Pleasure Principles

Volume 1: Issue 2

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CONTENTS

4 FROM THE HEART Dr. O gets real about the language of self care.

7 WELCOME TO THE PLEASURE DOME! Our Pretty staff talks all things pleasure.

9 MOM SPACE with L. Renee James-Griffin 11 BUDGETING FOR THINGS THAT BRING US PLEASURE

by Tara Opie 22 PRETTY ON A BUDGET wth Jay L. Harris

15 MEET OUR COVER CHIC! Up close & personal with Lauren Hope of Good Girl Chronicles

24 5 FINGERS & A SMILE TO IMPROVE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH PERFORMANCE

by Tonja Bennett 27 "The Black Queen's Burden" A poem by Adzo Nutifafa 28 EMBRACING OUR SEXUALITY THROUGH SPIRITUALITY

by Staffani Salter 33 THE MAN CAVE Read what the other half thinks.

34 THE COMMUNITY CORNER with Toyshebia Napper 37 Find WORD FUN these "pleasure" words.

38 Check PRETTY TALK! out the results of

our Pretty Smart Chics Survey

42 ZEUS: CHRONICLES OF A SEX GOD from the novel by Jay L. Harris

FROM THE

with Dr. O

Dr. Ondra Krouse Dismukes

Joy is hiding when the divine feminine is in hiding. This is true for everyone. Waking up to the divine feminine begins by waking up to the social reality all around us. The dominance of masculine power is everywhere. Feminine power has been so suppressed that it seems to be in hiding. At the psychological level, when masculine values are considered not only superior to the feminine, but the only route to power and success, this imbalance is what makes life joyless. At the deepest spiritual level, when the access to the divine feminine has been closed off and forgotten, the path to healing is lost at the same time. (21-Day Meditation Experience)

I heard these words from Deepak Chopra while sitting beachside in Honolulu, witnessing some of the most beautiful blue water I’ve seen since my vacation in Hilton Head, SC twelve years ago. As the waves crashed with gentle force against my body, Spirit revealed “Summer 2021 is your Summer of Self Care.” Aside from taking my first vacation in over a decade, self care - for me - begins with language. Yes, this includes writing and repeating daily affirmations, but I also am far more reflective of how we as women are often complicit in the very language that suppresses our divine feminine energy.

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Dr. Ondra Krouse Dismukes

I am reminded of words we use to refer to arguably our most intimate act, sex, and the ways we describe having sex: We’re just messing around. We smashed. I let him hit it. We’re just banging. He blew my back out! It’s cuffing season. These common slang terms for sexual intercourse have been indoctrinated into our lexicon. We use them in cliched, seemingly harmless ways, but these metaphors clearly represent language that suppresses the divine feminine within each of us - female, male, or non binary. I don’t know about you - and Pretty Smart Chics remains a space of non-judgement - but my vagina is not mess; it is the source of my divine feminine energy. And regardless of our sexual preferences, the image of having the source of my divine feminine energy smashed, hit, banged, blown out, or cuffed invokes a tone that is more than a little oppressive, particularly when I am the one being hit, smashed, banged, blown out or even cuffed. Even the fact that this is my first vacation in over decade is evidence of what happens when we as women suppress our divine feminine energy - which is soft, nurturing, passionate, and compassionate - and yield to our masculine energy - that strong energy that encourages us to act in the here and now, rather than to contemplate (as in study long, study wrong), to dominate, rather than to cultivate. Yes, when the aggressive energy that urges us to hit, smash, or bang - eclipses feminine energy, it becomes indoctrinated into our language - and, by extension, into our actions - and suppresses female energy, our divine feminine energy.

Part of my own self care begins with being more aware of the language I use and more intentional about the way I use it . . . starting with The Pleasure Principle.

Our goal, in this issue, is to remind you that the source of your pleasure begins with loving yourself, and loving yourself begins with giving yourself the things that bring you joy and help you feel good about you. Our staff - and, of course, Janet Jackson - calls this The Pleasure Principle, and our Cover Model Chic, Lauren Hope, exemplifies this ideal! In an interview with our Boss Chic, Jay L. Harris, Hope shares her personal journey toward self acceptance as the ultimate demonstration of self love and, therefore, the source of our self care, which is the ultimate purpose of awakening the divine feminine.

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with Dr. O Continued from p. 5

Dr. Ondra Krouse Dismukes

Harris scores a pleasure trifecta, in this issue, as she invites us into her romance series, Zeus: Chronicles of a Sex God, sharing Chapter 1: Loren's Story. Later, she shares her expertise on how to protect your style cache - and your purse - in “Pretty on a Budget,” while Contributing Writer Tara Opie helps us protect our wealth - and our sanity - in her article “Budgeting for Things That Bring Us Pleasure.”

What’s the use of looking fly and protecting that bag, though, if we’re not healthy enough to experience either fully? For your health, Contributing Writer Steffani Salter helps us to tap into the basic source of our divine feminine, the womb, in her article, “Embracing Our Sexuality through Spirituality: Creating Your Inner Temple with Mother Womb;” and you won’t want to miss Contributing Writer Tonja Bennett’s article, “Homunculus Yoga to Increase Brain Functioning and Pleasure,” wherein she reveals how we can hack our brains to achieve optimal performance using just our five fingers and a smile.

Of course, our standard features are all about helping you find your pleasure dome! In fact, in “Welcome to the Pleasure Dome,” our PSC staff reveals what they do to find pleasure, and we’ll even share what you in our growing Pretty Smart Chic community do to experience pleasure. In Mom Space, Staff Columnist L. Renee James-Griffin invites us in for an intimate talk about how moms can make space - pun intended - for intimacy with our partners, while Staff Columnist Toyshebia Napper reminds us of the benefits of exploring other cultures within our community to increase our overall well being - mind, body, and spirit. Finally, our journalistic integrity compels us to offer a public apology to our Guest Columnist, Rev. Dr. Wendell H. Paris, Jr., Senior Pastor of Mt. Tabor Baptist Church of Miami, in Miami, Florida, whose name we misspelled in our previous issue. Dr. Paris returns to The Man Cave with his all-too-valuable insight into the male psyche. Now, how’s that for balance?!

Enjoy your summer of self care!

-Dr. O

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Welcome to the Pleasure Dome!

Our Pretty Staffers Dish on their principle of pleasure.

Dr. O

Outside of dark chocolate, I find my greatest pleasure in music, writing, and dancing. This looks like me rocking out to my favorite throwback music channel while working out, which typically involves some type of dance. I marvel at what my body can do, and how I look when I’m doing what I’m doing. Nothing else matters! I literally lose myself in the rhythm, the message, and the way my body responds to both. Long lines for those smooth R & B tunes; more hip action for my favorite hip hop classics. The only other time I feel this type of joy is when I write. I mean really write - like when I’m in my zone, my thoughts are flowing, I am one with them, and our creation oozes across the page. I enjoy the scratch of my #2 pencil - yes, pencil - or the roll of my blue medium-point Papermate pen, or the rhythm of my typing each word, each phrase, each thought. Here is my pleasure dome!

After experiencing depression & anxiety from the pandemic and health issues, I was pleasantly surprised to discover a hidden talent, painting! I started watching acrylic pouring videos on YouTube to pass the time away. After watching my third video, I decided to experiment with this style of painting. I soon went from acrylic pouring to abstract painting to drawing a woman’s booty. I went from pain to painting in a matter of months.

Painting is my creative outlet and I am glad I discovered it.

Jay L

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Renee

For me, my pleasure begins with a hot shower. The hotter, the steamier, the better. Most people take a shower at night but not me. I jump in first thing in the morning. The feel of hot water running down my body awakens my pores and gives me the start I need to have a fantastic day. The next must have is a good, I mean great cup of hot coffee. There is nothing like the smell of coffee in the morning, in the afternoon, and in the evening! And of course, the hotter the better. A frappuccino just won’t do! Coffee is an aphrodisiac I cannot resist. My senses come alive when I am in its presence from the rich aroma percolating to the milky to mocha coloring to the sweet, sometimes dark flavor blazing through my body. Making a cup in my home or sitting at my local coffee shop is the five or ten minute getaway I need everyday Hell, sometimes, I need this escape a few times a day. And believe it or not, coffee and showers are just two of my pleasures!

Life brings challenges, new discoveries, and opportunities to reinvent ourselves. I made a lot of changes for peace of mind and joy over the past year. So, I have a new understanding of what creates pleasure, delight, and overall joy in my life. The sound of waves crashing against the shore or rain outside my window gives me gratification and peace. A new sci-fi/mystery book or a Korean drama provides hours of escape into pleasure.

Of course, I cannot leave out my love of 80s, 90s, and early 2000s R&B and Neo-Soul music. These are a few of my favorite things.

Toyshebia

Gettin' Some When the Kids Are Around

Nowadays, being married with kids means that couples like my husband and I must strategize our alone time. You know what I mean. We often must conduct covert operations to get some. When external conflicts such as work, bills, and mommy and daddy duties seem to be on an endless loop, marriage plus kids equals the No-Adult-Fun Zone.

Even when we opt out and take a nice vacation, it becomes a workcation of stress and angst-filled with a long to-do list. Find a family spot and get there in one piece while keeping the kids entertained.

Check! Check! And check! Schedule kid-friendly activities. Check! Offset hurt feelings and sibling arguments. Check! Stretch ourselves thin making sure this is the best trip the kids ever have. Check!

Pack everything up, despite the tears, and remember not to leave Cherry Vanilla or some other cuddle toy behind. Yep, that's the llama's name; and there are three of them. Check! And check! Then, rush home the day before to pick up where we left off in our endless loop of duties. Check!!!

So, you see, it is no wonder my husband and I must be stealth-like in the arena of lovemaking. I know other couples can relate. Heck, our environment is riddled with pitfalls. One wrong step, and we might lose a foot, or worse - be caught in the act by a kid! I know what you are thinking: “It is not that serious; just wait until the kids go to bed.” Except, that is when it gets the trickiest.

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Continued from p. 9 Let me explain. If you have read my other blogs, then you know that I have two girls who are five and seven years old. While they are independent, they still need their mommy and daddy. For example, sometimes the little one has nightmares and needs us to rescue her in the middle of the night. Other times, the older one craves our bed and body heat and will often crawl into bed with us when no one is looking. It is no use locking the door, for they will just knock and ask why it is locked. And of course, it doesn’t help that I feel guilty if I turn them away.

That is why covert tactics are a must. And, uhmmm . . . ladies, when done right, it can pop off at any moment. Finesse is key. For instance, say your kids are playing at the kitchen table and one of you is cooking dinner while the other is watching TV. “PSST.” “PSST.” I said, “PSST!” There is no law that says you can’t catch your partner’s eye and the two of you sneak off for a minute. Of course, I would encourage you to choose a moment when the kids are thoroughly engrossed in a beloved activity.

Perhaps your kids are close with the neighbor’s kids, who also happen to have a trampoline or some other fun activity that preoccupies your kids’ little minds. Go on. Walk them over or down the street; then, sneak away for a spell. Of course, make sure to return the favor so your neighbors can have a breather as well!

The best part is that my husband and I get some alone time, and it is exciting because we revert to kids again who have a secret only we share. And since we never know when an opportunity will arise, it is new and fun. Need a few ideas about how to be covert and keep the love alive, check out the ideas below.

Put on your children’s favorite movie, or have them watch a new one; then, slowly disappear.

Have a sleepover with lots of pillows, sleeping bags, a tent, or an air mattress (They sleep in one area; you and your partner sleep in another.).

Encourage bathtime fun time (They must be old enough to be left alone so you can sneak away!).

Play footsie under the table during dinner.

Grab your partner’s ass when he or she walks by.

Send the kids to grandma’s house.

Invite a family member over; and while they are playing with the kids, sneak away.

Ramp up the kids’ play time to tire them out.

In truth, all you really need is an imagination, opportunity, and the willingness to jump into action at a moment’s notice. Give it a try. Both you and your partner will be glad you did!

L. Renee credentials include a bachelor’s degree in English, a bachelor’s degree in journalism, a master's in fine arts in creative writing, and a master's of arts in secondary education.

Her love for the English language has propelled James-Griffin to instruct high school, freshman, and upper-level students on the art of words. In addition, she currently resides as one of the advisers of the Milton High School literary magazine, The Globe.

BUDGETING FOR THINGS THAT BRING US PLEASURE

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I have always found myself to be a very frugal person, all the way down to travel. The caravan with sandwiches wrapped in foil, sandwich bags of chips and a cooler of juicy drinks for the kiddos was my go-to. I barely traveled from the anxiety of using what I earned for fun. Crazy, right?

The U.S. Travel Organization website mentions,”…travel spending totaled a mere $679 billion in 2020, an unprecedented 42% annual decline…International travel spending fell 76% (compared to 34% for domestic travel), while business travel spending fell 70% (compared to 27% for leisure travel).” The pandemic took its toll on all of us, and finding new ways to save money for vacations and trips has become a necessity.

How do we begin to find a budget during the pandemic?

My son’s 16th birthday was coming up, and I wanted to do something special for him.

So I started to look at what I needed to do to afford the trip that I had planned. I’d like to share a couple of things that I’ve learned to make it easier on budgeting for things that you want to do for you and your family.

First things first, know your numbers. Grab all of your monthly and/or outstanding bills.

We need to know where the money goes and what needs to change in your spending.

Fall in love with coupons. I love my store points to save on groceries and gas.

Tidbit: Consider what you save on groceries and on gas, and a percentage of that can go back into your savings.

Next, plan ahead. Tickets and hotel reservations are lower during the week versus weekend rates. There are numerous budget planners online and in stores who can help you create and manage a budget. For my son’s trip, his birthday fell on a Monday. My goal was for him to have a couple of days to himself to relax in a new space, so I decided to lock in the dates from Sunday evening to Tuesday morning. “Sunday night hotel rates are, on average, 30% cheaper than Fridays and Saturdays, so we suggest shifting your weekend from Friday-Sunday to SaturdayMonday.” “With this strategy, you can also take advantage of less crowds and easier access to amenities and restaurants” (Bologna, 2019). Because I knew that his birthday was coming up, I took my time to save what I needed for the entire trip.

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Don’t go it alone. I was grateful enough to have a family friend of mine, who has kids the same age as mine, to put in on the rate. We collaborated on where to stay and decided on a four-bedroom, two-and-a-half bathroom beach house less than 10 miles from the coast. We found it on an Airbnb-type site. Everything was readily available for each guest. I went grocery shopping and my friend picked up whatever I forgot. It’s honestly more fun to share a space for a short while.

Know your menu. If you decide to go the Airbnb route, you will see that pots and pans are available to use. For COVID’s sake, each was rewashed and dried prior to use. Night 1: We had tacos for dinner. There were plenty of leftovers. Day 2: Shrimp and grits for breakfast. We used most of the leftovers from the night before. Day 3: I made quesadillas using the last of the leftovers before we left. I found staying in an Airbnb is very enjoyable. It will be much easier to cook and not be forced to eat out. I spent $800 for a three-day, two-night stay for four people.

There is always a way to save. Send me an email to tarak@taraspecializes.com for more information.

Tara K. is a mother of three, a graduate from Independence University with a degree in Accounting with an emphasis of Forensic Accounting, and a minority business owner. Before then, she managed a small business for several years learning the needs and wants of small business owners. She has been practicing accounting and bookkeeping since 2016 with clients all over the world. She started Tara K. Specializes, LLC in 2019 with the goal of helping small business owners achieve financial health. She has published two books entitled How to Monetize Your Niche in 90 Days and Simple Credit Repair. Both are available at taraspecializes.com/products. taraspecializes.com facebook.com/tarakspecializes instagram.com/tarakspecializes

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GOOD GIRLS LIKE PLEASURE, TOO!

LAUREN HOPE: GOOD GIRL CHRONICLES Interview

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Jay

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JLH: Tell us more about Good Girl Chronicles and the new direction you are taking it.

LH: The heart of Good Girl Chronicles, LLC, is storytelling. I help people own their truth, live it, and then share it. That is still very much the philosophy of Good Girl Chronicles. However, I’ve always wanted to write about love, sex, and relationships. When I was younger I was a huge fan of Carrie Bradshaw of Sex and the City. I wanted to be the black Carrie Bradshaw. At the beginning of the year, I set out on a self-love journey, honoring my body and doing positive affirmations. Then, I said to myself, “Why am I not writing about sex through the eyes of a goody-two-shoes?” The answer, I was afraid. I am not afraid anymore, and I feel lots of women in my audience want to have these conversations. I want to be bold enough to lead them through those conversations online.

Our new direction is to empower women to own their sexy, their story, and their purpose.

JLH: What made you decide to take this direction with Good Girl Chronicles?

LH: I love writing about love and sex. I am a hopeless romantic at heart. Also, my parents raised me with a lot of shame around sex. It affected several of my romantic relationships. I want to free women of that shame. I believe when sex is discussed in an non-intimidating way, and in safe places, we can all grow and became better partners.

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JLH: What does pleasure mean to you?

LH: Wow! Pleasure is such a sensual and powerful word to me. When I think of pleasure, I think of the obvious: making love; those passionate, slow kisses that take your breath away; the foreplay that makes you want me.

Pleasure is such a deep word to me; it can’t be described in a sentence or word. It’s the hotness you feel all over your body when you’re aroused. Pleasure is divine.

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JLH: If, as SWV says, "pleasure is your destination," where are you going?

LH: I enjoy love-making. It’s the connecting of two people who are expressing their love through sex. I am currently single, so if pleasure is my destination, I am going into the depths of my mind, to the memories of some of my best lovers. I am a mental lover, so remembering and meditating on past lovemaking is a turn on for me.

JLH: I see you’re an advocate for Body Positivity. Tell us more about your stance on this concept and why it is important to promote body positivity in today’s climate?

LH: To me, body positivity is giving space for every shape and size at the table. For too long, the mainstream media has shown a narrow view of what is beautiful. Beauty comes in all shapes and colors. I fell into a deep depression during the pandemic, and I gained 20 pounds. I was so anxious and depressed about all the opportunities I lost. I started following body-positive influencers like Stella Williams; her confidence inspired me. I took a few pics showing my legs and revealed to my followers I secretly always wanted to model as a teen. The feedback was exhilarating, and it motivated me to keep going. Each picture I took was fueling me to look in the mirror and really love myself.

After a while, my confidence started to grow. Seeing other plus-size women boldly claim their sexyness motivated me to give it a try.

Body positivity is so important in expanding the discussion on beauty. It’s really about representation. We need to see all types of bodies represented in media, fashion, Beauty, everything. Representation shows other people their shape or size is just as beautiful as anyone else’s.

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JLH: I noticed you recently participated in boudoir photography. How was that experience?

LH: I’ve honestly always wanted to do Boudoir. I always told myself I’d do it when I was under 200 lbs. That may take some time. An amazing local photographer, Stacey Salerno Photography, offered me a chance to model for her launch; and I jumped at the chance. So I thought to myself, I’m going to do this - all 220 pounds of myself.

Stacey’s encouragement and motivation that day melted away any insecurities I had.

We played music, talked about girl stuff; and in the process, I felt myself loving the curves, the dents, the lumps that are me. And, seeing the pictures of myself really helped in my self-love journey.

JLH: Did it bring up any insecurities?

LH: I am self-conscious about my stomach and butt. The photos Stacey took of me were surprising. I recall saying, “Oh my goodness Is that me?” It was the beginning of me falling in love with my breasts all over again and reclaiming my sexy.

JLH: Why did you decide to do something so daring?

LH: The photographer, Stacey Salerno, was looking for a model for her launch and offered me a spot. I was nervous, but I trust Stacey. I’ve secretly always wanted to model but didn’t think I had the nerve. I am so glad I did. It is the beginning of me claiming that I am a sexual, sensual woman, and that is nothing to be ashamed of.

LH: Was this a way to shake off your “good girl” persona?

LH: You know -- I’m finding that, really, aren’t we all “good girls”? Weren’t we all raised to be good girls? I want to show women that being a sexual or sensual woman doesn’t mean you still can’t be a “good girl” or “goody two shoes.” Your goodness is not connected to your sexuality, sexual preference, or desire. I still have a lot of “goodytwo-shoes” tendencies; but what I am shaking off is shame about my sexuality, my body, and my sex drive.

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JLH: As a fellow “good girl,” I know how this title can be stifling. How has the title held you back? What are you doing to redefine the persona of good girls?

LH: I am hoping to redefine the persona of good girls. I’ve been called a goody two shoes since I was a teen because I talked about loving God and saving myself for marriage. People would whisper or not do things around me because they said, “Lauren is a good girl.”

I am a woman with feelings and desires like everyone else. What is “good,” and why does that label get snatched away when we give up our virginity or we drop an f-bomb? We don’t do that to men. You can be a good girl and like sex. You can be a good girl and sometimes say shit!

At the end of the day, what matters is how you feel about yourself. Also, I firmly believe in loving God and loving people. I try hard to do all things from a place of love. I am going to change the good-girl persona by being my authentic self and featuring other women who are their bold selves. We’ll all proclaim and own that we are STILL “good girls.” That is how we change the narrow-minded narrative about being a “good girl.” We are a lot more fun and open than people give us credit for.

JLH: How do you incorporate pleasure into your self-care routine?

LH: We all have sexual energy, and I am currently single, so I find healthy ways to release that energy. I have a music playlist with all the songs that arouse me. When I work out or do cardio, I play those songs. Sometimes I play those songs in the shower; sometimes I play them on the highway driving long distances. I generally listen to them every other day. It’s part of my sexual self-care, I guess. Listening to those songs, sometimes pleasuring myself, or burning the sexual energy through cardio is an amazing release; and, it keeps me celibate.

JLH: Tell us about any upcoming projects you have.

LH: I am currently working on a memoir about my life - from being a television reporter to being homeless, to becoming owner of my own business and brand. It is definitely a reverse rags-toriches story. I started off with so much and lost it all. Now, I am rebuilding and coming back stronger.

I am also relaunching all of my workshops on storytelling, public speaking, and story branding. A lot of them will be available virtually. I plan to produce and host my show, Spark of Hope Storytelling Night, at least once a quarter.

I’m also laying the foundation for a boutique Public Relations and Media company in Hampton Roads, Virginia. The sky's the limit for this good girl.

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JLH: Where can our readers find you on social media?

LH: YouTube: https://youtu.be/I_w1dSYGe4k (Good Girl Chronicles) Twitter: LaurenHope84 IG: @goodgirlchroniclesllc Facebook: www.facebook.com/goodgirlchronicles Patreon: patreon.com/goodgirlchronicles JLH: What parting words of wisdom would you share with our readers?

LH: You are the only YOU in this world. You’re the ONLY YOU you get-- be kind to yourself. Self love really is the best love. It’s what everything else flows from.

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Where do you buy your clothes?

I get asked this question all the time. Why, you ask? Because I am a plus-size diva who slaaaaaaaaays! I am being silly. Seriously, though, I do dress nicely . . . not for a big girl, but PERIODT! Most people assume I spend tons of cash on my clothes; but honestly, I don’t. I paid $4.99 for my only pair of designer shoes, by Stuart Weitzman, at my local thrift store. Yes, I, too, was amazed by this score!

When I was younger, my mother, who was a single mom struggling to take care of two kids, encouraged me to play dress-up with my own clothes. She taught me how to pair outfits together with ten shirts, three pairs of pants, and two dresses. She told me if I learned how to mix and match different items, I wouldn't have to wear the same boring thing over and over. At the time, I didn’t understand the valuable lesson she taught me and how much it has served me. My mother, whether intentional or not, helped me to develop my creative eye. I am forever in her debt for this.

Ok, Jackie; what does her lesson about clothes have to do with us?

I am glad you asked! Since I was poor growing up, I learned quickly where to go find cute clothes for cheap, as well as how to keep them fresh and clean. I’ve been fluffy all my life; and growing up, the only two decent plus-size places to shop were Cato and Lane Bryant! Oh, I am so glad we have more options now.

Let’s face it; we live in a world that judges people by the clothes they wear. If you’re not wearing the latest trendy fashion seen on platforms such as TikTok and Instagram, you’re a nobody, right?

Fashion labels are selling out of their products overnight because everyone wants a pair of leggings that make your butt appear larger than life. I learned at an early age that how we dress matters. People will treat you according to how you dress. The other thing I learned is that how much you spend on an outfit doesn’t matter.

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I am not a label whore. I couldn’t care less about name-brand clothes or what trendy label is on my t-shirt. I follow the lesson of my mother, which is to create a personal style. Trends come and go, but true style lasts forever.

Over the years, I’ve learned to dress for my body type and to find materials that work with my fat rolls. I don’t mind spending money for nice items, but I also know I don’t have to! Unlike in my childhood, there are now plenty of stores that offer fashionable plus-size items.

Whether you’re plus sized, a skinny minny, or any size in between, shopping should be fun! Here is a list of my favorite places to shop (Note: This list is based solely on my personal experiences; I don’t receive any money - yet - for these shout outs!): Ross: Dress For Less- I love being able to find a dress or romper for less than $20. Ross keeps a sister fly on a budget!

Walmart- Yes, Walmart! Wally World has really upped its game over the years, especially with its plus-size fashion. I buy most of my jeans here.

Old Navy- Sometimes this is a hit or miss! My suggestion is definitely to try on your clothes first, if possible. When you find a style that works for you, stick with it.

Rue 21- This is my store! They keep me very hip and fashionable.

Thrift stores- I shop here for formal wear.

This is just a small list of the places I shop for clothes. I know it’s unconventional, but the main idea is that we should all find pleasure in how we look, and looking good doesn’t have to cost a lot of money.

Now, we can all be Pretty on a Budget! Just wait until I tell you about my $2 lipstick hack; but, hey, that’s for another day!

Learn more about Pretty Smart Chics Founder & Creative Director at www.jaylharris.org

Five Fingers and a Smile to Improve Your Mental Performance

by Tonja “Sunflower” Bennett Contributing Writer When I think about my youth, it seems everything I did was evaluated by the quality and quantity of manifested work done by my hands. The Baby Boomers of our generation “had” to make their beds, do household chores, write in cursive, and use good penmanship. Art, music, and home economics were part of the educational curriculum. Our crafts were functional as well as beautiful, using mediums such as wood, pottery, and fabrics. Parents, schools, and community centers taught a basic understanding of know-how, from using a sewing machine to changing a car’s oil or flat tire. Before outsourcing, the practice was to use one’s hands first.

We had aphorisms to support the value of using our hands, like Proverbs 20:4, “If you are too lazy to plow, don’t expect a harvest”, or “It is good for our soul to create with our hands,” and most commonly quoted, “Your life is in your hands.”

When I was ten, I recall looking on the back cover of our public phonebook to see how old I’d be in the year 2000. “Thirty-five? Thirty-five!” The future was going to be an exciting time because computers were coming and would perform all of my mathematical calculations. “Life is going to be easy in the future!” I remember thinking.

The future is here now! We carry computers in our back pockets, around our wrist, and even have a whole wall dedicated to them in our homes. Just about any and every thing we wish to know or virtually experience is within reach of our fingertips. We’ve gotten so relaxed as the observer, we relegate our creativity to others. In the workplace, the “mental” jobs are most valued while working with one’s hands is valued least, especially if one is a laborer. When people are using their hands, it’s usually to hold their rectangular devices as thumbs move rapidly across the keyboard to communicate, play, and create with these personal devices.

Narcissism, anxieties, phobias and psychoses are on the rise; while penmanship, creativity, focused discipline, and know-how are on the decline.

Taken from many healing arts techniques, The Homunculus Yoga Project is a creative project using our hands and a smile as a way to strengthen and balance the brain to induce more focused concentration and joyful living for all ages.

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In the distorted figure of Little Man, homunculus, and the frontal section of the neurological map of the cortical homunculus, pictured here (Figure 1 & 2), both his hands, mouth, and tongue are a grotesquely exaggerated representations of how the brain sees the body. As a result, more neuronal circuits are needed to assist one to move from gross to fine-tuning one’s skills; for example, in tactile and speech development.

If this is true, more neurons could be stimulated at regions responsible for innervating our face and hands. The Homunculus Yoga Project was developed based on the premise that working with our hands could stimulate the nervous system by amplifying our state of being with a smile and finger gesturing to accentuate daily brain function.

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Hand gestures - like mudra, the ones used in yoga - are an ancient finger practice of hand placement. In Sanskrit, or ancient language, Mudra means to “seal.” The hasta mudra, or hand gesture, amplifies the flow of energy in the body by releasing blockages to restore physical and emotional well-being. For example, hand therapies such as painting and writing have been shown to elevate moods, whereas cognitive abilities in those suffering from debilitating diseases such as Alzheimers also show improvement.

These hand placements can be performed standing, seated, and laying down; and they can be used with meditation and controlling the breath, called pranayama. The key component is to be relaxed, in the body, with an elongated spine for optimal energy flow. Practice can last anywhere from three to sixty minutes; using a focus of breath, intention, visualization, or chant to enhance the mudra gesture for the time set. Mudras can also be done to music, like a hand dance and chant, or to color visualization.

The act of smiling can go a long way to improve mood by releasing neurotransmitters like dopamine, endorphins, and serotonin that induce more pleasure and wellbeing in the mind and body. Smiling can generate the same level of brain stimulation as 2,000 bars of chocolate and has the ability to lower blood pressure, increase immunity, and have a contagious and calming effect on others.

To learn more about The Homunculus Yoga Project, access here.

Tonja “Sunflower” Bennett teaches at the university level. She combines Yoga & Neuroscience to boost brain power in fun and enjoyable ways. Add your name to the mailing list: https://yogaonthemove.org/ to take part in Yoga Lifestyles courses & Teacher Training certifications.

Tonja "Sunflower Be" Bennett is the owner of Yogaonthemove, a platform that allows her to travel the world teaching the science of yoga. She also teaches Biology and Environmental Science at a local community college.

The Black Queen's Burden A poem in conversation

by Adzo Nutifafa

Pile on the Black Queen's burden; They so often get ignored.

Why worry so for Karen And the lies she has in store?

Halt, Ye, your fearless armies That take away her men Who fight for a country That does not fight for them.

Pile on the Black Queen's burden; To her wail a deaf ear turn.

You solve so many "problems," But will you ever learn That many of these "problems" You bring upon yourself Because ignorance from the Right Wields injustice on the left?

Pile on the Black Queen's burden; Her back is broad, though sore.

What though the weight oppress her, She's borne the weight before.

Your racist, sexist customs And fiendish midnight greed, Though winked at by the nation Will someday trouble breed.

Pile on the Black Queen's Burden At length 'twill Heaven pierce.

Then on you and your children Will reign God's judgement fierce.

So long have you ignored her And made her feel such shame; But God is always watching, And, yes, SHE knows your name.

EMBRACING OUR SEXUALITY THROUGH SPIRITUALITY: CREATING YOUR INNER TEMPLE WITH MOTHER WOMB

by Steffani Salter

Contributing Writer You may have begun to see the term “Womb Healing” being thrown around.

Maybe it's popping up on your IG feed, or one of your Facebook friends posted something about it, or you may have even heard it on a show. Either way, “Womb Healing” is catching people’s attention, and people want to know more about it. Is the womb the same thing as a Yoni? Do you have a womb even if you have had a hysterectomy? Are people healing their wombs to have better sex?

Whatever your interest may be when it comes to the Womb, my hope is for you to have a better relationship with your own womb by the end of this article.

The Womb

So, let's go ahead and clear up what we mean when we talk about the womb.

When most people think of the womb they imagine a woman’s reproductive organs, and that is partly true. The womb is not just a physical entity; it is also an energetic one. It encompasses the entire energetic space in that region.

The womb stores energetic imprints as well, such as relationships, lovers, emotional memories, and trauma, as it is part of our consciousness. The womb space is also the seat of our creative power. It is where we birth new life/ideas into the world; thus it is my belief that every woman is a mother, but that is for another article.

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My womb-healing journey began in 2015 after experiencing my third miscarriage. I had to have an emergency D&C - dilation and curettage, a procedure to remove tissue from inside the uterus - and while I was in recovery and coming out of the anesthesia I began to meditate. I asked Jesus, who is my Ascended Master, to show me what was going on with my womb. If you have ever been in a meditative state, then you know how difficult it can be to explain your experience. I will try my best, though.

I immediately had the image of the female reproductive system. Before this I would not have really been familiar with what that exactly looked like; after a while, it began to transform into the image of Jesus on the cross. The uterus turned into his head; the fallopian tubes turned into Jesus’s arms stretched out; the cervix turned into his body; and the vagina turned into his feet where blood dripped out.

I began to feel a very deep connection to Jesus, that we both shared this special gift. Then Jesus and I had communion. This drink represents the blood that is shed for eternal life. It was something we had in common. We both shed blood for eternal life. For it has been through the portal of a woman’s vagina that life continues to exist. It was then revealed to me just how sacred the womb is and the power that it possesses. I believed that healing my womb was the foundation of all my healing. I began to understand the difference between being healed and being cured. Healing is from the inside out, a cure is from the outside in.

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During my recovery I began to create womb-healing rituals to assist me with connecting back to my womb. I began taking communion during my moontime. I refer to menstruation as moontime because of the connection between a woman's cycle and the lunar phases, and I started creating a space where I could sit with my womb and listen to her. I called this the seated-in-majesty practice.

I soon began to experience healing in other aspects of my life, including my sexual health. I studied the art of tantra and through my experience came to the realization that my womb is the intersection between my sexuality and spirituality. The womb is its own energy center connecting to all the energy centers in our bodies.

Your Inner Temple

The creation of your inner temple is personal; it is where you discover that God is to be experienced more than to be believed. It is where you connect to your power and the power of your creator. It is where you are safe and protected.

So, you may be asking yourself by now, where do I begin? Well, I hope that you are asking yourself that. Start by asking a question. I asked for my womb to be revealed to me, and she was. The rest will reveal itself from that point. Your power is already there; it is already available to you. The power is not in the rituals that you create or the tools that you use; the power is you.

Rituals and spiritual practices are the compass, and you are the destination.

Spiritual practices can only enhance, enlighten, and reveal the power that already exists in you.

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Some spiritual practices that are great for healing the womb are: meditation, prayer, embodiment practices, grounding techniques, tantra, breathing exercises, and sound therapy. These are just a few to help you get started on your journey.

Descending back to Mother Womb will awaken all your desires. The womb is the gatekeeper of your truth, your essence, and your power.

This is the definition of healing, if you ask me.

Journey onward.

Steffani Salter Aloha. I started my awakening journey in 2013 after experiencing several life altering traumatic experiences. Following my 3rd miscarriage, I began the journey to reconnect to my sacred womb.

Although I believe our roles do not define what we are, I do believe they are extensions of who we are. Some of my roles are Certified Life and Performance Coach, Energy Healer, Light Worker, Business and Leadership Consultant, Entrepreneur, Tantra Instructor, Humanitarian, Wife, Mother, Sister and Friend.

Dear J W: What do you wish women understood better about men?

Asking for a friend…

Sincerely, Arika, Tampa, FL

Dear Arika, Ostensibly it seems an oxymoron, but I wish women better understood the simplistic complexity of men. That is, men have depths of emotion far beyond anger, but we emote differently. Silence is not suppression. Silence is not ignoring. Silence is often a deeply personal means of emoting, and connecting. When your man is silent with you when you emote in your way, he is not ignoring you, nor is he being uncaring. Rather, the converse is quite true. He is being present with you in silence, in real strength, in real support. He may not have the answers, he may not have the solutions, but he is thoroughly interested in the questions, completely invested in the problem. Do not dismiss his silence as disinterest. He may be an internal processor, not an external processor (as many women are perceived to be). Do not equate a lack of words with a lack of care. His silence, his presence is his strength. That’s his loving, caring, tender expression of how deeply he is invested in and concerned about you. So reward him! Make him a sandwich. Bring him a beer. Watch the game with him, and let him smack you on the bottom!

I hope this helps your friend!

Sincerely, J W

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Hi, Pretty Smart Chics; and welcome back to the Community Corner! In this issue, we are exploring the Pleasure Principle. Now, wait! We know you are wondering how this relates to the community. Grab your comfortable pair of shoes, and let us take a stroll around our Community Corner.

According to Merriam-Webster, pleasure has several synonyms. Some synonyms are enjoyment, gratification, happiness, satisfaction, delectation, and delight. Often, we focus on one aspect of pleasure; however you can experience pleasure in various forms. Come on, my fellow Pretty Smart Chics! We are going to explore these various pleasure centers!!

We will find ways to increase pleasure in our lives. Come a little closer so we can share a secret: pleasure is a part of your self-care that allows you to continue to renew, refresh, and brighten the light you share with the world.

A great way to explore pleasure is to discover new interests. A few years ago, Korean Dramas became a new favorite genre. The sauna and spa experiences in these dramas are different from those in the US. With some research, we were able to locate a traditional Korean bath house spa within an hour drive. If you are in the Metro Atlanta area, we recommend giving JeJu Sauna Spa a try. The spa had various sauna rooms, spa treatments, a pool, and even a café. It provides 24-hour services, and is a great experience. Wow is all I can say! There were some aspects that took a minute to adjust to; however, it was worth the small moments of anxiety, lol. New discoveries are exciting and bring a range of emotions with each practice. Healthy, pleasurable experiences are refreshing to your mind, body, soul, and creativity. As we round the corner, the fresh air is amazing. We can take a quick break by a beautiful fountain.

Now, there are many things you enjoy and find gratification in doing. For example, water has numerous effects on people. It can be exhilarating, calming, sensual, and even have a frightening appeal. A day at the beach or trip to an aquarium can bring relaxation, stroke creativity, or simply offer contentment. Merely taking time to rejuvenate boosts overall mental, physical, and spiritual well-being. Pleasure in your life can range from a trip to Bali to a new candle from HomeGoods. You simply must take time to love and care for

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yourself. Remember, when you treat yourself with kindness and love you can share the same kindness, compassion, and love into the world. The world needs the best of you, and so do you.

Do not overthink the process; simply enjoy the journey. What brings you pleasure?

Girl, I know this walk has been so refreshing, but we need to get back. Your light is as bright as the stars in the galaxy. But you must make sure to create an atmosphere for it to thrive. Pretty Smart Chics wants to join in the journey with you to impact your community, nation, and the world in an amazing way. Well until next time, embrace the amazing person you are!!!

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Pretty TALK We asked our Pretty Smart Chics to complete our Pleasure Principle Survey! Check out these results:

1: What does pleasure mean to you?

[Responses:] Mental, emotional, physical stimulation Anything that provides satisfaction and contentment Doing something that I really enjoy alone or with others.

Joy or excitement about something that I am enjoying.

Enjoyment of my time 2. If, as SWV says "Pleasure is your destination," where are you going?

[Responses:] To a place where both me and my partnered are satisfied, both short term and long term On lots of vacations and spending more time with family On a vacation or a staycation.

To my cookie jar The Retirement Lane!

Everywhere I want to!

Toward peace.

For prosperity and traveling Not sure Somewhere sexy, like an Island The Big 0!

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3. What physical activities make you a more pleasurable person?

[Responses:] Kissing Reading, writing, laughing, talking, listening, playing Resting Playing music, exercising (when I do), self-care Talking, teaching, training and such that causes me to walk Swimming and a long shower Dance, yoga, push-ups, sit-ups, and squats Shopping Zumba, dancing, music Hiking 4. What brings you joy?

[Responses:] Success, family, friends, reading, writing, teaching Music My niece when she is laughing and smiling Teaching; spending time with family Very simple things Writing My husband, my mother, shopping, and knowing no bill is attached Financial freedom; feeling loved and appreciated Being around family Seeing my children laugh CONTINUED ON P. 40

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5. How do you incorporate pleasure into your self care routine?

[Responses:] Taking a moment to make sure I ask myself what I need and see if I can provide that need for myself Taking trips, taking mini breaks, playing with my girls, and meditating Finding my favorite songs and listening to them Getting my toes and nails done, putting on makeup, and exercising Taking time out for me weekly Haircuts, showers, clean sheets, and spending time with the people I care about Setting aside my daily ambrosia hour to do something that makes me feel good about myself.

Mani/pedis Hot shower; wine Painting and pleasuring myself often (I am single!)

Doing something pleasurable every day 6. What are your Top 3 pleasure activities?

[Responses:] Kissing; eating with friends or significant others, and going on dates Reading and writing, spending time with my family, and having a good chat with friends Relaxing, watching a movie, and listening to music Listening/playing music, talking with my niece, mani/pedis Going to get hair and nails done, going out to eat, and doing absolutely nothing Traveling, spending time with my girlfriend, and having sex with my girlfriend Sexing, dancing, and writing Join the conversation!

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Loren's Story

ZEUS CHRONICLES OF A SEX GOD

Loren's Story

ZEUS CHRONICLES OF A SEX GOD

"LOVE SUCKS!”

By Jay L. Harris Zeus roared to the crowd at the local hotspot, Valerie’s.

“How many of you agree with me?” he asked over the thunderous yells of the crowds. He played an aggressive melody on his piano. A woman screamed from the crowd “Play, Zeus!”

“I’m playing, woman!” he responded.

Zeus nodded to his fellow bandmates to join him. The band consisted of a lead guitar played by a blue-eyed, blond-haired, white man named Redd. The drummer was a young, hip-hop rocker named Blue. The bass guitar player, an accountant by trade, was named George.

After entering Valerie’s, Loren scanned the room for her friend and owner of the hotspot. A fan of jazz fusion, Loren was ecstatic when Valerie said Zeus & The Get-A-Long Band would be the main act tonight. Loren attended the same university as Zeus, but they ran in different circles.

His was the popular one. Her circle was with the geeks. It didn't help that she suffered from the “ugly duckling” syndrome during those days. Her confidence was low, and she shied away from the opposite sex.

The band infused Jazz, Gospel, R&B, and Blues to create their signature sound. Currently experiencing a five-year drought, she agreed with Zeus’s statement that love did suck! Tired of her family constantly asking, CONTINUED ON P. 44

Girl, when are you getting married?”

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ZEUS

Only to respond with a sarcastic remark, “When Jesus is ready for me to get married, I will.”

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Shit, it felt as if Jesus was never going to be ready for her to get married. She was stuck being the lone ranger, while her friends were married with children. It was time for Loren to change her Facebook status from Single to It's complicated. Tonight, she was ready to find Mr. BlowHerBackOut! Getting reacquainted with her high school classmate Valerie, Loren was thankful she came out tonight. Valerie extended an open invitation for Loren to come to her club to enjoy the atmosphere. Loren, always reluctant to go out by herself, was tired of sitting at home waiting for God to drop the perfect man on her doorsteps. Valerie stated she knew Zeus personally, and he was playing at the club tonight. Loren rushed to put on her big girl panties, because tonight was going to be the night the cobwebs would be dusted off her girlfriend.

“Girl, you made it!” Valerie said, giving Loren a hug.

“Yaaas, Girl!” Loren responded.

“I’m glad you did. Are you by yourself?” Valerie looked over Loren’s shoulder.

“Yes, I am,” Loren responded.

“Ok, Girl! Well, let’s find you a seat and get you a drink. Girl, you came on the right night. Zeus and his band are jumping. I'm going to sit you down in front. I have someone I want you to meet.

His name is George.

“Oh! What about Zeus?” Loren asked.

“Zeus? No, not Zeus. He is good for a one night stand, not long term. George is the one you want. He is a good man with a good job, and he will take care of you,” Valerie said.

“If I didn’t know any better I would think that you were trying to set me up, Valerie,” Loren said.

“Really? Would I do that, Loren?” Valerie responded coyly.

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Yes, you would,” Loren said, laughing.

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Valerie escorted Loren to the small table right of center stage. Loren was now in direct view of the bass player. Almost immediately, she noticed George staring in her direction. He smiled.

She smiled back. Ordering a glass of pink Moscato and the Chicken Caesar salad, Loren bobbed her head to the beat of the music. She quickly scanned the room, trying not to show how uncomfortable she felt sitting alone. She felt like all eyes were on her. Twisting the curly hair at the nape of her neck, she wished she were invisible.

Loren had the weird feeling someone was staring at her, when she looked up to see it was Zeus who was looking directly at her. She forgot he had the purest set of hazel eyes. Zeus watched her intently while playing the piano. He transitioned the atmosphere from the aggressive charge to an electric lustful current. He licked his lips at her and flashed a pearly white smile.

He was beautiful, with his soft curls, dark skin, and full lips. He was making her moist in her panties just by watching him. The only thing that took her attention from Zeus was the waiter bringing her salad.

“Thank you, Jesus!” she said to herself.

Self-conscious, she wondered if anyone knew she was turned on by the man at the piano.

Remembering her friend’s warning about not to go there with Zeus. In the back of her mind, she really wanted to go there. She wanted Zeus. She needed to feel the touch of a real man. She was sick of using her battery operated boyfriend.

“Hey, Guys; we're taking a 15 minute break. I hope you'll stay for seconds.” Zeus said, pulling Loren from her thoughts.

A few minutes after the band left the stage, George walked towards Loren’s table extending his hand to her.

“Hey, Beautiful; you must be Loren, Valerie’s friend. She told me so much about you,” he said.

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Oh, really? She's told me so little about you. You must be George.” She smiled.

“The one and only, but you can call me G-Man,” said George.

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ZEUS

“G-Man? Your name is George,” said Zeus as he swaggered toward them.

“I'm Zeus, and who do I have the pleasure of meeting?” He asked, grabbing her hand to kiss it.

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“Loren,” she answered before sliding her hand out of his hand.

“Mmm... Loren,” he said.

Zeus noticed her from the stage. There was a different aura about her. The ladies who usually frequent Valerie’s were a dime a dozen. Loren was like an orchid in a sea of roses. He noticed George walk up to her table. He knew Valerie wanted to introduce the two. Normally he would let the scenario play itself out. In this case, Loren was too much of a woman for George. Zeus knew he was the better man.

“So Loren, I've never seen you here before. Is this your first time here? Are you enjoying yourself?" asked Zeus.

“Yes, but not my first time hearing you play,” responded Loren “You a fan?” Zeus wondered if she was a groupie after all.

“I am not sure yet.” Loren said.

Loren realized he didn’t remember her from college.

“Will there be a 'Mister' joining you?” he asked, looking into her caramel-colored eyes.

“No,” she responded.

“A ‘Miss’?” He asked.

“Hell No!” she said.

“You never know these days,” he shrugged his shoulders.

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OMG! No to both questions," Loren chuckled.

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Zeus asked her, “Will you stay to the end of our set?”

“Only if George wants me to stay,” she glanced back in George’s direction.

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“That's cold, Loren. That's cold.” Zeus laughed.

“I hope you stay for the next set,” Zeus whispered in her ear, allowing his lips to brush up against it before he stood up to leave. His breath sent shivers down her spine. She felt the dampness in her panties. Her nipple imprint peeked through her shirt. Zeus noticed how her body responded. He licked his lips then smiled devilishly at Loren.

“Come on, G-man; we got to go,” Zeus patted his friend on the back.

“Man, why did you do that?” George asked.

***

“Do what? What are you talking about, G-man?” asked Zeus.

“Why did you block me with Loren?” asked George.

“Block you? You never had a chance. Besides, I know where your heart lies anyway. When are you going to tell Valerie how you feel?” asked Zeus.

“I don’t know, Man. I try to show her, but she keeps inviting her friends to meet me. One of you ends up dating them. I wish she would stop treating me like a friend.” said George.

“Well, Man, stop acting like her friend,” said Zeus.

“Man, I am her friend!" George said exasperated.

“Calm down, my friend. The problem, George, is you want to be Valerie’s man.

You can’t be a woman’s man if she sees you as her friend," said Zeus.

“Zeus, there is a woman who will not fall for your weak game. I hope I'm around to see it," said George.

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Well, until then, I am going to keep making the ladies weak at the knees. Speaking of weak knees, I am going to have Loren weak by the end of the night.” Zeus said.

“I don’t think so, Zeus. Loren seems too classy for you.” George responded. “Yeah, yeah she may have class, but I will be tapping that ass tonight,” Zeus said.

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