If I was asked to describe my ideal man, I’d resort to the shamefully banal narrative of honest, open, kind, romantic and built like a hunky Scottish outlander. If I was asked to describe my ideal home, the same depiction would apply. The walls will tell an honest story. The space shall be vast and open. The build will be kind to the environment it inhabits. There shall be light and views redolent of romance. And it will be strong enough to protect and shelter my clan.