Metro, Volume 2, Issue 09

April 28–May 11 Volume 2

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Issue 9

Where Do Your Donations Go? A special report on Utah’s Nonprofits

Queer Prom No permission slips needed for this inclusive dance

Connecticut Passes Civil Union Law Governor calls it a ‘good compromise’

Tina Tips UAF launches website for meth users Interview with Indigo Girls’ Amy Ray Liam: Has the Religious Right gone too far?

Homos in the Holocaust Jere: Sex is Fun Gay Agenda

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News WORLD AND NATIONAL

Conn. Governor Signs Civil Union Bill Jodi Rell calls the new law a good compromise.

Hartford, Conn.—For the second time in April, Connecticut’s senators voted overwhelmingly to extend over 588 rights to the state’s gay and lesbian couples, making their state the first to approve such legislation without a court order.

Immediately after their 26–8 vote on April 20, the Senate sent Connecticut Governor Jodi Rell the legislation to Governor M. Jodi Rell who signed it within the hour. A longstanding supporter of the legislation, Rell said the bill

was a good compromise.

“I want you to know that I have said all along that I believe in no discrimination of any kind,” she told the Connecticut Post. “And I think that this bill accomplishes that, while at the same time preserving the traditional language that a marriage is between a man and a woman.”

Anne Stanback, president of Love Makes A Family, said she hoped the bill would be the beginning of a push for legalizing same-gender marriage. The legislation does not affect issues such as federal taxation and immigration.

The bill’s detractors have said the new law is the equivalent of legalizing gay marriage because it grants gay and lesbian couples the same rights as married partners. The law will take effect on October 1.—JV

Oregon Court Nullifies Gay Marriages

‘Day of Silence’ Protested by ‘Day of Truth’

Portland, Ore.—Ruling that a single county could not act on an issue affecting the entire state, Oregon’s Supreme Court justices voided over 3,000 marriage licenses issued to gay and lesbian couples in Multnomah County in March and April of 2004.

“The county did not have the authority to issue the licenses for the marriages,” Justice Michael Gillette wrote in the April 14 ruling.

“Oregon law currently places the regulation of marriage exclusively within the province of the state’s legislative power.”

State opponents of gay marriage said they were “relieved” by the ruling.

“We felt like the rule of law dictated that it go this way,” said Tim Nashif, president of the Defense of Marriage Coalition. “Oregon and its laws are walking away intact. That was a major breach of trust in Multnomah County.”

Kelly Clark, an attorney for the group, told the Portland Tribune that the ruling was “simple, straightforward, common-sense.”

While the couples in question expressed disappointment at the ruling, many said they would still keep pushing for marriage equality.

“We’ve had 13 months for Oregonians to see the sky is not falling, that gay and lesbian couples can be married and have families, work, pay taxes, play soccer and just be members of the community,” Beth Allen said.

The day before the ruling, Gov. Ted Kulongoski introduced a bipartisan bill that would create civil unions, giving gay and lesbian couples the same rights as married partners. It would also outlaw discrimination based on sexual orientation in housing, employment and insurance.—JV

New York—Day of Truth, a nationwide movement seeking to mobilize students who think homosexuality is wrong, launched April 13, attracting 1,150 students from 350 schools across the country, according to organizers.

Begun this year by the Christian legal group Alliance Defense Fund, the event was set up as a protest of the Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network’s decade-old Day of Silence. In this event, participating students—who numbered over 450,000 this year—stay silent all day, frequently pass out cards explaining why they will not speak, and encourage others to end discrimination based on sexual orientation.

Like GLSEN’s event, Day of Truth participants also pass out literature—in this case cards stating their refusal to support “detrimental personal and social behavior.”

Many also wore t-shirts with the slogan “The Truth Cannot be Silenced.”

While Alliance Defense Fund attorney Mike Johnson said the day was meant to be “peaceful and respectful,” he said the day would nonetheless present the idea that homosexuality was both “sinful” and “destructive.”

Although GLSEN executive director Kevin Jennings said he doubted the protest would gain a following to rival Day of Silence, he said he still found Day of Truth distasteful.

“The Day of Silence was an event conceived of by students themselves in response to a very real problem of bullying and harassment they saw on their campuses,” the Associated Press quoted him as saying. “The Day of Truth is a publicity stunt cooked up by a conservative organization with a political agenda; it's an effort by adults to manipulate some kids.”

Neoconservative groups such as Focus on the Family and the Southern Baptist Convention also supported the Day of Truth.—JV

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Spain Closer to Legalizing Gay Marriage

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Madrid—On April 21, the Spanish Parliament’s lower house approved a gay marriage bill, bringing the nation’s socialist government closer to joining the Netherlands and Belgium in legalizing the practice.

With only six abstentions, the bill passed on a 183-136 vote, prompting cheers from gays and lesbians in the chamber’s public galleries.

“This is a great and historic day because never before has such a small legal reform made such an important improvement in rights and in favor of freedom and equality,” said gay rights leader Pedro Zerolo.

Although an opinion poll conducted by the government’s Center for Sociological Investigations indicated that 66% of Spaniards support legalizing gay marriage, the conservative Popular Party opposed the bill, joining Jewish leaders and organizations representing Catholic, Protestant, and Orthodox Christians.

The Catholic Spanish Bishops Conference immediately issued a statement saying the legislation “went against the common good” and unfairly put “union[s] of persons of the same sex” on par with “real marriage.”

Prime Minister Jose Luis Rodriguez Zapatero, whose Socialist party proposed the bill last October, said that while he respected religious opposition, his democratic nation had to protect the rights of all people.

“One of the guarantees of democracy is the freedom of religion, freedom of opinion and freedom to carry out a political project with the citizens' vote,” he said.—JV

Texas Considers Gay Foster Parent Ban Austin, Tex.—The Lone Star State’s House of Representatives passed legislation Wednesday, April 20 that could make it the first state in the country to prohibit gays, lesbians and bisexuals from becoming foster parents.

Legislators added the ban to a bill seeking reform of the state’s Child Protective Services agency. If approved by the senate, it would require Department of Family and Protective Services workers to ask potential foster parents if they are gay or bisexual and, if they answer yes, prevent children from being placed in those homes. The amendment’s supporters have called it a necessary step in protecting children.

“I just believe in traditional families as much as possible,” Senator Robert Talton, R-Pasadena, told the Austin American Statesman. He added that he thought homosexuality was a learned behavior.

The bill has alarmed Texas’ gay and lesbian population, including several foster parents.

“I’m just so hurt and surprised, especially now [when] we are facing an ongoing crisis of not having enough resources to take care of foster children,” Eva Thibaudeau, a Houston social worker whose home has sheltered over 80 foster children, told the Star Telegram. —JV

Special Report Where Is Your Nonprofit Donation Going?

by Rob Orton rob@slmetro.com

Nearly every segment of our community has its own group. The relationship of charity and social organizations can seem complex and confusing, as larger nonprofit organizations sometimes provide economic umbrellas for others and knowing what each organization is doing is sometimes unclear.

At the core of our community are a handful of 501(c)(3) nonprofit organizations that provide vital resources for individual and social health, education, outreach, and safety. Among the core nonprofits that affect our community are the Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender Community Center of Utah, Utah AIDS Foundation, People With AIDS Coalition of Utah and the Royal Court of the Golden Spike Empire.

The ROYAL COURT OF THE GOLDEN SPIKE EMPIRE has been a part of our community for over three decades. The Salt Lake City Chapter of the Court is the longest-standing gay & lesbian non-profit fundraising organization in Utah.

RCGSE consists of a board of directors, headed by a chairperson, and a body of members who all do shows to raise funds for individuals and other organizations. Nearly all the funds raised go to benefit other organizations.

The Court is a part of the international Imperial Court System, established in 1965 in San Francisco. They spearheaded the first gay and lesbian community center, the Utah Gay Rodeo Association, revitalized pride day in Utah in 1983 with “A Day In the Park,” and held the first AIDS-related fundraiser in 1984.

Throughout the nearly 30 years of public service, the Court has raised hundreds of thousands of dollars for “Toys for Tots,” AIDS charities, cancer research and awareness, The Center, and philanthropic groups.

Under a variety of leadership and names, the GAY LESBIAN

BISEXUAL TRANSGENDER COMMUNITY CENTER OF UTAH has

The UTAH AIDS FOUNDATION has provided direct client services and targeted prevention education for twenty years. They offer programs that span transportation, meals, counseling, advocacy, prevention, and outreach presentations at schools, churches, bars, dance clubs, and public sex environments.

Early education and prevention efforts

by UAF reach more than 30,000 Utahns annually. The small corps of volunteers of twenty years ago has grown to a group of nearly 400 highly trained and specialized volunteers, approximately 250 of whom are active at once.

UAF is funded by corporate and government grants as well as individual donations, with most of the federal and state funding going to food bank, case management, testing and professional services.

Approximately 75% of funds raised go toward programs and resources.

UAF holds two main functions through the year to raise funds: Oscar Night America and Walk for Life. Aqua Aid is newer, smaller gathering with an entertaining show by QUAC. UAF provides onsite and mobile, offsite testing. They coordinate the Speaker’s Bureau, which presents “HIV-101” and customized group discussions to schools, detention centers, businesses, and community organizations.

Religious organizations like the Episcopal and Catholic Churches have requested presentations by the Speaker’s Bureau.

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found itself at the heart of the community for over three decades, with the current incarnation formed in 1998. Public and corporate donations, along with limited grants, wholly sustain The Center. Over 80 percent of the funds raised go directly back into community resources and programs.

In addition to providing a multi-faceted facility for the community, the Center is responsible for coordinating two main events through the year: Queer Prom and Utah Pride, a volunteer-sustained function with the greatest immediate need.

The Center provides support for coming out, resources and referrals, community space, civil rights education and information.

Over 24 groups depend on resources from

the Center: The Court, Public Safety Liaison Committee, education forums, AA meetings, HIV testing and social/support groups.

Affiliate programs that charter under the Center’s 501(c)(3) umbrella are the Youth Activity Center, Wasatch Leathermen’s Association, Gay & Lesbian Parents of Utah and sWerve. Although some affiliates may be financially independent, these organizations may solicit tax-deductible donations because they are a part of the corporation of The Center and comply with reporting and licensing requirements.

Both Wasatch Leathermen’s Association and sWerve provide financial benefit back into the community by donating to organizations like PWACU, UAF and People Helping People.

The Center has been under the direction of Valerie Larabee since December 2004.

Larabee comes from a legacy of successful nonprofits in Colorado and Utah.

“We are fulfilling on the initial premise— to be a hub of community activity and a catalyst for progressive social change,” said Larabee. “This year, for the first time ever, there will be a ticket cost for entry to Pride, which will offset the costs of the event and provide much needed funding to keep our community programs going forward.”

News LOCAL

Queer Prom is a Unique Spin on an Old Tradition

by Darren Tucker darren@slmetro.com

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LUCY JUAREZ

It’s a typical night for the prom committee.

Planning decorations, publicity, mass emailings ... It’s a daunting task for a bunch of already busy teens.

And this group of teens puts just a little extra effort into the task because it may be a typical night for the prom committee, but it is anything but a typical prom.

They are planning “Queer Prom,” to be held April 30 from 8:00 p.m. to midnight at the Salt Lake Hardware Building, 105 N. 400 West.

Last year's Queer Prom

“It’s an amazing event,” said Jennifer Nuttall, committee advisor. “It’s a place where they can dress how they want, bring who they want and feel safe, affirmed, and supported.”

Queers in Action, the youth leadership group at the Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender Community Center of Utah, is staging the prom. They’re local high school students, tired of the “traditional” proms at their own schools.

“The schools publicize they have safe policies,” said committee member Lauren Bradley. “But there are kids who don’t feel safe. If the school can’t create events like that, we can.”

This year’s theme is “Time Warp,” chosen intentionally because it is not a political

Gay Soccer Moved to Sugarhouse Park Gay soccer has been moved to Sugarhouse Park, according to organizer Kirk Paxman.

“Enter Sugarhouse from the north side off of 2100 South. Follow the main park road around and down the hill until you see the first road on the left. The soccer field is at the end of that road,” explains Paxman.

“We will still be playing at 2:30 p.m. Everybody is invited to play or watch.”

statement. Committee members said last year’s theme was intentionally political; this year’s is all about having fun.

Decorations will reflect decades of change. Vinyl records will hang next to CDs and a special lounge area will feature furniture from the last several decades.

Last year, about 250 kids attended the prom, and “it was totally amazing how thankful everyone was,” Nuttall said.

Committee member Amanda Krebs said there are plenty of differences between a school prom and the Queer Prom. “It’s not all formal wear,” she said. “Some kids will come in drag and some in punk, or just t-shirt and jeans. The point is, they can be whoever they want, wear whatever they want.”

But every young person should have a chance to participate in some prom traditions, and the Queer Prom is no different. There will be a prom king and queen, chosen at “the Big, Big Event” at the Center last Saturday. They’ll be announced at 10:00 at the prom. There will also be food and decorations and the traditional promenade.

What there won’t be is the fear, anger and “permission slips” featured at school proms.

“This event is for all youth,” Nuttall said.

“A lot of kids don’t fit in, this is a safe place for everyone.”

BJ Olsen, a member of the committee, said he plans to attend both his school prom and the Queer Prom. He plans to have fun at the gay event, and maybe make a bit of a statement at his school prom.

He’s taking a same-gender date.

“I am afraid to go, but I have taken so much crap this year ... ” he said. “Well, I just have to.”

Every member of the committee was quick to point out the idea behind this year’s Queer Prom is not all about politics.

It’s about fun—and a chance to experience something every high school student should experience at least once in life.

Take committee member Antonio Diaz.

He says the thing he looks forward to most at the Queer Prom is his date. He doesn’t think he could talk him into going to a school prom.

And that is exactly what the Queer Prom is all about.

Advance tickets to the prom are $8.00 and are available at The Center, online at queersinaction@hotmail.com or by calling 539-8800, extension 13. Tickets are $10 at the door. The Queer Prom is strictly for youth ages 13-20.

Utah AIDS Foundation Launches Website for Crystal Meth Users

by JoSelle Vanderhooft joselle@slmetro.com

Utahns who use crystal methamphetamine have a new ally in Tina, a young woman with a supermodel’s body, an anime character’s eyes, and Annie Hall’s taste in hat wear.

Tina (a slang term for crystal meth) is the mascot for www.utahtweaker.com, the Utah AIDS Foundation’s new website aimed at providing information about the illegal drug to those “thinking of using, currently using,” and former users alike. And according to project director Thomas Hughes, her presence in Utah, where admissions for meth treatment are three times the national average, is long overdue.

“There aren’t a lot of resources available in Utah right now for meth addiction,” he said.

The website’s launch comes at a time when crystal meth—a stimulant that gives users a longer and more powerful high than cocaine—has received national media attention as one of the causes in an apparent rise of new AIDS cases among gay and male bisexual users. Although the headlines made many aware of the drug’s existence for the first time, crystal meth has been around since 1919, and the number of American users rose dramatically in the mid-1990s.

To counter this alarming trend, organizers in several states have launched methawareness and treatment programs. Among these is Crystal Neon in Washington state, which has the highest percentage of crystal meth users in the country. According to Hughes, this was one of the programs he and the Foundation used as a model when planning the website’s launch six months ago. Still, he said plans for the creation of a program to help meth users have been in the works for much longer.

“We had actually been working on putting together a program to address substance use in the MSM [men who have sex with men] population in Utah for quite awhile now,” he said. “The website ended up being one of the first things we are doing as part of that, in conjunction with a workshop [about] crystal meth that we recently had.”

Like Crystal Neon, UtahTweaker.com seeks to achieve what Hughes calls its “harm reduction stance” in a way many familiar with the 1980s “Just Say No” antidrug campaign might find surprising. While the website provides a wealth of information aimed at those who want to quit, it also gives current users tips on how to stay safer when they “tweak,” or get high. This includes such things as encouraging users to take the drug with people they trust, to avoid using meth before special events like business presentations and tests, and to stay out of dangerous places like alley ways and public restrooms when high.

“We do recognize that not everyone is in a place where they’re ready to quit, that there are a lot of people who are still going to be using and who need to be recognized and respected,” said Hughes. “We need to be able to provide people with resources they need to make informed decisions

about their use. Too often campaigns that try and vilify users and demonize use just drives that population further underground where service organizations like the Utah AIDS Foundation don’t have a way to access them. They become cynical of people who are just telling them ‘you’re bad for using, use is bad.’ Then they put themselves at higher risk because they’re just not in a place they can be reached easily.”

When asked if such a policy might actually encourage meth use, Hughes adamant-

ly stressed this would not be the case.

“That’s the argument of a lot of organizations, groups and people who advocate the abstinence only approach, [in sexual education], for example,” he said. “But all of the research that’s been done [by the World Health Organization and the American Medical Association] shows that providing those kinds of resources only increases the numbers of people practicing, for example, safe sex. It doesn’t increase the number of people having sex. And that’s the same idea behind this. Just telling people to quit isn’t going to be successful. There are still people who will not quit. Providing them with the resources and knowledge that they need to make safer decisions will only increase the number of people using more safely and will lead to fewer cases of HIV, we hope.”

Although the website and the program it represents are still in their earliest stages, Hughes said his organization has big plans to help local meth users. These include participating in an August conference featuring out-of-state specialists including Crystal Neon organizer Susan Kingston. Also, dialogue with local healthcare professionals about treating meth users has been going on for the past few months.

“We’d like to try and encourage people who are providing care and treatment resources to partner with us so we can refer people to them,” he said. The website’s content will be expanded, and Hughes hopes to someday include the stories of former and current meth users in the Salt Lake Valley—edited for anonymity, of course. But for now, a contact email and an 800 number are active and waiting to be of help.

Although much remains to be done, Hughes says he’s pleased with the project so far.

“The purpose of the web site is to provide education, as the mission statement says on the main page,” he says. “It’s just to inform [users] so they can make the best decisions for where they’re at.”

Check out UtahTweaker.com

Utah HRC Will Party in Utah County

by John Wilkes john@slmetro.com

On June 4, Bruce Bastian, former WordPerfect executive and a current member of the national Human Rights Campaign Board, will host an anticipated summer fête at his residence in Orem. This event, billed as the First Annual Utah Human Rights Campaign Gala Dinner and Silent Auction, may well be the big summer party to attend. The evening’s keynote speaker will be Tipper Gore, wife of former Vice President Al Gore, while new HRC president Joe Solmonese is also slated to address the audience. R&B star Oleta Adams, who had a big hit with the soul ballad “Get Here,” will provide entertainment. Adams is featured on Love Rocks, a Human Rights Campaign benefit album.

The Human Rights Campaign was founded in 1980 to advocate and lobby for queer rights and has grown to become the largest queer organization in America.

UHRC is a relatively new chapter that has

quickly blossomed since its inception a few years ago. The organization helped Equality Utah (formerly Unity Utah) get up and running in 2001 by providing indispensable technical and strategic assistance. UHRC has also worked with the Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender Community Center of Utah and the lesbian and gay liaisons to the Olympic Committee. HRC is monumental in educating legislators and works nationally and locally to advance queer equality so queer persons are ensured basic rights and can be open and honest without fear of bodily harm or discrimination.

The $150-per-plate event begins at 6:00 p.m.; semi-casual “summer chic” attire is requested.

Valet parking and a shuttle service to the center of the festivities is available. For more information, visit hrc.org/utah or email galadinners@hrc.org. Order tickets by calling 800-494-8497 or online at boxofficetickets.com/hrc.

Utah Gay Rodeo to Host Wild West Roundup Camping Trip

by Kim Burgess kim@slmetro.com

Could You Spell Superfaggycunnilin gusextraqueenygra cious?

Masterfully working his way through words like “cootchiesnortcher,” Salt Lake Metro proofreader and speller extraordinaire Nick Rupp took top honors in the first ever Queer Spelling Bee, held last week by the LGBT Resource Center at the University of Utah.

Club Panini provided the backdrop for the ultimate gay spelling event, featuring family-friendly words ranging from “decoupage” to “invaginate.” Five contestants took the stage and had to ask for each word to be used “queerly in a sentence,” which allowed the event’s “masters” to respond with gems such as “Bill and Ted had sex in the gorgonzola during Montreal’s Boyfest last winter.”

The spelling bee was inspired by an episode of Will & Grace, a fitting source of inspiration for a contest where spectators regularly had to sing “The Hokie Pokie” and “queertestant” Rupp was greeted with “AND AFTER!” every time the masters called out his entry number, B4.

Don’t even ask about contestants “O-69” and “G-spot.”

If you missed your chance to show your spelling stuff, don’t worry. The Resource Center is planning another spell-off for early fall.—DT

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This summer the Utah Gay Rodeo Association will host its first-ever Wild West Roundup camping trip featuring Dutch oven cooking, hiking, and a host of other activities. The event will be held August 19–21 in Payson Canyon, about 60 miles south of Salt Lake City.

“This event will be fun for the whole family and is suitable for campers at all levels of experience,” said Travis Nowers, UGRA president. “The goal is to strengthen the gay and lesbian community in Utah. It’s not a fundraiser for UGRA. We have to cover expenses like advertising and reserving the camping spaces. Other than that, we aren’t looking to make money on this. It’s for the community. We’re not having a rodeo this year, so we decided to focus on something else to bring our gay and lesbian community closer together. This is something we came up with that we hope to do it every year.”

A few of the activities already on schedule include a Dutch oven cooking competition, horseshoe games, poker, “campiest camp” decorating contest, and a drag show. Lambda Hiking Club will lead a guided hike exploring local flora and fauna, and members of UGRA will teach basic roping techniques and horse saddling. Organizers are still planning additional activities and Nowers is actively pursuing partnerships with other queer organizations.

Founded in 1979 under the name Golden Spike Gay Rodeo Association, the UGRA’s mission is to preserve a western way of life and promote positive visibility of gays and lesbians. Since 2000, the UGRA has held a rodeo, which includes pageants for Miss UGRA, Ms. UGRA, and Mr. UGRA. UGRA donates the proceeds from the rodeo to charities including the YWCA, Special Olympics, and The Center.

The cost for attending the UGRA Wild

West Roundup is $25 for a tent spot on the meadow (up to five people) and $50 for an RV or truck campsite (up to ten people).

The campsites are equipped with running water and fire pits for cooking. Toilet facilities are available for all participants.

Please visit www.ugra.net for reservation forms or stop by the UGRA booth at the Utah Pride celebration.

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Happy Birthday to Us… Well, we made it to the first anniversary issue of Salt Lake Metro. It hasn’t always been easy, but looking back on our first year, it has been exciting and worth it.

Metro began, in part, to help communicate to the queer community about how to organize the fight against Amendment 3. If nothing else comes out of that low point in Utah politics, at least it helped launch “the newspaper Utah deserves.”

We have to stop and thank our readers for helping make Salt Lake Metro a success.

When just reading Metro openly in public can still be considered a political statement in our very red state, we appreciate that you do so. We appreciate your feedback and letters, your tips and suggestions, and we really appreciate the occasional drinks you’ll buy in the bars and nightclubs for our poor, hardworking staff as you bend our ears about your opinions. Most of all, we appreciate you taking the time to patronize our advertisers, who pay our bills.

Speaking of the advertisers, we owe a debt of thanks to all the businesses and individuals who took a chance on a small, unknown paper in the early months. We are grateful for the new advertisers who have recognized us as the best way to reach thousands of queer people in Utah. Literally, we would not be here without our advertisers.

A big “thank you” to our writers and staff as well. Writing or working for Metro isn’t as glamorous as it may sound: long hours for not enough pay, the inevitable criticism from the disgruntled among the community, and a cranky production staff with a deadline every two weeks. But our writers and staff don’t do

what they do for the big bucks or the fame.

They do it out of love for the community (okay, a little bit for the fame).

And thanks must also be made to our families and friends who have provided emotional support, an understanding of our dreams, and who have endured long absences. The extended network of people who have sacrificed and struggled to make Metro survive and thrive is awe-inspiring when you realize how very many people have helped to turn a dream into reality.

As we look back on our first year, we see the mistakes we made and the inspiration we can only hope to recapture. We will continue to evolve as a newspaper in the coming years, but we will hold tight to the traditions that have worked well in the first 12 months. It only gets better from here, folks.

We hope the newspaper continues to resonate with you, to provide insight and information that matters to your lives. We hope you get the “ah-ha” moments, as Oprah calls them, as you begin to feel the strength of a united community. We hope you are inspired to become more involved in the fight for equality. Just remember, as Oprah says, you don’t show self-discipline when you’re doing something you want to do. “You show discipline when you do something even though you don’t really want to.”

Welcome to the second year of Salt Lake Metro. We hope you’ve enjoyed the first year, and hope you enjoy our second year even more. Thanks for reading, responding, and supporting the community in every way.

From the Editor A Good Reason to Have Sex

by Jere Keys jere@slmetro.com

Sex is in the air.

Everywhere I turn lately, people are thinking about, talking about, or having sex. Even the W administration is worked up about sex with the controversial new website 4parents.gov —which advocates abstinence until marriage and recommends therapy to families dealing with homosexuals.

My neo-pagan sensibilities are not particularly surprised, as we are fast approaching Beltane (May 1, a.k.a. May Day), the high holy day of anonymous outdoor fucking in the old religion.

The animals know this cycle instinctively—spring is the time of new life and quickening blood, it is time to seek out a mate or perish.

It makes me a little sad that we live in times and a culture that tries to tell us sex is bad. I agree that sex is a powerful experience that demands respect. We also live in a time when sex is dangerous if we do not take precautions. But I firmly believe sex is good and holy and ... well, a lot of fun.

There are critics of the queer community, within and without, who argue that the only thing we have in common is a desire for sex that deviates from the mainstream. That might have been true, once, but today our community has so much more to unite us. Decades of community organizing have developed a culture with our own values, entertainments, traditions and interests.

But if we’re really honest about the diversity within the queer community, the only thing we can really say we have in common is a desire for sex that differs from what we have been told is “normal.” I don’t think that’s a bad thing, either.

It doesn’t bother me if people have sex with many different partners, in groups, with only one person their entire life, or with complete strangers.

I am in favor of bathhouses. Since the Supreme Court decriminalized sodomy in Lawrence v.

Texas, the only tool government officials have to shut them down is a threat to “public health.” If everyone entering a bathhouse were aware of the potential risk of communicable diseases and took precautions, there should be no reason for the government to get involved.

I am in favor of decriminalizing prostitution.

At the same time, I realize that most people who become prostitutes do so because they feel like it is their only option. That says more about the impotency of our charity and social welfare than it does about the positive or negatives of prostitution. But if self-aware adults recognize they have talents and can offer services others are willing to pay for, who are we to judge? It seems more honest, anyway, than many legal lines of work.

In fact, the one area where I am glad to have the government’s intrusion into our sex lives is when sex does not take place between equal, consenting people. Rape, child molestation, and other forms of sexual violence fly in the face of everything that is good and pleasurable and holy about sex. We can, should, and must do everything we can as a society to discourage and punish those who would turn sex into violence. To be clear, I’m not talking about roleplaying between adults who have communicated rules and boundaries in S&M play they both enjoy.

In our quest for marriage equality, I often hear that the “purpose” of marriage is to create a family.

Let’s read behind the lines, shall we? The real message is that the “purpose” of sex is to make babies.

But that’s not entirely true, is it? Sex is also about intimacy, pleasure, and fun—even for the majority of straight couples. To gain marriage equality, we’re going to have to change a lot of attitudes about sex.

See, it really is all about sex. So strike a blow for equality this spring and have sex for intimacy, have sex for pleasure, or just have sex for fun! But be respectful, be smart and be safe. Happy fucking!

Letters Staying Away June 12 Editor, I choked on my coffee this morning when I read Pride was going to charge a cover to participate in this year’s celebration. Many young people, those who most want a safe place to come out, cannot afford this. Isn’t the overpriced beer enough to cover the cost? This will be the first Pride Day I will miss in 8 years. Someone needs to sit these Bush clones down and explain the facts of life. This really pisses me off.

Eric Johnson Salt Lake City, UT

Staying Away, Part 2 Editor, Add my name to the list of disgusted men who will not be attending this year’s Pride. Charging an admission stinks of profiteering. It’s time Salt Lake’s Pride Committee had new leadership.

Paul Dawson Salt Lake City, UT

Coming Out June 12 Editor, I know a lot of people are probably going to be complaining that there will be a charge for Utah Pride this year. I, on the other hand, think it’s about time. I’ve traveled to

Hijacked By The Right

by William Todd Park liam@slmetro.com

Holladay, UT

Mogely

The Worst Write-up in Utah’s Best

Salt Lake City, UT

Editor, Every month I pick up the newest issue of the Metro and read through to see what’s happening in our community. I do so because I am the manager of the Paper Moon and I like to keep up on things, check ads, etc. This year you did your first “Utah’s Best” competition and, thanks to the community, the Paper Moon won as “best place to meet lesbians.”

However in reading the paragraph below it, I felt the fur go up on the back of my neck. Why did you find it necessary to put such a derogatory sentence in? “Several readers even made disparaging remarks about the bar they didn’t favor.” Did we win, whether it be by a landslide or a mere few? Either way it was UNNECESSARY and UNPROFESSIONAL. In reading all of the other categories I was confused as I found no such comments.

The Paper Moon has been our one passed into the history books and fundamentalist Christians became the prospect of Republicans.

The party recognized that it had a ready support base from conservative-minded people who would back its candidates without preaching politics and it wouldn’t be paying for advertising. Enter the televangelists. In 1979, Jerry Falwell created a grass roots political action group: the “Moral Majority.” Pat Robertson’s “Christian Coalition of America” picked up the reins when the Moral Majority dissolved in 1989. The exploitation of the traditional conservatism’s grass roots heritage was underway.

If public opinion polls mean anything, it looks like their grass roots may be withering. According to an April 8 Associated Press poll, Americans are losing their blind infatuation with Dubya, his approval rating dropping to 44 per cent; of the Republican-dominated Congress, an abysmal 37 per cent. The question remains if our own White House Caesar will pay attention to the rabble or just write these figures off to the fickle nature of the religious mob that put him in office. Could it be that the darling of the neo-conservative movement has pushed his empire building designs too far or is it simply that the American people are starting to wake from the stupor that put Stupid in the White House?

Hopefully, it’s not too late to wipe the sleep from our eyes. The past few years have seen conservatism head in a very dangerous direction. The current incarnation of right wing politics has eroded our civil liberties through legislative shams and has aggressively, and I should add illegally, intervened on foreign shores costing billions of borrowed taxpayer dollars and thousands of innocent lives. It has also resurrected McCarthyism, brazenly exploiting prejudices to vilify and condemn

Editor’s Note: Our write-up in that category intended to describe how heated the voting was and how passionately the community felt. We meant to suggest that both bars have very loyal followings among their patrons.

We apologize to any of those readers who felt that their selection of Paper Moon as Best Place to Meet Lesbians was disparaged.

Submit Your Letters Salt Lake Metro welcomes letters from its readers. Please email letters@slmetro.com, fax 323-9986 or mail to Editor, Salt Lake Metro, 352 S. Denver Street, Salt Lake City UT 84111.

Department of Corrections In “National Center for Lesbian Rights Hosts Fundraiser Dance,” (April 14, 2005), we incorrectly identified Lauren Barrios as the partner of Keri Jones. Barrios is Jones’ lawyer in her custody suit against ex-partner Cheryl Barlow. those who have a dissenting opinion of the administration’s policies.

The truly tragic side to this is that many genuinely good people have been duped into believing that a man of moral high ground represents and leads our nation, when in truth, the so-called Christian label was merely a ruse to broaden the voter base and gain the White House. Those belonging to the Religious Right have been the unwitting puppets of clever political marketing executives who, like the biblical Satan, offered the world in exchange for worship.

The obvious difference is that instead of trusting in their God, the faithful trusted in handsomely packaged politicians who claimed to speak in His name and in the hirelings that endorsed them. Worst of all, the economic, social, and foreign policies enacted by the current administration is in direct conflict with the gospel message it pretends to represent. Now this deal with the devil has been made and the Right is drunk with power. Make no mistake; it has always been about power.

Pat Bagley’s April 17 cartoon in the Salt Lake Tribune speaks this message loud and clear. His rendition of the crucifixion depicts placards emblazoned with conservative dogma and hatred nailed to the cross, Senators DeLay and Frist walking off. The caption reads, “I think he’d be pleased that we’re helping to hone his message.”

The Religious Right should bear in mind that the reason it exists is because a group of people reacted to a number of changes that were feared as moral decay. But society at-large can only absorb so much of their reaction before the pendulum swings in the opposite direction. Invoking the name of God and citing holy writ as justification for policy is not an American tradition, but sounds rather a lot like the extremists that are enemies of our way of life.

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The ‘Religious Right’— love child of the GOP intelligentsia and fundamentalist Christians—came kicking and screaming into the world some thirty years ago. Since then, this spoiled illegitimate child has matured into an arrogant theocrat who has hijacked the American political system. Isn’t it just a little ironic that this bastard was conceived during the free love era of the 1960s?

We typically associate right wing politics with overreaction to progressive policies that emerged from the civil rights, gay rights, and feminist movements and from our involvement in Vietnam. This clash of ideologies marked the end of “politics as usual.” Former President Bill Clinton focused this break to 1968. It was the year that “broke open the nation and shattered the Democratic Party; the year that conservative populism replaced progressive populism as the dominant political force in our nation ... the year that led to Nixon, then Reagan, then Gingrich, then George W. Bush.”

Before 1968, a liberal Republican was not an oxymoron. The two-party political system actually presented ideas and platforms rather than simple for or against positions.

But when the disenfranchised—women, blacks, homosexuals, and other minorities—started to make headway toward legitimacy and gaining a voice, the status quo was threatened and the dominoes began to fall. Goldwater conservatism

Russell Button

Exclusive Women’s Club for eleven years. A year and a half ago another women’s club opened and gave the community an additional place to go. We both offer entertainment and, although there may be some haters out there, I believe we both want to make everyone happy and any disparaging comments made are just petty and definitely not worth putting in black and white.

Pride events in other cities where I’ve paid $10, $15, even as much as $40 to attend Prides that weren’t half as good as ours.

Five bucks is nothing—you spend more than that going to a bar. After the financial problems they’ve had in recent years, I think this is most responsible decision I’ve heard in a long time.

Ruby Ridge Living Proud Marys (Part Deux)

by Ruby Ridge ruby@slmetro.com

Well, as if my rant in the last Salt Lake Metro about Pride wasn’t enough kittens—just wait, there’s more! A few people are bent out of shape that Utah Pride organizers are charging for admission to the festival this year. After careful consideration, aligning my chakras and fasting and praying for guidance, to those people I respectfully say: Give me a break you whining ungrateful whores. Oops! Was that my out loud voice? Considering how much it costs to rent fencing, stages and booths, hook up electricity, provide security, and take care of the overall logistics of Pride, five bucks is a bargain. I guarantee the same people who bitch about their $5 admission will have no problem plunking down 20 bucks for beer. If you want to get in for free, or cost is an issue, then volunteer to help set up Pride, or even better, to help take it down and clean up the site afterwards.

Speaking of clean up, let me tell you a story. Last year, long after the partying masses had left Washington Square, the Pride Committee and a few volunteers were working their butts off cleaning up the mess, and there was David Litvack (Yes ... straight, married, State Representative David Litvack, sponsor and defender of the Hate Crimes Bills at the Utah Legislature

for the last God-knows-how-many years), sweeping up trash by himself. Boy howdy, if that wasn’t an image to remember.

Let’s put all of this in perspective, peaches. Pride will not cure cancer. Pride will not bring world peace. Pride will not give you a whiter smile, shinier hair, or a stronger long-lasting erection. But it is the one day of the year when everyone (and I do mean EVERYONE) in our community can come together and celebrate, and that’s worth working for. But let me tell you cherubs, don’t just show up on Pride Day with your nose in the air and your thumb up your butt waiting to be entertained. You need to get involved because events like Pride do not just happen by themselves. They take months of planning and preparation and thousands of volunteer hours to pull off. So jump on the Pride website (utahpride.com) and sign up as a volunteer, and/or help build your community group’s parade entry.

I do have one little suggestion for the Pride festival organizers. The minute you get a date confirmed, start contacting local hotels and motels to block out some discounted rooms for out-of-town (or even out-of-state) folks. The gays and lesbians who live in Duchesne, Roosevelt, Clinton, Moab and anywhere else in Utah, Southern Idaho, and Western Wyoming, need to be included in the Utah Pride festivities, too. Ciao, Darlings!

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Don’t just show up on Pride Day with your nose in the air and your thumb up your butt waiting to be entertained

Ruby Ridge is one of the more opinionated members of the Utah Cyber Sluts, a Camp Drag group of performers who raise funds and support local charities. Her opinions are her own and fluctuate wildly due to irritability and midlife hormonal changes. The Bureau of Land Management has declared her cleavage a Wilderness Study Area.

AberRant Annual Versity

by Laurie Mecham laurie@slmetro.com

If you’re a regular reader— well, first, you are incredibly hip, and a member of a particularly elite elite.

By the way, have you been working out? Because you look great! Anyway, those of you who are in the know will recognize my love of word play.

I’m really not a fan of puns; I don’t go for that type of humor, but my family enjoys playing with language. So “anniversary” is “annualversity,” and our conversations often consist primarily of inside jokes. Por ejemplo, one of my seven sisters told us about a coworker who was so over-the-top icky-sweet on the phone that her conversations sounded like a combination of baby-talk and phone sex. She ended each conversation by saying, “Buh-bye!” except in her Nasty-Mommy style she was very breathy and hardly parted her lips so it sounded more like, “vuh-VYE-uh!” Naturally, that became the farewell expression of choice at my house before it was quickly shortened simply to “Vuv!” I relate this because as I look back over our first year of Salt Lake Metro’s publication, I realize that you have stayed with me through my many idiosyncrasies, imaginary words, obnoxious punctuation and Columns Gone Wrong. Dear Reader, you have hueves.

When a deadline approaches, I first think, “OK, what have I been bitching about to everyone this week?” This usually leads to the political rant. At our second writers’ meeting last January, Jere gave us a list of topics for the upcoming issues. THANK YOU SO MUCH, JERE, WHAT A HANDY TOOL! It has proven to be such a handy tool that I almost wish I’d had it MUCH EARLIER to grease the old creative machinery. I could have gotten by with far less drinking.

On the other hand, that would mean I’d gotten by with far less drinking.

For this issue, I looked in the folder called “Idears” where I write down titles, phrases, etc. Many of them never get any bigger than that, so I thought I’d give you a little trail of crumbs, showing where my mind has wandered.

Protest signs “HATE” without the E spells “HAT.” Things I Have Learned (title only, no content) Vanna, I’d Like to Buy a Clue (ditto title / content) But when in doubt, I can always go to my email inbox. Coming from my family, there are always plenty of gems, like this from your friend and my sister, Pat:

(in a completely sympathetic way).

We just took Koda in yesterday to get fixed. Poor little dude... came home with a cone on, etc. I keep forgetting that there are a lot of Mos here (Mormons, not months— we have the same number of months as most places ...) Anyway, I stepped up to the desk and told the receptionist “You know you’ve been to a great party when you come home with a lampshade on and you’ve lost your balls.”

I’ve also had some great responses from readers. My favorite came from my friend and former co-board-member for the GLBTCC ... LMNOP, Barbara Nash. She wrote to me after reading the article in which I had quoted my son. (Note to Novices: I’d sent him an email about steps to take if you lost your wallet. He replied that I was freaking him out, because he had just been mugged for his wallet.

He asked me not to send him any similar emails, including “What to do if you lose your penis.”).

By the way, in case you don’t know her, Barb is a tall, elegant, transgendered woman. Her email, mysteriously enough, is roughly along the same theme as Pat’s:

“You know you’ve been to a great party when you come home with a lampshade on and you’ve lost your balls.”

Laurie Mecham has never lost her penis, but does make odd references to her editor’s “handy tool.”

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So, been reading some of your articles (and getting a lot of work done at the same time!)—the Lola vet stories made me laugh

I did lose my penis. Just once. But I can tell you from personal experience, that’s it—once it’s gone, it’s gone! I mean it’s not like leaving your purse under a table at a restaurant and going back the next morning and talking to the cleaning crew, which I have done more than once. “We were over there in the corner. I was the one without a penis.” By the way, did you know that at Ethiopian restaurants you have to eat with your fingers? Anyway, my very personal physician reassured me, “It’s OK, it won’t return.” That was a confidence builder. Nevertheless, I filed a Missing Penis Report just to be sure. The officer who took my statement, a hardened veteran from all appearances, said that nothing likely would be forthcoming. That was good news too.

Incidentally, I’ve been working on one joke for a year and a half with my good friend Bereket, from Eritria. Maybe you can help us out. It starts like this: “A transsexual and an Ethiopian walk into a bar ... .”

Damn! That’s why I love to hang out with smart people. Stupid people can be unintentionally entertaining, but you can’t beat people who possess both intelligence and a sense of humor.

So, dear readers, this year has been hilarious, cathartic and educational. But enough about you, I’ve enjoyed it too. I’m used to attempting to be funny in person, where you get immediate feedback because people either laugh or you hate them. Therefore, I do find your emails and letters to the editor rewarding indeed. And when I steal from them, it saves me ever so much time!

Vuv, Laurie

Guest Editorials Remembering a Childhood Lesson

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by Joe Solmonese As kids we all learned the old lesson that you can’t change the rules in the middle of a game, no matter how difficult the game becomes. Some Senators seem to have forgotten that principle as they consider changing the more than 200-year tradition surrounding judicial nominations.

The Senate has confirmed over 200 of President Bush’s nominees since he took office. According to the Alliance for Justice, President Bush appointed almost a quarter of all federal judges. And Democrats have filibustered only a handful of the most extreme appointments. But some Senators want to ensure that doesn’t happen again.

Majority Leader Frist is leading the charge to eliminate filibustering on judicial nominations, an effort being called the “nuclear option” to acknowledge its severity and consequences for our government.

A procedure that delays votes through unlimited debate, Republicans and Democrats alike have employed the filibuster for more than two centuries to prevent ideological extremism. It allows the minority party to check the powers of the majority.

If the nuclear option is invoked, it would end the minority’s ability to block extreme judicial nominees, like the fewer than 10 out of 200 nominees who are currently be-

ing blocked because of their dismal records on civil liberties.

Given that the U.S. Supreme Court will likely have several vacancies in the next four years, this situation is particularly dire. Tinkering with the rules raises the prospect of a radical change to the makeup of our nation’s highest court, and thus a radical change in the state of law protecting gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans.

Particularly at risk are the basic rights that ensure fairness and equality for all Americans—rights that have historically been provided by the courts. After all, the Constitution’s framers established the judicial branch so it could protect against the “tyranny of the majority.” They also gave judges lifetime appointments to ensure they were insulated from electoral pressures when considering the rights of unpopular minorities. The opposition wants to keep lifetime appointments while taking away the power to dissent over a nominee.

Consider the effect this could have on the GLBT community. Lawrence v. Texas, the Supreme Court case that struck down the last remaining sodomy laws—laws that were used to brand GLBT people as criminals—was won by just one vote. Had there been no dissent on the nomination of Judge Robert Bork to the Supreme Court, he would have sat on the bench rather than Justice Kennedy. Justice Kennedy voted to overturn sodomy laws; in fact, he wrote the majority opinion. Judge Bork is an outspoken opponent of GLBT rights and has since

testified before Congress in support of an amendment to the Constitution denying same-gender couples the right to marry.

Clearly, LGBT Americans have much to lose from a change in the filibuster rules and we should be active in opposing the nuclear option. While work will continue in state legislatures and the halls of Congress, there’s no doubt that the judiciary provides our community with huge gains and protections.

This move to take away the filibuster is a blatant power grab and an unprincipled attempt to change longstanding rules. Fairminded Democrats and Republicans alike

have denounced it, including Sens. Lincoln Chafee, Hillary Clinton, Harry Reid, John McCain and Olympia Snowe.

Now it’s time for us to denounce it. Write or call your Senators and tell them that you oppose the nuclear option. Let them know that our society’s highest aspirations— equality and justice, for instance—depend on a system of rules that are consistently applied. And remind them of that childhood lesson.

Fag

have much of a concept of gender at two.

It’s like my friend’s daughter who told him she was going to grow “big hairy breasts just like Daddy.” A few years later, he was playing the game of Life with his brother and declared that he was going to marry a boy. He was six. His four-year-old brother insisted that he couldn’t marry a boy. “He has to marry a girl, doesn’t he, Mom?” I told them that each of them could marry a boy or a girl. It doesn’t matter as long as you are happy and a good person. He happily zoomed along in his car with two little plastic blue guys in the front seat.

That was the same year he liked to wear my lip gloss. I didn’t care. I’d hand it over any time he asked for it. There were other small but similar things every once in a while, all noted but not given much weight or concern.

So here was my golden boy, born at a time in my life when I was acutely aware of the powers of both love and hatred, chewing his nails in the backseat, trying not to cry. He looked up at me with his giant green eyes. I could tell he was phrasing his question very carefully, as he is such a precise little boy. “I’m not a fag if I don’t want to have a girlfriend, am I?” He was so quiet and serious. I pulled over and turned around to face him.

I wanted to tell him about the time into which he was born, how so many people loved him, how so many people saw him as the sign of a good and hopeful future they might not live to see. I wanted to tell him how the woman who came into my office after he was born wept with him in her arms and kissed him all over. I didn’t take him from her until he was sleeping and her tears had been replaced with a soft smile.

“No one has ever let me touch a baby since I was diagnosed,” she told me in Spanish.

“He’s so beautiful. Thank you.”

There are so many stories I will have for him, when he is ready to hear them. I looked at him and said, “You are not a fag, period. It doesn’t matter if you like girls, or if you like boys. It doesn’t matter at all.

And you are not a fag no matter what. It’s a hateful word that stupid people use to hurt each other.”

That’s all I could say today. I didn’t know what else to say. Is my son gay? I don’t know. I don’t care. He’ll figure it out. Either way, when he’s old enough to understand, he’ll hear the stories of the year he was born. He’ll know he’s special, and he’ll understand why the word “fag” will never touch him again.

by Cate Compton This is what I heard someone call my little boy today. I didn’t ignore it. I asked. I glared. “What did you say?”

“Nothing,” the kid muttered under his breath.

We walked to the car and my little boy was quiet. He’s a boy who takes everything into himself. When he shares, it’s a gift. It has a meaning beyond what it is.

I looked at him, my beautiful nineyear-old boy who grew in my belly as I spent endless hours working with men and women dying of AIDS in Los Angeles.

The baby that I jostled and jiggled when I was nine months pregnant, shaking my fat little ass at the dance-a-thon. All the beautiful queens circled around me under the disco ball and rubbed my belly just like the old Russian women at the K-Mart by the Farmer’s Market. I remember looking at them, these glittering beautiful people smiling and wishing me luck. “They are celebrating you,” I said to my unborn child.

They are celebrating life. It was one of the few nights that I didn’t have to face the practical realities of the other side of the coin, the side where I watched my friends wasting away to nothing.

When I had my baby shower, I was living with a friend who everyone thought was my gay lover. I never cared what anyone thought. We were like sisters. She was a nurse who worked with HIV/AIDS patients. I was a lawyer who didn’t like seeing decent people being bullied and treated like shit. We were comrades in arms. People were suffering so much, being locked out of their apartments, being fired from jobs, being dropped from their insurance, being ignored by their own families. So very few people really cared. It still makes me want to howl with the pain of it all when I remember how horrible it was, how tremendously unfair, how incredibly fucking cruel people could be.

My shower guests included four beautiful fat dykes, nine fabulously gay men, a Liberian woman whose asylum case I’d won that year, and a straight couple that I’d kept in touch with after law school. That next week, my mom came and marched at Pride. We laughed about whether I was going to deliver my baby on the parade route. It was a golden day. It shook me more than usual to hear a nondescript man hiss “faggots” as we walked back to the car with a couple of friends.

When he was even younger, my little boy would tell me he was going to be a girl. I told him he could be whatever he wanted.

I didn’t think anything about it. Kids don’t

Joe Solmonese is the president of the Human Rights Campaign. More info can be found on their website at hrc.org.

Cate Compton is a little lawyer with a big tattoo, two sweet kids, a bunch of animals, and all sorts of stories to tell—which she does at www.livejournal.com/users/catelin/

Lambda Lore Homosexuals, the Holocaust, and Utah

by Ben Williams ben@slmetro.com

Ben Williams is the founder and president of the Utah Stonewall Historical Society at utahstonewallhistoricalsociety.com

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Okay, I admit I’m a rabble-rouser. I’ve been called worse. However, I feel that as a true educator, I must get people out of their comfort zones to get their attention. Perhaps that was all former Utah State Superintendent of Education, James Rex Moss, was doing when he informed the sponsors of the Anne Frank Holocaust Exhibit that it was forbidden to mention to Utah schoolchildren that homosexuals were victims of the Holocaust. But I doubt it.

In mid-March 1990, as a major snowstorm blew into Utah, I snuggled in my cozy basement apartment and began to read the Salt Lake Tribune Sunday paper. My Sunday tranquility was shattered when I came across an article that made me blow my stack. The Anne Frank Holocaust Exhibit was coming to Salt Lake—but the State Office of Educations told the exhibit’s sponsors they could not mention that homosexuals were among the murdered millions.

According to the article, James Moss, State Superintendent of Education said, “Homosexuality is not a major feature of the Holocaust ... I think the major focus that certainly needs to be focused on was the religious and cultural prejudice.” Moss also claimed “it is possible to teach children they should not be bigoted without having to include all groups that were targets of the Nazis.” As a 5th grade school teacher, my blood now chilled. How will children ever learn not to be bigots when bigots teach them? I immediately called the officers of the Gay and Lesbian Community Council, (GLCCU), Robert Smith, Chuck Whyte, and Robert Austin, because I felt this hypocrisy needed an immediate response from the community. Austin called for an emergency meeting of the council and they put a strategy in place to protest the exclusion of homosexuality from the Holocaust exhibit.

A loud protest from the gay community and their friends had the state office saying it was all a “misunderstanding” the next day. After a furor of back-tracking and press conferences, “where education officials, gay-rights advocates and others tried to sort out who said what to whom and when,” the final word from Joe Cannon was that material on the Nazi persecution of homosexuals was now to be included in the education packets about the exhibit. The state office had alleged that the corporate sponsor, Geneva Steel, (owned by the Cannon family), originally had deleted the information on homosexuals “at what the firm thought was the request of state education officials.”

Apparently the real flap was over a page in the teacher’s supplement depicting a triangle with words “Gays Against Fascism.” The gay liberatiom movement developed the pink triangle symbol as a tribute to the gay victims of Nazi persecution. The Department of Education’s position was, “While the State Office of Education has no concern about teaching the historical facts about the terrible persecutions which affected homosexuals, there was concern about sending teachers information about a symbol which, while retaining some historical roots, has nothing to do with Anne Frank’s era, but is a symbol for a potentially controversial contemporary social-political movement.”

James Moss spoke in private to offended community groups, including GLCCU, about the controversy. Robert Austin, the GLCCU chairman at that time, speaking

on behalf of the Community Council, agreed not to protest the exhibit, but instead planned to be a “witness” to the suffering of homosexuals at the hands of the Nazis.

This “witnessing” was to include wearing pink triangles, carrying candles and distributing information.

The Anne Frank Holocaust Exhibit opened March 25, 1990 in Washington Square. On the day of the exhibit’s opening, an angry woman “outraged by the presence of gay activists” kicked a box full of symbolic pink triangles down the steps of the Salt Lake City-County Building. Gay community activists were offering these pink triangles to everyone who entered the exhibit, explaining that they were used by the Nazis to identify homosexuals. About half of those visiting the exhibit that day accepted the emblem. After a rally at the City-County Building east steps, about 100 gays and their supporters later marched to St. Mark’s Episcopal Cathedral for a memorial service honoring Holocaust victims.

Teachers brought Utah schoolchildren to the exhibit by the thousands, but there was a reluctance to share

the pages in the exhibits’ guidebook that were entitled “The Fate of the Homosexuals Under Nazi Rule.” Gay activists, throughout the month long exhibit, handed out pink triangles, and distributed informational fliers relating some of the history of the persecution of homosexuals. The flier noted that between 250,000 and 500,000 homosexuals were killed in Nazi death camps.

“After the war, Allied troops liberated the camps and helped many of the survivors go back to European life,” the flier said. “But the troops sent the homosexual survivors to German jails for being ‘criminals.’ Almost all died there.”

Later that year People for the American Way, a watchdog group concerned with constitutional liberties, selected the controversy surrounding the Anne Frank exhibit in Salt Lake City as an example of one of 244 incidents in the United States it believed amounted to school censorship during the 1989-90 school year.

As for James R. Moss, in December 1990 he died at the age of 48 in an automobile accident at the point of the mountain, brought about from a heart attack.

Education is stressful.

An Interview With Publisher Michael Aaron

by Joselle Vanderhooft joselle@slmetro.com

JoSelle Vanderhooft: So, Michael, Salt Lake Metro turns one this week. How did this paper come about?

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Michael Aaron: When the economy tanked a few years ago and I lost my very lucrative advertising job, I decided I wanted to do something more fulfilling with my life.

I had published Triangle Magazine and Gay Community Reporter back in the ’80s and I decided I wanted to get back into the publishing world. I contacted Todd at the Pillar and offered to get a website going for them, but it was obvious that wasn’t the direction he wanted to go. I was concerned that, as legislation and Amendment 3 were being thrown at the gay community, the community needed to be made aware and educated about the issues. Pillar had turned into more of a community newsletter ... I love Todd and the work he has done with the newspaper for as long as he has, but the community needed something

more educational, more professional, more timely.

So part of our mission was to really give people fodder for arguments that they would give against things like constitutional marriage amendments and other pieces of legislation that would come out. We thought it was important to put that information out and we do that through the form of news and editorial because a lot of that information isn’t available anywhere else. That drove our decision to go biweekly instead of monthly as all other gay publications had been in this state.

We also thought it was important that the events happening in the gay community be more advertised than they were, so we developed an Arts & Entertainment section. We feel it helps develop the community as a whole.

JV: How did you meet up with your business partner, Steven Peterson?

MA: I’ve known Steve for many years. I used to be president of Gay and Lesbian Utah Democrats. We hit it off when he became involved in that several years ago. I was very aware of his role in Little Lavender Book and as I was putting out feelers for the paper he suggested that I sit down and talk to him about it. He had also been considering doing a newspaper as well. It was a good match because

Steve had a ready-made infrastructure and I had everything we needed to put a newspaper together, because I’d published before and I’m a designer. At the same time I rekindled a friendship with Brandon Burt and he came on as editor and the rest just happened from there.

JV: When did you start planning to put the paper out?

MA: I started putting out feelers in December 2003 and really started working on it heavily in January. I met with Steve then, and we had basically made the agreements and set up a corporation and office by mid-February 2004. We published in April.

JV: That’s lightning-speed! Did you set it up so quickly because of Amendment 3?

MA: Absolutely. We saw the issue heating up quickly and wanted to jump in front of it. I also wanted to have our official launch a few issues before Pride Day, so we went back three issues from pride and said, ok this is our date. And that was April 29.

JV: Did you have the layout for the paper as it stands now in mind, or did your ideas change?

MA: Actually, the layout of the paper is inspired by the San Jose Metro. They are an alternative weekly paper that I just fell in love with when I lived there a decade ago. I still kept up with them, and I really liked their layout and their flow.

A lot of what we’re doing is because of what they did.

JV: I do know there have been positive responses to the Metro, including praise from the heir to the Tribune Empire and acknowledgement by local columnists like Rolly and Wells, who have commented on some stories we’ve run in the past.

What have been some other responses the paper has received?

MA: The biggest challenge was to actually pay everybody. When we first started this newspaper, rule number one was the writers and photographers get paid.

Rule number two was the editor gets paid. Rule number three was the publisher gets paid. We’re just about to get ready for rule number three! (laughs) We did go through some difficult financial times, like any startup would, where we sent the paper to the press and we didn’t know if they would print it. Our press has been so great to work with—they are nice people and print such great quality.

People are constantly putting us side-byside with other publications and gushing about how much better Metro looks. We hit a point several months in where we had fallen behind on our print bill. I think they expected us to pull to another printer and leave them with the bill, but we stuck with them as they had done with us and we are finally up to date with them. We wanted a long-term relationship, not a quick fix that screws someone.

We can’t thank our advertisers enough for their help here. They believed in us right up front and have stuck with us. We’ve also had some saviors who got us through.

We’ve been very happy with the response in the community on so many different levels. That’s why the paper is still in publication.

It was also challenging trying to find our legs, to understand what our strengths were. We had wanted to do absolutely everything and to put on every activity the gay community would want to go to on a much bigger and grander scale than every before. But understanding our strengths and focusing on those took a while to figure out. What we are good at is getting the word out to gay and lesbian Utah. All of the other things are really just side notes. We’ve gotten much better at focusing on our strengths and our lives are infinitely more sane.

We’re extremely happy about the numerous events we’ve been able to sponsor and get the word out about because we want to do that for the community.

JV: Ok. It’s story time! Tell me the funniest story that’s happened on the Metro.

MA: Oh dear. Well, I can’t think of one off hand, but we do have a lot of fun around the office. It’s great working in such a gay space. The most recent joke here is that we’ve put out 26 on-time issues—more than any other gay publication in Utah, ever. Wait ... don’t print that.

JV: Thanks a lot, Michael.

MA: Thank you. Now get back to work.

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MA: Mostly when people find out I’m the publisher, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been thanked by people for doing something that was very much needed in this community. We’ve had basically no negative responses from anybody. I was expecting that we’d get some letters and phone calls bashing us but we haven’t had any of that. We made a conscious choice not to put taglines defining what the paper is on the cover.

We wanted to be the newspaper for the gay and lesbian community rather than the “gay and lesbian newspaper.” I know it’s a fairly subtle difference, but we left it up to the reader to decide what we were and whether they liked us.

The response from the community, though, has been overwhelming. Driving down the road in my Metro logo-emblazoned Jeep, people will honk and wave.

Some even wave their issue of the paper at me. Two guys on bicycles raced for three blocks to catch up with me, bells a-ringing. I pulled over and they just wanted to say thanks for ‘such a great paper.’ So I think I have succeeded in my efforts to have a ‘more fulfilling job.’

JV: It sounds like you’ve had a fairly smooth start-up. Have you faced major challenges?

April 29 – May 12 Volume 1 ■ Issue 1

May 13 – 26 Volume 1 ■ Issue 2

May 27 – June 9 Volume 1 ■ Issue 3

Local Gay Lebanese Man Faces Deportation

Delegates Turn Backs on Matheson

Rally Draws Hundreds to Capitol Steps

“Don’t amend” campaign protests at state convention

Student organizer demands hate crime law

Threat of death upon his return

Idaho Dad Fighting for Custody

Radio Host Apologizes for Anti-Gay Slur

Has his day before the state’s supreme court

What one Salt Lake man did to make it happen

Cycling Grannies Approach SLC

County Party Conventions

Rainbow Ride brings attention to equal marriage rights

Democrats meet in record numbers

Hatch Calls for Marriage Amendment Says gay families not as good as traditional

Rhubarbarians Descend on Town Festival attracts diverse crowd

Sports IOC allows transsexuals to compete in 2006 games

Arts and Entertainment Ballet Folklorico “Quetzelli” de Veracruz

Arts and Entertainment Plan B Theatre Co. presents SLAM!

Arts and Entertainment Two female singers to perform in Salt Lake

Community Calendar What’s going on today?

Movie Reviews Check these before heading to the flix

August 19 – September 1 Volume 1 ■ Issue 9

September 2 – 15 Volume 1 ■ Issue 10

September 16 – 29 Volume 1 ■ Issue 11

GOP Bitterly Divided

Queers in the Sticks Small towns in Utah,

Shurtleff doesn’t want ‘right-wing wacko’ vote

‘I am a Gay American’

‘Get Well, Marci’

Matheson, Huntsman Disagree on 3

LCR Withholds Bush Endorsement

Sheriffs Call Off Search for Gay Man

Gay Rodeo

Missing boy scout tapped available resources

Special pull-out section

Walker Concerned About Amendment 3

Ruby Ridge Mavis teaches Ruby to finger her home keys

Wanted amendment to go through proper channels

A&E

AberRant

Xenia Cherkaev’s final review: ‘Twilight Samurai’

Massachusetts marriages make Mecham a manners maven

Sports

A&E

Goodtimes Bowling League announces final standings

A Letter to Harvey Milk opens

Lagoon Day

Gay Olympians take five medals, give one finger

Sports Sunday, Aug. 29 — Wear a red shirt

“I’m ready for anything,” she says Sports Pride Run-Walk-Roll adds the “Drag Dash” Arts and Entertainment Saturday’s Voyeur returns for its 26th season

Nevada host gay events

Storrs: Anti-gay platform ‘shameful’

Neither support gay marriage

N.J. Governor comes out, promptly resigns

Gay Families

Rally Draws

The Battle Begins Anti-gay groups form for marriage amendment

“Queers Kick Ash” T-shirt controversy blamed

Idaho Lesbian Wins Primary Election

Sports Flag football the next craze?

A.G. Candidates Side With Gays

Special pull-out section

State Withdraws Anti-Smoking Campaign Funds

Dads join the fight for civil marriage rights

Sports Soccer season begins

Utah’s Fight for Gay Marriage

Gay Pride Issue

Gays “not normal,” says state chairman

Homeless Gay Youth in Salt Lake

Community Calendar What’s going on today?

June 10 – 23 Volume 1 ■ Issue 4

Log Cabin Group Axed From NC Republican Convention

Levis, Leather and Bears (oh my!)

New club caters to the manly crowd

The truth behind the numbers

June 10 – 16

Malloy falls ill at Baker festival

Gay Republicans betrayed

by Bush policies

Anti-Gay ‘Truth Truck’ Impounded

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Homophobic driver injures cop at Minn. rally

Gay Republican Wins Ariz. Primary Kolbe: States should define marriage law

Wilde About Max Robinson becomes Bracknell in PMT’s ‘Earnest’

Queeriscaping Brandie Balken discovers a novel use for a zucchini

Ruby Ridge Living Ruby, Imelda and Workman: the axis of evil?

Sane Advice Is it cheating or chatting?

November 11–24 Volume 1 ■ Issue 15

November 25–December 8 Volume 1 ■ Issue 16

December 9–22 Volume 1 ■ Issue 17

Same-Sex Marriage Outlawed

Community Members Call for Protests

Center Loses Another Director

Anger and frustration at Amendment 3 vote

Valarie Larabee named to replace Chad Beyer

Again

Amendment Spawns First Court Case Protective orders of common-law spouses being tested

Buttars: ‘Gays Out to Get Us’ Mailers question his, Christensen’s ethics

Rare STD Revives LGV becoming more common in Europe Sandy Man Competes in Bravo’s ‘ManHunt’ Exclusive interview, photos

Dining Guide New, expanded Food & Wine section

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Preventing Holiday Blues

February 3–16 Volume 2

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Mutual Dependence Bill Fails

9th and 9th in Need of Queer Eye Plans being discussed include roundabout

Police Investigate Possible Hate Crime Police can’t pursue hate crime angle: no such law

Idaho Right Takes Aim at Gay Marriage Will our northern neighbors face an amendment next?

World AIDS Day List of events, free HIV testing

Dining Guide Café Med serves up date food

Bar Guide Where to go, when and how much

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McCoy Elected First Gay State Senator

McCoy Asks A.G. for Investigation

HIV Super-Strain Found in New York

Amendment 3 funders are suspect

Drug resistant virus discovered in meth user

Is It the End for Womyn 4 Women?

Jane Marquardt to Run for City Council

Gay Love

Can the lesbian publication survive?

Rocky publicly backs her candidacy

Black and Gay in Utah

Theft and Drugs in the Royal Court

Plus a report from Eric Tierney on the Scissor Sisters Ruby Agrees with KSL Is the apocalypse near?

Jarvis: Three Special Valentines Wines

The Gay Agenda

Latter Days ‘appalls’ some members

‘Inclusive’ Church Ad Refused by Networks Commercial shows gays, others being denied church Laurie’s Own Holiday Gift Guide In case you didn’t know what to get her

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Ruby Demands Empress ID Badges

February 17—March 2

Conservatives challenge his residency, but fail

Photos from Sundance and the Queer Lounge

Mormons Protest Blockbuster

More than security at stake

Ruzicka: ‘We don’t have to apologize’

Local man deals with homophobia and racism

GSA Students Protest West Jordan School Principal requires parental note to attend dance

March 3–16 Volume 2

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Hate Crimes Defeated Again Mitchell: ‘The will of the people was not done’

Ex-Gay No More Former LDS anti-gay propagandists come out

Will There Be Money for AIDS Drugs?

Activists appeal to state legislature to step in

Sing Out Louise!

Karaoke attracts a growing gay following A Chat With Allie Mac Kay

Organization answers community questions

Why we love the diva of Utah’s morning news

Hate Crime Bill Defeated in Senate Committee

Liam: Finding a Common Voice in the Alphabet Soup

Supporters: ‘Bill not dead yet’ Jere: ‘Utah, a Pretty Great State to be Gay’

Polygamists and the Gay Rights Movement

SpongeBob Eludes Ruby’s Gaydar

Things Look Bleak for a Cold-Ridden Laurie

Comics

Gay Agenda

The Gay Agenda

Classifieds

March 17–30 Volume 2

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Calif. Judge Rules Gay Marriage Ban Unconstitutional Likely to head to the state supreme court Utah AIDS Foundation Offers Pain-Free Tests No needles or blood drawn, tests cells from the mouth

Victory Fund Trains Local Gay Politicians Offers resources for campaigns

Home and Garden Spring guide to making your yard memorable

Trapp Door Changes Ownership Grand Opening Conference Weekend Readers Rant on Ruby Jere: Shirtless Hunks are Better than Groundhogs Gay Agenda Classifieds

June 24 – July 7 Volume 1 ■ Issue 5

July 8 – 21 Volume 1 ■ Issue 6

Utah Schools Flunk

Anderson: Gays and Lesbians Key to Main Street Revival

The Meaning of Freedom Activist youth speak out at Pride Day

Why was LGBT Center’s Hackford-Peer fired?

LCR Installs New President

Beyer: Center to become “better representative” of community

Storrs to head up conservative gay group

Sex Toys Banned

Sports Cycling grannies cross finish line Ohio Pride confiscates guns

A&E

Rumors swirl following temporary closure

DC Ripe for “Outing” War Blowing the door off the congressional closet

Center Names Executive Director

Metro jail to develop new classification policies

Did Center Lock Out Employees?

2004 Walk for Life Rapier: Increased participation “a good sign”

Episcopalians: Same-sex unions will still be blessed

UofU Admins Face Scrutiny

Downtown Alliance: “Unity,” “Justice” too controversial

sWerve receives “Organization of the Year”

FMA Defeated

Sexing the Inmates

Pride Banners Were Nixed

Lesbians Honored

August 5 – 18 Volume 1 ■ Issue 8

Churches Oppose LDS Statement

Kennedy: Religious right looks “ridiculous”

Schools not safe, GLSEN reports

Warns LDS Church against “homogeneous downtown”

July 22 – August 4 Volume 1 ■ Issue 7

Xenia knows about birthin’ camels

Sports

Queeriscaping

WNBA lesbian stands tall

Judge: No constitutional right to privacy exists in the bedroom

Decent Exposure Fragrance-maker Holbrook shoots erotic ad campaign Sports Hungarian wrestler kicked off team after appearing in gay porn

Brandie Loves Bush

A&E

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Mecham She’s a real lesbian, dammit!

Rocker reunites with hair band — now out, bald and sexy

Free Inside!

‘No On 3’ Window Sign

MoDigs Shocks Salt Lake

Metro Guide to the Utah Arts Festival

Ruby Ridge

Why are gay men exluded from tissue donor programs?

Would you like some honey with your locusts?

Governor Backs 3 McCoy: ‘She bought into

Web Woes Equality Utah’s domain hijacked by homophobes

‘No on 3’ Support Broadens

Democratic convention drives Jarvis to ... sip

McCoy: Defeat of Utah amendment will shock the nation QUAC sends 48 swimmers to international meet

Calling in Angry Could Oct. 8 boycott unleash gay power?

Religious Leaders Weigh In

Friends and families invited to opening show

Amendment 3 causes confusion in churches

Utah Bear Alliance Wins Film Festival

Georgia Hate Crime Law Struck

‘Casey’s Dad’ video invited to SF, DC festivals

Law similar to Utah’s is called ‘too vague’

New Gay Club

Flu Shots Available to Utahns with HIV

Heads Up an upscale dance club — gay every day

A Man of God Televangelist makes anti-gay death threat

Louisiana Justice Nixes Marriage Ban

A&E

Ultra-conservatives vow to appeal

Reviews by our new film critic Eric Tierney

A&E

Ruby Ridge

Feminist Theatre Troupe Launches First Production

What if Amendment 3 were to pass?

AberRant

Red, White & Bubbly

October 28 – November 10 Volume 1 ■ Issue 14

PFLAG National Conference in SLC

their scare tactics’

Utahns in Speedos

Mecham gives advice on dealing with telemarketers

Jarvis does five shots of vodka, then writes column

Vaccine shortage not causing problems

Newspapers Oppose 3 Majority editorialize against the Amendment

AberRant Mecham: Vote or get out of my face

A&E Feminist Theatre Troupe Launches First Production

Ruby Ridge Sluts Unite!

December 23–January 5 Volume 1 ■ Issue 18

January 6–19 Volume 2 ■ Issue 1

January 20–February 2

Center In Financial Crisis

Hinckley: “Gays Have a Problem”

Episcopal Bishops Meet in Salt Lake

LDS leader appears on CNN’s ‘Larry King Show’

Larabee: We can stay open and active until mid-January

Utah Judge Says Child Should Have Two Moms

Copper Hills High Principal Reverses Note Policy

Local community split in reaction to ruling

Lambda Legal targets Utah in ads for safe schools

Bill Being Drafted to Address Financial Dependence

Thai Gay Resort in Ruins After Tsunami Thousands dead and missing

Not about ‘lifestyle’

Salt Lake Men’s Choir Welcoming New Singers

New Year’s Eve Party Guide

Also conducts auditions for all-male Joseph production

Win a Trip to Vegas Your ballot for Metro’s “Best in Utah” is on page 24!

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Red, White & Bubbly

October 14 – 27 Volume 1 ■ Issue 13

September 30 – October 13 Volume 1 ■ Issue 12

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“Candidates” in reality show compete for bucks, bully pulpit

Mecham’s Password: F#$@ING_SH#$$Y_SECU%#TY

Men’s Choir Invited to Washington D.C. Will represent the state at the National Cathedral’s ‘Utah Day’

Park: Sutherland Institute Think Tank Brainless

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Ogden Man Guilty in ‘Gay Underworld’ Murder Defense attorney: ‘Scene reminiscent of Dante’s Inferno’

Utah State Univ. Nixes Partner Benefits Plan Legal counsel warns the school not to test Amendment 3

Center Raises Over $50K With Breakfast Most successful fund raiser in the organization’s history

DC. Activist Slain Mayor’s liaison to the gay community found stabbed Kinsey Sicks Coming to Grand Theatre

Laurie Can’t Remember if She Sent in Her Column Gay Agenda Comics

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Liam: Slippery Slope Argument Preys on Fears

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Apologize for ‘causing pain’ with gay bishop

HIV Infections on the Rise in Utah New infections rising in drug users

Affirmation Leader Excommunicated Contreras: ‘My integrity, my morality and my spirituality remain intact’

Queer Sundance and Slamdance Schedules Ruby: ‘Utah is the Mississippi of the West’ Men in tutus invade Kingsbury Hall The Gay Agenda

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March 31–April 13 Volume 2

Volume 2

History of the Gay Press in Utah

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ben@slmetro.com

Freedom of the Press. So important is this basic concept that it was enshrined into our Constitution as the first part of the Bill of Rights. The founding fathers knew that a free press was essential for freedom from tyranny. They also knew a free press builds a sense of identity for a community or a people.

Thirty years ago this month, Utah’s first paper specifically geared for the burgeoning queer community appeared. The early newspapers of the queer communities of Utah were primarily the work of volunteer editors, layout people, reporters and writers. Many of the papers had to be hand lettered and laid out. These periodicals were barely able to survive, sustained by advertising revenue from the few gay friendly businesses in town. What one read in these papers was guided not by editorial policy but by whatever the editors were able to persuade people to write. Little news and even less editorial comment were presented in most of these periodicals.

In April 1975, the Gay Community Center launched the first queer publication, with Babs De Lay as the first editor. This periodical was printed on a mimeograph machine and was actually more of a newsletter. The first issue even had no name, as the name was to be chosen from a contest held at Pride Day. The winning name was The Gayzette. The paper’s handle only lasted until January 1976 when The Center changed the paper’s name to The Salt Lick, keeping Babs De Lay as editor. Places willing to distribute The Salt Lick were Cosmic Aeroplane, Open Book, Club Baths, The Sun, Sisters, Radio City, The Sunset Room, the Rape Crisis Center, the Name of the Game Jr., The Munch Shoppe, Mother Earth, MCC, Grace Christian Church, and Round Records. The Salt Lick was abandoned in 1976 after the Gay Community Center closed up shop and Babs De Lay went on to become editor of The Rocky Mountain Woman, a feminist paper.

Utah’s queer community was without a paper for over a year until the Gay Community Services Coalition officially registered The Open Door with the state of Utah in December 1977. The Open Door, a reference to “coming out of the closet,” was the primary news organ for the gay community from 1977 until 1981. Editors and owners were Ray Hencke, Joseph Dover (alias “R. Spike Joseph”), Ken A. Kline, Michael Perry, and Robert “Bob” Waldrop, pastor of Metropolitan Community Church. The Open Door’s articles had more substance then the previous papers. Jeff Howrey’s “Mormon and Gay ... One Man’s Tale of Bloody Knuckles,” first printed in The Open Door, was later reprinted in the University of Utah’s Daily Chronicle. However, it was the “Payne Papers,” printed as a serial, which garnered national attention. Cloy Jenkins, a gay BYU student, after attending an anti-gay lecture by BYU professor Reed Payne, prepared a thoughtful anonymous response to the lecture. Now known as Prologue, the paper called for a “well-reasoned dialogue on these issues.” In 1978, The Advocate published an abridged version of

Jenkins’ anonymous work.

The following year The Open Door ran this classified ad: “BYU Underground. Note: Community Voice-Persons interested in meeting other gays going to BYU. All correspondence will go through The Open Door for safety reasons. Write The Open Doors Number 1004.” While the editor of The Open Door vouched for the authenticity of the ad in an editorial piece, it was actually placed by BYU’s security to entrap gay students. In 1979, when BYU admitted its covert operation, the publisher of The Open Door sold the paper.

The new owners of The Open Door began to charge 25 cents an issue, with 40% of the profits purportedly going back into the community. Religious organizations such as Affirmation, Integrity, and MCC were to receive 10%, another 10% was to be divided between the People’s Concern Fund of the Imperial Court of Utah and the Deacon Fund of MCC, another 10% to the Tony Adams Political Rights Defense Fund, and the final 10 % into a trust fund for the eventual establishment of a gay community center for Salt Lake City. The attempt to fund gay organizations by charging 25 cents for the paper fizzled. But The Open Door continued to crank out monthly issues until 1981 when Bob Waldrop’s social activism burned out. Another paper called the Gay Community News appeared between 1980 and 1981 but no copies of it have been located.

A series of short-lived publications emerged after the demise of The Open Door. Michael Aaron’s Gay Community News lasted from 1981 to1982. Laura L. Ferreira, along with editor “Shar,” operated The Salt City Source from 1984 to 1985.

David Nelson created the news magazine The Up Front, a project of Gay Community, a non-profit Utah corporation, from 1984 to 1985. Aaron and Nelson then teamed up to make a go of The Community Reporter, which lasted one year, 1985. That same year, The Salt City Source was given to the Utah Community Services Center and Clinic and renamed The Best Source.

Beau Chaine ran the paper under the alias “Mitchell Cheney.”

Most notably, The Best Source ran articles on the deadly AIDS epidemic. AIDS activist Sidney Spears, in a letter published by the paper, was first in the community to exhort gays to help with the emerging crisis. “We just have to help ourselves. We just can’t wait for the help to come to us. We have to be willing to seek it out where ever it is... just how many have to die before we take action?”

The Best Source became the first newspaper in Utah to accept a condom ad for Trojan Naturallube Ribbed Rolled Latex Condom—“Don’t Leave Home Without One.” Additionally, Jay E. Lambert, M.D. became the first physician to advertise in a Utah gay publication with his ad in the Source.

In the 1980s, there was a major reluctance on the part of physicians to advertised in queer publications. One even stated he “was already seeing more than a fair share of patients from the gay community.”

In the latter half of the 1980s a monthly news magazine materialized that replaced all former publications. The first issue of The Triangle Magazine was published in March 1986. Many of the former editors and publishers of early print media, such as Michael Aaron and David Nelson, joined Scott Dunn, Mark Skeem, Richard (Ragnar)

responsibilities, Russo allowed the paper to expire in 1999.

In April 2004, co-owners Michael Aaron and Steven Peterson launched Salt Lake Metro for the queer community. The biweekly paper is distributed widely throughout Utah and is also available online. The first editor of the paper was Brandon Burt, followed by Jere Keys.

Women have had about the same amount of control over the news media in Utah’s queer community as have men.

Indeed several periodicals were published specifically for the women’s community.

These were the Women Aware‘s Newsletter, published anonymously by lesbians, although most noticeably by “Marilyn, Nancy and Terri,” (1979–1985), Kathy Worthington’s Womyn’s Community News (1991-1995), Dina and Whitney Hannah’s The Labrys, (1995-1997) and presently Janice Eberhardt’s Womyn 4 Women.

Queer Print News in Utah Compiled by the Utah Stonewall Historical Society 1975: The Gayzette. Editor: Babs deLay. 1976: The Salt Lick. Editor: Babs DeLay. The Salt Lick was the old Gayzette with a new name.

1977–1978: The Open Door. Editor: Ray Hencke.

1978–1979: The Open Door (Rocky Mountain Open Door). Publisher Joseph Dover bought The Open Door for $500 from the board of trustees of the Gay Service Coalition and used the name “R. Spike Joseph.”

1979: The Open Door. Editor: Michael Perry.

1979–1985: “Women Aware’s Newsletter,” published anonymously by lesbians. Most noticeable were “Marilyn, Nancy and Terri.”

1979–1981: The Open Door. Editor: Rev. Robert Waldrop, pastor of Metropolitan Community Church.

1981–1982: Gay Community News. Editor: Michael Aaron 1984–1985: The Salt City Source. Publisher: Laura L. Fierreira. Editor: “Shar” 1984–1985: The Up Front. Editor: David Nelson. A project of Gay Community, Inc.—a non-profit Utah corporation.

1985: The Community Reporter. Publisher: Gay Community, Inc. with Michael Aaron and David Nelson, editor and publisher.

1985: The Best Source. Publisher: Utah Community Services Center and Clinic. Editor: “Michelle Cheney,” whose real name is Beau Chaine.

1986–1987: Triangle Magazine. Editor: Scott Dunn.

1987–1990: Triangle Community Digest. Editor and Publisher: Satu Servigna 1989: Angles. Editors: Chad Kellar and Bobby Childers.

1990–1993: The Bridge. Publisher and editor: Alice Hart and Becky Moorman.

1990–1991: QFM -Queer Fucker’s Magazine. Publisher: Queer Nation Utah.

1991–1995: Womyn’s Community News. Publisher and editor: Kathy Worthington.

1991–1993: The Salt and Sage. Publisher: Sacred Faeries.

1992–1993: Out Front Review. Publishers: Ron Shelby and Randy Richardson.

1993: The Pillar of the Mehn’s Community. Publisher: Uranian Publishers. Editors: Ben Williams, Brandon Creer.

1993–1995: The Pillar. Publisher: Uranian Publishers.

Editor: Brandon Creer.

1993–1997: The Center of Attention. Publisher: Utah Stonewall Center 1995–1996: The Pillar. Publisher: Uranian Publishers.

Editor: Kim Russo.

1995–1997: The Labrys. Publishers: Dina and Whitney Hannah 1996–1997: The Pillar. Publisher: Uranian Publishers.

Editor: Todd Dayley 1997–2000: The Xchange. Editor: Kim Russo.

1998–present: The Pillar. Publisher and editor: Todd Dayley.

2003–present: Womyn 4 Women. Publisher: Happy Mediums. Editor: Janice Eberhardt.

2004-present: Salt Lake Metro. Publisher: Michael Aaron. Editors: Brandon Burt and Jere Keys.

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McCall, and John Sasserman in the venture, which featured as its premier article “The Church of Jesus Christ of All Latter Day Saints.” The monthly news magazine was very professional in content but the toll it took on its staff, many of whom were being diagnosed with AIDS, was devastating.

In 1987, a lesbian named Satu Servigna bought out the magazine and renamed it The Triangle Community Digest. Servigna published the paper under the alias C.J. Roux for three years, with Ralph Goff acting as editor for some of that time. The last issue of The Triangle Community Digest was July 1990 when a chronic illness forced Servigna to quit publishing.

When the Triangle folded in the summer of 1990, Becky Moorman and Alice Drake became the editor and publisher of a newsmagazine for the queer community called The Bridge. The women wanted their paper to be more of an arts and entertainment magazine than the old Triangle. The owners were, however, the first publishers to invest heavily in the hardware and software needed to operate a news magazine.

Often controversial, local printing shops sometimes would not print the magazine or would censor its cover. The women then would have to drive to Las Vegas to have the paper published. Eventually Bridge, along with the women’s bookstore The Rhino Nest, dissolved in 1993 when the pair’s relationship ended.

In 1992 Ron Shelby and Randy Richardson, with great fanfare, started a small publication called The Out Front. The pamphlet was printed bi-weekly and appeared to be more for the advertising revenue it generated than to actually be a voice of the queer community. Richardson turned out to be a con artist and after stealing about $10,000 from the community, he disappeared. Both Bridge and The Out Front ended their publications in February 1993, which left only the Womyn’s Community Newsletter as a Utah source of information, but it was geared solely toward that particular community.

In the spring of 1993 the only attempt to gear a newspaper specifically to the men’s community appeared. Ben Williams, along with Robert Smith, David Ball, Todd Dayley, members of the Sacred Faeries, and Brandon Creer started a publication called The Pillar of the Mehn’s Community as a complement to the Womyn’s Community Newsletter. Williams wanted to call the publication The Mehn’s Organ and was outvoted, but he settled for the publishing label of Uranian. Queer people were called “Uranians” during the 19th century’s pioneer homosexual movement. The maleoriented concept of the paper was dropped after two issues. Within a few months, the Pillar began to report on the entire gay and lesbian community, often with entire sections devoted to women’s issues. The Pillar’s four principal editors, Ben Williams, Brandon Creer, Kim Russo, and Todd Dayley, reflected the paper’s content. The succession of owners and editors ended in 1997 when Dayley became sole proprietor of the Pillar. In April 2005, The Pillar celebrated its 12th year and thus has the distinction of being Utah’s longest running gay publication.

Kim Russo left The Pillar in 1997 to start her own paper, the Xchange. Despite solid, informative writing, the paper never found its niche and, amidst so many other

QUEER PROM See Saturday, April 30

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A couple years ago, several Salt Lake theatre types got together to form Utah Contemporary Theatre, a new company devoted to—you guessed it—contemporary plays.

You can’t get more contemporary than brand-spanking-new, and that’s just what the troupe’s current show is. TALKING WALES,

by Utah playwright and Welsh native Mike Dorrell, is comprised of four different monologues sketching life in modern-day Wales. There’s a Jonah joke there somewhere, but I ain’t bitin.’

If you know and love someone who thinks opera is all about fat women in strange hats singing on mountaintops, here’s your opportunity to set them right. Kurt Weill’s STREET SCENE, presented tonight by the University Lyric Opera Ensemble, features a libretto by no less than Langston Hughes, probably the coolest guy who ever lived, and integrates blues, jazz, spirituals and musical theatre. And there are no horned helmets.

7:30pm through May 7, Patrick Moore Gallery, 511 W 200 South. Tickets $15 at 355-ARTS or arttix.org ■ Park City is well-known as the epicenter of independent filmmaking in these United States. Now our state’s own directors are getting in on the act as the Park City Film Series presents the first LOCAL FILMMAKER’S SHOWCASE. Come tonight for a screening of Park City filmmaker Eric Ristau’s documentary The Majority Report.

7pm, Jim Santy Auditorium at the Park City Librtary, 1255 Park Avenue, Park City. Admission is free. Information at all 435-645-3966.

SWEET HONEY IN THE ROCK See Sunday, May 1

7:30pm through tomorrow, Kingsbury Hall, Presidents’ Circle at the University of Utah.

Tickets $10-$20 at 581-7100 or arttix.org

LUCY JUAREZ

by Eric Tierney

the Ruskis prefer to stay indoors and excel in pretty much all art forms—they’ve cornered the market on novel writing, theatre, ballet and music, of course. Up-and-coming violinist NADJA SALERNO-SONNENBERG will join the Utah Symphony tonight in a Russian program including Shostakovich’s violin concerto and Rimsky Korsakov’s beloved Scheherazade.

8pm, Abravanel Hall, 123 W. South Temple.

Tickets $10-$40 at 355-ARTS or arttix.org

7:30pm, Jeanne Wagner Theatre at the Rose Wagner Performing Arts Center, 138 W Broadway.

Tickets $15 at 355-ARTS or arttix.org

■ When I was 16, I took my good friend Leah to prom, where we danced awkwardly, flirted even more awkwardly, and shared a good-night peck that was most awkward of all, because we both knew I’d rather have been there with a boy (Oh, Justin, where are you now?). If I had only turned sixteen ten years later, I could have danced the night away with my fellows at the QUEER PROM. Gay youth and their straight friends aged 13-20 are welcome to the smoke-free event, where they can have the night they deserve in safety and support.

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8pm-12am, Salt Lake Hardware Bldg, 105 N. 400 West. Tickets $8 at 539-8800 or queersinaction@hotmail.com

If you’re like me, Fashion Week is simply too hectic to be bothered with. I can’t stand all the Cristal and Lear jets and bony people reeking of vomit. To get my fashion fix, I’d rather attend RAW, Salt Lake Community College Fashion Institute’s student fashiondesign show, which will feature professional models. Presumably, some of them will be male. Need I say more?

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Considering that Russia rivals only Neptune for inhospitable climates, it’s no wonder that

1SUNDAY The word “prolific” was invented to describe acts like SWEET HONEY IN THE ROCK, an all-female, African American a cappella singing group who for over 30 years have been bringing to audiences their mix of everything from jazz to spirituals to hip-hop to chant to reggae to lullabies. Use caution, though—this is the kind of show so inspirational that it makes people run out and join the Peace Corps. Just so you know.

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7:30pm, Eccles Center for the Performing Arts, 1750 Kearns Blvd, Park City. Tickets $15-$50 at 355-ARTS or arttix.org.

2MONDAY You know that song that goes “somebody told me/you had a boyfriend/that looked like a girlfriend/that I had in February of last year?”

It’s pretty killer, right? Hey, don’t roll your eyes at me! THE KILLERS are in Salt Lake tonight.

They’ll probably sing that song. Excuse me for trying to be witty.

7:30pm, Kingsbury Hall, Presidents’ Circle at the University of Utah. Tickets $20 at 355-2787 or smithstix.com.

Clay and Nadia move aside as Utah’s gay and lesbian community competes in UTAH KARAOKE STAR QUEST CONTEST. Tonight ■

is the men’s qualifying competition. The final Star Quest winner, to be chosen at the finals on May 18, will sing onstage at Utah Pride and half of all proceeds will go to their chosen charity—the other half goes to the Salt Lake Men’s Choir. Come vote for your favorite star.

8pm, Heads Up, a private club for members, 168 W. Pierpont Ave. slmetro.com/starquest

4WEDNESDAY If our story on AMY RAY (see page 23) doesn’t convince you to come to her show tonight, then I’m hard pressed to come up with something here that will. Of course, if you require convincing to go and see one of the best songwriters of the last twenty years, who also happens to be a bitchin’ singer and activist lesbian, then the problem, friend, is really yours.

8pm, LoFi Café, 165 S. West Temple. Tickets $10 in advance, $15 day of show, at 480-LOFI or loficafe.com.

■ Now here’s a segue: Amy Ray’s from Georgia. You know who else is Southern?

Hal Holbrook! He’s been doing his one-man show about Samuel Clemens, MARK TWAIN TONIGHT, for so long that Twain himself is said to have consulted on the script. Maybe Holbrook could use some new material, but his wife, Dixie Carter, is quite a firecracker, always speechifyin’ and yellin’ at Delta Burke. He’s got his hands full.

8pm, Kingsbury Hall, Presidents’ Circle at the University of Utah. Tickets $32.50-$39.25 at 581-7100 or arttix.org.

■ The women take the stage for the UTAH KARAOKE STAR QUEST CONTEST in the final

qualifying competition. See Monday the 2nd for the full run-down.

8pm, MoDiggity’s, a private club for members, 3424 S. State. slmetro.com/starquest

5THURSDAY While perhaps not an auspicious name for a group looking to have a successful career in music, THE FUNERAL is an awesome band.

Think The Cure meets Oingo Boingo meets ... I don’t know, someone more contemporary. No doubt they’ll be all over the damn radio soon, so here’s your chance to say you saw them first.

7:30pm, Sugarbeat’s, 2106 S. 1100 East. Tickets $5 at the door. All-ages show.

6FRIDAY I think this is the third KATHRYN WARNER show I’ve mentioned in as many months, which should be an indication to you that she’s really, really good and if you haven’t seen her yet, you ought to. Imagine, if you will, the love child of Michelle Malone and Ani DiFranco. See what I mean?

8pm, Jeanne Wagner Theatre at the Rose Wagner Performing Arts Center, 138 W. Broadway. Tickets $15 at 355-ARTS or arttix.org.

■ The SLICK ROCK GYPSIES say it themselves better than I ever could: their music is “a jazzy pop-rocking prescription to heal your aching planet.” That’s a prescription I think we could all agree needs some filling. Like I said, they say it better than I can.

7:30pm, Leona Wagner Black Box Theatre, 138 W Broadway. Tickets $12 at 355-ARTS or arttix.org

7SATURDAY Boy, do I love Nicky Silver. If you saw Pygmalion Productions’ 2002 staging of The Food Chain, you know what I mean. His plays are, as a lesser writer such as myself might put it, “hilarious and heartfelt.” Pygmalion brings another Silver-scribed script to Salt Lake this week with THE MAIDEN’S PRAYER, the story of a bride, her groom, and the various wedding guests, male and female, who are in love with him. Definitely more fun than a big, fat Utah anything.

8pm tonight, 7:30pm Thursdays, 8pm Fridays and Saturdays, Sundays at 2pm through May 28.

Studio Theatre at the Rose Wagner Performing Arts Center, 138 W. Broadway. Tickets $18, 3552787 or arttix.org.

The Salt Lake Children’s Choir has reached a major milestone: they’ve been bringing great music to children’s lives and audience’s ears for twenty-five years. Join them tonight at their 25TH ANNIVERSARY CONCERT, which will also feature some of the Choir’s incredibly talented soloists. Not really fair that they have the birthday and we get the gift.

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7:30pm, Libby Gardner Concert Hall, Presidents’ Circle at the University of Utah. Tickets $10 at 355-2787 or arttix.org.

bined epic scale with intimate emotion. His mammoth SECOND SYMPHONY is a perfect example of this technique, and tonight the Utah Symphony will perform it in concert with the Utah Symphony Chorus as well as the fabulous soprano SALLY DIBBLEE. 8pm, Abravanel Hall, 123 W. South Temple.

Tickets $10-$47 at 355-2787or arttix.org

8SUNDAY While this one will technically be taking place three days late, a Cinco de Mayo party is always fun. What better way to spend a Sunday than at the 8TH ANNUAL CINCO DE MAYO SUPER SHOW? This year the show features music from Baby Bash, Frankie J, Natalie, and Trillville.

10am–6pm, Utah State Fairpark, 155 N. 1000 West., Tickets $20 at 487-TIXX or smithstix.com

10TUESDAY Every summer, my most musical friends travel to places like Durango, Jackson Hole and Indo for music festivals. But I’m thinking this year they won’t want to go anywhere, since Mountain Town Stages is presenting ALONE on Stage in Park City, a six-night festival of solo acoustic performers that begins tonight. A celebration of singer/ songwriters from across the musical spectrum, the shows will take place in intimate settings all over the PC. Individual tickets range from $22–52, packages $57–82. Tickets and information at 435-901SONG or mountaintownstages.com

11WEDNESDAY There’s a moment in Garden State when Natalie Portman invites Zach Braff to don her headphones and listen to a song she says will change his life. The song is called “New Slang” and the band who sings it is THE SHINS. Natalie’s right, it’s an awesome song, and even if they don’t change your life, the band is sure to put on a great show tonight.

6pm, Olpin Union Ballroom at the University of Utah, 200 S Central Campus Drive. Tickets $18 at 24tix.com.

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EarPiece Pop Culture Junkies

by Eric J. Tierney

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It seems that every time I go to the news stand at my local quality independent bookseller, there are racks and racks of music magazines of which I’ve never heard offering me a free CD featuring a number of bands of which I haven’t heard either. I’m usually tempted to buy these magazines for two reasons: 1) I find that the very best bands are usually those that no one’s heard of, and 2) I like to be the cool guy who knows all the obscure bands.

Does admitting to being a poseur lend one any more credibility?

At any rate, I was at Sam Weller the other day and noticed the latest issue of an indie magazine I never read was a music issue.

It included—you guessed it—a free CD, and on the CD was a song by a fellow called M Ward. Now I saw M Ward on TV a few weeks ago doing one of his songs with Conor Oberst from Bright Eyes. I loved the song, but all I really remember about it was that it concerned the adventures of a man named O’Brien. The M Ward song on the free disc was called “Vincent O’Brien.”

I decided to take my chances and here, ladies and gentlemen, is where I came to realize that when it comes to pop culture, I have something of a problem: I spent eight dollars on a magazine I was not really interested in reading so that I could get a “free” CD that might possibly include a song I dimly recalled from a television show I watched at four in the morning a month ago. Needless to say, the M Ward song I got was not the one I was thinking of. This, as my father would say, is how they get ya.

In other pop culture news, let us all praise the Fox Television Network. The network famous for bringing out fantastic and innovative new programs, allowing them to stay on the air just long enough for a devoted group of viewers to fall in love with them, and then unceremoniously canceling them has performed two acts recently which go a long way toward redemption.

First of all, while it has not announced that Arrested Development will return for a third season, it has also not yet announced cancellation of the show either. Secondly, in a much more satisfying move, it has brought back Family Guy. The saga of this un-Simpsons has been well-chronicled, and I won’t go into the long history of endless time-slot changes, near cancellations, punishing hiatuses, etc. here (many a blog can fill you in on those details if you’re interested, praise Google), but suffice it to say this is a show that deserves to be watched. It has a reputation for being offensive, insensitive, shocking, and tasteless. And it is. But

there’s a lot more to it than that: the show is famous for random, brief cutaways full of pop-culture references, everything from the Dukes of Hazard to Sunny Delight commercials to Lerner and Loewe musicals.

Family Guy is an assault of trivial humor that fires volley after volley of sharp jokes culled from the zeitgeist, and they come on so fast that the resulting laughter is almost an inconvenience, as you’re usually laughing so hard at one joke that you miss the next.

Now there are those who say such celebrations of pop-culture are useless and meaningless, on par as a time-sucker with, say, VH1’s I Love the 80s. I disagree. From an intellectual standpoint, the barrage of cultural information makes a powerful statement about just how saturated our lives have become with the constant drivel spouted at us from our TV sets—so much so that while the nation is falling apart at the seams socially and politically, everyone can identify with Kool-Aid Man. Thousands

of years from now, when the anthropologists of the future are sifting through the ashes of our current incarnation of Rome, we’d like to think they’ll get a sense of who we were as a people by looking to Phillip Roth or Howard Zinn or even Jon Stewart.

Nonsense. The most accurate record of what was happening in the day-to-day lives of everyday Americans at the dawn of the twenty-first century will be the first four seasons of Family Guy. Plus, aside from all that, who cares whether or not it has any resonance? It’s funny as hell.

Finally, I want to briefly expound on a strange phenomenon I’ve recently encountered that may indicate some kind of rift in the space-time continuum, or possibly the first tenuous attempts at communication from a more advanced, benevolent race of beings. Naturally, it has to do with The O.C. Now I don’t know what this means, but I find that if I watch the show faithfully for a few weeks, things are relatively stable and easy to follow, but if I take so much as one week off, the next episode I see will feature a vast number of characters whom I’ve never seen before but who have woven themselves inextricably into the fabric of the show’s storyline. Does anyone else find this a little spooky? Now Family Guy would never do this to us. They’d make a Dharma & Greg joke instead. Oooh, it that show still on? That Dharma is so zany. God bless America!

and former members of celebrated punk band Team Dresch, all musicians that Ray chose to record with because they’re bands she likes to listen to.

Ray is as well known for her activism as for her music. She and Saliers have toured many times in support of Honor the Earth, an environmental organization, and both have raised their voices on issues as diverse as nuclear waste storage and gay marriage.

Prom features a song called “Let it Ring” that could be characterized as a war-cry to chill the hearts of the religious right. Ray’s unmistakable voice, with its smoky low tones and raw release, rises to chide the powers that be for their hypocrisy: “Let it ring to Jesus ‘cause he’d sure be proud of you/You made fear an institution and it got the best of you/Let it ring/In the name of the one that you set free.”

At this point, she says, the music and the activism is all one thing. The politics fuel the music and the music fuels the politics. Ray points to other artists whom she calls “real activists” as her inspiration, people like Jackson Browne and Bonnie

side in which Ray grew up, and several deal with high school life.

“In high school I fell in love with a woman for the first time,” Ray says, “I played my first gigs, learned about rebellion, experiby Eric J. Tierney enced the idea of community, and felt the eric@slmetro.com innocence of genderless childhood fading Amy Ray is something of an anomaly in away into the reality of puberty.” All those the music business: as half of the phenomthemes are explored in the new songs. enally successful girls-with-guitars duo Among the benefits of being a well-esIndigo Girls, she’s managed to carve out a tablished musician, Ray says, is that it gives successful twenty-year career for herself, her a little more freedom to write. She has founded a record label, and produced her more time to spend on writing music now own albums, all with a minimum of radio than she did when she was first starting and media support. At the same time, she’s out. become one of the country’s most passion“Which means I had to learn discipline,” ate and effective environmental and social she says. “I used to have to wait for the activists. muse. Now I know I just have to work, I She’s also a pioneer. Ray has been openly have to sit down and write a few hours a gay since long before Indigo Girls were day.” signed, making the duo amongst the first Ray says she’ll often start as many as six lesbian musicians to gain national songs at a time. That may sound AMY RAY attention and credibility. Ray is a daunting, but Ray says it’s made May 4 fierce champion of her commuLo-Fi Café her more prolific—“there’s always nity, and gays and lesbians love 165 S West Temple something to work on.”

Tickets $13 at her for it, as anyone who’s been to When asked how the process 24tix.com or any a show can attest. of writing solo songs differs from Graywhale CD And anyone who hasn’t can exExchange location. writing for Indigo Girls, Ray says, perience it for themselves on May “When I’m writing for Indigo Girls, 4, when Ray stops in Salt Lake to I really hear Emily [Saliers, her Indigo Girls play a show at the Lo-Fi Café. She’s touring partner.] I feel like I’m writing a duo song, in support of her new album, Prom, which writing for two voices which are equal and was released April 12. This is Ray’s second with distinct color. But sometimes I start a solo album. Her first, Stag, saw her getting song and I hear only one voice, and that’s a back to her punk roots—the songs were solo song.” visceral, bare-bones and direct. The new Prom is released by Daemon Records, record is a bit more sophisticated, featuring the independent label Ray established in dense arrangements, masterful guitar play1991 and has run ever since. The coming, and the well-crafted, fearless lyrics that pany is perhaps Ray’s greatest passion and fans have come to expect from Ray. occupies much of her time. An admitted The songs on Prom are linked by themes audiophile, Ray loves nothing so well as a of love and gender, and most share a pasgood musician. Because she owns the label toral setting. The stories range from suicide and must answer to no one, she’s able to to gender identification to coming out to collaborate with musicians she really cares political idealism. Stag was a much angrier about. record, a bit more polemic. There was a “When I make a solo record, I don’t want lot of spleen directed at men on the first people only to listen to me. I want them to album, while the current one comes from hear these other great musicians,” she says. a more balanced place, Ray says, and the Guest artists on the album include songs explore the equity of the male and drummer Kate Schellenbach, who’s played female inside her. Many of the songs have with Beastie Boys and Luscious Jackson, rural settings, echoing the Georgia country-

Raitt. “These people were in the civil rights marches. They were active in that movement. We’ve learned a lot from them.”

Ray’s solo career is taking off, but Indigo Girls is still going strong. Late this summer the duo will release Rarities, a compilation of b-sides and other rare tracks, and they will continue the grueling tour schedule they’ve kept for almost twenty years now.

After playing together since their college days, Ray says, “We’re really like sisters. We were best friends, comrades in the musical world. We lead separate lives now, and we keep in touch as sisters do. She called me yesterday and left me a message congratulating me on the record. We’re very solid.”

Meanwhile, Ray is traveling by van all across the country, playing small venues.

Prom is a rock record, Ray notes, and it’s hard for women to get records out at all these days. Artists have to rely on people to seek them out. For any queer person, for any socially activist person, or for anyone who loves a good rock show, seeking out Amy Ray would be well worth the effort.

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by Eric J. Tierney

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There is a world of difference between loving someone and needing them. You can love someone and not need them, need them but not love them, but heaven help you if you love them because you need them.

The gulf between these two states of mind is where Nicky Silver’s play The Maiden’s Prayer dwells.

The story follows young lovers Taylor and Cynthia, the quintessential engaged American couple: attractive, outwardly successful, and teeming on the edge of total, unacknowledged disaster. Things begin to unravel on their wedding day, when Cynthia’s sister Libby admits to being in love with the groom. ters to breathe a bit and for the tone to She’s not the only darken slightly. Indeed, some critics have one—Taylor’s childhood friend Paul has said the play features a modern version of also been harboring secret romantic feelChekov’s mix of melancholy and mirth. ings for him. For decades. Finally, there’s Pygmalion’s production is helmed by Andrew, Paul’s latest in a line of nearlySalt Lake theatre veteran Barb Gandy, anonymous, brief trysts, who’s interested who recently appeared onstage in Planin pursuing Paul for, as the company’s B’s Tragedy: a tragedy and has been press release puts it, “true love, available involved in the city’s theatre scene for real estate and cable T.V.” the better part of twenty years. The cast Silver is hailed by many as the funfeatures Alex Bala as Taylor, Carl Nelson niest playwright working today. Since as Paul, Christy Summerhays as Cynthia, New York’s Vineyard Theatre produced Charla Brinkpeter as Libby, Pterodactyls in 1993, he’s and Brian Bahr as Andrew. written a string of stylistic, THE MAIDEN’S The show is something of a sophisticated farces. His PRAYER rarity to Salt Lake’s gay audiBy Nicky Silver work attracts theatre actors Directed by Barb Gandy ence. We are seldom treated of the first stripe—among May 6–28 those who’ve appeared in his Rose Wagner Studio Theatre to scripts that feature queer characters at all, let alone plays are Hope Davis, Patricia 138 W. Broadway 7:30pm Thursdays actors who portray them with Clarkson, Kelly Bishop and 8pm Fridays, Saturdays such complexity and truth.

Betty Buckley. The Maiden’s 2pm Sundays Matinees Pygmalion, in their continuTickets: $12–18 Prayer is being produced by 355-ARTS ing effort to bring the kind of Pygmalion Productions, who contemporary, thought-proestablished themselves as a voking theatre to the Valley that few other major new presence in Salt Lake theatre companies are willing to produce, has with their 2002 production of another chosen pieces again and again that chalSilver play, The Food Chain. lenge the viewer and represent a broader Although any Nicky Silver play is guarworld view. The Maiden’s Prayer, being a anteed to generate laughs, The Maiden’s farce, is not Tony Kushner, to be sure, but Prayer finds the author in a more meditait’s a farce with heart and real wit. Not tive, reflective mood. Whereas the previto mention some attractive young men. ous plays are full of rapid-fire dialogue What more can one really ask of a night at and dizzying pace, this one slows itself the theatre? down occasionally, allowing the charac-

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Unitarian, Presbyterian, and Methodist Churches—and some local LDS Relief Societies,” said Executive Director Stan Penfold.

UAF is always very involved with Utah Pride providing free testing, counseling, and information. Volunteers for test site, hosting, providing food or information must complete 2 hours of training, which begins May 16, 2005. Up to 20 hours of training is required to be a test site counselor.

The PEOPLE WITH AIDS COALITION OF UTAH, also almost two decades old, facilitates social and support functions for people living with HIV/ AIDS. They offer recreational programs, alternative therapy programs, workshops, seminars, a newsletter, a resource library, internet access, support and social groups.

PWACU is publicly funded either by individual or corporate donations. Nearly all of the funds raised go toward programs and resources. Funds have been particu-

larly scarce in the last year according to the director, Toni Johnson. Johnson is the sole employee of PWACU and has not taken a salary in over ten months.

PWACU programs provide access to cultural and community events that people affected by HIV/AIDS may not otherwise be able to attend. Annual recreational events include tickets to symphonies, ballets, and movies; a garden party, a river trip, barbecues, and picnics.

PWACU seminars cover an array of subjects ranging from new medical and holistic advances to spiritual and emotional issues and offer the community a chance to learn about pertinent issues and talk to others impacted by the disease.

The PWACU is a 501(c)(3) umbrella charter for the Utah Gay Rodeo Association. Affiliated organizations include the Court, Avenging Lesbians, the Center, Community Shares, and UpNet.

raises funds for over 26 nonprofit agencies in Utah through payroll campaigns and sporting events. Donors can designate a charity or provide a blanket donation to many charities and 100% of the donations raised go to the charities.

CS/U is a cooperative effort by all of the organizations it benefits. Member organizations provide volunteer hours to sustain fundraising efforts. Only organizations that are registered 501(c)(3) and properly licensed may join CS/U. CS/U provides a direct benefit to queer

organizations such as PWACU. Although the Center has received donations through CS/U in the past, they are currently not part of the program. CS/U indirectly impacts the queer community by helping organizations that encompass disabilities, children, education, and animal rights; and help organizations like SPLORE, which provides recreational facilitation for PWACU and other organizations for persons with disabilities.

COMMUNITY ACTION PROGRAM was founded over four decades ago to alleviate poverty. CAP receives most of its funding from government grants. Nearly 20% of CAPs $550,000 housing budget provides housing benefits for persons with AIDS.

COMMUNITY SHARES OF UTAH is a nonprofit facilitator from outside our community that

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Red,White Bubbly Wallace on Wine

by Beau Jarvis beau@slmetro.com

I find it difficult to write a consistently engaging wine column.

In the past, I’ve tried writing wine reviews in the form of Haiku and Limericks. This led me to ponder how some of my favorite poets and authors would approach wine writing.

David Foster Wallace is a favorite author of mine. He’s “playfully erudite.” He writes in a nonconformist style. His writing also aggravates some readers. However, I find his writing engaging, challenging, and humorous. With sincere apologies to Mr. Wallace, to those who enjoy his work, and to those who become cross-eyed with frustration and/or rage at the mere mention of his name, I present a wine review in the David Foster Wallace style.

La Cai Noodle House

by Vanessa Chang Vanessa@slmetro.com

961 South State Street, SLC (801) 322-3590

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Hours: Sunday-Thursday 11am-9pm Friday-Saturday 11am-10pm

Louder isn’t always better. Not to knock it, but the ubiquitous flavors of Thai food on area menus (curry, curry, curry, oh, and coconut milk, too) can get pretty boring. Thai’s quieter cousin, Vietnamese cuisine, is all the rage in other parts of the country, though it has yet to make its mark here. For lunch crowds, La Cai Noodle House has always been a consistent place to score some good cheap eats. But look beyond Chinese-hybrid items and you’ll find the balanced flavors of mint, garlic, coriander, and ginger that; when done correctly, are really intoxicating.

There are no visual remnants of the old Mexican joint that used to call the building home. Thanks to extensive remodeling, you walk into the light clanging of bamboo wind chimes and sophisticated décor, complete with sleek booths, lacquered tables, and strategically-placed engraved panels. You ll always run into the same folks working there, all providing efficient and informed service. Don’t be afraid to ask questions; they will happily answer them.

It’s a noodle house, people. So I’m not going out on a limb in saying that some of the best dishes hail from the noodle and pho sections. For less than six dollars, you get a huge bowl of savory broth, loads of rice noodles, a selection of delicately sliced beef, and some

fresh and fragrant fixings like bean sprouts, cilantro, and fresh chiles. The broth is the best part of the dish. With bare hints of cinnamon amidst its rich flavor, this liquid alone can heal. But really, it’s great to dip the slices of beef into some spicy Sriracha (endearingly referred to as “cock sauce” by friends because of the packaging’s trademark rooster) and slurp up some noodles. I prefer mine with a soft anise kick from fresh Thai basil, which you’ll have to ask for on the side. And don’t be thwarted if they look at you as if you’re crazy—in my book (and some other pho houses), the basil is an absolute requisite.

Stellar entrees like salt-baked shrimp or calamari come wok seared with scallions and fresh jalapenos. Served without a gluey cornstarch-thickened sauce, the flavors are pure and clean, with just a touch of fire to flavor the sweet morsels of seafood. Sautéed lemon grass and chile chicken paired with a steaming bowl of fragrant rice are reinvigorating and near perfection.

There’s always the question of what to drink with Southeast Asian cuisine. There’s only a rudimentary wine list, though it includes a tasty plum wine. Otherwise, you’re better off exploring some good beer from that part of the world. Tsingtao from China, Singha from Thailand, and Hue (“whey”) from Vietnam are great pairings. For the teetotaling companions, try a glass of iced lychee. Served whole in its own juice and over ice, these delicate peeled and pitted lychees could even serve as a light dessert with fragrant pear, pineapple, and jasmine notes in every juicy bite.

Though I wouldn’t call it the pinnacle of Vietnamese cuisine, La Cai’s friendly service and great value make it a great place in the valley to get to know some new and worthwhile flavors.

Lustau(1) “Los Arcos”(2) Dry(3) Amontillado Sherry ($10)—Very bright(4) caramel/copper in color. This Sherry offers dizzying(5) scents of roasted almond(6), salt(7), date(8), and wood(9). In the mouth, The Arcs(10) tastes like a dry Tawny Port(11). This is a tasty wine(12), wrapped up(13) in a tangy, food-friendly(14) package(15). Sip(16) Los Arcos alongside your favorite Tapa. (17) It is the perfect accompaniment to Gazpacho(18).

(1) Lustau was actually established in 1896(a) by Don Jose Ruiz-Berdejo y Veyan.

I’ve no idea why the brand isn’t named “Ruiz-Berdejo y Veyan,” unless it simply costs too much in terms of label real estate or ink outlay.

(2) Or “The Arcs” if you have limited or no command(b) of the Spanish language.

(3) And when the Spanish designate Sherry as “dry,” they aren’t whistling Dixie(c). There will be precisely zero fruit scents, aromas or flavors to be pried(d) out of the glass.

(4) I’m not implying the wine actually glows in the dark. Rather it shimmers in the glass.

Perhaps the description should have read, “Shiny, shimmering(e) caramel and/or copper in color.”

(5) When sniffed or drunk in moderation, Sherry does not cause dizziness. It is dizzying in the sense that the mind struggles to conjure up adjectives for all the volatile molecules ascending the nasal passages and making contact with cilia-equipped neurons.

(6) Preheat oven to 350 degrees F(f). Spread almonds over baking sheet. Roast for twenty minutes or until almond skin begins to crack.

(7) Many Sherry producers and enthusiasts claim that Sherry grapevines are imbued with salt from ocean spray carried on the breeze(g).

(8) Fruit of the date palm (Phoenix dactylifera), which is mentioned in both the Koran and Bible(h).

(9) This is one of those annoying adjectives used by wine writers the world over. I don’t mean that the wine smells like a plank of wood. Rather, it smells like the inside of a toasted barrel(i). Of course, not many folks have actually sniffed the inside of a barrel, let alone a toasted barrel.

(10) On-demand Spanish translation!

(11) To my knowledge, there is no such thing as a dry Tawny Port(j). Tawny Ports are actually quite sweet. Their unique flavors

can be partially attributed to wood (see (9)) (12) One of the major struggles in wine writing is avoiding repetition when referring to the wine under review. I’m tapped out after, “this wine,” “the wine,” “this Sherry,” and “Los Arcos.” I now must resort to inserting adjectives such as “this tasty wine.” Redundancy is a killer.

(13) The reader is being set up here for a whopper(k) of a metaphor. I am attempting to paint a mental image of the Sherry as a gift, wrapping paper and all.

(14) Another all-too-commonplace wine adjective.

(15) Metaphor delivered(l).

(16) While sipping isn’t required, it is recommended. Los Arcos tastes deceptively light in the alcohol department. However, it packs an alcohol-punch of 18.5% (m).

(17) Tapa literally means “cover” or “lid (n).”

(18) A cold(o), tomato-based Spanish soup that is popular in warmer areas and during the summer. It is usually spicy, but a milder variant has also become popular. (a) Also the year in which Utah was granted statehood. (b) And really, shouldn’t we all learn Spanish as a sign of friendship to our southern (as in Mexico) neighbors? (c) Or whatever ditty your typical Spaniard might whistle. (d) pry tr.v. pried, prying, pries (e) Thus I would have been able to employ the timeless literary device of alliteration, which is clearly illustrated by the phrase, “Sally sells seashells by the seashore.” (f) Tc = (5/9)*(Tf-32); Tc = temperature in degrees Celsius, Tf = temperature in degrees Fahrenheit (g) This needn’t be a Wizard of Oz-type breeze. The Sherry region is, in fact, on the southern coast of Spain. So there is close proximity to ocean spray, although I’m not sure if I buy the whole salt-imbued-vineyard thing. (h) And, I assume, the Torah. (i) Barrels are often toasted on the inside for purposes of ageing wine. The toasted wood imparts buttery, spicy-sweet, scents to aging wine. (j) Tawny port is aged in wooden barrels, exposing it to gradual oxidation and evaporation, causing its color to mellow to a golden-brown after roughly ten years “in wood.” (k) As in a large-sized, heavy-duty metaphor—not a big hamburger or malted chocolate candy. (l) !! (m) A higher alcohol percentage than even the biggest of California Cabernet or Zinfandel wines. (n) “The association with appetizers is thought to have come from the old habit of placing a slice of bread or a piece of ham on top of one’s wine glass, perhaps to keep out insects. This edible lid was the precursor of modern-day tapas.” (o) In both fiction and real life, there have occurred embarrassing situations in which a Gazpacho-ignorant diner insists that his or her cold soup be heated up.

Dear reader, if you have made it this far, I raise my glass(aa) to you. If you wish to rant or rave about the Wallace style used in this wine review, please email me at: beau@slmetro.com (aa)

Cheers!

Beau Jarvis is a sommelier and wine educator.

He operates basicjuice.com, a wine review and info website. He also runs basicjuice.blogs.com

Di ing Guide Dining de SALT LAKE CITY, UT

Panini

Café Med

panini.us

420 E. 3300 S. / 493-0100 HOURS: SU-TH 11AM-9PM F-SA 11AM-10PM CUISINE: MEDITERRANEAN PRICE: $ CARDS: TC AE D MC V

Persian, Greek, Italian, Turkish and Vegetarian in a warm, relaxing atmosphere.

Coffee Garden 898 S 900 E / 355-3425 HOURS: SU-TH 6AM-11PM F-SA 6AM-12AM CUISINE: COFFEEHOUSE PRICE: ¢ CARDS: AE D MC V

299 S. MAIN ST. / 535-4300 HOURS:

CUISINE: RESERV.: PRICE: CARDS:

M-F 11:30AM-3PM M-TH 5-9PM F-SA 5-10PM ITALIAN, SEAFOOD SUGGESTED $$$ TC AE D MC V

Robust Italian fare in an elegant atmosphere with a tasteful, contemporary vibe.

Salt Lake Pizza & Pasta 1063 E. 2100 S. / 484-1804

saltlakepizzaandpasta.com HOURS: CUISINE: PRICE: CARDS:

M-SA 11AM-11PM SU 11AM-10PM ITALIAN $ TC AE D MC V

SLC’s buzzing java shop with a diverse crowd. Sandwiches, desserts, sidewalk dining.

Voted as Utah’s Best Pizza two years in a row! Great beer selection. Sugarhouse.

Fiddler’s Elbow

Xiao Li

1063 E. 2100 S. / 463-9393

307 W. 200 SOUTH / 328-8688 HOURS: LUNCH: 1130AM-2:30PM DINNER: 4:30-10PM F-SA 4:30-11PM CUISINE: CHINESE PRICE: $ CARDS: TC AE D MC V

fiddlerselbowslc.com M-TH 11AM-11PM F-SA 11AM-12AM SU 9AM-10PM CUISINE: AMERICAN PRICE: $ CARDS: TC AE D MC V HOURS:

32 beers to choose from, including Utah’s best selection of microbrews.

Michelangelo Ristorante 2156 S, HIGHLAND DR./ 466-0961

The restaurant that serves the most authentic Szechwan and Mandarin cuisine.

WEST VALLEY CITY Gringo’s West Valley

TU-SA 11:30AM-1:30PM 5:45-9PM CUISINE: ITALIAN PRICE: $$ CARDS: AE D MC V

2785 W 3500 S / 969-8811 HOURS: M-SA 10:30AM-9PM SU 10:30AM-8PM CUISINE: MEXICAN PRICE: ¢ CARDS: MC V

Begun by childr\hood friends Paulo Celeste and Marco Gabrielli of Tuscany.

Good Mexican food...fast.

Fresh salsa bar, food made to order. See our coupon!

Nick-N-Willy’s Pizza

Restaurant Owners:

michelangeloristorante.com HOURS:

4538 S, HIGHLAND DR./ 273-8282

nicknwillyspizza.com HOURS: CUISINE: PRICE: CARDS:

SU-TH 11AM-10PM F-SA 11AM-12PM PIZZA $ AE D MC V

Dine in or take-out. Call ahead and we’ll have it ready. Albertsons Shopping Ctr.

Orbit Cafe 540 W. 200 S. / 322-3808

orbitslc.com HOURS: CUISINE: PRICE: CARDS:

SU-TH 11AM-10PM F-SA 11AM-3AM AMERICAN ECLECTIC $ TC AE D MC V

Open late nights on Fridays and Saturdays with DJs and a special menu.

Bar Guide Club 161* 161 S. Pueblo St (1440 W.) 363-8161 / club161.com HOURS: M&W 7pm-2am TH–SU 2pm-2am CLOSED TUES GAY: Every Day AGE: 21+ / COVER: No Levi, Leather, Fetish. M Fetish Night, TH Underwear Night, F Leather/Bear 299 S. Main Street 535-4300 / panini.us HOURS: M–TH 11am-10pm F–SA 11am-12am GAY: Mondays AGE: 21+ / COVER: No Speed dating first Mondays of the month.

Club Try-Angles* 251 W. 900 South 364-3203 clubtry-angles.com HOURS: 2pm-2am daily GAY: Every day AGE: 21+ / COVER: No FR-SA DJ Boy Toy. MO “MorMondays.” TU, FR, SA–$1 drafts. SU afternoons–Buffet.

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Heads Up*

HOURS: W

163 W. Pierpont Ave. (240 S) / 359-2161 headsupslc.com HOURS: 4pm-2am daily GAY: Every day AGE: 21+ COVER: $2 / Members free Salt Lake’s newest club.

MO & TH Karaoke. TU 50¢ drafts. FR, SA High NRG.

GAY: Wednesday

MoDiggity’s* 3424 S. State St. 832-9000 modiggitys.com HOURS: M–TH 4pm-12am F–SA 4pm-2am SU 11-2am GAY: Every day / AGE: 21+ COVER: $4/members free Sports & music club for women. Football & mimosa brunch Sundays.

Paper Moon* 3737 S. State / 713-0678 HOURS: M–F 3pm-1am SA 7pm-1am SU Noon-1am GAY: Every day / AGE: 21+ COVER: varies SL’s premier women’s club.

TU Karaoke, WE 80¢ drafts.

FR & SA hip hop/dance

Todd’s Bar & Grill* 1051 S 300 W / 328-8650 toddsbarandgrill.com

10am-2am / AGE: 21+ COVER: No Gay Weds w/ DJ Ebenflow and Brent B. Free parking

Trapp* 102 S 600 W 531-8727 / thetrapp.com HOURS: 10am-2am daily GAY: Every day / AGE: 21+ COVER: $3/members free Really gay every day. SU Buffet, NFL, M & W Karaoke.

Trapp Door* 102 S. 600 W. 533-0173 / trappdoor.com HOURS: 10am-2am daily GAY: Every day / AGE: 21+ COVER: $3/Members free New Ownership. Dance, show club. Hot men & hot music. SU Latin night.

W Lounge* 358 S W Temple 359-0637 HOURS: 9pm-2am daily GAY: n/a / AGE: 21+ COVER: varies Voted “Best Place to Meet Friendly Straight Folks” by readers of the Metro.

Restaurant Owners: Gay men and lesbians eat at restaurants three times as often as the average Utahn.

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Gay men and lesbians eat at restaurants three times as often as the average Utahn.

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Service Guide ATTORNEYS MARLIN G. CRIDDLE, P.C. Serving Utah’s gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender communities. Estate Planning, Probate, Criminal Law, Bankruptcy, Corporations/Business. 474-2299. marlincriddle.com EXCEPTIONAL LEGAL work done at reaonable prices.

Living Wills $75. Reasonable rates for standard wills and Living Trusts. Diamond Law Firm 801-879-6411

EMPLOYMENT SERVICES APPLE ONE Employment is seeking qualified people in many skills. Apply and begin your qualification today.

Employers, let us fill your staffing needs. Call Steven Whittaker at 801-463-4828.

ESTATE PLANNING JANE MARQUARDT & DOUG FADEL Attorneys at Law, providing comprehensive estate planning services, custom designed to your unique family situation. Trusts, wills, partnership agreements, estate admin. 294-7777

FINANCIAL SERVICES HAVE FINANCIAL Difficulties? Good, bad, or no credit!

Bankruptcy is not a problem, fast approvals. Contact All American Loans at 1-888330-5360 We can Help!

HEALTH CARE EXTRAORDINARY SKIN CARE Chemical Free Skin Care Line with powerful ingredients that are clinically proven to nourish, revive, and refine. http:// brian.whyskincare.com or brian@whyskincare.com

HOME REPAIR HOMO IMPROVEMENT? Home repair and remodeling. Fast, friendly, professional service. No job too small. Kevin 815-4016

JEWELERS

MASSAGE UNBELIEVABLE MASSAGE Athletic Male Therapists, 440-5851 Contact 801641-4009 MASSAGE WORKS: 801-450-4144 LORRAINE, Convenient Location RELAX #109063

BEST THERAPISTS, best price, best place, best hours, call 486-5500 Pride Massage 1800 S. West Temple Ste A224 WWW.DENNISMASSAGE.COM A Man’s Man. 598-8344.

“For Men” Model/Massage.

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PET CARE HAPPY PAWS Pet Sitting Plus 205-4491 Libbie Neale.

Pet sitting in your home for your pets’ comfort and peace of mind. Providing vital home care services while you are away.

RESOURCES CAMP PINECLIFF Weekend, Annual retreat for people with HIV/AIDS and their care providers c/o Dick Dotson, Coordinator P. O. Box 608, Magna, Utah 84044-0608 or call (801) 518-8733 ARE YOU a single lesbian?

Wondering how to meet other single lesbians for friendship and social events? If so, you are invited to sign up for the LEsbian Singles Social Group at http://groups.yahoo.com/ group/lesbian_singles/ WANT A HOT summer body? Queer Utah Aquatic Club (QUAC) invites swimmers and water polo players of ANY skill level-including beginners- to join the team.

Visit QuacQuac.org for more info.

KUED BROADCASTS the entire PBS schedule as well as locally produced programs. In addition, KUED sponsors a variety of community events, including monthly screenings at the City Library and Sam Weller's Bookstore. For more visit www.kued.org or call KUED Viewer Services at 581-3064.

THE SALT Lake County Division of Youth Services provides youth and families in crisis with immediate and safe intervention, including 24-hour 7-day a week crisis counseling. Most services are provided free of charge.

For more information please call 269-7500.Affirmation: Gay and Lesbian Mormons. members.aol.com/wasatchweb/: Sunday meetings 534-8693 QVINUM.COM IS a fabulous group of wine lovers who hold winetastings at members’ homes, travel to wineries and hold special fund raisers for the community. qVinum.com ENGENDERED SPECIES 801.320.0551. A social/support group resources for transgender people. www. engenderedspecies.com BI MEN of Utah groups. yahoo.com/group/Bi-GayMen-Utah. Social and support group for bi/gay men of Utah.

UTAH GAY Rodeo Association ugra.net PO Box 511255 SLC, UT 84151-1255 A social & Rodeo Sport Organization

GAY RM’S–SOCIAL group for return missionaries of the LDS Church. Regular parties and group activities more info. at www.gayRMs.com

ADAM AND ANDY by James Asal

UTAH MALE Naturists meets through the summer for naked lunches, has clothing optional outings and overnight camping trips in a sex-free environment. groups.yahoo.com/group/ utahmalenaurists ROYAL COURT of the Golden Spike Empire. rcgse. org Membership meetings held twice monthly. Help support your community!

AMERICAN CIVIL Liberties Union. Fighting for individual freedoms since 1958. www. acluutah.org GAY MENS HEALTH SUMMIT. Gay men’s health is more than just HIV. visit us at utahgaymenshealth.com CODE PINK. A womeninitiated peace and social justice movement by positive social change via creative protest and nonviolent direct action. www. codepinkalert.com

A COUPLE OF GUYS by Dave Brousseau

SAME-SEX MARRIAGE is a Feminist Issue: NOW’s mission is to promote equality for ALL women. NOW has fought for gay and lesbian rights, and we won’t stop until we achieve equality for all. Join us utahnow.org FIRST NATIONAL Conference on Methamphetamine, HIV and Hepatitis: Science & Reponses 2005 August 19th–20th in Salt Lake City Visit us www.harmredux.org

ADVERTISE in the Service Guide Classifieds for as little BITTER GIRL by Joan Hilty as $15 per issue!

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CUSTOM DESIGN JEWELRY. Relaxed atmosphere. All types of stone settings. Commitment rings, wedding rings, earrings, pendants. Repairs welcome.

Charley Hafen Jewelers. Trolley Square. 521-7711

STIMULATE YOUR SENSES or feel deep peace with a relaxing full body massage.

Call Therron at 879-3583 for $5 off mention this ad. LMT

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Classifieds HELP WANTED LANDSCAPE HELP wanted for the 2005 Summer season. Landscape knowledge helpful. Drug free workplace.

Call Tim at 487-9353.

AVENUES LOWEST price per above grade sq. ft. High quality remodel, 4 bed/2 bath, Victorian. $244,900.

Brad 550-0330 Stonebrook HIGHLAND PARK Rambler.

DISPLAY AD SALES. Salt Lake Metro is seeking a full time display ad sales person. Previous sales is helpful but not required. Must be available to work full time. Call or email Steven for details at 323-9500 or steven@slmetro.com

4 large bedrooms, 2 bath,

APPLE ONE Employment Services is seeking qualified call center experienced in sales. Can earn $12+/hr plus commission. Apply today. Employers, let us fill your staffing needs. Call Steven Whittaker at 463-4828 for an appointment.

$268,500 Brad at Ston-

FOR SALE

Nice & bright home, 3 bdrm,

GAY WEST CAPITOL HILL 3 bdrm Tudor. Original charm–arched doorways, hardwood floors. high ceiling in roughed-in basement with separate entrance. Benny 201-5237.

private patio, relaxing large

MURRAY TOP floor contemporary condo. Vaulted ceilings, 2 bed, garage, fireplace. Absolutely flawless. $114,900 Brad 550-0330 Stonebrook DOWNTOWN 2 bed condo.

Walk to Trax & all things urban, balcony, low HOA, garage. $98,500 Brad 5500330 Stonebrook

garage, over 2600 sq. feet of possibility. $252,000 Brad 550-0330 Stonebrook AVENUES 4 bed, 2 bath, 2-story. New kitchen, walk to stores and restaurants. ebrook Realty 550-0330.

FOR RENT MURRAY $1195/MONTH. hrdwds, storage, quiet & yard that is maintained.

Walk to park & lake in neighborhood. 1019 E 5700 S 262-0113 cda prop.

DOWNTOWN, 335 E Broadway, Clean/Quiet, hrdwd, heat included, security, parking, 1bdrm 500.00/ Studio 400.00 322-2478 or www. oxfordplace.50megs.com DONT RENT—BUY! All credit accepted, Connie 801-347-2956

ROOMMATES WANTED MILLCREEK 1 or 2 roommates wanted. Gay professional has large clean furnished home to share.

Single person: bedroom, office, and bath. $525/month plus 1/2 utilities, $250 deposit. Two people: 2 bedrooms at $350/month, utilities included, $150 deposit.

Offstreet parking, storage and complete access. No pets. Call J.R. 599-1198 PAY NO RENT, deposit or utilities in Phoenix, AZ if you watch the house when owner is away, and help part time in office. Can eventually become full time salaried job as business manager.

Comfortable home, private room. No smoking, drinking, drugs. Friendly, congenial, single male w/LDS values, seeking same. Perfect chance to get away, start a new beginning. Your help will be appreciated. Seeking the right person who wants to get his life on a better track and can use a jump start. Will help relocate.

E-mail azhomedog@yahoo. com or call 602-348-1379 MIDVALE PRIVATE bedroom w/ private bath, $350/month includes utils. $150 deposit. No drinking!

Smoking ok. Prefer gay male. Call Darrin 801-3522800..

MISC. STUFF

ARE YOU HIV+?

Pride Counseling has restarted a Therapy/Support Group for men who are HIV infected and seeking support from others in similar situations. For information please call Jerry Buie LCSW at 801-595-0666 TIRED OF THE BAR LIFE? Pride Counseling is offering a Gay Men’s Therapy/Support Group. Gay men often find that their options to socialize limited to clubs and bars. Most insurance companies billed, sliding fee scale. For information please call Jerry Buie LCSW at 801-595-0666.

SPECIAL NEW SECTION

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