as the Young Collectors made their way to Avondale to celebrate the upcoming fundraising efforts that support Wolfson Children’s Hospital at the holidays. Young Collectors Party Chairs Austin O'Steen, Sarah Irving, Mary Shaffer Sealey and Curry Cozzi welcomed guests to the party at TAE on Talbot, Nov. 11.
Angels Among Us Raising funds for grieving families
Melanie Montford with Beverley Brooke, Cameron Walker, Stephanie Baker, Carla Newton and Linda Hale
Fields Auto Group employee Randy Kersch high fives Honorary Community Advocate Award recipient Aaron Mong.
City Councilmembers Joe Carlucci, Tyrona Clark-Murray, Matt Carlucci and Michael Boylan watch as Mayor Donna Deegan signs the Zoning Overlay Protection Bill.
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Community Meetings for Ortega, Riverside
By Michele Leivas
Ortega and Riverside residents should mark their calendars for a pair of upcoming community meetings covering issues pertinent to their respective communities.
Both meetings will be held on Thursday, Dec. 5.
Ortega Carriage House Town Hall:
The postponed town hall regarding the highlycontested Ortega Carriage House Planned Unit Development (PUD) has been rescheduled for Thursday, Dec. 5 at 5:30 p.m. at St. Mark’s Episcopal Church (4129 Oxford Avenue). Originally scheduled in September, property owner Gayle Bulls Dixon said the meeting was rescheduled to allow for further conversations on a new proposal for development.
The PUD rezoning application for the project was submitted to the City earlier this summer. The Resident News previously reported on the original plans to replace the existing structure at 4230 and 4218 Ortega Boulevard with a gated, twostory 19,000 square-foot shell building with 18 customizable units that individual owners could build
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out to their specifications.
The project has received significant community pushback since its introduction.
Dixon did not respond to requests for comment regarding any new proposals for the property.
Emerald Trail Riverside Community Meeting:
Groundwork Jacksonville is hosting a community meeting to share details regarding the Emerald Trail’s Riverside Link on Thursday, Dec. 5 from 6 to 8 p.m. at the Jacksonville Association of Firefighters Building (618 Stockton Street). Attendees will be able to review preliminary renderings of the Riverside Link, which will connect Riverside and North Riverside, and learn about the planned route through the community. Representatives from HDR and SCAPE Landscape Architecture will also be in attendance and guests will be able to share feedback on these early designs.
The Riverside Link will be the third trail segment to be constructed.
Last month, in a piece titled: WCJ assumes responsibility from city for conducting SAFE exams, Resident News overlooked a key detail shared via a press release about the Women’s Center of Jacksonville’s programming. The Center was sharing news of its 10-year track record of success, having taken over the responsibilities of rape crisis and recovery from the City of Jacksonville a decade prior.
On October 1, 2014, the WCJ assumed the responsibility from the City of Jacksonville for conducting sexual assault forensic exams across Duval, Nassau, and Baker Counties.
Resident News regrets the error and oversight. If readers are interested in donating to the program or learning more about the program, they can visit www.thewcj.org
Legislation Enhances Overlay Protections
Zoning Overlays Gain Added Protection Under New Legislation
By Michele Leivas
Last month, Mayor Donna Deegan signed into law new legislation that provides added protection for zoning overlays and the framework by which new overlays can be created.
With the Zoning Overlay Protection Bill now passed, a majority-plus-one vote of the full council (11 votes) will be required to pass a Planned Unit Development (PUD) rezoning application that would supersede a zoning overlay or create a new overlay.
Deegan held a signing ceremony on Monday, Nov. 18 for Bill 2024-0373, joined by City Councilmembers Matt
A majority-plus-one vote
The bill passed with a 10-9 vote at the Nov. 12 city council meeting with council members Kevin Carrico, Raul Arias, Rory Diamond, Terrance Freeman, Nick Howland, Rahman Johnson, Will Lahnen, Chris Miller and Ron Salem opposing.
The passage did not come without amendments to the bill, a pair of public meetings and heavy debate, however, as it progressed through committee. Bill sponsor Matt Carlucci originally proposed a two-thirds supermajority vote to break an overlay, but that was met with heavy opposition. Among the concerns expressed by other council members was that the bill would restrict council’s legislative
We have overlays for a reason; it should be harder to overturn an overlay. My administration and the city council have a shared belief that smart growth and development are really good for our city.
– Mayor Donna Deegan
Carlucci, Joe Carlucci, Michael Boylan and Tyrona Clark-Murray.
“We have overlays for a reason; it should be harder to overturn an overlay,” Deegan said. “My administration, the city council have a shared belief that smart growth and development are really good for our city.”
powers and show preferential treatment for neighborhoods in which overlays exist.
As a compromise to two-thirds vote opposition, Joe Carlucci introduced the full council majority-plus-one amendment, which is not without precedent for the city.
“At first I wasn’t sure that would be the route to go because we’d be kind
of inventing a new majority type of requirement on legislation, but there’s two others, at least,” said Matt Carlucci.
Strong community input
The bill also saw strong community feedback, both in support and opposition. Austin Nicklas, director of government affairs and YPG liaison with the Northeast Florida Builders Association (NEFBA), urged committee members to vote down the bill at the Oct. 15 Land, Use and Zoning (LUZ) committee meeting.
“We believe adding another impediment like this could potentially hurt investment and discourage projects in Jacksonville,” Nicklas said at the LUZ meeting. “The current system for project approval is already complex and difficult without adding more requirements.”
The bill also saw strong support from neighborhood organizations like the San Marco Preservation Society (SMPS), with emeritus director Linzee Ott speaking in support at that same meeting, and Riverside Avondale Preservation (RAP).
In a resolution supporting the bill, the RAP Board of Directors stated, in part, “Strengthening our historic overlay is critical to maintaining the character of our unique neighborhood…Our overlays serve as a collaborative tool to retain and enrich our neighborhood character, fortify real estate value, attract small business and encourage smart development.”
“I think the [majority-plus-one vote] is a good compromise that strengthens our historic overlay,” said Shannon
Overlays in Jacksonville
There are currently 11 overlays throughout Duval County, each with their own purposes and approaches. Specific to our Resident News readership are the Downtown, San Marco and Riverside/ Avondale zoning overlays. The Downtown Overlay’s purpose is to “promote and encourage the revitalization and growth of downtown as a desirable, high density, mixed-use area.” The purposes of the San Marco and Riverside/Avondale overlays focus on preserving the historical integrity, economic vitality, character and aesthetic appeal of the two communities.
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Mayor Donna Deegan speaks at the Nov. 18 signing ceremony for the Zoning Overlay Protection Bill.
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Historic Restoration Grant Approval Process Streamlined
New legislation cuts through red tape
By Michele Leivas
The process by which owners of historic, nonresidential properties can apply for city grant funds to help preserve and restore qualified buildings has been streamlined following the passage of Bill 2024-0847. Group 4 At-Large City Councilmember Matt Carlucci introduced the bill, which, in part, simplifies the application process for the Restore Endangered Historic Adaptable Buildings (REHAB) special revenue fund. Under this grant
program, approved applicants are eligible for reimbursement of a maximum 50% — up to $100,000 — once the project is complete and all program requirements are met.
The bill passed as an emergency at the Nov. 12 city council meeting with a unanimous vote.
With the passage of this bill, the REHAB grant program now has several revised guidelines, from funding limitations and eligible expenditures to the application approval process.
Among the changes is a clarification that grants are subject to repayment should the owner default, sell or transfer
the property. Another is the removal of the requirement of evidence that the property owner’s income taxes are current. Applicants are required to provide evidence that property and business taxes are current.
Addressing questions surrounding the removal of the income tax requirement at the Nov. 4 Neighborhoods, Community Services, Public Health and Safety Committee meeting, Steve Kelley, director of downtown real estate and development with the Downtown Investment Authority, explained removing that requirement was another effort to streamline the application process.
“As it relates to the removal of personal financial statements and tax returns and such, what we have found is that the requiring those financial documents really serves as an impediment to applications because applicants don’t want their information subject to public record requests,” said Kelley.
Phillip Peterson with the council auditor’s office added that there are few programs that require income tax returns and removing that caveat did not raise “major concerns.”
Based on conversations from that NCSPHS meeting, the revised application process now has an added provision that applicants provide “a notarized affidavit attesting that they are current on all taxes.”
The REHAB special revenue fund was approved in 2023. This grant program provides funding for “the repair, rehabilitation and restoration of non-residential income-producing historic buildings.”
Since the fund’s creation, Carlucci said it’s seen “eight or nine applicants.”
Among these applicants is Jacksonville Museum Space LLC, the new property owner of the First Church of Christ, Scientist building. Most recently, that building housed the Jacksonville branch of the Karpeles Manuscript Library Museum until it closed last January. The building, built in 1921, requires extensive repairs and renovations before it’s ready for its next chapter as a community space and event venue. Josh Pardue, manager of the llc, said while the funding provided through REHAB grant program will help significantly, that’s not the only benefit.
“It certainly helps the economic gap in this situation,” Pardue said. “..But equally as important is that it feels good when you work really hard on these old buildings and the neighborhood and the city’s behind you.”
The First Church of Christ, Scientist building, built in 1921, is shown here in 1927.
Photo courtesy of Jacksonville History Center.
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JCA Breaks Ground on Center Expansion
By Michele Leivas
The Jewish Community Alliance (JCA) held a groundbreaking ceremony on Nov. 3 to mark the beginning of construction for the renovations and expansion of its community center.
Initial construction work will begin in the northeast corner of the building, currently housing youth services
and after-school programming. Partial demolition of that area will be done to build a construction pathway to the courtyard, which will house the new building. The new building will feature an expanded preschool and serve as the new home for administrative offices.
Once completed, the center will offer more than 15,000 square feet across a new two-story building with new and updated spaces and features for the community to enjoy.
The Hub Starts Development in Brooklyn
By Michele Leivas
As Brooklyn continues to see momentum in its residential and commercial development, it can add another name to its list of “coming soon” projects under construction.
The HUB broke ground on the highly-anticipated mixed-use development on Oct. 31. It will sit on a nearly quarter-acre lot at 400 Riverside Avenue adjacent to popular Venezuelan restaurant Arepa Please and across the street from the FIS headquarters.
Nearly four years in the making, The HUB has been
long in coming to the Brooklyn community, however, architect Joe Cronk of Cronk Duch Architecture/CD+Urban Studio said despite the lengthy wait on bringing this project to life, the delays may have been worth it with the new developments that have come to the historic community since conversations surrounding The HUB first began, from the FIS headquarters building to One Riverside to the Home2 Suites by Hilton Jacksonville Downtown.
“We’re less the tip of the spear now and we’ll have a little bit more support around us, which is good,” Cronk said, adding that some “course corrections” were made to ensure The HUB aligned with the growth the Brooklyn
JCA CEO Adam Chaskin said JCA does not intend to close and services will be relocated to other areas during construction.
Work already began earlier this summer with the installation of new pickleball courts in what Chaskin called “stage zero” of the center’s expansion.
“That was something we wanted to get done ahead of the major project,” Chaskin said. “Being outside, it doesn’t really affect the building at all, so we were able to do that project over the summer and get those courts up and running, which have been up for approximately a month now and I know people are enjoying them.”
This work is funded through JCA’s “Building Our Future Together” capital campaign, which has raised more than $14.7 million to date with another $4 million still needed in fundraising efforts. While discussions and planning for the expansion goes back more than four years, fundraising began just two years ago.
“The support we’ve got is extremely flattering and humbling all at the same time that the 36-year history we have here in Jacksonville and the respect that our organization has from not just the Jewish community but the greater community…because people recognize the tremendous services we have and will continue to provide for everyone in our community,” Chaskin said.
Stellar is the contractor for this project with Thomas Duke Architect as the architecture firm.
community was seeing.
Even with those “course corrections,” however, Cronk said The HUB will remain true to its original goal of becoming a “neighborhood gathering place.”
With its two restaurants, artisan bakery and coffeehouse, The HUB plans to provide plenty of opportunity to become just that. Southern Grounds, Blueberry Bakery, Sky Bar and new Aegean-inspired Alder and Oak – all concepts by Restaurant and Hospitality Investment Group, LLC (RHIG) – will call The HUB home. It will also house the headquarters for CD+Urban Studio, a Cronk Duch Architecture studio focusing on urban projects.
Cronk said he anticipates construction on The HUB to end by the end of next year.
The JCA’s Building Our Future campaign co-chairs break ground. (L-R) Nancy and Mark Green, Alison and Brent Trager, Adam Frisch, David Miller, Michael Miller and Daniel Miller, Linda Stein.
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New Jewel in Phoenix Arts & Innovation District Emerald Station Officially Opens
City leaders joined with representatives from the Phoenix Arts & Innovation District (PHX JAX) to hold a ribboncutting ceremony Oct. 30 for Emerald Station.
Located at 2320 N. Liberty St. in the city’s North Springfield neighborhood, the 17,000 square-foot Emerald Station is an adaptive reuse project. The renovated warehouse now features 7,000 square feet of creative offices, conference rooms, a community lounge, event space, furniture rental options and an in-house catering kitchen. The property also features a 10,000-square-foot event venue managed by the Twinkle Collective. The City of Jacksonville’s Small and Emerging Business (JSEB) incubator is a tenant and will provide support to local entrepreneurs.
“The opening of the Emerald Station is the next important milestone of many important milestones of the Phoenix
Arts & Innovation District, and a powerful demonstration of public-private partnership,” said Tony Cho, CEO of Future of Cities, of which PHX JAX is a development. “We are grateful to the City of Jacksonville, as well as the Springfield and Historic Eastside communities, for their support in helping us complete this first phase of the project. We look forward to continuing our partnership in uplifting this incredible community.”
PHX JAX is a regenerative placemaking project comprising 10 separate properties across 8.3 acres, located in a federally designated Opportunity Zone in the North Springfield neighborhood of Jacksonville. The district encompasses a total of 120,000 square feet of adaptively repurposed warehouse spaces.
The first phase of the development began in December of
2023 with the commencement of construction of the Emerald Station. The Economic Development Agreement between Future of Cities and the City of Jacksonville provided funds as a Completion Grant in two phases, each in the amount of $2 million, for the adaptive rehabilitation of four warehouses and public green space.
“The Phoenix Arts & Innovation District is an important piece of the efforts to revitalize Jacksonville’s urban core and bring new development to the historic Springfield and Eastside neighborhoods,” Mayor Donna Deegan said. “I am particularly excited that a Jacksonville Small and Emerging Business incubator will be housed in the Emerald Station portion of the development. It will bring economic growth to the neighborhood and provide opportunities for small businesses and entrepreneurs to thrive.”
Located in North Springfield, the 17,000 square-foot Emerald Station offers creative office space, conference rooms and event space.
New Buyer Emerges for Laura Street Trio
By Michele Leivas
Hope remains for the Laura Street Trio as the emergence of potential new owner has prompted the City to return to the table to discuss a path forward.
Live Oak Contracting President and CEO Paul Bertozzi announced plans to purchase the three historic buildings –ideally by the end of the year—at a Nov. 25 meeting for the Special Committee on the Future of Downtown.
To help facilitate that transaction, the city council passed a resolution the following evening urging the administration to reach a settlement agreement or lien forgiveness agreement with Live Oak Ancient City Living, LLC regarding the $800,000-plus in administrative fines for code violations the city said has accrued against the property since October 2015.
Representing the potential new development team, attorney Jason Gabriel told city council the resolution alone isn’t enough to help advance the sale, rather it could serve as a first step toward satisfying lenders.
“What’s necessary for the lenders is the actual abatement instrument itself,” Gabriel said. “…By itself the resolution doesn’t accomplish that, but it could lead to it.”
Mayor Donna Deegan released a statement following the city council meeting about this resolution and another ordinance appropriating funds for more homeless shelter beds.
“This progress for our citizens is made possible when we are all collaborating on solutions,” Deegan said. “While there is more work to do on both these initiatives, we will continue to deliver successful outcomes by working together…”
Bertozzi said the end-of-year deadline for the purchase is on the seller’s end.
“There’s very little wiggle room based on the seller’s position,” Bertozzi said. “We’re working within a time frame for them. For us, we have opportunities to move
forward; the seller is under a much shorter time frame.”
Live Oak partnered with SouthEast Development Group on the Trio project in September.
The historic buildings have been called gems within the city, yet over the years have fallen into dilapidation. Bertozzi said that once the purchase goes through, he plans to take measures addressing that.
“Once we close on the property, you’ll see activity from protection of the buildings in very short order,” Bertozzi said.
Once we close on the property, you’ll see activity from protection of the buildings in very short order.
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Paul Bertozzi President and CEO of Live Oak Contracting
Stalled negotiations and frustrations
Several city councilmembers praised Bertozzi’s new role as prospective buyer of the Trio at the Nov. 25 committee meeting. Visiting Councilmember Terrance Freeman asked for reassurances that Steve Atkins, current property owner and
developer, will not be involved in the new development team moving forward. Bertozzi said currently, Atkins’ involvement in the project would end with the sale of the buildings.
“From that point forward, we will be taking the lead on all development moving forward, so he will not be part of our development team as of right now,” Bertozzi said.
The resurrection of the Laura Street Trio has been many years in the making. Atkins purchased the buildings, along with the Barnett Bank Building, in 2013.
Downtown Investment Authority (DIA) CEO Lori Boyer previously told the Resident News there had been several redevelopment agreements “requested, vetted and approved” that had gone before city council. In August, lobbyist Jordan Ellsbury told the Special Committee on the Future of Downtown that Atkins would no longer consider working with the DIA and Atkins made his frustrations known as well.
“Everything that we’ve been asked to do, we’ve done,” Atkins said at that Aug. 12 meeting. “Frankly, I’m getting to the point where I’m tired of dealing with the City of Jacksonville.”
The City filed its first foreclosure lawsuit one week after that meeting for the alleged administrative fines, subsequently withdrawing it the following month after reaching terms with the current development team. In a Nov. 25 statement, Deegan said those terms “were immediately violated.”
“The proposals that followed ballooned the city’s financial commitment and risk exposure,” Deegan said. “The city has suffered through nearly a decade of failed proposals. This lawsuit has been the only thing that’s moved the dial. Rushing to remove it on a 24-hour deadline would be counterproductive. We remain open to working with the City Council on viable options that will preserve these three historic buildings.”
Atkins declined to share any comments.
‘Small Yet Meaningful Steps’
By Michele Leivas
Willowbranch Park visitors and passers-by strolling down Park Street will now see a new plaque installed near the park’s treeline facing the Riverside Community Garden, commemorating Jacksonville’s first Gay Pride event.
The AIDS Memorial Project of Northeast Florida (AMP) held an unveiling ceremony on Saturday, Nov. 9 for the historical marker. In attendance were members of several LGBTQ+ groups and neighborhood organizations, among them Stonewall Sports Jacksonville and Riverside Avondale Preservation. District 7 City Councilmember Jimmy Peluso attended as well.
The historic marker honors Jacksonville’s first Gay Pride, held at Willowbranch Park in June 1978, which was more subdued but no less impactful than Pride events today.
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It was a picnic, attended by 300 people.
“I want you to remember that where we are today, as a unified community with connections to elected officials, churches in the city as well as community groups,” said AMP President Richard Ceriello during the ceremony.
“That’s something that those 300 people did not have. They were especially brave for that.”
The plaque was funded by The AIDS Memorial Project of Northeast Florida and installed by the City of Jacksonville’s Parks, Recreation and Community Services Department.
“This is one of the very important stories that we’re trying to tell because we’re trying to tell a story of people who just wanted to be themselves,” said Daniel Hutton, vice president of AMP of NEFL, following the ceremony.
The plaque installation comes just months after the City of Jacksonville recognized Pride Month for the first time in its history. Peluso said its these and other, similar acts are “small, yet meaningful steps” towards creating an inclusive community for everyone.
“This is just one more step, and a larger step, that we as a city are going to be taking to make sure, again, that the LGBTQ community, and everyone in the city, feels safe, recognized and see history will not be forgotten today,” Peluso said.
AMP has been a steadfast steward of Willowbranch Park over the years, spearheading several initiatives for the park’s beautification, among which is “Serenity,” the AIDS memorial mural on the Park Street bridge spanning the Willowbranch Creek, completed several years ago.
Riverside Avondale Preservation Development Manager Casey Roth, District 7 City Councilmember Jimmy Peluso, AMP
Board Member Thomas Moody, AMP Vice President Vice President Daniel Hutton, AMP President Richard Ceriello, AMP Board Member Mary Joan Hinson and AMP Secretary Tom Gallagher
AIDS Memorial Project of Northeast Florida Vice President Daniel Hutton speaks at the Nov. 9 unveiling ceremony.
UNSUNG HEROES
More Than a Walk in the Park
By Michele Leivas
Every day, Avondale Dance Owner and Director John Glessner takes his dogs, Louis, Leah and Leo, on a walk through Stinson Park. And every day, on that walk, he picks up any litter he spies on the ground.
Glessner said previous cleanup efforts for the area parks in Ortega had been organized by other neighbors, and when those fell by the wayside, he decided since he was already there with his pups, why not do a little cleanup as they walked.
“It's such as a little diamond for us in the neighborhood,” he said. “I’m not really keen on thinking about all that stuff going into the river or just laying around or blowing around or whatever.”
For Glessner, it’s these small efforts that can make a big impact, and he hopes to lead by example.
“I would hope that if somebody appreciated what I was doing that they either join in and help or pick a park,” he said.
In a world that has infinite ways to help and countless causes that are always seeking aid, Glessner said that while those causes are all certainly worthy, looking for ways to help at home is “an investment in ourselves.”
“You know, it's our community. It's our neighborhood,” he said. “I wanted a nice, safe, clean place for myself and the dogs to go walk and you know, other people are benefiting by that. So that's a great thing. That's not why I'm doing that. It makes me happy. I'm there anyways, so why not?”
Family Promise Raises More Than $135k at Cardboard City Campout
Family Promise of Jacksonville returned to the field behind Lakewood Church, transforming the grassy area into a cardboard city for its 14th annual fundraising event on Friday, Nov. 15.
This year marked the most successful year for Family Promise’s Cardboard City with more than $135,000 funds raised to help support the nonprofit. Family Promise is shining a spotlight on Bolles sophomore Lachlan Lovett, who, to date, has raised more than $97,000 for this annual event.
“It’s important to bring people in my generation together so they can see how they can raise money and impact people experiencing homelessness in Jacksonville, said Lovett, “I got involved with Family Promise because we are both passionate about helping people experiencing homelessness to find stability and have a brighter future.”
Family Promise of Jacksonville Interim Executive Director Beth Mixson said young people like Lovett are prime examples of Gen Z’s dedication to social issues.
“We are beyond grateful for Lachlan’s passion and her success,” Mixson said. “What she accomplished is astonishing; her dedication will change the lives of families experiencing homelessness.”
Participants at Cardboard City 2024 were able to work together to build a cardboard structure that would be their sleeping quarters for the evening, decorating them with tape, markers, paint and other materials. With the goal of raising awareness of what unhoused families face on a regular basis, participants were also given a fact about family homelessness to incorporate into their design.
The event’s Social Services Maze returned this year as well. The maze is an interactive experience that allows participants to get a small idea of how families experience homelessness in Jacksonville.”
According to Family Promise of Jacksonville, more than 3,300 Duval County students experienced homelessness in the 2022/23 school year with more than 71% of those included in the 202 Point In Time experiencing homelessness for the first time and 30% of the unhoused in the United State are families with children.
John Glessner with his dogs, Louis, Leah and Leo.
Bolles Family Promise Club at the 2024 Cardboard City campout.
Young Collectors Party Kicks Off Holiday Season
The Women’s Board of Wolfson Children’s Hospital gathered its next generation of givers, the Young Collectors, for an informative and entertaining holiday party in Historic Avondale, Nov. 14 at TAE on Talbot.
Remarks were shared by Young Collector committee chairs Curry Cozzi, Austin O’Steen, Sarah Irving and Mary Shaffer Sealey who helped make the season bright as organizers of the evening’s event. First Coast Design Show co-chairs Kelly Novak and Keely Kopp were also on hand to share the latest, as they discussed the kickoff of the seasonal schedule of events at the design showDec. 5 through Dec. 8.
Women’s Board President Kendra McCrary shared the story of the organization’s founding and how financial contributions have enhanced the lifesaving care for children of North Florida. From Mobile ICU upgrades, to specialized infant MRI machines for newborns, improving the NICU and PICU offerings at Wolfson Children’s Hospital; are all made possible by generous patrons who support the events and fundraising initiatives throughout the calendar year.
Gingerbread Extravaganza Returns to Old St. Andrew’s Church
The Jacksonville History Center’s 22nd annual Gingerbread Extravaganza returns to Old St. Andrew’s Church beginning Saturday, Dec. 7 and running until Dec. 28. The event's third annual Kids Day is scheduled for Saturday, Dec. 14 from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. and will feature family-friendly activities, from photos with Santa Claus to face painting and more. The exhibit is also introducing two evening openings: Thursdays, Dec. 12 and 19 from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m.
The Gingerbread Extravaganza will feature dozens of handmade gingerbread structures by builders of all ages across four categories — historic structure, fantasy, traditional and religious — as well as nearly two dozen holiday trees extravagantly decorated by the Junior League of Jacksonville.
Exhibit hours vary by day. For daily schedules, event information and ticket purchases, visit jaxhistory.org/gbx2024
Caroline Brooks with CeeCee Cassidy, Annie O’Steen and Kaelyn Cassidy
Hayes Heavener with Ellie King and Brittany Simmons
Abbey Ellison with Elizabeth Wilkins
Addison Hitt with Michelle Hogan and Jacon Hitt
Erin O’Steen with Alexa Quaritius, Jordan Cleland and Maddie Milne
With decorations loaned by the Jacksonville Naval Museum commemorating the USS Orleck, this nautically-themed tree was decorated by members of the Junior League of Jacksonville for the 2023 display.
Photo: Jacksonville History Center
TD Bank, Greenscape Plant Trees in Murray Hill
Join Symphony Board of Directors
Rajeeb K. Das and Annette Salsman have joined the Jacksonville Symphony board of directors. Their appointments bring the board to 30 members as the symphony celebrates its 75th anniversary season.
Das is a partner at PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP, where he advises on multibillion-dollar projects. Known for his teaching style, Das is often referred to as the “professor” for his commitment to educating clients and empowering them to make informed decisions. He is also proud to be an active guest lecturer at several universities.
Salsman brings a unique experience of playing an instrumental role in merging three art forms – the Dayton
Philharmonic Orchestra, Dayton Opera and Dayton Ballet –into the Dayton Performing Arts Alliance. She has also had leadership roles with the New Neighbor’s League of Dayton, U.S. Fencing Association Western Division and the Oregon Home Education Network.
“We are thrilled to welcome two additional talents, Annette and Rajeeb, to our board of directors,” said Steven Libman, president and CEO of the Jacksonville Symphony. “As we celebrate our 75th anniversary season, their invaluable perspectives will play a key role in helping the symphony continue to grow and serve our community.”
TD Bank joined with Greenscape recently to plant trees in Murray Hill’s Mallison Park. The tree planting was held in conjunction with
Rajeeb Das, Annette Salsman
Rajeeb K. Das Annette Salsman
Sabeen Perwaiz New President of Women’s Giving Alliance
Sabeen Perwaiz has succeeded Sheila Collier as the Women’s Giving Alliance’s new president.
A ceremonial passing of the gavel was held at WGA’s annual meeting on Oct. 23, ushering in Perwaiz’s two-year term and marking the end of Collier’s time at the helm of the womenrun giving organization. In her address, Perwaiz unveiled “Addressing Violence Against Women and Girls,” a new WGA focus area, adding that at one point in their lives, one in four women experiences physical violence from a partner and approximately one in three women experience some form sexual violence.
“To focus on an issue area that not just agencies across our community are working on but also our members are probably impacted by — because one in three women go through this —I’m excited to raise greater awareness in our community and ensure that the community sees this as not just a women’s issue, but a community-wide issue,” Perwaiz later said.
Perwaiz first joined WGA as a Delores Barr Weaver fellow and during her time there, she said she’s been “humbly surprised” by the impact and power of collective giving.
“Oftentimes people assume that you have to come from a specific socioeconomic class or have a certain net worth to be considered a philanthropist and this organization has shown me that everyone can be a philanthropist and make a difference in our community,” Perwaiz said.
As outgoing president, Collier said she is excited to see WGA continue to grow under Perwaiz’s leadership.
“I am highly optimistic about the WGA’s ongoing growth and mission success under the direction of our new president, Sabeen Perwaiz,” Collier said.
The WGA is a “collective giving initiative” of The Community Foundation of Northeast Florida.
OneJax 2025 Humanitarian Award Honorees Announced
Interfaith nonprofit organization OneJax has announced the five recipients of its 2025 Humanitarian Awards.
The 2025 honorees are:
• Gold Medallion for Lifetime Achievement: Dr. Charles McIntosh, retired pediatrician, Community Trustee;
• Silver Medallions: Debbie Buckland, area manager, Pinnacle Financial Partners in North Florida, Community Trustee; Josh Martino, president and CEO for Home Team Restaurant Group and Bono’s Pit Bar-B-Q; and John Peyton, president of Gate Petroleum
• President’s Medallion: Dr. Johnetta Betsch Cole, former president of Spellman College, retired director of the Smithsonian Museum of African Art, retired DEI consultant and educator
“We couldn’t be more excited about the 2025 class of Humanitarians,” said OneJax CEO Elizabeth Anderson.
“The 2025 honorees hail from different areas of our community and are involved with a wide variety of good and important work being done to improve Jacksonville and make life a little better for all of us who call this city home. These honorees represent a growing list of people working to help take Northeast Florida to the next level. Their impact is immeasurable.”
Former WGA President Sheila Collier passes the gavel to new Sabeen Perwaiz.
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Kate Wirz Joins DESC as New Managing Director
Kate Wirz has joined the Downtown Ecumenical Services Council (DESC) as its first Managing Director, Programs and Partnerships.
In her new position, Wirz will work with DESC to increase its ability to help those in need through program development, enhancement and expansion.
“I am so excited to be part of the amazing team at DESC!” Wirz said. “I feel incredibly blessed to serve our community in such an impactful way, and I look forward to helping families and individuals who are experiencing economic hardships.”
Previously, Wirz served as director of operations for Dreams Come True and has worked t Facility Contract Services, Vistakon and Young Life. She holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology from the University of Central Florida.
Mark Krancer Unveils New Book, “Photographic Memory”
Renowned Jacksonville photographer Mark Krancer has unveiled his new book “Photographic Memory,” a 148-page coffee table book featuring a collection of historic scenes, seascapes, nature and cityscapes from across the globe, paired with insights from the photographer himself exploring his creative journey and techniques.
Krancer is an award-winning photographer. His photo, “Life in the River” was taken during Hurricane Irma in 2017 and was nominated for a Pulitzer Prize.
Designed by Lindsey Powell Design and published by Powell Publications, “Photographic Memory” is available for purchase at local bookstores, including Happy Medium Books Cafe, or online at www.kramkranphoto.com
Kuhn to Succeed Silveira as RAM Director
Riverside Avondale Preservation has tapped Chloe Kuhn as the new director for the Riverside Arts Market (RAM).
Kuhn is succeeding John Silveira in the position.
Kuhn had worked extensively alongside Silveira in her previous position as RAM market manager, learning all aspects of the market and its operations inside and out. As RAM market manager, Kuhn spearheaded new initiatives for the weekly market, including the Teen Leadership Volunteer program and programming for Disability Pride, Philippine Independence Day, World Down Syndrome Day and more. Additionally, Kuhn helped boost RAM’s Greening Policy and launched weekly composting for RAM farmers.
Previously, Kuhn has served in educational roles with the Jacksonville Zoo and Gardens, the Museum of Science and History (MOSH) and Hope Haven.
Now in its 15th year, RAM is a weekly market held beneath the Fuller Warren Bridge in Riverside.
A Quarter Century of
The North Florida Land Trust (NFLT) celebrated its 25th anniversary at Smith Lake Preserve in Clay County on Saturday, Nov. 9.
The conservation nonprofit celebrated with property tours on “Hixon Buggy,” its new trail buggy and a half-mile hike along a special trail opened only for event guests. Mission BBQ provided food for guests while they enjoyed live music by Remedy Tree.
In its 25 years, NFLT has worked to preserve more than 40,000 acres in its mission to “to preserve and enhance our quality of life by protecting North Florida’s irreplaceable natural environment.”
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NFLT President and CEO Allison DeFoor with NFLT board member Rick Hoffman and his wife Faith alongside NFLT board member TR Hainline and his wife Melody.
A New Home for MOCA Jacksonville Sculpture
The James A. Rosburg sculpture that has stood at the entrance of the Museum of Contemporary Art (MOCA) Jacksonville since 2008 has found a new home at Douglas Anderson School of the Arts.
It was installed at the school’s Haskell Sculpture Garden this past spring with aid from the Developing Artists Foundation.
Originally commissioned by the Miami-based Sherlon Investments Corporation in 1994, “Harlan” became one of the first three-dimensional artworks in Jacksonville’s city center when it was installed at 555 Water Street. With the help of the Jacksonville City Council, it was later donated to MOCA Jacksonville as part of the Jacksonville ArtWalk celebration.
Rosburg dedicated the sculpture to his grandmother and is a nod to her hometown of Harlan, Iowa. In a recent interview, Rosburg said his grandfather encouraged him to pursue art and today, he uses many of the tools his grandfather used as a bridge builder. Rosburg holds a bachelor’s degree from the University of Iowa. He worked with the ConStruct Gallery in Chicago and several notable contemporary sculptors, including John Henry and Charles Ginnever. His first independent studio is based in North Miami while he works in Tampa.
In a recent interview, Rosburg said he was happy to see one of his older pieces gain renewed interest as it was installed at Douglas Anderson.
His sculptures are part of many private and university collections and he’s been commissioned for work up and down the east coast as well as Italy.
Philanthropy in the Spotlight
The Association of Fundraising Professionals (AFP) Florida First Coast Chapter held its annual luncheon celebrating and honoring some of the community’s most passionate philanthropists. The National Philanthropy Day Luncheon was held on Friday, Nov. 8 – National Philanthropy Day – at the Hyatt Regency Jacksonville Riverfront.
During this year’s luncheon, Paul Boslan, former board chair of Wolfson Children’s Hospital and Baptist Medical Center Nassau, was hono red with the Lifetime Achievement Award. Boslan served on the boards of several other foundation and hospital boards, including the Children’s Specialized Hospital Foundation. Boslan was nominated for this recognition by Wolfson Children’s Hospital and Baptist Health.
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Becky and Lee Nimnicht with Stephanie Cost, Lauren Griffith, Frank Mantay and Scott Bacon
Darren Dailey with Ellen Wiss
Naomi Jackson with Carmen and Frank Mantay
James A. Rosburg’s sculpture “Harlan” in its new home at Douglas Anderson’s Haskell Sculpture Garden.
Raising Funds with Every Glass
By Michele Leivas
King Street filled with friends, families and neighbors on Saturday, Nov. 23 for the annual Riverside WineFest, sponsored by Riverside Liquors and benefitting Riverside Avondale Preservation. The street fair, featuring live music and food trucks, was free and open to the public while the ticketed wine festival offered more than 250 wines for guests to sample and enjoy.
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Located in the former Frazier Jewelers location next to Carter’s Pharmacy
A Golden Milestone in Preservation for RAP
By Michele Leivas
Riverside Avondale Preservation (RAP) marked a half century of neighborhood preservation and community advocacy with a soiree celebration Nov. 12 at the home of RAP Founder Dr. Wayne Wood and Lana Shuttleworth.
In addition to food and beverages, guests enjoyed special presentations, including a performance by artist, performer and
RAP Executive Director Shannon Blankinship said the evening also celebrated financial success for the organization, with the announcement of the Riverside Avondale Preservation Legacy Endowment with The Community Foundation for Northeast Florida.
“The $50,000 we’ve set aside for this legacy endowment is just the start,” said Blankinship.
Jacksonville philanthropist Delores Barr Weaver donated another $35,000 to the fund and, following the event, Blankinship said that donation, paired with contributions RAP received that evening and in the days following, would likely result in a 100% match of the endowment’s initial $50,000 investment.
“[The endowment] is essentially to ensure that we will exist in perpetuity doing the work that needs to be done specific to
the current needs of the neighborhood,” Blankinship said.
In a special presentation featuring historic and more recent photos of Riverside Avondale’s evolution, Wood spoke of the importance of preserving historic buildings and architecture.
“Architecture is the most fragile of the arts,” Wood said. “A building made of brick and stone is less likely to survive than a poem or a play or a symphony or a book.”
Riverside High alumnus Mal Jones.
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The Impact of “Beyond Triathlon”
screening at the University of North Florida’s Lazzara Performing Arts Center on Oct 12.
Donna Deegan, Celeste Callahan, three-time Olympic gold medalist Nancy Hogshead and trailblazer Dottie Dorion – it also raised nearly $30,000 to support scholarships for female student-athletes. Dorion also made a dollar-for-dollar match of the funds raised, doubling the total amount of funds raised.
women through scholarships means empowering the next wave of athletes and leaders,” Dorion told the audience at the premiere event.
sponsored by Bacardi during which Bacardi VP of Supply Chain Innovation Andy del Rosal presented Dorion with Deegan’s mayoral proclamation designating Oct. 12, 2024 “Dottie Dorion Day.”
as experienced firsthand by Celeste Callahan and me,” said Dorion. “The theme and our driving force was not to get accolades for our own sports achievements but to emphasize what it enabled us to do for others.”
Beyond Triathlon Event Producer Cindy Cooper, Jacksonville Film Festival Executive Director Niki Logoreci, Paige Ludecke, Dr. Leslie Gordon and Bacardi representative Lynn Bauman
Fundraising on the River
Donors Commit $400,000 to LGBTQ Community Fund
Publishers’ Note: A version of this article previously ran in our November issues and erroneously left out the name of one of the donors behind these donations. We have corrected that mistake in this revised version. The Resident News regrets the error and apologizes to the donors and our readers.
The Community Foundation for Northeast Florida has received $400,000 in new gifts for endowments supporting LGBTQ people.
Chad Labenz and Michael Meyers, Glenn and Michael Miller, Delores Barr Weaver and an anonymous donor each contributed $100,000 to the LBTQ Community Fund, established in 2014, which has since distributed more than $1.1 million through grants to 28 nonprofit organizations.
In 2018, an endowment was created with the support from Weaver and the Chartrand Family for this “field of interest fund,” which is “dedicated to fostering a welcoming and
The Ortega River filled with kayaks, paddle boards and an array of other small vessels for the Port 32 Tiny Vessel Poker Run on Saturday, Nov. 9.
Participants in the annual event helped raise funds for the Warrior Sailing program, an initiative providing “maritime education and outreach for wounded, ill and injured service members and veterans.”
With a “land lubbers” option, the event wasn’t restricted to water lovers, allowing everyone to participate and support a good cause even without a vessel.
The poker run covered an approximate two-mile loop on the Ortega River.
inclusive community for local LGBTQ people.” These recent donations will help grow the endowment and increase annual grantmaking.
“By investing in the strength of our community, we are investing in the strength of each individual who benefits from our grantmaking,” said Glenn Miller, chair of the grants panel of the LGBTQ Community Fund. “If we’ve learned anything over the last ten years, we’ve learned that the landscape of our country and community will continue to change and that the need for our work will only become more essential.”
A Centennialplus-one Celebration
Walker’s wife of 71 years, Evelyn, nieces, nephews and staff joined in on the festivities. The cake, made by niece Arillella, was a a family recipe passed down through generations of Walker’s family.
“It was our true pleasure to host Emmett’s milestone birthday party and celebrate the happy day with his dear family,” said Riverside’s Pam Montemurno, regional director of business development. “Emmett and Evelyn are the sweetest pair – they still hold hands.”
Born on Nov. 6, 1923, Walker enlisted in the military as soon as he was old enough, though he recalls being told to “go home to your mom” when the sergeant in charge didn’t believe his age. He met his future wife in 1941 and together, the two owned Walker Grocery Store for many years.
LOVE IN VERONA
Stephanie Garry Garfunkel, Joe Barton, Wanda Willis, Michael Meyers, Janet Allen and Glenn Miller at the 10th Anniversary Celebration of the LGBTQ Community Fund.
Riverside Post Acute resident Emmett Walker celebrated his 101st birthday with great fanfare, fun and, especially, cake.
Port 32 Jacksonville's Annual Tiny Vessel Porker Run 2024 Winners
Emmett Walker and his wife, Evelyn, at his 101st birthday celebration.
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Gator Bowl Charities
Helps Fill Student Need for Laptops
Gator Bowl Charities, along with AT&T and the TaxSlayer Gator Bowl, recently provided 100 laptops to First Coast students in need during an event at EverBank Stadium.
The student recipients were selected through Gator Bowl Charities’ community partnerships and are part of the DCPS 5,000 Role Models of Excellence Program, the Johnson Family YMCA Teen Forward Program, Take Stock in Children and Zarephath Academy.
According to Gator Bowl Charities, it is estimated that 11% of households in Florida do not have access to the internet or connected devices needed to fully participate in the online world.
One lucky student recipient’s laptop included a “golden ticket” which provided the student and their family with a complimentary “game day experience” at the upcoming 80th Annual TaxSlayer Gator Bowl. The prize included game tickets, parking, pregame hospitality passes and post-game field access.
Record-breaking Funds Raised at The Arc Jacksonville’s Dinner with Bill and Friends
For more than 30 years, The Arc Jacksonville has been hosting its annual Dinner with Bill and Friends event to “celebrate the achievements of all individuals, sustain much needed programs in our community and empower individuals of all abilities.”
This year's event was held at The Arc Jacksonville Village, Friday, Oct. 5. The evening's festivities included an awards ceremony for the Honorary Community Advocate given to the Fields Automotive Group, while Ryan Paolino was recognized as the Jason "Moose" Hamilton Trailblazer of the Year award.
The 2024 Dinner with Bill and Friends event broke records by raising more than $372,000.
Guests mingling at the drink reception before dinner.
Bold City Classics performing after dinner for guests to mingle and dance.
Arc Jacksonville President and CEO Kari Bates presents Ryan Paolino with the Jason "Moose" Hamilton Trailblazer of the Year award.
Sulzbacher's Inspirational Impact Shines at 2024 Transformations
Sulzbacher’s largest annual fundraising event, Transformations, returned to the Jacksonville Center for the Performing Arts on Thursday, Nov. 7 for a night of philanthropy, revelry and inspiration. The evening included an address from Mayor Donna Deegan along with inspiring success stories from Sulzbacher clients. Proceeds from the evening help support the nonprofit’s comprehensive programs and services for unhoused men, women and families.
The St. Johns Riverkeeper brought the river to the garden this The organization’s “most impactful” annual fundraiser was held Guests enjoyed delectable bites from Biscotti’s and oysters from With live music by Band Be Easy, there was plenty of opportunity allowed participation by guests in attendance and those who were Proceeds from the event help the organization continue its mission
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Flight of Fancy Soars with Generosity and Giving
The Allison Brundick Haramis Foundation – Angels for Allison – hosted a sold-out evening of elegance and impact at its annual Flight of Fancy fundraising event last month.
Held at the Garden Club of Jacksonville on Friday, Nov. 8, Flight of Fancy is the nonprofit organization’s largest fundraising event of the year, the proceeds from which help Angels For Allison continue its mission to provide financial support for families facing the loss of a child.
This year’s event was presented by the Cameron and Craig Walker Family.
The evening included a live music, an auction and other experiences for guests to enjoy.
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‘One Heart, One Community’ JASMYN hosts 18th annual Coming Out Day Breakfast
By Michele Leivas
The ballroom at Hyatt Regency Jacksonville Riverfront was filled with love during JASMYN’s annual Coming Out Day Breakfast, held on Thursday, Nov. 7.
The morning marked the 18th year JASMYN has hosted its Coming Out Day Breakfast and also celebrated the nonprofit’s 30th anniversary. It had been rescheduled from its original October date, coinciding with National Coming Out Day, because of Hurricane Milton, but that didn’t stop community members, friends and allies from coming out to show their support.
Author and trailblazer Jim Fielding was this year’s keynote speaker. In his keynote address, Fielding shared his own story but also spoke of the importance of creating safe spaces for people everywhere, be it at school, in the workplace or out in the community.
“I firmly believe that if we create safe spaces, which is what Jasmyn is all about, you’ll get the best out of everybody,” Fielding said.
Ed Tooker and Barbara Drake were honored at this year breakfast as the 2024 Emerald and Diamond Award recipients, respectively, for their dedication to and advocacy for nonprofit organization and the LGBTQIA+ community.
Murray Hill ‘Friends’ Celebrate National Friends of Libraries Week
The Friends of Bill Brinton Murray Hill Library observed the 16th annual National Friends of Libraries Week, Oct. 20-26, with a luncheon.
Founded in 2010, the Friends group raises money for the Bill Brinton Murray Hill Library to provide resources for additional programming, equipment, children’s events and summer reading programs.
“The Friends understand the critical importance of well-funded libraries and advocate to ensure that our library gets the resources it needs to provide a wide variety of services to all ages,’ said Friends President Nancy DeLander Beecher. “This ranges from Lit Chats with local authors to recognizing the library staff for their important work during National Library Week.”
Upcoming Friends events include sponsoring a Family Holiday Party from 2 to 5 p.m. Dec. 14 and a Lit Chat with poet Mary Lou Sutherlin at 4 p.m. Jan. 15.
Past accomplishments include a landscaping project, new bicycle racks, installation of a picture wall system for art displays and participation in Murray Hill community events such as Murray Hill-o-Ween and Taste of Murray Hill.
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Jasmyn Board Chair Blake Osner with Board Member Edi Castro and Brianna Osgood
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Friends of the Bill Brinton Murray Hill Library. Left to right seated: Mary Lou Sutherlin, Elizabeth Breting, Judy Klein and Marjorie Marvin. Left to right standing: John Peck, Heather Hanson, Ronna Bell and President Nancy DeLander Beecher. Not pictured: Jay Stuckey, Judy Williams, Kara Thigpen, Brenda Schwend and Bobbie Devereux.
The most spectacular holiday season yet!
This holiday season, the Jacksonville Symphony is pulling out all the stops to celebrate 75 incredible years as the First Coast’s premier destination for festive entertainment! This year’s milestone anniversary promises to be bigger and brighter than ever, creating an unforgettable holiday experience for all ages. Whether you’re starting a new holiday tradition or continuing a favorite, don’t miss the chance to experience the Jacksonville Symphony’s 75th Anniversary holiday celebration and make memories that will last all year!
2024 Schedule
Big Band Holiday Nov. 24 3:00 pm
The Jacksonville Jazz Collective delivers a performance that will ignite your holiday spirit!
Part of the Greta Challen Berg Artist Series Holiday Pops
Dec. 5 7:30 pm
Dec. 6 11:00 am* | 7:30 pm
Dec. 7 3:00 pm | 7:30 pm
Dec. 8 3:00 pm
JSYO Holiday Concert
First Coast Nutcracker
Dec. 9 6:00 pm
Dec. 13 8:00 pm
Dec. 14 2:00 pm | 8:00 pm
Dec. 15 2:00 pm
Dec. 14 7:30 pm Dec. 15 3:00 pm
Dec. 19 7:30 pm
The Jacksonville Symphony, star Broadway vocalists and the Symphony Chorus present the most joyous holiday tradition in town with all your festive, favorite songs of the season.
*1-hour performance without Chorus and Dancers
Join the Jacksonville Symphony Youth Orchestras as they take a “sleigh ride” through beloved holiday classics that the whole family will enjoy.
A beloved tradition for more than 50 years, the Jacksonville Symphony’s First Coast Nutcracker returns with new sets, costumes and world-class talent.
Shining with inspiration and sheer joy, experience “the greatest story ever told…the most majestic music ever conceived” with guest vocalists, the Jacksonville Symphony and Symphony Chorus!
Organist Greg Zelek shows off the power of the Bryan Concert Organ, accompanied by Symphony brass and percussion musicians, to bring the music of the holiday season to full sound.
Fast feet for Finley at the New York City Marathon
By Michele Leivas
Following the unimaginable loss of her son, Finley, four years ago, Emily Webb said running became one way to help process her grief.
This year, she ran alongside thousands of people in the TCS New York City Marathon. Webb ran the iconic marathon not just in Finley’s memory but also to raise funds and awareness for the SUDC Foundation, which Webb said has played a monumental role in her and her family’s lives following Finley’s passing. The SUDC Foundation is the only organization in the world to “raise awareness, fund research, and serve those affected by [sudden unexplained death in childhood].”
According to the SUDC Foundation, approximately 400 children ages 1 to 18 are lost to SUDC every year. Currently, there is no way to predict or prevent it nor do medical professionals know what causes it.
“[Running] gave me a little bit of a sense of, okay, I can deal with this in my own way and then come back and support the little guys and come support my husband,” Webb said. “And it just gave me a little bit of a relief.”
This year’s marathon, held on Nov. 3, set a world record for largest marathon ever, according to New York Road Runners: 56,012 people started the marathon and and just over 55,600 people finished it. Webb completed the marathon in three hours and 30 minutes. During that time, she said she was inspired by other participants, many of whom ran for other charities but also for themselves, as part of those charities.
“It was a very memorable experience and it really was very, very humbling,” Webb said.
Finley passed away in March 2020. Following an autopsy, the medical examiner classified his death as as sudden unexplained death in childhood, or SUDC, meaning no other cause of death could be found.
Back home in Jacksonville, Webb and her husband, Charles, have launched an annual charity event in Finley’s name to raise funds for the SUDC Foundation. The Finley’s Fast Feet 5K Run/Walk retraces some of Finley’s favorite places, including Boone Park, where two trees are planted in his honor. Webb said 100% of the proceeds from Finley’s Fast Feet go to the SUDC Foundation.
“We decided this foundation provided us with so much light and gave us not necessarily answers as to why it happened, but so much support that our new goal is, we’ve got to be advocates for all the good that they’re doing,” Webb said.
The 2025 Finley’s Fast Feet returns for its third year on Saturday, March 8. More information about the SUDC Foundation can be found at https://sudc.org
The Face of Luminaria
By Michele Leivas
Riverside Avondale Preservation’s (RAP) Luminaria returns for its 40th year, continuing its longstanding tradition of community involvement and camaraderie. This year, however, Luminaria’s poster also brings a face to the beloved neighborhood event, courtesy of artist Tatiana Kitchen.
Kitchen’s untitled artwork was selected to be featured as this year’s poster for the RAP Luminaria. RAP Creative Placemaking Specialist Kandice Clark said to her knowledge, this is the first time the Luminaria artwork has featured a person rather than more abstract imagery.
“This is kind of a first,” Clark said. “Luminaria is obviously about community, which is everybody in our community.”
Beyond that, however, Clark said it was Kitchen’s use of color and texture that made her work stand out among the many submissions RAP received.
“It’s just so different from anything that we’ve had before,” Clark added.
Kitchen is not new to Jacksonville’s art scene: She’s completed several murals throughout the city including the unity mural she completed with artist Christopher Clark – “Together in Greatness” – located on the south wall of JEA’s Water Street substation in October.
Kitchen said when she first considered submitting a piece for Luminaria, she thought her style lent itself nicely to what Luminaria is.
“Since Luminaria is all about lights and this magical time of year and a lot of my art is very ethereal in nature, I thought that it would be really fitting for it,” Kitchen said. Kitchen’s artwork is featured on RAP’s 2024 Luminaria merchandise, from posters to magnets to ornaments.
Luminaria will begin at dusk on Sunday, Dec. 8.
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Emily Webb poses with Barbara and Gary Johnson, her mother and stepfather, after completing this year’s New York City Marathon.
Salvation Army of Northeast Florida Launches Red Kettle Season
Holiday Cheer on the Pier
By Michele Leivas
Jaxons gathered at the USS Orleck Naval Museum on Nov. 14 for Pier and Cheer, a “pre-holiday-season-bash.”
The season is officially upon us — the Red Kettle season, that is.
The Salvation Army of Northeast Florida hosted its annual Red Kettle Kickoff, a free community event at San Marco’s Balis Park, on Friday, Nov. 22. Festivities included live performances by Douglas Anderson School of the Arts a cappella groups Eclipse and Silhouettes.
The kettles and bells — iconic heralds of the holiday season — date back to 1891. The Red Kettle campaigns began with Salvation Army Captain
Joseph McFee, who, seeking ways to raise funds for Christmas dinners for San Francisco’s poor and hungry, remembered “Simpson’s Pot,” an iron kettle he recalled from his sailor days in Liverpool, England, into which people would toss in coins for the poor.
At San Francisco’s Oakland Ferry Landing, McFee placed a sign beside a similar pot that read “Keep the pot boiling,” and soon had the funds he needed.
Today, red kettles are seen all over the world during the holiday season, all continuing McFee’s idea and supporting the Salvation Army’s mission.
Hosted by United Way of Northeast Florida, the evening benefitted Mission United, the nonprofit’s veteran services initiative. With more than 350,000 active duty military, veterans and families in Northeast Florida, the initiative provides vital services for individuals and their families, particularly during the transition from active duty into civilian life. Since its launch, the initiative has served more than 9,500 veterans.
The evening included beer, wine, cocktails, delectable hors d’oeuvres and a DJ to keep the tunes going for everyone to dance the night away.
Fashion for Philanthropy
By Michele Leivas
Goodwill Industries of North Florida kicked off the holiday season with its 2024 Gather for Goodwill fundraising event on Wednesday, Nov. 20 at the Florida Blue Conference Center.
The annual charity luncheon included its signature fashion show, during which Jacksonville celebrities and personalities walked the runway showcasing “fashionista finds” from the Goodwill retail thrift stores.
The 2024 Gather for Goodwill Honorees included James Blackshear (Goodwill employee and A-STEP alumnus), Dr. Christian Calderon (Take Stock in Children alumnus) and Sherri Mann (Goodwill assistant manager of donations center).
Honorees Dr. Christian Calderon (Take Stock in Children Alumnus), Sherri Mann (Assistant Manager of Goodwill Donation Centers) and James Blackshear (A-STEP Alumnus) with Goodwill President and CEO David Rey
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Jeanne Scholl, Kristle Helmuth and Bobby Siddell with Rylan Ruffner and Mission United Veteran Care Coordinators Jeremy Ruffner and Mary Bates
Veterans Robert “Doc” Hernandez and Dani Hernandez with Veteran and CEO, President and Founder of Northeast Florida Women Veterans Deloris “Dee” Quaranta, KC Chatman and Courtney Griffin
Douglas Anderson a capella groups pose with Santa following their performance at the kickoff ceremony.
Diane Nevison and Maria Marchigiano with Connie Frank, NeeCee Lee and Jacksonville Jumbo Shrimp mascot Scampi.
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Halloween Doors & More Finale Helps Community Hospice Reach Over $6.5 Million in 2024
The Foundation of Community Hospice & Pallative Care recently marked the closing of a 20-year long chapter for its Halloween Doors & More fundraiser, with the event helping the nonprofit to reach $6,550,354 in fundraising dollars for FY 2024.
The funds raised support The Foundation of Community Hospice & Palliative Care’s community-
focused programs which have helped to provide care to 8,983 hospice patients as well as to 360 Community PedsCare patients.
“We owe a deep gratitude to Susan DuBow and our dedicated community leaders for launching this event two decades ago, setting a foundation for an extraordinary journey,” Community Hospice stated on its website.
“Your involvement has been invaluable and we look forward to continuing this journey with you.”
Community Hospice will hosts its new Roars & More fundraiser presented by THE PLAYERS on February 2, 2025 as part of the Jacksonville Zoo and Garden’s Colors of the Wild experience.
CAP Golf Tournament Raises $150,000 for Arts Education
The Cathedral Arts Project’s 8th Annual CAP Golf Tournament raised more than $150,000 for art education.
Held Oct. 7 at Deerwood Country Club, this year’s tournament was presented by Fickling Construction.
“I’ve been incredibly fortunate to witness the growth and impact of this tournament over the past 8 years,” Tournament Chair Alan Fickling said. “It is a testament to the generosity of the Northeast Florida community and its dedication to providing essential arts education for children and young adults.”
During the tournament awards, participants heard from Fickling, CAP Vice President of Philanthropy Doug Walker and CAP Teaching Artist Fellow in Theatre Julia Veiga, who shared her perspective as a first-generation American with
childhood dreams of a career in the performing arts.
Veiga described how support from one influential role model led her to become a theater teacher, and how her experiences working with CAP students across Northeast Florida have demonstrated the transformative power of the arts.
“One of the first programs I ran at CAP was an afterschool program at Sulzbacher,” she said. “Providing Northeast Florida with the joy of art instruction is a privilege I take with the utmost seriousness and heaps of joy.”
The CAP golf tournament is the only tournament to support arts education on the First Coast, raising nearly $900,000 since its inception.
The Fickling Construction team: Jeff Prosser and Tournament Chair Alan Fickling with Tyler and Larry Turknett
Fellowship and Gratitude Sanctuary on 8th Street hosts first Community Thanksgiving
More than 150 people joined in the festivities of Sanctuary on 8th Street’s inaugural Community Thanksgiving event on Friday, Nov. 22. SoulFull Eats provided dinner and guests created the memories with music, games, fellowship and gratitude.
Bolles First Tech Challenge Teams Combine for Highest Score in World
Bolles upper school FIRST® TECH Challenge teams Static Discharge and Mischievous Mechanics combined to tally not only the top score in the state of Florida, but also the highest score in the world at the Northeast Florida robotics Meet 1 Oct. 19.
The two teams worked together to earn an impressive 226, excelling during the 2024-25 FTC season. In fact, the top six scores in the world are held by Static Discharge and its randomly selected alliance partners during the competition. Bolles FTC teams Patent Pending and Jurassic Spark, comprised of middle school students, also competed in Meet 1, held at Atlantic Coast High School.
FTC students work together with their mentors to design and build robots to compete in a dynamic challenge released each September. Teams program classroom-scale robots to follow autonomous commands before student drivers take control in two-on-two matches. According to FIRST®, more than 87,400 students in Grades 7-12 competed in FTC in 67 countries during the 2022-2023 season.
Bolles upper school physics teacher Devan Skapetis and upper school fine arts teacher Chris Hicks coach all four Bolles robotics teams in the new Robotics Lab on the first floor of the Frank R. Sanchez & Hope and Dana E. Fender Center for Innovation.
Static Discharge team members include students Jayan Deshmukh, Rohan Deshmukh, Nishta Jijosh, Eesh Majithia, Jay Manohar and Meghanne Posick. Mischievous Mechanics team members include Jay Alanghat, Bowen Body, David Dong, Jake Kovacocy and Arnav Shah.
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A Season of Success for Bishop Kenny High
Bishop Kenny High School is celebrating a season of student accomplishments and successes this fall, from philanthropy to academic achievement.
Bishop Kenny students helped raise funds for those impacted by Hurricanes Helene and Milton. The school’s campus ministry and student government raised nearly $4,000, which will be sent to Catholic Charities to address immediate needs in the Jacksonville community.
Bishop Kenny senior Alexander Lisowski, class of 2025, recently earned a $200,000 Navy ROTC scholarship. Lisowski, who plans to use the scholarship toward his two top university picks, Vanderbilt and Yale, will study cyber security. The scholarship was part of the NROTC Immediate Scholarship Reservation (ISR) process from the local Navy Recruiting District Commander.
Bishop Kenny was well represented at the UNF Water Tower Competition held in October. Bishop Kenny students took home three out of four awards in the competition. The Bishop Kenny team earned the Ingenuity Award as well as first and third place honors. The competition involved students designing and building a water tower to be judged on criteria such as cost and hydraulic efficiency.
Just prior to the recent election, Bishop Kenny student leaders had the opportunity to take part in a town hall meeting with Governor Ron DeSantis and local physicians. The town hall, held at Sacred Heart Catholic School, focused on the decision voters would be making regarding the proposed Amendment 4. The governor also spoke about the vital role that they and other youth have in shaping policies, particularly those that will affect their future.
“Extravaganza: Reverie” Promises Magic and Enchantment
“Extravaganza,” the annual Douglas Anderson School of the Arts student showcase, returns to the Jacksonville Center for the Performing Arts on Saturday, Feb. 1.
With the theme “Reverie,” this year’s showcase promises to be an evening of “enchantment and imaginative musings,” with exhibitions and performances of music, theatre, film, dance and more.
“This year’s theme, 'Reverie,' truly embodies the spirit of artistic exploration and imagination,” says Natalie Hyder, DA Arts Director and Producer for Extravaganza. “We invite the community to join us for a magical evening and experience the power of art to inspire and elevate through imagination and beauty.”
Douglas Anderson Creative Writing alumna Daniel Moniz is this year’s Shining Star. In addition to enjoying a presentation of her work, guests will also have the opportunity to purchase her book “Milk Blood Heat.”
Tickets for “Extravaganza: Reverie” are not available for purchase through Ticketmaster. Proceeds from the evening support Douglas Anderson School of the Arts.
Signing Day for Student Atheletes
Episcopal School of Jacksonville is celebrating 16 of its studentathletes as they committed to universities for various sports on Nov. 13, the first day of the early signing period for college commitments. These students are:
Baseball:
• Dominic DeLoreto - Northwestern University; Matthew Devine - Barry University
Cross Country, Track and Field:
• Jake Officer - United States Naval Academy (both); Lucrezia Gowdy - University of Denver (Triathlon)
Football:
• Alexander Hillyard - University of British Columbia
Lacrosse:
• Tre Carter - Hampden Sydney College; Jackson Soud - Berry College; Colton Augustine - Berry College; Bella Vitulli - Kennesaw State; Maeve O’Neil - George Washington University
Soccer:
• Ava Galani - University of Memphis; Rivers Carney - Sewanee: The University of the South; Charlotte Ritter - Austin Peay University
Diving:
Laurel Coppedge - Davidson College
Beach Volleyball:
• Elle Steiger - Stetson University; Caelen Chesser - University of North Florida
“Extravaganza: Reverie” comes to the Jacksonville Center for the Performing Arts on Feb. 1.
Sixteen students kick off the early signing period for college commitments by signing their college commitments for various sports.
Bishop Kenny students with their water towers at the UNF Water Tower Competition.
The Jacksonville Watercolor Society recognized artist Pablo Rivera as its 2023 Artist of the Year at its Fall Show Reception and Awards Ceremony on Oct. 26.
The event was held at Christ Church Ponte Vedra, where Rivera was honored and guests could view his “Wall of Fame” exhibit. He also won a second place award in the JWS current show adding to the number of awards, commissions, and acknowledgments he has accumulated over the years.
Rivera studied at Cooper Union in New York City but was hooked on watercolor after taking a workshop with Charles Reed in 1979. Primarily known for his watercolor portraits, Rivera is also recognized as an accomplished sculptor and figure drawing
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artist. He exhibits at Southlight Gallery downtown, teaches at CoRK Arts District, the Art League of Jacksonville in Mandarin and Murray Hill and hosts various workshops.
“I get as much from my students as they get from me,” Rivera said. “I find other ways to look at art, other choices. It’s about the challenge.”
And boy, does he love a challenge: His last two commissions have been 40-by-30inch watercolor portraits of local judges for the Jacksonville Federal Courthouse. Portraits of this nature are typically created in oil, but watercolor fascinates Rivera.
“Watercolor is so hard,” Rivera said. “There is so much thinking and planning involved. It’s the ‘almost looks like you can’t do it challenge’ that inspires me.”
His process includes meeting with his subject, taking photos, seeing what elements the person wants to include in the portrait, how the person wants to be perceived and Rivera’s ability to “capture the presence” of his subject.
When his first portrait in the judge series was revealed, the ever-humble painter attended what he thought would be “a
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little get together with the judge and a few friends.” Instead, there was a band, three bars and dancing. He said he was over the moon.
Born in Manhattan, Rivera rose from humble beginnings to become a celebrated photographer and graphic designer whose work included photographing various celebrities around the country.
After moving to Jacksonville years ago as a staff photographer, he was encouraged by fellow artist and UNF Art Professor Louise Freshman Brown during a particularly despondent time in his life.
Rivera met nationally acclaimed painter Allison Watson while judging an art exhibit and to the delight of the art community, the greatly admired and revered artists married less than two years ago and now share their lives and artistic journey.
Their art will be on display at Southlight Gallery at Downtown’s Art Walk Dec. 4.
Interesting artifacts adorn the yard of the historical Riverside home of Lana Shuttleworth and author and historian Dr. Wayne Wood, and the couple’s creative sculptures offer fun, whimsy, and a feast for the eyes.
Shuttleworth gave a dynamic presentation of her life and work at Happy Medium Books Café to the National League of American Pen Women. Following that, she and Wood guided the group on a sculpture and studio tour as she explained the creative process involved in her innovative wall sculptures and three-dimensional work based on the use of polyvinyl chloride- materials such as traffic cones and other plastics.
The group was enthralled with the beauty of the architecture of the Prairie-style house, the collected relics of Jacksonville history and the humorous and interesting stories provided
by Shuttleworth and Wood.
Jennifer Wolfe’s Women Writing for A Change hosted artists Teresa Cook and Emily Mitchell at its recent gathering and the group will be celebrating its 10-year anniversary at Confluence: Celebrating 10 Years of Conscious, Connected Community on Dec. 7 at The Riverside House.
For merry measure, the opening of FSCJ Professor Dustin Harewood’s exhibit at SHARE Gallery in San Marco was a lively and well-attended event with students, collectors, art enthusiasts and fellow instructors, such as Patrick Miko, gathering to celebrate some of Harewood’s latest colorful works on wood and paper.
So, strike the harp and join the chorus for Yuletide events galore!
DEC. 1: Gallery Brunch Hop, 11 a.m. to 4 p.m., various locations, visit Florida Mining’s Facebook page for map
Dec. 4: Art Walk - Downtown
Dec. 5: Ghosts of Jacksonville Art Exhibition Reception, 6 p.m., Vandroff Gallery at the Jewish Community Alliance (8505 San Jose Blvd.)
Dec. 6: “The Tides that Bind” Painting by Paul Ladnier Reception, 5 to 7 p.m., The Cummer Museum Bank of America Concourse (829 Riverside Ave.)
Dec. 6: Christmas in Avondale,5 to 9 p.m., The Shoppes of Avondale
Dec. 7- 28th (Kids Day Dec. 14th): The Jacksonville History Center’s Gingerbread Extravaganza, various times, Old St. Andrews Church (317 A Philip Randolph Blvd.)
Dec. 8: Doug Johnson Exhibit Reception, 2 to 4 p.m., Happy Medium Books Cafe (2724 Park St.)
Dec. 8: Riverside Avondale Preservation’s Luminaria, see map and info on page 41.
Dec. 13- 14: The 33rd Annual Community Nutcracker Ballet, various times, Florida Theatre
Dec. 14: The Florida Ballet’s The Nutcracker at Thrasher-Horne Center
Dec. 13-15: Jax Symphony: 2024 Nutcracker, various times, Jacksonville Center for Performing Arts - Moran Theater
Dec.14 and 15: Jax Symphony: Handel’s Messiah, various times, Jacksonville Center for the Performing Arts - Jacoby Hall
Dec. 14: Jacksonville Artists Guild’s “Futurama” Pop-up Art Exhibition Reception, 2 to 4 p.m., North Point Dental Galleries (11257 Alta Drive)
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Dec. 7: “Handmade for the Holidays” Open House, 1 to 4 p.m., The Arts Center Gallery (320 E. Adams St.)
Dec. 7: Women Writing for a Change’s Confluence: Celebrating 10 Years of Conscious, Connected Community, 4:30 to 9 p.m., The Riverside House (2165 Park St.)
Dec. 15: A Service of Lessons and Carols, 10:30 to 11:30 a.m., Riverside Presbyterian Church (849 Park Street)
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Harriet Beecher Stowe Sculpture Revealed Cultural Council Awards $600,000 in Grants to Local Artists
By Peggy Harrell Jennings
The long-awaited sculpture of Harriet Beecher Stowe by acclaimed artist Brenda Councill was revealed last month at the Mandarin Museum and Historical Society.
It was installed beside St. Joseph’s Mission Schoolhouse at Walter Jones Historical Park on Mandarin Road and dedicated in a ceremony on Nov. 17.
Speakers at the ceremony included City Councilman Michael Boylan, City of Jacksonville Parks, Recreation and Community Services Director Daryl Jospeh, Mandarin Museum Executive Director Brittany Cohill, Board President Patrick Plumlee, Board Vice President Sandy Arpen, and Councill herself.
A highlight of the event was the reading of a letter from Stowe’s great-great-granddaughter, Rosamund Warren- Allen, who worked closely with Councill and the museum to bring the concept to fruition. She remarked that her ancestor was dedicated to social justice and hoped the sculpture would “inspire us to blaze our own trail.”
Councill has worked on the wax sculpture this last year as the public was invited to watch the progression of the work and interact with her as she used the Old Mandarin Store and Post Office as her studio. The final step in the process was sending it up to North Carolina for bronzing.
The interactive piece depicts Stowe, who lived in Mandarin in the 1870s and is best known as the author of “Uncle Tom’s Cabin” and "Palmetto Leaves,” reading to two children.
Councill said the idea has been in her mind for many years. Growing up in Mandarin near Stowe’s home, Councill was aware from an early age of the historical significance of Stowe’s contributions to literature and teaching, which influenced her own artistic vision for such a significant addition to Jacksonville, the state of Florida and the nation’s history. Councill wanted to create a sculpture so that people could get close to Stowe and the arrangement of the figures allows for that personal awareness and brings the viewer into a moment in history.
Careful research was involved in the project and Councill used local people as models for placement and reference. Jacksonville has come together to support a beautiful and timely memorial for a woman whose life was dedicated to improving the lives of others and promoting justice and equality for all.
The Cultural Council of Greater Jacksonville recently presented 60 local artists with $10,000 grants each through the first-ever Individual Artists Grant Pilot Program. The artists were celebrated at a press conference at City Hall.
More than 300 artists applied through the grant program, which is designed to assist practicing professional artists in any medium or discipline residing in Duval County. Awardees will also receive coaching and professional development training through September 30, 2025.
“As champions for Jacksonville’s creative sector and vibrant cultural landscape, we believe in the transformative power of arts and culture, mutually enhancing economic growth and quality of life for our city,” said Diana Donovan, executive director of the Cultural Council of Greater Jacksonville. “This first cohort of the Individual Artists Grant Pilot Program represents best-in-class talent that is already here in our city. It is essential that we retain our talent and attract others to Jacksonville.”
In presenting the awards, Mayor Donna Deegan noted that upon taking office she convened an Arts, Culture and Entertainment (ACE) transition committee to advise her administration.
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Sixty local artists each received a $10,000 grant through the Cultural Council of Greater Jacksonville’s Individual Artists Grant Pilot Program.
Artist Brenda Councill with statue of Harriet Beecher Stowe
Protect Your Accounts from Fraud
It begins with a frantic call from a brother, sister, father, or mother. They are near tears because the Fraudster has convinced them that their loved one is in danger, hurt, or in jail. They need to send money urgently. They share their account numbers and password, then poof…$50,000 disappears, never to return. In this article, we will tell you about the 4 best steps, in priority order, to prevent a call like this.
In another example, Mom or Dad has been scammed and sent out their personal information, or the fraudster convinced them that they are from Microsoft and need access to Mom or Dad’s computer. The first thing to do is tell them to hang up on the fraudster! Then unplug or power down their computer. Once these two steps are done, you can begin to help them.
How big is the problem you ask? I need you to picture a nice office park, maybe 6 buildings, about 4 stories tall. Each department of the fraudster enterprise will have up to 10,000 workers. They work 3 shifts, 7 days a week with the sole purpose of stealing money from Americans. They are in countries like Russia, China, North
Korea, and India and they speak English very well, with little accent. You can go online to YouTube and similar services to see actual video of the office parks and watch them work their schemes on unsuspecting Americans.
Becoming a victim of fraud is embarrassing, but please know that they trick young people, business executives, and many smart people. When we are holding a board meeting and going over security, we will ask for a show of hands if a close family member has been scammed online. It is almost all hands up at these meetings. So, what are you to do?
Let us start with the big 4.
• Freeze your credit to prevent unauthorized opening of accounts
• Use 2-factor authentication on ALL financial accounts.
• Set good passwords on your accounts including your cell phone account.
• Use a virus checker that looks for malware.
Freeze your credit information at all 4 credit bureaus: Experian, Equifax, Innovis, and Trans Union. Unfortunately, your
information is probably already out on the Dark Web and for sale. Crime syndicates have hacked many companies, and they sell the information to fraudsters. The fraudster can then open a credit card in your name and spend it on purchases you never authorized. Freezing your credit prevents this easy form of fraud. This is a free service and can be accomplished by going to the credit bureaus’ website or calling them.
Set up 2-factor authentication on all financial account log-ins. Even if the fraudsters have figured out your password, they will now need the 6-digit code that has been sent to your mobile phone to login. Some banks/funds will not reimburse you for fraud if you do not have the 2-factor turned on…so turn it on.
Create strong passwords. Quit using the same password for every account, or at least use good passwords for your financial accounts. Do not use your date of birth, your pet’s name, or your college mascot. Try to have 12 digits with a combination of letters, numbers and special characters. Husbands and wives should stop sharing financial passwords and instead set up a sign-on and password for each of you. Some banks/ investment firms will not reimburse you for fraud if you have shared your password.
And finally, always use a virus check software on your computer. Use a reputable company and keep the software up to date.
There is good news on this front. Many large software companies may have this included, and all you need to do is turn it on for each of your devices.
Please take the time today to implement the 4 best steps discussed in this article to ensure your finances are secure. The fraudsters will be coming after your money… protect yourself now to prevent the headache and loss later. Please give Walsh Investment Consulting Group a call if you want to simplify your life and finances.
Disclaimer: This article provides general information and should not be considered personalized financial advice. Consult your professional advisor for personalized recommendations. Investment products and services are offered through Wells Fargo Advisors Financial Network, LLC (WFAFN), Member SIPC. Walsh Investment Consulting Group is a separate entity from WFAFN.
This holiday season, give your friends and family tickets for an extraordinary journey across cultural landscapes that will leave them amazed, inspired, and filled with hope. Shen Yun brings profound and timeless stories to life on stage through classical Chinese dance, ground-breaking technology, and an uplifting musical fusion of East and West. This is a stunning and emotional experience they won’t find anywhere else. And the best part? You’ll be right next to them, sharing the adventure.
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Luminaria has become one of the premier holiday events in Jacksonville and a legacy for the Riverside Avondale neighborhood. This year, we will be entering in our 40th wonderful example of community pride and dedication to our neighborhood.
The event is community driven involving many volunteers, and includes events planned and coordinated throughout the Historic District.
PURCHASE YOUR KITS today from Riverside Avondale Preservation online or at the Riverside Arts Market. Drive thru kit sales at 2623 Herschel St., Jacksonville, FL 32204. Saturday & Sunday 10-4. Riversideavondale.org. Merchandise available: posters, keepsake totes, and magnets!
By buying your Luminaria kit through RAP, you help supply free Luminaria candles and bags to our parks, public spaces, and places of worship at no cost to them. Thank you for your support!
The Mills Campus Takes Shape: Youth Crisis Center Begins Construction of New Community Space
By Michele Leivas
The Youth Crisis Center held a groundbreaking ceremony last month for its Maternity Independent Living and Life Skills (MILLS) program for pregnant women and young mothers caring for children under the age of two who are experiencing homelessness.
The ceremony was held on Friday, Nov. 1 at the YCC campus, attended by city and state representatives and community stakeholders.
Comprised of five duplexes — 10 tiny homes in total — The Mills will be a gated community providing its residents with free long-term residential housing. Additionally, it will provide a range of services for its residents, including parenting classes, mental health counseling, academic monitoring and support, career development and training, job placement and academic monitoring and support.
The program will serve young women ages 18 to 24.
Youth Crisis Center President and CEO Kim Sirdevan said the program’s mandatory mental health counseling is intended to help reduce the stigma surrounding therapy and the added security of a gated community will address any issues of domestic violence.
“Residents will have a place to heal, knowing that they have a safe place to stay each night, free of a waitlist,” Sirdevan said
during her address at the ceremony.
State Senator Jennifer Bradley and State Representative Kiyan Michael helped secure funding for the project. Michael spoke of the critical need for this program in the Jacksonville community and how impactful
It’s going to go from being a house to a home and it’s a blessing. We may never know the countless amount of lives that [Youth Crisis Center] will impact, will save, will benefit, will take further, but I’m filled with gratitude to be here.
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it’s going to be in the lives of its residents.
“It’s going to go from being a house to a home and it’s a blessing,” Michael said. “We may never know the countless amount of lives that [Youth Crisis Center] will impact, will save, will benefit, will take further, but I’m filled with gratitude to be here.”
Founded in 1974, Youth Crisis Center began as the state’s first runaway program but quickly evolved into “one of the largest and best-known providers of services for youth and families,” with an emphasis on care surrounding traumatic situations like abuse, homelessness, divorce, relocation, loss of life and bullying. It provided service to more than 2,000 individuals in 2023 alone.
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Youth Crisis Center Board Chairman Matt Ohlson, U.S. Rep. John Rutherford, state Rep. Kiyan Michael, YCC President and CEO Kim Sirdevan, state Sen. Clay Yarborough and Jacksonville City Councilmember Kevin Carrico
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Grey Muzzle Grant to Provide Aid for First Coast Senior Dogs
By Julie Kerns Garmendia
First Coast No More Homeless Pets (FCNMHP) received bark-worthy news recently when The Grey Muzzle Organization, a national nonprofit, awarded them a $10,000 grant. The grant funds charitable veterinary care and other necessities for senior dogs whose owners cannot afford treatment but desperately want to keep their pets. It also provides specific care for senior dogs in shelters to make them more adoptable.
Adoption rates for senior pets (7+ years old) are lower than all other age groups combined: only about 50% of senior dogs find homes. Their chances of adoption can also be hurt by the possible need for additional veterinarian services or specialized care; providing those necessities greatly decreases their chances of adoption.
Believing they must surrender a pet can cause debilitating stress for pet owners and this separation can negatively impact the owner as well.
“An unwanted separation from a pet can be devastating for an owner,” said Jennifer Applebaum. “We
recommend that people who own pets be supported in keeping them.”
Health benefits of senior pet ownership
Applebaum, PhD, MA, MS is a fellow at the NIH and a professor at the University of Florida Department of Environmental & Global Health. She led UF, University of Michigan, and Virginia Commonwealth researchers in a study of 1,300 senior citizens aged 50 or older. Those subjects were part of the NIH Health and Retirement Study that tracked 20,000 U.S. adults to learn about pet ownership and aging-related issues. The study included primarily dogs but also cats and other pets.
The report found that senior pets offer lifetime benefits for owners' physical and emotional well-being, especially for senior citizens with whom they naturally have much in common. Senior pets typically move at a slower, more careful pace with an energy level that adapts to their owner’s activity level. Senior pets are often calmer, fully trained, and in sync with the daily routine of their families, allowing them to become a constant source of stress and anxiety reduction, companionship, unconditional acceptance, and support.
The “Journal of American Medicine” January 2024 issue reported results from an eight-year study showing pet ownership's direct effects on aging issues. The English Longitudinal Study of Aging showed a slower decline in cognitive scores for those who owned pets for at least five years, with increasing benefits for long-term pet owners.
Pets served as a "stress buffer," preserving verbal memory, fluency, and mental and physical function. Among those who lived alone, pet ownership significantly enhanced overall well-being and reduced loneliness - a risk factor for dementia and cognitive decline.
Putting grant funds to use
FCNMHP CEO Jennifer Barker announced the grant award and explained how it will help keep Jacksonville
senior pets healthy as they age while ensuring they can enjoy their golden years with those who love them. Barker is a proud foster failure with several dog and cat rescues, including her much-loved senior dog Layla, a 10-year-old mixed-breed rescue poodle. Barker explained how this issue hits home for her because she simply cannot imagine her own family without their pets.
“We are so grateful for this generous grant because it will help us give senior dogs the veterinary, dental, or other care they need. The Grey Muzzle Organization grant is important because it is one of the few that target aging pets whose owners cannot afford necessary care,” Barker said. “This generous grant helps ensure that owners can keep the pet they love so much."
Since 2008, Grey Muzzle Organization has worked for "a world where every senior dog thrives, and no old dog dies alone and afraid” by distributing more than $5.6 million in grants. It is the largest national nonprofit focused on the well-being of senior dogs who need help.
The impact of First Coast No More Homeless Pets
FCNMHP was founded in 2002 and expanded to two Jacksonville locations on Cassat and Norwood avenues. One of the largest spay/neuter facilities in the U.S., the organization is recognized as one of the largest safety-net teaching veterinary hospitals in Northeast Florida and Southeast Georgia.
Their goal is to ensure that no senior pet will ever be surrendered to shelters or euthanized due to an owner’s inability to afford veterinarian care or supplies. To further that mission, FCNMHP provides more than $425,000 in charitable care to senior animals in need each year. They provide services to approximately 74,000 dogs and cats, perform nearly 23,000 spay/neuter surgeries, and distribute 120,000 pounds of free pet food.
Other community services they offer behind the scenes include professional and paraprofessional educational opportunities and cooperative collaborations with domestic pet rescue organizations throughout the region to help prepare thousands of animals for successful adoption.
Fun, Food and Bluegrass at Holy Trinity Fall Festival
Holy Trinity Anglican Church welcomed 200 people to its seventh annual Fall Festival on Sunday, Nov. 17. No one left hungry, with food and baked goods provided by 10 pitmasters and dozens of bakers. Little ones enjoyed the bounce houses and The Barnyard Bunch’s mobile petting zoo and everyone enjoyed live music courtesy of Lonesome Ride Bluegrass.
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6 p.m. Holy Eucharist Candlelight service with the St. John’s Cathedral Choir & brass 11 p.m. Holy Eucharist Candlelight service with the St. John’s Cathedral Choir & brass Incense will be used. This service is livestreamed.
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10:30 a.m. Holy Eucharist with the Cathedral Choir
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5 p.m. Nine Lessons & Carols with the Cathedral Choir
Gwendolyn Tibbetts with little ones Elianna and Adeline
Holy Trinity Senior Warden Chris Yates with Melissa from The Barnyard Bunch
Lonesome Ride Bluegrass provides the tunes for Holy Trinity Anglican Church’s seventh annual Fall Festival.
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By Holly Tishfield
Esther Budnik has spent her entire life in Duval County, growing up along the banks of the St. Johns River and immersing herself in the city’s vibrant creative scene. She now uses her artistic talents to help others capture some of life’s precious moments.
Budnik attended Florida State College and while she initially pursued studies in healthcare and medical sciences, she began considering a career in fine arts instead. It was a passion that she’d nurtured since she was a young teenager, though she wasn’t sure if she was ready to trade a secure career for the uncertain one of an artist.
“I was back and forth between the two, and figuring out what I wanted to do,” Budnik said. “I've always really liked art, but I was scared to make it a career.”
She ultimately decided to switch her degree, fully committing to her career as an artist.
Budnik’s artistic career dates back to her middle school days when an art teacher took notice of her skill during a watercolor painting exercise and encouraged her to foster the talent. At just 14 years old, Budnik began selling her artwork thanks to assistance from her teacher.
“I owe a lot of my art career to him,” she said. “He pushed me and showed me how much I actually enjoy it.”
These days, Budnik divides her time between watercolor and acrylic paintings, focusing on commissioned and personalized pieces. Her most recent line of work includes live wedding paintings, where clients hire her to capture a portrait of the newlyweds in real-time during the ceremony. Her fascination with this style of painting began after discovering a
TikTok page of another popular artist who created similar work and was intrigued by the challenge of trying something new.
“I practiced every single day,” Budnik said. “I would go to the park and paint from life, to teach myself.”
After months of practice, Budnik decided to try her new painting technique at a friend’s wedding, offering her services free of charge in exchange for the real-time experience she gained. The painting was a success and Budnik was thrilled with the new opportunities that lay ahead of her.
“It's a meaningful piece of work, something people really enjoy,” she said. “I love the live aspect of it, interacting with people. I definitely feel a lot happier being able to do this.”
In the future, Budnik hopes to continue pursuing her commissions and live-painting career. She loves the idea of traveling the world, capturing the people and places she visits through her paintings and hopes to make this dream a reality. She runs a successful Instagram account, @estherbud_art, where clients can discover her work.
Another goal is displaying her artwork in a gallery.
“I've never shown my work at a gallery, just because most of my stuff is custom, but I would love to do that someday,” Budnik said.
Esther Budnik
Live Painting Action of The Lightner Museum
Live Painting The Club at Grandezza, Estero, FL
Audrey Cynthia Kelley Williams THE WAY WE WERE
By Peggy Harrell Jennings
Weighing a mere four pounds and two ounces when she was born on December 27, 1937, at St. Luke’s Hospital, baby Audrey Cynthia “Cindy” Kelley was fed goat’s milk and grew to be the dynamic, vivacious, independent-thinking woman she is today.
Her favorite Bible verse is, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” — and she has called on that strength many times throughout her 86 years. Raised by her mother since her parents divorced when she was a child and her stepfather was away in the Merchant Marine, she never really had a father figure except her grandfather.
“I didn’t realize until I got older how important my mother was. She was always there for me,” Cindy said.
This gracious lady sprinkles her conversation with Southern witticisms. After graduating from Andrew Jackson High School, she attended nursing school at Jacksonville Technical High and Duval Medical Center. Fate would intervene there one day, when a supervisor asked her to take some ice chips to a young man who had just had his appendix out. She walked into the room to find a groggy, black-haired, green-eyed Bernie Williams, who took one look at her and said, “Hello, beautiful.”
After that, they immediately became an item. One night, after they’d been dating for a while, they visited the 5 Points Movie Theatre to see a screening of Marlon Brando’s “The Tea House of the August Moon.” The theatre was so crowded, they wound up standing on the balcony and it wasn’t long before Bernie suggested they continue their evening elsewhere. They found themselves on a walk at the Peninsula building.
“He couldn’t wait to get that ring on my finger,” Cindy recalled. “…It was so cold — the wind was blowing — and I put my hand in his pocket. He thought I’d felt what he had hidden in there. He pulled out a ring and said, ‘I don’t have any fancy words, but I love you. Will you marry me?’”
The couple wed in September and three months later, Cindy was pregnant with their first child. She still completed her studies and was the first pregnant woman to graduate later that year.
“That baby is sixty-five years old now,” Cindy said, laughing.
The couple had two daughters, Tina (Phillip Brown) and Julie (Ray McGowan), four grandchildren and three great grandchildren.
Williams describes their first years as poor. Neighbors lent them money to build a home for their young family.
“Bernie was a controlling husband, and I had the children, so I didn’t work outside the home. I was a good Mama, but I lost my independence,” Cindy recalled.
In addition to running the household and raising two children, Cindy would also make clothes for herself and her girls. Eventually, she would also be a caretaker for her mother and then, later, her father for 10 years.
Bernie passed away in 2005 from Parkinson’s disease and leukemia, but they shared many years as Gator Fans going to University of Florida games and singing with the Williams Brothers’ Quartet. They spent time in their home near Branford, Florida on the Santa Fe River..
She worked as an Avon Lady and when her husband balked at the idea, she drove their red pick-up truck to
work her huge client base. After Bernie passed, Cindy vowed never to marry again.
“I was single for several years and just as happy as a lark,” Cindy said. “Girls got married too soon back in my day. You have to find out who you are – love yourself first. I learned not to let some man run over you.”
She spotted Ed Murphy, a “friendly, jovial man,” while attending Branford’s First Baptist Church and one day, she invited him along with some friends to her house for dinner. Ed was very sweet, smart and brave — and he thought she was gorgeous. Sadly, they had only been married a few months and were planning a trip to Miami to meet his friends when Ed was diagnosed with severe heart issues, became depressed and, determined not to “be a burden on her,” and took his life.
In 10 years, this stalwart woman lost her beloved mother, her sister, two husbands, her daughter Julie, and her only grandson. Her granddaughter Lacey McGowan remarked that her grandmother is an amazingly resilient woman whose motto is “Don’t just deal with it, make the most of it.” To honor the legacy of her mother and grandmother Lacey has “Most of it” tattooed on her ankle in her grandmother’s handwriting.
Cindy loves to cook and misses having her own kitchen now that she lives in assisted living. She is a “gatherer” who loves to get folks together so her granddaughter and her friend Ronald’s granddaughter chauffeur her to Publix to shop so she can cook her famous roast beef, green beans, potatoes and homemade chocolate pie at Ronald’s house. Although she no longer rides horses, she continues to garden, play bingo and loves to go barefoot while keeping her hair coiffed and her lipstick just so — always making “the most of it.”
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Here we are in December, the happiest, most miraculous and wonderful time of the year. Let’s deck those halls and jingle some bells? Joy to the world, right? No? For some folks, this month’s holiday season brings more hum drum and boohoo than ho, ho and ho. It’s a reminder of the people who are no longer with us and the traditions that are just not the same anymore. For some folks, December is all about Blue Christmas, Blue Christmas or the longest night, a time when we reflect on loved ones lost and deep grief.
At the risk of being a total downer, I thought I’d shine a little holiday light on the grieving among us and how we can support our neighbors, friends and family who may be experiencing or reliving loss this season. As a person who has lost many loved ones in the past few decades –including some during the holidays – I am deeply grateful for the folks who bravely stepped in and loved on me during my dark, yucky moments. I figured this season of Blue Christmas might be a great time to reflect on grief support best practices (and a few grief support don’ts) so that folks in our kind and compassionate Resident Community are better equipped to buoy a grieving person when the opportunity presents itself.
Before I launch into what’s worked in my experience, allow me to share a little advice from the smart people out there who study this sort of thing for a living. An article from Harvard Health Publishing
at Harvard Medical School suggests supporting someone who is grieving by doing the following:
• Name names: Don’t be afraid to mention the deceased.
• Change your greeting: Replace “How are you?” with “How are you feeling today?”
• Offer hope: Reassure them that things will get better.
• Help out: Assist with meals, avoid judgments and offer a sympathetic ear.
This is all excellent and a great launch for a discussion on grieving support dos and don’ts. I’d like to add “just go the funeral,” “just send the note,” “just do it” and “just be,” to the above list. I’ll start with the latter.
When my mother passed away unexpectedly on Dec. 17, 1992, I dreaded coming home from college to our big quiet house. But without prompting or plan, my aunt, uncle and grandmother came to our house to just – be. Each morning, I woke up wondering if Mom’s passing was a weird dream and went downstairs to find my aunt and uncle sitting in our den, drinking coffee, reading the newspaper and just – being. It was a huge comfort. When my father was in the hospital nearly 30 years later, hooked up to a ventilator and at death’s door, my cousin would “just be” with me in the wee hours of the morning, sending texts and love and reminding me I wasn’t alone. That’s the way you make someone feel when you can share the gift of presence and “just be.”
To “just do” something is a similar gift.
Think of a way you can support a grieving loved one and just freaking do it. Don’t ask permission or poll others or think too hard about it. Just do it. Send the food, the gift, the card, the text, the call, the housekeeping, the caterer, the flowers, the…whatever. Just do it. Don’t get caught up in whether it’s appropriate or socially acceptable or the right time. Do whatever it is you think will be meaningful.
“Just send the note” is the easiest, least expensive and most meaningful thing you can do. I remember receiving many cards of sympathy after my parents died, but one of the ones that stood out the most was a note from the mother of an ex-boyfriend. I hadn’t thought of her in years, and she was nowhere near my close circles of anything. And yet, she took the time to write me a note and share with me what she learned from the passing of her mother. It meant the world to me. Just send the note.
“Just go to the funeral” is the last little ditty on my “just” list. That’s an easy one. Go to the funeral. Don’t worry so much about whether you knew the person well enough or have selfish thoughts about other people thinking it’s weird you’re there or any similar nonsense. Just go to the funeral. People grieving never remember who was at the funeral, but they remember who wasn’t.
Here are some other acts of love that have been meaningful to me over the years:
My friend Suzanne took the beautiful photos of my father’s home that I’d posted on Facebook, downloaded them and published them all in a sweet little booklet that I’ll cherish for the rest of my life. It was such a sweet, do-able gesture that I will remember to do for someone else when the occasion presents itself.
My friend Laura did something similar for our dog Dot when she crossed the rainbow bridge earlier this year. When our dog Emmy died, the kids made photo albums and framed photos of Emmy and me – that was really special! My friend Kristin gave me the Shel
Silverstine book Missing Piece, which was also heartwarming.
Some people gave to my father’s passion projects in his memory. I didn’t think this would be so important, but it inspired me to always get off my wallet and give to the “in lieu of flowers” gifting opportunity linked in an obituary. It’s a tremendous show of support to the griever.
Flowers are nice and sometimes are just the thing that helps when a person is grieving. For example, when my father died and we came back to his empty apartment, there was a knock on the door and it was the most beautiful flower arrangement from my friend Lev and his partner, Sandra Oh (yes, that Sandra Oh!). It was so perfectly timed and so meaningful that I was brought to tears!
Some of the most memorable acts of love and sympathy has been through food – especially the kind that appears on your front porch with no fanfare or communication. My friend Laura’s mother brought over the biggest, cheesiest, most piping hot tray of Luby’s cheese enchiladas to the house after my father passed and I’ll never forget it. I’ll also never forget how my mom’s cousins and their spouses – all of them – piled in a car together and came to my brother’s house with a supper offering and big hugs. To rally the village that way…wow! Also seared in my memory are my sweet aunt and uncle – the same aunt and uncle who could “just be” at our house after Mom’s death – who came over with a delivery of Kentucky Fried Chicken buckets and a case of chilled Chardonnay. Bless them.
At the end of the day, supporting the grieving – especially during the Blue Christmas month of December – does not have to be expensive, difficult, extravagant or indulgent. It just has to – be. A friend who lost her second child a year ago this spring said it best when she shared this advice: “Many people don’t know what “to do” with friends and family who are grieving. From my perspective, always honor the loss. Share a favorite (or not) memory! Tell us how much you want to hear from or see or feel her/him. Share a dream or sign you had! Do not fear that you will “upset” us. We yearn to know that we are not the only one keeping the spirit alive.”
As you celebrate the holidays this year and account for your many blessings and sources of gratitude, look for opportunities to “just be” for the neighbors and friends who’ve lost. It’s the best gift there is.
A Season of Peace and Comfort
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