HAS WHERE
PIBBY GONE?
PIBBY
Isobelle Drummond Law, born in 1939, Scotland
The daughter of Bella Drummond Law and Alan Grey Law
Sister to three brothers; Mike, Al and Dave Lived in Africe from the age of 7 to 13
Moved to France age 18, for two years, to learn french, practice art and to work as an Au Pair
In 1960 became an Ari hostess for Bea Airline Recieved 27 marriage proposals throughout her life Turned them all down apart from one...
From Mike Wiggs, olympic runner, who she married in the year 1967
Had their only child, Luci Wiggs, my mother, in 1969
Became grandmother to me, Phoebe Gallagher, in 2001
Always remembered for being a lover of cats, good times, dancing, laughing, parties, friends, films, feather boas and high heels.
PIBBY
Diagnosed with dementia in 2007
Passed away in April 2017
It’s difficult grieving someone, especially while they’re still alive
For ten years we were mourning who you once were, mourning over your inability to recognise us, or talk to us or to perfom once easy and normal tasks
Now that it’s all over I dont think about the Pibby who had dementia, I am finally able to mourn the real you again. I only think about you as the glamourous and marvelous person who you always were before before the
were always
dementia PIBBY
took you
cut out
“Pibby it’s me”
“remember?”
you may have stopped recognising us
just we stopped recognising you as
“she looks like a sugar in a plum, plum, plum”
BUT SOME THINGS DONT CHANGE ...
YOUR EYES
YOUR SCENT
YOUR HANDS
16.04.2017
cut out this half of the page
it’s hard when you miss someone, but if you do miss them, that means you’re lucky
