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FROM THE EDITOR

Publisher/Creative Director Jason Tanner Editor Steven Wilson

LOVE IN MANY DIFFERENT FORMS This issue marks the third installment of the Owensboro Living wedding guide. And looking back through the first two editions, one theme seemed to run through many of the stories – love. In fact, over the last three years, nearly every individual we have featured in these pages has personified love in their own way.

Because while the idea of “love” is certainly a popular topic when we’re talking about weddings and Valentine’s Day, love can take many different, sometimes not-so-obvious, forms.

Love is patient - The cover of our very first issue featured Randy Lanham, musician and music instructor, who, along with all the other teachers we have written about, demonstrates patience as he works to better the lives of our youth.

Love is kind – We have featured countless local charitable organizations, from Girls Inc. to Impact 100, the Empty Bowls project, and many more, all of which make a difference in our community through the love they show to others.

Love never loses faith – Our February 2014 issue brought you the story of Dr. Amy Carrico, who remained steadfastly faithful through her mother’s, and then her own breast cancer diagnosis.

And then there were Matt and Jennifer Lucas, who stayed faithful in their prayer for a child – a prayer that was answered when Matt’s sister, Jill Payne, carried their child as a surrogate.

Love keeps no record of wrongs – Organizations like Friends of Sinners, featured in our June 2014 issue, provide a second chance to those whose lives were once derailed by addiction.

Their motto: “Every saint has a past, every sinner has a future,” is the perfect expression of love’s short memory.

Love always perseveres – Dustin Gardner, owner of Riverwalk Razor, overcame many bumps in the road, including grueling tours of duty. Our feature on Dustin in June 2014 highlighted how the love he had for his family led him through the hard times and to a place where he started his own business.

These examples represent just a small sampling of the stories where love is a common thread. And for those that don’t fit neatly into one of those categories, the overarching theme of a love for Owensboro can be found in nearly every page of our magazine.

From the volunteers who invest their time, to the business people who invest their money, the stories of the people of Owensboro continually reflect a genuine love for our city.

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"THE STORIES OF THE PEOPLE OF OWENSBORO CONTINUALLY REFLECT A GENUINE LOVE FOR OUR CITY."

Contributors Nicholas Hardesty Danny May James Morgan Jaime Rafferty Ashley Sorce Taryn Norris Melody Wallace Steven Wilson Lora Wimsatt Jamie Alexander Cover Photo Photo by JAA Studios Courtney & Sal Blake at Corner House Bed & Breakfast Online www.owensboroliving.com facebook.com/owensboroliving twitter.com/owensboroliving issuu.com/owensboroliving Offline Owensboro Living Magazine PO Box 9503 Owensboro, KY 42302 888-304-5416 Subscribe Delivery of Owensboro Living is available by visiting owensboroliving.com/subscribe Advertise Owensboro Living is a FREE magazine because of community support. Thank you to the great group of businesses & organizations who advertise.

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THE REAL PEOPLE, PLACES AND EVENTS THAT SHAPE OUR COMMUNITY

FEATURES [16] RESURRECTED FROM THE ASHES [22] A HEART FOR SERVICE

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[27] PAYING IT FORWARD [30] EMPTY BOWLS [34] A HAND UP

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APOLLO HIGH SCHOOL DANCEBLUE DanceBlue is a 24-hour, no sleeping, no sitting fundraiser to benefit the University of Kentucky’s Children’s Hospital to help fight childhood cancer. Since 2014, Apollo’s Beta Club has hosted a mini-DanceBlue fundraiser, and this year, Apollo raised $50,167.57 to help the cause. DanceBlue is not just an Apollo event, it has become a community effort. Students from five elementary schools, two middle schools, and three high schools are participating in Apollo’s efforts. In

LANDON BOARD IN THE RECORD BOOKS OHS’s Landon Board finished his senior season as the second leading rusher in Red Devils history, behind only Mark Higgs.

During the season, Board was also named Home Team Friday MVP for his week 13 performance against Greenwood. His year was topped off by being named third-team all-state.

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addition to themed games and activities, the event also included an “inspiration tent” where students filled out cards and made goody bags to send to children at Owensboro Health Hospital and patients at the Mitchell Memorial Cancer Center in Owensboro. Since DanceBlue started on UK’s campus over 10 years ago, the annual event, along with mini-events like the one at Apollo, has raised and donated over 8 million dollars to fight pediatric cancer.

MAGLINGER NAMED BEVIN’S PRESS SECRETARY

Owensboro native Woody Maglinger, III was recently appointed to the position of Press Secretary for Governor Matt Bevin.

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HAGER PRESCHOOL NAMED A FIVESTAR CAMPUS PHOTO BY JAMIE ALEXANDER

MOONLITE NAMED ONE OF WORLD’S HAPPIEST PLACES

In an article published by cnn.com on January 16, Owensboro’s

Moonlite Bar-B-Q Inn was named one of the world’s 15 happiest places. According to CNN, “What started as a small roadside restaurant has grown into a landmark, famed for its hickory-smoked mutton.”

Other entries on the list include a spa in Bangkok, a national botanical garden in South Africa, and Chicago’s Wrigley Field.

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Hager Preschool received a Five-Star rating from the Kentucky Department of Education. The distinction is the highest rating an early childhood program can earn, and there are less than 10 programs in Kentucky that have achieved this status.

The rating system is based on Kentucky’s Early Childhood Standards and researchbased indicators of quality.

It recognizes programs like Hager that have made a commitment to continuous quality improvement.

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2017 MAVERICKS SEASON KICKS OFF

The Mavericks opened their second season in Owensboro with a 10091 victory over the Ohio Bootleggers at the Owensboro Sportscenter.

The Mavs continue their “Drive for #5” Premier Basketball League

PHOTOS BY JORAN PHILLIPS

championships Jan-April. Visit Mavup.com for game schedule.

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THE

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SHOW YOUR HEART SOME

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BY DR. LIOR SHAMAI ONE HEALTH MEDICAL GROUP

D

uring National Heart Month every February, we reach out to people with information about

what they can do to manage their existing heart issues. Medical science and technology offer many options to help improve and maintain the quality of life for people living with heart issues.

I also want to reach out to people before they develop heart problems and let them know a simple truth: There is so much you can do to take care of the heart that’s taking care of you.

If you don’t use tobacco, that’s great. If you do

use tobacco, there are resources to help you quit.

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The entire healthcare community is in agreement: Tobacco use is

• 1 beer (12 oz.)

harmful to your health.

• 1 glass of wine (4 oz.)

From my perspective as a cardiologist, it doesn’t matter whether

It’s very important not to overindulge. Too much alcohol is

you smoke cigarettes, cigars, a pipe or use tobacco in chewable or snuff

harmful, especially to your heart. This advice is also not for everyone,

form, or if you use e-cigarettes or “vape.” These all do damage to your

especially those with certain health issues. If you want to know

body, and especially to your heart.

more about this topic, talk to your primary care provider or your

cardiologist.

If you are interested in quitting smoking, it’s not something you

have to take on alone. If you call 1-800-QUIT-NOW, the Kentucky Tobacco Quit Line, you can get assistance with quitting smoking.

Challenge your heart.

Options to help those interested in quitting include coaches, nicotine

replacement products like patches or gum, and even medications that

your heart. This does not mean you have to go and run a marathon or

Exercise is an important part of overall health, but especially for

can help you as you work to quit.

hit the gym for hours at a time. It also does not count the time that you spend with your children or on your feet at work.

When it comes to alcohol, moderation is key.

For exercise to matter, the two keys are level of effort and duration.

Multiple scientific studies have found that light to moderate

A good indicator that you are working hard enough is to walk fast

alcohol consumption (one to two drinks a day for men and one drink

enough that you cannot carry on a normal conversation. All it takes

a day for women) was connected to a decreased risk of death from

is 30 minutes of brisk walking, five times per week. Who among us

cardiac problems.

cannot spare half an hour a day?

According to the American Heart Association, this includes beer

and wine, with a drink defined as:

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There are also many other options available to you. The Owensboro

Health Healthpark has exercise equipment for all types of abilities and

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skills. They also have enjoyable group classes, an indoor walking

inflammatory drugs (NSAIDS, for short, a class of drugs that

track (for when the weather outside is not cooperative) and an

includes ibuprofen) have been found to increase the risk for

indoor pool for those who may have painful joints that prevent walking. The Healthpark also offers scholarships for those who qualify. You can learn more about the facility and how it can help

heart attack. A healthcare provider can review your medical history and advise you on what to take and what not to take.

you by visiting www.owensborohealth.org/healthpark or calling Get checked.

270-688-5433.

Over-the-counter items don’t work miracles.

For years, many supplements and vitamins have been

championed as being “heart-healthy.” However, there is very little data that supplements help reduce cardiovascular risk. Some products can be used in conjunction with various

If you don’t have a primary care provider, get one. Annual

checkups or physical exams are one of the most important ways to detect health problems early. Simple tests like blood pressure, cholesterol and blood sugar checks can catch a problem long before you develop symptoms. A primary care provider can also

medications, but you should consult with a healthcare provider

be a key resource to help you navigate your overall health.

first.

It’s never too early to do something positive for your health.

Your heart will thank you for it.

As far as vitamins go, a balanced diet can meet most of your

needs. If you need additional vitamins to support your body, your healthcare provider can advise you on what to do. Certain supplements, like calcium, can actually do more harm than good if used improperly.

It’s also important to remember that “over-the-counter”

Dr. Lior Shamai is board-certified in interventional cardiology, cardiovascular disease and internal medicine, practicing in Owensboro Health’s One Health medical group. For more information or to schedule

does not always mean “good for you.” In 2015, the Food and

an appointment with a One Health Provider, call 844-44-MY-ONE

Drug Administration issued a warning that non-steroidal anti-

(844-446-9663).

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ARTICLE BY JAIME RAFFERTY PHOTOS BY ADAM PARIS

We all face adversity. And when we do, many of us find shelter and comfort in the walls of our churches. But what happens when those walls are no longer there?

This is the story of how one local church has overcome adversity to continue to serve our community.

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irst Christian Church (FCC) has been

local church, in disbelief as they realized it was FCC.

part of downtown Owensboro for over 150

Shock and waves of memories, baby dedications,

years. They believe in “stepping into a

baptisms, weddings, funerals, Easter and Christmas

promising future hand-in-hand with our neighbors

services, and other special memories flooded their

and our community.” Proof of their mission

minds.

statement was the successful birth of the church

in spite of murmurings of an American Civil War.

the day, as members came to see for themselves

They grew as a congregation, just as Owensboro’s

the tragedy that had occurred. Gaddis says, “That

population increased.

evening the congregation came together for a prayer

service at Century Christian. The grief was palpable,

In March 2013, their mission would be placed

A fine mist and rain alternated throughout

into action once again.

but so was the hope- members were murmuring,

Cate Gaddis recalls Sunday, March 17, 2013 as

then speaking more loudly and collectively, that

a day when regular church service was held at FCC

a Church is more than a building. We loved the

of Owensboro, as it had been since its inception.

building but it did not and does not define us. We

Members didn’t even contemplate it would be their

will survive.”

last in the building they so lovingly knew as their

church home on the corner of 7th and Daviess.

following the fire was kindly hosted by the

During the early morning hours of March 18,

members of Century, as well. The following Sunday

2013, a lightning strike to the Church caused a fire

was Easter and the congregation grappled with

so catastrophic, the building could not be saved.

where they would gather. A sunrise service was

Congregants awoke to the news of a fire striking a

held around the former Church footprint; followed

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FIRST CHRISTIAN CHURCH OF OWENSBORO AFTER THE MARCH 2013 FIRE.

many ways Easter Sunday following this tragic event so closely was symbolic to members that they, too, would rise from this tragedy.”

Stuart Gant says that Church members

spent nearly six months determining future plans, ultimately deciding to rebuild. Then came the question of what to rebuild. During this initial phase and throughout, members of the congregation were heavily involved in providing input. This was a congregation project from the ground up. In addition, the clergy, administrative, and other staff were an integral part of the thoughtful suggestions.

by Journey Fellowship hosting a lovely and joyful service,

Feedback was taken to create the design, and matched to

complete with bagpipes. Members were welcomed with

the scope of the project.

open arms and so much warmth by Journey Fellowship.

The hospitality was idyllic. It seemed unreal, much like

turning it into a specific planned project. Shortly thereafter,

waking to the news of the fire, but in a contradictory

plans were presented to the congregation. Construction

fashion. Their generous spirit helped FCC members realize

began Monday, July 6, 2015.

they would still be and while the “where” was unknown,

Carroll Hayden says the initial groundbreaking

the “what” that they stood for would never change. In

occurred on March 18, 2015. The first service was held in

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Next was development, taking scope and design and

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NEW LOBBY OF THE REBUILT FIRST CHRISTIAN CHURCH EXTERIOR VIEW OF THE STAINED GLASS WINDOWS AT THE REBUILT FIRST CHRISTIAN CHURCH

ANNUAL COMMUNITY GIFT Applications for the grants and gifts may be picked up at First Christian Church, 700 JR Miller Blvd., or if you wish to donate to the fund, please contact the church at (270) 684-8879.

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the social hall on November 13, 2016, the same day that

the first service was held in the sanctuary. Then November

their faith journey and how they wish to continue to

14, 2016, a neighborhood open house for residents in the

spread God’s love on a larger scale through a mission

neighborhood was held, and on November 17, 2016, a

they call The Legacy Fund. This grateful expression from

community open house was held for fireman, policeman

the friends and members of First Christian Church has

and community leaders. On November 20, 2016, FCC was

been established alongside, and in addition to, normal

humbled to have nine youths follow through in baptism.

outreach efforts in the community. FCC combined years

The giving back to Owensboro continues at FCC.

of mission giving, along with setting aside proceeds from

They made the commitment to stay in the neighborhood

their insurance settlement, to be able to make annual

where they have resided for their 150-year history, and

gifts to the community and world through an endowment

during this time of rebuilding, they felt the generous love

fund. The proceeds of this endowment should distribute

from their Creator and their community.

an extra $50,000 per year to outreach efforts with potential

Although they are elated at the opening of the new

to grow in the years ahead. FCC is open to needs, both

church building, First Christian Church echoes the

of individuals and organizations that “help cultivate the

sentiments they felt at the prayer service the night of

human spirit.”

the fire - that they have always been much more than

a building. They are about serving others, and have

symbol that God has the power to resurrect from the

continued that mission even without a permanent home.

ashes, and help people overcome sadness, disbelief and

Now they want to make that mission even larger, as they

disappointment, and rebuild a spirit of faith, hope and

have returned to their home at 700 JR Miller Blvd.

love through His followers.

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The church has announced a new appreciation of

First Christian Church of Owensboro has been a

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K

aren Cavin-Brown begins her mornings reading lots of e-mails.

Serving as the

volunteer coordinator for Hospice of Western

Kentucky, Karen finds around fifty new e-mails awaiting her each new workday.

She has the task of assigning

volunteers to various areas, depending on the current need of the patients of Hospice of Western Kentucky. “Hospice never closes. I get e-mails from all aspects of our staff, including our nurses, social workers, and our administrative

A HEART FOR SERVICE

the volunteers of Hospice BY JAMES MORGAN

staff,” acknowledged Karen. Every morning opens a new opportunity for a volunteer to fulfill a need in serving the patients under Hospice care.

Now in her fourth year as volunteer coordinator, Karen

currently oversees more than one hundred volunteers.

“Our volunteers

come in all ages, from early twenties to ninety years of age,” noted Karen.

The

main requirement to be a Hospice is

to

volunteer have

a

compassionate heart for serving others.

There is a one-

year waiting period for a volunteer who has had a family member pass away under Hospice care. “We feel that family members need time to heal after losing a loved one before they begin their role as a Hospice volunteer,” disclosed Karen. Even though the average age of a Hospice volunteer is around seventy, the list of younger volunteers includes college students entering pre-med studies and/or social work, to young musicians who enjoy entertaining patients. The vast age range of the

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volunteers gives Karen a wider window for matching her

“This is not the main reason our volunteers are important.

volunteers with patients.

Through their many acts of service, they bring joy and love.

This past year, Gay Rogers become the new CEO of

We are grateful to have these special individuals who give

Hospice of Western Kentucky, which serves patients in

of their heart and time to our program.”

Daviess, Hancock, Muhlenberg and Hopkins counties.

The completion of the Heartford House in 2013 provided

chairman of Hospice of Western Kentucky. “Today, the

the first freestanding inpatient Hospice facility in Western

scope of care provided by Hospice requires professionals

Kentucky.

whose training is beyond that of most volunteers. Still, at

The care and coverage of Hospice of Western Kentucky

its core, it is driven by volunteers. The board of directors

has also grown over the past several years. Hospice was

of Hospice of Western Kentucky is comprised exclusively

originally founded by volunteers who wanted a better way

of volunteers. The number of hours volunteers commit

to care for those in their final journey. “Before the Hospice

to our organization is extraordinary and something our

Medicare Benefit was enacted in 1983, most Hospice

community should be proud of,” Glenn said.

programs were volunteer programs of nurses, doctors,

Glenn Taylor has served as a board member and board

Although it’s not for everyone, volunteering for Hospice

social workers, and more. Because of this, the Center

offers many opportunities. Karen admitted, “Not everyone

for Medicare Services expects 5% of our

can do it.” Volunteers sit with patients at the Heartford

direct patient care dollars to be given by

House and in homes. Many volunteers log hours at the

volunteers,” explained Gay. She added,

main office helping with supply calls and patient data entry,

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HOSPICE VOLUNTEER, ROSE LEE, PREPARING FLORAL ARRANGEMENTS FOR THE PATIENTS

HOSPICE VOLUNTEERS BRING A SMILE TO THEIR PARTNERS DURING THEIR LAST DAYS

as well as other clerical duties. Several clubs and

the fresh bouquets brings to the patients,” beamed

organizations have volunteered time planting and

Rose. Anna Simpson also devotes at least one day

caring for the landscaping at the Heartford House.

a week to volunteering for Hospice, but confesses

One of the newest volunteer programs, implemented

sometimes it may be two to four days. After working

this past year, is comprised of musicians who have

in the medical field for many years, she knew she

performed at the Heartford House. Plans are also

wanted to give back to others by making a difference

underway to offer pet therapy and massage therapy

in their day. “When working with the patients and

to patients in the future.

their families, I have found that I am the one blessed.

If I can put a smile on their face just for a few seconds,

Rose Lee has been a Hospice volunteer since 2008.

Her volunteer hours with Hospice have included

that’s what counts,” she emphasized.

sitting with patients and helping with the laundry

At Hospice of Western Kentucky, they believe

at the Heartford House, but each Tuesday morning

that each day can be filled with precious moments.

she can be found at the main office of Hospice of

Hospice care is not about dying, but is about living

Western Kentucky. There, Rose puts together floral

life as fully as possible. No matter how small the deed,

arrangements which are given to the patients under

the volunteers of Hospice help make each moment

Hospice care. Welborn Floral Company donates an

totally fulfilling for the patients and their families. A

assortment of flowers each week to Hospice. “I love

heart of service: it’s what being a Hospice volunteer

working with flowers, but most of all I see the joy that

is all about.

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PAYING IT S

ome people will do anything to go viral on social media. Eat anything. Wear anything, Say anything.

Forward leave Joey alone, they ran away. Quickly.

Once Preston was sure that they were gone for good,

Whatever it takes to capture that elusive fame that only

he brought Joey in, sat him down, and gave him something

the Internet can bring.

to eat and drink. Then they began to talk. As Preston

recalled in his Facebook post:

Will Preston? He wasn’t looking for fame. But,

after 7,200 Likes, 2,600 Shares, and 1,100 Comments on

Facebook, it’s safe to say that fame found Preston anyway.

bike. He asked if I could put the tube he bought on and get

“It wasn’t really a thing to me,” he said. “When I

him a new tire. … Come to find out he had the wrong size

posted it, I just expected a few friends to like it … but it

tube. Also only had $7 for a new tire. But didn't want to

turned into craziness!”

spend it all so he could eat. He gave me the money anyway,

he REALLY wanted his bike running!

What did Preston do to make Facebook go crazy? He

Joey had a flat tire and dry rotted tires. On a very old

helped someone in need.

It all started with a post that Preston made on his

the basket off his old bike, attached it to a new bike, and

Facebook page. In it, he described walking out of the bike

put reflectors on it. I brought it out to him, he asked what

shop where he works (Max’s Bikes on 1924 Triplett Street)

it was. I told him it's his new bike! I also gave him $20 for

and seeing some kids harassing a local man who has a

payment to buy his old bike. Needless to say he was pretty

developmental disability. Preston had seen the man, Joey,

happy!

in the area before.

He also knew the bullies.

“I really just wanted people to stop picking on him. He

“I’m 6’1” and 200 lbs. I’ve had problems with these

said that young kids from middle school on up always

I told him I would take care of his bike. … So I cut

“I didn’t do it for the publicity,” Preston assured me.

people in the past and I shut it down pretty quickly,”

made fun of him.”

Preston explained. “So I’m pretty sure they knew who I

was.” When Preston told them, in no uncertain terms, to

2017, there’s no room for this kind of stuff.”

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“It’s just ridiculous,” Preston continued. “This is

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“As long as everyone is aware that bullying is no good, then I’m good.”

As the comments on Facebook began pouring in, Preston was

surprised by how shocked people were to see a young man do a good deed for someone else. For Preston, that sort of thing just comes naturally. To be more precise, it comes from his father.

“My dad was a Vietnam vet,” Preston explained. “He was the kindest

man I ever met. He would give you the shirt off his back. Seriously. That was just something that he reinforced in our family.”

Preston is sure to pass on that same selfless attitude to his eight-

year-old son and fourteen-year-old daughter. Not only is the example of his father built into him, but, as a single parent, Preston has often had to depend on the kindness of others. To him, it just makes sense that he would pay it forward. As Preston put it, “It’s just what you do.”

SCREENSHOT OF WILL PRESTON'S VIRAL FACEBOOK POST

As for Joey, who has diabetes, it appears that his health has taken a turn

for the worse. He doesn’t ride his bike around town very much anymore.

On some days, he even has trouble walking. But, there’s no doubt that Joey will always remember the day when a stranger gave him, not the shirt off his back, but a bike off the rack.

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FEEDING HUNGRY PEOPLE ONE BOWL AT A TIME:

EMPTY

BOWLS

BY DANNY MAY

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EMPTY BOWLS IS A GRASSROOTS MOVEMENT TO HELP END HUNGER. ONE HUNDRED PERCENT OF THE PROCEEDS STAY IN THE COMMUNITY AND GO TO LOCAL FOOD PANTRIES. THE GOAL OF THE MOVEMENT IS TO RAISE MONEY TO HELP ORGANIZATIONS FIGHT HUNGER, RAISE AWARENESS ABOUT THE ISSUES OF HUNGER AND FOOD SECURITY, AND TO HELP BRING ABOUT AN ATTITUDE THAT WILL NOT ALLOW HUNGER TO EXIST.

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ou start with an empty bowl, and you leave

with. Local chefs and area churches prepare a

with an empty bowl.

variety of savory soups for the event. And while

But in the meantime, your stomach will be

the offerings differ from year to year, there is

filled with your choice of delicious soups, and

always a vegetarian option.

your heart will be filled with the satisfaction of

While guests are eating, the Empty Bowls

knowing every penny you spent on that delicious

grant recipient from the previous year explains

meal will be donated to a local food pantry, non-

how the donation from last year’s proceeds has

profit or church dedicated to feeding the hungry

impacted their organization.

in our community.

This year, for example, representatives from

The evening starts with a decision that

New Life Church will explain how the $5,100

requires careful consideration: choosing your

Empty Bowls grant they received in 2016 was

bowl. But the decision is not as simple as it sounds.

used to purchase a new convection oven and

Because these aren’t just ordinary bowls - these

support the church’s food pantry. New Life

are handcrafted, one-of-a-kind, ceramic bowls

Associate Pastor, Jon Bailes, says the grant came

made specifically for this event by local artisans

at the perfect time. “We were in desperate need of

and pottery students at Brescia University.

a new oven. Our kitchen is sometimes used five

One you’ve chosen a bowl of your liking, the

times a week to support our different ministries,”

next step is deciding which soup to fill your bowl

he said. New Life provides numerous service

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programs, including a food cooperative and

starting it here in Owensboro. Over $2,000 was

community meals twice a week that feed those in

raised at the first event in 2005, which was donated

need in the community.

to 10th Street Baptist Church.

Another example of those programs using the

oven is A Simple Path, a donation-only lunch on

raising in the neighborhood of $5,000 annually.

Fridays where shelter residents prepare gourmet

That amount also varies each year depending on the

food for the public. Residents from Adrienne’s

success of the silent auction.

House, a women’s shelter next to New Life

Tickets for the event are limited to 300, and

Church, are some of the chefs-in-training at A

usually sell out. If any are left, they will be

Simple Path, where they learn culinary skills

available at the door. But if you’re interested

and hands-on experience that, in many cases,

in supporting the cause, you should consider

transform their lives.

purchasing tickets early.

Empty Bowls is a national movement to raise

funds for those in need of food. Steve Driver, an art

20 at 5 p.m. in the Saints Joseph and Paul Catholic

and clay professor at Brescia, heard of the program

Church Community Center, located at 609 East 4th

in other cities, and was the driving force behind

Street.

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Each year since, the event has grown in popularity,

This year’s event will be held on Thursday, April

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Last year over $5,000 was presented to New Life Church, who used the money to service and maintain their kitchen appliances they rely on to provide numerous service programs that feed those in need in the community, including a food cooperative and community meals twice a week.

The Empty Bowls Committee is currently accepting applications from area soup kitchens and food pantries to be considered as a recipient of this year’s event funds. The deadline to submit an application is March 15, 2017.

Tickets for the event will go on sale March 13, and can be purchased in advance by cash or

PASTORS FROM NEW LIFE CHURCH RECEIVE A GIFT FROM THE 2016 EMPTY BOWLS EVENT

check for $15 at the following locations: Allstate Insurance Company 1210 Burlew Blvd., Ste. A Owensboro, KY Monday-Thursday, 8:30 AM-5:00 PM Contact: Tina Taylor

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Rushing Winds Church of God 2613 Cravens Avenue Owensboro, KY Contact Amanda Graham at bonnie4g@hotmail.com for hours

Saints Joseph and Paul Catholic Church 609 East 4th Street Owensboro, KY Monday-Friday, 8:00 AM-4:00 PM

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BY TARYN NORRIS & DANNY MAY

GIVING THEM AW HAND UP

hen Jeff Mattson adds to the discussion at

about myself. But now I know the joy of thinking

meetings of the Homeless Council of the

of other people. God put this job (at St. Benedict’s)

Ohio Valley, he is speaking from personal experience.

in my lap. Now I can help them,” Mattson says,

Jeff used to be a resident at St. Benedict’s Homeless

pointing to a room full of bunk beds.

Shelter, where he is now assistant director, after

completing the treatment program at Owensboro

assistant director at St. Benedict’s on December

Regional Recovery. “I used to sleep in these beds.

15, 2016. He is currently taking classes to get his

I used to walk these streets during the day, trying

associate’s degree, and enjoys serving as secretary

to find whatever work I could,” he tells Owensboro

for the Homeless Council of the Ohio Valley

Living from a corner office at St. Benedict’s.

(HCOV).

After spending six months at Owensboro

The HCOV is a team of shelter leaders,

Regional Recovery, Mattson served as a peer mentor

volunteers, and other community organizations

for another nine months, then got a job as a “paid

focused on aiding the local homeless population.

volunteer” with AmeriCorps, where he served the

One of those leaders is the executive director of

Pitino Shelter, Oasis, and St. Benedict’s.

Saint Benedict’s, Harry Pedigo. “We come together

“I fell in love with this work,” he said with an

as one to share resources, address issues related to

exuberant smile. “Before I was sober, I only cared

homelessness in the community, and to strengthen

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Coming full-circle, Mattson started his role as

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community partnerships, to enable us to destigmatize

is to be more effective through strategic planning. For

homelessness and maximize our services to the

example, HCOV is working to consolidate demographic

population we serve,” Pedigo says of the Council’s role

information among the shelters so they can share that

in the local community.

information to better use housing resources.

The council was formed in 1994 to serve the seven

Recently the council has worked to designate “white

counties in the Green River Area Development District

flag shelters” throughout the community on nights

(GRADD). Mattson says collaboration is the key to

when it’s especially cold and secured funding to help

HCOV’s success. “The people on the council have

facilitate additional transitional housing. Currently,

excellent ideas, and we try to incorporate them. When

HCOV is working to establish a community medical

we all work together, we can get some people housed.”

clinic facility to serve local shelter residents.

Goals and Objectives

Resource Fair

According to their Facebook group, in the next three

The Homeless Council of the Ohio Valley also hosts

years, the HCOV has set three main priorities: to work

a Community Resource Fair every year to reach both

to increase the amount of transitional housing units and

sheltered and unsheltered homeless individuals. Prior to

emergency beds for women and women with children;

the fair, the HCOV collects items from the community,

to create housing for homeless youth and youth that

including travel-size first-aid kits, hats, gloves, travel-

are aging out of the foster care system; and to create a

size hand sanitizers, chapstick, and bottled water. The

volunteer group with the mission of counseling those

purpose of the fair is to raise awareness and to help

who are seeking transitional housing units.

struggling citizens know that services are available to

Pedigo says the council’s main objective this year

help them find housing, work, and shelter.

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This year’s Community Resource Fair was held

on Wednesday, January 25 from 8 a.m. to noon at Settle Memorial Methodist Church in Owensboro.

In addition to connecting homeless individuals and families with agencies and organizations to help them improve their quality of living, the fair also provides free haircuts, showers, food, clothing, employment and education opportunities, counseling services, and medical screenings, among other valuable resources. Approximately 300 people are typically served by this fair.

Keeping Count Every year, a “K-Count” is conducted to monitor the homeless population in Kentucky. Those results help demonstrate the need for resources in each community and determine the amount of federal funding for homeless programs. The Kentucky Housing Cooperation partners with the HCOV to help account for the number of homeless individuals in Daviess County. According to the Kentucky Homeless Management Information System on the Kentucky Housing Corporation’s website, Daviess County’s 2016 K-Count “total homeless” population was 230.

But that number is admittedly a moving target.

Pedigo says St. Benedict’s alone served 300 individuals in 2016, although some of those were people just passing through, and were not Owensboro/Daviess County residents.

The other variable in the K-Count is that the state

and federal definition of “homeless” changes from year to year.

The HCOV took special care this year to obtain as

accurate a count as possible. The 2017 K-Count was conducted on Wednesday, January 25, in conjunction with the Homeless Council fair. That evening, the Owensboro Police Department continued the count with patrols throughout the city, looking for known locations where people routinely sleep outside. Still, weather and other circumstances may have influenced those numbers.

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How can I Help?

Pedigo said that if interested, “members of the community can help (HCOV) by volunteering their time to help with future resource fairs, contributing to local shelters, attending the Homeless Council meetings, or by spreading awareness.”

If you are interested in contributing, please drop off items

at St. Benedict’s Homeless Shelter, Boulware Mission, or the Daniel Pitino Shelter. Or if you are interested in taking an active role as part of the HCOV team, please see the Facebook group for additional details about monthly meetings.

The beauty of HCOV is that anyone can be a part of it. “It’s not just for shelter directors,” Pedigo said. “It’s for anyone in the community interested in helping the homeless population.”

“What I bring is an example of what a person can become when this whole community comes together to help someone. That’s what this council is all about,” Mattson explains. “Owensboro is full of love. This community is awesome.”

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JEFF MATTSON USED TO RESIDE AT ST. BENEDICTS HOMELESS SHELTER, WHERE HE NOW SERVES AS ASSISTANT DIRECTOR

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Cooking

FOR A CAUSE “HE WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR ANYBODY. HE’S AN ANGEL ON EARTH,”

PHOTOS BY JAMIE ALEXANDER

T

he country music station WBKR has captured the hearts of listeners in and beyond Owensboro for the

last 14 years with its two-day Country Cares Radiothon for St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. The Radiothon, however, is not just a two-day on-air event; it is a twoweek long project of the heart that takes an entire year

SHANNON PAYNE, A FIVE-YEAR MEMBER OF THE ANGELS FOR ASHLEY COOKING TEAM, SPEAKING ABOUT JERRY MORRIS.

and community to plan. New, inspiring t-shirt designs are

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the airwaves. Last year, the station raised $203,000 in two

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created, musical guests are secured, tiny tots are prepared to look pageant perfect, and smokers are fired up, all while true stories of inspiration and heartache are played across

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days, with over 25% of that

business over half as long.

coming from the hard work

For the last twenty years,

and dedication of Jerry Morris

he has been hosting dances

and the Angels for Ashley

and barbeques where church

cooking team. WBKR morning

cooking teams pay entry fees

show host Chad Benefield says

to compete, helping him to

that they savor the moment

raise thousands of dollars in

when the team, “Comes into

donations to support Trinity

the studio smelling like meat,

High School. Seven years ago,

and dumps a bucket of money

Jerry began constructing a home for wheelchair-bound Ashley Johnson for ABC’s Extreme Makeover: Home Edition. When the house was not selected for the show, Jerry decided to take to the smoker in order to raise the remaining funds for completion.

Following an incredible

onto the floor,” as they all celebrate through tears of joy and announce the total on air.

Jerry Morris has been in the construction business for 35 years, but some may say he has been in the “angel”

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“OH, I BELIEVE THERE ARE ANGELS AMONG US, SENT DOWN TO US FROM SOMEWHERE UP ABOVE. THEY COME TO YOU AND ME IN OUR DARKEST HOURS TO SHOW US HOW TO LIVE, TO TEACH US HOW TO GIVE, TO GUIDE US WITH A LIGHT OF LOVE.” – ALABAMA

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By the Numbers: 865 Boston butts 500 Slabs of ribs 500 Whole chickens 140 pounds of fish 150 gallons of dip 60 gallons of baked beans 50 hours of cooking time 40 selfless people cooking $53,000 the amount raised last year $75,000 this year’s anticipated goal for the cookout 7,800 the estimated number children St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital will see this year.

CUSTOM SMOKER DONATED BY MATT CASTLEN TO ANGELS FOR ASHLEY COOKING TEAM

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outpouring of support, Jerry found himself with an additional $50,000 and a namesake for his new charity. Jerry now uses the money from the Angels for Ashley fund to purchase the necessary cooking supplies to help families facing health crises in Whitesville, Owensboro, and across the tri-state area.

For the last five years, Jerry and the Angels for Ashley cooking team have been tirelessly cooking for the St. Jude Radiothon at their Town Square North Shoe Stop location. While Jerry does not recall exactly how it all began, he does know that the 50 hours (two full days with approximately two hours of sleep per night) he puts into cooking are nothing in comparison to those sweet children who are fighting for their lives. Jerry says, “It is rough, but I enjoy it. People with cancer aren’t going to quit just because they’re tired, so why should I?” Last year, Chad invited Jerry and his wife to join WBKR staff and listeners on the trip to St. Jude so that he could see firsthand where all of his hard work goes. Jerry quickly recognized the importance of his efforts and recalls seeing a little girl with only “six or seven hairs on the top of her head, but she had the prettiest smile. She was dying, but she was happy.” During his visit, Morris learned that it takes $860 million a year, or about $2.5 million a day, to keep the lights on at St. Jude. Jerry says that his prayer now, as he prepares to meet his goal this year of $75,000 is, “Lord, I hope I turned the lights on for 15 minutes today.”

Jerry’s commitment to cooking over the last five years has been unwavering, as he has battled bad knees, record amounts of snow, and sometimes just pure exhaustion. While Jerry is a true example of what it means to have a servant’s heart, he will be the first to tell you that every Boston butt or chicken cooked is the result of a team effort. As far as how he decides how much food to order, he prays about the amount and then places the order about three weeks in advance from CRS (who charges him just five cents above cost), hoping that it will be enough to satisfy the need. Morris says that

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it takes about 15 people to cook the Boston butts, 8-10

with Jerry’s barbeque, and donate 100% of the proceeds

people to cook fish and assemble boxed lunches, and 2-3

to St. Jude. Jerry says, “It is unbelievable how much

people to cook the baked beans. These numbers don’t even take into account wrapping and distributing food, and money collection. All told, it takes approximately 40

the radio helps me. People will come from Henderson just to get a Boston butt.” Chad Benefield echoes his

people over the three-day period to pull off a successful

sentiments saying, “Jerry is probably the most selfless

cook. This year Jerry is excited to add committed St.

person I have ever met. I can’t imagine our Radiothon

Jude supporter twelve-year-old Gavin Howard, and

without Angels for Ashley being a part of it. They are a

six-year-old Easton Pedley, as new Angels for Ashley

huge part of our St. Jude family.”

cooking team members.

Jerry is incredibly thankful for the selfless acts

How You Can Help Support St. Jude

of those around him, from Matt Castlen, who built and donated a $10,000 smoker two years back, to the volunteers that take time away from their lives and their jobs to help support the cause. Morris says, “We

Upcoming WBKR St. Jude Fundraising Events: Denim and Diamonds Benefit, Friday, February 3

all work, so most people have to take vacation days off

at 7pm at the Theatre Workshop’s Empress Theatre.

work” to be able to help. Shoe Stop owner Mark Shively

General admission tickets are just $10 per person, and

is one of the many individuals that rallies around Jerry

a limited number of V.I.P. tickets are available as well

each year to help support his efforts. Mark is proud that his store can be a small part of something that “gets bigger and bigger every year…and has evolved into a community event, rather than a cook-out.”

While Jerry has countless businesses and individuals

that back his efforts each year, it is remarkable what a

for $25.

Sweatin’ for St. Jude, Monday, February 6. This year Chad and Angel will keep the crazy fun going with a 24hour workout at the Owensboro YMCA.

reciprocal relationship Jerry and WBKR have. WBKR

Cuties for a Cure Beauty Pageant, Saturday, February

afternoon radio host Dave Spencer bundles up from

11, Livermore.

head to toe in cold weather gear as he broadcasts live from Shoe Stop for the majority of the two-day timeframe. The station has now added a second, satellite location at Norman McDonald’s Country Drive-in in Philpot, where Barb Birgy broadcasts as well. For the

Angels for Ashley Radiothon and Cookout, February 16 and 17, Shoe Stop at Town Square North.

past two years, the restaurant has graciously committed

For more information on any of these events, visit

to replace their normal menu on Radiothon Thursday

the station website at wbkr.com

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It’s basketball season in the Bluegrass! With high school teams preparing for the district tournament, March Madness just around the corner, and the Mavericks chasing their fifth BPL title in April, this is the best time of year for hoops fans in Owensboro.

With that in mind, we decided to share two stories of local basketball legends who added to Owensboro's rich basketball tradition as players and continue their legacies by staying involved in the game after their years on the court.

Randy Embry and Laurie Townsend Idlett were KHSAA Mr. and Miss basketball while playing at Owensboro High School and Apollo (respectively). They both enjoyed successful college careers and forged relationships on and off the court that impact them today as they continue to live their passions for the game.

BY

STEVEN WILSON & GAIL KIRKLAND

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RANDY EMBRY

A

s a basketball fan, there are few jobs I

way he wanted them to be done, it could get

would covet more than getting paid to

pretty rough. But I enjoyed it, and I always

watch the game. What some of our readers

felt like he was the greatest basketball

may not realize is that one Owensboro

coach ever.”

roundball legend has found himself in

Though the lineup was small (Embry

just that position - but it didn’t happen

graduated the year before “Rupp’s Runts”

overnight.

played in the historic championship game

Randy Embry suited up for Owensboro

versus Texas Western), it was loaded with

High School from 1957 through 1961.

talent. In addition to Embry, the Wildcats

During that time, Embry set the school

roster from 1961-1965 included stars

record for most points scored in a game

like Cotton Nash, Pat Riley and Louie

by scoring 50 of his career total of 1,610

Dampier. That lineup led Kentucky to 2

in a single night. Embry was also named

SEC titles during that four-year span, and

Kentucky Mr. Basketball after his senior

Embry finished his career at UK with 393

season, an honor that puts him in the

points, 66 assists and 115 rebounds over

company of Wes Unseld, Jack Givens, and

three seasons (freshman didn’t play varsity

Rex Chapman, among other notable names.

during that time). And that doesn’t even

But with that award, Embry’s basketball

include his baseball statistics!

career was just getting started.

That’s right, Embry was a two-sport

Following

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graduation

from

OHS,

varsity athlete at Kentucky.

In fact,

Embry was recruited by, and went on to

following Embry’s graduation from UK,

play for, one of the most successful coaches

Harry Lancaster (an assistant coach under

in college basketball history, Adolph Rupp.

Rupp who was also UK’s head baseball

Known as a hard-nosed leader with a laser

coach) asked Embry to come on board as

focus on winning, Rupp wasn’t always the

an assistant coach with the baseball team.

easiest coach to play for. But Embry puts

That’s a role Embry filled for two years

great value on the lessons he learned under

while earning his Master’s in Education.

Coach Rupp. “It was a great experience,

With a master’s degree and a wealth of

something that I wanted to do all my

basketball knowledge and experience in

life. It was tough at times, and he was a

tow, Embry returned to Owensboro in

perfectionist. If things weren’t done the

1967. And while many know Embry as the

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RANDY EMBRY DURING HIS SENIOR YEAR AT T HE UNIVERSITY OF KENTUCKY, 1965

coach of the Red Devils, he began

hold

his professional career as a physical

Undoubtedly, Embry had a tough

education and health teacher at

act to follow, as he took over for

Daviess County High School, where

Bobby Watson, who led the Red

he also coached boys basketball and

Devils to the State Championship

baseball until the mid-70s.

the previous season.

But

for

the

next

18

years.

But Embry

before moving on to OHS, he also

didn’t miss a beat, picking up right

made a stop as the KWC women’s

where Watson left off, and leading

basketball coach for two years,

OHS to 3rd Region titles in six of

finishing his second year with a 17-1

the next seven years. He’d finish his

overall record.

basketball coaching career at OHS

And in 1981, Embry

with a total of 445 wins and eight 3rd

took over as

Region Championships, winning

head

boys

two more in 1992 and 1996.

basketball

Retiring in 1999 after 32 years

coach

of

at

coaching,

nobody

would’ve

S e n i o r

blamed Embry for choosing to take

High,

a

some time off. But that wasn’t in

position he

the coach’s plans. Instead, with a

would

desire to stay involved in the game of basketball, Embry contacted his friend and former teammate, Pat Riley. At that time, Riley served as Head Coach and President of the NBA’s Miami Heat, and Embry says that within 15 minutes of that phone call, Riley called him back and offered him a job as a scout for the team.

And after two years as a part-time scout, Embry has been full-time with the Heat since 2001. In that role, Embry travels across the region, evaluating the top players in college basketball.

Randy Embry, former KHSAA Mr. Basketball and current scout for the Miami Heat. Embry married Luann Korth in 1968, and together they have 3 children, Chad (Hadley), DeeDee (John) and Brad (Sarah) and 7 grandchildren: Haley, Braxton, Hampton, Caroline, Mary Whitaker, Emma and Elli.

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But despite all of the miles he logs, one of the

in contact with, Embry was quick to point out his

perks of the job is that Embry still gets to call

encounters with Hall-of-Famers Jerry West and

Owensboro home. Sometimes traveling as far

Elgin Baylor as particularly memorable. Along

as Washington, New York and California for

the way, Embry also scouted Dwyane Wade, who

various tournaments, he typically stays a little

would go on to be drafted by Embry’s Heat, and

closer to home. According to Embry, “I think I

become the franchise’s all-time leader in points,

live in the best part of the country for basketball.”

assists, steals and games played.

He elaborated on that quote by explaining that

Owensboro provides the perfect location for his

for the Heat and Pat Riley. And for someone who

job, allowing him to travel to most locations,

has spent a lifetime involved in basketball, Embry

watch a game, and still be home the same

appreciates the opportunities that the game has

night. With the SEC in Lexington, the ACC in

afforded him. “I’ve been fortunate to see a lot of

Louisville, and the Big Ten in Bloomington, it

great basketball games, and I love going to old

makes it much easier to scout players in the top

arenas.” But at the end of the day, Embry also

conferences without going too far.

realizes the value of calling Owensboro home.

Another of the job’s perks, according to Embry,

“It’s a great place to live and a great place to raise

has been the occasions to meet basketball royalty.

your kids, with great school systems. I’ve always

When asked about some of the people he has come

liked Owensboro, and I’m glad I’m still here.”

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LAURIE TOWNSEND IDLETT DURING HER SENIOR YEAR AT APOLLO HIGH SCHOOL, 1994

LAURIE TOWNSEND IDLETT

P

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etite, spunky and more than

Western from 1995 to 1998.

athletically gifted, she has

One

of

Laurie’s

assistant

discovered her perfect niche, one

coaches, Mary Taylor Cowles,

that reinforces her love for the

became head coach a few seasons

game of basketball, which she

back. “They were looking for a

began playing at the Owensboro

color commentator and she and

YMCA and extended into college.

Barry got to talking, and they

Laurie Townsend Idlett, Apollo’s

called me and asked me if I’d be

stand-out point guard and Miss

willing to try it out and do it for a

Kentucky Basketball in 1994, now

season, and I think this is my fifth

provides the color commentary for

or sixth year now, and I’m still

Western Kentucky University’s

doing it,” Laurie said. ”I was kind

women’s

alongside

of nervous at first, because I had

Barry Williams, who has done

never talked on the radio. It took

the play-by-play for 30 years—

some time to get used to it, to get

including when Laurie played for

the timing down, to get a routine.”

basketball

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Sitting courtside in headphones with a mike,

bonus that I got to sit alongside him,” Laurie

Barry and Laurie – work in tandem for IMG

said.

Sports to call and to provide analysis of Western’s

Since Barry knows Laurie’s playing history

home games at E.A. Diddle Arena. “I’ve been

and expertise as a point guard and shooting

around basketball my entire life—doing color

guard, he frequently asks about experiences

commentary was a way for me to get back and

she had while on The Hill to compare to what

be around the game. I mean, I have a front row

the present players may be experiencing, and

seat for every game, and the thing that really

incorporates this into their on-the-air dialog. For

intrigued me about it was that it was Western,

example, what’s it like when everyone else has

where I had played. I get to be around the game

gone home for Christmas Break, and it’s just you

again and watch the players and the coaches,

and the team on campus to play basketball? As

which just kind of fuels my love for the game

a former Lady Topper, Laurie knows firsthand,

because I can talk about it and give my two cents,

and can share her experiences and insight. She

so to speak, alongside Barry . . . I’ve known him

said that it’s extra special just “being able to

forever and when he asked me, I wanted to do it

think back and reminisce and relate to those

for him, as well, because we have a really good

same types of experiences I had as a player that

friendship and good rapport. That was an added

I’m getting to watch and comment on now.”

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Although Laurie helps coach her 9-year-old twin sons’ recreational basketball team, she says she is not ready for a bigger coaching job.

Doing game analysis involves arriving early for the pre-game

and staying for the post-game wrap-up. All in all, each home game involves a 3- to 4-hour time commitment. And there’s homework. She prepares for each game by reviewing the roster, team stats, media releases, season trends, scouting reports, as well as the coaching staff ’s offensive and defensive strategies. “It’s a lot of fun; I really enjoy it,” Laurie said. “It allows me to give back to the university that gave me such an awesome experience.

I love basketball. It’s fun for me to be able to comment on it and to watch different teams come in to Diddle Arena and play; they play some pretty good competition, like Louisville, Vandy, Indiana—the highest level of competition at Division 1 that you

LAURIE TOWNSEND, FORMER KHSAA MISS BASKETBALL, PROVIDING COLOR COMMENTARY FOR WKU LADY TOPPERS BASKETBALL

can be part of, to see how it all unfolds.”

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BY ASHLEY SORCE PHOTOS BY ALIVIA HEDGES

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lthough Shaun Schroader and Lacey Johnson met in arguably the most unromantic of places, it didn’t stop the two from feeling an instant connection.

Shaun and Lacey met at the Daviess County Detention Center, where Lacey was working as an intake officer and Shaun as an Owensboro Police Officer who frequently brought in prisoners.

“I have known since the day I saw her at the jail,” Shaun said. “I had a feeling that is hard to describe. I knew there was something special about her, and that she was going to change my life.”

And while these two share a love for each other, they also share a love of serving the Owensboro community. Lacey has been in law enforcement for 6 years -- 5 years working at DCDC and a little over a year with the Daviess County Sheriff’s 52 OWENSBORO LIVING

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Department. Shaun has been on the force at the Owensboro Police Department for four years.

“I am very proud of her and what she does in the Sheriff’s Department, and while serving our country in the Army,” Shaun said about his fiancée.

Now together for a little over two years, Lacey looks back at the beginning of their relationship fondly. “I knew he was the one after the first few times of us being around each other (outside of work), and we could literally sit and talk and laugh for hours and never want to leave or even look at the clock,” Lacey said.

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and dedication he has for everything that he does. He constantly thinks of others before himself.”

The couple has several memories that they would consider a favorite, but they are in agreement that Shaun’s proposal is at the top of the list. For Shaun, it was the look on Lacey’s face when he proposed.

Shaun popped the big question on Christmas Day 2015 when he told Lacey that they were going to take a few family photos down at the riverfront. What she didn’t know was that both of their families were there, and they all shared the special proposal.

The big day is set for April 7, 2017. The couple is opting for a destination wedding in Fort Morgan, Alabama. They have reserved a large home that will accommodate both their families and a few friends. “We both love the beach and thought it would be more intimate to have only family and a couple friends with us for the ceremony,” Lacey said.

As of right now, the two haven't booked a honeymoon, but plan on going to Puerto Rico or the US Virgin Islands. “Neither of us has been out of the continental United States, and we decided to go somewhere tropical,” Lacey said.

And while the two look forward to their destination wedding and their exotic honeymoon, they are even more excited to build their lives right here in Owensboro.

The couple bought a house together in Philpot in April of

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2016, and plan to build a new home on their property in a few years. As for a family, they each have a child from previous relationships, but hope to have a child together in the future.

They both pan to stay in law enforcement until retirement.

“I see us spending the rest of our lives together, wherever it may take us,” Shaun said.

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wedding planning timeline for groom

Months before:

party members to make sure they know when and

- Order groomsmen gift.

where to show up. Taking the rehearsal dinner details

- Make plans for a special gift for the bride on her

off her plate is a huge gesture and will greatly reduce

wedding day.

her stress.

Week Before: - Double-check the honeymoon reservations.

- Start packing your bags for the honeymoon. Pick up travelers' checks if needed.

- Get a haircut, but not the day before. That way your hair will be trimmed but have a chance to grow out a

- Practice your first dance together.

- Pay the officiant. Put his or her fee in an envelope ahead of time and give it to your best man for delivery after the service.

- While you're at it, make sure all your vendor payments are taken care of ASAP to avoid awkward

little so you can style it the way you like.

conversations. Go ahead and write out checks to all

- Stay on top of the rehearsal dinner. Touch base with

vendors THE DAY before the wedding so you don't

the officiant, both sets of parents, and all wedding-

have to worry afterwards.

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wedding day chec:klist for the groom

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Make sure you’ve gathered all pieces of tux

•

(including cummerbund and cufflinks).

on his wedding day, it’s almost a guarantee

Then make sure all groomsmen have all their

that your phone will be constantly ringing for directions/details/well-wishes.

pieces.

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Try on your tux BEFORE the wedding day.

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Then also have your groomsmen try on ALL

During

the

photographer

“getting /

ready”

coordinator

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the

could

be

members to call.

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job to keep your groomsmen on schedule and make sure they don’t stray. Set alarms on your phone to remind you of your timeline.

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Do not forget the rings!

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Make sure that your phone is fully charged and

Make sure you eat breakfast and a small lunch (if you’re having an evening wedding).

preoccupied with the bride, so it could be your

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Consider creating a custom one-day voicemail message that will direct people to other family

stages,

that you have a charger just in case.

Store the numbers of all vendors and family members in your phone.

pieces of their tuxes BEFORE the day of.

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As much as the groom should be left alone

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Stay hydrated. Drink plenty of water throughout the day.

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Bring mints. Enough for yourself and to share.

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You may want to put extra deodorant in your pocket. You will sweat.

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PLEASE DON’T PARTY TOO HARD BEFORE THE CEREMONY.

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five facts about cummerbunds

Vests are popular wedding day attire for gents. Bowties are just

cool. But when it comes to formalwear for guys, cummerbunds are often overlooked and underappreciated. Knowing what purpose they actually serve helps. Here are five little-known facts about cummerbunds.

3 - Function: Essentially, the cummerbund serves as a waist covering. Traditionally, the working parts of black tie attire are covered. Cuff links and studs replace shirt buttons. Outer seams are satin. Cummerbunds cover the waistband. They also disguise awkward shirt bunching at the waist.

1- Spelling: The correct spelling is actually "cummerbund." 4 - Other Benefits: Not "cumberbund." The only reason the dictionary lists cumberbund as an alternate spelling is because so many people mispronounce it.

2 - History: Brittish military borrowed from "kamarbands"

Not only do they look cool

(cummerbunds give you a chance to color-match the bride's dress, offering a smaller color swatch then a vest so the color is not so overbearing), but they also keep you cooler than vests.

in India. Eventually, cummerbunds found their way to New York,

5 - Proper Wear: Here's your bonus point. Did you

although they were originally white. But as black bow ties and

know the proper way to wear a cummerbund is with pleats facing

black waistcoats rose in popularity, a "black tie" dress code

downward? It's also standard that trousers be worn near the level

developed and cummerbunds were consequently changed color

of the navel, with half the cummerbund covering the shirt and the

to black.

other half covering the trousers.

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: the first look not sure what to do?

When you hear somebody mention doing a “First Look” at a wedding, they’re talking about a moment (typically orchestrated by a wedding professional) in which the bride and groom see each other for the first time before the ceremony. Seeing each other for the first time on your wedding day is a powerfully special moment. The most important thing to remember is that you are the only person that knows for sure what’s best for your day. For those of you that are on the fence, seeing some of the negatives and benefits could help you make your choice.

more time

The most obvious reason to have a First Look is the extra time. If you don’t want to keep your guests waiting at the reception for hours before you arrive, the first look is for you. Couples that opt for a first look usually choose to have a bulk of their photos taken before the ceremony. Not only are photos less rushed, but you will more-thanlikely end up with more.

less pressure

It also reduces the stress of the day. As beautiful as weddings are, the day can get quite stressful. Usually your significant other is the person that is an expert at keeping you calm.

As unbelievable as it sounds, couples very rarely get a moment alone on their wedding day. A first look is a great opportunity to have an intimate moment to truly appreciate each other. When a groom sees a bride for the first time as she’s walking down the aisle, not only

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are there hundreds of eyes on him (meaning nerves may be more powerful than other emotions), but he also won’t get a chance to chat with the bride about how gorgeous she looks until later! Sometimes couples worry that a first look will result in less emotion during the ceremony – this is rarely the case!

tradition

The biggest reason to opt out of a First Look is to stick to tradition.

The folklore of this tradition is a bit sketchy (people say that in the time of arranged marriages, the father-of-the-bride made sure the prospective groom couldn’t see his daughter until the very last moment so he couldn’t back out of the business deal). However, this doesn’t change the fact that there is a superstition surrounding this tradition: It’s “bad luck” to see each other before the ceremony. First looks have only recently become the popular choice for weddings, so parents of the couples often push for the tradition to be chosen. If tradition is something that is important to you, you’ll definitely want to opt out of the first look!

Another reason to ditch the First Look is to save the “big reveal” for walking down the aisle. There is definitely an extra romantic aspect added when you wait for your reveal. Some couples say that they don’t enjoy first look photos because they look a lot more “staged” than “real.”

There are both benefits and negatives to the first look. Again, the most important thing to remember is to do what’s right for you.

It’s extremely important that you don’t feel pressured into doing something that you do not want to do!

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tips for after the : honeymoon

be patient. don't keep score.

Remember, you live with another person Now that you're together 24/7, there may now, they may have different habits than you and you have to adjust.

Keep it going.

The honeymoon is literally over, but it doesn't have to be in theory.

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be more opportunities for arguments, but remember that it's rarely ever one person's fault.

communicate, communicate, communicate.

If you're now sharing finances, you have a new challenge in that department, too.

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Crowne

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The Crowne has traditionally been known as a boutique, but did you know that the upstairs has been converted into a gallery for formal wear, prom and homecoming dresses, and pageant wear?

The “wow factor” begins the moment you walk up the stairs and see the lit runway and full-size mirrors. The Crowne is your one stop shop for all formal events. For your convenience, we carry a wide variety of jewelry and shoes. Tuxedo rental is also available.

With each formal wear purchase, you will receive a discount on a coordinating tuxedo and a free T-shirt.

Dresses range from $268 to $800 and are available in sizes 0-30. We can package a simply elegant dress with shoes and earring for under $500!

Whether you’re looking for breathtakingly extravagant or simple elegance, The Crowne has got you covered!

For the month of February, we will be open on Sundays from 1 - 5 p.m.

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NashVegas Bound

NashVegas Bound is a Private and Airport Shuttle service. The Private Shuttle division has a Cadillac that can accommodate 4 people, with service starting at just $50/hour, as well as a 14-passenger bus for $60/hour and a 20-passenger bus for $80/ hour. Discounted rates are available for groups wishing to utilize our service for 8-12 hours. Examples of trips include, but are not limited to, wine tours, weddings, concerts, and the Nashville trips. Airport shuttles are available in any of the above-mentioned vehicles to Owensboro, Evansville, Nashville, and Louisville. Find us at NashVegasBound.com or call (270)570-3328 and ask where all we can take you.

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Smith House Floral & Events

Big city flair. Small town feel.

Hiring a florist to be your wedding coordinator may

not be normal wedding protocol, but to Smith House Floral & Events designer and owner, Scott Sims, it makes

can work with any budget. From elaborate displays to simple decorations, we can make it special,” Sims says.

Each custom, upscale flower arrangement is designed

and created specifically for the customer. When it comes to coordinating weddings, that kind of attention to detail and customer service is how Smith House Floral & Events

perfect sense. “Actually, hiring a wedding coordinator is

goes above and beyond for your special day. It’s also what

cost efficient because I can save the couple money by

gives Smith House their small town, friendly feel while

working with the vendors I regularly use.”

keeping up with cutting-edge trends to rival receptions in

Beyond the money-saving advantage, Sims also has

larger cities.

the design expertise and event planning experience to

Eighteen happy couples used Smith House Floral &

execute the most elegant or simple of wedding days.

Events during that first year. Just a year after opening,

Scott is a graduate of the New York Flower School and the

Smith House is already moving to a new location, more

Los Angeles School of Flower Design and has experience

than doubling in size from 1,400 sq ft to 3,800 sq ft.

coordinating events for Conde Nast Publications in New

“Communication is crucial. We want our brides to know

York City.

exactly what to expect throughout the entire process so

when their day comes, they can relax and enjoy it.

That’s a perfect combination for your perfect day. “We

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all the details

T

on your big day

hat long-awaited day is finally here. As

eat. Arranging for the wedding party to

your family and friends gather, they

eat snacks or a small meal before getting

will notice all of the details that were so

dressed for the ceremony can prevent

carefully coordinated by you and many

staining any wedding attire, and keep your

talented vendors. The church bells will

wedding party happy instead of “hangry.”

chime; the groom will anticipate the

Other tips for wedding party include:

first glimpse of his bride, and finally, the

distributing an itinerary to the wedding

doors will swing wide, the bride will be

party to help keep the scheduled events

revealed and the months of planning and

running on time; designating one person

preparation will all collaborate for this

outside of the wedding party that you can

momentous occasion.

call on to run last-minute errands when a

Traditionally, this day is full of fun,

groomsman forgets to bring black socks

family, and friends, but every couple can

can save the day in a pinch; and making

attest that there are always a few surprises.

sure arrangements have been made to

By using a simple checklist, you can plan

deliver the dress to dry cleaners and have

for hiccups and avoid stress that would

it preserved, and return tuxedo rentals to

distract you from what is really important

avoid late fees.

on your special day.

FOR THE WEDDING PARTY Planning for pictures of the wedding

PLAN AHEAD WITH A PLAN “B” When an unexpected change happens,

party before the ceremony can save

the day of the wedding is not the time

valuable time between exchanging vows

to try to figure it out. Having a Plan B in

and the reception; otherwise you keep

place instead of creating one in a moment

your guests waiting.

of crisis can be the difference between

You can also be sure that everyone

having a stress free day and a major

will be hungry, but few will remember to

meltdown. On an eventful day filled

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with so much emotion, it can be difficult to

you to dance the night away pain free.

address last-minute changes. By having extra copies of important music, vows, speeches and contact info for vendors you can save

FOR THE GROOM Because the groom tends to have a little

time and panic when things do not go as

more free time before the ceremony, he

planned.

can focus on remembering important things like the rings, the marriage certificate, and

FOR THE BRIDE

envelopes with tip money for vendors. A few

It is important to keep the Bride’s list of

extras like lint rollers, a steamer, batteries, and

things to remember to a minimum, as most

lighters are also good to add to the groom’s

of her day should be spent stress-free. A

list.

typical checklist for a bride on her wedding day should include beauty, dress, and first aid kits. Along with the dress, jewelry, makeup,

FOR THE HONEYMOON Finally, prepare for the honeymoon.

and shoes, there are a few extra things to

Have your bags packed and ready to go.

pack with you for last minute touchups.

Prepare a bag with passports, hotel and travel

Hairspray and bobby pins, nail polish, sewing

reservation information, and travel tickets, so

kit with white thread, double-sided tape,

that when it is time to leave you are ready to

scissors, static guard, Q-tips, baby powder

ride off into the sunset, happily ever after.

and tweezers will allow you to avoid hair

Most importantly, take a deep breath

and wardrobe malfunctions. You may want

and remember that today is your day to

to reapply deodorant, perfume, chapstick,

celebrate two lives coming together to make

and lotion. Packing band aids, Tylenol,

a difference in the world around them. No

mouthwash, tampons and a pair of more

small mishap can change the fact that your

comfortable shoes for the reception will allow

love is worth celebrating!

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YOUR PERFECT WEDDING DAY SHOW

Floor Map

BOOTH #

at the Owensboro Convention Center

Exhibitors

EXHIBITOR/COMPANY

220 All About You DJ 252 Ambassador Travel 108-110 Bauerhaus Catering & Pastry 233 Beth Carter Exquisite Bridal & Formal Wear 260 Bridal Warehouse/Savvi Formalwear by Tux Ave 106 Burdoc Farms 202 Colleen's Concierge Travel 263 Evansville Party Master 105 Flower Farm 210 Hampton Inn & Suites Downton/Waterfront 250 Have A Nice Day Mobile Entertainment 107 It Works! Global 253 Limos by Knight 200 McCarty's Diamonds 304 Metabolic Research Center

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BOOTH # 240 251 211 303 231 230 232 221 222 213 100 101-102 103 305-306 201

EXHIBITOR/COMPANY

NashVegas Bound Norris & Rowland Family Dentistry Owensboro Health Picture That Photo Booth Schnitzelbank Catering SeneGence - Angie's Lip Addicts Statix Entertainment Tanglewood Weddings & Events T S F Company Inc. WPT Corporation Ziobros Formals N Salon & Spa Beach Bunnies Owensboro Convention Center Painting with a Twist

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register for your new life!

W eddings and the gala events surrounding them are some of the most important days in your life. They are filled with friends, family old and new, and well-wishers reconnecting with you. Conversations lean toward the new life that is speedily approaching. Laughter and good-natured advice about married life flow more freely.

The common thread between many of these people is that they would like to offer gifts as signs of love and hope. That is where places like The Bakers Rack come in.

We help people select The Perfect Gift for you! We do that through a registry, a list of items you would love to have as you start your new life together.

The major reason to register for gifts is to make it easier and more enjoyable for those who wish to celebrate your wedding with a gift, and know that you will like what you receive.

Many of those who offer gifts really do not know your personal style, and are hesitant to buy without more knowledge. A good registry gives them insight about you, and confidence that the gift will be used and appreciated into the future.

Even if they offer an unregistered gift, they can use the registry to know what you like and what you may need to accessorize your life and home.

What should you expect from a registry? The stores where you register should offer a listing of favored products, and also be able to educate you and the shoppers about the uses and quality of each product. They should make registering easy for you, and make purchasing easy for the shopper. Each store should be able to offer guidance about what you may want and need to get started in your new life. Registries should be flexible if you change your mind about what you want. Each store should allow you a timely return of any gifts that you cannot use.

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So what should be on your registry? Anything you like! If there is something in a store you admire, then register for it. Nothing is too small or large, as sometimes small gifts are grouped together into a larger gift arrangement, and sometimes large gifts are purchased for the couple by groups of wedding guests. Many couples choose products that will accessorize their new home, because they have never purchased anything in that realm. China, dinnerware, serving pieces, picture frames, bookends and even furniture all go together to develop a home.

A common registry entry is china

or stone dinnerware. This is an area where advice from well-meaning mothers and others can be a little misleading. "You will never use it," or "You will stand at a sink forever washing it" are common excuses for not registering for better dinnerware.

Well, china dinnerware has changed a lot since your mom's wedding. The vast majority of modern china patterns are dishwasher safe, and are much stronger and more durable than common stoneware dinnerware.

What that means is that you can use modern china often without worry or extra time spent. They are good looking dishes you can use every day!

Where should you register? The short answer is: Anywhere you think your wedding guests may shop for you. Remember, wedding registries are for the convenience of your guests, as well as for you.

You may register for identical items at multiple places, local, national or online. That increases the chances of receiving what you really want. Reward stores that provide excellent service with your future business. We at The Bakers Rack would love the opportunity to help you develop a registry that fits your lifestyle, and allow us the chance to serve your guests as they shop for you. Come see us!

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KENTUCKY MAVERICKS

Throughout February & March | Owensboro Sportscenter See www.mavup.com/schedule for complete schedule.

MARKET DAYS

February 4 – 5 & March 4 - 5 | Preservation Station, 9661 KY 56 Preservation Station Market Days are held the first full weekend of every month. Sat. 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. and Sunday Noon to 5 p.m. with over 100 vendors of antique, vintage, handcrafted, and boutique items, live music, and good food. Preservation Station Market and Event Center, 9661 Hwy 56. Also open daily Tuesday through Saturday from 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. and Sunday 12 - 5 p.m. Call 270-993-7532, go to www.visitpreservationstation.com, or find us on Facebook.

IN CONCERT: THE JUNGLE BOOK

March 18 at 7 p.m. | RiverPark Center Venture into the jungle for an experience like never before with Owensboro Dance Theatre’s In Concert featuring The Jungle Book. ODT Company Dancers will perform all styles of dance: jazz, ballet, tap and modern. Through dance, you will delight in the exciting characters, music and adventure.

Watch as the dancers swing, fly, and suspend throughout the trees with ZFX Flying effects. For more information and tickets call 270-684-9580 or email odt1982@gmail.com.

PIGTAILS & COWLICKS SPRING CONSIGNMENT SALE

March 24 -25 | Owensboro Convention Center Pigtails & Cowlicks Children’s Spring Consignment Sale offers area families the chance to shop from 350 families selling new or gently used items ALL for kids – from babies to teens! We will have over 35,000 items of clothing, toys, furniture, books, baby gear, shoes, and more. No Admission Fee to Shop!

Open to the public! We accept cash and debit/credit cards.

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KIDS

OPEN BOUNCE NIGHTS Tuesdays, Wednesdays & Fridays | U-Bounce The perfect party place for kids. Amazing inflatables in an unbelievably cool bounce stadium.

Private, clean and climate controlled. All children must wear socks. $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; On Toddler Tuesday, children 5 and under get in for $5 all night. Tuesday and Wednesday 5 – 8 p.m. and Friday 5 - 9 p.m. 270-685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.

HISTORIC COAL MINE TOUR ongoing | Owensboro Museum of Science & History Historic Coal Mine Tour – The Day in the Life of a 1930’s Rudy Coal Mine Miner. Put on a coal mine helmet and join us on a trip through the Rudy Coal Mine, an historic Daviess County coal mine featuring the history of coal mining in the 19th Century, along with the 1930’s time period.

This tour is included with admission, but space is limited. Please sign up at our admissions desk when you check into the museum. Enjoy the tour!

Contact the Museum at 270-687-2732 for more information.

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FREE STORYTIMES Mondays & Thursdays | Daviess County Public Library Wee Read for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.

270-684-0211 or dcplibrary.org.

DISCOVER DINOSAURS UNLEASHED February 18 - 20 | Owensboro Convention Center The walk-through exhibit showcases lifelike animatronic dinosaurs set in realistic environments with scenes organized chronologically throughout the Triassic, Jurassic and Cretaceous periods.

Additional attractions include Dino Bone Yard, complete with a T-Rex skeleton, a Dino Den for the littlest dino fans to play, and dino-themed rides and inflatables for kids of all ages. At-home activities are also available to enhance your learning experience at Discover the Dinosaurs Unleashed.

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DOWNTOWN

2017 OWENSBORO HOME AND GARDEN SHOW March 3 - 5 | Owensboro Convention Center The Home Builders Association of Owensboro is looking forward to shaking-off the cold of winter and helping homeowners plan their spring and summer projects! Over 40,000 square feet of exhibitors showing the newest innovations in home design and remodeling ideas Friday, Saturday & Sunday, March 3-5, 2017 at the Owensboro Home & Garden Show!

OWENSBORO GARAGE SALE & MARKET PLACE February 11 - 12 | Owensboro Convention Center The Owensboro Garage Sale & Marketplace is your chance to find treasures old & new! Shop over 200 vendor booths where treasure hunters can find antiques, collectibles, jewelry, new and used clothing, arts and crafts, furniture, electronics and more.

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ARTS

RUSSIAN ROMANCE BY THE OSO February 18 at 7 p.m. | RiverPark Center In this Valentine Week concert, conductor finalist Bruce Kiesling, pianist Andrew Tyson and the Symphony offer some of the most exciting Russian orchestral masterpieces performed by the world’s finest orchestras and guest artists. The great Russian music of the 19th and 20th centuries is unsurpassed in its unbridled passion, melodic splendor, and kaleidoscopic color. The program includes Rachmaninoff ’s glittering piano favorite Rhapsody on a Theme of Paganini, Tchaikovsky’s Romeo and Juliet and Rimsky-Korsakov’s Scheherazade. Tickets Available at http://www.theoso.com/ and http://www.riverparkcenter.com or by calling The Owensboro Symphony Orchestra 270-684-0661.

JAY OWENHOUSE ILLUSIONIST February 19 at 7 p.m. | RiverPark Center Jay Owenhouse Illusionist is a legendary escape artist and one of the most awarded illusionists in history. He appears at the RiverPark Center for one night only in “Dare to Believe,” an illusion spectacular.

Jay welcomes you into his mysterious world of wonders and the impossible. Seeing Owenhouse live is amazing! You will leave the show breathless! Tickets are available online or by calling the RiverPark Center box office 270-687-2770.

THE MARVELOUS WONDERETTES February 23 - 26 | RiverPark Center Presented by Back Alley Musicals, The Marvelous Wonderettes, is a musical comedy that pays homage to the high school girl song leader squads of the 1950’s. The story begins on prom night in 1958 at Springfield High School when the four young ladies are called upon as a last minute replacement for the evening’s entertainment. They entertain not only by singing classic songs of that era but with their interactions with one another and the other prom-goers. Great show with incredible talent!

DRUMLINE February 25 at 7 p.m. | RiverPark Center Drumline Live, the show-stopping attraction created by the musical team of 20th Century Fox’s hit movies, Drumline and Drumline: A New Beat, has already performed on the biggest theatre stages. The Legendary Historically Black College and University (HBCU) band experience comes alive with a cast of professional percussionists, musicians and dancers. Be prepared to laugh, sing and dance through this high-energy musical that hits every emotion!

SATURDAY NIGHT FEVER

March 11 at 7 p.m. | RiverPark Center

Saturday Night Fever-The Musical, on iconic story of Tony, the kid from Brooklyn, USA, who wants to dance his way to a better life, is back! This new production shows Tony’s love of dancing in a spectacular new way. Fueled by the vintage Bee Gees hits, this contemporary retelling of the classic story, now with a new generation of dancers, meets a new generation of playgoers to explore the soaring sounds and pulsating rhythms of the coming-of-age-DiscoFantasy!

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WHEN I THINK OF BASKETBALL

BY LORA WIMSATT

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he Big Blue Nation is off and running with another sensational season. Their Cardinal counterparts are equally excited. Fans of all the other college teams are just as delirious about their own favorites.

But when I think of basketball … … I think of an old rusty hoop nailed to a tree in my backyard, low enough so my youngest son could heave a ball into the net as his bigger brothers played on the regulation hoop behind him. There was no hope for any grass in my yard in those years, as any blade of green that dared to poke through was immediately pounded into the dust that made up their court of competition.

“Stadium lights” were provided by the sun; sometimes, even after it had set, games continued in the dim glow cast by the lightbulb by the back door with the flickering accents of fireflies.

Uniforms were “shirts and skins”; by the end of the game on especially hot days, those had been stripped down to “skins and skins.”

I think of some summers during those long-ago years when we had a portable basketball goal that we rolled out to the curb – a magnet for kids from the far ends of the block to gather, the boys furiously dribbling down the asphalt lane, driving to the basket and leaping up for the dunk. If there happened to be a particularly conscientious kid playing that day, he might issue a sharp warning of “No hanging!” – a reminder that if the

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rim of this contraption were to be broken or even bent, that would be the end of the season right there.

There were no referees for those games. The occasional cry of “Car!” brought the action to a skidding halt, the street-level equivalent of a timeout that gave the players time to wipe the sweat from their eyes, tie their frayed shoelaces and argue over fouls, real and perceived.

I said “boys” because it mostly was boys who played.

The little girls from down the street sometimes wandered down to watch the action, huddled in a small group in the shade of the neighbor’s tree, giggling and pointing as the boys pretended not to notice them, but in fact they all hogged the ball and showboated for the female audience.

I think of the sound of a basketball – a scuffed and somewhat deflated basketball – and its rhythmic “thump thump thump” as a youth paces up and down the driveway, hour after hour, silent and introspective, not so much working on his dribbling skills as he is wrestling with an issue of adolescent angst.

When I think of basketball, I think of games where nobody kept score, cheaters were challenged and respect was earned.

When I think of basketball, I think of endless summers that came to an end without warning. I think of childhoods that faded away like echoes from the roaring crowd.

When I think of basketball, my memories are my trophies.

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