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TABLE OF CONTENTS features 6 12

Boothbay Harbor: Perfectly Maine I Like Mike: Maine’s first openly gay gubernatorial candidate

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arts, entertainment & scenes 16 19 26 48

Artsipelago: Two Countries, One island Theater at Monmouth The Ogunquit Playhouse’s Brad Kenney Calendar of Events

plates & fares 28

Top of the East

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business profile 30

In Your Own Words

finance 32

Funny Finance with Liz Winfeld

marryMAINE: weddings 34 37 38 39 40 43 44

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One Year After Stress-Free Weddings A Chapel to Remember 7 Things to Know About Planning Your Maine Wedding gaymaineweddings.com

GayWeddings In Maine.com WEDDING PLANNING FOR ALL COUPLES

Engaged Couples Sid’s Picks

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am a Maine native. For more than a decade I’ve worked to promote our great state to ‘outsiders’ looking to vacation or relocate here. I think most natives, and residents in general, realize how lucky we are to call Maine home. Maine boasts a sandy-beach coastline and an amazing rugged rocky Sid Tripp and Wendi Smith Photo by Brittany Rae Photography coast, regal mountains and deep plush forests with fall colors that would make a painter envious.

There is an abundance of pristine lakes, wildlife, and extraordinary vistas.

We have exceptional arts and cultures, quaint villages and thriving cities, unparalleled Maine-made products, national parks and an award-winning food scene … and all of these assets are within a short drive of one another.

Again, I am a Maine native and, usually, very proud to say that. However, in November 2009, that pride waivered a bit.

I volunteered and supported the 2009 initiative for the freedom to marry. It was quite simple to me … I have family members and friends who are gay, lesbian and/or bisexual and I believe strongly that their rights should be no different than mine just because our sexual orientation differs. I was truly saddened when Maine voters repealed the freedom to marry bill.

Finally, in November 2012, Maine became the first state, by popular vote, to pass into law a freedom to marry bill.

In 2013, Congressman Michael Michaud became the first openly gay Maine gubernatorial candidate in the history of the United States.

Ogunquit has long been known as a gay-friendly resort community in Maine, but in my opinion, Maine, in its entirety, is one of the gay-friendliest states. abOUT-MAINE, Maine’s premier LGBT magazine, offers a different perspective to Maine while keeping readers up to date on the latest hot spots, and local favorites, for travel, shopping and dining.

And, though my career includes many years in publishing and marketing, I knew that in order to produce a quality, high-end LGBT magazine, I needed the help of LGBT leaders in Maine. Sid Tripp, owner of Proactive Resources Design and www.GayWeddingsInMaine.com and co-founder of the DownEast Pride Alliance (DEPA), graciously agreed to join and guide us as Editor-at-Large. This inaugural issue wouldn’t be possible without his advice and expertise and for that I am truly grateful!

Together, we thank you for your interest and for taking the time to read the inaugural issue of our magazine. We welcome your feedback, ideas and suggestions.

The landscape of Maine is changing and we’re pleased to be a part of it … we hope you enjoy our magazine!

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Publisher: Wendi Smith wendi@rfbads.com Editor-at-Large: Sid Tripp info@proactiveresources.com Copy Editor: Belinda Carter Calendar Editor: Jenn Rich jrich@rfbads.com Contributing Writers: Ryan Leighton, Christine Palmer, Kristen Quirk, Lyn Tesseyman, Liz Winfeld Design & Production Manager: Katie Grant katharine.n.grant@gmail.com Account Executive: Lyn Tesseyman lynt@rfbads.com Account Executive: Jenn Rich jrich@rfbads.com abOUT maine magazine is a production of: RFB Advertising LLC Cover Photo by: Mike Leonard abOUT maine magazine 6 Leland St. Rockland, ME 04841 For subscription info see page 25 or call 207-593-0037 x6 To advertise in the next issue please contact: Wendi Smith wendi@rfbads.com All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or in part without written permission is prohibited.

This magazine is made possible by the participation of advertisers. We offer them our thanks and ask you to consider them first when patronizing businesses in Maine.

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Although extensive reviews have attempted to ensure the accuracy of this publication, the copyright holder assumes no responsibility for and disclaims all liability for any such inaccuracies, errors or omissions in this publication.

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Boothbay Harbor: Perfectly Maine

Some say paradise exists only as a state of mind. Yet, in the heart of midcoast Maine, there is an extraordinary destination where many folks find peace, happiness, and acceptance for who they are.

By Ryan Leighton

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elcome to beautiful Boothbay Harbor, the little village that’s just far enough off Route 1 to be considered something special in the land of lobsters and L.L. Bean boots.

On a rocky peninsula thrusting out to sea, Boothbay Harbor is the hub of summertime tourism offering daily whale watches, schooner rides, kayaking tours, and late night reggae cruises, but that hardly sums up what this unique place really has to offer.

Boothbay Harbor is part of a bigger destination called the Boothbay region. It’s made up of the communities of Boothbay Harbor, Boothbay, East Boothbay, and Southport Island.

Known for a vibrant art community, specialty shops, an aquarium, an Opera House, brewery, and a historic train village, the region is gushing with local color and outrageous natural beauty.

Just ask Ed McDermott who left his busy city job in search of a simpler life with his partner Brian Lamb.

After exploring nearly every rural New England town across six states, the D.C. based couple found just what they were looking for in cozy little Boothbay Harbor. Together they purchased the Topside Inn, and for more than 10 years, they have enjoyed the quality of life in this picturesque pocket of Vacationland.

With over 2,000 acres of coastal hiking trails, an 18 hole championship golf course, and an award winning public garden, there is something here for just about anybody.

“It’s a very fun, funky town,” McDermott said. “In giving advice to gay people who are coming to visit, one of the things we talk about is that there is no separate set of things to do here for gay people. It’s not Palm Springs or Fort Lauderdale or any of these places that have a whole host of bars and places to be. It’s a place for anybody to be.”

Boothbay Harbor’s peak season runs from early May to mid-October when the population swells to as much as 60,000 people. Vacationers, day-trippers, adventurers, sightseers, and casual passersby frequent this abOUT MAINE 2014

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”It’s a very fun, funky town...

It’s a place for anyone to be.”

part of the world and leisurely pace of coastal life, a place one can truly relax and feel welcome, no matter who he or she is.

“Everybody kind of gets treated the same, whether you’re wealthy, or a summer resident, or a fisherman, or someone working in the construction trade,” McDermott said. “It’s a place where that doesn’t matter as much.”

A casual stay at McDermott’s Topside Inn comes with a complimentary

list of fun activities. If it’s a short stay, McDermott usually recommends getting out on the water, whether it be a quick harbor tour on schooners like East Wind and Lazy Jack or a day trip out to one of the outlying islands.

For those who prefer land over sea, a popular attraction is Coastal Maine Botanical Gardens. Named by TripAdvisor as the number one public garden in the U.S., nearly 100,000 guests passed through its gates last year.

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Just a five minute drive from downtown Boothbay Harbor, Coastal Maine Botanical Gardens is truly a sight to see. Take a stroll through one of several dazzling gardens and natural landscapes in the 200 acre spread. Early in the season, one will be awed by the Rhododendron Garden and spectacular spring bulb displays. The seasonally changing garden showplaces, such as the fanciful Children’s Garden and Lerner Garden of the Five Senses, offer year round beauty. No matter the season, the botanical gardens stay open year-round, and the vibrant landscapes provide a true Maine experience for everybody, including tour groups, weddings, and private parties.

Looking for something a little more off the beaten path?

The peninsula is home to over 30 miles of hiking trails that are free of charge and open to the public year round thanks to the Boothbay Region Land Trust. Porter Preserve is a favorite of McDermott. Located on Barters Island near the botanical gardens, Porter Preserve is one of twenty nature preserves that showcases the magnificent beauty of coastal Maine. Land Trust hiking trails range from easy, moderate, and challenging through a wide array of forests, wetlands, islands, and scenic vistas, but not everybody is cut out for backpacking. Not to worry, McDermott said.

There are plenty of other hidden spots spread throughout the region.

Just take a 15 minute drive from Boothbay Harbor through the laid-back village of East Boothbay. Continue

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further south to Ocean Point and enjoy unrivaled views of the Maine coast. The panoramic views make for a nice scenic drive or a casual stroll along the rocky shore.

A home to many seasonal renters, Ocean Point boasts some of the most gorgeous scenery including an old stone church. Known as one of Maine’s most adorable churches by the sea, the Wilson Memorial Chapel seats about 110 and provides a great setting for non-denominational weddings throughout the summer months.

Ocean Point is just one of the many outlying communities where hardworking locals make a living. Nestled between Boothbay Harbor and Ocean Point is Linekin Bay, home to the Cabbage Island Clambakes.

For anybody craving a traditional seafood dinner, Cabbage Island is the place to taste the best of the local harvest. The island is only accessible by boat, and it hosts thousands of guests throughout the summer including a fleet of tall ships called Windjammers.

In the third week of June, the Windjammers make their way into the harbor to celebrate the region’s flagship summer event. Majestic and grandiose, the parade of sails celebrates the union of Boothbay Harbor’s heritage and the sea. After 50 years of Windjammer Days, Boothbay Harbor’s newly formed non-profit “Friends of Windjammer Days” now serves as the host for the annual celebration.

Chairing the committee is Andy Luke.

The Luke family has built, serviced, repaired, and

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stored boats of all shapes and sizes in Linekin Bay for the past 75 years.

As an openly gay man, Luke said his orientation has never restricted his ability to carry on the family’s business. “If you’re honest and good at what you do, this community will support you, and this community will respond and respect that,” Luke said. Luke moved back from New York City to his hometown in 2010, a year after same-sex marriage became legalized. He and his husband Jeremy were married in Boothbay Harbor last July. Luke said he wants to continue expanding the service division of the boatyard while keeping up with the routine engine installations, manufacturing marine parts, and conducting sea trials. “Being comfortable and being recognized in your home town is tremendous, and I feel comfortable here,” Luke said.

Things stay rather quiet during the winters. Everyone seems to know your name and the local grocery store is the center for small town gossip. Home to a tight knit neighborhood of craftsman, fishermen, retirees, and artists, the Boothbay region keeps only a handful of restaurants and retailers open throughout the cold season, but there is always room for successful businesses to grow.

That has certainly been the case with Kim Martin and Denise Demeter, partners who built their business selling premium olive oils from around the world. As unconventional as their specially store seems, Martin and Demeter opened Eventide Specialties in January of 2011, typically the worst time to introduce a new business in Boothbay Harbor, but their vision took off and by March of last year, the walls came down to make room for a new bakery and more artisanal cooking products. “It gets so packed in here in the summer time, you can’t even see out that window,” said Donna Martin, Kim’s mother, who works at the store. “It does fall off in the winter, but we have plenty of local people who love us dearly.”

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and restaurant owners come out of hibernation. The restaurants purchase many ingredients from Eventide and fresh food from the local farmers’ market which meets every Thursday on the Boothbay Common.

Popular summer places to eat from the local perspective include favorites like Ports of Italy, The Thistle Inn, and The Boathouse Bistro, the harbor’s only rooftop dining service.

More casual dining options abound such as The Lobster Dock, Robinson’s Wharf, East Boothbay General Store, McSeagulls, and Bet’s Fish Fry. There is almost always something going on around town, from the live entertainment, to the art walks and festivals, to the miles of shoreline left to explore. It doesn’t matter who you

Photo courtesy of Eventide

Photo courtesy of Eventide

are or where you come from because in this part of Maine, there’s always a warm welcome in the Boothbay region.

“For the most part, Boothbay Harbor is a very laid back place where the vast majority of the people are there to relax and forget about a lot of outside world pressures,” McDermott said. “When you’re in Boothbay Harbor, you’re our people.”

For more information on visiting the Boothbay Harbor region, please visit: boothbayharbor.com Photo by Mike Leonard

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DESTINATION WEDDINGS

BOOTHBAY HARBOR REGION perfectly Maine!

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he Boothbay Harbor Region is conveniently located a scenic hour from Portland and offers the perfect mix of history, natural beauty, rustic charm and friendly local flavor to appeal to any wedding style.

You’ll find an abundance of lovely B&Bs, resorts, hotels, inns and restaurants as well as all the services necessary to provide for, and assist with, the event. From personal care to photographers, bands to DJs, flowers to tuxedos, our region has what you will need.

Discover a wide array of ceremony and reception venues, ranging from traditional churches to all-inclusive resorts to a waterfront cottage or indulge in the ultimate Maine coast wedding complete with a private island, boat transportation and lobsters!

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If you need gifts and party favors our boutiques, jewelry stores and galleries offer a wide selection including handmade chocolates and treats.

Local bakers can create a cake that is as unique as you are, and talented caterers can provide anything from rustic favorites to contemporary gourmet cuisine. For transportation for the wedding party and/or guests we have a number of taxis, trolleys, trains, limos, antique cars and boats at your service.

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Share the delights of the peninsula with your guests who can hike, attend a Broadway quality musical and play, listen to a concert, go boating, or visit museums with live sea animals, narrow-gauge trains and shipbuilding artifacts.

Contact us today to start planning your wedding and request a complimentary Wedding Planning Guide. © 2014 Robert Mitchell

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Come for vacation,

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Plan your vacation around Boothbay Harbor Country Club this summer. Come enjoy the perfect Maine golf course with breathtaking vistas, challenging holes and a sea breeze. The course is undergoing a complete renovation by architect Bruce Hepner and will be a premier destination for golfers seeking an unparalleled New England golf experience. Come see for yourself!

• Improved course

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• Friendly, full-service staff

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ARTSIPELAGO Two countries, One island It takes two passports—one recommended, one required—to fully explore the arts and culture that are thriving in the Passamaquody region of Maine and New Brunswick.

By Kristen M. Quirk

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ucked in the back of the slim guide that came in the mail is a bit of hidden treasure. Unfolding it, gingerly, reveals a large, crisp, recently printed map that looks like it could have belonged to an intrepid explorer sailing around the world hundreds of years ago.

The map and its accompanying guide are a modern-day explorer’s passport to Artsipelago, a cross-border arts and culture effort named for the many islands and peninsulas that make up the greater Passamoquody region. Launched in 2012 by The Tides Institute located in Eastport, Maine, Artsipelago highlights more than 175 opportunities to explore the many treasures the area has to offer, both in Maine and across the border in Canada.

That’s where the required passport, or passport card, comes in.

Eastport itself is the easternmost city in the United States and sits approximately halfway between Nova Scotia and Boston. Its main island, Moose Island, is connected by a causeway to the mainland. Eastport experienced a boom during the late 19th century with its sardine fisheries

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and canning operations, which went into decline in the early part of the 20th century. Until relatively recently, this city made up of a series of islands had been challenged to regain its economic footing. Thanks to an innovative spirit and the hard work Mainers are known for, Eastport’s revival is now coming in the form of exports such as wood pellets, pregnant cows that are shipped to places overseas like Russia and Turkey, and farm-raised salmon.

Eastport’s downtown area is also experiencing a resurgence as Hugh French, director of the Tides Institute, and other residents of his hometown do their part to help with renovation and innovation. When French founded the institute in 2002, the organization bought a building that he describes as being in “terrible shape”—so he went about the business of putting it back together. Since then, the Tides Institute has bought two additional buildings. One is for StudioWorks, an artist-in-residency program that continues to foster the infusion of cultural collections and artists that hadn’t previously been a part of life in Eastport.

What has been a significant component of daily life, however, is the cooperation and commerce that takes place with Eastport’s neighbors in Canada. “There’s an enormous amount of business that goes on between Maine and the Atlantic Provinces, and our feeling is that wherever business is, culture should be,” French says. “We started it [Artsipelago] very purposely as a cross-border entity.” He also wanted to make it a year-round activity, expanding the idea to what it is today from the one-weekend artist studio artist tour he started in 2005 called Two Countries, One Bay. The 28-page Artsipelago guide comprises a detailed listing of artists’ studios; parks and nature trails; local food and music; lighthouses; historic and cultural sites and organizations, including those related to the Passaquody tribe after which the region is named; festivals; gift shops; and more. Listings are conveniently grouped by geographical location, personal interest, and chronology. “I’ve tried to make this very user-friendly [for] whichever way you Continued on page 50

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21st Annual

Celebrating 21 years singing the blues on Rockland Harbor

Featuring these top performers: In Layman Terms, Jarekus Singleton, Teeny Tucker, Joanna Connor, Mr. Sipp, Victor Wainwright, CJ Chenier, Melvin Taylor, The Mannish Boys, Joe Louis Walker, Jimmy Thackery, The Golden State Lone, Star Review: Mark Hummel - Anson Funderburgh - Little Charlie Batty

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Harbor Park, Rockland, Maine

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Maine’s Theater at Monmouth T

by Christine Palmer

ake one of Shakespeare’s classics, stage it in a magical venue and cast it with a company of professionals, and you have the recipe for a delightful experience at Maine’s Theater at Monmouth. A bit off the beaten track, this popular playhouse is worth seeking out for a memorable afternoon or evening theatrical event.

“It’s closer than you think,” says

spearean Theater of Maine. All shows are held in Cumston Hall, which is listed on the National Register of Historic Buildings.

Often called one of the “crown jewels of Maine,” the hall is an attraction in and of itself. The building was designed by Harry Cochrane and features a mix of architectural styles, including Romanesque and Queen Anne. Beautifully crafted wood

Dawn McAndrews, the theater’s artistic director. “It’s 15 miles from Augusta and only 20 miles from Lewiston. Our audiences have included people from 36 states.”

Founded in 1970, the Theater specializes in performances of the Bard’s best. In 1975, the Maine State Legislature officially named it The Shake-

trims grace the interior, along with hand-stenciled ceilings, plaster carvings, a fresco mural and more than 100 stained glass windows. The opera-style auditorium seats 250, and the building was the first edifice in Monmouth to be serviced with electricity.

As for the program, the Theater

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at Monmouth typically offers at least three of Shakespeare’s favorites during a three-month summer season. Past rosters have included masterpieces such as Hamlet, Romeo & Juliet, A Midsummer Night’s Dream, The Taming of the Shrew and Macbeth. The theater’s mission, according to the playhouse’s website, is to “present innovative approaches to Shakespeare and other classic plays.”

In addition to works by Shakespeare, the theater has debuted 22 world premieres and presented performances of such classics as The Glass Menagerie, The Pirates of Penzance and The Fantasticks.

“We try to find a balance,” McAndrews says. “There are people who are stalwart Shakespeare fans, and newer audiences that have been asking us to do more non-verse plays.”

The 2014 season marks the theater’s 45th anniversary and coincides with the 450th anniversary of William Shakespeare’s birth. To commemorate both, McAndrews says the theater has planned a “British invasion” that includes performances of As You Like It, What the Butler Saw and The Sorcerer.

Photos courtesy of Theater at Monmouth

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I LIKE MIKE

Mike Michaud, the country’s first openly gay gubernatorial candidate makes his run for office this November.

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By Lyn Tesseyman

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Photos by Michele Stapleton

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fter serving for 22 years as a part-time state legislator and, for the last 12 years, as a member of Congress, most Mainers are at least familiar with the name of gubernatorial front-runner Mike Michaud. But not everyone has had the chance to get acquainted with him...yet.

Mike was born in Millinocket, Maine, raised in Medway, and resides now in East Millinocket. He grew up in a large Franco-American family with four brothers and one sister. His father worked in the Great Northern Paper Mill for forty-three years, his grandfather worked there for forty years before him. Everyone in the family, with the exception of his mother, worked in the mill at one point.

Mike went to work at the mill after graduating high school. It was good money and good benefits, and he stayed on for the next 29 years.

With little to do growing up in

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Medway, Mike spent his time outdoors fishing and boating along with helping out with the draft horses on his neighbor’s farm and toboggan sledding in the granite pit in the winter.

A hardworking American family man and politician who loves his gardens, Mike Michaud could not be happier he is running for Governor. I had the privilege of sitting down with him in the great city of Portland and asking some tough questions. abOUT-MAINE: You talk about Maine values like hard work, honesty, and integrity as part of who you are as a Mainer.

Who modeled those values for you, and how do you exemplify those values?

Mike Michaud: “Working outside and working long hours at the mill, we all had our own jobs to do, but we always helped one another. It was a great place filled with team effort. One of the

things I miss the most is the incredible people who work there. It felt good to be a part of it and help out wherever I could. Matter of fact, when I was elected to Congress, I was still an employee. My first year in office, I was still able to go back and pitch in at the mill.

It was great because I missed everyone and loved being around to help. In all of my jobs, I take with me the strength of team effort and helping others.” aM: What happened when you saw the pollution accumulating in the Penobscot River? Can you tell me what the deciding factor was that made you decide you had to do something about it, and what part did it play in leading you to run for the state legislature?

MM: “Directly across the road was the Penobscot River where I grew up in Medway. There was a little cove where you could see the sludge and foam. The very mill I was working at caused it. I

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also knew that the mill was very important to the region. Looking at the environment and jobs, they both can co-exist. Rather than complain about it, I wanted to clean it up. I decided to run for the Maine legislature. I did not think I would win as I had never been in politics before, but I was passionate about saving the river.

During the campaign, I did not make any promises other than to do the best job I could. I worked very hard and ultimately won the seat in the legislature and was able to get on the Energy and Natural Resources Committee. At that point in time, in the 80’s, we passed the first major river re-classification since Ed Muskie was Governor in 1954. The river is clean 22

now, and I feel really good about it.” aM: What keeps you in politics today?

MM: “When I first ran for the Maine Legislature, I only had expected to be there one or two terms, ultimately spending 22 years. At that time, I was only a part time legislator with my full time job being at the mill. What I decided to do after I was term limited was run for Congress.

The reason I decided to run for Congress back then was the fact that at the federal level they negotiated trade deals. If you look at the North Atlantic Free Trade Agreement (NAFTA), Maine has lost over 40% of our manufacturing base alone because of unfair trade. We have lost a lot of jobs

because of trade. This is what got me thinking of running for Congress.

What keeps me involved with politics is my commitment, energy, and drive to help people here in the state of Maine. In the past, It was unusual to have an old mill worker get elected, and I think it is still the same today. There are millionaires and attorneys with more leverage. The missing voice has been the blue-collar worker. What keeps me coming back and running for Governor is my love for the State of Maine and to bring dignity back to the Blaine House. My approach has always been how can we improve the economy in Maine, and how we can take advantage of what we have here in our great state?” aM: Tell me about these New Balance shoes you’ve been talking about and the Berry Amendment.

MM: “The Berry Amendment is a federal law that requires all soldiers to be clothed from head to toe with clothing made in America. Around the year 2000, the military decided to give soldiers an allowance to buy their own athletic footwear instead of having them issued. This is something I feel very passionate about. New Balance prides itself on being 100% American made. There are two companies in America that can make Barry compliant sneakers, and New Balance is one of them.

There are three factories for New Balance here in Maine: Skowhegan, Norridgewock, and Norway. If the government contracted with New Balance, it would cost them less than the original allotted allowance distributed to soldiers to purchase their own footwear. That would also mean hundreds of jobs for Mainers, and it keeps it in America! I have spoken to the President four times this year on the Berry Amendment and New Balance sneakers. I gave him a pair. The first lady has a pair. The Secretary of Defense has a pair. The United States Trade Representative has a pair. They were all made at the Norridgewock facility here in Maine. They were delivered with a listing of where all the materials come from, so they can see firsthand that they are compliant and consistent with the law.” abOUT MAINE 2014

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aM: You have released Maine Made, which you call a business and investment plan to capitalize on Maine’s competitive advantages.

What would you like voters to know about this plan overall?

MM: “My plan, Maine Made, takes advantage of what our strengths are and capitalizes on them, building upon what Maine is already known for. Look at our farming, fishing, natural resources, green energy, and alternative and renewable energy. We have a lot of opportunities here. Let us build upon that. “ aM: You are a democrat representing a red district. How has that influenced your voting in the House of Representatives, and your representation of Maine in Congress overall?

MM: “The second congressional district is thought to be a swing district, but it really hasn’t affected my voting because I think where most people are in this district is where I am. My philosophies and basic values are pretty much consistent with the people I have been representing over the years in Congress and hopefully will be able to represent in the Governor’s Mansion.” aM: What do you see as the factors contributing to the move away from bipartisanship in Maine, and how can we get back on track? Additionally, what do you feel effective bipartisanship will mean for our state?

MM: “I would say that the Governor is at fault for a lot of the negativity that has happened in Augusta. When you look at leadership, it starts from the top. There needs to be a Governor who chooses to respect and work with the legislature. This Governor has chosen not to do that. Look at the fact that the legislature, the House and the Senate, most recently worked in a bipartisan manner to deal with the expansion of healthcare to 70,000 Mainers. It was a bipartisan bill. It passed the legislature. After the Governor vetoed it, the republicans and democrats who moved it forward in the House and the Senate were unable to get the votes to override it. A good number of the bills the Gover nor vetoed were dealt with in a bipar23

tisan manner. He sets up the dynamic where it gives way to partisan bickering. My philosophy has always been that you still can feel strongly about your certain issues and values in life, but within those values, there are ways to agree with someone. There needs to be trust and open lines of communication.” aM: In terms of your voting record, critics have pointed to your votes in the Maine legislature against equal rights for the LGBT community. You have even said that your position on issues like this and abortion, for example, have evolved over the years.

In fact, you’ve now been endorsed by leading pro-choice and equality groups like NARAL, EqualityMaine and the Human Rights Campaign because of your leadership on LGBT issues and your strong support for a woman’s right to choose. Tell me more about that evolution, both in terms of what has changed in your own thinking and what your current position on these issues means for Maine now and in the future.

MM: “I was 24 when I first ran for the legislature. My focus was to the environment, jobs, and economy.

Had some of those votes come today; I would not have voted the way I did back then. I have evolved on those issues, as have Mainers. Maine has evolved tremendously when you look at marriage equality and abortion issues, and it’s a good thing.” aM: You are the first openly gay candidate for governor, and if you are elected, you will be the first openly gay governor in the country. What would that mean for you, the state of Maine, and for our country?

MM: “It will definitely be historic. It will continue Maine upon the path forward we are all traveling. It will not change how I will govern the State of Maine. I run to bring dignity back to the Blaine House, to bring 24

Maine back into the news in a positive light reflecting the Maine values we have here. My sexual orientation never played a role, whether I was working at the mill, legislature, or in Congress. We are hardworking people, working together to make quality products. These are the points that I am focused on in my campaign, and I hope voters will focus there as well.” aM: Maine experienced a significant victory in the fight for equality with the legalization of gay marriage in 2012. What do you think are the key issues that members of the LGBT community in Maine currently face, and what do you feel can be done to help address them?

MM: “I think even though we passed it, it is the enforcement of it and the ongoing continued education as well. There is still bullying in schools here in Maine. That is something that is against the law, but still it happens. The more we continue to educate and let people know it is not right to discriminate, the better off as a society we will be. We have to continue to help people understand how hurtful it can be. A soldier can put his life on the line for his country but was unable to marry the person he loved. We have come a long way.

We just need to keep moving forward in a positive direction.” aM: What is your vision for what Maine in terms of economy, opportunities for business, and

quality of life for its residents? What will Maine look like in five years, twenty years, and fifty years?

MM: “I am looking forward, not just in the short term, but for the long term as well. There is so much potential out there that we haven’t even begun to tap. The Maine Made plan is a ten-year-long plan. With what is happening at the Federal level and the European Union with the shipping lanes, there is no reason Maine cannot be the port those ships come to either from Europe or leaving from the United States. We have Portland.

We have Searsport. We have Eastport, being the deepest water port on the east coast. One of my goals is to have Maine be the destination kick off point for exports with Europe.

There are a lot of opportunities to make Maine grow. Keeping the work in this country is a huge way to boost our economy. Instead of out sourcing, we need to make everything we can in our own country. Another important part is education. Whether it is community college, university system, or higher education systems; there are untapped resources here that we haven’t taken full advantage of.” aM: What do you love about Maine? What is it about the state that, in your view, fulfills the motto “The Way Life Should Be” for those who live and spend time here.

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THE OGUNQU IT PLAYHOUSE’S

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ince joining the Ogunquit Playhouse as executive artistic director, Brad Kenney has helped resurrect the revered New England landmark. His efforts have brought new energy to Maine’s grande dame of summer theatre, imbuing it with a degree of professionalism and sophistication that evoke memories of the days when stars such as Bette Davis, Walter Matthau, Jayne Meadows and Rudy Vallee, among dozens of others, tread its boards.

Kenney’s success—he’s been at the Playhouse helm since 2005 and is preparing for his ninth season at the theatre— has earned him a place among a small group of town leaders who are changing the face of this gay-friendly community. When we sat down with Kenney for a conversation, 26

he credited cohorts such as Norm Paquin, owner-manager of Mainestreet, and Front Porch Piano Bar owner Wayne Wescott, as being equally committed to advancing Ogunquit’s reputation as a top drawer tourist destination. Newer restaurants offering “sophisticated, casual dining,” for example, Five-O Shore Road, Arrows and MC Perkins Cove, Kenney says, are also helping to put the town on a par with that other New England gay mecca, Provincetown.

“I did some time in Provincetown when I was 19 or 20,” Kenney says, “and if you look at the two towns, why are they similar? They’re both bohemian, turn-of-the-century art colonies. They are similar in their village atmosphere.”

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destinations naturally “drew more of the gay audience.”

Kenney believes, however, that Ogunquit supports a demographically big tent. “Maybe you’ll see gay people being affectionate on the street,” he says, “but families are also going by with strollers. It’s as if they’ve all found common ground in Ogunquit.” When pondering the inevitable comparisons to Provincetown, Kenney muses, “I think Ogunquit is a little more laid back.”

Laid back may be a good descriptor for his community, but not for Kenney. In addition to being an artistic director, he also is a producer, stage director, former director of Massachusetts tourism, singer, actor, businessman, and landscape artist. This last vocation is perhaps his real passion. He says he felt “the calling” to paint when he was in his 30s and was taking a photography course, but found he wanted to do something other than take pictures of natural beauty.

“I remember I started photography,” he recalls, “and then quickly realized that’s not what I wanted to do. Then out of the blue, I literally just picked up [a brush].” The only exposure he had to painting previously was as a child, when he would accompany his artist mother to museums, where she would paint and sketch.

After he began acting on his desire to paint, Kenney says he never looked back, and adds that he was fortunate to have people around who offered encouragement. One of his art teachers, he says, urged, “Don’t stop doing this. You have an innate ability to render.” Today, he enjoys capturing “big, dramatic seascapes,” but feels frustrated when he’s too busy to be “out on the Marginal Way with his sun hat on” working on a canvas. His artwork is represented locally, by the Beth Ellis Gallery in Ogunquit.

One can understand Kenney’s lack of time for painting; his day job— running the Playhouse that opened abOUT MAINE 2014

its doors in 1933 in a renovated garage—is all-consuming. Since the Connecticut native moved to Maine to lead the organization, ticket sales have doubled, and the Playhouse has grown from a single season summer stock theatre into one of the Northeast’s pre-eminent regional theatres.

The staff has grown from “three of us sitting in chairs,” Kenney says, to 12 year-round, full-time employees, and the annual budget from $2 million to $6 million.

The Playhouse’s performance schedule has grown too. “Because I have a tourism background, I knew that the strongest months of the year for tourism in New England were September and October,” he ex-

plained. “That’s when the occupancies are the highest, so we started to grow week by week by week. We went to a 16-week season and then to 17, 18, 19 and 20 weeks.” Now, he says, every year “September blows away July and August.”

Kenney laughs, “We try to keep it quiet, to keep it to ourselves, but it’s absolutely beautiful in Southern Maine in September. The beach is warmer, the water is warmer, and the crowds have ebbed. We seem to have consistent 70-75 degree temperatures.”

The types of shows that are Kenney’s forté and which patrons can ex-

pect to see more of at the Ogunquit Playhouse are “big, splashy, popular musicals.” Already scheduled for the 2014 season are Grease, Billy Eliot, Mary Poppins, The Witches of Eastwick and The Addams Family.

Kenney says however that variety is important, in order to reach and entertain the maximum number of people. “Some artistic directors are there to do their own work,” he explains, “to do a very avant-garde take on things. I like to see more of a mix, more of a balance. I can’t please everybody with every show, but throughout a season I think we pretty much try to [draw] just about any member of our community.” He adds, “Being very populous is what we do.”

The population swell in Ogunquit during the summer also impacts the lineup of Playhouse productions.

“We’re 70 percent transient, because the volume of humans in this town is so massive in the summer,” Kenney explains. “So what’s going to get to more of those people? Bigger, brighter musicals.” When he joined the organization, the Playhouse was not headed in that direction so the emphasis on more complex sets, costumes, theatrical elements and tools “stunned” some of the staff, the director says. “We had to change as a company, but it’s no surprise that when we did, sales started to skyrocket.”

The director-artist credits his colleagues as well as good material for the turnaround. “I can’t take a lot of credit,” he says. “These were popular titles done in a way that people hadn’t seen here, north of Boston. By doing those, we developed and we kept developing.”

Kenney’s instincts indicate more good things ahead for the Ogunquit Playhouse, just as they did for him personally, when he first interviewed for the director’s job. “I’m supposed to be here,” he remembers thinking.

“That was my epiphany as I walked the Marginal Way. I knew it right then.”

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by Christine Palmer

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he Top of the East is definitely not your father’s lounge. A gem of a gathering spot, it sits atop the recently renovated Westin Portland Harborview Hotel—formerly the Eastland Park Hotel—like the cherry atop a sumptuous sundae.

In a word, this reborn and expanded lounge is simply gorgeous.

Resplendently decorated in warm browns, gorgeous grays, and winter whites, the venue is “edgy,” “hip” and “sophisticated,” just the way Robert Crocker, the hotel’s food and beverage director, envisioned it prior to its metamorphosis.

“I wanted it to be a destination rooftop lounge,” he said, “something the State of Maine had never seen before.” When the hotel’s new owners, members of the Starwood Hotels & Resorts family of properties, gutted the entire 14-story building and invested $50 million in its renovation, it was Crocker who was tasked with designing the new night spot. “I was allowed to branch out and to create my own concept, to take something from the ground up,” he added.

Given that the Top of the East has been packed every night since it reopened late last year, Crocker clearly has more than realized his vision.

“The place is full Tuesday night, Wednesday night, Thursday night … people really love it,” said Director of Sales and Marketing Jeff Cappellieri.

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“iconic” reputation, and that helped draw the first crowds. “We didn’t have to do much besides open the doors,” he said, “but then word of mouth really took over.”

Even if you don’t drink, there is one compelling reason to pay a visit to Portland’s newest watering hole— the view. With huge windows along three walls, Top of the East offers panoramic glimpses of Portland you find nowhere else. On a clear day, you can see Mount Washington. On just about any other day you can keep an eye on Congress Square activities, WCSH across the street, Casco Bay, an assorted mix of rooftops (some more architecturally interesting than others), and the entire West End. “When the hotel first opened during Prohibition, this lounge was called the Sun Room,” Cappellieri explained and with good reason. “You can see some of the best sunsets from here,” he added.

Although one’s spirit can be filled at Top of the East by drinking in the view, one’s corporeal appetites will want to partake of the light food and beverage offered. The updated menu is as tasteful as the new décor.

“Our craft cocktails are popular,” said Crocker, “like the brown sugar martini.” Fruit purées used in drinks are made fresh daily by squeezing oranges, limes, and lemons. Craft beers on the menu are all locally brewed either in Portland or somewhere in Maine. “We don’t even sell Sam Adams,” Crocker said. “Selling local products helps support the sustain-

ability of businesses and keeps the money in Maine.”

Food served at Top of the East— prepared in a newly added, small but state-of-the-art kitchen—befits a city known nationally as a foodie destination: smoked swordfish bellies; a charcuterie board with pickle mustard and grilled toast; lettuce wraps with lobster, pinenuts and sunflower sprouts; mini lobster rolls; mini peekytoe crab cocktail shooters; panko-crusted goat cheese; an artisan cheese sampler; and a variety of paninis that includes smoked chicken with mozzarella and basil pesto as well as fig with brie and prosciutto.

Prices for all menu items are not low, but they are not out of line either, for this type of establishment.

Cocktails range from $11-$14 and beers from $6.50-$7.50. Edibles start at $8 and go to $17. Wine is sold by the glass ($7-$13) and the bottle ($24-$120).

While menu prices hint that Top of the East is not your “$2 bottle of Schlitz” bar, the strongest proof of this is the diversity of the clientele and the congeniality of the atmosphere, claims Crocker.

“There is such a nice vibe here,” he said. “We have all types [of customers], from the young and hip to folks who could be my grandparents.

We’ve been bringing people out of their homes to experience something they may not have experienced before.”

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In Your Own Words L

e w Alessio has been living in Maine for the past forty-two years. He fell in love with Maine and his 1791 sixty acre farmhouse where he resides in the town of Green. Listening to the story of how Lew and his husband met, one gets a sense of the truth in all relationships. Everyone has a story, the excitement of a first date, the joy of being with someone for whom you deeply care. What are important are the relationships between and among one another. The LGBT community has long been misrepresented by g r at u i t o u s sex, vul-

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garity, and deviance. The concept of In Your Own Words stemmed from wanting to buy a greeting card for his husband without gross sexual innuendo or bathroom humor.

Lew started collecting cards twenty-five years ago after coming across photographs of men proudly demonstrating affection towards each other.

Some of the earlier photos were tintypes. Because of the lengthy amount of time required to expose a photo in this era, the subjects would have to remain absolutely still for many minutes at a time. Lew found it inspiring that there were two men in a pose of affection unashamed to hold that pose for so long. The images were proof that affection of all genders throughout history has existed.

His twenty-five year treasure hunt to collect these images that express the heartfelt devotion of the pictured couples was Lew’s motivation to create his company In Your Own Words.

When his five years as Director of the Men’s HIV Prevention Program for the National Center for Disease came to a close, Lew made the decision to focus on what he was most passionate about. This is when he began to solidify his ideas. Through his company, Lew created jobs for many people afflicted with HIV working abOUT MAINE 2014

from their homes in a small cottage industry.

Upon opening the company, Lew took their product to the National Stationary Show in New York City.

Even pitted against big names like Hallmark and Crane, they were voted Best New Product 2012.

In Your Own Words knew they wanted to stay small and market themselves as the unique product they are by removing the middleman and leaving more income for their employees. Slowly, shop by shop, they have gradually stretched across the country, working out of a home office and dealing with other small shops and retailers. Each small company, along with In Your Own Words, has a story as to why they hold on and continue to fiercely compete with large conglomerates such as Amazon and Barnes and Noble.

The first to carry cards from In Your Own Words was Giovanni’s Room in Philadelphia, the oldest LGBT bookstore in the country.

Lew states, “What makes it special is when someone walks into a shop, say Enchantments in Boothbay Harbor, he will find our cards and will not find them anywhere else in Boothbay.”

In fact, you can only find them in three other shops in Maine: Spoiled Rotten in Ogunquit, Orphan Annie’s in Auburn, and Longfellow Books in Portland. These stores are willing to take a chance on the cards, and the company is grateful.

The cards are printed on 100% recycled paper, and the printers are run solely on wind power. Clearly, this is a very ecologically aware company, passionate about caring for our planet, and fervent in concerns for those affected by HIV. The card itself has three uses. First, it can be gifted as a card. The image is also removable and can be sent again as a post card or framed. So far, In Your Own Words has been well received. They continue to be available in more and more shops around the country. Over the years, they have collected hundreds of images from yard sales, antique shops, auctions, abOUT MAINE 2014

and attics.

The cards span from the 1850’s to 1950’s. There are 80 images available now, and there will be 100 by the New Year.

Over the years, as Lew has lived locally, his community has reflected the shift in American society’s values concerning the LGBT population and their role in the world. We see this new perception not only in Maine, but now nationally. In the 1970’s, Lew lost a teaching position because he was gay.

In the 1980’s, it was not uncommon to be called vulgar names from a car window when passing. In the 1990’s, although still very present, homophobic behavior and scrutiny of the LGBT community, had begun to show signs of improvement. Now in the twenty-first century, his community reflects the State of Maine’s position on these issues.

It has begun to experience positive change for human and civil rights.

“We understand more. We understand what matters. Being gay is just a part of humanity now. I am hopeful for the future,” said Lew. 31

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Money Management with a Sense of Humor By Liz Winfeld, AAMS, FA*

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hen people find out that I’m a financial advisor, they tend to say pithy things like, “Well, when I have some finances, I’ll call you.” You’d think I’d get tired of it—and you’d be right! Whether you refer to money management as finances, wealth management, investing, or something else, it’s not all that much about the amount of money you’re dealing with; it’s more about time and risk. We’ll delve into those concepts in later columns.

Today, our focus is this: It’s not what you earn, it’s what you keep.

For instance, if you are gay and married or plan to be and, until now, one of you has been on the other’s workplace health insurance plan, you’ve been paying extra taxes. Now that our marriages are fully recognized at both state and federal levels, that extra tax burden has ceased, but it only really came to an end when your company’s benefits team stopped freaking out about the extra work and changed your marital status in the system.

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over the years? Could be! Let’s use my spouse (whom I’ll call Allie, because that’s her name) and me as the example.

We got married in 2006. From 2005 until 2010, I was on Allie’s health insurance plan. From 2010 through 2013, she was on mine. The employee one of us paid her share of her own premium contribution with pre-tax dollars, but her share of the partner’s premium with after-tax dollars.

Then, at the end of the year, the fair market value of the partner’s insurance was added to the employee’s income and taxed again. This is called imputed income, and that’s how partner plans are taxed twice.

As of June 2013, we were no longer subject to these taxes—but what about what we had already paid since our marriage in 2006?

The law allows you to amend your returns for three previous years, so we looked back for refunds for 2010, 2011, 2012, and, of course, 2013. I got in touch with the benefits people and asked for the amount of the fair market value of the taxes we paid in those years. Then we gave those spreadsheets to our tax guy (and boy, was he thrilled to get them, because he’d never done this kind of amendment before!) and asked him to file amended returns.

In working with clients, I find that the average federal tax that people pay on imputed income is $1,600 per year, which means approximately $4,800 could be due back to you if you check this out and see if you qualify for a refund.

Of course, your exact numbers will be different, but this is a reasonable estimate. You can also amend state returns.

Revisiting tax returns may not be your idea of fun, but I’ll bet receiving an unexpected refund is. Good times!

Liz Winfeld is an independent financial advisor, licensed and everything, out of Cape Elizabeth, Maine. She is also principal of Funny Finance, an organization dedicated to making finances more accessible and, therefore, more useful to more people. Feel free to email her at liz.winfeld@hotmail.com or call 207.860.0176. *P.S. Those letters after my name stand for Accredited Asset Management Specialist and Financial Advisor. I’ve been called worse.

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here was no altar, no minister, priest or rabbi, no tuxedos, no rice, no flowers, not even any music. Yet when Steven Bridges and Michael Snell were married a little more than a year ago, their exchange of vows was a big, big event.

“We thought it was going to be a quiet, uneventful night,” agreed the couple, the first gay men to obtain a marriage license in the State of Maine.

When they went to Portland City Hall just before midnight on December 29, 2012, the day that same-sex marriage would go into effect, they thought they were only being cautious.

“When it [gay marriage] finally passed,” said Bridges, “we thought we were in no rush, but then we decided we should get married, just in case there was some loophole or something … It doesn’t sound very romantic, but we said, ‘Let’s just get this done so they can’t take it away from us.’”

Like thousands of other LGBT couples in Maine, Bridges, 44, and Snell, 54, had good reason to be worried. Gay marriage was legalized by the state’s legislature in 2008, but then overturned by voter referendum in 2009.

The duo had met online, been together for more than nine years, and “done all the legal stuff to be protected,” and had already enjoyed a wedding ceremony (“the best we could do at the time”) back in 2006. So to them, their spur-of-the-moment, nonchalant trip to the city clerk’s office was just to get “another piece of paper.”

“It didn’t seem like a big deal to us,” Snell said during an interview conducted at the couple’s hillside home in Portland. To the local and national press, however, it clearly was a “big deal,” and like it or not, it was an event that transformed the pair into acciden-

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tal celebrities. To this day, they are still recognized and congratulated by total strangers.

Their story, the news blast about Maine’s “first gay couple to tie the knot,” went viral even before the clerk officiating had uttered, “I now pronounce you married,” in her politically correct parlance.

“While we were sitting there [waiting in line] in that two-hour window between 10 p.m. and midnight,” Bridges said, “his girls [Snell’s daughters by a previous marriage] were down the hallway texting us this stuff that was already online. ‘You’re on Yahoo! You’re on USA Today! You’re in this paper!

You’re already famous!’ Then we started to sort of hyperventilate.”

They didn’t think it would hit the news, they said, except for maybe a picture in the local Portland Press Herald.

The unexpected notoriety felt “very surreal,” Snell recalled. “We’re both sort of very quiet,” Bridges added, “under the radar kind of people.”

They had never planned to be first in line. As they tell it, no one else that night was brave enough to accept that honor, so they said, “Sure, why not? We just happened to walk up at the right time,” Bridges shared.

The actual legal formality took only minutes and was greeted with cheers and smiles, not a naysayer in sight. But, since they had kept their plans a secret—only Snell’s children knew about the nuptials-to-be and were with them at Portland City Hall—there was one tiny bit of fallout they didn’t prepare for: telling Bridges’ mother.

“Momma was not happy that she found out through the news that her son got married and that she didn’t know,” Bridges said.

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“Mothers want to know things.” Snell laughed, “He looked at me and said, ‘She’s your mother-in-law now, you call her.’”

One year after, the couple’s story is still being told. “If you Google either one of our names and the word ‘marriage,’ there are pages and pages of results and articles about us,” Snell said. (We did the search and got millions of hits on sites including the New York Times, the Huffington Post, Newsweek’s The Daily Beast and CNN.) Apart from their fifteen minutes of fame, however, not much else is different for the happy couple. They have the same jobs; Bridges is a retail manager in a pet store and part-time photographer, and Snell is a massage therapist.

“Because we had so much in place already,” said Snell, “not a lot has changed.” He cited domestic partnership benefits as an example.

“We just had to change ‘domestic partners’ to ‘married’ as our status,” Snell explained. He went on to tell the story of how important it was for them to correct a healthcare professional who did not understand the legal difference between “significant other” and “husband,” a term they had used to refer to each other even before it became real.

Both Snell and Bridges continue to work on LGBT initiatives and to stay connected with EqualityMaine, the organization that was at the forefront of the fight for gay marriage. “They made our marriage legal,” said the couple, Continued on page 50

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uring their first vacation together, Jason Hertlein and Anthony Medinger visited Acadia National Park. While they were sitting atop one of the mountains and enjoying the beautiful vista, Medinger, an employee of Southwest

them in addition to performing the ceremony.” When Mills began receiving requests for more than one wedding per day, she knew it was time to create a business.

Currently, Mills has 12 officiants on staff—including ordained ministers, justices of the peace, and notary publics—to accommodate both client preferences and her growing business. Part of that growth has occurred since November 2012, when Maine’s same-sex marriage bill was voted into law. Of the 130 wedding ceremonies All In One Weddings performed in 2013, twenty-four were for gay couples.

In planning their wedding, Hertlein and Medinger first met with an officiant they didn’t feel comfortable with. Then they met Mills. “She could not have been more perfect,” Hertlein says. “She was like part of the family five minutes after she was there.”

Medinger agrees, adding, “We could feel right off the bat that she genuinely cared about us.”

to their officiant’s tube until the rope is cut and they float away to meet and celebrate with their friends and family members at a campsite.

By far, though, Mills finds that her clients want to be married by the ocean. Brandi Abrams and Ginger Bickford of Biddeford, Maine, were among those who chose the Portland Head Light in Cape Elizabeth for their wedding spot. They chose the specific elements they wanted for their wedding, and found that Mills made the planning and the day easy.

“All we really had to do was bring our outfits and our rings, and Connie did everything else,” Brandi remembers.

“She was exceptionally professional, and she made every detail of our wedding pretty magical. I recommend her to anyone who will listen.”

As she works to create beautiful memories for her clients, Mills sometimes makes it a family affair. She has four teenagers at home who can stand in as witnesses or impromptu Continued on page 50

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Airlines, jokingly quipped, “Hey, you marry me, we’ll fly for free.”

The proposal stuck. The couple, who were living in Orlando, Florida, at the time, returned to Maine to be married in October 2013. Their officiant of choice: Connie Mills of All In One Weddings.

Mills founded the company, based in Brunswick, in 2004 after an evolution of sorts. She started performing weddings in 200X when she was working as a paralegal in a law firm.

Some of the firm’s clients asked her to officiate at their weddings, which she was able to do as a notary public for the state of Maine. Over time, her role grew to include planning as well. “I realized there were other things couples needed, especially if they were from out of state,” she says.

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Hertlein and Medinger wrote their own vows and opted for a small, nontraditional wedding with just a few family members and a friend in attendance. In addition to ceremony-only weddings like theirs, Mills offers budget-friendly everything-you-need packages that range from simple to luxurious—all with monthly payment plans available.

Utilizing the diverse nature of Maine as a backdrop, she can accommodate a wide range of visions that clients have for their big days.

For example, this year All In One Weddings has two unique ceremonies on the books. One couple will ride into a field atop horses to meet their officiant, also on horseback, while their guests look on from a nearby barn. Another couple will say their vows while floating down the Saco River on inner tubes, tethered Photo by Sue Powers, All in One Weddings Staff Photographer

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t’s easy to miss the Janet M. Wilson Memorial Chapel during a drive by, tucked in as it is on a small lot amid the homes that dot Shore Road in East Boothbay Harbor, Maine, or it could be the stunning view of the ocean and offshore islands directly across the street that easily distracts drivers and their passengers.

But for those who know it is there, or happen upon it while walking, biking, or enjoying a tour bus stop, the chapel offers a quiet place to stop in and reflect—or sing. “I live fairly close to the chapel, so I’ve heard people singing from inside,” says Sue Taylor, a chapel volunteer who coordinates the event schedule. “I know people come in and meditate and pray throughout the day.” The chapel

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is left open for that purpose during summer days and offers nondenominational worship services at 9:30 a.m. on Sunday mornings from late June through August.

Services are led by members of the clergy who visit the Boothbay Harbor area during its peak season and bring their own take on faith and preferences for the order of worship.

One such minister, the Rev. Lewis G. Wilson, was a Unitarian and the man who raised the funds for the church to be built in honor of his late wife.

Rev. Wilson and residents of Ocean Point were on hand to help the builders select stones and construct the chapel, which was dedicated in 1917.

Today, the Wilson Memorial Chapel remains a place that inspires

For nearly a century, a small stone church built by hand along the Maine shoreline has stood as a testament to the love of a man for his wife.

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connection. “People whose families have been married here come back to visit,” says Taylor. “So we try to be open and welcoming.”

The chapel is available for events such as memorial services, christenings, renewal of vows, and weddings, with fees ranging from $350 to $550.

It’s a small, no-frills venue: The building holds approximately 110 people and does not provide event facilities or changing rooms for brides and grooms, but what it may lack in space or amenities, it certainly makes up for in charm and ambience, and the view.

For more information about booking a wedding or another event at the Wilson Memorial Chapel, contact Sue Taylor at 207.633.5048. abOUT MAINE 2014

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Whether you and your partner already know how you want your dream wedding to look or you’re open to the possibilities that will unfold during the planning process, making sure all the bases are covered can feel like a challenge. abOUT-MAINE asked wedding planner and officiant Connie Mills (see article on page 37) what you need to know to help minimize surprises—before and on your big day. Here are some of her suggestions.

Things to Know About Planning Your Maine Wedding

Look around for the right officiant. Maine marriages can be performed by ordained ministers, notaries, lawyers, and judges, so you have a range of options. In addition to finding someone who meets your criteria and with whom you feel comfortable, be sure to ask if the officiant requires premarital counseling. Also, find out if there’s a backup plan. For example, if the officiant has an emergency on the day of your wedding, does he or she have a qualified person who can perform the ceremony for you instead?

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Plan ahead. If you envision yourself starting your married life at one of Maine’s popular seaside wedding venues on a Saturday during the summer months, you’re not alone. Reservations may need to be made a year or more in advance for some locations. There are plenty of beautiful Maine ocean views to be had though, so some flexibility in terms of location and day of the week could make for shorter planning times.

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Know the rules. For ceremonies at outside venues like parks, beaches, or mountains, reservations may not be required—but popping open a celebratory bottle of champagne, setting up chairs, or erecting an archway may not be allowed. Ask a wedding planner for advice or check the location’s website for its rules.

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Get away to the islands. Planning a wedding on one of the islands that dot the Maine coastline takes some additional coordination. Check ferry schedules to ensure that the boats don’t stop operating before your celebration ends. You and your guests aren’t the only ones who need transport to the island—vendors and all their equipment do, too. You may need to arrange overnight accommodations for guests and vendors.

Check to see if you need an appointment. In Cape Elizabeth, Maine—where the famed Portland Head Light is located—the town clerk’s office asks that anyone applying for a marriage license make an appointment to do so. The time it takes to get an appointment can vary. However, in nearby Portland, no appointment is necessary to obtain a marriage license at city hall while the clerk’s office is open. Know before you go.

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Bring your paperwork. This is especially important if you are, as Mainers say, “from away”—because you won’t be able to run home to get it. If either of you has been married previously, one of the items you’ll need to present when you apply in person for your marriage license is a certified copy of your divorce decree or your former spouse’s death certificate. (Certified copies have a raised seal; photocopies are not accepted.)

For more information, visit www.maine. gov or the website of the city or town where you plan to apply for a license.

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Have two witnesses—and an alternate plan. You will need two people to serve as witnesses of your wedding ceremony. If you’re from out of state, you will likely be able to enlist a couple of friendly Mainers to help, and, though it is not required, a backup plan is advisable. If Maine’s changeable weather makes your careful wedding-day planning go awry, you’ll want to be prepared with more than an umbrella in case it rains.

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On January 25, 2014, Atlanta couple Ronnie and Marcelo married on a snowy day at City Hall in Portland. They came to Maine after another out-of-state couple told them how great their Maine wedding was in 2012.

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Invitations | Love Rocks Me | South Portland, Maine I’m wild about all things from artist Ellen Thayer! Her photographed designs of naturally formed “Love Rocks” are portraits simply inspired by Maine’s breathtaking coastal beauty. Ellen’s custom invitations and cards are clever missives that are beautifully personal.

Let your imagination go “wild” by designing your own wedding related announcements! Everything is 100% made in Maine.

Contact Ellen by calling (207)450-5951, or by email at ellen@loverocksme.com

Florists | Carolyn Snell Designs at Snell Family Farm | Buxton, Maine Carolyn Snell of the Snell Family Farm is an extremely talented floral designer who incorporates the bounties of her family farm into the most beautiful and original floral sculptures. Her use of texture, color and shape makes her arrangements architectural, never fussy, and incorporates a slight touch of whimsey that beautifully captures a refined essence of Maine.

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS AROOSTOOK

August 21-24 Presque Isle Crown of Maine Balloon Fest, Northern Maine Fairgrounds. 207-551-7425

BANGOR

June 21-22 Bar Harbor 64th Annual Art in the Park. Over 35 artists. Village Green. 207-288-5103 barharborinfo.com.

June 29–July 27 Bar Harbor 48th Bar Harbor Music Festival. barharbormusicfestival.org August 8-10 Bar Harbor Annual Bar Harbor Fine Arts Festival will be held in downtown Bar Harbor on the grounds of the magnificent Bar Harbor Inn. 207-244-9107 August 22-24 Bangor American Folk Festival on the Bangor Waterfront. Music, dancing and lots of family fun. 207-992-2630 September 5 Bar Harbor 4th Annual Downtown Fashion Night Out. “Fashion Meets Art” 6pm – 9pm. fashionnightoutbarharbor.com September 12 Bangor Community Celebration. FMI visit equalitymaine.org.

GREATER PORTLAND

April 29 Portland Monthly Downeast Pride Alliance (DEPA) Business After Hours. 5:30pm-7:30pm, at the Top of the East Lounge at the Westin Harborview Hotel in Portland. It’s casual “cocktails & conversation” with a cash bar, light food & media table provided for sharing business cards. FREE. Future dates/locations for 2014 TBD.depabusiness.com May 8 Portland Seasonal Downeast Pride Alliance (DEPA) Wedding Vendor Business After Hours. 5:30pm-7:30pm, at the Cumberland Club in Portland. FREE. Cash bar, 48

light food & media table provided for sharing business cards. Future dates/locations for 2014 TBD. May 31 Portland Tea at Sea. Dance the night away on the Casablanca Portland, ME. Once aboard you can enjoy a wide variety of Hors D’Oeuvres or grab a drink and enjoy music by the hottest DJ’s around. comeouttravel.com June 8 Portland 41st Annual Old Port Festival, Maine’s largest one day festival, featuring multiple stages of music, Maine-made arts and crafts, great food, shopping, and fun!

June 14 Portland (to be confirmed) Southern Maine Pride Parade and Festival. The festival in Deering Oakes is a family friendly event that includes live music, dance, entertainment, comedians, arts and crafts vendors, food vendors and more. southernmainepride. org June 19 Portland Spirit of Pride Summer Party. Held at the Ocean Gateway Terminal in Portland.

More info. to come. equalitymaine.org June 29 Cape Elizabeth Share Our Strength’s Taste of the Nation.

Sample food creations from some of the best chefs in Maine. Proceeds support efforts to eliminate childhood hunger.

Fort Williams Park strength.org July 27 Portland Festival of Nations. Deering Oakes Park, 11am – 7pm. A day of music, dance and other performing arts, representing cultural traditions from across America and the World. Family oriented.

September 6 Portland Tea at Sea. Dance the night away on the Casablanca Portland, ME. Once aboard you can enjoy a wide variety of Hors D’Oeuvres or grab a drink and enjoy music by the hottest DJ’s around.

September 28-29 Freeport 16th Annual Fall in the Village Art & Music Festival. Discovery Park on the L.L. Bean campus.

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May 1-4 West Gardiner Gay Men Together. (GMT) is a group of men who meet twice a year, in spring and fall. We gather as gay and/or questioning men in a non-threatening environment where we each are free to be and celebrate ourselves. We hold about twenty workshops and on Saturday evening we enjoy a talent show followed by a dance. gaymentogether.net July 11-20 Waterville The Maine International Film Festival is a 10 day celebration of film, featuring the very best of American independent, international and Maine made movies.

August 6 Waterville Taste of Greater Waterville. Street-side dining will feature various Waterville area restaurants’ delicious cuisines.

Children’s activities, food vendors and live music. A beer garden (21+) will be held from 5:00 PM - 11:00 PM with live entertainment.

September 19-21 Unity Common Ground Country Fair, Celebrating rural life with organic food and food products, gardening, livestock, etc.

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May 30-June 1 Dover-Foxcroft Piscataquis Heritage Hot Air Balloon Festival. Held at Piscataquis Fair Grounds/ Chase Memorial Airport.

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June 14 Brunswick Taste of Brunswick features many of the finest local restaurants on the Brunswick Town Mall. Fabulous food, drink and music. abOUT MAINE 2014

June 24-25 Boothbay 52nd Windjammer Days Festival.

207-633-2353 boothbayharbor.com July 12-13 Rockland 21st Annual North Atlantic Blues Festival.

11am – 7pm Public Landing. Touring artists from the US and abroad will perform on the main stage. Saturday evening Main Street is closed off for the famous Pub Crawl. 207-691-2248 northatlanticbluesfestival.com July 30-August 3 Rockland Maine Lobster Festival, Tens of thousands of pounds of steamed Maine Lobster, waterfront activities, arts and crafts, live entertainment and more! 207-5960376 mainelobsterfestival.com August 5th, 8th, 12th & 15th Damariscotta Salt Bay Chamberfest Concert. Darrows Barn at Round Top. saltbaychamberfest. org. 207-522-3749 August 8-10 Union The Maine Antique Show is Maine’s largest antique festival. Over 350 dealers present everything from early-period formal to 1950’s furniture. 207-563-1013 August 16 Brunswick Brunswick Outdoor Arts Festival featuring local and regional artists. Children’s activities, local theater group performances & a variety of music. brunswickdowntown.com September 13-14 Prospect The Healing Co-op 2nd Annual Holistic & Wellness Fair. Reiki, Massage Therapy, Chakra Clearing, Guided Meditation, Intuition and Vibrational Healing and more. 207-478-8725 healingco-op.com September 25-28 Camden Camden International Film Festival. One of the top 25 documentary film festivals in the U.S. 207-593-6593 camdenfilmfest.org

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May 3 Ogunquit Southern Maine AIDS Walk 5k Run. Ogunquit Beach 9:30am FMI: Contact peabodycenter.org May 3 Ogunquit Rock the Walk Benefit Show. 6-9pm. mainestreetogunquit.com May 24-26 Ogunquit Names Project AIDS Memorial Quilt – on abOUT MAINE 2014

display each day at the Dunaway Center, School Street. 207-646-1195 June 3-8 Kennebunkport Kennebunkport Festival. Great food, fine wines and inspired art. Kennebunkportfestival.com June 20-22 Ogunquit “Ogunquit Proud” with “The Big GAY Tea Dance” on June 22. mainestreetogunquit.com

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July 5-6 Wells Summer Solstice Craft Show. 10:00am4:00pm. Free Parking & Admission. 207646-5172 wellschamber.org August 21 Ogunquit 39th Annual Sidewalk Art Show and Sale. More than 70 artists showcase and sell their work on the sidewalks ad parking lots of downtown Ogunquit. Rain Date 8/22 August 31 Ogunquit 35th Annual Mr. Gay Ogunquit/Speedo Pageant.

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June13-15 Naples Maine Blues Festival, Kick off the summer season in the Lakes region with blues musicians and great Maine food!

June 28 Kingfield Kingfield POPS Festival of the Arts.

July 5 Bethel 25th Annual Bethel Art Fair. Enjoy the work of local artists and artisans, music and more. On the Bethel Common. 207824-3575 mahoosucarts.org August 7 Rangeley Rangeley Friends of the Arts presents Art in August. Paintings-originals, and prints, photography, jewelry, fiber art, woodworking, pottery, glass. Lakeside Park.

August 15-17 Lewiston 22nd Annual Great Falls Balloon Festival. greatfallsballoonfestival.org September 27 Naples The 11th Annual Brew Fest. 11AM to 4PM. Rain or shine. Point Sebago in Naples. 25-30 brewers. For tickets visit mainelakesbrewfest.com.

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ARTSIPELAGO - from page 17 want to do it,” says the Tides Institute’s Lauren Koss, who compiles the guide and oversees other special projects. One of those projects is CulturePass, which provides up-to-date information about local events.

Koss also ensures that both Artsipelago (www.artsipelago.net) and CulturePass (www.culturepass.net) are mobile device-friendly. The inside cover of the Artsipelago guide even contains a QR code for users to quickly and easily switch to web browsing. Hard copies of the guide can be found at local tourism offices in Maine, picked up at participating businesses, or requested from the Tides Institute.

If you go: Two modes of transportation are key to enjoying all that Artsipelago has to offer: ferry and car. Although some ferries operate year-round, others start running in mid- or late June and stop around Labor Day. Bikes and kayaks are recommended for exploring the nooks, crannies, and hidden gems of the area.

MIKE MICHAUD - from page 24 MM: “I just love Maine. When you look at Maine’s diversity, it is a state where we are very friendly. Depending on where you are in Maine, you get a different feel for the state. The people here are very down to earth.

They care about one another and have positive attitudes. It is so beautiful whether you are inland or on the coast. Maine is such a diverse state; there is so much going on here that a lot of people do not know about. We have to get the word out. There is so much good here. I wanted to run for Governor to bring Maine back into a positive light.” aM: If you had to pick five of your favorite places in Maine that you’d consider best-kept secrets, what would they be?

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on the Penobscot River in Medway.

When I have time off, which is rare, I love going up there with my chain saw and working on my wood lot.

Some of my colleagues in Congress ask me why I would want to do that as it seems too much like work, but I enjoy it. It is where I hope to build my log cabin someday. You get out there, the river is beautiful, and I get to work the land with my hands. It is food for the soul.”

TOP OF THE EAST - from page 29 agreed, is a mixed blessing. When asked about any challenges to managing the lounge, they pointed to capacity as an issue. “We don’t want it to get so crowded that it’s not a comfortable atmosphere,” Crocker said. To that end, patrons must wait in the lobby of the hotel and are only allowed up via the elevator if seats are available. Sometimes that means there may be “25 to 30 people” waiting up to an hour just to get in.

Capacity at Top of the East is 110, but additional customers are sometimes allowed entry if they are willing to stand until a seat opens up. Private parties are not allowed, and reservations are not taken. “We want it to be available to everybody, all the time,” said Cappellieri. Opening earlier in the afternoon during the summer is under consideration, “to catch the after beach crowd,” (hours are now 5 p.m. to 1 a.m.) Crocker said.

Cappellieri and Crocker both say they are especially pleased with the diversity of customers their newly reborn lounge is attracting. “We have everybody up there,” Crocker said, adding that LGBT customers are just as comfortable as their straight counterparts. “Some nights I look around at about 9:30, and I get a warm feeling and I say, ‘This [the ambiance] is really nice.’”

ONE YEAR AFTER - from page 36 “thanks to their years of hard work and dedication.” Most recently, they have become involved in helping to organize Pride Portland, an updated

version of the annual June celebration of all things LGBT. They also are planning a celebration to mark their 10th anniversary.

Talking about their history-making nuptials, Bridges and Snell come across as a couple of very together adults, laid back, unassuming and just happy to have put the long struggle for recognition of their union behind them. Slowly, the realization that they are really, truly married has begun to take hold.

“It took about a month or so for [the reality] to set in,” Bridges said of the days immediately following their visit to Portland City Hall, “that this really happened, that they’re not talking about taking it away. It was like we could finally exhale.”

Not publicity seekers by nature, even more than a year after hitting the headlines, however, they remain surprised whenever they are recognized. “We keep waiting for things to be normal,” Bridges laughed.

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It’s also not unusual for Mills to plan a family vacation around a wedding she’s officiating. These times away are special for Mills because she and her kids get to spend time with her husband, who works as a government contractor and lives in Maryland for most of the year.

Family and relationships are key themes to Mills’s client approach. “I see myself as a friend—someone they can trust in the wedding business who will offer good advice and with whom they can continue to have a relationship, even after the fact,” she notes.

Judging by the number of compliments, emails, Facebook messages, and photos Mills receives from the couples she’s married, it seems she is making that vision a happily-ever-after reality.

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