Honoring the Life of Marie Bookard McKnight, The Queen of Care:

In the quiet town of Blythewood, South Carolina, 86 years ago, a woman of grace, strength, and unwavering dedication was born—Marie Bookard McKnight. The daughter of Cornell and Laura Stevens Bookard, Marie was raised with values that would later define her journey through life: kindness, diligence, and deep care for others.

Educated at Bethel School in Richland School District 2, Marie dreamed of becoming a beautician. Though life took her down a different path, she brought her dream’s sense of beauty into every role she undertook. She first found work in the hospitality industry and later with the State of South Carolina, serving as a housekeeper at the University of South Carolina. Her attention to detail and genuine care earned her respect from faculty, staff, and students alike. She even tended to the quarters of the legendary Frank McGuire, but it was her warmth and motherly spirit that made her a favorite in the student dorms. Bouquets, thank-you cards, and tokens of gratitude were frequent reminders of the impact she had.

Marie’s journey continued as she joined her sisters at the South Carolina Department of Mental Health, taking on the role of Dietitian Assistant. For 25 years, she served with the same spirit of excellence and love, making every patient and coworker feel seen and valued. She became known for her festive, handmade “sub tops”—holidaythemed shirts she designed herself—and her vibrant Halloween costumes, which delighted patients at the Craft Farrow Hospital.

Beyond her career, Marie was a pillar of her community. A second mother to countless young men who sought refuge in her home, she opened her doors and heart generously. Her kitchen was a haven, especially during the holidays, where her cooking brought people together with the warmth of family.

At the heart of her life is her own family— five children: Gwen, Sharon, Vernon, Jamie, and Melissa; seven grandchildren; and eight great-grandchildren. These days, Marie enjoys peaceful afternoons watching her beloved soap operas and celebrating birthdays with her three sisters: Mattie B. Moses, Hattie B. Kennedy, and Bernice B. Addison. Together, they reminisce about days at Bethel School and their years of service at the Department of Mental Health. Crowned by her family as their Queen, Marie Bookard McKnight wears the title with humility and grace—an enduring symbol of love, resilience, and legacy.