Rolla Presbyterian Manor
MARCH 2020
Social service designee serves residents in more ways than one In September, Valerie Eades will celebrate her 10-year work anniversary at Rolla Presbyterian Manor. She began as a nursing aid and continued to pursue training: certified nursing assistant, then certified medication technician. She has worked in multiple departments, including memory care.
The power of presence By Allen Teal, Chaplain
We sent Timothy, who is our brother and co-worker in God’s service in spreading the gospel of Christ, to strengthen and encourage you in your faith: I Thessalonians 3:2, NIV Being alone can be difficult. There is a reason that birds fly in flocks and four-footed animals migrate in herds. The group provides security and affords more opportunities to locate refuge and sustenance. While people do not travel in flocks or herds, everyone recognizes the benefits of having someone nearby when faced with challenges.
A career in senior care “just kind of finds you,” Valerie said. “It just kind of found me, and I love it. Valerie Eades Our residents are so full of stories and information. They’re kind of like walking encyclopedias.” Nearly four years ago, Valerie transitioned into her current role because she wanted to spend more time working with residents one-on-one. “There were times I doubted myself, but the people here were so supportive,” Valerie said. She found that her experience in different parts of Presbyterian Manor gave her “the whole picture from all angles,” which helps her do her job better. A major part of Valerie’s job is taking social histories from new residents in EADES - continued on page 2
You need a willingness to be there. Feeling unsure about what to say can deter us from reaching out to someone who is struggling. It may be enough to simply show up and sit with a friend or family member who is going through a tough episode. Your presence means a lot. Encouragement comes from knowing that someone cares. Nearly everyone has moments PRESENCE- continued on page 3
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long-term care. She talks to them about their parents, siblings, careers and other aspects of their childhood and adulthood. She also attends to a host of other duties. “A lot of my time is spent helping residents directly,” Valerie said. “It might be something as simple as help with mail or putting new batteries in their electric toothbrush.”
She has even helped a resident plan for the donation of their body to a research facility upon their death.
week with her 86-year-old mother, who lives in a senior community just up the street from Valerie’s home.
An “army brat,” Valerie moved a lot as a child. In 1977, she married her high school sweetheart, Ernest. She was 17 years old. She and Ernest have four adult children who range in age from 32 to 42: Lynda, Crystal, Nicole and Timothy. They are grandparents to seven, and the oldest granddaughter is just graduating from nursing school. Valerie spends a couple of days a
Valerie spends some of her free time indulging in a relatively recent hobby: motorcycle riding. “When I was 58, I said you know what, I’m going to learn to ride a motorcycle,” Valerie said. She took the first all-women course offered by a dealership in Jefferson City and purchased a Suzuki Boulevard 800. “It’s red and pretty,” she said. ◆
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Community Matters
is published monthly for residents and friends of Rolla Presbyterian Manor by Presbyterian Manors of Mid-America, Inc., a not-for-profit 501(c)(3) organizaton.
To submit or suggest articles: lfreeland@PMMA.org Ann Caudill, executive director Joelle Freeland, marketing director
OUR MISSION: To provide quality senior services guided by Christian values.
Rolla Presbyterian Manor Art is Ageless® exhibit and reception features senior artists Local senior artists will be celebrated March 16 through 19 at Rolla Presbyterian Manor as the community hosts its annual Art is Ageless® exhibit and observes the 40th anniversary of the Art is Ageless® program.
The first Art is Ageless calendar was published in 1981, featuring art from Presbyterian Manor community residents. Since then, the program has expanded to include a juried art competition open to all seniors age 65 and older.
Art is Ageless is a trademarked program of PMMA (Presbyterian Manors of Mid-America). The program offers senior artists the opportunity to share and display their artwork and reaffirms the agelessness of human creativity.
The Art is Ageless exhibit will be open from 9 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. March 16 through 19 and feature works from local artists. The public is welcome to visit the community to view the exhibit of acrylics, oils, photography and various other mediums, ranging from amateur to professional levels. Winning pieces at the community level move on to a masterpiece level judging to determine which pieces are featured in the annual calendar and note cards.
“It’s inspiring to see the beautiful pieces these seniors have created,” said Joelle Freeland, marketing director. “The joy it brings to them and others is wonderful, and that’s something we want to celebrate and share with the entire Rolla community.”
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when they feel that no one cares. Your presence shows that you care. The knowledge that someone cares can lift the spirit and encourage someone to keep moving forward. It is far easier to show someone you
In addition to the exhibit, Rolla
care when you are nearby. Strength increases when we know that we are not alone. Trouble or grief has a way of isolating us, which makes us feel lonelier. When we realize that we are not alone in the valley, we feel a
Presbyterian Manor will honor local senior artists during a reception and final exhibit at the community from 6 to 7:30 p.m. March 19. For more information about Art is Ageless, visit ArtIsAgeless. org. For more about Rolla Presbyterian Manor, visit RollaPresbyterianManor.org or contact Joelle Freeland at 573-3647336 or lfreeland@pmma.org. ◆
sense of strength. Darkness is always easier to navigate when we are not facing it by ourselves. The presence of other people can transform an impossible challenge into something that feels doable. ◆
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YOU MATTER A Special Insert Highlighting the Efforts of PMMA Donors and Volunteers
GENEROUS SPIRIT LIVES AT ROLLA PRESBYTERIAN MANOR Audrey and Gerald Huddleson recently shared a gift for residents relying on the Good Samaritan Program through the Angel Tree campaign. They feel strongly that senors should have the peace of mind, knowing they have a permanent, loving home. The Huddlesons first became acquainted with Rolla Presbyterian Manor when her late mother moved in. They were so pleased with the care she received. When it came time for them to consider where to live, Audrey and Gerald became residents themselves. The staff were a key influence as to why they moved to Presbyterian Manor. Audrey shares, “They are wonderful; you have to be a special person to work here.” Audrey appreciates what life at Presbyterian Manor offers. She does not
have to cook anymore, they still drive and feel free to come and go. They love watching the birds from their window. At 90 years of age and battling her sixth cancer bout, Audrey relies on her faith in the Lord. She and Gerald have a desire to reach out and help others. As philanthropists, they support other organizations with financial gifts and Audrey volunteered in the community for 37 years. “Our children are proud of our generous spirit. I hope the values will continue in the next generation,” says Audrey. “If you have something, you should share. We have more than we need, why have it sit in a bank?”
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MARCH 2020
THE FAQS ON THE SECURE ACT The Setting Every Community Up for Retirement Enhancement (SECURE) Act was enacted Jan. 1, 2020. With it came many questions for those who are planning for retirement, retired or who are retiring in the near future. Passed as part of a spending bill, the SECURE Act brought with it the most significant changes to retirement plans since 2006. While some changes impact you, others will impact the people you name as a beneficiary. Changes to Know
1. You can contribute to your IRA longer. Previously, you could not contribute to your IRA after reaching the age of 70½. However, more and more people are working past that age. The SECURE Act repeals this age limitation, allowing you more time to save. 2. The required minimum distribution (RMD) age changed. The SECURE Act changed the age at which you must start taking RMDs from your retirement account from 70½ to 72 for those who were born July 1, 1949, or later. This change allows you additional time to grow the funds in your account before you have to start withdrawing from it. 3. IRA beneficiary rules have changed. Prior to the SECURE Act, beneficiaries could take distributions throughout their lives. This offered tax savings for the beneficiary. The SECURE Act preserved this option for beneficiaries who are spouses, but repeals it for non-spousal IRA beneficiaries. They will now have 10 years to withdraw the entire amount. What Stayed the Same
If you’re 70½ or older, you can still make a tax-free gift to a qualified charitable organization. You can transfer any amount up to $100,000 per year directly to a qualified charitable organization without paying income tax on the distribution. The transfer generates neither taxable income nor a tax deduction, so you benefit even if you do not itemize your deductions. Your gift will also be put to use today, allowing you to see the difference you’re making. Please contact Sarah Oenning at soenning@pmma.org to discuss your benefits. Review Your Plans If you have questions about the impact of the SECURE Act on your retirement plans, be sure to make an appointment with your financial advisor. They can review the plans you have in place (including your beneficiary designations) and help make sure you are still on the right track.
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