Graceful Adaptation


Where Laughter Alchemizes the Weight of Chronic Illness



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Where Laughter Alchemizes the Weight of Chronic Illness



ToOurBelovedLAFFCommunity, Whatbeganasasmallactofcourage hasbecomeamovementofresilience. LAFFwasbornoutofdiagnosis.Outof questions.Outoffatiguethatdidnot looklikefatigue.Outofstrengththat hadtoberedefined.
Buttonight wegathernotinsorrow
Wegatherinjoy. MultiplesclerosischangedthewayI movethroughtheworld. Itslowedme. Ithumbledme. Itrefinedme. Andsomewherebetweeninfusion appointmentsandinvisiblesymptoms, Ilearnedsomethingsacred: Adaptationcanbegraceful. Tonightisaboutlaughterasmedicine. Faithasgrounding. Communityascovering. Wearenolongerlabeleddisabled. WeareacommunityofAllAbilities. Thankyouforshowingup. Thankyouforbelieving.
Thankyouforlaughingwithyour
Withgratitudeandfire, Dahria & John Fernandes



LAFF With Your Love is a community-centered fundraiser and awareness movement that began with a personal diagnosis and grew into a collective declaration.
Originally focused on multiple sclerosis awareness, LAFF now supports individuals and families navigating:
⢠Autoimmune disease
⢠Chronic illness
⢠Neurological conditions
⢠Invisible disabilities
In collaboration with National Multiple Sclerosis Society, LAFF raises awareness, fosters education, and builds compassionate community.
We believe:
Laughter is resilience.
Awareness is empowerment.
Adaptation is not defeat it is evolution.
LAFF With Your Love is the intersection of purpose and production.
PAUSE A Movement for a Moment was created to hold sacred space in the midst of lifeās interruptions. It is a wellness-centered platform that integrates grief education, legacy development, faith formation, and holistic healing across generations and cultures. At its core, PAUSE teaches one powerful truth: When we slow down long enough to feel, reflect, and reorient transformation becomes possible.
Ten 25 Productions brings that vision to life through experience design, storytelling, and community-centered events. Where PAUSE shapes the message, Ten 25 builds the stage. Where PAUSE carries the heart, Ten 25 amplifies the voice.
Together, this collaboration merges:
⢠Advocacy with artistry
⢠Education with entertainment
⢠Laughter with lived experience
⢠Faith with functionality
LAFF With Your Love exists because purpose met production.
And when those two unite movements are born.



Multiple sclerosis (MS) is a chronic autoimmune disease affecting the central nervous system.
The immune system mistakenly attacks the protective covering of nerves (myelin), disrupting communication between the brain and body.
MSmayimpact:
ā¢Movement
ā¢Vision
ā¢Speech
ā¢Cognition
ā¢Energy
ā¢Sensation
Notwowarriors experienceMSthe sameway. Itisoftencalledan āinvisibleillnessā becausemany symptomscannotbe seen yetaredeeply felt.





MS is not just a medical condition.
It is a daily negotiation.
Fatigue that feels like gravity increased.
Cognitive fog in the middle of a sentence.
Arms that wonāt lift past a certain degree.
Pain without warning.
And yetā¦
We adapt.
We honor our āouch.ā
We find new rhythms.
We redefine strength.
Graceful Adaptation means:
Accepting limitation without surrendering identity. Adjusting without shrinking. Living boldly inside changing bodies.


Current disease-modifying therapies (DMTs) aim to slow progression and reduce relapses.
Ocrevus Monoclonal antibody
Kesimpta Monoclonal antibody Delivery Slow progression

Tysabri Monoclonal antibody Delivery Prevent immune cell migration
Oral DMTs Various Delivery Immune modulation
Treatment is individualized. Management is evolving.
Hope is active.





Host Marlon Baker
Host Welcome & Introduction
Speakers
Performer:
Dinner Served: Bless the Food
DJ Prelude
Performer: DJ Dolla Bill
Stand-Up Comedian
Performer: Shanie D
Stand-Up Comedian
Performer: Stephon
Stand-Up Comedian
Performer: Mike Britt
Not So Silent, Silent Action 8:15 PM 8:20 PM 8:40 PM 9:00 PM 9:20 PM 9:45 PM 10:35 PM
Auction, Gratitude & Host Farewell
Each comedian tonight stands with the LAFF community ā not just to entertain ā but to elevate awareness through humor. Because laughter disrupts fear.
PRESENTS, WELCOMES, & GREATLY APPRECIATED



D.J. Dolla Bill
Curator of Sound

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The LAFF Community recognizes those living with chronic illness as:
Warriors not because they are fighting to win, but because they are choosing to live.
WE HONOR:
⢠Those in treatment
⢠Those in remission
⢠Caregivers
⢠Medical professionals
⢠Families adjusting together




















Tonightyoumayengageinexperiential stationsthatsimulate:


ā¢Cognitiveoverload
ā¢Finemotordifficulty
ā¢Fatiguelayering
ā¢Visualdistortion
Thesestationsarenotentertainment. Theyareempathy. Understandingchanges perspective. Perspectivebuildscompassion.
ToOurSponsors: Youdomorethanfundanevent. Youstandinsolidaritywithinvisiblebattles.












1.WhereinmylifeamIresistingadaptation?
2.Whatwouldgracelooklikeinmybodyrightnow?
3.WhatcouldlaughterhealifIallowedit? Youareinvitedtocarrythisreflectionbeyondtonight.



PAUSE is A Movement for a Moment ā an intergenerational, multicultural wellness platform dedicated to:

⢠Grief education
⢠Holistic wellness
⢠Legacy development
⢠Faith-centered resilience From diagnosis to destiny, we create spaces for healing and purpose.


This evening is dedicated to:
Those who adapt quietly.
Those who advocate loudly.
Those who are tired but show up anyway.
Those who laugh even when it hurts. May you leave tonight lighter. Seen. Understood. Strengthened. And may you always LAFF With Your Love.