Woman This Month - May 2021

Bahrain Edition

May 2021 | Issue 217

BEAUTY

Our top beauty essentials this month!

Skincare that will have you glowing

BEAUTY | FASHION | HOME | WELLBEING | LOCAL ISSUES

FASHION

Spectacular Eid Fashion

PARENTING

When kids use inappropriate language

INTERVIEW Mariam Alammadi tells us about how Afkarech has impacted society We chat with the artist, Narmeen Albaker, about her recent exhibit with her daughter

LIFESTYLE A delicious recipe for mushroom soup www.womanthismonth.com

FASHION | styling

EID

EXTRAVAGANZA! Exquisitely elegant fashion choices to celebrate the joyous occasion of Eid.

Eid is easily the most festive occasion in the region, and for Muslims in other parts of the world. This month, we went through stunning collections from regional and international designers, but three in particular caught our eye.

We sought to stay true to the spirit of Ramadan as we bring in the joyous festival of Eid with a range of pieces that are each vibrant, luxurious and elegant in their own right.

The UAE’s homegrown womenswear label, Lili Blanc, embraced the month of Ramadan with the launch of a capsule collection.

Innovative design and a contemporary aesthetic came together to introduce the Kay kimono and Malika set. The iconic silhouettes promise versatility and timeless style through a collection that exudes strength, power and confidence. Each piece is lightweight and comfortable making them perfect for summer while being effortlessly elegant.

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FASHION | styling CH Carolina Herrera presented an exclusive Ramadan collection for the region which includes bags, accessories, and shoes. The collection is characterised by limited edition versions of the brands most iconic pieces, reinterpreted to embody the spirit of the region while remaining true to the character and elegance of the CH woman. Iconic bags such as Insignia Rings and Matryoshka Locked are reintroduced in exclusive textures and colours, offering subtle luxury with gold hints and accents, all handcrafted in the brand’s leather Atelier in Spain. Continuing the story, the collection also includes stunning jewelry pieces which incorporate pearls and gold as a tribute to the longstanding history and tradition of the GCC region.

ZALXNDRA – the premium fashion label born in Dubai with global roots – flipped the fashion script, focusing on the finer details, to create vibrant, versatile pieces hand-crafted to last a lifetime. The exquisitely embroidered pieces are handcrafted with passion and care from the finest linen making the pieces the perfect addition to any wardrobe. ZALXNDRA pays attention to beautiful silhouettes and are perfect for those who are artistic, free-spirited and aesthetically mindful. www.womanthismonth.com

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PEOPLE | interview

Her Ideas

We have an insightful chat with the founder of Afkarech, Mariam Alammadi, about the group and its tireless work to make a positive impact on the community.

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ariam Alammadi is a licensed Bahraini Psychologist who has been working in the mental health sector for the last eleven years. As a highly-driven individual, she has worked tirelessly to be a key contributor to the sector and has received several accolades for her contributions along the way. However, one of her most notable achievements in recent has to be the founding of the female networking group Afkarech – which has grown to be a diverse group of community-driven women who encourage and uplift each other.

Could you tell our readers a little bit about yourself?

I am a licensed Bahraini Psychologist and have a key interest is breaking the stigma of mental health in Bahrain. In this regard, I have written for several local and international publications and made media appearances to spread this awareness in our community.

I am also the founder of the Child Foundation Center (CFC) - a psychological centre that provides specialised care in counselling and milestone development. Following its success and due to the demand, an adult section was added to practice. I am currently involved in a research project with the Ministry of Education, Al Jawhara Hospital and an esteemed team of colleagues investigating mindfulness practices in public schools, which is currently on hold due to COVID-19.

However, out of all the accolades during my career my favourite will always be ‘The founder of Afkarech Female Network & Think Tank’.

How would you describe Afkarech?

Afkarech, which was founded in December 2017, is a melting pot for a diverse group of wonderful, intelligent and caring women who have come together in a supportive environment. Together we support charitable initiatives, discuss ways to make life better for women in Bahrain, promote female education, socialise, support each other and network.

What led you to start the organisation?

I moved back to Bahrain in 2011 and was seeking a group of fantastic women so I could make friends and network. Although great societies existed in Bahrain, there wasn’t one that I felt I really belonged to. I wanted an organisation that didn’t have a fixed criterion but rather represented every type of woman, women from different cultures and walks of life who bring new ideas and concepts to the table.

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PEOPLE | interview After a conversation with a friend, I was advised: “If you can’t find what you are looking for, create it!” That conversation eventually resulted in the creation of Afkarech which translates to “her ideas” in a Bahraini dialect.

I remember the very first Afkarech meeting with seven strangers. Despite there being only seven of us, we suddenly had a tribe - women drawn together for a similar goal. Four years later, I am thrilled to call these ladies not only Committee Members but my friends.

Afkarech holds social events for like-minded women. How have you worked around the challenges presented by the pandemic to continue facilitating lucrative networking opportunities?

To work around the difficulties presented by COVID-19, we reach our members in more creative ways such as Instagram Live talks known as “Afkarech Talks” in which we discuss numerous topics such as breast cancer prevention, alternative medicine and maintaining good mental health during COVID-19 aside from showcasing local female entrepreneurs in various industries to encourage members to buy locally. We also have fun competitions such as “Afkarech Social Distancing Queen” to encourage social distancing and give our members a chance to win prizes. We are hopeful that we will soon be able to meet again in person when it is safe as we are truly missing everyone!

How many women are currently members of Afkarech? How has the group grown since its founding?

We have over 180 subscribers to Afkarech Female Network & Think Tank; however, our core group consists of 45 members who regularly attend, are always proactive and engaged. Our membership steadily increased month by month and we are very thankful for media support and coverage for helping us

become more known in the Kingdom. We have recently opened up membership again for anyone who would like to join.

Could you kindly highlight some of your activities during Ramadan? How has the response to your initiative been since the start of the Holy Month?

This Ramadan we wanted to do something different. We constantly strive to reach women in need as there are many women holding down jobs to support their whole families and barely making ends meet. The idea for ‘Eidiyataha’ came about in a Committee Meeting; we packaged and distributed boxes containing essentials and a “special something extra” to Muslim female domestic workers and those struggling in low-income jobs.

Through these boxes we wanted to prepare each woman for Eid, not only in the sense of being able to eat and sustain herself, but also to savour the holy month and enjoy the sense of celebration. We would like to help those women who simply do not have the funds to purchase these items for themselves and are surviving on the bare necessities.

You have had several successful initiatives and collaborations. Which do you consider your most memorable initiatives?

There have been so many wonderful initiatives we have undertaken, but to me the two that stand out the most were ‘Safee by Afkarech’ in which we paid three months tuition for families who had been hit financially by

COVID19. I am really glad we had the foresight to have helped people out in the early stages. School fees were one of the largest expenses being faced by parents and they were very grateful that we were able to ease some of that stress.

The second initiative we loved was the Afkarech Care Packages for women living in shelters. We were truly blown away by how kind everyone was. The boxes contained everything you may need as a woman if you find yourself without accommodation and in difficult circumstances, aside from a card from the member that packaged the box. Handwritten notes of encouragement were included to help make each recipient feel thought of, supported and encouraged.

What are your goals for the rest of the year?

Our goals for the year are to host another women’s symposium and at least one more charity initiative. We created Intay in 2019 which was very successful with all tickets selling out. We have postponed our symposiums in 2020 due to the restrictions and keeping everyone safe however hopefully later in the year we may be able to go ahead Inshallah. We also want to do at least one more charitable initiative.

To get in touch with Afkarech, use the handle @afkarech on Instagram, Facebook or LinkedIn, email info@afkarech.com or visit www.afkarech.com.

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BEAUTY | news

DIVINELY FLORAL

The Maison Lancôme fragrance collection celebrates the French way of life that defines the rose-inspired Lancôme brand. This year, the Maison Lancôme fragrance collection is dedicating the next chapter of its story to French-style gardens with two new fragrances: Jasmin d'Eau and Rose Peonia. Jasmin d’Eau, a fragrance by Olivier Cresp, is a divinely floral and based on a crystal-clear water jasmine scent set off by hints of tea, plum blossom, and subtle musk. Rose Peonia, on the other hand, is a fragrance by Marypierre Julien. With this perfume. a soft, bright scent of rose is set off by the velvety and slightly fruity notes of musk and ambrette, underpinned by a smooth and exceptional sandalwood essence.

For the Perfect Summer Glow!

HIGHLIGHT YOUR BEAUTY

We put together our top beauty essentials which will put a spring in your step. You deserve to treat yourself or get treated to divine makeup and other products that you’re sure to love.

If you seek a universally flattering glow that naturally enhances your features, Max Factor’s Facefinity Highlighter is made for you. Its lightweight and seamless powder finish boosts natural luminosity and enhances the skin to ensure your beauty is highlighted all summer. This highlighter has a superb blendable finish, doesn’t crease and keeps fine lines smooth to get a flawless finish.

The Facefinity Highlighter is available in three shades: Nude Beam, Golden Hour and Bronze Glow.

A SCENT TO REMEMBER

Dolce&Gabbana Pour Femme is an oriental fragrance that derives its appeal from its intricate play of contrasts.

The fragrance opens with sweet raspberry and luminous, sunny neroli, set against a hint of tart green mandarin.

This intriguing contrast gives way to a heart of voluptuous white florals and velvety notes of jasmine, melting into the citrus sweetness of orange blossom. In the base of the scent, an addictive note of sugary marshmallow introduces the gourmand sensuality of vanilla, amplified by delectable heliotrope and the smooth intensity of sandalwood.

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BEAUTY | news

THE GLOSS BOMB

Double up your gloss game this summer with Fenty Beauty’s dazzling Gloss Bomb Cream! For a limited time only, the stop-everything, giveit-to-me lip gloss that feels as good as it looks doubles up to deliver luscious color and explosive shine. The limited-edition set features two full-size Gloss Bomb Cream Color Drip Lip Creams in two new limited-edition summer shades, CUPCAKIN’ (dusty pink) and BUBBLE BINGE (hot pink). Available at Sephora, Sephora.ae and Sephora.sa

PERFECTLY PIGMENTED LIPS

Using formulas infused with enhancing ingredients such as natural oils and vitamins, NOTE COSMETIQUE's highly pigmented products for lips, eyes, face and nails cater to all skin types and skin tones.

NOTE COSMETIQUE is PETA cruelty-free certified, halal certified, and paraben free.

We personally love the NOTE Mattemoist Lipgloss - a creamy and moisture-rich formula which give the lips an intense matte look. The NOTE Mattever Lip Ink, on the other hand is a quick-drying lip gloss enriched with nourishing murumuru butter that locks in moisture and enhances your smile with kiss-proof colour and a mattified finish.

GLOW FOR DAY

SSunKiss Glow Sun & Body Oil is a vitaminenriched formula absorbs quickly and pairs well with sun protection. Formulated with natural ingredients, such as grapeseed oil, coconut oil, olive oil, carrot seed oil, raspberry seed oil and jojoba oil, the beach bag essential gives off a shimmering after-sun glow with an aromatic coconut scent – perfect to end a day at the beach or pool. The product is also free from nasties such as parabens, silicones, and toxins - guaranteeing an entirely safe application. SunKiss products are available at www.sunkissme.com. www.womanthismonth.com

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Accessories

MIX AND MATCH WITH AKILLIS

Rock n’ Roll, captivating and irresistible, Akillis takes hold with its sharp triangles from the refined Capture Me collection. The Capture Me collection enriches and renews its desirable charm with its collection of bracelets, rings and earrings each exploring thebrand’s now iconic triangular motif in a winning game. Available in white gold, rose gold and yellow gold, the pieces overlap, accumulate, and culminate in a rocking lineup!

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Our favourite dazzling accessories this month!

We sure love our fair share of exquisite jewellery. Earring, pendants, embellished cuffs and chainsof every length have a way of adding an element of exuberance to every outfit. Here are some of the most stunning jewellery collections that caught our attention this month.

THE POSSIBILITIES ARE ENDLESS FRESH AND RADIANT EMERALDS

Gemfields is a world-leading supplier of responsibly sourced coloured gemstones. With the arrival of May and the green shoots of spring all around us, jewellery buyers’ thoughts inevitably turn to emeralds. Fresh, verdant and the birthstone of this most welcome of months, emeralds represent hope, peace, growth, nature and new beginnings: all of which are needed more than ever this year.

Of its many collaborative collections, the one that captured our attention were the exquisite range of timepieces such as the Backes & Strauss x Gemfields Miss Victoria Emerald Green.

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Valérie Messika has added new touches to her iconic Move collection with a whole new material: leather. These fun pieces can be customised to your individual preferences and can be worn on their own or with other My Move bracelets, giving you an endless range of combinations. Whether you’re after leather links, a matte or varnished finish, a pavé design, 100% gold or titanium, My Move provides a blank canvas where anything is possible. There are more than 300 bracelet combinations available, giving you a wide range of potential looks. The leather juxtaposes with the sparkle from the white diamond, the shimmer of the white, pink or yellow gold and the strength of the natural titanium, graphite or anthracite. www.womanthismonth.com

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COMBINING ARABIC HERITAGE WITH LUMINOUS CHARMS

Emirati brand MKS Jewellery has launched a new collection of ornate pieces which incorporate an array of crescent moons and celestial stars. The unique collection comprises a vast array of beautiful pieces, from the treasured Desert Scape Medallion Necklace, to golden celestial rings, and charming hoop and stud earrings.

Every feature incorporates artistic details; be it with the craftsmanship, the personal storytelling or the connection to Emirati heritage. The carefully crafted pieces are both stylish and sophisticated, with each piece unique and evoking a certain emotion.

TIFFANY

Celebrate the special moments with your loved ones and spread joy this Eid with the perfect giftthat comes in a Tiffany Blue Box. Tiffany & Co. has a specially curated selection, featuring the new Atlas X collection and the iconic Tiffany T1, Tiffany HardWear and Tiffany Victoria® collections.

This luxurious and tailored gift guide includes bold, dynamic rings and bracelets that can bestackedor worn alone, to beautifully handcrafted necklaces and earrings that sparkle with the finest diamonds.

EXCEPTIONAL REVERSO ONE TIMEPIECES

For 2021 Jaeger-LeCoultre introduces four sparkling new Reverso One models that unite the codes of fine watchmaking, artistic crafts and High Jewellery to bring fresh colour, sophistication and glamour to the collection.

The creation of these exquisite timepieces has brought together multiple artistic crafts – enamelling, engraving and gem-setting work. The exceptional models celebrate the poetry of flowers, with two models in white gold and two in pink gold each showcasing rare handcrafts in different combinations. www.womanthismonth.com

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PEOPLE | interview

g n i d on B t r A h g u o r h T Guest artist at Bahrain’s recent Love & Inspire Art Exhibition, Narmeen Albaker, tells us about the inspiration behind her art and her experience painting with her daughter.

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ahrain’s art scene recently celebrated the everlasting mother-child bond by way of the ‘Love & Inspire’ Art Exhibition, which was held on Bahrain Mother’s Day in March. During the event, which was organised by Art Fusions Studio Bahrain's group of artists in collaboration with Fosbis Design and Marketing, we met with the lovely guest artist Narmeen Albaker.

Amazed by the artistic creations of a family member, Mrs. Albaker soon realised she had a knack for creativity too. “I’ve been painting since I was in school. My uncle who is an artist always amazed me with his artistic creations and, seeing his creativity, I soon ventured into art and realised that I too have that creativity and potential,” she says, adding that her favourite medium to work with is acrylic.

Delving into the world of art, Mrs. Albaker has attended workshops in London and Bahrain, and is no stranger to the Kingdom’s boisterous art scene. “I have displayed my art work at Bahrain’s annual Fine Art Exhibition, Alali Art Festival, Akkas Gallery, the Emerging Artists Exhibition and, most recently, the Love and Inspire Exhibition by Art Fusions Studios, which was held at the Bahrain Financial Harbour,” she says.

At the exhibition, we marvelled at ‘Waiting’ Mrs. Albaker’s thought-provoking work of art.

“I intended to express our emotions resulting from restrictions due to political issues, which furthered the distance between our loved and prolonged the wait,” she explains.

During the recent Love and Inspire exhibition, the illustrious artist was joined by her very own daughter, Alreem. “At just 10-years-old,

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Alreem is naturally very talented and has been inspired by my uncle, Abdulla Al Muharraqi, my cousin, Faisal Samra, and me,” explains the beaming mother.

Painting together has given the motherdaughter duo the opportunity to spend more time together while exchanging ideas and creating works of art on canvas, further strengthening their unbreakable bond.

“Alreem feels very happy when we’re painting together. She feels motivated and encouraged to spend more time doing art work. It stimulates her creativity and helps her come out with even more great ideas,” she says.

During the exhibition, Alreem displayed her work ‘The Spring’ alongside her mother’s paintings. “Spring is her most favourite season. The flowers during spring bring out a lot of happiness in her,” says her mother.

Seeing their art displayed side-by-side at the recent exhibition has left the mother and daughter feeling encouraged and motivated.

Speaking about Alreem’s artistic mind, she adds: “I always encourage and allow her to use my art media without any restrictions.”

In the future, Mrs. Albaker hopes to turn her passion for art into a profession and eventually open her very own art gallery. www.womanthismonth.com

LIFESTYLE | opinion

PLACING WELLBEING AT THE HEART OF A SCHOOL Julia Knight reflects on the need for wellbeing in the education sector.

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he negative effect of the COVID-19 crisis has been well documented over the last 18 months and it has realigned priorities for many. However, in all the chaos, could it be that we are also able to reimagine the future?

Education has seen a seismic shift in its ability to adapt quickly to the needs of students and parents. The profession has shown itself to be adaptable and capable of change in the delivery of lessons but is it now time to apply those skills to curriculums and other areas of school life? Have we come to realise that excelling in Maths and English is as important as friendships, playing and being happy? I hope so.

Wellbeing is the current buzz word of education - yet not many schools truly understand what wellbeing is or how to implement it. What wellbeing looks like and how it is implemented is very important as its benefits are great for the school and student and, whilst wellbeing is not something that can be quantified in its own right, educators know that it has a very important impact on test scores. www.womanthismonth.com

When people are asked what wellbeing is, there is a range of answers as it is personal to them, the essence of wellbeing is happiness and what makes a person happy is different. There are of course essential elements such as eating healthy, sleeping well, exercise and hobbies but the science behind why these elements are essential requires a deeper understanding too. Teaching this to children from an early age is vital for future examination success.

Ultimately, every parent wants their child to thrive academically and find their path as an adult beyond university.

Schools cannot wait until students are 14 – 15 years old to be pushed towards examination success, students must begin the journey much lower down the school in EYFS (Early Years, Foundation Stage). This is where good reading habits are fostered, this is where the love of maths and science blossoms, this is where every single child discovers what they want to be when they grow up. If we can teach children the art of happiness and wellbeing from a young age; teach them who to turn to when they feel unsure in the world; help them

to see and regulate their emotions - surely we are building the foundations for teens and young adults to make the right choices when life presents its many challenges?

Schools are turning their faces to the sun and realising that it’s not just the academics which are a major factor in academic success; it is also the resilience of success through failure and the collaborative learning that enables mastery. Students require space to learn not a desk and chair but an environment that encourages curiosity and inquisitiveness. In short, schools need to adapt to provide inside and outside spaces for learning and discovery, opportunities for collaboration and connection and place wellbeing at its core. We need to reimagine the future as a happier, healthier space for the next generation.

Julia Knight has been teaching for 18 years in London, Bangkok and, now, Bahrain. She writes for many education magazines worldwide and offers teacher training and consultancy. You can follow her on Twitter @KnightWilliams

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FASHION | styling

Y T I R B E L E C !

N O I H S FA

Giorgio Armani dressed select nominees, winners, presenters and honorees of the Oscars and while out and about.

Nominee Glenn Close wore a custom Giorgio Armani Privé vibrant blue longsleeved tunic entirely encrusted in crystals set in a geometric pattern with contrasting silver and black beading. She

In need of some fashion inspo? Here’s what select stars wore at the 93rd Academy Awards

completed the look with midnight blue silk cigarette trousers and evening gloves.

Emma Roberts was spotted in Los Angeles in a Gingham-check print babydoll collar shirt by MANGO.

Presenter Renée Zellweger wore a custom Giorgio Armani Privé peony pink strapless silk gown with draped satin lapels at the neckline and a dramatic front slit, accented by a delicate crystalembroidered trim.

Award-winning actress, Laura Dern, chose to wear Pomellato during the Oscars in Hollywood, California. She wore a stunning Pomellato Sabia bracelet, rings and earrings in a mix of white, brown and black diamonds.

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NOURISHING SKINCARE 5 Skincare Products for a Youthful Glow!

FOR ULTIMATELY NOURISHED LIPS

The Rituals Fortune Balm - SPF 30 provides targeted nourishment and UVA/UVB protection to the lips. The durable, water-resistant formula is perfect for an active lifestyle, offering a protective shield against damaging sun rays and the damaging effects of free radicals. Enriched with an exclusive blend of rich oils - including olive oil, jojoba oil and coconut oil - to help moisturise the lips, the antioxidants in grapeseed oil and Vitamin E help smooth the skin and protect against aging and pollution.

With high-stress lifestyles, pollutants and fatigue on the rise, it’s important that we have a sound skincare routine in place to maintain or restore a youthful glow! While various factors might’ve left us with dull skin, tired eyes and fine wrinkles, all hope is not lost. Here are our favourite protective and antiaging products which are sure to be an effective part of your routine.

ESSENTIAL ANTIAGEING FOR ALL AGES

The Nuxe Paris Super Serum [10] innovation is the ultimate addition to all anti-ageing routines regardless of age or skin type. The siliconefree formula contains fractionated botanical oils delicately infused with a serum base with Natural Hyaluronic Acid. The serum doesn’t just smell divine, but transforms your skin from the first use, leaving it smoother, plumper and more luminous while working away at wrinkles and dark spots and promoting firmness. The serum is ideal for use on the face, neck and décolleté.

HYDRATE AND PROTECT WITH THIS MIST

Say hello to the brandnew Bouncy Jelly Mist, here to help protect the skin from indoor and outdoor pollution, as well as the effects of blue light. Made with 96% ingredients of natural origin, including edelweiss stem cells from the Italian Alps, you can spritz the Jelly Mist wherever and whenever to help protect, refresh and hydrate the skin for up to 24 hours.

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OPEN YOUR EYES TO HONEY POWER With a threefold eye-lifting effect Guerlain’s Eye R Repair Serum halts the early appearance of visible signs of ageing on the eye contour. Eyes often show the first tell-tale signs of ageing as skin tissue loses firmness and eyebrows sink, leaving eyes looking heavier, sadder, smaller and less radiant. With this serum, you won’t have to worry about any of that as it targets skin and nerve cell damage! This serum tightens, lifts and smooths the area while brightening the eyes and delivering natural radiance. In addition, it targets the cause of dark circles and eliminates fat clusters that cause puffiness.

HYDRATION BY NATURE

Givenchy’s RESSOURCE is the first moisturising anti-stress treatment which corrects the harmful effects of psychological fatigue on the skin and rebalances its moisture content. The line contains atleast 96% natural ingredients and is designed to be compatible with all skin types, even the most sensitive.

We particularly loved the Rich Moisturising Cream which provides extra nutrition, leaving skin hydrated, nourished, soft and smooth.

It’s a real source of comfort for dry and dehydrated skin.

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parenting

WHEN KIDS USE INAPPROPRIATE LANGUAGE

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aybe, at first, you laugh out loud because it caught you off guard. Or maybe, you're shocked because you don't use that kind of language in your home and want it to stop immediately! After the initial shock, you have one question in mind: "How do I deal with it?"

Why do kids say inappropriate things even when we do not use such language at home, and we carefully choose what they are exposed to on TV and social media platforms?

By age four, most children are not only in preschool but also have playdates where they interact with groups of children and adults. By this age kids soak up all kind of information like sponges, and therefore they are learning everything that might cross their path, whether it's good or bad.

All of us, including young children, need to feel that we are capable of affecting others.

This is particularly true of preschoolers, who are becoming increasingly aware of themselves as unique human beings, separate

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Ouiam Charkani El Hassani gives us some invaluable advice on how to keep our little ones from using foul language!

from their families. They are discovering new vocabulary daily, and they find it exciting to play with new words, especially when something new happens after they say a new word, this makes them feel powerful.

a different reaction every time your child blurts out a bad word can have a negative effect; rather than fix the problem, it will be a fun game for the child to see what mommy's reaction will be this time.

When adults hear a young child use inappropriate language, they usually either laugh or are shocked and do not respond. This can be confusing to the child and may make it harder to address the issue. When a child uses inappropriate language, address it directly and immediately. Stay calm, keep a straight face, and say to her, "That's a word we don't use here." If the child asks why, explain in a simple manner why not. For example: "That can hurt someone's feelings" or "Most people do not like those words."

The simpler and more direct we are when dealing with this issue, the better outcomes we will have. Half of the problem is that parents tend to make it into a big deal serving the child's exact purpose: Getting attention.

Consistency is the key! The aim is to explain how some words are not respectful and not to be used in our households, a simple rule like the other rules each parent has in their house, such as: "No speaking with your mouth full," "No hitting," "No snatching”, etc. Having

Ignoring the child and his use of bad words has the same negative effects as having a different reaction every time. Ignoring your child simply deprives them of the attention they are craving. Instead, fulfill their need and give them the attention they crave while correcting the behaviour. Try to get to your child's level, look them in the eyes, speak firmly but nicely and tell them that this kind of language isn't acceptable and that you can happily help them choose better words if they would like to. www.womanthismonth.com

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If a child continues to use inappropriate language, be consistent in your response and try to figure out why a child may be using it, it will make it easier to work with the child to deal with the problem.

Watch closely to find out when the child uses inappropriate language and what's happening at the time. Also, think about what you and others say to the children and around the children. Children may be hearing conversations that you think are out of listening range. Remember— children will repeat what you say and do. Be sure to use the same words that you want the children to use. Work with the rest of the family to find a common way to respond to the child when he uses inappropriate language and be consistent.

Be consistent!

Don't forget to praise your child's efforts when faced with a situation where they would have possibly used the bad language, yet they didn't; to them this could be the best reward ever.

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LIFESTYLE | food

A HEARTWARMING SOUP! Chef Faisal’s decadent recipe for Mushroom Soup is sure to be a favourite at your dinner table!

We’ve had a wonderful Ramadan so far and look forward to the festivities surrounding Eid, too!

After feasting on Chef Faisal Al Deleigan’s delicious recipes last month, we were treated to another crowd favourite – Mushroom Soup. This decadent recipe is sure to be a welcome addition to your family’s dinner table, whether it’s Ramadan, Eid, summer vacation or even just a Tuesday evening with family. Whatever the occasion, we’re sure you’ll love it

MUSHROOM SOUP

Total Cooking Time: 20 minutes - Servings: 1

Ingredients

Garnish

Fresh mushrooms(sliced) 30 gms

Dill leaves

1 sprig

White onion

15 gms

Cream foam

1 tbsp

Butter

20 gms

Sumac

1 pinch

Sea salt

¼ tsp

White pepper powder ¼ tsp Black pepper powder

¼ tsp

Sweet paprika powder 1/8 tsp Cooking cream

80 ml

Water

250 ml

Method In a saucepan, add butter, mushrooms and onion then sauté. Add all the spices including salt. Mix it well, then add water and cook for 5 minutes. Add cream and cook for around three minutes. Remove from the heat.

Blend for one minute until smooth. While serving, garnish with dill leaves, cream foam and sumac.

Chef Faisal is a Saudi Arabian banker turned Chef and is a member of the World Master Chef’s Society and founder of Chef Faisal Consultancy.

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In Her Shoes What’s your proudest achievement?

It was the time I was invited to speak to the graduating class at my school, 15 years after I had graduated. It was such an honour to be there and I sincerely hope I was able to inspire the students to face the journey ahead with optimism and confidence.

Women have the power to achieve just about anything they put their mind to. They’ll take every challenge in stride while getting the best of results. This month we had the pleasure of meeting with the founder of My Gold Souq, Amy Vaya, who is a multi-talented individual being a comedian and writer too! She’s pretty hilarious, motivated and hard-working – truly an inspirational woman.

last word

What’s your favourite film?

Fight Club made quite an impression on me because it made me consider how much energy we waste on trying to impress others.

What’s the best advice you’ve ever been given?

The future will come to you as the present, so make sure you're enjoying the present every day.

What is your dream holiday destination?

Iceland. It has such an end of the world feeling, and I want to see the Northern Lights.

What skill would you like to learn?

I would like to get really good at a martial art.

Amy Vaya

What would your life be incomplete without?

My loved ones.

What’s a mantra you live by?

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I'm looking forward to the stage where my business is firmly established and growing.

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