Rockville Centre Herald 06-29-2023

Congrats Class of 2023 Congrats, Class of 2023

Rockville Centre veteran turns to community for help

By dANIEl oFFNER doffner@liherald.com

Nick Martinez Jr. grew up in Rockville Centre, attended South Side High School and was a member of the Cyclones wrestling team.

When he graduated in 1989 at age 18, Martinez was recruited by the U.S. Marine Corps. He trained at the military recruitment depot on Parris Island in South Carolina, and his platoon was deployed to the Middle East.

It was a very different time, with the Cold War with the Soviet Union coming to an end and Iraq’s invasion of Kuwait leading the U.S. and its allies into

combat for the first time since Vietnam.

Martinez served for five years and was honorably discharged in 1994, but was injured in combat, and returned home with a problem that would go undiagnosed for more than 20 years.

Doctors discovered that he had damaged his spine, and in February 2006 he underwent fusion surgery. The procedure involved removing fragments of bone and placing three rods and several screws in his spine.

Since it was a wartime injury, he filed a claim with the Department of Veterans Affairs, but was informed that his benefits would not cover it.

Former South Side High School wrestling coach

“They basically denied it,” Martinez said. “They said, ‘It’s a Social Security disability issue, because you’re a civilian now. If that happened during the time that you were in the service, it had to be proven at that time.’”

Although his disability cover-

age helped with a portion of the cost, Martinez ended up paying for most of the procedure — which was not entirely successful, and left him unable to do physical labor and earn a living wage.

Now 52, Martinez relies on his monthly disability benefit checks to help him pay for rent, food and medical expenses. For

the past three months, however, he has not received a check. It took him several attempts to reach Veterans Affairs about his payments before he received a letter detailing how “delays in printing and mailing correspondence due to supply chain and staff shortages” were responsible for the delay.

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Courtesy Teddy Batkin

oF South Side High School celebrate by tossing their mortarboards in the David S. Mack Sports Complex at Hofstra University. Story, more photos, Page 6.

I consider all of my wrestlers as part of my family.

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Crystal Dunn named to U.S. National Team RVC

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By MICHAEL LEWIS sports@liherald.com

Given her accomplishments, reputation and leadership skills, it should not be surprising that Crystal Dunn is a voice of experience on the US Women’s National Team.

The Rockville Centre native and South Side High School graduate was one of 23 players selected to the US team for this summer’s FIFA Women’s World Cup in New Zealand and Australia.

Dunn, who turns 31 on July 3, was one of nine players from the 2019 championship team as the Americans will try to become the first team - men or women - to win three consecutive world titles. The squad has 14 newcomers who have never competed in a World Cup. So, Dunn is an obvious choice to hand out advice.

Her journey to the WWC is unique. Dunn was left off the team in 2015, though she led the National Women’s Soccer League in scoring en route to MVP honors. Dunn was a starter on the 2019 side but was used as a defender even though she plays in an attacking position for her NWSL team, the Portland Thorns. Demonstrating her versatility, Dunn became one of the world’s best left backs.

“I’ve always tried to share that we’re all given a role,” she said. “Whether you’re completely excited and happy

selected to compete in FIFA World Cup tournament

ries, whether it’s form. Players have to be prepared and ready for anything.”

In group play, the Americans meet Vietnam (July 21, 9 p.m.), the Netherlands (July 26, 9 p.m.) and Portugal (Aug. 1, 3 a.m.). U.S. games will be televised by FOX. The final is Aug. 20.

Dunn, who has played 131 games for the USA, discovered she made the team via a video by rapper Lil Wayne, who did the honors:

“Intensity!

“Leadership!

“Swagger!

“Crystal Dunn, welcome to your second World Cup team. Bring home a trophy. Go USA!!

Dunn loved it. “Getting that announcement from Lil Wayne was incredible,” she said.

She will have a unique roommate at the tournament — her son Marcel, who celebrated his first birthday on May 20.

“He will be there the whole time, hopefully all the way through to the very end,” she said.

about your role or not, it’s about really executing your role to your best ability because that’s how we become successful. That’s how we win championships.

“My advice: Enjoy the grind. Enjoy the journey. Be prepared, that your role that

you’re given now may not be your role that you have throughout the tournament. Staying on your toes and being flexible is the massive thing. You have to remember when you’re in a tournament anything can happen, whether it’s inju-

“This is my first major tournament with a child,” Dunn added. “Being a mom is going to give me this newfound motivation and just purpose being on the field. I’m playing for something bigger than myself, even more than all that I represent. That’s really cool and I’m excited for it.”

CryStAL Dunn WAS one of 23 women named to the roster for the US National Team as they prepare to compete in the FIFA World Cup.

St. Agnes Bazaar returns for second year

There were rides, games, food, live music in the biergarten, and tons of family fun at the second annual St. Agnes Parish Bazaar this past weekend.

The annual event was a hidden gem from decades past, which was brought back to life in 2022 as one of the largest gatherings since the coronavirus pandemic started in 2020.

Hundreds gathered to the St. Agnes Cathedral School parking lot at 70 Clinton Ave. in Rockville Centre from Friday, June 23 to Sunday, June 25, to partake in all of the summertime festivities.

Once again, this year musical performers took no money for their appearances in order to help the Bazaar raise as much money as possible to help both the parish and school to continue their work in ministry and education.

–Daniel Offner

The second annual St. Agnes Parish Bazaar was a tremendous success as hundreds gathered to enjoy the rides, games, food, music and family fun.

Meyer, 6, takes a spin on the motorcycle at the St.

Brody

Agnes Parish Bazaar.

delaney Meyer, 5, enjoys the magic carpet slides at the St. Agnes Parish Bazaar.

Daniel Tommasino/Herald photos

cora Meyer, 3, Delaney Meyer, 5, and Luciana Storelli, 5, enjoyed riding around in the firetruck at the St. Agnes Parish Bazaar this past weekend.

luciana sTorelli, 5, and her brother Rocco, 5, are all smiles as they exit the Magic Carpet ride at the St. Agnes Parish Bazaar.

Crime watCh

Larceny

■ A Cedar Avenue resident reported on June 20, someone stole packages from her front porch.

Criminal Mischief

■ A representative of 50 Merrick Road reported on June 19, someone tampered with the electrical panel outside his building on two separate occasions.

Unusual Incident

■ A S. Park Avenue resident reported on June 20, someone fraudulently used two of his credit cards to make purchases.

■ A N. Village Avenue resident reported on June 20, someone used her personal information to apply for two bank loans.

■ A Hempstead Avenue resident reported on June 21, someone fraud-

ulently cashed a check that was mailed to him through the US Postal Service.

■ A N. Forest Avenue resident reported on June 21, someone fraudulently used one of his credit cards to make purchases.

■ A Rockaway Avenue resident reported on June 21, someone altered a check he mailed through the US Postal Service.

Arrests

■ Justin Shuman, 28, of Arlington Ave. in Valley Stream, was arrested on June 24, and has been charged with assault and disorderly conduct during an investigation at municipal parking field no. 8.

■ Kimesha McPherson, 37, of Old Mill Court in Rockville Centre was arrested on June 25, and has been charged with disorderly conduct during an investigation at her residence.

People named in Crime Watch items as having been arrested and charged with violations or crimes are only suspected of committing those acts of which they are accused. They are all presumed to be innocent of those charges until and unless found guilty in a court of law.

Courtesy Rockville Centre Chamber of Commerce

Tap Room receives a warm welcome in RVC

Representatives with the Village of Rockville Centre and the RVC Chamber of Commerce welcomed Tap Room, 47-51 N. Village Ave., into the downtown community with a ceremonial ribbon cutting last Wednesday afternoon.

South Side celebrates class of 2023 grads

By DANIEL OFFNER doffner@liherald.com

The South Side High School class of 2023 celebrated its graduation at Hofstra University’s David S. Mack Sports Complex on Friday evening, in front of a packed crowd of family and friends.

It was a time of great joy for the class of nearly 250 graduating seniors reflected on their four-year academic journey in Rockville Centre.

High School Principal Patrick Walsh explained that it is the policy of the Board of Education when the weighted seven semester average of the top two students be .01 or less they be declared co-valedictorians.

“That is the exact scenario we have this year,” Walsh said. “The only thing more impressive than these two students’ academic prowess is the depth and quality of their character.”

Following the opening remarks, the covaledictorians Cameron Colletti and Samantha Stein took the stage to share a few parting words with their classmates.

Colletti, who will be attending Johns Hopkins University, addressed the graduating class about her experience as a cross-country athlete and the lessons she learned about “perseverance and friendship” which she will take with her on her journey in higher learning.

“High school was my Sunken Meadow. Sunken Meadow State Park is considered one of the most difficult cross country courses in New York state due to its infamous snake and cardiac hill,” Coletti said. “I ran these hills several times throughout my high school career but senior year I was able to understand them more. To me, Sunken Meadow’s snake and cardiac hill were able to perfectly describe the challenges faced throughout high school and the ways to overcome them. There were a number of things to push me through both the difficult times in school and in a race … Knowing that I had my teammates beside me reminded me that I wasn’t only running for myself but I was running for my team as well.”

Samantha Stein, who will be attending Georgetown University, expressed her gratitude towards the parents, teachers and peers in the audience who’s unwavering support guided them through their four years of school.

“Our graduation ceremony represents the last time we will be gathered as a complete class before going our separate ways,” Stein said in her speech. “We are initially linked by nothing more than a common educational institution but we can now bond over shared hardships and triumphs.”

Before handing out the diplomas, the school announced the recipients of four prestigious awards that are presented by the district to a select few each year.

This year, the PTA Centennial Award was presented to Tatiana Markou, the Dr. Richard Byers School and Community Service Award was presented to Cameron Colletti, and the Laurel Awards were presented to Ali Pullaro and Daniel Walter.

“I wish to extend to all of our students a healthy and happy and hearty congratu-

lations to all of you,” Superintedent Matthew Gaven told the graduating class of 2023. “It was a real privilege to get to know each and everyone of you.”

Kelly Barry, president of the school Board of Education said she was honored to stand before the graduating class of 2023 and acknowledge their many accomplishments.

“It is a privilege for us to be here as we honor and recognize this group of outstanding students,” Barry said. “To our dear graduates, Johann Wolfgang von Goethe stated there our only two lasting requests we can hope to give our children. One of these is roots. The other is wings.’”

Walsh said that as the former assistant principal, and now principal at South Side High School, he has had the privilege of seeing the students transform from an unsure group of freshman to a strong, confident and passionate young adults.

“It is an incredible and with immense pride I stand before you today as we celebrate this momentous milestone in your

lives,” Walsh said. “Over the past four years at South Side High School I have had the privilege of witnessing your remarkable growth.”

Following the remarks, students were called up one-by-one to receive their diplomas. Once the ceremony was complete the graduating class threw their caps in the air in celebration of their accomplishment.

sOuth sIDE hIgh School held its commencement ceremony for the class of 2023 on Friday at Hofstra University’s David S. Mack Sports Complex.

Photos courtesy Dina Ewashko ChORus mEmBERs gIvE a performance during the South Side High School commencement ceremony.

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LAuREL AwARD RECIpIENt Daniel Walter walks up to receive his diploma.

CO-vALEDICtORIAN CAmERON COLLEttI receives her diploma from South Side High School Principal Patrick Walsh.

A salute to champions from 2022-23

By TONY BELLISSIMO tbellissimo@liherald.com

It was a banner season for many high school athletic programs in the Herald’s coverage area. Listed are the Top 20 team and individual accomplishments, in chronological order.

1. North Shore cross-country

The North Shore boys’ cross-country team has finally caught up with the girls. On Oct. 29 at Bethpage State Park, both Vikings’ running squads captured the Class III Nassau County championships. For the girls it was old hat. The Neal Levy-coached girls have won 16 of the last 17 county titles – an achievement only surpassed by its stunning unbeaten league-meet record of 195-0. The Vikings girls haven’t lost a meet since 2006. The boys’ recent brilliance is new, having won two of the last three county titles.

2. South Side girls’ cross-country

South Side’s strength in numbers proved too much for the competition at the Nassau girls’ cross-country championships Oct. 29 at Bethpage State Park. The result was a third straight county title for the Cyclones. Senior Cameron Coletti, junior Claire Bohan and sophomore Lana Jewett finished 3-4-5, respectively, in the 13-school Class II 5K race and all five South Side scorers earned All-County honors as part of a dominant performance.

3. Seaford girls soccer

Already a county champion in her first season of varsity girls’ soccer, Ryleigh Nocera was not ready for Seaford’s postseason run to end when it took the field Nov. 5 against Babylon in the Long Island Class B title game. The freshman striker made sure that Seaford’s historic playoff journey would continue when just 54 seconds into overtime she was able to control a long throw-in from Kayla Hoehn and fire a shot into the upper left corner for a dramatic 1-0 victory. Nine days earlier, Nocera set up Kaylie Conklin’s OT winner against Wheatley that delivered the Vikings’ first-ever county crown. Goalkeeper Joanna Bello was perfect in both games behind a defense led by Arianna Garcia, Amanda Williamson, Mia Leggio and Amanda Ettinger.

4. MacArthur girls soccer

The legend of MacArthur goalkeeper Lexie Thompson was further elevated in the Long Island Class A finals against Shoreham-Wading River Nov. 5. Thompson, who surrendered just one goal all season to that point, recorded her 15th shutout with 11 saves in a 1-0 victory over the Suffolk County Class A champions to propel MacArthur to its first L.I. title since 2011. Junior Sara Kealey gave the Generals the only offense they would need thanks to Thompson’s heroics when she scored 11:32 into the first half from about 20 yards out.

5. Calhoun boys’ volleyball

A year after Roslyn spoiled Calhoun’s hopes of back-to-back Nassau Division II boys’ volleyball championships, the Colts returned the favor. Topseeded Calhoun used a balanced attack and took advantage of a second-set lineup gaffe by the Bulldogs to reclaim the county title Nov. 8, 25-22, 25-19, 25-20. Senior Tommy Bello had 20 kills and five blocks, senior libero Brian Sanchez had 23 digs, and senior setter Ryan Pucella had 26 assists to propel the Colts, who also got big efforts from Sean DiPaola and Matt Kalfas.

The Seaford girls’ volleyball team achieved its goal of a repeat county title and established a dynasty in the process. The Vikings once again hoisted the championship plaque after a four-set win against third-seeded North Shore in the Nassau Class B finals Nov. 9. Kailly Nocera, Danielle McHugh and Natalie Masters starred in Seaford’s third county title in four seasons. The Vikings made more history two days later earning the program’s first Long Island championship since 2019 behind Carey-Jean Block’s monster effort in five dramatic sets against Bayport-Blue Point.

7. North Shore football

A special play on special teams and a late dose of its workhorse running back was all North Shore needed to repeat as Nassau Conference IV football champions. Senior Pat Godfrey recovered senior Michael Granelli’s punt block for a touchdown late in the first quarter and the Vikings never trailed in the 20-6 victory over West Hempstead in the county title game Nov. 18. Senior Nicholas La Rosa added touchdown runs in each of the last two quarters, including a game-sealing 10-yard score with 4:05 remaining, as North Shore won its 19th consecutive game.

8. Calhoun girls’ volleyball

Calhoun left little doubt as to which high school Class A girls’ volleyball team was the best in New York State. After dominating pool play, the Colts completed an incredible run to their first-ever state title by dethroning twotime defending Class A-champion Burnt Hills-Ballston Lake 25-11, 25-19, 25-19 in the Nov. 20 final at Glens Falls. Backed by the inspiring play of senior co-captains Julia Lawrence, Ella Maldonado and Victoria Zovich and key contributions from other players in the rotation, the Colts

made good on their preseason mantra of “Road to States,” which coach Christina Strezenec said was put on the team’s white board in response to the previous season’s Nassau County final loss to Wantagh.

9. Calhoun girls’ track

With only 13 members, the Calhoun girls’ track and field team knew it had hardly any margin for missteps Feb. 7 at the Nassau Class B championships; every Colt would have to harvest points – some in multiple events –for the club to avenge a stinging spring loss and claim a second straight county indoor title. In a flurry of personal bests, which included two school records, Calhoun – led by senior Sara Manson and aided by calculation as cold as the air outside the Student Center – fended off rival Valley Stream North to win back-to-back winter championships.

10. Hewlett boys’ swimming

Hewlett dominated relays and produced top three finishers in eight other events on the way to capturing its first Nassau County boys’ swimming championship since the 1991-92 season on Feb. 11. Leading the effort for the well-rounded Bulldogs was junior Jonah Kirschbaum, who captured the 50-yard freestyle title, anchored two winning relays (200 medley and 400 freestyle), and finished runner-up in the 100 freestyle. Sophomores David Kushnirsky (100 breaststroke champion), Ethan Nus and Ethan Silver were also among the key figures.

11. Seaford wrestling

Seaford wrestling made history in more ways than one during the individual county championships Feb. 11. The Vikings tied a program record in qualifying six wrestlers for the New York State Championships during the Nassau’s Division 2 tournament and for the first time since 2004 finished as the top team on the county finals stage.

6. Seaford girls’ volleyball

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LEd BY A strong senior group, Calhoun captured the NYS Class A girls’ volleyball championship Nov. 8.

No shortage of county, L.I. champs

Seaford produced one county champ, Karl Leudesdorff at 215 pounds, along with five runner-up finishes, which included Ashley Diaz becoming the first female wrestler on Long Island to advance to a county finals match.

12. Wantagh wrestling

Wantagh’s Thomas Bonasera, Anthony Clem and Jesse Vanorden all reached the All-County wrestling podium the previous winter by placing in the top six of their respective weight classes. On Feb. 12 they were back on the big stage at Hofstra and made the most of it. They secured three of the Warriors’ four Nassau Division 1 championships, leading them to a repeat team title along with repeat county champ Joseph Clem. The Warriors racked up 253 points to finish well atop the team standings. Long Beach was runner-up with 208.5.

13. Malverne boys’ basketball

Farvens Ulysse and the Malverne Mules took it to Carle Place early and often en route to another county championship. Ulysse had 10 of his 21 points during Malverne’s explosive run to start the game and Chad Wesley added 13 as the Mules captured their second Nassau County B boys’ basketball title in three seasons with a dominant 60-36 win over the Frogs March 1. Kevin Estime added 12 points for Malverne, which blew out to a 15-0 lead.

14. Baldwin boys’ basketball

For the second Saturday in a row, Jaylen Brown from downtown provided the difference for Baldwin. Brown’s three-pointer from the corner with 56.5 seconds remaining broke the last of six deadlocks and put the Bruins ahead for good in a hard-fought 45-39 victory over Port Washington in the Nassau Class AA boys’ basketball championship game March 11 before an electric crowd of more than 3,500 at Hofstra. It was the third straight county title for Baldwin (21-3), which a week earlier topped Hempstead in the semis on Brown’s three-pointer with 10 seconds remaining.

15. Baldwin girls’ basketball

It was quite fitting Payton Dulin put the finishing touch on Baldwin’s second straight Long Island Class AA girls’ basketball title with a pair of late free throws. After all, it was the sophomore guard’s sensational 17-point performance in the first half March 11 that allowed the Lady Bruins to lead from wire-to-wire in their 39-32 victory over Walt Whitman. Dulin poured in a game-high 19 points and senior Katelyn Simpson added 13 for Baldwin, which shot 7-for-8 from the foul line in the fourth quarter to seal its 22nd win in 24 games.

16. South Side boys’ basketball

South Side seniors Josh Garelle and Rob Pericolosi will be college basketball teammates at SUNY Geneseo, but on March 11 the duo made sure their high school career would get extended in historic fashion. Garelle and Pericolosi each scored 14 points to propel South Side to its first Long Island title since the 1977-78 season with a 45-31 win over Kings Park in the Class A championship game. The two book-ended their scoring outputs with Pericolosi registering 12 of his points in the first quarter alone while Garelle closed strong with 10 in the second half. The Cyclones, who knocked off Manhasset for the county title, finished 25-2.

17. Valley Stream North track

The county championships were again twice as nice for the Valley Stream North track and field teams. The boys’ and girls’ teams swept the Nassau AA spring title for the second straight year at their home track May 23

thanks to a combined five first-place finishes in the field events and six runner-up showings in the running finals. The girls took their fourth straight county crown, with Brooke Fessler (high jump), Nattaly Lindo (shot put) and Moanna Thelusca (discus) winning events and Melissa Innocent placing second in three events. The boys’ captured their 14th championship in 17 years led by winners Joshua Lopez (shot put) and Ethan Smalls (discus.)

18. Seaford baseball

Billy Kind created history for Seaford baseball when he struck out the final batter in a 1-0 Nassau Class B finals Game 2 win against Wheatley May 26. The senior pitcher tossed a one-hitter with seven strikeouts to clinch Seaford’s sweep of the best-of-three championship series and garner the program’s its first-ever county title. In Game 1, senior Sean Costello threw a complete-game shutout, striking out eight in a 6-0 victory. Costello scored the lone run in Game 2 on Nick Apollo’s single. The Vikings finished 22-2.

19. MacArthur softball

MacArthur entered the Nassau Class A softball championship series undefeated and riding a 23-game winning streak including a pair against Clarke, but the Rams took the opener and put a notch in the Generals’ loss column for the first time since 2022. However, MacArthur rebounded in a big way behind senior pitcher Taylor Brunn, and after it stayed alive with her Memorial Day shutout secured the county title the following afternoon with a 12-5 win. MacArthur, in capturing its first Nassau crown since 2017, scored four runs in the bottom of the first, exploded for five runs in the fourth and added three more in the sixth. Sofia Anderson and Hailey Feiler had three RBIs apiece.

20. Seaford softball

In the bottom of the ninth inning of a scoreless Long Island Class B softball championship game June 1, Seaford was threatening after a walk to Gabby Bellamore

some nifty bunts by Jamie Young and Katie Young that gave Center Moriches trouble. The bases were loaded for Kaitlyn Young. Some may have cracked under the pressure, but she was all smiles at the plate. On a 2-1 count Young drilled a fastball to left field and a would-be sacrifice fly dropped in for a single, walking off the game 1-0 for the Vikings and giving them the L.I. title. It marked the program’s first since 2005. Pitcher Skyler Secondino allowed only three hits and struck out 15.

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Photos by Neil Miller/Herald South Side WoN its first Long Island boys’ basketball title in 45 years when it cruised past Kings Park in the Class A matchup March 11.

Billy KiNd helped lead Seaford to its first-ever Nassau County baseball crown May 26.

Bowling alley donates money to help vets

By CLARE GEHLICH

Intern

In a display of community support, Maple Family Centers, a Rockville Centre-based family business that operates a chain of bowling centers in New York and Florida, demonstrated its commitment to enriching the lives of Long Island veterans by donating $35,000 in proceeds to two organizations that serve them.

On May 20, Maple Lanes RVC in Rockville Centre hosted the annual the Bowlers to Veterans Link Tournament of Champions. During the awards ceremony that followed the tourney, John LaSpina, president of Maple Family Centers, presented a check for $25,000 to the Long Island State Veterans Home at Stony Brook, and a $10,000 check to the Long Beach Waterfront Warriors. All of the proceeds raised during the annual tournament go to help enhance the lives of veterans through therapeutic recreational experiences and community support.

According to LaSpina, who is also chairman of the Bowlers to Veterans Link board of directors, he is proud in the fact that he is able to help raise funds each year to give back to all those who have served our country.

“I want our company to be a valuable asset for every community that we serve,” LaSpina said. “We have five locations, and I want it to be a community center that not only does business, but does good things for the community and its veterans.” The bowling industry’s national charity organization, Bowlers to Veterans Link, was first created in 1942 when bowlers nationwide helped raise funds to purchase planes to bring wounded men and women in the service home from World

War II.

Since that time, the organization has helped raise more than $56 million for recreation and therapeutic programs and services to address the emotional and physical needs of veterans and activeduty military.

LaSpina said that since joining the BVL board, almost a decade ago, he has devoted much of his charity work in memory of a close friend of his in the bowling industry who died shortly after 9/11. In the past year, LaSpina has helped raise $1,250,000 nationwide for the organization. Every single dollar contributed comes from individuals who have embraced its mission to support veterans.

“It’s not like someone’s writing big checks,” he said.

The Bowlers to Veterans Link Tournament of Champions, one of many charitable events organized by Maple Family Centers proudly supports the organiza-

tion and its mission to help recuperate and brighten the lives of America’s veterans and active-duty service men and women.

While the choice of veteran organizations it supports rotates annually, LaSpina said that Maple Family Centers specifically chose these two groups because of their notable impact on the lives of Long Island veterans.

“It goes right to the program and its benefits for veterans,” he said.

The Long Island State Veterans Home in Stony Brook stands as a beacon for compassion for veterans and their families, with 350 beds and adult day healthcare and rehabilitation services. The donation from Maple Family Centers provides therapeutic recreational technologies, including MyndVR, a virtual reality experience that allows users to feel like they are embarking on a wild adventure, and iN2L senior engagement technology,

a platform that connects users with their interests.

LaSpina explains that they started sponsoring the use of virtual reality systems to help veterans, highlighting the incredible innovation.

“It’s all artificial intelligence just like you’re reading about,” he said proudly.

The Long Beach Waterfront Warriors, a nonprofit organization celebrating its 16th year, will also benefit from the Maple Family Centers’ contributions. The program, known as “Summer Visit,” invites 30-to-40 wounded veterans and their families to a weeklong stay at the luxurious Allegria Hotel and other private homes in Long Beach. Honored guests enjoy numerous activities, including catered meals at local restaurants, outings onboard chartered fishing boats, beachside yoga and more. Through their donation, Maple Family Centers will help create memorable moments for these brave individuals and their loved ones.

LaSpina’s decision is rooted in a belief that goes beyond financial gain, reflecting Maple Family Centers’ understanding that having a goal that can support the community is the key to success, especially in business.

Throughout the years, LaSpina said that Maple Family Centers has received a total of $600,000 from valued customer contributions. In addition to the Long Island State Veterans Home and the Long Beach Waterfront Warriors, Maple Family Centers also donates to the St. Albans VA Hospital and the Northport VA Hospital.

“We embrace something greater than just profit,” LaSpina said. “Profits are important, but how you get there is what keeps us different from other people, because we believe that goodwill travels far and rings a register.”

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TEREsA LAspInA MCCARTHy of Maple Family Centers in Rockville Centre presented $25,000 to Jonathan Spier of the Long Island State Veterans Home in Stony Brook.

JoHn LAspInA of Maple Family Centers, left, presents a $10,000 check to Gerald Snell and Patricia Farrell of Long Beach Waterfront Warriors.

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Fend off Fentanyl Act has bipartisan support

By BEN FIEBERT bfiebert@liherald.com

There were 270 reported deaths from overdoses in Nassau County in 2021. Of those, nearly three-quarters of them involved fentanyl, an opioid analgesic said to be 100 times stronger than morphine.

And that must come to an end, according to U.S. Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand. And for her, it all starts in the halls of Capitol Hill through a bill that’s already earned the support of not only the Nassau County Police Department Center, but lawmakers and leaders on both sides of the political aisle.

Gillibrand’s Fend Off Fentanyl Act was introduced in Nassau County last week by Police Commissioner Patrick Ryder, County Executive Bruce Blakeman, District Attorney Anne Donnelly, Long Island advocate Carole Trottere, and Long Island Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence executive director Steve Chassman.

“No community has been left untouched by the deadly impacts of silent killers like fentanyl, including Long Island,” Gillibrand said. “Just last year, the DEA seized enough deadly doses of fentanyl in New York for more than three times the state’s population.”

The bill targets both cartels as well as people involved in producing and trafficking drugs into the United States, the senator said. The legislation will “better empower” the government to sanction drug traffickers and combat money laundering schemes that make this trade profitable.

“We have lost far too many lives to fentanyl overdoses,” Gillibrand said. “And I am committed to work-

ing with my colleagues in congress to keep our communities safe from deadly synthetic opioids.”

Gillibrand’s bill is intended to provide more resources to law enforcement and police officers on Long Island. This will then help them “trace these transnational criminals,” find the supply chain of these drugs, and then shut down these drugs deals on a local level. Gillibrand said fentanyl is “making the strengths of these drugs so much stronger than ever imagined,” which is why she is working on finding their source.

Trottere has fought against fentanyl since her son was fatally poisoned in 2018 when he was just 30 years old. He was a licensed welder and had a great job before dying, she said. And when his life ended, Trottere’s “nightmare began.”

“Unfortunately, my story is far from unique,” she said. “Disturbingly, fentanyl and opioids have quickly become the leading cause of death among adults 18 to 45. Last year on Long Island, there were over 500 deaths from fentanyl and opioids. That means over a thousand parents became members of the club that

nobody wants to join.”

These young people who died too early could have contributed a lot to the world, Trottere said, but we’ll never know what that would have been. She is certain about one thing, however: the feeling of grief. The pain that follows the death of a child is “unimaginable.”

“To the young people out there, I understand that death is not on your mind,” Trottere said. “It’s probably graduating, which is what it should be. But when you take any street drug or accept a pill from a friend at a party, or buy drugs from someone you don’t know, it could be the last thing you do.”

Fentanyl is getting mixed with everything, Ryder said. “Cocaine, crack, heroin, and even some marijuana in some situations.”

Some may not even know it, Ryder said. Adderall — used to help with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder — is abused by students in schools to help them focus. But it could very well be laced with fentanyl, intended to get them addicted, and then prompting them to buy more.

This is the “business model” that Ryder has been seeing kill people across Long Island.

“It is sickening how fentanyl traffickers continue to profit by peddling deadly poison to our communities and our children,” Nassau County legislator Delia DeRiggi-Whitton said, in a statement. “Sen. Gillibrand’s Fend Off Fentanyl Act will strengthen ongoing efforts to keep this deadly, highly addictive drug out of our nation, and empower law enforcement to seize the ill-begotten gains being made at the expense of sick and suffering addicts.”

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U.S. SEN. KIRSTEN Gillibrand announces the Fend Off Fentanyl Act, which aims to tackle the fentanyl crisis in New York.

More than 70 percent of overdose deaths in Nassau County in 2021 involved fentanyl.

No community has been left untouched by the deadly impacts of silent killers like fentanyl, including Long Island.

KIRSTEN GIllIBRaNd U.S Senator

No matter the industry, businesses around the world are undergoing dramatic changes to the way they operate. From technology and skill development to cultural barriers to self care and mental health, every organization must adapt and evolve or risk being left behind.

As we navigate a time of pivotal change, the Herald’s 2023 WE Summit presented by Bank of America brings together thought leaders, innovators and barrier-breaking women for conversations around this year’s theme: The Future is Now.

Only Hempstead village escapes rent raise

By BRANDON CRUZ bcruz@liherald.com

Don’t expect rents to rise next this coming year — that is, if you’re living in a rent-stabilized apartment in Hempstead village. Everywhere else? Be ready to pay more.

That was the decision of the Nassau County Rent Guidelines Board last week, hearing the concerns voiced by Hempstead village renters at an open forum earlier this month, The rest of Nassau County could see rents climb by 1 percent for one-year leases, and 2 percent for two-year leases beginning Oct. 1.

The passing vote came after a series of contrary motions were denied by the board, including one by landlord representative Barry Stein, who proposed an increase of up to 6.5 percent before being drowned out by a series of boos from tenants and advocates in attendance.

Stein’s justification for such an increase? Rent income increased nearly 3 percent while expense increases more than doubled that. Then there’s the rising property taxes in Nassau County, rising house insurance costs, and mortgage rates doubling. They were numbers Stein called “unsustainable.”

Stein also asserts the state’s reported profit figures by landlords are overblown, incorrectly looking at entire buildings — includes units not subject to regulation.

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AfteR it wAs all said and done, members of the Nassau County Rent Guidelines Board decided regulated rents would rise for the second year in a row, despite some tenants and political groups calling not only for a freeze, but a rollback to pre-pandemic levels.

Rychlowski explained tenants like him are overburdened.

“We heard a lot of things from the landlords about the rising cost of living, but what about how that disproportionately affects the tenants?” he asked. “Mr. Stein is arguing that we shouldn’t be using their overall profit margin because it combines non-regulated housing along with regulated housing.”

Despite these claims, landlord profits are at record highs, according to the

state’s New York State Division of housing and community renewal division.

Another member, Martin Melkonian, also pointed out data suggesting rent-stabilized buildings consistently rise in value. That suggests to him this is a profit enterprise — not simply for the cash flow, but for asset growth. And that many ordinary property owners have enormously benefited from rising values.

“Over the past 20 years, the net operating income continues to rise,” Melkonian

said. That net operating income peaked at 38 percent in 2022, “which is the highest it’s been, despite the fact that the expenses have gone up, and admittedly, rents have not followed along. Nevertheless, net operating income continues to rise. What explains that?”

At least from Melkonian’s point of view, despite regulation, landlords do pretty well in terms of cash flow, and extremely well in terms of the rapidly rising property value of their buildings over time.

Following the vote, Jeremy Joseph, — an organizer with the Working Families Party and the Nassau County Democratic Socialists of America — said he is disappointed with the overall vote, but will accept the small victory for Hempstead village residents while acknowledging the long road ahead.

“All tenants in Nassau County deserve a rent reduction,” Joseph said. “Anything less than that is not enough.”

Prior to the vote, the board heard tenants from Hempstead directly, and that members who are not usually on our side were compelled to vote for no raise.

“Just imagine if they gave that same attention to all the municipalities in the county,” Joseph said. “But they don’t. They only have a few hearings.

“If we had a hearing in Freeport and Rockville Centre, they would have heard all the same stuff they heard in Hempstead.”

Brandon Cruz/Herald

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he sky will be aglow for the annual spectacle that marks our Independence Day, always a rousing celebration. While the main event is Tuesday, of course, the county-wide festivities begin Saturday, with plenty of local fireworks to enjoy.

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it may not always seem so). Other popular festivities involve the historical aspect of our nation’s birthday. Consider a visit to Old Bethpage Village Restoration, Saturday and Sunday, for the historic site’s annual re-creation of a Fourth of July celebration as commemorated during the Civil War.

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Eisenhower Park is a popular spot to view the pyrotechnic spectacle, as part of its annual holiday double bill that also includes a concert. The park around Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre will be filled with visitors celebrating the lead-up to the holiday, Saturday, July 1, to enjoy some tunes and watch as the skies light up at the county’s Independence Day extravaganza.

The prelude, which starts at 7 p.m., includes a drone and laser light show, followed by a performance by the county’s winner of its recently concluded Battle of the Bands competition. That sets the stage for the colorful fireworks that follow, presented by the famed Grucci family, at dusk, simulcast by WALK 97.5 FM.

Of course, there is no formal seating, so bring blankets or chairs. Space is limited, and overflow will be directed to other viewing and parking areas. The rain date is July 2.

Motor City Revue

Journey back in time to 1960s Detroit and the birth of the Motown sound, when Motor City Revue visits the Landmark stage. This 13-piece tribute band will have you dancing and singing along to the songs immortalized by Smokey Robinson & The Miracles, Marvin Gaye, The Temptations, The Supremes and countless others. From Hitsville to Soulsville, they’ll perform it all, with a passion and delivery of the true Motown sound that is undeniable. Their ability to match the vocal harmonies and instrumental mix that distinguished the original recordings is not to be missed. Everyone will be humming along to these iconic tunes in this authentic re-creation of the great era that revolutionized the music industry. Their music is about peace, love and soul that defined a generation and retains its power today.

Friday, June 30, 8 p.m. $47, $42, $38. Jeanne Rimsky Theater at Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Port Washington. (516) 767-6444 or LandmarkOnMainStreet.org.

Celebrate America

• Saturday and Sunday, noon-4 p.m.; Tuesday through Friday, 11 a.m.-4 p.m.

• July 1, 7-10 p.m.

• Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, Eisenhower Park, East Meadow

The setting marks the departure of local Union soldiers — new recruits — and the nation’s 85th anniversary. The weekend events, which run from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., include contra dancing, patriotic speeches, musket firing and children’s games, along with a ceremony and parade, against the backdrop of historic music performed by the Old Bethpage Village Brass Band.

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Jones Beach Fireworks

• July 4, 9:30 p.m.

• Emily Lowe Hall Gallery, South Campus, Hempstead. For information and to RSVP, call (516) 463-5672, or visit Hofstra.edu/museum

• Jones Beach State Park, Wantagh

“When We All Stand,” Hofstra University Museum of Art’s new exhibition, examines the collective power of the arts in society.

Families may also want to check out i.Fly Trapeze, the acrobatic/ circus arts venue nearby in the park.

Or visit the summer home of President Theodore Roosevelt in Oyster Bay for Sagamore Hill’s annual presidential-style Independence Day festivities. Commemorate the holiday in the Roosevelt tradition, at the former presidential residence, on Tuesday, from noon to 4 p.m.

Old Bethpage Village Restoration

Curated by Alexandra Giordano — the museum’s assistant director of exhibition and collection — the exhibit underscores artists’ civic responsibility and influence.

• July 1-2, 10 a.m.-4 p.m.

• 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage

The 26th president would gather with his extended family and friends at Sagamore Hill for a day of celebration. Cousins and friends enjoyed the day here participating in flag-waving outdoor activities.

Pat McGann is quickly rising as one of the sharpest stand-ups on the comedy scene. A relative latecomer to comedy, he began doing standup at 31 after realizing he was not very good at selling packaging. He hustled his way to become the house emcee at Zanies Chicago, where he distinguished himself as especially adept at working the crowd. A husband and father of three young children, McGann’s appeal stems from his quick wit and relatable take on family life and marriage. In 2017, McGann began touring as the opening act for Sebastian Maniscalco, moving with him from clubs to theater, to arenas, including four soldout shows at Madison Square Garden. McGann’s relatively short, but impressive resume, includes Montreal’s famed Just For Laughs Festival, Gilda’s LaughFest, The Great American Comedy Festival, and more. McGann still calls Chicago home.

Fireworks at Jones Beach

The beach light show, a longstanding tradition, is eagerly awaited by the throngs of folks who make that yearly holiday trek to Jones Beach on July 4. The vivid display, beginning at 9:30 p.m., is a spectacular 25-minute display using state-of-the-art pyrotechnic technology. The dazzling colors and sights always thrill, accompanied by rousing musical array of patriotic songs simulcast by WALK 97.5 FM and KJOY 98.3 FM.

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“It highlights the vital role that artists have in activating democratic values that promise equality and freedom, encouraging civic engagement, and cultivating unity,” Giordano says. “Artists often lead the charge and expose truths that may otherwise be ignored. The artists in this exhibition take a stand and call out injustices through their art and activism on issues such as immigration, gender, reproductive rights, mass incarceration, voting rights, racial bias, gun violence, and promises unfulfilled. They all combine the making of art with public service that has a grassroots approach in the hope of mobilizing their communities and the nation to ignite movement, create awareness, and inspire others to stand with them.”

• July 4, noon-4:30 p.m.

• 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay

• NPS.gov or (516) 922-4788

This exhibit, which runs through July 28, is in conjunction with Hofstra’s 13th presidential conference on the Barack Obama presidency coming up in April.

Of course, expect crowds. As always, thousands of hardy souls brave Jones Beach’s jam-packed thoroughfares to get a spot to see the light show. More than 250,000 people generally visit, so an early arrival is a must. “Center stage” is the Central Mall, but fireworks are visible throughout the length of the beach.

Highlights include tours of the Roosevelt home, a concert with the Calliope Brass Band, a holiday-themed Junior Ranger Program, assorted lawn games and crafts for kids, historical exhibits at the Old Orchard Museum, and even an appearance by the president himself as portrayed by re-enactor Joe Wiegand. He will mingle with visitors and read from the Declaration of Independence.

Saturday, Feb. 11, 8 p.m. $40, $35, $30, $25. The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington. (800) 745-3000 or Ticketmaster.com or ParamountNY.com.

A summer tradition returns to Eisenhower Park. Settle in with Music director Louis Panacciulli and his orchestra for an evening of crowd-pleasing tunes outdoors. Hear the orchestra interpret the best in popular and light classical music, including several toe-tapping Big Band selections. The program, Salute to Stage and Screen, includes ‘Phantom of the Opera,’ Sinatra selections, a tribute to John Williams, ‘Annie Get Your Gun,’ the best of Billy Joel, Louie Armstrong, and more. Longtime vocalists Jack and Ann Cassin are also back again, as guest soloists, joining the orchestra songs from some of Broadway’s greatest productions. Bring a blanket or a lawn chair and settle for a relaxing evening of music under the stars.

History comes alive

The holiday celebration involves more than fireworks (although

“We were interested in the idea that the artist has a civic responsibility,” says museum director Karen Albert. “The initial idea for this exhibition was inspired by an Obama Administration White House briefing that took place on May 12, 2009, where more than 60 artists and creative organizers met with administration officials to discuss the collective power of the arts to build community, create change, and chart a pathway for national recovery in the areas of social justice, civic participation and activism.”

Friday, July 7, 8 p.m. Eisenhower Park’s Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, East Meadow. For information, visit NassauCountyNY.gov.

Tim Baker/Herald photos

Left photo: Eisenhower Park hosts the popular patriotic light show on Saturday, attracting large crowds that eagerly gather ever year.

Right photo: The sky will glitter over Jones Beach, another favorite destination for fireworks viewing.

Pat McGann

Can art change the world? It’s a question that’s been at the focus of our collective culture for centuries. Now as society navigates the complexities of modern life, art as a path for social change is at the forefront of artistic expression.

July 6

Three Dog Night

The legendary band is back on tour, appearing on The Paramount stage

Thursday, July 6, 8 p.m. Now their fifth decade, Three Dog Night claims some of the most astonishing statistics in popular music. In the years 1969 through 1974, no other group achieved more top 10 hits, moved more records, or sold more concert tickets. Their hits continue to weave through the fabric of pop culture today; songs like “Mama Told Me (Not To Come)”, “Joy to the World”, “Black and White”, “Shambala” and “One” serve to heighten our emotions and crystallize the band’s continuing popularity. Not content resting on legacy alone, Three Dog Night is always working to expand its audience. Maintaining an aggressive, year-round touring schedule, the band performs their hit-filled concerts for generation-spanning audiences. Their now-famous name refers to native Australian hunters in the outback who huddled with their dogs for warmth on cold nights; the coldest being a “three dog night.” $99.50, $59.50, $44.50, $39.50. The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington. Tickets available at Ticketmaster.com or ParamountNY.com.

Art talk

Join Nassau County Museum Director Charles A. Riley II, PhD, for a Director’s Seminar, Sunday, July 9, 3 p.m.

He’ll discuss “Oscar Wilde: The Critic and His Artists,” examining the endlessly fascinating author who was connected to a glittering circle of artists. His friends included Toulouse-Lautrec (who painted his portrait on the eve of his legal demise), the Pre-Raphaelites BurneJones, Morris and Millais, Whistler and Sargent (his neighbors on Tite Street in London’s Chelsea), and the naughty prodigy Aubrey Beardsley. Participation is limited; registration required. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.

On exhibit

Nassau County Museum of Art’s exhibition, “Eye And Mind: The Shin Collection,” highlights the extraordinary collection masterworks assembled by 31-year-old connoisseur Hong Gyu Shin, an internationally recognized figure in the global art world. He shares his treasures, including works by Whistler, Lautrec, Boucher, Daumier, Delacroix, Klimt, Schiele, Balthus, Warhol, de Kooning, Gorky and many other important names from art history provocatively juxtaposed with the painting and sculpture of our own time from both Asia and the West. On view through July 9. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.

Storybook Stroll

Bring the kids to Old Westbury Gardens for a storybook adventure, Saturday, July 1, 10:30-11:30 a.m. Stroll the gardens and listen to Janell Cannon’s “Stellaluna.” Later create a unique take home craft. For ages 3-5. Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. For information visit OldWestburyGardens.org or contact (516) 333-0048.

July 6

Summer stage Plaza

Theatricals brings the iconic musical “Rent,” to Eisenhower Park, Thursday, July 6, 7 p.m. The acclaimed reimagining of “La Vie Boheme,” loosely based on Puccini’s opera and set on East Village streets, fire escapes, tenements, and cafes. This groundbreaking roller coaster ride depicting the joys and sorrows of an eclectic, diverse group of young artists and activists is always captivating. Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, Eisenhower Park, East Meadow. For information, visit NassauCountyNY.gov.

Breastfeeding Support Group

Mercy Hospital offers a peer to peer meeting for breastfeeding support and resources, facilitated by a certified breastfeeding counselor, every Thursday, 10:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Bring your baby (from newborn to 1 year) to the informal group setting. All new moms are welcome, regardless of delivering hospital. Registration required. Call breastfeeding counselor, Gabriella Gennaro, at (516) 705-2434 to secure you and your baby’s spot. Mercy Hospital, St. Anne’s Building, 1000 North Village Ave., Rockville Centre. For information visit CHSLI.org.

Old Fashioned Drill

Rockville Centre Volunteer Fire Department hosts the old fashioned drill, Friday, July 14, starting at 6 p.m., at Fireman’s Field. Adjacent to South Side High School at 140 Shepherd St.

Having an event?

July 8

Family Bat Walk

Stroll Old Westbury Gardens with Gabriel Willow, a New York Citybased urban naturalist and environmental educator, Saturday, July 8, 7:309:30 p.m. He will lead a walk through the gardens to listen and look for bats while discussing bat ecology and conservation. All ages are welcome. Space is limited and reservations are required. Rain date is Saturday, July 15. 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. For information contact (516) 333-0048 or visit OldWestburyGardens.org.

Items on The Scene page are listed free of charge. The Herald welcomes listings of upcoming events, community meetings and items of public interest. All submissions should include date, time and location of the event, cost, and a contact name and phone number. Submissions can be emailed to thescene@liherald.com.

RVC Fireworks

The Village of Rockville Centre will hold its annual Fireworks Celebration and Concert on Saturday, July 8, at Pette and Barasch Fields at 7:30 p.m. Please note viewing will not be permitted on Lister or Tighe Fields. Rain date: Sunday, July 9.

July 11

July 12

Outside the Box: Phenakistoscope

The Art Studio RVC invites all try something new. Learn a variety of art mediums and techniques, including drawing, sculpture, watercolor, painting, collage, mixed media, and more. Half-day sessions are 9 a.m. to noon and 12:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m. 221 N. Long Beach Road, in Rockville Centre Visit TheArtStudioRVC.com for more information.

Bike locker lottery

Village of Rockville Centre holds a lottery to rent one of eight bike lockers adjacent to the LIRR for a year on Tuesday, July 11. Price is $100 for a rental fee and $40 key deposit. To register email GFeiner@RVCNY.us or call (516)-678-9288 for more information.

Westbury House Tour

For many years visitors to Westbury House at Old Westbury Gardens asked what was beyond the first floor corridor. Now go beyond the door and discover “secrets of the service wing,” during a 60-minute guided tour, Friday, June 30, noon. Be introduced to the intensive labor required to create the lifestyle experienced by the Phipps family and their guests; tour the many rooms that were “behind the scenes” to create the formal dining experiences of early 20th century. Go along the corridors to the butler’s pantry and silver cleaning room then descend the 17 steps to the kitchen, scullery, and wine storage rooms located on the ground floor. Reservations required. 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. For information contact (516) 333-0048 or visit OldWestburyGardens.org.

Train to become a community journalist

STAFF REPORT

Ever read a story and thought, “I can do that!” Or missed coverage in your local paper simply because the newsroom didn’t have enough resources?

Now could be your chance to do something about it. And the New York Press Association — the statewide organization representing news outlets like the very newspaper you’re reading — is offering training to neighbors just like you interested in covering news for the local newspaper.

The free four-part online program focuses on ethics, accuracy in reporting, interviewing techniques, and how to write clearly. Everyone who completes all four sessions and pass a written test will receive certification as a community journalist from the association.

“We’re not aiming to replace traditional journalists with this program,” said Judy Patrick, the association’s vice president for editorial development, in a news release. “We’re working to expand local news coverage and build on our industry’s longstanding tradition of community correspondents.”

The one-hour sessions include an introduction to journalism that will explain the First Amendment and the

business of newspapers. The differences between news and opinion and news and advertising. And discussing news literacy and ethics.

The second session focuses on basic news writing, the “inverted pyramid” method of writing, and how to write a lede. There also will be discussion on checking facts, how to avoid libel, and the difference between “off-the-record” and “on background,” as well as how to follow recommended writing styles, story accuracy, and writing clearly.

On the job in the third session, participants can explore how to comport themselves on the job, how to find news and interview story subjects and sources, the variety of stories — from hard news to features — how to find and develop sources, and why deadlines matter.

The basics of local government across the state will be covered in the last session, along with how to write about governmental financial budgets, education and politics, learning about basic investigative tools, open government tools in New York, and social media.

Offered four times a year, the first online session is set to run between July 10 and July 13 beginning at 4 p.m.

Free registration is open through July 7 by emailing judy@nynewspapers.com.

Tim Baker/Herald Habitat for Humanity of Long Island chief executive Jimmy Jack along with Habitat’s community development and special projects director Mymissa Stone accept a $2,000 donation from Herald Community Newspapers and RichnerLive. They were joined, center, by Herald Community Newspapers sales vice president Rhonda Glickman, and RichnerLive executive director Amy Amato.

Giving to create more habitats

Habitat for Humanity of Long Island will have a little extra money moving forward, thanks to the celebrated movers and shakers in real estate.

The local non-profit received a $2,000 donation from Herald Community Newspapers and RichnerLive, money raised during the Herald Real Estate Achievers + Leaders Awards Gala, otherwise known as the Herald REAL Awards Gala.

Habitat for Humanity is an affordable home and property developer that raises funds and creates partnerships allowing hard-working families the ability to become homeowners on Long Island. The

local foundation’s chief executive, Jimmy Jack, as well as the community development and special projects director Mymissa Stone, accepted the check on the organization’s behalf.

“The foundation really promotes the idea that we’re building a legacy and enabling that family to be homeowners,” Stone said.

The gala took place in March, honoring a number of real estate professionals across the industry — and Long Island.

To learn more about how you can support Habitat for Humanity of Long Island, visit HabitatLINY.org.

A model battlefield

To commemorate the anniversary of the Battle of Midway and the Battle of Guadalcanal, George Wells of American Legion Post 303 in Rockville Centre recreated these historic World War II battlefields using replica models of the actual Navy ships, and put them on display at the Rockville Centre Public Library. The showcase will be open for public viewing now through the month of July. There are about 200 more ships that are on display at the American Legion.

Patrons looking to experience the full exhibit up close can contact George Wells at 516-766-9740.

William Rockensies is the new Nassau IDA chairman

William Rockensies was appointed to chair the Nassau County Industrial Development Agency, which is a public benefit corporation that aims to support and promote economic and employment development across the county.

As chairman, Rockensies will continue to support the expansion of existing businesses and incentivize new businesses to find a home in Nassau, while generating jobs that aids in the long-term growth of the county’s tax base.

“Mr. Rockensies has all the tools to facilitate the continued prosperity of the NCIDA and we look forward to seeing the organization thrive under his guidance,” County Executive, Bruce Blakeman said in a news release.

Rockensies is a senior vice president at H2M Architects + Engineers, where his primary responsibility is director of the Melville-based firm’s construction services division.

“The role of the Nassau IDA and its impact on our economy have never been more important,” he said in the release. “Rising costs of both project financing and construction as well as the fact that today’s companies have limitless options of where they call home means we have an obligation to our residents to ensure that companies know Nassau County is open for business.”

ed serving as commissioner of engineering in the Town of Hempstead, as a civil engineer within the Village of Freeport’s Public Works Department and being ac Commissioner of the Cathedral Garden Water District.

For more information on the county’s IDA, go to NassauIda.org.

Courtesy Nassau IDA H2M ArcHitects + Engineers Senior Vice President William Rockensies is the new chairman of the Nassau County IDA.

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Former coach helps raise money for Martinez

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Asked if he feels that the government is mistreating veterans, Martinez responded with an emphatic “Yes.”

“Definitely,” he added. “I used to hesitate before answering that, because so many guys have it worse than me. I didn’t want to talk bad about the Marine Corps because that’s our brotherhood, but in the end, they’re not the guys that I served with who are doing this to me.”

Martinez’s story is not uncommon. According to a report in The Washington Post in 2019, Veterans Affairs staffers have routinely misapplied laws, misread military records, and rejected evidence that veterans have used to apply for treatment.

Martinez said that his records have often been misplaced or mistaken for those of others with similar names, and that he was denied coverage for a necessary surgical procedure.

Public Notices

LEGAL NOTICE

Notice of Qualification of SureLock Safety, LLC.

Authority filed with NY Dept. of State: 6/1/23. Office location: Nassau County. LLC formed in DE: 2/1/23. NY Sec. of State designated agent of LLC upon whom process against it may be served and shall mail process to: FisherBroyles, LLP, 41 Front St., 2nd Fl., Rockville Centre, NY 11570. DE address of LLC: Cogency Global Inc., 850 New Burton Rd., Ste. 201, Dover, DE 19904. Cert. of Form. filed with DE Sec. of State, 401 Federal St., Dover, DE 19901. Purpose: any lawful activity.

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Defendant(s). Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale entered on June 19, 2019. I, the undersigned Referee will sell at public auction on the North Side steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court located at 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, N.Y. 11501 “Rain or Shine” on the 19th day of July, 2023 at 2:00 PM. All that certain plot, piece or parcel of land, with the buildings and improvements

thereon erected, situate, lying and being in the Incorporated Village of Rockville Centre, Town of Hempstead, County of Nassau and State of New York. Premises known as 30 Fonda Road, Rockville Centre, New York 11570. (Section: 36, Block: 363, Lot: 202)

Approximate amount of lien $1,060,130.14 plus interest and costs.

Premises will be sold subject to provisions of filed judgment and terms of sale. Index No. 608735/2018. Julianne Bonomo, Esq., Referee. McCalla Raymer Leibert Pierce, LLC Attorney(s) for Plaintiff 420 Lexington Avenue, Suite 840 New York, NY 10170 Tel. 347/286-7409 Dated: May 15, 2023 During the COVID-19 health emergency, bidders are required to comply with all governmental health requirements in effect at the time of sale including but not limited to, wearing face coverings and maintaining social distancing (at least 6-feet apart) during the auction, while tendering deposit and at any subsequent closing. Bidders are also required to comply with the Foreclosure Auction Rules and COVID-19 Health Emergency Rules issued by the Supreme Court of this County in addition to the conditions set forth in the Terms of Sale.

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VICTORIA FAUSTINI, et al Defendant(s) Attorney for Plaintiff(s) McMichael Taylor Gray, LLC, 7 Wells Street, Suite 205B, Saratoga Springs, NY 12866. Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale entered May 16, 2023, I will sell at public auction to the highest bidder at North Side Steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court at 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, NY 11501 on July 17, 2023 at 2:00 PM. Premises known as 74 Roxen Road, Rockville Centre, NY 11570. Sec 36 Block 457-1 Lot 58. All that certain plot, piece or parcel of land, situate, lying and being in the Village of Rockville Centre, County of Nassau and State of New York.

Approximate Amount of Judgment is $874,966.22 plus interest, fees, and costs. Premises will be sold subject to provisions of filed Judgment Index No 614354/2018. The foreclosure sale will be conducted in accordance with 10th Judicial District’s Covid-19 Policies and foreclosure auction rules. The Referee shall enforce any rules in place regarding facial coverings and social distancing. If proper social distancing cannot be maintained or there are other health or safety concerns, then the Court Appointed Referee shall cancel the foreclosure auction. Foreclosure Auctions will be held “Rain or Shine.” Scott H. Siller, Esq., Referee 22001823-01 140159

LEGAL NOTICE

Public Notice to Bidders Sealed Bids will be received by the Purchasing Department of the Village of Rockville Centre, One College Place, Rockville Centre, New York for the matter stated below until 11:00 am prevailing time on JULY 13, 2023 at which time they will be publicly opened and read aloud. The contract will be awarded as soon thereafter as practicable for: VETERAN’S PARK RESTROOM REHABILITATION Bid No. 2307CD1(1080) The contract documents, specifications and plans can be examined on the Village’s website at www. rvcny.gov. Follow the link to the Purchasing Department. Each bid must be accompanied by a certified check, bank check or bid bond payable to the Incorporated Village of Rockville Centre in the amount of five (5%) percent of the gross amount of the bid. All questions should be directed to the Purchasing Department. Please contact Lisa Strazzeri via email only at Lstrazzeri@ rvcny.us. Questions must be submitted no later than JULY 6, 2023. Award of Contract will be made to the lowest responsible bidder in accordance with applicable provisions of the law. The Village reserves the right to reject all bids or make such determination as in the best interests of the Village, as provided by law.

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“I go back beyond the 9/11 servicemen,” he said, referring to those who were deployed to Iraq after the 2001 attacks. “So to them I’m like a relic, and that’s definitely the problem.”

He later moved back in with his father, in the same apartment where he grew up. His father had worked for the Village of Rockville Centre for 30 years as a senior motorized sweeper before he retired.

“That was the last time I remembered him as my father,” Martinez said. Two years after he retired in 2015, his father suffered a stroke, and was diagnosed with diabetes. As a result of his weakened immune system, the diabetes eventually caused sepsis in a portion of his body, and in 2018 his leg was amputated to stop the condition from spreading.

“Now I got to take care of all the bills,” Martinez said. “I got to take care of his

medication. I got to take care of him physically, as well as the financial side of it.”

Martinez and his wife, Candice, were married in 2007, and had two children, Elias, now 21, and Thalia-Ali, 19. They divorced in 2020. To make matters worse, during the pandemic, Martinez was diagnosed with Stage 1 cancer, which he said had spread to his brain from his spinal fluid.

“That’s hard for me to talk about,” he said. “I’ve been dealing with that for two years, but I’m doing good. I’m battling it.” Since he receives disability benefits, Martinez cannot work, even though he feels that he needs to do something more to make money. His monthly check has helped him handle day-to-day expenses — but there has been no check for three months, due to a computer glitch when he changed his address.

Michael Davey, the South Side High School wrestling coach who trained Martinez when he was a teenager, said that after hearing about what had happened to him, he launched a GoFundMe campaign to help raise money to help Martinez with his expenses.

“I consider all of my wrestlers as part of my family,” Davey said. “Once you’re part of the family, we take care of you any way we can.”

Davey launched the GoFundMe effort earlier this month. According to the page, the money will hopefully help Martinez buy a car, so he can try to make some extra money doing non-labor-intensive activities like ridesharing. It would also allow him to drive to the VA hospital in St. Albans, Queens, where he is being treated, without having to rely on public transportation.

Go to TinyURL.com/USMCMartinez for more information about the campaign.

Dan Offner/Herald

USMC veteran niCk Martinez Jr., of Rockville Centre, has fallen on tough times, and is not receiving the help he expected from the government.

a GOFUnDMe CaMpaiGn to benefit Martinez was created by former South Side High School Wrestling coach Mike Davey.

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Vetting a contractor, Part 2

Q. We need some advice on how to pick a contractor. Our neighbors down the street are going through a tough time with delays, seemingly shoddy work that didn’t pass inspection and extra costs for things they didn’t want or expect. Do you have any suggestions on how to interview a contractor, and what to ask about or look for in their proposal? We want to avoid what our neighbor is going through.

A. Continuing from last week, make a checklist of questions. Ask how long the contractor has been in business, and check the information with New York state.

Businesses are registered in the state Department of State database, at dos. ny.gov. If the company isn’t there, ask if they have a different name — but ask. Giving a large sum of money to a business without confirming who they are is risky.

Ask The Architect

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Next, contact the Department of Consumer Affairs, which issues the contractor’s license. This serves more than one purpose, by confirming the contractor has a clean record, and is licensed for the work you want done. You’ll need the license number to give to your municipality to apply for a permit for the work. This information is available by looking up your county consumer affairs office.

When the time comes, the same should be done for your plumber and your electrician, both of whom are supposed to be licensed and on file with the local jurisdiction where the work will be done. From time to time, people use an electrician’s or plumber’s license number but aren’t that plumber or electrician. This just complicates and delays things, since no local government will issue a permit without confirming that the license number given to the owner matches the name of the license holder. When the wrong information is given, suspicions arise. Whatever the arrangement is, the correct information must be given.

The same goes for insurance. When you interview a contractor, familiarize yourself with the insurances that are required by your local building department, and be sure to verify that the contractor you are interviewing can provide the documents.

Next, ask if the contractor will be arranging the required building inspections, in stages throughout the job, from your jurisdiction. Ask how you can also verify that the inspector was there. Many municipalities have gone to online portals where you can track which inspection has been done and whether a project passed. Discuss timelines, who will be managing the work onsite and whether there will be site meetings to keep up communications about the progress.

When you get to the point of discussing costs, confirm the method of payment. As I previously recommended, milestone payments for things you can see, such as when the concrete foundation is done, when the windows and doors are installed, etc., are the best way to keep track of the payment process. There’s a lot to be done, but this is one of the most expensive things you will ever do. Good luck!

© 2022 Monte Leeper

Readers are encouraged to send questions to yourhousedr@aol.com, with “Herald question” in the subject line, or to Herald Homes, 2 Endo Blvd., Garden City, NY 11530, Attn: Monte Leeper, architect.

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Mr. Trump meets Lady Justice

The political news these days is dominated by two names, Biden and Trump. Because of his many criminal entanglements, Donald Trump wins the prize for the most coverage. But there are other names that are unfamiliar to many readers, and their stories may help clarify your thinking about the issue of mishandling classified documents.

Retired Air Force Lt. Col. Robert Birchum recently made the news when he was sentenced to three years in prison for storing classified documents at various locations. A 30-year veteran of the Air Force, Birchum entered into a plea agreement, under which he admitted to having kept documents labeled “top secret,” “secret” or “confidential.”

Birchum admitted that he had knowingly removed over 300 documents from his office and stowed them in his overseas officer’s headquarters, at his home and in a storage pod in his driveway. More than 30 of those files were marked “top secret,” the highest level of classification.

A thumb drive contained 135 files marked as “classified,” and a hard drive

had 10 files that contained information marked as “secret.” Birchum had a spotless record during his decades of military service, which made the sentencing that much harder for the average citizen to comprehend.

Another new name in the news was Nghia Pho, a former software developer at the National Security Agency. Pho took troves of highly classified information out of a secure location and kept them at home. As reported two weeks ago by the HuffPost’s Jennifer Bendery, Pho, a Vietnamese immigrant who was working on his English, said he was falling behind his peers in promotions and wanted to catch up on work at home.

Pho received a five-and-a-half-year sentence in federal prison for trying to keep pace with his fellow workers. What was most significant was the reaction of the NSA director, Navy Adm. Michael Rodgers. Rodgers, an appointee of President Obama, was kept on in his job by President Trump until his retirement.

In a harsh three-page letter to U.S. District Court Judge George Russell III, Rodgers wrote, “While criminal conduct involving matters of national security may come in different forms and some of the harms may not be immediately appar-

ent, the retention of classified information is no less damaging to the national security of our country and our ability to protect and defend the Nation against our adversaries.”

Rodgers concluded his letter, Bendery wrote, by calling Pho’s actions “a breach of trust” and indirectly telling the judge to prove he stands with the intelligence community with his sentencing. “Affirmation by this court of the cost to the women and men who have dedicated their lives to public service and who have maintained trusted stewardship of national defense information will send them a message of confidence and respect.”

The stories of Birchum and Pho are just two of many that are popping up in the news these days. Birchum apparently decided he should be the custodian of sensitive documents, and Pho did something genuinely stupid. This brings us to the case of Trump, who stands accused of obstruction of justice and violations of the Espionage Act.

The Trump accusations are so bewildering. Why didn’t he just turn over all of the classified documents that were requested when he was served with a subpoena? Why did he allegedly stonewall

the prosecutors and lie about having any such papers in his possession? Why did he tell his counsel to deny having any additional sensitive papers at his Mar-aLago home?

Trump’s defenders have rushed to protect him by accusing the FBI and the Justice Department of “weaponizing” their powers against a political opponent. But Trump is no different from Birchum or Pho when it comes to the issue of holding onto documents that could aid our enemies.

Does being a former president exempt you from the same day in court that Birchum and Pho got? Add the name of recently arrested Air National Guardsman Jack Teixeira to the roster of those who have been charged with the possession of secret documents.

Of course, Trump is entitled to a presumption of innocence. He will have his chance to tell his story, if he testifies in front of a jury. What is mystifying is why he finds himself in this position at all. And if found guilty, why should he be treated differently than Birchum and Pho?

Jerry Kremer was an Assemblyman for 23 years, and chaired the Assembly’s Ways and Means Committee for 12 years. He now heads Empire Government Strategies, a business development and legislative strategy firm. Comments about this column? jkremer@liherald.com.

Where’s Granny? Living in the backyard bin.

You may think this doesn’t have relevance for you, but you’re wrong, my friend. You may be 40 years old, running 7-minute miles and sprinting up the corporate ladder, but believe me, you need to focus on your old age — now. In fact, the only way you won’t have to plan for your dotage is if you die before you become decrepit, not an entirely awful option.

most relevant issue in your life, if it isn’t already.

RANDI KREISS

The new rage around the country is a concept for housing, or more accurately, storing our elderly. Several companies are selling what they call MedCottages or Granny Pods, prefabricated guest houses — glorified hospital rooms — that can be plunked down right in a willing child’s backyard.

The standard is 12 feet by 24 feet, and runs $39,000 and up. Sounds pricey, but it’s cheap when you consider the cost of assisted living or skilled nursing care. I know you don’t want to think about this stuff, but I insist, because the chances are 100 percent that this will become the

These pods hook up to local sewage and power lines. They have “virtual” caregivers that remind you over a speaker to “take your meds” or it’s “time for lunch.” The toilets can read body temperature. Floorboards are lighted. The living room has its own defibrillator, and a monitoring system communicates the elder’s activities to a security service. Of course, you can’t sneak a puff, or a sip or anything else fun because Big Brother is watching. Next step, I suppose they could dig a giant hold in the backyard, put a board over it, install the Granny Pod on the wooden foundation and when the elders pass on, just drop that baby into the ground. Dust to dust.

According to the American Association of Retired People, there is little planning in place to deal with the explosion of super-old people coming down the pike — some 70 million by 2030.

I’m sitting at ground zero in this generational squeeze. My parents live on their own, with helpers, in Florida. My sister and I go back and forth as often as

we can, which isn’t close to often enough. Of all the things I anticipated worrying about in my 60s, elder care never crossed my mind. Now it’s a daily, consuming and pressing concern.

So, a Granny Pod for Mom and Dad? They actually might go for it, but it doesn’t touch the real concerns. My mother is lonely because my dad sleeps all day. Her friends are gone. What she wants is for us to be there, basically, all the time. Not unreasonable for her, but problematic for us.

Let’s consider the idea of my folks living in my backyard. I could pop in and say hello several times a day. That would be nice. But they would still need helpers every day. Someone would still have to monitor all the meds and devices and the cleaning and meals and TV repair and appliance maintenance and visits to doctors and outings to the rest of the world and finding the missing hearing aids, canes and glasses.

And when the sprinklers went off, it would be a bitch.

A pod in a backyard could work in some situations, perhaps for all the millennial kids who are reportedly moving

Randi is on a brief leave. This column was originally published June 2-8, 2016.

home to Mom and Dad. But for the frail elderly with no connections to the community, it would be tantamount to climate-controlled storage.

Jumping ahead to my own future elder years, a pod is out of the question for my hubby and me. First, my son’s backyard is a canal in Florida, and my daughter’s is a mountain in the Sierra Nevada. Second, if you put my husband and me in a 12-by-24 space to live out our days, those days would be numbered.

No one in government is dealing with the tsunami of elderly coming our way. That leaves each of us to deal the best we can, which is woefully insufficient. We need communal, political and financial assistance to make life livable for our very old — and for the people caring for them. But a backyard pod?

When my daughter was little, she said she wanted to live in our backyard when she grew up. The wish may get turned around if I decide someday to permanently drop in on her.

Copyright 2023 Randi Kreiss. Randi can be reached at randik3@aol.com.

Several companies are selling what they call MedCottages or Granny Pods.

The charges against him are bewildering. Why didn’t he just turn over the documents?

In Congress, July 4, 1776

The Declaration of Independence was first published on July 6, 1776, in a newspaper, the Pennsylvania Evening Post. We are proud to commemorate that high point in American journalism by reprinting that historic document.

When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the Powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed. That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shown, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security. Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.

He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.

He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.

He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.

He has called together legislative bodies at

places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their Public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.

He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness of his invasions on the rights of the people.

He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected, whereby the Legislative Powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.

He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws of Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.

He has obstructed the Administration of Justice by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary Powers.

He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.

He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harass our people, and eat out their substance.

He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislature.

He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil Power.

He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their acts of pretended legislation:

For quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:

For protecting them, by a mock Trial, from Punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:

For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:

For imposing taxes on us without our consent:

For depriving us in many cases, of the benefits of Trial by Jury:

For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences:

For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies:

For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws, and altering fundamentally the forms of our Government:

For suspending our own legislature, and declaring themselves invested with Power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.

He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.

He has plundered our seas, ravaged our Coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.

He is at this time transporting large armies of foreign mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy of the Head of a civilized nation.

He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.

He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages, whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.

In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A prince, whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free People.

Nor have We been wanting in attention to our British brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.

We, therefore, the representatives of the United States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these United Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States; that they are absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the state of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the Protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our Sacred Honor.

The Declaration was signed first by John Hancock, president of the Continental Congress, and then by 55 others representing the 13 original states.

Man up? Sure, let me ask for help

I’ve struggled with depression and anxiety my whole life. That’s not an easy thing to admit, especially publicly. But mental health awareness isn’t what it used to be, thankfully. The stigma has been largely diminished. So, in honor of guys pushing off asking for help or pretending we’ll do it tomorrow, I’m offering a belated note for Men’s Health Month and Men’s Mental Health Month, both in June. Yes, June’s just about over, but as my mom and wife often say, if you want to hear about the plan, ask a man. If you want it done, ask a woman.

I grew up with a core group of friends, and as we aged, we got better at talking to one another about things that were bothering us. We made plenty of jokes, and helped each other through tragedy and defeat.

At a friend’s wedding earlier this month, I was reminded, by being with my old friends, that even though we’re a bit grayer and see one another less and less, our friendships remain strong. We retold inside jokes, bragged about our kids, and laughed all night.

These are men and women I’ve known for 40 years or more. We grew up together, and shared the same experiences as kids in the same hometown. We celebrated one another’s successes and commiserated about one another’s failures as we navigated adolescence and then early adulthood.

But even with my closest friends, I have never completely surrendered my male ego and asked for help, or explained a mental health problem. Sure, I’d say that I was struggling or hurting, and they would help me. Those cathartic admissions were helpful, but not regenerative.

My oldest son, now a 26-year-old police officer, told me that he recently sought mental health help through his job. He said he had felt apprehensive on a few recent patrol calls.

That’s never happened. He’s always been a tough dude — we took him to the emergency room twice in one day for different injuries when he was 9. He likened his recent unease to a case of the yips — a baseball player’s sudden and inexplicable inability to make routine throws accurately.

I was relieved to hear he had the fortitude to seek professional help. Several friends on the job told him they regular-

Letters

Why are we charged twice for using a credit card?

To the Editor:

I cannot be the only one upset by this new trend of being charged for using a credit card. It started with two different prices for gas. That has now moved to restaurants (including fast food), the service industry (haircuts), car dealerships, doctor’s offices and even religious institutions.

And the charges aren’t consistent: 3 percent here, 3.5 percent there. And who knows if these percentages are accurate? Maybe the actual charges are less, and they’re just padding their profits?

We pay to have a credit card, and we pay to use a credit card.

My wife and I go out for a nice dinner once a week with friends. This would include having a glass of wine with dinner. Well, I will refrain from ordering alcohol from restaurants. Alcohol has a very large profit margin. Would a restaurants rather sell four glasses of wine for $40 or charge the 3.5 percent credit card

surcharge?

If enough people start doing this, will restaurants stop passing the credit card processing fees on to patrons? Maybe, maybe not, but it will send a message that we’re tired of being nickeled and dimed for just about everything. Truth be told, all they have to do is raise prices by 25 cents and no one would know the difference.

What’s next? Food costs have skyrocketed since the pandemic. Going to the supermarket is quite expensive. Do people feel safe carrying a lot of cash around? I can foresee the day when supermarkets will be adding the credit card fee.

I have written to our senators, Kirsten Gillibrand and Chuck Schumer. You know what their response was? Crickets. Nothing.

Shouldn’t there be some legislation against this practice? It is a double charge to pay to have a credit card and to pay to use a credit card. But our elected officials choose to ignore this, and let their constituents bear the brunt of it. As usual.

JEFF COHEN Wantagh

ly go to a therapist to talk about job stresses and issues. As a dad, that made me happy that he is mature and strong enough to ask for mental help before an issue corroded into something larger.

For 11 years as a high school English teacher, I took advantage of our social workers by frequently bringing students with issues into their office for help. I was amazed at how comfortable adolescents had become with expressing their feelings and reaching out for help, without making a big deal of it.

These things weren’t talked about when I was in school, and certainly not among friends. Anger was the closest thing to an emotion that a boy could express in front of a group of fellow 10-year-olds.

It’s remarkable that mental health awareness and acceptance has come so far in a few decades. But men remain trapped by clichés of manliness and the stigma of admitting any mental health issue, however brief. We’re supposed to soldier through it, man up, tough it out. There is strength in learning to deal with adversity through perseverance, and there is also astuteness in knowing when something could be wrong and seeking professional help. Cognitively

dissonant, we put our heads down and plow through a hardship, but that childish reaction often fails and exacerbates a problem.

Men are generally less likely than women to ask for help for depression or stressful life events. Men downplay symptoms and pretend they’re OK.

According to Mental Health America, more than 6 million American men suffer from depression. Male suicides have increased since 2000.

There are ample places to get more information online. Here are two: MentalHealthAmerica.net and MensHealthNetwork.org.

The biggest step is asking for help.

My dad often said that he made a point of saying “I love you” to my brothers and me, because he didn’t remember his own father ever saying it to him. I smile when I hear my kids say that to each other. Seems pretty normal nowadays, but it wasn’t when my dad was a kid.

I love my kids, and I’m proud my oldest son is seeking mental health help. His actions put the lie to the false narrative that tough guys don’t need help. More men need to follow his example.

Mark Nolan, the editor of the Lynbrook/ East Rockaway and Malverne/West Hempstead Heralds, taught high school English for 11 years. Comments? mnolan@liherald.com.

Framework by Evan Mattioli

mental health awareness has come a long way in a few decades.