Congrats to the grads


A park benefits a community in numerous ways. Neighbors have a place to go for recreation and socialization. Children have a safe place to play.
North Woodmere Park, however, is not living up to its promise, according to North Woodmere resident Judith Gutman.
“I’ve seen the park deteriorate over time,” said Gutman, who lives just a 15-minute walk from the county-operated park and has visited it often over the past decade. “There’s so much equipment that is broken, and the fields themselves are not maintained.”
Open since 1965, the 150-acre park is at the intersection of Branch Boulevard and Hungry Harbor Road in North Woodmere. It is home to a playground; a nine-hole golf course; an Olympic-size pool; tennis, handball/paddleball and basketball courts; and baseball, football and softball fields.
Gutman is a mother of three
who has taken her children to the park throughout their childhood, but a recent visit may have been their last, because, she said, her youngest daughter was walking through the bridge on the playground and noticed loose screws.
As well, Gutman said, mats pose a tripping hazard, there are beehives near the playground, and there are outdated metal slides, which most parks stopped using due to the risk of burns.
In March 2019, then County Executive Laura Curran said that $15 million would be invested in enhancement and maintenance for 10 county-operated parks. Inwood Park was one of them, but not North Woodmere.
Seeking answers about the park’s future, Gutman sent an email to the county and learned that the park is one of three playgrounds that will be replaced within the next year as part of a capital project.
North Woodmere resident Sarah Feuchtwanger, a mother
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It’s supposed to be a safe place for the community . . . we’re not feeling safe.JUdITH GUTMAN North Woodmere MEMBERs of lAwRENCE High’s Class of 2023 moved their tassels from right to left to signify that they had officially graduated.
Village elections were held on June 20 in Atlantic Beach, Lawrence, Hewlett Bay Park, Hewlett Bay Park, Hewlett Harbor, Hewlett Neck and Woodsburgh for board of trustee seats.
Hewlett Bay Park’s election ended with one seat still open after two write-in candidates finished in a tie.
Stella Gershwichtz, a write-in candidate, and incumbent Renee Zylberg, both garnered 14 votes. There will be a run-off election. The date is yet to be determined.
Write-in candidate Sara Joseph captured 23 votes to win one of the seats.
Village Clerk Michelle Blandino said since being with the Village for 12 years, she has not seen a write-in candidate win an election.
The Herald attempted to get in contact with Joseph but was unsuccessful.
For the one-year term, Michael Davidov received 22 votes as trustee. Sitting Trustee Jay Levy with 10 votes is the odd man out.
Lawrence
Two members of the village’s Parks Commission, Aaron Parnes and Tammy Roz, are now Lawrence trustees with Roz getting 399 votes and Parnes 389. The election was uncontested.
Roz, 47, a community member for 25 years, said she wants to hear from her neighbors on how to make the village even better.
Parnes, 57, said he believes civic
involvement is important and aims to be transparent on all the issues impacting his community members.
Atlantic Beach
Nat Etrog, who was appointed to replace Andy Rubin in April, collected 134 votes and Patrica Beaument received 124 to gain the twoyear terms. They ran unopposed.
Etrog, 77, is on the village board for the second term having previously served from 1988 to 1992. He is also a longtime member of the Atlantic Bech Rescue Squad.
Beaumont, a former special education teacher in the Rockville Centre school district, moved to Atlantic Beach in 2012. This will be her second term on the board. She aims to keep advocating for year round events and road safety.
Hewlett Harbor
Roman Mazo and Trustee Gil Bruh ran uncontested for two-year terms.
Mazo gained 69 Votes and Bruh gained 64.
Mazo, 44, is a managing director of a bank and has lived in the village for eight years.
Bruh, 41, owns a tech company, and has lived in Hewlett Harbor for six years.
Both look to improve the small munici-
pality’s infrastructure, road maintenance and security.
Hewlett Neck
Incumbent Trustees Isaac Showman, 10 votes, and Michael Levine, 11 votes, gained re-election for the two-year terms.
Woodsburgh
Woodsburgh Mayor Jacob Harman received 17 votes to win re-election. Trustees, Barry Rozenberg, 19 votes, and Alan Hirmes, 16 votes, earned the two-year terms. All were unopposed.
Atlantic Beach Bridge commuters have asked the Nassau County Bridge Authority to be more transparent and now, the state’s Authorities Budget Office is asking the same.
Valley Stream resident Amil Virani filed a complaint on Nov. 15 after he noticed missing information on the bridge authority’s website. The complaint claimed that the authority violated the state’s Open Meetings Law by not posting meeting dates, agendas and minutes to the NCBA website. The law also allows the public to listen and watch any meeting decision-making processes.
Established in 1945 to operate and maintain one bridge, the Atlantic Beach Bridge, the authority comprises a fivemember Board of Commissioners.
Based on a review between Jan. 4 and 10, the budget office found that the authority is not following the Open Meetings Law and ABO Website Guidance.
“The ABO found the Authority is not posting meeting agendas, meeting schedules, or meeting minutes for all board and committee meetings,” the state authorities budget office wrote in a news release. “In addition, the review found the Authority is not posting information about how to submit a FOIL request or an email address for the public to send FOIL requests.”
Bridge authority officials did not respond to a request for comment.
“I had heard from people at the bridge, like the chairman of the bridge board and the executive director, that Vincent Grasso was out,” Virani said. “But I wanted to see it in writing, so I go on the website and I see nothing. The website was terrible and I’ve been involved in going to local government meetings and school board meetings and this is information you find on the website such as meetings, meeting documents and agendas and they were
like missing.”
Raymond Webb succeeded Grasso.
Virani attended a public meeting one month after filing the complaint on Dec. 15. At that meeting, he, as well as other attendees, were jammed into the authority’s office snack room seeking answers on why the bridge authority was raising tolls for the first time since 2007.
Board members held a private meeting behind closed doors on the second floor while commuters watched through a television screen muted from what was being
discussed. Virani has not attended any meetings since.
“The whole thing sounds very suspect to me,” said Long Beach resident Robert Sanchez, an Uber driver who previously told the Herald he avoids driving through the bridge due to the toll increase.
According to the ABO’s website, the goal is to make public authorities accountable and transparent. Sanchez said that is not happening with the bridge authority.
“They are supposed to be transparent so they have no choice,” he said. “They’re supposed to hold public hearings and they’re supposed to get community input like any kind of authority.”
Although bridge users have consistently asked why a toll increase was needed, Virani said that it’s more than the toll increase.
“It’s not about money. It’s about transparency,” he said. “We were sitting in that room and we had to watch their business on Zoom and what they were doing was muted. That was a violation of the Open Meetings Law.”
“The chairman is a nice person,” Virani said about Samuel Nahmias. “I’ve met him a couple of times, but he has a lot of work cut out for him. I used to have a decal and I’m upset about the toll increases, but he and the board also is going to have to fix the lack of transparency.”
The full report can be viewed at Abo. Ny.gov.
Crafts, games and snacks marked the kickoff of Peninsula Public Library’s Summer Reading Program on June 21. Library Director Carolynn Matulewicz, Children’s Librarian Pat Murphy, and librarian trainee Henna Ross planned activities, which are scheduled several times a week until mid-August, for children from pre-K through eighth grade.
The Collaborative Summer Library Program chooses and trademarks the summer reading theme, which PPL, and many libraries nationwide use as a template. This year’s theme is “All in Together,” which preaches inclusivity and brought many signing up on the library’s first day.
Elana Lew brings her kids, Moshe and Daniel to the library often. This is her third year coming to the PPL kickoff party and with the abundance of programs offered during the summer, she said she plans to be attending even more.
“We have stacks and stacks of books at home,” Lew said. “They love to read; they love to get books. They have a lot of nice programs that get them excited. They love Ms. Pat, and all (the library staff) are all very good with the kids.”
At the kickoff party, children were given reading logs and got a chance to earn their first raffle tickets for the end-of-summer prizes. For every five books read, participants earn a raffle ticket that enters the Grand Prize drawing at the end of the summer.
“The important thing is getting kids to read through the summer, so nobody goes into that summer slide,”
Murphy said. “Especially kids that are catching up after Covid.”
Much of the effort put in throughout the year to prepare for the summer reading program is to prevent children from losing much of what they learned during the school year.
“Over the summer because kids are out of school, they’re not learning as much as they’re used to so by the summer, we try to help boost their reading by providing
this kind of program,” Ross said.
For the first time Nassau Library System’s techmobile will be part of PPL’s summer reading activities.
The county’s library system offers a techmobile and brings digital access, technology help and library services to patrons who might not have those services otherwise.
Gabriel Kane, the techmobile coordinator for the library system explained the use of the tech mobile is helping libraries around the county.
“We want to be able to address digital equity and inclusion,” Kane said. “Saying we want everybody to have equal access to the technology that’s so vital in today’s society to use it independently. We’ve designed a very versatile vehicle. You hear tech mobile, and you automatically evoke bookmobile, but it’s vastly different.”
Kids were able to sign up for summer reading and play video games on the side of the techmobile.
“If we get them to sign up for summer reading and they have to play a few video games because of it, not a bad thing,” Matulewicz said.
“Even though it’s not on its surface enriching, these are skills that are going to be more and more prevalent as time goes on,” Kane added. Video game controllers are used by game programmers and web developers. They’re becoming more and more prevalent as far as relevant technology and marketable skills.”
To register children for PPL’s summer reading program, go to the Children’s Room on the library’s basement floor through July 10. The library is at 280 Central Ave., Lawrence.
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Habitat for Humanity of Long Island chief executive Jimmy Jack along with Habitat’s community development and special projects director Mymissa Stone accept a $2,000 donation from Herald Community Newspapers and RichnerLive. They were joined, center, by Herald Community Newspapers sales vice president Rhonda Glickman, and RichnerLive executive director Amy Amato.
Habitat for Humanity of Long Island will have a little extra money moving forward, thanks to the celebrated movers and shakers in real estate.
The local non-profit received a $2,000 donation from Herald Community Newspapers and RichnerLive, money raised during the Herald Real Estate Achievers + Leaders Awards Gala, otherwise known as the Herald REAL Awards Gala.
Habitat for Humanity is an affordable home and property developer that raises funds and creates partnerships allowing hard-working families the ability to become homeowners on Long Island. The
local foundation’s chief executive, Jimmy Jack, as well as the community development and special projects director Mymissa Stone, accepted the check on the organization’s behalf.
“The foundation really promotes the idea that we’re building a legacy and enabling that family to be homeowners,” Stone said.
The gala took place in March, honoring a number of real estate professionals across the industry — and Long Island.
To learn more about how you can support Habitat for Humanity of Long Island, visit HabitatLINY.org.
“An empty bag cannot stand upright.”
“Anger is never without a reason, but seldom a good one.”
“Anoint a villain and he’ll stab you: stab him and he’ll anoint you.”
“An old young man will be a young old man.”
“Don’t think to hunt two hares with one dog.”
“Eat few suppers and you’ll need few medicines.”
“Great almsgiving, lessens no man’s living.”
“Happy’s the wooing that’s not long a doing.”
“He that lies down with dogs, shall rise up with fleas.”
“If your riches are yours, why don’t you take them with you to the other world.”
“Lost time is never found again.”
“The noblest question in the world is, what good may I do in it?”
“They who have nothing to trouble them, will be troubled at nothing.”
“The sleeping fox catches no poultry.”
“The tongue is ever turning to the aching tooth.”
“When you’re good to others, you are best to yourself.”
“Who is rich? He that rejoices in his portion.”
Dr. Apolinario Mateo was appointed as the new medical director for the St. John’s Medical Group. His expertise as a clinician and lead physician in the field of internal medicine, Mateo is expected to be a “significant asset” to the group’s clinical operations, officials said. He will also provide clinical guidance at all SJMG ambulatory clinics and lead the team to improve quality initiatives and clinical operational workflows.
Mateo received his medical degree at the Ateneo de Davao Medical School in the Philippines. His residency in internal medicine was completed at the Catholic Medical Center of Brooklyn and Queens and he had a fellowship in hematology/oncology at SUNY Downstate Medical Center.
He has held full-time attending positions at multiple institutions in different locations. Mateo has taught ambulatory medicine, internal medicine and primary for more than 20 years. He has cared for
patients in medically underserved communities in the Bronx. More recently, Mateo was the section chief of adult medicine at Algeria Health and Wellness.
“We are so thankful to all our team members for the warm welcome Dr. Mateo has already received at the organization,” Rosemary Bonilla, SJMG’svice president of physician & ambulatory Care at SJMG said in a news release. “We look forward to working with him as we continue to service the Rockaway Peninsula.”
Episcopal Health Services Inc. operates St. John’s Episcopal Hospital in Far Rockaway, the only hospital on the Rockaway Peninsula that also served the Five Towns and surrounding communities. The health system offers people of all faiths comprehensive preventive, diagnostic treatment and rehabilitative services, regardless of ability to pay.
–Tayla LippmanNorthwell Health-GoHealth Urgent Care, in the Peninsula Shopping Plaza at 1332 Peninsula Blvd., has added adult care to its existing pediatric center in Hewlett, a first of its kind in New York, Northwell officials said.
Along with board-certified doctors who can provide specialized care for infants as young as one week old, it is staffed and clinically managed by Northwell Health providers.
There are treatments for non-life threatening illnesses and injuries, on-site X-ray services, Covid-19 testing and flu vaccines. It also equipped with nebulizers, infant scales and other pediatric tools.
The unified medical records are fully electronic and accessible to caregivers across the Northwell Health network. If a caregiver is outside the network, the information can be transferred directly to any primary care physician or pediatrician.
“We are excited to build on our existing presence in Hewlett to provide ondemand care for patients of all ages that is connected to Northwell Health’s worldrenowned experts and robust network,” Dr. Lynda Gerberg said in a news release. Patients seeking care can be seen efficiently at any Northwell Health-GoHealth center or online to pre-register.
–Tayla LippmanWhen you were a kid, so many people commented on who you were and what you should be doing that their words undoubtedly affected how you viewed yourself then - and even now.
Maybe your big brother told you to “toughen up kid; you’re too sensitive.” Or, kids in school called you “a ditz.” Or, your mom’s criticisms kept reminding you that “you weren’t good enough.” Or, your dad constantly reminded you how “lazy” you were. Could those voices from many years ago still echo in your mind?
pay attention to those that offer constructive criticism in a helpful manner. “Try not to rush your words. Take your time, slow down, and it’ll be easier for people to understand what you’re saying.”
Person to Person
It’s also important to discover your own voice. When Eva’s mom said, “Don’t waste your money going to college; it’s too expensive and not that important for girls,” Eva instantly knew that she had to go. Once you free yourself from early childhood messages, your own voice emerges. You acknowledge that the other person’s way is not your way.
Yes, messages from another era can have sufficient staying power to undermine your self-worth, drowning out the positive voices you hear today. It’s likely that for each person who thought you were too sensitive then, there could be twice as many now who appreciate your sensitivity. Whoever though you could do nothing right then, I bet many more today admire your skills and knowledge.
So, the crucial question is: Whose voice will you listen to? I urge you to listen to the voices that help you develop confidence, build backbone, and bring a smile to your face - the ones that are valid in today’s context.
Consider that for every aphorism, another one asserts the opposite. Which one is right?
■ “A stitch in time saves nine” or “Haste makes waste?”
■ “Opposites attract” or “Birds of a feather flock together?”
These contradictory aphorisms may both be good advice - depending on the context. The same holds true for comments people make about you. For this reason, make sure that the voice you listen to is helpful at this time, in this context.
Protect yourself from the openly critical voice that’s designed to humiliate you. “You’re such a loser. You slur your words and speak so fast that nobody understands what you’re saying.” Instead,
Yes, I know, it’s not easy to make a negative voice disappear just by wishing it away. In fact, the more you wish something isn’t there, the more you reinforce its presence, making it the elephant in the room. Hence, if you’re struggling with letting go of a negative voice, give credence to a positive person’s voice. Let’s do a simple exercise to reinforce this idea:
1. Write down the name of a person you look up to.
2. Write down what you hear him/ her saying to you.
3. Tell yourself why these words are important to you.
4. Now make those words your own. Say them to yourself whenever you need reassurance.
Congratulations, now you’re on track to letting go of messages that inhibit your growth and undermine your self-confidence. You’ve replaced them with messages that stimulate your growth and build your self-confidence. How fantastic that feels!!!
©2023
Linda Sapadin, Ph.D., psychologist, coach and author specializes in helping people improve their relationships, enhance their lives and overcome procrastination and fear. Contact her at DrSapadin@aol.com. Visit her website at www.PsychWisdom.com.
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Roughly 260 Hewlett High School seniors became graduates as the Class of 2023 was recognized at a commencement ceremony at the Tilles Center on the campus of LIU Post on June 22.
antony maKaveyev, left, and Dylan Ramgarivo celebrate receiving their high school diplomas.
Steve BouSKila taKeS a photo of himself, graduate David Bouskila and Heather and Jacob Bouskila after the graduation.
andrew fund, the Hewlett-Woodmere school district’s director of art & music education with several of his students who graduated Hewlett High.
Roughly 300 Lawrence High School seniors became graduates as the Class of 2023 was recognized at a commencement ceremony at the Tilles Center on the campus of LIU Post on June 26.
Lawrence HigH ScHooL’S salutatorian Arundhi_ Patramaption spoke to her peers about their school years.
TyLer BowerS, STudenT government president, addressed the Lawrence High graduation audience.
Honor Speaker emma Urgen and words of encouragement for her fellow graduates.
cLaSS of 2023 valedictorian Matthew Sharin shared his thoughts on graduating high school.
There were 270 reported deaths from overdoses in Nassau County in 2021. Of those, nearly three-quarters of them involved fentanyl, an opioid analgesic said to be 100 times stronger than morphine.
And that must come to an end, according to U.S. Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand. And for her, it all starts in the halls of Capitol Hill through a bill that’s already earned the support of not only the Nassau County Police Department Center, but lawmakers and leaders on both sides of the political aisle.
Gillibrand’s Fend Off Fentanyl Act was introduced in Nassau County last week by Police Commissioner Patrick Ryder, County Executive Bruce Blakeman, District Attorney Anne Donnelly, Long Island advocate Carole Trottere, and Long Island Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence executive director Steve Chassman.
“No community has been left untouched by the deadly impacts of silent killers like fentanyl, including Long Island,” Gillibrand said. “Just last year, the DEA seized enough deadly doses of fentanyl in New York for more than three times the state’s population.”
The bill targets both cartels as well as people involved in producing and trafficking drugs into the United States, the senator said. The legislation will “better empower” the government to sanction drug traffickers and combat money laundering schemes that make this trade profitable.
“We have lost far too many lives to fentanyl overdoses,” Gillibrand said. “And I am committed to work-
ing with my colleagues in congress to keep our communities safe from deadly synthetic opioids.”
Gillibrand’s bill is intended to provide more resources to law enforcement and police officers on Long Island. This will then help them “trace these transnational criminals,” find the supply chain of these drugs, and then shut down these drugs deals on a local level. Gillibrand said fentanyl is “making the strengths of these drugs so much stronger than ever imagined,” which is why she is working on finding their source.
Trottere has fought against fentanyl since her son was fatally poisoned in 2018 when he was just 30 years old. He was a licensed welder and had a great job before dying, she said. And when his life ended, Trottere’s “nightmare began.”
“Unfortunately, my story is far from unique,” she said. “Disturbingly, fentanyl and opioids have quickly become the leading cause of death among adults 18 to 45. Last year on Long Island, there were over 500 deaths from fentanyl and opioids. That means over a thousand parents became members of the club that
nobody wants to join.”
These young people who died too early could have contributed a lot to the world, Trottere said, but we’ll never know what that would have been. She is certain about one thing, however: the feeling of grief. The pain that follows the death of a child is “unimaginable.”
“To the young people out there, I understand that death is not on your mind,” Trottere said. “It’s probably graduating, which is what it should be. But when you take any street drug or accept a pill from a friend at a party, or buy drugs from someone you don’t know, it could be the last thing you do.”
Fentanyl is getting mixed with everything, Ryder said. “Cocaine, crack, heroin, and even some marijuana in some situations.”
Some may not even know it, Ryder said. Adderall — used to help with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder — is abused by students in schools to help them focus. But it could very well be laced with fentanyl, intended to get them addicted, and then prompting them to buy more.
This is the “business model” that Ryder has been seeing kill people across Long Island.
“It is sickening how fentanyl traffickers continue to profit by peddling deadly poison to our communities and our children,” Nassau County legislator Delia DeRiggi-Whitton said, in a statement. “Sen. Gillibrand’s Fend Off Fentanyl Act will strengthen ongoing efforts to keep this deadly, highly addictive drug out of our nation, and empower law enforcement to seize the ill-begotten gains being made at the expense of sick and suffering addicts.”
No community has been left untouched by the deadly impacts of silent killers like fentanyl, including Long Island.
KIRSTEN GIllIBRaNd U.S Senator
No matter the industry, businesses around the world are undergoing dramatic changes to the way they operate. From technology and skill development to cultural barriers to self care and mental health, every organization must adapt and evolve or risk being left behind.
As we navigate a time of pivotal change, the Herald’s 2023 WE Summit presented by Bank of America brings together thought leaders, innovators and barrier-breaking women for conversations around this year’s theme: The Future is Now.
What’s up next door and around the corner
Lawrence village cut the ribbon and celebrated the renovated Zion Park on Herrick Avenue with an official grand opening of new playground equipment on Father’s Day.
The two-hour celebration came complete with Mayor Alex Edelman and Trustees Jeff Landy (who served as deputy mayor) and Michael Fragin, Eliezer Kutner and Paris Popack and other village officials welcoming community to the revitalized park.
There were balloons, music and how better to say hello to summer than not one, but two ice creams trucks — Cholov Yisroel and Hewlees.
Zion Park’s new playground equipment and balloon friend is all Binyamin Sebrew, 2, needed on the sunny Sunday.
ice cream tasted good for Zahava 9, Elazar Aryeh, 5, and Moshe, 3, Lieberman at the official opening of the renovated Zion Park playground.
yocheved abraham, 3, appears to have enjoyed her ice cream cone with mother Yael Abraham, at the Zion Park grand reopening.
cLimbing around the playground were the Nefas children Racheli, 9, left, Miriam, 7, and Avraham, 10.
It was a banner season for many high school athletic programs in the Herald’s coverage area. Listed are the Top 20 team and individual accomplishments, in chronological order.
1. North Shore cross-country
The North Shore boys’ cross-country team has finally caught up with the girls. On Oct. 29 at Bethpage State Park, both Vikings’ running squads captured the Class III Nassau County championships. For the girls it was old hat. The Neal Levy-coached girls have won 16 of the last 17 county titles – an achievement only surpassed by its stunning unbeaten league-meet record of 195-0. The Vikings girls haven’t lost a meet since 2006. The boys’ recent brilliance is new, having won two of the last three county titles.
2. South Side girls’ cross-country
South Side’s strength in numbers proved too much for the competition at the Nassau girls’ cross-country championships Oct. 29 at Bethpage State Park. The result was a third straight county title for the Cyclones. Senior Cameron Coletti, junior Claire Bohan and sophomore Lana Jewett finished 3-4-5, respectively, in the 13-school Class II 5K race and all five South Side scorers earned All-County honors as part of a dominant performance.
Already a county champion in her first season of varsity girls’ soccer, Ryleigh Nocera was not ready for Seaford’s postseason run to end when it took the field Nov. 5 against Babylon in the Long Island Class B title game. The freshman striker made sure that Seaford’s historic playoff journey would continue when just 54 seconds into overtime she was able to control a long throw-in from Kayla Hoehn and fire a shot into the upper left corner for a dramatic 1-0 victory. Nine days earlier, Nocera set up Kaylie Conklin’s OT winner against Wheatley that delivered the Vikings’ first-ever county crown. Goalkeeper Joanna Bello was perfect in both games behind a defense led by Arianna Garcia, Amanda Williamson, Mia Leggio and Amanda Ettinger.
The legend of MacArthur goalkeeper Lexie Thompson was further elevated in the Long Island Class A finals against Shoreham-Wading River Nov. 5. Thompson, who surrendered just one goal all season to that point, recorded her 15th shutout with 11 saves in a 1-0 victory over the Suffolk County Class A champions to propel MacArthur to its first L.I. title since 2011. Junior Sara Kealey gave the Generals the only offense they would need thanks to Thompson’s heroics when she scored 11:32 into the first half from about 20 yards out.
A year after Roslyn spoiled Calhoun’s hopes of back-to-back Nassau Division II boys’ volleyball championships, the Colts returned the favor. Topseeded Calhoun used a balanced attack and took advantage of a second-set lineup gaffe by the Bulldogs to reclaim the county title Nov. 8, 25-22, 25-19, 25-20. Senior Tommy Bello had 20 kills and five blocks, senior libero Brian Sanchez had 23 digs, and senior setter Ryan Pucella had 26 assists to propel the Colts, who also got big efforts from Sean DiPaola and Matt Kalfas.
The Seaford girls’ volleyball team achieved its goal of a repeat county title and established a dynasty in the process. The Vikings once again hoisted the championship plaque after a four-set win against third-seeded North Shore in the Nassau Class B finals Nov. 9. Kailly Nocera, Danielle McHugh and Natalie Masters starred in Seaford’s third county title in four seasons. The Vikings made more history two days later earning the program’s first Long Island championship since 2019 behind Carey-Jean Block’s monster effort in five dramatic sets against Bayport-Blue Point.
7. North Shore football
A special play on special teams and a late dose of its workhorse running back was all North Shore needed to repeat as Nassau Conference IV football champions. Senior Pat Godfrey recovered senior Michael Granelli’s punt block for a touchdown late in the first quarter and the Vikings never trailed in the 20-6 victory over West Hempstead in the county title game Nov. 18. Senior Nicholas La Rosa added touchdown runs in each of the last two quarters, including a game-sealing 10-yard score with 4:05 remaining, as North Shore won its 19th consecutive game.
8. Calhoun girls’ volleyball
Calhoun left little doubt as to which high school Class A girls’ volleyball team was the best in New York State. After dominating pool play, the Colts completed an incredible run to their first-ever state title by dethroning twotime defending Class A-champion Burnt Hills-Ballston Lake 25-11, 25-19, 25-19 in the Nov. 20 final at Glens Falls. Backed by the inspiring play of senior co-captains Julia Lawrence, Ella Maldonado and Victoria Zovich and key contributions from other players in the rotation, the Colts
made good on their preseason mantra of “Road to States,” which coach Christina Strezenec said was put on the team’s white board in response to the previous season’s Nassau County final loss to Wantagh.
9. Calhoun girls’ track
With only 13 members, the Calhoun girls’ track and field team knew it had hardly any margin for missteps Feb. 7 at the Nassau Class B championships; every Colt would have to harvest points – some in multiple events –for the club to avenge a stinging spring loss and claim a second straight county indoor title. In a flurry of personal bests, which included two school records, Calhoun – led by senior Sara Manson and aided by calculation as cold as the air outside the Student Center – fended off rival Valley Stream North to win back-to-back winter championships.
10. Hewlett boys’ swimming
Hewlett dominated relays and produced top three finishers in eight other events on the way to capturing its first Nassau County boys’ swimming championship since the 1991-92 season on Feb. 11. Leading the effort for the well-rounded Bulldogs was junior Jonah Kirschbaum, who captured the 50-yard freestyle title, anchored two winning relays (200 medley and 400 freestyle), and finished runner-up in the 100 freestyle. Sophomores David Kushnirsky (100 breaststroke champion), Ethan Nus and Ethan Silver were also among the key figures.
11. Seaford wrestling
Seaford wrestling made history in more ways than one during the individual county championships Feb. 11. The Vikings tied a program record in qualifying six wrestlers for the New York State Championships during the Nassau’s Division 2 tournament and for the first time since 2004 finished as the top team on the county finals stage.
Seaford produced one county champ, Karl Leudesdorff at 215 pounds, along with five runner-up finishes, which included Ashley Diaz becoming the first female wrestler on Long Island to advance to a county finals match.
12. Wantagh wrestling
Wantagh’s Thomas Bonasera, Anthony Clem and Jesse Vanorden all reached the All-County wrestling podium the previous winter by placing in the top six of their respective weight classes. On Feb. 12 they were back on the big stage at Hofstra and made the most of it. They secured three of the Warriors’ four Nassau Division 1 championships, leading them to a repeat team title along with repeat county champ Joseph Clem. The Warriors racked up 253 points to finish well atop the team standings. Long Beach was runner-up with 208.5.
13. Malverne boys’ basketball
Farvens Ulysse and the Malverne Mules took it to Carle Place early and often en route to another county championship. Ulysse had 10 of his 21 points during Malverne’s explosive run to start the game and Chad Wesley added 13 as the Mules captured their second Nassau County B boys’ basketball title in three seasons with a dominant 60-36 win over the Frogs March 1. Kevin Estime added 12 points for Malverne, which blew out to a 15-0 lead.
14. Baldwin boys’ basketball
For the second Saturday in a row, Jaylen Brown from downtown provided the difference for Baldwin. Brown’s three-pointer from the corner with 56.5 seconds remaining broke the last of six deadlocks and put the Bruins ahead for good in a hard-fought 45-39 victory over Port Washington in the Nassau Class AA boys’ basketball championship game March 11 before an electric crowd of more than 3,500 at Hofstra. It was the third straight county title for Baldwin (21-3), which a week earlier topped Hempstead in the semis on Brown’s three-pointer with 10 seconds remaining.
15. Baldwin girls’ basketball
It was quite fitting Payton Dulin put the finishing touch on Baldwin’s second straight Long Island Class AA girls’ basketball title with a pair of late free throws. After all, it was the sophomore guard’s sensational 17-point performance in the first half March 11 that allowed the Lady Bruins to lead from wire-to-wire in their 39-32 victory over Walt Whitman. Dulin poured in a game-high 19 points and senior Katelyn Simpson added 13 for Baldwin, which shot 7-for-8 from the foul line in the fourth quarter to seal its 22nd win in 24 games.
16. South Side boys’ basketball
South Side seniors Josh Garelle and Rob Pericolosi will be college basketball teammates at SUNY Geneseo, but on March 11 the duo made sure their high school career would get extended in historic fashion. Garelle and Pericolosi each scored 14 points to propel South Side to its first Long Island title since the 1977-78 season with a 45-31 win over Kings Park in the Class A championship game. The two book-ended their scoring outputs with Pericolosi registering 12 of his points in the first quarter alone while Garelle closed strong with 10 in the second half. The Cyclones, who knocked off Manhasset for the county title, finished 25-2.
17. Valley Stream North track
The county championships were again twice as nice for the Valley Stream North track and field teams. The boys’ and girls’ teams swept the Nassau AA spring title for the second straight year at their home track May 23
thanks to a combined five first-place finishes in the field events and six runner-up showings in the running finals. The girls took their fourth straight county crown, with Brooke Fessler (high jump), Nattaly Lindo (shot put) and Moanna Thelusca (discus) winning events and Melissa Innocent placing second in three events. The boys’ captured their 14th championship in 17 years led by winners Joshua Lopez (shot put) and Ethan Smalls (discus.)
18. Seaford baseball
Billy Kind created history for Seaford baseball when he struck out the final batter in a 1-0 Nassau Class B finals Game 2 win against Wheatley May 26. The senior pitcher tossed a one-hitter with seven strikeouts to clinch Seaford’s sweep of the best-of-three championship series and garner the program’s its first-ever county title. In Game 1, senior Sean Costello threw a complete-game shutout, striking out eight in a 6-0 victory. Costello scored the lone run in Game 2 on Nick Apollo’s single. The Vikings finished 22-2.
19. MacArthur softball
MacArthur entered the Nassau Class A softball championship series undefeated and riding a 23-game winning streak including a pair against Clarke, but the Rams took the opener and put a notch in the Generals’ loss column for the first time since 2022. However, MacArthur rebounded in a big way behind senior pitcher Taylor Brunn, and after it stayed alive with her Memorial Day shutout secured the county title the following afternoon with a 12-5 win. MacArthur, in capturing its first Nassau crown since 2017, scored four runs in the bottom of the first, exploded for five runs in the fourth and added three more in the sixth. Sofia Anderson and Hailey Feiler had three RBIs apiece.
20. Seaford softball
In the bottom of the ninth inning of a scoreless Long Island Class B softball championship game June 1, Seaford was threatening after a walk to Gabby Bellamore
some nifty bunts by Jamie Young and Katie Young that gave Center Moriches trouble. The bases were loaded for Kaitlyn Young. Some may have cracked under the pressure, but she was all smiles at the plate. On a 2-1 count Young drilled a fastball to left field and a would-be sacrifice fly dropped in for a single, walking off the game 1-0 for the Vikings and giving them the L.I. title. It marked the program’s first since 2005. Pitcher Skyler Secondino allowed only three hits and struck out 15.
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of four, said she contacted the county last year and was told the same thing about renovations.
“It doesn’t seem like we’re moving anywhere,” Feuchtwanger said. “I’ve reached out to (County Executive) Bruce Blakeman and other people, and no one seems to be replying or following up in terms of anything.”
Feuchtwanger and her children have visited the park, and made use of its fields as well as the playground, for more than 15 years. “Areas that have been boarded up for years have not been fixed,” she said. “They put a board on it, nail it shut, and years pass and there’s no fixing it.”
The County’s Parks Department referred the Herald to Blakeman’s spokesman, Chris Boyle, and as of press time he has not responded to requests for comment on details of the park project.
Hewlett-Woodmere Business Association President David Friedman’s involvement with the park revolves around volunteering for the Hewlett Lawrence Soccer Club, which uses the park’s soccer field.
“Any improvements they do with North Woodmere Park would be beneficial to the community and would bring in more families,” Friedman said. “As far as the condition of the soccer field, it really needs to have new grass, because there are weeds and uneven surfaces.”
Another issue that captured the community’s attention was the discovery of a swastika in the park on June 19, near the swings.
“The neighborhood is filled with Orthodox Jews, and knowing that there’s a swastika in the park in a neighborhood that is predominantly Orthodox is scary,” Gutman said. “It just makes the park much less of a place that we want to visit.”
Feuchtwanger said that antisemitism messages are
Hernesto
the condition of North Woodmere Park, which includes what community members call the ‘blue playground,’ has led some parents to voice concerns about their children’s safety.
a problem across Nassau County, but she believes county officials are doing their best to address it.
Nonetheless, a newly renovated park would help make their community feel safe, Feuchtwanger said.
“Hate is not accepted in any community,” she said. “We are all one community regardless of your race and or religion. I do think it’s an isolated incident, but I
would just love to see a park that the community would utilize for the kids and keep them in a safe environment. Something to bring back North Woodmere’s crowning glory, and we need a park to showcase it.”
Have an opinion on North Woodmere Park? Send a letter to jbessen@liherald.com.
Galdamez/Heraldhe sky will be aglow for the annual spectacle that marks our Independence Day, always a rousing celebration. While the main event is Tuesday, of course, the county-wide festivities begin Saturday, with plenty of local fireworks to enjoy.
TD Bank Celebrate America at Eisenhower Park
it may not always seem so). Other popular festivities involve the historical aspect of our nation’s birthday. Consider a visit to Old Bethpage Village Restoration, Saturday and Sunday, for the historic site’s annual re-creation of a Fourth of July celebration as commemorated during the Civil War.
By Karen BloomEisenhower Park is a popular spot to view the pyrotechnic spectacle, as part of its annual holiday double bill that also includes a concert. The park around Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre will be filled with visitors celebrating the lead-up to the holiday, Saturday, July 1, to enjoy some tunes and watch as the skies light up at the county’s Independence Day extravaganza.
The prelude, which starts at 7 p.m., includes a drone and laser light show, followed by a performance by the county’s winner of its recently concluded Battle of the Bands competition. That sets the stage for the colorful fireworks that follow, presented by the famed Grucci family, at dusk, simulcast by WALK 97.5 FM.
Of course, there is no formal seating, so bring blankets or chairs. Space is limited, and overflow will be directed to other viewing and parking areas. The rain date is July 2.
Journey back in time to 1960s Detroit and the birth of the Motown sound, when Motor City Revue visits the Landmark stage. This 13-piece tribute band will have you dancing and singing along to the songs immortalized by Smokey Robinson & The Miracles, Marvin Gaye, The Temptations, The Supremes and countless others. From Hitsville to Soulsville, they’ll perform it all, with a passion and delivery of the true Motown sound that is undeniable. Their ability to match the vocal harmonies and instrumental mix that distinguished the original recordings is not to be missed. Everyone will be humming along to these iconic tunes in this authentic re-creation of the great era that revolutionized the music industry. Their music is about peace, love and soul that defined a generation and retains its power today.
Friday, June 30, 8 p.m. $47, $42, $38. Jeanne Rimsky Theater at Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Port Washington. (516) 767-6444 or LandmarkOnMainStreet.org.
Celebrate America
• Saturday and Sunday, noon-4 p.m.; Tuesday through Friday, 11 a.m.-4 p.m.
• July 1, 7-10 p.m.
• Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, Eisenhower Park, East Meadow
The setting marks the departure of local Union soldiers — new recruits — and the nation’s 85th anniversary. The weekend events, which run from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., include contra dancing, patriotic speeches, musket firing and children’s games, along with a ceremony and parade, against the backdrop of historic music performed by the Old Bethpage Village Brass Band.
• NassauCountyNY.gov
Jones Beach Fireworks
• July 4, 9:30 p.m.
• Emily Lowe Hall Gallery, South Campus, Hempstead. For information and to RSVP, call (516) 463-5672, or visit Hofstra.edu/museum
• Jones Beach State Park, Wantagh
“When We All Stand,” Hofstra University Museum of Art’s new exhibition, examines the collective power of the arts in society.
Families may also want to check out i.Fly Trapeze, the acrobatic/ circus arts venue nearby in the park.
Or visit the summer home of President Theodore Roosevelt in Oyster Bay for Sagamore Hill’s annual presidential-style Independence Day festivities. Commemorate the holiday in the Roosevelt tradition, at the former presidential residence, on Tuesday, from noon to 4 p.m.
Old Bethpage Village Restoration
Curated by Alexandra Giordano — the museum’s assistant director of exhibition and collection — the exhibit underscores artists’ civic responsibility and influence.
• July 1-2, 10 a.m.-4 p.m.
• 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage
The 26th president would gather with his extended family and friends at Sagamore Hill for a day of celebration. Cousins and friends enjoyed the day here participating in flag-waving outdoor activities.
Pat McGann is quickly rising as one of the sharpest stand-ups on the comedy scene. A relative latecomer to comedy, he began doing standup at 31 after realizing he was not very good at selling packaging. He hustled his way to become the house emcee at Zanies Chicago, where he distinguished himself as especially adept at working the crowd. A husband and father of three young children, McGann’s appeal stems from his quick wit and relatable take on family life and marriage. In 2017, McGann began touring as the opening act for Sebastian Maniscalco, moving with him from clubs to theater, to arenas, including four soldout shows at Madison Square Garden. McGann’s relatively short, but impressive resume, includes Montreal’s famed Just For Laughs Festival, Gilda’s LaughFest, The Great American Comedy Festival, and more. McGann still calls Chicago home.
The beach light show, a longstanding tradition, is eagerly awaited by the throngs of folks who make that yearly holiday trek to Jones Beach on July 4. The vivid display, beginning at 9:30 p.m., is a spectacular 25-minute display using state-of-the-art pyrotechnic technology. The dazzling colors and sights always thrill, accompanied by rousing musical array of patriotic songs simulcast by WALK 97.5 FM and KJOY 98.3 FM.
• OldBethpageVillage Restoration.org
Sagamore Hill
“It highlights the vital role that artists have in activating democratic values that promise equality and freedom, encouraging civic engagement, and cultivating unity,” Giordano says. “Artists often lead the charge and expose truths that may otherwise be ignored. The artists in this exhibition take a stand and call out injustices through their art and activism on issues such as immigration, gender, reproductive rights, mass incarceration, voting rights, racial bias, gun violence, and promises unfulfilled. They all combine the making of art with public service that has a grassroots approach in the hope of mobilizing their communities and the nation to ignite movement, create awareness, and inspire others to stand with them.”
• July 4, noon-4:30 p.m.
• 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay
• NPS.gov or (516) 922-4788
This exhibit, which runs through July 28, is in conjunction with Hofstra’s 13th presidential conference on the Barack Obama presidency coming up in April.
Of course, expect crowds. As always, thousands of hardy souls brave Jones Beach’s jam-packed thoroughfares to get a spot to see the light show. More than 250,000 people generally visit, so an early arrival is a must. “Center stage” is the Central Mall, but fireworks are visible throughout the length of the beach.
Highlights include tours of the Roosevelt home, a concert with the Calliope Brass Band, a holiday-themed Junior Ranger Program, assorted lawn games and crafts for kids, historical exhibits at the Old Orchard Museum, and even an appearance by the president himself as portrayed by re-enactor Joe Wiegand. He will mingle with visitors and read from the Declaration of Independence.
Saturday, Feb. 11, 8 p.m. $40, $35, $30, $25. The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington. (800) 745-3000 or Ticketmaster.com or ParamountNY.com.
A summer tradition returns to Eisenhower Park. Settle in with Music director Louis Panacciulli and his orchestra for an evening of crowd-pleasing tunes outdoors. Hear the orchestra interpret the best in popular and light classical music, including several toe-tapping Big Band selections. The program, Salute to Stage and Screen, includes ‘Phantom of the Opera,’ Sinatra selections, a tribute to John Williams, ‘Annie Get Your Gun,’ the best of Billy Joel, Louie Armstrong, and more. Longtime vocalists Jack and Ann Cassin are also back again, as guest soloists, joining the orchestra songs from some of Broadway’s greatest productions. Bring a blanket or a lawn chair and settle for a relaxing evening of music under the stars.
The holiday celebration involves more than fireworks (although
“We were interested in the idea that the artist has a civic responsibility,” says museum director Karen Albert. “The initial idea for this exhibition was inspired by an Obama Administration White House briefing that took place on May 12, 2009, where more than 60 artists and creative organizers met with administration officials to discuss the collective power of the arts to build community, create change, and chart a pathway for national recovery in the areas of social justice, civic participation and activism.”
Friday, July 7, 8 p.m. Eisenhower Park’s Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, East Meadow. For information, visit NassauCountyNY.gov.
Can art change the world? It’s a question that’s been at the focus of our collective culture for centuries. Now as society navigates the complexities of modern life, art as a path for social change is at the forefront of artistic expression.
July 6
The legendary band is back on tour, appearing on The Paramount stage
Thursday, July 6, 8 p.m. Now their fifth decade, Three Dog Night claims some of the most astonishing statistics in popular music. In the years 1969 through 1974, no other group achieved more top 10 hits, moved more records, or sold more concert tickets. Their hits continue to weave through the fabric of pop culture today; songs like “Mama Told Me (Not To Come)”, “Joy to the World”, “Black and White”, “Shambala” and “One” serve to heighten our emotions and crystallize the band’s continuing popularity. Not content resting on legacy alone, Three Dog Night is always working to expand its audience. Maintaining an aggressive, year-round touring schedule, the band performs their hit-filled concerts for generation-spanning audiences. Their now-famous name refers to native Australian hunters in the outback who huddled with their dogs for warmth on cold nights; the coldest being a “three dog night.” $99.50, $59.50, $44.50, $39.50. The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington. Tickets available at Ticketmaster.com or ParamountNY.com.
Join Nassau County Museum
Director Charles A. Riley II, PhD, for a Director’s Seminar, Sunday, July 9, 3 p.m.
He’ll discuss “Oscar Wilde: The Critic and His Artists,” examining the endlessly fascinating author who was connected to a glittering circle of artists. His friends included Toulouse-Lautrec (who painted his portrait on the eve of his legal demise), the Pre-Raphaelites BurneJones, Morris and Millais, Whistler and Sargent (his neighbors on Tite Street in London’s Chelsea), and the naughty prodigy Aubrey Beardsley. Participation is limited; registration required. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.
Nassau County Museum of Art’s exhibition, “Eye And Mind: The Shin Collection,” highlights the extraordinary collection masterworks assembled by 31-year-old connoisseur Hong Gyu Shin, an internationally recognized figure in the global art world. He shares his treasures, including works by Whistler, Lautrec, Boucher, Daumier, Delacroix, Klimt, Schiele, Balthus, Warhol, de Kooning, Gorky and many other important names from art history provocatively juxtaposed with the painting and sculpture of our own time from both Asia and the West. On view through July 9. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.
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Bring the kids to Old Westbury Gardens for a storybook adventure, Saturday, July 1, 10:30-11:30 a.m. Stroll the gardens and listen to Janell Cannon’s “Stellaluna.” Later create a unique take home craft. For ages 3-5. Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. For information visit OldWestburyGardens.org or contact (516) 333-0048.
Theatricals brings the iconic musical “Rent,” to Eisenhower Park, Thursday, July 6, 7 p.m. The acclaimed reimagining of “La Vie Boheme,” loosely based on Puccini’s opera and set on East Village streets, fire escapes, tenements, and cafes. This groundbreaking roller coaster ride depicting the joys and sorrows of an eclectic, diverse group of young artists and activists is always captivating. Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, Eisenhower Park, East Meadow. For information, visit NassauCountyNY.gov.
Mercy Hospital offers a peer to peer meeting for breastfeeding support and resources, facilitated by a certified breastfeeding counselor, every Thursday, 10:30 a.m.–11:30 a.m. Bring your baby (from newborn to 1 year) to the informal group setting. All new moms are welcome, regardless of delivering hospital. Registration required. Call breastfeeding counselor, Gabriella Gennaro, at (516) 7052434 to secure you and your baby’s spot. Mercy Hospital, St. Anne’s Building, 1000 North Village Ave., Rockville Centre. For information visit CHSLI.org.
Highlights in Jazz has the Warren Chiasson Trio performing on Thursday, June 29, at 7:30 p.m., at HewlettWoodmere Public Library. With Chiasson on piano and vibraphone, guitarist Joe Cohn and bassist Alex Gressel. 1125 Broadway.
July 8
Stroll Old Westbury Gardens with Gabriel Willow, a New York Citybased urban naturalist and environmental educator, Saturday, July 8, 7:309:30 p.m. He will lead a walk through the gardens to listen and look for bats while discussing bat ecology and conservation. All ages are welcome. Space is limited and reservations are required. Rain date is Saturday, July 15. 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. For information contact (516) 333-0048 or visit OldWestburyGardens.org.
Items on The Scene page are listed free of charge. The Herald welcomes listings of upcoming events, community meetings and items of public interest. All submissions should include date, time and location of the event, cost, and a contact name and phone number. Submissions can be emailed to thescene@liherald.com.
Play canasta, mah jongg and Scrabble in the Bentley Room of Peninsula Public Library, 280 Central Ave., Lawrence, Monday, July 3, 2-4:30 p.m. Seating is limited and is first come, first seated. Masks recommended.
Phil Kennelly performs music from the 1960s and ’70s as part of the Hewlett Bagel Boss concert series, Saturday, July 1 at 10 p.m. 1352 Peninsula Blvd, Hewlett. Free admission.
See “80 for Brady” about a group of friends made it their life-ling mission to attend the Super Bowl meet NFL superstar Tom Brady, Wednesday, July 5, at 2 and 7 p.m., at HewlettWoodmere Public Library. With Lily Tomlin, Jane Fonda, Rita Moreno and Sally Field star. Rated PG-13, 1 hour, 38 minutes.1125 Broadway, Hewlett.
For many years visitors to Westbury House at Old Westbury Gardens asked what was beyond the first floor corridor. Now go beyond the door and discover “secrets of the service wing,” during a 60-minute guided tour, Friday, June 30, noon. Be introduced to the intensive labor required to create the lifestyle experienced by the Phipps family and their guests; tour the many rooms that were “behind the scenes” to create the formal dining experiences of early 20th century. Go along the corridors to the butler’s pantry and silver cleaning room then descend the 17 steps to the kitchen, scullery, and wine storage rooms located on the ground floor. Reservations required. 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. For information contact (516) 333-0048 or visit OldWestburyGardens.org.
Ever read a story and thought, “I can do that!” Or missed coverage in your local paper simply because the newsroom didn’t have enough resources?
Now could be your chance to do something about it. And the New York Press Association — the statewide organization representing news outlets like the very newspaper you’re reading — is offering training to neighbors just like you interested in covering news for the local newspaper.
The free four-part online program focuses on ethics, accuracy in reporting, interviewing techniques, and how to write clearly. Everyone who completes all four sessions and pass a written test will receive certification as a community journalist from the association.
“We’re not aiming to replace traditional journalists with this program,” said Judy Patrick, the association’s vice president for editorial development, in a news release. “We’re working to expand local news coverage and build on our industry’s longstanding tradition of community correspondents.”
The one-hour sessions include an introduction to journalism that will explain the First Amendment and the
business of newspapers. The differences between news and opinion and news and advertising. And discussing news literacy and ethics.
The second session focuses on basic news writing, the “inverted pyramid” method of writing, and how to write a lede. There also will be discussion on checking facts, how to avoid libel, and the difference between “off-the-record” and “on background,” as well as how to follow recommended writing styles, story accuracy, and writing clearly.
On the job in the third session, participants can explore how to comport themselves on the job, how to find news and interview story subjects and sources, the variety of stories — from hard news to features — how to find and develop sources, and why deadlines matter.
The basics of local government across the state will be covered in the last session, along with how to write about governmental financial budgets, education and politics, learning about basic investigative tools, open government tools in New York, and social media.
Offered four times a year, the first online session is set to run between July 10 and July 13 beginning at 4 p.m.
Free registration is open through July 7 by emailing judy@nynewspapers.com.
More women are leading businesses than ever before, and Bank of America is on the forefront to support those efforts, whether across the country or here on Long Island.
Bank Of America has been named the presenting sponsor of the inaugural Women’s Executive Summit, set for Monday, Aug. 7 at The Crescent Beach Club in Bayville.
Hosted by Herald Community Newspapers and RichnerLive, the WE Summit highlights how every business around the world is undergoing salient changes to the way they operate, no matter what industry they’re in.
Courtesy Bank of America
ThE inAuguRAl WOmEn’S Executive Summit — presented by Bank of America and hosted by Herald Community Newspapers and RichnerLive — takes place Monday, Aug. 7 at The Crescent Beach Club in Bayville.
From technology use and investment. To skill development and cultural barriers. To equal pay and going hybrid — or fully remote. Every organization must adapt, or run the risk of being left behind.
As we navigate this time of pivotal change, the 2023 WE Summit brings together thought leaders, innovators, and barrier-breaking women for conversations
“We are excited for the opportunity to partner with Bank of America at the Women’s Executive Summit,” Amy Amato, executive director of RichnerLive, said in a release. “Since the pandemic, the work space has evolved dramatically, and we are bringing thought leadership together to help navigate these uncharted water.”
For more information on how to be a part of the Women’s Executive Summit,
Don’t expect rents to rise next this coming year — that is, if you’re living in a rent-stabilized apartment in Hempstead village. Everywhere else? Be ready to pay more.
That was the decision of the Nassau County Rent Guidelines Board last week, hearing the concerns voiced by Hempstead village renters at an open forum earlier this month, The rest of Nassau County could see rents climb by 1 percent for one-year leases, and 2 percent for two-year leases beginning Oct. 1.
The passing vote came after a series of contrary motions were denied by the board, including one by landlord representative Barry Stein, who proposed an increase of up to 6.5 percent before being drowned out by a series of boos from tenants and advocates in attendance.
Stein’s justification for such an increase? Rent income increased nearly 3 percent while expense increases more than doubled that. Then there’s the rising property taxes in Nassau County, rising house insurance costs, and mortgage rates doubling. They were numbers Stein called “unsustainable.”
Stein also asserts the state’s reported profit figures by landlords are overblown, incorrectly looking at entire buildings — includes units not subject to regulation.
Alternatively, board member Rob
AfteR it wAs all said and done, members of the Nassau County Rent Guidelines Board decided regulated rents would rise for the second year in a row, despite some tenants and political groups calling not only for a freeze, but a rollback to pre-pandemic levels.
Rychlowski explained tenants like him are overburdened.
“We heard a lot of things from the landlords about the rising cost of living, but what about how that disproportionately affects the tenants?” he asked. “Mr. Stein is arguing that we shouldn’t be using their overall profit margin because it combines non-regulated housing along with regulated housing.”
Despite these claims, landlord profits are at record highs, according to the
state’s New York State Division of housing and community renewal division.
Another member, Martin Melkonian, also pointed out data suggesting rent-stabilized buildings consistently rise in value. That suggests to him this is a profit enterprise — not simply for the cash flow, but for asset growth. And that many ordinary property owners have enormously benefited from rising values.
“Over the past 20 years, the net operating income continues to rise,” Melkonian
said. That net operating income peaked at 38 percent in 2022, “which is the highest it’s been, despite the fact that the expenses have gone up, and admittedly, rents have not followed along. Nevertheless, net operating income continues to rise. What explains that?”
At least from Melkonian’s point of view, despite regulation, landlords do pretty well in terms of cash flow, and extremely well in terms of the rapidly rising property value of their buildings over time.
Following the vote, Jeremy Joseph, — an organizer with the Working Families Party and the Nassau County Democratic Socialists of America — said he is disappointed with the overall vote, but will accept the small victory for Hempstead village residents while acknowledging the long road ahead.
“All tenants in Nassau County deserve a rent reduction,” Joseph said. “Anything less than that is not enough.”
Prior to the vote, the board heard tenants from Hempstead directly, and that members who are not usually on our side were compelled to vote for no raise.
“Just imagine if they gave that same attention to all the municipalities in the county,” Joseph said. “But they don’t. They only have a few hearings.
“If we had a hearing in Freeport and Rockville Centre, they would have heard all the same stuff they heard in Hempstead.”
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INCORPORATED
VILLAGE OF HEWLETT HARBOR PLEASE TAKE
NOTICE that the Board of Zoning Appeals of the Incorporated Village of Hewlett Harbor will hold a public hearing via ZOOM on July 6, 2023 at 7:00PM. All residents and professionals wishing to attend are directed to contact Village Hall at 516-374-3806 for further ZOOM information/ instruction or visit our website at www. hewlettharbor.org. All interested parties will be given the opportunity to be heard on the following application for variance relief: Mr. Dominic Calandrella 265 Bayberry Drive Hewlett Harbor, NY 11557, is requesting a 1 ½ car garage. Applicant requests relief from Village Zoning Code 14519. Village Zoning Code 145-19 states: Side yard setback for a one family structure is 15 feet in the Residential B District.
Applicant is requesting a 13-foot side yard setback.
Village Zoning Code 145-19 states: Maximum permitted lot coverage shall not exceed 30% in a Residential B District.
Applicant is requesting to maintain a 38.8% lot coverage. Mr. Nir Maman 1342 Boxwood Drive West Hewlett Harbor, NY 11557, is requesting 2nd floor addition, 1 story rear addition, rear yard deck, rear yard gazebo, rear yard cabana and circular driveway.
Applicant requests relief from Village Zoning Code 145-19 and 145-25.A.
Village Zoning Code 14519 states: The maximum permitted lot coverage shall not exceed 30% in a residential “B” district.
Applicant is requesting to maintain a 46.8% lot coverage. Applicant additionally requests relief from Village Zoning Code 145-19. Village Zoning Code 145-19 states: The maximum permitted front yard surface coverage shall not exceed 23%.
Applicant is requesting a 40% front yard surface coverage. Village Zoning Code 145-25.A states: Accessory buildings shall be located only in the rear or side yards in the residential “B” district.
Applicant is requesting the gazebo and cabana to be erected in the front yard.
Mr. David Borukhov 1334 Club Drive Hewlett Harbor, NY 11557, is requesting front yard swimming pool with patio pavers.
Applicant requests relief
from Village Zoning Code 145-19 and 145-25.A.
Zoning Code 145-19 states the maximum permitted building lot coverage in a Residential A District shall not exceed 25%. Applicant is proposing a 39.1% building lot coverage. Village Zoning Code section 145-25.A states accessory structures may be located only in the side and rear yards. Applicant is requesting to install a pool, shed, and pool equipment in the front yard. Subject property has two front yard. BY ORDER OF THE BOARD OF ZONING APPEALS
STEVEN GOLD, CHAIRMAN
ZONING BOARD MICHAEL
RYDER- Building Inspector
Dated: Hewlett Harbor, New York June 16, 2023 140315
LEGAL NOTICE
Resolution to dispose of Real Property Less than $20,000 BE IT RESOVED that pursuant to section 176(30) of the Hempstead Town law, the Inwood Fire District, Town of Hempstead, County of Nassau, state of New York, does hereby declare that this real property is owned by the District located at 188 Doughty Boulevard, Inwood New York and is to relinquish one Western Pro Plus 8’ snow Plow, including Halogen head Lights and handheld Controller. This equipment is no longer necessary for use in the fire District. BE IT FURTHER RESOLVED that based upon an appraisal utilizing Trius equipment services this real property is valued less than $20,000, and BE IT FURTHER RESOLVED that pursuant to Hempstead Town law the Inwood Fire District is authorized to dispose and sell the aforementioned property of the Fire District to the highest sealed bidder following an advertisement in our official printed publication the Nassau Herold following a 30-day notice of sale. This Equipment is to be sold as is and picked up from fire Headquarters by the successful bidder upon payment. For information, bid sheets, viewing and examination of the Equipment, please contact Dennis Verriello during the hours of 9am to 2pm Tuesday - Friday at Inwood Fire Headquarters 188 Doughty Blvd. Inwood N.Y 11096. or call 516 239 4324. The bids are to be opened and read aloud in the District office at 10 AM on July 14, 2023. Minimum starting bid ($4,500) 140319
LEGAL NOTICE
Resolution to dispose of Real Property Less than $20,000 BE IT RESOVED that pursuant to section 176(30) of the Hempstead Town law, the Inwood Fire District, Town of Hempstead, County of Nassau, state of New York, does hereby declare that this real property is owned by the District
located at 188 Doughty Boulevard, Inwood New York and is to relinquish one 2013 Chevrolet Tahoe vehicle identification # 1GNSK2E07DR361256 due to it being no longer necessary for use in the fire District. BE IT FURTHER
RESOLVED that based upon an appraisal utilizing the Kelly Blue book services this real property is valued less than $20,000, and BE IT FURTHER
RESOLVED that pursuant to Hempstead Town law the Inwood Fire District is authorized to dispose and sell the aforementioned property of the Fire District to the highest sealed bidder following an advertisement in our official printed publication the Nassau Herold following a 30-day notice of sale. This vehicle is to be sold as is with existing engine damage and picked up from fire Headquarters by the successful bidder upon payment. For information, bid sheets, viewing and examination of the vehicle, please contact Dennis Verriello during the hours of 9am to 2pm Tuesday - Friday at Inwood Fire Headquarters 188 Doughty Blvd. Inwood N.Y 11096. or call 516 239 4324. The bids are to be opened and read aloud in the District office at 10 AM on July 14, 2023. Minimum starting bid ($4,000)
140321
LEGAL NOTICE
NOTICE OF SALE SUPREME
COURT: NASSAU COUNTY.
CARISBROOK ASSET HOLDING TRUST, Pltf. vs., EDUARDO B. LEITE
A/K/A E.B. LEITE, et al, Defts. Index #15-010238.
Pursuant to judgment of foreclosure and sale
entered December 17, 2018, I will sell at public auction on the north side steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, NY on July 26, 2023 at 2:30 p.m., prem. k/a 110 Cedar Road, Inwood, NY 11096 and Baywater Blvd., Lawrence, NY, 11559 a/k/a Bayswater Blvd., Inwood, NY 11096. Parcel A: All that certain plot, piece, or parcel of land, situate, lying and being in the Village of Inwood, Town of Hempstead, County of Nassau and State of New York. Parcel B: All that certain plot, piece, or parcel of land, situate, lying and being at Inwood, Town of Hempstead, Nassau County, New York, a/k/a Section 40, Block 125, Lots: 38 & 39 and Section 40, Block 125, Lot 144. Approx. amt. of judgment is $797,826.21 plus costs and interest. Sold subject to terms and conditions of filed judgment and terms of sale. JANINE T. LYNAM, Referee. PINCUS LAW GROUP PLLC, Attys. for Pltf., 425 RXR Plaza, Uniondale, NY File No. 05082023.56946#100511 140256
NOTICE NOTICE OF SALE SUPREME COURT. NASSAU COUNTY. ELM LIMITED, LLC., Pltf. vs. ITZHAK HERSHKO, et al, Defts. Index #608671/2019. Pursuant to judgment of foreclosure and sale entered March 23, 2022, I will sell at public auction on the North Side steps of the Nassau Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, NY on July 24, 2023 at 2:00 p.m. prem. k/a Section 39, Block 344, Lot 222. Sold subject to terms and conditions of filed judgment and terms of sale and the right of the United States of America to redeem within 120 days from the date of sale as provided by law. Foreclosure auction will be held “rain or shine.” If proper social distancing cannot be maintained or there are other health or safety concerns, then the court appointed referee will cancel the sale.
JEFFREY W. HALBREICH, Referee. LEVY & LEVY, Attys. for Pltf., 12 Tulip Dr., Great Neck, NY. #100448 139622
LEGAL NOTICE INCORPORATED VILLAGE OF HEWLETT HARBOR
NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN
THAT THE Board of Trustees of the Incorporated Village of Hewlett Harbor will hold a public hearing on July 13, 2023 at 7:00 PM on the question of adopting the following local law:
Local Law No. 1 - 2023: A local law to amend Chapter 145 of the Code of the Village of Hewlett Harbor, to provide for regulations for residences used as gathering places. These local laws may be examined at any time during 9AM - 4PM at the office of the Village Clerk of the Incorporated Village of Hewlett Harbor at Village Hall, 449 Pepperidge Road, Hewlett Harbor, New York. All residents and professionals wishing to attend the public hearing are directed to contact Village Hall at 516-374-3806 for further information/instruction or visit our website at www. hewlettharbor.org. At such hearing, all interested persons will be given the opportunity to be heard. Any person having a disability which would inhibit attendance at or participation in any of the hearings should notify the Village Clerk at least three business days prior to the hearing, so that reasonable efforts may be made to facilitate such attendance and participation. Nicole Giacopelli Village Clerk
Dated:
Lawrence High School senior Stephanie Lopez was one of the students selected to represent the school at the National association for Music Education Eastern Division Conference hosted by the state’s School Music Association.
Lopez, a member of the show choir and Drama Club since middle school, has performed in 16 school productions, including as Dorothy in “The Wizard of Oz,” the genie in “Aladdin,” Fiona in “Shrek” and the witch in “Into the Woods.”
During this school year, she performed as part of the All-County Chorus and was chosen as a soloist in the All Eastern Treble Choir, the American Choral Directors Association National Choir and the AllState Mixed Choir, where she performed a solo alongside the Eastman School of
Music choir.
“We are incredibly proud of Stephanie and all of her accomplishments throughout her high school journey,” Lawrence High Principal Jennifer Lagnado-Papp said in a news release. “We know she will continue to strive for excellence and we look forward to cheering for Stephanie in all her future endeavors.”
Enrolled in high-level Honors and Advanced Placement course, Lopez is a member of the National Honor Society and the National Society of High School Scholars. Her next stop is Southern Methodist University Meadows School of the Arts in Dallas to continue her musical training and earn a bachelor’s degree in vocal performance.
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Q. We need some advice on how to pick a contractor. Our neighbors down the street are going through a tough time with delays, seemingly shoddy work that didn’t pass inspection and extra costs for things they didn’t want or expect. Do you have any suggestions on how to interview a contractor, and what to ask about or look for in their proposal? We want to avoid what our neighbor is going through.
A. Continuing from last week, make a checklist of questions. Ask how long the contractor has been in business, and check the information with New York state.
Businesses are registered in the state Department of State database, at dos. ny.gov. If the company isn’t there, ask if they have a different name — but ask. Giving a large sum of money to a business without confirming who they are is risky.
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Next, contact the Department of Consumer Affairs, which issues the contractor’s license. This serves more than one purpose, by confirming the contractor has a clean record, and is licensed for the work you want done. You’ll need the license number to give to your municipality to apply for a permit for the work. This information is available by looking up your county consumer affairs office.
When the time comes, the same should be done for your plumber and your electrician, both of whom are supposed to be licensed and on file with the local jurisdiction where the work will be done. From time to time, people use an electrician’s or plumber’s license number but aren’t that plumber or electrician. This just complicates and delays things, since no local government will issue a permit without confirming that the license number given to the owner matches the name of the license holder. When the wrong information is given, suspicions arise. Whatever the arrangement is, the correct information must be given.
The same goes for insurance. When you interview a contractor, familiarize yourself with the insurances that are required by your local building department, and be sure to verify that the contractor you are interviewing can provide the documents.
Next, ask if the contractor will be arranging the required building inspections, in stages throughout the job, from your jurisdiction. Ask how you can also verify that the inspector was there. Many municipalities have gone to online portals where you can track which inspection has been done and whether a project passed. Discuss timelines, who will be managing the work onsite and whether there will be site meetings to keep up communications about the progress.
When you get to the point of discussing costs, confirm the method of payment. As I previously recommended, milestone payments for things you can see, such as when the concrete foundation is done, when the windows and doors are installed, etc., are the best way to keep track of the payment process. There’s a lot to be done, but this is one of the most expensive things you will ever do. Good luck!
© 2022 Monte LeeperReaders are encouraged to send questions to yourhousedr@aol.com, with “Herald question” in the subject line, or to Herald Homes, 2 Endo Blvd., Garden City, NY 11530, Attn: Monte Leeper, architect.
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The political news these days is dominated by two names, Biden and Trump. Because of his many criminal entanglements, Donald Trump wins the prize for the most coverage. But there are other names that are unfamiliar to many readers, and their stories may help clarify your thinking about the issue of mishandling classified documents.
Retired Air Force Lt. Col. Robert Birchum recently made the news when he was sentenced to three years in prison for storing classified documents at various locations. A 30-year veteran of the Air Force, Birchum entered into a plea agreement, under which he admitted to having kept documents labeled “top secret,” “secret” or “confidential.”
Birchum admitted that he had knowingly removed over 300 documents from his office and stowed them in his overseas officer’s headquarters, at his home and in a storage pod in his driveway. More than 30 of those files were marked “top secret,” the highest level of classification.
A thumb drive contained 135 files marked as “classified,” and a hard drive
had 10 files that contained information marked as “secret.” Birchum had a spotless record during his decades of military service, which made the sentencing that much harder for the average citizen to comprehend.
Another new name in the news was Nghia Pho, a former software developer at the National Security Agency. Pho took troves of highly classified information out of a secure location and kept them at home. As reported two weeks ago by the HuffPost’s Jennifer Bendery, Pho, a Vietnamese immigrant who was working on his English, said he was falling behind his peers in promotions and wanted to catch up on work at home.
Pho received a five-and-a-half-year sentence in federal prison for trying to keep pace with his fellow workers. What was most significant was the reaction of the NSA director, Navy Adm. Michael Rodgers. Rodgers, an appointee of President Obama, was kept on in his job by President Trump until his retirement.
In a harsh three-page letter to U.S. District Court Judge George Russell III, Rodgers wrote, “While criminal conduct involving matters of national security may come in different forms and some of the harms may not be immediately appar-
ent, the retention of classified information is no less damaging to the national security of our country and our ability to protect and defend the Nation against our adversaries.”
Rodgers concluded his letter, Bendery wrote, by calling Pho’s actions “a breach of trust” and indirectly telling the judge to prove he stands with the intelligence community with his sentencing.
“Affirmation by this court of the cost to the women and men who have dedicated their lives to public service and who have maintained trusted stewardship of national defense information will send them a message of confidence and respect.”
The stories of Birchum and Pho are just two of many that are popping up in the news these days. Birchum apparently decided he should be the custodian of sensitive documents, and Pho did something genuinely stupid. This brings us to the case of Trump, who stands accused of obstruction of justice and violations of the Espionage Act.
The Trump accusations are so bewildering. Why didn’t he just turn over all of the classified documents that were requested when he was served with a subpoena? Why did he allegedly stonewall
the prosecutors and lie about having any such papers in his possession? Why did he tell his counsel to deny having any additional sensitive papers at his Mar-aLago home?
Trump’s defenders have rushed to protect him by accusing the FBI and the Justice Department of “weaponizing” their powers against a political opponent. But Trump is no different from Birchum or Pho when it comes to the issue of holding onto documents that could aid our enemies.
Does being a former president exempt you from the same day in court that Birchum and Pho got? Add the name of recently arrested Air National Guardsman Jack Teixeira to the roster of those who have been charged with the possession of secret documents.
Of course, Trump is entitled to a presumption of innocence. He will have his chance to tell his story, if he testifies in front of a jury. What is mystifying is why he finds himself in this position at all. And if found guilty, why should he be treated differently than Birchum and Pho?
Jerry Kremer was an Assemblyman for 23 years, and chaired the Assembly’s Ways and Means Committee for 12 years. He now heads Empire Government Strategies, a business development and legislative strategy firm. Comments about this column? jkremer@liherald.com.
You may think this doesn’t have relevance for you, but you’re wrong, my friend. You may be 40 years old, running 7-minute miles and sprinting up the corporate ladder, but believe me, you need to focus on your old age — now. In fact, the only way you won’t have to plan for your dotage is if you die before you become decrepit, not an entirely awful option.
most relevant issue in your life, if it isn’t already.
RANDI KREISS
The new rage around the country is a concept for housing, or more accurately, storing our elderly. Several companies are selling what they call MedCottages or Granny Pods, prefabricated guest houses — glorified hospital rooms — that can be plunked down right in a willing child’s backyard.
The standard is 12 feet by 24 feet, and runs $39,000 and up. Sounds pricey, but it’s cheap when you consider the cost of assisted living or skilled nursing care. I know you don’t want to think about this stuff, but I insist, because the chances are 100 percent that this will become the
These pods hook up to local sewage and power lines. They have “virtual” caregivers that remind you over a speaker to “take your meds” or it’s “time for lunch.” The toilets can read body temperature. Floorboards are lighted. The living room has its own defibrillator, and a monitoring system communicates the elder’s activities to a security service. Of course, you can’t sneak a puff, or a sip or anything else fun because Big Brother is watching. Next step, I suppose they could dig a giant hold in the backyard, put a board over it, install the Granny Pod on the wooden foundation and when the elders pass on, just drop that baby into the ground. Dust to dust.
According to the American Association of Retired People, there is little planning in place to deal with the explosion of super-old people coming down the pike — some 70 million by 2030.
I’m sitting at ground zero in this generational squeeze. My parents live on their own, with helpers, in Florida. My sister and I go back and forth as often as
we can, which isn’t close to often enough. Of all the things I anticipated worrying about in my 60s, elder care never crossed my mind. Now it’s a daily, consuming and pressing concern.
So, a Granny Pod for Mom and Dad? They actually might go for it, but it doesn’t touch the real concerns. My mother is lonely because my dad sleeps all day. Her friends are gone. What she wants is for us to be there, basically, all the time. Not unreasonable for her, but problematic for us.
Let’s consider the idea of my folks living in my backyard. I could pop in and say hello several times a day. That would be nice. But they would still need helpers every day. Someone would still have to monitor all the meds and devices and the cleaning and meals and TV repair and appliance maintenance and visits to doctors and outings to the rest of the world and finding the missing hearing aids, canes and glasses.
And when the sprinklers went off, it would be a bitch.
A pod in a backyard could work in some situations, perhaps for all the millennial kids who are reportedly moving
Randi is on a brief leave. This column was originally published June 2-8, 2016.
home to Mom and Dad. But for the frail elderly with no connections to the community, it would be tantamount to climate-controlled storage.
Jumping ahead to my own future elder years, a pod is out of the question for my hubby and me. First, my son’s backyard is a canal in Florida, and my daughter’s is a mountain in the Sierra Nevada. Second, if you put my husband and me in a 12-by-24 space to live out our days, those days would be numbered.
No one in government is dealing with the tsunami of elderly coming our way. That leaves each of us to deal the best we can, which is woefully insufficient. We need communal, political and financial assistance to make life livable for our very old — and for the people caring for them. But a backyard pod?
When my daughter was little, she said she wanted to live in our backyard when she grew up. The wish may get turned around if I decide someday to permanently drop in on her.
Copyright 2023 Randi Kreiss. Randi can be reached at randik3@aol.com.
Several companies are selling what they call MedCottages or Granny Pods.
The charges against him are bewildering. Why didn’t he just turn over the documents?
The Declaration of Independence was first published on July 6, 1776, in a newspaper, the Pennsylvania Evening Post. We are proud to commemorate that high point in American journalism by reprinting that historic document.
When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the Powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed. That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shown, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security. Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.
He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.
He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.
He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.
He has called together legislative bodies at
places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their Public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.
He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness of his invasions on the rights of the people.
He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected, whereby the Legislative Powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.
He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws of Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.
He has obstructed the Administration of Justice by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary Powers.
He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.
He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harass our people, and eat out their substance.
He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislature.
He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil Power.
He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their acts of pretended legislation:
For quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:
For protecting them, by a mock Trial, from Punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:
For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:
For imposing taxes on us without our consent:
For depriving us in many cases, of the benefits of Trial by Jury:
For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences:
For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies:
For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws, and altering fundamentally the forms of our Government:
For suspending our own legislature, and declaring themselves invested with Power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.
He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.
He has plundered our seas, ravaged our Coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.
He is at this time transporting large armies of foreign mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy of the Head of a civilized nation.
He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.
He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages, whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.
In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A prince, whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free People.
Nor have We been wanting in attention to our British brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.
We, therefore, the representatives of the United States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these United Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States; that they are absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the state of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the Protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our Sacred Honor.
The Declaration was signed first by John Hancock, president of the Continental Congress, and then by 55 others representing the 13 original states.
I’ve struggled with depression and anxiety my whole life. That’s not an easy thing to admit, especially publicly. But mental health awareness isn’t what it used to be, thankfully. The stigma has been largely diminished. So, in honor of guys pushing off asking for help or pretending we’ll do it tomorrow, I’m offering a belated note for Men’s Health Month and Men’s Mental Health Month, both in June. Yes, June’s just about over, but as my mom and wife often say, if you want to hear about the plan, ask a man. If you want it done, ask a woman.
I grew up with a core group of friends, and as we aged, we got better at talking to one another about things that were bothering us. We made plenty of jokes, and helped each other through tragedy and defeat.
At a friend’s wedding earlier this month, I was reminded, by being with my old friends, that even though we’re a bit grayer and see one another less and less, our friendships remain strong. We retold inside jokes, bragged about our kids, and laughed all night.
These are men and women I’ve known for 40 years or more. We grew up together, and shared the same experiences as kids in the same hometown. We celebrated one another’s successes and commiserated about one another’s failures as we navigated adolescence and then early adulthood.
But even with my closest friends, I have never completely surrendered my male ego and asked for help, or explained a mental health problem. Sure, I’d say that I was struggling or hurting, and they would help me. Those cathartic admissions were helpful, but not regenerative.
My oldest son, now a 26-year-old police officer, told me that he recently sought mental health help through his job. He said he had felt apprehensive on a few recent patrol calls.
That’s never happened. He’s always been a tough dude — we took him to the emergency room twice in one day for different injuries when he was 9. He likened his recent unease to a case of the yips — a baseball player’s sudden and inexplicable inability to make routine throws accurately.
I was relieved to hear he had the fortitude to seek professional help. Several friends on the job told him they regular-
To the Editor:
I cannot be the only one upset by this new trend of being charged for using a credit card. It started with two different prices for gas. That has now moved to restaurants (including fast food), the service industry (haircuts), car dealerships, doctor’s offices and even religious institutions.
And the charges aren’t consistent: 3 percent here, 3.5 percent there. And who knows if these percentages are accurate? Maybe the actual charges are less, and they’re just padding their profits?
We pay to have a credit card, and we pay to use a credit card.
My wife and I go out for a nice dinner once a week with friends. This would include having a glass of wine with dinner. Well, I will refrain from ordering alcohol from restaurants. Alcohol has a very large profit margin. Would a restaurants rather sell four glasses of wine for $40 or charge the 3.5 percent credit card
surcharge?
If enough people start doing this, will restaurants stop passing the credit card processing fees on to patrons? Maybe, maybe not, but it will send a message that we’re tired of being nickeled and dimed for just about everything. Truth be told, all they have to do is raise prices by 25 cents and no one would know the difference.
What’s next? Food costs have skyrocketed since the pandemic. Going to the supermarket is quite expensive. Do people feel safe carrying a lot of cash around? I can foresee the day when supermarkets will be adding the credit card fee.
I have written to our senators, Kirsten Gillibrand and Chuck Schumer. You know what their response was? Crickets. Nothing.
Shouldn’t there be some legislation against this practice? It is a double charge to pay to have a credit card and to pay to use a credit card. But our elected officials choose to ignore this, and let their constituents bear the brunt of it. As usual.
JEFF COHEN Wantaghly go to a therapist to talk about job stresses and issues. As a dad, that made me happy that he is mature and strong enough to ask for mental help before an issue corroded into something larger.
For 11 years as a high school English teacher, I took advantage of our social workers by frequently bringing students with issues into their office for help. I was amazed at how comfortable adolescents had become with expressing their feelings and reaching out for help, without making a big deal of it.
These things weren’t talked about when I was in school, and certainly not among friends. Anger was the closest thing to an emotion that a boy could express in front of a group of fellow 10-year-olds.
It’s remarkable that mental health awareness and acceptance has come so far in a few decades. But men remain trapped by clichés of manliness and the stigma of admitting any mental health issue, however brief. We’re supposed to soldier through it, man up, tough it out. There is strength in learning to deal with adversity through perseverance, and there is also astuteness in knowing when something could be wrong and seeking professional help. Cognitively
dissonant, we put our heads down and plow through a hardship, but that childish reaction often fails and exacerbates a problem.
Men are generally less likely than women to ask for help for depression or stressful life events. Men downplay symptoms and pretend they’re OK.
According to Mental Health America, more than 6 million American men suffer from depression. Male suicides have increased since 2000.
There are ample places to get more information online. Here are two: MentalHealthAmerica.net and MensHealthNetwork.org.
The biggest step is asking for help.
My dad often said that he made a point of saying “I love you” to my brothers and me, because he didn’t remember his own father ever saying it to him. I smile when I hear my kids say that to each other. Seems pretty normal nowadays, but it wasn’t when my dad was a kid.
I love my kids, and I’m proud my oldest son is seeking mental health help. His actions put the lie to the false narrative that tough guys don’t need help. More men need to follow his example.
Mark Nolan, the editor of the Lynbrook/ East Rockaway and Malverne/West Hempstead Heralds, taught high school English for 11 years. Comments? mnolan@liherald.com.
mental health awareness has come a long way in a few decades.