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Antiques Roadshow is one of the prime justifications for hanging on to anything from Aunt Flo's greenand-purple china, to 173 dust-covered cassette tapes, and Egon Ronay eating-out guides from the 1980s. We could be talking serious money here, folks!

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LETTER OF THE MONTH I enjoyed your item on Pontcysyllte Aqueduct in "Best of British: Landmarks", but I'd correct you on the statement, "If the timing is right, drivers can spot a horse-drawn boat on the water above their cars."

Sadly, horse-drawn boats have been banned from using the aqueduct for some time, on Health and Safety grounds—even though that was the reason for building the towing path in the first place! As the president of a trust that operates the restored horse-drawn Shropshire Union fly-boat Saturn, which regularly traded over the aqueduct in its working life, I do find this somewhat frustrating.

I thought you might also be interested in this picture of the Saturn carrying the Olympic torch over Pontcysyllte Aqueduct back in May. Harry Arnold, Burton upon Trent, Staffordshire

SIGHTS TO BEHOLD I noticed that you included Samson and Goliath, the Belfast shipyard cranes, in your list of landmarks, but I'd suggest that the Finnieston Crane in Glasgow is a more impressive structure.

This 175-foot-high edifice, built in 1932, stands on the Clyde like a giant piece of Meccano, towering above the Scottish Exhibition and Conference Centre. It's an amazing feat of engineering, and provides a wonderful contrast to the ultra-modern buildings that surround it.

Gordon Rennie, Glasgow I'm surprised you don't know that the towers at Ratcliffeon-Soar power station belch forth nothing more than steam —not "smoke", as your article claimed. These are the cooling towers, after all.

All combustion plants built after 1987 must comply with the emission limits in the Large Combustion Plant Directive, and Ratcliffe is fully compliant with this requirement.

Lorna Pope, Leeds RD: Thanks to the readers who pointed this out, and apologies for the error. ►

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Your "Lords of the Manor" piece was a fascinating read.

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Brothers Tommo and Charlie Peaceful volunteer to fight in the Great War, though Tommo's not even 16. Charlie is his best friend and rival, since they love the same girl, Molly.

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The Darkness: they're not entirely serious

Babel by Mumford and Sons Think if Bob Dylan had gone to boarding school. Preview tracks from this album are thin on the ground, but would seem to indicate a development of the band's debut Sigh No More rather than a radical sidestep into gangsta rap. And why would they tamper with a formula that saw them ensnare the US (only Adele of their fellow Brits has fared bettered there) with their plaintive artisan folk rock?

Hot Cakes by The Darkness 'link if Kiss had come from ..owestoft... and been funnier.

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The hair-metal oddities burst onto the mid-noughties scene with such wit and selfdeprecating chutzpah that you'd forgive them anything.

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Barcelona v Real Madrid, Camp Nou, oLtuuer i. This season's first La Liga meeting of the two immovable megaliths of Spanish football promises to be another compelling showdown.

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1 MY FRIEND WAS IN LONDON FOR A SHORT BREAK

when she got a call from some locals she knew, asking if she could house-sit for a few days and look after their elderly dog. She agreed, but sadly—and not unexpectedly —the dog passed away during her stay.

On informing her friends, she was told not to be too concerned. But, as they were going to be away for a few more days, would she mind taking the dog to the nearby vet. Realising that carrying a dead dog through the streets might attract attention, my friend placed the body in a suitcase and set off.

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Jillian Cohen, Leeds I At a dinner party, my sister was complimenting the hosts on the lovely spread they had laid on, when their little boy demanded in a disapproving tone, "Why is the salad in the sick bowl?"

Jennifer Luscombe, Liverpool I My friend was with his family on a countryside ramble. His son, a keen birdwatcher, was peering through his binoculars, and shouted out excitedly, "Look up there! It's a red kite!"

His mother, no ornithologist, replied dismissively, "No—it's some sort of bird."

Kevin Halls, Coventry 1 The traffic light near my street buzzes when it's safe to cross the road. Recently, a friend of mine asked what the buzzer was for.

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Gloria Wilding, Merseyside 1 While relaxing on a beach in north Wales, I saw a father hand an ice cream to his son.

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were too tired to work out how we'd previously gone to Paris with hand luggage, but our empty bags were now over the limit.

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WORD POWER It's lights, camera, action for Harry Mount 6 flashback n A scene from the past B explosion effect C complete re-edit 7 CGI n A special effects B police drama C film tax break 8 gross-out adj A highearning B outrageously disgusting C tear-jerking 9 Avid n A film-editing system B prompt card C film that goes straight to video October 19 marks the 150th anniversary of the birth in 1862 of Auguste Lumiere, the French film pioneer. Test your knowledge of celluloid by answering A, B or C. 1 arc lights it A dressing room light bulbs B cinema illusions C powerful filmset lights 2 aperture n A applause in cinema B camera opening C short run in cinemas 3 film noir n A badly COVER STAR FIONA BRUCE'S favourite word?

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written film B animal film C crime film with dark elements 4 animatronics n A robot-making technique B wooden acting C dubbed dialogue 5 slapstick adj A comic in a simple, physical way B tragicomic C violent

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1 arc lights—C powerful film-set lights often used in silent films.

"It was hard for Charlie Chaplin not to perspire under the arc lights."

2 aparture — B camera opening. Latin apertus (open).

3 Him nolr—C crime film with dark elements. "1940s cinema was the heyday of film noir." French (black film).

4 anlmatronics—A robot-making technique.

"The Muppet Show didn't need any animatronics."

5 slapstick—A comic in a simple, physical way. "Laurel and Hardy were masters of slapstick."

From slap and stick.

6 flashback—A scene from the past. "Back to the Future depended on flashbacks."

7 CGI—A special effects—acronym for "computer-generated imagery". "The CGI made the cartoon almost lifelike."

8 gross-out—B outrageously disgusting.

"The Farrelly brothers as

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9 Avid—A film-editing program. "Avid made it much easier and quicker to edit films."

10 Dolby—B noise-reduction system.

"The crackling sound on the 1930s dialogue was cleaned up with Dolby."

Named after the company's founder Ray Dolby.

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14 cinema-verite—B documentary. French (cinema truth).

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What is a commodity?

Broadly speaking, it's a natural resource in international demand that takes the same form across the world: Russian copper is much the same as African copper. So copper, wheat, oil 111commodities. and water

Why is there such demand for them?

Well, there wasn't the 1980s and 1990s. But, ever since the turn of the millennium, there's been a huge demand for '1)e world's natural :,,t yuy to the rise in global iesources, ti population to seven billion people. The demand is particularly strong in emerging markets, especially the BRIC countries—Brazil, Russia, India and China.

Those countries have started to look abroad for supplies. In China—where 2,000 new cars hit the Beijing streets every day—the purchase of foreign commodities over the last decade has been huge. In the last six years, China has spent more than E4Obn buying up African mineral resources, infrastructure, agriculture, gas and oil.

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Is it the country itself that buys up foreign commodities?

No. The purchases are made through individual companies. In 2008, in the most famous example of international commodity-buying, a Chinese mining company, Chinalco, bought a whole Peruvian mountain, Mount Toromocho.

Copper from Half the size Mount Toromocho of Mount in Peru is turned Everest, into electrical wire in China Mount Toromocho is packed with two billion tonnes of copper.

Global Commodities What will be the most in-demand commodities of the future?

Doesn't one country need some sort of permit to buy up a piece of another country?

No. Because these aren't territorial acquisitions as such, there's no need for any international bodies to regulate this kind of land-shopping.

Once the Chinese have got all the copper out of Mount Toromocho, it will be a lot smaller, but the land will still be Peruvian territory. In return for the E1.5bn that the Chinese invested in the mine, the Peruvian authorities were even happy to let Chinalco shift an entire town, Morococha, from the mountain to the other side of the valley.

It's thought that water will be sought after during the next 30 years. However big the seas are, there's a limited quantity of fresh water —it only makes up a fortieth of the world's water. Seventy per cent of that fresh water is in ice or snow form, leaving only 200,000 cubic kilometres of water to go round.

Already the BRIC countries, in particular, are trying to secure as much fresh water as possible.

The Chinese have built more than 20 huge dams on Tibet's eight principal rivers, causing tremendous anger downstream in neighbouring countries. In India, Cambodia and Laos. there are plans for more than 170 dams to retain large volumes of fresh water.

Alongside fuel commodities—oil, natural gas and coal—phosphorus is in great demand, as a fertiliser. Phosphate rock is only found in a limited number of countries, including China and America, themselves big phosphorus consumers.

Is the market all one-way, from the Western world to the emerging markets?

Not at all. China is itself rich in many natural resources. It supplies 97% of the world's rare earth elements—that is, the 17 minerals that are used in everything from electronic circuitry to magnets. Every country in the world needs to look abroad in the everincreasing global hunger for commodities. ■ OCTOBER 2012 READERSDIGEST.CO.UK $1

IF I RULED THE WORLD

Clare Stewart Clare Stewart is director of the BFI's 56th London Film Festival. She grew up in South Gippsland, Australia, before acquiring a passion for film and volunteering at the Melbourne Cinematheque. She went on to direct the Sydney Film Festival for five years and now broadcasts and lectures on the subject.

I'd build a big screen in every community across the globe and produce a year-round film programme that distributed all kinds of movies to entertain and challenge everyone. I believe we should all have access to great cinema, that films have the power to expand our knowledge and imagination, and that they make us see, think, and feel differently about the world. I grew up in a small country town in Australia without a cinema, and I've been overcompensating ever since!

Film spreads empathy like a salve on our crazy, aching world. I know that with the thousands of movies I've watched as a festival director, my knowledge of the globe has expanded.

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I'd make sure everyone had access to a computer.

The dream of a film programme distributed everywhere might sound achievable, since technology has enabled far greater access to video on demand. But actually, it's still a relatively low proportion of the global population who have regular access to the internet (about 33%). So the first enabling thought—that you would deliver the movie schedule via the web—isn't yet possible everywhere in the world.

I'd invent a media consumption tax that people front cuitures wno have good access to content would pay a stipend for it. The revenue would be reinvested in better communications infrastructure for poor communities (although, if I was paying tax on every film I watched, I might cut back on my 800-plus per year!).

But telephone-usage charges were originally introduced to stop women gossiping as they were "frivolously" occupying lines that prevented important men's business from going ahead.

So, while I like the tax idea in

• • • theory, I'd need to be cautious that I wasn't discouraging playfulness, which is what leads to creativity.

I'd show every five-year-old a Buster Keaton film. Keaton's

filmmaking and performances are full of play, and that's infectious; kids love it. This would be a cunning strategy to make everyone value silent cinema of all kinds from an early age.

I remember my first film on the big screen: Hanna-Barbera's 1973 picture Charlotte's Web. What made a lasting impression on me—more so even than the film itself—was that it made me cry. As a kid, that was my first moment of understanding that you could create something with strong, emotive impact that could really shake people up. I hope there will be children at the London Film Festival's showing of the beautiful animation Ernest and Celestine who have the same :I experience as five-year-old me.

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also be lots of cultural and political issues to work around, since some countries are still very controlling about what they let their citizens make and watch. For example, Wadjda is a miraculous movie, screening as part of our First Feature Competition. It was shot on location in Saudi Arabia, where cinemas have been banned for over 30 years; and it was directed by a woman (who presumably couldn't even drive herself to the set, since women are banned from operating vehicles).

I'd ensure all new cinemas were fitted with sensor taps and get rid of cheesy carpet.

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stand water Vid',IJk• it's grim and unnecessary. I'm constantly shocked by the fact that water fixtures here in the UK haven't been overhauled to comply with sound ecological practice. I'd have good green architecture in all my new cinemas. It'd also be essential to liberate people from the nasty, over-patterned multiplex carpet that's probably designed to ensure subliminally you buy more at the concession stand, and is certainly not the desirable visual precursor to the moviegoing experience! •

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Coming to terms with life's losses can make us more optimistic, says James Brown This month's RTSC was both dm simplest and the hardest to write.

Twenty years after my mum's death, I put two pictures of her on my bedside table. It's a constant reminder of who she is to me. Every day I see her as I remember her, and such an obvious thing makes me really happy.

Elsewhere around my house there are pictures of family and friends, but it's taken me until now to realise that pictures of my mum and dad that I see at the start and end of the day might actually be a good idea.

It's been two decades since my dad rang me at my flat in London and told me he had some terrible news. My mum had been found dead in her house of an overdose. She'd died on February 29,1992. The leap-year day.

As he said it, I went into a sort of shock, and a therapist recently told me she thinks I've only just recovered from post-traumatic stress disorder.

Back then, I can just remember being stunned, but deep down I also felt a sense of relief that all the mental S4 READERSDIGEST.CO.UK OCTOBER 2012

anguish was over for her—and that the phone calls that came a few times a year, informing me of each breakdown, would be at an end.

I walked into my living room and instinctively reached for the CD soundtrack of the film of The Harder They Come and put Jimmy Cliff's Pressure Drop on. I didn't ponder over this choice; looking back I just felt robotic.

But the song captured how I felt: the pressure of constant worry and fear and powerlessness had dropped.

I was 25, had just left my job on the New Musical Express, recently split up with my long-term girlfriend—and my mum had taken her own life. My gran had found mum's body lying on the kitchen floor. I wasn't too bothered about getting another job or a new girlfriend after that. Somehow, sitting in a police station with your gran trying to determine the cause of death, and arranging your own mum's funeral, doesn't really encourage you to get on with your life as it was before. Nothing matters.

If there's one moment I hold onto

about her subsequent cremation, it was a butterfly flying through the church as mum's coffin disappeared.

My mum was a lovely person who, like many people, suffered from mental-health issues. In the end it

simply became too much for her to live with. I can now write that calmly, knowing how many people will have family members who suffer likewise.

Growing up trying to deal with it as a teenager in 1970s Leeds was something I pretty much endured in shamed silence. The standard insult at school was to name someone after the mental hospital my mum was regularly treated in. Remembering now what it was like to go there, or

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to worry about how she was in there, makes me feel tense, tearful and sick.

It's hard to revisit this In print, but

the uplift I've felt from putting out the pictures of mum and dad made me want to share it in case it helps anyone else. In the last year, three people I've known, been friends with and admired have died in close succession.

The first committed suicide and there was a lot of public sharing of grief for him. The next two died of cancer.

Again, one of them was widely mourned.

The overpowering sense of despair that flooded out from me on each occasion made me realise I had to go back and see a professional therapist about my feelings for my mum.

When we started talking I realised that—despite openly talking about her and thinking about her a lot and not being angry with her—I'd blocked dealing with many of the feelings I had about her death. I have none of her property, few pictures of her, and rarely see anyone who knew her. ► 3S

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because after I've finished it, I'll turn off the light and mum's face will be the last thing I see 77

• A man on Facebook recently mentioned that his mum and mine had been friends and it was like a shaft of light penetrating a pyramid.

My dad also told me and my son about when he first met her, which made a massive difference. We were driving from the village he grew up in, and we went to the one she grew up in, too.

Pre-Prozac, pre-Facebook, things were different 20 years ago.

Only now, have I found myself— for just the second time—starting

to read about bereavement trauma.

This is a sad column, but also a positive one because after I've finished it, I'll turn off the light next to me and mum's face will be the last thing I see.

Once again, as when I was growing up, I'll get to see her every day. All it took was putting the pictures near me. ■ James, founder of Loaded magazine, now edits Sabotage Times—an online magazine with the motto: "We can't concentrate, why should you?" You can follow James on Twitter ajamesjamesbrown.

IhUDDING AUTHORS, TAKE A BOW This dark tale was one of thousands of yarns submitted to last year's 100-wordstory contest. Well be featuring a commended story in the magazine every month, and each day at readersdigest.co.

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I married Edwin for his money. It was an arrangement, really: I would stay with him until the end in return for his fortune. In the meantime, the step from live-in carer to wife was a small one and, besides, I had grown fond of the old man.

However, Edwin rallied, and as the years passed, my dreams of a carefree life began to fade and curl at the edges.

But now this. The hospital is stifling, and Edwin's dry hand flutters in mine. I seethe with rage as he turns my pillow and kisses my wet, gaunt cheek

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Steph says: "I wrote the first line of 'The end' and the rest just followed, maybe from a desire to show the sometimes cruel irony of life. Or maybe I just wanted to slap down someone who was so mercenary! In my heart I'm a writer, but somehow life gets in the way.

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"I'D DEARLY LOVE TO BE AN ARTIST. It would make me so proud to see a picture of mine on a gallery wall

somewhere. Unfortunately" Fiona Bruce adds with a grimace, "I'm rubbish! The passion's there, but even at school I was absolutely dreadful. As part of my sixth form, I studied life drawing at Goldsmiths College [London], but I was far too shocked to actually draw. Some of those models were quite...impressive!"

Although Bruce eventually headed for the more demure world of French and Italian at Oxford, before landing a researcher role at the BBC in 1989—where, of course, she's since anchored everything from the News at Ten and Crimewatch to Antiques Roadshow — she never lost that passion for art.

Roadshow fans will know that 48-year-old Bruce always takes a keen interest in any paintings and the BBC has subsequently offered her a string of art-based programmes, including Fake or Fortune?, which has just returned to BBC One for a second series.

Described as Antiques Roadshow meets CSI, Fake tasks Fiona and art dealer Philip Mould with unravelling the intrigue and deception behind some of the world's greatest paintings.

RELAXING OVER A CUP OF EARL GREY TEA, just a

few miles from her home in London's swanky Belsize Park, Bruce is keen to discuss art's place in 2012 Britain.

"Every time I do a show like Fake or Fortune?, or a documentary on great art, people ask me if the average person can really be that interested in 'a painting'. Are you kidding?

Look at the Olympics. What was at the centre of the closing ceremony? A Union Jack image by Damien Hirst. The recent Leonardo da Vinci exhibition at the National Gallery was sold out many times over. Art certainly matters to me, but I think it also matters to the British public!

"I'm not saying that we all adore every painting that's out there. Personally, I don't 'get' Rothko, but art matters ►

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• because it moves you. Just in the same way that a piece of music or a film or theatre will move you. It touches your heart!"

FIONA'S OTHER PASSIONS include a recent interest in horse riding and music. "My husband [City executive Nigel Sharrocks) buys hundreds of CDs and the house is always filled with the sound of some new album. Just lately I've been listening to a lot of Emeli Sande, [indie rockers) Chapel Club, Massive Attack and I've always got time for [ele-gant Scots popsters) The Blue Nile.

"But the thing I really couldn't live without is books! They transport me to another place. When I'm reading a book, I live in that book's world. And it was Reader's Digest that got me started! We used to get those books...three or four classics condensed into one volume. It was a great way for a kid to get going.

"I'm currently reading Hack by Graham Johnson, a riveting account of life inside the News of the World. Somebody did buy me Fifty Shades of Grey recently and I put it in my bag when I was about to head off on a long train journey for the Antiques Roadshow. Then I thought, Oh, my God! What if someone sees me reading it? I can just see the headlines: 'Fiona Bruce In Mummy-Porn Shock!'

"Which reminds me of the fake Twitter account somebody set up in my name," she giggles. "Nothing about painting nothing about antiques. It was mainly concerned with, shall we say, bizarre sexual predilections! No wonder my kids are so embarrassed by me!"

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"I attempt to play the bad cop at home, but they just don't take me seriously. There was one incident, a few years ago, when I really lost it with Sam. I recorded a whole series of Desperate Housewives and it took me months to get through it. When it came to the final episode, I had the house to myself and settled down with a glass of wine and a box of choccies. I turned on the TV and all I could see was bloody Power Rangers!

"I went ballistic. 'You are not allowed to record anything ever again!' I told Sam. I was shaking with rage. But he just looked at me and said, 'Mum, you're overreacting.' I burst out laughing.

"I've found parenthood to be a strange mixture of happiness, embarrassing your kids, and a lot of guilt and worry that you're doing the 'right thing'."

Is it harder to teach children to do the "right thing" these days when there's such an obsession with celebrity and wealth?

"I don't know. But does every person in this country only care about money and fame? Of course not! That's ridiculous. Look at what happened during the Olympics. Two glorious weeks where all that mattered was talent and fairness."

BUT FIONA ADMITS that work often

has to take precedence over family life.

"I'm 48 years old and I feel very fortunate to be offered such amazing jobs. I know it's not always going to be like this. There comes a point—especially if you're a woman—when your career just falls off

a cliff. I'm not being self-pitying. That's just the way it is.

"Age is definitely an issue for women in TV. So far, it hasn't been for me, but I know I need to make the best of myself.

For instance, I have a few grey hairs. I dye them. I don't let my grey hair show when I'm reading the news. But ! wouldn't consider cosmetic surgery. My husband would never forgive me. When the person you love feels that way, it's a bit of a non-starter.

"Of course, we wouldn't even be having this conversation if I was a 48-yearold man! I used to get cross about that, but what's the point? I'm never going to change things on my own. If age does become an issue, I'll deal with it."

SO HAS SHE THOUGHT about what she'll do after TV? "I'm sure there'll be

a period of adjustment. For a start, I won't be looking as glam as I do today. I'll be slobbing around in a pair of old jeans and a T-shirt...hair all over the place.

'Blimey, that Fiona Bruce has let herself go a bit!'

"Seriously, though, there are a million and one things I'd love to get stuck in to.

Travel...finally get to spend some time with the family. And I'd love to become a magistrate! You don't present a show like Crimewatch without developing a real respect for the justice system in this country "Then again, maybe I'll just take off on my horse. Yeah, that's where you'll find me. Trekking across the Andes!" » Fake or Fortune? is on BBC One now. See

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4 "IT'S HONESTLY THE MOST unpleasant doll I've ever seen. Very battered and bruised, with one leg and half the toes on her other foot gone [see pic opposite]."

On a soggy July afternoon, antiques expert Paul Atterbury doesn't sound enthused by his latest find. But that couldn't be further from the truth. Paul is briefing the 48 production staff of Antiques Roadshow about the latest batch of treasures they'll be filming next day.

"She's in a state because she survived a [World War Two] bombing raid," the Roadshow specialist, who's been on the show since it started in 1979, continues.

"I think we'll ask Hilary [Kay, the show's toy expert] to look at her. Things don't have to be valuable to be interesting."

THE EXPERTS' PRICELESS ROADSHOW STORIES

Indeed, it's stories like these, as well as its habit of discovering priceless masterpieces, that have made the programme an enduring hit. Paul is speaking as the

HILARY KAY, TOYS. SOUTHEBY'S YOUNGEST EVER AUCTIONEER (AT 21), THE 54-YEAR-OLD HAS BEEN ON THE ROADSHOW SINCE 1980.1 remember being shown an

JUDITH MILLER, MISCELLANEOUS. THE 61-YEAR-OLD CO-FOUNDED THE BEST-SELLING

early Mickey Mouse motorcycle toy.

It was in amazing condition in its

MILLER'S ANTIQUES HANDBOOK & PRICE GUIDE. A lady came

original box but, although I valued it at £10,000, the owner didn't seem particularly excited. His last words to me were: "Thank you, Hilary. I'll never sell it." I thought that meant he treasured it, so I was amazed to see it sell for £50,000 at Christie's a year later. I asked the auctioneer how I could have got it so wrong. "You forgot the box, Hilary," he replied.

up to me with a small cup, probably 19th century. When I looked inside, I saw a big crack. I asked if it had been in her family for years. "Oh no!" she said. "I bought it for 5p in a car-boot sale last Saturday." I said she'd probably paid the right price.

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staff set up their equipment at Fountains Abbey, North Yorkshire, to film two episodes for, incredibly, its 35th series.

Yet not everything on Antiques Roadshow is as it seems. The vast majority of the 1,800 items the public will bring tomorrow have never been seen by the show's experts. But some of the bigger and more extraordinary items were selected a week ago, when Paul and recording manager Jeanne Darrington went on the "furniture round", visiting local people who'd written in ahead of filming.

The thinking is largely practical—big pieces of furniture need to be transported to the show's location. As well as a Regency sideboard and a cannon, Paul and Jeanne's haul includes a bonnet that CLIVE FARAHAR, BOOKS. THE 62-YEAROLD RARE MANUSCRIPTS DEALER HAS BEEN ON THE SHOW SINCE 1986. In Dumfries. this man came in with some exquisite watercolours by Beatrix Potter. I told him they'd fetch £10,000 each at auction, but he showed no emotion. I asked how many he had, and he said 25. I was astounded. "That's £250,000!" I told him. Still no reaction.

So I asked him what he intended to do with them. "Put them back in the bank," he said. I don't know if he already knew what they were worth and had just come to get reassurance. But to hide such lovely things in a bank vault seemed so sad.

belonged to a Brontë sister, a set of rare caviar pots and the bedraggled doll.

And when its owners Sandra and Ian Day from nearby Ripon arrive tomorrow, they'll be "fast tracked" to make-up— everyone who appears on screen is madeup, even elderly colonels—and won't have to wait to see an expert in one of the Roadshow's famous long queues.

BUT THERE'S A LOT to organise before then. Producer Simon Shaw has to position and coordinate six camera teams; 5,000 feet of electrical cable need to be laid to connect the outside-broadcast vans, technicians, experts and production office; and 28 volunteer stewards (most of whom work at the abbey as National

FIONA BRUCE, PRESENTER. The most extraordinary thing I've ever seen was a caul.

Rarely, babies are born with a sack of skin covering their heads.

Superstition has it that if you own a caul, you'll never drown, so they were very sought after by sailors. A woman came in with a dried-up one that had belonged Fiona to her greatwith the grandmother. bedraggled It was quite horrible, World War but she was most Two doll upset when one of our specialists said it was worthless. "But they used to fetch 18 guineas!" she argued.

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• Trust guides) have to be briefed.

Next day, when the sun breaks through as filming rehearsals get underway, the team breathes a particularly loud sigh of relief. The Roadshow's never been called off, but heavy rain has saturated the abbey's lawns, and the nearby River Skell is close to breaking its banks. Everyone's wearing wellies, even the antiques experts. There's a real risk the public will assume filming's been cancelled, so production staff spend much of the rest of the day frantically calling local radio stations to reassure them it hasn't.

Thankfully, Thursday morning dawns bright and clear and, by 7.45am, there's already a queue of people waiting to get into the abbey's grounds. First in line is Dr Paul Steed from Wakefield who arrived at Gam to make sure he got to the specialists before anyone else. He wants more information on his "Buy and Build the British Empire" poster, depicting great 19th-century inventors. "I rescued it from a skip 30 years ago," he says.

THE GATES OPEN AT 9.30AM and

Dr Steed leads the crowds—carrying their valuables in everything from biscuit tins to supermarket trolleys—to a reception area where four generalists will direct them to the right specialist. Everyone will be seen by one or more experts (who cover everything from clocks to militaria)—with about 50 consultations filmed and 25 shown on TV. People might have to wait several hours to be seen, says generalist Barley Roscoe, "But no one seems to mind. We've heard of people becoming great friends in the queue as they share their experiences." ► OCTOBER 2012 READERSDIGEST.CO.UK 49

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Toys expert Hilary Kay (left) valued these skittles at around £10,000.

Below: how the show looks in the remote filming truck 4 Andrew Rowland from Salford has a cardboard suitcase full of bits of paper. "These are all the letters my grandmother and grandfather sent from 1937 to 1945, including while he was posted [in Asia] during the war. I found them in an old tea chest in their house, buried under some shoes."

"They're a great social history," says Lloyd. "They have no financial worth, but we'll almost certainly ask Fiona to chat to him about them on camera."

CONTRARY TO WHAT you might think,

directors do not decide who or how many people will stand behind an expert during a valuation. It's left to the public to decide what's interesting—and a crowd is now gathering around jewellery 50 READERSDIGEST.CO.UK OCTOBER 2012

specialist Joanna Hardy. She's chatting to Helga Jackson, 69, who's travelled from Dumfries with an old microscope. But it's her brooch that's caught Joanna's attention.

"My stepfather sold our farm 40 years

ago," Helga tells her, with the cameras rolling. "I owned six of the cows and got £285 for them, so I bought this Victorian diamond and amethyst brooch. Over the years, I've wondered if the stones look too good to be true."

Joanna, a former De Beers diamond valuer, tells her it's worth £3,000. But Helga's gasp of delight is drowned out by cries of despair from producer Michele Burgess's nearby desk.

A child's mobile has rung—despite everyone being told to turn their phones off, as they interfere with equipment— causing a power failure. To the annoyance of the team, the whole sequence, including Helga's reaction, must be shot again.

"The first take was best," rues Helga.

interest in anything that they value.

You'd think that a specialist would at least drop some priceless artefact. But, no, despite nine million items passing through their hands over 650 programmes, that's never happened either.

In fact, the most valuable thing damaged this series has been Fiona Bruce's ego. "A few weeks ago, we were about to start filming in the West Country and the director called for quiet," the presenter smiles. "This woman was looking at me and her voice rang out, `She looks so much worse than she does on TV!' Then she realised I'd heard her and said 'You have good teeth. I'll give you that.' "

BY FIVE O'CLOCK, another two episodes

APART FROM THIS MINOR UPSET, the

rest of the day unfolds without many problems. Security officer Marilyn Naylor, 63, is quick to point out that, with numerous local police officers on hand, no one's ever pilfered any of the items. And the 30 antiques experts are the epitome of charm—they're vetted for their expertise and on-screen diplomacy—so there are no cross words with disgruntled owners. Nor are there any accusations of sharp practice, as the experts are forbidden contractually from taking a commercial

of Antiques Roadshow are almost in the bag. Although filming of some items is scheduled to go on until seven, the crew is already starting to leave.

But just then, a fascinating 18th-century silver fox-head snuff box is discovered.

"It must be filmed," insists Simon Shaw.

Everything stops as a camera is found and silver specialist Gordon Foster is brought in to chat to Christine Stirzaker, 74, of Harrogate.

What's its story? What's it worth? You'll just have to watch the Roadshow when it returns this month to find out. ■

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SHOULD YOU GO

PRIVATE? Your own room, no waiting lists, better treatment—paying for health care is a no-brainer if you can afford it. Or is it? We look at the pros and cons for several common conditions

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CATARACT SURGERY Worth going private? 6/10

„N.. To pay? One in three people

--s• over 65 will get cataracts—the predominantly age-related clouding in the lens that impairs vision and can lead to blindness. The majority can be treated by replacing the lens with a plastic implant, but it's not always easy to get a referral on the NHS. The Royal National Institute for Blind People reports that, as a result U READERSDIGEST.CO.UK OCTOBER 2012

savings, there are now of huge variations in the criteria primarycare trusts insist patients meet before they get help. In parts of north-east England, for instance, you can have surgery as soon as cataracts affect your life. In the south-east, however, some patients have to wait until they can only see the first two lines on an opticians' chart.

Dau Tu, 60, from East Wittering, West Sussex, could see so little that she had to give up her job as an upholsterer, yet was still denied surgery. She's currently appealing the decision.

"Guidelines that stipulate a cut-off vision level of, say, 6/12 or 6/18 are arbitrary and driven by financial, not clinical, considerations," says Professor

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Assuming you don't have insurance, private treatment costs between £1,800 and £3,000, but you could consider having the operation abroad —for as little as £440 in Bulgaria or £530 in the Czech Republic. Make sure you research the clinic and surgeon thoroughly first, though (see nhs.uk/ nhsengland/healthcareabroad or treatmentabroad.com for help).

Or not to pay? If you're able -\S-- to get a surgery referral, NHS

waiting times are pretty good, rangi from a couple of weeks to three months. And the operation itself is routine, with a very high success rate.

Unlike private clinics, the NHS doesn't offer "premium" lenses, whic promise to correct pre-existing nearsightedness, but these cost up to £4,000 extra and the standard lenses work well with glasses.

HIP REPLACEMENT Worth going private? 6/10 To pay? Some 85% of NHS hip

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N.." that you have a slightly better chance of a successful operation if you pay for it, but Porter, a consultant orthopaedic surgeon, points out that these figures are largely down to the fact that the health service has to take on many of the most complex cases.

Patients with other health issues (a weak heart, say) undergoing. any major surgery are often better off in an NHS hospital with an intensive care unit— just in case. And a private hip replacement can set you back a staggering £13,000.

If you're having trouble getting an NHS operation, it's probably better to keep trying rather than shell out money. "Ask your GP why they aren't referring you," says Martyn Porter. "Bring your family in. Get a second opinion. The BONs patients' association (boa.ac.uk) offers an advocacy service that can help."

a reasonable 18 weeks of referral. But, says Martyn Porter, vice-president of the British Orthopaedic Association (BOA), cuts mean there are pockets throughout the country where referrals for less serious cases have been delayed for montl, or denied completely.

Factor in the fact that private hospitals tend to give you your own comfortable private room and have more attentive aftercare— much nicer when you're recovering from any surgery—and it's not surprising that some 15% of the 75,000 hip-replacement operations taking place in Britain each year are performed privately.

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DEPRESSION

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Britons have treatable anxiety or depression. Only one in four ever gets professional help and, while that's often down to the individual, charities such as Mind have long claimed that there's inadequate funding of NHS mental-health services.

It's quite easy to get antidepressants from a GP, but many patients struggle to get to see a psychiatrist, who may be able to pinpoint the perfect drugs for their condition. Worse, just 2.1% of sufferers entered talking therapy in the last quarter of 2011, despite studies showing that it's the best method, when combined with medication, for combating symptoms.

A 2010 Mind survey also found that 40% of those who did get psychological help felt they hadn't received enough sessions.

Louise Bell., 45, from north London, visited her GP with depression several times over three years. "I got bad side effects from the drugs I was given, and my GP was guessing which he should try next. Another doctor suggested I had bipolar disorder, so I pressed for an appointment with a psychiatrist. I waited two months for a hospital assessment— where the disorder was confirmed —and was promised a follow-up.

I never heard back."

M Or not to pay? Paying for

treatment can get expensive.

In the end, Louise attended a privdi psychotherapy group, costing £50 a month, and had four sessions with a psychiatrist, which set her back £600.

But, she says, "It was the right thing to do. The psychiatrist gave me a clearer diagnosis and helped me find an effective drug."

And, though going r to a psychiatrist to get the right medication might set you back between £500 and £700, he or she can then ask your GP to give you repeat prescriptions and monitor your progress. Charities such as Mind and Relate also provide cheaper counselling, with fees ranging from £35-£40 per session if you work fulltime, to a few ounds if you're

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WISDOM-TEETH REMOVAL Worth going private? 4/10

More than 200,000 4.

-1 ) people per year have one or more wisdom teeth extracted after they have become painful, infected or grow in the wrong direction. Most NHS removals arc performed by your own dentist or a local specialist. Getting access to a state dentist has become easier in recent years, with more than a million new people registering since 2010. But there are still reports of people having to wait for more than a year.

So, although going private will cost about £2,000, compared to £48 or less on the NHS, you may avoid several uncomfortable weeks waiting for an appointment. ...rk To pay?

Or not to pay? According to

Professor Tara Renton, chair in oral surgery at King's College London, the waiting time for treatment by an oral specialist is pretty minimal—and they handle 85% of cases.

If you can stand the pain, it might be better to treat an infection with antibiotics rather than risk surgery.

The procedure can have side effects, such as damaging the trigeminal nerve, which provides feeling to the face.

PROSTATECTOMY Worth going private? 4/10 To pay? This common

HERNIA REPAIR Worth going private? 3/10

To pay? At some point, one 41) 1: in ten of us will get a hernia, where an internal part of the body pushes through a weakness in surrounding tissue, such as the bowel poking into the groin. The NHS repairs 50,000 a year but, because many are little more than uncomfortable, most GPs don't refer you for treatment until it's really needed—such as if a part of an organ gets trapped and starts dying. But consultant surgeon Mike Parker, of Darent Valley Hospital in Dartford, says that the majority of people need treatment eventually and, once referred, NHS waiting times are around 78 days.

Or not to pay? If your hernia's not causing huge problems, why rush into private surgery that can cost up to £3,600 and has a 20% risk of long-term post-operative pain?

But when you do require treatment, both NHS and private clinical outcomes at least are very good— with a 1% hernia-recurrence rate across the board.

procedure—the removal of all or part of the prostate to get rid of cancerous tumours—has a very good survival rate, whether you're treated by the NHS or privately. But it causes impotence in up to 70% of cases, as it's hard to preserve the nearby nerve bundles that control erectile function.

If you go private, however, you can choose a more experienced, more adept practitioner whose nerve-saving record might be as high as 70%. And you can see the same clinician throughout your treatrment, so you don't have to keep going over the details of your sensitive, personal condition. (*It *. Or not to pay?

- \S-- Treatment costs between £13,000 and £20,000. And, if your tumour is growing slowly and you can wait up to three months for an operation, the NHS sometimes allows you to request a particular surgeon, too. Many are every bit as good at preserving your sex life as those in the private sector. • OCTOBER 2012 READERSDIGEST.CO.UIC 57

Forget the Olympics— this is where the serious sporting action is!

By Ellie Rose

KIIKING, ESTONIA Have you ever swung so far on a swing that you thought you'd go right over the top bar? Well, sadly, this is virtually impossible to manage at your average playground, as the swing's chains will inevitably slacken under gravity as you approach horizontal.

But Estonian Ado Kosk refused to accept that he'd never make a full loop. So in the mid-1990s, he developed a sports kiik (Estonian for swing) with steel arms. The user stands on the base and thrusts with his legs until he has enough momentum to spin through 360 degrees.

Pleased with his invention, Kosk then turned kiiking (pronounced key-king) into a sport by designing a new swing with adjustable arms.

Competitors try to achieve a full spin with the arms extended as far they can manage. There's now an annual open championship in Kaarma, Estonia, and Andrus Aasamae holds the current Guinness World Record for completing 360 degrees with the arms extended to 7.02 metres. •

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Teams of 30 or more identically dressed male and female students attempt to walk and occasionally run in perfect harmony, changing formation on command.

One of the most impressive moves involves two diamond-shaped groups of walkers criss-crossing each other's path in a show of unflinching agility and accuracy. In another, the walkers simultaneously freeze mid-motion, robotic in their stillness. » Search for "Japanese precision" on YouTube for the full glory, ■ OCTOBER 2012 READERSDIGEST.CO.UK

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KUDU DUNG SPITTING, SOUTH AFRICA

TUNA THROWING, PORT LINCOLN, AUSTRALIA Yes, it goes well with mayonnaise, but the humble tuna also has a more athletic use.

Every January since 1961, Tunarama—a celebration of the sandwich-friendly sea creature in the fishing town of Port Lincoln—has attracted up to 25,000 visitors for a mixture of parties, processions and, most importantly, the tuna tossing contest. Twenty-pound fish (frozen to aid grip and flight) are tied to the ends of a rope, swung around the head and flung as far as possible.

The event is a fairly serious business. The record throw of 37.23 metres was achieved in 1988 by Scott Carlin, a 31-yearold former Australian Olympic hammer thrower.

But children aren't left out of the festivities: 11-15-year-olds have their own king-fish-tossing event, while 5-10-year-olds get to lob prawns.

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Dung spitting (or bokdrol spoeg, as the mainly

Afrikaans participants call it) involves groups of people trying to propel poo from their mouths as far as possible.

Why? Well, participants treat the sport as something of a beer-soaked party. But it also has its roots in tribal legend. The kudu antelope was famous for eluding its would-be hunters, leaving a trail of faeces behind it as an apparent taunt. So hunters began using the pellets in spitting competitions to "retaliate" against their prey (although one wonders who the real winners were here).

Modern competitors have a number of techniques, from spitting from a standing position to taking a run up, depending often on how drunk they are. Wet, heavier dung tends to travel further, but most competitors blanch at putting fresh, moist poo in their mouths. So they soak old pellets beforehand —usually in something alcoholic.

The semi-formal world championship— held in various locations—began in 1994 and the record spitting distance is 15.56 metres, set in 2006 by Shaun van Rensburg. The boy dung good! ►

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The 73-storey Swisstitel is the tallest hotel in South-East Asia so, ordinarily, the sensible option for getting to the top is the lift.

But since November 2004, athletic types have been flocking to the building once a year to race up its 1,336 steps. Some 2,100 competitors from around the world took part in last year's contest, with German firefighter Matthias Jahn finishing first in seven minus, te 16 seconds.

The winners in each gender and age group are invited to represent "'" • .11111.

Singapore in the even 0.0 wow tougher Empire State 0 0 4e.s:1; .. • "SP Building Run Up in New %VP York (86 storeys and ,•' '40e /k it 1,576 steps). They're also rewarded with a breathtaking view of "the garden city" of Singapore from the hotel's roof— although they have to move out of the way Singapore New York Height:740ft Height:1,250ft after a few minutes so Storeys:73 Storeys:86 other contestants can Steps: 1,336 Steps: 1,576 have a look.

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NUT-TREE CLIMBING, INDONESIA

Indonesia's Dutch colonisers could be cruel. On days of celebration (such as a wedding or a national holiday), they would attach a wheel of prizes to the top of a nut tree, grease the tree with oil, invite poor young locals to try to climb it, and chuckle at the hilarity that ensued.

Indonesia has been autonomous since the mid1940s, but the tradition of pole climbing, known as Panjat Pinang, is still inexplicably popular, particularly on Indonesia's independence Day (August 17).

Some people say it has educational value as a team-building exercise. Since it's near impossible to get to the top of one of the poles by yourself, youngsters now work in groups to reach the prizes (which include mundane-but-useful items such as cheese, flour and clothes) and split any spoils. ■

LIVES LESS ORDINARY Meet three people who refused to let their disability stop them from realising their dreams

A FOCUSED MAN Every artist dreams of sharing their vision. For Matt Rhodes, a registeredblind 37-year-old from Preston, it might have seemed an impossible dream.

But, for the last 17 years, Matt has refused to "do" impossible.

In 1995, he was knocked off his motorcycle while serving with the Devonshire and Dorset Regiment in Germany. The young private was paralysed down his right-hand side, and his sight was reduced to an area half the size of a penny.

A series of rehabilitation programmes followed—including stints at Headley Court army rot hospital in Surrey and with the charity Blind Veterans UK. And, after three years, Matt—who's married with four children— confounded doctors' predictions by learning to walk again and *It, starting to rebuild his life. ►

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process—he needed to 4 It was, he says, the construct portraits inch camaraderie of other by inch from blown-up disabled service people photos. The natural that pulled him through. right-hander was also "At Blind Veterans, having to work with there was a boy of 18 Mark with his his left hand. But, he who'd been wounded painting of The ; Beatles, seen o says, "Painting was imin Afghanistan and the previous mensely satisfying. It a man of 113 who'd page was a hobby that profought in the Somme. duced something tangiIt puts your own situable. I couldn't see the tion into perspective." final work, but others On civvy street, howcould. When they said ever, attitudes were less they liked it, that was my supportive. "My left leg sense of achievement." drags, and I'd walk into He painted relatively a pub and feel like the easy portraits at first— cowboy who staggers mainly of celebrities— through the doors of a but his rapidly advancing saloon. Once, I lost my footing and fell over technique soon allowed in the street—at nine him to tackle more testo'clock in the morning ing and personally reso—and people just walked over me." nant subjects, such as a dynamic scene But Matt resolved to present a more of army medics in Afghanistan. positive view of disability, and the former In the two years since he started, he's army PT instructor embarked on a series earned a living through commissions and of adventures. He tried skydiving, swam raised more than £5,000 for Blind Vetera mile between Brighton's two piers and, ans UK and other charities by auctioning with a guide, completed the 2007 London his canvases. Last year, a painting of Vera and 2010 Brighton marathons—the latter Lynn sold for £3,000, the money going race taking him two days. to her cerebral palsy trust. His latest He raised more than £5,000 for various portrait is of paralympic athletes, which charities, but his heart-bursting achieve- he's donating to Headley Court. ments left him increasingly exhausted.

"To my way of thinking," he says, "your He knew that, realistically, he needed a body is like a vehicle. It gets you from A less physical challenge. to B, but you're still the person in control.

My vehicle may have a couple of flat tyres Matt tried numerous activities and and a pair of smashed headlights, but I'm crafts through Blind Veterans UK, and still the driver, still in charge." discovered a talent for art. With his tiny field of vision, painting was a painstaking s See matthewrhodes.org for more details.

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"Your body is like a vehicle.

It gets you from A to B, but you're still the person in control"

On her 40th birthday, Sally Hyder

struggled on crutches to the top of Scotland's Ptarmigan Ridge. All her life she'd loved mountain walking. Her husband Andrew proposed to her at Mount Everest base camp in 1998, and on weekends they'd "bag" Munros—Scottish peaks over 3,000 feet. But multiple sclerosis had severely limited Sally's horizons. The

birthday trip was her emotional farewell to the hills.

"I knew the MS was getting much, much worse," says Sally, a mother of three who lives in Edinburgh. "I thought this was going to be my last Munro."

As predicted, the course of the disease accelerated. Now 50, Sally has been in a wheelchair for ten years and lives with chronic pain. Yet, last June, she smashed expectations by becoming the first wheelchair user to make it to the ►

Hound of love: Sally Hyder with her right-hand dog Harmony

summit of Ben Nevis without being carried.

She was an unlikely candidate for the extreme sportsmanship needed. "My core muscles are gone, which means I can't stay upright for long before the pain kicks in, and sensory loss in my bottom and legs means my balance is terrible. Neither of my arms works properly, either."

But though there had been times when her disability had made Sally reluctant even to leave the house, things had turned around since April 2009. The charity Canine Partners had provided her with a Labrador called Harmony who could pick up items if Sally dropped them, unload the washing machine, help her dress and open doors.

More importantly, Harmony had forced Sally to rediscover the outdoors.

"One of the charity's rules is that the dog must be given fun time, just to be a dog. That means an hour's 'off-lead' exercise every day. Going out with Harmony just clicked the switch in the part of my brain that loved being active."

to rope it for the steeper parts of the descent.

Sally had to lie nearly flat in the go-kart-like chair. "My legs kept falling off it, so I ended up asking to be tied to it at the knees and ankles. That was really frightening. An ablebodied person can go downhill fast because, if something goes wrong, you can get yourself out of trouble.

If your legs are tied together, however, you can't do anything."

But she conquered it—raising £6,000 for Canine Partners—and her confidence has soared. In the last year, she's been skiing, sailing, scuba diving and flown in a microlight. Next spring, she hopes to complete her own "Three Peaks" challenge by climbing Snowdon and Scafell Pike. This June, she carried the Olympic torch through Edinburgh.

"It was the best gig ever," she says.

"Right along the Royal Mile. Some policemen helped me walk the route. Well, it was more of a drag."

In her spare time, Sally gives talks to disabled people. "I want to show that there's life after a horrible diagnosis, but I feel you have to go with your character and circumstance. You don't have to do some extreme sport. Another person's Ben Nevis might be getting out of bed —it is for me, some days. Achievement comes an inch at a time."

Carrying the Olympic torch "was the best gig ever"

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THE SWEETEST FEELING for each note and, when my teacher told the flute at an early age. "It was bright me I was playing it correctly, I memoand shiny- and pretty. It was just some- rised the corresponding vibration in thing I felt drawn to, as though it was my body."

She suffuses her playing with emotion meant for me."

It was the beginning of an extraordi- and tone by visualising the "story" of nary musical journey for the profoundly the music. "I might `see' a bouncy, excitdeaf 29-year-old. Unable to hear her own ing piece with short notes as a girl on a performance, Alison now plays flute at Space Hopper with pigtails bouncing recital level, and experiences music as a up and down. The happy girl is how I visual and sensory phenomenon. `feel' allegro, whereas the brief, detached "I've always been very stubborn," she bounces of the Space Hopper have a says cheerfully. "If someone says I can't staccato feel." do something, then I do my best to prove them wrong. My first experience of Married with two kids, she now works music was at primary school when I was in a Yorkshire property-management seven—I'd learned to sign and lip-read, company, but still performs when she so I was in a mainstream state school. can—music is her "release valve".

The teacher told me I couldn't join the "Often, living in silence is frustrating. recorder group because of my hearing. But if I'm down, I can play a fast, aggresSo I started playing up and, in the end, sive piece without it hurting anyone." they gave in. They realAlison is committed ised that I could do it to removing barriers for and that I was good. It those with hearing was great because being problems. She spends part of the group made much of her time organme feel 'normar." ising arts courses for Alison soon turned the National Deaf Chilto the flute and, nurdren's Society, and adtured by a succession vises kids' organisations of teachers, she was —from the Brownies to performing in a youth football clubs—on how orchestra and wind ento make their activities semble by the age of 12, more deaf-friendly. as well as at church and "Nothing is imposcharity functions. sible," she counsels.

How did she do it?

"Just because you're "When I started, I used deaf doesn't mean you a mirror to learn the can't achieve your mouth shapes I needed dreams." ■ Alison Stephenson fell in love with

"Just because you're deaf doesn't mean you can't achieve your dreams"

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Paddy Ashdown remember. ...LIVING IN INDIA UNTIL I WAS FOUR, where my father was an army officer. One of my early memories is a wide expanse of flat water, with roofs sticking up above it. This was a famous occasion when the Sukkur Barrage broke and the huge Sindh Valley flooded. My mother and I floated across it in a boat. ...SAILING OFF TO LIVE IN NORTHERN IRELAND. The sea was a marvel to me. I remember the creamy white foam, and a dim vision of Cape Town as we sailed past.

Our first house was a wonderful coastguard's cottage stuck out on an isolated, rocky prominence. The second was in Donnaghadee.

It was a typical Irish seaside town with a population of about 2,000, a lovely harbour and a lighthouse.

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climbing cliffs or getting into adventures.

I remember once jumping in a "boat" with a friend of mine, aged about five, because my parents were being horrible to me. So I was going to sail away to England in an old fruit crate. Fortunately the thing sank before we got into deep water! ...MY FATHER TELLING ME, "BEING A GENTLEMAN ISN'T ABOUT CLASS, IT'S ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE." He taught me two invaluable things. One was: never be afraid to hold a minority opinion.

The second was the value Passion for of empathy—you should poisson: Paddy always be prepared to with his first put yourself in someone ever salmon else's shoes. catch, 1952 ...GOING TO BOARDING SCHOOL. The first time, my father took me over. Then I'd make the journey myself and wave goodbye to my parents on Belfast 0.

Dock. I'd sail to Liverpool, cross the city to Lime Street, get the train to Crewe, change there, get to Bletchley, change again...it's etched on my mind.

At the age of 12, I was so panicky about missing my connections that I'd sit out on Crewe station with the wind howling past for half an hour before the train arrived—just in case it came early and I got left behind!

With his mum Lois, dad John and brother Tim (on dad's back); (inset) in training in Doone Valley, Exmoor, 1959

...I WAS BADLY BULLIED FOR BEING IRISH. I had a broad accent (that's where the nickname "Paddy" came from), so I got picked on—until I proved that I was as tough as anybody else. If they wanted a fight, I could do that perfectly adequately!

I've always hated bullies.

I became head of my house and in those days —it's scarcely believable now—you had the right, as an 18-yearold boy, to beat pupils with a cane. My greatest pride was that I never did. ...LOSING TWO BROTHERS AND A SISTER. That business of early loss has lived with me always; I get so panicky when my kids are ill now. I have only dim memories of my brother Richard [who died aged 11 months when Paddy was a young child]. My brother Robert died of leukaemia when I was fighting in Borneo in 1964, aged 14. It hit me very hard, especially because I wasn't there. Later 74

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on, I lost a third sibling [sister Melanie, who was killed in a car accident in Australia]. It was a very searing experience. ...MEETING MY WIFE JANE. It was December 8, 1959, at a ball at the commando training centre at Lympstone, Devon. I was an 18-year-old marine, between girlfriends, so I invited my cousin Fiona. She was staying in a hotel, so I went to pick her up dressed in my mess uniform. But the publican sent me into Jane's bedroom by mistake.

She was sitting there, her hair in curlers, and I said, "Oh, I'm terrible sorry!"

That night, I only danced with her once, which is odd because she'd struck me straightaway. But, the following day, we all met in the Clarence Hotel in Exeter. I was finding it boring because everybody was a bit "ya boo"—all frightfully jolly young country gentlemen. Yet here was

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this extraordinary, attractive girl, and we got talking about poetry and music.

I said, "I really want to go round and see the cathedral," and she said, "Can I come with you?" And that was it. ...PUNCHING A FELLOW SOLDIER. I returned from a patrol in Borneo to find one of our marines beating a prisoner. I hit him across the room with more force than I've ever hit anyone, I suspect. I could have been court-martialled for it.

But a couple of years later, in 1968, the story of the My Lai massacre broke, and l.realised that evil is not something that you jump to from innocence in one go. It's

a path taken in very small steps. What [US army officer] William Calley had done in My Lai was to take a small step further than what was already tolerated.

So I had inadvertently made it clear to my marines that abusing prisoners was not a sign of toughness or being a good soldier, but completely unacceptable. If you stop a culture growing, you stop the end point. I don't claim any wisdom for the act itself, though—it was done out of anger. ...THE WORST YEAR OF OUR LIFE —A YEAR OF UNEMPLOYMENT. I applied for 300 jobs in the recession of the early 1980s—including one as a lorry driver. I took a test for an HGV licence and the bloke said, "Do me a favour—never drive a heavy goods vehicle. You're lethal!"

Eventually, I got a job on a Dorset County Council community programme set up to help young people back into work. I learned a fantastic amount. We were living off the smell of an oily rag, but I loved my work and it opened up a completely new dimension for me. Then I was elected as MP for Yeovil in 1983—a huge privilege for which I'm very proud. ...FLYING OUT TO BOSNIA FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 1992, TO LEARN ABOUT THE BALKANS CONFLICT. I met with Radovan Karadzic, the Serbian president, and I believed what he told o.

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me. I didn't know anything about the former Yugoslavia, or understand that someone could lie to your face like that. Then I saw what was happening the following day [at a concentration camp full Paddy weeps of Bosnians], and became with the relative obsessed by it. of a victim of I saw it as the Spanish Civil the Srebrenica War of our generation. While massacre, Bosnia, 2005 that tragedy was going on, every moment that I wasn't in come across as quite unyielding or tough, Bosnia felt like a betrayal. You needed to because I feel so passionately about be there to bear witness. things. Without that bit of empathy I'd be a pretty defective person, to be honest. ...CRYING OFTEN DURING MY SUBSEQUENT PEACE WORK. ...LEADING THE LIBERAL [Paddy lobbied for UN intervention DEMOCRATS. It was tough at first in the Balkans and became the UN's because I wasn't very good at it and high representative to Bosnia in 2002.]

When I see somebody at a refugee my party were very patient with me. camp, I see my own wife and daughter, The hardest part was just to keep going. and feel their tragedy. But you also gain I remember that dreadful moment in an understanding of how fortunate you 1999's European Election when we were are, as well as a sense of guilt. I'm afraid represented in the opinion poll by an I disgrace myself in those situations; I can't asterisk denoting no detectable support. stop the tears coming. I'm not particularly I was plagued by nightmares saying that proud of that. But I think I sometimes the party of Gladstone would end with me.

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KATEHOLT/E YE VINE

I disgrace myself in those situations. I can't stop the tears

...NEVER WASTING ANY TIME. To keep going—to invest other people with the belief that I could do it—was tough.

I can't imagine not being busy, turbulent, A high point was the 1997 election, engaged. I'm frightened of retirement, so I when we more than doubled our number live by pushing against the bits around me.

I'm contented of MPs to 46. The Lib Dems—as a formidable force because, at 71, h successors wit Still involved: Paddy ck Clegg people still able to alter Charles Kennedy and Ni want me to do the balance of power—were things. I like to think I'm useful born that day. to my party ...THAT and its gifted young leader, ELECTION WAS Nick Clegg, SPECIAL FOR A DIFFERENT to whom I'm devoted.

REASON. My first grandson And I've got grandchildren and my Matthias was born.

But my daughter Kate was in labour beloved garden in Somerset...I look back on my life and say, "It may not have been for 72 hours! If you're me and see every all success, but I don't know how I could sickness as a tragedy about to happen, have crammed much more into it." ■ it's terrifying trying to fight a campaign As told to Ellie Rose • when you're thinking, God, what's • happening? I was sitting in front of a TV camera in Cardiff when my assistant » Paddy's new book A Brilliant Little •w finally came in to see me and said, "It's Operation: The Cockleshell Heroes and the a son!" I burst into tears.

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LIE BACK, HAVE A DRINK AND Some people obviously find it hard to chill out, even on holiday—as reader Marilyn Martin found out. She kept a note of the most bizarre complaints she received while working on villa-maintenance reports in Spain.

"I want the weather vane taken off the roof. It moves around when I'm sunbathing and annoys me."

"Please send someone round to change the lounge curtains.

My wife can't stand them." [A phone call from a man whose wife could be heard sobbing noisily in the background.]

"The beam from the lighthouse shines into our bedroom and disturbs my sleep.

Kindly get them to turn the light off at night."

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It's a chance of publishing glory for all you budding authors out there—as long as you can write a compelling story in just 100 words, like the one below from writer John O'Farrell.

Turn over to read three more stories from top authors, written exclusively for Reader's Digest, and find details of how to enter John O'Farrell As a mayfly, he would live for just one day. So it was probably a mistake to sleep in till noon.

"I'm middle-aged!" he wailed. "There was so much I meant to do..."

He tried to make plans. That was the afternoon gone.

Finally, he met a female mayfly and felt some pressure to make a success of their first date. They spent a perfect evening together, flitting above the still summer water, feeling themselves grow old.

You know, Midge," he said, "life goes so quickly, we never find time to tell our partners that we love them...

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Dr Brooke Magnanti They met on the internet. He was smarting after a bad split; she was tired of the dating scene. She wanted easy, she said. He wanted no strings.

They agreed it was the wrong time to get serious.

And the physical side? They didn't agree on much, but that they did. Shame I'd never consider him

seriously, she thought.

She told him you can't build a relationship on sex alone. He told her he would only marry someone he'd known as a friend first.

One wedding, ten years, two children.

They met on the internet, they tell everyone. No strings.

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Jane Thynne

Ten women always met on Thursday mornings at each other's houses.

They drank coffee and gossiped.

It was called "The Huntingdon Ladies" after the town "Huntingdon" where it all happened.

One day, Diana—a 75kg mother— made a "suggestion". "Next week, let's all meet in a lagoon in Turkey."

Everyone thought this was a hoot.

Apart from Sandra. "Next Thursday's supposed to be at my house."

Diana squinted at her.

The following week, three women sipped apple tea in a lagoon near OlUdeniz, five women went for coffee at Sandra's, and two women did not even attend a coffee morning.

Florence in mid-August was a ghost town. The locals fled to the seaside, leaving tourists wandering hotly round the Uffizi.

It was their honeymoon, but Edward was miles ahead with the guidebook, abandoning Dorothy, who was wondering if she had made a mistake.

She came to a portrait of a handsome Florentine, with sensuous lips and seductive eyes. His gaze caressed her skin and seemed to read her thoughts. He stirred something deep within her and she blushed.

"They say the eyes follow you," she explained, when Edward came crossly to find her.

"Whose eyes?" he demanded.

"This room's empty."

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How do you trap a gang of crack dealers when loyalty is as strong as family ties?

BY TIM BOUQUET Although he lived within a spit of

Everton's stadium, the Liverpool anthem "You'll Never Walk Alone" was never more apt as Anthony Whitney left his house in the city's Walton district on March 17, 2010. His every step was being followed.

He was the latest target of Matrix, an elite undercover police unit formed in 2006 to crack down on drug dealing in a city with some 12,500 serious users

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and turf wars that had seen more than 120 firearm incidents a year, 40 injuries and several deaths.

In December 2009, a nine-month Matrix operation had helped jail 12 people for a £1.2m drug conspiracy. Yet the street dealing went on—the big suppliers were still out there. So Matrix had turned its attention to Anthony Whitney because in recent months his name kept coming up in relation to drug deals when ►

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LESLIE WHITNEY

THOMAS DOWD

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undercover officers spoke to street addicts. He was also the cousin of one of the 2009 conspirators.

As the Matrix team looked into Whitney's affairs they found that, despite having no visible income, the 28-year-old flitted frequently to a flat he owned on the Costa Blanca. He had a conviction for dealing Class-A drugs at 16. Had he graduated into a major player?

Matrix watched Whitney go up to a first-floor flat on City Road, rented by his friend Thomas Dowd. Minutes later, a group of uniformed police officers rushed the stairs in what was supposed

cook it in smaller quantities and sell the rocks really quickly. You'd need a highly organised distribution network to shift that much."

It looked as if Doherty's team had taken a major step closer to uncovering Liverpool's drug overlords. But Dowd was saying nothing and Whitney had made it to Spain—it would take a lengthy extradition process to get him back. Where could Matrix go next?

A down- and - out, Ray, had spent

months drifting with the addicts of north Liverpool, selling razor blades and

The flat was a crack factory...officers found cocaine worth nearly £100,000 to look like an ad-hoc drugs search inspired by some random tip-off.

"The last thing we wanted to do was give Whitney the impression that he was the object of a major surveillance operation," Matrix head, Detective Chief Superintendent Tony Doherty recalls.

Battering their way into the flat past a sofa barricade, the officers heard the sound of breaking glass. Whitney and Dowd, 29, had jumped out of a back window. Dowd was arrested in the street, but Whitney escaped.

The flat was a crack factory. Alongside mixing agents and a cooking pan, Matrix officers found 670g of cocaine rocks worth just under £100,000. It was the second biggest crack-factory seizure in the UK. "You never normally get that much crack," Tony Doherty explains. "Usually they 84

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toiletries on the street to buy drugs.

He slept rough, never saw his family and risked his life every day, just like the smack heads.

But "Ray" was no junkie. He was an undercover Matrix cop, who'd tap addicts for information and buy drugs from dealers while his colleagues filmed the transactions, providing vital evidence for later court cases. It was he who would provide the investigation's next breakthrough.

With street dealers wary of allowing their mobile numbers to be given to new customers, Ray had been relying on other addicts to set up deals—in return for a cut of the drugs. But over the past few weeks, he'd become particularly friendly with a female user. Waiting around for a dealer one day, she finally

decided he could be trusted and said: "This is the number you call to get the Whitneys out."

Ray phoned a man who called himself "Wayne". Ray gradually convinced the dealer that he was above board and, over the course of several street deals, the two men built up such a rapport that Ray was able to discover that "Wayne" was 28-year-old Wayne Hincks. Sometimes during deals, Wayne's girlfriend, a woman with a thin, hard face, was in the back seat of his car holding the wraps of drugs. Her name was Lisa: Anthony Whitney's sister.

Matrix began investigating the

CAROL WHITNEY'S HOUSE IN ANFIELD. Matrix officers noticed the huge number of callers to the house—and the heavy suitcase Whitney took indoors. Police were keen to see what was inside it

couple. Neither Wayne nor 31-year-old Lisa had jobs, yet they'd just bought a brand-new semi in Hilary Road, Anfield.

The money for the mortgage had been put up by Lisa's mum, Carol Whitney, who lived in the next street, Hildebrand Road.

"Something wasn't right there," says Doherty. "Carol Whitney was living off invalidity benefits."

Doherty's team set up covert cameras and watched Carol Whitney's front door from unmarked vans. It opened and closed so often every day, it was a wonder it didn't fall off its hinges. Streams of callers arrived or left clutching carrier bags. "Nobody stayed more than a minute," Doherty read in the intelligence notes. It was likely that the pebble-dashed semi was a safe house where dealers collected their wraps and deposited the cash, he reasoned.

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son Paul arrived at his mother's house.

He was carrying something more threatening: a rifle case. Tony Doherty immediately got a search warrant. At 7.5Opm, local police went into the Hildebrand

from Denia, where Anthony Whitney lived. In his car they found 50,000 pink mock Ecstasy tablets. "Liverpool gangs had long been peddling them in Ibiza's clubs," says Doherty.

Officers found the wheeled suitcase in Carol Whitney's shed. It contained 20,000 more mock Es. "That suitcase has nothing to do with me," she said. "First time I've seen it."

Film footage said otherwise. She was similarly adamant about the 520 heroin wraps found in a bag hanging from one of her trees and 30 rounds of 9mm bullets buried in a flower bed.

Doherty called in a Matrix "disruption unit", trained to enter buildings fast

MARY McCABE, WAYNE HINCKS AND LISA

Road house. But instead of a gun, they found wads of neatly folded sterling and euro notes totalling £5,000.

"I collected it from friends for a savings club," Carol Whitney told them. Then they discovered wraps of heroin and cocaine, scales and a CS gas canister.

On the side was Carol's passport.

"I'm going to Spain tomorrow," she said. "The flights are all booked." A day later, and she would have slipped from Matrix's grasp.

Inside the passport was a slip of paper with the contact details for a man who'd been arrested by Spanish police at Matrix's behest on a ferry bound for Ibiza

Carol Whitney was bailed pending further enquiries. These showed that hundreds of thousands of pounds had been sent from her bank account to Spain to fund what she called Anthony's "property business". From now on, Matrix officers referred to Carol as "The Banker".

But was she the boss?

Lab tests on the heroin bag revealed DNA that matched a sample given by Paul Whitney when he'd been arrested for dealing in 2001.

The 32-year-old had moved out of north Liverpool and was living in a plush detached house on a private estate near Aintree racecourse. He hosted regular

• a small black suitcase. When it hit the ground with force, surveillance officers could tell it was heavy. Whitney wheeled it up her path and into her house.

"We need to look at that case," Doherty said. But he needed a stronger pretext than a hunch. Ill-timed raids jeopardise entire operations.

Later that afternoon, Carol's oldest

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meetings at home with a small group of other high-living men, all with no obvious means of support. One was bull-necked Matthew Mayor, 37, who lived in a large house with manicured lawns in Haydock and drove a silver S-Series Mercedes.

Whenever these summits took place, another of Whitney's associates flew to Amsterdam, Spain and other well-known drug-supply hubs. Days later, the streets of Liverpool would be flush with drugs.

"At first we thought Anthony Whitney was the top man," says Tony Doherty.

"But now it appeared that nothing happened without Paul's say-so."

Leslie. The 57-year-old was living with 29-year-old barmaid Emma McKenzie and their 18-month-old child.

At 12.53 on September 28, 2010, Matthew Mayor arrived at Leslie Whitney's house. His visit lasted 40 seconds and he left behind whatever he'd been carrying under his arm. Before driving off, he made a call. His mobile-phone records revealed subsequently that it was to Paul Whitney.

Tony Doherty sensed a big deal was about to be cut, and hit the streets. Ray and other undercover cops had reported that there had been shortages. Doherty

WHITNEY with a suitcase found to be full of heroin—and an SA80 assault rifle

With Carol Whitney's operation

sidelined, it would have surprised nobody if the Whitneys had taken time out. "But greed is a powerful drug," says one of the Matrix covert officers. "If they'd stopped, somebody else would have come in and stolen their business. And we were still using local police to do the arrests so the gang had no idea they were being targeted [and watched] systematically."

Matrix continued to tail the dealers who'd been visiting Carol Whitney's house and found they were now calling at an address in Watford Road, close to Liverpool's Anfield stadium. This was the home of Carol's estranged husband

called in a Matrix "disruption unit", trained to enter buildings fast. Eight officers in black riot helmets jumped out of a white van and smashed their way through the front window of the house.

Emma McKenzie was in the front room, tending her child, but Leslie was seen running from the back and was caught as he threw a bag containing a kilo of heroin into next door's garden.

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and grabbed it. Among the wipes and food, Emma had slipped wraps of cocaine.

Emma McKenzie was arrested along with Leslie Whitney.

By the time Mary McCabe got home to Cherry Lane, Walton, another Matrix team was in place. Soon after, Lisa Whitney and Wayne Hincks turned up and Wayne re-emerged pulling a large suitcase, which, with difficulty, he managed to heave into the back of Mary's Peugeot.

He and Lisa drove off quickly in their car, with McCabe and the toddler following in the Peugeot.

Matrix called in traffic

POLICE CHASING MATTHEW MAYOR'S Mercedes as Mayor throws bags of white powder out of the window. By the time he was caught, he'd dumped £120,000 of heroin

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police.

McCabe was pulled over. The case was indeed heavy. Apart from £600,000 of heroin, it contained a standard infantry issue SA80 assault rifle, stolen from an army base on Salisbury Plain. On September 30, Hinks, McCabe and McKenzie were remanded in custody.

Paul Whitney still carried on business as usual but, with his key personnel depleted, big guns had to perform more menial tasks.

During afternoon rush hour on December 17 police spotted a car they'd been told to look out for—a silver S-Series Mercedes—on Queens Drive, Allerton, and followed it. The driver, Matthew Mayor, sensed them and picked up speed. When he hit a slow-moving jam he weaved in and out of vehicles, ignoring lights, mounting pavements and crossing the central reservation. As he drove, he was throwing bags out of his window. They hit the road and burst, spraying clouds of white powder.

When Mayor was eventually hemmed in by police cars, he'd ditched two kilos

of heroin with a street value of 020,000, but one of the bags had failed to burst.

With Mayor arrested apparently randomly by traffic police, Paul Whitney still wasn't fully aware of what was going on. A raid on his home a few days later revealed 17 mobile phones containing a trove of evidence to incriminate him as gang leader, along with bin liners full of drugs. By January 24, 2011, after a series of raids, he and the remainder of the gang had been arrested and charged.

In November, faced with hours of

film, phone and banking evidence, 13 members of the Whitney gang were sentenced to a total of 82 years in prison.

Paul Whitney got nine years, four months.

His mother Carol got eight years, and

even Emma McKenzie got two years, nine months.

After 18 months of tireless police work, the reign of a shameless, dangerous criminal family—who'd dominated the Liverpool drugs scene for at least five years and may have been involved in numerous acts of violence—had finally come to an end. Merseyside firearm incidents reduced by 33 per cent between 2005 and 2010 and the police are now trying to recover at least £1.4m in criminal assets.

And Anthony? He was finally extradited from Spain and jailed for seven years on December 12, 2011. He couldn't wriggle out of trouble this time—he'd left his bloody signature on the broken window of the City Road crack factory. ■ WILDERNESS

NATURAL WONDERS The news that an Australian spider,

prethopalpus attenboroughi, has been named after BBC broadcasting legend David Attenborough is nothing new—naturalists have been immortalised in the natural world for centuries. But the intrusion of celebrity into this field is often rather random.

A blind cave beetle found only in Slovenia, for instance, was given the title

anophthalmus hitleri in

Hefner. But it's harder to explain the Bob Marley crustacean (christened

1933, mainly because the collector was an admirer of the future dictator. Since then, there's been the more appropriate sylvilagus

out of "admiration for Marley's music") or the Beyonce insect

palustris hefneri

(scaptia beyonceae).

(pictured above), a marsh bunny that tips the hat to

And quite what President Barack Obama felt about having his name appropriated by a rare species of lichen

Playboy founder Hugh

gnathia marleyi

(caloplaca obamae) hasn't yet been recorded.

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Thanks to the "Downton Abbey effect", hundreds of magnificent country houses dotted all over the country have never been more popular.

From Kent to Selkirk, we choose a few of the most spectacular

BOWHILL HOUSE, SELKIRK

• STRAWBERRY HILL HOUSE, TWICKENHAM "It is charming," wrote Horace Walpole to a friend, "to totter into vogue." In 1847, Walpole— art historian, novelist, legendary gossip—bought a Thameside cottage in Twickenham (which at the time was two hours from London). "A little play-thinghouse...the prettiest bauble you ever saw," he said. Some bauble.

He started rebuilding it to house his art collection—a project that would take 50 years.

Bucking the trend for neoclassicism, his inspiration was Gothic cathedrals—vaulting, stained glass and quatrefoil windows, to which he added battlements, pinnacles and a round tower. His seminal creation set a trend for "Strawberry Hill Gothik". The house (as you can see from the picture on the previous spread) is a jaw-dropping flight of fantasy by the man who coined the term "serendipity".

See strawberryhillhouse. org.uk for more details

The home of the Duke of Buccleuch and Queensberry, "Sweet Bowhill" was celebrated

by Sir Walter Scott in his poem "The Lay of the Last Minstrel" (the original manuscript is displayed in the study). Indeed, he was a frequent visitor, popping over for a cuppa from his own nearby house in Abbotsford.

Once a modest 18th-century building used occasionally as a summer house, Bowhill was extended and transformed in the 19th century into a villa with a galleried hall (pictured below). The land, including the Ettrick Forest, was originally granted by Robert the Bruce. A large part of the family's art collection is here—Canaletto, Reynolds and Gainsborough—as well as all kinds of precious silverware, china, tapestries and French furniture.

House and estate is open in spring and summer, and by arrangement at other times. See bowhill.org

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The lake where Mr Darcy (Colin Firth) took that dip!

It was from this very lake at Lyme Park that Mr Darcy (played by a fresh-faced Colin Firth) emerged in the BBC's adaptation of Pride and Prejudice. (The "wet-shirt scene" so enthralled one viewer, a Mrs Leffman, that she bequeathed £100,000 to the National Trust immediately on the strength of it.)

The largest house in Cheshire, at the edge 0 of the Peak District, Lyme Park is set in 0 well over 1,000 acres of deer park, and z z was home to the Legh family for nearly U 600 years. co Originally late Elizabethan, the house

was altered, improved, neglected and refurbished over generations, and finally arrived at its present form. Visitors get to see what historian Nikolaus Pevsner called "the craziest Elizabethan frontispiece"— beyond is an Italian Renaissance courtyard. In the entrance hall is a portrait of the Black Prince, who first granted the estate to Legh. Many visitors, though, head straight for the lake at the back.

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Magical mystery: Knole featured in the music video for The Beatles' "Strawberry Fields Forever"

KNOLE, KENT

What's known as a calendar house, Knole has 365 rooms, 52 staircases, 12 entrances and seven courtyards.

Originally an Episcopal (or bishop's) palace, it was grabbed by the crown during the reformation and given by Elizabeth Ito her cousin Thomas Sackville, 1st Earl of Dorset, who turned it into a Renaissance mansion.

0 Later earls and dukes filled it with precious furniture, textiles and paintings.

Famously, it was the 0 childhood home of writer, gardener and bohemian Vita Sackville-West. Virginia Woolf, Vita's lover, set her novel Orlando at Knole. For Vita, the house had "a deep 0 9 inward gaiety of some very tli' old woman who has always I been beautiful, who has 1 had many lovers, and who U has seen many generations W come and go".

0 Knole is set in over 1 .(( 1,000 acres of park where g deer roam free. Owned by I tu, the National Trust, some of the rooms are open to o the public, but over half of Fi the house is still inhabited 1 by the Sackville-Wests.

Check before visiting, as PE a the gardens may be shut 6 for restoration this year.

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The seat of the Carnarvon family since 1697, Highclere is better known to TV viewers by a different name: Downton Abbey. It was here that the wildly successful TV series was filmed—in fact, it inspired the original idea because the earl and his wife are friends of creator Julian Fellowes.

The original house was remodelled by the 3rd Earl and architect Sir Charles Barry, and, as any Downtown viewer can tell you, interiors are rich, ornate and sumptuous.

The 4th Earl was a member of Disraeli's cabinet, and "Dizzy" was a frequent visitor (his first words on seeing the house were, "How scenical! How scenical!"). The 5th Earl of Carnarvon funded Howard Carter's discovery of the tomb of Tutankhamun, while the 8th Earl and his wife still occupy the house, and deal graciously with coachloads of tourists and Downton fans.

See highclerecastle.co.uk for more details ■ OCTOBER 2012 READERSDIGEST.CO.UK IPS

CARDIFF CASTLE John Patrick CrichtonStuart, 3rd Marquis of Bute, was a keen medievalist and obscenely rich—the Butes had helped to turn Cardiff into the "coal metropolis of the world". In 1865, the 3rd Marquis started to transform its crumbling castle, unleashing architect and artist William Burges upon it.

Eccentric and childlike, Burges smoked opium, wore fancy dress, and was in thrall to the idea of a Utopian medieval land. The result was Burges's most important work, and a creation of eye-popping lavishness—sumptuously decorated interiors with gildings, carvings and allegorical murals. In Lord Bute's bedroom (pictured above) biblical scenes explore the life of John the Baptist under a mirrored ceiling. At the top of the tower, in the smoking room, there's a vaulted ceiling and a zodiac-tiled floor. Spectacular.

See cardiffcastle.com for more details

BEAULIEU PALACE HOUSE, HAMPSHIRE

Home to the Montagu family since forever, Edward John Barrington Douglas-ScottMontagu, 3rd Baron Montagu of Beaulieu (to give him his full title), inherited the property in 1951, aged 25. It was quite a CS READERSDIGEST.CO.UK OCTOBER 2012

bequest—Palace House was first built

by Cistercian monks in the 13th century (it was the Abbey's gatehouse), but was remodelled in the Gothic-revival style, keeping some of the original features.

The atmospheric ruins of the monastery cloisters, destroyed under orders from Henry VIII, can also be seen.

To raise money to run the place, the 3rd Baron opened the National Motor Museum in 1952 (car buffs swarm here for the James Bond car collection), and in 1956 he started the first country-house jazz festival in the considerable grounds.

See beaulieu.co.uk for more details

Do you know a beautiful palace or castle to rival the ones mentioned here?

Then we'd love to hear from you! Send us an email—with a picture if possible —to theeditor* readersdigest.co.uk.

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"It is indeed a palace for a prince, a most magnificent building," said writer Daniel Defoe in the 1720s. And he wasn't exaggerating. Originally built by the formidable Bess of Hardwick, who had the job of guarding Mary, Queen of Scots here (the Queen of Scots' Apartments still exist), Chatsworth was rebuilt by Bess's son, the Duke of Devonshire: later, "Capability" Brown landscaped the enormous grounds, and later still a huge greenhouse was added by Joseph Paxton.

One of Chatsworth's most notorious residents was Lady Georgiana Spencer, Duchess of Devonshire, an 18th-century socialite, fashionista and gambler, played by Keira Knightley in The Duchess (above). An ancestor of Diana, Princess of Wales, Georgiana's ravishing portrait by Gainsborough hangs in the Long Gallery (it was famously stolen and chopped in half), along with many other stunning works of art, including Reynolds' sketches of Georgiana. Room upon room is overstuffed with treasures. This remarkable house is still inhabited by the current Duke and Duchess of Devonshire, and the family's interest in modern art is evident all around.

See chatsworth.org for more details •

Taken from The Most Amazing Stately Homes in Britain: Great Country Houses and Grand Estates in England, Scotland and Wales (Reader's Digest, £19.99), available at readersdigest. co.uk/shop

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THE MAVERICK "WE NEED TO SHOW LESS EMOTION, NOT MORE" From The X Factor to Match of the Day, L today's programmes are damaging our national character, argues Ray Connolly Someone burst Into tears on TV the other night. I forget who. She'd probably just sung a song in tune and been over-enthusiastically applauded. Or maybe it was an inventor who got a light rubbishing from the panel on Dragon's Den.

We all have a little cry now and then. Andy Murray's tears were understandable at Wimbledon, as were those of some of our gold-medal winners at the Olympics.

Murray felt he'd let himself and the entire nation down —heavy-duty disappointment by anyone's standards— while the successful athletes had just realised oncedistant dreams after years of training. But all those reality-show contestants who, like lachrymose Pavlov's dogs, obligingly cry on cue just before the credits roll...?

I just don't believe them or their emotions.

What I find disturbing is that such exaggerated behaviour on TV has now been so absorbed by viewers that it's considered to be normal. It isn't. As Woody Allen once put it, "Life doesn't imitate art. It imitates bad television."

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• now see sixth-form girls throw their arms around each other, weeping joyfully when they get their A-level results.

"What's all the fuss about?" we ask ourselves. "I didn't go into meltdown when I got my exam results—not in public anyway, and never from happiness."

But girls have learned to cry like this because shining, wet eyes are what gets shown in soaps or Big Brother at moments of happy relief.

The insincerity has somehow spread to sport, too. When Geoff Hurst scored his tumultuous WorldCup-winning goal for England in 1966, he didn't get much more than brief, hearty arms round the shoulder from his teammates; certainly no kissing and cuddling. Now little boys go into paroxysms of embracing delight whenever one scores a goal during a Sunday morning kick-about, because they see Premier League football players and even cricketers doing similar on TV week in and week out.

Then there's grieving. When a rock or film star dies, are all those pious pilgrimages by fans carrying roses wrapped in Cellophane really displays of grief? Or do some "mourners" just turn up at the "shrine" because there are television cameras there and the laying of flowers at a scene of tragedy is what happens on the news? Are they

secretly thinking, If I'm lucky and get there at the right time, I might be seen doing a bit of grieving on TV? None of this behaviour is anything more than distasteful, perhaps, but children learning how to behave from TV may have malign effects.

When Sir Alan Sugar does his guming bogeyman act on The Apprentice or Gordon Ramsay swears at his television kitchen staff; you and I know that both men are largely pantomime acts. But many primary-school pupils don't. While teachers and parents try to prevent some children being picked on by others, these cheaply made programmes are putting out the message that it's OK if adults bully each other. Indeed, teachers' unions have criticised such faux TV hard men for legitimising and encouraging playground name-calling and swearing.

Being young has never been easy.

But nurtured by online videos and all things visual, and now armed with camera phones, would it be any surprise if some young people feel they're inhabiting their own TV programme? That their life is what's on the screen? On YouTube, we already find elaborately rehearsed and stage-managed weddings and marriage proposals, as well as other, usually private, performances.

British understatement took generations to develop.

Tat television is changing our behaviour within a few years

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I suppose you could argue that the from a few years ago that went, "You much-admired British stiff upper lip are what you eat." But we're now in was often as contrived as any of danger of becoming what we the staged emotional conflagrawatch: a nation of weeping, bullying, overemotional, tions on Made in Chelsea or The Only Way Is Essex. But insincere phonies. ■ British understatement and facebook.com/readers stoicism were characteris» Ray Connolly is a novelist, digestuk tics that served us well in journalist and screenwriter readersletters times of national crisis and —he's currently writing the readersdigest. took generations to develop. co.uk screenplay for a film about Tat television is changing our Dusty Springfield. His latest novella behaviour within a few years.

Sorry Boys, You Failed the Audition is out There was a fashionable phrase now as a Kindle eBook.

F OUR TIME Whether it's bizarre records, strange inventions or eccentric activities, you sometimes get the impression that there's a lot of energy being expended in this world to no great effect.

A record to be proud of? According to the Guinness World Records, the most spoons balanced on a face is 17, achieved by ten-year-old Canadian Aaron Caissie on April 18, 2009—which must have casued quite a stir at the time.

A tragic love story, with no obvious implications The Ig Nobel Prizes are awarded annually for weird scientific breakthroughs, and last year's Biology Prize was snared by two scientists who discovered, after painstaking research, that a species of beetle (a male jewel) often tries to mate with a type of beer bottle—a shortBIC For Her It's what necked "stubby"—mistaking it all the ladies have been for an attractive female. Maybe waiting for—a ballpoint they've drunk the beer first. pen "designed to fit A Void by Georges Perec comfortably in a woman's A 300-page French novel hand". Amazon reviewers written entirely without using have responded with heavy the letter "e". It was translated sarcasm ("I did dreadfully into English by Gilbert Adair at my exams, and I now in 1995, also without using an know why—I'd purchased "e". But is it any good? a wrongly gendered pen").

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HOW TO... BY LINDA GRAY

1,001 THINGS EVERYONE SHOULD KNC Welcome to the pages that help make life simpler, easier and—we hope—more fun!

How to BACK A WINNER WHAT WOULD YOU GIVE TO WIN £1.4m?

If you happen to be Steve Whiteley, the answer is precisely £2—his stake at an Exeter jackpot race last year. It's enough to tempt anyone to have a flutter, though at odds of almost 900,000-1, the winner is usually Paddy Power. But it is possible to improve the chance of making a profit, or at least of losing less.

The surest way is to back the favourite. True, it doesn't guarantee a win, but research shows you'll lose only 5.5% compared with 61% if you bet on longshots. Another strategy, recommended by racing journalist Brough Scott, is to follow a successful trainer or jockey, as either can make or break a race.

If you fancy yourself as a tipster (be warned—even experts lose 70% of the time), look at the racecard under "form" for recent race results. The latest are on the 102 READERSDIGEST.CO.UK

right, which is where you don't want to see high numbers, 0 (also-ran) or the bad-attitude letters P (pulled-up) and R (refused). You'll also need to know how a horse performs over the distance and if it likes the condition of the course.

Now head for the parade ring and if your choice is nervy, upset and covered in sweat, think again. Even better, watch the horses canter to the start. "You can see how they move when ridden and still have time to place a bet," says Scott.

Do that with a bookie, who pays a fixed amount, or the Tote, where winnings vary with the take. The first figure of the odds indicates the amount you could win, so 3/1 pays out £6 for a minimum £2 bet—except if it's odds-on, when the ratio is reversed. That means the bookies are certain the favourite will romp home and any winnings will be derisory.

Bet to a win, for a place, or each way, 2 which covers both—or if you're feeling lucky, try the jackpot and pick six winners z in a row. Stick to £2 bets and even if your horse doesn't win, you should lose less cct) than a "pony" (£25).

How to WI-FI CONS• LOOK—FREE WI-Fl! Often, we're so glad to find a hotspot, we don't think about security. But most public wi-fi has none.

"85% of people we surveyed were happy to log on even when a message warned that the network was dangerous," says James Temperton of Computeractive magazine. "Yet if there are no safeguards, hackers can steal your identity."

So how to stop your free wi-fi session costing far more than a cuppa? At the very least, make sure the hotspot is password-protected, and upgrade your password by opting for a single-use code, two-step verification or sign-in seal, depending on your provider.

If you must check your bank balance, create a Virtual Private Network to hide behind. The software is built into Windows and some smartphones, or download it free—try btinternet.com's service, if you're a subscriber, or the ad-supported Hotspot Shield. Safest of all, connect via the mobile-phone network using a smart-phone or mobile broadband. It may cost (around £1 a day for a pay-as-you-go dongle), but ► for peace of mind, it's beyond price.

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How to RESCUE A RARE APPLE

Laxton's Fortune

OCTOBER 21 is APPLE DAY, when orchards all over the country give you the chance to sample some of the 700 varieties you won't find in Tesco. Many are heritage apples, struggling to survive— so all the more reason to grow your own. You'll need two trees because apples aren't selfpollinating, but they needn't take up much space. Many heritage trees can be tamed to reach no more than shoulder height, says Jim Arbury, the Royal Horticultural Society's fruit specialist. Look for a

spur-bearing variety (producing fruit at the sides) on dwarf root stock and plant them in 45-50cm wide pots or train them along a fence. For eating, Arbury recommends Laxton's Fortune ("the best autumn dessert apple"), aniseedy Ellison's Orange, Brownlees Russet ("deep pink blossom and a hint of fennel"), and the strawberry-flavoured Devonshire Quarranden. For cookers, try Keswick Codlin or Lane's Prince Albert. Plant them this November and your work will bear fruit in two years' time.

How to PAY LESS TAX YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE JIMMY CARR to want to hang onto your hard-earned cash, but you do have to be vigilant.

According to the finance website unbiased.com, we'll overpay by £12.6bn this year—an average of £421 each, or enough for a holiday by the Med. As that's one offshore • scheme we can all approve of, see if these tax-saving wheezes will help you towards a bargain break.

• The Olympic bonus. "If your employer requires you to work from home using your own desk and phone, you should be able to set these expenses against tax. Ideally, this should be written into your contract," says Barry Kernon of accountants H W Fisher.

• The gift that goes on giving. A piano,_ laptop, or an antique desk...lf you're

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self-employed and you use it for work, you can set its value against tax, even though you didn't pay for it.

• Extra mileage. Stuck with a measly 20p per mile from your employer when you use your car for work? The Inland Revenue reckons a fair amount is 45p a mile for up to 10,000 miles, so claim the difference against tax, advises Kernon.

• Charitable returns.

• Charities only claim back tax at the basic rate when you fill out a gift-aid form. If you're a higher-rate tax payer, you can claim the difference on your tax return.

• Don't Ignore the obvious. ISAs and most pension payments are tax-free, while unclaimed tax credits add up to £7.3bn a year, says unbiased.com.

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How to ADD VALUE TO YOUR HOME

WITH HOUSE PRICES SLIPPING AND COSTS RISING, it's vital to make sure that home improvements pay their way. Many never have, says Phil Spencer, author of Adding Value to Your Home (£12.99), who cites unsuitable fittings, bodged DIY, and turning the garage into a gym as instant turn-offs. But now, even a loft conversion, once seen as a gold-plated investment, is losing its appeal, according to HSBC's latest survey. Though it still adds an unbeatable £16,000 to the value of a house, its value has dropped by 23%, unlike...

■ Conservatories. Adding more than £9,000 to the price of the average property and 14% up on last year, this is the only home improvement that's increased in value.

■ Extensions. With new homes the smallest in western Europe, it's not surprising that this extra space adds over £15,000 to most homes, dipping just 3% in 12 months.

■ Redecorating. Hurrah—here's something everyone can do that ups a home's value by £3,000, much the same as last year.

■ Resurfacing the drive. Kerb appeal counts, which is why this is worth £2,679.

■ Replacement windows. 8% down on last year, but still adds £4,800-plus.

■ New bathrooms. The value's dropped by 11% but the appeal of power showers and tub baths means a revamped bathroom should add almost £3,000.

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How to SAY NO TO REQUESTS "COULD YOU JUST..." At home and work, we're besieged by requests we'd rather decline. But we often feel obliged to mumble "yes" when we might as well say no because our resentment is so obvious, says psychotherapist Gael Lindenfield, author of 101 Morale Boosters (£8.99).

"People think refusing will make the other person feel hurt or angry and it will be the end of their friendship or job. But it doesn't— it does the opposite," she says.

So drop the apologies and follow this script instead.

WHAT YOUR ENERGY SUPPLIER

WON'T TELL YOU

"You're a really good friend/I really value working here." Start on a positive note that shows you appreciate the relationship.

"But I've given it some thought and decided that I can't help." No need to spell out why you won't lend money or work weekends. "Avoid saying anything that invites a reply, like 'I've got a lot on at the moment,' " says Lindenfield.

"I know you'll be disappointed."

Empathy shows that you're aware of the other person's feelings and is vital.

"I hope you understand as our friendship is important to me/I' be able to focus on my job, which will be better for us all." Close with an upbeat ending that stresses the benefits to both of you.

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SOURCES: DEPARTMENT OF ENERGY AND CLIMATE CHANGE, ENERGY OMBUDSMAN, OFFICE OF FAIR TRADING, OFGEM, WHICH?

• I know you'll never leave me. With 400 tariffs, the energy market is so complex that 86% of customers don't understand their bills, and the number of people switching suppliers has fallen to one in six.

Energy watchdog Ofgem wants to make things simpler—I'd rather you didn't know that British Gas has obliged.

• I can't hang on to your money. If your account's in credit and you've provided a meter reading, I have to pay up if you demand a refund. I should reduce your direct debit, too, but don't cancel it if I refuse or you'll lose your direct-debit discount.

• Comparison sites can be dodgy. Many push the deals that pay the most commission or are less than independent, like the heating-oil sites that turned out to be owned by fuel suppliers.

(Psst...there's a list of officially vetted sites on consumerfocus.org.uk.)

• My letter might not be junk mail. I also have to

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send you an annual consumption statement, which states how much energy you've used and how much it cost (useful if you want to switch) and gives a forecast for next year.

• Fact: 40% of customers switch to a higher tariff.

Funny that, as it's meant to save you £250 a year. Four of the big six suppliers are being investigated for giving misleading information so don't be swayed by the hard sell.

Do your homework, then sign up for an online account, at a discount.

• I might give you a discount. The Warm Front grant of £130 towards your electricity bills is being extended to more people this winter.

Schemes differ, but it's worth contacting your supplier if you earn less than £16,000pa or claim benefits.

• Beware the "deadlock" letter. It's the "get lost" note I send if I can't resolve your complaint.

60% of people are unhappy about the way

I deal with them, so if you're one, give me eight weeks and then phone the Energy Ombudsman on 0330 440 1624.

• I could end up paying you. If the power goes off, I have to pay you around £25 each day you're without electricity, even if the weather's to blame, and £30 if there's no gas.

Missing a meter-reading appointment costs me another £20, plus £20 if I don't pay up promptly.

• Economy 7 doesn't start at 7pm—and it may not be an economy. It gives you

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LOST IN THOUGHT When a brain has been damaged by alcohol, the effects are devastating

"Where's my money? You've stolen my money, haven't you?" asks Mr Berridge. I sigh. I haven't stolen his money. "It's in your pockets, isn't it?" he asks again, in a surprisingly convivial tone considering that he's accusing me of stealing £7,500 from him.

This is his entire life savings, which he'd been keeping in the bread bin in his kitchen before he came into hospital. I show him the contents of my pockets: a halfeaten packet of wine gums, a pen lid, a mobile phone and 15 pence in coppers.

"I told you I hadn't stolen it," I say, wearily. He looks at me, blankly.

"What? What you talking about?" he asks, bewildered. "Your money, I was saying how I hadn't stolen it," I reply.

"What about my money? Have you stolen it?" he asks. Just then, Jocasta, from the hospital shop, pokes her head round the office door.

"You want anything from the sweet trolley, Mr Berridge?" she asks, and I seize the opportunity to hide in the nurses' office. I can hear Mr Berridge start to ask Jocasta where his money is.

There's much talked and written about the damage that alcohol in excess

Mr Berridge was found confused, wandering the streets a few months ago

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does, but it's hard to appreciate just quite what a poison it really is. Physically, there's all the damage it does to the liver. But it causes another problem that doesn't get so widely publicised, yet is terribly debilitating.

Mr Berridge suffers from Korsakoff's, which sounds, ironically, like a cheap Russian vodka, but is, in fact, a syndrome of irreversible brain damage caused by excessive alcohol. It's characterised by short-term memory loss and confabulation, where the sufferer fills in the gaps in their memory with fictional explanations.

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that his social worker opened a bank account for him and that his money is safe.

Because he can't remember, his mind gets creative and imagines the money's been stolen. And no matter how many times you explain, within a few minutes he's forgotten again.

Anyone needing a reminder of the evils of drink should spend a day on the ward having to explain, repeatedly, to Mr Berridge what's happened to his money. With someone like Mr Berridge, whose short-term memory is only two or three minutes, it's non-stop work, all day, every day. I have the greatest admiration for the nursing staff. I don't know how they do it. I can only last a few minutes—it's enough to drive you to drink, but I opt for a wine gum instead.

t., PAINKILLERS WHAT DO THEY DO? Often called "analgesics", painkillers are a diverse group of medications that interfere with the experience of pain.

HOW DO THEY WORK? Non-Steroidal AntiInflammatory Drugs (NSAIDs) disrupt chemicals, known as prostaglandins, that are released when the body is in pain or inflamed. Morphinebased drugs work by blocking the receptors on the nerve endings that transmit the sensation of pain.

WHO TAKES THEM? Anyone in pain. For symptoms caused by inflammation (such as headaches or back pain), paracetamol or NSAIDs, which include aspirin and ibuprofen, are best. For chronic pain, or pain originating from damage to the nerves (such as sciatica or shingles), low doses of tablets that are also used to treat epilepsy and depression are the most effective. These include amitriptyline.

HOW DO YOU TAKE THEM? Most are taken as tablets. It's important never to take more than the amount prescribed or—for painkillers bought over the counter—the maximum amount stated on the box.

Some, such as fentanyl, are given as a patch. Others, such as morphine, can be injected.

SIDE EFFECTS? Mild painkillers have few side .\ effects, although an overdose of paracetamol can cause serious liver damage.

NSAIDs can irritate the lining of the stomach and lead to AO ulcers. Opiatebased painkillers can cause constipation, drowsiness and confusion in high doses.

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At first, it was uncomfortable, but the joy of realising that my wife was waking up refreshed from a proper night's sleep more than compensated.

There are an estimated 15 million snorers in the UK. I'm still one of them, but at least I've found an easy way to deal with it."

Listen to SUSANNAH'S PODCAST on ten surprising facts (good and bad!) about alcohol at readersdigest. co.uk/magazine

SNACK TIME? You have an 11 o'clock meeting, but you're tired and your mind is mush. According to nutrition experts, it's normal for younger adults to have a mid-morning slump, and for older people to feel sleepy in the afternoon. What to do? You can boost cognitive function at different times of the day by eating carbs. Your best—and healthiest—bet is rye bread or a crispbread with low-fat ricotta cheese and some crunchy veg like red pepper and carrots. It'll stop that embarrassing tummy rumble, too!

WOMAN'S WORLD What's the best way to avoid hot flushes during the menopause?

Be Japanese!

According to a survey of almost 2,000 women by Westminster University, half of British women suffered, while only one in eight women from Japan were affected.

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wasn't good news for the Brits—we had the worst "Change" overall, as the researchers discovered when they compared our results with women from other countries.

A crumb of comfort?

The Chinese beat us on irritability!

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kills more men? Breast or testicular?

Surprisingly, tumours of the breast killed 77 men in the UK in 2010, and testicular cancer killed 75.

Breast lumps are easier to find for men—just rub your hands over your chest in the shower. >> More on men and their bodies from the Men's Health Forum at malehealth.co.uk ►

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HEALTH who don't get enough sleep take in more calories because they're awake longer and have more opportunities to eat. Research from Columbia University in the US has shown that when people are sleepdeprived, they eat almost 300 calories a day more than when they are well rested.

COCTOR, DOCTOR I K OF SLEEP MAKING ME GAIN WEIGHT? Evidence suggests that up to 60% of us have problems sleeping and only a lucky minority manage the recommended seven hours a night. We all know that lack of sleep leads to poor concentration, mood change and depression, but recent studies suggest that the waistline as well as the brain might be adversely affected.

Researchers in Sweden, Germany and the US have found a consistent association between poor sleep patterns and weight gain. In one study, those who slept just five hours a night were 50% more likely to be obese than those who slept for eight.

There are several possible explanations for this. Sleepdeprived people may be too tired to exercise. Studies show that even after just one night of disrupted sleep, participants tended to move around less and so burned fewer calories. It might also be that people

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Sleep deprivation alters the balance of two hormones involved in appetite regulation. Ghrelin is an appetite stimulant that promotes hunger (and eating); leptin promotes a feeling of fullness. Think of ghrelin as the appetite's driver and leptin the brake. Sleep deprivation is consistently associated with an increase in ghrelin and a decrease in leptin. In one study, people who routinely slept five hours a night had a 14.9% higher level of ghrelin and a 15.5% lower level of leptin than those who slept eight hours. So not getting enough sleep can lead to an increase in appetite and a reduction in levels of physical activity—the perfect recipe for weight gain.

But would sleeping longer lead to weight loss? We don't know yet, though studies are underway. Still, asking people to have an extra hour in bed is likely to be more popular than telling them to eat less and exercise more!

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PEARLY WHITES An easy way to look younger? Make sure your teeth are straight and bright There are many routes to boosting your looks—make-up, a new haircut, wonderworking face cream, Vaseline on the lenses of the glasses of your beloved—but here's one you may not have considered: getting your teeth fixed. In a word, orthodontics.

Wearing braces has become almost de rigueur for teenagers, and now it seems that their grandparents are catching up.

"It's certainly surprised me," says leading London orthodontist Neil Counihan (of metamorphosisorthodontics.com), "but I'm seeing a surge in demand from the older market. It's divorcees and widows going back out into the world, looking for a way to improve themselves that doesn't involve Botox and fillers. It's grandpa bringing a teenager in, talking to the manager and realising he could tget his teeth straightened, too. It's really very inspiring. They say, 'I didn't know I could have it done'.

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They've got Lingual another 30 braces have years on this become popular planet, they as an alternative want to do to fixed ones something for themselves and they want to face the world with a smile that looks good."

Fixed braces give the fastest results, and Dr Counihan says that lingual braces, which are fitted inside the teeth so they don't show, are popular. Braces aren't cheap (from £2,500) but, as he points out, the results are life-changing, and will last longer than a holiday.

If you don't fancy going as far as braces, you could Straight up: just work on the more older people are colour of your now wearing teeth (they braces become yellower with age, so whiter looks younger).

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whitening treatments are expensive; a more manageable method is to ask your dentist to mould a bleaching tray for your teeth and give you a whitening gel, which you can use as and when you need.

Then, keep surface stains at bay with thorough brushing, preferably with an electric toothbrush. "It's the difference between hand-washing and a washing-machine," says Dr Uchenna Okoye, a top cosmetic dentist, who's an ambassador for Oral B brushes. Their brushes are great, so I haven't dared tell her I've had my head turned by the Philips Sonicare DiamondClean brush, which at £250 has to be the Ferrari of the brush world. It's immensely effective—a month of diligent use removed the grungy tea-and-coffee stains that had built up in hard-to-reach crannies, and which I usually leave for the hygienist. Something to smile about, indeed.

Alice Hart-Davis is an awardwinning beauty journalist who writes regularly for the national press, and is creator of Good Things skincare.

Next month, the charity Look Good...

Feel Better will be holding "Theatre of Beauty" evenings at Harvey Nichols branches around the country.

There'll be mini-makeovers, drinks, canapes, tombolas and goody bags, and, along with other beauty editors, I'll be helping out. (LGFB is the beauty industry's charity—it helps women with cancer to manage the visible side effects of their treatment. To find out more, see Igfb.co.uk.) I'll be in London on November 6 and Birmingham on November 14. For tickets, go to harveynichols.com. It costs £15; an extra £10 gets you a 20-minute private chat with a beauty ed like me. All proceeds go to the charity.

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Supping with a corpse wasn't on my agenda, but what could I do?

I had a near-death experience the other day while having a nice glass of wine outside one of London's finest establishments.

As my glass of Chardonnay rose to my lips in the perfect sunshine, four men with a coffin emerged from the building beside me to greet a hearse that had just pulled up.

The undertaker's had a very understated presence next to the wine bar, and I hadn't noticed it—until, of course, the bodies started exiting in the traditional fashion. The drinks were pricey, and I wondered— as I was paying an additional tariff for the ambience and the atmosphere— if I could get a small reduction for the unexpected intrusion of a coffin into my sunny afternoon drink.

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I checked my case law and it seems that, as the unfortunate intrusion occurred on the street, no compensation would have been due. But if the coffin had been brought through the same bar, I'd have been well within my rights to refuse to pay for my drinks.

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I bought a property in a Spanish development and put down a £30,000 deposit on it before the company went bust. The first portion of £3,500 I paid by debit card and the rest by bank transfer.

Is there any way of getting my money back through bankprotection schemes?

Many thousands have been caught out in the Spanish property crash, and unfortunately you are another.

There's no automatic right to relief under any bank scheme, but under the Visa-debit scheme, banks will refund you when you spend between £100 and £30,000 on your debit card.

(This scheme is voluntary, not set in law.) Anything you paid by credit card would entail an near-automatic refund, but you have to claim within 120 days of the company going bankrupt or lose any entitlement.

So, even when it comes to big purchases such as cars and deposits on holiday homes, try and place the full amount on a credit card.

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THE COMPLAIN GAME Even my wife will accept that she's a better complainer than me, even though it's an essential part of my career. But it was my mother-in-law who secured the most lucrative complaint outcome—albeit at some personal cost.

We were on our honeymoon in Malaysia at a beach villa, and paradise couldn't have looked prettier. It could, however, have been wired better, as my motherin-law discovered—when she came in from the beach and washed her feet, some live wires near the water spout gave her an electric shock. A complaint was clearly in order.

The manager asked me what he could do to make up for the accident. I told him that a resort of his quality defined itself on how it responded to such incidents, and I would be led by his initiative. As a result, the entire resort was opened up for us, and the food and board for the honeymoon came free.

My mother-in-law is not the suing type, and maybe she could have got more in the courts, but there's some sense in letting the firm make an offer before you make a request in these situations.

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A NICE NEST EGG? If you want to build up your pension, you could try investing in a NEST There seem to be new pension products coming onto the market every month right now. The latest one hitting the headlines is a low-cost, government-backed scheme called NEST. I'm pleased to hear about NEST because it's plugging a gap, particularly for women, as it takes into account the fact that women regularly have to take time out to bring up children or care for relatives.

"I'm thinking of starting a NEST"

What is NEST? NEST is a national "defined contribution" workplace pension scheme available to all employed or self-employed people. It's been created because the Government is changing the law on workplace pensions and, from October, employers will start to automatically enrol their workers into a pension scheme and make a contribution.

NEST is one of the schemes they can use.

Like the stakeholder pensions that the last government brought in, it's designed around the needs of people who are largely new to pension saving, with clear communications and low charges (it's the low charges bit that I particularly like).

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Also it's run on a not-for-profit basis.

Another really helpful aspect of NEST is that if you have one of these pensions, you keep the same pot for life, so if you move jobs and your next employer also uses NEST you just pick up where you left off.

Contributions into a NEST pension can come from:

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One downside I see is that currently NEST has an annual contribution limit, which means the most you can put into your pot in a single year is £4,400 (or at

least it is for the 2012/13 tax year).

It will go up in line with inflation, but that's still not a lot.

Charges There are a few different charges for NEST, but they're equivalent to a 0.5% annual management charge (AMC).

As the health of any investment is materially affected by the size of the annual fees, I'm pleased that these have been kept low.

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Post-birth doulas do the sort of things your mum would do. They'll make food for the family, keep the home going and help the new parents get through any issues that may have arisen during the birth. They can also provide guidance on breastfeeding and bonding.

Doulas take all the strain off the new mother so that she can rest and recuperate.

What do you get paid? Birth doulas charge between £250

A "DOULA" Are you a mum? Do you think you've been out of the workforce so long that you've no saleable skills? Think again.

By becoming a "doula" you can earn money supporting new mums before, during or after pregnancy. As a doula you take your own experiences of motherhood and use them to support a family through the birth of their child.

A doula is a woman who's had at least one baby herself, who helps new—and not-sonew—mothers. She can be any age from early twenties to sixties and seventies, but she must be physically fit, kind, supportive and wise. Above all, she must be motherly.

What does a doula do? There are two types: birth doulas and post-birth doulas. Some do both and others specialise.

Birth doulas are like an experienced friend or surrogate mum in the birthing room. A doula goes with the mum to the hospital and stays with her until she's had her baby. She's there to look after her, to make sure she's comfortable and to

to £500. Post-birth work is generally paid by the hour and tends to be £12-£15 per hour.

How do you become a doula?

Contact British Doulas (britishdoulas.co.uk) on 020 7824 8209 to find out about courses that are accredited by City & Guilds and for advice on getting work afterwards. ►

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Avoid cash-for-gold companies If you do decide to sell, don't go for a "cash-forgold" company. With the online companies, you request a free prepaid envelope, which is used to send your gold back to them. You're then contacted with a valuation for your gold that you either accept or reject.

Some companies send you a cheque immediately, which you must return within a certain time (if you don't want it), otherwise the sale is complete.

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and has closed some down, I don't believe they give you anything like a fair price for your gold.

Sell to your local jeweller A far safer option than selling online is to take your gold to a high-street jeweller. They'll give you a no-obligation quote, which you can compare with other merchants' (and I suggest you try at least three before you sell). Their quote is likely to be much better than you'll get online, too.

London's Hatton Garden and the Jewellery Quarter in Birmingham are well-known locations for gold selling, with a high concentration of dealers in a small area.

You are likely to get the best price there.

Pawn it? Of course, if you just need some cash now, but you don't really want to sell your assets, you could potentially pawn them. This is only a very short-term option, though, as average annual interest rates tend to be over 80%. The website borro.com says the average loan they have processed against gold items in 2012 has been around £7,000.

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This is my kind of supper—the slap-it-in-the-oven school of cookery, where a dose of high heat performs the magic, caramelising edges and intensifying flavours. You, naturally, take the credit.

It's one of those endlessly adaptable dishes, too. If you're extra hungry, add another tin of chickpeas; if you're feeling creative, add some extra veg or spices. I like it best made with chicken thighs, which stay beautifully juicy, but chicken breasts work fine, too.

Food writer Xanthe Clay started the Readers' Recipe column in The Daily Telegraph. Her new book The Contented Chef is out now.

CHICKEN, CHORIZO AND CHICKPEAS WITH LEMON ZEST AND CUMIN (Serves 2) 2 chicken breasts, or 4 boneless thighs, skin on 60g thinly sliced chorizo 400g tin of chickpeas, drained 300g cherry tomatoes Fat clove of garlic, crushed ltsp cumin seed Grated zest of half a lemon 1. Heat the oven to 230C/446F/Gas Mark 8. Slice each chicken piece in half lengthways through the skin.

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3. Lay the chicken pieces on top, skin up. Put the roasting tin into the oven near the top. Bake for ten minutes, by which time the chorizo and chicken will have given up some fat.

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5. Lift the chicken out and keep to one side. Add 2-3 tablespoonfuls of hot water to the roasting tin. Stir up well. Taste and check the seasoning and spoon onto plates.

Top with the chicken. Eat with a handful of watercress or some steamed beans. ■

Good things to add at the same time as the chickpeas: a fat pinch of smoked paprika; half a chopped red chilli; a red pepper chopped into 2cm pieces; a small aubergine, cut roughly into 2cm cubes; a handful of black olives, pitted.

Good things to add at the end: a few sprigs of flat-leaf parsley, chopped; ltbsp capers in vinegar, drained.

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FULLY MATURED Want your tomatoes to go from green to red? Here's how

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Q My dad says you should put green tomatoes in a drawer to ripen them, but my mum says they ripen best on a sunny windowsill. Who's right?

They're both right. In a warm drawer, green tomatoes will bathe in their own gases and ripen quickly; this will be lost on a sunny windowsill, but the extra light and warmth will help instead. However, they ripen even better—and keep longer—if left on the vine with the whole plant uprooted and hung upside down in a dry, frost-free place.

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plastic sheet) with one or two choice (slow-growing) specimens planted through it. A cooler, shadier site might be better with a bark mulch over the geotextile. Choose specimen plants that don't shed many leaves, fruits and/or petals to reduce the maintenance further, or restrict all plants to one or two attractive planters filled with carefree subjects such as sedums and sempervivums.

CARE FOR CARROTS Last autumn I had a lovely crop

Li of carrots. I left them in the plot and dug them up as I needed them, but they became all holey and didn't keepvery well. What can I do this year?

If the holes were small tunnels encircling the carrot, it was probably carrot fly, and a new crop of eggs will have been laid by now. But next year they can be excluded by growing carrots (or parsley or parsnips) under fleece or fine netting. Bigger holes would have been slugs and/ or millipedes, which can be trapped.

For longer storage, cover the dying-down tops on a dry day with a thick layer of straw or shredded paper, and a held-down rainproof plastic sheet or similar on top. Remove just enough of this covering when you dig any up, as keeping the bulk cool and dark stores them longer.

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BOB'Sv t.1 JOBS: OCTOBER This month might grass clippings, have some days like as they rot down summer, but others well together. Keep that are wintery. weeding because Enjoy the sunny weeds rush to ones and get any seed if it's mild. overdue garden Collect weedings, tasks done before trimmings and the weather closes dead-headings, in. Keep the grass and turn it all into mown, though set compost while your mower high, the weather's still and collect fallen warm enough for leaves with the it to cook well.

READER'S TIP To add interest to your garden or create the feeling of greater length, position a piece of a statue to be seen through a gap in a hedge. A statue and ornamental pineapple in my garden create an air of mystery and space beyond.

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WILDLIFE WITH MARTIN HUGHES-GAMES

CORE CONTENT Raise a glass to one of our best-loved fruits—the cider apple

idOused to be drunk instead of water—the process of fermentation killed any bugs What do Sheepsnose, Catshead, Foxwhelp and Slap Me Girdle have in common?

They're all types of cider apple (there are 156 varieties in Somerset alone). From monastic records, it seems that cidermaking came over with the Normans. It used to be common to be part-paid in cider for farm work—a quart (two pints) of cider would be a daily winter ration, The sodden summer has been terrific for slugs and snails (as you'll have noticed!). Look closely at a slug and marvel at the strange tentacles (the upper pair with eyes on the end), complex body patterning, and, when the single breathing pore opens, tiny white mites that rush out and tear around the slug's body. As the pore closes, the mites shoot back inside.

It's mesmerising!

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and during haymaking three or four quarts would be provided per man per acre cut. Astute farmers would use a variety of apples both to create a satisfying blend, and to spread the harvest over a number of months to maximise the yield.

As well as mass-produced cider, there are many artisan cidermakers in the UK as passionate about their blends as any French winemaker. October is the peak month for the cider-apple harvest (read more about Apple Day on p104), with ciders to suit any palette. Some varieties are a bit specialist, such as Hewbramble, which apparently "causes a sensation as if a bramble had been thrust down the throat and suddenly snatch'd back agayne".

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actually useful in the garden, breaking down decaying matter. But there are two really destructive ones: the small white "netted slug", and the small black or brownish "garden slug". The wonderful leopard slug has an elaborate courtship involving hanging from a mucous thread and creating fantastic shapes with its sexual organs. The main breeding season is now, so you can see this for yourself —don't get too close!

Antlers grow from the tip and are initially cartilage, which becomes mineralised into bone

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Martin Hughes-Games is a host of BBC2's Springwatch and Autumnwatch

The red-deer rut is an explosion of aggression as stags vie for access to the females. The stag's antlers are shed in winter and must be regrown every year. In his prime, a red-deer stag will produce two huge multi-pointed antlers, as well as developing massive neck muscles. Stags often resolve dominance by bellowing or ritualised "parallel walking", but if equally matched they will lock antlers and embark on a titanic wrestling match.

If the antlers are not locked, one point ("tine") backed by 450 pounds of furious stag can rip open an opponent's flank or bore right through a skull. The ritual reaches its peak this month. IN

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you track your vital stats or sporting goals online, but in Madrid, iPavement slabs can provide free wi-fi, localised information and deals.

A recent pilot by supermarket chain Tesco also saw commuters in South Korea shopping at bus and underground stops by pointing their mobiles at billboards, and Google's driverless car proved safer than the average US motorist after doing 300,000 miles of test drives without a single accident.

Cheeringly, connectivity has also inspired innovative solutions to some of our thorniest issues. A US company has produced a "digital pill" that provides feedback on bodily reactions, and tele-health/tele-care (healthcare administered using electronic devices) is fashioning mind-boggling improvements in remote patient care—and potentially generating an extra £1.2bn in savings.

I'm most excited about anthropomorphised gadget control with our bodies—using our eyes, for instance—but there are heaps of other smart projects already underway. Here are my favourites.

if you're using Ninja Blocks, "computerised • Our homes are getting ninjas" set to work. smarter, and security, • Losing things could computers, entertainment be a thing of the past and energy saving will thanks to the iPurse.com, one day be combined which uses radio frequency in a single system. Right identification (RFI) now, the Government sensors to track contents. is installing smart meters Intriguingly, Nokia's in every home as part patented vibrating of efforts to combat magnetic tattoos can eco-challenges, save provide text and call alerts. £7.1bn and provide real• Twitter pioneer Jack time billing. Amazingly, Dorsey transformed how only one in six Brits know we chat, and now he wants the cost of their utility to change how we spend. bills, but smart meters His mobile-payments communicate directly with startup Square uses a suppliers, which means small white plastic plugan end to estimated bills in that fits into mobiles and ensures you only pay to accept card payments for what you use. if you have the app.

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GOOD IN THE END Here's a smart idea: don't trash your old car—donate it No matter how useful or loved an old car is, eventually there comes a point where it's just not financially sensible to keep it.

But getting rid of an old car is a tedious process, and ringing scrap companies or managing a private sale can be a job Tom Chance in itself. Wouldn't it wants charities be great if someone to benefit from would just take it recycling cars away for you, and maybe do some good at the same time?

Giveacar.co.uk will do just that. Register the car with them and they'll take it away, get a market value for it, tell you how much they got, and you can decide if you want to give all the money to a charity or give half and keep half. You get to choose the charity—users have donated to everything from Oxfam to hedgehog hospitals and donkey sanctuaries—but the not-forprofit company charges a small fee to keep the service going.

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are scrapped, with the rest sold on to new owners.

This beautifully simple idea is the brainchild of 24-year-old Tom Chance from London.

While at university, he had real hassle getting rid of a car in return for just £50, and noticed that charities seemed to be recycling everything but cars.

"The biggest challenge has been working between the scrap industry and the charity sector," explains Tom. "They're very different industries, so it was tough gaining the respect of both! But after two years we're now in a position where people are approaching us."

Tom remembers the first car he collected up—a 1998 Vauxhall Vectra: "It raised £50 for Cancer Research UK. I picked it up myself!" Some two million cars come off the road each year, and there are still many abandoned cars throughout the UK, so there's plenty of room for Giveacar to grow. Tom is looking for people to spread the message in the UK, and has his eye on international expansion.

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Add in a practical shape, good looks and stylish interior, and it makes a case for being the best all-round, everyday car in the world.

ONE TO SPOT Mini Countryman JCW (£22,455) The Countryman small SUV has split Mini julai3 ja...," fans, with some declaring e 4 it's too big and fat to call itself a real Mini. Balderdash!

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SQUARE WHEELS? Cycling supremo Dave Brailsford's tongue-in-cheek comment during the Olympics that our cyclists were successful because their wheels were "specially round" made me think of... the Austin Allegro.

New in 1973, it came with a British Leyland innovation: a "quartic" steering wheel that was distinctly square, to allow more knee room. The result

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MY GREAT ESCAPE Jo and Max Dunstone's trip to the US canyons still inspires them 21 years on My husband Max, daughter Hazel and I took a road trip to Canyonlands back in 1991.

We met my American friend Ardis and her husband John in Illinois.

They were towing a caravan, and we hired a motorhome (campsites and car parks are geared up for these vehicles, so it really is the perfect way to explore). In two weeks we drove about 2,500 miles, and visited Canyonlands National Park, Arches National Park, Monument Valley, Bryce Canyon and the Grand Canyon, exploring the vast rocky landscapes of Utah, Colorado and Arizona.

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Bryce Canyon in Utah was named after Ebenezer Bryce, a Mormon pioneer who lived nearby

effort on foot!

The Grand Canyon is awe-inspiring, but so big it's hard to take in. We found Bryce a little easier to appreciate—it's mind-blowing! We were allowed to walk along the clifftops, then descend 1,000ft and walk among the rock formations on the valley floor. The colours and shapes of the rocks create Jo and Max from Kent in Monument Valley in 1991

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Visiting in October was ideal—the summer months are too hot, but being there in autumn meant we could see the cottonwood and aspen trees in all their fall colours.

We've had holidays with Ardis and John since then, but this is the one that stands out.

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BA's takeover of BMI means some Russia flights will be released to the competition next year—hopefully leading to better prices. Ahead of this, tour operator Dial A Flight is introducing tailor-made and small-group itineraries to Moscow and/or St Petersburg. Six-night luxury tour Discover Russia starts this month, with train links between the two cities. From £1,159pp, incl flights, accommodation and tours (0844 556 6060; dialaflight.com).

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The Daughters of Mars by Thomas Keneally (Sceptre, £18.99) Thomas Keneally is probably still best known for Schindler's Ark—or, as it was called in America, Schindler's List. But his new novel is a masterpiece, too.

Two Australian sisters, carrying a shared guilty secret, volunteer as nurses during the First World War, accompanying the troops to the Dardanelles. What follows is certainly not for the weak-stomached. Yet

along with a Tolstoyan ability to describe the horrors of battle, this amazing book also has an extraordinary intimacy, especially in the relationship between the sisters. (Again, Tolstoy comes to mind.) Another great character is the Quaker pacifist, who, despite his best convictions, is caught up in the lust for glory, and in simple patriotism. The result is an altogether towering achievement.

Live by Night

by Dennis Lehane (Little, Brown, £16.99) Dennis Lehane's speciality is the fast-paced gangster thriller that's also a deeply felt novel. His latest, about a Boston criminal called Joe Coughlin, doesn't disappoint on either count.

A N Wilson is left thrilled, moved—and utterly baffled

Just don't open it at a time when you need to do anything else, such as work or sleep, because I guarantee that all you'll be able to do is keep on turning the pages. The prose crackles with Chandleresque jokes, the narrative never flags and there's even a genuinely heart-stopping love story.

In addition to all that, the book beautifully evokes the entire era of early Thirties Prohibition America, with the essential violence of the economic

CLASSICS CORNER: THE BELL JAR Strange to think that if Sylvia Plath (right)—who now seems to belong to such a long-lost literary era—were still alive, she'd only be turning 80 this month. The Bell Jar, her one novel, is powerfully autobiographical, with the troubled Esther Greenwood struggling against the constraints on young women of the 1950s. But it's often very funny, too. In many ways, in fact, this is the female equivalent of The Catcher in the Rye—a •• I book, it's sometimes forgotten, that also ends in a mental hospital.

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Out of these two moments spirals a whole weird nightmare in which every aspect of American life becomes somehow horrific.

Admittedly, there are plenty of laughs along the way. But with Harry being a historian working on Richard Nixon, you're left with the chilly sense that the whole of American society has been hurtling to hell since Watergate.

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(Viking, £12.99) Here's a puzzling one. I love CoIm Tdibin's work (Brooklyn, The Master), but, having read this twice, I have to say for the first time in my reviewing life that I just don't know what to make of a book!

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memories of the mother of Christ, who's held her son's dead body and is obsessed with human cruelty. Unlike many modern retellings, it describes the miracles as real. But Mary doesn't believe her son brought salvation to the world, and now worships at the local pagan temple. Another disconcerting thing is that while the narrative is in modern English, the Biblical characters speak in King James language. ("Woman, what have Ito do with thee?")

Still, at only a hundred pages or so, the novel is certainly worth a try—and maybe you'll make more sense of it than I did. ■

QUICK QUIZ Can you complete these jokes from Les Dawson— the subject of a biography out in paperback this month. a) There was a knock at the door. I knew it was the wife's mother, because the mice... b) I said to the chemist, "Can I have some sleeping pills for the wife?"

He said, "Why?" I said... c) I used to sell furniture for a living. The trouble was...

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The joys of not being there Who needs to be in the stadium, when the real action is on the sofa? No wonder our sporting memories owe so much to TV

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RD EXCLUSIVE MARTIN KELNER'S TOP SIX COMMENTATORS Bill McLaren The mellifluous Borders tones, informed by an unalloyed love of rugby, made him a pleasure even for non-enthusiasts.

David Coleman Could have been a contender, having won athletics honours in his youth.

Transferred his enthusiasm to the commentary box, and you couldn't but be swept along.

Sld Waddell Almost singlehandedly pitchforked darts from pub game to TV phenomenon.

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On the Monday after the 1966 World Cup final, the front-page headline of Britain's bestselling paper, the Daily Mirror, excitedly announced the birth of the Queen's first cousin once removed: A BOUNCING BABY GIRL FOR PRINCESS ALEX. Around 25 years later, Martin Kelner was MARTIN KELNER presenting a regional radio show— and found himself interrupting an explanation of why Yugoslavia was "the most important issue in the world today", with the words: "I'm afraid I'm going to have to stop you there, Michael, there's been a goal at Worksop."

So why has sport grown so much in national significance over the past few decades? The answer, as Kelner makes clear in this hugely enjoyable book, is television. Botham's Ashes; Gazza's tears; Mo's Olympic double: almost none of us saw them all in the flesh. Yet thanks to TV, they're imprinted in our minds forever.

In fact, according to Kelner, not being there might well be an advantage. In 2003, the Times's Simon Barnes returned from covering England's victory in the Rugby World Cup. "How could I have understood how much it mattered," he wrote, "when I was stranded in Sydney watching Jonny Wilkinson make the winning drop goal? The real event happened in England, on television."

Kelner traces the whole fascinating history of TV sport with a light and often very funny touch. But he's done some impressive swotting, too. Did you know, for instance, that in 1962 the young assistant who kept the Grandstand football scoreboards clean was Ridley Scott, later the director of Gladiator?

Sit Down and Cheer serves up facts, memories and gossip about everything from ITV wrestling to the rise of Sky. ("Don't worry," ITV boss Greg Dyke told his staff when the Premier League began. "They've paid far too much, we'll get the football back. We'll just sit here and watch them go bust.") There's also

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the inside story of TV sport's most celebrated feuds, including John Motson vs Barry Davies—and, here, David Coleman vs the man responsible for the most famous commentary of the lot. (All together: "They think it's all over. It is now.")...

It is 1970, the World Cup is under way in Mexico, and the , BBC is about to get rid of Kenneth Wolstenholme, honorary member of the Boys of '66. 'It wasn't all that long after the 1966 final,' he wrote later, 'that someone at the BBC said to me, "You know those words you said at the end of the World Cup final? Well, box clever, because they may just come true." ' Wolstenholme must have spent the best part of four years waiting for the stab in the back, which may account for the extraordinary outpouring of bitterness and regret in his 1999 memoir, where he examined in minute detail the circumstances of his departure. Nicholas Sellens summed it up more tersely in his book Commentating Greats: 'Every time he looked over his shoulder, there was the young pretender David Coleman, z performing ominous stretching exercises on the touchline.'

In his book Wolstenholme devoted almost as much space to 00 his sacking as to his war exploits, which were pretty dramatic. ►

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...AND THE QUICK QUIZ? rn+uw•orwo,°a The answers—with apologies to all wives and mothers-in-law—were: a) ...were throwing themselves on the traps. b) ..."She keeps waking up." c) ...it was my own.

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Sir Peter O'Sullevan The longtime voice of horseracing has been described as "an urgent drawl", but behind those distinctive uppercrust smoky tones lay one of the sharpest, most thoroughly prepared commentators you'll ever hear.

Brian Moore ITV football's chief commentator through the 70s, 80s and 90s remained balanced and self-effacing as the sport he described got more hysterical.

His operatic swoop when calling a goal was sublime.

David Gower Glorious insouciance.

Commentates as he used to bat— intelligently, elegantly, and with the entirely sensible attitude that it is, after all, just a game.

SORRY! The title of last month's Recommended Read

by Cathy Birchall and Bernard Smith is Touching the World: A Blind Woman, Two Wheels, 25,000 Miles—as on the book cover we printed, not Touching the Void as mistyped in the publication details.

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• Having flown more than 100 sorties over occupied Europe, he was awarded the Distinguished Flying Cross and Bar. When he flew his last mission, he was still just 23, the kind of figure played on screen by square-jawed leading men like Kenneth More. When he was 51, however, and sacked by the BBC, the stiff upper lip failed him.

Wolstenholme had a contract guaranteeing his position as the BBC's No 1 football commentator, but in the atmosphere of uncertainty bordering on paranoia that is possibly piped through the air conditioning at TV Centre, Ken did not sleep easily at night; not with the Head of Sport being Bryan Cowgill, the best man at Coleman's wedding.

'Then, early in 1970, the mafia struck,' he wrote. He was called to a meeting with Cowgill, who told him that the plan was for the young pretender to follow England in Mexico, while Wolstenholme commentated on West Germany's group. 'As the tournament went on I had deep suspicions that I would be told I was not going to do the final,' Wolstenholme added. He found out for sure by getting someone to send a Radio Times out to Mexico. The billing read: 'World Cup Final 1970. Join David Coleman in the Azteca Stadium for football's greatest drama.'

One thing delayed the break-up: England's 3-2 quarter-final defeat by West Germany. 'This was a bitter blow to the BBC,' said Wolstenholme, 'and I can imagine the discussions in Television Centre. David wouldn't be too keen on doing a commentary on two foreign sides.' So Wolstenholme got to call one of the great World Cup performances—Brazil's 4-1 defeat of Italy—and returned to England for what he sensed would be his last season with the BBC. 'The whole plan was a David Coleman takeover,' he concluded. 'I felt angry, I felt humiliated. I felt insulted.

And I think the BBC behaved in a despicable fashion.'

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Flirty dancing... ...if there were enough men around, that is.

Speed-dating the Regency way As Jane Austen's readers—and parodists—have noticed for centuries, dancing features heavily in all her novels. It's at balls that her characters often have their romantic hopes most dramatically dashed or fulfilled. But how many of her modern fans know what these Regency balls were really like? Luckily, A Dance with Jane Austen has all the information you need—including the clothes, the food, the music and, particularly, the complicated rules of etiquette.

All of this is fun enough in itself. But Susannah Fullerton's beautifully illustrated book also blends the facts with events in Austen's novels—and, best of all, with Austen's own life, as recorded in her endlessly funny letters. In her twenties, she takes delight in seeing a Mrs Badcock "run round the room after her drunken Husband". Approaching 40, she accepts her new role as "a sort of chaperone", on the solid grounds that "I am put on the Sofa near the Fire & can drink as much wine as I like."

As with many of the best social histories, the result conjures up a world that feels both completely vanished and oddly familiar.

(Even Fullerton's claim that balls were the Regency equivalent of speed-dating comes to seem fair enough.) Take this passage, where the subject is men—and what would now be called self-esteem issues.

At the Meryton assembly Elizabeth Bennet is 'obliged, by the scarcity of gentlemen, to sit down for two dances'. It is while she's sitting down that Mr Bingley suggests that Mr Darcy dance with her. Unfortunately, Elizabeth hears Darcy's reply: 'She is...not handsome enough to tempt me; and I am in no humour at present to give consequence to young ladies who are slighted by other men.' And so Elizabeth's pride is wounded and her prejudice against Darcy is formed.

Yet Elizabeth's plight was a common one. Many a young lady ►

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• had to sit out dances, waiting near the chaperones and trying to look as if she 111111118Iirnim.tirmo didn't care. Some girls were simply plain and did not attract partners. Mary Russell Mitford [a bestselling writer of the day] was realistic about her chances: 'What, indeed, should I do at a dance with my dumpling of a person tumbling about like a cricket-ball on uneven ground—casting off with the grace of a frisky Yorkshire cow, or going down the middle with the majesty of an overloaded hay-waggon passing down a narrow lane?' This is also a problem for Charlotte Lucas, Mary Bennet and the other less eye-catching females of Austen's fiction.

But the real problem was a shortage of men. During most of Austen's life her country was at war with France. This war ate up young men—the army took about 100,000 of them, the navy another 130,000. Then there was the expansion of the British Empire, which was also starting to lure young men away. Little wonder that when Jane Austen entered a ballroom she should see more dresses than pantaloons; little wonder that even Elizabeth Bennet should sometimes be partnerless...

Austen knew that finding a partner was a matter of luck and sometimes was forced to endure the state of being a wallflower (although that term came into use only in the Victorian era). At a ball she attended in 1800 'there was a scarcity of Men in general, & a still greater scarcity of any that were good for much', she complained. In 1808, at a Southampton ball, she reported to her sister that 'the melancholy part was to see so many dozen young Women standing by without partners.' Sometimes, of course, she chose not to dance, rather than endure an unpleasant partner: 'One of my gayest actions was sitting down two Dances in preference to having Lord Bolton's eldest son for my 31 Partner, who danced too ill to be endured.'

'1.ccordi to one Austen letter: "Lord Bolton's son danced too ill to be end arm'

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Here come the boys—and not, it seems, before time: one of the many terrific contemporary illustrations in the book

A Dance with Jane Austen: How a Novelist and her Characters Went to the Ball

by Susannah Fullerton is published by Frances Lincoln on October 4 at £16.99

The Wasp Factory Books that Changed my Life lain Banks is the author of 26 novels, including The Wasp Factory, which was voted one of the top 100 books of the 20th century in a poll of more than 25,000 readers. He lives in Fife and his latest science-fiction novel The Hydrogen Sonata is out on October 4.

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Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas

by Hunter S Thompson Ah, the mad yet ruthlessly sane fella who gave us gonzo journalism and inspired a thousand careers in the fifth estate. An undiminished masterpiece of Americana; a blistering odyssey of two desperate men against polite (well, Las Vegas) society, and their daring raid on convention aided only by two enormous cars, an unlimited expenses account and a collection of drugs sufficient to waste a bull elephant.

It's a work of demented genius, fit to remind any writer that fun and transgression can be part of the literary mix. It helped stop me being over-serious. Though, of course, don't try any of it at home.

by lain Banks I'm not claiming it's on the same level as the other two mentioned here, but it's the book that changed my life more than any other.

THE I'd wanted WASP FACTORY to be a writer since !AIN n primary HANKS .° school, and spent my teens and early twenties writing novel after novel, attempting to make this happen.

Finally, I learned a few things, such as not overwriting, leaving more to the reader's imagination, and writing a second draft.

By persevering, maybe I lust had the right book at the right time. I was lucky, too, as the manuscript found its way to a man who was a brilliant editor and became a good friend: the late, great James Hale.

Catch-22 by Joseph Heller I read Heller's phenomenal best-seller five times in two years back when I was about 14, and thought it was just the funniest, most scabrously profound novel I'd ever read (and I'd read a few books by then, having been, like most budding writers, a voracious reader from an early age).

Catch-22 helped me think about what I wanted to write and the effects I wanted to produce. It's still brilliant and it was eventually made into a great, underrated film. ■ As told to Andre Langlols

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wasn't going well, so his lawyer resorted to a trick. "I have a surprise for you," he told the jury. "In one minute, the real murderer will walk into this courtroom."

Stunned, the jurors looked towards the door, but nothing happened. "I lied," said the lawyer. "But you all looked over with anticipation, which proves there's reasonable doubt as to my client's guilt."

The jury retired to deliberate and found the defendant guilty.

"But you must have had some doubt," the lawyer protested. "You all stared at the door!"

"True," said the judge.

"But your client didn't."

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"Better just do a spell check..."

I WOODEN SPOONS ARE HANDY, BECAUSE YOU CAN use them to prepare food. Or, if you haven't got time for that, you can write a number on one, go into a pub and say, "Where's my dinner?"

I Me and my wife haven't got any savings. Well, we do, but they're all tied up in Boots points.

I I've put on a bit of weight recently. My wife says it's puppy fat, but I've been eating other things as well...

All three by comedian Gareth Richards

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I My boss pulled up in his brand new BMW today and I couldn't help but admire it.

"Great car," I said as he got out.

"Well," he said, noticing my admiring looks, "Work hard, put in the hours...and I'll have an even better car next year."

Stuart Collinson, Edinburgh

I Q: What's the opposite of imagination?

A: I have no idea.

Seen on the internee 'I The Daily Mail and the Express have this thing where they publish lists of things that cause diseases, and things that cure them. The lists are both the same.

Comedian Carrie Quinlan

Some people say I'm a loud eater, but I just say my mouth has great acoustics Comedian Bec Hill

I want to take one of those English as a Second Language courses—just to go in and blow everybody away on the first day. US comedian Craig Anton I I know that the English always say that Irish pubs are so friendly. Let me tell you something: we don't even know you're there.

Comedian Sean Hughes ►

The nice thing about Big Brother is that it keeps struggling actors in work. They are actors...right?

Twitter comedian @sixthformpoet

LITTLE EPIPHANIES #18:

Comedian Alun Cochrane inhabits a daydreamy world of surreal realisations and whimsy. This is his monthly moment of revelation I write this from a rented holiday home in the Cotswolds. The cottage is charming with lovely gardens, a modern kitchen... and perhaps too modern a bathroom. It's a wet room. Now, I've lived in student properties that had "wet rooms", but it was a damp problem, rather than a selling point.

I never go into one of these open-plan bathrooms and think, Oh, I'm really glad of all this arm space. I hate being boxed in by a shower screen or curtain. In fact, the joy of having a shower is dampened (forgive the pun) by the knowledge that my lumbering frame is causing spray that will almost definitely result in a wet towel or clothes.

And it has a really wet floor. I suppose it would do but, when your bathroom has a window cleaner's scrim in the cupboard, surely one may have chosen the wrong system for cleansing. We scrape excess water across the (too small) tiles and into the plug. This leaves some dampness around the toilet and that, in turn, leads to a sort of festival smell.

However, there's an upside: when a bird left a major bowel movement across my car window yesterday morning, I knew exactly where I could get my hands on a scrim. And then it occurred to me: perhaps so did the previous guests.

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VERY SUPERSTITIOUS QUIRKY LIFE TIPS Halloween is, for some, a spooky time. But fear not—scriptwriters Leila Johnston and Tim Warriner have written an online guide to the supernatural. (See theinnerhead.com for more.)

■ The signal bars on your telephone have no relation to how strong the mobile-phone signal is. They indicate how many ghosts are standing right behind you.

■ Religious people are extremely lucky. If you can rub yourself against one as they come out of the church, it'll bring you no end of good luck.

■ Mystics can easily deduce the need to go to the toilet in a stranger by the telepathic reading of minds. But sometimes it's less trouble to observe body language instead. If you find yourself talking to someone in a nightclub who keeps taking small steps away from you, they almost certainly need to go. Helpfully take them by the arm and lead them into a toilet cubicle.

■ The ancient superstition of covering mirrors when a person in our realm dies is performed to indicate to the dead person's reflection that they can take a break from their exhausting job.

■ Fear of water and fear of small doses are both treatable with homeopathy.

■ Magpies collect commemorative plates and decorate the walls of their nests with these beautifully moulded examples of kitsch. Magpies have no sense of irony, and collect these because they genuinely believe that the plates will increase in value in the future.

SHADOW GAMES All you need to have fun is a light source and a little imagination...

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I Ladies: if a man says he will fix it, he will. There's no need to remind him every six months about it.

Seen on the internet I The unmanned Mars spacecraft Curiosity didn't reach its destination. It crashed into a cat.

Comedian Mark Restuccia I Surely everyone is full of themselves...?

Comedian Rob Beckett

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I "Fly like a butterfly, sting like a bee," is a rubbish phrase.

Butterflies fly funny, and bees die after they sting.

Should've been "plane" and "wasp".

Comedian lain Stirling,

by Twitter I Sitting in a stationary car alone is possibly the quietest thing ever; so freaky that I've had to just start screaming so I don't go crazy.

Comedian Adam Hess, by Twitter

60-Second Stand-Up Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome

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Louis CK has got a bit called "Why?" about his child asking him "Why?" It's on on YouTube*.

BEST JOKE YOU'VE EVER WRITTEN? I've got a new routine about poo; it's an unrelenting half hour on our hang-ups as adults. Kids have none. Why are we repulsed by talking about something that happens to us on a daily basis? We're grown-ups, and we've probably just done one.

Rob is now touring the UK. For details and tickets, see robrouse.com

FUNNIEST THING THAT'S EVER HAPPENED TO YOU? A couple of months ago, my wife and I went to view a house, taking our baby with us. It was a strangely unwelcoming place with about 50 cats in it. Helen made an excuse and went to sit in the car with the baby while I looked around. When I went back to the car, she explained to me that she'd genuinely thought we were about to be murdered; and I realised she'd made her excuse and gone and sat in the car—and left me there to die! When you have children, you suddenly learn your place.

FAVOURITE TV SHOW?

Blackadder Goes Forth.

Outstanding and brilliantly written, but more than anything, a bunch of people performing at their absolute best. It war funny and so silly but har. the capacity to be really moving, especially at the end, where they all went over the top.

FINALLY, WHO'S YOUR COMEDY INSPIRATION? My family. Comedy for me is about reflecting and making sense of life. My wife and kids force me to be a proper human being!

If you live life with some depth, you have more to talk about. ■ 'Warning: bad language

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