SOUL TO SOUL CONVERSATIONS

Dear Queens of Influence,

My name is Mary,and I’ve been working alongside my mother since she started our family bakery in her kitchen. I’ve poured so much of myself into this business, helping it grow, but lately, I’ve felt invisible and unappreciated.

My mother seems to overlook the workI do, and it’s starting to hurt me not just professionally, but personally.

I’m at a breaking point. I love my mother and what we’ve built, butI can’t continue feeling this way. How doI make her see my value and repair our relationship before I’m forced to walk away from both the business and our bond?

Dear Mary,

First, let me commend you for your courage in speaking up about this difficult situation.

I resonate with you becauseI know It’s not easy to express feelings of being overlooked, especially when it involves someone as close asa mother.

Family businesses can blur the lines between personal and professional relationships, making it even harder to navigate these emotions.

Communicating your issues to your mother in this regards is very important make sure that you do it in professional setting.

Be open& communicate with your Mother

Havea direct conversation with your mother about how you’re feeling. Be clear about the emotional toll this has taken on you, both in business and in your relationship.

Redefine Roles and Responsibilities:

Ask for clarity on your role and recognition for your contributions Considerformalizingyourpositionwithin the business to reflect your true involvement.

Negotiate Fair Compensation:

Make sure you are compensated fairly for your work, bothfinancially and emotionally. This helps reinforce your value within the team.

Look for opportunities of Growth

Talk to your mother about taking on leadership roles or projects that align with your strengths This will give you room to grow and feel more empowered.

Set Boundaries Between Work &Family:

Establish clear boundaries between work and personal life to protect your family bond Prioritize time for both business and family, without allowing one to overshadow the other.

Wishing you strength and clarity as you work through this challenging time.