97/16 - Prince George's Weekly

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THURSDAY, JULY 18, 2019

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UNBC STRIKER HENMEN OPENS UP ABOUT MENTAL HEALTH FIGHT RICH ABNEY Special to 97/16

It had been a tragic week in Prince George. Two high school students had made the heartbreaking decisions to take their own lives, just days apart from one another. The school was reeling. The community was reeling. Questions mounted in the minds of those where answers would not. It was 11:55 p.m. when my phone vibrated, notifying me of a text. It was Michael Henman, a member of the University of Northern British Columbia’s men’s soccer team. “I have to tell my story.” I responded by asking him why he thought now was the appropriate time. “Did you see what happened to those two kids this week. I have to tell my story. Maybe, if I had told it earlier, one of them may have seen someone who has gone through things. Maybe it could have saved a life.” It struck me that in a time of sadness for an entire city, it was a Victoria transplant, just 20 years old, who felt compelled to do something. I texted him back saying I would help him do just that. We had talked before about writing a piece on his journey to get to Prince George, but the timing hadn’t been right. In that moment, it struck me as unfair that when the vast majority of us were allowed to just be sad, he was feeling like his story could shed light, create conversation, or even save a life. I asked Michael if it felt unfair. “Mental health is unfair,” he said. *** He saw the play developing at midfield. It was a scoreless tie between the visiting Calgary Dinos and his UNBC Timberwolves, on a brisk September afternoon. The game was the sixth of his Canada West career. He had been held without a goal through his first five contests, but he had a number of chances, with eight shots on goal through the first few matches. Now, in the 37th minute, that was about the change. UNBC’s Owen Stewart took possession at midfield and cut across the pitch 40 yards

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UNBC Timberwolves striker Micheal Henman battles for the ball during a game against the Victoria Vikes. Henman is opening up about his personal battle with mental health in the hopes it will help others going through similar struggles. from the Dinos’ net, drawing with him a pair of Calgary defenders. Henman, recognizing the open area, turned up field, where Stewart found him with a through ball that rolled perfectly to his feet. From there, instincts took over. Henman, who had proven his ability to make plays with either foot, changed the angle and managed to put it through Dinos keeper Jake Ruschkowski to make it 1-nil. A big goal, no doubt. A go-ahead marker against a powerhouse school in the conference would be monumental for any player, and particularly any freshman. But as his Timberwolves teammates swarmed him in

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celebration, including childhood teammates Cody Gysbers and Jonah Smith, it was perhaps Smith who said it best. “What a journey! What a journey.” *** Michael Henman couldn’t quite clear his throat. No amount of coughing seemed to help. He had battled a sinus infection for a few weeks, but seemed to be recovering nicely. His cold symptoms were mostly gone, except for the feeling of a buildup in his nose and throat. His parents, Pat and Diane, had taken him to three throat specialists for three exams, but every time, the scans and exams came back with noth-

ing. There was, seemingly, no reason why Michael felt something in his throat, in constant fear of gagging and choking. “There wasn’t anything there. I didn’t believe it,” said Henman. “As soon as we did the third test, and my parents saw, again, that there was nothing, they knew there was more going on. There was something psychological going on.” It was 2015, and Michael was a member of the Victoria Highlanders U-21 program. Soccer was his escape. His chance to play the game he loved, alongside friends he had Continued on page 3

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