Wilton Magazine | July/August, 2021

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Family Building

Learn about local organi-

zations that help families navigate fertility obstacles in this heartwarming story.

By Megan SMith-harriS

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Not Just Horsing Around

From equine

therapy to horse rescue and rehabilitation, two local organizations are providing amazing services - benefiting both horses and humans.

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Picnic essentials (‘tis the season) and a thirst-quenching, Four Roses Small Batch Select cocktail.

22 Faces + Places E-biking through Litchfield County and Ten Minutes With...

Wilton’s and Ridgefield’s 2021 A Better Chance grads.

30 Life + Style The power of the run; Ask Ms. Jen; Roger Garbow’s auto review; and more.

On the Cover: Natalie, Lashawnna, and Bella, 2021 graduates of the Ridgefield and Wilton A Better Chance programs, at the Garden House at the Keeler Tavern Museum & History Center.

Photo: Kate Wark

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behind the scenes JUL / AUG 2 0 2 1 Vol 19, Issue 5 July/August 2021

JULIA BRUCE is a longtime resident of Ridgefield. Since 2015 she has contributed regularly to Ridgefield and Wilton Magazines, and received a Connecticut Press Club award for her writing in 2020. Her work has also appeared in the New York Times and various online literary journals. In this issue, she shares the special connections forged amongst women’s running groups.

AMANDA DUFF

Editor-in-Chief and Publisher DEBORAH HAYN

Creative Director COURTNEY PRESSLER

Copy Editor

MEGAN SMITH-HARRIS is an award-winning writer, filmmaker, and playwright. Her career encompasses documentary, television, film, theatre, radio, publishing, public speaking, and teaching. She has helmed multiple long-form, critically acclaimed documentaries that have aired around the globe and is president and owner of Pyewackitt Productions. In this issue, Megan dives into the heartbreaking – and heartwarming – fertility journey some couples face.

ALLISON GANEY

Editorial Assistant ALANA TAYLOR

Digital Assistant SHARON PECK

Production Manager

Contributing Writers

GEOFFREY MORRIS is founder and former editor of Ridgefield Magazine. Currently editorial director of BlueDot Design and managing editor of Stansberry Research, he is also race director of TriRidgefield, chair of the Economic & Community Development Commission, and former board member of the Ridgefield Bicycle Sport Club. In this issue, he reports on a recent e-bike adventure he took in the hills of Litchfield County.

Contributing Photographers

EDITORIAL INQUIRIES

BRIDGET SHIRVELL is a freelance writer based in Mystic, CT. Bridget covers food, travel, technology, and the environment. Her work has appeared in Martha Stewart Living, NY Times, VICE, and more.

In this issue, Bridget shares summer picnic essentials, from must-pack items to the best locales. She enjoys exploring new places through food, dreaming about the beach, and having fun with her husband, toddler daughter, and golden retriever.

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WHO ELSE is ready for summer?

We sure are – and we’ll relish summer moments spent with family and friends more than ever before.

In this issue, Gina Zammit explores Pegasus Therapeutic Riding and Rising Starr Horse Rescue, two wonderful equine organizations that are making a difference in our community. Megan Smith-Harris delves into the struggles some couples face when starting a family. She introduces us to organizations like Nest Egg Foundation, which provides financial grants for IVF treatment.

We highlight women’s running groups and the “power of the run,” as Julia Bruce describes it.

Geoffrey Morris discovers a perfect-for-summer electric bike tour in Litchfield, Bridget Shirvell reveals must-have picnic essentials, and much more.

Congratulations to all graduates of the 2021 class! We hope you enjoy learning about the three A Better Chance graduates who called Ridgefield and Wilton “home” over the past four years.

Enjoy this issue, and I hope to see you out and about this summer.

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One of the great things about our town is how truly friendly people are. Take newcomer, Jill Lynn Brody, a transplant from Southhampton who recently relocated to Wilton with her husband, Justin Silver and their children, Ella (8) and Harrison (5). Where did we meet her? While we were both pumping gas at the corner gas station, of course.

Brody, a jewelry designer and self-described “gem hunter,” has been fascinated by the art since childhood. She creates custom, one-of-a-kind pieces for her loyal clientele.

“I’m self-taught,” says Brody, “and design my own creations using the lost wax technique, beading gemstones, and utilizing computer generated designs.” Amazing what you Wilton, Jill! Jilllynnandco.com

Set Better Standards

Congratulations to the Class of 2021!

It’s our academics that set us apart.

It’s our community that sets us ahead.

It’s our graduates that set us above.

CARTER ’21

REBECCA ’21

CARTER ’21

REBECCA ’21

“Rigorous classes and tons of extracurriculars have taught me how to work and succeed in the world inside and outside of school.”

“Most notably, King taught me the power and importance of self-advocacy.”

Explore how King sets better standards: kingschoolct.org

PERFECTION IN PLEASANTVIEW ESTATES Impeccable custom colonial in sought after Pleasantview Estates with deeded rights to optional Pleasantview Rec. Assoc. (PVRA) for swimming, tennis, & numerous social events. Recently updated with over $125K of improvements including: kitchen with all new granite counters, custom backsplash, Viking gas range, Bosch dishwasher, & U-Line wine fridge; completely remodeled 3 full/1 it on back patio. Top location on 1.87 level acres with sprawling backyard, expansive deck leading scaping. Total 4,936 sf with 4 bedrooms plus bonus room; 3 full/2 half baths; 4 car garage. Outstanding commuting location & only 60 miles to Midtown! $1,395,000

INVITING IN THE VILLAGE Stroll to town from this gracious vintage colonial with inviting front porch loft, just steps from Ballard park, library, restaurants, shops, theaters, home beckons with cobblestone apron, cheery brick walkway, mature DR; and updated kitchen featuring crisp white cabinets, black granite counters with carrera marble topped island, subway tile backsplash, gas range, and back door to the deck, patio, and level backyard. Just 12 miles to the Katonah station and only 56 miles to Midtown! $665,000

SPRAWLING IN SOUTHWEST Picturesque colonial w/inviting front porch set on spectacular level acre in top SW location on quiet cul de sac, just moments to the NY border & 11 miles to the Katonah station. Enjoy expansive rear deck w/hot tub, sprawling lawn, detached garden shed, plus attached potw/4 BR, 2/1 BA including 631 sf in the spacious lower level, ideal ble-pane windows; new furnace & hot water heater; PVC piping; extra insulation in attic & other areas according to CT energy evaluation; interior repainted; & new carpeting in living room. $799,000 PICTURESQUE ON CUL DE SAC Gorgeous updated home, freshly painted inside/out, set back privately off a cul de sac on level 1.24 acres in top southern location near the NY border. Impressive Belgian blocked lined circular drive, stone walls

cated with 2 story foyer wide open to the spacious adj. LR & DR. Open concept kitchen & FR, with the bright white EIK open to the breakfast doors to the sprawling bkyd. Convenient mud room w/2nd informal front entrance, laundry rm, garage access & steps up to a private enanother full BR suite & bath, ideal as an in-law or au-pair suite, currently set up as a media room incl. projector & screen. $1,195,000

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DESIGNER APPOINTED COUNTRY CAPE Perfection awaits in this exceptional country farmhouse cape on scenic and level 1.17 acres after comprehensive gut renovation in 2015 using “green” materials & state of the art designer appointments.

Set back through gated entry in sought after neighpit, 2 car attached garage plus detached 3rd garage, & fully fenced yard. Total 3,445 sf with 3-4 BR & 2.5 BA including optional main level guest room, & lower level in-law/au-pair option w/full bath. Open concept modern living includes dramatic great room w/rustic stone fplc, wide open to the sensational chef’s kitchen featuring Plain & Fancy custom cabinetry, Rohl faucet, exquisite book-matched live edge walnut island top; plus adjoining lux butler’s pantry with hammered copper sink. $829,000

IN-VILLAGE MODERN WITH LEGAL APARTMENT studio and full legal guest apt., both with private entrances. Dramatic windows/doors to the expansive rear deck, screen porch, and stone patio. Over $300K of improvements including chef’s kitchen w/timbered ceiling, S/S appliances, and large island with bar overhang, open to great room with gas fplc, built-in display shelving, and sliders to outdoor paradise showcasing built-in spa, Ipe natural decking, stone terrace, stone walls, and fenced in level yard. Total 5,073 sf including main home with 3-4 BR, 3/2 BA & 760 sf private apt. w/LR, BR, full bath, kitchen, laundry, and garage (total 3 bays). Large studio w/private $1,195,000

MODERN RETREAT WITH LAKE VIEWS Modern country retreat w/panoramic views of Lake Mamanasco & deeded rights to membership at Mamanasco Beach Club (swimming, dock, canoeing/kayaking, volleyball, grilling, beach parties). Total 2,017 sf w/3-4 BR, 3/1 BA including LL in-law apt. w/kitchenette & full bath.

Over $90K in upgrades since 2002: stone wall w/built-in lighting; in-law addition; wood stove insert w/blower; new roof; replaced all casement windows w/Andersen vinyl clad double-hung & deck slider with Andersen French door; kitchen remodeled w/granite counters/island; master bath remodeled w/tiled shower & marble vanity;cstm closet in MBR; & 7.5 kw generator w/transfer switch. Extensive landscaping/tree removal to open up lake views; multi-level deck; & access to many hiking areas including Mountain Lakes & Richardson Park. $595,000 IMPECCABLE IN STONEHENGE ESTATES IImpressive colonial on 2.05 manicured acres in Stonehenge Estates neighborhood, just 1/4 mile to Martin Park town beach, 2.5 town. This stunning home has been extensively updated w/Belgian block lined drive, prof. landscape/hardscape including stone walls,

Total 2,542 sf w/4 BR & 2 full updated baths including 378 sf in lights featuring custom built-in cabinetry w/wet bar, wine & beverage fridges. Enjoy glass sliders to wrap around Trex deck, stone patio, fenced in yard, 2 car attached garage, plus over $90K of recent improvements incl. new ductless a/c & exterior painting. $699,000

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CUSTOM HOME ADJOINING WEIR FARM NATIONAL PARK Exceptional Richard Ramey custom colonial in premier location at end of sought after cul de sac on 1.32 level acres, backing up to Weir Farm Historic Park, a national park for art with 60 acres of trails, educational facilities, and studios. Top quality construction with extensive moldings, mill-work, built-ins, French doors, way to spacious bonus room with full bath and custom built-ins/ media center, plus further expansion potential in walk-up attic or walk-out lower level with cedar closet. Over $400K in updates including 2006 state of the art kitchen with double island, lights, planked ceiling, gas stove, and walls of windows/French $1,395,000

WEST REDDING CHARMER Shingle style country ranch on spectacular 2 acres with Belgian backyard, fenced in garden, & back driveway to the oversized 2 car garage. Extensive remodeling & expansion including 2003 family/ sunroom plus 2013 MBR suite additions. Total 3,262 sf with 4 BR & 4/1 baths including 455 sf in the LL w/full bath. Light, bright & inthe sunny DR & updated kitchen with granite peninsula, bar seating, & S/S appliances. The adj. FR addition features vltd ceiling, French doors to the rear stone patio, & custom built-ins. Most detown shops & restaurants, & only 59 miles to Midtown. $719,000

ON THE NEW YORK BORDER Exceptional custom colonial on last street in CT, backing up to Peaceable Refuge open space on 3.29 picturesque acres with extensive prof. landscaping & irrigation. Completely remodeled/ expanded in 2004 including new 3 car garage & bonus room

entry foyer with wainscot paneling. Premier southwest cul de sac, only 12 miles to Katonah Station. $1,245,000

CUSTOM HOME IN PREMIER LOCATION Exquisite 2004 shingle style custom colonial in top location on 2.34 acres, tucked back privately on presti-

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FIND US sprawled on a gingham blanket with a charcuterie spread and a bottle of vino; picnic season has arrived.

Yes, it sounds a bit Norman Rockwell, but nothing beats a day spent outdoors reconnecting with loved ones over a tasty spread. And yes, it is possible to find a spot for the dog out of reach of the food and get the toddler to sit on a checkered tablecloth long enough to take a bite of the goat cheese from 109 Cheese & Wine.

The secret to the perfect picnic is all in the planning. So read on, get hungry, pack your basket, and hit the great outdoors.

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How to plan a delicious picnic spread

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From juicy watermelon to a fresh salad, the key to picnic food is simplicity. Think of foods that you can make ahead, travel well, taste great at room temperature and are easy to eat. Opt for sandwiches like caprese, club, even peanut butter and jelly, and look to bean, pasta or grain salads for lighter fare. And don’t forget the sides and the desserts.

We’re all about the charcuterie spreads, fruit salads, corn cookies, blackberry buckles, and pie, of course. Throw in some strawberry lemonade, canned cocktails or a bottle of rosé to round out the feast.

Want to pick up a no-fuss meal instead of cooking for the picnic? Here’s where we’d stop for grab-and-go options:

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To create Small Batch Select, master distiller Brent Elliott selected and mingled six of Four Roses’ 10 bourbon recipes, each aged a minimum of six years. “Because it’s not chill-filtered, Small Batch Select affords an experience that’s as close to ‘straight-from-the-barrel’ as you’ll get,” says Elliott.

The 104-proof bourbon stars in the Maple Berry Fizz, a sweetly-sour and smooth cocktail created by mixologist Bill Whitlow. Four Roses Bourbon may be from Kentucky, but this cocktail incorporates maple syrup and blueberries, making it perfect for those who tapped their own trees last winter or plan to pick blueberries locally in the coming weeks.

2 oz. Four Roses Small Batch Select 8-10 Blueberries .5 oz. Maple Syrup .5 oz. Lemon Juice 1 Ginger Beer

Add blueberries to a rocks glass and muddle. Add bourbon, maple syrup, and lemon juice. Add ice. Top with ginger beer. Stir cocktail to distribute. Garnish with a few dried blueberries.

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Pick up some cheese or opt for a platter and a bottle or two of wine from 109 Cheese

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hour with friends.

Hoodoo Brown BBQ has a good BBQ selection as well as a wide selection of picnic snacks.

Opt for classic diner food and, of course, pie from Dimitri’s Diner.

Swing by the Danbury Whole Foods Market and pursue their selection of readymade meals.

Discover the perfect picnic spot You don’t have to go far; those with young kids might even prefer the backyard. But if you want to venture past the driveway, you’ll find wide-open spaces, scenic parks and wineries within reach.

DiGrazia Vineyards: Pet and

child friendly, this Brookfield winery offers up meat and cheese plates to pair with a tasting.

Florida Refuge: Between the

wetlands, ponds and open spaces, this Ridgefield hiking spot offers plenty of picnic backdrops.

Tarrywile Park & Mansion: The former dairy farm and fruit orchard makes for an idyllic picnic spot. Make a day of it and hike on the park’s 21 miles of trails before setting up your spread in one of the picnic areas.

Weir Farm Art Center and National Historic Site: Through-

out the pandemic, the wellkept grounds have remained accessible and picnicable.

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TWELVE MILES per hour is really the ideal traveling speed to soak in the countryside. It’s fast enough to get you around, yet relaxed enough to see that allée of trees or intricate stonewall design.

In fact, that was my average pace on a recent bike tour around Bridgewater (35 minutes north of Ridgefield’s Main Street), led by Collin Daulong, who with Ridgefield-native wife Caitlin, owns and operates KC & E Adventures, based at Mine Hill Distillery. While my

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adventure took us around to the farms and historic sites of Bridgewater, KC & E, formerly known as Kingdom Tours, organizes trips all over New England, Iceland, Italy, and elsewhere, as well as rides for kids and families.

Our trip began at 9 am at Sunny Meadow Farm, with a brief overview by Collin about the tour, the bike, and the area. It’s the Farm to Table Experience. Sunny Meadow has been continuously tilled for some 300 years under the tutelage of only four families—currently

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selling organic fruits, vegetables, grains, and poultry in its farm store and at farmers markets. The place is so gorgeous it’ll make you weep.

The bike for this tour is the Specialized Como—tenspeed, $4,000 electric bike.

The cycling experience on an electric bike is very similar to a tradition cycle—only way, way better. You pedal the bike, adjusting the gears lower for uphills, higher for flat terrain. There’s no throttle.

There’s no noise. It’s cycling.

The beauty of the e-bike is the assist on the hills. Even

in first gear on a traditional bike, a mild hill becomes a heart-pumping workout—an adventure killer. You huff and puff up it at 2 mph, not the magic 12 mph provided with the electric assist. Says Daulong: “Electric bikes allow you to explore more, in less time, and with less effort. Some of the hills we rode up are really steep. An experience like that would be very limiting with a traditional bike.”

Which is helpful for our next stop at Maywood Gardens, a 40-acre private estate that provides fresh-cut

flowers, vegetables, and field crops sold at the Bridgewater Village Store. Owned by financier Peter May, Maywood is a member of Audubon International and also produces wine, from grapes grown on the estate—Chardonnay and Cabernet Franc, for those keeping score at home.

While the tour does not go onto the grounds, the 12 mph pass-by puts riders at a nice height and pace to see the vineyard, greenhouse, and acres of natural beauty.

Perched high upon a hill, Maywood offers an alluring vista, miraculously accessed

by the electric power-assistance. “The electric bike provides access to cycling,” says Jacqui Dowd, an avid cyclist and head of the Ridgefield Bicycle Sport Club, which hosts a dozen weekly rides, safety talks, and destination trips for its 400 members.

“This is the ultimate date or group adventure. These bikes get everyone on the same level. You can enjoy the scenery and company while pedaling. The joy of riding is simply amplified.”

We also stopped at Greyledge Farm, which specializes in all-natural,

pasture-raised beef, pork, and chicken. While the tour makes a few farm stops on its farm theme, cycling around Bridgewater is quite magical.

If ever there were a town that practiced understated elegance, it’s Bridgewater.

Grey, distressed siding, natural rolling hills, and soaring deciduous trees.

The Farm to Table Adventure streamed us quietly to various stops, sneaking in a piece of chocolate and espresso at the Village Store in the center of Bridgewater, ending back at Sunny Meadow for a box lunch from The

Smithy, in New Preston—a small market sourced by Sunny Meadow and other area farms. Fresh sandwiches, Asarasi water culled from trees, and a figs-nuts-cheese platter.

Exercise, adventure, and the outdoors. A nice way to spend the day.

Other tours include finishing-touch tastings at Mine Hill Distillery, Kent Falls Brewery, and Hopkins Vineyard. Tours are $245 for one person and $175 for each additional person and includes bike rental, tour, and lunch or tasting.

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Faces + Places Bella Szabo, Lashawnna Mullins and Natalie Esikumo proudly stand in the Garden House at the Keeler Tavern Museum & History Center.

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LOCAL A Better Chance scholars Natalie Esikumo, Lashawnna Mullins, and Bella Szabo, now college-bound graduates, overcame incredible adversity to achieve their goals. They shared with us their hopes, dreams, and memorable moments from their time here.

to research its potential, and suggested I apply. The residential-style program appealed to me because I wanted some freedom but with structure, and I wanted to become involved in a community both in and out of school.

ers. She had a heart of gold and was an enormous help throughout the application process. Teachers at Fieldston taught me high school–level subjects when I was in middle school, preparing me for my future.

Before joining ABC, who were your greatest supporters?

Can you share with us a bit about your family?

How did you find out about the A Better Chance Program?

Bella, Wilton ABC: Apart from my parents, one of my teachers at my previous school, Mrs. Holland, was one of my greatest support-

Natalie: My family is the roots of my existence. I grew up in Nairobi, Kenya, and my family moved to the United States seeking better

Natalie, Ridgefield ABC: I found out about ABC through a friend’s mom. She advised me

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education and opportunities when I was 7 years old. I am the youngest of two; my brother, 21, is a graduate of UMass Amherst. We love to travel and explore new places, whether visiting cities like NYC or camping in New Hampshire.

Did you feel welcomed in the community?

Lashawnna, Ridgefield ABC: The Ridgefield community is extremely inviting and kind.

Whether it be the academic

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advisors, our generous host families, my teachers, or even my friends, I find that Ridgefield accepts diversity with open arms.

During the week you lived at the ABC house. I imagine you have many fond memories.

Bella: Yes! Recently, the whole ABC house gathered in the basement for a Harry Potter movie marathon and Harry Potter trivia game.

We’re “Potterheads,” so it was great to unwind and watch one of our favorite series together.

On weekends, you live with your host family. What has that experience been like?

Natalie: Due to personal reasons, I had to part ways with my original host family during my freshman year. I didn’t have a host family for about a year, but I took that time to form close relationships with the Ridgefield ABC board members. I now have a host family that includes a mom, dad, brother, and dog! My host family welcomed me with open arms. They’re closeknit, open-minded, and fun to be around. With them, I’ve celebrated Passover and gone to the synagogue. I always wished for a younger sibling and now I have that. I completely love my new host family and hope to be a part of their lives forever.

for over 3 years now and everyone here skis. I have always wanted to try it, but it is an expensive sport and I never had the opportunity until now. When my host family found our I’d never skied, they raced to make sure I had the chance to try it. Now, I’ve skied multiple times, and can say I’ve tried something new and fun!

What have you learned during your time in your respective high schools?

Bella: I learned to be open-minded with sports.

They’re a good way to make friends, even if you don’t turn out to be great at the sport.

Natalie: I learned to always be resilient no matter what challenge I face. When a curveball is thrown, I’ve learned to find many solutions and act on the issue as soon as possible. Being resilient allows me to withstand adversity and bounce back from difficult life events, whether dealing with a social issue or a struggle in school.

Lashawnna: Taking different types of classes from, calculus to ceramics, I have learned so much about my own interests and passions, which will help me succeed in the future.

How did you remain focused pandemic?

Lashawnna: I have many fond memories. My favorite memory this year is learning to ski. I have lived in Ridgefield

Natalie: I’ve stayed focused on my goals by being optimistic. As someone who is very social and outgoing, social

isolation was my biggest challenge. Being able to spend time with my host family was so important.

Bella: When the days seemed to drag on forever, I tried to be productive and make the most of my time by taking walks on the nature trail and sketching. Procrastination was a challenge during the pandemic; I set about 200 alarms on my phone so I wouldn’t forget to complete any assignments!

How has the ABC program met or exceeded your expectations?

Bella: I was blown away by the number of summer opportunities available to me. Unfortunately, due to COVID-19, I wasn’t able to participate in the Experiment in International Living program, through which I was scheduled to go to Ecuador. However, past students at Wilton ABC have gone to Argentina, Mongolia, and Thailand.

What is a memorable moment from your time in the program?

Natalie: Playing piano with the board members’ spouses. At every board member’s house, I shared my love for music and serenaded them with the piano. Those with a second instrument would join me for a duet, and we’d perform songs like “Für Elise” or “Can You Feel the Love Tonight.”

How has being a soon-to-be ABC grad helped you achieve

your college dreams?

Bella: Thanks to the support of everyone in the Wilton ABC community, I’m happy to say, “I’ve made it.”

I wouldn’t be saying this if not for the words of encouragement, advice, and endless opportunities. By this time next year, I’ll be studying at my ideal college, setting the blueprint for my future.

Natalie: Through Ridgefield ABC, I’ve been able to gain access to the tools I need to become successful, achieve my goals, and hold leadership positions in the future. It has allowed me to network and find so many opportunities that led to my interest in studying education in college. Thanks to the board members, I have been able to share my love for kids in many ways, including working with a Ridgefield pediatrician and starting a Facebook program through which I read and teach Swahili to children worldwide. I’m grateful to have become a part of Ridgefield ABC. Is there anyone in the program whose support you’d like to acknowledge?

Lashawnna: I can’t give thanks to any one person; ABC is like a family tree, each branch does its part to make sure that we succeed.

Whether it be the board members, my host family, the house chef, or my academic advisor, I would not be here today without their help and dedication.

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The Power of the Run

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Changing lives, one run at a time // THE BOOK Men are

from Mars, Women are from Venus contends that men and women need different things from their relationships. It’s not surprising, then, that there’s also a difference between men’s and women’s running groups. Sure, they both get the benefit of improved fitness or faster race times, but when women run together something unique happens.

Several established women’s running groups in Wilton

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and Ridgefield illustrate this “power of the run.”

In 2006, a small group of Ridgefield moms decided to meet once a week – to run, but also to spend time away from their small children.

Affectionately called the Original Group or “OG,” they have lasted over 15 years – their kids are now mostly grown up - and still they run. They’re an eclectic group – casual runners and accomplished competitors, high power executives and

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stay-at-home moms, but they come together for the run.

And, of course, the coffee and conversation that comes afterwards. “There’s just so much support from every angle,” says Kristen Hoban.

In 2007, the OG gathered twenty-two ladies for an informal Mother’s Day 5K. That small gathering was the impetus for Run Like a Mother, a now nationally recognized event that inspires women across the country to lace up their shoes and run.

Together the OG have celebrated good times and supported each other through difficult times. Joyce Bordash, proud OG member says, “There’s a desire to connect and be a part of something special.”

The Sol Sisters of Wilton first got together as a team to do a Ragnar, a race that covers 200 miles in 36 hours.

That initial race has grown into 15 years of runs, several more Ragnar races, and more importantly, friendship. A

daily text thread and countless miles logged have kept the women connected, even as some have moved out of the area.

The group renamed themselves the LYLAS Sol Sisters a few years ago when a group member’s daughter was battling cancer. Together they raised money and spirits for Lyla’s fight. The name can also be an acronym for “love you like a sister” and this group of women certainly support each other like family. “Our runs are such a great way to talk and listen to each other, and to come back

feeling better than before,” says Katie Denious.

If you drive through downtown Ridgefield in the early morning hours, you just might spot the EMR (Early Morning Runners) or affectionately, the Nincompoops.

They are dedicated racers – as a group they’ve completed around 32 marathons, 163 5K’s and pretty much every distance in between. “There’s always at least one person willing to get up early to join you or pace you for your workout,” says Jan Triani.

Running frees your mind; once your body kicks in,

allowing you the freedom to talk, you may find yourself discussing things you didn’t even think you needed to talk about. In the middle of 800 meter repeats or intervals, the Nincompoops discuss everything from job decisions and marital issues to advice on raising kids. “I think we make each other better runners, friends, spouses, mothers, daughters, employees or employers, and community members,” says Brigid Barnes.

COVID has changed - but not cancelled - the run for these ladies. Initially, they

took some time off, but eventually found ways to continue to get together: breaking into smaller groups, forming trust bubbles, or opting to hike instead. “Within the past year, this group has been a lifeline of light and love when the world has seemed very dark,” says Triani.

American marathon icon Joan Benoit Samuelson once said, “Years ago women sat in kitchens drinking coffee and discussing life. Today they cover the same topics while the run.” Grab your sneakers and your BFFs. I hope to see you on the road.

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IN 1986, HONDA made a bold move to take on Germany’s best automakers by launching the upmarket brand Acura, offering more value than BMW or Mercedes. Acura saw success right out of the gate, outselling both their German and Japanese rivals as the company’s cars generated the kind of enthusiasm and excitement automakers dream of.

The company has seen its up and downs over the years as the industry has gotten more competitive. Looking to reclaim some of its former glory, Acura began a reboot in 2015 under new boss Jon Ikeda, who promised to bring excitement back to the brand. And he certainly has.

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luxury SUV/CUV category, yet leaves much of the competition in the dust.

The beautiful exterior leads to a luxurious cabin centered around a floating dual level console and easy-to-use controls. The ELS Studio Premium Audio System is so good, I sat in the car for 15 minutes after parking.

The best part of the RDX, though, is the way it drives.

The seats are comfortable yet supportive and the steering delivers great feel. Acura’s Super Handling All Wheel Drive (SH-AWD) varies the distribution of power to either improve economy on dry roads or to increase traction in slippery conditions.

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to help turn the car through corners, adding more power to the outside rear wheel, essentially rotating the car.

The RDX offers a roomy interior, cutting edge technology and a great driving experience all wrapped in a stylish package. Plus, it undercuts its luxury competitors in price to deliver great value as well.

RDX prices start at $38,400.

Acura’s TLX mid-size sedan is all new for 2021. Built in Marysville, Ohio, the TLX makes an excellent case for those looking to swim against the rising SUV tide. I recently spent a week with a top-line SH-AWD A-Spec TLX; it’s near perfection. The sleek exterior styling stands out against both its Japanese and German rivals while the interior is ergonomic excellence. A

thick steering wheel, supportive seats and great outward visibility make any driver feel at home. The touchpad interface uses absolute positioning to select an exact spot on the large display screen while the latest version of Acura’s ELS Studio 3D Premium Audio System is an audiophile’s dream.

The TLX’s sporty handling combined with SH-AWD begs for taking the long route to every destination. Acceleration from the 2.0 liter turbo four is brisk, but for those looking for more, the upcoming Type S version packs a 355-HP turbo V-6. The TLX embodies Acura’s fun-to-drive philosophy and would be a fantastic choice for a daily driver. Prices start at only $37,500.

Acura’s NSX is a modern re-imagining of their iconic sportscar, featuring sexy styling and a hybrid drivetrain.

A twin-turbo V-6 mated to three electric motors pumps out an impressive 573-HP. In addition to track-worthy handling and acceleration, the AWD NSX delivers the kind of all-weather performance that make it a true year-round supercar. To prove the point, Acura lent me a stunning Indy Yellow Pearl NSX wearing winter tires in January. Even with the less sticky rubber, slippery roads and sub-freezing temps, the car was a revelation. Plus, it’s so comfortable and easy to live with, it is one of the few supercars I would actually drive every day.

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Ask Ms. Jen Dazzling dandelions, fungi, & moths! //

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Dandelions have taken over my yard, how do I get rid of these weeds?

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find the biggest dandelion puffball you can, and blow!

What kind of mushroom is this?

— Matt L. Redding This mushroom is responsible for 90-95% of fatal mushroom poisonings in

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North America. Its name is quite appropriate: Destroying Angel. It’s okay to touch it, but do not ingest it. Among many dangerous symptoms is severe liver and kidney damage. As a reminder, never eat wild mushrooms unless you are experienced or have been directed by a mycologist.

Many mushrooms have dangerous “look-alikes.” When in doubt… don’t eat it!

What will this huge caterpillar turn into?—Andy C. Ridgefield A Polyphemus moth! These are actually one of my favorite insects and, believe

it or not, I actually raised them for a couple of years because they are so fascinating. They’re part of a family of giant silk moths called Saturniidae. Interestingly, adult moths do not eat and therefore only live for one week. From mid-summer to early fall, you can find the caterpillars eating the leaves of birch, oak, maple, beech and sassafras trees. They can eat 86,000 times their weight in less than two months!

Jennifer Bradshaw is the Early Education Coordinator at Woodcock Nature Center. She is very involved in several advocacy and association committees. She was awarded the 2019 Excellence in Environmental Stewardship Award given by the CT Outdoor and Environmental Education Association.

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Sadly, women who can’t conceive and carry a baby to full term right out of the gate are often made to feel deficient, and the attendant pressure can be corrosive to their self-esteem. For one local 35-year-old woman it’s been a traumatic experience. Recently she visited a Greenwich specialist to explore why she hasn’t been able to conceive after a year of trying with her partner. Even before receiving conclusive results she says she was made to feel like a failure.

“It’s just so emotional. After the consultation, I sat in my car in the parking lot and cried for 15 minutes before I could drive home.”

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Impressed by the RMA’s reputation, Ridgefielders Sara and Scott Loftus opted to work with the group. “I always wanted to be a mom,” says Sara.

“I loved being around kids, especially babies. My friends and family always said I was a natural.” But a diagnosis of polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) in her teens, proved to be a complicating factor. “I knew getting pregnant wouldn’t be easy for me, but never in my wildest dreams did I imagine the journey I would have to go through.”

Preliminary tests revealed that Sara wasn’t ovulating at all. Disappointed, but also relieved to have a definitive diagnosis, she looked forward to “finally hav a real chance of getting pregnant.”

After two failed intrauterine inseminations, a chemical pregnancy, another failed transfer, and yet another miscarriage, the couple had no embryos left. Sara and Scott were back to square one.

It took time, patience, and a great deal of heartbreak, but the couple’s determination to build a family kept them on track.

They completed another egg retrieval, which resulted in six healthy embryos. On their fourth transfer attempt, Sara and Scott had success. Just over a year ago, they finally achieved their dream of becoming parents and welcomed their son, Tucker, into the world.

Sara believes their faith and commitment to one another has sustained them during adversity. “Every time there’s been a heartbreak or challenge, we reassess and ask ourselves, ‘can we really do this?’” To date, the answer has always been “yes.” The couple hopes to add more children to their family and are now back at RMA going through process all over again.

But reproductive technology comes at a price, and not always one everyone can afford. Health insurance companies often impose financial caps or refuse to cover necessary procedures.

“More often than not, this pathway to parenthood requires out-of-pocket expenses,” says RMA’s Dr. Mark Leondires. “At our core, we are a group of people who care about building families, including those who cannot afford fertility treatment.”

To that end, Leondires teamed up with Wilton resident and RMA’s CEO, Robin Mangieria, to found the Nest Egg Foundation. This non-profit foundation provides grants of up to $10,000 to help cover all, or part of costs associated with fertility treatment.

High school sweethearts, Emily and Jim Cornacchio were grateful recipients of a Nest Egg grant. Due to an autoimmune condition, Emily went through premature menopause at age 31. The only way for her to achieve pregnancy was through the use of a donor egg. But after a failed transfer the couple’s finances were exhausted.

During an online search, Emily discovered the Nest Egg Foundation, filled out an application, and three months later the couple were ecstatic to be awarded a grant, giving them another chance at having a baby.

“It’s hard to put into words the stress a couple goes through when they’re trying to have a family and can’t,” says Jim. “The last thing you want to do is go into more debt, so the relief of being able to try again was very powerful. We were just so happy and grateful.”

With two donor eggs and a successful transfer at the Center for Advanced Reproductive Services in Farmington, the couple became pregnant.

Thirty-seven-and-a-half weeks later, Emily delivered healthy twins, Hailey and Benjamin. Today, they reflect on how fortunate they were to have financial assistance from Nest Egg. “How do you thank a group for giving you a family?” ponders Jim. “There really is no adequate way. They’ve made our lives infinitely better.”

It’s been said that a quest always seems impossible, until it is done.

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ed big changes in her life. “My daughter and my partner have noticed that I am calmer, and I let things go quicker. My counselors have seen huge changes, less to no panic attacks, decreased anxiety, [I’m] much more positive.”

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experienced trauma in the last year. Whether you lost a loved one, lost your job, or experienced bouts of depression, caring for our mental health has never been more of a global necessity.

For the workers on the front line, the burden of dealing with the pandemic head-on often took an even greater mental toll.

That is why last December, Pegasus Therapeutic Riding center launched a healing-based equine program for first responders. The program partnered with the local Putnam County Bureau of Emergency Services. Pegasus Farm is located just over the New York state border in Brewster. It is a nonprofit, PATH-certified equine therapy center that was founded in 1974. The facility offers therapeutic horseback riding lessons, unmounted sessions that teach horsemanship skills like grooming, and the emotional well-being-focused Equus Effect program. Participants come from all walks of life including children and adults with special needs, disadvantaged youth, grief, loss, and trauma survivors, veterans, and now, first responders.

The Equus Effect is a nationwide program that is based in Sharon, CT. Pegasus first adopted the program for veterans in 2018 and they’ve expanded it since then. While all of the programs have a therapeutic focus, the Equus Effect combines natural horsemanship with classroom discussions and mindfulness exercises. The program is designed to help alleviate symptoms of grief, PTSD, and depression.

I suffered the loss of a loved one due to Covid-19 and I was able to attend the Equus Effect program in early spring. From the first session on, the healing power of horses was evident.

I immediately felt more grounded, peaceful, and confident.

Horses provide a quiet and safe space conducive to reflection and healing. They have no hidden agendas. They don’t worry about the future, or ruminate about the past. They are fully in the moment and transparent in their intentions. They are honest. Having the chance to work with and get to know the horses was life changing for me.

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mental health struggles, they are often the ones that need saving. Over 110,000 horses are sent to slaughterhouses each year.

Despite horse slaughter being outlawed in the U.S., it’s not illegal to ship them to Canada or Mexico and kill them there.

The journey alone is cruel. Horses are crammed into too small quarters for up to 24 hours. Many are starved, dehydrated, and also become injured along the way. There is no humane way to slaughter a horse, so they suffer unbearable pain in the process.

However, before the horses are shipped out to meet their violent end, they are brought to one final auction site. They are known as kill pens, and though the horses can be rescued, it is their last chance. They are sold only to the highest bidder and that often is a kill broker.

Fortunately, Rising Starr Horse Rescue is dedicated to saving, rehabilitating, and rehoming abandoned, neglected, and abused horses. Kelly Stackpole has over 30 years of experience working as an equestrian teacher. Wanting to reduce the pressure of “ribbon chasing”, Stackpole opened her own, more relaxed barn in 2005.

When she started searching for horses to fill her new barn, she became aware of the horrors of the horse slaughter pipeline. After visiting a kill pen in Pennsylvania in 2015, Stackpole was horrified to see healthy, young horses slated to die. That same year she founded Rising Starr Rescue in Redding. By 2016 she was able to save her first horse; by 2020 the barn had moved to Silver Spring Road in Wilton and the number of horses saved grew to 20.

Rising Starr’s mission also includes teaching children and informing prospective horse buyers about the realities (costs, time commitment, etc.) of horse ownership. The new homes for the rescues suitable for adoption are carefully screened to ensure the safety of both the horses and its owners.

What happens to so many of America’s horses is tragic, but every horse that comes through Rising Starr is given a second chance at life. However, their owners get something so much more valuable in the end: the unique love, patience, and compassion that only horses have for humans.

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