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MERRICK HERALD — November 20, 2025

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The LuminoCity Festival, a popular holiday lights extravaganza, is back at Nassau County’s Eisenhower Park this winter with an all-new theme and attractions. This year’s theme, “Fantasy Winter Fairyland,” transforms 14 acres of the park into one of the largest immersive walk-through light festivals in the country, featuring dazzling light displays, towering sculptures, and countless photo opportunities. “Each time we return to this remarkable venue is yet another opportunity to deliver on a promise we renew annually — to create indelible holiday memories for each and every one of our guests,” Xiaoyi Chen, founder and chief executive of LuminoCity said. “We are proud to partner with Nassau County once more to present this showcase event, and are beyond thrilled that it has become a tradition for so many in the community. Long Island is our home, and there is no place like home for the holidays.” Among this year’s attractions are a spectacular 50-foot “Castle in the Sky” — one of the tallest light sculptures in North America — a four-story Christmas tree, and millions of LED lights, enough to blanket the Brooklyn Bridge. The festival will also feature winning submissions from the annual Lumi’s Utopia children’s art initiative, now in its fifth year. In partnership with the Long Island Children’s Museum, the program transforms kids’ hand-drawn creations into illuminated 3D sculptures. “I am proud to welcome LuminoCity’s Holiday Lights Festival back to Nassau County’s Eisenhower Park for the 2025 winter season,” said Nassau County Executive Bruce Blakeman. “Each year, this spectacular attraction draws tens of thousands of visitors from across Long Island and beyond, boosting our local economy and showcasing Nassau County as a premier destination for family-friendly events. Whether you’re a lifelong resident or visiting for the first time, I invite everyone to come experience the magic of LuminoCity right here in Eisenhower Park.” The Eisenhower Park event remains LuminoCity’s longest-running signature festival. Since its debut in 2022, more than 160,000 guests have attended. For more information, visit LuminoCityFestival.com.

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The LuminoCity Festival is back in Eisenhower Park this fall and winter, featuring a dazzling lantern and light display — perfect for the holiday season. County Executive Bruce Blakeman joined elected officials and community leaders to cut the ribbon, opening the festival on Nov. 7 in the park.

This year’s theme is ‘Fantasy Winter Fairyland’ features 14-acres of trails with impressively large displays.

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Sanford H. Calhoun High School Principal Nicole Hollings returned to Nassau County First District Court on Nov. 12 for a continuation of her DWI case, but the brief hearing again produced no major developments. A new court date was set for Dec. 17. During the three-minute session before Judge David W. Wright, an order of protection was issued without objection from Hollings’ attorney, Robert Schalk. The proceeding mirrored her Sept. 10 appearance, which also yielded no new developments. “We’re still in the process of figuring things out,” Schalk said. According to NYCourts.gov, the purpose of an order of protection in a DWI case “is to maintain peace and provide protection until all the facts have been gathered and the case is heard in court. When the court is convinced that someone has committed an offense or endangered the person protected by the order, a

final order is issued.” Hollings was arrested after a motor vehicle accident in Rockville Centre in the early morning hours of July 2. She was arraigned on July 25 and pleaded not guilty to charges of driving while intoxicated. At her second appearance on Aug. 7, prosecutors said Hollings’ blood alcohol content was 0.25, more than three times the legal limit in New York. Her driver’s license was suspended, and she faces up to three years’ probation and a maximum of 32 days in jail if convicted. Two days before that hearing, Hollings announced she would take a leave of absence from her position as principal. In an email to families, she said the decision was necessary to address “personal issues” and emphasized the need for the role to remain free of distractions. Michael Hughes is serving as interim principal for the 2025–26 school year, and Nicholas Grande has been named interim assistant principal for sophomores and seniors, according to the Bellmore-Merrick Central High School District website. This story will be updated if necessary.

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MERRICK HERALD — November 20, 2025

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Hilary Topper speaks to the Herald about her fourth book, ‘Unlocking the Triathlon: The Beginner’s Guide to Competing in a Triathlon’. “That book is more of a story,” she said. “This book is really a how-to guide — what you need, the tools, the training, the mental preparation. I wanted to show beginners that you don’t need expensive gear or prior athletic experience to get started.” “Unlocking the Triathlon” addresses common beginner challenges, including the misconception that the sport is only for the fittest and the belief that it’s prohibitively expensive. Topper provides tips on cross-training, nutrition, technol-

Topper will visit her local library. the North Bellmore Library, in February.

ogy for tracking progress, and race-day strategy. She also includes anecdotes from professional triathletes, age-group competitors, and members of online triathlon communities, highlighting both successes and humorous mishaps. Topper will celebrate the book’s release with several free community events, including a kickoff at The Next Chapter in Huntington on Jan. 27 and a talk and signing at her local library, the North Bellmore Library, on Feb. 4. Additional appearances are scheduled at local

Barnes & Noble locations and with running groups across the country. “I hope attendees will see that if I could do this, they can too,” Topper said. “Anything is possible with training and consistency.” A USA Triathlon-certified coach, Topper also teaches digital communications at Hofstra University and operates two blogs and a podcast focused on triathlons and lifestyle topics. Her book is now available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and at local bookstores.

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Merrick-based author Hilary Topper has released her fourth book, “Unlocking the Triathlon: The Beginner’s Guide to Competing in a Triathlon”, offering a hands-on guide for aspiring endurance athletes. Unlike her earlier works, which focused on social media marketing or chronicled her personal fitness journey, this book provides practical instruction for anyone interested in the swim-bikerun sport. Topper, 63, first discovered triathlons later in life. She recalled that at age 48 she decided to change her lifestyle after years of working as CEO of her own public relations firm. “I was working my butt off and knew I needed to make a change,” Topper said. By 2015, Topper and a friend had signed up for their first triathlon in Florida, launching a decade-long commitment to endurance sports. Since then, she has competed in dozens of sprint and Olympic-distance triathlons and halfIronman events, and in 2024 she swam 8.2 miles around Mackinac Island in Michigan. Topper said her latest book differs from her 2022 memoir, “From Couch Potato to Endurance Athlete”, which detailed her transformation from sedentary professional to endurance competitor.

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Like five others, Long Beach’s offense came up empty against Mepham’s vaunted defense during the regular season. But in Sunday’s rematch with much more on the line in a Nassau Conference II football semifinal, junior running back Brody Riedel reached the end zone four times as the third-seeded Marines advanced to their first county championship game since 1986 with a 27-13 victory at Hofstra University. “Really feels amazing,” said Riedel, who broke a scoreless deadlock with 7:32 remaining in the third quarter with a 31-yard scoring burst up the middle and added touchdown runs of 1, 70 and 30 yards in the fourth. “Our coaches have been preaching discipline since the loss we had to Mepham,” he added. “We prepared hard all week and to finally get that first touchdown against them gave us a lot of confidence.” Riedel had 195 yards on 22 carries and also intercepted a pass as Long Beach (8-2) avenged a 24-0 loss to the second-seeded Pirates (8-2) Sept. 27 and will face juggernaut Garden City in the Conference II title game Saturday at noon at Hofstra. “We moved the ball well in the first half and hit on some throws before finally breaking through with the run game in the second half,” Long Beach head coach Scott Martin said. “Brody’s a special player and he carried us on his back, but Mepham’s a good team and it took a complete effort on our part. “It’s a big win for the program and we’ll enjoy it for a little while before getting right back to work,” he added. Top-seeded Garden City is riding a state-record 64-game win streak and defeated the Marines 31-16 in the season opener. The Trojans have three consecutive shutouts and haven’t allowed double digits in points in nine straight since Week 1. “We know what we’re up against, but we’ve played them tough the last four

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Junior Paulie Genovese and the Pirates dropped a hard-fought Conference II semifinal to Long Beach.

Junior Tyler Gaskin had an interception return for a touchdown. times we’ve met,” Martin said. Senior Mike Grizzard had a 4-yard pick-6 and junior Lucas Eagleston a 44-yard touchdown reception for the Pirates, who never led. “It was a great game between two good teams,” Mepham head coach Tom Mazeika said. “In the end they made more plays than we did. They deserved to win.” Defense ruled for both sides in the first half with Riedel (12 tackles) and Mepham junior Tyler Gaskin both picking off passes.

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Long Beach got on the board on its first possession of the second half after the defense forced a three-and-out. Senior quarterback Charlie Conway connected twice with junior Brody Juan (6 catches for 72 yards) for first downs and Riedel capped the drive following a key block from junior Gavyn Vicente and going the distance. “I think our ability to throw the ball loosed up their defense just enough for Brody to pop off some big runs,” Martin said. Grizzard’s touchdown bailed out the

Pirates after they turned the ball over at the Long Beach 1 with junior Vaughn Bogacki forcing and recovering a fumble. The Marines maintained a 7-6 lead thanks to a missed extra point and then marched 69 yards on 10 plays to extend it on a 1-yard touchdown run by Riedel off a direct snap from junior center Jack Muskin. Senior Jaden Flynn’s first of two sacks spoiled Mepham’s ensuing possession and it was quickly 20-6 after Conway took Muskin’s next snap and handed off to Riedel, who made another house visit. When asked if Riedel would be driving the team bus back to Long Beach from Hofstra, Martin laughed and said “he just might.”

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The federal government shutdown, the longest in U.S. history, ended after 43 days of uncertainty for those employed by the government or dependent on federally funded social programs. One of the many Democrats who voted against the agreement to end the shutdown was the 4th Congressional District’s Rep. Laura Gillen, because of Republicans’ refusal to extend Affordable Care Act tax credits. “I believe that we can fund the government and we can also make sure that people don’t lose their health insurance,” Gillen said, “and we’re doing everything we can to help the American people face the cost-of-living crisis that we are dealing with across this country.” The bill to reopen the government passed by a vote of 222 to 209, and was signed into law by President Trump. Afterward, Gillen released a statement, saying, “The spending bill passed today does nothing to prevent hardworking Long Islanders from being priced out of their health care. I voted no.” During the shutdown, the work of non-essential departments was halted, while employees of vital departments continued working without pay. Now, about 800,000 federal employees who had been furloughed or working without compensation will start receiving paychecks again, with back pay. The effects of the shutdown continued to be felt for days. The spending package restored full funding for Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program benefits through next September, but some of the nearly 42 million Americans who rely on the program were still waiting for resumption of their benefits days after the

bill was signed. And disruptions in service at the nation’s airports were expected to continue. Throughout the shutdown, Gillen visited various community groups to see how it was affecting them, including Long Island Cares, Innovative Daycare and a variety of Black- and brown-owned businesses throughout the district. “The hunger of our seniors and veterans should not be a political tool,” she said. Gillen will be up for re-election next year. Since the election of New York City’s new mayor, Zohran Mamdani, Gillen has had a message for her constituents: “I am extraordinarily different.” “My district knows me,” she said. “I was the first Democrat in 112 years to get elected in the town of Hempstead as a supervisor, and I’m going to run the same way I ran before, and that is as a centrist, moderate, fiscally prudent and responsible leader who actually wants to work in a bipartisan fashion to get things done.” Gillen expressed her intent to stay focused on the issues, national and local. “The most important thing is we need to be working in a bipartisan fashion to start fixing these problems — addressing the cost of health care, addressing the cost of groceries, addressing the cost of utilities, and finding concrete, fiscally responsible ways to solve these problems,” she said. Gillen’s office can put community members who are struggling in touch with local support groups. “Our district staff office is extremely attentive to the calls that come in,” she said. “If they need help with information about how to contact the (health care) exchange or how to access certain benefits, we provide that information to them.” Gillen’s office can be reached at (516) 739-3008.

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Merrick Avenue Middle School turned an ordinary Wednesday into an extraordinary day of learning, leadership, and kindness when students from Sanford H. Calhoun High School visited on Oct. 24 for “Reset Day” — a day designed to recharge minds and hearts through collaboration, creativity, and connection. Throughout the day, middle schoolers took part in activities that blended academic enrichment with social-emotional learning — all while reinforcing Merrick Avenue’s core values of responsibility, teamwork, and kindness. “The event featured a blend of academic enrichment, social-emotional learning, and school spirit designed to strengthen relationships among students and reinforce the school’s values of collaboration, responsibility, and kindness,” said Assistant Principal Nicole Rhodes, one of the day’s coordinators. Under the direction of Calhoun Leadership teacher Brian Joyce, high school leaders joined Rhodes and the Merrick Avenue staff to facilitate team-building exercises for eighth graders inside the gymnasium. “Watching students really collaborate and work together created a really wonderful environment in the gym,” Rhodes said. The challenge of the day involved

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Students from Sanford H. Calhoun High School visited Merrick Avenue Middle School on Oct. 24 for a day devoted to leadership, connection and personal growth through a series of engaging and meaningful activities. teamwork, communication, and patience — as students were tasked with moving a marble from one end of the gym to the other using only pool noodles. Calhoun’s leadership students encouraged their younger peers, awarded points for teamwork, and modeled problem-solving skills throughout the activity. “At the end of the activity, the leader-

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sentation by Dr. Stephen Dewey, a neuroscientist who spoke about the science behind addiction and the effects of drugs and alcohol on the brain. Both grades later came together for an assembly led by Richard Specht, whose Cultivate Kindness presentation challenged students to lead with empathy and compassion. Sharing his family’s personal story, Specht inspired students to carry the day’s lessons beyond the classroom. “We hope students learn from his presentation but also are provided with the knowledge to make the best decisions for their own health and well-being,” said Principal Katelyn Dunn. Beyond the assemblies and leadership challenges, Reset Day featured a series of creative and spirited events that strengthened school culture. Advisory groups participated in an extended Rams Connect lesson on inclusion and positivity, transformed pumpkins in a seasonal decorating contest, and capped the day with a spirit rally celebrating school pride. “The combination of interactive learning, personal reflection, and schoolwide celebration made the day a meaningful experience for students at every grade level,” Rhodes said. “By integrating leadership, kindness, and awareness initiatives, the district continues to promote its mission of developing responsible, compassionate, and engaged learners.”

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Magic of Lights returning to Jones Beach By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com

The holiday season is set to sparkle as Magic of Lights returns to Jones Beach State Park, opening Friday, Nov. 21, and running through Jan. 3. Families can drive through a dazzling winter wonderland and explore the Toyota Holiday Village, creating festive memories along the way. Presented by Family Entertainment Live, the event features the longest light tunnel on Long Island, whimsical Prehistoric Christmas scenes with lifesized dinosaurs, towering 32-foot animated Mattel’s Waving Christmas Barbie, Reindeer Road, Toyland, festive elves, and more. Visitors can also enjoy photos with Santa, holiday treats, merchandise, and walk-through holiday attractions at the Toyota Holiday Village. “Magic of Lights has become a beloved holiday tradition for families right here in the Tri-State area,” said Ken Hudgens, chief executive of Family Entertainment Live. “We’re proud to return to Jones Beach and continue spreading the joy, wonder, and togetherness that make this season so special.” “The Magic of Lights Show continues to be an annual holiday tradition that exceeds attendee’s expectations,” George Gorman Jr., regional director of the New York State Office of Parks, Recreation and Historic Preservation, said, “From the first light display through the holiday village, the joys of the season come to life.” Guests can journey through more than two million twinkling lights, including the awe-inspiring 400-foot Enchanting Tunnel of Lights, Prehistoric Christmas scenes, and the legendary “BIGFOOT Monster Truck” display. Each display is crafted from steel frameworks using cutting-edge CAD technology, combined with 10 miles of LED

Quick facts: Magic of Lights at Jones Beach Lights: More than 2 million twinkle throughout the display. Power: 12.6 miles of light cord bring the displays to life. Labor: 3,750 staff hours go into constructing each show. Scale: Each installation uses roughly 10 miles of steel framework and 10 miles of LED lighting with 10 different colors. Showstoppers: Scenes like Mattel’s Waving Christmas Barbie soar up to 32 feet tall and stretch several hundred feet. Dates & Hours: Nov. 21–Jan. 3; 5–10 p.m. Sunday–Thursday, 5–11 p.m. Friday–Saturday.

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The Magic of Lights show is returning to Jones Beach. Long Islanders can drive through the track during the holiday season.

Tickets: Per-vehicle pricing. Purchase at MagicOfLights.com

lights in 10 vibrant colors. Magic of Lights runs from 5–10 p.m. Sunday through Thursday and 5–11 p.m. Friday and Saturday. Tickets, priced per vehicle, are available at MagicOfLights. com. Jones Beach State Park, which spans 6.5 miles of oceanfront and more than 2,400 acres, welcomes over 9 million visitors annually and features iconic art deco bathhouses, a boardwalk, and the Central Mall with its ship-inspired design.

As the track comes to a close, families can explore the Toyota Holiday Village, enjoying sweet treats and warm drinks, perfect for the season.

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Guests can meet holiday characters, like Santa Claus.

From candy canes to prehistoric creatures, the path offers something for everyone to look at.

Student fundraiser helps feed the hungry Over the past year, we have been getting more confident in doing this,” Merzlyak said. “Practice is perfect, and it’s been smooth.” “Even after a year later, there’s still a large following behind now, and still several people are interested,” Beznicki added. “We probably have reservations for months at this point. Hopefully, this following will continue even as we go into college, during breaks whenever we have free time.” The trio’s passion for cooking could not be contained in a classroom. What first started as a hobby became a special project when they considered inviting customers and donating the proceeds to those in need. According to Beznicki, the group raised nearly $2,500 for Island Harvest, plus $200 worth of food donations and household cleaning supplies to the Bellmore Community Cupboard. “Hopefully through the next few events we host, we will surpass $3,000,” she said. The diners who attend the team’s fundraisers are frequently friends and family members who make donations to Island Harvest Food Bank, a nonprofit food charity that relieves hunger for people across Long Island. According to the food bank, MAO has provided over 4,000 meals for neighbors in need as of August. “Students participating in JFK’s culinary program are to be commended for their unique fundraising efforts to help Island Harvest in our mission to end hun-

ger and reduce food waste on Long Island,” Randi Shubin Dresner, president and CEO of Island Harvest said. “We know that young adults can and certainly do make a difference.” The fundraisers come at a time when communities are still reeling from the disruption of benefits due to the 43-day government shutdown. For those financially struggling, food banks and pantries could be a last chance at having a Thanksgiving dinner. “Thanksgiving is a celebration with food and family, and we want to make sure everybody experiences that and enjoys that celebration,” Merzlyak said. “Anything small that can be donated has a huge impact.” As their senior year at JFK approaches its conclusion, the three intend to continue cooking together for the near future, when the opportunities arise between college semesters. In any case, these nine meals have taught the chefs lessons that will last a lifetime. “Working with Matthew and Alyssa has actually taught me more about how working in a kitchen works,” Merzlyak said. “I’ve learned how to, like do my role in the kitchen, not get in other people’s way, and learn the ways and the flow of cooking in the kitchen, and that will stick with me forever.” To donate to the MAO’s cause, find more information at @food_with_friends_24 on Instagram.

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Highlights of the utility’s spending plan for next year By ANGELINA ZINGARIELLO azingariello@liherald.com

The Long Island Power Authority has released its proposed 2026 budget, emphasizing affordability, grid reliability and clean-energy investment. The plan also details stronger oversight of Public Service Enterprise Group Long Island under a renewed management contract, and continued cost-saving measures that aim to lower bills for customers across Long Island and the Rockaways.

The LIPA—PSEG relationship LIPA is a nonprofit public utility that owns the electric transmission and distribution system serving Long Island and the Rockaways, and PSEG Long Island operates that system under contract. Since 2014, PSEG has handled daily grid operations, maintenance and customer service on LIPA’s behalf. The new five-year contract extension, effective Jan. 1, enhances oversight and accountability while maintaining the operational partnership. The agreement reduces management fees by an estimated $17 million and expands cost-control requirements. It also increases the number of measurable performance metrics, covering reliability, customer experience and fiscal management. LIPA officials say this framework ensures that PSEG’s performance will better align with affordability and clean energy goals through greater transparency and operational discipline.

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LIPA’s proposed 2026 operating budget totals about $4.4 billion, alongside a $1 billion capital plan supporting reliability, grid modernization and clean-energy infrastructure. The typical residential customer is projected to see a 3.3 percent decrease in their electric bill, roughly $6.53 less per month than in 2025. This reduction reflects a projected $219 million drop in power supply costs, driven by lower on-Island generation, decreased Regional Greenhouse Gas Initiative allowance expenses and savings from the new Power and Fuel Management Services Agreement. The capital budget will rise roughly 3.1 percent, mainly due to refueling costs tied to LIPA’s 18 percent ownership stake in the Nine Mile Point 2 nuclear power plant. Despite inflation and higher labor costs, LIPA projects flat overall operating expenses, while maintaining around $1 billion in annual reliability investments.

LIPA’s long-term fiscal sustainability plan aims to reduce its debt-to-asset ratio from a projected 78 percent in 2025 to 70 percent by 2030, supporting stronger credit ratings and long-term financial health. The 2026 budget reflects roughly $1.4 billion in cumulative cost savings, equal to about 33 percent of customer bills, the result of over a decade of cost-control initiatives. The budget also includes $7.5 million for weatherization projects benefiting low- to moderate-income households, helping to reduce energy usage and improve affordability. Public hearings will be held on Nov. 24, at 10 a.m., at the H. Lee Dennison Building in Hauppauge; and the same day, at 6 p.m., at LIPA headquarters in Uniondale, with a virtual option available. Written comments are due by Nov. 28, and the LIPA board of trustees will vote on the final budget on Dec. 17.

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County legislators say ‘no’ to corporate tax hike

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Nassau County’s legislative leaders have a message for Gov. Kathy Hochul about New York City’s MayorElect Zohran Mamdani’s tax plan: this would not be good for the state. To oppose the Democratic-driven plan to increase New York’s corporate tax rate, the officials — all Republicans —formed the new Long Island Coalition of Business and Political Leaders, a collection of elected officials and business organizations. “This is bad for New York state, and we are going to fight very hard against that,” County Executive Bruce Blakeman said on Nov. 17. The mayor-elect’s plan is to increase to the corporate tax rate in New York City, bumping the top rate from 7.25 percent to 11.25 percent, aiming to support social programs with money sourced from the region’s highest earning businesses. Blakeman bristled at the thought, expressing concern that higher taxes will drive out business, jobs and residents. “We are on the border of New York City,” he said, “many of our people commute to the city to do business. What I’m concerned about is the deleterious effect that this will have on Nassau County and the rest of the state.” Blakeman alleged that tax increases would be passed along to consumers and has heard some business leaders threaten to leave the city if taxes increase, which in turn could be a financial burden to the city’s middle class residents. He suggested the state and city cut spending on undocumented migrant programs as an alternative method to retain revenue. “We don’t have a deficit in Nassau County,” he said.

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Nassau County Executive Bruce Blakeman, center, led a group of other elected officials and business leaders to form the Long Island Coalition of Business and Political Leader to oppose corporate tax increases. “For the past four years, we’ve had surpluses because we know how to manage money in Nassau County, and we’ve gotten seven bond upgrades, but that’s one of the ways that we can spend money on programs that benefit our residents.” Sarafina Chitika, the spokesperson for the Hochul campaign, disputed the County Executive’s assertions. “Governor Hochul cut middle class taxes while putting inflation refund checks in New Yorkers’ pockets,” she wrote in a statement. “Bruce Blakeman is the number one fanboy for Trump’s tariffs that are raising costs for families and making everything more expensive for small businesses – while the governor remains laserfocused on lowering costs, Blakeman’s shilling for Donald Trump’s tariff tax hikes.” Meanwhile, Matt Cohen, president and CEO of the Long Island Association, called the tax proposal “a real

problem.” “It’s really incumbent upon us to push back against this plan as much as possible,” he said. “We have an affordability crisis in this country, but nowhere is it more acute than here on Long Island. And when you’re driving out businesses, when you’re driving out jobs, that’s going to make it worse, not better.” Frank Camarano, president of the Nassau Council of Chambers of Commerce, highlighted the way New York City policies affect neighboring counties and businesses. “Small businesses don’t have the wherewithal to try and work around this,” he said. “A strong New York City is a strong Nassau. If New York City is gonna propose things like this, it’s gonna be like an everyday occurrence, trying to work around it, and it’s going to be difficult.”

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Herald honors environmental leadership By ABBEY-ROSE SALVEMINI asalvemini@liherald.com

Across Long Island, a growing number of businesses are leading the charge toward a cleaner, more sustainable future. From small family-owned shops to large companies embracing environmentally conscious practices, local enterprises are proving that environmental responsibility and economic success can go hand in hand. These efforts not only help reduce the region’s carbon footprint but also strengthen the local economy by inspiring innovation and creating green jobs. Nearly 30 local businesses gathered at the Heritage Club in Bethpage for an event hosted by the Herald, celebrating sustainability and community impact on Oct. 29 The ceremony began with welcoming remarks from Stuart Richner, CEO of Richner Communications, who emphasized the importance of recognizing businesses that prioritize sustainability and help shape a greener future for Long Island. “It is a pleasure to welcome you to the inaugural GreenBiz Awards, where we come together to celebrate the businesses and individuals who are leading the charge for a more sustainable future, right here on Long Island,” he said. “Tonight, we honor those who are driving real change. Reducing waste, conserving energy and protecting the natural beauty that makes Long Island such a special place to live, work and raise our families.” The evening’s emcee, Jill Conway, is a former New York television news reporter and anchor with more than 20 years of experience. She is the founder of Powerful Women USA and host of the award-winning podcast Secrets of Powerful Women, and helped facilitate the event’s program. Part of the event’s ticket proceeds support Save the Sound, an organization dedicated to protecting Long Island and Connecticut’s land, air and water through science, legal action and community initiatives. Honoree Christine Kiourtsis, president of Renewable Recycling, Inc., was recognized in the Recycling category for her innovative work in textile and material recovery. Inspired by the aftermath of Hurricane Sandy in 2012, she began recycling discarded mattresses and box springs, discovering that up to 90 percent of their materials can be reused. Through Renewable Recycling, Kiourtsis helps keep waste out of landfills, reduce transport costs and save taxpayer money. “It’s really important to utilize tax money in a better way than putting it in the dump,” Kiourtsis said. Marshall Brown, president and cofounder of Long Island Conservancy Spadefood Ecosystem Solutions, was honored in the Environmental Innovation category. Brown helped create a film called A River Between Us that led to the largest environmental restoration project in U.S. history. His upcom-

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The team from Reworld. ing project focuses on implementing water treatment solutions for areas with wastewater or surface water. “We grow microbes on site, strains of common soil bacteria, but with special properties like what they eat in the absence of oxygen,” Brown said. “We take a sewage treatment plant, the microbes get to work, and half of the sludge, at least, gets eaten away.” Brown believes that the return on investment is a couple of months. President/LEED AP of Merritt Environmental Consulting Corp., Chuck Merritt, was recognized in the Environmental Consulting category. “On Long Island, we all drink the groundwater underneath our feet. So, we all have a responsibility to protect that natural resource,” said Merritt, who added that MECC is involved with a large developer in Mastic who is looking to redevelop land about a half a mile long. In the Waste Solutions category, Reworld is recognized for providing innovative and environmentally responsible waste management services to communities worldwide. Representative Ed Sandkuhi said that Reworld is expanding its engagement with local schools, teaching students about composting. “We raise dead vegetable gardens and use the compost to grow vegetables and not use fertilizers that are highly water soluble,” Sandkuhi said, adding how rewarding it is to see the children’s enthusiasm. Carrie Meek Gallagher, CEO of the Long Island Power Authority and a honoree in the Utilities category, notes that Long Island is particularly vulner-

Chuck Merritt from Merritt Environmental Consulting able to the effects of severe weather and climate change. “We are still trying to promote the adoption of solar, electric vehicles and heat pumps that are going to help us move towards a clean energy future,” she says, emphasizing LIPA’s ongoing commitment to supporting sustainable solutions for the region. Paraco Gas was honored in the Utilities category. Representative Dan Scicutella said that propane is a very

clean-burning fuel. For areas on the East end that don’t have access to natural gas, propane is a substitute. “We’re looking to expand and grow on the East End, companies from Route 112 and further East,” he said, noting that the company remains committed to environmental stewardship and community involvement. Recognized in the Engineering category, M&J Engineering is a multi-disciplinary engineering firm that provides a wide range of professional services. “As an engineer, we’re at the forefront of a lot of research studies,” M&J Representative Mohammad Malik said. “It’s our job to do what’s right for society and develop new ways to reduce carbon emissions,” Malik notes that M&J is involved in coastal resilience projects and highlights a Patchogue initiative that promotes green infrastructure. The Herald GreenBIZ Awards catalyze environmental stewardship and sustainable business practices. The event highlights and honors forwardthinking businesses and educators committed to eco-friendly practices, proving that sustainable operations can thrive alongside financial success. Gold sponsors of the event include The Long Island Conservancy, Reworld and Scott’s Miracle-Gro. Silver sponsors include the New York Offshore Wind Alliance, GreyMart, M&J Engineering, R&M Engineering, Stony Brook University, Edgewise Energy, GreenbergTraurig, Emtec, Merritt, Paraco, and Molloy University. View event photos on our website, RichnerLive.com/greenbiz-awards/ photos/

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STEPPING OUT

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Carving out her place The untold story of sculptor Emma Stebbins By Abbey Salvemini

istory gets a powerful rewrite at the Heckscher Museum of Art’s latest exhibition. “Emma Stebbins: Carving Out History” is a landmark installation that spotlights a pioneering neoclassical artist whose legacy has been long overlooked. Known for sculpting Central Park’s iconic Bethesda Fountain (immortalized in film and TV), Stebbins — a trailblazing female artist — was the first woman to receive a public art commission from New York City. Yet despite her accomplishments, her name has largely vanished from the art world’s narrative. Now Stebbins receives the recognition she has long deserved. “Carving Out History” firmly reestablishes her place at the forefront of 19th century American sculpture. It explores Stebbins’s bold artistic vision, her barrier-breaking career and her personal life — including her relationship with the renowned Shakespearean actress Charlotte Cushman at a time when such a relationship defied social norms. Stebbins’ works focused on unprecedented imagery of laborers, incisive depictions of literary and biblical subjects and moving portrait busts of her chosen family. Her sculpture was celebrated in the press and sought after by collectors In the mid-19th century. Since then, however, Stebbins fell into relative obscurity. Among the exhibit’s outstanding components, New York City comes to Long Island — via an immersive Virtual Reality experience. Visitors can “walk around” Central Park’s iconic Bethesda Fountain, bringing Stebbins’s most celebrated work to life in an entire new way. A special VR station gives everyone the illusion that Bethesda Fountain is right in front of them in Heckscher Park — through the use of their phones — offering a striking, life-sized view of Stebbins’s most iconic creation. Photos and selfies are encouraged! For many, this will be their first time learning the name behind the fountain — even if you’ve seen it countless times in person and on screen. The exhibit title — “Carving Out History” — reflects both Stebbins’s sculptural practice and the curatorial team’s broader goal: to reclaim and reframe her place in the American canon. This first-of-its-kind exhibit — reshapes how we understand one of our most groundbreaking — and overlooked — artists. “The exhibition itself is carving out a place

for Stebbins’ story,” Chief Curator Karli Wurzelbacher says. The Heckscher’s deep connection to the artist makes the venue especially significant. • Now through March 15 Museum founder August Heckscher had • Open Thursday through a family link to Stebbins — his uncle Sunday, noon-5 p.m. commissioned two of her major works, • Heckscher Museum of Art, Commerce and Industry, which have been 2 Prime Ave., Huntington • Visit Heckscher.org or part of the museum’s collection for over a call (631) 380-3230 for century. information on related Stebbins wasn’t just a woman succeeding programming in a male-dominated field — she also lived openly with her partner at a time when samesex relationships were taboo. Their partnership Emma Stebbins’s marble statue The was both romantic and deeply collaborative, and it Lotus-Eater (1863) purports to illustrate Alfred Tennyson’s poem of the same informed much of Stebbins’s work and worldview. title, in turn derived from an episode They were “the power couple of their in the Odyssey of Homer. Museum time,” according to Wurzelbacher. Purchase: Town of Huntington Art Among the many highlights, Wurzelbacher Acquisition Fund. points to Sandolphon, which captures the depth of Stebbins’s artistry. It depicts an archangel with incredible detail rendered in marble. The sculpture draws inspiration from a poem by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow. As Wurzelbacher explains: “The line ‘the angel gathers the prayers where he stands, and they turn into flowers in his hands’ captures the heart of the work. She paints a vivid image of the archangel holding a garland of flowers — each bloom symbolizing the prayers of the people.” One of the most significant outcomes of her research into Stebbins’s career has been the “discovery” of sculptures whose locations were previously unknown to scholars (one was found in the hallway of the Belfast Central Library!). Two significant works, The Lotus Eater (1863) and the aformentioned Sandalphon (1866), had been in a private collection for decades before being acquired by the museum. Both pieces underwent extensive conservation efforts, including cleaning their discolored marble surfaces and making careful repairs. For curators and staff, this exhibition is not only a professional milestone — it’s personal. “Even though we have a relatively small staff, we can still Sandalphon (also known as contribute to writing the story of American art history and Angel of Prayer, 1866), like bringing these overlooked figures to the public is something Lotus Eater, has been in a we take very seriously,” Wurzelbacher shares. private collection and likely Whether you’re familiar with these sculptures or someone have not been on public view in encountering Stebbins for the first time, this exhibit invites you more than 100 years. Museum to look again — at a familiar fountain, at forgotten stories and purchase: Town of Huntington at the enduring power of carving out one’s place in history. Art Acquisition Fund.

For 50 years, two-time Grammy winner BeauSoleil avec Michael Doucet has been hailed as the best Cajun band in the world. They’ve been making some of the most potent and popular Cajun music on the planet. Born out of the rich Acadian ancestry of its members, and created and driven by bandleader Michael Doucet’s spellbinding ﬁddle playing and soulful vocals, BeauSoleil is notorious for bringing even the most staid audience to its feet. Their distinctive sound derives from the distilled spirits of New Orleans jazz, blues rock, folk, swamp pop, Zydeco, country and bluegrass, captivating listeners from the Jazz and Heritage Festival in New Orleans, to Carnegie Hall, then all the way across the pond to Richard Thompson’s Meltdown Festival in the U.K. They are joined on this special tour by their good friend Thompson. An iconic ﬁgure in British folk-rock, Thompson — one of the founding members of Fairport Convention — is arguably the genre’s greatest triple threat: a dazzling guitarist, an outstanding songwriter, and a strong and evocative vocalist.

Sunday, Nov. 23, 7 p.m. $75, $65, $55. Jeanne Rimsky Theater at Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Port Washington. Tickets available at landmarkonmainstreet.org or (516) 767-6444.

Adam Pascal Get ready for a powerhouse night with Broadway legend Adam Pascal — the original voice of Rent’s Roger (Broadway and ﬁlm) and one of musical theater’s most electrifying performers. With a rock-and-roll edge and soul-stirring vocals, Pascal commands the stage in an unforgettable evening of showstoppers, storytelling, and pure star power. From “Rent” and Aida” to “Chess,” “Chicago,” “Something Ro’tten!” and beyond, Adam brings the house down with iconic hits, guitar licks and rock tunes — all fueled by the raw passion that made him a Broadway icon. The Tony-nominated actor-musician didn’t grow up with aspirations of becoming a Broadway star. But when his childhood friend Idina Menzel asked if he would audition for an off-Broadway musical called “Rent,” he thought “Why not?” and the rest is history. Pascal shares insights into his personal journey with his audience, bringing with him a wealth of experience and plenty of personal anecdotes.

Sunday, Nov. 23, 7 p.m. Tilles Center, LIU Post campus, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville. Tickets available at ticketmaster.com or tillescenter.org or (516) 299-3100.

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CALENDAR ‘Don’t Let The Pigeon Drive The Bus! The Musical’

all the thrills of the snowy season, while staying warm and cozy as Long Island Children’s Museum’s popular “Snowflake Sock Skating rink returns, Slip on “sock skates” and take a spin on the indoor rink, made from a high-tech synthetic polymer surface that lets kids slide around without blades. Kids can stretch, twirl and glide. As visitors step off the “ice” they can jump into winter dramatic play in Snowflake Village. Become a baker in the holiday sweet shop, step inside a giant snowman and serve up some hot cocoa, take a turn in the rink “ticket booth” and “warm up” around a rink side “fire pit.” • Where: Museum Row, Garden City • Time: Ongoing during museum hours, through Jan. 4. • Contact: licm.org or call (516) 224-5800

NOV Evening with ‘The Sopranos’

Spend time with your favorite characters from the iconic TV series “The Sopranos” at Bellmore Movies and The Showplace. Get ready for an unforgettable experience filled with laughter, stories and behindthe-scenes insights from the cast. This in-person event is a mustattend for any fan of the show. Robert Funaro, Jason Cerbone, Dan Grimaldi and a surprise special guest Soprano actor are in attendance. A Q&A session follows. • Where: 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore • Time: 8 p.m. • Contact: bellmoremovie.com

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been bringing families together for over 200 years- sparking teamwork and wonder across generations. Celebrate Game and Puzzle Week at Long Island Children’s Museum by channeling inner creativity to design a custom puzzle. This is a drop-in program. • Where: Museum Row, Garden City • Time: 11 a.m.-2 p.m. • Contact: licm.org or call (516) 224-5800

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Calling all young “Wicked” fans! Bellmore Memorial Library invites ages 4-12 to celebrate all things “Wicked.” Two special guests join in the fun. Space is limited and registration required.

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Mark Tremonti Sings Frank Sinatra ‘Christmas Special’

From redefining rock to reimagining Sinatra, Grammy-winning musician Mark Tremonti, backed by members of Frank Sinatra’s original orchestra, brings his timeless swing and holiday spirit to the Paramount. The lights go down. Familiar horns pipe up from a world-class orchestra as piano twinkles like the jackpot lights on a winning slot machine. Then, the voice kicks in. It has all of the smoky splendor those first few notes hinted at, but it ain’t Ol’ Blue Eyes. In a tailored suit with microphone in hand, it’s Mark Tremonti. The multiplatinum musician sounds just as at home paying homage to the catalog of Frank Sinatra as he does fronting Tremonti or shredding his soul out as the guitarist for Alter Bridge and Creed. Moreover, he’s doing it for a reason that would make the Chairman of the Board proud. Accompanied by surviving members of Sinatra’s band as well as various top-notch players, Tremonti cut 14 classics for his Tremonti Sings Sinatra album, which he gifted to the National Down Syndrome Society as part of his new organization Take A Chance For Charity. All album proceeds go to NDSS to help those with developmental disabilities. With over 40 million albums sold, chart-topping releases, sold-out arenas, and countless appearances on television • Where: The Paramount, 370 and magazine covers, Tremonti’s influence on rock music is undeniable. Now, witness a New York Ave., Huntington new side of his artistry as he pays heartfelt tribute to the legendary Frank Sinatra. This • Time: 8 p.m. is Tremonti like you’ve never heard him. Join in for a feel-good evening of classic jazz • Contact: ticketmaster.com or and seasonal favorites. $108.75, $86.50, $71.25, $59.75, $54.25, $43.75. paramountny.com

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The Loft 525 hosts Pit of our Souls for an animal rescue fundraiser. Enjoy comedians Kathy Arnold, John Butera, Tony Landofi, Laura Patton, Tim Thompson, and Joe Winchell. Get ready to enjoy hilarious stand-up comedy while supporting a great cause! All proceeds help rescue animals in need. Come early to enter the raffles and/or purchase merchandise. • Where: 525 Bedford Ave., Bellmore • Time: Doors open 7 p.m., show 8 p.m. • Contact: (631) 933-1299

NOV Paddle-making and storytelling at Long Island Children’s Museum

Step into the world of traditional Indigenous craftsmanship with Chenae Bullock, the artist who crafted the mishoon (Indigenous canoe) featured in the Saltwater Stories exhibit. In this drop-in program, families

discover the deep connection between paddles, water, and the land as you learn about their cultural significance. Visitors can design and create their own mini paddles, while exploring stories, traditions, and creative activities that highlight the beauty of Indigenous craftsmanship. • Where: Museum Row, Garden City • Time: Stop by anytime between 11 a.m. and 3 p.m. Stop by anytime between 11 a.m. and 3 p.m. • Contact: licm.org or call (516) 224-5800

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Merrick Turkey Trot 5K run/walk to benefit the Dr Mara Bollettieri Community Cupboard on Thanksgiving Day. The 5K-race course begins on Camp Avenue in front of Mepham High School and heads west on Camp towards Merrick. The race turns around at Calhoun High School and heads east back to Mepham for the finish line in the parking lot located on Camp. With a kids’ quartermile race at 9 a.m. Rain or shine.

Long Island Children’s Museum welcomes back this delightful production, based on Mo Willems’ award-winning “Pigeon” picture books. Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! The Musical! is even more fun than staying up late and having a hot dog party. It’s not easy being the Pigeon; you never get to do anything. But when the Bus Driver has a crisis that threatens to make her passengers (gasp!) late, maybe that wily bird can do something. Featuring an innovative mix of songs, and feathers, this show is sure to get everyone’s wings flapping. $11 with museum admission ($9 members), $15 theater only. • Where: Museum Row, Garden City • Time: 11 a.m. and 1 p.m.; also Nov. 29, Dec. 3-Dec. 4 • Contact: licm.org or (516) 224-5800

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Savor a traditional Cream Tea featuring freshly baked scones with Devonshire cream, assorted sweets, and a fine selection of teas. The experience concludes with a guided tour of beautifully decorated Westbury House. $28, discounts for members and groups.

• Where: 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury • Time: 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. and 1:30-3 p.m.; also Dec. 3-4 and ongoing • Contact: oldwestburygardens. org or call (516) 333-0048

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Bellmore Public Library to see 2025 crime spoof reboot “The Naked Gun,” starring Liam Neeson and Pamela Anderson. Lieutenant Frank Drebin Jr. becomes a police officer like his legendary father and must save the police department from shutting down by solving a case.

tradition continues in Bellmore as the Chamber of Commerce enthusiastically ushers in the holiday season with Santa’s annual visit the day after Thanksgiving. Participants are treated to a free show at Bellmore Movies and Santa later appears in a fire truck. All are asked to bring a new unwrapped toy for families in need.

• Where: 1551 Newbridge Road, North Bellmore • Time: 1 p.m. • Contact: northbellmorelibrary. org or (516) 785-6260

• Where: 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore • Time: 9 a.m. • Contact: bellmorechamber.com or (516) 679-1875

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How to cook a turkey Kennedy Schoell

MERRICK HERALD — November 20, 2025

Compiled by Herald staff

Isabel Culver

Age 4, Oceanside

Age 7, Rockville Centre

Butter, salt and pepper, stuff it with some stuffing, sprinkle it with love, and put it in the oven til it’s done.

I don’t know, I would put it in the oven. Alyssa R. Griffin/Herald

Photo courtesy Donna Kraus

Grade 1, Massapequa

Cosette Farr

Ace Ortiz

Age 6, Lynbrook

Age 8, Inwood If I had to cook a turkey I would buy a turkey, put the season stuff on it and put it in the oven!

Get a turkey from the farm, put him in the oven. The oven has to be hot and you cook it for 7 minutes and 8 seconds. Then it’s turkey that we can eat.”

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Making Christmas shine in NYC each season and a global television audience. Each year’s tree is sourced from different parts of the Northeast, transWhen millions tune in on Dec. 3 to ported to Manhattan, and topped with watch the lighting of the Rockefeller the massive Swarovski star that has Center Christmas Tree, one Bellmore become a modern hallmark of the disfamily will be watching with a special play. This year’s tree arrived on Nov. 8 sense of pride. T h a t ’s b e c a u s e t h e 9 0 0 - p o u n d from upstate East Greenbush, and Mike Swarovski star crowning the iconic tree and his crew arrived at Rockefeller Plaza was lifted into place by one of their own on Nov. 12 around 6 a.m. to begin build— crane operator Mike Gherlone, a long- ing the crane on the plaza compound. time Bay Crane employee who has lived Workers brought out the Swarovski star — weighing about 900 pounds, well within Bellmore since 2011. “I got the call to go to Rockefeller Cen- in the capacity of the crane Mike was ter, and I took it,” Mike said. “I’ve put operating, which was rated for roughly the Christmas tree up a couple years 17,000 pounds. He said the installation ago, but this was the first process requires precision time I ever did the star.” and patience. For Mike’s wife, Gina “You just have to go nice G h e rl o n e, t h e m o m e n t and slow, so nothing shifts,” b ro u g h t a n u n e x p e c t e d he said. “You have signalthrill. When she learned her men on top of the platform husband would be the one guiding it down for you. installing the star — and Everything’s in the blind, so saw the scene playing out on you rely on radio signals and TV — she could barely contake your time.” tain her excitement. The crew remained on “I was freaking out,” she site until around lunchtime. said with a laugh. “He was At times, Mike had to keep like a celebrity. It was on the MIkE GHERLONE the star suspended in posinews — it was so cool to Bellmore tion while workers secured watch!” The Gherlones have raised their four everything. “When he came home, he said he had children in the Bellmore community since moving there after their marriage, to hold it up in the air for a while and Mike has spent more than two because they had to get everything decades operating cranes across the city. ready,” Gina said. “But he didn’t comHis work has taken him to many of New plain — he just thought it was cool.” Despite onlookers and news cameras York’s most recognizable landmarks, but helping bring the Rockefeller Center surrounding the plaza, Mike said he Christmas tradition to life, he said, felt a didn’t feel any nerves. “I’m used to it,” he chuckled. “It’s just little different. “It’s a regular day at work for me,” he a little different having cameras there.” For the Gherlones, watching the covsaid. “It’s just a little different than doing steel erection or concrete. You erage felt surreal — especially knowing don’t have cameras and the news there how important the Christmas tree is to so many New Yorkers and visitors. every day.” “To be able to say, ‘My husband did The Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree tradition began in 1931, when con- that,’ it’s amazing,” Gina said. “Our kids struction workers building the complex are so proud of him.” The family says the experience has placed their own small tree on the site during the Great Depression. The first added a new layer to their own holiday formal tree lighting followed in 1933, and tradition. “I think everyone should go see it,” he the event has since grown into one of New York City’s most beloved holiday said. “And we’re definitely going — my traditions, drawing millions of visitors wife’s pushing for it big time.”

By HERNESTO GALDAMEZ

hgaldamez@liherald.com

’ve put the Christmas tree up a couple years ago, this time I did the star.

Courtesy Gina Gherlone

Bellmore’s Mike Gherlone, a longtime Bay Crane employee, was responsible for crowning this year’s Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree with the Swarovski star.

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s autumn settled over Nassau County, the trees along our streets turned brilliant shades of gold and crimson and the air carried the scent of fireplaces and fallen leaves. Now families will gather around kitchen tables to prepare turkey, stuffing and pumpkin pie — the familiar flavors of Thanksgiving that remind everyone of home, tradition and togetherness. This holiday is more than a meal. sTeve In a world full of division, this rhoAds uniquely American celebration gives us the chance to unite as Americans, regardless of our religious or political beliefs, to give thanks to the Almighty — regardless of what name you call him — for the blessings we share. It is also a reminder of what makes our communities strong: the hardworking families who get up early, work late, and never stop giving their best. Thanksgiving is a moment to honor the quiet dedication and sacrifice that keeps neighborhoods

safe, classrooms thriving, businesses humming and families strong. That spirit of service defines our communities. It can be seen at local food drives, in church basements, where volunteers serve warm meals to those in need, and in the kindness of neighbors who check on one another as the colder weather moves in. These gestures reflect the best of New York — resilience, generosity and faith in the value of hard work. Yet even amid this season of gratitude, there is an awareness of the growing challenges that so many families face. The cost of living continues to rise. Taxes weigh heavily on homeowners and small businesses. Crime and safety concerns remain at the forefront. And increasingly destructive policies from Albany run counter to suburban values, and make life more difficult for those already working tirelessly to get ahead. But despite these challenges, hope endures. Across Long Island and throughout New York, State Senate Republicans remain committed to fighting every day for hardworking New

Yorkers who feel left behind. That commitment is rooted not in politics, but in principle: the belief that those who work hard should be able to thrive, that communities deserve safety and stability, and that government should serve the people — not the other way around. There’s something grounding about the turning of the seasons. In the fall, yards are blanketed in colorful leaves, the air has turned crisp and the days carry both comfort and the evidence of change. It’s a moment to pause and reflect — not only on the blessings received, but also on the shared responsibility to preserve and protect them for the generations to come. For many families, Thanksgiving begins early in the day — children watching parades, football games playing in the background, parents basting turkeys, and relatives arriving with trays of stuffing, potatoes and pies. As laughter fills the kitchen and the house warms, the holiday reminds everyone that strength comes from unity. The same holds true beyond the dinner table: when communities work

here is no avoiding the growing challenges that so many families face.

together, when compassion meets courage, when service replaces apathy, there is no challenge too great to overcome. New York’s character has always been shaped by people who rise to the occasion — who work hard, lend a hand and care deeply about their neighbors. That character endures. It can be seen in the volunteer firefighter leaving the dinner table to respond to an alarm, in the nurse finishing a long shift, and in the parent helping a child with homework after a long day. Those quiet acts of perseverance define what it truly means to be thankful. This Thanksgiving, as the last leaves fall and families gather under the glow of dining-room lights, may gratitude remind every New Yorker that even in difficult times, this state’s greatest resource has never been its government — it has always been the faith, grit, talent, compassion and unshakable hope of its people. You are what carry New York forward. May this season bring comfort, reflection and renewed strength to every household — and a reminder that in gratitude, there is power; in service, there is purpose; and in community, there is always reason to give thanks. Steve Rhoads represents the 5th State Senate District.

In the fight of our lives, all over again

n November 2020, in the maw of the pandemic, I wrote a column about Thanksgiving dinner with my husband, dinner for just two. Our kids and grandkids and friends were isolating, in hiding from a novel viral enemy. Looking for a historical precedent, I compared the fear crisscrossing America to what it must have felt like in Berlin after World War II, when Stalin’s troops cut off the city. The plan was to choke the Berliners into capitulation to Russia. On the ground, it looked hopeless rAndi and inevitable. Then, in an audaKreiss cious countermove, the United States launched the Berlin airlift, and for 15 months planes dropped food, medicine and fuel — 2 million tons of supplies — until Stalin blinked in 1949 and lifted the blockade. We didn’t know it would succeed when we began. We did it because it was what was needed to save Berlin from Stalin’s tyranny. I was inspired by this bit of history because it speaks to America’s ability to

meet the moment. Ingenuity and courage are homegrown assets, and we never needed these strengths more than we did during the pandemic, more than we do now. In that Thanksgiving 2020 column, I wrote, “Our new enemy is Covid-19, which is rampaging through our cities and states, killing people in increasing numbers and threatening our well-being and our prosperity. We need to summon the courage to win this war . . . “We have missed the chance to get ahead of the firestorm, but we still have agency. Don’t gather at parties or bars or family events. It won’t be forever, and it might save someone you love . . . “This Thanksgiving we must accept the sacrifice of a simpler holiday, without expecting family to board planes or sit around a table for 15 or 20. We can do this. We can do it this year, in the hope that next year we can be thankful for lives saved.” One year later, the world had turned. I wrote, “All of us have had our Covid vaccines and boosters; we are brought back to normal by the moonshot of

modern medicine, the development of an effective vaccine in 18 months . . . “Today we are back to our jobs. Kids are back in school. This Thanksgiving we will sit down with our family to start reweaving the ties that have stretched thin over the months of this pandemic . . . “I have often written about gratitude for the small things that charge our days with interest and pleasure. This year my gratitude is singular, profound and unending. I am so thankful to the researchers and scientists and companies and governments and leaders who took on Covid-19 and dug in for the fight . . . “I thank everyone who brought us to this day, from the doctors and nurses to the supermarket workers to the teachers and parents of young children, to the bench researchers who put in the hours, day after day and month after month . . . “This year at our Thanksgiving there will be a too-big turkey and stuffing and cranberry sauce. Leaves and grains for the vegetarian. We will hug and kiss our kids and grandkids, feeling safe enough with our jabs and boosters. Then we will

our years ago next week, it seemed vaccines had saved the day. But no.

feast on my apple cranberry crumble with a topping of gratitude for this country and countries everywhere where scientists are educated, supported and honored because the work they do alleviates suffering and perpetuates life on earth.” This week, as we approach Thanksgiving 2025, it is, quite unbelievably, our very democracy that is under threat. We are in a season of political instability, irrational attacks on our institutions, and a drift toward authoritarianism. As we witness the trampling of the Bill of Rights and the Constitution, the military occupation of our cities and the willingness to sacrifice American laws and values for personal gain and power, we know that this threat, too, has gone viral. And, irony of ironies, our government leaders are questioning the efficacy of the original lifesaving Covid-19 vaccine and all the life-saving vaccines that have kept us and our children alive. When we sit down to Thanksgiving dinner this year, my prayer will be for America to find its footing, to support leaders who will launch a political moonshot or Berlin Airlift to save our souls and our country. Copyright 2025 Randi Kreiss. Randi can be reached at randik3@aol.com.

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n an age when digital arguments erupt faster than we can refresh our screens, it has become almost instinctual to dive into online debates with strangers. Facebook threads balloon into battlegrounds, discussions on X collapse into insults and Reddit comment chains can devolve into tribal shouting matches. For many, this ritual has become a daily habit — almost a sport. Yet it leaves most people feeling drained, angry, unheard and oddly isolated. There’s a healthier, more human alternative: step away from the glowing screen and go meet your neighbors face to face. It sounds old-fashioned, almost quaint, but that simplicity is exactly what makes it powerful. When we talk to people in person — people who live next door, down the street or across the hall — we’re reminded that disagreements do not automatically make someone an enemy. You hear their tone of voice, notice their expressions and see the full, complex person behind the viewpoint. The humanity that gets flattened into a five-word comment reappears. And so does your own. Online, a single sentence can turn someone into a villain in your mind. A meme can become a stand-in for an entire group you’ve never actually spoken to. Algorithms feed outrage because outrage keeps you scrolling. But face-toface conversations break that cycle.

They prioritize curiosity over hostility, nuance over certainty, and listening over scoring points. This shift is good for both civic and personal health. Psychologists have long known that real-world social interactions reduce anxiety, increase life satisfaction and strengthen emotional resilience. Sitting with someone, even someone who has different opinions, calms the nervous system in ways digital communication never can. You breathe more slowly. You think more clearly. You remember that disagreements don’t have to be disagreeable. There’s also something grounding about being part of a physical community rather than a virtual crowd. The person you’re talking to isn’t a random stranger with an anonymous avatar; they’re someone who shares your sidewalk, your grocery store, your weather and your local challenges. That shared context encourages mutual respect. You might still disagree — honestly, you probably will — but the disagreement becomes a conversation, not a war. And consider the ripple effects. When neighbors talk, they build trust. When trust grows, communities become stronger, safer and more resilient. People are more likely to help one another, support local initiatives, and intervene when someone is struggling. Civil discourse becomes possible again — something increasingly rare in a world where

shouting has replaced dialogue. Face-to-face conversations also make room for humility. Online arguments often are myopic and pernicious. In person, you’re more likely to acknowledge what you don’t know, to soften your stance or to revise your thinking. Most surprisingly, you might even discover that the “other side” isn’t as far away as the internet insists. Maybe you share concerns, values or experiences. Maybe you’re both frustrated by the same problems, even if you imagine different solutions. Or maybe you simply end up respecting each other enough to continue the conversation later. And you may learn something new about an issue or about your community — or even about yourself. That’s the heart of a healthy society — not unanimous agreement, but constructive connection. If we truly want better conversations, less stress and stronger communities, the solution isn’t another heated thread or another algorithm-driven argument. There are many ways to move from behind the screen and interact with others in real life. It’s going out to dinner with friends, joining a club, becoming part of a sports team or taking a continuing education class. The internet may connect us instantly, but only face-to-face interactions remind us why connection matters in the first place.

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t this time of year, many families with high school students visit colleges. Some visit nearby campuses that are within reach academically and financially, while others travel to what they consider more prestigious institutions. Whichever the choice, it’s imperative for parents and prospective students to plan carefully. Students and their families should consider how far from home is acceptable. Will the student be most comfortable in a large city, a suburban or a rural roBerT a. setting area? Will he or she live on camsCoTT pus, in the town or at home? How large a campus is acceptable? Some universities have 50,000 or more students, and some colleges have fewer than 1,500. The best fit is one that is not only challenging for academic and personal growth, but also caring and focused on student achievement. The cost of tuition, fees, room, board, books and supplies is another consideration. Some families are willing to borrow to send their child to a prestigious college. If a good education and preparation for life are the goals, that isn’t

necessary. It’s better to find the best fit for the student. Families and students should use publicly available information such as college guides and the federal College Scorecard to decide on a list of colleges to visit and examine more closely. A high school guidance counselor should have a library of materials, and should know about where former students have gone to college. According to the National Survey of Student Engagement 2017-23, students at most colleges, the least selective as well as the most selective, rate their campus experience about the same on measures of critical thinking and analysis, quantitative reasoning, collaboration with peers, access to diverse perspectives and student-faculty interactions. On the following measures, however, more selective colleges provide the biggest impact: internships, leadership opportunities, working on research with faculty, and studying abroad. The federal College Scorecard can be a useful tool for examining general data about colleges and comparing institutions, but it cannot convey the personality of an institution. A publication such as the “Fiske Guide to Colleges” gives a fuller picture of a campus. After deciding on where to visit, call

for an appointment, ask to sit in on a class, talk to a faculty member and current students, tour a residence hall, and check out the dining facilities. Afterward, reflect on the following:

t’s such an important decision, and the answers to so many questions figure into it.

■ Feel: Were the students, faculty and staff you met on campus friendly and spontaneous, or were they cold and scripted? ■ Admissions: What weight is given to test scores? Of what influence are athletic prowess or alumni connections in the admissions process?

■ Academics: Are students assigned a faculty adviser? How easy is it to change majors? Who provides guidance on graduate studies and careers? ■ Who teaches? Do full-time faculty teach undergraduates, or is most instruction done by graduate assistants? ■ Enrollment: Is the student body economically diverse? ■ Financial aid: Will financial aid awards be adjusted for tuition increases? ■ Health and safety: Does the campus have a health center? Does the college provide transportation to go shopping off campus? ■ Housing and food service: Is there

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sufficient residential-hall space to house all undergraduates, or must students live in fraternity and sorority houses or off campus? Does the dining hall offer meals three times a day, seven days a week when classes are in session? ■ Social life: Does the campus offer a rich cultural life and support a variety of clubs and organizations, or do Greek societies dominate the social scene? Do many students leave campus on the weekend? ■ Career placement: Does the career office offer information about jobs on campus and in the summer? Does it have information on internships, both paid and voluntary? Who are some successful alumni in the student’s fields of interest? While college graduates have improved outcomes in income, employment, health and civic engagement, college requires an investment of time, energy and intellect as well as money. So it’s important that the college and the student “fit” together in a way that is not only challenging but supportive. The right fit is more important than prestige. College is intended to enrich your life as well as your wallet. Robert A. Scott is president emeritus of Adelphi University and a co-author of “Letters to Students: What it Means to be a College Graduate.”

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