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APRIL 2018

He is risen...

...all has changed


HEBRON SCHOOL

Teaching Opportunities in India Hebron School is a Christian co-educational residential school founded in 1899 to support the children of families in mission. There are 360 students of nearly 30 nationalities studying from Preschool right through to IGCSE and 'A' Level examinations.

Hebron School is located on two attractive campuses in the beautiful Nilgiri Hills of south India - home to a diverse multi-cultural community. More than half the teaching staff are from other countries around the world representing the UK, Australia, NZ, the USA, Kenya, South Korea & several countries of Europe and South America. Hebron is a lively, busy community in which gifts and talents of staff have ample opportunity for expression and development. As a boarding school the residential care provided at Hebron is personal and endeavours to create a home away from home. The school provides remuneration at local Indian rates, as well as full board and accommodation for resident staff. Staff at Hebron School have a high degree of job satisfaction and a strong appreciation for the School's aims and purpose Requirements: We are looking for staff to come who have a sense of calling and service.

Volunteers: Usually referred to as International Guests. For people of all ages (school leavers, those just

finished university, those wanting a career break and retirees) with a willingness to visit the school for six months or one year at a time to help in a voluntary capacity in various aspects of school life.

Teaching staff needed for August 2018 : Math's, Geography, Science, Modern languages, Chemistry, Spe-

cial needs, EAL/ESL, Physical Education, Dorm parents, Religious Studies, Music (Brass/Woodwind), Outdoor Education and Junior School. Applicants should have the following skills, qualifications and attributes: Highly committed, practising Christians, Fluent in English, Relevant degree plus education degree/diploma, Preferably prior experience of A level / IGCSE or comparable curriculum, Be willing to participate fully in the life of a busy boarding school. Residential staff should be willing to do duty outside working hours, including dorm parenting or dorm support. Note:- Positions listed above are accurate as per the time of printing. Applicants interested in other subjects please check the website for latest vacancies.

Please contact the Human Resources Secretary (Ian A McCabe) for further details. Email: hr@hebronooty.org

Phone: (+91) 423 2225820

Web: www.hebronooty.org Fax: (+91) 423 2441295z


CONTENTS | APRIL 2018

FEATURES 14 Disciple-making ministry A strategic role in one congregation

16 Recasting the net

An Easter reflection from the Moderator

18 Pastoral life in three dimensions

The changing scene of pastoral care

20 20 years on…

Anniversary of the Good Friday Agreement

32 Looking forward to resurrection

A reflection on our resurrection after this life

34 Kitchen table faith

Care for the Family’s new resource for parents

20 years on… p.20

36 The Heidelberg Disputation

500th anniversary of a foundational event following the Reformation

REGULARS 4 5 6 8 9 12 13 23 31 38 40 44 45

Letters In this month… News Life lessons My Story As I see it Arthur Clarke Mission Connect Talking points Reviews Life in PCI Crossword Betsy Cameron

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CONTRIBUTORS

Cover illustration: Barry Falls April 2018 No. 810 £1.00 (€1.20) Published by: The Presbyterian Church in Ireland, Assembly Buildings, Belfast BT1 6DW. T: +44 (0)28 9032 2284 E: herald@presbyterianireland.org W: www.presbyterianireland.org

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Editor: Sarah Harding Subscriptions and Advertising: Elaine Huddleston; Lisa Skinner; Suzanne Hamilton Design and Layout: Edward Connolly Printing: Nicholson and Bass Ltd.

Alan Meban attends Kilmakee Presbyterian Church and writes about culture and politics as Alan in Belfast on his own blog and Slugger O’Toole.

Rebecca McConnell manages Purple Rain, a public relations company (www.purple-rain.co.uk). She is also a member of First Rathfriland Presbyterian Church.

Andy Frost is director of Share Jesus International and is working alongside Care for the Family on the Kitchen Table Project and supporting resources.

Rev. Alistair Bill is minister of Saintfield Road Presbyterian Church and convener of the Pastoral Care Committee of the Council for Congregational Life and Witness.

The views expressed in the features, news reports, letters and book reviews of this magazine are not necessarily those of the Editor. Editorial comment and signed articles do not necessarily contain the official views of the Church, which can be laid down only by the General Assembly. Acceptance of advertisements does not imply endorsement of the goods or services. The Editor reserves the right to decline any advertisement or letter without assigning any reason. Letters may be edited for publication. No correspondence can be entered into regarding non-publication of advertisements or letters.

The Presbyterian Church in Ireland is a Registered Charity in Northern Ireland (NIC104483); Registered Charity in Republic of Ireland (20015695).

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NEWS | PCI

Events My Place Ballygawley Presbyterian will host My Place on Wednesday, 2nd May, from 7.30pm to 9pm.   This is the third in a series of evenings arranged to help congregations think about how they can help families dealing with special needs to know that church is a place where they are always welcome and where they can find support.   The evenings are a mixture of biblical teaching, insights from parents and practical suggestions from those working in the field of special education. It is open to ministers, children’s ministry leaders and all members of congregations.   This event is free to attend but please register your interest online at www.presbyterianireland.org

Mission in Ireland evening A further Mission in Ireland evening has been arranged, and will take place in Monaghan Presbytery.   Second Ballybay Presbyterian Church will host the event on Sunday, 6th May. Former deaconess Doreen Draffin and Lachlan Webster (minister in Craigavon Presbyterian) are the speakers.   The event starts at 7.30pm.

Worship in the Discipleshaping Church day conference Assembly Buildings will host a Worship in the Discipleshaping Church conference on Wednesday, 25th April.   Taking place between 10.30am and 3pm, the event aims to explore how our worship on Sunday can empower us for the lives we long to live for Christ out in the world, Monday to Saturday.   Guest speakers Sam and Sara Hargreaves are authors of the Whole Life Worship book and

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Summer teams Ten denominational teams will be travelling the length and breadth of Ireland this summer.   Ballyweaney, Mullingar, St. Andrew’s in Bangor, Dungannon, Seaview, Whitehouse, Co. Cavan, Friendship House in Belfast, Grange in Ballymena and Abbey, Monkstown are all venues where teams will work alongside and in support of local PCI congregations as they reach out to their local communities.   Team membership is open to everyone over the age of 16 years.   More information and application forms can be found at www.presbyterianireland.org/ summerteams

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Whole Life Worship Journey Pack about which you can find out more at www.licc.org.uk/resources/ whole-life-worship   They will offer biblical foundations, practical frameworks and a wealth of usable examples

to fire the imagination of those who lead Sunday services with a disciple-shaping emphasis in PCI congregations.   The price of conference is £5, which includes lunch.

Amy Carmichael

Kids’ crew needed Are you 14 years or older, funloving, committed, motivated and able to assist with the kids’ programme and zones?   If you are, please consider registering to be part of the kids’ crew at the Kids’ Big Day Out and use your gifts and talents for Jesus.   Kids’ Big Day Out takes place on Saturday, 21st April at Wellington Presbyterian in Ballymena.   Please contact clw@presbyterianireland.org for more information.

An event marking Amy Carmichael’s lasting legacy will take place in Millisle and Ballycopeland Presbyterian Church on Thursday, 19th April.   One of the world’s best known and inspirational missionaries, Amy was born 150 years ago in Millisle and attended Ballycopeland with her family.   Starting at 7.30pm, the Amy Carmichael event will include four short presentations: ‘The Millisle Years’ by Rev. John Flaherty (minister of Millisle and Ballycopeland); ‘The Early Years’ by Jonathan Clarke (Welcome Church, Belfast); ‘Dohnavur Then and Now’ by Alison McCaughan with Jacky Woolcock (former missionary to Dohnavur); and ‘The Challenge Today’ by PCI’s Global Mission Secretary Uel Marrs with Ruth Cooke (International Justice Mission).   There will also be a small exhibition, bookstall and refreshments. Everyone is welcome.   For more information contact the Mission Department by telephoning +44 (0)28 9041 7266 or by emailing global@presbyterianireland.org


Find out more on www.presbyterianireland.org

Events

DIARY DATES April Family Holiday

Castlewellan Castle – Tuesday, 3rd to Friday, 6th

Simple Worship in the Smaller Church PW to hold annual meeting ‘Beautiful’ – the new PW theme for 2017/18 – will be officially launched at the organisation’s annual meeting, which takes place in Belfast’s Assembly Buildings on Thursday, 10th May.   Around 1,500 members are expected to attend the event, which has Kate Patterson as its guest speaker. Based in west London, Kate is a writer, speaker and part-time school chaplain. She is mum to Jonny (23), Connor (20) and Ben (18). Kate studied English at Oxford and Theology at Bristol and is passionate about making God’s Word accessible and relevant to all ages.   Kate is on the leadership team at Holy Trinity Richmond and is author of the book entitled The Promise of Blessing, described by Canon J. John as “not just a book on blessing but of blessing” and by Eddie Lyle as “Compulsory reading for those who want to be blessed to be a blessing.” Kate loves to help people encounter the God who changes lives.   The annual meeting will be held at 2pm when Kate will speak on the theme Beautiful. During the evening celebration at 7.30pm Kate will give her second talk, further unpacking God’s Word to look at the true meaning of beauty. Praise will be led by Erin McBride and Emma Smyth.   Both events are open to all women and everyone will be made most welcome.

Two regional venues will host Simple Worship in the Smaller Church events on Thursday, 26th April.   The two events aim to help those who organise and lead worship in the smaller church. They will offer simpler ways to worship that move us away from the pressures of trying to put on a good outward show to genuinely leading others to meaningfully engage with our Father as the family of God. The guest speakers, Sam and Sarah Hargreaves, head up Engage Worship.   Union Road Presbyterian in Magherafelt will host the first event, from 10.30am to 12.45pm, while Ballydown Presbyterian in Banbridge is the venue for the evening session, which runs from 7.45pm to 9.45pm.   The price is £5 and further information is available by contacting the CLW office on +44 (0)28 9041 7246 or by emailing clw@presbyterianireland.org

Taking Care training for designated persons Ballymena – Thursday, 12th

Taking Care foundation training

First Saintfield – Thursday, 12th

Taking care refresher training

Lisnabreen – Monday, 16th Waringstown – Thursday, 19th Magherafelt – Monday, 23rd Ballycrochan – Wednesday, 25th First Ballymena – Thursday, 26th

Celebration of 150th anniversary of Amy Carmichael’s birth

Millisle and Ballycopeland Presbyterian – Thursday, 19th

Kids’ Big Day Out

Wellington Presbyterian, Ballymena – Saturday, 21st

Worship in the Discipleshaping Church conference

Assembly Buildings, Belfast – Wednesday, 25th

Simple Worship in the Smaller Church

Union Road Presbyterian, Magherafelt – Thursday, 26th Ballydown Presbyterian, Banbridge – Thursday, 26th

Resources Thirty Days of Prayer The vision of the 30 Days of Prayer information booklet and prayer guide is to call Christians to pray with love and respect for Muslims around the world during Ramadan (15th May to 14th June).   In addition to guiding our prayers, the booklets also seek to help Christians gain a better understanding about Muslim people, their faith and diverse cultures; and see an increase in efforts to respond with love and compassion to the needs of Muslims around the world.   Copies of the booklet can be purchased directly from www.30daysprayer.org.uk for £2.50 per copy.   Alternatively, PCI’s Mission Department has a limited number of copies for congregational use available at a reduced cost of £1 per copy. These can be purchased from the Mission Department in

May My Place

Ballygawley Presbyterian – Wednesday, 2nd

Taking Care refresher training

Assembly Buildings, on a first come, first served basis. To place your order, contact the Mission Department by telephoning +44 (0)28 9041 7266 or emailing global@presbyterianireland.org

First Ballymena – Thursday, 3rd First Broughshane – Tuesday, 22nd

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CONGREGATIONAL STORY

Photos by Jamie Trimble

Disciple-making ministry Claire Ebbinghaus, the ministries facilitator of Kirkpatrick Memorial Presbyterian Church in east Belfast, tells Rebecca McConnell a little about her unique role.

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n recent times there’s been a growing recognition throughout PCI of the need to make disciples of Jesus Christ. For many congregations, who’d love to give a greater emphasis to disciple-making, the existing programme of activities seems like an insurmountable obstacle. When we find ourselves struggling to do what we’re already doing it’s natural to ask: “How could we possibly take on any more?” One congregation’s answer to that question is: “Don’t do more… do everything differently. Reimagine every ministry into a disciple-making ministry.” Kirkpatrick​ ​Memorial​ ​Presbyterian​ ​ Church​ ​is​ ​located​ ​in​ ​the​ ​busy​ Ballyhackamore area​ ​of​ ​Belfast.​ ​Known​ ​ to​ ​the​ ​locals​ ​as​ ​Ballyhack,​ ​it​ ​has​ ​become​ ​ a​ ​popular​ ​area​ ​due​ ​to​ ​a multitude​ ​of​ ​ eating​ ​establishments​ ​that​ ​have​ ​opened.​ ​ The​ ​church​ ​has​ ​grown​ ​rapidly​ ​in​ ​the past​ ​ decade​ ​but​ ​has​ ​been​ ​offering​ ​spiritual​ ​ nourishment​ ​and​ ​food​ ​since​ ​1914. From​ ​the​ ​spring​ ​of​ ​2015,​ ​Claire​ ​ Ebbinghaus​ ​has​ ​worked​ ​as​ ​the​ ​ministries​ ​ facilitator, and part of the wider staff

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team at Kirkpatrick. ​W hilst​ ​trained​ ​ as​ ​a​ ​physiotherapist,​ ​Claire​ ​sees​ ​many​ ​ similarities​ ​to this​ ​role​ ​she​ ​is​ ​now​ ​ enjoying.​ ​“Physios​ ​work​ ​as​ ​teams​ ​to​ ​help​ ​ rehabilitate​ ​patients. My​ ​role​ ​here ​also​ involves ​working​ ​as​ ​part​ ​of​ ​a​ ​team, and​ ​ seeing how​ ​all​ ​the​ ​pieces​ ​fit​ ​together​ ​for​ ​ the​ ​best outcome.” The​ ​need​ ​for​ ​the​ ​role​ was identified by ​ the​ ​minister.​ ​Claire explains, “A​ ​minister’s​ ​ role​ ​is​ ​wide​ ​and​ ​varied​ ​and virtually​ ​ impossible​ ​to​ ​do​ ​everything​ ​well​ ​–​ ​from​ ​ preaching​ ​to​ ​teaching,​ ​leading​ ​public worship,​ ​dealing​ ​with​ ​all​ ​of​ ​the​ ​pastoral​ ​ responsibilities​ ​as​ ​well​ ​as​ ​looking​ ​after​ ​ and​ ​pastoring the​ ​leaders.​ ​There​ ​was​​ an awareness​ ​that​ ​if​ ​leaders​ ​aren’t​ ​supported,​ ​ we​ ​end​ ​up​ ​with​ ​people who​ ​feel​ ​very​ ​ disconnected,​ ​alone and let​ ​down. The

…if​ ​leaders​ ​aren’t​ ​ supported,​ ​we​ ​end​ ​up​ ​ with​ ​people who​ ​feel​ ​ very​ ​disconnected,​ ​alone and let​ ​down.

minister rarely feels satisfied with these arrangements or outcomes.” Claire​ ​knows​ ​the​ ​demands​ ​as​ ​she​ ​ is​ ​married​ ​to​ ​the​ ​minister,​ ​Christoph ​ Ebbinghaus.​ ​“Right from​ ​the​ ​start​ ​of​ ​our​ ​ marriage,​ ​we​ ​were​ ​shaped​ ​together​ ​in​ ​a​ ​ shared​ ​vision​ ​for​ ​ministry.​ ​At Kirkpatrick,​ ​ I​ ​could​ ​see​ ​the​ ​ways​ ​in​ ​which​ ​the​ ​leaders​ ​ could​ ​be​ ​supported​ ​better.” A similar post was first established in Kirkpatrick, back in 2009. Then, when​​ the​ ​post​ ​became​ ​vacant​ ​a​ ​few​ ​years​ ​ago,​ ​ the​ ​recruitment​ ​process​ ​was​ ​outsourced,​ ​ as the​ ​kirk​ ​session​ ​knew​ ​Claire​ ​was​ ​ interested​ ​in​ ​applying.​ ​A ​team​ ​made​ ​ up​ ​of members​ ​from​ ​other​ ​churches​ ​ took​ ​charge​ ​allowing​ ​Christoph​ ​and​ ​ the​​Session​to step back t​ o​​ensure an impartial appointment process. ​Claire describes​ ​her​ ​role​ ​as​ ​threefold:​ ​ “Firstly,​ ​I​ ​am​ ​there​ ​to keep​ ​leaders​ ​on​ ​ vision.​ ​Secondly​, ​I​ ​ensure​ ​we​ ​are​ ​all​ ​ working​ ​together,​ ​as​ ​a​ ​collective.​ ​And thirdly,​ ​I​ ​support​ ​our​ ​leaders​ ​pastorally​ ​ and​ ​practically.” Whilst​ ​contracted​ ​for​ ​around​ ​19​ ​ hours​ ​per​ ​week,​ ​Claire​ ​admits​ ​the​ ​nature​ ​


of​ ​the​ ​role​ ​often leads​ ​to​ ​overtime,​ ​as​ ​ liaising​ ​with​ ​leaders​ ​usually​ ​takes​ ​place​ ​in​ ​ evenings​ ​when​ ​they​ ​aren’t working. “At​ ​Kirkpatrick,​ ​we​ ​try​ ​to​ ​work​ ​on​ ​ a​ ​‘rule​ ​of​ ​one’​ ​for​ ​our​ ​ministries.​ ​We​ ​ encourage​ ​our members​ ​to​ ​be​ ​at​ ​public​ ​ worship​ ​on​ ​Sundays,​ ​to​ ​be​ ​part​ ​of​ ​a​ ​ discipleship​ ​group​ ​and​ ​also​ ​to be​ ​involved​ ​ in​ ​one​ ​organisation.​ ​Part​ ​of​ ​my​ ​role​ ​ is​ ​to​ ​watch​ ​out​ ​for​ ​that,​ ​to​ ​pick​ ​up​ ​on potential​ ​leaders​ ​and​ ​also​ ​to​ ​free​ ​people​ ​ who​ ​perhaps​ ​have​ over ​committed​ ​ or have been committed to​v​ arious organisations​ ​for​ ​a​ ​long​ ​period​ ​of​ ​time.​ ​ It​ ​is​ ​important,​ ​where​ ​necessary,​ ​to​ ​give​ ​ people permission​ ​to​ ​walk​ ​away​ ​before​ ​it​ ​ gets​ ​too​ ​late​ ​and​ ​they​ ​collapse​ ​under​ ​the​ ​ pressure​ ​of​ ​trying to​ ​do​ ​too​ ​much.” Claire​ ​has​ ​built​ ​up​ ​a​ ​strong​ ​relationship​ ​ with​ ​all​ ​the​ ​leaders-in-charge​ ​of​ ​the​ ​ various organisations​ ​and​ ​operates​ ​an​ ​ open​ ​system,​ ​gauging​ ​the​ ​level​ ​of​ ​contact​ ​ on​ ​an​ ​individual basis.​ ​“I​ ​am​ ​in​ ​regular​ ​ email​ ​contact​ ​and​ ​they​ ​know​ ​they​ ​can​ ​ pick​ ​the​ ​phone​ ​up​ ​at​ ​any​ ​time​ ​if they​ ​ need​ ​me​ ​as​ ​well.” Where​ ​possible,​ ​Claire​ ​encourages​ ​ leaders​ ​via​ ​coffee​ ​dates​ ​to​ ​discuss​ ​their​ ​ vision​ ​for ministry,​ ​plan​ ​ahead​ ​if​ ​there​ ​may​ ​ be​ ​a​ ​future​ ​need​ ​for​ ​extra​ ​leaders​ ​and,​ ​if​ ​ times​ ​are​ ​tough, simply be​ ​‘someone​ ​to​ ​ listen’. As​ ​a​ ​sounding​ ​board​ ​for​ ​other​ ​people’s​ ​ issues,​ ​it​ ​is​ ​vital​ ​for​ ​such​ ​a​ ​role​ ​to​ ​be​ ​cared​ ​ for pastorally​ ​and​ ​Claire​ ​is​ ​grateful​ ​for​ ​ three​ ​assigned​ ​elders​ ​who​ ​pray​ ​with​ ​and​ ​ for​ ​her.​ ​“Being Christoph’s​ ​wife,​ ​kirk​ ​ session​ ​in​ ​their​ ​wisdom​ ​were​ ​keen​ ​to​ ​ put​ ​support​ ​mechanisms​ ​in place​ ​for​ ​me.​ ​ We​ ​meet​ ​regularly.​ ​They​ ​are​ ​interested​ ​in​ ​ what​ ​I​ ​am​ ​doing​ ​and​ ​they​ ​care​ ​about​ ​the​ ​ impact​ ​on​ ​our​ ​family.” The​ ​leaders-in-charge​ ​meet​ ​once​ ​a​ ​term​ ​ –​ ​everyone​ ​from​ ​creche​ ​to​ ​Sunday​ ​school,​ ​ BB,​ ​GB, and​ ​Converse,​ ​the​ ​Friday​ ​night​ ​ youth​ ​group​ ​–​ ​to​ ​share​ ​what​ ​it​ ​means​ ​to​ ​ be​ ​in​ ​leadership together.​ ​“ What​ ​has​ ​been​ ​

most​ ​interesting​ ​has​ ​been​ ​the​ ​impact​ ​on​ ​ our​ ​creche​ ​leaders​ ​–​ ​they get​ ​to​ ​see​ ​their​ ​ part​ ​in​ ​the​ ​whole​ ​picture​ ​of​ ​a​ ​child​ ​from​ ​ 0​ ​to​ ​18​ ​in​ ​our​ ​church.​ ​The​ ​contribution ​ creche workers​ ​make​ ​is​ ​significant​ ​and​ hopefully ​through​ ​this​ ​contact,​ ​they​ ​feel​ ​ more​ ​valued​ ​hearing​ ​how​ ​the young​ ​ people​ ​develop​ ​in​ ​their​ ​faith. “Once​ ​a​ ​month,​ ​I​ ​send​ ​Session​ ​a​ ​list​ ​of​ ​ the​ ​new​ ​leaders​ ​for​ ​approval.​ ​I​ ​also​ ​liaise​ ​ with​ ​the committee​ ​and​ ​let​ ​them​ ​know​ ​ of​ ​issues​ ​regarding​ ​space​ ​and​ ​capacity​ ​of​ ​ our​ ​halls,​ ​and​ ​I connect​ ​with​ ​the​ ​child​ ​ protection​ ​officer​ ​to​ ​make​ ​sure​ ​the​ ​new​ ​ leaders​ ​get​ ​the​ ​training​ ​they need.

largely​ ​from​ ​young​ ​people​ ​bringing​ ​their​ ​ friends​ ​along. Numbers​ ​have​ ​doubled​ ​at​ ​ the​ ​Friday​ ​night​ ​youth​ ​fellowship,​ ​posing​ ​ extra​ ​leadership demands. ​is​ ​sending​ ​these​ ​young​ ​people​ ​ It​ ​is​ ​about​ ​trying​ ​to lead​ ​ and​“God​ ​God​ ​will​ ​send​ ​the​ ​leaders.​ ​The​ ​ discipleship​ ​group Christoph​ ​and​ ​I​ ​lead​ ​ people​ ​into​ ​godly​ ​ is​ ​specifically​ ​for​ ​new​ ​members.​ ​As​ ​soon​ ​ leadership​ ​and​ ​to​ ​ as​ ​people​ ​come​ ​and​ ​express an​ ​interest​ ​in​ ​ joining​ ​us,​ ​I​ ​can​ ​have​ ​that​ ​conversation​ ​ disciple​ ​those​ ​coming​ ​ with​ ​them​ ​about​ ​where​ ​and​ ​how​ ​they after​ ​them. may​ ​wish​ ​to​ ​serve​ ​when​ ​the​ ​time​ ​is​ ​ right.” “Last year we ran an event for So​ ​what​ advice​ ​does​ ​Claire​ ​have​ ​for​ ​ leaders of all our youth and children’s other​ ​churches​ ​who​ ​may​ ​be​ ​thinking​ ​of​ ​ organisations, entitled ​‘Together’​​. This was ​ having​ ​a​ ​similar role? an​ ​opportunity​ ​to​ ​thank​ ​them​ ​for their​ ​ “The​ ​key​ ​word​ ​is​ ‘​facilitator’. Often​ ​we​ ​ work​ ​as​ ​well​ ​as​ ​envision​ ​them​ ​and​ ​share​ expect​ ​the​ ​people​ ​in​ ​paid​ ​church​ ​roles​ ​to​ ​ the ​strategy​ ​the​ ​church​ has ​developed​ ​for​ ​ deliver​ ​the​ ​ministry​ ​– ​my​ ​role​ ​is​ ​about young people​ ​and​ ​children’s​ ​ministry, and​ ​ developing​ ​people,​ ​realising​ ​that​ ​I​ ​cannot​ ​​ off​ ​the​ ​back​ ​of​ ​that,​ to ​get​ ​them​ ​to​ ​engage​ ​ be the​ ​answer​ ​myself.​ ​For​ ​example,​ ​ in​ ​the​ ​strategy and​ ​identify​ ​what​ ​they​ ​ where​ ​training is needed,​ ​my​ ​role​ ​is​ ​to​ ​ need​ ​to​ ​fulfil ​the​ ​vision.” source​ ​it,​ ​not to believe​ ​I​ ​can​ ​deliver​ ​ One​ ​example​ ​of​ ​the​ ​leaders-in-charge the​ ​best​ ​training​ ​myself. ​Knowing​ ​your​ ​ of the organisations ​working​ ​together​ ​is​ ​ limitations​ ​is​​ ​key. the​ ​joint​ ​weekend​ ​away​ for ​youth ​from​ ​ “Often​ ​in​ ​church​ ​settings,​ ​we​ ​jump​ ​ the​ ​different​ ​organisations,​ ​showing​ ​ at​ ​trying​ ​to​ ​be​ ​the​ ​answer​ ​to​ ​a list​ ​of​ ​ the​ ​collaborative​ ​working.​ ​“It​ ​really problems.​ ​I​ can end up being ​the​ ​‘go​ ​ impacts​ ​the​ ​youth​ ​to​ ​see​ ​their​ ​leaders​ ​ to​ ​person’​ ​if​ ​someone​ ​has​ ​a​ ​problem​; working​ ​in​ ​this​ ​way,​ ​sharing​ ​life​ ​together​ ​ people​ ​tell​ing ​me how​ ​things​ ​should​ ​be,​ and​ ​not​ ​being territorial.​ ​We​ ​are also and ​where​ ​the​ ​church​ ​is​ ​going​ ​wrong.​ ​ going to​​see h ​ ow ​leadership​across the You​ ​have​ ​to​ ​not​ ​take​ ​things personally!​ ​ organisations can ​be a bit more​​fluid.​​ I’ve​ ​learned​ ​that​ ​it​ ​is​ ​about walking​ ​the​ ​ We are encouraging the​ ​leaders​ ​of​ ​Bible​ ​ journey​ ​with​ ​equal​ ​measures of grace and class​ ​on​ ​a​ ​Sunday morning​, who maybe truth – being able to be honest and​​be​ don’t get the same opportunity to play hugely gracious​ ​at​ ​the same​ ​time.​ I don’t games as the Converse leaders​​, to switch​​ always get it right! Ultimately the role is teams​ ​for​ ​a​ ​week.​ ​Likewise,​ ​the female​ ​ about growing disciples, and seeing folks leaders​ ​of​ ​the​ ​Bible​ ​class​ could go along​ ​ being transformed as they step up into to​G ​ B some evening​a​ nd​​have a chance leadership. to​hang out with ​the older​​girls​​without​​ “Discipleship​ ​is​ ​the​ ​heartbeat​ ​of​ ​ the​ ​boys​ ​being​ ​there,​ allowing more Kirkpatrick​ ​and​ ​that​ ​permeates​ ​all​ ​that open and honest conversation about the we do​. So at the end of the day my role things they struggle with. Ultimately this is to encourage​ ​those​ ​in​ ​leadership​ ​to approach gives opportunities for ​stronger​​ faithfully​ ​‘pass​ ​on’​ ​the​ ​faith to those relationships​​to be built.” coming after, so they in turn can pass it Recent​ ​growth​ ​statistics​ ​have​ ​come​ ​ on to others.” Herald April 2018

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