LGBTQ+ University Student Survival Guide 2022

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P R E F A C E

HELLO!

Welcome to our LGBTQ+ Survival Guide for University Students in Hong Kong. For many students, stepping into university life is the start of their self exploration journey So universities craft their own survival guides for their students. But as LGBTQ+ students our experiences may vastly differ from the experiences of our peers There were no resources specifically intended for queer university students in Hong Kong.

We touch upon key pieces of information queer students need to know when they embark on this journey. In this survival guide, we will give resources we found useful on topics of LGBTQ+ wellbeing, health, career, community and entertainment. And we genuinely hope it will aid you on your journey through university life LOVE, QSA TEAM

WORD FROM OUR CO-PRESIDENT Eugina Chan

For comrades in the LGBTQ+ community, we present this booklet in hopes of bringing you a sense of reassurance and safety. I sincerely hope that you can find your place at university. For allies, we present this booklet in hopes that it will let you know more about us Co President of QSA (Session 22/23)

LGBTQ+ LGBTQ+ 101 101

Have you just discovered that you may be part of the LGBTQ+ community? Or have you always known that you are, but just were unsure of how you identify? Regardless of what stage you are at, you are not alone. Many of us go through a similar journey, and learning more about LGBTQ+ can make this journey easier for you.

QUEERNESS

A person has 4 main dimensions in relation to their identity Those are gender identity, sex, gender expression and attraction. Each of these traits operate on a spectrum, and the Genderbread Person above may provide a simple visual representation of these spectrums People who are attracted to opposite gender, people whose gender identity is same as their assigned sex, and people who express their gender in conventional ways would be considered majorities.

Those who do not belong to the majorities may identify themselves as queer, which is an umbrella term for anyone belonging to the minority in any of the 4 traits

THE GENDERBREAD PERSON WAS CREATED AS A TOOL TO HELP US UNDERSTAND WHAT WE ACTUALLY MEAN WHEN WE TALK ABOUT GENDER

SEX

A person is typically assigned a biological sex at birth, there is a number of primary and secondary sex characteristics according to the two primary sexes Primary sex characteristics are chromosomes, and genitalia, while secondary sex characteristics include hair growth, voice, breast growth, bone structure and fat distribution

Here are a few main terms in relation to sex:

ASSIGNED FEMALE AT BIRTH (AFAB)

ASSIGNED MALE AT BIRTH (AMAB)

INTERSEX

A person who was assigned female or male at birth, respectively. No one chooses their own sex when they are born. These terms are more preferred to “biological female/male”, “born a girl/boy”, or “female/male bodied”

Individuals born with ambiguous genitalia or their bodies appear neither typically male nor female, often arising from chromosomal anomalies.

INTERSEX AND TRANS FLAGS

GENDER IDENTITY

Gender identity is about how a person perceives their own gender Gender is distinct from sex, with gender typically stemming from a person’s self perception Typically a person identifies as male or female, but there are also many who identify as both, neither or in other ways.

Here are a few terms a person may identify with:

CISGENDER

TRANSGENDER

NON BINARY

GENDERFLUID

GENDERQUEER

Gender identity is the same as their assigned sex at birth

Gender identity that does not match assigned sex at birth. Transgender people do not have to alter their bodies surgically or hormonally to match their gender identity

Identify as neither male nor female, ie outside the traditional gender binary.

Gender changes over time along the gender spectrum

Identifies with neither, both, or a combination of male and female genders

AVOID MISGENDERING

Misgendering refers to a person with the wrong pronouns or words in relation to their gender A simple solution to evade these situations is to ask a person for their pronouns or ask how they would like to be referred to If you don’t want to ask, you can always pay attention to how they refer to themselves and follow their preferences!

GENDER EXPRESSION

Our society typically assigns certain behaviors, clothing and interests to genders For example, societal norms typically expect a man to be masculine, physically strong, dressed in men’s wear and have interest in sports. These expectations are called traditional gender traits Each culture has their own set of stereotyped gender traits But how you choose to communicate your gender is called gender expression

We have to remember gender identity does not necessarily indicate one's gender expression For example, some women may express themselves in a very masculine way even if they have no issue with their identity as a woman. Furthermore, a persons’ gender expression need not be static At times, a person may express themselves completely femininely, whereas at other times more masculinely, like the Hong Kong based drag artist, Muschi Drag (IG @muschidrag):

A person’s gender expression is independent from their assigned sex, gender identity, sexual attraction or romantic attraction For instance, non binary folks prefer to dress however they're comfortable regardless of their sexual orientation

CATCH MUSCHI DRAG ON DRAGJAM

TERRY QU QUEER, NON BINARY ACTOR (NEVER HAVE I EVER)

SEXUAL AND ROMANTIC ATTRACTION DIVERSITY

Human sexuality is also much more diverse and complicated than you might think! Some people do not develop any sexual attraction in their lives, whereas others may only seek for sex without any romantic feelings. A committed relationship may sometimes involve more than two people if it is an open or polyamorous one

Based on their sexual orientation and practices, people have come to identify themselves with a certain sexual identity label Still, sexual behavior and identity are not always consistent with one another Each individual understands themselves the best, and thus it is important to respect each other's decision, rather than project your own assumption on others

Here is a list of common sexual orientations. Remember, sexual experience is not a must for your exploration of identity, as you could know even without it

HETEROSEXUAL

LESBIAN

Attracted only to the opposite gender, according to the gender binary

A woman who is attracted to other women. GAY

A person who is attracted to people of the same gender

BISEXUAL

PANSEXUAL

Attracted to their own and other genders.

Attracted to people without limit in choice based on sex or gender identity ASEXUAL

An individual who does not experience sexual attraction. There is considerable diversity among the asexual community; each asexual person experiences things like relationships, attraction, and arousal somewhat differently

If you do not identify with the terms above, you may use these terms to describe yourself. Never feel pressured to conform to “labels” and use language that makes you feel safe and seen

QUEER

"Queer" was formerly a discriminatory term against sexual/gender minorities, yet activists and scholars have reclaimed the term to question societies where heterosexuality (sexual attraction between men and women) and gender normativity (men and women have different norms/roles to play) are taken for granted Thus, queer is now an umbrella term that covers all the non normative genders and sexualities.

QUESTIONING

A term used to describe those who are in a process of discovery and exploration about their sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or a combination thereof

ADVICE:

You should never feel pressured into any behaviour due to the way you identify Just be yourself and continue learning more about yourself

ALLIES

While there are many who are LGBTQ+, most people still belong to the cisgender heterosexual majority Advancement of LGBTQ+ rights requires as much support as possible, and some of that support stems from the allies. Allies are people who may not necessarily identify as LGBTQ+, but advocate for the rights of the community

RIGHT: QUESTIONING PRIDE FLAG

INTERNALIZED HOMOPHOBIA

Internalized homophobia happens when LGBTQ+ individuals are subjected to society’s negative perceptions, intolerance and stigma towards the LGBTQ+ community. As a result, they subconsciously turn those ideas inward, believing they are true

There are various ways to overcome internalized homophobia: 1. 2. 3

Remember that internalized homophobia is not coming from inside of you, it was put upon you through stigma, in an oppressive manner by a society that has yet to understand and accept the LGBTQ+ community Build a support network. Surround yourself with understanding LGBTQ+ people and allies who are conducive to your healing Educate yourself about internalized homophobia While there may be less information available about this topic in comparison to coming out, there are still sources online that may help you overcome this obstacle, especially through reading other people’s recounts of internalized homophobia and how they pushed through it.

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Practice self awareness Be aware of your negative reactions, critical self talk, and judgment of others Each time you do it, examine what has led to that happening and how you could grow and change from it

A general sense of personal worth and also a positive view of your sexual orientation are critical for your mental health!

COMING OUT

Coming out is the term for sexual minorities who need to disclose their identity to their family and friends This may be a difficult choice and process for sexual minorities due to the fear of rejection or possible breakdown of close relationships. If possible, reach out to someone whom you can trust for advice Coming out should not feel forced, only come out when you are ready Everyone’s coming out journey is different, but one thing stays the same: You will never go through this alone.

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LGBTQ+ IN LGBTQ+ IN UNIVERSITY UNIVERSITY

QSA regularly partners with organizations in HKU to host activities. We welcome students of ALL universities in Hong Kong to join our events.

01. 02. 03.

HKU,

THE UNIVERSITY OF HONG KONG (HKU)

HKU Gender Studies

The Committee on Gender Equality and Diversity

THE CHINESE UNIVERSITY OF HONG KONG (CUHK)

Gender Studies Programme

HKU

CUHK

THE HONG KONG UNIVERSITY OF SCIENCE AND TECHNOLOGY (HKUST)

Gender Research Centre The Sex and Gender Concern Group Rainbow Bird

CCHU9007 Sexuality and Gender: Diversity and Society CCHU9015 Sex and Intimacy in Modern Times CCHU9039 Sexuality and Culture SOCI2081 Sexuality, Culture and Identity

UGEC1209 Thinking Gender: An Introduction to Women’s and Gender Studies

UGEC2653 Gender and Culture UGEC2853 Sexuality and Culture UGEC3203 Gender and Sexuality in Contemporary Society

UGEC3225 Gender Biases in Education and the Workplace UGEC3227 LGBTQI+ Studies Identities and Social Change

UGEC3228 Public Policy and Social Minorities in Hong Kong UGEC3229 Understanding Masculinities and Social Change

CUHK, HKUST, PolyU, CityU, HKBU, SYU and Lingnan University are offering some queer related courses. You are encouraged to explore more!

HKUST

PolyU

SOSC1980 Psychology and Everyday Life

SOSC2740 Gender and Society

CBS1A25 Queer Culture and Media Representations

CBS1A19 Love, Intimacy and Identity

CityU

GE2211 Sexuality, Culture and Diversity SS2006 Issues of Sexual Diversity

GEND 3005 Gender, Society, Culture

GDAR1027 Gender and Culture

HKBU

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HUMN2025 Gender: Theory and Culture SOCI3035 Sex, Gender and Society SYU

SOC356 Gender Relations PSY308 Human Sexuality

Lingnan

HSU

CLB9025 Love and Sexuality CLE9016 Sexuality and Society CLE9028 Sexual Cultures in Asia (18+)

GEN2027 Gender, Culture and Society

HOMOPHOBIA AND TRANSPHOBIA

Homophobia and Transphobia are dislike and distrust of people based on their orientation and gender identity Know that it stems from other people’s ignorance and hatred It may manifest in the following forms

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DISCRIMINATION

Denying opportunities and access based on a person’s traits. This includes denying a person housing, firing a person, not hiring a person or getting refused certain opportunities

GENDER-BASED VIOLENCE (GBV)

GBV is violence that occurs because of normative role expectations associated with gender It affects people of all sexual and gender identities It ranges from verbal abuse and forced outings, to sexual and domestic violence

STIGMA

Stigma is the wrong and harmful assumptions held by people in regard to other groups of people which result in social exclusion and devaluation of the people Such stigma may be thoughts like “All gay people have HIV/AIDS”, “LGBT are promiscuous” and other harmful stereotypes.

Do not hesitate to contact your campus resources or other resources if you have faced such discrimination Here is a list of campus services and other organizations you may tell your situation to

LGBTQ+ IN UNIVERSITY

SEXUAL VIOLENCE

Sexual violence means that someone forces or manipulates someone else into unwanted sexual activity without their consent Reasons someone might not consent include fear, age, illness, disability, and/or influence of alcohol or other drugs Anyone can experience sexual violence including children, teens, adults, and elders Those who sexually abuse can be acquaintances, family members, trusted individuals or strangers.

Forms of sexual violence:

Rape or sexual assault

Child sexual assault and incest

Intimate partner sexual assault

Unwanted sexual contact or touching

Sexual harassment

Sexual exploitation

Showing one’s genitals or naked body to other(s) without consent

Masturbating in public

Watching someone in a private act without their knowledge/permission

Below is a list of organisations you may reach our to if you have been sexually harassed/sexually abused/sexually assaulted:

TALK HK

For adult women or feminine identifying people who experienced sexual abuse as a minor or assault as an adult They conduct scheduled group meetings for victims to share their progress If you are male and interested in forming a group for your community, please get in touch with them!

RAIN LILY

SOCIAL WELFARE DEPARTMEN

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Provides FREE immediate crisis support, counselling, emergency contraception, sexual transmittable infections screening and preventive treatment, legal information, and judicial procedures accompaniment support.

RainLily Sexual Violence Helpline: +852 2375 5322

Safe Chat Online Support (WhatsApp): +852 6730 1892

Support for victims of child abuse, spouse/cohabitant battering and sexual violence.

MENTAL MENTAL HEALTH HEALTH

LGBTQ+ individuals may be more susceptible to mental health problems than heterosexual people due to a range of factors, including discrimination, relationships, and inequalities.

LGBTQ+ people with mental health conditions may also find themselves fighting a double stigma. Many will experience prejudice based on their sexual and/or gender identity and the stigma associated with mental illness.

Moreover, the hustle and bustle and fast-paced life in Hong Kong can make it even more stressful and exhausting. Here is some information about mental health and tips to relieve your stress in daily life.

DEPRESSION

Depression is a mood disorder that makes a person feel sad,angry,andemptyforover2weeks Itcanreduceone’s sense of interest, concentration and even lead to suicidal thoughts

GENERAL ANXIETY DISORDER (GAD)

OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE DISORDER (OCD)

BIPOLAR DISORDER

People with GAD have persistent, unrealistic, and excessive feelings of worry and fear. They may experience insomnia,tachycardia,andsoremuscles.

People with OCD may have unwanted thoughts to do something forcefully and repeatedly However, they have nointentiontodosoandevenfeltreluctant

People with bipolar disorder may have drastically fluctuating emotions. At one period, they may be mad, over confident and sleepless. But in the next period, they maybecomedepressed,annoyed,andsad.

SCHIZOPHRENIA

POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER (PTSD)

People with schizophrenia may experience delusions, hallucinationsandhavedisorganizedspeech.

Afteratraumaticevent(suchasbeingbulliedandsexually abused), an individual with PTSD may experience continuedsuffering Theymayfeelanxious,depressedand evenexperiencenightmaresrepeatedly

Ifyouaresufferingfrommentalhealthproblems,herearesomewaysthatmay help:

1 Open up to someone

Does bottling up your emotions feel suffocating? You can try sharing your needs or concerns with a trusted friend. You may also seek support from the online community, like QSA’s all inclusive WhatsApp chat group (Link on the back of the booklet) You are welcome to talk to our ExCo Members

2. Consider using the counseling services on your campus. Many universities offer counseling services When registering for their services you may request to have a session with a counselor that is supportive of LGBTQ+, or of a specific gender. Campus counselors are required not to disclose personal information about you and will generally try to provide you with support and guidance with your mental health

3 Try to surround yourself with good people

If you do not feel comfortable opening up to your close friends about your sexuality or identity, what about making new friends who are LGBTQ+ friendly? Here’s where to find them:

i QSA organizes social activities throughout the year such as Back to School parties and picnic gatherings

ii. Join our mentorship program where you would be paired with LGBTQ+ friendly mentors experienced in the workplace

iii Follow our social media, join our WhatsApp chat, or subscribe to our mailing list to stay in the loop with our upcoming events!

MENTAL HEALTH

MORE LGBTQ+ SPECIFIC RESOURCES

Perhaps some individuals may have very inclusive social circles, but those who feel troubled by their gender or sexual identity may reach out to the following organisations:

Rainbow of Hong Kong LGBT Peers Hotline

(Tel: +852 8108 1069)

Queer Sisters Hotline

(Tel: +852 2314 4348)

(WhatsApp booking: +852 9260 8191)

BGCA Parent Support Hotline

(Tel: +852 2321 1103)

Tung Wah Group of Hospitals Pride Line

(Tel: +852 2217 5959)

SEXUAL SEXUAL HEALTH HEALTH

On the journey of exploring your sexuality, you may choose to engage in sexual activity. However, similar to other activities you must follow safety measures. Here, we provide advice on safety and health in relation to sex.

Disclaimer:

As this is your personal journey, you should never feel forced or pressured into engaging in sexual activity. Feel comfort in exploring yourself first before engaging with other people.

Use condoms properly and regularly

Condoms are the best way to protect yourself from the majority of STIs or unwanted pregnancy Free condoms are available in STD clinics and dedicated organizations

Using lubricant can make sex safer, as it reduces friction, and thus, lowers risk of injury during sex Using lubricant with condoms would also lessen the chance of the condom breaking or falling off during sex, and thereby increase protection against STIs. However, only water based and silicone based lubes are compatible with latex condoms.

Limit your number of sexual partners. Even if you only have one sexual partner you should still be careful by using protection.

Get regularly tested and treated for STDs. You are recommended to get tested every 6 months if you are sexually active

Ask your sexual partners for their STD status While some may choose to not disclose their STD statuses or lie, those who disclose their status to you are less likely to transmit an STD, given they have received sufficient treatment

Consider receiving HPV, Hepatitis A and Hepatitis B vaccines Some STIs have effective vaccination in place, allowing for a safer sex experience for everyone

If you ever feel discomfort, communicate it to your partner, or stop the activity Sex should feel good to all the partners participating Pain may be a signal that you are physically hurting your body

Sterilize your sex toys after use Use condoms on them if they are to be shared.

Consent should be clearly and freely communicated. Discuss with your sexual partner to establish some ground rules.

If there is a chance of pregnancy, you may consider taking birth control pills.

WHAT TO DO IF MY CONDOM BROKE?

Do not panic and assess the situation Ask your partner if they had an STD check recently and know their STD statuses. You may also ask if they had any unsafe encounters beforehand.

If you learned that your partner is HIV positive and is not undetectable, or if you are uncertain of their STI status, go to a health clinic You must do it within a 48 hour frame to be prescribed an effective Anti HIV course of medicine called Post Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP) that will fully prevent any further development of HIV in your body

You will also get an immediate test for STIs, but within 14 days get a second STI test, as STIs take time to show up on STI tests.

Sometimes condoms break That may happen if your condom was too old or expired, you used not enough lube, or when opening the package you accidentally pierced it. Here are a few steps you can take to ensure your health is good 1 2. 3 4.

If there is a risk of pregnancy, you may request Plan B medication, to prevent it

SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS (STIS)

In engaging in intimate and/or sexual activity without proper safety precautions, individuals are prone to be infected with sexually transmissible infections, also known as STIs The most common STIs include chlamydia, gonorrhoea, genital warts, genital herpes, HIV, syphilis and HPV These STIs may progress into sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) if they are left untreated

Symptoms to look out for include:

Sores or bumps on the genitals or in the oral or rectal area

Painful or burning urination

Discharge from the penis

Unusual or odd smelling vaginal discharge

Unusual vaginal bleeding

Pain during sex

Sore, swollen lymph nodes, particularly in the groin but sometimes more widespread

Lower abdominal pain Fever

Rash over the trunk, hands or feet

Kindly take note of the visible symptoms and do not shy away from communicating the needful to your partner.

Here's a list of common STIs:

SYPHILIS

Most often transmitted through sexual contact, syphilis is a bacterial infection. This disease begins as a painless sore, typically on one’s genitalia, rectum, or mouth. Syphilis is transmitted to others via skin or mucous membrane contact with these sores

Fortunately, early stage syphilis can be cured, often with a single injection of penicillin. Without treatment, syphilis can, however, bring severe damage to your brain, heart, or other organs, which can lead to life threatening complications

HUMAN PAPILLOMAVI RUS (HPV)

HPV is the most common sexually transmitted infection HPV is usually harmless, and the infection can go away by itself However, some subtypes of HPV can lead to cancer or genital warts.

A major way to protect yourself from harmful variants of this virus is to get vaccinated

CHLAMYDIA

Chlamydia is an extremely common STD that everyone who participates in sexual activity is prone to It can cause serious, permanent damage to the reproductive system of both men and women, thus affecting fertility For women, chlamydia can also lead to the complication of a potentially fatal ectopic pregnancy (pregnancy occurring outside the womb)

Fortunately, chlamydia is fully curable and it is treated with antibiotics over a 1 2 week period However, you need to discover it in its early stages to not receive any permanent damage.

GONORRHEA

GENITAL HERPES

Gonorrhea is an infection that most often affects the urethra, rectum, or throat In females, gonorrhea can also infect the cervix This STI is most commonly spread during vaginal, oral or anal sex.

Gonorrhea can be cured, though the infected individual must abstain from sexual activity during the process of treatment

Genital herpes is an STI caused by two types of viruses herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV 1) and herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV 2) The transmission route of genital herpes is vaginal, anal, or oral sex with an infected individual Although there is no cure for herpes, there are medicines that can prevent or shorten outbreaks. Anti herpes medication can be taken daily to lower the risk of passing on the infection to your sex partner(s)

HIV

Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) is a virus which attacks specific white blood cells in the human body responsible for fighting infections. While HIV is the most known STD, it has very low transmissibility rates However, consequences of this STI may lead a person to developing AIDS

AIDS

AIDS is a very severe health condition. The immune system of a person is extremely weakened, allowing opportunistic infections and cancers to claim the life of a person The speed of the progression to AIDS following HIV infection depends largely on the individual's immune health, in most cases taking more than 10 years. But AIDS is preventable with timely STI testing and proper treatment for HIV

HOW IS HIV TRANSMITTED?

Unprotected sexual intercourse (ie without the use of condoms during vaginal, oral and/or anal sex) with a person of either gender

Use of contaminated syringes or blades that were not properly disposed of Receive a blood transfusion that was infected.

Mother to child transmission during pregnancy, childbirth or breastfeeding.

HIV-POSITIVESTIGMA

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SomeHIVpositivepeoplemayhavetheirstatus uncovered which may lead to such nasty conversations. Some still have that wrong perceptionthatHIVcanbesimplytransmitted throughbeinginthesameroom,sharingfood anddishesorevenjusttalkingButifitwasthat easy, everyone in the world would have been infected.

TheviruscountofHIVinsaliva,sweat,tears,urine, andfecesofcarriersareinsignificanttocause infectionTodoso,itwouldrequireatleast2liters ofthesefluidswiththevirusenteringthebodyat onetime.Also,theviruscannotsurviveoutsidethe humanbodyformorethanafewhours.Oncethe infectedbodilyfluiddries,thechanceofinfection becomesslim

JEREMY WONG ONLINE

Hey I saw you taking that pill and googled it You have HIV?

2. Dating HIV positive people

Although the use of condoms and PrEP may help lower the risk of HIV transmission, the protection rate is not 100% though the risk would be extremely low Transmission of HIV through oral sex though rare, is not impossible, and thus, precautions and consent must always be in place during sexual activity.

Though a permanent cure for HIV has yet to be developed, treatment for HIV has existed since the nineties and allowed so many to have healthy lives, with an incredibly reduced chance of transmitting the STI to someone else. The treatment is called anti retroviral treatment (ART), and after a person takes it for long enough, usually 6 months, the chance of transmitting HIV through sex or injections is reduced by 96% The HIV positive person may call themselves undetectable once their medical practitioner informs them of having sufficiently low HIV virus level in their blood

It is important to note, however, that even after being infected with HIV, you can be reinfected with it This is because there are many types and strains or subgroups of HIV.

Hey! Do you wanna meet up sometime? ;)

Yeah would be great, but idk if you saw on my profile, I am HIV positive

Ew Disgusting! How do you even dare be on a dating app!?

I know my status I tell it to my partners I am on ART and my viral load has been suppressed Meeting me is safer than meeting someone who does not know their status

SEXUAL HEALTH

LGBTQ+ HEALTH ORGANIZATIONS IN HONG KONG Free HIV Testing Providers

AIDS CONCERN

AIDS FOUNDATION

DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH

Testing hotline: +852 2394 6677 Scan the QR Code for Online Bookings

AIDS Helpline: +852 2513 0513

AIDS Hotline: +852 2780 2211

MERCURY III

Contact Hotline: +852 2780 1331

MEDICAL CONSULTATION

The Department of Health offers social hygiene services in 6 Social Hygiene Clinics, which provides medical check up, treatment, and counselling on STDs Prior appointment or doctor’s referral is not required and it is free of charge for HKID holders. All information is kept confidential.

FEMALE

HIV-POSITIVE COMMUNITIES

AIDS Concern

MALE

Hong Kong Aids Foundation hosts a monthly support group session for those who just found out they have HIV HIV hotline: +852 2117 1069

SAFE SEX CAMPAIGN

Over the past years, QSA has partnered with NGOs in Hong Kong to organize safe sex campaigns on campus and to equip university students, staff and visitors with knowledge on how to maintain a healthy and safe sexual life In the upcoming year, QSA aspires to organize both online and offline safe sex campaigns for both LGBTQ+ members and allies of the university.

LGBTQ+ & LGBTQ+ & CAREER CAREER

MENTORSHIP PROGRAM

Being LGBTQ+ and being a vocal ally in the workplace are not necessarily easy journeys QSA, in collaboration with Fruits in Suits (FinS), runs a Mentorship Program where student mentees could be paired up with mentors from a wide range of industries. The program runs throughout the school year (but of course, you and your mentor’s relationship will outlast that!), during which QSA and FinS will organize gatherings and follow up on your experience Registration will be open in September, and pairings will be announced in October.

INTERNSHIP OPPORTUNITY

THE UNSPEAKABLE SERIES

QSA is honored to be invited as one of the panellists at the Canadian Chamber of Commerce in Hong Kong’s “The Unspeakable Series Conversation about DE&I Episode 2 LGBTQIA+ Communities: Inequalities and Unspoken Truths”

DIVERSITY CHAMPION INTERNSHIP PROGRAM

Diversity Champion Internship Program is a summer internship hosted by three companies. Manulife, Herbert Smith Freehills and Hyatt Hotels and Resorts jointly provide an opportunity for diverse university students to partake in a cross industry experience. Students who took part in QSA activities were selected as interns of the first of its kind program in Hong Kong for the past two cohorts

CAREER WORKSHOPS

QSA has hosted career workshops in collaboration with corporations, including Goldman Sachs and Fidelity International, whose employees have offered CV and interview advice in the past, and networked with participants

Freshfields Bruckhaus Deringer, a leading global law firm, partnered with QSA to provide a summer work experience program for LGBTQ+ university students and allies from different disciplines, ranging from Law, HR, and IT to Business

Every year, QSA organizes various career events to help LGBTQ+ students explore their future careers by building connections with leading professionals and market leaders from various sectors.

CAREER

TIPS FOR LGBTQ+ STUDENTS

1 Find a job that welcomes your whole self

You should not be pressured to hide or expose your identity during the hiring process Before applying for a job, you should conduct enough research through company websites, and employer review websites like Glassdoor, to understand more about the company's culture and policies such as whether they have an LGBTQ+ network group, anti discrimination policies, inclusive workshops etc. to see if you really want to work there

2. Connect community at work

Join an LGBTQ+ employee resources group in the workplace, to network with other LGBTQ+ friendly people to feel more connected inside the organization.

3. Get support from the external community

Find support from organizations that support LGBTQ+ individuals in real life or through different social media channels LGBTQ+ professionals can provide guidance in job searching and recommend inclusive workplaces that are good to work at.

TOP: QSA X FINS MENTORSHIP PROGRAM; BOTTOM: THE UNSPEAKABLE SERIES

PROFESSIONAL NETWORKS

COMMUNITY BUSINESS

Community Business is a non profit organization based in Hong Kong which works with different companies and organizations across Asia to drive social awareness and promote inclusivity They establish various membership networks and provide them with a number of platforms to address challenges, take action and ultimately drive positive social change in Asia.

FRUITS IN SUITS (FINS)

Fruits in Suits (FinS) is Hong Kong’s longest running monthly professional networking event for the city’s LGBTQ+ community, taking place every third Tuesday of the month at a selected venue FinS has access to resources, aid in the influence on the local business community and takes part in helping to further LGBTQ+ causes in Hong Kong.

HONG KONG GAY AND LESBIAN ATTORNEYS NETWORK (HKGALA)

HKGALA was founded as the first network for LGBTQ+ members and straight allies of the legal network in Hong Kong Their objectives are to promote LGBTQ+ diversity and inclusion in the legal profession, increase awareness of LGBTQ+ legal issues in Hong Kong and abroad and ensure that, within the legal sector, LGBTQ+ individuals work comfortably in their authentic selves

Interbank is a network of about 35 LGBTQ+ affinity groups from banks and financial firms in Hong Kong and was officially launched in 2016 Their vision is to be the leading forum for LGBTQ+ issues with respect to the financial services industry in Hong Kong by supporting members through advising, facilitating, as well as through providing networking opportunities and thought leadership on issues impacting the LGBTQ+ community

HK LGBT MEDICAL SOCIETY

The HK LGBT Medical Society promotes LGBTQ+ healthcare and education, encourages LGBTQ+ diversity and inclusion, and ensures that LGBTQ+ medical professionals in Hong Kong can bring their true selves to work

LGBT+ INTERBANK

06COMMUNITY COMMUNITY LIFE LIFE

QSA BACK-TO-SCHOOL PARTY

Each semester, QSA organizes a Back to School party for students to make new friends in the community! This party welcomes every university student regardless of their gender, race, nationality, and sexual orientation. Many participants come alone, get to know others, and enjoy the party together. We understand joining a party like this can be intimidating for some people who have just recently started to explore their sexual/gender identities. Fear not, chances are the people that you meet are in the same position as you there!

Participants get to enjoy drinks and music at a popular LGBTQ+ friendly bar in town There will be games and lucky draws to highlight the night An exciting and welcoming night is guaranteed! We want you to feel that you are part of our diverse community

ENTERTAINMENT Bars & Clubs

Craving for a drink at a classy place where you can meet other people in the community? You may want to visit one of the LGBTQ+ friendly bars below:

ENTERTAINMENT

LGBTQ+ Parties: LEX CHILL HEY

DRAGJAM

Although Lex Chill Hey is not a bar, it’s a party hosting organization which throws lit parties, especially for queer women, in LGBTQ+ friendly bars for the community They often announce the info of the parties on their social media

Interested in drag shows? Then DragJam is for you DragJam is an event organizing organization with an expansive group of performers

HAUS OF CIRCUIT

Haus of circuit is a Hong Kong LGBTQ+ party gear and accessories retailer But on a monthly basis they organize a Circuit Party where everyone can have fun.

MEDIA

GDOTTV (CHINESE)

PRIDE LAB (CHINESE)

FUNG1LAU4 MAGAZINE (CHINESE)

MAJOR EVENTS

GDotTV is a non profit organization that provides a variety of online shows to promote awareness regarding sexuality and gender

Pride Lab is an LGBTQ+ friendly organization that explores gender issues in Hong Kong through humour and fun content, aiming to promote respect and acceptance towards different people within the society.

Fung1Lau4 Magazine is an independent paper and online queer magazine that focuses on issues surrounding feminism, equality and freedom, sexual violence and stigma on sexual minorities.

As the leading voice of the LGBTQ+ and allies in universities across Hong Kong, QSA engages enthusiastically in the dialogue on LGBTQ+ equality. We take part in major community events such as:

PINK DOT HONG KONG

PINK SEASON

Date: 23 Oct 2022 (Sunday)

Location: KITEC

Pink Dot Hong Kong is a free and exciting outdoor carnival organized for LGBTQ+ and their allies, families, friends and everyone who supports diversity and loves equality

Date: October

Pink Season is Asia’s premier LGBTQ+ festival celebrating acceptance, inclusion and awareness through an exciting program of arts, education, entertainment, sports and adventure.

Date: 12 13 Nov 2022 (Saturday & Sunday)

HONG KONG PRIDE PARADE 2022 RAINBOW MARKET

HONG KONG LESBIAN & GAY FILM FESTIVAL (HKLGFF)

THE INTERNATIONAL DAY AGAINST HOMOPHOBIA, BIPHOBIA, TRANSPHOBIA AND INTERSEXPHOBIA (IDAHOTIB)

Venu: D2 Place One, Lai Chi Kok Theme: Stay Pride Live Proud

The Hong Kong Pride Parade is an annual march in Hong Kong in support of LGBTQ+ rights In recent years due to various restrictions, it has taken form in a rainbow market.

Date: 17 Sept to 1 Oct 2022

HKLGFF is an annual LGBTQ+ film festival held each September in Hong Kong

Date: 17 May IDAHOTIB represents an annual landmark to draw the attention of decision makers, the media, the public, opinion leaders and local authorities to the alarming situation faced by sexual minorities

Date: 3 11 Nov 2023

GAY GAMES HK 2023

Gay Games is a 9 day international world class diversity festival with multi sports, arts & cultural events and opening and closing ceremonies organized by the LGBTQ+ community, held every four years. The goal of the event is to emancipate LGBTQ+ people around the world by educating people through sports, arts and cultural events in a spirit of better understanding Hong Kong would be the first country in Asia to host the 11th edition of the Gay Games in November 2023.

QUEER-FRIENDLY SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS

Besides going to QSA's gatherings, dating apps are a great way to meet people free of the constraints of social distancing. There are a few dating apps available in Hong Kong for queer folks.

GRINDR (MLM)

It goes without saying that Grindr is the largest local dating app featuring geolocation mainly for men who love men

Goop is an anonymous app majorly for university students. You can find LGBTQ+ communities inside the app

GOOP

Invite code for Gay Talk: hktopbtm

Invite code for Hehe圍爐區: hehepride

Invite code for Sheshe 圍爐區: lesbian

Invite code for Bi Talk: bita

BUTTERFLY (WLW)

JACK’D

Butterfly is the largest forum and most well established app for queer women in Hong Kong.

Jack’D allows you to browse the app through its geolocation feature to explore different nationality profiles to initiate a conversation with someone whom you might be interested in

TINDER

Tinder is one of the most popular apps for everyone! You could meet people from all kinds of backgrounds and identities there This online dating app allows users swipe profiles by choosing either “Dislike” or “Like”. Once both users select “like “ , it’s a match and they can start to text each other

BUMBLE

Bumble is another popular dating app like Tinder regardless of your identity! The biggest difference is: After you’ve matched with someone, the chat will expire in 24 hours if nobody initiates the chat

Meeting new people is exciting, but be cautious when you interact with someone you don’t know. Before diving into the dating scene the first thing after your 18th birthday, use your best judgment and put your safety first, whether you are exchanging initial messages or meeting in person

For example, pay attention to phrases such as:

“Looking for fun” only looking for physical intimacy

“Chem fun (CF)” “BBCF” “ICE” “the emojis” having sex while using drugs like crystal meth

Please use dating apps responsibly.

SPOTIFY/ APPLE MUSIC

Listen to your favourite musical artists and podcasts on Spotify or Apple Music! Oh, and as a student, you should receive a discount for the service. By logging on and entering your university email you will get access to all the podcasts and music available on these apps PS: QSA has created an LGBTQ+ playlist on Spotify, curated by our executive committee members* YOUTUBE

This streaming service is the only LGBTQ+ streaming service based in Asia It has a large library of queer content, some of which are available for free after

BRETMAN ROCK;

ENTERTAINMENT MEDIA + OTHERS

We’re happy to see more and more LGBTQ+ entertainment nowadays. Here are some recommendations from our ExCo members:

LGBTQ+ MOVIES

Disobedience (WLW) Paris is Burning Booksmart (WLW) Call Me By Your Name (MLM) Love, Simon (MLM) But I’m a Cheerleader (WLW)

LGBTQ+ SERIES

Heartstopper (MLM) Our Flag Means Death (MLM) First Kill (WLW) Feel Good What We do in the Shadows

LGBTQ+ BOOKS

The Song of Achilles The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo Greedy: Notes from a Bisexual Who Wants Too Much

LGBTQ+ SINGERS

Lil Nas X Sam Smith Fletcher Zolita Hayley Kiyoko King Princess Troye Sivan

LGBTQ+ ORGANIZATIONS

If you are searching for LGBTQ+ friendly religious institutions, advocacy groups and other LGBTO+ groups, read our full length e version with links and short descriptions for each organization

(QR code at the back of the booklet)

BOOKS IN UNIVERSITY LIBRARIES:

The search engines for the libraries in Hong Kong have categories such as “Homosexuality fiction” “Gay teenagers fiction”

The Song of Achilles The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo Greedy: Notes from a Bisexual Who Wants Too Much

ORGANIZATIONS

NGOs:

PINK ALLIANCE

The mission of Pink Alliance is to advance dignity, acceptance and equal rights for people of different sexual orientations and gender identities in Hong Kong through community engagement and public education. Pink Alliance is run solely by volunteers from various professions, and it is the organizer of IDAHOT and Pink Season

LES CORNER EMPOWERMEN T ASSOCIATION

Les Corner takes up a feminine role in LGBT movements The association aims to advocate and fight for equality for the LGBTQ+ community, carry out public education, and eliminate prejudice and discrimination against sexual minorities, especially for females Their work includes raising female sexual minorities’ awareness of health and encouraging sexual minorities, especially females, to participate in different events and gatherings

PROJECT TOUCH, THE BOYS' & GIRLS' CLUBS ASSOCIATION OF HONG KONG

The BGCA of Hong Kong has launched the "Project Touch" to associate with LGBTQ+ teenagers and their parents The association hopes to assist this group of teenagers in establishing a peer supporting network and a positive and healthy LGBTQ+ culture The project aims to improve the self image, resilience and family relationship of teenagers and promote a diverse and harmonious society

TRANSGENDER RESOURCE CENTER

TGR is the longest running NGO that supports the transgender community in Hong Kong The center is run by trans people and is committed to promoting awareness towards the transgender population and providing related services in Hong Kong and mainland China They lead the trans movement and provide information and resources to the community starting with education.

GENDER EMPOWE RMENT

The vision of Gender Empowerment is to help the transgender community "integrate into society, building harmony". By providing the appropriate information and services, they help trans individuals go through the different stages of their gender transition, adapt to changes in their appearances, bodies, daily lives and social relationships. They also provide support to family members of transgender persons.

ELEMENTS

Elements is a group of social workers who aim to establish a healthy, energetic and positive LGBTQ+ platform and peer supporting network; it supports Quality Gay Life and positive community culture while promoting equal opportunities and a difference respected social environment.

GAY HARMONY

Gay Harmony mainly serves for the development of the gay community It aims to solve the problem with the lack of resources for the Hong Kong gay community, such as LGBTQ+ sex education, gender identity and LGBTQ+ rights Their work includes volunteer training and the promotion of HIV/AIDS prevention and education

RAINBOW HONG KONG

The Rainbow of Hong Kong cares about with the quality of life in the LGBTQ+ community, which aims to promote equal opportunities, sex education, way of living, and assist volunteers through services and events It has founded and is operating the only LGBTQ+ Community Centre in Hong Kong The Rainbow of Hong Kong has a unique queer library that provides access to queer literature, AIDS literature and information from around the world

BIGLOVE ALLIANCE

BigLove Alliance is a non profit charity organization which aims to promote the equality of LGBTQ+ community and their liberation from all forms of discrimination. They provide social support to the LGBTQ+ community and develop a platform for sharing and creative exchange to generate positive impact to society and creative culture.

ORGANIZATIONS

Advocacy Groups:

HK MARRIAGE EQUALITY

The goal of HKME is to achieve marriage equality for same sex couples in Hong Kong HKME recognizes and respects the diverse range of views in society regarding how to achieve a fair legal recognition of same sex relationships Specifically, HKME is committed to creating a community platform where individuals and organizations can collaborate and pool resources together.

NU TONG XUE SHE

NTXS is a volunteer run, education and cultural advocacy collective for and by members from the LGBTQ+ community in Hong Kong It aims to raise public awareness on issues of sexuality, to facilitate self empowerment of marginalized communities, to encourage multi levelled dialogue in society around taboo subjects, and to advocate for greater equality between peoples of different genders and sexualities NTXS has launched GDotTV, the first Tongzhi online television in Hong Kong.

PLANET ALLY

Planet Ally is a queer women led international NGO dedicated to allyship and advocacy for people with diverse sexual orientations, gender identities and sex characteristics. They stand in solidarity to create spaces, resources and platforms that empower communities online, on the ground and while travelling Plant Ally is the organiser of Asia Pacific Rainbow Families Forum, Miles of Love LGBTIQ+ Travel Advocacy Forum and Human Dignity Festival

AMNESTY INTERNATI ONAL HONG KONG LGBTI GROUP

Amnesty International campaigns against identity based discrimination, including that against LGBTI people. Internationally, the group works to publicize and campaign on behalf of cases of human rights abuses committed on the grounds of actual or perceived sexual identity Locally, the group campaigns for anti discrimination legislation to be introduced to outlaw discrimination on the grounds of sexual identity/orientation/expression

THE GAMUT PROJECT

The Gamut Project is a collective of Trans and Gender diverse people of color based in Hong Kong, which focuses on community building and resources curating for and by queer, trans people of color

SPECIAL AREAS:

CHOIR: THE HARMONICS CHOIR

The Harmonics is an LGBTQ+ & Friends choir that aspires to entertain audiences, support the community, celebrate differences and foster acceptance throughout Hong Kong.

CHOIR: HONG KONG GAY MEN'S CHORUS

HK Gay Men's Chorus entertains and inspires with songs They hold engaging performances in LGBTQ+ locations and events in Hong Kong by performing fun, pop/pop rock, chart based music that audiences love and want to hear. They provide a great space for gay men to come together

SPORTS: OUT IN HK

OUT in HK is a non commercial group for sports, outdoors events, fitness and health related social activities in which everyone is responsible for themselves It welcomes and connects all members and friends of the LGBTQ+ community in Hong Kong with interests in developing a fit and healthy lifestyle.

ELDERLY GROUP: GAY & GREY

Gay & Grey is a local NGO which provides a safe and friendly space for older Tongzhi (LGBTQ+). It advances community participation and services by organizing networking activities, providing public education and professional training (like social workers) and joining social inclusion and empowerment actions, such as IDAHOT, Pink Dot, Hong Kong Pride, LegCo meetings, etc

RELIGIOUS

QUEER THEOLOGY ACADEMY

Cantonese, Mandarin, English

The mission of the QTA mission is to develop and practice queer theology and gender justice in the context of Hong Kong. They aim to promote justice and equal rights for people with different sexual orientations through publication and education They work in partnership with sexual minority groups to provide them with appropriate pastoral counseling and spiritual formation

Chinese, English

GENDER JUSTICE MINISTRY

The Gender Justice Ministry of Hong Kong Christian Council promotes and concerns gender justice issues within the church

COMPASSIO N HK LGBTQ CATHOLICS UNION

KOWLOON UNION CHURCH

Chinese, English

Compassion is a mutual help group organised by Hong Kong LGBTQ+ Catholics

English

Kowloon Union Church is an independent, inter denominational and international church in Hong Kong In the ecumenical spirit of unity, they take diversity as a gift from God. They welcome friends from different backgrounds regardless of race, nationality, age, gender and sexual orientation

ALABASTER

BOX OF OINTMENT CHURCH

Chinese

Alabaster Box of Ointment Church is a church which accepts diverse sexual orientation and class

ONE BODY IN CHRIST

Chinese One Body in Christ is an “unusual” church, and also a church outside the establishment 眾⽣互為

BLESSED MINISTRY COMMUNI

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CHURCH

Cantonese with Mandarin and English Blessed Ministry Community Church believes that the divine grace of Jesus can come to people with diverse sexual orientations

QSA EVENTS

QUEER GRADUATION DAY

Date: 1 Jul 2022

QSA has always been a strong advocate for diversity within campuses in Hong Kong by collaborating with different organizations to promote a safe space for self expression. This July, we were in partnership with Eaton HK, Gay Games Hong Kong and Quarks to host the first ever Queer Graduation Ceremony in HK. LGBTQ+ graduates from various secondary schools, universities and institutions showed up in their most comfortable selves in uniforms, gowns, costumes and so on.

The ceremony was also attended by refugee, asylum seeking and migrant graduates from Southeast Asian countries All coming together to express their individuality which they might have previously lacked the platform for and celebrate together the joyous memories, hardships and completion of their studies The ceremony was publicized by various media outlets including the Hong Kong Free Press, successfully spreading awareness of love and inclusivity within schools to the wider public

QSA X PUB CRAWL

Date: 16 Dec 2021

QSA collaborated with Pub Crawl in December 2021 to organize the first ever LGBTQ+ pub crawl in Hong Kong history! This Pub Crawl is friendly for those who are trying clubbing for the first time, as you will be guided through the chaotic streets of Lan Kwai Fong For those who have been through many LKF adventures, this event will also be eye opening for you with all the hidden bars and amazing drink deals!

Being part of the LGBTQ+ community, clubbing could be intimidating because of how heteronormative it is. So, this event is made for those who want to try a new clubbing experience in LKF, with an inclusive LGBTQ+ group! The night included crazy drink deals (HKD40 for two beers/one cocktail), and even crazier LGBTQ+ friendly party people!

Are straight bars in LKF making you uncomfortable? Worry not, let’s turn it gay!

QSA EVENTS

BOOTHS

QSA has been holding booths on campus and with different partnering organizations (Pride Bazaar, Pride Market) to promote and provide information on the LGBTQ+ community. We aim to spread the idea of equality and diversity with our LGBTQ+ friends and passersby. Come check out our booth next time and get yourself some very or subtly gay souvenirs!

QSA TRIVIA NIGHTS & SPEED DATING

QSA Trivia Nights were held on two different nights via Zoom to test if our participants were smarter than a 10 year old (we are very glad to say that they were). Trivia questions included general LGBTQ+ and Hong Kong knowledge. And of course, there were fabulous prizes for the winners!

Heteronormative speed dating? Yawn. "Dating in the Dark", held around Valentine's Day (wink wink), was organized to provide opportunities to find LGBTQ+ like minded friends or romantic partners all based on personality and interests.

A B O U T Q S A

Queer Straight Alliance (QSA) is the largest university student led organization in Hong Kong. The organization was established in 2008 by a group of students at the University of Hong Kong, but the team now comprises students from many different universities in Hong Kong, hailing from diverse countries and backgrounds.

QSA aims to make university campuses more accepting and increase the number of inclusive spaces for all LGBTQ+ students. The alliance organizes social, advocacy and career events, that aim to foster the development of the queer student community of Hong Kong.

WORD FROM OUR CO-PRESIDENT

Now that you’ve read our survival guide, you have plenty of resources to explore. It’s time to step into the community and live your queer life! You’ll find a beautiful family welcoming you with open arms. Start by joining QSA’s events and our community chat group!

Jodie Chan

Co President of QSA (Session 22/23)

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