PakMag Townsville - August 2018 Issue 93

ISSUE: AUG 2018

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TOWNSVILLE

SPOTLIGHT ON SPECIAL NEEDS FAMILIES

EXPOSING KIDS TO CULTURE TWIN TELEPATHY

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Entertainment: Check It Out

Welcome to the August edition of PakMag!

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The Thing Is: With Bree James

This month is all about special needs as we shine a spotlight on local

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Feature: Spotlight on Special Needs

meet the families that we interviewed this month.

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Exposing Kids to Culture

families who deal with challenges in their everyday lives. Head to page 8 to Here at PakMag, we’re all about educated children (and parents) and

15 Health

when it comes to life lessons, it doesn’t get much better than learning

17 Importance of Reading,

Writing and Communication

about culture. Check out our “Exposing Kids to Culture” Feature on

19 Principal’s Pen

the world around you!

21 The PakMag Experts

And it’s not just the children who will be educated this month! If you’ve been

23 Bump, Bub and Beyond:

Twin Communication

thinking about getting back into education, now’s the time. Check out our

27 What’s On Guide 29 Mini Mag 37 Is Your Child Experiencing

Learning Problems?

41 Navigating the Challenges

of Modern Parenting

page 11 and discover the ways that you and your children can embrace

“Adult Education” story on page 45 to find out just how easy it can be.

Next month is Father’s Day, so now’s the time to get thinking about how your little ones are going to spoil him. Head to page 57 to try your luck with our Father’s Day giveaways.

Until next time, have a fabulous month, and don’t forget to tell them you read it in PakMag.

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50 Mater Snapped 53 Sensory Recipes 50 Home with Caro

and Kingi: Daring Décor 57 Father’s Day Prizes 58 Daddy Diary

Grand Publishing Founder and Editor-in-Chief Bree James Operations Manager Rose Foster Production Manager Janelle May Sales Team Manager Lisa Gillman

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Entertainment

CHECK IT OUT TYTO Free Family Fun When: Wednesday, 1 August, to Friday, 31 August Where: TYTO Wetlands More Info: tyto.com.au Enjoy a free outing to the TYTO Wetlands complete with many fun and educational activities for kids of all ages. Feed the turtles, participate in a quiz or bingo, play giant checkers or chess, or for the youngest visitors there are tiny tots activities available.

Ahoy! Sing for the Mary Rose When: Saturday, 4 August at 1.00pm Where: Townsville City Centre More Info: ticketshop.com.au Join this great nautical celebration, an entertaining concert composed by choirs and singers. The show combines Tudor music, folk songs and well-known sea shanties that tells the story of King Henry VIII’s warship, the Mary Rose.

Tickets $25.00 Adult | $10.00 Kids

Townsville Family Day Out! When: Saturday, 11 August, 10.00am to 3.00pm Where: Jezzine Barracks More Info: deafservicesqld.org.au The Family Day Out, hosted by Deaf Services Queensland, will feature a huge range of entertainment, including rides, food stalls, games, family workshops, and a performance from ABC Kids’ Sally and Possum. Activities throughout the day are free and accessible for the whole family to enjoy.

Josephine Wants to Dance When: Monday, 13 August at 6.30pm and Tuesday, 14 August at 10.30am and 12.30pm Where: Riverway Arts Centre More Info: ticketshop.com.au A story about dreams, believing in yourself ... and a dancing kangaroo. Josephine is a kangaroo, who loves to dance. Her little brother, Joey, tells her that kangaroos don’t dance, they hop, but Josephine continues to point her toes and leap through the air.

Recommended for kids from 4 to 9 years of age.

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School in Action - Townsville Grammar When: Wednesday, 15 August in North Ward When: Thursday, 16 August in Annandale When: Friday, 17 August in North Shore More Info: townsvillegrammar.com Come and see Townsville Grammar School in action! Speak to the teachers, and find out why Townsville Grammar School is more than just a school.

Riverway Movie Night - Lego Ninjago When: Friday, 17 August, 6.30pm to 9.00pm Where: Riverway Oval More Info: whatson.townsville.qld.gov.au Bring your blanket along and enjoy the free open-air movie under the stars and raintrees at Riverway! Enjoy this month’s movie, Lego Ninjago.

CBCA Children’s Book Week When: Saturday, 18 August to Friday, 24 August Where: Your local library More Info: qld.cbca.org.au The annual CBCA Children’s Book Week is all about fostering a love for reading early on in life and discovering new stories together. During this week, schools and libraries across the region conduct activities and host events celebrating books. Enquire with your local library or your child’s school for more details.

The Thing Is

The Thing Is...

STORY Bree James

Procrastination is a beautiful thing. Usually I am pretty good at getting stuff done. I have my to do lists, I have my goals, I have my WHY to motivate me. But sometimes I am more stubborn than the stains on my kids’ clothes and more distracted than a two-year-old who’s eaten a packet of smarties, and I just don’t get things done. Shock horror.

The thing is… We all suffer from procrastination at times. Please tell me you do?!

For me, sometimes I procrastinate because it’s something I don’t want to do.

Other times it’s because I’m wanting the project to be perfect so I put it off until the inspiration hits me and I am in “The Zone”.

And other times, I procrastinate because, well, there is something better to do. Like who wants to vacuum inside their car when you know the kids will destroy it within 48 hours? That said, if you have a heap of work to do on a computer, say an assignment or some work, your car simply must be cleaned to within an inch of its life so that it’s cleaner than the day you bought it…

I’ve cleaned my entire house to get out of doing work I was meant to be doing. Hell, I’ve done everything but write this one piece of content this month because I was waiting for inspiration to hit me. But it didn’t.

long. My kids are brilliant procrastinators too. I’ve never seen two humans do everything but clean their playroom when you sit them in there to do it. Five hours later, it’s messier than it was when they first began.

My husband is the same, 10 years later and he still hasn’t finished painting our house.

It’s an epidemic!

So how do we fix it? Well, I procrastinated some more and did a Google search. Four hours and many cat videos later, I came across Tim Urban who did a Ted Talk about procrastination. Do yourself a favour and Google it, it’s hilarious and sums up procrastination perfectly.

Sometimes, procrastination is our friend. It’s that little voice inside our heart that wants us to wait and it’s a good thing we did. But sometimes procrastinating gives us an extra surprise we didn’t want. Think of it like procrastinating to take out the bin in our very hot summer… you’re going to get some nasty extras that you didn’t want and a big wiggly mess to clean up and still have to do the job anyways.

So if you’re procrastinating right now - go do it.

But first, Google that Tim Urban video and tell us what you think.

I’ve looked around as I thought, “Is it just me who is a brilliant procrastinator?” But my research didn’t take

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Josephine Carter Photography

SPOTLIGHT ON SPECIAL NEEDS

At PakMag, we love to shine the spotlight on local families with a story to tell. With our August edition focusing on special needs families, we asked some of our readers to tell their stories and offer advice to other parents in similar situations. Raising children with special needs is no mean feat, yet the experiences endured teaches wonderful lessons. These families show that it’s possible to live an amazing life despite the struggles, and that a positive outlook and attitude can make a world of difference.

Amelia Six-year-old Amelia is one active little girl. She loves to ride her bike, play at the beach, and enjoy the great outdoors as a whole.

Her family consists of Kimberley (mum), Clinton (dad), little brother Harrison (3) and sister Chelsea (18 months).

Dad works in the mines as a chef, meaning he is away for weeks at a time in order to help support his family.

Amelia has been diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder, ADD, ADHD, pica (the persistent eating of

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non-nutritional substances such as paint or dirt), and Oppositional Defiant Disorder. These affect the family greatly, as Amelia struggles to regulate her emotions and finds it very difficult to fit in.

Obtaining Amelia’s diagnoses was a struggle for her family. They travelled to the Lady Cilento Hospital in Brisbane for help, and Amelia stayed in a secure mental health unit for over three weeks.

“They have all the facilities to help children like Amelia,” Kimberley told us. Now back in Townsville, the family struggles to find the help they need, with their weekly

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schedule filled with appointments, visits to the doctors and check-ups. “It’s so full on. We’re hoping that we can get the right help so we can start being a happy family.”

wave or say hello when I wheel Bailey passed in her wheelchair. By you acknowledging her, it makes me know she will be ok.”

We asked Kimberley if she had any advice for other parents of children with special needs. “You just have to take one day at a time, if today is a bad day then have that bad day. Tomorrow will be better,” she said. “Just don’t judge unless you’re in the same position.”

Rhylee, Chase and Berlin

Bailey This family unit consists of mum Alicia, dad Jason and five children, including three year old Bailey. Like many little girls of her age, Bailey loves to dance and absolutely lights up when she sees the Wiggles, but unlike most, Bailey faces more challenges than the average person. Bailey has cerebral palsy and has not only overcome a lot of obstacles already but has many more to face.

Bailey is fed via a button in her tummy, is nonverbal, has vision impairment, and uses a wheelchair as she struggles to walk long distances. Due to her full-time care needs, Alicia has not been able to work. “This is a struggle for us as our family really want to purchase our own home so we can get a special disabled access bathroom for Bailey to use,” her mum said. “Over the past 3 years there have also been many more struggles, but as a family we always keep moving forward.”

Despite the communication barrier, Bailey’s siblings love her immensely and continue to show her. While she and her family face difficulties on a daily basis, they are focused on staying positive for the future. “Some days really do suck! But then there’s that little smile, that new milestone reached, that cheeky laugh and you know it’s all worth it!” Alicia said. “I just want to say thank you, to those parents who encourage their children to

Raising one child with special needs can be a struggle but raising 3 can turn a world upside down. Tamara and Cameron Standley are parents to Rhylee (8), Chase (6), and Berlin (3), who all live with Autism.

Rhylee has high functioning Autism, is extremely talkative and loves art. Chase is severely autistic, diagnosed with a speech and language impairment, and has nocturnal epilepsy and an intellectual impairment. He also has conductive hearing loss and a brain lesion due to self-injurious behaviour.

Despite all this, he’s an extremely active, physically strong and athletic little boy who loves crocodiles.

The family’s youngest child, Berlin, is classed as moderately autistic and has an IQ double her age.

Berlin loves her brothers and the outdoors.

While every day poses challenges, the family is resilient and celebrates the small wins while not dwelling on the missed milestones. Between the behavioural issues, the therapy appointments, the hospital appointments and the ability to hold down a mainstream job, mum, Tamara, sees much potential in her children and the valuable lessons they teach those around them. “I believe every child is special and we’ve all got our special gifts to give the world,” Tamara said. “But I’ve learnt now that you cannot pour from an empty cup and I need to take care of myself also. If you see that mother with that screaming child in the crowded shopping centre kicking and throwing themselves around, don’t judge.”

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Celebrating Culture

Exposing Kids to Culture With the number of languages being spoken at home exceeding 400, it’s no surprise that Australia is a very diverse country. Children are naturally curious, and begin to notice different races, ethnicities, and languages from as young as six months of age. With so many cultures making up our beautiful country, where do you even start in terms of introducing your children to them all?

Cultural diversity is defined as people who identify with particular groups based on their place of birth, ethnicity, beliefs, or country of origin. Introducing kids to different countries and cultures from a young age and explaining the way things work in different parts of the world can help them better understand and celebrate different cultures and people, and any similarities that may be shared.

Exposing your kids to different cultures may sound tricky, but it can be worked into your daily routine by incorporating simple and fun activities that you can do together.

•• Reading stories together – Reading together with your children has a huge range of benefits and helps with the development of literacy and language skills.

Pick a book with a topic about a culture different to your own.

•• World map – If you don’t already have a map of the world, now’s the time to buy one and hang it on the wall! Use it to explore the countries together with your child. Explain to them what the climate is like there, what people eat there, and what animals live there – your little ones will have many questions and this map will help put the world and its cultures into perspective.

•• Cook authentic recipes – Teriyaki chicken, beef tacos and butter chicken curry are just a few authentic recipes that are both easy to prepare and loved by kids. As a plus for you, you can find easy-to-prepare simmer sauces and seasonings for many of these recipes in most supermarkets.

•• Learn cultural etiquettes – This one is more suitable for older children. Cultural etiquettes are interesting to learn even if you don’t plan to travel to the country in question, and it may take you by surprise how different table manners or gestures can be in other cultures.

•• Money – If you’ve done some travelling in the past yourself and collected foreign money over the years, invite your kids to count or play with it. Don’t have any foreign money? Play-money works, too.

•• Observe holidays – Many countries and cultures observe different holidays than Australia. Why not do a little bit of research and discover the holidays celebrated in other countries?

•• Learn the language – Of course, you don’t have to learn the entire language, but learning simple phrases like “I love you,” “How are you?” or “Goodbye” in another language can be educational and fun to learn.

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Celebrating Culture

Discovering Culture in Townsville Museum of Tropical Queensland mtq.qm.qld.gov.au One fantastic way to introduce older children to other cultures is to bring them to the museum. The Museum of Tropical Queensland showcases a State Cultures and Histories collection which is compromised of objects which are significant to the Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people, including masks, jewellery, musical instruments, and more. As you pass by the exhibits, take some time to stop and read the stories attached to these historic items.

Mungalla Aboriginal Tours mungallaaboriginaltours.com.au Learn about the rich Nywaigi Aboriginal culture at Mungalla station. This is an educational and informative day out, though it would be more suitable for families with older children. Examine artefacts, try your hand at throwing a boomerang, and visit the homestead. Hear stories from the traditional owners of the land and enjoy a tour of the region and its rich historical and cultural history.

Out for dinner

Townsville Cultural Festival culturalfest.org

Townsville has a huge range of restaurants offering cuisines from all around the world. Why not step out of your comfort zone and try something new? Some options around Townsville include Chinese, Japanese, Indian, Thai, Italian, French, Pakistani, Greek, and more.

Hosted by the Townsville Intercultural Centre, this event takes place from 17 to 19 August at James Cook University, featuring rides, on-stage entertainment, traditional food stalls, and much more for the whole family to enjoy.

If your kids are picky or reluctant to try something new, start off with dishes that are kid-friendly such as ramen, spring rolls, quesadillas, or spaghetti, to name a few.

You may be delighted to discover something new that your child loves.

The event is child-friendly and an ideal way to discover the cultures of the world in a fun way, with family entertainment being provided all day long.

Townsville has a number of multicultural organisations and clubs to bring people together and celebrate their culture.

Townsville’s Street Art Walking Trail townsville.qld.gov.au One fantastic way to introduce your kids to culture is taking them for a stroll around the city to marvel at the beautiful artworks that paint the walls all around. Many of these works were completed by artists from all over Australia and even the world. Pieces such as Girroogul and the Soap Tree and Wulgurukaba and Bindal can be found in Townsville’s CBD, and tell a story as well as taking your breath away.

Townsville Multicultural Support Group tmsg.org.au Townsville Intercultural Centre townsvilleic.com.au The Townsville Chinese Club Inc. ttcci.org.au Australia Japan Society of North Queensland ajsnq.org.au

Perc Tucker Regional Gallery townsville.qld.gov.au

Malayalee Association of Townsville townsvillemalayalee.org

If your family enjoys art, Perc Tucker Regional Gallery makes a fantastic outing. The City of Townsville Art Collection showcases a range of views, narratives, and ideas from national and international artists. The multicultural collection features work from Australian Indigenous, European, Melanesian and other worldwide cultures. One of the main aims of this collection is to educate, enrich, and engage the diverse population of Townsville.

Townsville Filipino Community Townsville Filipino Community (Queensland Australia)

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Indonesian Community Townsville Indonesian Community Townsville Next time you’re not sure what to cook, read, or where to take the family this weekend – consider exploring a different culture and opening the minds of your kids to the many wonderful and diverse communities of the world!

Health

HEALTH Anti-anxiety jewellery Understanding Autism Anxiety in children is an issue that many parents are at a loss as to how to handle, or even identify in the first place.

Australian jewellery company, Jellystone Designs recognised that certain sensory techniques were being used to alleviate this issue and set about finding a way that they could help too. They developed a line of necklaces, bracelets and pencil toppers which not only look super stylish, they also help with childhood anxiety too.

What’s more, silicone jewellery is being recommended

by Occupational Therapists for children with sensory processing demands and special needs.

Founder of Jellystone Designs, Claire Behrmann said, “We are committed to enhancing the ways babies and children learn through sensory exploration. We’ve seen such an increased demand for our pendants and from children with sensory needs and strive to create funky products that all kids can love wearing.

“Jellystone Juniors jewellery is free from BPA, Phthalates and PVC. The range has a fabulous soft-feeling and texture. Jellystone Juniors is our ‘kids’ of silicone jewellery range. Designed for kids three years plus.”

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STORY Autism Queensland Autism, or Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a lifelong disability which affects individuals in different ways. From mild to severe cases, difficulties with communication and social interaction, repetitive behaviours and obsessive compulsions are common symptoms.

Identifying Autism by 18 months can make a huge difference to a child’s ability to live the best life they can in the future. And choosing a service which has all the support your child needs for their condition can really help them in the long run.

Consider these factors when thinking about a care provider for your child: •• Early Childhood Intervention. Does the provider support young children to develop the skills necessary for successful participation in home and community life and successful transition into the next stage of their education?

•• Individual Therapy. Does the provider offer speech and language pathology, occupational therapy, psychology for children, adolescents and adults? This could include assessment and intervention for meal time challenges, anxiety, toileting, social skills, daily living skills, motor and play skills, sensory processing and much more.

•• Group programs. For school-aged children and adolescents, some providers offer shorter programs run during term times and school holidays to help with anxiety, social skills, behaviour and communication skills.

•• School Advisory Visits and Specialist Programs.

If your child has been diagnosed with ASD and you’re looking for support, consider an all-in-one provider who can cater to your child’s needs across a range of areas.

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Education

The importance of developing reading, writing and communication skills STORY Mary Kershaw Learning and developing reading, writing and communication skills is essential as it plays such an important role in almost all of your child’s everyday life activities.

An indelible blueprint for a child’s long-term learning success is formed in their early years, from birth to age five. This is why it is so important, that during this stage, we encourage pre-literacy skills, such as developing oral language, the awareness of sounds, as well as knowledge of the alphabet and an understanding of print concepts as these early behaviours and skills are associated with later successful reading, writing and communication skills.

Although knowing letters and sounds is important, oral language skills are perhaps the most significant factor affecting a child’s reading, writing and communication skills. Oral language is the foundation for literacy development and is strongly tied to each child’s growth in reading and writing. Research shows that by about five years of age, most children have learnt 5000 words.

However, these words are not acquired through passive listening alone. Rather, language is supported through verbal interactions and experiences with others inside a rich oral language framework.

siblings, family pet or teddy. Provide your child with a variety of reading material, take them to bookshops and visit the library together.

•• Talk about letters and sounds - Draw attention to your child’s written name. Write their name on things and help your child make words on the refrigerator door with magnetic letters.

•• Play games in the car – Use the numbers and letters on number plates or play word games such as “I Spy with My Little Eye”. Talk about environmental print such as signs and street names.

•• Provide your child with a special place to write and a variety of writing implements and paper - Always respond positively to the message in your child’s writing rather than focussing on letter formations and spelling. Use a family message board and encourage your child to make cards for special occasions.

•• Make personalised books with your child Try scrapbooking or keeping a family diary with photos or other images they have selected or try recording your child’s stories on your phone and then turn them into a book.

Here are some simple ways you can help your child to develop their reading, writing and communication skills:

•• Encourage discussion - At mealtimes encourage your child to talk about their experiences and share stories with the family about their day.

•• Read with your child - Talk with them about the story and the pictures but make it clear that the meaning is derived from the text. Read books that feature rhyme and repetition and let your child read to you, their

Children will further develop their reading, writing and communication skills in their Early Learning phase of their primary school experience where they are immersed in a language and print-rich environment.

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Principal’s Pen

PRINCIPAL’S PEN

Townsville Grammar School

The Cathedral School

Timothy Kelly, Principal

The last day of Term 2 was one for the ages, literally. The Junior School hosted its annual Grandparents’ Day, with more than 700 guests enjoying their grandchildren’s performances and visiting their classrooms to share their educational experiences. I was blown away by the effort of students and staff in preparing for and hosting this amazing event.

Central to Townsville Grammar School’s mission is the development of young men and women who demonstrate unselfishness, tolerance and kindness; who readily accept responsibility; and who value honesty, integrity and kindness. To assist in the development of these attributes we are further developing our community service programme.

I see considerable benefits coming from involvement in community service where, as students move into unfamiliar situations, possibly outside of their comfort zone, they are in the position to help or serve others. Serving their community can be a powerful experience for young people and an excellent opportunity to find out a little more about their own capabilities and values.

A new addition to the School’s service leadership programme this year is the Sony Foundation Children’s Holiday Camp to be held during the September holidays. Over three days, the School will host approximately 24 children with disabilities, their personal companions and support staff. Our Year 11 students will be personal companions to the children attending the Camp. The Camp has three key aims: it will be a time of fun for the children, a time of growth and learning for the companions, and a time of respite for the families of our guests.

By placing students as companions we can deeply broaden their understanding of the realities and complexities of life. It is a learning experience that they may not get in any other situation.

If you want to enquire further about our service leadership and community service activities, please contact us on tgs@tgs.qld.edu.au e tgs@tgs.qld.edu.au townsvillegrammar.com

Luke Baills, Head of Junior School

In this edition I thought I’d let one of the Grandparents share their day.

Jan and Rick Shurmann’s grandchildren, Vaughan (Year 1) and Elena (Kindy) moved to Townsville in early 2018, so this was a perfect excuse for the grandparents to fly up for their first visit.

For them, the day highlighted what a wonderful school their grandchildren attend.

“The concert was exceptional, one of the best children’s concerts we have attended anywhere.

The quality of performances and constant activities kept us thoroughly engaged.

“Morning tea was delicious, we can never refuse a fresh lamington or scone, and the friendly community made us feel right at home.

“Our time spent with the grandchildren and their teachers in their classrooms confirmed the excellence of facilities, teaching methods and teachers, as well as the caring attitude of all the staff. Thank you for a very enjoyable experience.”

Thank you to all who attended. I hope to see you again at an upcoming Junior School event! e tcs@cathedral.qld.edu.au cathedral.qld.edu.au

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Expert Advise

THE PAKMAG EXPERTS COASTAL KIDS SPEECH PATHOLOGY Dear Melanie, how do I help my one year old develop his language skills?

The most important thing at this age is lots of modelling of language. As you go about your day, talk about what you are doing, what you can see, and what your baby is doing and seeing. The things babies and toddlers first communicate with us is to ask for things (“Ball?”), ask for actions (“Go!”), protest (“No!”) and comment (“Ball”). Try to model single words with these in mind. Perfect games for language development are people games, e.g. bubbles, twirling/spinning, tickle monster etc. where they need to do/ say something to you to make the activity continue.

Most importantly, this is the age that your child should be wanting to interact with you and communicating with you in some way, even if it’s not words. They should be pointing, making sounds, showing you things, and trying to get your attention. If this isn’t happening, it’s worth getting your child assessed.

BLOMBERG DENTAL Dear Blomberg Dental, my daughter is getting her adult teeth, but they look like they’re coming in crooked, will she need braces?

As your child’s baby teeth start to fall out, it can appear as though there will never be enough room for all those adult teeth. In many children, further growth of the jaw bones can compensate for this and the child will ‘grow into’ their adult teeth. However, in a lot of cases the final teeth positions are not ideal from a functional or cosmetic perspective.

Whether a child will benefit from braces depends on the size and shapes of the teeth, the size and position of the jaws and many other factors. Most often, the goal of orthodontic treatment is functional (to improve the bite), cosmetic (to improve the smile), or both. Having a dentist regularly check your child’s teeth and jaw development will allow you to understand if, or when, orthodontic treatment will be required.

RUHL FAMILY LAW CENTRE Dear Ruhl Family Law Centre, my partner and I have seperated, how do we work out a fair property settlement?

Once a de facto or married couple separate, they will usually need to go through the 4-step process of a property settlement.

1. Identify the property pool. List all assets and liabilities and a second hand, real market value for each item, including houses, cars, shares, bank accounts and superannuation.

2. Consider the contributions of the parties, including financial (e.g., income or inheritance) and non-financial (e.g., if one person spent a lot of time renovating a home to increase its value). Contributions towards the family, such as housework and caring for children, are also considered.

3. Consider the future needs of each party. Age, state of health, earning capacity and future obligations to care for dependants, are some factors that are considered. This step is to work out whether one person may need more of the property pool than the other, as they have greater future needs.

4. It must be determined whether the agreement is ‘just and equitable’ (i.e: fair).

Every case is different. It is important that anyone going through a property settlement obtains independent legal advice, specific to their circumstances, even if an agreement has been reached.

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Bump, Bub and Beyond

Twin Communication: Close bond or telepathy?

STORY Claire Butler, Member of Far North Queensland Multiple Birth Association There are many fascinating stories out there about twins who ‘telepathically’ communicate with one another. One twin feels pain when the other is hurt, one senses when there is something wrong with the other or one twin experiences the symptoms of their twin’s medical condition.

These sorts of stories are very intriguing, but are they a result of twins growing up together and doing everything together or do twins really have a psychic connection or ability to communicate telepathically?

Dr Nancy L. Segal is a prominent twin researcher, who, in her book, Twin Mythconceptions: False Beliefs, Fables, and Facts about Twins, says that situations like this are simply a result of the strong bond between twins. She says when twins are raised separately but have similar interests and tastes in clothing, their similarities reflect the genetic component of personality and interests.

My identical twin daughters are almost four, and they often verbalise what the other twin is feeling. When one of my daughters was screaming and upset the other day and couldn’t explain the problem, her twin sister explained what she was screaming about and how I could fix it. I’m not sure if that is a result of twin telepathy or from spending almost every waking (and sleeping) hour together for the last four years, but it is really interesting to see.

A friend of mine who has three-year-old twin daughters said her girls are always on the same wavelength and in their own little world together. She says they often share private jokes and she can’t understand what they find so amusing. Another twin mum with fraternal girl/ boy twins says that while her two-year olds’ speech is still obviously developing, they definitely talk to each other in their own little language, and if one is hurting or crying, the other is concerned.

There is no doubt that most twins do have a special bond, they have someone by their side from the moment they are born (and even in the womb) and share experiences every day throughout their life.

Social Before Birth, an article in Scientific American, explains that researchers have found that twins are aware of their counterparts in the womb from 14 weeks and that they prefer to interact with them and respond to them in special ways. The research also suggests that contact between the twins in the womb appeared to be planned and not accidental.

I do know that when we go to the Far North QLD Multiple Birth Association playgroup, all the kids play together, but most of the twins stay in their pairs, or they always keep a close eye on their twin’s whereabouts.

The Far North QLD Multiple Birth Association is a non-profit volunteer-run organisation based in Cairns for parents and carers of twins, triplets or higher order multiples (quads, etc.); a club that is a great source of support and also a lot of fun. For more information, visit fnqmba.org.au

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The Love to Dream Swaddle UP™ Hip Harness Swaddle is suitable for babies at the swaddling stage and Swaddle UP™ 50/50 Hip Harness Swaddle is perfect for infants moving to arms free sleep with removable wings to assist with the transition.

Combined with the brand’s award-winning and patented ARMS UP™ design, the Hip Harness Swaddles are approved as HipWise by Healthy Hips Australia, with a wider fit at the bottom so it can be worn over a Pavlik Harness, Denis Browne Bar or Rhino Brace.

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Do you know the benefits of breastfeeding?

Benefits of early hearing loss detectioN

STORY Kalisha Fitsch

Newborn hearing screening programs are so important. These screening tests can identify babies who may be experiencing a mild degree of hearing loss through to severe loss. For babies who have a hearing loss of about 40dB or more in both ears, according to Aussie Deaf Kids, research shows that they can benefit from wearing hearing aids consistently early in life. It is important for their speech and language development to have these aids fitted by six months of age.

So many people are unaware of the benefits of breastfeeding. It’s something World Breastfeeding Week, being held this year from 1 to 7 August, is trying to change. This week aims to highlight the huge benefits for a baby’s health and welfare that breastfeeding brings plus the benefits to a mother’s health as well.

So, what are some of these benefits of breastfeeding?

•• Bonding – The skin-to-skin contact you have with your baby while breastfeeding is vital for bonding early on in life.

•• It’s healthy – Breastfeeding can protect your baby against all sorts of diseases, including infections, asthma, diabetes, eczema, SIDS, heart disease, celiac disease, and much more.

•• It’s free – It costs nothing to feed your baby, unless you express, in which case you’ll need some equipment for cleaning and preparation.

•• It’s good for mum too – Breastfeeding can help lower mum’s risk of developing cancer, osteoporosis, and more.

•• Convenience – No bottles and teats required; you’re always ready to go!

STORY Kate Moloney

If your child does wear a hearing aid or you know a child that does then make sure you let them know about this wonderful Far North Queensland local, Emilie Moore, who is adding some flair to kids hearing aid accessories.

Emilie’s Trendy Ear range are made from fun prints and designs. The headbands are completely compatible with Bone Conduction Hearing Aids, and the Pilot Caps have mesh and lace on the sides, perfect for our hot and humid weather and the sound can clearly travel through to the hearing aid. Emilie’s Trendy Ears accessories are available at her online store, Here We Sew Again at herewesewagain.com.au For your chance to win your choice of either a Bone Conduction Band (RRP $12.95) or a Pilot Cap (RRP $17.95) visit pakmag.com.au

•• Natural Healer - Breast milk adapts if your baby is sick to act like a natural medicine.

While World Breastfeeding Week is about raising awareness of the benefits of breast milk, it is also about acknowledging that the demands on busy mothers these days means that not all mothers have the support they need to continue breastfeeding or feel that breastfeeding is an accessible option for them.

If you are in the above situation, know that you are not alone, help and support is available to you. Visit your GP, preferred ObGyn or call the Australian Breastfeeding Association Helpline on 1800 MUM 2 MUM.

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WHAT’S ON AUG AUG WEDNESDAY 1 AUGUST August Free Trial - Kumon Kumon Pimlico and Kirwan au.kumonglobal.com Check Website

Dustier than Ever: A Tribute to Slim The Ville Resort-Casino tecc.net.au 7.00pm / $34.90 / Family

THURSDAY 9 AUGUST

SATURDAY 11 AUGUST

2018 Shine Womens Conference Runs until 11 August Life Church Townsville shineconference.net Check Website / Family

Mums and Bubs Family First Aid Safety First Aid Unit Ingham safetyfirstaid.com.au 2.00pm / $55 / Adults Townsville Family Day Out! Jezzine Barracks deafservicesqld.org.au 10.00am / Free / Family

TYTO Free Family Fun Runs until 31 August TYTO Wetlands tyto.com.au 9.00am / Free / Family

Islah’s Sparkle High Tea

The Challenge Games Runs until 2 August thechallengegames.com.au

SUNDAY 5 AUGUST

NQ Cowboys v Brisbane Broncos 1300 SMILES Stadium 1300smilesstadium.com.au 7.50pm / From $15 / Family

Craft like a Mother: Recycled

FRIDAY 10 AUGUST

THURSDAY 2 AUGUST

Fabric Bowls Workshop

Easy Yoga at Arc Yoga!

Arc Yoga Arc Yoga 6.15pm / Cost / Family

Arts

PCYC Castle Hill townsvilletickets.com.au 12.00pm / $50 / Family

Umbrella Studios Contemporary umbrella.org.au 9.30am / $10 / Family

FRIDAY 3 AUGUST

McDonald’s Townsville

Ross Noble - El Hablador Townsville Entertainment and Convention Centre tecc.net.au 6.30pm / $49.90 Adult / 15+

Jezzine Barracks

Running Festival townsvillerunningfestival.com 5.00am / Check Website / Family

SATURDAY 4 AUGUST

MONDAY 6 AUGUST

The Australian Italian Festival Runs until 5 August TYTO australianitalianfestival.com.au 10.00am / $15 / Family

Townsville Careers Expo

VaVoom Room Free Annual Open Day VaVoom Room vavoomroom.com.au 8.30am / Free / Family

Family

Families’ Concert - Ahoy! Sing for the Mary Rose!

Townsville Civic Theatre au.patronbase.com 1.00pm / $25 Adult / Family

Townsville RSL Stadium careersevent.com 10.00am / Check Website /

TUESDAY 7 AUGUST Cape Cleveland Lighthouse Tour Runs until 8 August Sealink Ferry Terminal sealinkqld.com.au 2.30pm / $89 / Family

Pimlico Presents the Greatest Show Runs until 11 August Townsville Civic Theatre whatson.townsville.qld.gov.au 7.30pm / $30 Adult / Family Razzle Dazzle Brothers League Club paramourtouring.com 7.00pm / $55 / Adults Saints “Book Club” Movie Night Event Cinemas Rotaty Club of Townsville Saints 6.00pm / $20 / Family CraftAlive Townsville Townsville Entertainment and Convention Centre craftalive.com.au 9.00am / $12 Adult / Family Adam Harvey Dalrymple Hotel tickets.oztix.com.au 8.00pm / $36.60 / Adults Cowboys Night for a Cause Mercure Townsville rmhc.org.au/na 6.30pm / $206.81 / Adults

Beginners Heal Your Gut Ferment Playshop The Happy Wholesome Kitchen thehappywholesomekitchen. com.au 11.00am / $90 / Adults Mike Carney Toyota Classic Car Show Mike Carney Toyota mikecarneytoyota.com.au 4.30pm / Free / Family Baby and Toddler Sleep Seminar Runs until 12 August Mercure Townsville sleeprightsleeptight.com.au Check Website / $45 / Family HIT The HILL - Suicide Prevention Walk Castle Hill hitthehill.com.au 8.00am / $500 (team of 10) / Family Matt Fiddes North QLD Championships Northern Beaches State High School mattfiddes.com/bentley-park 9.00am / $50 Adult / Family

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WHAT’S ON AUG AUG SUNDAY 12 AUGUST Craft like a Mother: Expressive Writing Workshop Umbrella Studios Contemporary Arts umbrella.org.au 9.30am / $10 / Family MONDAY 13 AUGUST Muddy Puddle Walk Runs until 19 August Various Locations muddypuddlewalk.com.au Check Website TUESDAY 14 AUGUST Josephine Wants to Dance Runs until 14 August Riverway Arts Centre ticketshop.com.au 6.30pm / Cost / Family WEDNESDAY 15 AUGUST School in Action - Townsville Grammar School Runs until 17 August North Ward Campus townsvillegrammar.com school hours / Free / Family Ruddigore Townsville Civic Theatre whatson.townsville.qld.gov.au 7.30pm / $45 / Family THURSDAY 16 AUGUST Townsville Grammar School in Action Runs until 17 August Townsville Grammar School tgs.qld.edu.au Check Website / Free / Family

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Gentle Persons Club and Band of Dawn Bellevue Hotel eventbrite.com.au 7.00pm / $11.64 / Family FRIDAY 17 AUGUST Riverway Movie Night Lego Ninjago Riverway Oval whatson.townsville.qld.gov.au 6.30pm / Free / Family Townsville Cultural Fest Runs until 19 August James Cook University culturalfest.org 1.00pm / $15 Adult / Family August Wine and Painting Night Arc Yoga Arc Yoga 7.00pm / $50 / Adults St Anthony’s Winter Carnival St Anthony Padua Campus sacc.edu.au 5.00pm / Free / Family

Intersport Townsville Triathlon Festival Runs until 19 August The Strand townsvilletrifestival.org.au 2.00pm / Check Website / Family SATURDAY 18 AUGUST Ignatius Park College Disco Riverway Arts Centre Iggy Park Discos 6.30pm / $15 / Youth Sacred and Secular St James’ Cathedral nqorchestra.com.au 5.30pm & 7.30pm / $38 Adult / Family Indigenous Carnival Runs until 19 August Townsville City Netball Association townsvillecity.qld.netball.com.au Check Website

JCU Townsville Open Day James Cook University jcu.edu.au/openday 11.00am / Free / Youth+ 1300 Smiles Kids TRY - Triathlon Intersport Townsville Triathlon Festival townsvilletrifestival.org.au 7.45am / Free / Family TUESDAY 21 AUGUST Seniors Lifestyle Expo Townsville Stadium whatson.townsville.qld.gov.au 10.00am / Free / Family THURSDAY 23 AUGUST Seniors Week Luncheon Runs until 24 August Townsville Stadium whatson.townsville.qld.gov.au 10.30am / Free / 60+

Daikin North Queensland Elite Rodeo Hervey Range Rodeo Grounds northqueenslandeliterodeo.com.au 10.30am / $40 Adult / Family

Les Misérables Runs until 1 September Townsville Civic Theatre tcs.org.au 7.30pm / $55 Adult / Family

SUNDAY 19 AUGUST

FRIDAY 24 AUGUST

All Abilities Disco!

Kith and Kin whatson.townsville.qld.gov.au 6.00pm / $15 / 16+

Winter Food and Wine Festival A Touch of Salt townsvilletickets.com.au 12.00pm / $15 / Adults

Herman’s Hermits Riverway Arts Centre ticketshop.com.au 6.00pm / $60 / Adults

Townsville NAIDOC Week Dinner Townsville RSL Club townsvillenaidoc.com.au 6.30pm / $55 / Family

The Winter Puppy Dogs Picnic Day Out Bushland Beach Tavern Ruff n Rinse 8.00am / Free / Family

Bohlevale Community Fete Bohlevale State School bohlevaless.eq.edu.au 5.00pm / Free / Family

Heatley Secondary College Golden Anniversary Runs until 25 August Heatley Secondary College heatleysc.eq.edu.au 5.30pm / Free / Family

A COPY OF 'LOVABLE LOTTIE AND THE LOST TOY'

BY ASIA UPWARD

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A COPY OF 'NEXT DOOR'S DOG HAS A JOB'

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For your chance to WIN, complete and mail to: PakMag Colour In August 2018 PO Box 7433, Cairns QLD 4870 Win a copy of Next Door's Dog Has A Job - RRP $16.99 newhollandpublishers.com - The story follows a boy named Tom as he learns more about the difference between his dog Pepper and his neighbour Kate's special service dog, Bailey. This book provides age appropriate information for children, including: how disabilities can be diverse and invisible, how assistance dogs come in many shapes and sizes, how they help people in a variety of ways, and that there is an appropriate code of behavior around a working assistance dog. Competition closes 31/08/2018.

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A 'BRAIN TEASERS' ACTIVITY BOOK

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For your chance to WIN, complete and mail to: PakMag Colour In August 2018 PO Box 7433, Cairns QLD 4870 Win a Brain Teasers Activity Book - RRP $14.99 lonelyplanet.com/kids - Packed with number and logic puzzles, riddles, dingbats, codes and much more, Brain Teasers is a fun and challenging travel-themed activity book perfect for road trips, vacations and rainy days, and provides a great test for both kids and adults. Competition closes 31/08/2018

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WHAT’S ON AUG AUG FRIDAY 24 AUGUST

SATURDAY 25 AUGUST

FRIDAY 31 AUGUST

SAVE THE DATE

NQ Cowboys Vs Parramatta Eels 1300SMILES Stadium cowboys.com.au 7.55pm / From $13 / Family

Pokemon Club Thuringowa Library townsville.qld.gov.au 9.30am / Free / 8+

Townsville Expo Runs until 2 September Reid Park townsvilleexpo.com.au 8.30am / $12 Adults / Family

TUESDAY 13 NOVEMBER

Diesel - 30 Year Thang Solo Tour Dalrymple Hotel tickets.oztix.com.au 8.00pm / $39.80 / Adults

REGULAR MARKETS Balgal Beach Markets Date: 1st Saturday of the month Time: 8.00am - 1.00pm Location: Fishermans Landing Balgal Beach Bluewater Twilight Markets Date: 2nd Saturday of the month Time: 4.00pm - 8.00pm Location: Bluewater Community Centre Label Traders Market Date: 3rd Sunday of the month Time: 8.00am - 12.00pm Location: Mundingburra State School Riverway Moonlight Markets Date: 3rd Friday of the Month Time: 5.00pm - 9.00pm Location: Riverway

NQ Amateurs Raceday Townsville Turf Club townsvilleturfclub.com.au 12.00pm / Check Website / Adults

The Preatures “Magick Tour” JCU Uni Club thepreatures.com 8.00pm / $33.77 / Adults

The Buffalo Live on Stage Runs until 14 November Riverway Arts Centre ticketshop.com.au Check Website

Seabreeze Markets Date: 1st and 3rd Sunday of the month Time: 8.00am - 1.00pm Location: Bushland Beach Park

Horseshoe Bay Markets Date: Every 2nd and last Sunday of the month Time: 9.00am - 2.00pm Location: Horseshoe Bay Foreshore

Magnetic Island RSL Market Date: Every Friday (Excluding Good Friday) Time: 5.30pm - 8.00pm Location: Magnetic Island RSL

Carlyle Gardens Arts & Crafts Markets Date: 1st Saturday of the month (Mar - Dec) Time: 9.00am Location: Carlyle Gardens Retirement Resot, Beck Drive, Condon

Lucinda Markets Date: 2nd Sunday of the month (May to September) Time: 8.00am – 12.00pm Location: Borello Park

Strand Night Markets Date: 1st Friday of the month (Runs from May to Dec) Time: 5.00pm - 9.30pm Location: Strand Park

Castle Hill PCYC Markets Date: Every Sunday Time: 7.00am to 11.00am Location: Castle Hill PCYC

Willows Rotary Markets Date: Every Sunday Time: 7.30 - 11.30am Location: Willows Shop Centre Carpark

North Shore Markets Date: Every Saturday Time: 7.00am - 1.00pm Location: North Shore Town Centre Cotters Markets Date: Every Sunday Time: 8.30am - 1.00pm Location: Flinders St & Townsville Bulletin Square

Mountainview Plaza Market Date: Every Saturday (Excluding Jan) Time: 8.00am - 2.00pm.

Location: Mountainview Plaza Renegade Handmade Market Date: 2nd Sunday of the month Time: 8.00am - 1.00pm Location: Marian School

Upper Ross Community Markets Date: 2nd and 4th Saturday of the month Time: From 3.00pm Location: Apex Park, Riverway Drive, Rasmussen

Email your event or market to admin@grandpublishing.com.au to be included. Spaces are limited.

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Regular Events

REGULAR EVENTS TOWNSVILLE GALLERIES Art-Box - Free Art Activities for Kids Under 5 Days: First and third Tuesdays of the month Time: 10.00am Location: Pinnacles Gallery More Info: 4773 8871 Free Family Fun Day - Art Activities for the Family Days: Third Sunday of the month Time: 10.00am Location: Perc Tucker Regional Gallery More Info: 4727 9011 BELGIAN GARDENS STATE SCHOOL PLAYGROUP Days: Mondays Time: 9.00am - 11.00am Location: Belgian Gardens SS Hall More Info: 4717 1333 or rickandjules4@bigpond.com Cost: $2 per person

More Info: www.townsville.qld.gov.au Cost: Free Newborn and Family Drop-In Service Days: Tuesdays (9.00am to 2.00pm), Saturdays (9.00am to 12.00pm) Location: City Libraries Aitkenvale More Info: www.townsville.qld.gov.au Cost: Free Messy Play (Bookings Required) Days: Wednesdays Time: 9.15am & 10.30am Location: City Libraries Aitkenvale RIVERWAY PARKRUN

Parent Information Sessions

Days: Saturdays Time: From 6.45am Location: Meet at the front of Tony Ireland Stadium on the grassed area near the ticket box.

Days: First Tuesday of the month Time: 9.30am, Location: City Libraries Aitkenvale

Riverway parkrun is a 5km course along Ross River which you can complete by running or walking (or both) and is for all ages. Children, prams and dogs

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are all welcome to join in the fun. Please note: Scooters and bikes are not allowed for safety and insurance reasons.

This course is wheelchair friendly.

Registration is free and available at www.parkrun.com.au/riverway MAINLY MUSIC For babies to pre prep aged children. Fun, music, morning tea and free play Days: Thursdays (during school term) Time: From 9.30am Location: St Peter’s Anglican Church, West End Cost: $3 per child More Info: 0414 807 179 MOPS - Mothers of PreSchoolers For mothers with children 0-6 years. Connect, relax and recharge.

Days: Fridays – fortnightly during School terms Time: 9.30am - 11.30am Location: Mount Louisa House of Praise (425 Bayswater Rd) Cost: $9 per session More Info: 0421 658 535 (Juliana)

GET ACTIVE + HEALTHY TOWNSVILLE Free Fitness + Activities Days: Everyday Location: Various Locations More Info: www.townsville.qld.gov.au TOY LIBRARY TOWNSVILLE (THE TOY SHED) Days: Second Thursday of month (excluding January) Time: 3.30pm - 5.30pm Days: Second Saturday (excluding January) Time: 9.00am – 12.00pm Location: Fitzroy Street, Heatley Librarian: 0420 585 069 or childsplaytownsville@gmail.com Secretary: 0400 815 279 or facebook Toy Library TOWNSVILLE TOY LIBRARY Days: Every Tuesday and Saturday Time: 9.30am - 11.00am Location: 23 First Street, Railway Estate Community Centre More Info: Check their Facebook page Townsville Toy Library for updates

Challenges with Children

Is your child experiencing learning problems?

STORY Sandra Barclay, Education Officer - Disability, Cairns Catholic Education

“Education is not preparation for life; education is life itself.” - John Dewey.

Do you think your child has a learning difficulty or a learning disability? Have you noticed milestones not being met at the same rate as their peers or perhaps your child’s teacher or other family members have voiced concern?

The terms ‘learning difficulty’ and ‘learning disability’ are used to describe unexpected and persistent learning problems. The overarching term ‘learning difficulties’ includes all children struggling to develop skills in literacy and/or numeracy and children with a learning disability. To clarify the difference between the two terms, children with learning difficulties underachieve for a variety of reasons while children with a learning disability generally have an impairment in one or more cognitive processes.

There are many reasons children may have a learning difficulty including behavioural, psychological or emotional issues, having English as a second language or dialect, high absenteeism, gaps in learning or inadequate instruction. Prior to seeking professional help for a child’s learning difficulties, take time to reflect if any of these factors may be impacting on your child’s learning. Your insight will help professionals support your child’s learning. While we know what causes most learning difficulties, we do not fully understand the exact cause of learning disabilities.

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Challenges with Children

The defining features of a learning disability are that it continues to exist, despite appropriate instruction and intervention and often the child may have a family member with learning difficulties. Children with a learning disability do not respond to evidence-based targeted intervention in an expected way. A learning disability has nothing to do with a child’s intelligence, is inherent to the child and is lifelong. We do not fully understand what causes learning disabilities and many famous people including Richard Branson, Jamie Oliver, Daniel Radcliffe and Keira Knightley have a learning disability. The rights of children with learning disabilities are protected by the Disability Discrimination Act (1992) and the Australian Disability Standards for Education (2005). Should you think your child has a learning disability contact your child’s school or GP for further information.

If your child has a learning disability, remember they are a unique and wonderful individual who has much to offer the world. Maintain high expectations and optimism to build your child’s resilience and confidence. Be careful with the language you use and say, “It takes my child a little longer to learn than other children” rather than saying “My child has a learning disability.” Focusing on your child’s strengths and gifts means your child is more likely to experience success and build a positive image of themselves as both a learner and a member of the school community.

Children with learning disabilities have the potential to succeed just like their friends.

Parents of children with learning disabilities need to be advocates for their children and develop a skill set to negotiate a world of specialists. Along the way, remember you are your child’s first teacher. Appreciate your natural authority as you are in the best position to see the child in their entirety and must live with the long-term consequences. Believe in yourself as an advocate and strive to work collaboratively with professionals and remember your views matter as much as a specialist opinion.

Consultation and collaboration with your child’s school are vital to achieving positive outcomes. When meeting with professionals remember to: •• Keep the meeting focused on your child and their needs.

•• Be sure of the purpose of the meeting and who will be at the meeting.

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•• Speak positively and commend the school on strengths and successes, highlight what is working well.

•• Have a plan as to what outcomes you would like from the meeting.

•• Take notes and keep a record of the outcomes you have agreed to.

•• If you don’t understand technical terms or professional jargon, ask for clarification.

•• Don’t be afraid to bring a support person to the meeting.

A healthy relationship between parents and teachers is essential for successful inclusion of children with learning disabilities, and good communication maintains a working relationship with your child’s school. It is important to share information about your child with his or her teachers to enable them to develop personalised learning plans. It is important to negotiate times and ways to communicate that work for both parties and to understand that your child is one of many children requiring support.

Children with learning disabilities require appropriate evidence-based intervention to ensure they can achieve at levels close to their academic potential. Parents can gain a greater understanding of what is happening at school by being involved in their child’s education by providing practical help and getting involved in the school community. It is often through involvement in school events and being involved in parent groups that lifelong friendships for children and families are made.

If you have an issue with your child’s school, raise it without blame or criticism. Remember to pick your battles and where possible support the teacher and the school.

Most importantly remember to nurture yourself as it is easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of daily life and forget to look after yourself. Make some time to take part in activities that fill you with joy, use support networks, and maintain a healthy lifestyle to ensure you have the energy to support yourself and your child.

Looking after your emotional strength is important and a little like the airline safety announcement, “Remember to ensure your mask is attached before attaching the child’s.” With academic and emotional support your child can achieve to their potential, build resilience and develop strategies for successful independence beyond the schoolyard.

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As a parent, it’s your responsibility to do the right thing for your children and teach them the life lessons they need to become strong, resilient and capable adults and that journey starts early. The sooner you start teaching your kids about mental strength and overcoming life’s obstacles, the more equipped they will be for the realities and trials of adulthood.

We at Centacare NQ know that it can be overwhelming being a parent at times which is why we offer a range of highly effective courses for parents to equip them to parent effectively and nurture strong, healthy, resilient children. As many parents have the same doubts and questions about parenting, we offer the opportunity to discuss these in small groups that help parents and carers to open up about their concerns and confidently adapt their parenting style.

Our Education and Life Skills Courses aren’t limited to parenting skills though; we also offer groups for children and young people around issues such as managing emotions and building safe and healthy relationships.

If any of these situations sound familiar, Centacare NQ may be able to help you: •• Your child may be struggling to develop peer friendships at school and may not feel confident communicating their feelings.

•• The way you show emotions, such as anger and frustration, are causing conflict with your partner or

it makes your children scared of you, and you want this to be different.

•• Yourself and your partner are planning to get married soon and want to participate in a pre-marriage education course.

•• You sometimes feel challenged by how to manage your child’s behaviour and are looking for a consistent approach that has worked for others.

•• As a parent, you want to better understand child development and how to understand your child’s behaviour.

Centacare NQ understands that no two people are the same and we have service solutions for a diverse range of issues from family mediation and parenting agreements, individual, couple and family counselling to professional development. We are here to help and support individuals and families in our community.

For a list of available courses and to register your interest today, visit centacarenq.org.au or call 1300 NQCARE.

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Adult Education

Studying After Baby It’s not uncommon knowledge that having children turns your life upside down. Your days are now likely to be filled with changing nappies, doing school runs, and making meals for the tiny humans in your life. Between all this, the thought of advancing your career or studying something new may appeal to you – quickly to be followed by a thought of “I don’t have time for that, I’m just too busy.”

Luckily, there are options out there for you, no matter what your situation. Many education providers have become more and more sympathetic to the demands of modern parenting which is why it’s never been easier to get into study. To ensure everyone gets a chance to follow their dreams, course providers such as CQUniversity offer part-time and online studying options, giving you the flexibility to study in your own time or from the comfort of your own home.

At this point you may wonder, “Will studying online be more difficult because I can’t be present on campus?”

Rest assured, completing your course online is just as effective as attending classes in person. Additionally, students are generally provided with a variety of helpful benefits to assist in their studies, including access to online libraries, online chat forums, recorded lectures and study groups. If at any point you feel the desire to attend the campus, that option is sometimes available too.

and school teaching. Courses include Early Childhood Learning as well as education in Primary, Secondary, and Tertiary settings.

Health If you love helping people or have an interest in the medical world, a career in health is one to look into.

From Nursing and Midwifery to Disability Services and Paramedic Science, you’ll find a course that grabs your attention.

Business Whether you’re looking for a career in business or you’re looking to refresh your skills, there’s plenty of courses available, including Logistics, Accounting, Human Resources, Administration, and Management.

With flexible courses and a huge field of career options ahead of you, it’s quite clear why studying business is a popular option for parents.

Whether you’re looking to refresh your skills before returning to the office or you want to dive head-first into something completely new, the possibilities are endless. Always wanted to be a teacher, nurse, or start your own business? There’s no better time than now to equip yourself with the skills you need to follow your dreams.

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But What To Study?

While the initial return to an educational setting may be a shock to your system and it may take you some time to figure out a study-life balance, as long as you’re on your own personal road to success, you’re reassured that you’ve made the right choice.

Education One of the most popular after-baby career options for parents is education, both in the form of childcare

Technology is on the rise, and it’s showing no signs of stopping! Introduce yourself to this world by learning skills in Digital Media, Project Management and Professional Communication, which can lead you into software development, marketing, graphic design, and much more.

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Cowboys Leagues Club Star Graze Restaurant STORY Sarah Sullivan My son recently celebrated his 15th birthday and when we were looking for the perfect venue for his birthday dinner, the new Star Graze Restaurant at Cowboys Leagues Club wasn’t somewhere I’d considered, until a friend recommended we give it a go. And, I am certainly glad she did!

We were blown away with this new option for family dining. We didn’t really know what to expect but suffice to say, the kids rated it 5 stars. From the moment we arrived, we were welcomed by some of the most attentive and welcoming staff we have experienced in restaurants in years.

When you go out for dinner with children, it can sometimes be a challenge to find a place that welcomes families yet provides the sort of menu and atmosphere that caters for a finer dining experience. From the lofty ceilings, beautiful fittings, supervised play area for children and an extensive menu that catered for everyone’s tastes, Star Graze at the Cowboys Leagues Club ticked all the boxes.

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They offer everything from wraps, burgers, pizzas and noodles, to delicious share plates, braised duck and swordfish. What’s more, if you can’t find what you want on Star Graze’s menu, you’re able to order from the club’s other restaurant, Match Restaurant and Grill.

There was literally something for everyone which is perfect for families and larger parties where it is sometimes hard to meet everyone’s needs. Everything on the menu sounded so good, we just couldn’t choose - so we picked a bunch of different styles and flavours of food, which went down well with everyone. And we were pleasantly surprised that what we didn’t get through, we were welcomed to take home and enjoy later. It just meant there was no way anyone was not going to leave room for dessert.

With the fantastic range of food also came a surprisingly comfortable, relaxed and pleasant atmosphere that all parents (and anyone else for that matter) would appreciate. Beautifully lit, spacious, comfortable chairs, a range of craft beers and a decent wine menu were all

complemented by the fact that using your fingers to eat was perfectly acceptable. The nature of the food actually meant that using your fingers seemed somehow part of the experience. But don’t worry if you are a clean freak like my daughter, because the staff were quick to pick up on that and offer finger bowls which made her very happy!

My children are aged 9 to 15, but the younger two were still keen to be greeted with the activity packs at the table. We have seen a few over the years but these packs featured more than your average colouring in, with brain teasers and a starter pack of cards that the kids can collect over time to play at home.

Whilst I prefer us all to stay at the table when we go out to eat together, the brand-new kids room Little Legends play area allowed me to relax.

This huge play area features an indoor zone with iPads, TVs and games, and an outdoor area with a full “jungle-gym” style playground with climbing sections & slide, which are not only supervised, but soundproof. Yes! Knowing your children can go and run around to burn off the energy they all seem to have endless amounts of, but without disturbing anyone is a very clever move on behalf of the club. Little Legends hosts supervised sessions from 5.30pm – 9.30pm Tuesday to Saturday and from 11.30am – 3.30pm on Saturday and Sunday.

Organising a kid’s birthday party? Ask about their Little Legends Function Packages and they will take care of everything.

I was also surprised to find out that they offer some amazing packages if you want to head back without the kids. On Friday afternoons they have a $4.00 food and beverage menu, and they even offer a date night experience for $60.00 which includes two glasses of wine, a share platter for two and two movie tickets!

We have no doubt we will be back as a family and I have now added Star Graze at the Cowboys Leagues Club on my go to my list of venues for a nice night out without the kids.

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Recipes

SENSORY RECIPES Although edible, these recipes are made for play, not for your plate.

Edible Gluten-Free No Bake Play Dough

Edible Finger Paints

By Fun at Home with Kids funathomewithkids.com

By Learning for Kids learning4kids.net

Ingredients 1 cup baby rice cereal 1 cup gluten-free cornflour 3 tablespoons vegetable oil Unsweetened applesauce Food colouring (optional)

Ingredients 4 tablespoons of corn flour Cold water 1 cup of boiling water Liquid food colouring

Method

In a saucepan, mix cornflour with cold water to make a paste.

Combine 1 cup of baby rice cereal and 1 cup of cornflour.

Add ½ cup unsweetened applesauce, 3 tablespoons of vegetable oil and any food colouring (if desired).

Knead until mixture is smooth and pliable. If it’s too sticky, add more baby rice cereal and knead again. If too dry, wet hands and run your hands through the dough.

Store in a sealed container or bag in the refrigerator.

Method

Pour 1 cup boiling water and stir out the lumps.

Heat mixture over medium heat until you notice clear streaks forming in the mixture. Turn off heat and continue stirring until mixture has a custard-like consistency.

Spoon equal amounts into empty jars and add 3 drops of food colouring to each mixture.

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DARING DéCor Daring DéCOR With the Block’s Caro and Kingi Sometimes in life, we have to think outside the box and make a daring statement. After all, your own home should be a place where you can express yourself fully, and you should feel encouraged to take a dive with your decorative choices. Make a bold statement by incorporating dark colours and neon lights into your décor. This will introduce a "city lights" vibe to your home, transforming your living space into a modern and unique environment.

Neon for Days A neon sign can make a fantastic focus piece to your living room. Whether you opt for a motivational phrase or a stylish image, neon lighting can add a magical vibe and a beautiful glow to your home.

Paired with black curtains, you can create the dramatic effect of the light’s glow even when the sun is high in the sky. Wondering if you can create a DIY neon light? Getting crafty with a colourful rope light can look just as amazing – and you can make it look however you’d like.

Bold Statements Dark furniture paired with bright colours throughout the room makes for a dramatic but trendy effect

that never goes out of style. Opting for black furniture, plant pots, and picture frames is a classic choice, yet versatile when it comes to styling. Pair these with several brightly coloured decorations and you’ll achieve a look that’s both modern and youthful, yet creative and unique all at once.

Daring Decorations Add some shine to your humble abode through the addition of steel cups and fluorescent reusable straws; these elements will shine beautifully in the reflection of the vibrant neon lighting and therefore distribute the colours throughout the room. Adding a few plants of varying sizes adds a gentle touch to the room, and that splash of green here and there will really pull the look together and “liven” everything up.

While some of these ideas may seem a bit out of the ordinary, when executed in the right way, they can turn your regular living room into a bright, Vegasinspired space. Be inspired to take a risk with your style, and you’ll be surprised at the stunning results that can come from it.

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DADDY DIARY When we were kids mum used to tell my brother and I, “All the best children’s toys don’t need batteries.”

I have no idea where she plucked this proverb from, but it was one she lived her life by. I don’t know if this rule came to fruition because it was the 90’s and batteries were expensive or if it’s an actual thing that people say. Either way, it was a rule in the Clifton house for many, many years. But sadly, it’s a rule my mother hasn’t followed through into her grandparenthood.

You see recently my mother gifted my daughter one of her recycled dollies. My mum, scavenger hunts through op shops, garage sales and probably even tip shops to find disused toy dolls that were once treasured possessions; it’s all very Toy Story, “My owner doesn’t love me anymore.” Being the clean freak, she is, mum disinfects these dolls to within an inch of their life, then hand-knits them cardigans, jumpers and even little booties. She then sells them at the markets finding them all new homes, it’s actually pretty sweet. But the doll, Lola, that mum gifted my daughter, I can’t stand.

Plus Lola clearly breaches Lesley Clifton’s no toys with batteries policy.

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You see, Lola’s a crier. I don’t mean she sobs quietly, like me watching new ep’s of Queer Eye on Netflix, I mean she’s a loud, moaning crier. She always wants something; her dummy, her bottle, a hug. It’s neverending! The worst incident happened when Matilda had a bad dream at 2.30am and ended up in our bed; a practice we don’t encourage but as we all know does happen. So, there we were in bed, the three of us or so I thought. Just after nodding back off, I heard it, “MUUUMMMYYY.” The piercing cry of Lola right in my eardrum; it was a very Chucky from Child’s Play moment. “No dolls in bed”, I told my daughter. “It’s a new rule”, I announced to the family. Matilda reluctantly agreed, and Lola was sent promptly back to the lounge room toy box.

In the morning I was happy with our new toy rule. It didn’t take my wife long though, to point out that the last bizarre toy rule she had heard me ranting about was my mum’s no toys with batteries rule. And now, here I was, proclaiming toy rules like the emperor of North Queensland; the irony. I guess the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

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