Community Matters The Glen at Aberdeen Heights
December 2017
5 steps to keep the peace this holiday season Avoid resentment and friction at gatherings Our expectations of family members and a desire to have a heartwarming, joyful time with them seem to peak during holiday gatherings.Yet that’s precisely when relatives can be at their worst, replaying old grievances and interacting in incredibly unproductive ways. To help prevent disappointment and ensure a happier season, try applying these five strategies: 1. Bury the hatchet. Nothing will chase the cheer and deepen chasms faster than engaging dysfunction. So, during the visit, do your utmost to give up trying to change anyone’s thoughts and actions. Simply observe the goings-on rather than interact with them. Reshape your mindset and resolve not to engage with taunts or baiting comments. Aim for a spirit of forgiveness rather than assuming a warrior stance. This isn’t easy, but it’s essential if you want to free
Celebrate Christmas
Join us in celebrating the holidays Join us for our resident and family Christmas Party from 6 to 7:30 p.m. on Dec. 5. Enjoy music, appetizers and much more. Valet parking will be available. Please check your calendars for other upcoming holiday events such as the Aberdeen Choir on Dec. 11. Robinson and other area schools will be marching through the building caroling for you, as well as violin students from Kirkwood and more.
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