together those in leadership roles from cities, towns, and villages throughout the United States, with the common goal to improve the quality of life for those who dwell in their districts.
Within that umbrella organization is a smaller assembly known as the Small Cities Council, a networking subgroup specifically designed to attract officials from cities with populations of 50,000 or less. Irmo Mayor Bill Danielson was recently appointed to the NLC’s Small Cities Council.
“Being appointed to the NLC’s Small Cities Council is important because it ensures that towns like Irmo have a seat at the national table,” stated Mayor Danielson. “Our community’s challenges and opportunities are unique, and this Council gives us the ability to shape solutions, share best practices, and bring resources home that directly strengthen our local economy and quality of life.”
In November 2025, Mayor Danielson attended the NLC’s annual conference in Salt Lake City, along with thousands of other leaders from across the United States. While there, one of the intriguing ideas he learned about was a city drone program, which is an economical, high-tech public safety measure that employs drones in emergency situations. These drones, which are stationed on the roof of a police or fire facility, can be dispatched immediately to the scene and are able to capture critical information and relay it to the first responders before they even arrive. Several practical applications include tracking suspects, identifying weapons, locating missing children, and assessing a fire.
Annually, the NLC also hosts a threeday activity entitled the “Congressional City Conference” in Washington, D.C., where nearly 3,000 members gather. In addition to attending panel sessions where mayors from major cities share their experiences and insight, NLC members are also granted opportunities to speak with the congressional representatives of their region.
Mayor Danielson, who attended this momentous event, explains, “My primary reason for going up there was to meet with our elected officials that represent us here in the Midlands and the state.” Thus, he was able to have meaningful communications with key staff members of Representative Joe Wilson and Senators Tim Scott and Lindsey Graham. During the latter meeting, issues about earmarked funds for municipal projects were clarified, and as a result, Mayor Danielson is now confident that the groundbreaking for Irmo’s new town hall will commence this summer.
The Empty Chair
By Algrish Williams
The chair is empty. It sits quietly at the table, unnoticed by many, yet it carries the weight of a life once lived in service to something greater. Memorial Day is about that empty chair.
As a veteran with more than 26 years of service, I am often asked about the difference between Memorial Day and Veterans Day. It is a fair question, but the distinction is profound. Veterans Day honors those who served. Memorial Day honors those who never came home.
It is about the son, the daughter, the brother, the sister, the father, the mother, and the friend who raised their hand to serve and paid the ultimate price. It is about families who waited for a return that never came.
During my years in uniform, I served alongside many remarkable men and women. Most of us were fortunate enough to return home to our families. But I also experienced the painful reality of losing a soldier, one of our own, whose life ended in service to this nation. His absence is a reminder to me that behind every Memorial Day tribute is a real person, a real family, and a sacrifice that cannot be replaced.
For many Americans, Memorial Day marks the beginning of summer. Grills are lit, families gather, and communities celebrate the long weekend. There is nothing wrong
with enjoying these moments of freedom. In fact, they are part of the very liberty that those who served fought to protect. But beneath the celebration lies a deeper story, one written in sacrifice.
For the families of the fallen, Memorial Day is not a long weekend. It is a sacred day of remembrance.
I have stood at military funerals where the air is still and heavy with grief and honor. A casket draped in the American flag rests before loved ones whose hearts are breaking. Then the bugle sounds. TAPS. Those twenty-four haunting notes echo across the field, and in that moment, time seems to pause. Every note carries a story of courage, duty, and sacrifice.
Members of the honor guard step forward with precision and reverence. The American flag that covered the casket is folded carefully—thirteen folds, each representing principles that reflect the values upon which our nation stands. When the folding is complete, the flag is handed to the next of kin with quiet words that carry immeasurable weight. “On behalf of a grateful nation…” No words can erase the absence that follows. That service member is gone, but their sacrifice will never be forgotten.
Memorial Day calls us to pause and remember the cost of the freedoms we often take for granted. It reminds us that liberty is not free; it has always been secured by the courage and commitment of those willing to defend it.
Across memorials and military cemeteries, you may notice a powerful symbol—an empty chair placed in quiet honor. That chair represents the fallen hero who will never again take their seat among us. It is a solemn reminder. Someone gave everything.
This Memorial Day, enjoy your time with family and friends. Celebrate the freedoms that define our nation. But take a moment, just a moment, to remember the heroes whose sacrifice made it possible. And when you see that empty chair, remember who should be sitting there.
More Than Cookies The Heart of Girl Scouts
By Samantha Brown
Every January, you start to see them—tables set up outside grocery stores, bright green vests, eager faces, and the familiar call: “Would you like to buy some Girl Scout cookies?” For most people, that is where the story begins and ends—a box of Thin Mints, a smile, and a transaction. But for the girls standing behind those tables, and the troop leaders and parents who support them, the story runs so much deeper.
I know this firsthand. I was a Girl Scout myself, earning badges through the Junior level. Today, I serve as a parent, a Brownie troop leader, and the “cookie mom” for our troop. My connection to Girl Scouting spans decades and roles, but my perspective has never been sharper than it is right now, watching the next generation of girls discover what this organization can do for them.
A Troop Built on Community
Our troop meets at Lexington United Methodist, and it is anything but typical. With roughly 30 girls ranging from kindergarteners all the way through 12th grade, we operate as a multi-level troop. This structure creates something you rarely see in organized activities for young people: genuine cross-age mentorship. Older girls lead by example. Younger girls aspire. Everyone belongs.
That sense of belonging is the quiet engine behind everything we do. It is what makes a shy second-grader raise her hand for the first time, and what inspires a high schooler to step up and guide a Brownie through a new challenge. In a world where girls are navigating social pressure, academic stress, and the constant noise of growing up, having a place that is genuinely and unconditionally theirs matters more than most people realize.
Girls Who Take Action
One of the things I am most proud of is how our girls not only talk about making a difference, but they also actually do it. During cookie season, which runs from
January through March, our troop collects donations to send boxes of cookies to active-duty soldiers and local first responders. It is a small gesture with a big heart behind it, and the girls take it seriously.
The impact does not stop there. One of our girls noticed that students at her school were struggling because they could not keep their migraine medication with them during the day. She turned that observation into action, petitioning school administrators for a policy change. Another girl recognized that many of her classmates needed sensory support and created fidget kits for her local school. These are not adultled projects; they are girl-led solutions to real problems, which is exactly what Girl Scouts is designed to produce.
There is also a quieter principle guiding everything our troop does: Wherever we go, we leave it better than we find it. It sounds simple, but it speaks to a mindset of care and responsibility that these girls are building at a young age.
A Space to Try, Fail, and Grow
As a Brownie leader working with second and third graders, I have come to see that Girl Scouts give girls something they often cannot find elsewhere: a place where they are allowed to try, to fail, and to grow without judgment. In school, grades define success. In sports, scores do. In Girl Scouts, the process is the point.
The girls in my troop vote on which badges to pursue, which service projects to take on, and how they want their meetings to run. That ownership is transformative. When a child has a genuine voice in shaping her own experience, her investment in the outcome changes completely. I have watched the quietest girls in the room become the most enthusiastic contributors by year’s end, not because someone pushed them, but because they found their footing in a space that made room for them.
What stands out most is the confidence. When a girl earns a badge, she worked hard for, or helps a fellow Girl Scout accomplish a difficult task, something happens in how she sees herself. That shift from “I can’t” to “I did” is the real product of Girl Scouts, and it stays with her long after the meeting ends.
The Cookie Program: More Than Meets the Eye
No mention about Girl Scouts would be complete without an honest look at the cookie program. As Cookie Mom, I have had a front-row seat to what happens when a young girl walks up to a stranger, introduces herself, explains what she is working toward, and asks for support. For many of these girls, this is the first time they have done anything like this.
The cookie program is, in practice, a hands-on business course. The girls set goals, track their progress, handle money, practice communication, and learn to handle rejection gracefully. They discover that effort has real consequences and that a goal shared with teammates is more motivating than one pursued alone.
The funds raised go directly back into the troop. We use them for badges, supplies, service-project materials, and experiences that make Scouting memorable. When the girls set a sales goal together and then get to enjoy something they helped make possible, the pride is visible. They built that. And they know it.
An Invitation
Girl Scouts has been shaping young women for more than a century. The green vest, the badges, the cookies are the symbols most people recognize. But the substance is harder to see from the outside. It is a girl learning to lead herself, advocate for others, and believe she is capable of making a difference.
If you have a daughter, granddaughter, niece, or neighbor who could use a place like that, I encourage you to investigate your local troop. And the next time you see a table of girls outside your grocery store, stop a moment longer than usual. Ask them what they are working toward, what badge they are chasing, or what cause they are supporting. You might be surprised by the answer, and even more surprised by the confidence and conviction of the girl giving it.
Girl Scouts of South Carolina Mountains to Midlands Girl Scout Leadership GSSC-MM.org
Boy Scouts of America
Indian Waters Council Boy Scout Leadership IndianWaters.org
The Reel Deal: Fresh Fish for Summer Tables
Light and natural, these healthy takes on popular seafood selections can turn a successful day of saltwater fishing or an ordinary grocery run into a delicious meal for the whole family. With just a few simple ingredients and a little bit of preparation, the flavorful rewards will not disappoint!
Tomato Basil Baked Tilapia
INGREDIENTS:
4 tilapia fillets
1 cup cherry tomatoes, halved
2 tbsp. olive oil
1 tbsp. fresh lemon juice
3 cloves garlic, minced
Salt and black pepper, to taste
¼ cup fresh basil, torn in small pieces
DIRECTIONS:
Preheat oven to 400°F. Arrange tilapia in a single layer in a baking dish and scatter tomatoes around the fillets. Drizzle with olive oil and lemon juice, and then sprinkle with garlic, salt, and pepper. Bake for 10-12 minutes, or until the fish is opaque and flakes easily with a fork and the tomatoes are softened. Remove from the oven and add fresh basil. Spoon the drippings over the fish before serving with angel hair pasta, rice, or toasted bread to soak up the flavorful juices and enjoy!
Tropical Mango Fish Tacos
INGREDIENTS:
4 cod fillets
1 tsp. paprika
½ tsp. cumin
Salt and black pepper, to taste
Juice of 1 lime
1 tbsp. olive oil
MANGO SALSA:
1 ripe mango, diced
¼ cup red onion, finely chopped
¼ cup fresh cilantro, chopped
Juice of 1 lime
Pinch of salt
SERVING SUGGESTIONS:
Small tortillas, warmed
Fresh cilantro
Lime wedges
DIRECTIONS:
Season the fish with paprika, cumin, salt, and pepper, and then drizzle with lime juice. Heat olive oil in a skillet over medium heat. Add the fish and cook for 3-4 minutes per side, or until golden and flaky. Remove from heat and break fish into large pieces. In a separate bowl, combine mango, red onion, cilantro, lime juice, and salt. Toss gently to combine. Fill warm tortillas with fish portions and top with mango salsa and fresh cilantro. Garnish with lime wedges for extra zing!
Honey Glazed Salmon
INGREDIENTS:
4 (6 oz.) salmon fillets
½ tsp. kosher salt
½ tsp. black pepper
Pinch of blackening seasoning
GLAZE:
3 tbsp. butter
2 tsp. olive oil
5 garlic cloves, finely chopped
½ cup honey
2-3 tbsp. water
3 tbsp. soy sauce
1 tbsp. sriracha, to taste
2 tbsp. fresh lemon juice
DIRECTIONS:
Pat the salmon dry with paper towels, and sprinkle evenly with salt, pepper, and blackening seasoning. In a large ovensafe skillet, melt butter with olive oil over medium-high heat. Add garlic and cook briefly until fragrant. Stir in honey, water, soy sauce, sriracha, and lemon juice, allowing the mixture to warm and combine. Add the salmon to the skillet, skin-side down (if applicable) and cook for about 3 minutes, basting frequently with the sauce. Transfer the skillet to the oven and broil for 5-6 minutes, or until the salmon is cooked through and the glaze is caramelized. Baste once more during broiling to enhance the flavor. Enjoy!
The State Capitals Test
By Scott Vaughan
In the 1960s, the State of Georgia decided that fifth graders should learn the names of our 50 states and each state’s capital. In addition, everything had to be spelled correctly. I thought it was cruel to slide in a spelling test as part of this nightmarish exercise.
I was not a great student, having already proved that with a record-setting 36 on a major science test. I enjoyed the information presented in class, but I didn’t enjoy studying. I was too easily distracted by a library book.
I had said nothing to my parents about the capitals test, believing I had practiced enough in class to do well on it. Fate had other ideas. Unbeknownst to me, my mom ran into a friend on the day before the test. During conversation, her friend mentioned the test and her own son’s nightly preparation for it. This ignited panic in my mom.
“Are you ready for the capitals test?” she asked
“Yes,” I said, believing that I was ready.
Later that evening, she called me into her bedroom for a quick oral review on our nation’s 50 capitals.
“Georgia,” she said.
“Atlanta,” I said.
And that’s as far as I got. Hysterics ensued. She stormed out of her own bedroom, leaving me there with a handful of flash cards. I considered jumping out the window.
Soon, my dad appeared at the door and shut it. My dad was not a patient man. A few years before, I had watched him come close to a nervous breakdown, teaching me to catch a pop fly.
He sat down on the bed across from me, and for the next three hours, he calmly and gently taught me the state capitals. It was a very late night.
After school the next day, I rushed out to the farm to tell my dad of our perfect score, because I believed it was his victory, too. He smiled and said, “Please don’t wait until the last minute again.” Later, we shared an ice cream sandwich together in celebration. My late dad was a hardworking blue-collar man who loved us and made sure we knew it through his words, his time, and a hard word or a gentle hand, whichever we needed. As I became a dad, he never missed a chance to share how proud he was of me.
Happy Father’s Day to all the men who are blessed to be called Dad.
LISA T. MOORE
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