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December 2016 | Issue 166 | BD1 / SR10

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TRAVEL Our pick of the best Christmas Markets

WELLBEING

Stub It Out, ditch the evil weed

FASHION Red Alert, how to wear seasonal colours

60 GREAT GIFTS

Ideas to suit every taste and pocket ISSUE 166

KATHERYN WINNICK RAYMOND WEIL’s brand ambassador Katheryn Winnick introduces the new dazzling shine collection. Feminine, elegant and sensual, this exclusive collection features a unique patented system of interchangeable bracelets. It is presented with two straps, a steel bracelet and a black satin strap. shine is a pure jewel for independent women who want their watch to be a part of every occasion.

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DECEMBER 6 Over To You 8 The Month in Focus

SHOPPING

10 Pick of the Month: Put a Ring On It 12 Editor’s Choice: Santa's Coming to Town

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FASHION

14 Fashion Trend: The It Bag 16 Fashion Forward: Backstage Pass 20 Get the Look: Lady in Red

PEOPLE

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23 Frances Stafford: Free-spirited Fashion 24 Mona Almoayyed: Leading the Way 26 Nada Kazim: Enriching Family Ties

FEATURE GIFT GUIDE

34-39 Great gift ideas for the whole family

FEATURE JEWELLERY 42 It's a Bling Thing

BEAUTY

48 News: The latest products in the stores 50 Celeb Spot: Vanessa Moody

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LIFESTYLE

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54 Wellbeing: Stub It Out 60 Food: Review Furn 62 Food: Review Cavalli Caffe 63 Food: Chef's Special 66 Homes: A Very Merry Affair 72 Travel: Festive Fare

PARENTING

75 Fernanda Langhammer: Creative Gifting 76 Advice: Dr Jinan Harith Darwish 77 Tech Kids: Cyber Christmas 78 Lamar Kanafani: Become a Spank-free Zone 79 Horoscope: What to expect this month 80 In Her Shoes: Nataliia Matskevych

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EDITOR’S NOTE

ecember means my favourite time of the year is fast approaching and putting together this month’s issue has given me the ideal opportunity to indulge my, usually quite subdued, Christmas fever.

To get you into the festive spirit, our Gift Guide showcases more than 60 great pressie ideas to cater for everyone from Great Aunt Flo to the neighbour’s cat. And we’ve also gone a bit Christmas crazy elsewhere with a fab selection of Yuletide markets in the travel pages, a whole range of fun Christmasthemed goodies from me in editor’s choice, seasonal style in Get the Look and Homes plus ideas to help parents make the most of the season.

Our interviewees this month are a group of inspiring women.

Mona Almoayyed chats to Apple Sharma about social conscience, breaking the glass ceiling and making the influential Forbes Middle East List of Most Influential Arab Women again. Nada Kazim gives Behnaz Sanjana the lowdown on the work of the Aisha Yateem Family Couselling Centre, which helps abused women. And designer Frances Stafford shows off items from her brand new label’s launch collection.

For those looking to splash out over the coming weeks, you’ll find tips on buying gold and diamonds and in our food pages there are recipes to try and Puja Tiwari’s thoughts on a very chic new dining venue.

In the wellbeing pages there are hints on giving up the evil weed, a subject close to my heart – as I write this I am almost five days smoke-free and feeling optimistic. And, as always, we have round-ups of the latest fashion, style and beauty news to keep you bang up to date.

Hope you have as much fun reading our festive issue as we’ve had putting it together and wishing you a very, Merry Christmas from all at Woman This Month.

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Our month: Marise and Pearlyn had fun at The Domain Hotel’s Breast Cancer Awareness event. Behnaz enjoyed meeting Joshua Ray Gooch at the Ambassador Stores performance.

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TRAVEL Our pick of the best Christmas Markets

December 2016, Issue 166 On the cover: The Festive Issue

WELLBEING

Stub It Out, ditch the evil weed

FASHION Red Alert, how to wear seasonal colours

60 GREAT GIFTS

Ideas to suit every taste and pocket ISSUE 166

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OVER TO YOU

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Woman This Month’s Fitness First Middle East Contest engaged people the most on Facebook and received the highest number of likes and shares.

Beat The Slump by Behnaz Sanjana, content from Woman This Month online, was the post with highest engagement on Instagram

Win, Win, Win

This month we’re giving three lucky readers the chance to win dinner for two at one of the restaurants at the gorgeous Al Areen Palace & Spa. Check out the Middle Eastern and global dishes at all-daydining venue Rimal or sample Khaleeji cuisine at the gold and purple bedecked Saffron with its fabulous views of the resort’s grand pools.

Enjoy Asian specialities under the tented roof of Keizo or head for the newest offering, Roti Boti, for authentic Indian fare in a terraced garden setting.

You’ve got to be in it to win it, so keep your eye on our social media channels for details.

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I loved the 'Homes & Gardens' feature in the November issue, particularly the interview with Zahra Abdul Malik. It sounds like she has had an interesting life and has put her study to good use in Bahrain Garden Club – you’ve almost convinced me to join. However, one thing I do take issue with is Liz O’Reilly’s list of the plants to grow here in Bahrain. I’ve tried for years to grow lavender and each time the leaves just go black and it dies off. I’ve been told by lots of people that it simply doesn’t grow here so Liz must have very green fingers, perhaps she’d like to come to my house and share her secret.

Mina.

Ed: I think I was just very lucky, I really didn’t do anything special but I suspect planting the lavender in a bed of basil gave the delicate plants some shade from the sun. I must admit, after a year, I am now seeing the dreaded black leaf you mention so I’ve cut the plants right back and am just hoping for the best.

What’s caught our eye in the news this month.

Congratulations on the 'Homes & Gardens' item in last month’s issue.

Do you have any idea where I can buy the ice plants mentioned in the round-up of things that will grow here? I’ve often seen them in pots when out and about but have never managed to find them in the garden centres.

Fatima.

Ed: I actually tried to buy some this week and was told they are a summer flowering plant so not available at the moment. I guess it’s just a matter of keeping your eyes open when you’re at the garden centre.

Got something you want to get off your chest? Congratulations, commiserations and remonstrations all welcome. We’ll carry the best one each week.

#Black Swan. An event or occurrence that deviates beyond what is normally expected of a situation and that would be extremely difficult to predict. This term was popularised by Nassim Nicholas Taleb's book The Black Swan: The Impact of the Highly Improbable. Mr Taleb is a finance professor and former Wall Street trader.

He took his title from the shock Europeans experienced when they discovered black swans in Australia. Until then, their data told them that all swans were white, so the discovery was unexpected. The term has been widely used to describe the election of Donald Trump as the next President of the United States. “Donald Trump is the biggest unknown ever to take control of the White House.” www.politico.com #Nick Jablonka. An A-level student whose Christmas advert was widely mistaken for the festive John Lewis commercial, has been invited to visit the retailer.

Nick made the video as part of his media coursework, uploading it to YouTube in June where it has now been watched by almost half a million people. www.standard.co.uk

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DECEMBER IN FOCUS What’s on our radar this month?

Bag a Bargain

We truly love a bargain here at WTM, so we’re very excited to be able to tell you about the upcoming Ashraf’s sale, with up to 90 per cent off big name brands from across the group.

Expect internationally known designers, perfumes, cosmetics and fashion all at knockdown prices, just in time for Christmas.

The sale runs from 10am-9pm on December 8, 9 and 10 at Bahrain International Exhibition and Convention Centre.

Charity Champions

There are more bargains to be had at two charity designer sales this month. Volunteers raising cash for the Dogfather’s Animal Rescue and Rehabilitation Centre will be bringing out the best of the year’s donations for a boutique sale at Bahrain Rugby Club on December 2. And the latest Al Nahda Designer Sale runs from 9am-1pm from November 19 to December 3. This is a cause close to Woman This Month’s heart,with proceeds going to support abused women in Bahrain and goodies from the likes of Max Mara, Christian Dior and Amanda Wakley on offer. The event is at Bahrain Young Ladies Association, Building 96, Road 905, Gudaibiya 309.

Going Green

As part of its Wyndham Green programme, Ramada Hotel & Suites Amwaj Islands will host a Green Awareness Day on Friday, December 2, from 9am-4pm with fun activities for kids and parents including a quiz and nature movie and nature and garbage handicraft booths. There’ll also be a garbage handicraft competition for which entries can be submitted at the hotel between November 28 and December 2 from 9am2pm. And, if all that conservation gives you an appetite, there’s 50 per cent off on brunch at Citrus All Day Dining.

A Cultural Nest We’ll be heading to Al Riwaq Art Space on December 15 to support local rockers Belly of Paris who are performing as part of The Nest, the annual outdoor festival organised by the gallery which sees entertainers and vendors setting up in the pedestrian area of Adliya around Block 338. Events run until mid-December and there are usually concerts, street performers, great food and one-off arts and crafts to buy. It’s the perfect place to find quirky festive gifts.

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Christmas Crackers It’s that time of year when the hotels go all out to make us feel festive with reindeer, snow, gifts and, of course, gorgeously decorated Christmas trees. We love the abundance of tree lighting events that happen across the island, which really get the season off to a good start.

Check out ART Rotana on December 3, The Diplomat Radisson Blu on December 6, Crowne Plaza on December 8, Sofitel Zallaq Thalassa Sea & Spa on December 13 and lots of others throughout the month. Think mince pies, carols and Santa Claus and join in the fun to get ready for the big day.

National Day Extravaganza

National Day means time off work and the opportunity to celebrate all things Bahraini with a fab festival at Bahrain International Circuit. Running over three days from December 14-17 there’ll be stalls, entertainment, live shows, rides and lots more including the Kingdom’s biggest fireworks display. www.womanthismonth.com

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LIGHTING OF THE CHRISTMAS TREE Tuesday, 6th December 2016

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The lineup of events for the festive season at this fivestar hotel is guaranteed to blow your baubles off.

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elcome the festive season at the Diplomat Radisson Blu Hotel, Residence and Spa by celebrating in style at the various venues within the property.

Mark your calendars for the Christmas Tree lighting with over 5,000 twinkling adornments and the gingerbread house decoration competition in the lobby area on December 6. There will also be a special appearance from Santa Claus. The confections are for BD10++ with complimentary goodies, icing, and sweets.

Enjoy a magnificent Christmas Eve dinner at Mondo Restaurant with smoked duck breast, scallops, slow cooked turkey roll, sea bass and a traditional log or pudding to end the repast. It is priced at BD29++ inclusive of selected beverages. www.womanthismonth.com

Soak up the true joyful atmosphere with live entertainment at the Christmas brunch at the Grand Ambassador Ballroom on December 23 and 25 from noon to 4pm. This special outing is priced at BD34 with selected beverages. Kids under 12 eat at half price and those under six dine for free.

Travel back in time with a swinging ‘60s soiree at the Havana Nightclub for New Year’s Eve. Sway to the hypnotic beats of the Cuban Yoel Soto band. It is priced at BD65 per person or BD55 if booked before December 15th.

Room packages are available at very competitive rates.

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SHOPPING | pick of the month

Put A Ring On It

These little beauties are just so festive, it would be almost rude not to. We suggest you leave the magazine open somewhere your significant other can spot it and hope Santa is watching. The rings are from the Capri collection from Italian brand Pomellato and feature ceramic molded into irregular cabochon beads with dashes of light provided by amethysts, rubies and other gems.

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SANTA'S COMING TO TOWN Christmas is just around the corner and shops are stocked with special dĂŠcor and clothing for the occasion. Plan the end-of-year celebrations in advance to make the most of all the enchantment and festive feeling of the season.

Gingerbread man hanging decoration, Monsoon 17 179-704.

Evans Christmas collection, 17 178-247.

F&F Christmas collection, 17 162-120.

Cookie cutters, Laura Ashley 17 580-993.

Boys’ sweater, River Island 17 110-370.

Takeaway mug, Costa Coffee 17 369-109.

Holiday mini pigment glitter kit, M.A.C. 17 110-368.

Dog sweater, Dorothy Perkins 17 110-366.

Red and transparent bauble, H&M 17 110-350.

Festive slipper socks, Lipsy London 17 179-385.

Santa cushion, Debenhams 17 110-378.

Sequinned skirt for girls, Next 17 172-050.

Burgundy sandals, New Look 17 179-406.

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Golden sparkly boots, Dune 16 686-215.

Reindeer stocking, Marks & Spencer 17 211-309.

Elf baby bodysuit, M&Co 17 582-110. www.womanthismonth.com

FASHION | trend

THE IT-BAG Celine A/W 2016 show.

Handbags are just like shoes, we can never seem to get enough of them! Besides being important to carry all the necessary bits and bobs, the bag is also an essential accessory to compose a look. We selected the arm- and hand-candy you should be carrying this season!

Black quilted backpack, ALDO 16 686-214.

Black and olive green tote, Vincci 17 178-696.

Caramel saddle bag, Pull & Bear 17 172-305.

Printed black shopper bag, Alexander McQueen at Saks Fifth Avenue 17 172-000.

Gucci A/W 2016 show.

HOW TO WEAR IT?

Burgundy tote, Massimo Dutti 17 172-325.

Brown saddle shoulder bag, MICHAEL Michael Kors 17 178-630.

The 2016 autumn and winter bags are looking big! Ample satchels, shoppers, totes and backpacks are held in the hand, carried hugged to the hip, worn over the shoulder or across the body. Together with the oversized options, the ‘70s’ saddle doesn’t seem ready to leave its throne and is still on the shelves and catwalks.

Tobacco satchel, Nine West 17 179-260.

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Ice blue saddle bag, Shoe Express 17 178-959.

Olive green with golden spike detail, Christian Louboutin at Saks Fifth Avenue 17 172-000.

Burgundy backpack, Kate Spade at Jashanmal 17 582-424.

Balenciaga A/W 2016 show.

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Black backpack, Parfois 17 178-581.

Navy handbag, Bally at Jashanmal 17 582-424.

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FASHION | fashion forward

COLLECTOR’S COLLECTION

At the end of every year, Lacoste releases a ‘Holiday Collector’ edition, inviting artists to give their own interpretation to the brand’s iconic crocodile. For 2016, the graphic artist Jean-Paul Goude is in charge of the design of the logo applied on limited-edition items such as polo-shirts, bomber jackets, bags and clutches. The artist also designed the packaging and the advertising campaigns for Christmas. Jean-Paul Goude’s crocodile is a mix of his childhood in Africa, his love of dance and his fascination with the Bauhaus.

CELEBRATE INDIVIDUALITY

In partnership with Arab Idol winner Mohammed Assaf, the fashion store Max inspires its customers with the second chapter of its campaign, ‘Fashion for Real People’. The idea behind the concept is to celebrate the importance of individuality, allowing each person to discover, embrace and express their own unique style. Much more than adopting the latest trend, Max is all about expressing one’s personality, creativity and emotions. To embody the idea, the Arab youth icon is captured in different moments of his daily life to show off his personal style. “The campaign is a movement that has touched millions of hearts through its inspirational message. I am delighted and privileged to be part of this journey that focuses on positivity and pride in selfexpression,” says Mohammed.

FASHION BOOK

Written by Donatella Versace with Maria Luisa Frisa and Stefano Tonchi, Versace is an intimate visual history of the Italian fashion brand. This richly illustrated book is Donatella’s interpretation of the fashion house in the 21st century and her work as the curator and face of Versace. It includes exclusive contemporary and archival imagery from runway and backstage shots to behind-the-scenes images of the Versace Atelier. Original essays by fashion’s most authoritative voices accompany the visuals. The book features shots by Richard Avedon, Steven Meisel and Mario Testino among other important names in the world of fashion photography.

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ending and r t l, o o c ’s t a wh Our take on fashionable.

CAMERA GLAM

Michael Kors and Fujifilm announce a collaboration, the photography company’s first partnership with a fashion brand. The MICHAEL KORS x FUJIFILM INSTAX mini 70 instant film camera comes in a gold metallic colour that captures the jet-set Michael Kors aesthetic, with the brand logo printed on the front of the camera and the designer’s signature on the camera door. The photographic equipment features a sleek-design high-performance flash and a smart selfie mode. The collaboration was directly inspired by Michael Kors’ ‘Scout’ handbag collection, designed to emulate vintage camera bags. “Using instant photography has always been such an integral part of my creative process, whether it’s snapping photos of looks in preparation for the shows or taking behind-the-scenes shots. It provides the perfect combination of timeless, tangible photos with fast-paced glamour and modern technology,” says Michael Kors. www.womanthismonth.com

THE IT GIRL The face of the American fashion model Gigi Hadid has been everywhere, from numerous catwalk shows and campaigns to collaborations with well-known brands. This autumn, she partners with Stuart Weitzman on an exclusive design for the brand – the Gigi Boot. The hiker-inspired high heel combat bootie was co-designed by the model and is inspired by her street style. The lace-up ankle-boot has a stacked heel, duo-toned laces and a detailed collar.

Available in three versions, black soft croco-calf leather, iron specchio and copper glass.

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H OL IDAY S AHEAD

The French fashion house KENZO created an exclusive capsule collection to celebrate the holidays and end-of-year festivities. It highlights some of the brand’s recognisable elements such as the tiger face, Kenzo Takada signature; and, to celebrate the launch of its new fragrance ‘KENZO world’, many of the pieces draw cues from the new perfume’s bottle.

The Holiday jumpers feature golden embossed Ks and lurex detail for women as well as multiple tiger motifs for both men and women. Another print that covers dresses, bombers and accessories is the ‘all over the eye’ pattern.

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BEST FOOT FORWARD Berry brights and boho boots are highlighted in the latest collection from this high street favourite.

Season’s Greetings

From geometric flats to chunky platforms, autumn/winter 16 at Aldo sees every variation in shoes and sandals cropping up in deep berry colours complemented by pastel pinks. As always, black is a staple that makes its presence felt across the range from strappy gladiators to fierce peep toe heels.

Made for Walking The brand’s boot collection features a huge range of styles from smart, functional flats to jewel-coloured heels and over-the-knee styles, perfect for keeping toasty as the weather cools. Wear them with chunky tights and shorts to channel a festival vibe or cropped culottes to copy the latest catwalk look.

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FASHION | get the look

LADY IN RED Carmin is one of the colours of the season with an extensive variation of tone to please us all.

Be inspired by our looks to add this intense hue to your wardrobe and enjoy the last month of the year in style!

Dual tone sunglasses, Salvatore Ferragamo at ferragamo.com.

Red cold shoulder top, M&Co 17 582-110.

Large brown belt, Hobbs 17 581-078.

Embellished handbag, Aldo Accessories 16 686-214.

Emmy Rossum

White long skirt, Massimo Dutti 17 172-325.

Striped sandals, M Missoni at Saks Fifth Avenue 17 172-000.

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Akris AW 2016

Hobbs AW 2016

SCAR L ET & B R OWN The two colours may not sound like a match, but they do create an interesting result, especially when complemented by a third colour such as navy or white. The long skirt is a statement piece for autumn days, it can be worn with sandals, but also looks really good with ankle or biker boots. A long-sleeved solid red top and earth tone accessories are the best pairings for a casual, but stylish, effect. www.womanthismonth.com

Red leather jacket, Pull & Bear 17 172-305.

Chandelier earrings, Swarovski 17 179-646.

Trench-coat, Zara 17 172-333.

Cropped checked top, Bershka 17 172-303.

Tiffany T wrap ring, Tiffany & Co at NET-APORTER.com.

Leather bracelet, Alexander McQueen at Saks Fifth Avenue 17 172-000.

Bodycon dress, Lipsy London 17 179-385.

Red baret-bag, CH Carolina Herrera 17 178-520.

Burgundy bucket handbag, H&M 17 110-350.

Black boots with stars, Dune London 16 686-215.

Ripped boyfriend jeans, New Look 17 179-681.

BOL D B IK E R The leather jacket is every girl’s cool wardrobe weapon, so how about painting it in bright red? It may not be an easy-to-wear piece, but it is certainly an eye-catching element for bold women.

To create a youthful updated look, team it with a cropped checked top and boyfriend jeans. To add some drama, opt for a bucket handbag in a darker red tone and finalise the outfit with a cool pair of black boots. www.womanthismonth.com

High heeled shoes with crystal details, Charles & Keith 16 686-202.

R ED AL ERT Want to be even bolder? Go for red from head to toe. This formula works best with more formal attire and is perfect for special events. To break the intensity of the hue, you can add some light with silver and shiny gem accents, which create a better effect than golden details. The trench-coat is the ultimate addition to the look for the ‘lady in red’ in you!

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AN AMERICAN LEGEND

This brand guarantees comfortable footwear that doesn’t compromise on style.

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ith over 17 million pairs of shoes sold every year in 150 countries, Hush Puppies is a global brand and a cultural icon offering shoes that both look and feel good.

A division of Wolverine World Wide, it is the world's leading maker of casual, work and outdoor footwear. Relaxed and classic in design, Hush Puppies defines an individualistic, easygoing and fun outlook and yet its single obsession has been to create the customer’s “favourite pair of shoes,” inspired by the wonderful characteristics of the brand’s basset hound icon.

Hush Puppies history is rooted in innovation, from inventing the first truly casual shoes to developing dozens of patented technologies.

Whether it is worry-free suede which is water resistant, Zero G which is almost weightless, Bounce technology which reduces stress on your feet or the latest technology of wave reflex which provides extreme flexibility with immediate

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comfort, the brand’s latest offerings are ever more comfortable, lightweight and worry-free.

Hush Puppies products are available in concept stores across Bahrain, the UAE, Qatar, Kuwait and Oman and the region.

In the Kingdom they can also be found at Shoe Citi, the store whose motto is “Dedicated to making happy feet”. A spokesman says: “Our mission is to ensure that you walk out of our store with the perfect shoes that you love.

We believe that nothing, but nothing, should come between you and your comfort and we know that shoes are crucial to this. We have a range of the world's most famous brand names with labels like Hush Puppies, CIRO, Soft Science, Wolverine, Skechers, Puma, FitFlop, NewBalance, Jansport, Clarks, Reebok, Nike, Converse, Fila, Crocs and more.”

Call Hush Puppies 17 179-676.

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PEOPLE | interview

Free-Spirited Fashion Frances Stafford, whose fresh take on vintage weaves is currently creating waves in Bahrain and Berlin, spoke about and modelled a few of her pieces for WTM. Behnaz Sanjana joined in the fun.

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he’s uber chic, likeably quirky and designs clothing with the oomph factor intact. A breath of fresh air for the region’s fashion circuit, Frances Stafford’s Black Anaar brand is all about novel ideas that have their roots in heirloom values. From growing up in Alberta, Canada, working with the international art fraternity in Berlin, directing community art initiatives such as the BAB Market and museum projects for the Bahrain Authority for Culture and Antiquities, to, very recently, launching her own fashion line with eclectic cultural influences, this art historian has come a long way and is raring to go further.

So, why the name Black Anaar?

Frances says the epics of yore mention Bahrain as the Garden of Paradise famed for its jewelled trees – most probably referring to the ubiquitous pomegranate which grows abundantly here.

Pomegranate is ‘anaar’ in ancient languages such as Farsi, Urdu and Hindi. “And ‘black’, because it’s the favoured colour of the nightlife in Berlin and also a rare variety of pomegranate,” she says.

Frances was smitten by fashion as a little girl. “It was one of my favourite pastimes. A fun afternoon would be going through my mother’s vintage clothing, noticing the differences in the fabrics, ribbons and cuts. I loved dressing myself. I was the freak at school; but a trendsetter too. I’d wear something weird and then a month later, the style would have caught on!” she says.

Her studies of Canadian aborigines and Inuit cultures, combined with her UkrainianEnglish roots further fanned her love for myths attached to clothing, how dress and culture are so entwined and how clothes are symbolic of an idea or expression.

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Frances Stafford

India project in Manama Souq, the idea for her own fashion label germinated. “I came to a point where I finally realised what I truly wanted to do. Being creative with fashion is my calling,” she says.

Fascinated by the souq’s narrow alleys brimming with stories handed down the generations, she dug deep into the history of the island while foraging in the market for its treasure trove of fabrics. “I found tie-dye material sitting on the topmost shelves of a shop, unnoticed. It is thick and industrial, but also stretchy and really worked for something I had in mind,” she says.

Much like the fabric she sources, the warp and weft of Frances’ inspiration is found in Bahrain.

“Although Bahrain has over 6,000 years of history, it is this vibrant, young and blossoming place that I immediately fell in love with.”

Her designs, many of which show her fondness for layering, have impressed fashionistas in Canada and Berlin. Her pieces are structured from woollen shawls, lissome Indian silk saris, velvets and other traditional materials.

She has successfully introduced the flowing ‘chadors’, favoured mostly by older Middle Easterners, to Berlin. “Berlin is a melting pot of cultures where people are very receptive to alternative fashion.

The idea of reusing and changing the old into something that is cool and contemporary is welcomed,” she says.

Frances greatly values the local arts and wants to incorporate them into the everyday fashion scene. “For example, the weavers of Bani Jamra are the last family that still does weaving. So once they’re gone, the tradition is lost,” she says.

Her plans for the future are to associate with more ecologically responsible, community-driven fashion. Commenting on her online label she says, “Every woman is a Black Anaar woman. It’s like opening your friend’s closet; you will be pulled towards something you like. It’s for women and men too; as many of my designs are unisex. These blurred lines make an interesting departure point for Black Anaar.” g December 2016

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Leading the Way Setting an example for women all around the Gulf, Mona Almoayyed added another feather to her cap by making the Forbes Middle East List of Most Influential Arab Women, yet again. She talks to Apple Sharma about her recognition and charitable projects.

Mona Almoayyed Mona with the Forbes award

Charity donation to Al Areen wildlife park in 2015

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aving paved the way for women’s empowerment for decades, managing director of YK Almoayyed & Sons, Mona has been a regular on the Forbes listings. Acknowledging her latest achievement of being number eight on the list this year, she still feels humbled by the whole experience.

“For me, it is an honour to be included in the Forbes list,” she says. “I am happy for myself and for women in Bahrain to be exposed to an international and reliable organisation such as Forbes. Although Bahrain is a small country, there are many influential hard-working women.”

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Talking about what this means to her personally, she adds: “This inclusion, for me, is very important.

I’ve always worked hard all my life since I finished university. My father really gave us confidence as women; he educated us the same way as our brothers. He always wanted us to work, and my husband is the same. He really believes in women having a career, so even my daughters are all working. So, to me, being recognised in this influential list, it gives me more enthusiasm to work harder and achieve more.”

Coming from a family of business people, it was

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Meeting with the Crown Prince in 2012, when she was president of the Bahrain Businesswomen’s Society

fairly easy for Mona to get established as a business woman, which she attributes to her father’s forward thinking. “My father really believed in including us in the business,” she explains. “Even in the summer holidays, he used to tell us to come and work in the office because he really didn’t want us to be idle.”

Having studied business administration, Mona joined her father’s business in 1974, straight after university, in the accounts department. Although her father was openminded, he always felt girls, in the end, have to get married and raise children. But even after marriage and four babies, Mona worked parttime and went back full-time once her children started school. “I was working very hard; I took work back home and proved to my father that I was as good as the boys,” she says.

Her hard work paid off and after two years she moved departments, from accounts to furniture. She travelled all over Europe, managed to improve sales and brought interesting brands such as Ligne Roset and many other famous furniture brands to Bahrain.

After about 10 years, she was put in charge of the automobile division. Of her initial experience, she says: “It was difficult at the beginning because customers and employees didn’t like to talk to me – they preferred to talk to my brother. But I’m talking about the ’80s and ’90s. Now I think it’s getting much easier – people are used to women.”

Of the challenges she faced, one of the biggest was being a woman in a male-oriented job. “Slowly, I felt that people were getting used to me because I am the type of person that, if you give me a problem, I don’t just talk to you and forget about it; I write it down and I really try to solve it. So the customers always like to come to me with their problems because they feel I can do something.”

Managing an organisation of more than 1,000 people and 100 brands, Mona runs a tight ship with professional managers in each department.

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committee, and we take decisions,” she says. ”We also have an audit committee which is doing a very good job – examining all the risk factors, how to improve things and how to close loopholes for corruption.”

The company’s HR committee looks after the employees and follows a performance management system to motivate and improve their positions. The quality committee ensures everything runs efficiently and effectively. “We also do a balance scorecard, which is a way to look at the four pillars of the business – profitability, customer satisfaction, innovation and training and the proper processes to run the business,” she adds.

Mona is a big advocate of social work and gets her generous nature from her parents.

“I really believe in charity, it comes from my father – he was a huge philanthropist and my mother as well, in her own way,” she says. “I remember when I was little; she used to stitch clothes for the old ladies in the neighbourhood.

My grandmother used to do the same. So, all of our family cared about charity work and giving back to society. That’s why, once my father started his business, he used to allocate a small percentage of his profit to charity work, every year – that was the zakat in those days.

Of course, now it’s become much bigger – we do the zakat and, on top of it, we do lots of projects for Bahrain because we feel that we have to give back to society. ”I feel we’ve done enough business and now I’d like to divert my attention to social work – try to benefit society and help people and unfortunate countries like Syria and Palestine, and wherever there are horrible stories.”

The Yousif and Aysha Almoayyed Charity, named after Mona’s parents, is involved in various charitable projects, helping the government as well as people in need, from Bahrainis requiring medical assistance that cannot afford to be treated to helping students go to university.

“One of the charities which I’m really proud of is in Al Areen – we are spending money

to improve the garden in Al Areen. So many families go there, so we did the landscaping and made it beautiful – it’s called the bird park,” she explains. “Then, of course, we’re going to build a kidney dialysis centre for the government.

For the blind, we bought five machines, and recently, we bought a machine for BD50,000 for sickle cell [patients] for changing their blood.

Instead of staying in hospital overnight, they can do it in two hours with this machine. We gave it to Salmaniya Hospital.”

At the end of the year, a percentage of the company’s profit is divided into medical, education and various other projects – big and small, including helping other NGOs (nongovernmental organisations).

Mona is also the president of the Al Muntada Society, which was initiated in 2000. “It started off as an NGO for liberal thinking,” she says. “Bahrain needs people who can implement new things, it needs transparency, thinking out of the box, how to improve the country, so that’s how we started this society.

Then in 2011, after the problems in Bahrain, we felt that Al Muntada was very important to bring people together.” With her term coming to an end soon, she has further plans to involve the younger generation with various programmes and activities.

Having been the chairman of the Migrant Workers Protection Society for three terms, Mona managed to bring in donations from various organisations, and is still active in helping to improve the living conditions in the labour camps.

With future plans of expansion in the Gulf, and personal goals of travelling the world with her husband and spending time with her grandchildren, Mona’s most important advice to women is to not give up, be consistent in their work and strike a balance between work and personal life.

With her father being her greatest role model, along with the rest of her family, Mona is a true inspiration to other women dedicated to achieving their dreams.

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Enriching Family Ties Nada Kazim, current charity committee vice president of the Aisha Yateem Family Counselling Centre, tells Behnaz Sanjana how it helps ill-treated women to resume living with dignity.

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nder the aegis of the Bahrain Young Ladies Association, the Aisha Yateem Family Counselling Centre was started in March 2007 with the primary aim of providing protection to families, especially women, and offering ways to resolve conflicts.

“The Aisha Yateem Family Counselling Centre guides women in social, psychological and legal spheres to better deal with, and overcome, their personal problems,” says Nada. “We have a qualified team of counsellors, psychologists and lawyers who specialise in women’s and familial issues, and are dedicated to helping anyone in need of practical advice. We also work closely with the Ministry of Social Affairs and hospitals in Bahrain.”

She goes on to explain that the centre was the first of its kind in the Kingdom and has become a great source of support for abused Bahraini and expat women. It has seen 78 new cases in 2016 besides the 783 ongoing ones it already handles.

The centre provides family counselling for women as well as one-on-one counselling for other adult family members. “This helps them to avoid deeper problems in their relationships at home and, if they are already in a fix, we help them come out of it,” she says.

The social guidance, psychological and legal counselling units help individuals to find their own suitable solutions to overcome their problems. “We provide women with all the options that are available. We lay out the pros and cons of their actions and empower them to take their own decisions. They have to select their path ahead; we can only guide them to make the correct choice,” Nada says.

Sometimes, in dire circumstances, when it is inevitable for a woman to seek legal recourse, the centre legally represents her at court and also bears the cost for it. “We also have a toll-free hotline, where women can call and receive immediate counselling,” says Nada.

The centre conducts social, psychological and legal awareness programmes for people

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Nada Kazim from all walks of life. “We hold seminars to inform women about their rights and responsibilities, as well as computer courses for housewives and exercise programmes like yoga, aerobics and self-defence to teach them how to reduce stress and cope with daily issues effectively. Our own volunteers and counsellors receive regular training to deal with and help distressed individuals. ” The centre also enables young people who are thinking of tying the knot to make informed choices and be well aware of the challenges that married life brings. “This readies them for what to expect and how to come out of difficult situations, to prevent scenarios like divorce and separation,” she says.

Nada explains that the charity’s 20-strong committee, which includes members of the Yateem family, is responsible for raising funds to keep the centre running and providing essential services to those in a social quagmire. Talks are underway to start

a shelter for women who need a temporary place to live, away from home.

The committee annually holds many fundraising activities and Nada says: “There is a major event we are organising, which is the Al Nahda charity boutique. It is a sale of used as well as new clothes and other products that have been donated from all over Bahrain, starting on November 19 for 10 days in Gudaibiya. The entire committee and external volunteers are busy sorting and pricing the items for sale. All proceeds go towards the running costs of the centre.”

Funds are also raised through a gala annual exhibition held at the Aisha Yateem Centre’s premises, where stalls are rented out to interested sellers. “It is a big event which raises money for helping women in need of our help and support,” says Nada. The committee also raises funds through monthly brunches for ladies, where women can get together for a good cause. g www.womanthismonth.com

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Pretty In Pink

Woman This Month and VIE Lifestyle Lab organised a Pretty in Pink breast cancer awareness event at The Domain Hotel & Spa.

Behnaz, Marise, Pearlyn, Minal & Deepa

Emma & Fatima

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Frank & Hans

Sian & Gillian

Ayush & Neha

Micheline, Esky, Michelle, Monika, Ehane & Bitsat

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Drew & Tanvi

Jing & Joana

Nicole

Bhavna & Maria

Nicolas

Shahzalam, Rabab & Fatema

Huda & Raeda

Lilliane & Lin

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AMH Golf

America Mission Hospital held its 19th AMH Island Classic Charity golf tournament at the King’s private golf course.

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MORE FRESH AND MORE FRIENDLY One of the island’s favourite supermarkets has opened its seventh branch bringing premium goods to Janabiya.

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losra supermarket, the fresh and friendly subsidiary of the BMMI Group, officially opened its latest outlet in the Kingdom on November 1, in El Mercado Janabiya.

The launch was marked by an event attended by senior government officials, VIPs, dignitaries, members of the El Mercado board of directors, First Bahrain Real Estate Development Co management, members of the BMMI board of directors and Alosra management.

The newest Alosra outlet is the anchor supermarket of the impressive new neighbourhood market, El Mercado Janabiya, a project by First Bahrain Real Estate Development Co. The beautifully landscaped open-air retail centre features a mix of restaurants, cafes and shops and is built on an elevated platform, offering scenic southern views in a vehicle-free pedestrian environment.

Alosra Janabiya is the seventh outlet for the supermarket in Bahrain, in addition to its store in Dhahran in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. This newest store is built following state-of-the-art standards, with unique interiors, product layout, fittings and offerings. This ensures that Alosra presents its customers with a new and elevated concept in retailing, based on the company’s extensive understanding and experience of the local and international markets. The new outlet features a fresh fruit and vegetable section, a butchery, a bakery and a wide range of organic products.

Alosra Janabiya’s offerings were selected with the health and wellbeing of customers in mind. The outlet has introduced a fresh juice station and will offer a variety of freshly-ground, natural nut butters. All fruits and vegetables in the store are handpicked and sorted before being put on display.

The bakery uses zero added sugar in all breads, in addition to all beef and lamb sold in the butchery

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being grass-fed. Furthermore, the store offers a large selection of vegan alternatives, dairy substitutes and non-dairy products and an array of gluten-free goods.

Additionally, the store includes a greater range of chilled space, ensuring an expanded offering of chilled and dairy items from all around the globe. The new store will also include additional offerings in product ranges, with Alosra partaking in new food and beverages partnerships from local and international brands.

“Alosra caters to a customer base of cultured, well-travelled and discerning individuals with experienced palates and varying tastes,” says Jaffar Al-Asfoor, BMMI vice president, Food Retailing and Production. “We know that our customers have very high expectations of us and we constantly encourage feedback from them regarding their wants and needs. We have identified that customers are expecting more health-conscious alternatives and Alosra Janabiya definitely delivers.”

Valuing itself as a lifestyle partner to its customers, Alosra Janabiya also features innovative displays that aim to inspire.

Customers will find a diverse number of exclusive recipes, displayed with the accompanying ingredients, as well as tips and advice on how to make the most of the products they purchase, all available in-store.

Alosra Janabiya is open seven days a week, from 7am to 11pm.

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TO A BRIGHTER FUTURE B

Supporting entrepreneurs to fulfill their business dreams is part of this bank’s role in Bahrain’s march towards progress.

ahrain Development Bank (BDB) has been entrusted with the task of extending assistance to small and medium enterprises, self-employed professionals, agriculture, fisheries, taxi finance, education and specific employment-oriented enterprises promoted by Bahraini youth and women. It is a developmentfocused bank and, unlike other conventional commercial institutions, it undertakes exposure in high-risk financial segments.

BDB also supports entrepreneurial segments considered necessary for adding value to the economy of the Kingdom.

To encourage local youth to achieve their professional goals, BDB provides monetary aid for education either by way of

conventional or Islamic finance.

This is offered at a profit rate of four per cent to be used to cover the tuition fees. The minimum facility amount is BD3,000 and the maximum is BD20,000.

Deserving enterprises can take advantage of the available conventional loans with 9.5-percent reducing interest rate, or Shari’a compliant financing at an interest rate of 5.5 per cent for

a minimum amount of BD3,000 which is to be used to finance a specific asset or towards working capital with a comfortable repayment and grace period.

Start-ups can also take advantage of BDB’s Tamkeen Finance for a minimum amount of BD5,000 at a minimum rate of 4.27 per cent, where 50 per cent of the interest is subsidised by Tamkeen.

To fuel development in the agriculture and fisheries sectors, the bank offers financial aid at zero-per-cent interest.

Letters of Credit, Letters of Guarantee, overdraft facilities and the ICT Finance Scheme are also available from the bank.

Call 17 511-111 or visit www. bdb-bh.com.

BDB is here to support your business ambition and continued success · Financing new business ideas · Comfortable Repayment · Comfortable Grace Period

BDB group brings you several services that not only include Financing but also Advisory, Training and Incubation to help set up and expand your business. Call us on 17511111 or visit any of our branches.

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Manish Arora’s Resort’17 collection at the runway

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Fashion Show

Saks Fifth Avenue held a fashion show exhibiting Manish Arora’s Resort’17 collection at its premises in City Centre Bahrain.

Zainab & Zahra

Alexandra, Sam & Mai

Mylene, Heba, Budoor, Hayat & Susan

Farheen & Sheree

Zoe, Amy & Sophie Shaikha Fajer Al Khalifa

Mariam, Shooq & Atifa

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David, Arwa & Reda

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Shahnaz, Manal & Qamar

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THE ART OF BEAUTIFUL GIFTING With the festive season fast approaching, discover gifts you’ll be remembered for.

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ou’ve got a long list of loved ones to gift and festivities to attend before the New Year, and, this year, you want to find the perfect present for each one and every occasion. Choices, choices, right? No problem. Tanagra at the City Centre Bahrain has done the work for you with this carefully curated gift guide.

Sophisticated Acqua Di Parma fragrances beautiful creations from Daum and Villari.

This hidden gem has exactly what you want no and Dr Vranjes home scents perfect for friends; exclusive ST Dupont set of James Bond matter the budget – and some things to put on etched lighter and pen for him; a selection of your own wish list too! exquisitely delicate porcelain figures to welcome Tanagra, City Centre Bahrain - 1st floor a newborn; and most importantly, don’t miss 17 179-570. out on celebrating the women in your life with

For Her

Eye Frame by Baccarat

Coffee Pot and Cups

by Villari

Squall vase by Rosenthal

Mini Macaron Scented Candles

by Villari

Amaryllis Small Vase

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Valentine Doves by Baccarat

For Him

James Bond lighter and pen set by S.T.Dupont

Colonia Oud by Acqua Di Parma 19˚ Polycarbonate Carry-on by Tumi

Café Baccarat, Boxed set of two crystal espresso cups and red tray © Laurent Parrault

The Leap Panther, Midnight crystal

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For Friends

For the Little Ones

Everyday gift set by Baccarat

Baby Frame by NAO

Ostrich Egg

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Baby Star Cutlery by Christofle Arancio Uva Rossa scented diffuser

by Dr. Vranjes

Medusa Vase by Versace

Silver Teddy Bear Rattle by Topazio Origine Flatware set of 6 by Christofle

Beebee Baby cup

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Cheval Gris et Bleu Vase by Daum

Our gift to you!

Receive a gift valued at 20BD when you spend 100BD or more* Bouquet de Roses Lithophanie

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*Terms and conditions: To qualify for 20BD gift offer, the value of your transaction must total 100BD or more in a single transaction. If chosen gift is valued higher than 20BD, difference is to be paid by customer. Limit one offer per customer. Offer not valid on previously purchased merchandise or purchase of gift cards. Offer cannot be combined with any other promotion or redeemed for cash. Offer only valid at Tanagra City Centre Bahrain and expires on February 28, 2017. Voucher must be presented and surrendered to store staff. Tanagra reserves the right to extend, modify or discontinue this offer at any time without notice.

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Great Gifts

Santa’s on his way and to give him a little help we’ve come up with a selection of gifts to suit every taste and pocket.

Beautiful Practical Fun Fanciful – Get them before they go!

Bitter Sweet. Jo Malone has a whole range of delicious scented festive offerings.

Orange Bitters cologne from BD64, Jo Malone.

Play it Again. While away the dark winter evenings with games to keep the brain active. Ralph Lauren, BD301, Tanagra.

Treasure Chest. Store precious things in the gorgeous Jay Strongwater Genevieve Grand Floral Chest, BD3,485, Tanagra.

Rev Up. Kids big and small will love track battles with the Anki Overdrive trucks which use robotics and AI, from BD35, virginmegastore.ae

Skin Savers. Give the gift of gorgeousness with the 165th Anniversary range from Kiehls.

From BD18, www.en.kiehls-me. com.

Girls’ Best Friend. Spoil a special someone with a gift that is eternal.

Infinity ring BD995, Adonis Rose band BD2,100, Kooheji Jewellery.

Feline Friend. Collectors, kids and quite a few grown-ups will be happy to say ‘hi’ to this Hello Kitty figurine from Nao by Lladro, BD35, Tanagra.

Foodie Favourite. For the baker in your life, or someone who just loves cake! Love Food range from BD6, Lakeland.

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Bling Thing. Young, fun, delicate and pretty, what girl doesn’t want a butterfly in her life.

Necklace by Esprit, BD29, A La Mode.

Heaven Scent. For the sophisticated lady, the sultry aroma of Calvin Klein’s latest offering Deep Euphoria, from BD48, available at leading retailers.

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Cup of Gold. This shining Crescent Teacup by Villari will render your cuppa almost too pretty to drink, BD120, Tanagra.

Pretty Things. Nothing feels nicer than knowing you’re wearing fancy pants. Treat someone to these sets from BD7.900 (panties), Hunkemoller.

They’re Here. Get ready for visitors with the Martian Notifier Smart Watch (IOS and Android compatible), around BD12, www. iwantoneofthose.com.

Rockabye Baby.

Who wouldn’t adore this sweet little baby.

Nao Baby Gifts BD45, Tanagra.

Sparkle and Shine. Give the gift of glamour.

Shimmering top BD16, Quiz.

High Impact Colour.

Teens will love the Georgia May Jagger look of these new mattes from Rimmel, BD5, from major retailers.

Independent Thinking.

Display dazzling winter blooms in the July 4 vase by Christofle, BD285, Tanagra.

Light Up. Look on the bright side. Floating balloon lamp approximately BD8, www. iwantoneofthose.com.

Spooktastic. Skulls have popped up as a trend again this winter. Layered Wicasa bracelet, BD7, Aldo. www.womanthismonth.com

Play the Game. Harry Potter fans will go crazy for the Hogwarts Battle deckbuilding card game, around BD18, www.amazon.com.

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FEATURE | gift guide Scentsational. Impart a regional touch to proceedings, Mario Cioni bakhoor-incense burner, BD303, Tanagra.

Shine On. You can never go wrong with the lustre of pearls coupled with sprakling stones. Majorica ring BD63 and earrings BD52, A La Mode.

Dine in Style. Set a stunning table with this unusual dinner service from Ralph Lauren, from BD78, Tanagra.

Pampered Pets. Make sure pooches and pusses don’t miss out on a visit from Santa Paws.

Daphne’s dog bowl, around BD28, luluguinness.com and Cubby Mini recycled glass cat bowl, BD17 pawnosh.com.

Charge It. Make sure his mobile never runs out of battery with the Seyvr phone charging wallet, BD23.500, cuckooland.com.

Pick a Tune. For the musician in your life, rainbow hued guitar picks in a handy carrying case, BD1.600, amazon.com.

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Christmas Tweets. A challenging 1,000-piece jigsaw featuring garden birds that raises funds for charity, around BD5.500, dogstrustgifts.com.

Barista Bonus. For the pal who loves to play host a funky ice bucket from Ralph Lauren, BD70, Tanagra.

Cool Kids. Score major brownie points with tweens with this mini arcade-style game, around BD10, amazon.com.

The Winner Is. Know someone with star quality? Then the perfect gift is a personalised Hollywoodstyle walk of fame star, around BD6.500, notonthehighstreet.com.

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Two Faced. Brighten up a desk or countertop with these iPhone charger sticker faces, BD5.250 a set, uncommongoods.com.

Bottoms Up. Toast the season with a beverage from this stylish decanter from Ralph Lauren, BD188, Tanagra.

Mixology. For the budding DJ, turn a phone into a disco with this pocket-sized mixer, BD40.550, uncommongoods.com.

Luxe Inspiration. Inspired by 18 karat gold, the new scent from Marc Jacobs, Decadence One Eight K has the smell of luxury, BD55, from leading retailers.

Go Global. Travellers and those seeking inspiration will appreciate these tribal statues, from BD30.200, Spirit Antiques.

Terrible Tees. For the misfit in your life, Die Die My Darling T-shirt, around BD8.500, asos.com.

The Gift of Caring. Make a donation to Oxfam to help mums and babies in Niger get the health care they need, from BD8, oxfam.org.uk.

Game Changer.

This floral embellished Game bag makes for some serious arm candy, BD28, Aldo.

Pond Pal. This quirky ducky will appeal to those who like something a little different, BD25.600, Spirit Antiques.

Glam Rocks. Traditional comes bang up to date with these Arizona Starry Sky Birkenstocks, from BD26, Birkenstock. www.womanthismonth.com

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Anniversary Celebration

Al Hilal Hospital and Medical Center celebrated its JCI Accreditation, 10th Anniversary and third branch launching during an event at the Crowne Plaza Hotel.

Mohammed Al Sinan & Dr Mustafa Sayed

Tha accreditation ceremony

Corpez & HE Ahmed Shahzan Abdulsamad

Mohammed, Vinod & Neveej

Management and the winners

Art Competition

AJM Kooheji Group launched its third annual Alwany interschool art competition at its showroom in Ma’ameer.

Fatima & Malak

Najut & Noof

Sanjay, Fouad Ahmed Al Hamad & Haitham Kheria & Dana

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Yamaha Concert

Ambassador Stores organised a performance

by Joshua Ray Gooch on the latest Yamaha REVSTAR guitars at Virgin Megastore.

Mahmood, Nabeel & Yasser

Latish, Joshua Ray Gooch & Behnaz

Ammar, Abdul Malik & Hadi

Daeseong Han & Vishal

General Medical Check-Up Follow Up of Chronic Diseases Insurance Services

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Grace & Eric

Yasser, xxxxxxx Rio & Bader

Hussain, Mehdi & Ahmed

Treatment of all general Cases

Healthcare Package

Pre-College Medical Check-Up Pre-Employment LMRA Check-UP Managing Emergency Injuries

Travel Vaccinations Health Education Home Care Service

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FEATURE | jewellery

It’s a Bling Thing This month sees the return of Jewellery Arabia, the Kingdom’s ultimate expo for all things sparkly and special.

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rom high jewellery and stunning timepieces from the likes of Panerie and Gucci on the Asia Jewellers stand to diamonds aplenty at Kooheji Jewellers, precious metals at Malabar Gold and Diamonds and an array of precious and costume pieces from A La Mode, it’s the time and place to lay down some serious cash, but also the ideal opportunity to bag a bargain, if you know what you’re looking for.

The Gemological Institute of America (GIA) has these tips to learn about the 4Cs of diamond quality.

Carat – Diamonds are weighed in metric carats. For reference, a small paper clip weighs about two carats.

Clarity – Nearly all diamonds contain unique internal characteristics called inclusions and external characteristics called blemishes. Many clarity characteristics are too tiny to be seen by anyone other than a trained gemologist using magnification. The GIA Clarity Scale contains 11 grades ranging from Flawless to Included.

Colour – Truly colourless diamonds are very rare and highly valued. The GIA Colour Scale runs from colourless to light yellow/brown. The distinctions can be quite subtle and only visible to the trained eye.

Cut – Cut refers to how a diamond’s complex proportions and angles relate to light. A number of factors influence a diamond’s cut grade, including its overall face-up appearance, design and craftsmanship.

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Going for Gold There are various things to remember if you’re thinking of purchasing gold.

Business-standard.com has this advice: Understand that there are variations in gold that affect its purity, quality and price – the main factors to consider include purity, gram weight and design.

Purity – When it comes to purity, most gold has markings inside that indicate its caratage. Pure gold is too soft to use as jewellery. Accordingly, it is alloyed with a mixture of metals like silver, copper, nickel and zinc to give it strength and durability. The most common ‘Carat’ options are 18, 22 and 24.

Price – This is determined by purity, which alloy the gold is combined with and the amount of skill and labour in the piece.

Colour – Gold has many variations including yellow, white and rose gold.

Combining pure gold with other metals creates a new and diverse colour palette.

Identification – In many countries, local law requires that every item of gold jewellery bears a clear stamp indicating its caratage.

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showcase DE BEERS DIAMOND JEWELLERY

A PERFECT PAIRING This jeweller has an outstanding selection of You and Me rings for couples pledging their lasting love.

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he union between two individuals signals the coming together of two unique personalities and spirits. Designed with precise proportions, the stunning simplicity of the De Beers collection of rings for him and her aptly symbolises a partnership for a lifetime.

A diamond is a lifelong treasure, one that must be selected with care and commitment. Few jewellers can afford you complete surety and peace of mind when you make your purchase; De Beers is one of them.

The De Beers classic plain band is made of platinum, featuring a hidden diamond on the inside of the ring, and can be paired with the timeless pink gold half pave band.

The One Diamond platinum bands denote your true love forever, as do the Infinity bands; a symbol of eternity, with no beginning or end.

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brilliant sparkler in its roughest and purest form.

De Beers hand-selects diamonds for their unique beauty, each one brimming with unmatched fire, life and brilliance.

The company’s Iris technology allows clients to objectively appraise a diamond for its characteristic brilliance and every purchase is certified with a De Beers Card of Authenticity.

Polished stones above 0.20 carats are microscopically branded with the De Beers marque, ensuring your precious solitaire has been catalogued in the company’s diamond registry.

De Beers Diamond Jewellery is associated with AJM Kooheji Group in Bahrain and is located at Moda Mall.

Call 17 002-905.

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PRESERVING FAMILY VALUES This long-established family fine jewellery company relies on the values of tradition, skills and talent in handcrafting, creativity and the highest quality materials.

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or more than a century Buccellati has been creating Italian-designed jewellery which preserved the brand’s stylistic identity established by reviving age-old goldsmithing traditions at the top end of the jewellery market.

Founder Mario Buccellati was apprenticed with the famous jewellers and goldsmiths Beltrami & Besnati and was fascinated by the metals and stones and how the craftsmen used them.

In 1919, he opened his first jewellery store in Milan and revived the use of ancient tools and traditions for his creations.

He interpreted Renaissance styles and combined them with his interest and attraction for the Venetian art. Age-old engraving and chiselling techniques were incorporated into a mix of precious stones and metals for an unusual yet extraordinary combination.

He quickly became one of Italy’s highly respected jewellers and goldsmiths, so much

so that the famous “literary dandy” and client Gabriele d’Annunzio coined for him the name “The Prince of Goldsmiths”.

Soon he started to work for various royal ramilies of Italy, Spain and Egypt, and supplied ornamental objects to The Pope and the great cardinals of Rome. By 1925 an entrepreneurial streak saw him opening stores in Rome and Florence and by 1951, he had expanded to America.

When Mario Buccellati passed away, in 1965, four out of his five sons took over the family business, and among them Gianmaria was passionate in learning meticulous craftsmanship. He soon took over the management of the workshops and the creative side of the company conceiving and designing every piece coming out of his ateliers.

He worked with his brother, Luca who took over the business side, sharing with him the

vision of turning Buccellati into a worldwide jewellery powerhouse.

In the following years the company set up shop in Hong Kong, Tokyo and Paris, becoming the first Italian brand to have a store on the Place Vendôme. Further expansion followed with Gianmaria’s son, Andrea, working alongside him. Having inherited his father’s artistic talents Andrea supervises the jewellery creation process and, since 2013, he has been the group’s president and creative director.

Today, Andrea is supported by his daughter Lucrezia who offers new inspirations and trends.

Buccellati has also branched out into silver jewellery and watches, all of which enjoy the same high quality craftsmanship that the brand is known for.

Call 17 535-344.

The Opera Colour Collection

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SOCIAL BUTTERFLY

Noor & Noor

Staff Party

Azadea Group held its annual Azadea appreciation night for its employees from the back office and shops.

Azadea employees at the party

Mo & Mo

Pierre, Ola & Alain

Cake Mixing Ceremony

Atiram Premier Hotel held a christmas cake-mixing ceremony at its Wembley Garden Terrace Area.

Azis, Annu & Joe

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Joyce, Jeanette, Manife & Ahmed

Naveen and staff

Rajesh, Naveen, Shantharam & Annu

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showcase GULF BEAUTY EXPO

BEAUTY UNDER ONE ROOF An all-encompassing new exhibition is launching on the island’s events calendar.

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ulf Beauty Expo takes place at Bahrain National Exhibition Centre from December 1 to 3 to coincide with Bahrain Women’s Day. It is the Kingdom’s first comprehensive show featuring multiple aspects of the beauty sector.

The event, held under the patronage of Minister of Health, HE Faeqa bint Saeed Alsaleh, has taken more than nine months to plan and is being organised by local company 4Sale4You which spotted a gap in the market to bring together the most

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prominent cosmetic doctors and beauty experts under one roof offering a complete portfolio of products and services for visitors to discover.

Fields represented include hair care, nail care and nail artistes, salons, cosmetics and skincare, fragrances, plastic surgery clinics and hospitals, spa and salon service providers, cosmetic dentistry, makeup suppliers and artists, health and weight-management clinics and gyms and fitness centres.

Visitors can take advantage of the largest gathering of beauty, spa, cosmetics, health and weight-management, plastic surgery and birth defect treatment experts under one roof. And high-profile participants already signed up include Dr Abdelshahid Fadl Clinic, Dr Ahmed el Asfour Clinic, Badan Clinic, dental specialist Dr Rim Bogari, Al Mansoori Dental Center, Dr Fadel Al Alawi, Dr Tahsin Al Waheb - LAD Hair, Blacksmith Gym and Instaplus Cosmetics from the UAE. There’ll be an exciting programme of activities, exhibitors, presentations, seminars and displays introducing the latest products and techniques as well educational and cultural workshops and the chance to meet the doctors and lots of free information across the sector including companies which combine the products and services of the medical, natural and beauty-related holistic industries.

Around 80 to 100 exhibitors from all areas

of the industry are expected to take part with companies from both the UAE and Saudi Arabia signed up alongside Bahrain-based organisations. And organisers are expecting between 10,000 and 15,000 visitors over the three-day period.

The first event of its kind in the Kingdom, the organisers want to make the expo an annual happening bringing in more international participants each year and keeping the local market up to date with developments in the beauty industry.

For more information or to take part visit www4sale4you-ex.com.

Call 36 231-166.

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BEAUTY | news Clarins Extra-Firming Mask. The brand’s first relaxing and anti-ageing mask for younger-looking and radiant skin. In the formula, palmitoyl glycine helps to reduce the look of tension lines and, in addition, extracts of organic green banana and lemon thyme help to reinforce collagen fibres, fight loss of firmness and protect the skin’s elasticity. Available at all leading retailers.

Guerlain Precious Light. This limited edition pearly pink illuminator strategically brightens parts of the face. The best areas to apply it are the cheekbones, outer corner of the eye, bridge of the nose and Cupid’s bow.

The product is part of the Holiday Makeup Collection by Natalia Vodianova. Available at all leading retailers.

MAC Nutcracker Sweet Plum Eye Bag. To celebrate the holidays, many beauty brands create limited editions of sets that can be gifted. This small bag comes with all the tools necessary to create eye looks – smoky mauve extra dimension eye shadow, purple dash technakohl liner, stormy ink pro longwear paint pot and black false lashes mascara.

Available at MAC.

Make Up For Ever Artist Rouge Lipstick. The new lipstick collection comes in 46 shades that can express multiple facets of all personalities. The formula combines macadamia and mallow oils to nourish the lips throughout the day. The Artist Rouge Crème structure is based on sunflower seeds boasting eight-hour wear, while candelilla is used for Artist Rouge Mat resulting in 10 hours’ wear. Available at Sephora.

Juicy Couture I love Juicy Couture.

The new fragrance is a combination of lush fruits and fresh florals, infused with amber and musk, embodying the spirit of the fashion brand’s identity. It opens with apple, mandarin and red currant; the mid notes are jasmine, tiger lily and honeysuckle. The scent finishes with amber, musk and patchouli.

Available at all leading retailers.

Get your beauty cabinet ready for the holidays! Our selection highlights new products on the market and great ideas to gift your girlfriends and loved ones.

Wow by Wojooh Lipstuck. The brand’s extreme-wear lip lacquer is back with a range of 14 shades. It’s named lipstuck for its longlasting formula, which is not only water but also transfer resistant. The product has a matte finish and smooth texture as the result of the enriched natural micas in its formula. Available at Wojooh.

Tom Ford Orchid Soleil Eau de Parfum. The scent illuminates the original Black Orchid perfume with a radiant and sensual force. The top notes are bigarade and pink peppercorn with fresh cypress; spider lily and tuberose complement the aroma. At the base, vanilla, chestnut cream and patchouli invoke the orchid origin. Available at all leading retailers.

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Tony Moly Panda’s Dream So Cool Eye Stick. A portable eye serum in a stick that cools and de-puffs the delicate area around the eyes. The formula is infused with bamboo extract for a nourishing and hydrating effect. It also helps minimise dark circles. Available at Sephora.

Bobbi Brown Instant Confidence Stick.

This is basically an eraser for fine lines and wrinkles. The invisible formula blurs lines and imperfections with weightless and lightdiffusing powders, while a skincare complex helps to improve the skin’s texture. Best applied after a moisturiser where needed, before makeup. Available at Bobbi Brown.

L’Occitane en Provence Divine Harmony Serum. For this product, L’Occitane labs added to the active ingredients held by 5,000 micro-drops of Immortelle Millésimée essential oil, the coral weed Jania rubens.

The formula also contains myrtle essential oil and camelina, evening primrose and borage oils. The serum infuses the skin for smoothness and definition. Available at L’Occitane.

Bourjois Volume Glamour Effet Push Up Black Serum.

This mascara is a combination of care and ultra-soft brush. The new formula has silk extract and B5 Provitamin to soften lashes with continued use, while the brush defines lashes from root to tip without clumping. Available at all leading retailers.

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BEAUTY | celeb spot

The American model attended the God’s Love We Deliver Golden Heart Awards wearing Michael Kors and showcasing her youthful beauty.

Use Fernanda's tips to steal her style.

Lined Eyes They say eyes are the windows to the soul, which means when someone looks into your eyes they can see who you really are. One more reason to decorate and embellish them to make a good impression. I believe, no matter what shape or eye colour you have, the eyes are the most important area to be highlighted when applying make-up. In this case a black kohl pencil does all the work. Contour the upper and lower lids, near the lashes, smudge a little and you’re good to go!

Thick Fringes There are many types of bangs: blunt, asymmetrical, parted, choppy and more.

This style is not for everyone but if you have a big forehead, full and straight tresses, it will work wonders.

However, if you don’t, you’ll want to find the right fringe style or give up on the idea.

In my opinion, if, like me, you have curly hair, you shouldn’t go for bangs. But it is a trend for spring and summer 2017, so, depending on your curls, you may want to go for it!

Vanessa’s hair is perfect for bangs, all types. Here she embraced the ’70s with a rounded full fringe and very long mane.

Vanessa Moody

Nude Lips What is the best way to finalise a minimal make-up? Rosy-nude lipstick. No lip pencil, no complicated mixture, just a simple smooth and moist lipstick. Carry it with you to reapply when necessary. Usually, most moisturising lipsticks are made with vitamin E, glycerine and aloe vera and don’t have long-lasting formulas.

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Less Is More Another important tip is to always opt for less, no matter the occasion.

Of course, your everyday make-up is going to be different from what you wear for a special evening, but follow your instinct when you look in the mirror if you think you’ve overdone it. Be gentle with the amount of foundation, you don’t want a cakey effect. To avoid that, pick the right colour for your skin and test the texture.

Each skin responds differently to each product. Give it a try and pay attention if it is well absorbed, easy to apply and if it feels comfortable on your complexion.

Contouring Effect It is incredible how make-up can change features and give a whole new aspect to your skin. Many beauty tutorials show contouring techniques that are impressive and quite complicated. Honestly, not feasible for everyday make-up if you have to leave the house and you barely have time for breakfast! But a quick way to transform your everyday make-up is to get an angled brush and apply a little bit of bronzer right under your cheekbone, then blend with blush applied right on top of your cheekbone. The simple touch will lift your cheekbones and give a slimmer effect. www.womanthismonth.com

showcase HYDRO SPA & SALON

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Offering exclusive treatments in plush surroundings, Liz O’Reilly finds this new venue is the ultimate in pampering.

here’s something very lovely about going to the spa when everyone else is working; it almost feels like playing hooky, especially when the spa in question is brand new and super luxe.

When I was invited to try out the services at Hydro Spa & Salon in Riffa, I jumped at the chance having heard about the place from various satisfied pals.

I was greeted on arrival by the friendly staff and, after filling out various reassuring health forms, was whisked off by Balinese therapist Kadek for a Balinese massage.

The therapies area is all dimmed lights and gentle quiet music, while the treatment rooms themselves are huge, easily accommodating a massage bed as well as a shower and in-room Jacuzzi, and decorated in luxurious relaxing shades with thick fluffy towels and burning candles.

Kadek is that rare thing, a therapist who actually listens when you ask for medium rather than strong pressure and, unusually, she also checked whether I was comfortable with the air-conditioning and the music before administering a deeply relaxing massage which addressed my muscle aches without making me feel battered, as has been the case with the last few massages I’ve tried.

Next I was taken to another large treatment room, in a different area of the spa, for the Hydra Facial which uses patented technology employing a suctiontype tool to gently cleanse and exfoliate before delivering potent anti-ageing botanical ingredients such as hyaluronic acid, horse chestnut seed extract, red algae www.womanthismonth.com

extract, copper zinc and magnesium peptides.

I must admit, I initially found it mildly uncomfortable but I must’ve quickly got used to it, since I was soon gently snoring under therapist Hiedi’s gentle ministrations.

The Hydra Facial is advertised as non-invasive and non-irritating but, on my sensitive skin, I did experience some redness and, what appeared to be, very mild bruising.

However, without a doubt, my skin also looked plumped and hydrated and felt incredibly soft afterwards. Four treatments two weeks apart are recommended followed by nourishing skin preparations to use at home. Having seen the results after just one session, I

would be very tempted.

My final treatment was hair restructuring. Since I don’t have any specific problems with my locks, stylist Samera asked what I would like to improve and, after a weekend in the water, I was keen

to restore some shine. She used a deeply nourishing hair mask activated by 15 minutes under a steam treatment and designed to penetrate deeply to soften my hair and leave it super shiny.

A quick blow dry later and I couldn’t have been happier with the results, so much so that two friends actually commented on how glossy I looked that evening and three washes later I am still reaping the benefits.

Hydro Spa & Salon offers a whole range of treatments, from Elemis and Dr Dennis Gross facials to nail and hair options, a signature sea salt hammam and a selection of massages. And with sumptuous surroundings backed up by very reasonable prices it’s an affordable weekday treat that’s luxurious enough for a girly weekend spa day.

Call 17 781-500.

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GET THE MANE OF YOUR DREAMS If you’ve always wished for long, thick hair but have never managed to achieve it, a great way to play magic with your locks is to opt for extensions.

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ost women have dreamt of glamorous long hair, but not all are graced with it naturally. An easy way to get the look you’ve always wanted and bring out your inner hottie is to go for extensions. A lot of women imagine themselves with longer, thicker hair – that’s why hair extensions are so popular, and not just in Hollywood. Women all over the world realise that it’s possible to take their current look, give it a lift and have any

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style they desire, well at least for a few months.

However, there are some vital things one needs to know before deciding on hair extensions. Joz Salon & Spa brings you the facts about this popular trend and gives tips on how to wear it. l Extensions don’t just add length. You can choose to add volume instead of or in addition to length, which works perfectly for fine, limp or thinning hair.

l Turn that bob into a mane! If your existing hair is as little as three-inches long, you can get extensions, although the extent of your transformation may be limited if your hair is very short. l Extensions can be braided in, glued in, woven in, or, if you only need a follicular boost for a special event, clipped in. l You can also add highlights or colour. With shades ranging from mild to wild, you can add vibrant hues to your hair with the use of extensions. l The process isn't painful, so it shouldn't hurt at all.

What to Look For A hairstyle can make or break your look. Hence, there are some important questions to ask when selecting extensions: l What are the extensions made from – are they synthetic or 100-per-cent natural human hair?

(Human hair is more expensive than synthetic counterparts.) l How will the extensions be applied and removed? l Can you choose from a variety

of weights?

“You can play with the colour or length and fill in spots where it’s needed more than others – it's a more accurate way to get the desired look,” says a salon stylist.

Powered with the right information, you can be on your way to dreamy locks in no time.

Call 17 369-133, 16 031-120 or 17 756-449. www.womanthismonth.com

SOCIAL BUTTERFLY

Dr Anil Kumar & Dr Wanda

Nanda, Astrid, Fatima, Wissem, Esky & Dr Martin

Dr Fadeela, Dr Narima, Dr Alia, Dr Suher & Dr Ameena

Anti-ageing Seminar

Gulf Pharmacy in collaboration with Pure Gold Collagen, held a seminar by guest speaker, Dr Martin Godfrey, at the Gulf Hotel

Dr Martin Godfrey

Suher & Dr Alia

Nanda Kumar & Dr Martin Godfrey

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Oncology Conference

Bahrain Specialist Hospital held its 2nd Oncology Conference 2016 at Gulf Hotel.

Dr Subhathra Jeyaraman, Dr Prasan Durga, Dr Najah R Zayyani, Dr Kasim Ardati & Dr Sonal Jagtap

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Dr Habib Ebrahim Altareef, Dr Abdullah Hassan Darwish, Prof Randah Ribhi Hamadeh, & Dr Khalid Al Sindi

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LIFESTYLE | wellbeing

STUB IT Out!

The reasons people start puffing on tobacco may be different, but the consequences of the habit are all the same. Behnaz Sanjana attempts to clear the smoke.

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he sultry actress on screen leans forward while a handsome man lights the cigarette she holds in her mouth. Their eyes meet as they exchange smouldering looks; all is well and glamorous in fantasy land. Cut to the real world, and the story takes a different turn. Every puff that the stunning lady inhales contains more than 4,000 chemicals (think carbon monoxide, nitrosamines, vinyl chloride, hydrogen cyanide and many other names you wouldn’t normally want anywhere near you), besides the deadly drug nicotine. Each subsequent cigarette will inhibit her lung function, damage her blood vessels and is likely to cause her an array of health problems sooner or later.

The act of smoking has become socially accepted the world over and the compulsion of its addiction glazes thickly over the knowledge of the extent of havoc it can wreak in one’s body. General practitioner Dr Babu Ramachandran heads American Mission Hospital’s anti-smoking clinics in the hope of raising awareness of the ills of the habit and helping people overcome it.

Dr Babu has undergone specialised training in respiratory medicine and was the senior research fellow at a centre in India conducting a study on smoking cessation. He says: “During my interaction with nearly 3,000 smokers, I observed that a good majority wished they had not started smoking and many found it difficult to quit the habit. This set me on track to start the anti-smoking clinic in Bahrain with the support of the American Mission Hospital.”

In addition to the common pitfalls of smoking such as respiratory disorders and cancer, which even teenagers are aware of, he lists a range of other possible consequences. “Besides throat cancer, lung cancer and mouth cancer, smoking leads to depression and causes miscarriages in pregnant women,” he says.

He adds that the use of tobacco is responsible for around 45 per cent of all heart-related deaths globally. Not an insignificant number.

“These are just a few of the many dangers of smoking. Moreover, the harmful impact of passive smoking on non-smokers is also gaining greater importance today.” Second-hand smoke can increase the risk of cancer in non-smokers by a quarter, and has resulted in deaths due to lung cancer, heart and lung disease and stroke in the UK, according to www.cancerresearch.org.

Studies show second-hand smoke particularly affects children exposed to it, leading to a higher risk of respiratory infections, asthma, bacterial meningitis and cot death. So when you light up, you are also threatening the wellbeing of those around you.

While most of this is common knowledge, why do people find it difficult to quit smoking? The culprit is the nicotine. Once inhaled, it reaches the brain in a matter of seconds, and chemically alters the cerebral matter to make the smoker feel alert, energetic and relaxed. This elevation in mood and heart rate lasts for around 30 minutes and, as the effect of the nicotine wanes, the brain signals the smoker to light up again. Once the body adjusts to a steady dose of nicotine, the feel-good factor wears off faster over time, causing the smoker to increase the number of cigarettes in a day to achieve the same level of satisfaction.

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smoking is best addressed as

a condition to be treated. Consult a physician who can guide you.

The support of family and friends will help you quit the habit.

Dr Babu Ramachandran

But that’s not to say a heavy smoker is at the point of no return. A heavy dose of willpower, motivation and willingness to go through the dreaded withdrawal symptoms can help you kick the habit. “To quit smoking the most vital factor is the will to give up. The best way is to go ‘cold turkey’, which means that you give it up in one go and don’t try the process of a slow reduction in the number of cigarettes smoked per day,” says Dr Babu. He continues: “Yes, there

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are effects which manifest as irritability, sleep disturbances, lack of concentration and changes in appetite. These may last for four to six weeks, but the long-term benefits of stopping smoking far outweigh the temporary unease.

“However, if that is not possible there are other aids such as the nicotine patch, nicotine gums and some medicines as well. Just like other medical conditions, smoking is best addressed as a condition to be treated. Consult a physician who can guide you. The support of family and friends will help you quit the habit,” says the doctor.

For those who hit the shisha bars at the end of the day, you’re in the running for ugly health hazards too. Shisha smoke may be more aromatic than that of cigarettes, but has the same toxic tobacco. It’s believed that with one puff of shisha you inhale the same amount of smoke as you’d get from smoking a whole cigarette. On e-cigarettes, Dr Babu comments that their use is still controversial and he doesn’t advocate the use of them.

A widely-believed worry for those trying to quit smoking is the prospect of weight gain. Dr Babu explains: “This can be attributed to increased food intake, solely because food begins to taste better!”

Another side effect of smoking is that it affects the taste buds as well as yellowing teeth and nails.

In light of all the issues smoking can cause in the body and the healthy years potentially lost due to this habit, Dr Babu puts it simply: “If you are a smoker, stop today. If you are not one, don't start!”

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If you’re scouting around for a meaningful gift or way to give back to the community, this one shows just how much you care.

he Al Hilal Hospital and Medical Centers have been conducting a Breast Cancer Health Awareness Campaign for the full month of October and it is currently ongoing.

As a unique social initiative, the medical conglomerate has launched a unique ‘Breast Cancer Checkup Gift Voucher’ as part of the campaign conducted every year.

These vouchers, which are worth BD75, are on offer at a special price of just BD25. They make the most thoughtful gift for any woman who should be screened for breast cancer and are valid up to March 2017.

The voucher can also be a practical way to do your bit for the disadvantaged. If you are looking for a meaningful way to help the needy, a voucher can be given away as charity to underprivileged women registered with numerous social organisations around the Kingdom. Al Hilal has collaborated with non-profit groups such as the Royal Charity Organisation, Bahrain Cancer Society, Cancer

Care Group and other women’s associations and support groups to refer women who need a checkup to the hospital. Many corporate houses have come forward in support for such women by purchasing gift vouchers and distributing them amongst those who require annual screening but may not be able to afford it.

It is important that women of all ages understand the importance of detecting and

treating breast cancer early. Treatment while the tumour is still small and confined to an area of breast tissue provides the best chance of survival and an improved quality of life.

So go ahead and gift this voucher to someone today; you may just be saving a life.

Call Al-Hilal Muhararq on 17 344-700 or Al-Hilal Riffa on 17 495-555.

George, Khalid & Sharif

Hotel Opening The ribbon-cutting ceremony

Gulf Hotels Group opened its new four-star property, Gulf Residence Amwaj.

Garfield, Yaqoob & Abdulla

Mohammed, Sharif, Isa, Mohammed & Ahmed

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AGE MATTERS Obstetrician and gynaecologist Dr Sudharani Bairajju sheds light on the right age to conceive and the factors that lead to decline in a woman’s fertility.

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ge is the single most such as fibroids, tubal important factor disease, pelvic inflammation, affecting a woman’s fertility endometriosis and others and her chances of having a also increases. child. Women are born with If planning to have a family, all the eggs they will ever women are frequently have and the ovaries have a advised to utilise their 20s limited life span. for conception. WouldA woman’s best be mums should consult reproductive years are in her their gynaecologist for 20s, after which fecundity screening tests if they plan gradually begins to drop. contraception to postpone A healthy 30-year-old their pregnancy. Fertility female has a 20-per-cent screening involves semen Dr Sudharani Bairajju chance of getting pregnant. analysis, hormonal tests and By age 40, a woman’s an ultrasound to check the chance is less than five percent per cycle, so ovarian reserve which is the capacity of the fewer than five out of every 100 women are ovary to provide egg cells that are capable of expected to be successful each month. fertilisation resulting in a healthy pregnancy.

The risk of other disorders that may adversely affect the reproductive system, Call 17 812-222.

HE Shaikh Khalid bin Humood Al Khalifa with management & staff at the opening

Gulf Spa Opening

The Gulf Hotel Bahrain celebrated the grand opening of its new Gulf Spa at its premises in Adliya.

Ali, Cyril, Rahim & Andrew

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Mohammed, HE Nor Huda & Waleed Al Raees

Ron & Garfield

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SAFETY NET FOR SAAR CITIZENS

Diwali Celebration

Lulu Group International held a Diwali celebration at Lulu Hypermarket in Dana Mall.

Jabran & Vineeth

This trustworthy medical centre, that has been serving the community in Saar and Budaiya for 16 long years, will now provide enhanced health care.

Sunil & Bincy

Anusha, Naomi & James

Saji & Thomas

Dr George Cheriyan

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merican Mission Hospital (AMH) has long been the go-to for ambulatory care services to thousands of patients, both young and old.

The growing popularity of the clinic has made the need for its expansion inevitable, so management has taken the step of moving to a state-of-the-art, family-centred facility not far away from its original location in Saar.

The new clinic, scheduled to open by the end of November, is situated adjacent to Alosra supermarket and behind the mosque on Saar Avenue. It has all of the facilities required for ambulatory care under one roof, including ENT, ophthalmology, orthopaedics, internal medicine, radiology and laboratory facilities. With easy access and ample parking space, the facility has been designed to be aesthetically

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pleasing and energy saving.

The building accommodates a dedicated children’s unit which enables paediatricians and nurses trained in paediatrics to observe young ones in need of medical attention for up to eight hours. It also features an urgent care unit for adults comprising eight bays to observe patients with common or life-threatening illnesses.

There will be a separate section that will attend to women’s health issues and a large physiotherapy unit as well.

By the beginning of 2017, the clinic will operate 24 hours. A brand new dental facility is also in the offing.

Patients will be seeing some familiar faces and other new specialists who will provide topclass health care on a par with international standards.

Call 1717 7711.

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showcase MIDDLE EAST MEDICAL CENTER

THE ‘SUNSHINE’ VITAMIN Vitamin D is extremely useful and can be produced in the body with mild sun exposure or consumed in food or supplements.

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Cocktail Party

The K Hotel held a corporate and media cocktail party at Kolors restaurant.

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itamin D, also known as the sunshine vitamin, has great health benefits. Dr Rashmi Dhanuka, general practitioner at Middle East Medical Center – Hidd, explains in detail.

Cheese, butter, margarine, fortified cereals, milk and fish are some of the food sources of Vitamin D. “Adequate vitamin D intake is important for the regulation of calcium and phosphorus absorption, maintenance of healthy bones and teeth and protection against multiple diseases and conditions such as cancer, type 1 diabetes and multiple sclerosis,” says Dr Dhanuka.

It has various roles in the body, helping to: l Support the immune system, brain and nervous system. l Regulate insulin levels and aid diabetes management. l Support lung function and cardiovascular health.

Vitamin D deficiency increases the risk of depression by 50 per cent, breast cancer by 83 per cent, heart attacks by 30 per cent, fracture by 50 per cent and diabetes by 66 per cent.

In spite of the name, vitamin D is considered a pro-hormone and not actually a vitamin because the body is capable of producing its own vitamin D through sunlight on the skin, while vitamins are nutrients that cannot be synthesised by the body and must be acquired through the diet or supplements.

It is estimated that sensible sun exposure on bare skin for five-10 minutes, two to three times per week allows the body to produce sufficient vitamin D, but it has a half-life of only two weeks, meaning that stores can run low, especially in winter.

Recent studies have suggested that up to 50 per cent of adults and children worldwide are vitamin D deficient.

Symptoms of low vitamin D include generalised myalgia (muscle pain), sleepiness, fatigue and hair loss.

After checking the level in blood, a patient is advised on sun exposure, oral tablets or injections depending on deficiency.

Call 17 464-848 for consultation and more information.

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LIFESTYLE | food WESTIN BAHRAIN CITY CENTRE

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This renowned hotel’s Khaleeji restaurant gives food connoisseurs yet another reason to dine at the venue, this time in the middle of the day, says Puja Tiwari.

very once in a while, I love shrugging off the shackles of the deskbound sandwich or salad and indulging in a proper meal to change things up a notch.

Business lunches are amazing because they let you eat at your favourite restaurants at a fraction of the regular price. Many of them feature a three-course meal consisting of a starter, a main course and dessert for a fixed amount. But, as much as I love the concept, the challenge lies in finding a place that serves the meal within the short timeframe of a corporate lunch break.

This is one great aspect of Furn Bistro and Bakery’s newly launched promotion – you will eat in 30 minutes or less!

It gives patrons a choice between typical Khaleeji food, which is the house speciality, and a couple of well-loved alternatives such as steak and tiramisu.

The décor is airy and spacious, with earthy tones and bright light fixtures, and adjoining the restaurant is an artisan bakery with a varied selection of cakes, breads and pastries.

Not long after I placed my order, the first course was on the table. It was a beautifully presented hummous platter with four variations – chickpeas, sundried tomato, beyirouti with coriander and parsley, and the regular version. The pastel colours of each made it look like a summery palette.

Accompanying it was an assortment of freshly baked bread. The serving is generous for one person but I tucked in and did it justice.

Next to the table were sirloin steak and vegetable couscous. The juicy steak was laid on a bed of iceberg lettuce, drizzled in a creamy blue cheese sauce and came atop a rustic wooden board. A glaze was brought in a separate bowl. With all the different colours and textures, the presentation was striking. The well-marbled steak was cooked to a tender medium-rare and the sauce was a robust accompaniment to it.

The couscous came in a sleek iron pot with vegetables dunked in gravy on the side. Fluffy and savoury, this is the perfect light option for the health-conscious.

For dessert we had a towering tiramisu, a rich and exquisite dessert which left an indelible impression on my taste buds. The pudding-like dish combined the tenacious flavour of cocoa and coffee with creamy mascarpone cheese and ladyfinger sponge in magnificent harmony. Berries and slivers of

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almonds laced the side of the iron pan it was brought in. Again, the presentation deserves a notable mention.

The master of the kitchen, chef Manaf Al Ghanim, was kind enough to explain the concept of the business lunch telling us that the restaurant wants to give customers a classy experience to help them forget the monotony of the daily grind. The food served is easy on the stomach and service is quick.

Furn is located at the Westin Bahrain City Centre. The offer runs from Sunday-Thursday from noon-4pm. A two-course meal costs BD7.5++ and three course is BD9.5++.

Call 17 171-441.

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showcase HÉVÉA CAFÉ

AMBROSIAL DELIGHTS Don’t have time to indulge in a sophisticated meal during the day? Get one delivered from this restaurant’s sumptuous menu instead.

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istro-style café Hévéa at Al Aali Shopping Complex has racked up a reputation for serving delectable gastronomic creations inspired by the era of French colonisation of Southeast Asian countries.

It will soon offer patrons a tiffin box delivery service on their desks, now available for pickup at the restaurant. The business lunch comes with a three-course meal and one beverage for BD8 per person.

For bite-sized snacks, the restaurant has introduced a box of assorted mini sandwiches with a gluten-free rice bread option. All the bread and pastries are baked in-house to ensure freshness. The price varies as per the selection.

With a wide variety of fish and meat dishes, dinner at Hévéa is a lavish affair. Choose between the Akoya Pearl Lamb Shank, goat cheese salad, beef steak, fish skewers, pasta and many more. Top it off with a homemade dessert for the sweetest ending to a perfect meal.

With the good weather setting in, the terrace

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seating at the café is the ideal spot to take in the views of Seef district while savouring your meal.

Whether it’s a wedding, a graduation, or a baby shower, Hévéa also has a decadent variety of customisable cakes to suit your occasion.

Breakfast is from 8am-noon, lunch from noon4pm and high tea from 4pm-6pm followed by dinner thereafter.

Call 17 004-588.

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LIFESTYLE | food CAVALLI CAFFE

A TASTE OF LUXURY Puja Tiwari finds this stylish café serves delicious fare combining the opulence of fashion with gourmet flavours.

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hen the glamorous Cavalli Caffe opened at Al Aali Shopping Complex earlier this year, my foodie brain made a mental note to visit the branch on a day I felt particularly flush with my wallet.

The café is a culinary venture that sports a trendy setting and serves gourmet Italian dishes. It is the brainchild of notable fashion mogul Roberto Cavalli.

One fine day a friend and I decided to meet and start our day with breakfast at the eatery.

With clear blue skies and a light breeze in the air, we chose to sit on the outdoor patio.

The plush seating is swathed with the iconic bold zebra and giraffe prints synonymous with Cavalli. The inside of the restaurant has a glittering façade, with outlandish yet sophisticated elements making for some serious eye candy.

The waiter brought us the menu and surprise struck. Given all the pomp and splendour associated with the brand, the prices are fairly reasonable.

After some discussion with restaurant manager, we placed our order. Two dreamy cups of French coffee and strawberry coconut mojito heralded the beginning of the feast.

The rich-tasting coffee is an Italian take on the classic brew with gianduja, layered in ombre shades of brown with the rim lined in chocolate specked with almond slivers.

The mojito was topped with edible flowers and mint dipped in silver glitter, each sip reminding me of a beach and the azure sea of the Caribbean.

Akin to the designer’s vibrant creations, the

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food is a sight to behold. In shades of blue and pink were the Gianduja Crepes, stuffed with a hazelnut spread and a side of banana compote and sweet cream. The colours reminded me of cotton candy and I had a quick flashback to my childhood. The texture was smooth and the cream went well with the sweet delight.

Next up was a croissant basket filled with delicious fluffy, warm, freshly baked pastries so good I could have eaten just these and left happy.

However, we moved on. You can literally taste the rainbow when you order the vanilla chia pudding layered with mango, blueberry, strawberry and avocado compote. A side of crunchy homemade granola accompanies it.

This is the kind of dish that makes Instagram users famous. I don’t even remember the last time I saw food that looks this stunning and the tart blueberry layer was perfectly balanced by the buttery avocado.

Next was the moist and delicate Giraffe Swiss Roll with cream cheese and cherry jam wrapped in a peachy yogurt mousse.

Each piece is an art, and the detailing on the roll looked like the animal’s neck. The Black Forest Pancakes, as the name sounds, were irresistible with homemade ricotta layered with dark cherry, whipped cheese and cream cheese foam.

Bursting at the seams with all the opulent food, I decided I must come back another time for lunch or dinner. Cavalli Caffe is the perfect spot for a snack or a meal with friends. And the value for money is too good to be true!

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LIFESTYLE | food

CHEF’S SPECIAL The latest venue to open in Amwaj is helmed by an industry veteran who knows his way around the kitchen.

TURKEY LIVER PARFAIT WITH CARAMELISED ONION AND CRANBERRY SAUCE

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ith almost 20 years’ experience under his toque, executive chef Ramzi Waheed Jalal worked across the region before bringing his talents to the Ramada Hotel & Suites Amwaj Islands.

Having trained with Marriott in his native Jordan, he moved to Saudi Arabia, taking on the role of head chef in the household of Prince Abed Al-Elah bin Abed Al-Aziz Al Saud. After three years running the royal kitchens, he decided to make the move to hotels, heading for a stint at the Riyadh InterContinental before moving back to Jordan where he held positions in a number of five-star properties.

He joined Ramada Amwaj in October last year on the pre-opening team and is responsible for all kitchen operations in the new property, which boasts 162 rooms and suites as well as three restaurants (Citrus, Flavours of Morocco, Lounge), banqueting facilities and outside catering.

Here he shares a favourite festive recipe for you to try at home.

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Ingredients: - 300g butter, softened - olive oil - 2 shallots, peeled and finely chopped - 2 cloves garlic, peeled and finely chopped - 400g turkey liver, trimmed - fresh sage - 1 small glass raspberry vinegar - sea salt - freshly ground black pepper - 1 pinch ground nutmeg - 1 loaf French or ciabatta bread - 1 punnet salad cress Method: Preheat the oven to 110ºC. Put half the butter in an ovenproof saucepan and place in the oven to slowly melt until it’s separated, approximately 10 minutes.

Strain the yellow clarified butter into a bowl and set aside to cool. Discard the remaining milky-coloured butter.

Heat a little olive oil in a frying pan and fry the shallots and garlic for 10 minutes, until soft and tender, then remove to a plate. Wipe the pan clean, turn up the heat and throw

in the livers and most of the sage. Cook the livers for a couple of minutes on each side, until lightly coloured but still a little pink in the middle – overcooking will spoil the texture.

Pour in the raspberry vinegar. Simmer for a minute, then take the livers off the heat and tip them into a food processor with the cooked shallots and garlic. Blitz until you have a smooth purée. Add the rest of the softened butter and continue to blitz, then season well and add the nutmeg. Transfer the mixture to a serving bowl.

Sprinkle the remaining sage leaves over the parfait, then spoon over the clarified butter. Leave to set in the fridge for one hour. If the butter seal isn’t disturbed it should last up to two weeks.

When you are ready to serve, slice up some bread and griddle small toasts. Pile them onto a board next to your parfait with a pile of snipped cress on the side and dig in.

CARAMELISED ONION Ingredients: - 2 tbsp olive oil

- 1 tbsp butter - 2 large red onions, thinly sliced - 1/4 cup white sugar - 1/4 cup balsamic vinegar - salt to taste Method: Heat olive oil and butter in a large skillet over medium heat. Cook and stir onions and sugar in hot oil until onions start to caramelise, about 15 minutes. Stir balsamic vinegar into onion mixture and bring to a boil.

Reduce heat to medium-low and simmer until liquid is evaporated, 15 to 20 minutes more. Season with salt.

CRANBERRY SAUCE Ingredients: - 1 1/2 cups cranberries - 1 cup white sugar - 1 cup orange juice Method: In a medium-sized saucepan over medium heat, dissolve the sugar in the orange juice. Stir in the cranberries and cook until the cranberries start to pop, about 10 minutes. Remove from heat and place sauce in a bowl. Cranberry sauce will thicken as it cools.

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showcase RAMADA MANAMA CITY CENTRE

GOING GREEN This towering hotel in the heart of Seef district celebrated Wyndham Green Day with guests and staff.

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s part of the event, staff and associates at the Ramada Manama City Centre dressed in green and took part in various events to mark the occasion.

The day started with a yoga class and chefs whipped up some healthy food options.

The team put their gardening skills to use and planted seeds of basil, rosemary, tomato plants, olives, figs and much more.This was done in conjunction with the property’s vision of developing a herb garden in the near future to encourage sustainable development and local produce.

Since its inception, the programme has been committed to provide resources for generations to come. The hotel

chain has reduced its global carbon footprint by 21 per cent and water usage by 18 per cent.

Ramada Manama City Centre is the newest addition to grace the hotel industry in Bahrain.

It has 140 rooms and suites with spectacular sea views. Middle Eastern restaurant Reem Al Bawadi serves shisha paired with delectable eats and the rejuvenating Taqah spa facility offers relaxing treatments and massages by skilled professionals.

The hotel currently offers 50-per-cent discount vouchers to Wahooo! Waterpark for every direct reservation.

Call 17 104-000 or visit www. ramadamanama-citycentre.com.

Award winning, Middle Eastern themed Restaurant, renowned for its authentic cuisine and hospitality

Ramada Manama City Centre, Al Seef Kingdom of Bahrain Tel: +973 1710 4040 | Fax: +973 1710 4010

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showcase RAMADA HOTEL & SUITES AMWAJ ISLANDS

FESTIVE TREATS FOR EVERYONE Whether you want a turkey with all the trimmings ‘to go’ or a space for a fun office Christmas party, this venue has you covered.

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he latest offering from Ramada enjoys a prime spot in the Amwaj Islands and offers a range of culinary options from Flavours of Morocco to a sumptuous all-daydining spread at Citrus.

For the festive season, from November 24 to December 25, the chefs have come up with magnificent turkey and succulent roast feasts with all the trimmings. They’re available to takeaway for either Thanksgiving or Christmas celebrations so you can relax and enjoy the time with friends and family. With each turkey of approximately 5kg and accompaniments, including stuffing, cranberry sauce, sweet potatoes, gravy and pumpkin cake, at just BD39.500 net, there’s a great excuse to take a break from the kitchen. Orders should be placed at least 24 hours in advance and delivery is free within Amwaj and BD8.000 outside Amwaj.

If you’re organising a festive gathering for colleagues or friends, the Ramada Amwaj has the ideal space in its Rooftop Terrace which has a special barbecue offer on throughout December.

Eat as much as you like and enjoy unlimited soft drinks for just BD12.500 net. Come with a group of 10 and one of you goes free.

For a more formal option enjoy a sumptuous banquet complete with soft drinks and

Christmas decorations for BD13.000 net.

Again, parties of 10 get one free place and there’s a special price for Sunday diners – BD11.500 net including the chance to win prizes in a lucky draw.

Advance booking is required.

Call 16 000-099 or email dining@ramadamanama-amwaj.com

TURKEY TO GO LET US COOK FOR YOU! Take a break from your kitchen this holiday season and order our delicious turkey with trimmings.

From November 24 – December 25, 2016 • • • • •

Bread stuffing • Sweet potatoes Cranberry sauce • Gravy Free pumpkin cake Available for delivery or pick-up Deliver free of charge within Amwaj Islands and Outside of Amwaj at BD 8

* Minimum 24 hours required for all orders

ramada-manama-amwaj.com For reservations, call +973 1600 0099 or email at dining@ramada-manama-amwaj.com

YOU DO YOUR THING. LEAVE THE REST TO US.®

RAMADA HOTEL AND SUITES AMWAJ ISLANDS P.O. Box 13220 Building 1741, Road 5715, Block Amwaj 257 Amwaj Islands, Kingdom of Bahrain ©2016 Ramada Worldwide Inc. This property is independently owned by Mannai Holding Co. S.P.C. and operated under a management agreement by Wyndham Hotel Group (UK) Limited or one of its Affiliates.

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LIFESTYLE | home

Seasonal Hue Lay it out with flair Table mat, Home Centre

Faux Fur Curl up in comfort Cushion, H&M

Bearing Gifts A regal glow Tealight Holder, Artikel Lovely Lights Dispel the gloom Lanterns, Artikel

Decadent Times Go back to a classic era Clock, Christofle

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Red and Gold Brighten up your mantle LED Room Decoration, Home Centre

Very Berry Hang up some happiness Wreaths, Marina Home

Wild Things Winter staple Reindeer, Artikel

Gift Time A symbolic accessory Candle, Home Centre Ornamental Memories Let happy moments hang around Hanging Photoframes, Home Centre

Eye Candy Versatile shimmer Baubles, H&M

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Christmas Cheer Display winter treats Trays, Home Centre

Glamour For potpourri or peonies Vase, Lalique

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A Very Merry Affair In the run-up to National Day celebrations, Christmas and New Year, we bring you the most gorgeous ways to dress up your home and hearth in time for the season’s fanfare. All you need is a sprinkling of magic, AKA as some characteristic pieces strewn around your space to bring in the warm, fuzzy feeling that this time of year excites. Curl up with a hot brew in the midst of some festive chic to make the most of the twinkling lights.

So what if it doesn’t snow on the island? Bring the snugness of winter indoors with rustic wood finishes, reds of all shades and lots of candles. Stave off the chill with layers when it comes to soft furnishings.

Layer up table linen, rugs and throws for that plush, romantic feel.

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ll it takes is some rice lights, lanterns and seasonal flowers to take your outside space from everyday to Red Letter Day.

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SOCIAL BUTTERFLY

x Jawad Group hosted a cooking event

featuring pastry chef Ismail from The Four Seasons Hotel Bahrain Bay.

x Jawad Group held an exclusive art event for the media at Arteastiq at The Jawad Dome in Barbar.

Around Town

x YK Almoayyed & Sons launched the new 2017 Infiniti Q50

xZumba Bahrain presented a cheque to Dreams

Sports Sedan during a press conference at Downtown Rotana.

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Bushido held a media event featuring Buddha Bar Japanese executive chef, Shingeki Iimura on the occasion of the Nikkei Tour.

x Lulu Group inaugurated its “Discover America� festival at Lulu Hypermarket in Juffair Mall.

Society at the Bahrain Financial Harbour.

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YK Almoayyed & Sons inaugurated Rapid Auto Services at its outlet in Tubli.

UBL has launched the Instant Remittance Kiosk service for Bahrain debit card holders.

Ladies Luncheon

A ladies luncheon was held at La Sauvage restaurant at The Domain Hotel and Spa.

Laura, Anne & Debbie

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showcase SPIRIT

INIMITABLE PANACHE If you’re looking for ‘something different’, this interior décor brand is making ripples with its exclusive and authentic offerings.

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hile there is no dearth of home furnishing outlets on the island, Spirit is not your regular, run-of-the-mill kind of space. A peek into the store will give you a glimpse of unique pieces that reflect a distinct style; be it home furniture, artifacts, wall hangings, pottery, antiques or statement accessories.

The store, located at Enma Mall in East Riffa, is the creation of Khalid Al Tahmazi, an artist whose passion for the craft shows in his work and the collection he curates for Spirit.

Having been inspired by indigenous crafts from around the world, he aspires to introduce a new, trendsetting interior culture in Bahrain.

The various products found at Spirit will enthuse homeowners, professional architects, interior

designers, consultants and retailers wishing to create an elegant, modern, yet rustic ambiance for their home and office interior spaces.

The brand ethically sources its products from various parts of the world such as Indonesia and

Africa. Each piece is carefully selected to showcase original, hand-made pieces created only with natural materials to enhance the beauty and calm of residential or commercial premises.

What’s more, you’ll be in for a

pleasant surprise when you look at the price tags of the handicrafts at Spirit. All products are extremely reasonable and also make for thoughtful gifts for family and friends to remember and cherish.

By adding Spirit’s balanced contrast of traditional and contemporary, you’ll be bringing harmony and beauty to everyday life.

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Green Initiative

Ramada Hotel & Suites Amwaj Islands hosted its first bicycle initiative and hotel inter-department handicrafts recycling competition for the environment.

Hotel management and staff

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showcase EURO MOTORS

Making a Big Impression One of the Kingdom’s leading automotive dealers held a special event to highlight this iconic marque.

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uro Motors, the official MINI importer in Bahrain, gave thousands of MINI fans and enthusiasts a lifelike experience at an interactive MINI City display. Held at Seef Mall, passersby were granted access to some of the brand’s most popular models.

The display was unveiled to customers looking to purchase the MINI Clubman as well as the MINI 3-Door and MINI Convertible. Visitors were invited to an all-encapsulating space inspired by the distinctiveness of each of the models, where visitors were able to discover their MINI personality through five different sections; MINI District, MINI Connected, MINI Art; MINI Beach and MINI Customise.

Paul Yates, general manager of Euro Motors, says: “MINI City is a unique and creative display that we have brought to Bahrain, giving

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visitors to the mall an insight into the world of MINI, in a fun and interactive way. It also gave car enthusiasts the opportunity to take a closer look at some of the latest models from the brand that we offer here in the Kingdom.

We will continue to bring such creative concepts to the country in the aim to enhance the reach and appeal of the MINI brand.”

On a stand was the MINI flagship model the Clubman. With increased length and width on its predecessor, it provides plenty of space to meet the demands of youthful, urban mobility. Viewed from behind, this model comes across as broad and athletic, and the typical split rear doors make the MINI Clubman a six-door model. The three- and four-

cylinder petrol engines available range from 102bhp through to 192bhp and, for the first time in a MINI, the Clubman is available with an optional eight-speed Steptronic transmission.

The recentley launched MINI Convertible was also present, with a wide range of exclusive equipment features for open-air pleasure. Its fully automatic soft top is purely electrically powered and is also available as a MINI Yours roof complete with unique integrated Union Jack graphics.

It comes in two engine variants of TwinPower Turbo Technology where there is a three-cylinder petrol engine with 136bhp for the MINI Cooper Convertible and a four-cylinder petrol engine with 192bhp for the MINI Cooper S Convertible.

Call 17 750-750.

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Festive Fair

LIFESTYLE | travel

Trade your high street trudge for a traditional extravaganza as WTM unwraps the most charming Christmas Markets around the world.

Over 180 stalls set against the backdrop of a magnificent cathedral make up the Chriskindlmarkt.

y n a m r e G , g r e b Nurem Relish the world-famous Nuremberg bratwurst sausages with delicious horseradish from a local farm.

A kids' ride at the market.

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With the enticing allure of mulled beverages, plum cake, bratwurst and gingerbread, the Christkindlesmarkt is arguably the most popular Christmas market in all of Europe.

Shimmering with colourful festive lights, more than 180 wooden stands sell handcrafted ornaments, toys, games and holiday treats.

Take a carriage ride around the cobbled streets of the old town surrounding the market to see some dazzling decorations and winter greenery.

Distinguished by its medieval architecture, the city offers more than 30 different museums, a majestic imperial castle, towering cathedrals and plenty of hip eateries to enthral you with its charm.

The famous Nutcracker character in all sizes at one of the stalls at the market.

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The snowy wonderland of Prague's Old Town Square Christmas market embodies a fairytale setting.

c i l b u p e R h c e z C , e u Prag A scene from the Museum of Communism depicting a young pioneer in school.

Traditional fare like sauerkraut with sausages and potatoes at the Wenceslas Square market.

Feed your dark side and learn about ancient occult practices at the Museum of Alchemists and Magicians of Old Prague. www.womanthismonth.com

The capital is nothing short of a fairytale any day of the year, but come Christmas and it transforms into an even more charming landscape. The main Christmas markets are held at the Old Town Square and Wenceslas Square, a haven for enthusiastic shoppers.

Buy traditional handmade handicrafts, knitted socks, slippers and sample wellloved local desserts such as sweet bread and short-crust pastry cookies. Redcanopied wooden huts sell toys, glass baubles, embroidered lace and souvenirs. A nativity scene hosts sheep, goats and donkeys which can be petted and music concerts run throughout the day. Once you're totally shopped out head up to the castle, or visit one of several museums in the vicinity.

The medieval astronomical clock adorns the Old Town Square and announces every hour with 12 apostles passing the window above the dial.

Let your inner child marvel at life-size toy creations at the Lego Museum.

Stalls selling wooden puppets and toys are popular as they make delightful gifts for children.

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LIFESTYLE | travel Formula Rossa, the world's fastest roller coaster, at Ferrari World in Abu Dhabi.

The architectural wonder of Sheikh Zayed Mosque is a truly stunning sight.

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High street brands like Tory Burch can be found in every corner of major shopping malls.

The Abu Dhabi desert is where Star Wars was filmed and is a famous tourist spot.

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If travelling to Europe isn’t an option, head to the Emirates for some fun in the sun at the Swiss Christmas Market with Santa Claus and sleigh bells. The annual market at the Beach Rotana in Abu Dhabi emulates a traditional village Christmas market laced with all the season’s cheer.

Experience a traditional European event featuring wooden chalets selling an array of seasonal gifts, decorations and culinary favourites. A folk band entertains with live music and a school choir sings muchloved carols. Keep an eye out for local celebrities while shopping or dining at one of the many restaurants.

A desert safari, hot air balloon rides and the giant motor sport amusement park of Ferrari World are some of the many attractions you can get busy with after your retail jaunt.

Huts decorated with snow lie in stark contrast with palm trees in the Christmas market of Abu Dhabi.

Tuna salmon tartar at Inakaya Japanese restaurant in Abu Dhabi.

Children of the choir singing at the market.

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PARENTING | lifestyle

Creative Gifting

It’s the time of the year when we get the green light to pamper our little ones, giving them all the material things they want. Fernanda Langhammer asks what about also gifting your child a more personalised present?

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y daughter loves Christmas; it is when we try to get the family together and create nice memories. But she also enjoys planning the gifts she will get in advance. She researches toys online, makes lists, changes her mind, talks to her friends; it is a whole area preparation

that starts in the middle of the year. However, together with the toy, or whatever she chooses, we try to give a personal little thing with a meaningful message. I’m going to share a few ideas with you. I hope you enjoy making them for your kids!

COUPON BOOKLET This is a fun idea that can be superpersonalised following your family traditions and routine. You can print or handwrite things

such as: go to the theatre, play a board game, ride a bike, cook together, choose a favourite restaurant for dinner, watch the sunset and many other ideas. Your child can retrieve

them when they like (and when it is possible, of course). For the very little ones you can just print pictures, while for the big ones you add in riddles or make it as complex as you want.

THE BOOK OF HAPPINESS You can buy a nice notepad, or just get one that you have at home, and decorate its cover with family pictures and kids’

drawings, wrap it and put it under the Christmas tree. This is supposed to be a weekly journal where, at the end of each week, you sit with your child and write the

things that made you happy during that week. By the end of the year, you will have a collection of beautiful memories to recall which can be read during difficult moments.

CREATE A STORY This is an idea that is very good for when children are small. Again you need a notepad and a creative child (and who doesn’t have one?). This idea, in particular, is my husband’s,

so I have to give him the credit. Our daughter was around four to six years old and loved to draw, so he used to sit with her and write her ideas for a story. On top of the page he would write two or three lines and she would colour a

picture, then to the next page, a few more lines and a drawing. This went on for a long period and now we have a ‘book’ made by dad and daughter as a sweet memory, even though the story doesn’t really connect.

COOL GIFTS FOR ANY TIME The best thing is that you actually don’t need a special occasion to gift your child one of the ideas above. You may not celebrate Christmas or find that another special

moment suits you better; it doesn’t really matter if you do it with all your heart. You just have to be committed and disciplined to keep filling the pages or not always say that it’s not a good time to use the voucher.

If you do prepare one of these special gifts, remember that your child may show excitement in the beginning but, during the course of the year, you have to be the one to motivate him/her to use it.

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PARENTING | advice

Need to Know

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Dr Jinan Harith Darwish is a paediatric allergy specialist and clinical immunology fellow at the King Faisal Specialist Hospital & Research Center. Each month she answers your parenting questions.

My seven-year-old daughter keeps getting nosebleeds. They come on out of nowhere and, though sometimes they stop quickly, often the bleeding seems to go on for a long time. Friends have suggested holding her head back, but this just makes her sick. Others say she needs surgery. Overall, I’m worried for her as she finds these incidents frightening. She is otherwise fine and healthy. What could be causing these bleeds and what should I do about it?

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Epistaxis is common in children.

Nonetheless, frequent minor nosebleeds can be both bothersome and alarming for parents and children. Common causes can include uncontrolled allergies; dry, irritated mucous membranes in her nose; sinus infections; trauma and frequent nose picking. Much more rarely, bleeding disorders or high blood pressure could cause frequent nosebleeds.

If dry air is the reason, in addition to a humidifier, it may help to use a saline moisturising nose spray and/or a nasal gel or Vaseline on a regular basis to keep your daughter’s nasal passages from getting dry and irritated. While treating allergies should help, do keep in mind that a bloody nose can be an uncommon side effect of using nasal steroids. And, even if your child denies picking his/her nose, keeping their nails cut short might be helpful if they are having regular nosebleeds – just in case. For more significant or recurrent epistaxis other techniques might include vasoconstrictor nose drops, cautery with silver nitrate, topical sealants or glue, nasal packing or balloon catheters.

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My teenager seems tired all the time. He has a pretty healthy diet, though I’m sure he does manage to fill up on junk food when he’s out of the house.

Unfortunately, despite encouragement, he’s not very active and spends a lot of time on his computer which I’ve told him is not good for him. At the weekends, he will be online gaming until the early

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hours and then we don’t see him till the next afternoon and he spends all his time slouching around. If lifestyle is the problem, I plan to show him your answer.

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Both The Australian guidelines and US Department of Health and Human Services recommend children aged five to 18 years have at least 60 minutes of moderate to vigorous physical activity daily. For many adolescents, this physical activity doesn’t just happen – it needs to be planned. It is key to persuade your son to partake in physical activities that are enjoyable, suitable for his age, and that offer diversity with at least three days per week of aerobic vigorous-intensity physical activity, muscle-strengthening physical activity on at least three days of the week and bone-strengthening physical activity on at least three days of the week.

Moderate activities in general should make him ‘huff and puff’ a little bit. These could include brisk walking, bike riding, swimming

laps of a pool and jogging. Even helping out with some of the more active chores inside and outside your home can be good for both of you.

Vigorous activities increase your teenager’s heart rate and make him ‘huff and puff’ even more. This can happen in any game with lots of running – for example, football, tennis, squash or basketball.

According to Australian government guidelines: l children aged five to 12 years should spend no more than two hours a day using electronic media for entertainment (computer games, internet, TV), especially during daylight hours. l children aged 12-18 years should spend no more than two hours a day using electronic media, unless it’s for educational purposes.

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Holiday Fun

PARENTING| tech kids

There are plenty of websites with amusing Christmas activities to do with your little one. We selected a few of them to kick start those festive feelings.

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t’s that time of the year again! Breathe in the scent of gingerbread cookies, decorate the Christmas tree, hang the stockings, listen to Christmas carols and embrace the whole magic that December 25th brings us. To put your child in the mood, enjoy some of the moments you have together to play online games such as tracking Santa’s activities, making fun videos, writing letters and a lot more. Just remember, some of the websites are only activated in December.

jibjab.com

If you like creating fun videos and e-cards to send to the whole family, this is the website for you. You can add the face of your loved ones to working and dancing elves or reindeer and give the whole family a good laugh. There is a fee, but you can use it the whole year. Besides holiday themes they also have birthday, Thanksgiving, video music and more. Kids love to watch themselves and siblings dancing around in funny clothes, it is certainly very entertaining.

noradsanta.org

This is a Santa tracker.

Every year during the month of December, NORAD (North American Aerospace Defense Command) activates this website for games, videos and music. On Christmas Eve, they record Santa’s journey around the globe, the tracking system shows Santa visiting different countries and landmarks. It’s a special action from the military organisation to get little ones excited about Santa’s arrival in town.

reindeer.com

Certainly a very different website to tune in, this page is a live feed of Santa’s reindeers. The kids can accompany the everyday life of the animals with regular appearances from Santa, when he comes to visit, feed his helpers and check his mail. There is also a scrolling ‘nice list’ that appears on the video to which you can add your child’s name. Real animals and snow to excite the little desert islanders.

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whychristmas.com

A website to understand Christmas customs and the story, it also has a section with fun activities. The ‘Christmas around the world’ part is especially interesting, it shows a list of countries and when you select one of them, you learn how they celebrate Christmas according to their own traditions. Very good if your kid is doing research about the subject for a school project.

portablenorthpole.com

Here you’ll find videos from Santa and his helpers with free messages from Father Christmas. There is also an option to personalise the message before showing it to your child. If you want to explore even more, there is a paid premium package that gives you access to other features. In Santa’s Village you find activities, stories, quizzes and a world of magical creatures.

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Become a Spank-free Zone Lamar Kanafani, the island’s first, and so far only, licensed marriage and family therapist, writes for WTM on the issues that concern mums.

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n last month’s article, I wrote that spanking isn’t an effective parenting technique in that it only produces negative outcomes, like teaching children that physical aggression is the way to express emotions and solve problems. It also builds resentment, distrust and insecurity in the parent-child relationship, and fails to teach effective communication skills, internal controls and self-discipline.

If you find yourself resorting to spanking whenever you have to discipline (teach/ guide/mould) your kids, chances are you get angry often and express your emotions through yelling, threatening, punishing, emotionally withdrawing, silent treatment and other forms of power and control over your child. So, simply giving you a list of the alternatives to spanking won’t make much of a difference. You need to first ask yourself why this happens. Is it truly your child that is causing this reaction in you, or is it about you?

Studies have shown these techniques are just as harmful as spanking. So, for the purpose of this article, spanking and verbal aggression fall under the same category.

It isn’t easy to look inwards and reflect on what might be causing our internal upset, whether it is in the moment or generally.

Many times, we skip over and disregard the real (primary) emotions that lie beneath the anger and frustration (secondary emotions).

Primary emotions are those feelings that are vulnerable and difficult to communicate (embarrassed, worried, afraid, etc), and most of us were taught through 'old-fashioned' parenting techniques to brush off or hide our feelings, before we even learn to be in touch with and identify them. If we grew up learning to handle emotions through anger and its various synonyms, we teach our children to do the same. It’s a vicious cycle.

It somehow feels riskier to tell your child: “I feel embarrassed and afraid of being criticised when you don’t practise the table manners I taught you at home.” Baselessly, we believe this honesty will encourage our

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children to take advantage of us. Compare that with: “You’re being rude and impolite at the dinner table. Show some respect and watch your manners!” The former is devoid of criticism, put-downs, name-calling, blaming and judgement; and in fact invites your child to understand and empathise and to willingly cooperate from a desire to please you. The latter communicates that your child is bad and there’s something wrong with them. So why should they try any harder when that is what you think of them? Children live up to your expectations, which are communicated through your words and actions.

One way to prevent yourself giving in to spanking is to make an effort to prevent the anger taking over in the first place. You will need to be very self-aware in the moment and understand what might be contributing to this. Ask yourself: Am I tired or sick, am I

physically in pain, am I frustrated with my husband/wife, was I yelled at by my boss today, have I been overloaded with stressors lately, etc? Also, ask yourself: Is my child tired, hungry, upset at something unrelated to the moment, worried, exhausted, uncomfortable, etc?

Remember, your child’s behaviour, any behaviour, is his/her way of communicating something internal; so get curious, rather than reactive, and then investigate the matter to attend to the root cause of the emotional overwhelm. If you find that you’ve reached your limit, take care of yourself first because you won’t otherwise be able to properly take care of your child.

Get yourself in the habit of telling your child something along the lines of: “I’m feeling such and such right now, so let’s take a break. I need to calm down, gather my thoughts, and we will readdress the issue later.” If you’re in public, remove both yourself and your child from the crowd. This small but significant act in itself gives you time to breathe and think before you act, and it eliminates the embarrassing emotions generated simply by being in public.

For more suggestions on what to do in the moment, like breathing exercises, counting to 10 etc, you can visit anti-spanking websites.

However, be mindful and disregard 'expert' advice that encourages punitive, controlling or shameful parenting tactics.

For further questions or support, email lamar.kanafani@gmail.com or call 36 009-665. www.womanthismonth.com

Star

Gazing Raphael tells us what’s written in the stars this month Sagittarius Health matters will take a turn for the better when you realize that a current course of medication has fortunately proven to be successful and you can look to get yourself back on track, with these concerns behind you. Your renewed sense of confidence will see you get a neglected career back on track and for some of you there could even be the decision to go travelling. Whatever you do, this is going to be the start of a new and positive phase in your life so enjoy it.

Aquarius

Never a sign to sit still for too long, you are likely to find this month a particularly frustrating one as your plans to move certain projects along are held up by forces outside of your control.

However, don’t allow things to get on top of you. Whilst you are waiting for certain issues to resolve themselves perhaps you should think about taking stock of other areas in your life because there is still a great deal of work to be done to restore a partnership to its former state.

Pisces

Early on this month there is likely to be quite an upheaval for you to contend with and change is something your sign does not handle very well.

That said, you will have to overcome this hurdle if you are to move on towards greater achievements for the remainder of the month. Try to push past your shyness and let your hair down a little. This could be just the boost you need to get those sparks of passion fired up again!

Aries

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Cancer

A recent break-up is going to still be playing heavily on your mind and, while you may have tried to distance yourself from your past, familiar surroundings and too many raw memories are making it difficult for your to move on. The best solution might be to try and get away for a while and clear your head in anticipation of new opportunities. Life moves in cycles and not always in black and white. Give yourself a few weeks to put some colour back into your world.

Leo

This might be the month of celebration for many of you but there remain burdens that make it difficult to really enjoy the festive season as you would like. The reality is that you can shed these problems fairly easily if you just apply a little disciplined thought to the matter on your mind. Honesty is the best policy but that’s being honest with yourself as well as those around you. Shed your troubles and get in the spirit with everyone else.

Capricorn

It seems that a rash purchase made last month is going to cause you some problems in December as things start to go wrong with regrettable results. You clearly did not take the advice given to you and it might be wise to cut your losses and get out while you can rather than trying to fix a problem that is really not worth fixing. Now is certainly not the time to try and nurse your wounded pride.

It’s far more important to get straight.

horoscopes

Virgo

December is traditionally the time of Capricorn – it is going to be a productive month for many of you, especially where business is concerned. You have a few irons in the fire and you want to strike now, whilst the initiative is with you. My advice would be to just go full steam ahead because everything you do right now is going to turn to gold and this could provide a really productive outcome.

Taurus

Your stubborn nature can sometimes land you in hot water and this month in particular you might find that you are forced into a difficult situation because you dig your heels in a little too deeply. There is an argument to suggest that you should perhaps rethink your attitude but that might be an easier thing to say than do. For now, your most immediate problem could be to reconcile the relationship that has been harmed because of it.

Gemini

For some time now you have laboured with several choices in your life and it would be fair to suggest that if anything, what you are really seeking is some kind of direction. December will see you presented with a job offer that could go some way to offering a long-term solution but you should really go with your gut instincts because the rewards could be plentiful. You know what you can do when you put your mind to it, so get it right and you will succeed.

The greatest challenge for you this month is going to be an emotional one. Your heart is struggling to accept a decision that has left you nursing a painful wound and it might be some time before you are able to get over it.

However, every cloud has a silver lining and the 21st of the month will see things change for the better when news reaches you of an overseas opportunity that might just take your mind off things and prove to be too good to ignore.

Libra

If you have been trying to balance your finances then this may just prove to be the month when you have to face facts and realise that you cannot hide from the truth any longer.

Serious action is required and the first thing you need to do is get someone in a professional capacity to review your accounts and put them in order. It might be a scary prospect but you shouldn’t take this as failure but an opportunity to get your world back on track.

Scorpio

After a long period away, your return to family and friends is going to make you realise just how much you are loved as well as how much you have missed those closest to you.

However, once you settle back into regular life, it won’t be long before you seek a new challenge and there are several opportunities that will find you, although not all of them may come around as immediately as you would want them to. Be patient and work out the best option for you in the long term.

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In Her Shoes

Nataliia Matskevych, trade marketing executive for Fashion Franchise at Chalhoub Group Bahrain/Ashraf BGDC, gives us a peek into her world

IF YOU WERE AN ANIMAL WHAT WOULD YOU BE?

A cat as I am friendly, loving and independent.

The cat is a boss; cats appreciate attention but only when they want it.

WHAT’S THE MOST DARING VE EVER DONE? THING YOU’ on the steep slopes.

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WHAT WOULD BE YOUR KARAOKE SONG? Enrique Iglesias Bailando.

WHAT WOULD BE THE BEST GI FT YOU COULD GET FOR CHRIST MAS? I would definitely go to Tan agra Store in City Centre and choose one of Jay Str ongwater’s amazing des igner masterpieces. I simply lov e what this designer cre ates.

HAT’S THE MOST UNUSUAL W WHERE WOULD BE YOUR N? EVER EATEun ING YOU’VEall the TH usual y ver is ces DREAM HOLIDAY DESTINATION? Tikka. The taste with spi Ibiza and Miami, I love sun, beach, music and good food, of course, and moreover I speak Spanish fluently.

THREE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU ANGRY? and nonsleep Being hungry, not enough punctuality.

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WHAT’S THE LAST CHARGE ON YOUR CREDIT CARD?

Silver Shoes by Chiara Ferragni from Saks Fifth Avenue

its. to me and to my food hab

EARLY BIRD OR NIGHT OWL? I am 100-per-cent early bird, I wake up early and I am more energised to conquer the world in the morning.

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